I'm British. I spent 8 years in California and have lived for over 30 years in Germany. One learns about cultural difference and most people attempt to adapt and fit in but "rude" is just universally rude, in my opinion. Harry's Wife continually shows her lack of respect, manners and common decency. She is just a nasty person and it has nothing to do with her nationality, race or heritage.
But ‘good manners’ don’t always get you want at the beginning so you just barge your way in, forgetting that you’ll see those same people long term so you shouldn’t abuse them or expect the results
Yes, agreed. Or you can carry on lying, bullying and ghosting people while virtue-signalling like mad, if you prefer. But if you're in the public eye, people will catch on.
Thank you! I’ve also been very annoyed by the she’s an American excuse. As if all 350+ million of us are exactly alike, and we’re all obnoxious, pushy, and rude. No Hypocrite Harry, it isn’t an American thing, it’s a narcissistic Meghan thing.
Anyone with basic manners would know and behave better than she did. Has nothing to do with being American. She claimed there were no tabloids in the US while whiinging from SA so she knows as little about her own country as she does the UK! And she is the smart one????
@@knn6215 yet on her speech the last award show where she’d bought herself an award and called the news outlets herself to announce it and when to come get photos…sorry, got distracted…but in that speech she says she would look at the cover of Ms magazine on her moms coffee table and the covers were so different than all the covers of the magazines she would see at the store! So she’s full of shat!
The fact that she turned out to be a gigantic albatross around the royal family’s neck shows just how asinine all these idealized assumptions about race really are. Many people saw her first and foremost as a feather in the monarchy’s “diversity” cap. I really hope those who can look at it rationally now realize how stupid that was. Character is the only thing that matters.
This comment is the comment of the year imo, and this exactly what went wrong. Character was not valued as much as the superficiality of "race." Egg is now on a lot of people's face.
Except she presented as a totally different person initially until she got the ring on her finger. The mixed race thing was secondary to people liking that H had found someone and seemed happy. Many people, myself included, didn’t know she was biracial (I wasn’t that interested in H). She wasn’t welcomed only because of her race and I think the RF saw through her at the beginning but then they played the ‘race’ card
She’s a confirmed yacht girl. Watch as uncle Andrew attempts to hide if she ever gets allowed back in and goes to church …..her specialty is positions most women would cringe at. Harry even glowedcsaying she does anything he wasn’t referring to let tricks but trick of the other kind I can’t mention them but say ewwwww don’t go there how could youth for being an over paid woman of the night ?
The more I learn about M the more sympathy I feel for the RF. Harry brought a viper into that family. M is pure poison and it infuriates me that she continues to get a platform. Its only going to get worse with her new PR firm pushing her in our faces.
I sometimes wonder if William had told Harry the deal on M when the dog bowl incident occurred. Not just the stuff about abusing staff, but the whole Scotland Yard file on this chick.
Prince Phillip and Princess Ann knew instantly and tried to talk to Harry. He knew exactly how brash and inelegant she was. I think he enjoyed embarrassing his family. Five years later aftershocks shes destroyed his life I wonder if the thinks fondly of his family who loved and warned him .
HArry s post r.f. behaviour shows how astonishingly supportive a safety net, the r.f. had been prior to Meghan s interference. They d helped h im cope more than he understood
I knew Meaghan was lying the minute she told Oprah that she never got help from the palace. The grandmother of Autumn Kelly lived in the same town I live in. When Autumn was to marry Princess Anne's son the grandmother was given all sorts of information on the way to approach and be around the Royal family. I do believe the Palace even sent someone over to prepare her. And Meaghan wanted us to believe they gave her no help at all-----I think I saw her nose grow long as she told Oprah this so straight faced
If you are attending a garden party at BP you get instructions before meeting the RF so for someone joining the upper ranks, offering to hit the ground running, to think no help was offered is ridiculous. But every exaggerated fantasy she puts out is ridiculous. She was doing it in Toronto long before she snared a Prince.
I didn't believe that either. If you rewatch that segment, as she is saying that no one helped her, Harry starts to say something like "well...", his body language indicated (to me) he was going to contradict her statement. Before he can get two words out, Meghan throws her arm over into Harry's space and shuts him down, which reinforced to me, he was about to contradict her.
I've been dying laughing at their "nearly fatal catastrophic crash" due to being chased by paparazzi in Manhattan. Seems like they are the only ones not realizing how ridiculous their victim mentality is and the lengths they will go to try to convince others. Yet everyone is laughing at them publicly. O
Even the most conservative media outlets are either calling this out as lies, whilst even more are straight-out ridiculing it as nonsense! And I haven't seen a single Sugar jump into ANY of the channels I watch, to defend them! Even Scobie's latest attempt; "the NY are dealing with FACTS, whilst the Sussexs are dealing with EMOTION!", is ludicrous! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
At this point I can't laugh anymore, the whole thing is ridiculous that they have not had the deserved smack down for the mischief they purposely are causing.
I’ve seen a couple of sugars trying to defend them and even though old WG the others with her just talked about how “frightened” they were, given Hs mother blah, blah, blah. It’s just so pathetic, they’re middle aged adults and shouldn’t be protected from the truth, not “their truth”
Harry saying that this "chase" made him feel what his mother felt during her fatal car crash was just stupid. He doesn't have to rely on THIS incident to know what that felt like. Doesn't he remember being strapped into the back of a car with his brother while his hysterical mother LARPed as a Formula One race car driver across the English countryside? He and William came nearer to getting killed that day than any day since, including his time in the army.
@@jaimekennedy5750 The conservative media were the first to call it lies. The MSMs are still going easy on them and Gayle King is graveling to the point that she is just dying for an interview!
A close friend of mine is mixed. Black father & white mother. She was really annoyed when media suggested Meghan could represent people of colour. "We don't need Meghan to represent us. We are strong in out heritage" were her exact words. I totally agreed. The British people didn't give a damn about her skin colour. Meghan and Harry highlighted that all by themselves. In fact, Harry was the one looking under every pavement slab searching for racism. I feel he was more concerned about her race than others. For a man who only dated white blondes, perhaps he was the problem. The Princess of Wales and the Duchess of Edinborough received lots of really negative coverage, as did their families. Now, they are much loved. Meghan & Harry should ignore the tabloids. Intelligent people dont read them. Catherine and Sophie are educated ladies. They don't have chips on their shoulders. Meghan is not a cultured woman and is laden with chips.
When Harry was dating Chelsea Davy, he allegedly told someone she was from South Africa, then quickly added “But she’s not black” I think everyone knows who the racist is in the RF 😂
I completely agree. I'm more convinced now than ever that the royal rasc*st with whom the "conversations regarding how dark the baby was going to be" was Haz himself. They had the conversation amongst the both of them, then told the world that a "senior working royal" had made rasci*t comments.
Wow and then she had the nerve to go on Oprah saying NOBODY helped her learn what to do as royal and even complained she had to google the national anthem smh she infuriated me , such an ungrateful and vile woman ! Honestly it’s actually mind boggling how rude and arrogant she can be
I agree but it is also mind-boggling that Harry was so ignorant about his own family's ways and traditions. He's not the brightest bulb by any means but, for her own good, he should have insisted she take up on the many offers of mentoring. Sophie Wessex would have been a perfect person to help Harry's Wife integrate. Sadly Harry's narcissist wife thinks she knows everything better!
Anyone who was honestly ignorant of the British national anthem because of coming from the United States would be convinced the bands around the Palace were playing the United States song "My Country Tis of Thee" and thus would think their husband's family was getting people to honor her homeland. The songs have the same melody. Her claim of not recognizing the song is about as likely as the recent car chase. She may not have recognized the words but she recognized the song melody
As a woman who isn't a mother and will never be one, I could kind of sympathize with Meghan if she really wanted to hang out with Catherine but the children kept getting in the way. I mean, let's face it: Catherine isn't the average mother, in the sense that she employs a nanny who can take over the childcare for a while. However, I don't believe Meghan was ever interested in cultivating a friendship with Catherine for any purpose other than finding out her weaknesses so that she could eventually use them to her own advantage. Maybe Catherine sensed this and so tried to avoid socializing with the narcissist.
Meghan grew up in LA and around showbiz. She was surrounded by competitive girls her entire life and had a broken home and insecurity about her identity. She took all her backstage drama and mean girl ways and took it right over the Katherine and royal family. Nasty is her middle name.
Good point. M was angry Katherine didn’t ask her to go shopping in High Street when she saw her driving there. I would bet she wouldn’t have gone had she been asked. It was something she could use against Katherine.
Katherine was pregnant then a brand new baby around this time. I’m sure she was cordial to MM but it wasn’t her responsibility to mentor her. MM would have hung w Katherine just for the possibility to be papped and to pump her for information she could then use against her.
It has been said that The Princess of Wales and MM had planned to go shopping together but it was discovered MM had called the paps to get photos of them together. Therefore Prrincess of Wales went on her own and MM later accused her of refusing to give her a lift or show her around.
It’s funny how people go on and on about him being only 12. In two weeks he was to turn 13- still very young I know. They then say that William was 15 so therefore much older…… he had only just turned 15.
I feel sorry for Sam Cohen for having to stay, when the Quen 'asks' you to stay, it's not exactly easy to be all "nah, bye", and then to be saddled with Meghan until she is bullied to resign.
Remember Sam Cohen is respected and whatever she reported back to the RF-Queen would be the honest to goodness TRUTH. I'm happy that a sane person like Ms. Cohen was there to see first hand how immature and ignorant M and H truly are.
The late Queen was so respected by her staff that they would do that for her. She also asked surgeon-gynaecologist to the RF, Sir Marcus Setchell to stay on until Catherine had Prince Louis. He retired after that. Thankfully, Catherine has no history of mistreating staff. I feel bad that Sam Cohen’s time with the RF ended with the horror of Markle.
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I wish more focus was put on his age as almost 13 bc for yrs and yrs the poor 12 yr old boy who walked behind his mother’s coffin. That tradition is part of their culture. I bet Harry never even thought it was odd or unusual until he saw he could gain sympathy and use it as his excuse card for the rest of his life!
@Margot Watson I think Oprah has her own issues with her skin colour. She fishes for "victims" like herself. Oprah swept into South Africa, to build a school for disadvantaged black girls. She made all the announcements, hired the builders and eventually opened the school. Just one problem, the school staff took bribes from wealthy black businessmen to have their daughters enrolled. Oprah found out about that only when the SA newspapers blew up the story. Efforts were made to change things, but Oprah had lost interest. She is now a billionaire, but doesn't use that and her influence to change things. I'll never forget Harry and Meghans wedding. I was so happy for them. I was shocked to see Oprah and other celebrities waiting to enter the church. Oprah had chosen a very ill fitting outfit, totally unsuitable for a Royal wedding. One of her shoes was broken. The other celebrities looked uncomfortable. It was George Cloony who later said he didn't actually know her. She had only 1 family member present, her mon. I didn't realise that it was all part of Meghan's plot. She is ashamed of her father and all other family members. That means she is ashamed of her heritage, which is so wrong. It's an awful mess but only H & M can sort that out.
It seems to me Oprah just runs around looking for racism and not finding it let someone else manufacture it & get behind it. She is not sticking her head out much anymore.
I saw through Megan ,when on a trip with the queen she went to get into the car before the queen,it’s not a matter of protocol but basic manners,even people from disadvantaged areas know to defer to the family matriarch
How dare Meghan tell her dad to cut his other two children out of his life, that is so disgusting, who even say’s something like that. My heart truly breaks for Thomas, he did everything for his daughter, as any parent would and to then have her virtually spit in his face, despicable 😓
@@sidneybales9062 there are no innocent characters in that family, although I do sympathize with Thomas to some degree. He did cause a lot of trouble though, and after all her family said to the media before the wedding I'm not surprised that Meghan didn't want her siblings there. Her brother wrote an open letter to Harry saying not to marry her for goodness sake!
I´m with you, and it also makes me want to throttle Thomas when he comes out in an interview saying "How can I fix this?". Damn it man, can´t you see, that mentality is what created this narcissistic nightmare that is your daughter?
@@alexsilva-vn7jc Yes! He has always been an enabler of her bad behavior. They had a dysfunctional relationship with her father treating her as an equal partner instead of a child.
When Diana was born she had 2 sister living and a brother who passed shortly after birth John. She grew up feeling like the unwanted child because her father wanted an heir. Then her brother Charles was born, by then her mother had had enough and left with Diana and her brother. After the divorce of her parents, her father got custody and her mother was know in their circle as a bolter. Her family was messed up before she joined the RF.
Earl Spencer was also known to be a nasty drunk, but as he had more money, HE got custody. In liberal 60-70s especially, for a mother NOT to get custody meant she must be"unfit" in some way...😥😥😥
Yes this winds me up so much. Most people couldn't cope with her disturbed mental health so to expect Charles, who was a mess himself, to know how to deal with her is ridiculous. It's no wonder he strayed
Diana had a martyr death wish. The meeting of HIV patients, lepers, walking on landmine infested land, (all comendable) her suicide attempts all add up to one who does not have the basic survival instincts to live. Even getting into a car with a driver she knew had been drinking and then not wearing a seat belt. It was almost as if she knew she would die young and didn't care. So very sad. 😢
When I was getting to know my husband's family, I had to learn their ways and he had to learn my family's ways, even though we were from more or less the same background. There were differences. His family were wealthier. My family were well educated. It was a learning process for both of us. Meghan seems to have ignored this natural part of preparing for marriage.
Definitely takes time, patience and work to understand and thrive when there is a marriage between families. My husband's family had a lot of aunts, uncles and cousins coming and going in and out of the house. There was a monthly gatherings of both sides. My family was much smaller and we had very little to do with our families. Our son was so lucky to have all these people in his life.
May I ask a question? My impression of when a couple meets the families is that the person who is having their partner meet their family should do a lot of groundwork BEFORE that meeting. Meaning describing proper behaviors to their partner while also explaining to family any sticky points that their partner has. As I have watch these introductions fail, I always find that the partner failed to prepare one side or the other. Do you think that is true? In my family's experience, the introductions might have been more successful if the family is included in on the baby steps of the progression of the relationship (meaning my brother never even told us he was dating someone, and then he brought her home engaged. We would have liked to have known "I met an amazing girl" or " I think I am going to ask her to marry me" long BEFORE that point. Regardless, the introduction failed because she was a narc like meghan and refused to learn or care about our family rules). Thoughts?
I am a 53 year old brit, at the age of 23 I decided to move to Greece to be with my boyfriend of 6 months, I didn't know if it was going to work out, believe me it was difficult for the first 5 years, but I went along with his culture, I learnt Greek so I could get by when my boyfriend wasn't around, my boyfriends mother was old so she wasn't impressed with her son being with a foreign girl, but she certainly warmed to me when her first grandchild came along, also bear in mind that Greece compared to the UK was very, let's say, behind the times, nether the less I persevered as I loved my boyfriend, I have now been living here for 30 years, married to my then boyfriend and we have 2 kid's together and I have never regretted it but it does take work, patience and the will to learn, megan had none of this in her agenda, she wanted to bag the richest male she could find then get back home to the US, she is a huge fraud.
I have read somewhere that Catherine spoke to her that we don’t treat the staff like this,William spoke to Harry about it and also the Queen came into the Royal kitchens when the wedding catering was being made and she was having a go at one of the Chefs and the Queen told her off.
I don't believe the Queen was in the kitchen and told her off.But is she a rude person that several of the staff got involved with yes.. William telling harry to control his gf... I do believe.
@@roriemarie2968 Queen wasn't in kitchen. They had set up out doors kitchen in Windsor castle for lunch reception after wedding. Queen was passing by and she heard meghan was screaming at staff and was throwing temper tantrums and Queen came and pulled her aside and told "we don't speak to our staff like that"
When people aren’t able to distinguish between the fantasies and delusions in their own mind, and objective reality… then they start making large errors which can be easily disproven and eventually expose the chronic pathological lying.
This was around the time that Catherine was pregnant with Louis, and was very sick sick with morning sickness. Megan's own words are I'm a brash American.
American here. I am not a morning person. Anyone who sends me an email at 5 am will not get a response until I get to it, around 10-11 am. If they get snarky and demanding, they will not like my response. I'll give as good as I get. Just saying.
Thank you! I’m Irish and live in Ireland and I’ve always been bothered by this idea that America gets up and at em hours and hours before any other country.
I think Megan uses the brash American line to excuse your rudeness and aggressive ambition. She has convinced Harry that it's just because she's an American and misunderstood.
I used to think she denied Thomas because he was sloppy and disheveled looking but then I saw pics of Doria. Doria was also sloppy and disheveled looking. Clearly Doria had been cleaned up to be presented to the world. Why didn’t Meghan help her father in the same way? It seemed like she owed him so much more than Doria who had abandoned her as a child. To me the whole family seems dysfunctional but clearly if she was indebted to anyone it was Thomas.
If Meghan knew that most of us see straight through her, she'd fold up like a cheap umbrella. I feel sorry for her children. Thanks so much for posting these videos!
21:30: “Meghan credited her success with being uniquely special…”😳 Humble, ain’t she? Ohmigoodness…when you think you’ve heard it all. She has to be one of the most unlikeable people I’ve ever come across. I’m continuously shocked by her gall.
Well, they did dance in the streets in S.A. when they got married, the guy on the plane knelt and thanked her for service to ‘our country’ and then Beyoncé texted her to say she thought they were here to heal the wounds. Even if this happened (which I doubt) why would you publicise this. If I’d heard that I would believe it was gossip or rumour but I’ve seen her saying it and it’s so self aggrandising. Revolting
Meg is more like Fergie with the freckles & being a bit chubby. Kate is more like Diana because she's the tall, pretty one. Meg envied everything about Catherine.
@@lesgensdeprovenceontlaparo6531 nah she's a cancer.. megsy's a leo. On the spot they would have clashed. The sight alone would tick the other off. Unless megsy's a leo male.
6:00: “why couldn’t they be supportive of Meghan based on something tangible she had done…” Weeeeell…maybe they got tired trying to find something. Lol,
I have to wonder if they told her what a "normal" budget would be for her?!? It sure seems like they didn't discuss it ...or perhaps she didn't listen!
Hi from Australia, if I was American I'd be insulted by the American comment, no body knew she was mixed race until she brought it up, I hope this car chase story is there undoing. PS our Princess Mary moved to Denmark, leant danish had no problem with changing cultures.
I don’t think Samantha was besmirching her sister. She was letting Harry know something important, just like Prittie tried. Truth before a wedding is best, and sometimes it’s unpleasant.
I wish there was a rule book on how to effectively say these things before a bad marriage. Nothing seems to get through to the person! My brother married a narcissist.....wouldn't listen to ANYONE;friends, family, mentors, etc. Also we (his family) went to the wedding to show him we loved him anyway......we still regret going. We now think it would have made more of an impact to not go and then all his friends would have wondered why his family that he adored and that adored him, were not in attendance. (Like William saw the red flag that only Doria came from Meghan's side of the family)
@@user-jy3zl2vp4b I know of two marriages where one party had no one on their side of the pew. Both were family anialators (can’t spell today), who killed their wives and children. It’s a major red flag.
What I am still curious about is why didn't anyone who had access to the research that must have been done on Meghan after her appearance with Harry at the Invictus games, share the info with Harry before the engagement interview? The royal family had to have had access to this research from government intelligence services.
You could safely bet that if Meghan decided to dump Doria, which she eventually will. If Thomas is still living Doria will go back to reconnect with him to use him. Thomas no doubt will take her back! Perhaps Meghan learned from her mother how to treat people!
@@cheeredeniseThe Palace was wrong by not demanding to meet her family before the marriage. They should have dragged Thomas and Doria into a meeting and explained what their daughter was doing. This would have embarrased Meghan and taught her a lesson. Her parents being contacted about her bad behaviour would have shamed her.
As a math teacher, I often think in probabilities and logic… and I was literally snorting laughing about the statement “near catastrophic” accident when there was no accident. An accident is either catastrophic or isn’t, so if there is no accident it can’t be nearly catastrophic bc it’s nothing. If every time you get into a car and don’t get into an accident, but could have is nearly catastrophic, then every time you get into a car, is nearly catastrophic. I hate to be a math nerd about it, but what spokesperson doesn’t understand the importance of measuring words carefully?
Meghan maybe? She has a penchant for emotive, dramatic words and phrases that sometimes are used incorrectly, sometimes cancel eachother out and most times descend into buzz word salad.
When all you're doing is belching emotions, as Omid Scobie stated, who cares about logic or facts? I said to my husband that what floors me is the sheer boneheaded stupidity of this particular concoction. If they'd been driving out in the country, to some distant place on Long Island or upstate New York, there could have been enough plausibility to the story to get the benefit of the doubt from some people. Late at night, lonely country road, no witnesses, someone chasing them at high speed - yeah, that sounds scary, and some people would have gone along with it. But downtown Manhattan? No way can anyone buy that there was the slightest hint of danger. I don't know if this was just an insanely impulsive stunt, or if it was seriously planned ahead of time, because that would indicate a level of blind stupidity I wouldn't have thought possible.
@@Wanda711 I completely agree with you it was such a stupid story… the first headline I read was “Harry and Meghan in a near catastrophic accident” before I knew any more details, my first thoughts were how can something be near catastrophic!? The details that followed after the headline were mind numbingly stupid. I wonder if their spokesperson told them it wasn’t believable or if they were too afraid they’d be fired…
@@Wanda711 I was wondering how far in advance they planned it too…my theory is Meghan concocted it after Catherine played the piano on Eurovision finale… I feel like any time there is positive press for the Wales, H and M try to steal it with a stunt
Harry seems to have arrived at the conclusion that Catherine and Markle would be BFFs based entirely on ‘you’re a girl… she’s a girl… she’ll love you!’ He really does seem to be alarmingly thick.
I am Brittish and I like to get up and start my day early too. The early morning is actually one of my favourite times of day- so quiet and peaceful before the world wakes up and it's go go go. I think, like you said, Meghan was probably making passive aggressive quips about it. Meghan was also reducing veteran palace staff to tears at this point so her staff was probably terrified of upsetting her before the day had even started. I can imagine recieving demanding emails from your nightmare boss at 5am, before you'd even brushed your teeth, being a source of anxiety and frustration. It's so sad that the palace staff tried so hard to accommodate and apease Meghan but it was an impossible task. Thanks Cheere ❤ You are my 1# favourite channel!!!
Every cult I’ve ever learned about employed those same ‘trauma uncovering’ methods, they use these methods to make the victim dependent on the group or the leader/messiah. Usually they take these horrible traumas & use it in very, very negative ways to control, guilt, & ‘guide’ their decisions. Cults always cut you off from friends & family as well, always. The similarities are pretty chilling in my opinion.
Similar to what Amber Heard was doing to Johnny Depp. I found the trial so very interesting as to just how manipulative and gaslighting a person can go to. The fact that Amber was able to take Johnny away from his children's mother. But he too was in a drug filled stupor until the relationship literally was causing him physical harm that he came to his senses. It wasn't enough for Amber to have him but then she had to destroy him because he was in the way of her lime light. The fact that she was more in love with women and she solely married Johnny to further her career goals. You got to be wretched inside to do what she was trying to do to him. I have never been a Johnny Depp fan because he has never been an angel like most of us aren't. It's my opinion that Megan hates being 1/4 black. It tears her up inside. She was never black until it was convenient.
You’re right about her using Doria. She only wheels her out at events when it suits HER. Either Doria knows she’s being played and is going along with it for what can get, or she’s a very dim individual. These two only know how to use people for their own gain, whether it be Doria or the royal family.
Mehgan markle was the only mistake that queen elizabeth the 2nd ever made in all her years .but to her defence she was blinded by her love for her grandson.
I'm certain our late Queen had Harry's Wife's number from the get go but Harry gave her no choice by threatening to play the race card. I also wonder if Harry's Wife told Harry she was pregnant in order to force the family's hand.
I think she was worried for Phillip. I think she was tired of dealing with the Courtier Drama. That is about the time Charles and Andrew were wanting Christopher Geist gone. It was a rough time for the Queen. Then Meghan was stirring things up in Kensington. I think the Queen thought, "He will do what he wants. I'm done with it."
As old as the Queen was, I think her decisions about Harry's engagement and marriage had two different reasons. She didn't know Meghan well at the time of engagement, but knew some things about her, so deferred to her not-so-bright grandson's wishes. Later, she knew enough to have wanted to deny permission to marriage, but both the race card and probably the faked pregnancy got in the way.
I'm a bit late as always but I appreciate your thoughts on r@cism. As a South African who is of mixed heritage and who grew up under apartheid, I know all about experiencing racism but I'm so tired of identity politics and people thinking racism only comes from white people. All people can be racist and can experience it as well. Why is society trying to convince me that only black people have the monopoly on racism? I'm so tired of society being so blatantly racist and ignorant in the name of racial justice?! There is racism, colorism and prejudice in every race (the human race). I say this as someone who is of German, African and Dutch heritage. I'm a human being and judge and want to be judged on the content of my character. Society needs to wake up and stop this madness, it's only creating more division amonst us in my opinion.
The sad part is the people in control is making it a racist war . They did it in America and now they’re trying to do it in GB. We the people are the ones that suffer for their agenda.
I completely agree. I believe there was a hole or void that couldn’t be filled, and she lived a very lonely life. From experience I’ve learned that many people who have experienced abandonment in their life thrive on chaos or drama because it makes noise over the loneliness and silence they feel around them. She had many flaws, yes, but yet I sympathize with her as well. She’s definitely complex, however, I don’t believe she was an evil person or someone who necessarily wanted to eject heartache or anything on anyone else; just naive and not really thinking of the consequences for later on. Unlike Meghan, she did care about others and wanted the monarchy to succeed, whereas Meghan wants the complete opposite
How true your comment about ppl who don’t have kids. They usually have no idea how much of your time and energy they take up. Especially someone who makes their children a priority as Catherine undoubtedly does
After they left the UK & ended up in the US, Harry attended an event then ‘rushed’ home as Meghan was distraught that her uncle who helped her get that internship passed away. His widow months later came out & said that Meghan neither called, sent a card, sent flowers, or attended the service.
I think you are spot on about Diana's last days. She lived a frenetic life, closed her schedule to life long friends and family who really cared for her and the odds caught up with her in the form of a drunk driver employed by a useless playboy.
It's cold, but when her divorce from Charles was final, I said to my family "She'll be dead in 3 years." Only I thought she'd commit suicide, I didn't foresee a car accident.
I'm glad you said just bringing skin color to the royal family was not an important contribution. My Native American husband was loved by my white family for who he was with each of them, nothing to do with his darker skin color.
Allegedly M was noted to exclude certain staff from group emails, then scold the staff for not doing tasks that were in said emails. It’s hard to answer or even respond to emails if you aren’t included in them, it’s even harder to do tasks included in said emails if you have no knowledge of what was in the emails…
It is almost unbelievable that one(or two)people could cause so much damage to so many people.😢 It is unbelievable that they haven't learned anything yet! 😖 After seeing the comment from the person who has struggles w/reading, I wanted to add that you also "open the eyes" of those of us with visual handicaps! Thank you!❤
"You don't need them ". Wow parents don't need thier children. They just love them without expecting anything. Just shows exactly her thinking. People are only in her life if they have a useful purpose. Based on what went on today, the little pap chase, you'd think she would have more understanding of what her father (a non celebrity ) was going through with the paps surrounding him
I assure you it fit her agenda to keep her dad and her family away from her and the wedding! The problem is that MM is who she is and her horrible personality came to the surface, even though she kept the family away .
Meghan has this dichotomous way of portraying herself in that she is a triumvirate of saint, victim, and aggressor. If she acts as the aggressor (not physically, but rather emotionally, mentally, psychologically, etc.), and anyone pushes back against that, she immediately goes into victim-mode. It’s her cycle and it’s very obvious to those of us on the outside looking in. For example: *Saint* (pulling herself up from her “poor” family and becoming a “world famous” actress) ➡️ *Victim* (paparazzi is pounding at her door and her dog can’t even be around her anymore) ➡️ *Aggressor* (she has to move into Nottingham Cottage so she can “be safe” even though they’ve only been dating a short time). Then the cycle starts again. *Saint* (she will perfect for the Royal Family since she’s American and half-black and beautiful) ➡️ *Victim* (nobody is teaching her the protocol and how to fit in to the Royal Family - even though they are) ➡️ *Aggressor* (she’ll just do whatever she wants and to hell with them). Then the cycle starts again. *Saint* (she is a philanthropic humanitarian that would be good for the Royal Family) ➡️ *Victim* (she’s half-black and the Royal Family is “racist”) ➡️ *Aggressor* (she threatens to unalive herself and pushes Harry away from all his friends and family). This cycle goes on and on and continues in this toxic pattern. From day one until the present.
I enjoyed reading your comment and think what your analysis is correct. However, wouldn't the example of Meghan moving into Nottingham Cottage fit her "victim" persona rather than her "aggressor" one?
@@detectivefiction3701 Yes, you can take that as victim, as well! She “had” to move there to get protection. Perhaps the aggressor portion of that scenario would be her playing up to Harry that he needs to make it official and get her protection. Or even using his mother’s death to scare him into feeling like he needs to protect her. (I used that example as aggressor because it seems to me - IMO - that she moved right in before they were even really exclusive or serious, and to me that’s a bit aggressive. But I see your point as it being more on the victim side of things!)
What you are describing is a psychological theory first proposed in 1968 called the Karpman Drama Triangle. There are 3 and only 3 roles: Persecutor, Rescuer, and Victim. Roughly analogous to your villain, Saint, and victim roles, respectively. Mentally unwell people tend to be limited to playing these roles in relationships (and they do change roles but never the game), as opposed to being authentic participants in healthy, mutually beneficial relationships.
@@ShidachiOm Oh wow! Thank you, I hadn’t heard of this theory, but I’ll read up on it! I wonder if Harry has any clue what he’s dealing with, or if he himself is too unwell to see the forest for the trees…
@@heatblair You're welcome! There is a hidden fraternity of survivors, and we tend to want to share what we've learned with those who are still suffering or are simply genuinely curious. If I were a betting woman, I would guess he lacks the insight or the analytical skills to have parsed it out like you've done. Certainly he's never studied it in college nor, apparently, in the course of his so-called therapy. At some point, a person's survival instincts will kick in, and the victim will start looking for answers. But my guess is that Harry is still wandering around in the FOG (fear, obligation, guilt) so familiar to any of us who have had the dubious privilege of having a Cluster B personality disordered mate. My guess is that he is still flailing about trying to figure out where the ideal mate he married has disappeared to and why suddenly he can't do anything right. This includes all manner of heroic efforts to restore the glow of the initial "golden period" common to these relationships when the disordered person was love bombing the target. The most difficult task for anyone in this position is coming to terms with the reality that the person you fell in love with literally does not exist. That person was just a façade. Given that Harry spent about a decade telling himself that his mother wasn't really dead, she was just in hiding somewhere, I'll go out on a limb and say that his capacity for facing reality is somewhat limited. His resilience is questionable too, as he is still bitter and resentful over the death of his mother which was more than a quarter century ago. I predict a full on nervous breakdown when she finally dumps him. This is going to be a significant challenge for Harry, and unfortunately he has alienated and betrayed the majority of people he would normally be able to count on as a support group. But people can surprise you. My prediction is that this will either make or break him. My hope is for the former. Anyway, kudos to you for spotting the pattern!
I recall an incident in the early 2000s of a designer who moved to France being accused of abusing staff because they sent emails outside of work hours as this is illegal there. Normally, work communications should be done during work hours.
@@cheeredenise also remember their work place is a strict hierarchy. The staff are at the very bottom and they are working for Harry (no 5). They would be expected to answer asap.
My director at work will write emails over the weekend or after hours, BUT she saves them in the draft folder and then sends them the next morning during normal business hours. She started that because even if she told her managers not to worry about those emails until business hours, they would still be jumping to do whatever was asked.
Megan saw Katherine’s family, their wealth, and ability to participate financially with Katherine & William’s wedding and she knew her family could not measure up financially. So, she ghosted them. Unfortunately, they were all going through bankruptcy prior to the wedding. Meghan also quoted her personal wealth as 5 million dollars, but she spent nothing towards her wedding, she didn’t even buy her wedding gown. Meghan was stuck and would not share her big day with her parents as she felt inferior to the other royals. She talked a good story about who she was - all fake. The Queen knew, as did the Princess Royal, Katherine and Sophie. Meghan had no place with the royals, and I think Harry realized Meghan was unsuitable,but she hit him with the pregnancy threat and he went along with the engagement. Poor stupid Harry. HUGE MISTAKE.😊
Charles & William got him into therapy well prior to Meghan’s arrival on the scene. I think for a while he was making gains, but then Meghan disrupted that treatment, & pushed him into alternative therapies.
Cant help but feel really sorry for Thomas, especially as she kept Doria close but discarded him. I expect Doria went along with it because she knew fine well that if she didn’t she too would be cast aside and get nothing (financial)out of it. The image Doria projected around the time of the wedding was very similar to Megan’s sweet innocent act. She doesn’t give those vibes off anymore. It was sooooo weird she was the only family in attendance for Meghan. Its not surprising Thomas ended up having a heart attack dealing with all the s**t from all of his kids!!
It drives me nuts every time it's said Harry was 12. No. He was into the 51st week of his 13th year, heading into his 14th year. William was in his 16th year.
Loving your breakdown and viewpoint on Revenge. I read the book a while back when it was first released here in Europe. How Harry's Wife is manipulating Harry is tragic. He is not intellectually equipped to deal with her machinations. This will truly end in tears, if not worse.
As a woman who never had children I have seen that it isnt having children that stops other women from having time to befriend the new chick in town andgiving her tons of time. It is that all of us with jobs have to fit in our private lives in the limited time that is left after our jobs. New people have to fit in with the lives we already have and have a reason other than they want to be let into our lives for us to wamt that. Women without kids also have things outside of their jobs that keep them busy, that isnt only a thing for mothers
It is amusing that she is described as a doer, perfectionist etc. She has no experience or education that would qualify her to be issuing orders at 5am. She had 2 patronages, what was she telling everyone to do? They weren't personal assistants they were staff for royal work.
It’s a real pity that American journalists, Actors & RUclips didn’t call M out earlier on. Or at least those that had worked with her & befriended her on all of her half truths & bs
Apparently there were roumors that just before skippys wedding they had fallen out and harry went on his own not expecting her to turn up. And by the same rou or he wasnt happy to see her.
Yes, this was the time I heard she told him she was pregnant (only to get the relationship back "on" again)...and yes I wish we knew more about why they were "off" at that point.
I certainly get the "it's because she's American" nonsense. I'm from the UK but worked for the US forces overseas and I never found a single Markle among my American colleagues or indeed, anything close to it. However, I wonder if this perception of MM being the marker of cultural differences originated not with Harry or the royal staff, but MM herself? The backstories I'm thinking of here are: 1) MM was difficult from the start, being beyond rude and abrasive not only to her own staff but also to those who worked for Catherine and for the Queen. The argument from MM's acolytes and spokesmen - some of whom were from the US - was that we Brits don't understand "American directness". It was as irritating for us as this "it's because she's American" is for Americans because it portrays us as a people so restricted by politeness that normal, direct speech sends us quivering into corners. 2)MM herself has spoken of the RF and Brits in general as being rather cold and formal, as if her tendency to want to touch and hug people is a cultural rather than a personal difference. In the "not many people have asked if I'm OK" interview she said that she had tried (oh how she tried!) the whole 'British stiff upper lip" stuff, couldn't do it and thought it was unhelpful anyway. Which it probably is if you're someone who falls to the floor weeping every half hour. Clearly MM can't make up her mind if being "direct" and refusing to "coddle" people (as she herself put it) is an "American thing" that we Brits can't handle, or if Americans can't handle Brits because they are formal, non-huggy people who trot about with permanently rigid upper lips. Anyhow - there is more but suffice to say that it is at least possible that, when she heard any criticism, constructive or otherwise, she played the cultural difference card. I've worked with Americans so I know first-hand that her character traits are her own and nothing to do with cultural differences, but not every Brit and American has had that same benefit of spending hours every single day working alongside each other.
Well said. I’m American, and due to my job have spent 50% of my adult life outside of the US. Having spent so much time with the British, I can confidently state that there really aren’t many differences between our two cultures. So few in fact, that people must concentrate on language differences (which are mostly slang), and some culinary ones. Both cultures assume that sociological differences are cultural. They’re usually not. Bad, rude, crude, boorish, vulgar behavior is usually the same in all cultures, but especially in our two. I believe that MM had been held to account in the past for her atrocious behavior, and entered her relationship with H prepared with an immediate excuse. “It’s an American thing”. “That’s a British thing”. But MM is NEVER well prepared. The majority of the Royal Family are not as unsophisticated as H, being very well travelled and having spent extensive time with Americans. I doubt they were fooled by her for longer than a single meeting. I strongly suspect they were against the relationship from the beginning, and also suspect that the obsessively besotted and naive Prince H threatened them if they dared to interfere with the relationship. Perhaps they felt he would learn a necessary lesson and it would be a short affair. Regardless, the only cultural differences that I see are those embodied by a spoiled, naive, too protected Prince, in trying to live like a commoner in a celebrity obsessed culture, with a sociopathic wife.
@@theheartoftexas Excellent summation of why it went so wrong so fast!....and why the negative reaction to Harry and Meghan's behavior was initially so slow in gaining traction. Most of us, who may have been initially interested in the wedding, etc. thought Meghan seemed an interesting choice, and fine, and we didn't pay that much attention, being disinclined to be either "fans" nor "detractors". The ONLY thing that had seemed "off" to me was the wedding plan absence of Thomas Markle, but I just assumed that it was ill health, confusion, and?or complicated in a way I couldn't understand. It was being FLABBERGASTED by the Oprah interview, (when we were still partially marooned because of covid) that made me wonder "what in heaven's name", had happened!
Katherine is another level out on her own! William has always known he will be king and a king has to find his queen who will create the future of the monarchy. She has to be in a class of her own William knows how lucky he is to find Katherine and the country is very proud to have her represent the UK
Very astute observation. I think Diana wanted to be loved and wanted the attention and also needed the chaos or excitement. And as you say she really wasn’t able to look for peace. Harry seems to have some of the same issues.
Thanks for saying all the thing that I've been saying from the beginning. I knew from the engagement that she was trouble. She ran over him at every turn. After that it was all down hill. Also that smug grin at the wedding, also not curtsy ti The Queen when they left the church. She made me feel uneasy. This has been a great series. 😊
I knew she was trouble when I saw a picture of cuddling bananas which she put on her tig website when she bedded him. I shuddered, I knew then she was big trouble. I shuddered and thought Harry WHAT have you done.
Megaliar has no idea what the actual truth Princess Catherine is 100 rungs up the ladder from the z lister and the Princess is a way better actor than megaliar ever will be
Valentine Lowe’s book ‘Courtiers’ goes into far greater detail about the abusive emails, etc. A common refrain was ‘do you know who I am?’, or threatening their employment. And she targeted the female staff. She screamed at the staff at the Australian Governor General’s Mansion during their tour, so much so that the Governor General & his wife had to request Meghan to speak to the staff with respect & dignity. One female staff member on a Friday night was receiving anger-fueled text messages from Meghan every 10-15 minutes, & was harassed throughout the weekend. During the stay at the Governor General’s House in Australia, Harry & Meghan didn’t share a bedroom - they were fighting constantly with Harry yelling ‘Are you REALLY pregnant this time? In the latest court documents in one of his 40,000 court cases, part of Harry’s statement includes how he wanted to secure his choice media outlets for wedding coverage ‘before the wedding happens & the baby arrives’.
As an absolute Daddy's girl, my heart breaks for her father. My Dad is a very plain, blue -collar, un-fancy person. But I would have proudly shown him to the Queen or anyone else, because you know what, he's *mine.* He worked his entire life to make sure my sisters and I had "more" , did "better", and were more "well-off" than he ever was, and I'd *CRUSH* anyone who said a wrong word about him. Meghan should be ashamed, but the more I learn of her, I realize, she doesn't even know *how* to feel that. Enjoying your read-through very much!
I don’t understand why Meg didn’t just pay her family to shut up. Even if she had been low on cash, you think she would have found it to avoid this disaster.
I don't get it either. I can tell the Markles aren't exactly moral people themselves so they'd most likely shut up for some quick cash. Mehgan is horrible & the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Meg only spends money on herself but it really would've helped her if she had paid them off.
Meghan definitely wants Harry and the world to think that he’s better now, because of her. I have not watched their Netflix sitcom, but I have seen clips. And a hilarious one was some sort of phone therapy session, where they are meditating…and she is holding on to his leg…of course…and they both have their eyes closed…and she’s “crying”… It’s like, she’s a master of manipulation. On a scary level. I would feel sorry for Harry…but I can’t. Cause he royally sucks, too.
Yeah, he sucks and I have a feeling that he's always sucked! Let's give a big shout out to the British Royal PR machine that not only concealed his suckiness but managed to make him one of the most popular royals, at times surpassing the last QEII herself. 👏
The eye movement therapy is EMDR and can be very effective for many, however it’s part of a comprehensive therapy program, which never includes shrooms or weed. 😏
6:38: “Richard K was intoxicated by a woman who had to make her own way in the world and overcome its prejudices.” Yeah…he MUST have been intoxicated to have believed any of that shite.
I'm British. I spent 8 years in California and have lived for over 30 years in Germany. One learns about cultural difference and most people attempt to adapt and fit in but "rude" is just universally rude, in my opinion. Harry's Wife continually shows her lack of respect, manners and common decency. She is just a nasty person and it has nothing to do with her nationality, race or heritage.
My mother would say, " good manners are recognised the world over, no matter what language you speak".
@@Jill-ps1rs Exactly! My mother's wise words,too! Good manners cost nothing and can have enormous positive returns!
But ‘good manners’ don’t always get you want at the beginning so you just barge your way in, forgetting that you’ll see those same people long term so you shouldn’t abuse them or expect the results
Yes, agreed. Or you can carry on lying, bullying and ghosting people while virtue-signalling like mad, if you prefer. But if you're in the public eye, people will catch on.
@@elinstar6034 And the world has certainly caught on. Case in point-this “car chase” the other night. 😳😂🤣🙄
Meghan is a Legend in her own mind.
She is a legend in failure.
A legend in her own lunch-box!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Legend in her own lunchtime.
But actually she is Megzilla
Why would a humanitarian spend or atleast borrow a 56k dress? It goes against every Virtue of charity.
I don't have a problem with people having billions. I have a problem with people flaunting it while doing "Charity"
graph came out of what each royal woman spent on clothes in 2019 meghan spent 400000 next closest was 100000 and catherine was 54000
@@jmoore1939then she sold the clothes Charles bought her for cash on Meghan’s Mirror!
MM spent more on clothes in one year than all of the senior royal women in all the other European monarchies combined.
How much did they spend on dress, vehicles and bodyguards the other night, just so she could cos-play a woman of achievement? Stomach-turning.
Thank you! I’ve also been very annoyed by the she’s an American excuse. As if all 350+ million of us are exactly alike, and we’re all obnoxious, pushy, and rude. No Hypocrite Harry, it isn’t an American thing, it’s a narcissistic Meghan thing.
Anyone with basic manners would know and behave better than she did. Has nothing to do with being American. She claimed there were no tabloids in the US while whiinging from SA so she knows as little about her own country as she does the UK! And she is the smart one????
I think he got the whole 'she's an American' excuse from Rachel herself. She ramped the idea down his throat just like she did with racism.
Yes! Well said … 👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@knn6215 yet on her speech the last award show where she’d bought herself an award and called the news outlets herself to announce it and when to come get photos…sorry, got distracted…but in that speech she says she would look at the cover of Ms magazine on her moms coffee table and the covers were so different than all the covers of the magazines she would see at the store! So she’s full of shat!
She spent plenty of time in UK!! She had some idea of the differences!!
The fact that she turned out to be a gigantic albatross around the royal family’s neck shows just how asinine all these idealized assumptions about race really are. Many people saw her first and foremost as a feather in the monarchy’s “diversity” cap. I really hope those who can look at it rationally now realize how stupid that was. Character is the only thing that matters.
Well said.
This comment is the comment of the year imo, and this exactly what went wrong. Character was not valued as much as the superficiality of "race." Egg is now on a lot of people's face.
THIS! Thank you Julia G. So so true! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️❤️❤️🇦🇺🦘❤️❤️❤️
Spot on!
Except she presented as a totally different person initially until she got the ring on her finger. The mixed race thing was secondary to people liking that H had found someone and seemed happy. Many people, myself included, didn’t know she was biracial (I wasn’t that interested in H). She wasn’t welcomed only because of her race and I think the RF saw through her at the beginning but then they played the ‘race’ card
Let’s face it: arrogant Markle will gaslight the entire world until the end of her days.
I’ve faced this. 😱
She’s a confirmed yacht girl. Watch as uncle Andrew attempts to hide if she ever gets allowed back in and goes to church …..her specialty is positions most women would cringe at. Harry even glowedcsaying she does anything he wasn’t referring to let tricks but trick of the other kind I can’t mention them but say ewwwww don’t go there how could youth for being an over paid woman of the night ?
Indeed.
I can’t even fathom someone who calls themselves “uniquely special”.
Doesn’t one cancel out the other? Unique is special. Special is unique.
Neither can I.
Actually, everyone is unique. No two people have the same fingerprints....one example.
The more I learn about M the more sympathy I feel for the RF. Harry brought a viper into that family. M is pure poison and it infuriates me that she continues to get a platform. Its only going to get worse with her new PR firm pushing her in our faces.
Have to say, although infuriating, it's gripping.
I read that at a gathering before the Queen’s death, “a source “ who was there, heard her remark that she said Markle was “evil.”
I sometimes wonder if William had told Harry the deal on M when the dog bowl incident occurred. Not just the stuff about abusing staff, but the whole Scotland Yard file on this chick.
Prince Phillip and Princess Ann knew instantly and tried to talk to Harry. He knew exactly how brash and inelegant she was. I think he enjoyed embarrassing his family. Five years later aftershocks shes destroyed his life I wonder if the thinks fondly of his family who loved and warned him .
HArry s post r.f. behaviour shows how astonishingly supportive a safety net, the r.f. had been prior to Meghan s interference. They d helped h im cope more than he understood
She could wear a 56k engagement dress and still not be able to buy Grace or Class.
Megan's just a bumbling clod
That’s it right there. 🕯️ summed up in on line. Bravo.
Before class and grace I would push COMMON SENSE up that little list first!!🤭
I knew Meaghan was lying the minute she told Oprah that she never got help from the palace. The grandmother of Autumn Kelly lived in the same town I live in. When Autumn was to marry Princess Anne's son the grandmother was given all sorts of information on the way to approach and be around the Royal family. I do believe the Palace even sent someone over to prepare her. And Meaghan wanted us to believe they gave her no help at all-----I think I saw her nose grow long as she told Oprah this so straight faced
If you are attending a garden party at BP you get instructions before meeting the RF so for someone joining the upper ranks, offering to hit the ground running, to think no help was offered is ridiculous. But every exaggerated fantasy she puts out is ridiculous. She was doing it in Toronto long before she snared a Prince.
I didn't believe that either. If you rewatch that segment, as she is saying that no one helped her, Harry starts to say something like "well...", his body language indicated (to me) he was going to contradict her statement. Before he can get two words out, Meghan throws her arm over into Harry's space and shuts him down, which reinforced to me, he was about to contradict her.
Ordinary manners should suffice.🙄🙄🙄
I've been dying laughing at their "nearly fatal catastrophic crash" due to being chased by paparazzi in Manhattan. Seems like they are the only ones not realizing how ridiculous their victim mentality is and the lengths they will go to try to convince others. Yet everyone is laughing at them publicly.
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Even the most conservative media outlets are either calling this out as lies, whilst even more are straight-out ridiculing it as nonsense!
And I haven't seen a single Sugar jump into ANY of the channels I watch, to defend them!
Even Scobie's latest attempt; "the NY are dealing with FACTS, whilst the Sussexs are dealing with EMOTION!", is ludicrous! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
At this point I can't laugh anymore, the whole thing is ridiculous that they have not had the deserved smack down for the mischief they purposely are causing.
I’ve seen a couple of sugars trying to defend them and even though old WG the others with her just talked about how “frightened” they were, given Hs mother blah, blah, blah. It’s just so pathetic, they’re middle aged adults and shouldn’t be protected from the truth, not “their truth”
Harry saying that this "chase" made him feel what his mother felt during her fatal car crash was just stupid. He doesn't have to rely on THIS incident to know what that felt like. Doesn't he remember being strapped into the back of a car with his brother while his hysterical mother LARPed as a Formula One race car driver across the English countryside? He and William came nearer to getting killed that day than any day since, including his time in the army.
@@jaimekennedy5750 The conservative media were the first to call it lies. The MSMs are still going easy on them and Gayle King is graveling to the point that she is just dying for an interview!
A close friend of mine is mixed. Black father & white mother. She was really annoyed when media suggested Meghan could represent people of colour. "We don't need Meghan to represent us. We are strong in out heritage" were her exact words. I totally agreed. The British people didn't give a damn about her skin colour. Meghan and Harry highlighted that all by themselves. In fact, Harry was the one looking under every pavement slab searching for racism. I feel he was more concerned about her race than others. For a man who only dated white blondes, perhaps he was the problem. The Princess of Wales and the Duchess of Edinborough received lots of really negative coverage, as did their families. Now, they are much loved. Meghan & Harry should ignore the tabloids. Intelligent people dont read them.
Catherine and Sophie are educated ladies. They don't have chips on their shoulders. Meghan is not a cultured woman and is laden with chips.
LMAO! I LOVE THAT LAST LINE from you, dear! :D
Exactly. This was never totally about race until they brought it up
When Harry was dating Chelsea Davy, he allegedly told someone she was from South Africa, then quickly added “But she’s not black” I think everyone knows who the racist is in the RF 😂
Yes, I would truly like to know what racial things were said about her.
I completely agree. I'm more convinced now than ever that the royal rasc*st with whom the "conversations regarding how dark the baby was going to be" was Haz himself. They had the conversation amongst the both of them, then told the world that a "senior working royal" had made rasci*t comments.
Wow and then she had the nerve to go on Oprah saying NOBODY helped her learn what to do as royal and even complained she had to google the national anthem smh she infuriated me , such an ungrateful and vile woman ! Honestly it’s actually mind boggling how rude and arrogant she can be
I agree but it is also mind-boggling that Harry was so ignorant about his own family's ways and traditions. He's not the brightest bulb by any means but, for her own good, he should have insisted she take up on the many offers of mentoring. Sophie Wessex would have been a perfect person to help Harry's Wife integrate. Sadly Harry's narcissist wife thinks she knows everything better!
@kapezee. Yes! the Googling the anthem... Not during the day but _late_at_night_ Whaaagh ;)
Anyone who was honestly ignorant of the British national anthem because of coming from the United States would be convinced the bands around the Palace were playing the United States song "My Country Tis of Thee" and thus would think their husband's family was getting people to honor her homeland.
The songs have the same melody. Her claim of not recognizing the song is about as likely as the recent car chase. She may not have recognized the words but she recognized the song melody
@Davina Wilson early on it was in all the papers that The Queen asked Sophie to help RMM to fit in
@@kdcats4092 Tonedeaf as MM is, I don't believe she gets the melody/tune. 🤣
As a woman who isn't a mother and will never be one, I could kind of sympathize with Meghan if she really wanted to hang out with Catherine but the children kept getting in the way. I mean, let's face it: Catherine isn't the average mother, in the sense that she employs a nanny who can take over the childcare for a while. However, I don't believe Meghan was ever interested in cultivating a friendship with Catherine for any purpose other than finding out her weaknesses so that she could eventually use them to her own advantage. Maybe Catherine sensed this and so tried to avoid socializing with the narcissist.
Meghan grew up in LA and around showbiz. She was surrounded by competitive girls her entire life and had a broken home and insecurity about her identity. She took all her backstage drama and mean girl ways and took it right over the Katherine and royal family. Nasty is her middle name.
Good point. M was angry Katherine didn’t ask her to go shopping in High Street when she saw her driving there. I would bet she wouldn’t have gone had she been asked. It was something she could use against Katherine.
Katherine was pregnant then a brand new baby around this time. I’m sure she was cordial to MM but it wasn’t her responsibility to mentor her. MM would have hung w Katherine just for the possibility to be papped and to pump her for information she could then use against her.
It has been said that The Princess of Wales and MM had planned to go shopping together but it was discovered MM had called the paps to get photos of them together. Therefore Prrincess of Wales went on her own and MM later accused her of refusing to give her a lift or show her around.
Catherine wasn’t buying what Meghan was selling!
She wore more colour in the royal family than she wears in America.
The more I live the more I see that people usually get theirs in the end but it takes a while. She'll get hers. We just have to wait.
She ESPECIALLY will get hers - she’s rushing to her doom
It brings me to tears daily to think about poor little Harry - the only child on this planet to have EVER lost his mother - the man’s a disgrace
It’s funny how people go on and on about him being only 12. In two weeks he was to turn 13- still very young I know.
They then say that William was 15 so therefore much older…… he had only just turned 15.
I feel sorry for Sam Cohen for having to stay, when the Quen 'asks' you to stay, it's not exactly easy to be all "nah, bye", and then to be saddled with Meghan until she is bullied to resign.
Just goes to show her loyalty to the Queen, the Queen was a reasonable woman
Remember Sam Cohen is respected and whatever she reported back to the RF-Queen would be the honest to goodness TRUTH. I'm happy that a sane person like Ms. Cohen was there to see first hand how immature and ignorant M and H truly are.
Megan was not bullied
@@roselee4445 I think she meant Sam Cohen was bullied and resigned as a result. You’re right M was never bullied, she was the bully
The late Queen was so respected by her staff that they would do that for her. She also asked surgeon-gynaecologist to the RF, Sir Marcus Setchell to stay on until Catherine had Prince Louis. He retired after that. Thankfully, Catherine has no history of mistreating staff. I feel bad that Sam Cohen’s time with the RF ended with the horror of Markle.
This is my 1st time writing and I just wanted to thank you for all you've doing on this channel. I have always struggled with reading as well as comprehension. I am NOT illiterate but reading is definitely a struggle. You can never know how much you help people like me thank you again for everything ❤
What a sweet note! Best wishes to you.
@@dgarzaart2000 Thank you for your very kind words. It is taking me many years to admit my struggles. I am using my tablet to reply to your note as well as the note I left above. If not for things like this where I can speak and the words are typed out for me, it would take me hours to make sure I spelled all the words correctly.
@Marian You are most welcome. It is very nice that you care about proper spelling. Many people don't take the time to edit and proofread. Many well wishes and blessings to you. Please don't be too hard on yourself. We live in beauty, and enjoying beauty is a gift to ourselves
Your writing is great
@@Marian-pb7fd you sound like a wonderful, reserved kind person. Wish you all the best with your reading struggles.
"...just an old white man..." yes, sadly that's exactly how Thomas Markle Sr. has been treated.
Harry was 2 weeks short of turning 13 when he walked behind his mother’s coffin. Not « really » 12. William was indeed 15.
I wish more focus was put on his age as almost 13 bc for yrs and yrs the poor 12 yr old boy who walked behind his mother’s coffin. That tradition is part of their culture. I bet Harry never even thought it was odd or unusual until he saw he could gain sympathy and use it as his excuse card for the rest of his life!
Diana died 31st august Harry's birthday is 15th sep
Harry is going to use this excuse till he's brown bread 🍞
Many people see a parent’s coffin. That doesn’t make him special.
True, and William had only turned 15 a few months earlier, so essentially they were 13 and 14.
She was never taught manners, etiquette or couth. She is just flat out rude. And there’s no excuse for that.
Thomas Markle at fault. He taught her no manners!
I’m so ready for a major player to fact check them on all of their lies! I wish it could’ve been Oprah but that’s out the window 🙄
@Margot Watson I think Oprah has her own issues with her skin colour. She fishes for "victims" like herself. Oprah swept into South Africa, to build a school for disadvantaged black girls. She made all the announcements, hired the builders and eventually opened the school. Just one problem, the school staff took bribes from wealthy black businessmen to have their daughters enrolled. Oprah found out about that only when the SA newspapers blew up the story. Efforts were made to change things, but Oprah had lost interest. She is now a billionaire, but doesn't use that and her influence to change things. I'll never forget Harry and Meghans wedding. I was so happy for them. I was shocked to see Oprah and other celebrities waiting to enter the church. Oprah had chosen a very ill fitting outfit, totally unsuitable for a Royal wedding. One of her shoes was broken. The other celebrities looked uncomfortable. It was George Cloony who later said he didn't actually know her. She had only 1 family member present, her mon. I didn't realise that it was all part of Meghan's plot. She is ashamed of her father and all other family members. That means she is ashamed of her heritage, which is so wrong. It's an awful mess but only H & M can sort that out.
I wish someone would write a screenplay about what Wally happened.
It seems to me Oprah just runs around looking for racism and not finding it let someone else manufacture it & get behind it. She is not sticking her head out much anymore.
On Oprah?!! I wish I could have been there when she bullied the toddler princess. I'm from the South. Her California just don't know
I saw through Megan ,when on a trip with the queen she went to get into the car before the queen,it’s not a matter of protocol but basic manners,even people from disadvantaged areas know to defer to the family matriarch
How dare Meghan tell her dad to cut his other two children out of his life, that is so disgusting, who even say’s something like that.
My heart truly breaks for Thomas, he did everything for his daughter, as any parent would and to then have her virtually spit in his face, despicable 😓
Yes.
I think that was the problem. He created a narcissist. With that interview, he didn’t come off as sympathetic.
@@sidneybales9062 there are no innocent characters in that family, although I do sympathize with Thomas to some degree. He did cause a lot of trouble though, and after all her family said to the media before the wedding I'm not surprised that Meghan didn't want her siblings there. Her brother wrote an open letter to Harry saying not to marry her for goodness sake!
we appreciate you from the UK
You have a whole country behind you.
It is SO hard to listen to how Meghan and Harry treated her father. I hate it. I hate it so much.
It makes me hate them. They suck.
I´m with you, and it also makes me want to throttle Thomas when he comes out in an interview saying "How can I fix this?". Damn it man, can´t you see, that mentality is what created this narcissistic nightmare that is your daughter?
@@alexsilva-vn7jc Yes! He has always been an enabler of her bad behavior. They had a dysfunctional relationship with her father treating her as an equal partner instead of a child.
Oprah showed just how elitist she is , with that interview! No hard questions by Oprah showed just how elitist Oprah is.
Wait until you hear what she says when he dies. You cannot libel the dead.
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When Diana was born she had 2 sister living and a brother who passed shortly after birth John. She grew up feeling like the unwanted child because her father wanted an heir. Then her brother Charles was born, by then her mother had had enough and left with Diana and her brother. After the divorce of her parents, her father got custody and her mother was know in their circle as a bolter. Her family was messed up before she joined the RF.
Earl Spencer was also known to be a nasty drunk, but as he had more money, HE got custody. In liberal 60-70s especially, for a mother NOT to get custody meant she must be"unfit" in some way...😥😥😥
Yes this winds me up so much. Most people couldn't cope with her disturbed mental health so to expect Charles, who was a mess himself, to know how to deal with her is ridiculous. It's no wonder he strayed
Diana had a martyr death wish. The meeting of HIV patients, lepers, walking on landmine infested land, (all comendable) her suicide attempts all add up to one who does not have the basic survival instincts to live. Even getting into a car with a driver she knew had been drinking and then not wearing a seat belt. It was almost as if she knew she would die young and didn't care. So very sad. 😢
When I was getting to know my husband's family, I had to learn their ways and he had to learn my family's ways, even though we were from more or less the same background. There were differences. His family were wealthier. My family were well educated. It was a learning process for both of us. Meghan seems to have ignored this natural part of preparing for marriage.
"COMPROMISE" is obviously a word HW has never used when she plays her mean game of Scrabble...🤣🤣🤣
I think her take on marriage is purely transactional. Maximum benefits for as little effort as possible.
MM doesn’t do compromise.
Definitely takes time, patience and work to understand and thrive when there is a marriage between families. My husband's family had a lot of aunts, uncles and cousins coming and going in and out of the house. There was a monthly gatherings of both sides. My family was much smaller and we had very little to do with our families. Our son was so lucky to have all these people in his life.
May I ask a question? My impression of when a couple meets the families is that the person who is having their partner meet their family should do a lot of groundwork BEFORE that meeting. Meaning describing proper behaviors to their partner while also explaining to family any sticky points that their partner has. As I have watch these introductions fail, I always find that the partner failed to prepare one side or the other. Do you think that is true? In my family's experience, the introductions might have been more successful if the family is included in on the baby steps of the progression of the relationship (meaning my brother never even told us he was dating someone, and then he brought her home engaged. We would have liked to have known "I met an amazing girl" or " I think I am going to ask her to marry me" long BEFORE that point. Regardless, the introduction failed because she was a narc like meghan and refused to learn or care about our family rules). Thoughts?
I am a 53 year old brit, at the age of 23 I decided to move to Greece to be with my boyfriend of 6 months, I didn't know if it was going to work out, believe me it was difficult for the first 5 years, but I went along with his culture, I learnt Greek so I could get by when my boyfriend wasn't around, my boyfriends mother was old so she wasn't impressed with her son being with a foreign girl, but she certainly warmed to me when her first grandchild came along, also bear in mind that Greece compared to the UK was very, let's say, behind the times, nether the less I persevered as I loved my boyfriend, I have now been living here for 30 years, married to my then boyfriend and we have 2 kid's together and I have never regretted it but it does take work, patience and the will to learn, megan had none of this in her agenda, she wanted to bag the richest male she could find then get back home to the US, she is a huge fraud.
Thank you for the lovely story.
I have read somewhere that Catherine spoke to her that we don’t treat the staff like this,William spoke to Harry about it and also the Queen came into the Royal kitchens when the wedding catering was being made and she was having a go at one of the Chefs and the Queen told her off.
I have a theory that H takes great delight in the fact that his family found her obnoxious.
I don't believe the Queen was in the kitchen and told her off.But is she a rude person that several of the staff got involved with yes.. William telling harry to control his gf... I do believe.
@@roriemarie2968 Queen wasn't in kitchen. They had set up out doors kitchen in Windsor castle for lunch reception after wedding.
Queen was passing by and she heard meghan was screaming at staff and was throwing temper tantrums and Queen came and pulled her aside and told "we don't speak to our staff like that"
When people aren’t able to distinguish between the fantasies and delusions in their own mind, and objective reality… then they start making large errors which can be easily disproven and eventually expose the chronic pathological lying.
“She’ll be famous, but will she be royal?” I GASPED
This was around the time that Catherine was pregnant with Louis, and was very sick sick with morning sickness. Megan's own words are I'm a brash American.
American here. I am not a morning person. Anyone who sends me an email at 5 am will not get a response until I get to it, around 10-11 am. If they get snarky and demanding, they will not like my response. I'll give as good as I get. Just saying.
Thank you! I’m Irish and live in Ireland and I’ve always been bothered by this idea that America gets up and at em hours and hours before any other country.
In the interview when Meghan said she didn't get help, Harry seemed to want to speak up about it She then seems to hush him
I think Megan uses the brash American line to excuse your rudeness and aggressive ambition. She has convinced Harry that it's just because she's an American and misunderstood.
Can you Imagine complaining that no one thought to even teach her the National Anthem? A middle aged college graduate? What the hell?
Tina even little Prince Louis was singing the National Anthem at the Coronation.
Did she graduate? 🤔 Either way, Thomas Markle way overspent on her tuition! 😅
Yes…it was as she viewed herself as a 19-year-old naive whipper snapper who’d landed in the Royal Court (🥸)!?
Also, it wasn't like she needed the Anthem to be translated to her native tongue to understand it! Or to learn how to pronounce the words!
She's an actor that's her job to learn lines also to research the part she's playing. Just saying.
I used to think she denied Thomas because he was sloppy and disheveled looking but then I saw pics of Doria. Doria was also sloppy and disheveled looking. Clearly Doria had been cleaned up to be presented to the world. Why didn’t Meghan help her father in the same way? It seemed like she owed him so much more than Doria who had abandoned her as a child. To me the whole family seems dysfunctional but clearly if she was indebted to anyone it was Thomas.
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Thomas is FAT with a beer belly. Doria has less weight so her appearance is easier to hide.😂
If Meghan knew that most of us see straight through her, she'd fold up like a cheap umbrella. I feel sorry for her children. Thanks so much for posting these videos!
21:30: “Meghan credited her success with being uniquely special…”😳
Humble, ain’t she?
Ohmigoodness…when you think you’ve heard it all.
She has to be one of the most unlikeable people I’ve ever come across. I’m continuously shocked by her gall.
Well, they did dance in the streets in S.A. when they got married, the guy on the plane knelt and thanked her for service to ‘our country’ and then Beyoncé texted her to say she thought they were here to heal the wounds.
Even if this happened (which I doubt) why would you publicise this. If I’d heard that I would believe it was gossip or rumour but I’ve seen her saying it and it’s so self aggrandising. Revolting
Shocked but not surprised.
Megan expected Kate to play the Fergie role to her Diana😂😂
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Meg is more like Fergie with the freckles & being a bit chubby. Kate is more like Diana because she's the tall, pretty one. Meg envied everything about Catherine.
I think Diana would have sent her packing a long time ago!
I am conflicted on this matter. Diana was so unpredictable.
@@lesgensdeprovenceontlaparo6531 nah she's a cancer.. megsy's a leo. On the spot they would have clashed. The sight alone would tick the other off. Unless megsy's a leo male.
Diana would be envious of anyone eclipsing her star. Harry married mummy.
6:00: “why couldn’t they be supportive of Meghan based on something tangible she had done…”
Weeeeell…maybe they got tired trying to find something. Lol,
We're still waiting.
Yeah, but if someone was being paid only to find something altruistically good she had done.....they would starve to death.
Meghan wadrobe cost more than all 3 royal women sophie camila kate in 1 year . Thats why charles said get a job acting meghan
I have to wonder if they told her what a "normal" budget would be for her?!? It sure seems like they didn't discuss it ...or perhaps she didn't listen!
I bet Meghan freaked out! And NOT for her father but for HER! TERRIFIED of what would emerge about her.
Hi from Australia, if I was American I'd be insulted by the American comment, no body knew she was mixed race until she brought it up, I hope this car chase story is there undoing. PS our Princess Mary moved to Denmark, leant danish had no problem with changing cultures.
I don’t think Samantha was besmirching her sister. She was letting Harry know something important, just like Prittie tried. Truth before a wedding is best, and sometimes it’s unpleasant.
I wish there was a rule book on how to effectively say these things before a bad marriage. Nothing seems to get through to the person! My brother married a narcissist.....wouldn't listen to ANYONE;friends, family, mentors, etc. Also we (his family) went to the wedding to show him we loved him anyway......we still regret going. We now think it would have made more of an impact to not go and then all his friends would have wondered why his family that he adored and that adored him, were not in attendance. (Like William saw the red flag that only Doria came from Meghan's side of the family)
@@user-jy3zl2vp4b I know of two marriages where one party had no one on their side of the pew. Both were family anialators (can’t spell today), who killed their wives and children. It’s a major red flag.
@@Chavacandraw Wow! That is telling!
What I am still curious about is why didn't anyone who had access to the research that must have been done on Meghan after her appearance with Harry at the Invictus games, share the info with Harry before the engagement interview? The royal family had to have had access to this research from government intelligence services.
I’m so over the complaining about the coffin walk. It’s an honor and the duty of a family to do that. Shame on him.
You could safely bet that if Meghan decided to dump Doria, which she eventually will. If Thomas is still living Doria will go back to reconnect with him to use him. Thomas no doubt will take her back! Perhaps Meghan learned from her mother how to treat people!
PREDICTION.If M ghosts her mother there will be book "A Mother's Story". The cracker (M)did not fall far from the box.
Considering the fact that Meghan is always acting you would think she’d be better at it.
Seriously!
@@cheeredeniseThe Palace was wrong by not demanding to meet her family before the marriage. They should have dragged Thomas and Doria into a meeting and explained what their daughter was doing. This would have embarrased Meghan and taught her a lesson. Her parents being contacted about her bad behaviour would have shamed her.
As a math teacher, I often think in probabilities and logic… and I was literally snorting laughing about the statement “near catastrophic” accident when there was no accident. An accident is either catastrophic or isn’t, so if there is no accident it can’t be nearly catastrophic bc it’s nothing. If every time you get into a car and don’t get into an accident, but could have is nearly catastrophic, then every time you get into a car, is nearly catastrophic. I hate to be a math nerd about it, but what spokesperson doesn’t understand the importance of measuring words carefully?
Meghan maybe? She has a penchant for emotive, dramatic words and phrases that sometimes are used incorrectly, sometimes cancel eachother out and most times descend into buzz word salad.
When all you're doing is belching emotions, as Omid Scobie stated, who cares about logic or facts? I said to my husband that what floors me is the sheer boneheaded stupidity of this particular concoction. If they'd been driving out in the country, to some distant place on Long Island or upstate New York, there could have been enough plausibility to the story to get the benefit of the doubt from some people. Late at night, lonely country road, no witnesses, someone chasing them at high speed - yeah, that sounds scary, and some people would have gone along with it. But downtown Manhattan? No way can anyone buy that there was the slightest hint of danger. I don't know if this was just an insanely impulsive stunt, or if it was seriously planned ahead of time, because that would indicate a level of blind stupidity I wouldn't have thought possible.
@@Wanda711 I completely agree with you it was such a stupid story… the first headline I read was “Harry and Meghan in a near catastrophic accident” before I knew any more details, my first thoughts were how can something be near catastrophic!? The details that followed after the headline were mind numbingly stupid. I wonder if their spokesperson told them it wasn’t believable or if they were too afraid they’d be fired…
@@Wanda711 I was wondering how far in advance they planned it too…my theory is Meghan concocted it after Catherine played the piano on Eurovision finale… I feel like any time there is positive press for the Wales, H and M try to steal it with a stunt
@@alexsilva-vn7jc yeah she’s Uber melodramatic to the point she makes herself unbelievable
Harry seems to have arrived at the conclusion that Catherine and Markle would be BFFs based entirely on ‘you’re a girl… she’s a girl… she’ll love you!’ He really does seem to be alarmingly thick.
And very prone to wishful thinking.
I really had no idea he was so stupid. Williams IQ and University education really show don't they?
Danish Queen Mary is a wonderful example of someone growing up in one culture and learning how to belong to a royal family in a different culture.
I am Brittish and I like to get up and start my day early too. The early morning is actually one of my favourite times of day- so quiet and peaceful before the world wakes up and it's go go go. I think, like you said, Meghan was probably making passive aggressive quips about it. Meghan was also reducing veteran palace staff to tears at this point so her staff was probably terrified of upsetting her before the day had even started. I can imagine recieving demanding emails from your nightmare boss at 5am, before you'd even brushed your teeth, being a source of anxiety and frustration. It's so sad that the palace staff tried so hard to accommodate and apease Meghan but it was an impossible task. Thanks Cheere ❤ You are my 1# favourite channel!!!
Every cult I’ve ever learned about employed those same ‘trauma uncovering’ methods, they use these methods to make the victim dependent on the group or the leader/messiah. Usually they take these horrible traumas & use it in very, very negative ways to control, guilt, & ‘guide’ their decisions. Cults always cut you off from friends & family as well, always. The similarities are pretty chilling in my opinion.
That was my thought exactly! Well said ❤
I’m gobsmacked that there aren’t more 👍s for these videos. I know I’ve been singing your praises!
Similar to what Amber Heard was doing to Johnny Depp. I found the trial so very interesting as to just how manipulative and gaslighting a person can go to. The fact that Amber was able to take Johnny away from his children's mother. But he too was in a drug filled stupor until the relationship literally was causing him physical harm that he came to his senses. It wasn't enough for Amber to have him but then she had to destroy him because he was in the way of her lime light. The fact that she was more in love with women and she solely married Johnny to further her career goals. You got to be wretched inside to do what she was trying to do to him. I have never been a Johnny Depp fan because he has never been an angel like most of us aren't. It's my opinion that Megan hates being 1/4 black. It tears her up inside. She was never black until it was convenient.
You’re right about her using Doria. She only wheels her out at events when it suits HER. Either Doria knows she’s being played and is going along with it for what can get, or she’s a very dim individual. These two only know how to use people for their own gain, whether it be Doria or the royal family.
Mehgan markle was the only mistake that queen elizabeth the 2nd ever made in all her years .but to her defence she was blinded by her love for her grandson.
I'm certain our late Queen had Harry's Wife's number from the get go but Harry gave her no choice by threatening to play the race card. I also wonder if Harry's Wife told Harry she was pregnant in order to force the family's hand.
I think she was worried for Phillip. I think she was tired of dealing with the Courtier Drama. That is about the time Charles and Andrew were wanting Christopher Geist gone. It was a rough time for the Queen. Then Meghan was stirring things up in Kensington. I think the Queen thought, "He will do what he wants. I'm done with it."
Eh - Andrew?
As old as the Queen was, I think her decisions about Harry's engagement and marriage had two different reasons. She didn't know Meghan well at the time of engagement, but knew some things about her, so deferred to her not-so-bright grandson's wishes. Later, she knew enough to have wanted to deny permission to marriage, but both the race card and probably the faked pregnancy got in the way.
What drivel was the statement that Marble was the new Diana. How ironic is that Catherine has assumed this role.
I'm a bit late as always but I appreciate your thoughts on r@cism. As a South African who is of mixed heritage and who grew up under apartheid, I know all about experiencing racism but I'm so tired of identity politics and people thinking racism only comes from white people. All people can be racist and can experience it as well. Why is society trying to convince me that only black people have the monopoly on racism? I'm so tired of society being so blatantly racist and ignorant in the name of racial justice?! There is racism, colorism and prejudice in every race (the human race). I say this as someone who is of German, African and Dutch heritage. I'm a human being and judge and want to be judged on the content of my character. Society needs to wake up and stop this madness, it's only creating more division amonst us in my opinion.
So well said!!!!!
@@cheeredenise your spot on 👍👏👏👏
Beautifully stated
The truth has set you free!
The sad part is the people in control is making it a racist war . They did it in America and now they’re trying to do it in GB. We the people are the ones that suffer for their agenda.
Your brief analysis of the tragic Diana is so concise. She may have also been invisible in her own family after her mother left.
I completely agree. I believe there was a hole or void that couldn’t be filled, and she lived a very lonely life. From experience I’ve learned that many people who have experienced abandonment in their life thrive on chaos or drama because it makes noise over the loneliness and silence they feel around them. She had many flaws, yes, but yet I sympathize with her as well. She’s definitely complex, however, I don’t believe she was an evil person or someone who necessarily wanted to eject heartache or anything on anyone else; just naive and not really thinking of the consequences for later on. Unlike Meghan, she did care about others and wanted the monarchy to succeed, whereas Meghan wants the complete opposite
“…dazed by Meghan’s dim star…” 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I lived in the UK for a year and I didn't have any issues with culteral differences.
Honestly don’t know how Meghan could just cut her father out, after all his love and support.
I wholeheartedly agree.
She has NO CONSCIOUS , that’s why she can do what she does!!!
How true your comment about ppl who don’t have kids. They usually have no idea how much of your time and energy they take up. Especially someone who makes their children a priority as Catherine undoubtedly does
And yet, she didn’t invite anyone from her mother’s side of the family …
After they left the UK & ended up in the US, Harry attended an event then ‘rushed’ home as Meghan was distraught that her uncle who helped her get that internship passed away. His widow months later came out & said that Meghan neither called, sent a card, sent flowers, or attended the service.
I think you are spot on about Diana's last days. She lived a frenetic life, closed her schedule to life long friends and family who really cared for her and the odds caught up with her in the form of a drunk driver employed by a useless playboy.
It's cold, but when her divorce from Charles was final, I said to my family "She'll be dead in 3 years." Only I thought she'd commit suicide, I didn't foresee a car accident.
I'm glad you said just bringing skin color to the royal family was not an important contribution. My Native American husband was loved by my white family for who he was with each of them, nothing to do with his darker skin color.
Thomas should have known Megan's gameplay when she made no attempt to introduce Harry to him in the first place.
Thomas played a bigggg role in how MM turned out!!
Allegedly M was noted to exclude certain staff from group emails, then scold the staff for not doing tasks that were in said emails.
It’s hard to answer or even respond to emails if you aren’t included in them, it’s even harder to do tasks included in said emails if you have no knowledge of what was in the emails…
It is almost unbelievable that one(or two)people could cause so much damage to so many people.😢
It is unbelievable that they haven't learned anything yet! 😖
After seeing the comment from the person who has struggles w/reading, I wanted to add that you also "open the eyes" of those of us with visual handicaps! Thank you!❤
"You don't need them ". Wow parents don't need thier children. They just love them without expecting anything. Just shows exactly her thinking. People are only in her life if they have a useful purpose. Based on what went on today, the little pap chase, you'd think she would have more understanding of what her father (a non celebrity ) was going through with the paps surrounding him
I assure you it fit her agenda to keep her dad and her family away from her and the wedding! The problem is that MM is who she is and her horrible personality came to the surface, even though she kept the family away .
I am a Brit, you have so nailed the bull....!
Meghan has this dichotomous way of portraying herself in that she is a triumvirate of saint, victim, and aggressor. If she acts as the aggressor (not physically, but rather emotionally, mentally, psychologically, etc.), and anyone pushes back against that, she immediately goes into victim-mode. It’s her cycle and it’s very obvious to those of us on the outside looking in. For example: *Saint* (pulling herself up from her “poor” family and becoming a “world famous” actress) ➡️ *Victim* (paparazzi is pounding at her door and her dog can’t even be around her anymore) ➡️ *Aggressor* (she has to move into Nottingham Cottage so she can “be safe” even though they’ve only been dating a short time).
Then the cycle starts again. *Saint* (she will perfect for the Royal Family since she’s American and half-black and beautiful) ➡️ *Victim* (nobody is teaching her the protocol and how to fit in to the Royal Family - even though they are) ➡️ *Aggressor* (she’ll just do whatever she wants and to hell with them).
Then the cycle starts again. *Saint* (she is a philanthropic humanitarian that would be good for the Royal Family) ➡️ *Victim* (she’s half-black and the Royal Family is “racist”) ➡️ *Aggressor* (she threatens to unalive herself and pushes Harry away from all his friends and family).
This cycle goes on and on and continues in this toxic pattern. From day one until the present.
I enjoyed reading your comment and think what your analysis is correct. However, wouldn't the example of Meghan moving into Nottingham Cottage fit her "victim" persona rather than her "aggressor" one?
@@detectivefiction3701 Yes, you can take that as victim, as well! She “had” to move there to get protection. Perhaps the aggressor portion of that scenario would be her playing up to Harry that he needs to make it official and get her protection. Or even using his mother’s death to scare him into feeling like he needs to protect her. (I used that example as aggressor because it seems to me - IMO - that she moved right in before they were even really exclusive or serious, and to me that’s a bit aggressive. But I see your point as it being more on the victim side of things!)
What you are describing is a psychological theory first proposed in 1968 called the Karpman Drama Triangle. There are 3 and only 3 roles: Persecutor, Rescuer, and Victim. Roughly analogous to your villain, Saint, and victim roles, respectively. Mentally unwell people tend to be limited to playing these roles in relationships (and they do change roles but never the game), as opposed to being authentic participants in healthy, mutually beneficial relationships.
@@ShidachiOm Oh wow! Thank you, I hadn’t heard of this theory, but I’ll read up on it! I wonder if Harry has any clue what he’s dealing with, or if he himself is too unwell to see the forest for the trees…
@@heatblair You're welcome! There is a hidden fraternity of survivors, and we tend to want to share what we've learned with those who are still suffering or are simply genuinely curious. If I were a betting woman, I would guess he lacks the insight or the analytical skills to have parsed it out like you've done. Certainly he's never studied it in college nor, apparently, in the course of his so-called therapy. At some point, a person's survival instincts will kick in, and the victim will start looking for answers. But my guess is that Harry is still wandering around in the FOG (fear, obligation, guilt) so familiar to any of us who have had the dubious privilege of having a Cluster B personality disordered mate. My guess is that he is still flailing about trying to figure out where the ideal mate he married has disappeared to and why suddenly he can't do anything right. This includes all manner of heroic efforts to restore the glow of the initial "golden period" common to these relationships when the disordered person was love bombing the target. The most difficult task for anyone in this position is coming to terms with the reality that the person you fell in love with literally does not exist. That person was just a façade. Given that Harry spent about a decade telling himself that his mother wasn't really dead, she was just in hiding somewhere, I'll go out on a limb and say that his capacity for facing reality is somewhat limited. His resilience is questionable too, as he is still bitter and resentful over the death of his mother which was more than a quarter century ago. I predict a full on nervous breakdown when she finally dumps him. This is going to be a significant challenge for Harry, and unfortunately he has alienated and betrayed the majority of people he would normally be able to count on as a support group. But people can surprise you. My prediction is that this will either make or break him. My hope is for the former. Anyway, kudos to you for spotting the pattern!
A staff of fifteen people to help you figure out how to behave is not enough? 😂😂😂
I love your impersonations of Meg…cracks me up! About her nervous curtsy…comedy gold!
I recall an incident in the early 2000s of a designer who moved to France being accused of abusing staff because they sent emails outside of work hours as this is illegal there. Normally, work communications should be done during work hours.
Really?! Wow!
@@cheeredenise also remember their work place is a strict hierarchy. The staff are at the very bottom and they are working for Harry (no 5). They would be expected to answer asap.
My director at work will write emails over the weekend or after hours, BUT she saves them in the draft folder and then sends them the next morning during normal business hours. She started that because even if she told her managers not to worry about those emails until business hours, they would still be jumping to do whatever was asked.
Emails can be set up to be delivered at specific times automatically, it's the 21st century.
Megan saw Katherine’s family, their wealth, and ability to participate financially with Katherine & William’s wedding and she knew her family could not measure up financially. So, she ghosted them. Unfortunately, they were all going through bankruptcy prior to the wedding. Meghan also quoted her personal wealth as 5 million dollars, but she spent nothing towards her wedding, she didn’t even buy her wedding gown. Meghan was stuck and would not share her big day with her parents as she felt inferior to the other royals. She talked a good story about who she was - all fake. The Queen knew, as did the Princess Royal, Katherine and Sophie. Meghan had no place with the royals, and I think Harry realized Meghan was unsuitable,but she hit him with the pregnancy threat and he went along with the engagement. Poor stupid Harry. HUGE MISTAKE.😊
Charles & William got him into therapy well prior to Meghan’s arrival on the scene. I think for a while he was making gains, but then Meghan disrupted that treatment, & pushed him into alternative therapies.
You can't cure stupid 🤷♀️
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Cant help but feel really sorry for Thomas, especially as she kept Doria close but discarded him. I expect Doria went along with it because she knew fine well that if she didn’t she too would be cast aside and get nothing (financial)out of it. The image Doria projected around the time of the wedding was very similar to Megan’s sweet innocent act. She doesn’t give those vibes off anymore. It was sooooo weird she was the only family in attendance for Meghan. Its not surprising Thomas ended up having a heart attack dealing with all the s**t from all of his kids!!
William apparently thought it was a BIG red flag that only Doria was in attendance! Smart guy!
It drives me nuts every time it's said Harry was 12. No. He was into the 51st week of his 13th year, heading into his 14th year. William was in his 16th year.
Loving your breakdown and viewpoint on Revenge. I read the book a while back when it was first released here in Europe. How Harry's Wife is manipulating Harry is tragic. He is not intellectually equipped to deal with her machinations. This will truly end in tears, if not worse.
As a woman who never had children I have seen that it isnt having children that stops other women from having time to befriend the new chick in town andgiving her tons of time. It is that all of us with jobs have to fit in our private lives in the limited time that is left after our jobs. New people have to fit in with the lives we already have and have a reason other than they want to be let into our lives for us to wamt that. Women without kids also have things outside of their jobs that keep them busy, that isnt only a thing for mothers
It is amusing that she is described as a doer, perfectionist etc. She has no experience or education that would qualify her to be issuing orders at 5am. She had 2 patronages, what was she telling everyone to do? They weren't personal assistants they were staff for royal work.
Queen Mary of Denmark moved from Australia, she now speaks perfect Danish!?! The people love her and she dresses like Katherine, very classy.
It’s a real pity that American journalists, Actors & RUclips didn’t call M out earlier on. Or at least those that had worked with her & befriended her on all of her half truths & bs
Apparently there were roumors that just before skippys wedding they had fallen out and harry went on his own not expecting her to turn up. And by the same rou or he wasnt happy to see her.
I'd love to hear more about this part. Her showing up ininvited at the wedding and why they had split.
Yes, this was the time I heard she told him she was pregnant (only to get the relationship back "on" again)...and yes I wish we knew more about why they were "off" at that point.
I certainly get the "it's because she's American" nonsense. I'm from the UK but worked for the US forces overseas and I never found a single Markle among my American colleagues or indeed, anything close to it. However, I wonder if this perception of MM being the marker of cultural differences originated not with Harry or the royal staff, but MM herself?
The backstories I'm thinking of here are:
1) MM was difficult from the start, being beyond rude and abrasive not only to her own staff but also to those who worked for Catherine and for the Queen. The argument from MM's acolytes and spokesmen - some of whom were from the US - was that we Brits don't understand "American directness". It was as irritating for us as this "it's because she's American" is for Americans because it portrays us as a people so restricted by politeness that normal, direct speech sends us quivering into corners.
2)MM herself has spoken of the RF and Brits in general as being rather cold and formal, as if her tendency to want to touch and hug people is a cultural rather than a personal difference. In the "not many people have asked if I'm OK" interview she said that she had tried (oh how she tried!) the whole 'British stiff upper lip" stuff, couldn't do it and thought it was unhelpful anyway. Which it probably is if you're someone who falls to the floor weeping every half hour. Clearly MM can't make up her mind if being "direct" and refusing to "coddle" people (as she herself put it) is an "American thing" that we Brits can't handle, or if Americans can't handle Brits because they are formal, non-huggy people who trot about with permanently rigid upper lips.
Anyhow - there is more but suffice to say that it is at least possible that, when she heard any criticism, constructive or otherwise, she played the cultural difference card. I've worked with Americans so I know first-hand that her character traits are her own and nothing to do with cultural differences, but not every Brit and American has had that same benefit of spending hours every single day working alongside each other.
Lady C is especially guilty of throwing all Americans into the same bag of tricks as MM. Sometimes it's infuriating.
Well said. I’m American, and due to my job have spent 50% of my adult life outside of the US. Having spent so much time with the British, I can confidently state that there really aren’t many differences between our two cultures. So few in fact, that people must concentrate on language differences (which are mostly slang), and some culinary ones. Both cultures assume that sociological differences are cultural. They’re usually not. Bad, rude, crude, boorish, vulgar behavior is usually the same in all cultures, but especially in our two.
I believe that MM had been held to account in the past for her atrocious behavior, and entered her relationship with H prepared with an immediate excuse. “It’s an American thing”. “That’s a British thing”. But MM is NEVER well prepared. The majority of the Royal Family are not as unsophisticated as H, being very well travelled and having spent extensive time with Americans. I doubt they were fooled by her for longer than a single meeting. I strongly suspect they were against the relationship from the beginning, and also suspect that the obsessively besotted and naive Prince H threatened them if they dared to interfere with the relationship. Perhaps they felt he would learn a necessary lesson and it would be a short affair.
Regardless, the only cultural differences that I see are those embodied by a spoiled, naive, too protected Prince, in trying to live like a commoner in a celebrity obsessed culture, with a sociopathic wife.
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Excellent summation of why it went so wrong so fast!....and why the negative reaction to Harry and Meghan's behavior was initially so slow in gaining traction. Most of us, who may have been initially interested in the wedding, etc. thought Meghan seemed an interesting choice, and fine, and we didn't pay that much attention, being disinclined to be either "fans" nor "detractors". The ONLY thing that had seemed "off" to me was the wedding plan absence of Thomas Markle, but I just assumed that it was ill health, confusion, and?or complicated in a way I couldn't understand. It was being FLABBERGASTED by the Oprah interview, (when we were still partially marooned because of covid) that made me wonder "what in heaven's name", had happened!
Katherine is another level out on her own! William has always known he will be king and a king has to find his queen who will create the future of the monarchy. She has to be in a class of her own William knows how lucky he is to find Katherine and the country is very proud to have her represent the UK
Second time through. So very interesting after the events the last year! Thanks again. Love Traitor and the Mountbattens. 👏👏👍
Very astute observation. I think Diana wanted to be loved and wanted the attention and also needed the chaos or excitement. And as you say she really wasn’t able to look for peace. Harry seems to have some of the same issues.
Thanks for saying all the thing that I've been saying from the beginning. I knew from the engagement that she was trouble. She ran over him at every turn. After that it was all down hill. Also that smug grin at the wedding, also not curtsy ti The Queen when they left the church. She made me feel uneasy. This has been a great series. 😊
I knew she was trouble when I saw a picture of cuddling bananas which she put on her tig website when she bedded him. I shuddered, I knew then she was big trouble. I shuddered and thought Harry WHAT have you done.
Megaliar has no idea what the actual truth
Princess Catherine is 100 rungs up the ladder from the z lister and the Princess is a way better actor than megaliar ever will be
Valentine Lowe’s book ‘Courtiers’ goes into far greater detail about the abusive emails, etc. A common refrain was ‘do you know who I am?’, or threatening their employment. And she targeted the female staff. She screamed at the staff at the Australian Governor General’s Mansion during their tour, so much so that the Governor General & his wife had to request Meghan to speak to the staff with respect & dignity. One female staff member on a Friday night was receiving anger-fueled text messages from Meghan every 10-15 minutes, & was harassed throughout the weekend.
During the stay at the Governor General’s House in Australia, Harry & Meghan didn’t share a bedroom - they were fighting constantly with Harry yelling ‘Are you REALLY pregnant this time? In the latest court documents in one of his 40,000 court cases, part of Harry’s statement includes how he wanted to secure his choice media outlets for wedding coverage ‘before the wedding happens & the baby arrives’.
This was the info I needed!!!!!!!!!! Thank you!!!!!!!
As an absolute Daddy's girl, my heart breaks for her father. My Dad is a very plain, blue -collar, un-fancy person. But I would have proudly shown him to the Queen or anyone else, because you know what, he's *mine.* He worked his entire life to make sure my sisters and I had "more" , did "better", and were more "well-off" than he ever was, and I'd *CRUSH* anyone who said a wrong word about him. Meghan should be ashamed, but the more I learn of her, I realize, she doesn't even know *how* to feel that. Enjoying your read-through very much!
I don’t understand why Meg didn’t just pay her family to shut up. Even if she had been low on cash, you think she would have found it to avoid this disaster.
I don't get it either. I can tell the Markles aren't exactly moral people themselves so they'd most likely shut up for some quick cash. Mehgan is horrible & the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Meg only spends money on herself but it really would've helped her if she had paid them off.
Meghan definitely wants Harry and the world to think that he’s better now, because of her.
I have not watched their Netflix sitcom, but I have seen clips. And a hilarious one was some sort of phone therapy session, where they are meditating…and she is holding on to his leg…of course…and they both have their eyes closed…and she’s “crying”…
It’s like, she’s a master of manipulation. On a scary level.
I would feel sorry for Harry…but I can’t. Cause he royally sucks, too.
Yeah, he sucks and I have a feeling that he's always sucked! Let's give a big shout out to the British Royal PR machine that not only concealed his suckiness but managed to make him one of the most popular royals, at times surpassing the last QEII herself. 👏
The eye movement therapy is EMDR and can be very effective for many, however it’s part of a comprehensive therapy program, which never includes shrooms or weed. 😏
6:38: “Richard K was intoxicated by a woman who had to make her own way in the world and overcome its prejudices.”
Yeah…he MUST have been intoxicated to have believed any of that shite.
"Her own way" with the help of dad, Howie Mandel, Trevor, Hairy, Cory, Rory, Tory...