I agree with you 💯. The best! Thank you Dr. Marks. May GOD ALMIGHTY continue to Bless you and family. And may GOD ALMIGHTY Bless you with a healthy and long life. ❤❤❤🎉🎉😊😊
There's a group of people in America who seem to be constantly projecting, as a group. Everything they accuse "the others" of doing is what THEY are doing themselves. Projection can be a dirty, dirty game.
Coincidentally, this group has basically invented and perfected psychology. And using it to control us to the absolute maximum. They got us to regard FUNNY PAPER as the basis of our economy.
A long time ago, I had a psych instructor who told me that he once did an experiment. In one of his classes, he asked his students to write down what annoyed them the most about the person sitting next to them. One woman complained that the woman sitting next to her talked too much. The instructor said that the funny thing is that the woman who wrote that never once shut up during the entire semester! 😆
@@JolinHard well I do have negative self talk to Time and was more frequent in the past but i personally tried to understand what's the benefits..and the question is it criticism and helpful or just you doubting and destroying yourself.. and even if it is logical is it worth to think of the idea I'm failure and end up becoming more of failure and doing nothing.. it's at this point the mind is only hindering itself.. the thinking would stay and would whisper in but as long as you know that it's not helping and just doubting and you aren't able to improve or act.. then i would replace it with words similar to : come on it takes time to heal and it's natural or it takes time to learn .. or just do it to improve then yesterday.. idk if that will help but hopefully it does 🤍🤍
Great video ann very important to me. Important knowledge that can help me to be become a better individual. I relax and feel confident every time I watch one of your videos. They are among the very best, if not the best for me. Thank you a million times!
My big one is rejection sensitivity! And accepting those attacks as internal is awesome because all of a sudden you gain the power to make things better for yourself :)
My Mother had twins and after the pregnancy that was very hard on her body became obsessed with calorie counting. She has and always is to this day in her late 60's obsessed with being thin and counting the calories seems to relieve her anxiety with her relationship with food. I see it! She says oh thank God it's only 2 points (weight watchers reference). The projection on myself and my 3 sisters to say the least has always been pretty detrimental and very true to her since we were kids. I now thankfully have recognized her ahem... comments.... as projection (I'm 5'5 135 lbs pretty normal ha). Yes! I had to do soul searching though. And I practice not to continue the cycle onto others despite me always knowing I'll struggle with that number on that evil scale! Thanks Doctor! Your content is always so awesome.
That means, when we r easily offended with silly little negative thoughts, it is a proof that we already had that type of neg thoughts in our head,and when we again hear that from people, we cant just take that🙄!
oh my word! I know someone who does this all. day. long. this person is so sensitive! the pain they try to cover with positivity is beyond painful to watch. i hope they are able to get help.
I've been practicing mindfulness and working on self-confidence for a long time and I've never encountered such a succinct and concise explanation of what comprises the mindfulness that creates self-confidence. Projection is the thing that can creep back in, just when you think you've moved beyond something because what's the first step in grieving? Denial.
Try having this shit done to you starting in the 1st grade. It didn’t stop until I left home at 25. Not only was it school bullying but home abuse. They picked everything apart about me. And u see what you do in ur head
Is there a definition for when a person owns even other people's insults as their own; that is: when a person believes that all insults are because of their own behavior and can be resolved by internal means?
Now I’m confused about what projection is. I thought it was seeing something in others that you don’t see in yourself. Expressing your mentality onto others and assuming what their intentions are because you have those type of intentions.
This is why I have an exhusband 😂. I know I have my own "demons" but my lord, all that man needs is a screen for all that projecting. For me I can usually determine if someone is projecting, when my response to them is, I think you are being hyperbolic.
I really appreciate how professional your videos are. They are some of the best I have viewed on RUclips.
I agree with you 💯. The best! Thank you Dr. Marks. May GOD ALMIGHTY continue to Bless you and family. And may GOD ALMIGHTY Bless you with a healthy and long life. ❤❤❤🎉🎉😊😊
There's a group of people in America who seem to be constantly projecting, as a group. Everything they accuse "the others" of doing is what THEY are doing themselves.
Projection can be a dirty, dirty game.
Isn't that called being hypocritical?
Ayyuuupp
@@SweetStuffOnMonarchLane it's called being republican
Coincidentally, this group has basically invented and perfected psychology. And using it to control us to the absolute maximum.
They got us to regard FUNNY PAPER as the basis of our economy.
Cough cough *drmocrats
A long time ago, I had a psych instructor who told me that he once did an experiment. In one of his classes, he asked his students to write down what annoyed them the most about the person sitting next to them. One woman complained that the woman sitting next to her talked too much. The instructor said that the funny thing is that the woman who wrote that never once shut up during the entire semester! 😆
Unfortunately, there are antagonistic, attacking people in my extended family. Took a lot of time to fix myself so I could shut them out.
Brilliant. I stopped projecting but i still have the negative self-talk.
Then you haven’t stopped projecting.
@@Sunshine74444 you’re right… i actually havent stopped projecting.. any tips please?
Replace thought with positive affirmation, give yourself time allow positive to shut down negative
@@d.w.3325 I like that! Thanks for the tip! 🤗
@@JolinHard well I do have negative self talk to Time and was more frequent in the past but i personally tried to understand what's the benefits..and the question is it criticism and helpful or just you doubting and destroying yourself.. and even if it is logical is it worth to think of the idea I'm failure and end up becoming more of failure and doing nothing.. it's at this point the mind is only hindering itself.. the thinking would stay and would whisper in but as long as you know that it's not helping and just doubting and you aren't able to improve or act.. then i would replace it with words similar to : come on it takes time to heal and it's natural or it takes time to learn .. or just do it to improve then yesterday.. idk if that will help but hopefully it does 🤍🤍
I keep projecting all the time and now I know what to do and in case I fail, I Need a therapist. Thank you for drawing my attention to this issue.
Great video ann very important to me. Important knowledge that can help me to be become a better individual. I relax and feel confident every time I watch one of your videos.
They are among the very best, if not the best for me. Thank you a million times!
As an empathy & highly sensitive person I see this as an absolute loss.
My big one is rejection sensitivity! And accepting those attacks as internal is awesome because all of a sudden you gain the power to make things better for yourself :)
My Mother had twins and after the pregnancy that was very hard on her body became obsessed with calorie counting. She has and always is to this day in her late 60's obsessed with being thin and counting the calories seems to relieve her anxiety with her relationship with food. I see it! She says oh thank God it's only 2 points (weight watchers reference). The projection on myself and my 3 sisters to say the least has always been pretty detrimental and very true to her since we were kids. I now thankfully have recognized her ahem... comments.... as projection (I'm 5'5 135 lbs pretty normal ha). Yes! I had to do soul searching though. And I practice not to continue the cycle onto others despite me always knowing I'll struggle with that number on that evil scale! Thanks Doctor! Your content is always so awesome.
Unfortunately the people who need to see this the most, won't.
These make me better every day.
Side note: Hour hair is on point! You got it well done and in shape! Brains and beauty! ❤ Keep making these videos gurl, you got it goin’ on!
That means, when we r easily offended with silly little negative thoughts, it is a proof that we already had that type of neg thoughts in our head,and when we again hear that from people, we cant just take that🙄!
I got the dbt workbook based on your recommendation
You are an amazing and qualified doc
Thank you for this! I had it playing over and over and it helped to integrate this message. These shorts are amazing for digesting your content! ❤️🩹
oh my word! I know someone who does this all. day. long. this person is so sensitive! the pain they try to cover with positivity is beyond painful to watch. i hope they are able to get help.
Thank you! Good to know!
Yes, I Affirm this message with positive energy ✨ Thank you 😊
Really like this channel 👏🏾🔥✌🏾❤️
Insanely succinct 👌
Love your hair
I've been practicing mindfulness and working on self-confidence for a long time and I've never encountered such a succinct and concise explanation of what comprises the mindfulness that creates self-confidence. Projection is the thing that can creep back in, just when you think you've moved beyond something because what's the first step in grieving? Denial.
That was so good to hear, thanks.
Dang u good at this Dr.
Well packaged... Thanks dr. Good ideas for my practice
Love this woman
Try having this shit done to you starting in the 1st grade. It didn’t stop until I left home at 25. Not only was it school bullying but home abuse. They picked everything apart about me. And u see what you do in ur head
I live these videos. Awesome jewelry!
Yes, @DrTraceyMarks!!!
Great stuff.
Is there a definition for when a person owns even other people's insults as their own; that is: when a person believes that all insults are because of their own behavior and can be resolved by internal means?
I like everything about ur necklace 👍👍
I do that.
Okay yeah that was true
Now I’m confused about what projection is. I thought it was seeing something in others that you don’t see in yourself. Expressing your mentality onto others and assuming what their intentions are because you have those type of intentions.
My Mom keeps saying i do it cuz i get intense emotions.
I hear you Dr. Marks but ppl be shady af.
Ugh that explains a lot of people I encountered
Brilliant explanation. A french psychiatrist.
Beautiful necklace
This is why I have an exhusband 😂. I know I have my own "demons" but my lord, all that man needs is a screen for all that projecting.
For me I can usually determine if someone is projecting, when my response to them is, I think you are being hyperbolic.
But those people are still insulting which is objectively true and they may be projecting?
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Maybe I was the punching bag for their projections.
It's true, now we're proceeding to the era of silence and non expression. Maybe plain simple acceptance is a good policy
If it's constructive criticism that's fine but to demean others as if it's their fault somehow can only fix yourself. Sawadee Khap.🤠
I love how the "therapist" has a lab coat and stethoscope :-)
bro your therapist doesn't 🤨🤨
Some therapists are also psych docs.
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