Find wife educated Filipina, God Fearing, Family oriented, responsible and serious. Most Filipina girl is more really serious and good in relationship.
I m originally from Thailand but my opinion on western men is similar to a western woman has an opinion on you. We are equal and have values to gain understanding to a real romance for a long term relationship.
@@RoamingHoganI m not going to gain opportunities in life just to please you just to marry to get out of the country. Thailand has a good culture and environment already…most people from Thailand and foreigners got back to Thailand to retire after all.
Thai women after married Western and foreigner men, they loose their right and entitlements in Thailand…so if the woman in Thailand decides to marry you she sacrifices a lot for you.
I landed in Bangkok on Monday and I have been here for six days now. I have gone on a date with one Thai girl. I also went to the Philippines in the past year ago and I have found that your comparisons between the Thai and Filipina women is 100% accurate. I will be hopping on a plane tomorrow to the Philippines. I have seen enough of Thailand.
@@giannilyanicks1718 No. Lol! I am not into bar girls. I was just too difficult to communicate since most of the people I met did not speak English and I did not speak Thai.
Both countries for me very easy to meet attract young women. I never go to where expats are. Women are lovely in both. Filipinas are easier to meet and be all in for relationships, in general. Thai relationships are clearly more transactional. It’s always spoken what they want in terms of materialism. The Filipinas that I met it was never discussed. Cambodian women are more like Filipinas. Filipinas are better mates. They fight for relationships.
I would never speak bad about girls from either country, but I have a great deal more experience with Filipinas having been married to one18 years this year. We have a daughter 14 years old, and our relationship is still going on strong. A Filipina girl will not just walk away when things get tough, (like if you have a cultural difference of opinion on a subject). So since the subject is who should you "marry" I can only say that if you choose a Filipina you will be happy with your choice.
Very good observation and helpful tips Tom. Like you say there are good/bad people in both PI and Thailand, but in PI the language/communication is easier as they speak English just about every. That is a big plus in starting a relationship. Thank you for sharing and safe travels till the next video!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Tom. # i agreed that we invest a lot on relationship or our marriage because we don't have divorce here in Philippines.
This is from the Philippines. If you want to marry a Filipina, you must also know her family. There is no ideal girl. Marriage means that a couple must journey to live together and grow together to become what God intends them to be. A successful marriage is when you allow God to be in your journey too. Allow Him to be part of your venture in life. He will guide you and provide for what you need as you try to struggle your way together...Mutual acceptance, respect, understanding, sacrifice,,,, when done with love, is the best that can happen in your life....
This Sir is the best response yet. I 100 percent agree. As a side note, there is a website that is supposed to cater to that kind of lifestyle. In my experience, CF is full of scammers. I am starting my journey IRL as soon as I can. I will land in a city and tell the driver to take me to an island that no foreigner asks to go 🤣... in the north of course
I think Thai and Filipino women have similar traits. Both can have those who are independent, likes to go out with friends and party and drink or just a homebody. So in that case you can actually pick any woman with the personality that you prefer. But the biggest difference I can aay is the communication line. If it's okay with you to have a hard time communicating with your partner then you can go with a Thai. Also, Filipina women are more loyal (mostly) because we are family oriented. So if you want a life-long realtionship without any language barrier, then a Filipina would be better. 👍
Married to Cebuana (Filipina from Cebu) 25 years now. Visited Philippines at least once a year for four or more weeks but never lived in Philippines full time. I find what Tom shared to be spot on. Tampo can be an issue in some cases and worth being aware of.
Obviously depending who you meet the cultures are vastly different but i know that if you find the right filipina you have a better chance because of their culture and language makes it so much better.
I’m biased since I’m a Filipino. I would prefer a Filipina when I retire I will move from Southern California to Makati since I have lots of relatives that live in Manila.
You are 100% right,had relationships with both,if you want just fun take the Thai girl if you want someone to settle down with the Philippines girl she will love you so much” province girl”
After listening to the story of a Thai youtuber, Ive learned that if a Thai girlfriend says im busy tomorrow i wont able to see you, it most of the times means, she's dating boyfriend number 2.
No offense but I think this is a bit weird comparison overall. I’m a thai girl myself and have seen many long lasting thai-foreigner couples throughout my life. Sure the filo culture and the western r much more similiar due to colonisation in the past, where thailand not. It also depends on what kinda girls you choose to date, cus everyone’s different. Try dating a thai where she has higher education and a good job, cus then surely communication wouldn’t be much of a “problem”. You guys in the comment section can’t say thai girls are just for “temporary fun”, that’s just not right. We’re not objects, just because you couldn’t even keep ur girl for long don’t mean the rest of us can’t settle for a long-term relationship. Thai girls would give and do everything for a man if they see the potential in him. All in all i think this is wrong. Marry who you love regardless their nationality. Don’t compare women like objects, it’s not so very nice.
I visited the Philippines over the Christmas break I was shopping just gone through the till and I was waiting for my girlfriend to come through the till. As I was waiting this Filipino lady walked up to me saying hi sir how are you going. Are you with anyone I said yes I'm waiting for my girlfriend who is right over there she got very embarrassed and put her head down and walked away. My girlfriend seen it all happen there friendly in the Philippines 😊😊
I met my filipina here in the UK...we're both in our 50,s....its a great culture and filipinas take the relationship seriously.....filipinas are far nicer than English girls too.
I have children born and raised in San Francisco California USA she very nice . The reason Philippino women very to you beautiful they come from poor country poverty they want to leaves their to country, when met British man she want marry live in UK .
Enjoyed the chat, mate. i hadn't considered Thai women at all, as the general perception is that they are uninterested in dating/being with guys outside of their own race, but recently (mostly listening to the vlogger Robb) learned to understand that they do appreciate a stable provider type, good hygiene, reliable, not a drinker, party type, and although less romantic that a Filipina they will be attentive with deeds to make sure their man is happy and "empty" so he isn't looking or tempted to go for a side girl; which is a common cultural experience there. Thailand is just miles ahead of PH for clean, easy, efficient, etc modern life, so I think i'm going to reconsider my move next year and include both countries.
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The thing is, you just do what works for you. I'm glad I met a man who has the same values and thinking as me, and I am a filipino. My husband and I are both family oriented, love movies, board games, and tv series, walks, and stay at home with our kid who's fortunately like us as well. At the end of the day, no matter what country your partner is from, it is important that you have the same values and outlook in life.
I wanna see you..from start to finish.. Flirt with a girl you've never meant..ask her to go out for a date then get to know her ,like her past. things she likes..kinda like a low key interview style
I don't think you should marry anyone, I have lived in Bangkok for a decade and refuse to date one for more than 6 weeks tops... it is Thailand you don't need to bring sand to the beach
Nobody should ever look for a wife or girlfriend, just let it happen naturally. When the right person comes along you wont want to look for anyone else.
I dated a guy from usa for 4 years wasting my life... The cost of visa's and travel expences we agreed to not go ahead anymore., (I have got in-touch with a freind from 15 years ago and now we are doing the 💓xxxxxxx Hes from uk)
Well i have babies with thai and pinay. The Philippines culture is more compatible with us then the thai culture besides that pinay are for me better looking in general. 😂 Then the fluency in English is another important factor. Btw Tom u had a good cebuana already so u should know hahaha
Thai girls like to go out having fun.. is it possible because she can afford to have fun? Pinay in province may consider economy more so they must control the entertainment cost. May i suggest you to compare expats groups between these 2 countries? I have very limited observation from my visitor experience
I have had a Thai girlfriend and a Filipina girlfriend. Both for more than 2 years at different times of my life. The Thai girl was very work oriented. She was trying to grow a business. Beautiful girl but I didn't fit into her lifestyle. The Filipina was too laid back. I thought lazy was a better word. She was definitely clingy. Family was very important to her. I pretty much agree with your characterization of each one. The girl in the area that I fell in love with is from Cambodia. She would cook, clean, manage the home while I traveled. She took over which was great for me. She was a Buddhist which was a good experience. Thanks for your vlogs. I really enjoy them.
I was set on Thailand before I discovered the Philippines on RUclips. I'm now over a year in my relationship with a beautiful Filipina. I spent 10 weeks there over the summer and I am currently in the process of going back to live there. 😊
I am a Thai woman who has been married to an American man for seven years, and he always says that I am the best part of his life. I’m glad you’ve discovered the type of woman you like. 😊😊 However, it’s unfortunate that you compared women from two countries based on your limited experiences, having dated not even 0.00000000001% of Thai or Filipina women. The woman you date, love, or marry ultimately depends on what kind of partner you’re looking for. If you want someone who can be both a wife and a life partner-someone who will grow with you, support you, lead when you’re lost, and follow when you need to lead-then a serious Thai woman might be the right match for you. She might not create grand romantic gestures, but she will always stand by your side. Whenever you look back, she will be there. You can fall into her arms when you’re weak, knowing she will catch you. As a serious Thai woman, I deeply love and care for my husband. I want to be beside him and grow old together-not just follow him around like a puppy. Be happy with your choice. 😊😊
I think It's hard to find true love in Thailand than in the Philippines. If you're just for fun thai ladies is much great to hangout. But if your looking for love filipinas is better to recommended just don't find them in bars. But just still be mindful not all are genuine girls..
It is easy to find d true love in thailand but depend what are u looking for.Thai girl are not for fun for white guy.Not all the thai lady drink alcohol.This guy living in the city and date the city thai lady that why he can said that.
Everyone says the Philippines is family oriented, but where are all the Filipino dads in these families?? They take off. And there are lots of Filipino siblings and each has a different biological dad, or an unknown dad. Yeah the family is strong there in PH. But it’s the woman family members in survival mode taking care of each other after being abandoned by Filipino men.
Like saying that the Philippines is a dangerous country. Some haven’t been to PH but are exposed to foreign media biased news. These expats hear tales only of Filipina girls who are usually very liberated school dropouts bar girls and blame boyfriends for their failed relationships. Typical desperate moves a way to convince for expats’ empathy and attention. Unless an expat dig himself to the culture, that perception for him will be real.
I’m a thai woman, just get it 😅 Let me sharing my opinions ….Though Thai women ignored that don’t mean have much options but they mean valuable things 😊 And that doesn’t mean not cared men but Thai women are not sure what you want in relationship …just my opinions 😅 To be honest
Most Thai women prefer Thai men. If they want to have their first boyfriend This is different from Filipino girls who prefer Westerners. Thailand has a better economic position than the Philippines. Therefore, it is not popular to work abroad and can have more options. But the ratio of women in Thailand is approximately 1 million more than that of men, while in the Philippines the ratio of men and women is about the same. Beauty, complexion, figure, variety of facial features. and the meaning of dress, beauty, flexibility, including dress. Overall and mostly Thai women are better looking. But Filipina girls will find it easier to approach you. and likes strangers Thai women tend to be more reserved towards strangers. But in both countries girls are usually friendly and charming as well.
Yeah. That’s why many many expats in Thailand languish in jails or commit suicides. If not they are left on the roads moneyless and devastated by their Thai girlfriends or even wives. And the Thai government had the drastic inhumane immigration laws to minimize these expats.
Excuse mw huh thw only beautiful socalled beautiful in ur country r mostly usually 3 category;1) ~LADYBOY 2).T.Y Dr~COURTESY OF PLASTIC SURGERY. And lot of beauty product and skin whitening 3).lastly. a few of the socalled beautiful ur claiming arent even pure or plain Thai. those r mix or half thai half western lol ,stop being snowflakes butthurt,just b realistic and may i add too that. A lot of the socalled beautiful thais are in bars thre in short?
Thailand isnt even economically ahead of the Philippines thats why a lot of are drooling to lure western men even the oldest as long as the wallet is fattest too
Yes you are right Filipina are more clingy coz we care the one we love .we look after the guy the best that we can. Have some western guy married Thai woman it seems Thai woman doesn’t care if their husband was cheating to them as long the guy’s responsibility is still given to them .
Just cus we ain´t as much clingy as the filos, don't mean we don´t care for the guy. What are u even tryna use as an argument? It doesn´t even make sense. We Thais, are more independent and aren´t as insecure in a relationship. It´s simple as that. And let me ask you which women on this earth wouldn´t care if their husband is out cheating on them? How could you possibly think that way?
@@giannilyanicks1718coming from someone who cant even speak or write english well,lol r u defensive coz ur. A thai?ive been seeing ur name in almost every comment huh ur so hotheaded tantruming whining and going against pinays just to promote exaggerately about thais huh,ur so freaking hating pinays right?im~wondering whre ur coming from why~so defensive and hating huh,dont tell me ur a thai?
Spot on about Bangkokians having lots of options. It's like a revolving door and not just for them girls 😉Even from a platonic point of view - if you live in Bangkok and have lots of international friends, never a month will go by before you're invited to a catch-up dinner with someone who's passing through.
I always have girls on the Soi over here in BKK saying hello....but they always seem to want to give me a massage (and they speak some English: "Hello Massage")...LOL
8 years after i married my Filipino wife i found out she was still married to the father of her 2 children who i had welcomed into my life. Betrayal is the first word that comes to mind, its a long list...
Having dated both Thai and Pinay women I agree more or less 100 % with you. But no matter what, they are much better to settle down with than Western women...
I m originally from Thailand but I m not going to gain opportunities in life just to please you just to marry to get out of the country. Everyone is equal has a value to share life for a romance to a long term relationship. Thailand has a good culture and environment already…most people from Thailand and foreigners got back to Thailand to retire after all. If you are too greedy then you go out with a girl who would love to stay on your feet instead of walking along with you
Anyway, the Thais he has been with, looks boring and unfun persons, unlike them the Filipinos looks alive and funner to interact. ah, and don't bother to reply me when you disagree.
Does the equation change drastically if the foreigner man is fluent in Thai and can't speak English? In Philippines this man couldn't talk to anyone at all.
100% right on the money I have a Thai wife For last 3 years and we have a kid And yes you are right With thais My wife is from the northern Thailand And yes it’s true all thais love too party and drink Filipino woman do as well but they love family life as well Has a Filipino guy myself I rather a Thailand girl Not cause my wife is Thai But Thai are not has hard work than Filipino Like clingy etc But Thailand woman have a bad attitude than Filipinos 😂
Speaking the same language is a huge difference and the culture comfort with Catholicism is a distinct difference as well. Hard to not have more in common with the western culture of the Philippines. > But each relationship is a unique situation and deserves space for it to be judged on their own separate merits ?
Tom is on the money here ,I ve been to phillipines but not Thailand, one difference is the religious background .. ive dated both and pinay are most Catholic & Christian and thai girls are Buddhist. Both are great in their way 🎉
Haha ! you need to meet right lady ,married whit thai 7 y Married whit Philippinas 21 year ,still philippines .you need to find the red line between you .Philippines girls i think take care of the husband more also more like western .even if you poor or rice old or young .
PHILIPPINES ALL DAY LONG FOR ME BUT EVERYONE TO THERE OWN CHOICE ? AND THAILAND HAS GOT WAY TO COMMERICALISED OVER THE LAST FEW YEARS AND EXPENSIVE TO WHAT IT UDED TO BE ! GOODLUCK GUY'S WEREVER YOU CHOOSE 👊🙏🏴
Hi Tom, I have been in Thailand and The Philippines recently and in both occasions I walked past DOMs making out with Hot girls in their 20s. What is your take about these kinds of relationship? Is it just purely about money or something else goings-on there? 😂
I second this . From my observations from what I seen in Thailand and Philippines .. cheap Charlie's can get an older woman or a bar girl . "Higher milage older model" But a beautiful, educated, respectable girl won't be impressed by a cheap Charlie on a toursit visa . Where in the Philippines A cheap charlie can get a better quality of woman on his torusit visa with his penny's in his pocket .
The main issue I have with the supposed Catholics in the Philippines is that there is animal abuse everywhere. Not just the cock fighting, but even abuse and lack of proper care of domestic pets. In Thailand, most people don't have pets at all, but the ones that do look after them and don't leave them malnourished and tied to trees. Buddhists seem to genuinely believe in treating animals well, while many Filipinos do not.
Good stuff, Tom. Many thanks. That coffee place looks so good that I'm going out for some right now, lol. I gotta tell you, from where I'm sitting, the ladies from both countries look divinely beautiful.
Diviney~beautiful both?whrepart?can u send~some pic of not mix or interracial thai,not celebrity,just an ordinary status yet so~goodlooking pic of any thai u know in person?
I'm hoping you can find a woman like MJ in Thailand 😆 But it's hard to find a woman like MJ you know... She's generous and family oriented woman.♥️ I'm a Filipina. I agree with you that a Filipina can take a relationship long ...I have a longtime partner ♥️ My partner doesn't like bar girls🤣 He is a decent man... My partner and I are both healthcare professionals.
@@anelsnts Thanks... Anyway, MJ is in a relationship with Robbie already. He's a respectful and hardworking. He knows how to fix something in Mj's house. Robbie is a perfect partner for MJ .
MJ was sweet and nice only in the beginning. She is now very bossy and ordering everyone around. And what was she doing in Europe? Does she have a sugar daddy overthere? Nothing wrong with that but she should tell like it is and stop pretending.
It's going to come down to your personality and preference. Most Western men, especially from the USA, will do better with a filipina. Especially if they are older and stuck in their own ways. Someone mentioned Laos. That can be difficult as their dating culture is different from what most people are used to in the West. Seems to be way more traditional. I personally would prefer Cambodia for a variety of reasons. They seem to be very feminine in a ladylike way. Where as the Philippines the women will have more of a childish demeanor.
You have some point for bringing the word "childish". I agree to that, we acted like childish because of our "TAMPO" feelings..and we are shy also to express our emotions.
@JeanAriesM Since Filipinos tend to live together in large groups, it makes sense to some degree to use Tampo. It would be too much if multiple ppl are arguing/fighting in one confined space. I was more referring to the fact that they tend to have a simpler nature and can be naive to many things due to lack of exposure. which, in many ways, can be endearing. Filipinas will get excited for things that Western women take for granted. It makes them seem happier and more appreciative. Simplicity contains more beauty than complexity. However, I have seen quite a few western vloggers get annoyed at filipinas simplicity. They said they feel like they have to be their teacher, and that becomes frustrating to them. Those vloggers are usually older men. I was pointing it out so those older men can have an idea of what they are getting into. Personally, I like filipinas' happy and simple demeanor. They often times are funny as well. Many times, they can make you laugh, and they aren't even aware that they said or did something humorous.
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Thank's for the Shotout Tom, Don. California. U.S.A.. 1-13-2024.
Find wife educated Filipina, God Fearing, Family oriented, responsible and serious. Most Filipina girl is more really serious and good in relationship.
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Yes woman who stays on your feet 😁
I m originally from Thailand but my opinion on western men is similar to a western woman has an opinion on you. We are equal and have values to gain understanding to a real romance for a long term relationship.
@@RoamingHoganI m not going to gain opportunities in life just to please you just to marry to get out of the country. Thailand has a good culture and environment already…most people from Thailand and foreigners got back to Thailand to retire after all.
Thai women after married Western and foreigner men, they loose their right and entitlements in Thailand…so if the woman in Thailand decides to marry you she sacrifices a lot for you.
I landed in Bangkok on Monday and I have been here for six days now. I have gone on a date with one Thai girl. I also went to the Philippines in the past year ago and I have found that your comparisons between the Thai and Filipina women is 100% accurate. I will be hopping on a plane tomorrow to the Philippines. I have seen enough of Thailand.
Someone lose their money with that thai
@@giannilyanicks1718 No. Lol! I am not into bar girls. I was just too difficult to communicate since most of the people I met did not speak English and I did not speak Thai.
@@lolnoyou666 I felt alone and isolated because of the language barrier. I was surrounded by people but we couldn't carry on a conversation.
@@gary4451 only now you reply? what is that? leave me alone, the toxic pro-Filipino of bad faith!
@@gary4451 only now you reply? leave me alone, the toxic pro-Filipino of bad faith!
Both countries for me very easy to meet attract young women. I never go to where expats are. Women are lovely in both. Filipinas are easier to meet and be all in for relationships, in general. Thai relationships are clearly more transactional. It’s always spoken what they want in terms of materialism. The Filipinas that I met it was never discussed. Cambodian women are more like Filipinas. Filipinas are better mates. They fight for relationships.
I would never speak bad about girls from either country, but I have a great deal more experience with Filipinas having been married to one18 years this year. We have a daughter 14 years old, and our relationship is still going on strong. A Filipina girl will not just walk away when things get tough, (like if you have a cultural difference of opinion on a subject). So since the subject is who should you "marry" I can only say that if you choose a Filipina you will be happy with your choice.
I brought my girl back to the US, we were married here. @johnfoley4023
I am in relationship with Filipino lady I have no complaints very lucky too have her
Very good observation and helpful tips Tom. Like you say there are good/bad people in both PI and Thailand, but in PI the language/communication is easier as they speak English just about every. That is a big plus in starting a relationship. Thank you for sharing and safe travels till the next video!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Tom.
# i agreed that we invest a lot on relationship or our marriage because we don't have divorce here in Philippines.
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@makingthemovebydarren9255 yes, but too expensive for us ordinary Filipinos, and we're not sure if it is granted at the end.
This is from the Philippines. If you want to marry a Filipina, you must also know her family. There is no ideal girl. Marriage means that a couple must journey to live together and grow together to become what God intends them to be. A successful marriage is when you allow God to be in your journey too. Allow Him to be part of your venture in life. He will guide you and provide for what you need as you try to struggle your way together...Mutual acceptance, respect, understanding, sacrifice,,,, when done with love, is the best that can happen in your life....
They won t live in together before married if they fear God.
BEAUTIFUL MSG, LET GOD TAKE CHARGE N SEE THE BEAUTY , IT WILL BE BALANCE N HARMONY THRU N THRU
This Sir is the best response yet. I 100 percent agree. As a side note, there is a website that is supposed to cater to that kind of lifestyle. In my experience, CF is full of scammers. I am starting my journey IRL as soon as I can. I will land in a city and tell the driver to take me to an island that no foreigner asks to go 🤣... in the north of course
That's why it's not a so good idea.
I think Thai and Filipino women have similar traits. Both can have those who are independent, likes to go out with friends and party and drink or just a homebody. So in that case you can actually pick any woman with the personality that you prefer. But the biggest difference I can aay is the communication line. If it's okay with you to have a hard time communicating with your partner then you can go with a Thai. Also, Filipina women are more loyal (mostly) because we are family oriented. So if you want a life-long realtionship without any language barrier, then a Filipina would be better. 👍
Married to Cebuana (Filipina from Cebu) 25 years now. Visited Philippines at least once a year for four or more weeks but never lived in Philippines full time. I find what Tom shared to be spot on.
Tampo can be an issue in some cases and worth being aware of.
Hi Tom ,, Ive never been to Thailand but Ive lived in Mindanao for 5 years and think you have summed up the girls in PH pretty accurate ,
Obviously depending who you meet the cultures are vastly different but i know that if you find the right filipina you have a better chance because of their culture and language makes it so much better.
What do you get in a foreign guy that doesn’t have a goal in life .
Great video, I got the information I needed and will subscribe. Job well done!
I’m biased since I’m a Filipino. I would prefer a Filipina when I retire I will move from Southern California to Makati since I have lots of relatives that live in Manila.
You are 100% right,had relationships with both,if you want just fun take the Thai girl if you want someone to settle down with the Philippines girl she will love you so much” province girl”
Really
After listening to the story of a Thai youtuber, Ive learned that if a Thai girlfriend says im busy tomorrow i wont able to see you, it most of the times means, she's dating boyfriend number 2.
Try meeting decent educated and financially independent women and see if you’ve got a chance for a relationship.
not really possible for 95 percent of westerners
Why would you want to do that to your self???😅😅😅
Bahahaha... sure kid. Jealous much?
@ wow very original.
No offense but I think this is a bit weird comparison overall. I’m a thai girl myself and have seen many long lasting thai-foreigner couples throughout my life.
Sure the filo culture and the western r much more similiar due to colonisation in the past, where thailand not. It also depends on what kinda girls you choose to date, cus everyone’s different. Try dating a thai where she has higher education and a good job, cus then surely communication wouldn’t be much of a “problem”.
You guys in the comment section can’t say thai girls are just for “temporary fun”, that’s just not right. We’re not objects, just because you couldn’t even keep ur girl for long don’t mean the rest of us can’t settle for a long-term relationship. Thai girls would give and do everything for a man if they see the potential in him.
All in all i think this is wrong. Marry who you love regardless their nationality. Don’t compare women like objects, it’s not so very nice.
I visited the Philippines over the Christmas break I was shopping just gone through the till and I was waiting for my girlfriend to come through the till. As I was waiting this Filipino lady walked up to me saying hi sir how are you going. Are you with anyone I said yes I'm waiting for my girlfriend who is right over there she got very embarrassed and put her head down and walked away. My girlfriend seen it all happen there friendly in the Philippines 😊😊
She wanted your money
@@libatalklieb5793 Stop generalizing. Maybe she find him attractive and just want to have a sweet talk with him.
@@mamagne800 Stop being a dopey gullible fool.
I met my filipina here in the UK...we're both in our 50,s....its a great culture and filipinas take the relationship seriously.....filipinas are far nicer than English girls too.
Please don’t insult English girls sire all the women the same
I have children born and raised in San Francisco California USA she very nice . The reason Philippino women very to you beautiful they come from poor country poverty they want to leaves their to country, when met British man she want marry live in UK .
@@vannymills5148exactly true
@@vannymills5148 yes 50-50
people are arrogant when they speak of their filippinos family
Great vid mate
Marry A woman who love God and God Fearing. Not Materialistic. Family oriented. Stay away Carrier woman. 😍❤️😍🇵🇭🇺🇸🇵🇭🇺🇸🙏
But a lot foreigners they want to learn about Buddhism 😂
Enjoyed the chat, mate.
i hadn't considered Thai women at all, as the general perception is that they are uninterested in dating/being with guys outside of their own race, but recently (mostly listening to the vlogger Robb) learned to understand that they do appreciate a stable provider type, good hygiene, reliable, not a drinker, party type, and although less romantic that a Filipina they will be attentive with deeds to make sure their man is happy and "empty" so he isn't looking or tempted to go for a side girl; which is a common cultural experience there.
Thailand is just miles ahead of PH for clean, easy, efficient, etc modern life, so I think i'm going to reconsider my move next year and include both countries.
you are absolutely right!!
great video mate
Most Pinay want love,mostThai girls are in business.....😊
My experiences.
Great video😊
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The thing is, you just do what works for you. I'm glad I met a man who has the same values and thinking as me, and I am a filipino. My husband and I are both family oriented, love movies, board games, and tv series, walks, and stay at home with our kid who's fortunately like us as well. At the end of the day, no matter what country your partner is from, it is important that you have the same values and outlook in life.
I wanna see you..from start to finish.. Flirt with a girl you've never meant..ask her to go out for a date then get to know her ,like her past. things she likes..kinda like a low key interview style
That's a nice hat mate!!! ❤
Thanks when you getting me another 😙
I don't think you should marry anyone, I have lived in Bangkok for a decade and refuse to date one for more than 6 weeks tops... it is Thailand you don't need to bring sand to the beach
Nobody should ever look for a wife or girlfriend, just let it happen naturally. When the right person comes along you wont want to look for anyone else.
You know though he likes to joke alot too right 😂 ✌️👍
Couple of each
The best advice, the most reasonable comment here instead of always "flipinas da best"
I always hear the same thing from 40+ women who are still single want a man but not looking 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly
The best option is to find a Filipina in Thailand: you get the advantage of a Filipina without the hurdles of in-laws bothering you!
I dated a guy from usa for 4 years wasting my life... The cost of visa's and travel expences we agreed to not go ahead anymore., (I have got in-touch with a freind from 15 years ago and now we are doing the 💓xxxxxxx Hes from uk)
Maybe he is married 😅
@@glendacastillo6504 100% not as we've been to each others house 😋
I don't know that I believe you that a Thai woman will easily give up her man. I've seen some extremely possessive Thai women.
Well i have babies with thai and pinay. The Philippines culture is more compatible with us then the thai culture besides that pinay are for me better looking in general. 😂 Then the fluency in English is another important factor. Btw Tom u had a good cebuana already so u should know hahaha
true already live and sleep with her😮
Thai girls like to go out having fun.. is it possible because she can afford to have fun?
Pinay in province may consider economy more so they must control the entertainment cost.
May i suggest you to compare expats groups between these 2 countries? I have very limited observation from my visitor experience
I have had a Thai girlfriend and a Filipina girlfriend. Both for more than 2 years at different times of my life. The Thai girl was very work oriented. She was trying to grow a business. Beautiful girl but I didn't fit into her lifestyle.
The Filipina was too laid back. I thought lazy was a better word. She was definitely clingy. Family was very important to her.
I pretty much agree with your characterization of each one.
The girl in the area that I fell in love with is from Cambodia. She would cook, clean, manage the home while I traveled. She took over which was great for me. She was a Buddhist which was a good experience.
Thanks for your vlogs. I really enjoy them.
Lazy and clingy
I miss your videos with locals in the Philippines its lively
I was set on Thailand before I discovered the Philippines on RUclips. I'm now over a year in my relationship with a beautiful Filipina. I spent 10 weeks there over the summer and I am currently in the process of going back to live there. 😊
Nice 😊
It's a boring country compared to Thailand
@@myplace848Omg dont generalize...u maybe is not perfect!!!!
@@myplace848 it takes 2 to Tango!
@@myplace848 Uh-uh smell something fishy here. Maybe you're a mess, and someone dumped you in the Philippines. That's why. 😏😂
Thai girls are for short fun, Pinays are for long term. Simple is that. I have been with many from both countries.
Agree with you 😊
I am a Thai woman who has been married to an American man for seven years, and he always says that I am the best part of his life. I’m glad you’ve discovered the type of woman you like. 😊😊
However, it’s unfortunate that you compared women from two countries based on your limited experiences, having dated not even 0.00000000001% of Thai or Filipina women.
The woman you date, love, or marry ultimately depends on what kind of partner you’re looking for. If you want someone who can be both a wife and a life partner-someone who will grow with you, support you, lead when you’re lost, and follow when you need to lead-then a serious Thai woman might be the right match for you.
She might not create grand romantic gestures, but she will always stand by your side. Whenever you look back, she will be there. You can fall into her arms when you’re weak, knowing she will catch you. As a serious Thai woman, I deeply love and care for my husband. I want to be beside him and grow old together-not just follow him around like a puppy.
Be happy with your choice. 😊😊
I never have had this experience with any Thai women and I have lived here for 2 years . My girlfriend is so loving and cherished family .
Its nice that you like to come in Philippines ♥️🙏
good study. I agree and have similar experience.
After watching many videos. Id probably pick Cambodian lady but of course id have to actually be there. Take care buddy 😊✌️✌️
I think It's hard to find true love in Thailand than in the Philippines. If you're just for fun thai ladies is much great to hangout. But if your looking for love filipinas is better to recommended just don't find them in bars. But just still be mindful not all are genuine girls..
Low-quality men are also suitable for low-quality women. The world will attract them to find each other until they meet.😂
It is easy to find d true love in thailand but depend what are u looking for.Thai girl are not for fun for white guy.Not all the thai lady drink alcohol.This guy living in the city and date the city thai lady that why he can said that.
Everyone says the Philippines is family oriented, but where are all the Filipino dads in these families?? They take off. And there are lots of Filipino siblings and each has a different biological dad, or an unknown dad. Yeah the family is strong there in PH. But it’s the woman family members in survival mode taking care of each other after being abandoned by Filipino men.
Like saying that the Philippines is a dangerous country. Some haven’t been to PH but are exposed to foreign media biased news. These expats hear tales only of Filipina girls who are usually very liberated school dropouts bar girls and blame boyfriends for their failed relationships. Typical desperate moves a way to convince for expats’ empathy and attention. Unless an expat dig himself to the culture, that perception for him will be real.
Oy don't generalize. It's as if other race don't do that too.
Because when philippina gets pregnant they discard the man as he is not needed any more.
@@edisonuy7707most Phill.girls
Extended family!
I’m a thai woman, just get it 😅 Let me sharing my opinions ….Though Thai women ignored that don’t mean have much options but they mean valuable things 😊
And that
doesn’t mean not cared men but Thai women are not sure what you want in relationship …just my opinions 😅
To be honest
What are age gap, Tom? Is that more of a filipina thing? What about in Thailand? Also, province vs. City in both places?
Thank you tom . ..if you meet filipina girls with a sense of humor you will live comfortably with filipino girls...
Most Thai women prefer Thai men. If they want to have their first boyfriend This is different from Filipino girls who prefer Westerners.
Thailand has a better economic position than the Philippines. Therefore, it is not popular to work abroad and can have more options. But the ratio of women in Thailand is approximately 1 million more than that of men, while in the Philippines the ratio of men and women is about the same.
Beauty, complexion, figure, variety of facial features. and the meaning of dress, beauty, flexibility, including dress. Overall and mostly Thai women are better looking.
But Filipina girls will find it easier to approach you. and likes strangers Thai women tend to be more reserved towards strangers. But in both countries girls are usually friendly and charming as well.
Yeah. That’s why many many expats in Thailand languish in jails or commit suicides. If not they are left on the roads moneyless and devastated by their Thai girlfriends or even wives. And the Thai government had the drastic inhumane immigration laws to minimize these expats.
Ratio of women in Thai , does that include Gay or transgender😅 Thai s
hum that is clear that thais sucks compared to Filipinos
Excuse mw huh thw only beautiful socalled beautiful in ur country r mostly usually 3 category;1) ~LADYBOY 2).T.Y Dr~COURTESY OF PLASTIC SURGERY. And lot of beauty product and skin whitening 3).lastly. a few of the socalled beautiful ur claiming arent even pure or plain Thai. those r mix or half thai half western lol ,stop being snowflakes butthurt,just b realistic and may i add too that. A lot of the socalled beautiful thais are in bars thre in short?
Thailand isnt even economically ahead of the Philippines thats why a lot of are drooling to lure western men even the oldest as long as the wallet is fattest too
Spot on
Whatever one chooses and works for them is the best. :)
Yes you are right Filipina are more clingy coz we care the one we love .we look after the guy the best that we can.
Have some western guy married Thai woman it seems Thai woman doesn’t care if their husband was cheating to them as long the guy’s responsibility is still given to them .
Just cus we ain´t as much clingy as the filos, don't mean we don´t care for the guy. What are u even tryna use as an argument? It doesn´t even make sense.
We Thais, are more independent and aren´t as insecure in a relationship. It´s simple as that.
And let me ask you which women on this earth wouldn´t care if their husband is out cheating on them? How could you possibly think that way?
Marry who ever fit’s your liking!
People of the same quality will be attracted to each other. No matter what nationality
100% filipino, much better
No!
they start to be overrated with thais
The one I married doesn’t drink alcohol or smoke likes tell me off over my health lol
@@giannilyanicks1718coming from someone who cant even speak or write english well,lol r u defensive coz ur. A thai?ive been seeing ur name in almost every comment huh ur so hotheaded tantruming whining and going against pinays just to promote exaggerately about thais huh,ur so freaking hating pinays right?im~wondering whre ur coming from why~so defensive and hating huh,dont tell me ur a thai?
@@giannilyanicks1718dont u see u had been intruding butting in every comment section yet~no ones replying or paying u an attention huh?
Maybe it will be hard to find a girl like MJ. Hoping that in the long run of your roaming ....you will find a girl like MJ.
Agree 💯
It's hard to find a decent woman nowadays...
@@rubymaealido7573decent,??live in and already sleep with a men /her bf before married.
Spot on about Bangkokians having lots of options. It's like a revolving door and not just for them girls 😉Even from a platonic point of view - if you live in Bangkok and have lots of international friends, never a month will go by before you're invited to a catch-up dinner with someone who's passing through.
True
I always have girls on the Soi over here in BKK saying hello....but they always seem to want to give me a massage (and they speak some English: "Hello Massage")...LOL
😅
International language of love
@@RoamingHoganin philippines they. were more polite "Hello Sir" ... LOL
@@thekoshertourist pinoy will sleep with you for McDonalds and yet you sleep on their mothers graves
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
So Thai no, Phil yes. Got it. Thank you.
Why asked? You should know which one to marry especially you already have experience with both cultures???
It was a question from a viewer. Diba?
Yes.
Many foreign men date both thai and filipina gfs.Whos the best?It depends on a mans preference.
Roaming -how about ☘️ girls versus pinays or Thais?
Haha! No comparison. Ireland hasn't been Catholic since it went woke. And most young Irish girls are now from the middle east or Africa.
I like Filipina but as a country I like Thailand more than the phillipines . Can I get a Filipina but live in Thailand
no one is stopping you?
8 years after i married my Filipino wife i found out she was still married to the father of her 2 children who i had welcomed into my life. Betrayal is the first word that comes to mind, its a long list...
Stay single…..there’s always drama.
Different cultures and ways of thinking and having to deal with family …..it never ends.
chinese and japanese girls i think are best their educated , hard working and respect you with true love rather than because of money
Yes i agree,
@@philmcleod111 Chinese girls love to gossip. And they are unhygienic. Covid develops in their home country because of these instances.
My thoughts exactly Koreans also. There's alot of them who are single and interested in dating foriegners.
Are you.looking for a wife?
MJ was such a nice , beautiful girl.
Do you regret leaving her?
No regrets in life my friend
She dont deserve this man
Watching from canada
Personal preference is what it comes down to..
Having dated both Thai and Pinay women I agree more or less 100 % with you. But no matter what, they are much better to settle down with than Western women...
😂
@@MarkyV-oe5pn
Where would ya recommend coming to?! Manila , Cebu or Davao. It'll be my first time in the Philippines and travelling anywhere solo! 😅
Depends your age
@RoamingHogan 43 but act like 21!!! 🤪🤣
It depends which one meet your criteria, same in commons, similar interests, chemistry meets..etc
I m originally from Thailand but I m not going to gain opportunities in life just to please you just to marry to get out of the country. Everyone is equal has a value to share life for a romance to a long term relationship. Thailand has a good culture and environment already…most people from Thailand and foreigners got back to Thailand to retire after all. If you are too greedy then you go out with a girl who would love to stay on your feet instead of walking along with you
Anyway, the Thais he has been with, looks boring and unfun persons, unlike them the Filipinos looks alive and funner to interact. ah, and don't bother to reply me when you disagree.
Does the equation change drastically if the foreigner man is fluent in Thai and can't speak English? In Philippines this man couldn't talk to anyone at all.
Philippines win , simply none can compare
this is not a competition.
100% right on the money
I have a Thai wife
For last 3 years and we have a kid
And yes you are right
With thais
My wife is from the northern Thailand
And yes it’s true all thais love too party and drink
Filipino woman do as well but they love family life as well
Has a Filipino guy myself
I rather a Thailand girl
Not cause my wife is Thai
But Thai are not has hard work than Filipino
Like clingy etc
But Thailand woman have a bad attitude than Filipinos 😂
Definitely love a party
Why would any man want an alcoholic wife?
@@libatalklieb5793probably thats their common denominator
@@libatalklieb5793 NOT all thais love partying and drinking. Stop assuming.
@@porporworawan I wouldn't marry any one of them they remind me of something that lives in the jungle.
Your still young let God works for that..
Speaking the same language is a huge difference and the culture comfort with Catholicism is a distinct difference as well. Hard to not have more in common with the western culture of the Philippines. > But each relationship is a unique situation and deserves space for it to be judged on their own separate merits ?
Marry who you love lol😂
I’m a Filipina married to Australian.
Tom is on the money here ,I ve been to phillipines but not Thailand, one difference is the religious background .. ive dated both and pinay are most Catholic & Christian and thai girls are Buddhist. Both are great in their way 🎉
Why catholics AND Christians? Catholics are Christians mate.
The answer is easy
Stay single :)
Haha ! you need to meet right lady ,married whit thai 7 y Married whit Philippinas 21 year ,still philippines .you need to find the red line between you .Philippines girls i think take care of the husband more also more like western .even if you poor or rice old or young .
PHILIPPINES ALL DAY LONG FOR ME BUT EVERYONE TO THERE OWN CHOICE ? AND THAILAND HAS GOT WAY TO COMMERICALISED OVER THE LAST FEW YEARS AND EXPENSIVE TO WHAT IT UDED TO BE ! GOODLUCK GUY'S WEREVER YOU CHOOSE 👊🙏🏴
100% Filippino alot more Caring . Thai far from the Same ...
Hi Tom, I have been in Thailand and The Philippines recently and in both occasions I walked past DOMs making out with Hot girls in their 20s. What is your take about these kinds of relationship? Is it just purely about money or something else goings-on there? 😂
To get a 8-10 in Thai you need coin -Pinays are much easier w limited funds!
I second this .
From my observations from what I seen in
Thailand and Philippines ..
cheap Charlie's can get an older woman or a bar girl .
"Higher milage older model"
But a beautiful, educated, respectable girl won't be impressed by a cheap Charlie on a toursit visa .
Where in the Philippines
A cheap charlie can get a better quality of woman on his torusit visa with his penny's in his pocket .
@@dannycee3566 Could you blame us? We got standards and won´t settle for less.
The main issue I have with the supposed Catholics in the Philippines is that there is animal abuse everywhere. Not just the cock fighting, but even abuse and lack of proper care of domestic pets. In Thailand, most people don't have pets at all, but the ones that do look after them and don't leave them malnourished and tied to trees. Buddhists seem to genuinely believe in treating animals well, while many Filipinos do not.
Good stuff, Tom. Many thanks. That coffee place looks so good that I'm going out for some right now, lol. I gotta tell you, from where I'm sitting, the ladies from both countries look divinely beautiful.
Diviney~beautiful both?whrepart?can u send~some pic of not mix or interracial thai,not celebrity,just an ordinary status yet so~goodlooking pic of any thai u know in person?
I'm hoping you can find a woman like MJ in Thailand 😆
But it's hard to find a woman like MJ you know...
She's generous and family oriented woman.♥️
I'm a Filipina.
I agree with you that a Filipina can take a relationship long ...I have a longtime partner ♥️
My partner doesn't like bar girls🤣
He is a decent man...
My partner and I are both healthcare professionals.
I'm not sure if she's his type, or he'd still be with her.
Good for you, Ruby. MJ will find a decent man like yours. Karma will provide.
@@anelsnts Thanks...
Anyway, MJ is in a relationship with Robbie already. He's a respectful and hardworking. He knows how to fix something in Mj's house. Robbie is a perfect partner for MJ .
@@babitaram6068 Every woman deserves to be treated like a princess... She just needs to find her prince.❤️
MJ was sweet and nice only in the beginning. She is now very bossy and ordering everyone around.
And what was she doing in Europe? Does she have a sugar daddy overthere? Nothing wrong with that but she should tell like it is and stop pretending.
It's going to come down to your personality and preference. Most Western men, especially from the USA, will do better with a filipina. Especially if they are older and stuck in their own ways. Someone mentioned Laos. That can be difficult as their dating culture is different from what most people are used to in the West. Seems to be way more traditional. I personally would prefer Cambodia for a variety of reasons. They seem to be very feminine in a ladylike way. Where as the Philippines the women will have more of a childish demeanor.
You have some point for bringing the word "childish". I agree to that, we acted like childish because of our "TAMPO" feelings..and we are shy also to express our emotions.
@JeanAriesM Since Filipinos tend to live together in large groups, it makes sense to some degree to use Tampo. It would be too much if multiple ppl are arguing/fighting in one confined space. I was more referring to the fact that they tend to have a simpler nature and can be naive to many things due to lack of exposure. which, in many ways, can be endearing. Filipinas will get excited for things that Western women take for granted. It makes them seem happier and more appreciative. Simplicity contains more beauty than complexity. However, I have seen quite a few western vloggers get annoyed at filipinas simplicity. They said they feel like they have to be their teacher, and that becomes frustrating to them. Those vloggers are usually older men. I was pointing it out so those older men can have an idea of what they are getting into. Personally, I like filipinas' happy and simple demeanor. They often times are funny as well. Many times, they can make you laugh, and they aren't even aware that they said or did something humorous.
None of them. Be single and enjoy life😊
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😂😊🎉
This is the way.
nice joke
Not all filipino women are like meljean with fake accent 😂
Indonesian ❤