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So You Want To Save Sex Till Marriage ? | Kingsley Okonkwo
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- Опубликовано: 30 июл 2021
- A lot of people ask "should I save sex till marriage or can I start having sex now and will it have any effect", if you seek answers....this is for you.
Join Kingsley Okonkwo as she shares "So You Want To Save Sex Till Marriage".
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30 and celibate. Made up my mind since I was a teen and this is my worship to God
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My reason for saving sex till marriage has been what have been keeping me. I've walked out of two relationships becos of this , and I won't lie, it wasn't easy. But the Lord has been my strength and I pray He sees me thru till the end.
Amen!!!
Amen! That's my soul's cry because it becoming more and more difficult as almost everyone around me makes me feel like I'm abnormal for saying no.
He sure will 🙏
😭😭Holy Ghost if you are truly the one who gave this video knowing what I have been struggling with in my mind since last week....then help him and I and every of Jesus families and our friends to obey you and be of the same mind on this subject,knowing it’s not by power nor by might but by the Holy Ghost says the Lord Jesus Christ. Thank you Holy Spirit In Jesus name Amen.Jesus is Lord.
"Your strongest sexual organ is your mind" we ought to guard our heart and thought pattern. God bless you sir.
Awesome!!!
My reason for saving sex till marriage is because I don't want to be used by any man and letter get dump cos if he truly loves me then he should get married to me.
The reason why I'm saving sex till marriage is because I want to honour God
Which God?
Hallelujah!
@@shekudaboh8982 The God that created you and everything that exists
you omitted "Not"
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I broke up with my boyfriend simply because he was asking me for sex in our relationship but I decided to save it up until I am married.
When he started complaining about it alot I had to walk away from the relationship 💯
It is well
Nice one ❤️
Well done
Same here, I also walked away from someone I was dating because he wanted us to induldge in premarital sex. You are not alone sister. Let us be intentional about honouring God with our bodies, the right man will wait for us.
I can relate to this.
I am 26 and I am still a virgin. Honestly, dating in Lagos is hard! Most of the guys I have been meeting either wants a sexual relationship or a relationship that does not glorify God. I am such a romantic and I honestly can’t wait to meet a man that would wait till marriage before sex and will completely love me for who I am. Thank you pastor k, I learnt a lot!
May your heart desires be granted in Jesus name.
But remember, who you are must be a woman that fears the Lord completely and strives towards perfection.
@@Talk2nanro The problem is that the men aren't being taught to do the same at the same level that this is taught to women. You have an abundance of women who are working on themselves (spiritually, mentally etc) and then a plethora of men that think they are owed the perfect woman...
God is the best match maker and if we remain patient and obey him and grow ourselves, make sure we are the best versions of our self, definitely the kind of person God is preparing for you exist, plz don't fall for their tricks, there are men who loves and obeys the lord and the one for you is there, so trust God and don't place yourself under the pressure of this world, the lord gives peace, and if you aren't feeling at peace, it is definitely not of God. Okay
Am 20 and a virgin, seriously it has not been easy. ... Cos no man is willing to offer help to you if you don't give him what he asked for.
I sometimes think if I took a wrong decision in obeying God's word, but thanks to PK for dis, bcos I still have a long way to go 🥺
I am still single because of no sex, and honestly I don't know how and where I get the strength to keep going. Infact I always say marriage/love isn't for me. Thank you for this video pastor.
We are in same shoes. But I thank God for grace.
Marriage is for you. Love will soon find you. Do not relent. There's still men who save sex till marriage.
@@Peacesays yes indeed thank God for grace
@@experiencelifenow6003 AMEN🙏
If a man can't wait until mariage to have sex with you it simply means he doesn't love you because love is patient 1Corinthians 13: 4
Celibate and loving it, all thanks to God!
1 Corinthians 6 talks about fleeing from sexual Immorality in order for this to work we must first start with the conditioning of our minds amen
Amen
"" It's difficult for one party to want saving sex for mariage. Both of you must have the same resolve.. If one person doesn't see any big deal in displeasing God, there's no hope. "" TRUE.
Actually I m not worry because i fled. 🤗. Somebody who is deeply convinced that as long as you date you can have sexe, like sex is an expression of love, and he keeps telling you that no man in this world can accept the idea of waiting.
How stupid was i ?? 🤣. Fine, it was during my naivety age. I m a grown person now who can no longer entertain foolish stuff to displease my God.
I can relate to this 100% Indeed, if one of the both parties does not have a problem with sex before marriage, it definitely cannot work. So it is just better to flee before it gets too late.
Thank you Sir
I honestly thought I did the wrong thing by walking away but after watching this video my strength has bin refilled ☺️☺️
You can say that again especially when your peers starts to call you names because you're saving it for marriage.
Compromising situations are the things that make the strongest of the strong to fail in sexual abstinence. 😮😮😮
I have listened to Pastors Kingsley and Mildred Okonkwo a few times but in the past few days I have fallen in love with their ministry. I need to watch their RUclips videos often. Their teachings are impactful,transformational,insightful and inspiring. God has blessed Families of the world especially Nigeria with PK. I don’t know if you get to see this. Please Keep doing the good work sir. You are solving major problems in the body of Christ and in society with your teachings. Thank you sir. I celebrate you!
Heavenly Father,we thank you for the gift of Pastor Kay. He is Such a Blessing to the whole world.
Am here after me and my girls had such a discussion, most of our questions are answered here🙏 thank you PK Always blessed by these videos 👍👍
What about those hiding behind the pulpits and in the choir etc living in sexual immorality ? Church Leaders and many church goers seemingly ‘on fire’ for Jesus but secretly living double lives, struggling with sexual sin….. it is deeper than appearances … may The Lord help us genuinely live for him in the open and in the closeted areas.
Those people need to watch this video.However, now that you're listening, learn for yourself because you're not them
It doesn’t matter what position you hold in the church when God says no its for everyone the only people that should be having sex is husband and wife outside of that it’s wrong.
Amen. I usually wonder how “they” do it. Doesn’t their conscience prick them? How are they able to live such double lives? Especially when they are by themselves… and in the presence of God…. Just between them and God…. How????
Honestly salvation is personal,it does not concern u and it none of our business,run ur race if you see sm1 making mistake help them
They are not on fire for Jesus, they are only hypocrites. Then, you should not make yourself a judge, but anyone you have seen first hand guilty of these, then walk up to them and give them correction.
It's not easy but I have my peace now since I started practicing celibacy. Thanks so much, Pee Kay for sharing this beautiful, and deep message with us.
Thank you for this PK. I just want to add that, we don't get what we want, we get who we are. So, we never have to bother about walking out on relationships, change yourself first and those who align with who you've become will stay, and those who aren't will leave.
I'm loving my celibacy...I'm loving d fact I made dis covenant wtt God
I av been in and out of 3 relationship bcos of this. God help me fine my kind of person that understand what it means to abstain from sex, spiritually, physically.
"Your mind creates your life! Guard it" "Your mind is your second line of defense" 🔥Words sir!
More grace and wisdom.
Hallelujah!!!
True👌
It is doable!!
I tell people, sex isn't come,lie down and ...
It's an Art,a process-kissing,cuddle...IF you begin all these,you are asking for it already.
God bless you for always reminding us to stay pure.
Very insightful teaching. I do have a couple of questions though.
My question :
1. Are Christians allowed to date?
2. What is allowed in dating as a Christian. Dating is the phase you lay a foundation for your possible future together. Where do we draw the boundary on the level of intimacy as people in an intimate relationship who r also children of God?
3. Are Christians in a relationship allowed to verbally express their feelings and desires for each other?
4. So romance is not allowed in dating? In aby form?
I also need an answer for this
Need answer for this too
Same here o…..am so mentally unstable because of all these
Me too pls
1. Yes, christians are allowed to date.
2. You can hold hands together, hug, peck, but do not stay together in a private place or kiss, smooch or have sex while dating as a christian.
3. Yes, u can verbally express ur feelings towards each other.
4. Romance is not allowed during dating, if u really want to do it in a real christian way.
You can only hug, hold hands, gist n play together in public places to limit temptation...
Tanx!
Thank you pastor, this is something we need to hear repeatedly. God bless you and family 🙏🕊
God I've decided to keep my body till I get marry to that one man you kept for me , Father ,give me a good man that has fear of you genuinely dat the family will not be a problem btw us or lie against me what I did say just to succeed in separating us wit juju .father ,don't give me a family dat does juju again pls ,I beg u lord every day of my life bcos , u have told me to go and have my peace
This is very timely. Just when I was about to accommodate those who say kissing is not sexual. Thank you sir for this conviction.
Kissing can release intense feelings in the body which you don't want to awake... But they don't want to hear this though
I clicked with the speed of light 😂😂
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🤣🤣🤣No be only u
Ur comment don weak me 😂😂😂
Same here😂😂
😂😂🤣🤣 same here sis
My girl friend who was my best friend left because i told her is not the right time.Getting to 2yrs but it hasn't been easy for me I need God's grace
Thank you very much for this sir... Staying away from sex these days is like you are not ready to marry... Because men will run and this has been weakening my soul for a while... But with this, I'm keeping my strength 💃🏽
Wishing you more grace. Keep keeping on.
This is not true, unless you are not a virgin. But if you are truly a virgin and men run away from you, then the wrong people are being ousted from your life for that man whom God has anointed as your husband.
@@Talk2nanro I didn't say I'm a virgin and at the same time you can be a celibate and men will still run,As a virgin men will still tell you they can't wait... So, the best is to wait for that man God has truely ordained ✌🏽
Till marriage God bless you
Thank you so much for this video pastor my reason is that it is a covenant to God and my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit all I pray for is the purity of the mind
Thank you so much Pastor. I’ll like to add that celibacy before marriage is a training session for postpartum days.
I'm an avid viewer of your messages. Sir, you answered questions that have been seeking straightforward answers to for sometimes now. 😊 Thank you sir; God bless you more. ♥️
Healings. Thank you Pastor.
I love that word ##always looking for what to get away with### e hit me. Fornication birth Adultery. What a married Man/Woman shouldn't do, a Single Guy/Lady shouldn't attempt to do it as well.
May God bless whoever is watching this
Thank you so much for giving practical ways on how we can abstain. Most times it’s basic theory one gets . This is practical enough.
16:02 is deliverance and enlightenment over a very controversial subject. Thanks Pastor Kingsley for the profound wisdom. God bless you sir
That’s True
I clicked with the speediest of light😂😂@Liz
Thank you Pastor K for this powerful message.. Lesson learnt: The strong security organ is the mind..
I'm encouraged that u have wedded more virgins in recent times....I'm hopeful that I find mine
Thank you sir for this... This really came in the right time... Prayer is actually a key. I'm still in the relationship though but i can see him falling out but it's fine anyways!
He doesn’t deserve your love. The man that loves you and loves God will wait!
God bless you Pst Kingsley
Wow. This is full of insight. Thank you sir
People who are disliking this video are they real?God bless you daddy
I wonder ohhh
If they really want to check it some of them are even Christian..
Pastor K steadily dropping gems 💎🙌🏼
The teaching I've been waiting for regarding "sister to sex" (as I call them). Also served as an eye-opener to a whole lot of unknown truths in a few minutes video. Thanks, Pastor Kingsley.
Brother to bed
Spirit soul and body.Thanks alot pastor.
Actually it is Mind, spirit/soul and body
My reason: D Lord's ways have been in my heart from my youth... It's d only way of life I understand
I made sure to share this with all my friends ... So happy 😊
Thank you so much 🥰
Noted thanks daddy🙏
Pastor K, you’ve said it all. So much words of wisdom. Thank you, Sir.
Omoooo! I have had a bite but these tips will help me a long way. Thank you Pastor!!
Chai, Pastor Kingsley!
Thank you, Sir!!
thank u so much sir this message is for me
1)God said so.
2)Spiritual health
3)
Thank you Lord for this message.. more grace Pastor K
Thanks Sir
God bless you, Pastor Kingsley!
God bless you so much Sir🙏🏻we are most grateful your messages is keeping some of us in good shape, Bless you🙏🏻
Be blessed man of God. Your videos are real blessings for me.
Thank you
May God continue to increase your coast PK Amen. Thank you so much for the information. So help us God to do the right thing not what the society thinks. Amen
I just can't thank you enough Sir🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for this explanations. I pray God forgive me
Thank you for speaking the truth with boldness. May Almighty God bless you and extend your hand and expand your territory.
thank you for agreeing to be God's beacon of light.
Thank for this message
Would there still be positive hope for those who have fallen many times?
Wow. Beautiful message
What God says in His Word doesn't not benefit Him, it benefits me
This is so apt. God bless you sir
Thank you so much sir
Thank you Pastor Kingsley...
I’m so glad I stumbled on your channel
Thanks very much Pastor K
I've really learnt smthx Today🙏
Thank you for this enlightening sir.
Very helpful, thank you sir 🙏
Thank you pastor
But Pastor K i like your afro hair oo😄. Itz nice with the shaped edges.
Lol...stay focused🤣
Sister control plz
This is a great and practical teaching! Amen.
So powerful, God bless you man of God
God bless you sir for you're such an inspiration. You just succeeded in reassuring and lifting my spirit
God bless you richly sir
Thank God for grace to be focus. I always to have sex in marriage only. Thankfully God has been on my side with grace to d that.
Thanks man of God am strengthend
Thanks Man of God.
May God have mercy on us all
Amen 🙏
Sir please I want you too pray with me..... nothing goes well in my life all the people I met who can help me will just walk away for no reason....and also there is a wound I always find in my body almost every morning when I wake up from sleep I don't know what courses them.... please help and deliver a poor soul
Go to MFM deliverance ground
What you need is to truly give your life to Christ and follow His life style
Thank you 🙏
My why is God said so and I’m tired to fornicate when I was a every day sinner with no ring . Now I’m a Christian I can do without sex and if he wants to be with me through marriage he better not just see me as a sex symbol . He better wait
SUMMARY
Saving Sex before marriage is so we don't SIN Before Marriage 💍
Having Sex Before Marriage will Erode and Destroy the marriage and All those involved within it
Because it opens up portholes 🕳️ for the Enemy to enter into
your relationships through disobedience And Sin.
It begins in our minds
What are we thinking About?
What are we focusing our minds upon? This is why God tells us to meditate upon His word and upon what is good wholesome and pure.
Wowww...this is so powerful!
Wow,thank u sir
Powerful message. Thank you sir
Dear Pastor K, thank you for this insightful topic. I have a question that's been on my mind for a while and i really need the right counsel based on the word. Yes, i'm saving sex till marriage. But i'm concerned about how to handle thinking about having sex even though i'm not having sex. Is it okay? Because i recollect Jesus said, when you look at a woman lustfully, you're already committed sin with her.
Great. Thanks Sir. More grace.
So blessed PK!🙌 Thank you Sir!🙏
Thank you sire
What if we dated before getting saved ,we did all the things our minds directed us then got married and live happily then we meet Jesus and get saved then our lives get to the best and even happier, what's the difference there??
The things we did before giving our life our God is in the past. Pastor K is speaking to believers who know their God and want to honour him