Making Her Want You Again

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @patriodiames9715
    @patriodiames9715 4 года назад +304

    When my ex dumped me 5 years ago, I was devastated. I feel like the pain wouldnt end, my ego was hurt and I loved her so much. Almost destroyed my life. This guy saved me. Whenever im sad and misses her, I watch a ton of his vid and even bought his book. Thanks Coach. You saved my life. I came out fine and is now living the life I dreamt of.
    That ex gf started begging me and tried to win me back and I dumped her.

    • @danh4435
      @danh4435 4 года назад +5

      Patrio Diames u shudda accepted her

    • @theresapeterson5337
      @theresapeterson5337 4 года назад +30

      @@danh4435 That's extremely unhealthy

    • @jamesarmstrong9042
      @jamesarmstrong9042 4 года назад +1

      Not gay, but your a good looking bloke... fuck her mate. I think im good looking... no woman ever gonna kill my confidence been dumped for ugly blokes no personality... and controlling. But if women want this type let em, bcs its not i u its them. They feel insecure with alpha males so go for boys

    • @SnakeCIA1
      @SnakeCIA1 3 года назад +3

      Nice!

    • @treeroofgrass
      @treeroofgrass 2 года назад

      Ah! Cool.

  • @StuntmenExtreme
    @StuntmenExtreme 7 лет назад +566

    got dumped, didn't fuck around, went to the gym starting day 1, never contacted still going, got the sleeve i always wanted started, booked backpacking trip to Australia, if its meant to be its meant to be

    • @r4ym1n13
      @r4ym1n13 7 лет назад +9

      StuntmenExtreme awesome !!!

    • @zobekguerrero1366
      @zobekguerrero1366 6 лет назад +25

      you go dad

    • @beaterofboredom9228
      @beaterofboredom9228 6 лет назад +18

      Holy fuck I did basically the exact same thing

    • @troytroy4191
      @troytroy4191 6 лет назад +11

      StuntmenExtreme bro. Good deal. Now thats what CHAMPIONS Do. Thanks very motivating for me to hear. Wow bro

    • @troytroy4191
      @troytroy4191 6 лет назад +8

      StuntmenExtreme bro. Good deal. Now thats what CHAMPIONS Do. Thanks very motivating for me to hear. Wow bro

  • @fdllicks
    @fdllicks 6 лет назад +730

    "chasing a woman with constant texts will lead to rejection every time. Why? Because you are acting like a woman."

    • @IWTBF
      @IWTBF 4 года назад +19

      fdllicks but she chased me with texts then she ghosted haha

    • @dressage4us
      @dressage4us 4 года назад +2

      really? wow! I dont do that!

    • @slyace1301
      @slyace1301 4 года назад +3

      @@IWTBF you probably didn't chase enough to keep her interested

    • @IWTBF
      @IWTBF 4 года назад +4

      Sly Ace true, i was very blunt lol but that’s the game isn’t it? Keep it simple, texts are for making dates not for talking how’s your day etc
      Perhaps that’s the problem, listening to these coach people when it doesn’t always play out like this.
      Too many guessing games and games in general

    • @slyace1301
      @slyace1301 4 года назад +2

      @@IWTBFYeah exactly, because of Corona i fucked it up. Texting is like a trap

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  12 лет назад +252

    Make a move when she's ripe for a kiss. Don't hesitate. Be Bold. Go for what you want without fear.

    • @nunyabizniss77
      @nunyabizniss77 5 лет назад +6

      I did this after 3 months of getting her nudes... She told her friends I creeped her out and got with a stranger right in front of me instead lol

    • @unknownuser3926
      @unknownuser3926 4 года назад +2

      The fact you described a woman as "ripe" is exactly the kind of creepy simp shit I'd expect someone like you to say lol.

    • @soulofachristian8704
      @soulofachristian8704 4 года назад +2

      I made this mistake, a girl obviously was all in my face ready for me to kiss her out in public, but I had the girly mentality "oh, its first time out alone with her, let me be a gentleman and wait like a dumb ass for the next time"..... next time never came
      (I did kiss her on the cheek tho, I guess that wasn't manly enough)

    • @soulofachristian8704
      @soulofachristian8704 4 года назад +5

      @@unknownuser3926

    • @Rileysuniques
      @Rileysuniques 4 года назад

      Hide the salami! Classic. :-)

  • @leandrolucato
    @leandrolucato 7 лет назад +420

    When we like a woman we tend to believe she's different and doesn't need to be treated like other girls: without being needy, being strong, etc. I guess because we idealize them, we think we and them have a special connection too soon (not always true to the woman), so we think they are supposed to be there for us putting up with any kind of behavior from us.

    • @AthosFranco1
      @AthosFranco1 5 лет назад +44

      So fucking true. I learned this the hard way. But i never did it again and i never will.

    • @eliezgheib8111
      @eliezgheib8111 5 лет назад +9

      Dude so on point..

    • @CharlesFerraro
      @CharlesFerraro 4 года назад +7

      Yeah wow what a great comment

    • @Jayahrdknocc134pl
      @Jayahrdknocc134pl 3 года назад +5

      Damn this is true just learned the hard way smh me and my girl broke up because of this exact same shit smh I don’t wanna lose this woman permanently because I love her she enhances unlike my previous ex’s I gotta work on myself and get my head right and give her space so she could do the same if I really love her that what I should do

    • @umar_shahzad
      @umar_shahzad 3 года назад +5

      @@Jayahrdknocc134pl just do nothing and focus on yourself

  • @capnthepeafarmer
    @capnthepeafarmer 10 лет назад +215

    Best quote ever, "it's like a mountain, it's always fucking there!"

    • @brandonf24
      @brandonf24 3 года назад

      Until Mountaintop Removal does the trick...despite thousands of years of erosion. 🤷

  • @clemdane
    @clemdane 10 лет назад +348

    That's why I hate Hollywood movies.

    • @riverplate0101
      @riverplate0101 9 лет назад +19

      Clemdane When I was a kid, I used to see the shit in those garbage movies and noticed that the girls just ended up walking all over you, and laughing at you, in your face. Then as I got older I simply realized that girls fuck alpha boys and they just keep the beta boy to pay her fucking cell phone bill. And beta got no ass what so ever. Realize and remember. Use your god given brainstem.

    • @Leit0
      @Leit0 9 лет назад +1

      Clemdane joollywood, if you know what i mean...

    • @dodopoopinpoop
      @dodopoopinpoop 7 лет назад +4

      Couldn't agree more. We need mandatory gender studies classes or relationship classes in high school ASAP! They can have some shit for *women* that teaches them how to tell men directly about their feelings, plus how to see the value of men, how to obviously tell if a guy just wants to fuck you and who's a good man their taking for granted. Also makes them not so fucking entitled all the time would be good among other things. I want that for them but we absolutely NEED something that shows *men how to be men in the modern times!*
      Thanks to mainstream news, movies, talk shows etc. where it is only the FEMALE pov or a PC fantasy. We have so many insecure pussys today that undeservedly end up alone or men who turn into molesters/rapists or men who commit suicide because they DON'T get women. No one in the mainstream teaching our boys even the basics and it's just not fair because no matter how fantastic you are if you don't know about this little guy Corey Wayne on the internet, lol you're fucked!
      If women didn't fuck around with men and actually teach men about female behavior they would be better off too!! Cause they are also losing their would be Mr. Right everyday!

    • @tubenachos
      @tubenachos 6 лет назад

      Clemdane Say Anything can kiss my ass

    • @frizela5161
      @frizela5161 6 лет назад

      Great video content! Apologies for butting in, I am interested in your opinion. Have you thought about - Mahorrla Bringback Her Method (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is an awesome one of a kind guide for getting your ex back fast without the hard work. Ive heard some great things about it and my friend at last got cool results with it.

  • @Respectthewilderness
    @Respectthewilderness 8 лет назад +307

    all this summes up to one thing. self confidence

    • @plug5192
      @plug5192 5 лет назад +12

      Pepe Vargas no all this sums up to get on your purpose

    • @wyattchiordi5132
      @wyattchiordi5132 3 года назад +5

      @@plug5192 * rubs hands together 🙏🏻 * whatever the case may be

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +128

    That is simply part of your story of limiting beliefs. Deep down you fear nothing will ever change for you. Therefore, you unconsciously look for reasons to justify why you should change nothing in your life for the better. If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll continue to get what you've always got. That's something to think about...

  • @biswaruprana1970
    @biswaruprana1970 7 лет назад +157

    This stuff should be in high school books for men.Love from India.

    • @gzpapoorv
      @gzpapoorv 6 лет назад +2

      Biswarup Rana🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

    • @lolzeez4186
      @lolzeez4186 4 года назад +1

      Legit! They teach us about math but not relationships when relationships rule our lives

    • @manisshthakur621
      @manisshthakur621 3 года назад

      Jai Hind Dosto 🇮🇳😂

    • @mahbubmurshedlikhon2452
      @mahbubmurshedlikhon2452 3 года назад

      Bollywood makes Indian and Bangladeshi man very emotional. I am from Bangladesh. Hello!!! My Indian bros ✌️✌️✌️

  • @AgeOfBile
    @AgeOfBile 9 лет назад +49

    Here's an epiphany I had recently: Why the fuck would I even want her to want me again? She dumped me, treated me like shit and is basically a liar and a user. Moving on. But, still good info.

    • @Alan-ip8tk
      @Alan-ip8tk 9 лет назад +8

      AgeOfBile no offence but i guess this video is for people who get dumped but didn't quite treated like shit i mean, lot of gfs break up with their bfs just becaise they lost feelings in them and their bf can't move on so they gotta follow steps like these and not playing the bicth in the relationship and crying and stuff, instead they should take full control of their lives and they might also get their ex back with lot of love and interest again in them

  • @rockn1677
    @rockn1677 10 лет назад +517

    I will say this, if a girl leaves you or breaks off the dating all because you called too much or made some mistake, then she wasn't that interested in you to begin with.Sometimes no amount of playing it cool or hanging back is gonna make her fall in love with you, I've done that and still lost them, ...... real talk!

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  10 лет назад +273

      come on man

    • @rockn1677
      @rockn1677 10 лет назад +48

      Coach Corey Wayne Well Corey it just demonstrates that the girl had low attraction & interest in the guy to begin with and the margin of error is smaller on guys like that.

    • @Payne01SS
      @Payne01SS 10 лет назад +52

      Rock N You ever look at a beautiful girl walk into a room with a guy and think, wtf is she doing with that dork? I think what Corey and others like him are saying is that if she doesn't seem that interested in you, then you failed to create that interest. I've watched enough videos now and read a couple of books to realize that the interest is created with most girls. If you fail at that, then it just appears she just wasn't that interested, but in reality you didn't follow the guidelines to getting in her head.
      Great video's Corey! I'm 35 and just finding out recently the psychology of women. Better late than never. lol

    • @rockn1677
      @rockn1677 10 лет назад +9

      Calin Borca Oh sure, I've seen several times a good looking girl be with some guy that I couldn't see what she saw in him because it went against everything we are taught as guys growing up, that you always have to be strong and handsome looking to get the beautiful girls but that' s not always the case. I do believe in what Corey teaches but also beware of alot of book writers out there just selling dreams to the average guy. For me, even if I have a high interest in a girl, I still don't call her no more than usually twice a week unless she has called me. I back up and see if she will call me without me soliciting her to do it. I have recently told a female friend of mine that got her heart broke from a guy she was crazy about. I told her to stop calling and sending messages and just see if he will respond back without her soliciting him because he also has to show that he cares for her but apparently he moved on to some other girl. Generally the young attractive girls aren't ready for commitments, so many of these guys aren't ''hooking up, hanging out and having fun'' like Corey instructs them to do, It' s true what you say that in some, you have to create an interest, these girls like the hard to get guy, they are more challenging, but also remember that their interest will be short lived the majority of the time.

    • @rockn1677
      @rockn1677 10 лет назад +18

      Jay Smirh I've been following Corey for over 2 years now, he learned alot of his stuff through Doc Love, and even Doc Love say's to always be gauging the interest level of a girl as Corey does. Their interest level will fluctuate and in the beginning, she may have had high interest but yeah, a guy can turn off a girl with the over calling stuff, no doubt but all you can do at that point is back off and that still doesn't guarantee you anything with her. Corey even say's that your best effort still may fall short. Hang out, hook up and have fun, is that not what we are supposed to do? Don't worry about the relationship stuff, they will let you know when or if they are ready for that with you. That's Corey's coaching advice, am I not right?

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 7 лет назад +10

    I love how honest you are with your audience. No false promises, no manipulation, just straight to the point SELF LOVE AND RESPECT.

  • @jerryjones2054
    @jerryjones2054 4 года назад +14

    If you walk away and she really cares for you, trust that the Corey Wayne way works, it did for me! My gf is back and dating me again after a several months of STRICTLY adhering to Corey's advice.

    • @Redemption203
      @Redemption203 3 года назад +2

      so happy for u

    • @tanicwhisper0647
      @tanicwhisper0647 10 месяцев назад +2

      Thats so dope bro. My Ex Fiance and I dated for 6 years, and just split up over 4 months ago. She contacted me on the 3rd of Jan after months of no contact. She told me she’d be coming to town. Sure enough she came, I followed what Corey says about Hangout, have fun, have sex. We ended up hooking up 3 times and she slept over.
      Now I am waiting for her to reach out again. I really want a relationship with her, and so badly want to text her first, but I already know that once I do that. I fuck up all the hard work I put in. In the end I want this girl to want me more than I want her. It’ll feel like real love again.

  • @NateflexOmega
    @NateflexOmega 9 лет назад +88

    I'm currently getting my ex back and it's working because of you I already set up a date. There are times where I feel the need to text her just to text her but you motivate me to stay strong you're the fucking man

    • @leonak7654
      @leonak7654 3 года назад +3

      Any update?

    • @Redemption203
      @Redemption203 3 года назад +5

      @@leonak7654 lol that was 6 years ago

    • @leonak7654
      @leonak7654 3 года назад +2

      @@Redemption203 haha

    • @bennyblanco6704
      @bennyblanco6704 3 года назад

      Same situation here bro

    • @johann8686
      @johann8686 2 года назад +2

      @@leonak7654 they always come back!

  • @MotorCityPlayer
    @MotorCityPlayer 10 лет назад +428

    So he drops some F bombs. He's talking to MEN. Not women. I work on heavy construction sites and I hear worse language.
    If you can't handle the language then buy a Cosmo and get a pedicure.

    • @white_african_9731
      @white_african_9731 7 лет назад +20

      i like that fact that he drops them.

    • @Dynamictrioiii
      @Dynamictrioiii 5 лет назад +12

      I’m a woman and I don’t mind at all. I love his videos!

    • @pierredilecto3516
      @pierredilecto3516 4 года назад

      Right. At first I heard his f bombs. And I thought why does he have to do that. But he cracks me up with it. Then he said hide the salami. Haha. The mountain analogy is perfect.

    • @shaurya5603
      @shaurya5603 4 года назад +1

      i am a high schooler and i hear worse lol

    • @theresapeterson5337
      @theresapeterson5337 4 года назад +1

      So are you saying women are too overly sensitive to cussing? I don't think so haha

  • @devs3485
    @devs3485 7 лет назад +26

    The mountain means self confidence, if you look good and feel great about yourself that's 90% the rest is common sense and self control ....Self realization you're not perfect so don't expect perfection from someone else...if you treat someone with love and respect and you're not getting the same basically they're taking you for granted...it's time to move and never look back....I highly recommend working out ....I just did and I feel amazing

  • @Horatio_Jones
    @Horatio_Jones 9 лет назад +90

    One of your most powerful and useful videos coach. This one is a real game changer as far as mentality. I am currently winning my girl back because of your guidance. I have your book and am on my first of many reads. Being her mountain is a way of looking at things that really helps. She is pursuing me again coach. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    • @wwekraze111
      @wwekraze111 9 лет назад +2

      Did you get her back?

    • @Horatio_Jones
      @Horatio_Jones 9 лет назад +2

      I've been on no contact since September. I'll reach out to her in February maybe

    • @wwekraze111
      @wwekraze111 9 лет назад

      +Zachary Craft aw man i feel for you how do you feel can you update us?

    • @Horatio_Jones
      @Horatio_Jones 9 лет назад +1

      Im just chillin. Im over the whole thing emotionally so im in a better place. I might hit her up in a few months to see how she has been

    • @checksoverstripes2498
      @checksoverstripes2498 7 лет назад +1

      Zachary Craft any update?

  • @felipecard7761
    @felipecard7761 8 лет назад +109

    I read the book and made all the mistakes lol wish I could have found coach Wayne a year ago

    • @awongabroad5520
      @awongabroad5520 8 лет назад +4

      Felipe card hindsight is a funny thing my friend

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 12 дней назад +1

    *Women are drawn to men who are constantly evolving, whether it’s in their career, health, or mindset. When you become the best version of yourself, it shows her you can offer something even better than before. Actions speak louder than words, so let your progress do the talking.*

  • @TheBounceBack1996
    @TheBounceBack1996 5 лет назад +12

    CW you are G.O.A.T. I went down the whole pick up artist road for a little and while I got a little success it never felt natural to me. After reading your book it all makes much more sense now and I am getting the results I’ve always wanted both in dating and in life. Your work is amazing sir. Thank you

  • @cocodeville72
    @cocodeville72 8 лет назад +39

    I totally get the whole 'be mysterious' thing, but too much of it and it's either noticed that you're playing a game or you're truly hiding something. That's when I totally lose interest.

    • @erictaylor1770
      @erictaylor1770 8 лет назад +11

      Sound like you're the type of girl. That it don't take much for you to lose interest! Theres a word for that it's called a female player"

    • @erictaylor1770
      @erictaylor1770 8 лет назад +1

      Afonso de Portugal Ya bud"

    • @KiKi-te9yd
      @KiKi-te9yd 6 лет назад

      @@girlofthealpines yes! Exactly.

    • @davidfreitas8192
      @davidfreitas8192 6 лет назад

      lol

    • @gaven2705528
      @gaven2705528 4 года назад

      @@girlofthealpines -_- thank you for being honest. This is how I feel, I know what I want out of a relationship and being open and honest about it always seems to push women away. I hate it, all I want out of dating is to find a relationship that lasts for a lifetime and leads to marriage and children.

  • @glennmoonjr
    @glennmoonjr 8 лет назад +97

    I love the mountain analogy. I share it with my friends all the time when they are having trouble. Of course I give you your due credit, Coach. Thank you for all your help.

    • @brandonf24
      @brandonf24 3 года назад

      Guess you're not familiar with erosion. 😅 Or MTR mining.

  • @robertb.4202
    @robertb.4202 Год назад +9

    It is unbelievable when you learn that it's actually women who prefer to chase. Why in the hell have we been sold all of these lies about men chasing?

  • @treygiuffre3110
    @treygiuffre3110 7 лет назад +13

    Corey we need a video on the balance between being cold and distant and giving her attention

  • @UhtredOfBamburgh
    @UhtredOfBamburgh 7 лет назад +592

    This guy looks like Deadpool.

  • @ariffadam5611
    @ariffadam5611 7 лет назад +285

    If a woman wants you ...
    she wants you.

    • @merttar4935
      @merttar4935 5 лет назад +14

      oh really?

    • @tgm1379-kh5pj
      @tgm1379-kh5pj 5 лет назад +6

      @seahawks4life true!

    • @pushat2841
      @pushat2841 5 лет назад +5

      seahawks4life many fish in sea who cares

    • @jhonjohnjonjondoe5011
      @jhonjohnjonjondoe5011 5 лет назад +3

      @seahawks4life I think you meant fickel

    • @fargeeks
      @fargeeks 4 года назад +2

      Yeah i had a lady tell me that
      As she has a boyfriend and a child together with him

  • @Qqxx22
    @Qqxx22 7 лет назад +14

    Thank you Coach for telling it how it is. You are helping me get through a really rough break up and have given me hope for the future. Ive learned a lot and I haven’t even finished your book yet. Reading it like the Bible. [and intend to read 10 to 15 Times] From the bottom of my heart thank you.

  • @gtcam723
    @gtcam723 3 года назад +9

    What I love is when she says she wants tp be friends (several times over several weeks) but then doesn’t make any movement towards a friendship. Even early in there was none of the usual friendzone behavior. One of the strangest situations I’ve ever experienced. But I can tell you I overpursued early on. But then I think Coach could guess that lol

  • @flowtactical6707
    @flowtactical6707 5 лет назад +2

    Haven't seen my wife or son for almost 5 years. There is Dramatic history, but I Moved across the country to focus on making life better and my only dream now is to come face to face with my son and her again. Thanks this makes me feel more knowledgeable

  • @jamesjeremiah27
    @jamesjeremiah27 11 лет назад +29

    I like the suggestion...come over n we can spoon awhile and see what pops up...

  • @traskk.official9890
    @traskk.official9890 6 лет назад +4

    I fucking love this dude... No BS. No big PUA words. No "Buy my 500$ product to learn the good stuff"
    Thanks brother.

  • @utrabbit007
    @utrabbit007 6 лет назад +6

    You are spot on Corey. I look it at it also in a concept which i refer to as Level matching; level matching in terms of effort, communications and words. When the wind comes to the mountain it is necessary to level match what the woman is needing. With my woman it is necessary to read between the lines and understand the level of her needs in terms of how much communication, love, affection, attention she is needing at any given point in time (which can change from time to time, sometimes changing even during a particular day). Women do not want to feel neglected but they also do not want to feel smothered. Level matching is a process of validating her feelings and what she needs. She will guide and show what she is needing. So when she reaches out and I validate what she is feeling by returning a similar level of effort, it gives her the reassurance that what she is feeling is correct and then this gives her the reassurance to progress to the next level or step. When i see what she needs i level match that and i dont give her less than what she needs or more than what she needs because less or more than what she needs will fragment the emotions of what she is feeling, she just needs simple validation that what she has been feeling is correct and it makes her feel good about what she is feeling and where we are in our relationship at any given point in time. So your mountain and wind analogy is spot on, wait for the wind to come to the mountain and when she does you need to instantly understand the level of what she needs and then validate what she feels and that simply makes her feel good. (sometimes i initiate and go to her when i know she is more in need). This gives myself absolute stability cause i sit back and wait for the wind and then behave like the mountain by level matching and validating, which makes her feel good, but not smothered or neglected, which gives her stability but still keeps her interest and her chasing and working for the relationship. This makes it a simple smooth and consistent process, and creates stability for both. The trick is reading between the lines to determine the level of words, attention and effort she is needing to be validated when she reaches out. Sounds complicated but it is in fact really simple. (there is also an element of needing to think in the back of your mind that you are not afraid to lose her, truly having this thought comes across and keeps her interest in you, and i love my woman dearly with all my heart but i know this is the only way to win the truly feminine women that i am in love with).
    When she is being sweet, level match and show a little more to her.
    When she is being quiet and distant give her space to miss you, wonder and come back to you.
    This is what a real feminine woman needs.

  • @boitagilid
    @boitagilid 8 лет назад +133

    Shit, That Father-Daughter bonding is real, I laughed so hard,. lol

  • @frankmazzie4855
    @frankmazzie4855 5 лет назад +6

    Dont ever never! Compromise your principles ,for a woman

  • @anonymousguy7161
    @anonymousguy7161 7 лет назад +14

    My woman told me the other day that I was her man and her rock, after she had been moody and cold because of some issues she was going thru, and I basically let her do her thing and let her know I was there when she needed me and didn't let her moodiness get me upset. What you say is 100% truth! Or as Morissa Tomei says in My Cousin Vinny "Dead on balls accurate"

  • @Paulclansas
    @Paulclansas 11 лет назад +8

    i can't believe that this really works, she called me and wanted to see me

  • @ges4206
    @ges4206 7 лет назад +34

    Be THE MOUNTAIN. Literally the guy from Iceland in Game of Thrones

  • @JPskylister
    @JPskylister 7 лет назад +61

    I am in a relationship with this awesome girl for 4 months now, but I have pretty much made every mistake I could have made dating her. I've been extremely insecure, controlling, didn't show much initiative so she has all the power, did a lot of unnecessary texting, I was clingy, and the list goes on. I think it's almost sad but funny in a way actually. Tomorrow we're seeing each other because she said we ''need to talk''. All of these videos are extremely useful, not only did they help me prepare for what is to come but I already have a plan for ''re-attracting'' her so to speak. These videos also make me feel optimistic because they make me see this huge failure as a great source to learn from, it is my first relationship after all. I will post an update on the situation here later

    • @JPskylister
      @JPskylister 7 лет назад +13

      Well... Time to buy your book

    • @jo5242
      @jo5242 7 лет назад +1

      Jean-Paul what happen

    • @JPskylister
      @JPskylister 7 лет назад +28

      Got dumped

    • @jo5242
      @jo5242 7 лет назад +2

      same my gf said she isnt sure she likes me. its hard

    • @SBoundless
      @SBoundless 6 лет назад +2

      @@jo5242 Don't even stress it. You got this, practice what Corey preaches and you'll be golden

  • @beaterofboredom9228
    @beaterofboredom9228 6 лет назад +20

    I literally just fucking got dumped first thing I search coach Corey Wayne

  • @romesrepublic
    @romesrepublic 4 года назад +1

    Basically, reward positive behavior. If she does something you like, let her know and reward her for it. That way she keeps doing it. Just make sure she earns EVERYTHING. If she reaches out, set something up. If she doesn't, ignore her.

  • @jrivera8678
    @jrivera8678 6 лет назад +5

    Thanks to you I have another chance with my ex. Followed your advice and came back. It was an awesome experience seeing your advice work. Thanks!

  • @dongshalong6096
    @dongshalong6096 8 лет назад +9

    love the fact that most guys are clueless!! yes Corey!!

  • @oldenglishsheepdogfun5960
    @oldenglishsheepdogfun5960 6 лет назад +3

    Wow what a great description. How wonderful to meet a man that’s a mountain and able to be your rock. That’s definitely something women like. The hunter gatherer... hard to find though.

  • @EnFyr
    @EnFyr 4 года назад +1

    This bald headed bastard actually knows what he’s talking about. Sorry for mentioning your stylistic choice Corey.
    I’ve not read your book yet, but even by watching your videos you have helped my relationship during difficult times.
    It’s actually amazing how well this works and it’s made me reconsider my whole approach regarding my girlfriend. Just by making some few adjustments with my demeanor those terrible arguments we used to have suddenly takes another turn and we are able to communicate again.
    It used to be her being disrespectful and condescending towards me, but now she is sweet and respectful.
    All it took was for me to be clear with her about what i will and won’t tolerate, and to tell her this in a loving but direct way. (With some humor) ;)
    I still got a long way to go before i become the man that i wish to be, but this guy has brought me on the right track.
    I will definitely read your books now!
    And thank you Corey! I believe you might have saved our relationship. But you definitely brought the sparks back! ❤️

  • @tedhibbard6320
    @tedhibbard6320 6 лет назад

    My girlfriend is crazy and your videos helped me get back to my center and avoid a lot of pain.It might be time to move on and i can do it now.She gets one last chance with me but she cant use me or doormat ever again.She got the deer in front of headlight look going on .Yippy Yahoo.Yes i can deal with a nut case now.But in truth when its good ,its great ,but when its bad, its just plain hell.A toxic relationship can be kick ass fun if your on top of your phycology.

  • @johncena6701
    @johncena6701 8 лет назад +260

    Corey is a SAVAGE. He's all about setting up for sex lol

    • @TheRussianWookie
      @TheRussianWookie 8 лет назад +45

      ALPHA

    • @daver1161
      @daver1161 7 лет назад +30

      Women love getting dick... It's only natural..

    • @BlightBreedOfficial
      @BlightBreedOfficial 7 лет назад +24

      He’s about that because most of the time sex creates strong emotional bonds.

    • @davidmcgrew3837
      @davidmcgrew3837 7 лет назад +8

      That's why this is geared toward men....

    • @stephaniegraham1077
      @stephaniegraham1077 6 лет назад

      This methods that helps me to get my ex back…This program is both for male and females.. I would recommend it to anyone. Good luck guys. ….Please visit here *MyExLove. info*

  • @edwardgreller
    @edwardgreller 8 лет назад +151

    When you pour a MOUNTAIN in a cup, it becomes a MOUNTAIN. When you pour a MOUNTAIN in a bottle, it becomes the MOUNTAIN. When you pour a MOUNTAIN in a teapot, it becomes the MOUNTAIN. The wind can blow but the MOUNTAIN is always fucking there. Become a MOUNTAIN my friend! LOL

  • @agee7777
    @agee7777 5 лет назад +15

    sometimes they are dating other guys so you just have to sit back wait and hope the other guy doesnt watch these videos.

    • @IWTBF
      @IWTBF 5 лет назад

      Adam G that’s true. I mean how many dates / weeks would it be right to bring up exclusivity? Do all men really try to dodge it for as long as possible?

    • @agee7777
      @agee7777 5 лет назад

      @@IWTBF ive never had a conversation in my life about being exclusive, it just happens.

    • @IWTBF
      @IWTBF 5 лет назад +1

      Adam G
      you mean over time?
      How does one go from dating to a relationship then?
      Well my friend was ‘seeing’ a girl for over a year, she kept asking him what’s going on. He managed to string it out that long as he didn’t want exclusivity.
      I’d rather just be open about it

    • @agee7777
      @agee7777 5 лет назад

      @@IWTBF ye over time...you sort of both know without having to say. ive never had a girl push or even ask me for it. ive had them hint at marriage though.

    • @Thefishingcaddy
      @Thefishingcaddy 4 года назад

      So while your ignoring her another dude is gaining traction. I’d rather blown it up or get together no wasted time.

  • @griff4899
    @griff4899 2 года назад +2

    One of the most influential people in my life and I've never even met you haha. Been following since 2017.

  • @joemanifesto8742
    @joemanifesto8742 4 года назад +2

    Corey rules! I'm finally starting to get it. I never even considered the concept of balance between no contact, and her reaching out the first time . It literally happened while I was watching this video. She emailed me because I had blocked her number. I would call it a passive reach out that looked like she wanted to engage in a fight. I calmly thanked her for reaching out and I've never felt better about a reply

    • @vickantonia5713
      @vickantonia5713 4 года назад

      Mr osekhametalor He can recover your relationship back Whtasapp him

    • @vickantonia5713
      @vickantonia5713 4 года назад

      +(234905:5574:944

  • @NewyJon7787
    @NewyJon7787 7 месяцев назад +1

    You changed my life, for the better.

  • @NickPeitsch
    @NickPeitsch 3 года назад +7

    “You don’t see the f***ing mountain chasing the wind” LOL

  • @MyDreamside
    @MyDreamside 6 лет назад +19

    the sad part is that we men are human beings, we cant be rocks, we have feelings and we need affection, i cant be that guy, i want to be myself

    • @risky_anon1730
      @risky_anon1730 6 лет назад +3

      MyDreamside don’t do it bro it’ll just get you hurt trust ms

  • @dogsevenfive
    @dogsevenfive 9 лет назад +8

    hey coach, i love your videos. they've made me feel better after getting dumped by my long time girlfriend for another guy. your advice is spot on and you're a fuckin solid example of how a man should be. keep being a rockstar.

    • @Sockem1223
      @Sockem1223 7 месяцев назад +1

      You get her back?

    • @dogsevenfive
      @dogsevenfive 7 месяцев назад

      @@Sockem1223 After the initial heartbreak, I decided my self respect was worth more than this girl who left for another guy. Just took time for reason to override emotion.

  • @PhilLaird
    @PhilLaird 7 лет назад +15

    I'm in this exact situation and to make things worse, we're in a long distance relationship. Ignoring the girl is what most of us all know to do but it's extremely hard to do emotionally but very simple. Deep down we know what we need to do but then that animal part of our brains kick in and usually gains control.

    • @thommygunn19
      @thommygunn19 5 лет назад

      Did everything work out again bro?

    • @Thefishingcaddy
      @Thefishingcaddy 4 года назад +1

      Bad advice when you ignore them they connect with another man. Never not connect, you should stay in her mind to some extent.

    • @saks5thave.687
      @saks5thave.687 2 года назад

      @@Thefishingcaddy bro women are too much.

  • @blackdarkdarkerbleach7100
    @blackdarkdarkerbleach7100 4 года назад +5

    A girl used to be clingy with me, now that I am attached to her, she just runs away and I keep chasing her. Now she talks to other guys as well. How do I not be needy?

    • @melonlord2389
      @melonlord2389 4 года назад +1

      Do what she does and talk to other girls. That ought to keep you busy and make her jealous.
      If you're awesome, she'll regret running away and text you. If you're not and she never texts you, then you'd still have backup of girls who may think otherwise.

  • @mohamedbah5459
    @mohamedbah5459 8 лет назад +8

    I like the way this guy explain for real. It is changing the bad live i was. Also it is giving me more important key ideas and energy how to communicate with a girl and everybody. Always believe in yourself.👍👍👍💪💪💪

  • @vivavegas9538
    @vivavegas9538 6 лет назад +1

    This guy is the shit....he has it figured out...you have helped me sir.....thank you....

  • @donwun4960
    @donwun4960 4 года назад +1

    Coach your the best!!!! What I’ve learned about you that you’ve mastered so well is the “3Cs” You are cool, calm & collective.

  • @liljohn13243546
    @liljohn13243546 5 лет назад

    Honestly coach Corey’s style of coaching is a little off putting and gruff at first. But the more I explore the ex back/relationship advice rabbit hole, I realize that his advice is the most genuine. Take care of your shit, be a man, and the girl you DESERVE will find her way to you. Don’t ever lower your standards or expectations for the comfort of an old relationship/feeling. Love this dude

  • @jacobbailin4406
    @jacobbailin4406 6 лет назад

    Where else can you find such valuable content about understanding oneself and relationships than with Coach Corey Wayne?

  • @cjpatz
    @cjpatz 9 лет назад +36

    Aren't women watching those same movies and expecting to he same things then?

    • @erwingray7118
      @erwingray7118 9 лет назад +37

      +Clint Patac yes, but his (the coach's) point is that sub-consciously, women do things based on their biology in real life, and not based on movies.

    • @gustavogomez7331
      @gustavogomez7331 7 лет назад +3

      Clint Patac yea. I think they probably do shit based on those movies but also and sometimes more based on their biological instincts .

    • @SBoundless
      @SBoundless 6 лет назад +1

      They watch the same movies and THINK that's what they want because of how things are in the end of the story, but when a guy does it to them in real life it's a big turn off. But a lot of women they will forever think that's what they want not knowing what they actually respond too.

    • @devilisbackk
      @devilisbackk 5 лет назад

      Dont forget that 90% women watching here and setting up their strategies accordingly.... so u wil have different challenges all the time and throughout life..... its a game bro... either win or u lose.... no heartbreaks :)

  • @ShuffleboardJerk
    @ShuffleboardJerk 4 года назад +2

    Thank you. One day she will love me again, or I’ll make sure I’m the last person she ever sees.

  • @saymoremccalman4974
    @saymoremccalman4974 5 лет назад +2

    She called me her rock. I know COACH COREY'S knowledge,advice, and wisdom works.

  • @kylelambe726
    @kylelambe726 4 года назад

    i love how he's so real about how he goes about it

  • @titaniummenandmasculinity5603
    @titaniummenandmasculinity5603 5 лет назад +1

    Solid advice. If you blend the great content in Corey Waynes book and combine it with a lot of the red pill audio books out there, womens nature becomes a lot more readable/predictable. In the majority of cases though, when a relationship ends, its best left behind. That feeling when you meet a new woman and lightning strikes....Wow! Corey mentions how internally tough you get through life lessons, agree 100%

  • @thefnaffan2
    @thefnaffan2 5 лет назад +4

    Brilliant analogy of the mountain and the weather.

    • @ComfyTV
      @ComfyTV 5 лет назад +1

      Yeah dude that shit got me trippin. Such a good analogy

    • @thefnaffan2
      @thefnaffan2 4 года назад

      @@ComfyTV agreed

  • @pantera29palms
    @pantera29palms 6 лет назад +4

    Never forget...women act on emotion...men (are supposed to) act on logic. Never act on emotion if you're a man.

  • @CactusJack_AWE
    @CactusJack_AWE 5 лет назад +12

    😂😂🤙🏻 “I’ve got something for you, and it’s big and it’s round and it’s not a quarter!”

  • @cemeterywind6082
    @cemeterywind6082 4 года назад

    What sucks is when you're the rebound/self- esteem boost after she was dumped.
    Live. Learn.

  • @learnwithraye3549
    @learnwithraye3549 5 лет назад +3

    Hey Corey. I like this mountain/nature analogy. Totally awesome! Makes all-round sense!

  • @splashcat3090
    @splashcat3090 10 лет назад +7

    In nature the female gives the go ahead but the male is the pursuer.

    • @TobyWanKenobiTWK
      @TobyWanKenobiTWK 9 лет назад +4

      splashcat the male will pursue when initiating certain point! for example its the male thing to do to approach the woman, ask her on dates, ask her to be with you, ask for her hand and of course initiate sex with the exception of when they are already in the mood!

    • @tonymarcuscassani9465
      @tonymarcuscassani9465 7 лет назад +2

      I get what you mean but, I find "asking" for things not very masculine or dominant, I've never asked for sex or time together, you state what you want to her, many times it simply happens naturally mainly with looks and body language, the touching etc... Much less but there are women who do take initiative too, and yet, they still have the last word sometimes, not always though.

  • @gorillagirlgorilla
    @gorillagirlgorilla 5 лет назад

    As soon as he started dropping the F BOMBS..... I subscribed.
    This guy is awesome.

  • @davidm2823
    @davidm2823 8 лет назад +3

    You the Man Coach. I just ordered your book and can't wait to apply what you teach

  • @jer4532
    @jer4532 8 лет назад +8

    Dude your the best I have lisend to love the way you put everything!

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  12 лет назад +4

    She sounds real mature. Read my book to learn the basics.

  • @JohnLHume
    @JohnLHume 9 лет назад +21

    Got it, be the fuckin mountain!

  • @white_african_9731
    @white_african_9731 7 лет назад +2

    i'd like a miniture Coach Corey too put in my pocket and carry around, advice on the go ! never make the same mistake.

  • @AR2D76
    @AR2D76 8 лет назад +121

    Doesn't the wind erode mountains over time😅

    • @robertulmer5886
      @robertulmer5886 5 лет назад +6

      Wind = time you age

    • @josebarreto7360
      @josebarreto7360 5 лет назад +6

      Yeah but it never moves

    • @raywideman7157
      @raywideman7157 4 года назад

      Jose Barreto Sure it moves. It moves a piece at a time. Its just subtle, but constant, before you know it, it’s a hill not a mountain anymore. Or a canyon...

    • @stormfalcon72
      @stormfalcon72 4 года назад

      AR2D76 The wind caresses the peaks 😁

    • @rodgallardy
      @rodgallardy 4 года назад

      stormfalcon72 They rise again by plate tectonics!! 💪

  • @youngrozay3576
    @youngrozay3576 3 года назад

    That mountain vs Mother Nature analogy is so fu*king great. Thank God for you Coach 🤙🏼😂

  • @baldheaddatingjerk5301
    @baldheaddatingjerk5301 9 лет назад +14

    It all boils down to winning that fucking lottery. Afterwards, bitches be like "WHOOOW".

    • @Ryan999tx
      @Ryan999tx 7 лет назад +1

      If i I had a buck for every chick that thought I was attractive, they would soon find me attractive

  • @ertwro
    @ertwro 3 года назад +1

    I became an asshole, tried to rush things. Dumped her. Regretted it, pursued what I had just to find out she wanted nothing to do with me to the point she blocked me on social media. I really should have read fully the damn book. Now all I can do is get busy with my purpose and hope for some luck and a second chance.

  • @bshillings2228
    @bshillings2228 6 лет назад +3

    so my wife left me about a week ago. we have 2 kids. I'm a great dad and do what I need to for my family. my wife has severe postpartum depression after our youngest was born (under a year). this first week has been rough because the reason she said she was leaving is because she doesn't feel the same physical spark as before (also in the best shape of my life). but I know it's a bit more complicated than that. I've been acting like the woman the last week instead of being the rock I need to be texting wondering why she is doing this and blah blah blah. I know now after some research that I was trying to approach her issues and solve them instead of letting her come to me for help. going to apply this advise and see how it helps my mariage. will keep you posted.

  • @toshioFX
    @toshioFX 8 лет назад +1

    awesome advice coach..most of your videos have the same central theme but its necessary to drive home the message and make it stay there..like A said, excellence after all is not a single act, but a habit..

  • @ryanbishop3343
    @ryanbishop3343 6 лет назад +9

    Man thank you. I never had anyone in my life to tell me these things. I'm in a relationship with a woman that I have wanted for years because things never lined up. I don't want to lose her. It's weird but I just know. Thing is I'm running around like a dumbass because I literally don't have a clue what to do

    • @gurgamous
      @gurgamous 3 года назад

      hope it worked out for you, buddy

  • @jaydencruz336
    @jaydencruz336 7 лет назад +3

    oh my god how are you not more famous this is fucking gold😂😂

  • @gregthompson9434
    @gregthompson9434 5 лет назад +1

    Never go back , Move on

  • @motox1035
    @motox1035 6 лет назад

    It's a shame I didn't read your book or see your RUclips years ago. It's sickening how many beautiful women I've chased away because I didn't understand where they were coming from.

  • @gafurashurov8511
    @gafurashurov8511 8 лет назад +1

    You are my hero coach Corey since I watched your videos and read your book everything make sense I'm definitely gonna read it again and again till I master it thanks again

  • @stephenherrington3549
    @stephenherrington3549 4 года назад

    Absolutely everything you did to get my attention. Be interested in me. Act like I’m the only woman you see. If I’m not the only one you want, I don’t want you to want me at all."
    That's what my girlfriend told me to do... In her own words.

    • @stephenherrington3549
      @stephenherrington3549 2 года назад +2

      @Eternally Resilient so pretty much just always do the opposite of what they say and I should be good then?

  • @rationalities
    @rationalities 4 года назад +1

    i fucked up in my relationship, i was neglectful and a dick at times. im only human, i make mistakes. if she doesnt want to work things out, fuck it. im working towards myself now. hope she finds out she lost someone who truly loved her.

  • @ThePoolchampion
    @ThePoolchampion 7 лет назад +3

    I randomly saw my ex today after 4 weeks of no contact.! I was doing just fine actually. We Didn't talk much tbh just couldn't resist her and suddenly made out. Wow what a day thanks coach you are a legend this man knows he's shit. Things seem new, exciting and fresh again so I'm just gonna roll with it.

  • @fruitloops3718
    @fruitloops3718 4 года назад

    I was really lucky my dad was alpha to the extreme. He was a great example on how to treat women but alphas are or were horrible for raising kids. I know I get it we all have our faults but it's great to know that what you are teaching really works and reinforced the knowledge I already had as opposed to the beta training I received from Hollywood.

    • @vickantonia5713
      @vickantonia5713 4 года назад

      Mr osekhametalor He can recover your relationship back Whtasapp him

    • @vickantonia5713
      @vickantonia5713 4 года назад

      +(234905:5574:944

  • @pond9200
    @pond9200 8 месяцев назад

    I am a woman and I listened to this and nodded on every sentence he said. Not every man gets it obviously.

  • @matts6287
    @matts6287 4 года назад

    I’ve watched so many of his videos but I think this is my favorite

  • @kabelomokoena8759
    @kabelomokoena8759 2 года назад

    I’m in the process of getting my girl back, by just cheeling and waiting for her to come back haha. Corey you’re a genius.

  • @elliottking3357
    @elliottking3357 7 лет назад +2

    Ended up meeting a girl I have always had feelings for, I travelled to her place in Liverpool from Leicester. I've never made this mistake before I'm normally calm and reserved but I couldn't contain my emotions. I'm going through this she even brought up I came on too strong and I plan to get myself straight and try again I hope this works thankyou

  • @jon_13
    @jon_13 2 года назад

    MAN THIS IS BRILLIANT

  • @drbilldc
    @drbilldc 6 лет назад +2

    The video was just ending and she texted me!
    “Hey”
    I’ll let it bake for an hour-45 minutes then text her back.... asked her out last night, she already had plans with her new boyfriend.
    Last night around 7:00 I texted the famous. “That’s great! If your circumstances ever change, get ahold of me”
    Here it is 11:00AM the next day. 😂