Gilmore Girls Get Therapized - Luke's Decency FTW

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  • You wanted more Gilmore Girls! You got it! This one is all about Luke's decency FTW. Luke at his core is a decent guy, willing to do anything for the people around him. Watch this video to see some of Luke's best decency moments from season one.
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    00:00 Decency FTW
    01:00 Gilmore Girls clip
    02:30 Acts of service
    05:00 Luke’s character
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Комментарии • 118

  • @justanotherchoirkid7
    @justanotherchoirkid7 2 месяца назад +364

    One of my favorite Luke moments is when he went out and found all of the missing Easter eggs for Kirk after watching Taylor go off on Kirk for messing up

    • @betsywilliams3666
      @betsywilliams3666 2 месяца назад +12

      I was thinking the same thing.

    • @baileykerr4859
      @baileykerr4859 Месяц назад +5

      I know! And Kirk annoys him almost as much as Taylor. Despite that, he still helped him out. What a sweet grouch!

    • @alyzu4755
      @alyzu4755 Месяц назад +3

      I love that!

    • @LoveValentineXO
      @LoveValentineXO Месяц назад

      It's one of the Luke moments I think about most often.

  • @FishareFriendsNotFood972
    @FishareFriendsNotFood972 2 месяца назад +191

    What I love about the message of this video is it stresses that good, decent people are equally decent across the board. Those who are kind to their families are kind to their neighbors, are kind to their enemies. If you are the only person your love interest is kind to, it's NOT a good sign, there should be no favoritism with truly kind behavior. 🙂

    • @360shadowmoon
      @360shadowmoon Месяц назад +4

      This is key! If the video only focused on how Luke helped Lorelai, I would say that, well, he likes Lorelai so there is some self-interest there. But he is kind to others even when they don't serve his self-interest. He is also kind to Lorelai during the course of the show even when she is dating someone else.

    • @YedidahMVO
      @YedidahMVO Месяц назад

      Just like the Bible says! 💖

  • @sean_mccadden
    @sean_mccadden 2 месяца назад +131

    I've heard that Scott Patterson (Luke's Actor) will go on the Stars Hollow studio tour dressed up as Luke to meet the fans and take pictures of them. So clearly, he really enjoyed the role.

    • @loraleitourtillottwiehr2473
      @loraleitourtillottwiehr2473 2 месяца назад +10

      He's done that a few times but not as a regular thing. These days he's filming a new series in Nova Scotia and traveling for cons a lot.

    • @stackels97
      @stackels97 2 месяца назад

      ​@@loraleitourtillottwiehr2473he's so lovely at cons!! He gave me the BEST hug ever when I got a pic with him a few years ago. Didn't even ask for one, but now it's my favourite convention picture.
      Then he wrote a poem on my DVD cover when I asked him for an autograph. Talk about generous.

    • @hazcatsophia
      @hazcatsophia 2 месяца назад +7

      He hosts a rewatch podcast. He enjoys it.

    • @CJWMTownsend
      @CJWMTownsend 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@loraleitourtillottwiehr2473 ooh, where in NS?? That's where I live

    • @loraleitourtillottwiehr2473
      @loraleitourtillottwiehr2473 2 месяца назад

      @@CJWMTownsend Around Halifax I think? It's called Sullivan's Crossing if you want to look it up

  • @Narra0002
    @Narra0002 2 месяца назад +65

    I loved Luke’s character in the early seasons. They messed him up so bad, and I hate the writers for it, but here he’s great

    • @rayay248
      @rayay248 2 месяца назад +22

      Yesssss that whole storyline with April is infuriating

    • @HelgaCavoli
      @HelgaCavoli Месяц назад

      Much of his relationship with Lorelay was poorly written. They could only write this here, before they admitted liking each other. It became really stupid after that.

    • @marianalarranaga9674
      @marianalarranaga9674 9 дней назад

      I don't see how thwy messed him up

  • @kasialawecki7538
    @kasialawecki7538 2 месяца назад +31

    It’s not only doing the kind thing, it’s doing the inconvenient thing. I almost fell of my chair. This sentence is so good!!

  • @girllittlemorbid
    @girllittlemorbid 2 месяца назад +112

    He blew up balloons & made a little coffee cake for Rory's birthday. He let Kirk have a fancy table for his date with Lulu. He's a very thoughtful grouch lol

    • @spiritfilledlife79
      @spiritfilledlife79 Месяц назад +7

      He stayed up all night sewing tents together for Rory's going away party. Luke is so sweet, strong and devoted.

  • @katiefoley7208
    @katiefoley7208 2 месяца назад +32

    This is why I love this episode. Luke is such a loving character despite not being particularly warm and friendly. I also think that what happens with Richard and Emily and their conversation in his hospital room is so poignant and sweet. It almost helps me forget how problematic they can be.

  • @KIWIMADNEZ
    @KIWIMADNEZ 2 месяца назад +20

    The face Luke absolutely hates Taylor in general yet he’s still very kind to him and trusts him. 😂

    • @girllittlemorbid
      @girllittlemorbid 2 месяца назад +3

      It's like he hates Taylor on principle but it's not personal.

  • @undefinedromance89
    @undefinedromance89 2 месяца назад +44

    I've seen a lot of people say that season 1 isn't as good as later seasons. But I think season 1 is one of the best. And this is one of my favorite episodes.
    I'd never really thought of Luke being a "acts of service" guy over a "words of affirmation" guy, but it totally makes sense. Especially towards the end of this season, and thinking about how his tendency to not use words of affirmation gets brought up in a later season.

    • @X_MissMary_X
      @X_MissMary_X 2 месяца назад +1

      Season 1 is my favorite!

  • @MaluCLBS
    @MaluCLBS 2 месяца назад +42

    Don’t worry that the internet spoiled you, the whole storyline is a rollercoaster

  • @laurenfrey873
    @laurenfrey873 2 месяца назад +39

    That intro, I can’t even with you! 😂😂😂💜💜💜
    Also, Oscar the Grouch with the heart of Elmo is the best description of Luke Danes I have ever heard!

  • @El_Ezra_Meitar5
    @El_Ezra_Meitar5 2 месяца назад +8

    Luke, is, in fact, human being goals.

  • @ohdrey89
    @ohdrey89 2 месяца назад +5

    Luke is basically Rori’s dad. That’s why he’s always like that with her. He was the one bringing her chicken soup when she was sick, feeding her mashed potatoes when her tonsils came out, and fixing things in her room, building her furniture, making sure she ate good food at his diner, and bringing the ice for her birthday parties, and cheering her up and baking her birthday cakes. If you’re ever wondering who your dad is? That guy is your dad. Big Dad energy in the way her father never was…

    • @ohdrey89
      @ohdrey89 2 месяца назад +1

      At the beginning of the show he would never admit it but in his heart of hearts he adopted that girl. But he and Rori never had a moment like that where she acknowledged that, during the whole of the show. It’s what I always wanted to see. But every time she says his name, she means dad. “Luke” = Dad.

  • @kpeugh2011
    @kpeugh2011 2 месяца назад +13

    Taylor might be a jerk and Luke may not like him, but he knows Taylor won’t rob him or forget to lock up.

  • @sweeney60
    @sweeney60 2 месяца назад +20

    I feel like Luke was the prototype for Bob Belcher.

  • @aajustgirls3000
    @aajustgirls3000 2 месяца назад +8

    I wish you therapize Rory's tendency for craving what others owns

  • @WhatsAModderU
    @WhatsAModderU 2 месяца назад +41

    The intro!!! 😂
    Also someone just like Luke from Gilmore Girls gave me a very similar Christmas. Reminds me of that. Thank you Mended Light for bringing back a happy memory.

  • @Falltothesea
    @Falltothesea 2 месяца назад +47

    I'm so invested in this series!!!

  • @ToniRichter11
    @ToniRichter11 2 месяца назад +4

    I'm wracking my brain to think of a moment when Luke is quippy with Rory but I can't. He doesn't act like that towards her. He really sees her as his daughter and truly adores her.

  • @alyzu4755
    @alyzu4755 Месяц назад +3

    He always reopened the diner after the town meeting. He gave hot drinks to the guys re-enacting the revolutionary war when it was freezing cold and snowing, even though he thought they were ridiculous. He gave Rory unicorn-themed gifts for years because he thought she liked unicorns. He cried unashamedly at her high school graduation.
    And he brought food to the hospital after Richard's second heart attack.
    So many things!

  • @marlyd
    @marlyd 2 месяца назад +17

    I am never growing tired of GG getting therapized. I try to be like Luke but I do get overstimulated easily and I need a lot of alone time so it's hard for me to be the person people phone first when they have problems because that gives me anxiety. I am 100% the person who manages to find energy to mentally and emotionally support people so I guess I'm the opposite of Luke 😂

  • @rubyirene2500
    @rubyirene2500 Месяц назад +1

    I love Luke. He can be harsh, he can be mean, but he's actually kind hearted. And he always helps when he can, no matter who it is. He even found the last Easter eggs, and gave them to Kirk, and told him to tell Taylor that he (Kirk) found them.

  • @gemh89
    @gemh89 2 месяца назад +26

    The intro was unexpected but ultimately quite lovable. You seem like a very lovely guy, I hope you aren't having too hard a time rn personally, I'm glad that you've got all the tools (and friendship) you could need to navigate anything life throws at you. Love the channel, the insight and goofy jokes.
    Love from Scotland x

  • @loraleitourtillottwiehr2473
    @loraleitourtillottwiehr2473 2 месяца назад +18

    This is something I've really struggled with in recent years. My love language is definitely acts of service - I love doing things for people I care about and for my broader community. But as I get progressively more and more disabled it gets harder and harder to show up for others in the ways I'm used to. I try to find alternatives but with limited success so far.
    Also my friends know that I'm disabled so they tend not to ask me for things, even things that are within my abilities. It's hard to explain that allowing me to contribute to the relationship/community in the ways I'm able is actually really affirming for me - I don't think they get it.
    PS: If you check out Scott Patterson's GG podcast you can watch them taste test the Santa Burger 😂

    • @girllittlemorbid
      @girllittlemorbid 2 месяца назад +3

      I feel this too. One of the worst parts of being progressively more disabled is not being able to help. I used to volunteer a lot & do things like clean ups & food drive. I can't help my friends or family move or set up for their baby shower or anything. I miss that.

  • @breeanaoldham2634
    @breeanaoldham2634 Месяц назад +2

    I found my Luke! He’s the best man I’ve ever known. I bit grumpy but loving kind and the most tender man I’ve ever seen.

  • @X_MissMary_X
    @X_MissMary_X 2 месяца назад +2

    I love how much Jonathan fangirls over Luke!

  • @lightningfurystrike13
    @lightningfurystrike13 13 дней назад

    Luke is amazing. He's literally an archetype of a romance novel hero. The man's almost too perfect. Seriously love him.

  • @NortherlyK
    @NortherlyK 2 месяца назад +16

    I love Luke. He's the kind of person I always fall for. Max is a CLOSE second on the show.

    • @girllittlemorbid
      @girllittlemorbid 2 месяца назад +2

      I like Luke for Lorelei. I personally would have gone for Max lol

  • @jlcollins14
    @jlcollins14 2 месяца назад +13

    Have you checked out Scott Patterson's (Actor who plays Luke for those who don't know) I am all in Podcast? He does some great interviews with his former cast mates. I loved this episode. Luke is such a great character.

  • @NoudlePipW
    @NoudlePipW 2 месяца назад +9

    Loving the Luke appreciation recently ❤

  • @claricesilva2700
    @claricesilva2700 2 месяца назад +4

    The moment i cried watching Gilmore Girls.

  • @srldwg
    @srldwg 2 месяца назад +16

    This video is great! Keep ones like this coming!

  • @c.j.p.7607
    @c.j.p.7607 2 месяца назад +2

    Perfect! Right in the middle of my Gilmore Girls re-watch 😊

  • @shardunk1025
    @shardunk1025 2 месяца назад +1

    I am so excited your watching this series, I can’t wait for you to get to season 2…

  • @readMEinkbooks
    @readMEinkbooks Месяц назад +2

    Luke - one of my favourite fictional characters ever.

  • @bicharka1
    @bicharka1 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh man,I cannot WAIT for you to get to season 4. So much therapy to be done 😂😂😂😂

  • @CLS-pn7il
    @CLS-pn7il 2 месяца назад +3

    I can't wait to see what you think about Jess and his and Luke's dynamic. Also can't wait to see what you think about Liz

  • @vforv9402
    @vforv9402 2 месяца назад +5

    Love that you do this! Soooo much!!!!

  • @fernandabatista4853
    @fernandabatista4853 2 месяца назад +9

    Yesss!!! i'm loving these videos!

  • @delainapacitto2990
    @delainapacitto2990 2 месяца назад +9

    Reminding someone that just because someone needs help it mean they’re the person who can provide help

  • @curtin1977
    @curtin1977 2 месяца назад +4

    after seeing you perform "Riding Dirty", I think I need therapy now
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Haha

  • @mari23_13
    @mari23_13 2 месяца назад +6

    I love these Gilmore Girls videos, this is one of my favorite shows ❤ I have a suggestion! I would love if you could therapize Tanjiro from Demon Slayer/ Kimetsu no Yaiba! He is such a kind and sweet character, I'm sure everyone could learn a lot with him!

  • @chaz7604
    @chaz7604 2 месяца назад +5

    Hello lovely Jono and Mended Light team!!
    I haven’t really watched Gilmore Girls a lot, (and it has been years when I did see it crop up in the UK at the time) and I love that you’re doing this after people said you should… but I have a request for you to therapise a new series from last year that literally brought me so much joy and hope in these times.
    Can you please therapise Shrinking from Apple TV+?
    What a JOY! ❤

    • @XxMCRroxnonstopxX
      @XxMCRroxnonstopxX 2 месяца назад +1

      I never thought I'd enjoy watching Harrison Ford eat one of those dip stick lollies but it was so funny for some reason 😅

    • @chaz7604
      @chaz7604 2 месяца назад

      @@XxMCRroxnonstopxX I never thought I’d enjoy Harrison Ford enjoying himself in such a beautiful comedic and poignant piece of universal love, comedy and grace.
      He also really got into drinking water and stopped being so stubborn… haha x

    • @XxMCRroxnonstopxX
      @XxMCRroxnonstopxX 2 месяца назад

      @@chaz7604 he was really good in it. I tried to convince my dad to watch but he refused 😭

  • @lemonsoda4225
    @lemonsoda4225 2 месяца назад +5

    Keep em coming! Thank you so much!

  • @chiraine1
    @chiraine1 2 месяца назад +1

    Cant wait for you to get to the relationship between luke and jess!!

  • @gemmalindridge4232
    @gemmalindridge4232 2 месяца назад +1

    That was lovely. That is romantic.

  • @nadsestaenlaluna
    @nadsestaenlaluna 2 месяца назад +2

    So cool! Thanks for this❤

  • @SaucyJTD
    @SaucyJTD Месяц назад

    Luke is the best damn character in all of Gilmore Girls ❤.

  • @HelgaCavoli
    @HelgaCavoli Месяц назад

    I learned to appreciate Emily once I started appreciating MY mom.

  • @makeuploverjess5170
    @makeuploverjess5170 2 месяца назад +3

    Yes! Love these videos. So happy 😊

  • @geeky_sasha6813
    @geeky_sasha6813 2 месяца назад +1

    Team Luke!!! All day everyday!

  • @karenfindley939
    @karenfindley939 2 месяца назад +1

    I loved the first 3 seasons. Lorelai and Luke were always cute together.

  • @hazcatsophia
    @hazcatsophia 2 месяца назад +1

    Luke doesn’t hate Taylor really. Taylor annoys him, but he does trust him with the keys.

  • @sameaston9587
    @sameaston9587 2 месяца назад +2

    I'm not here for Gilmore Grills, but I'm here for the pearls of great price you drop.

  • @lamist3503
    @lamist3503 8 дней назад

    I’m always a Luke for my brothers and sisters.

  • @Uncle_Smidge
    @Uncle_Smidge 2 месяца назад +5

    🎶 It's just that I'm so White and Nerdyyy 🎶 (⁠~⁠‾⁠▿⁠‾⁠)⁠~

  • @doesitmatterwhoiam8838
    @doesitmatterwhoiam8838 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm not sure if Luke would go out of his way like this for everyone. And, he shouldn't. To inconvenience yourself just because you think you have to, is codependency.

  • @bef9612
    @bef9612 2 месяца назад +5

    Were it me, I would tell them to sing a song that is worth me giving them 5 free cups of coffee/hot chocolate. That's still generous right? :😸

  • @stamourbeaulieu
    @stamourbeaulieu Месяц назад

    The intro just killed me

  • @daykibaran9668
    @daykibaran9668 2 месяца назад +4

    Just one question: with whom should Rory have end up with?

  • @rebeccamullins2496
    @rebeccamullins2496 6 дней назад

    I would also love to hear you speak about the shows Parenthood and This Is Us…..♥️

  • @faith-by-faith
    @faith-by-faith 2 месяца назад +1

    I came here for Ridin' Dirty but I guess I'll let the rest of the video play

  • @user-lx1ru3zp2y
    @user-lx1ru3zp2y 2 месяца назад

    Wow all I can think is: "wow he can't even serve her" how could she ever think a person like that could ever like her?

  • @louisemalloy7540
    @louisemalloy7540 2 месяца назад

    I think this really shows later in the series when he takes in his nephew Jess.

  • @jdp486
    @jdp486 2 месяца назад +4

    Respectfully, the intro was riding the line between cringe and funny. 😂 Much like a lot of the Gilmore girls characters!

  • @andreasolis85
    @andreasolis85 2 месяца назад

    You already know 😂😂😂

  • @iksnimus
    @iksnimus Месяц назад

    You should do Ian from Shameless

  • @janiefallout8
    @janiefallout8 2 месяца назад +1

    Hey, Jono, do you know the song "White and Nerdy"? I'm not trying to insult you, it's very funny in my opinion and was extremely popular in my university.

    • @MendedLight
      @MendedLight  Месяц назад +1

      Oh... I know it. LOL. not insulted at all.

    • @janiefallout8
      @janiefallout8 Месяц назад

      We had this game of competing how many boxes we tick and tried to find a mistake in the Schrodinger equation in the background. We didn't study Pascal but Fortran (if anybody here knows what it is). Some of us even knew Java Script. Also, Vector and Tensor Calculus was an obligatory subject but wasn't very fun. :)

  • @angeliprimlani9389
    @angeliprimlani9389 2 месяца назад +1

    I can’t wait till you see Luke and Jess, Luke and Liz, Luke and TJ, heck Luke and Kirk even. Luke and April … okay not so much but by then the show had different writers and I think they didn’t really get Luke, preferring to write for characters like Christopher.

  • @user-ed1kk1pd6n
    @user-ed1kk1pd6n 2 месяца назад

    I'm more interested to know who you think the best boyfriend for rory was... that debate rages

  • @thedarkvampire13
    @thedarkvampire13 2 месяца назад

    Pleaaaaseeee react to One Day at a Time!! the netflix version

  • @spiicyliime22
    @spiicyliime22 2 месяца назад

    Yesssssssssssssssssssssssssss!! 😁

  • @rayay248
    @rayay248 2 месяца назад

    I think everything you said in this video is great, but I think it’s important to keep in mind that there are many people out there who seek to use and abuse kind and decent people because of their self-sacrificing nature. I’ve had a romantic relationship and a couple of friendships that ultimately ended up that way, and to be honest it left me more than a little cynical. Thankfully I have a wonderful partner and some good friends that aren’t like this, but sometimes it’s hard to trust people not to do this to you, which makes you more weary of being this kind of person to begin with.

  • @adriandamaskos8620
    @adriandamaskos8620 2 месяца назад

    Can you please do a therapized for BoJack Horseman’s episode: ‘The View From Halfway Down’.

  • @heathermg1991
    @heathermg1991 2 месяца назад +1

    I've possibly given it up half way through but please therapize Dawson's Creek.

    • @srowe1528
      @srowe1528 Месяц назад

      Omg... That would probably take YEARS! 😬

    • @heathermg1991
      @heathermg1991 Месяц назад +1

      @srowe1528 at least a condensed one on Dawson. I know he's the main character but his selfishness is driving me crazy. It also has 26 less episodes than GG.

  • @commentforthealgorithm
    @commentforthealgorithm 2 месяца назад +3

    comment for the algorithm

  • @puppypoet
    @puppypoet 2 месяца назад +7

    Sorry, you're more of a "White and Nerdy" guy.

  • @songindarkness
    @songindarkness 2 месяца назад

    It sounds like some of it is the autism community being brutal, some of this is just people being honest who don’t have a problem with existing symbols, but some of it is bigoted, nasty bullying from people who are actively being malicious. So please take some time to separate out the bullying and protect yourself.

  • @MichibellaD.C.
    @MichibellaD.C. 2 месяца назад

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @IHoernig
    @IHoernig 2 месяца назад +1

    I don't support luke + lorelai. He's too good for her 😂

  • @Alayhoo
    @Alayhoo 2 месяца назад +1

    “Ridin dirty, Mended Light” 😂😂😂 I needed that today.