I disagree. Nothing wrong with being friends. Too many people have a black or white view on this. If you are friends with her then start dating someone just as attractive(or more so)than she is and she will get jealous and kick herself for dumping you especially if it works out with the other chick. That to me is more interesting than just kicking her to the curb.
Nice really like your comment there, reminds me of a similar phrase my Father told me recently, "start as your means to carry on" really made sense to me personally Basically translates as start at the level your able nd willing to meet ongoing as your daily standard, not less not more.
Thank you Coach, 4 years ago you changed my life. I owe everything since then to your work and lessons. I've now started a RUclips channel helping single dads like you've helped.
omg being able to submit to a man is such a gift these femanazis hating on submission just dont know how wonderful it is!!! submission to a worthy man is beautiful and amazing
MaryWarner i just think if a man treats a woman properly, does not belittle her, is assertive not aggressive andvgains her trust and respect he will have women taking more of a submitting stance
feminine flower I wish I could find a man that I thought was strong enough..a man who's opinion I'd trust...a man I'd want to submit to. I really like your comment btw...I've just established that a man actually wants to feel like a man in a relationship and I'm working on being able to let myself trust instead of trying to control and dominate every single thing.(gets quite tiring) it's a bit of a challenge though..I'm 25 the eldest of 2 sister's(legally in my custody) with a Looney Toon mother who's gone and none of us had a father or a father figure. Did I hear someone say daddy issues?? lolol WORKING ON IT!!
Corey I love your stories and advise! I'm a recently separated "rookie" in your "fight club" but as I read your books and watch your videos I have started implementing your strategies and advise and they really work, thanks so much for helping open my eyes?
AMS Brought me here. Shout out to the men looking for a wife. “He who findeth a wife, findeth a good thing.”. You’re the real MVP. Confidence and respect for yourself and others is the key.
Coach Corey Wayne in today’s language you are teaching men to not be A simp . I use to be one . Not anymore. Put God First then work on yourself emotionally, spiritually , and financially. Don’t forget physically. Last year I got myself in the gym and lost 50 pounds . I’m married and not looking but many women have noticed my weight loss . This is another way to flip the game. This is not an excuse to be A player but if you want better in life you have become A better strong person. Be nice to everyone but set your boundaries and stick to them .
I might suggest you didn't "train" women to treat you that way. The mutual Codependency was the attraction. Histrionic behavior from women and controlling narcissistic behavior from men, and vice versa, is not OK. Women are not dogs to be "trained," though, and that vernacular re: women isn't exactly the respect you demand in return, now, is it? I think women should sleep with anyone they want, too, without being called a whore, as well. Grown up, consenting adults DON'T OWE anything beyond honesty and respect.
Ty for this! I was doing the same thing you were speaking about, being a “butler” out of fear of losing that woman. I am no longer doing that anymore...
Fuck yes man holy crap I was so heart broken over this girl I was dating and now I see she wasn't even worth the hastle man these videos have helped me come back from the brink and that's no lie , thank you man thank you for doing what you do brother wether you get paid or not your teaching alot of us how to be men
Set your standards and dont deviate from them. Eg. had a girl coming over to my place yesterday, but she was late couple minutes consewuently I sent her back home. Self-Respect over everything.
I do love bondage. Honey join the bdsm community in your area. I love water sports. I love to submit and to be his human urinal is such a turn on to be dominated and degraded. I am his property and he is marking his territory.
I told a girl who's dating someone already to "give me a call if things don't workout" after she text me trying to "chat". This chick got upset, lol, saying "oh just like that, you cut your feelings off like, fuck her then" I laughed, restated what I said and discontinued the back and fourth. Her final text stated "well, I really liked you". I didn't respond.
I appreciate these videos. I am attempting to get into my first relationship actually. And I don't what to do. But I realized what I've been doing isn't working, but I really want to do it the right way. And this video helps me to make sense of what is going wrong
I just walk away and go no contact once she displays her 3rd red flag... I'll let the 1st two go without bringing them up (depending on how minute) so that she feels free to be her and to see if she will continue with such poor behavior. A good woman doesn't just start throwing red flag after red flag so I've found that this works best for me when weeding out all the drama bitches who have a shitty personality rather than having her fake it and waste my time for weeks on end before her mask slips and then you're invested and makes the dump that much harder...
i think that submitting doesnt mean you are a door mat, hearing this word shocks women, they believe its horrible to be submissive and that they have to be in control, its allowing your man to make decisions after the long run of dating him and respecting him and knowing you will be considered well and treated fairly - it is safe to go toward someone you trust if you know you are respected and that they wont take advantage of you and you become more softer and loving, that happens when respect and trust is earned
+Daimonon i have to disagree with that. If i believed in something strongly enough and i believed something was a right course of action to take, i would go against. Submitting doesnt entirely mean you wont stand up for yourself, sometimes there comes a time - alpha male or not, if i believed with every fibe in my gut that what i was doing was right, i would take a stand but it would have to be a very strong issue for me personally. I believe in having a voice in telling you man how you think and feel and after the row is over coming up with a way you both feel comfortable with... which i know most men go ahead and do what they think is right. What i mean, by submitting, its okay to let him make every decision once in a while for you - but if the woman, or im not comfortable with that then thats different but generally men esp the proper Alphas and i suppose you can have an alpha woman or man in their own fields because you have a feel for these people when they walk into a room, but, men i find, they are good at seeing the bigger picture so if he does make the desion, and say all the desisions you've made have come with negative consequences there is a good chance he will make a good, tough but yet fair and firm desicion.
+Daimonon how can i put this if i was with an alpha male i trust respect and know his desision works out better than mine, i would. But, in the relationship im currently in, i do feel more in control but needless to say i dont get what i want all the time. Maybe i kid myself im the strong one but when push comes to shove he can be pretty tough and have his own way.
+alcudiababe1 and what i meant was if i was in that kind of relationship for a moment he may have his way for the most part but if a situation came up about something i felt ever so strongly about depending how serious it was id stick to my guns and how i felt. Sometimes in life you can allow others to make your decisions but if they are making it and youre not saying it women do feel undervalued and unapprieciated and im not just talking about being in a relationship here man and women it can apply to a parent we all need to feel like we are making our own desisions and in a relationship it does mean you have to consider the other partner just because you want to do something - he or she might not want you to ie bring someone to the house and respect works both ways
If you are only submitting to a man when you agree with his decisions, that's not submission. As the female, i think you can discuss your opinion with the man, but the man needs to make the final decision and the female needs to accept and respect that. I totally agree that the female should not be second guessing the man.
i think people see the word submit as a bad thing, but if you respect his choices and see you are considered then its okay to give in a bit because he respects you
Then the relationship could not have been deep and meaningful - or she thought it best as some women do try and keep them as a friend after all that time. They have spent half their life together and perhaps its not fair if she isn't getting back together with him but i know two people i used to know they were a lot older than me and there were my parents friends - they were together together but they were together for all the wrong reasons. When she fell pregnant he was thee for her because of the baby in the hopes it would draw them closer and after a time of changing nappies and getting stressed it didn't plan out but they both stuck it out basically they were in a loveless marriage, they fought, but they were friends so it was like having two friends under one roof with no romantical attachment to each other - anyway now they both live apart and they have their own separate lives but the point is you never know whats going on in the marriage and what you hear from your friend is only one side and his views and his takes so you don't know everything that went on behind closed doors. However also don't let this person's marriage and what happened to him reflect you - just because it has happened to him doesn't mean to say it will happen to you!!! About a month ago my partner came home and said that the girl who played Katy on coronation street went on dancing on ice once she left the show and for a long time she'd had a boyfriend of four maybe longer than that years and because she is on dancing on ice they are not together and she is with someone else - do you know what we both agreed on? She didn't love him as much as much as she did because you wouldn't go off with another bloke. He might be good looking and or pleasing to look at but there is a line and you need someone who shares the same beliefs as you do. Our beliefs set us all apart and you deserve someone who values you and wants the relationship to be you and her and then see how things go.. because sometimes a relationship to someone is convenient for now and that's great but the other wants full commitment - you need to let things plan out, and hey if that relationship didn't work out you're making room for another better person. But if you calm up shut your heart away in turn you will make yourself loose out - to love there is a risk of being hurt yes but learn to trust your intuition because you will know when its safe to let this person see a softer side of you or to tell this girl something personal
Ok Corey, I signed up for the ebook and downloaded the pdf. I have nothing to loose anyway. I trained this person to be like she is with me. Game fucking over....Never again.
I don't think he said anything about being apathetic. He's just saying if you're interested in someone, and willing to set aside a bunch of time and money into them, you should expect some kind of returned investment. Otherwise you end up waiting... And waiting... And waiting.. For example, I'm working through a heartbreak right now because I got mixed messages from a friend of mine for 5 years. It was stupid to have such high hopes for so long.. I wish I was more direct early on, but as a guy who want taught these things, I just went along with it thinking "she'll come around", "she just needs time to open up", while completely ignoring the signs.. Sorry if this message is getting long, but the fact is this is how dating works.. I hate it so much, but I didn't make the rules..
+abu ghraib how people generally gain respect and trust, too, is following things through. Mean what you say, il test the boundaries out 😉and thats what i can get away with. Dont promise to do things if your not going to do them like if someone took me out and didnt call saying they are ill with flu etc its the little things cos then id feel like im stood up and when you appologize you own it dont make excuses and say if you had only just.. no, appologise. Only if you mean it, the worst is appologising cos its summit to say and women pick up on this.If someone say, took me out to dinner and treated the waiter horribly - because for me manners and kindness is important - it shows them for who they are. It varies from person to person what respect means to them but generally when someone respects theirself they dont tollerate certain stuff and they stand their ground, so if a guy can do that i will look to him like my protector and if he cant i think i have to protect him, and a woman feeling the need to do that all the time isnt good, and someone is kind but firm with me, doesnt invaludate my opinions, takes a stand for me when everyone in the room is against me - can talk to me in a non judgemental way i find i have a deep liking for them. And i find i take stands for the people i like and stick up for them, even though i know they are perfectly capable of doing it and then when they tell me they like my lemon or chocolate cakes id come round with my cakes. Some people prefer the action more than the words and i think to them its a nice feeling that someone has baked you a cake - my sister gets excited when i come over with cupcakes and she will say have a cupcake my sisters made them because shes all made up ive done that. Its a mixture of everything over time and if you trust and respect them its ok to be a little submissive.
+abu ghraib just to let you know ive also looked into narsasium - now im not saying she is but what ive learnt is that the more you stay with them and it could be any partner and you let them do things across you - you are inviting them to do more things to you because and this is talking about narcasisum that to the narc only a fool would stay with them and get treated in the ways that they put their other half through so they tell themselves you deserve it. On another note, and this is what ive done - write a note to someone who has made you angry you dont send it its just for your use and you could say what you think they should have done. Then, tranlate it - you never listen to me means i expect to be listened to - your horrible with what you say would mean i expect to get treated with - respect! It all comes down to respect. But also that way you work out what you value. Honnesty. Loyalty. You need few things for a relationship to work. Trust. Respect. Loyalty. Love - if your not feeling it then theres a problem that needs to be addressed. What most men in my experience dont do is think - is there something for me to learn and if you were rude or a dick to the girl then you know you need to calm it down. Girls live romance if they want a relationship that is. And although a hot girl is one thing - i used to have a couple of hot friends and we'd get approached by boys all the time but sometimes i wondered why has this girl or boy gone with someone who isnt hot and i think they can do so much better but, theyve found something in them to love. Yeah a certain level of attractivness has to be there cos you need to be attracted to your partner but you need to weigh up your odds and decide whats more important. I used to know women who treated their partners like shit (my hot friends) and they still had them coming back for more because they were in an awe of their beauty and the one guy i used to feel so sorry for. I told myself back then if i got a boyfriend id be so lovely to them and my first proper relationship my boundaries were weak and i dated a narcasist and he told me he loved me but ge did lots of things that would suggest he did not. The actions need to be in line with the words and all of us need to take a stand or we do get thrown around and it aint nice and after all that its very easy to turn into a cunt or a bitch but you use that as a learning curve of how you expect to be treated and that means taking a stand and believe me i know it its very hard to make an assertive stand when you feel so much anger cos it just comes out wrong.
that's disappointing you know that they don't take advice from women. But i thought this was about dating women so as a woman I'm being honest to help give guys insight into a woman's mind. I agree maybe guys don't always know what they want at first but after a while of dating they work out what they do want, and what they don't want or whether they want to keep playing the field
i just think you dont have to be nasty but if you talk to her with respect and assertively it just builds up trust. i mean, i had to tell my partner to stop saying sorry to me all the time - i love him but if i know im having a moment and sounding off dont come to me later and appolgize when you know you havent done anything wrong. He has stopped - the reason i told him that was that i didnt wanna treat him like an idiot, i didnt want to, and he has stopped it but he does appolgise when he knows hes at fault, thats when he calms down. Its love ❤
When you cut all the macho bull about 'getting her to submit', a lot of this just seems like good advice for anyone, regardless of gender. Nothing wrong with being honest about what you want and refusing to engage with drama. That isn't going to 'train' someone else to do anything but they might thank you for your honesty.
Liam Feringa i think what he is saying is you need to develop a healthy mantra. This applies to men and it applies to women. Its so you have a clear head, clear perspective. Its like betting on a horse to win if it does - it does, great! You're rolling in the dough, but if it doesnt if you havent put all your eggs in one basket you havent had your hopes crushed. You've got to develop the idea that its no big deal and you have to find peace with being ok with that. Being needy isnt really an attractive quality and some women will use that to manipulate you - develop that healthy mantra... and you can find someone out there for you. You really can find someone.
but that wasnt the point you were making was it? i was answering back from that dudes comment. Not a lot of women like it when you say that, no, they dont and i agree. Let me explain, when you say that, it indicates they are out of control and when a woman vents and expresses her anger (which if she doesnt express her anger thats the time to worry, trust me) she wants to be listened to. She HAS to feel comfortable expressing her anger and get it out of her system - telling her to calm it down especially, if shes really upset and she doesnt want you to say that what she wants is for you to hear her out... She will want to talk to you. Let her do whatever she needs to get anger out of her system AND DONT TELL HER SHES ACTING LIKE A CRAZY PERSON! If shes not abusing you or anything let her express her anger because too many problems involve when women try and suppress their anger... Think about this logically, if a man gets voilent he is ANGRY when a woman gets voilent its ooh SHES OUT OF CONTROL Men are more allowed to be angry and express angry behaviour but women get angry too, and when they express it they get told they are out of control - see the difference? Because society encourages us not to express it so it gets suppressed and so when shes with a man shes comfortable with and she gets angry dont tell her to calm down and talk later. If something us bothering her she wants to talk to you now all you are doing is prolonging the anger and when her anger is expressed its done its over and she far less than likely to say in months time... do you remember when louise said such and such to you... etc and at the end of it, if your blessed to have someone just be there for her at the end of it.
Daimonon i know what your saying. But my advice is for a different type of man. Yes, you get the drama queens but what im talking about is different it is for a guy whos in it for the long term. I just think respectfully you have been screwed around so much that you cant see the good in any woman and everytime you have a fight you give up and walk away. My advice is aimed at the men who genuinly care about their partners. If a woman is getting angry most of the time there is something very wrong. Its a built up of fustrations. Maybe this is a site to teach men how to date but your advice tespectfully put is how to keep a guy permentaly single. Now im not saying guys should always put up with things but if you care and are in a long term relationship with a woman and she is not i repeat not what you call a drama queen but she is getting short tempered all the time and she is pregnant or someone in her family has passed away sometimes its an indication that shes not coping and needs help from her husband or spouse and she just wants to be listened to not left alone because if her spouse cant handle her at her worst then there is no way he deserves her at her best. If a woman can cry in front of you its a sign she trusts you. A woman shouldnt be made to feel she has to hide her emotions she needs someone to be there with her in the moment, when shes breaking down and my advice is although you want to tell her to stop it because its scary to watch but be there and let her get it out of her system so she knows you love and care for her and i repeat never ever leave a woman crying or turn your back on her. If she has either got to the point wjere she is that upset you need to talk it out with her. Guys on here its up to you who you choose to listen to on here but if you are in a relationship for the long haul dont abadon your partner for every little thing, not every woman is a drama queen ask her whats wrong.
Daimonon look i agree communication is key and she probably will talk to you once she has calmed down. You marry into someone you take them at their best and their worst. You love someone you dont pick and choose which bits to stay for and leave her for. Separatly i will add no i dont agree that any man should stick around to be manipulated and in those first months of dating you dont know what shes like and you shouldnt take verbal abuse at you. But, im connecting to this on a more deeper level to guys who are already in a relationship and again communication is key but a womman is not a man and can punch or get into a fight and so people dont find that acceptable. Usually if she is going mad its cos society has convinced her she needs to supress it. Let her get angry and when its over and done with, you talk about it. Some men and women enjoy a good fight it helps them get whatevers bothering of their chest into the open to therefore be talked about. And people also find the truth comes out in an argument so arguments when needed are actually needed to keep the relationship healthy.
6:40 If a woman can walk all over you, and you constantly compromise your principles and don’t stand up for yourself - she’s not going to respect you. If a woman doesn’t respect you, there’s no way she can feel sexual attraction towards you or fall in love with you. 11:40 "Hey, are you coming over to seduce me tonight?" (text) 12:18 Your job as a man is to create a romantic, fun-filled, mysterious opportunity for sex to happen (aka a date).
I had just been released after serving 16 yrs. Rehabilitated and at a college that I intern at, I met a younger woman. We went out twice and hooked up twice, she had a good time, she announced everytime she got hers. Everything happened really fast. She used to text all the time but now not as much. We are suppose to hang again this weekend but I get alot of mix signals.
We teach people how to treat us. Be careful with precedents you set. And sadly yes men too not just women will ignore direct signs and words and continue to pursue in hopes that the other person will come around- in other words wear them down. It's painful to watch and you're asking to be abused because many people are selfish enough to do so.
Hello Corey, Love your videos "Put her in her place" and "make her submit to you" you are a good balance of Alpha male and engaged lover. After beginning to get my energy back from a long term illness I Recently I began to implement some of the things you have been teaching, as I suspected, my wife went to war with me as an alpha male. She has an extremely controlling nature. She has double my energy as a Gemini and her mother has trained her to take control. So from here on out I plan to continue my alpha male stance, being willing to walk away if I need to and "step up as a male" If she makes room for it. So here's my plan. As far as arguing, I will give her a "three strikes policy" to get her point across to me and I will make the final decision. This will create tension and I will remind her that I only work within a drama free zone. I will also plan to set up several dates when we can go have fun and then make love after. What are your top 3 Fun dates? I'm a little stale.
actually i found an old box out when my other half was tidying out his stuff and inside it was all sorts of letters that i sent to him when we were dating back in our days and i put something to him along the lines of... when i was younger, i never understood how guys kept going on after girls who were bitchy towards them, i hadnt a boyfriend at the time and didnt understand why i didnt, and that, if i ever got one id be really nice to him and none of this crazy bitchy stuff would happen to him, and to cut a long story short i realized that u didnt have to be bitchy and horrible to men but that you need to have boundries, and stick up for yourself a bit. And, i think thats what you are talking about and by doing that its gaining respect - its this woman/man doesnt tollerate when i do this, that you cant dictate over him or her because then you loose respect. A guy said to me years ago and this was at a friends house if you always get your say and your way over someone in time you'll start to loose a bit of respect for him, and that is true. Im not all into the power playing but if you develop heathy boundries and have things that you wont do people can respect you for that and respect goes a long way
"doesn't even have to take them on dates ay more" lol sound like me. soon as my door swings the one girl is leaving for the session and another is commin in lol.
You can’t make anyone do anything. Either they want to do something or they don’t. If you trying to make somebody bend to your will, you ARE FUCKED UP!
You shaven head bastard!... I feel like I’ve got the cheat codes to courting women and I’m playing on easy mode. Just need to get my practice in and up my “gameplay hours” 😂
Oké there was this colleague arround in the area where we were, and she was little of her pace when she saw him and lookin out for him. After she had a small talk, somehow we, got to talking jealousy..She said it's just a colleague. She said It's absurd if I can't talk to a colleague right? I said .." I'm not jealous, if you think you can get better, just go and get it.. " then she got a little angry.. moody.. Did I say the right thing or what? ✅️❌️?
You can program a girl you like to an extent using positive and negative reinforcement. Like Corey says, if some girl is being a total bitch to you you gotta be a man and tell her to call back when shes calmed down - dont feed or enable her unnacceptable behavior - and when she's sweet and loving, encourage that behavior.
I get everything that you are saying and having quite a bit of success but doing the sleeping with all these women stops me because I get hung up on what I could catch from them. How do you handle the whole discussion of disease?
My girl friend has just broke up with me a few days ago and I haven’t made any contact like you say. She has tried to do this at least 20 times as I never let her go before she definitely got more power than we and I want that to change. am I doing the right thing I love her and I don’t want to loose her
Why did she walk away? Why does she keep walking away? Is it you expect she nurture you 24-7 and so leaves zero time for her nurture herself.. Sounds like you have issue respect boundaries. Just saying. Women are not Males 24-7 nurturing services providers. Women her own person. Give her her personal space back (becaz you trample on her personal space) Watch she will see your making an effort. A for effort
See, men can get better by watching Corey but in my reserch of the enneagram types, women can easily be a type 8 as well as a man (so both alphas in their own fields) and in that type of relationship expect alot of fights - there is testing but sometimes they both like and enjoy a good fight and can freely express their anger. There are dating guidelines for guys and women. In past experience men are the ones who are quick to pull away BUT it depends of who gets the most spooked out by commitment or knowing they are falling in love. And some women and men want to play about a bit before they settle down maybe they've been dicks to women in the past and some women i know have had men on a string. Some people want love and romance and some are looking for whos hot and when can they bang. But... in a committed and loving relationship where trust has been earned the man can make the desicion and as ive said esp if the woman knows shes being treated fairly.
yes i do. But, it depends purely on the women he is with ad that is changeable. What happens in one relationship with one woman isn't going to happen in another. I have looked in to the ennegram types,it's a real thing - look it up if you dont believe me. Some people aren't in to all of that but if you take the time to look at that you will find how accurate it is and how the relationships work with other types so i can say for sure and i have watched this plan out in other people lives by listening to them when they are all sat at a table or at a social gathering and they are having conversations and you can feel the energy off each person and the more ALPHA they are they have incredible amounts of energy being matched all the time. So the more heartfelt types they can be submitting, but, and funnily enough if they believe something is the right way to go they will become devious. The nicest of people who are 2's, 3's and 4's when pushed can be devious - even 7's but types 1, 6, (esp counter phobic 6's) and 8's are more telling you what they are going to do whether you like it or not so when a different person who isn't an alpha and wants to go about things in their way they will find devious ways to accomplish what they want to because it isn't in there nature to do so and you will find you can have guys who are threes or fours and they are with a female 8. The more ALPLHA you are generally they need a softer personality to balance them out or its just going to be fights and arguments all the time. Yes, i agree in being assertive and not asking for permission etc but the more stronger willed you become, you will have to expect that not a lot of people will agree to think in your way and you need to accept that, and you will get into more head challenges so if a type 3 acts like a type 8 An Asserter/ An Aggressor an ALPHA - they will get their ass handed to them because its not their personality its not in them to do all that. But that's not to say you can't improve yourself and learn traits but instead of being something we are not because i could kid myself I'm an 8 when I'm a 3 but if I'm stuck in a situation with someone I wont be able to pull that off. If someone told me to go into a shop and act angry at a faulty good because they have ripped me off and i get into a conflab i wouldn't last sixty secconds because we are who we are and we can't kid ourselves to be what we aren't. While most women want to be with an Alpha there are others who like the softer men if they themselves are a strong personality. What i believe Cory is teaching here is to find your confidence and from becoming into this Apha male himself, he wants to uplift everyone because his greatest strength is improving and helping and uplifting people to become a better version of what they want to be and most men want to act with confidence and so the quiet guys can learn a lot from Cory. I do find most men on the site to be self assured, and call things for what they see things but i do find is a lot of hate towards women. Which is sad but then i know tables turned women can be the same I'm just sharing what I know and who better to learn from - from another women
hwaner1 i just think that when men or women go on the defensive they move past connection. When they take time to listen to others view points even if you dont agree but most people do like to be heard but to work toward a goal where the both of you keep your pride. i know not all women think like me because an enneagram 8 (an alpha) has a different world view point to me and im a 3 and i like a bit of romance and to be treated right. It varies from person to person but if your serious about someone you work through problems not seeya bye bye and your respectful when you assert your opinions, i dont believe in putting people down and calling names.
What if she's my ex of 3 months and she's in a rebound of 3 months...should I tell her if it doesn't work out to call me OR just I'd love to take you out sometime let me know?
This video really made me feel like shit because in my mind that means treating women like a piece of fu##king meat! Shit like this makes it hard for women like me with Mental Health issues hard to find a date.
basically he is sayin u make her submit by being u and standing by whatever u believe. makes ya chances of her submitting very high if she is interested but if she doesn't than its ok cuz u r living in abundance, literally or in ya mind.
See what I dont understand is why people are depressed when they break up with there girlfriend for cheating.......you should be celebrating because you now have one less fake person in your life🥳🥳🥳🥳🍻🍻🍻🍻🍷🍷🍷🍷🍸🍸🍸🍾🍾🍹🍹
When he says our job as a man is not to do what friends do but create a romantic mysterious opportunity for sex to happen, then what happens when we finally establish a relationship with a woman and are with her all the time? Wouldn't we be doing things such as going to the movies, having lunch and doing what friends do when we are with that person for the next 50 years? In other words, what do we do differently once we are in the relationship and perhaps living with her.
Nah, I'd move on. Once she chooses someone else over you, if you have any self-respect, you'd cut her out of your life.
Wisest remark, if u stay we have to revoke your playa membership. Especially downgrading to a friend, we are going to take your playa card
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I disagree. Nothing wrong with being friends. Too many people have a black or white view on this. If you are friends with her then start dating someone just as attractive(or more so)than she is and she will get jealous and kick herself for dumping you especially if it works out with the other chick. That to me is more interesting than just kicking her to the curb.
Agreed 1000% with you The Most Interesting Man
this is true but if you are really in to her its hard
the fear of loss is a path to the dark side of the force
@Seb 4 Train yourself to be willing to lose everything you must! - Yoda
I just wander when you said that which part was you referring to in the dude I’m video so I can better understand this quota
Yes
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“Never try to impress a woman because if you do, she’ll expect you to live up to that standard for the rest of your life.” - W.C. Fields
This also goes for work performance. Don't ever over-achieve at work, otherwise your boss will expect that from you all the time
being a kind respectful human being is impressive
Ada Wong So is having a sense of humor
Nice really like your comment there, reminds me of a similar phrase my Father told me recently, "start as your means to carry on" really made sense to me personally
Basically translates as start at the level your able nd willing to meet ongoing as your daily standard, not less not more.
Lol that explains everyone on 90 day fiancé
Thank you Coach, 4 years ago you changed my life. I owe everything since then to your work and lessons. I've now started a RUclips channel helping single dads like you've helped.
2:00 quote is so true...Well said, and i couldn't agree more...as im a 2 year NARC survivor for 9 months now! Good work man!
omg being able to submit to a man is such a gift
these femanazis hating on submission just dont know how wonderful it is!!! submission to a worthy man is beautiful and amazing
Preach it sister.
Well yes IF he is worthy yea.
+Daimonon some people need this quote written on their wall
MaryWarner i just think if a man treats a woman properly, does not belittle her, is assertive not aggressive andvgains her trust and respect he will have women taking more of a submitting stance
feminine flower I wish I could find a man that I thought was strong enough..a man who's opinion I'd trust...a man I'd want to submit to. I really like your comment btw...I've just established that a man actually wants to feel like a man in a relationship and I'm working on being able to let myself trust instead of trying to control and dominate every single thing.(gets quite tiring) it's a bit of a challenge though..I'm 25 the eldest of 2 sister's(legally in my custody) with a Looney Toon mother who's gone and none of us had a father or a father figure. Did I hear someone say daddy issues?? lolol WORKING ON IT!!
Corey I love your stories and advise! I'm a recently separated "rookie" in your "fight club" but as I read your books and watch your videos I have started implementing your strategies and advise and they really work, thanks so much for helping open my eyes?
AMS Brought me here. Shout out to the men looking for a wife. “He who findeth a wife, findeth a good thing.”. You’re the real MVP. Confidence and respect for yourself and others is the key.
Don’t forget to keep your word and promises. A man is only as good as his word.
Madame black you said ams brought you here which.do you think works?
@@losmit2194 Coach Corey Wayne
He who findeth a good wife, findeth a good thing... otherwise nothing but trouble
@@losmit2194 I’d definitely submit more to a man like Corey Wayne more so than a man like AMS. For sure.
That's not what I teach. I don't teach guys to be assholes. I teach them to act in ways that are consistent with alpha male behavior.
Coach Corey Wayne in today’s language you are teaching men to not be A simp . I use to be one . Not anymore. Put God First then work on yourself emotionally, spiritually , and financially. Don’t forget physically. Last year I got myself in the gym and lost 50 pounds . I’m married and not looking but many women have noticed my weight loss . This is another way to flip the game. This is not an excuse to be A player but if you want better in life you have become A better strong person. Be nice to everyone but set your boundaries and stick to them .
I guess I should stop taking this advice then? damn I thought I found some super assistance.
I might suggest you didn't "train" women to treat you that way. The mutual Codependency was the attraction. Histrionic behavior from women and controlling narcissistic behavior from men, and vice versa, is not OK. Women are not dogs to be "trained," though, and that vernacular re: women isn't exactly the respect you demand in return, now, is it? I think women should sleep with anyone they want, too, without being called a whore, as well. Grown up, consenting adults DON'T OWE anything beyond honesty and respect.
So...YOU date other women, but she isn't supposed to date other men?
Coach Corey Wayne what’s name of your book????
If you can't respect each other.....your gonna have drama....and respect means not playing mind games....
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hahahaha, last time I checked, its women nature to play mind game, reason you said this is your secret is finaly known to males.
The biggest banger in the world: Corey Wayne intro music
Keep moving forward, move on and focus on what you do best.
Being nice(as in giving or buying stuff) is all well and good but unless you are already in a relationship it's not a good idea.
Even in one it's best to know when to buy the gift and when not.
Ty for this! I was doing the same thing you were speaking about, being a “butler” out of fear of losing that woman. I am no longer doing that anymore...
You complain about being a butler but you want her to be the maid.
@@ATLKing404 what?
@@ATLKing404 id like to get to know your childhood upbringing that brought you to type this comment
Be true to yourself basically.
Fuck yes man holy crap I was so heart broken over this girl I was dating and now I see she wasn't even worth the hastle man these videos have helped me come back from the brink and that's no lie , thank you man thank you for doing what you do brother wether you get paid or not your teaching alot of us how to be men
Set your standards and dont deviate from them.
Eg. had a girl coming over to my place yesterday, but she was late couple minutes consewuently I sent her back home.
Self-Respect over everything.
imostliked hahahaha legend
Like it
i doubt there a girl who is always on time, unless is a dude in disguise.
Siul 😂 😂 😂 dude wtf
I hope you’re joking if it was just a couple minutes lol
it is the natural order of things for women to submit to men. That is why women are drawn to alpha males who are confident, dominant and in control.
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honey, we women want to be with a dominant man, a very confident alpha male.
Just be confident, take control, and know who you are and what you want and go after it.
I am in Canada. Honey that is good men are horny sexual beings, embrace those desires
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Honey you need to find a woman who are into your fetishes. what are these taboos?
I do love bondage. Honey join the bdsm community in your area. I love water sports. I love to submit and to be his human urinal is such a turn on to be dominated and degraded. I am his property and he is marking his territory.
I clicked on this video and fully expected to hate it based on the title. It's actually good advice for anyone, no matter what's between your legs
My wife is boosy & strong character & so I'm & we always bump with each other because of our strong attitude
Be stronger
That gets old after so long....
I told a girl who's dating someone already to "give me a call if things don't workout" after she text me trying to "chat". This chick got upset, lol, saying "oh just like that, you cut your feelings off like, fuck her then" I laughed, restated what I said and discontinued the back and fourth. Her final text stated "well, I really liked you". I didn't respond.
Priceless. Kudos! lol
+Marcus Parham lol I wouldn't even continued. I would just give her time and let her decide
This is the first coach Corey Wayne video I ever saw!
Real talk if she don't call back their will always be more woman out there
I appreciate these videos. I am attempting to get into my first relationship actually. And I don't what to do. But I realized what I've been doing isn't working, but I really want to do it the right way. And this video helps me to make sense of what is going wrong
Really you already see "wrong" If you see "wrong" it's all you will see.
Be an optimistic (drop pessimistic like a hot potato)
Good luck
I just walk away and go no contact once she displays her 3rd red flag... I'll let the 1st two go without bringing them up (depending on how minute) so that she feels free to be her and to see if she will continue with such poor behavior. A good woman doesn't just start throwing red flag after red flag so I've found that this works best for me when weeding out all the drama bitches who have a shitty personality rather than having her fake it and waste my time for weeks on end before her mask slips and then you're invested and makes the dump that much harder...
i think that submitting doesnt mean you are a door mat, hearing this word shocks women, they believe its horrible to be submissive and that they have to be in control, its allowing your man to make decisions after the long run of dating him and respecting him and knowing you will be considered well and treated fairly - it is safe to go toward someone you trust if you know you are respected and that they wont take advantage of you and you become more softer and loving, that happens when respect and trust is earned
+Daimonon i have to disagree with that. If i believed in something strongly enough and i believed something was a right course of action to take, i would go against. Submitting doesnt entirely mean you wont stand up for yourself, sometimes there comes a time - alpha male or not, if i believed with every fibe in my gut that what i was doing was right, i would take a stand but it would have to be a very strong issue for me personally. I believe in having a voice in telling you man how you think and feel and after the row is over coming up with a way you both feel comfortable with... which i know most men go ahead and do what they think is right. What i mean, by submitting, its okay to let him make every decision once in a while for you - but if the woman, or im not comfortable with that then thats different but generally men esp the proper Alphas and i suppose you can have an alpha woman or man in their own fields because you have a feel for these people when they walk into a room, but, men i find, they are good at seeing the bigger picture so if he does make the desion, and say all the desisions you've made have come with negative consequences there is a good chance he will make a good, tough but yet fair and firm desicion.
+Daimonon how can i put this if i was with an alpha male i trust respect and know his desision works out better than mine, i would. But, in the relationship im currently in, i do feel more in control but needless to say i dont get what i want all the time. Maybe i kid myself im the strong one but when push comes to shove he can be pretty tough and have his own way.
+alcudiababe1 and what i meant was if i was in that kind of relationship for a moment he may have his way for the most part but if a situation came up about something i felt ever so strongly about depending how serious it was id stick to my guns and how i felt. Sometimes in life you can allow others to make your decisions but if they are making it and youre not saying it women do feel undervalued and unapprieciated and im not just talking about being in a relationship here man and women it can apply to a parent we all need to feel like we are making our own desisions and in a relationship it does mean you have to consider the other partner just because you want to do something - he or she might not want you to ie bring someone to the house and respect works both ways
If you are only submitting to a man when you agree with his decisions, that's not submission. As the female, i think you can discuss your opinion with the man, but the man needs to make the final decision and the female needs to accept and respect that. I totally agree that the female should not be second guessing the man.
Daimonon it depends on your personality. How dominate your personality is - and women can trump guys with softer personalities.
i think people see the word submit as a bad thing, but if you respect his choices and see you are considered then its okay to give in a bit because he respects you
Then the relationship could not have been deep and meaningful - or she thought it best as some women do try and keep them as a friend after all that time. They have spent half their life together and perhaps its not fair if she isn't getting back together with him but i know two people i used to know they were a lot older than me and there were my parents friends - they were together together but they were together for all the wrong reasons. When she fell pregnant he was thee for her because of the baby in the hopes it would draw them closer and after a time of changing nappies and getting stressed it didn't plan out but they both stuck it out basically they were in a loveless marriage, they fought, but they were friends so it was like having two friends under one roof with no romantical attachment to each other - anyway now they both live apart and they have their own separate lives but the point is you never know whats going on in the marriage and what you hear from your friend is only one side and his views and his takes so you don't know everything that went on behind closed doors. However also don't let this person's marriage and what happened to him reflect you - just because it has happened to him doesn't mean to say it will happen to you!!!
About a month ago my partner came home and said that the girl who played Katy on coronation street went on dancing on ice once she left the show and for a long time she'd had a boyfriend of four maybe longer than that years and because she is on dancing on ice they are not together and she is with someone else - do you know what we both agreed on? She didn't love him as much as much as she did because you wouldn't go off with another bloke. He might be good looking and or pleasing to look at but there is a line and you need someone who shares the same beliefs as you do. Our beliefs set us all apart and you deserve someone who values you and wants the relationship to be you and her and then see how things go.. because sometimes a relationship to someone is convenient for now and that's great but the other wants full commitment - you need to let things plan out, and hey if that relationship didn't work out you're making room for another better person. But if you calm up shut your heart away in turn you will make yourself loose out - to love there is a risk of being hurt yes but learn to trust your intuition because you will know when its safe to let this person see a softer side of you or to tell this girl something personal
That comes from those shitty romantic comedies and NO FATHER FIGURES THANKS FOR YOUR HELP COREY WAYNE
Ok Corey, I signed up for the ebook and downloaded the pdf. I have nothing to loose anyway. I trained this person to be like she is with me. Game fucking over....Never again.
This is my situation. I admit im too available to her. In texting/ a call/even when she ask to meet.. Thanks coach, will try with this
That's crazy, if a chick has another guy around, I would be done with her. Delete and move on
It sounds like you're describing a very specific type of woman. Most people won't be attracted to someone this unemphatic
I don't think he said anything about being apathetic. He's just saying if you're interested in someone, and willing to set aside a bunch of time and money into them, you should expect some kind of returned investment. Otherwise you end up waiting... And waiting... And waiting.. For example, I'm working through a heartbreak right now because I got mixed messages from a friend of mine for 5 years. It was stupid to have such high hopes for so long.. I wish I was more direct early on, but as a guy who want taught these things, I just went along with it thinking "she'll come around", "she just needs time to open up", while completely ignoring the signs..
Sorry if this message is getting long, but the fact is this is how dating works.. I hate it so much, but I didn't make the rules..
So true!!!
Sorry Women were not bred to provide Males with unlimited nurturing services 😂
How many feminists are needed to change a lightbulb?
None, feminist havent changed anything so far
Because of SEXIST GUYS THAT'S WHY!!
Apart from campaigning for laws that make men's lives harder, so they can't see their kids and sometimes kill themselves.
Lol you're super hilarious.
I changed it every time 😉✌
The hell with feminism. Biggest bullshit ever. It's a huge pot of shit someone stirring in with a spoon. It's gross. It stinks. It's filthy. Shit.
i thought and correct me if im wrong but that it is safe to submit to someone who you trust and respect.
and when making a decision he does have your best intentions at heart
+abu ghraib how people generally gain respect and trust, too, is following things through. Mean what you say, il test the boundaries out 😉and thats what i can get away with. Dont promise to do things if your not going to do them like if someone took me out and didnt call saying they are ill with flu etc its the little things cos then id feel like im stood up and when you appologize you own it dont make excuses and say if you had only just.. no, appologise. Only if you mean it, the worst is appologising cos its summit to say and women pick up on this.If someone say, took me out to dinner and treated the waiter horribly - because for me manners and kindness is important - it shows them for who they are. It varies from person to person what respect means to them but generally when someone respects theirself they dont tollerate certain stuff and they stand their ground, so if a guy can do that i will look to him like my protector and if he cant i think i have to protect him, and a woman feeling the need to do that all the time isnt good, and someone is kind but firm with me, doesnt invaludate my opinions, takes a stand for me when everyone in the room is against me - can talk to me in a non judgemental way i find i have a deep liking for them. And i find i take stands for the people i like and stick up for them, even though i know they are perfectly capable of doing it and then when they tell me they like my lemon or chocolate cakes id come round with my cakes.
Some people prefer the action more than the words and i think to them its a nice feeling that someone has baked you a cake - my sister gets excited when i come over with cupcakes and she will say have a cupcake my sisters made them because shes all made up ive done that. Its a mixture of everything over time and if you trust and respect them its ok to be a little submissive.
+abu ghraib just to let you know ive also looked into narsasium - now im not saying she is but what ive learnt is that the more you stay with them and it could be any partner and you let them do things across you - you are inviting them to do more things to you because and this is talking about narcasisum that to the narc only a fool would stay with them and get treated in the ways that they put their other half through so they tell themselves you deserve it. On another note, and this is what ive done - write a note to someone who has made you angry you dont send it its just for your use and you could say what you think they should have done. Then, tranlate it - you never listen to me means i expect to be listened to - your horrible with what you say would mean i expect to get treated with - respect! It all comes down to respect. But also that way you work out what you value. Honnesty. Loyalty.
You need few things for a relationship to work. Trust. Respect. Loyalty. Love - if your not feeling it then theres a problem that needs to be addressed.
What most men in my experience dont do is think - is there something for me to learn and if you were rude or a dick to the girl then you know you need to calm it down. Girls live romance if they want a relationship that is. And although a hot girl is one thing - i used to have a couple of hot friends and we'd get approached by boys all the time but sometimes i wondered why has this girl or boy gone with someone who isnt hot and i think they can do so much better but, theyve found something in them to love. Yeah a certain level of attractivness has to be there cos you need to be attracted to your partner but you need to weigh up your odds and decide whats more important. I used to know women who treated their partners like shit (my hot friends) and they still had them coming back for more because they were in an awe of their beauty and the one guy i used to feel so sorry for. I told myself back then if i got a boyfriend id be so lovely to them and my first proper relationship my boundaries were weak and i dated a narcasist and he told me he loved me but ge did lots of things that would suggest he did not. The actions need to be in line with the words and all of us need to take a stand or we do get thrown around and it aint nice and after all that its very easy to turn into a cunt or a bitch but you use that as a learning curve of how you expect to be treated and that means taking a stand and believe me i know it its very hard to make an assertive stand when you feel so much anger cos it just comes out wrong.
+abu ghraib Thank you x
that's disappointing you know that they don't take advice from women. But i thought this was about dating women so as a woman I'm being honest to help give guys insight into a woman's mind. I agree maybe guys don't always know what they want at first but after a while of dating they work out what they do want, and what they don't want or whether they want to keep playing the field
Ok so basically to best put this entire video into one sentence: "Don't be no punk".
DREW MICHAEL 👍
I dont mess with woman no more its. Better be a alone than have drama n stress..i dont want drama in my life..
Right. That's how you weed off the wrong women until the right one comes along. Patience is the strongest virtue for a man my friend.
Bless you Correy, I am now a totally different man from who I was before.2yrs ago .. ALPHA MALES 😊
'Are you coming over to seduce me tonight?'
Dude.
i just think you dont have to be nasty but if you talk to her with respect and assertively it just builds up trust.
i mean, i had to tell my partner to stop saying sorry to me all the time - i love him but if i know im having a moment and sounding off dont come to me later and appolgize when you know you havent done anything wrong. He has stopped - the reason i told him that was that i didnt wanna treat him like an idiot, i didnt want to, and he has stopped it but he does appolgise when he knows hes at fault, thats when he calms down. Its love ❤
Coach Corey Wayne your advice is gold. Thanks for the self respect I now have.
When you cut all the macho bull about 'getting her to submit', a lot of this just seems like good advice for anyone, regardless of gender. Nothing wrong with being honest about what you want and refusing to engage with drama. That isn't going to 'train' someone else to do anything but they might thank you for your honesty.
Approach girl and say i would like to be your soulmate, andd he manage to be her boyfriend and get married...
Happen to nobody in this world
Kneel before Zod!
Yep
Yes coach, you are 100% right
Chics do not like it when you tell them to call you back later on after they have calmed down. They really do not like it. lol
what's your point?
Liam Feringa i think what he is saying is you need to develop a healthy mantra. This applies to men and it applies to women. Its so you have a clear head, clear perspective. Its like betting on a horse to win if it does - it does, great! You're rolling in the dough, but if it doesnt if you havent put all your eggs in one basket you havent had your hopes crushed. You've got to develop the idea that its no big deal and you have to find peace with being ok with that. Being needy isnt really an attractive quality and some women will use that to manipulate you - develop that healthy mantra... and you can find someone out there for you. You really can find someone.
but that wasnt the point you were making was it?
i was answering back from that dudes comment. Not a lot of women like it when you say that, no, they dont and i agree.
Let me explain, when you say that, it indicates they are out of control and when a woman vents and expresses her anger (which if she doesnt express her anger thats the time to worry, trust me) she wants to be listened to. She HAS to feel comfortable expressing her anger and get it out of her system - telling her to calm it down especially, if shes really upset and she doesnt want you to say that what she wants is for you to hear her out...
She will want to talk to you. Let her do whatever she needs to get anger out of her system AND DONT TELL HER SHES ACTING LIKE A CRAZY PERSON! If shes not abusing you or anything let her express her anger because too many problems involve when women try and suppress their anger...
Think about this logically, if a man gets voilent he is ANGRY
when a woman gets voilent its ooh SHES OUT OF CONTROL
Men are more allowed to be angry and express angry behaviour but women get angry too, and when they express it they get told they are out of control - see the difference? Because society encourages us not to express it so it gets suppressed and so when shes with a man shes comfortable with and she gets angry dont tell her to calm down and talk later. If something us bothering her she wants to talk to you now all you are doing is prolonging the anger and when her anger is expressed its done its over and she far less than likely to say in months time... do you remember when louise said such and such to you... etc and at the end of it, if your blessed to have someone just be there for her at the end of it.
Daimonon i know what your saying. But my advice is for a different type of man. Yes, you get the drama queens but what im talking about is different it is for a guy whos in it for the long term.
I just think respectfully you have been screwed around so much that you cant see the good in any woman and everytime you have a fight you give up and walk away. My advice is aimed at the men who genuinly care about their partners. If a woman is getting angry most of the time there is something very wrong. Its a built up of fustrations. Maybe this is a site to teach men how to date but your advice tespectfully put is how to keep a guy permentaly single. Now im not saying guys should always put up with things but if you care and are in a long term relationship with a woman and she is not i repeat not what you call a drama queen but she is getting short tempered all the time and she is pregnant or someone in her family has passed away sometimes its an indication that shes not coping and needs help from her husband or spouse and she just wants to be listened to not left alone because if her spouse cant handle her at her worst then there is no way he deserves her at her best. If a woman can cry in front of you its a sign she trusts you. A woman shouldnt be made to feel she has to hide her emotions she needs someone to be there with her in the moment, when shes breaking down and my advice is although you want to tell her to stop it because its scary to watch but be there and let her get it out of her system so she knows you love and care for her and i repeat never ever leave a woman crying or turn your back on her. If she has either got to the point wjere she is that upset you need to talk it out with her.
Guys on here its up to you who you choose to listen to on here but if you are in a relationship for the long haul dont abadon your partner for every little thing, not every woman is a drama queen ask her whats wrong.
Daimonon
look i agree communication is key and she probably will talk to you once she has calmed down.
You marry into someone you take them at their best and their worst. You love someone you dont pick and choose which bits to stay for and leave her for.
Separatly i will add no i dont agree that any man should stick around to be manipulated and in those first months of dating you dont know what shes like and you shouldnt take verbal abuse at you.
But, im connecting to this on a more deeper level to guys who are already in a relationship and again communication is key but a womman is not a man and can punch or get into a fight and so people dont find that acceptable. Usually if she is going mad its cos society has convinced her she needs to supress it. Let her get angry and when its over and done with, you talk about it. Some men and women enjoy a good fight it helps them get whatevers bothering of their chest into the open to therefore be talked about. And people also find the truth comes out in an argument so arguments when needed are actually needed to keep the relationship healthy.
6:40 If a woman can walk all over you, and you constantly compromise your principles and don’t stand up for yourself - she’s not going to respect you. If a woman doesn’t respect you, there’s no way she can feel sexual attraction towards you or fall in love with you.
11:40 "Hey, are you coming over to seduce me tonight?" (text)
12:18 Your job as a man is to create a romantic, fun-filled, mysterious opportunity for sex to happen (aka a date).
I am woman and I LOVE THIS SHITE!!! HAHAHA thank you so much. Men need to learn this!!!
Yup you don't treat them like shit, you treat them indifferently, but you are always charming.
I had just been released after serving 16 yrs. Rehabilitated and at a college that I intern at, I met a younger woman. We went out twice and hooked up twice, she had a good time, she announced everytime she got hers. Everything happened really fast. She used to text all the time but now not as much. We are suppose to hang again this weekend but I get alot of mix signals.
The guy who waited for 10 years (Mr. Patience), has a history (of friendship/familiarity/trust) with this woman. Not surprised at the outcome.
Too nice needs to find a book club maybe he will find a mate at book club
By far you r best coach ever👍
U cnt even talk to me a disrespectful way and expect me to stick around
-- "Start as your means to carry on" --
We teach people how to treat us. Be careful with precedents you set. And sadly yes men too not just women will ignore direct signs and words and continue to pursue in hopes that the other person will come around- in other words wear them down. It's painful to watch and you're asking to be abused because many people are selfish enough to do so.
She'll get what she gives.
Why did 34 women watch this video?
+Justin Wong Because we learn from it too. It is also refreshing to see men who are dominant instead of passive
excellent idea
So they know how to fuck us over
Because I thought the title was appalling and had to see what he was saying.
Justin Wong its they can weaponise it against men, they're out to learn new things men will try to pull...zzzz
I wouldn't go to the cinema with a platonic woman friend to be honest
If you can’t make your woman submit to you, you’re with the wrong woman.
You don't have to make her submit shell do that automatically if she sees you correctly.
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Hello Corey, Love your videos "Put her in her place" and "make her submit to you" you are a good balance of Alpha male and engaged lover.
After beginning to get my energy back from a long term illness I Recently I began to implement some of the things you have been teaching, as I suspected, my wife went to war with me as an alpha male. She has an extremely controlling nature. She has double my energy as a Gemini and her mother has trained her to take control.
So from here on out I plan to continue my alpha male stance, being willing to walk away if I need to and "step up as a male" If she makes room for it. So here's my plan. As far as arguing, I will give her a "three strikes policy" to get her point across to me and I will make the final decision. This will create tension and I will remind her that I only work within a drama free zone. I will also plan to set up several dates when we can go have fun and then make love after.
What are your top 3 Fun dates? I'm a little stale.
actually i found an old box out when my other half was tidying out his stuff and inside it was all sorts of letters that i sent to him when we were dating back in our days and i put something to him along the lines of... when i was younger, i never understood how guys kept going on after girls who were bitchy towards them, i hadnt a boyfriend at the time and didnt understand why i didnt, and that, if i ever got one id be really nice to him and none of this crazy bitchy stuff would happen to him, and to cut a long story short i realized that u didnt have to be bitchy and horrible to men but that you need to have boundries, and stick up for yourself a bit. And, i think thats what you are talking about and by doing that its gaining respect - its this woman/man doesnt tollerate when i do this, that you cant dictate over him or her because then you loose respect. A guy said to me years ago and this was at a friends house if you always get your say and your way over someone in time you'll start to loose a bit of respect for him, and that is true. Im not all into the power playing but if you develop heathy boundries and have things that you wont do people can respect you for that and respect goes a long way
"doesn't even have to take them on dates ay more" lol sound like me. soon as my door swings the one girl is leaving for the session and another is commin in lol.
You can’t make anyone do anything. Either they want to do something or they don’t. If you trying to make somebody bend to your will, you ARE FUCKED UP!
I think my problem is I'm to confident, I know I'm the shit... I feel like any woman is lucky if I lay the pipe💯
🇺🇸Anon🇺🇸 being confident is hot having an ego is a big ass turn off
If its working for him he should not change a thing
Salute
correct
because men are far less complicated hahha. good video corey
You shaven head bastard!... I feel like I’ve got the cheat codes to courting women and I’m playing on easy mode. Just need to get my practice in and up my “gameplay hours” 😂
Oké there was this colleague arround in the area where we were, and she was little of her pace when she saw him and lookin out for him. After she had a small talk, somehow we, got to talking jealousy..She said it's just a colleague. She said It's absurd if I can't talk to a colleague right? I said .." I'm not jealous, if you think you can get better, just go and get it.. " then she got a little angry.. moody.. Did I say the right thing or what? ✅️❌️?
I hope the guy who wrote in is doing well!!!!!!
what to do when you are married to the woman, and she's not giving you the affection you want?
read the book, learn the fundamentals and apply them
Ugh don’t be that guy who’s been a friend for 10 years waiting for a shot
@ Coach Corey Wayne,. If you keep doing this, one day my girl will be in someone's bed... 🤣
You look like Ryan Reynolds.Great vid.
You can program a girl you like to an extent using positive and negative reinforcement. Like Corey says, if some girl is being a total bitch to you you gotta be a man and tell her to call back when shes calmed down - dont feed or enable her unnacceptable behavior - and when she's sweet and loving, encourage that behavior.
I get everything that you are saying and having quite a bit of success but doing the sleeping with all these women stops me because I get hung up on what I could catch from them. How do you handle the whole discussion of disease?
You Da Man! Although I wish you could quit sharing the secrets I've had all my life it cuts down on the poon pool... lol. Have a good day my friend
this is the most useful thing I've seen all day
Love the vids.
My girl friend has just broke up with me a few days ago and I haven’t made any contact like you say. She has tried to do this at least 20 times as I never let her go before she definitely got more power than we and I want that to change. am I doing the right thing I love her and I don’t want to loose her
Why did she walk away? Why does she keep walking away?
Is it you expect she nurture you 24-7 and so leaves zero time for her nurture herself..
Sounds like you have issue respect boundaries.
Just saying.
Women are not Males 24-7 nurturing services providers. Women her own person. Give her her personal space back (becaz you trample on her personal space) Watch she will see your making an effort. A for effort
I am interested being submissive so i try to watching your videos so i have an idea someday 😊
Never be someone "pet" rather be original
There is nothing wrong w wanting your partner to take charge or be dominant in the bedroom or the world
See, men can get better by watching Corey but in my reserch of the enneagram types, women can easily be a type 8 as well as a man (so both alphas in their own fields) and in that type of relationship expect alot of fights - there is testing but sometimes they both like and enjoy a good fight and can freely express their anger. There are dating guidelines for guys and women.
In past experience men are the ones who are quick to pull away BUT it depends of who gets the most spooked out by commitment or knowing they are falling in love.
And some women and men want to play about a bit before they settle down maybe they've been dicks to women in the past and some women i know have had men on a string. Some people want love and romance and some are looking for whos hot and when can they bang. But... in a committed and loving relationship where trust has been earned the man can make the desicion and as ive said esp if the woman knows shes being treated fairly.
yes i do.
But, it depends purely on the women he is with ad that is changeable. What happens in one relationship with one woman isn't going to happen in another. I have looked in to the ennegram types,it's a real thing - look it up if you dont believe me. Some people aren't in to all of that but if you take the time to look at that you will find how accurate it is and how the relationships work with other types so i can say for sure and i have watched this plan out in other people lives by listening to them when they are all sat at a table or at a social gathering and they are having conversations and you can feel the energy off each person and the more ALPHA they are they have incredible amounts of energy being matched all the time. So the more heartfelt types they can be submitting, but, and funnily enough if they believe something is the right way to go they will become devious. The nicest of people who are 2's, 3's and 4's when pushed can be devious - even 7's but types 1, 6, (esp counter phobic 6's) and 8's are more telling you what they are going to do whether you like it or not so when a different person who isn't an alpha and wants to go about things in their way they will find devious ways to accomplish what they want to because it isn't in there nature to do so and you will find you can have guys who are threes or fours and they are with a female 8. The more ALPLHA you are generally they need a softer personality to balance them out or its just going to be fights and arguments all the time. Yes, i agree in being assertive and not asking for permission etc but the more stronger willed you become, you will have to expect that not a lot of people will agree to think in your way and you need to accept that, and you will get into more head challenges so if a type 3 acts like a type 8 An Asserter/ An Aggressor an ALPHA - they will get their ass handed to them because its not their personality its not in them to do all that. But that's not to say you can't improve yourself and learn traits but instead of being something we are not because i could kid myself I'm an 8 when I'm a 3 but if I'm stuck in a situation with someone I wont be able to pull that off. If someone told me to go into a shop and act angry at a faulty good because they have ripped me off and i get into a conflab i wouldn't last sixty secconds because we are who we are and we can't kid ourselves to be what we aren't. While most women want to be with an Alpha there are others who like the softer men if they themselves are a strong personality.
What i believe Cory is teaching here is to find your confidence and from becoming into this Apha male himself, he wants to uplift everyone because his greatest strength is improving and helping and uplifting people to become a better version of what they want to be and most men want to act with confidence and so the quiet guys can learn a lot from Cory.
I do find most men on the site to be self assured, and call things for what they see things but i do find is a lot of hate towards women. Which is sad but then i know tables turned women can be the same I'm just sharing what I know and who better to learn from - from another women
i read all of that, go on...
hwaner1 i just think that when men or women go on the defensive they move past connection. When they take time to listen to others view points even if you dont agree but most people do like to be heard but to work toward a goal where the both of you keep your pride. i know not all women think like me because an enneagram 8 (an alpha) has a different world view point to me and im a 3 and i like a bit of romance and to be treated right. It varies from person to person but if your serious about someone you work through problems not seeya bye bye and your respectful when you assert your opinions, i dont believe in putting people down and calling names.
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What if she's my ex of 3 months and she's in a rebound of 3 months...should I tell her if it doesn't work out to call me OR just I'd love to take you out sometime let me know?
Beta Rey Bill move on bro screw her
Beta Rey Bill move on bro
The biggest turn-off is feeling like a piece of meat.
McFraneth The biggest turn-on is feeling you ride my meat😂😂😂
Well if you play games and behave like shit, you asked for it really.
Thousandth thumbs up! :)
please make a video on how to not be scared of lossing a girl
jay mi YAGI don't be scared. It's that simple. You have other girls in the world /)
LOL
Thanks.
Lmaooo
My man is the real deal!
This is good advice. Good video.
i like your videos coach thank you
Amazing
Dudes really just sitting in orbit for years... 😂🤣
My problem is my I and I are separated and gets into my history so she's watching this he same videos, how do u override that if she knows ur strategy
This video really made me feel like shit because in my mind that means treating women like a piece of fu##king meat! Shit like this makes it hard for women like me with Mental Health issues hard to find a date.
Correy Wayne is my soul father
I agree with everything that you said in this video, but I still don't understand how you taught men how to make a woman submit to him
lol
+H2Raby mmmm...tempting.. lol
basically he is sayin u make her submit by being u and standing by whatever u believe. makes ya chances of her submitting very high if she is interested but if she doesn't than its ok cuz u r living in abundance, literally or in ya mind.
Thanks for this.
See what I dont understand is why people are depressed when they break up with there girlfriend for cheating.......you should be celebrating because you now have one less fake person in your life🥳🥳🥳🥳🍻🍻🍻🍻🍷🍷🍷🍷🍸🍸🍸🍾🍾🍹🍹
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I live in a house with my in-laws nothing but women it is the most complicated thing you could ever imagine
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When he says our job as a man is not to do what friends do but create a romantic mysterious opportunity for sex to happen, then what happens when we finally establish a relationship with a woman and are with her all the time? Wouldn't we be doing things such as going to the movies, having lunch and doing what friends do when we are with that person for the next 50 years? In other words, what do we do differently once we are in the relationship and perhaps living with her.
real talk man