How To Look Elegant At Home

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  • Опубликовано: 21 мар 2020
  • How to look elegant at home and is it even possible? In this video I share my best tips and outfit ideas on how you can look good and feel good at home. Make style changes you’ve been wanting to make with my FREE workshop: nothingtowear.me/
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  • @dannigee3619
    @dannigee3619 4 года назад +5504

    By the time this quarantine is over I’ll come out greeting my friends "good evening my dear elegant ladies"

  • @freakmeoutwillu
    @freakmeoutwillu 4 года назад +980

    If you're at home with your husband and children, you should dress in your best outfits rather than going out and dressing up for strangers. You live at home with people who love u the most in the world, they're the ones who get happy looking at u. Your best outfits deserve people who love u the most.

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 4 года назад +60

      This comment was very sweet. ...." The ones who get happy looking at you...". I love that!

    • @iamcom4ta
      @iamcom4ta 4 года назад +29

      Nice perspective

    • @aren7138
      @aren7138 4 года назад +15

      You are so right!

    • @freakmeoutwillu
      @freakmeoutwillu 4 года назад +3

      S. S. Cookies absolutely ❤️

    • @TheCelmap
      @TheCelmap 4 года назад +27

      One of the best comment ever. We should truly respect our family as well as our significant other. They deserve all best from us..

  • @karimehendrix
    @karimehendrix 3 года назад +463

    Im a stay at home mom, and even though I have nowhere to go, I feel like when I get ready my mood is better and I don’t feel so gloomy. It really makes a difference. A lady is a lady no matter where you are!

    • @ellen823ful
      @ellen823ful Год назад +15

      Me too. Not fancy just put together.

    • @Devilishka7
      @Devilishka7 Год назад +15

      Not sure whom I watched, but she said something that stuck with me. Even as a stay at home mom, minding kids is your job. Dress like you would for work. You wouldn't go to work in sweat pants. Even if minding another person's child you'd still want to look presentable. Dress for the job.
      I have yet to change my mindset as well, but I'm slowly getting there as I'm working on changing my wardrobe and dressing better at home as well just to feel good in my own skin. I found out I hate jeans at home. Very uncomfortable especially when cleaning, so I'll be changing that to trousers.

    • @mirna.prasaja
      @mirna.prasaja Год назад +3

      Especially during lock down of pandemic. Even though I couldn't go anywhere, and just did house errands, I wore my good outfit and put on my make up 😍

  • @annafirth6738
    @annafirth6738 3 года назад +652

    A tip for matching sets: remember to wash the bottoms with the tops, otherwise they will fade at different rates and the bottoms will likely end up darker.

  • @fabi0681
    @fabi0681 4 года назад +4737

    Never tought we would ever see Anna in sweatshirt and Mickey Mouse t-shirt😂😂😂

    • @Miljepilje
      @Miljepilje 4 года назад +5

      fabi 0681 hahahah

    • @Lafemmefutile
      @Lafemmefutile 4 года назад +83

      Only for science lol

    • @lolitazavala1879
      @lolitazavala1879 4 года назад +3

      😂😂😂😂

    • @izzzzy_
      @izzzzy_ 4 года назад +33

      She looks so cute though😂😩

    • @anyapi987
      @anyapi987 4 года назад +27

      Even then she looks elegant

  • @nyanya9986
    @nyanya9986 4 года назад +3955

    When she said “throw out everything that’s from H&M that’s 10 years old” I’ve never felt so attacked 😂😂😂😂

    • @TheRealCrystalReid
      @TheRealCrystalReid 4 года назад +6

      Nya Nya 😂😂

    • @isabizzle
      @isabizzle 3 года назад +15

      For real!!! Lmao!

    • @TheRaychica
      @TheRaychica 3 года назад +36

      I just bought yesterday at H&M some clothes. I felt so bad🙈😬😭😞😏🤪😒🤷🏻‍♀️😂

    • @dzanastrabuna
      @dzanastrabuna 3 года назад +82

      My H&M clothes don't last for 10 years🤣

    • @florencemamu443
      @florencemamu443 3 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣😓I know right?

  • @nosugarcoating9778
    @nosugarcoating9778 3 года назад +916

    My mother always emphasized to us to look made up even when at home. She always told us to look like a lady even when lounging at the house. So many things she taught us that you teach in your videos..

    • @kchkaceha
      @kchkaceha 3 года назад +56

      totally oppposite to mine. My mother always told me to wear clothes (at home) that are not expensive and old. They might've been washed out, but she didn't care. It was about saving money . And she usually repeated to me "who's gonna see you at home?'.

    • @mogkupokupokupopopo6082
      @mogkupokupokupopopo6082 3 года назад +15

      @@kchkaceha Same with me.. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @kathyhartung6058
      @kathyhartung6058 3 года назад +16

      Unfortunately my Mom taught me and my siblings very little. I was 19 years old before someone taught me how to properly cut meat. I was mortified and thought about all the un-etiquette things I did. She worked as a waitress in a very high class country club and you think she would have picked up on it and taught us. She was a good Mom, though.

    • @ida3400
      @ida3400 3 года назад +13

      My mom taught me to wear what makes me feel comfortable

    • @BuffyunaTV
      @BuffyunaTV 2 года назад +1

      @@ida3400 I'm so sorry

  • @daniellealexis5581
    @daniellealexis5581 3 года назад +288

    I love how brutally honest Anna is. It doesn't even offend me because I agree with what she has to say.

    • @-Unimpressed-
      @-Unimpressed- 2 года назад +6

      It's interesting bc nothing she said was offensive. It's common sense.

  • @anastasiamatsiushenka8630
    @anastasiamatsiushenka8630 4 года назад +1182

    Anna: “It’s all about how you treat yourself at home, even if you live by yourself” SO TRUE

  • @Blondie727
    @Blondie727 4 года назад +1880

    Wow, this was an eye opener. I dress like a million dollars when I leave my house. However, when I’m at home, I dress like a homeless lady.😂
    Thank you for changing my perspective. I just now ordered feminine loungewear & cute nightgowns opposed to my stretch pants & t-shirts.😒

    • @shereetaylor232
      @shereetaylor232 4 года назад +13

      Renee where did you order your lounge where from?

    • @Blondie727
      @Blondie727 4 года назад +18

      Sheree Taylor Macy’s & eBay

    • @pratishasing8636
      @pratishasing8636 4 года назад +12

      So did I. Exact same. Never thought about it like this. Thanks for inspiring

    • @user-tm6ij6gx7r
      @user-tm6ij6gx7r 4 года назад +8

      What brands did you ladies find the most success with for nice lounge wear & pajamas?

    • @shens2661
      @shens2661 3 года назад +8

      Same. On the street I dress in REISS at home I dress in target 🎯 Mickey Mouse 🐁🤣😂

  • @lisawhite-pagano3455
    @lisawhite-pagano3455 3 года назад +150

    I am almost 59 years old and I am definitely guilty of wearing t shirts and worn out pajama bottoms around the house. When I was young I only wore silk pajamas and little silky slips to bed. Three kids later and I usually hit the bed in yoga pants and a t shirt. You have inspired to get rid of all of my bleach marked tops and years old pajama bottoms and to get a few nice things that I can walk around in front of my grown children and feel covered and classy.

  • @strange_aeons5636
    @strange_aeons5636 3 года назад +248

    I started dressing acceptable at home and it has honestly increased my self respect! After all, every time you pass a mirror you are still evaluating what you see in front of yourself. 😌😊 Thanks Anna for this idea!

    • @staiculiana5183
      @staiculiana5183 3 года назад +2

      You are right

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento 10 месяцев назад +2

      Yes! Nothing like feeling a "looser" when not liking of what I wear. Even that nobody else sees it...but I SEE IT!!! 👁👁

  • @doraineclarke87
    @doraineclarke87 3 года назад +1575

    "WE ARE ADULTS!"👏. Wow, I didn't realise how much I needed to hear that🤦‍♀️

    • @Key-nk5vd
      @Key-nk5vd 3 года назад +24

      Ouch, that got me too. I needed to hear that one too.

    • @J_young_824
      @J_young_824 3 года назад +22

      I'm on my 30's now and still stuck in this 12 year old body hahha still wearing animal printed logos and crazy pattern lounge wear yikes!!

    • @Key-nk5vd
      @Key-nk5vd 3 года назад +12

      WhatJane Does you are not alone believe me. After watching this video I went to Soma and Vic Secrets and did a complete lounge makeover.

    • @PatriciaRoxana78
      @PatriciaRoxana78 3 года назад +5

      That got me too!

    • @momina2424
      @momina2424 2 года назад +2

      🙂

  • @annacama8313
    @annacama8313 4 года назад +2277

    Manically throwing out my old clothes.
    *laughs in elegant*

    • @LangBellsChannel
      @LangBellsChannel 4 года назад +57

      Donate or sell them, throwing away clothes is bad for the environment.

    • @P1xie_D0ll
      @P1xie_D0ll 4 года назад +8

      omg😂😂

    • @salomegubat885
      @salomegubat885 4 года назад +1

      Anna Cama lol

    • @AC-iw5mv
      @AC-iw5mv 4 года назад +4

      Hilarious 😂

    • @Sakura.Beauty
      @Sakura.Beauty 4 года назад +7

      I dieeeeeeedddd 🤣😭😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣

  • @Raposodeb
    @Raposodeb 3 года назад +94

    I was raised in European family and taught many things when I was little. I forgot so many etiquette manners. So grateful for all of your content.

  • @kevinalachat4173
    @kevinalachat4173 Год назад +20

    Very powerful video. I am 40 years old and spent my entire life dressing like a nobody. Thanks to your videos I feel inspired to live a fuller life. I started investing in clothes after watching this video and realizing that throughout my life I just resorted to joggers and everything that took away my feminine energy. I am looking at investing in more silk like night robes.

  • @ceciliemadsen5823
    @ceciliemadsen5823 4 года назад +667

    Honestly, I used to wear old, oversized commercial t-shirts to bed. Even though I woke up every morning, glimpsed myself in the mirror and though: "Ugh. I look like crap. This is the most unattractive thing I have seen - and this is me!"
    After watching some of Anna's other videos, I decided to go through my closet and sort out these old t-shirts and wash some of my finer nightwear (which I had laying around but never actually used).
    I felt amazing every night going to bed and every morning getting up wearing these things. Not feeling sloppy in my outfit even provided me with more energy.
    After about a week, my partner turned to me and said: "You know. I really like watching you in this new nightwear. Please tell me you have thrown out the old t-shirts!"
    Ladies, listen to Anna. It makes a huge difference what you wear at home. Both for your energy, how you feel and for your partner.

    • @saositi5851
      @saositi5851 4 года назад +4

      True

    • @cassey7532
      @cassey7532 3 года назад +3

      I agree sis 😪

    • @misstelly2821
      @misstelly2821 3 года назад +7

      Thank you. There's too many haters in the comment section. And ppl if you're on a budget you don't have to go for 100% silk and cashmere materials. Get the lower end stuff just make sure u look well put together. If you don't want to let go of clothes because of emotional attachment, there are videos on yt on crafting. Im planning on framing this oversized shirt that I will NEVER throw out but would make Anna act unlady like towards me if she ever saw me in it 😂😂😂 just kidding guys, Anna is never unladylike

    • @Puty0urlipstick0n
      @Puty0urlipstick0n 3 года назад

      do you please have a brand you recommend?

    • @lorenrenee1
      @lorenrenee1 3 года назад +2

      Get something that feels very good. I got a nice soft oversized flannel for winter, I love it so much, keeps me warm down to the toes. It doesn’t need to be super fancy but nice. Mine is plaid and I LOVE it. ( for cold weather) I’m not slim so I think silk would rip while sleeping ( I’m not concerned with wrinkles as much as tearing)

  • @patrycjaasies2632
    @patrycjaasies2632 4 года назад +1386

    My mother taught me to wear clothes around the house so as not to be ashamed to open the door when a boy who I fancy knocked on them

    • @bintahmad9295
      @bintahmad9295 4 года назад +72

      God bless your mother ❤She's elegant,so are you!

    • @adriananeagu609
      @adriananeagu609 4 года назад +19

      This is my opinion too...

    • @emmaculate6177
      @emmaculate6177 4 года назад +41

      That’s funny. When I was growing up I would clean as if a boy I liked was coming over haha

    • @momzilla7752
      @momzilla7752 4 года назад +49

      I agree. Unfortunately do not practice as I should. There is an older lady in my town who still runs a antique business from her home even though she is in her 80s. She is a classic southern lady. She is always “ company ready”. And always gracious.

    • @AprilHarmony9
      @AprilHarmony9 4 года назад +8

      See! My dad taught me to be this way around the house but after he passed my mom was the influence and......yeah smh

  • @sadiyed8511
    @sadiyed8511 2 года назад +25

    I never liked fashion as a teenager because everyone followed trends and dressed the same. It made me believe that people who were into dressing up and looking good were superficial and shallow because it was all about having the latest pieces. When I moved to Europe i realized that most people cared way more about timeless pieces and what actually looked good on them, which was very interesting for me to see that the majority of people were very confident in that aspect. It made me realize that the effort you put in yourself says way more about your personality and self respect than people like to admit.

  • @1975rozita
    @1975rozita 3 года назад +192

    I love this channel. There's no need to keep up with the latest trends if they don't look good on you. Keep those classic pieces and incorporate new pieces that look good on you. I love how ladies dressed long ago. So classy, elegant and feminine. Thank you for your videos❤

  • @sjorobinson3981
    @sjorobinson3981 4 года назад +838

    I do have to say, I was curious to see if my fiancé would notice me changing my night clothes from old oversized t shirts into something more feminine. I ordered silk chemises and cami/short sets with lace detailing and lace and chiffon robes and he instantly noticed. Without me saying anything, he asked when I got it and played with my robe sash and said, “well I really like it.” So, listen to her ladies! My partner is a blue collar working man and still appreciates the finer things on me at night. I can say, I’m a registered nurse and there is nothing better than coming home and taking off my terrible scrubs and coming out of a hot shower to put on some silk and lace, completely worth the money

    • @damongirl66
      @damongirl66 4 года назад +12

      @Jen Lilysilk is good! I've been buying silk clothing from them for years.

    • @mollymae7069
      @mollymae7069 4 года назад +31

      They do notice a lot more than we realize! If I'm in something super frumpy he always checks if I'm okay, and says "go put something nice on, it always males you feel better" x

    • @Kristina2
      @Kristina2 4 года назад +17

      @Jen MYK Silk has the basic 100% mulberry silk pajama sets for 55$ (Lily is 135$) with free shipping over 50$. They also have some very basic silk chemise for 99$ (22 momme) along with robes, camisole tops($28), etc. I understand that Lily has way more options, colors, etc but if you are on a budget MYK silk has affordable luxury sleepwear at amazing prices. They start at 19 momme silk and go up from there. Have fun!

    • @BellyDancerDiaries
      @BellyDancerDiaries 4 года назад +2

      Good inspo! Love the idea of silk at home too

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 4 года назад +3

      Good job honey! Very feminine❤

  • @xoxoallieexoxo
    @xoxoallieexoxo 4 года назад +2891

    "Throw out everything old and nasty"
    Me: Throws away the whole closet

  • @33quincey
    @33quincey 2 года назад +41

    This video seriously changed my life. Sent it to all my sisters and girlfriends. I literally never thought of that before, if you spend most of your time at home, that’s where most of your wardrobe budget should be. Seems so obvious now! 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @33quincey
      @33quincey 2 года назад +4

      I bought silk pillowcases a year ago after I first saw this video btw-no regrets. I get asked for my ID everywhere I go. I think silk works 👌

  • @beautywinsfails8867
    @beautywinsfails8867 2 года назад +62

    It’s crazy seeing you in a sweatshirt and hair in a casual bun - wardrobe, hair and makeup makes a huge difference! Thank you for motivating us to clean out our closets Anna.

  • @bemydinosaur13
    @bemydinosaur13 4 года назад +1986

    “No Mickey Mouse, no Betty Boop, no Snoopy”... Americans, she’s talking to us 😂

    • @biasanto
      @biasanto 4 года назад +10

      Elizabeth Nanette 😂😂😂

    • @karenmiranda7587
      @karenmiranda7587 4 года назад +3

      Indeed!

    • @karenmiranda7587
      @karenmiranda7587 4 года назад +30

      We’re big time offenders

    • @AprilHarmony9
      @AprilHarmony9 4 года назад +25

      Not this American🙋🙋🙋 lol but I am the queen of tank tops and sweatpants (only at home tho, I never wear sweatpants outside of home) lmaoooo

    • @nekokitty90
      @nekokitty90 4 года назад +28

      As a Minnesotan, the Snoopy part hurts a bit 😂

  • @ms.x1669
    @ms.x1669 4 года назад +730

    This channel gets better and better everytime I watch. Especially as someone who has been here since day one.

    • @cynthiacyn4012
      @cynthiacyn4012 4 года назад +4

      Totally..

    • @cynthiahoyi3925
      @cynthiahoyi3925 4 года назад +7

      Agreed! I've been watching her ever since she went on this Morning. She gets better and better

    • @unknown-jd3dz
      @unknown-jd3dz 4 года назад +6

      I agree! I remember I first clicked on her first video out of curiosity and now I’m so glad I did because her videos help me out so much and I just thoroughly enjoy watching them anyway :D

    • @user-to5jx4kz2j
      @user-to5jx4kz2j 4 года назад +1

      Agree! The content getting better with every video.

    • @b.johnny369
      @b.johnny369 4 года назад +1

      ms. X I agree!!

  • @chrissyvang
    @chrissyvang 3 года назад +49

    In my thirties I started working from home, and having nice lounge wear has become increasingly important to me. My partner doesn't care much at all, so in the end its really for me and how it makes me feel. I completely agree with the advice to have matching sets and multiple silk robes! I still find it difficult to throw away my sweats or old t-shirts because I paint and work with plants a lot so I need things that I can afford to get dirty.

    • @tessltaekook8501
      @tessltaekook8501 Год назад +2

      Men (husbands, boyfriends) know what our bodys look like and it doesn't matter if you put on the sexiest loungeset or mickey mouse cotton set, you can't fool him. He already knows your butt size, waistline, bust size and so on and you can't "trick his eye" into thinking you have an hourglass figure or bubblebutt when you don't. But even if your body isn't perfect it's better to look decent and not show the flaws by wearing unflattering outfits at home. Especially if you're an at home mom. Your husband, if working in an office related workplace, will meet pretty ladies who are dressed nicely everyday and then he comes home to his wife who didn't even shower or put any effort for him except maybe the household. He won't stay long...

    • @tessltaekook8501
      @tessltaekook8501 Год назад +3

      This isn't an attack on you btw, just emphasized what you said, that it's important to look and feel good at home too!

    • @user-ex5gm2el4d
      @user-ex5gm2el4d 4 месяца назад

      The variety of textures in the amzrepo pack is impressive. From smooth leather to textured suede, there's something for everyone.

  • @donnahyman3517
    @donnahyman3517 3 года назад +10

    I totally agree. During the pandemic I still get ready for the day. Each morning I exercise, shower, put on casual makeup(with lipstick) style my hair and nice casual wear. I want to feel good about myself and look good for my husband when he comes home. I had deliveries at my door and heard, Wow you are so put together!
    Why not? feel good about yourself. It boosts your mood .🧘🏼‍♀️😊

  • @Esther-ur5vi
    @Esther-ur5vi 4 года назад +2359

    According to this video I realized I need to throw everything out🤣

    • @katalinmcewan
      @katalinmcewan 4 года назад +47

      I haven’t watched it yet, but I’m sure I will come to the same conclusion. 😂

    • @ariadnahernandez8656
      @ariadnahernandez8656 4 года назад +3

      Esther Naomi 🤣🤣🤣

    • @lorenrenee1
      @lorenrenee1 4 года назад +1

      Esther Naomi me too.

    • @Santababy86
      @Santababy86 4 года назад +1

      Same here

    • @xolilemajola6043
      @xolilemajola6043 4 года назад +12

      Me too i need to go for shopping😂😂😂😂

  • @What___ever
    @What___ever 4 года назад +5506

    If she saw what I’m wearing at home, she’d probably get me deported from this planet 🌎 🚀

  • @librarybeasts3344
    @librarybeasts3344 Год назад +36

    When I dress elegant at home I feel like I’m on my A game 24/7. It has honestly made me proud of myself. Like I’ve finally reached adulthood.

  • @michellepackman1484
    @michellepackman1484 3 года назад +29

    I actually find that dressing for work even though I work from home now actually does help keep me in a better state of mind. I just feel more confident and competent. My family always asks me where I'm going even if I'm just going to my home office. 😂I'll definitely think about the pajama set as my next clothing purchase, I think it helps go in the same mindset of elegant simplicity.

  • @utahgirl1610
    @utahgirl1610 3 года назад +2355

    Our mothers taught us to dress poorly at home. At least, mine did. She taught me to take off my nicer clothes at home. As to preserve them and not dirty them. And to wear old clothes at home to work around or lounge around the house in. This was to save money and time in washing and iron. And to give nicer clothes a longer life.

    • @TheJwilb3
      @TheJwilb3 3 года назад +260

      I’m late but I was brought up this way too. We had our good school clothes and then our play clothes. Even my nicer lounge clothes I take off when I get home.

    • @rabeekay
      @rabeekay 3 года назад +131

      Your comment just made me feel like I'm teaching my kids to dress poorly at home too as I always dress poorly

    • @shanikpakeer
      @shanikpakeer 3 года назад +107

      Same as mine. I was told not to waste money on home clothes

    • @luciadossantos7317
      @luciadossantos7317 3 года назад +98

      I'm exactly the same. Because of that I have clothes that are over 30 years old.

    • @upekshad5765
      @upekshad5765 3 года назад +80

      yh my mom also taught me that. and now I'm teaching my mom to dress well at home

  • @onepire9424
    @onepire9424 4 года назад +1027

    When her lounge wear is my going out outfit 😂

  • @awesomeness7543
    @awesomeness7543 3 года назад +70

    You know you are not elegant when what Anna wears at home is nicer than what you wear outside😂😂

  • @GarmanyRachel
    @GarmanyRachel 4 года назад +481

    Anna: "Adults take responsibility for their appearance and they make an effort!"
    Me wearing my old, stained, mens scooby-doo shirt and cut off fuzzy pajamas: "You tell em girl!"

    • @amina8048
      @amina8048 4 года назад +2

      Haha )))))

    • @jamainengubane7787
      @jamainengubane7787 4 года назад +3

      Laughed so hard at your comment!

    • @dingisdongus7401
      @dingisdongus7401 4 года назад +1

      Lol me af.

    • @tabithahedgspeth5579
      @tabithahedgspeth5579 4 года назад

      Yes! me right now with sneakers and walmart clothes on. I match though! I feel like I need to throw everything away now. Little by little I guess.

    • @NaMiYummy
      @NaMiYummy 4 года назад

      Lol i wear my husbands shorts and shirts more comfy at home

  • @Diana__Simion
    @Diana__Simion 4 года назад +317

    I think we all needed this video during quarantine

    • @rosie5152
      @rosie5152 4 года назад +1

      Diana S 😫👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @myjesusmysavior1000
    @myjesusmysavior1000 3 года назад +19

    I have used your advice on selecting a new wardrobe. I get compliments on my appearance regularly. I notice people (men and women) looking at my outfits. Many women ask where I get certain items. They like the way I look, but can't put their finger on the fact that I am dressing feminine-not for other women.

  • @janecard2060
    @janecard2060 2 года назад +14

    Your linen dress is gorgeous both in style and color!
    My passion is to take super expensive styles that are out of my budget and re-create them on my sewing machine.
    Best of both worlds!

  • @ascendingsolong107
    @ascendingsolong107 4 года назад +1451

    thats sucha good question .why the hell do we wear our ugliest clothes at home?????????????

    • @wndrwmn3283
      @wndrwmn3283 4 года назад +161

      I think many were taught that you save your nicer stuff to go out in public & at home you can where the older worn things. It's probably about being frugal.
      I definitely think a beautiful woman can where just about anything & still have her beauty radiate from the inside out. Especially if you are in shoulder to shoulder activity with your man. Like watching him fix a car, fishing etc

    • @catalinafuster1251
      @catalinafuster1251 4 года назад +2

      WHY?????

    • @Happy-vt4xv
      @Happy-vt4xv 4 года назад +55

      Because you're not in public.

    • @xxsnxx0037
      @xxsnxx0037 4 года назад +24

      BECAUSE WE ARE AT HOMEEEE

    • @valentina_melethiel
      @valentina_melethiel 4 года назад +16

      Happy 5475 I’m a painter and of course I do not wear my expensive clothes when I do acrylic and oil 😁

  • @ZannaKatoka
    @ZannaKatoka 4 года назад +199

    A couple of years ago, on the advice of Florence Scovel Shinn (LOA GODDESS), I decided to discard any clothes that made me feel poor. Now I only wear clothing, especially at home, that makes me feel luxe & beautiful. I also put on my jewelry, style my hair and wear perfume. EVERYDAY. Yes it's high maintenance and I deserve it. I radiate femininity. I aspire to be the kind of woman who has her life so in harmony that she greets you at her door in a Ralph Lauren dress, now that's an elegant lady.

    • @inesvetinparadise9715
      @inesvetinparadise9715 4 года назад +3

      This is important

    • @rivkastrom6685
      @rivkastrom6685 4 года назад +4

      As long as it is not Lauren Ralph Lauren

    • @bonitabonita3431
      @bonitabonita3431 4 года назад

      Rivka Strom why? Pretentious?

    • @bonitabonita3431
      @bonitabonita3431 4 года назад

      We’re living under a bioterror attack in NYC…ready to stop, drop & roll

    • @shereetaylor232
      @shereetaylor232 4 года назад

      @@rivkastrom6685 is there a huge difference? Just wondering? I'm on a budget so most time I shop at Ralph Lauren outlets and every now and then Macy or online.

  • @chrism.473
    @chrism.473 3 года назад +23

    ". . . if he sees you wearing your rags. . ." 😄😂😅 I adore Anna ❤

  • @tiffanymoody620
    @tiffanymoody620 Год назад +8

    It does make a difference looking elegant at home I've always been taught and raised look presentable

  • @GiovzPzt
    @GiovzPzt 4 года назад +1371

    “We dress like adults”
    Me looking down noticing I’m wearing a unicorn t shirt ☹️

  • @VI-cb7eu
    @VI-cb7eu 4 года назад +1224

    if you're embarrassed opening the door in your home dress, then you're not elegant.

  • @SleepyGothCat
    @SleepyGothCat 3 года назад +89

    She has a point. We are staying home longer these days, it's a good idea to invest in really comfortable and chic home clothes.

  • @cindycandy1998
    @cindycandy1998 3 года назад +82

    Her loungewear is basically what I'm wearing outside LOL

  • @mahsasabouhi7404
    @mahsasabouhi7404 4 года назад +427

    I’m always amazed by how fast she say cheat sheet...😂

  • @TheGrunthal
    @TheGrunthal 3 года назад +221

    As a stay at home mum with 2 very young children I often lost my temper and raised my voice at my husband or children. But when I started wearing nice house dresses and little bit makeup and nice hairdo- I’m can be calm and relaxed so much longer. Any time I see myself in the mirror or reflection I feel like a million bucks- like a lady and I started acting like one all the time! :)

    • @simonam7255
      @simonam7255 Год назад +10

      This is sooo true! As a mom with small kids, you can easily feel invisible for adults (and sometimes for kids). But I too have found that dressing up in the home can be uplifting for my mood. I even have this weird thing when I dress up and put on nice shoes (with heels) when I need to clean and be in the house longer in a day. It just makes me feel better when I have menial tasks to do!

    • @isabeli3755
      @isabeli3755 Год назад +4

      You dressed as the women you wanted to be and that is so commendable! I’m in that same phase in life right now 2 small kids and I’m feeling so much better now that I care for myself better

    • @Alevv0104
      @Alevv0104 Год назад +5

      It makes sense that as women we feel better when we feel beautiful. And when we feel better we also act better. Self care is not compromisable for a woman. We need that little time to pamper ourselves. When we feel beautiful we are also more likely to want to be more intimate with our man. I certainly do not want intimacy when I feel worn down and overall messy. When I'm good with me I'm automatically good with others.

    • @aliciasilva8415
      @aliciasilva8415 Год назад

    • @yahaira1048
      @yahaira1048 Год назад +3

      Great point! I’m a mom of 3 month 4 and 5 year old boys and I’ve had to do most of the raising was yelling and scolding but I think this tip can go a far way, before kids took care of myself so much but now I can barely 😥 have nails done but this tip I think can be a game changer from the video and from an actual mom because it’s one thing to be without kids and another having to raise kids 100 percent of the time and mostly on your own. ❤

  • @maryrosebenesisto1301
    @maryrosebenesisto1301 2 года назад +29

    Wearing “elegant” clothes seems like watching those kdramas living in palatial mansions with hundred of maids around. I can only wish to look like a goddess at home…meanwhile my dishes are all waiting for their royal highness to wash them. 😅

  • @michaelmoore8834
    @michaelmoore8834 4 года назад +672

    I’m a man and I watched your videos a few times and you’ve encouraged me to step up my Masculine elegance. Like the southern gentleman I am. Also will you do a video about Looking proper and country settings

    • @zenlife321
      @zenlife321 3 года назад +21

      Well I would watch that ...do invite please..lol

    • @OracleofDelphi1111
      @OracleofDelphi1111 3 года назад +19

      Agree, wardrobe for the country estate and horsewoman

    • @khensk
      @khensk 3 года назад +9

      You should watch the gentlemans gazette in that case

    • @BarbaraJDraper
      @BarbaraJDraper 3 года назад +11

      great, opposite sex need it too

    • @michaelmoore8834
      @michaelmoore8834 2 года назад +10

      @@marcelofrmo me to sounds crazy but she sorta changed me. She has encouraged me to respect myself more as well as not be so Rowdy country Boy

  • @MJS.94
    @MJS.94 4 года назад +239

    I am so impressed 😮 Today I woke up and I decided I had to throw everything that made me look cheap and vulgar and I just kept few clothes that make me feel like an elegant lady. I just finished throwing everything and BAAAM! Your video is here! This is a sign that life wants me to be ELEGANT! ✨

    • @yaelrar.4460
      @yaelrar.4460 4 года назад +4

      Me too! I'm with you!🌷

    • @booklover2404
      @booklover2404 4 года назад +4

      My problem is I want this huge wardrobe like the housewives and I end up with a lot of what the hell did I buy this for. I will challenge myself to get rid of the "what the hells' and get quality clothing in my wardrobe. Less is more !

    • @sakenoway5590
      @sakenoway5590 4 года назад +1

      Girl just binge watch her. She is so smart with this. There is also @alexandragirlytalk, particulary her video "the art of sexy". They both have amazing inovative tips

  • @tuyetle4846
    @tuyetle4846 2 года назад +15

    You’re so right ! My husband always gets me lingerie or sleepwear beautifully as he likes to look at the nicer outfits indoors or outside.

    • @tuyetle4846
      @tuyetle4846 2 года назад +2

      He also good at looking for the right size and style for my going out attire as well.

  • @sansagolo4901
    @sansagolo4901 3 года назад +6

    Great video! I really enjoy watching your videos because they always seem to remind me of the way that I would like to feel and see myself. And also: you make me want to get up and get out of the rut I’m in. So thanks! I’d love to see more quarantine/ at home videos, since I’ve been home for months and probably will be home for a while. Thanks!

  • @SoftTangerineDreams
    @SoftTangerineDreams 4 года назад +1269

    Anna: Adults don't wear cartoon characters, Snoopy or Betty Boop on our clothes!
    Me: *sweating nervously in my Betty Boop pyjama set in my 20's*

    • @camis.1347
      @camis.1347 4 года назад +3

      @Little Darling lmbo!!!!

    • @cassey7532
      @cassey7532 3 года назад +6

      😂😂😂😂

    • @donelle560
      @donelle560 3 года назад +10

      I’m dying laughing here. 🤣

    • @Wolfiie95
      @Wolfiie95 3 года назад +23

      Little Darling am wearnig monster cookies and i am 25 😂

    • @sarahmk2966
      @sarahmk2966 3 года назад +3

      Lol...same

  • @carnival30
    @carnival30 4 года назад +558

    “Or you can get your housekeeper to do it”
    I am the housekeeper! That’s why im here! Because I don’t want to look like just a housekeeper anymore.

  • @annacozac8202
    @annacozac8202 2 года назад +7

    I absolutely love this video. Being a Mom of three kids under two really has given me a daily struggle with finding my femininity. I look forward to purging my closet and restyling my look. I think this will no doubt help with feeling my best when my husband is home too.

  • @eleanorraquel1198
    @eleanorraquel1198 2 года назад +16

    So glad to have a big sister in you teaching me these things! 🥰 Came at the right time for me. Needed to hear these so I can prepare for my husband and my own family, as well as, to feel like a million dollars everyday! 😀❤️

  • @mariaflorenciaalvarez1926
    @mariaflorenciaalvarez1926 4 года назад +457

    Now we need "How to look elegant at the Gym" 🏋️💪🤸‍♀️🏋️‍♀️

    • @nicolalblushi9830
      @nicolalblushi9830 4 года назад +7

      You've gotta me on this one...LOL

    • @ManifestOptimism
      @ManifestOptimism 4 года назад +7

      Please and thank you!

    • @hansgans9311
      @hansgans9311 4 года назад +1

      yes

    • @valeriatykhonovska4350
      @valeriatykhonovska4350 4 года назад +13

      With the COVID it's going to be a loooooong while before any one of us gets to look elegant at the gym though

    • @mrvgstyle2442
      @mrvgstyle2442 4 года назад +6

      No one is going to the gym for the next six months with the case numbers doubling by the day. You should look up the World Health Organization on RUclips. Everything at the gym is contaminated. They will have to sterilize for awhile.

  • @P3achmilk
    @P3achmilk 4 года назад +503

    "we don't wear sweatpants"
    Me who's wearing sweatpants right now "👀"

  • @pallabinaik3686
    @pallabinaik3686 Год назад +8

    Thank You Anna for such a descriptive video on homewear. It really helped. I am glad I watched it ! 😍

  • @LegacyLewis-gt8ru
    @LegacyLewis-gt8ru 3 года назад +3

    🌷 Wow! You really spoke to me in this video! This will be a game changer in my household and within myself.... my self image. Thank you for all you do! You are making such an amazing impact in so many lives around the world. I will always appreciate you. 🌷

  • @massfractal8
    @massfractal8 4 года назад +191

    Shedding the faded house dresses, tattered pajamas and sweats is really lifting my spirits. Pulling my look together distracts a bit from the difficult realities of physical isolation. Every time I looked down or passed a mirror, the sight of my frumpwear had been compounding the depression and anxiety I already felt. Who needed that? Not me!
    Also, as I video chat with friends, I've noticed that my improved appearance provides a positive experience--and example--for them. So, wins all around!
    Thanks for the video.

    • @katherinea.williams3044
      @katherinea.williams3044 4 года назад +1

      Mass Fractal I couldn’t concur with you more!
      You NAILED it!
      What’s funny is that at 5:47, she’s wearing palazzo pants- living in Miami, I ADORE long, loose, boot cut ‘pants’ (more like the bottoms from La Linge NYC) at home & out and about.
      This is the second video I’ve seen on this channel and so far, I’m enjoying it!
      Quite eager to see more of her content!
      Love & Light from Miami ✨✌🏼
      Stay safe

    • @roseroseroserose6958
      @roseroseroserose6958 2 года назад

      Masa, - totally totally, - same here!

  • @MA-wh2nr
    @MA-wh2nr 4 года назад +233

    I love this! 🥰 My mother always taught me to be presentable inside the home. Even if we were of humble means, we still made sure to have well ironed sets of home clothes for winter and summer. In my opinion, it’s not about vanity. It’s more about discipline. When you take pride in the way you dress, that almost sets the tone for the day. It has an impact on the way you feel and how productive you are; just like waking up early, exercising and having a scheduled routine. It’s part of it all.

    • @vishnumundhe6398
      @vishnumundhe6398 4 года назад +8

      That is such an elegant lady message. ♥️

    • @alishastewart8198
      @alishastewart8198 4 года назад +4

      Definitely agree.

    • @betsyhazel
      @betsyhazel 4 года назад +11

      Me too. Always look presentable especially when you come to the dining table. Till today I wash up, clean my face and comb my hair before sitting down to eat. Lol!!

    • @maythegirl2002
      @maythegirl2002 4 года назад +1

      Same here

    • @Cattitude369
      @Cattitude369 4 года назад +4

      I agree. I think that is a big thing missing in today's society. The pendulum swings, I guess.

  • @samanthabarron8481
    @samanthabarron8481 Год назад +15

    I am guilty of wearing my ugliest clothes at home BUT I think we need to take into consideration peoples’ different lifestyles. I do a lot of outdoor work like gardening at home, and I also live with roommates, so I can’t be walking around in sexy silk lol and I’m certainly not going to be gardening in cashmere… I feel that these tips are great for someone with the right lifestyle. And I’m sure there are still situations where I could apply these suggestions when appropriate.

  • @Lecercledelumiere
    @Lecercledelumiere 2 года назад

    Hi Anna, I want to thank you for your advices. You remind me so much of my mother and my aunt, they are so elegant, raised by an elegant woman too. They are attached to manners, and I remember I was annoyed by all the rules when I was a child. Growing up I wanted to be more comfortable and lighter than my mother. But you reminded me how elegant she was and you explained the things so well, I am going to change and be more elegant and class like my mother and all the wemon on her family side. Thanks again.

  • @BunsBooks
    @BunsBooks 3 года назад +481

    I’m definitely leveling up my lounge wear, ladies we deserve to look and feel luxurious for ourselves too.
    But, I’m turning all my old clothes into quilts. My great great great grandma started our family’s quilting tradition by using worn out clothes (because she was very poor, she also made her kids clothes out of cloth grain sacks, she’d sun bleach the supplier stamp off of them and dye them with plants) and the tradition has just continued on that way. I prefer it to buying fabrics because it’s more environmentally friendly and it’s wonderful to have these gorgeous blankets in the family what were once cherished clothing pieces of my ancestors. I inherited an award winning quilt from my great great grandmother that she hand stitched out of old sheets and a house dress.

    • @MBA-pz6tu
      @MBA-pz6tu 3 года назад +27

      This is the best comment I've seen here. Doing something useful out of old fabrics and keeping a tradition alive.
      I don't know how to quilt, but you've inspired me to research. I don't throw anything away out of guilt (throwing clothes to landfill, gaining weight in the pandemic, or simply, If I bought something and looks old, it is my own fault for not taking more care while shopping. Also, I dye and repair everything as much as I can, as my gran would. She barely had money to buy clothes).
      Being Latin in a northern European country, for me, makes me always feel cold. So I can never wear trendy fashions. Always wearing jumpers, sweatshirts, jackets and jeans, even in the summer. And it is so frustrating not being able to show a nice collarbone, or arms in general because I'm cold. Which leads to not fitting in, feeling frumpy. Gosh! Don't know where all that came from, but I guess it need to be out. But I hope I find one day a fairy God mother who will understand and lead me to take care of myself and the planet.

    • @heidicheckettswest1091
      @heidicheckettswest1091 3 года назад +3

      I love it

    • @adriannehubbard3452
      @adriannehubbard3452 3 года назад +4

      Do you quilt with a machine or by hand. Also I suspect you have to make sure to keep same fabrics together? Say denim with Rayon? I am asking sincerely.

    • @mebcn5850
      @mebcn5850 3 года назад +4

      How interesting! I even searched for the word "quilt" , since I did not know its meaning. There are si many things than can be done with old clothes , especially jeans. Some people do school bags for poor kids in África. I mean, as long, as the cloth can be used of course

    • @Teewriter
      @Teewriter 3 года назад +3

      @@adriannehubbard3452 think it’s okay to mix just don’t use stretch fabrics with woven.

  • @sammirage703
    @sammirage703 3 года назад +203

    I saw this video and immediately cleared my closet of oversized printed tees. I put on a plain fitted tee and nice long pants...and my companion complimented me 2 times in the evening! It was nothing new that I purchased, I just paid attention to what I was wearing and it helped me feel better about myself. Thank you!

    • @ellen823ful
      @ellen823ful Год назад +7

      Good girl. I’m proud of you!

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento 10 месяцев назад +1

      Aaah...that is perfect!!! Even your companion noticed! That is a big thing 💗

  • @mirandaddy
    @mirandaddy Год назад +8

    Thank you for all of your videos you really helped me upgrade my appearance and feel good about myself again and not blame my weight that I look bad! It’s really the clothes we were that can give us energy ❤

  • @ashledashnaw5279
    @ashledashnaw5279 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for your videos. My grandmother would tell me these things all the time, but I never really listened, and forgot about most of it. I wish I would have listened to her much sooner in life.

  • @TZ2nd
    @TZ2nd 4 года назад +827

    I don’t know why but I hate wearing jeans at home😢

    • @mksmith1740
      @mksmith1740 4 года назад +9

      Not sure where you’re from but Talbots has the most comfortable jeans ever. They’re called Flawless Five Pocket and they feel divine. They come in a variety of colors, washes, lengths, waists, petite, curvy, and large sizes. I used to wear yoga pants around the house. Now I wear jeans-in cold seasons of course!

    • @cute_swiss1758
      @cute_swiss1758 4 года назад +2

      Same here

    • @andreacmcp2014
      @andreacmcp2014 4 года назад +24

      That's me.
      I would rather wear shorts, dresses or skirts, I don't like wear jeans, specially if you live in Florida.

    • @harinisankaran897
      @harinisankaran897 4 года назад +8

      True they are not comfortable

    • @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama
      @BerylWalubengoAnyitiNanyama 4 года назад +2

      Same

  • @bettya86
    @bettya86 4 года назад +196

    When i was younger i used to wear h&m pyjamas at home. Now that i am past 30 i feel more and more sexy and that is reflected in my homewear too. I want to feel lux even when at home. It makes me feel good. And now that i am earning more i spoil myself with lux loungewear and sleepwear as well as beddings too

    • @alexagg7640
      @alexagg7640 4 года назад +4

      Do you have any suggestions? Brands? Stores? .

    • @majah5322
      @majah5322 4 года назад +7

      @@alexagg7640 Intimissimi does really nice silk negligees and silk cami/shorts sets. Oysho usually has some great cheaper alternatives in satin that can work fine in my opinion.

    • @alexagg7640
      @alexagg7640 4 года назад +5

      @@majah5322 thank you! I'm in my early thirties and feel exactly like you , more and more sexy lol.. which is a good thing I believe. Anyhow, thank you for the suggestions.

    • @majah5322
      @majah5322 4 года назад +1

      @@alexagg7640 You're welcome. That is a good thing! wearing things like that really make you feel feminine and empowered.

    • @Mywatercrystaltv
      @Mywatercrystaltv 4 года назад +1

      @ Betty-- H&M? That's such an upgrade! Try Walmart!! 🤣🤣

  • @lovely.freedom
    @lovely.freedom Год назад +6

    You become an elegant woman when you are elegant even in your most comfortable moments. Love it!

    • @KARINA29534
      @KARINA29534 Год назад

      What do you mean "as long as it gets taken off"?

  • @michelleharper7020
    @michelleharper7020 2 года назад +1

    Wow! This was a bit intense but much needed. I was always saying that I need a new wardrobe but I am so encouraged to begin the journey. Thank you so much. I always wanted to do better and some people thought was crazy but now I know that I'm just diffrent. I needed this !

  • @ML-dj8fq
    @ML-dj8fq 4 года назад +429

    That should be more emphasized: we want men to look good too. Many of them think they can look like crap as long as they have money.

    • @blessall8856
      @blessall8856 4 года назад +30

      Totally agree! Men who have money and those that don't, are both careless with their hygiene, grooming and clothing. Though the lower class man tends to be far more disheveled and very bad hygiene all-around: body, home, car! Ugh!😲😷

    • @BravoMentoraAmerica
      @BravoMentoraAmerica 4 года назад +1

      True.

    • @mariannaoz
      @mariannaoz 4 года назад +4

      Grooming is my main issue with men

    • @davidemascia3432
      @davidemascia3432 4 года назад +1

      Technically, they can lol. And speaking about not elegant clothes, I have to admit that grey sweatpants provide a great... view

    • @selectiveoutrage6617
      @selectiveoutrage6617 4 года назад +5

      @@davidemascia3432 Yes, they cling to men's bodies more than those hideous baggy shorts

  • @OcarinaSapphr-
    @OcarinaSapphr- 4 года назад +425

    ‘Adults take responsibility for their appearance’
    SAY THIS LOUDER FOR THE FOLKS IN THE BACK!

  • @Agualev
    @Agualev 3 года назад +2

    Please do a part 2 about this, is so useful and inspired me so much!! All I needed to feel good again!

  • @maria.1313
    @maria.1313 Год назад +14

    Thank you, this is so valuable! I'm learning so much about being a mature, adult, gracious and elegant woman which I haven't before, certainly not as much as I needed. And yes, I totally agree and it's crazy that I didn't realize it before - what made us think that wearing the worst clothes at home/being neglectful about appearance and how we feel at home. I am upgrading and elevating my feminine, elegant, feel good wardrobe! Thank you 🙏🤍🌹

  • @rubythalue3758
    @rubythalue3758 3 года назад +13

    Anna: This morning i try it and wear some of my clothes and it works🤗. I feel that im the most beautiful wiffy around in our house😂. thank you i plan to do This as much as i Can❤️

  • @isabelxmarie8130
    @isabelxmarie8130 4 года назад +223

    I literally laughed out loud when you said “if he sees you wearing your rags” 😂 so true!

    • @bassymichaelis2244
      @bassymichaelis2244 4 года назад +12

      same 😂😂😂 I imagined some cave woman in rags

    • @pretty-eyes
      @pretty-eyes 3 года назад +5

      What if he wears rags for work?? People who earn their living from masonary carpentry wall painting and decorating tile layers etc. Not everyone works in an office dear 🤨

  • @Maya_Waya
    @Maya_Waya 4 года назад +459

    Seeing you in a Mickey Mouse t-shirt gave me whiplash

    • @carolynsekas717
      @carolynsekas717 4 года назад +1

      2020 is the year of the Rat..
      Gucci is sporting Mickey..
      Just saying 🤩
      Make it a cut-off if you have the Abs.😏

    • @nancyinsc5102
      @nancyinsc5102 4 года назад

      I spilled my cup of tea. LOL

    • @cherylhenninger2988
      @cherylhenninger2988 4 года назад

      The face she was making in the mirror said it all, heehee. Farewell, M-I-C, K-E-Y... M-O-U-S-Eeeeee

    • @Maya_Waya
      @Maya_Waya 4 года назад

      @@carolynsekas717 Mickey's a mouse, not a rat and Gucci sporting Mickey doesn't mean much to me

    • @Maya_Waya
      @Maya_Waya 4 года назад

      @@cherylhenninger2988 she looked like she couldn't wait to get rid of it.

  • @itsisa1319
    @itsisa1319 6 месяцев назад

    Anna, you are so right and called me right out. You’re leveling me up. Thank you!

  • @elizabethsummermeado
    @elizabethsummermeado 11 месяцев назад

    So good Tara. This study is blessing me beyond words! I'm so excited to have your godly wisdom spill over into me more and go through the entire Bible for my first time ever. Thank you for sharing your gift! I'm excited to do your whole study with my two teenage girls, and maybe one day my husband who is not a believer. Thank you 🙏💕🙏

  • @texassweetgrl
    @texassweetgrl 4 года назад +217

    I've just started earning enough to be comfortable. I now own my house and I'm not struggling to pay any bills. However, I realized that besides one wool winter coat, I still have a poor woman's wardrobe. I've decided to go through as many videos on channel on elegant clothing and upgrade myself. My first outfit has been picked, as I have always wanted a matching tweed skirt and jacket set.

    • @Pocketrose3
      @Pocketrose3 3 года назад +11

      Get it girl!!!

    • @adriannaeiber9604
      @adriannaeiber9604 3 года назад +25

      I have enough now,,,, at 63! But my life was the poor girls life. What I have learned is second hand can be AMAZING! Look for cashmere, silk ect ect,,,I buy beautiful clothing for a fraction of the price. You see, women that have „more“ spend more and they don’t wear clothing out, their clothes end up on second hand platforms or even Goodwill . For instance a cashmere sweater I have found for $10. Even a cheap Walmart sweater sells for $10🤷🏻‍♀️
      You don’t have to spend a fortune to look great . My 82 yr old mother practically dresses herself in Goodwill, she’s a seamstress and can spot quality across a room 😂 ( she lives below her means, can afford the best, but still has the poor girl mentality) she gets so excited when she finds a gem,,,,call me right away ( we live in different countries). It’s a competition between us,,,,,who’s going to be the thrift queen of the year 😂 I won in 2020 👸🏻 because I found wool blazers from Moschino , Gant, Ralf Lauren, Mexico and several cashmere sweaters each for under $10💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼 happy thrifting ladies.

    • @scarlettkhan9667
      @scarlettkhan9667 2 года назад

      Lucky you

    • @jaylaw.7660
      @jaylaw.7660 2 года назад +1

      😍😘😘

    • @epoulos108
      @epoulos108 2 года назад +1

      Great! Inspiring!

  • @NanNan-bz7qh
    @NanNan-bz7qh 4 года назад +335

    i feel like she would look at me in disgust when she sees what i wear daily at home lmao

    • @MsSecretbitch
      @MsSecretbitch 4 года назад +3

      😂😂😂

    • @Kloe-fu1ci
      @Kloe-fu1ci 4 года назад +2

      Literally same

    • @muniratshehu6717
      @muniratshehu6717 3 года назад +2

      😄😄

    • @NanNan-bz7qh
      @NanNan-bz7qh 3 года назад +9

      @Susel yes ofcourse she wont do something like that, im just jokingly exaggerating. She is a really classy and a kind lady! :)

  • @inndivideosdocumentales9495
    @inndivideosdocumentales9495 3 года назад +124

    I wear all those lazy clothes at home and my husband doesn't care 🤷🏻‍♀️ he loves me the way I am

    • @kindaal4453
      @kindaal4453 3 года назад +20

      By that sentence, she showed how insecure she is..

    • @kekelwamunalula6668
      @kekelwamunalula6668 3 года назад +3

      @@kindaal4453 who did?

    • @havanax8096
      @havanax8096 2 года назад +24

      It is made to upgrade your lifestyle and if you want to be in rags at home you can don't criticize her with groundles statements lady

    • @nopeq7993
      @nopeq7993 2 года назад +30

      20 bucks says he’d feel more attracted to you if you wore those night dresses tho!

    • @tereseday4060
      @tereseday4060 Год назад

      You think he doesn't care.

  • @Mrs.lacysmith
    @Mrs.lacysmith 2 года назад +10

    Absolutely Loving all your videos! I wear anything that I'm comfortable in... but guess what, thanks to your videos I'll be elevating myself and style♡

  • @reallyrho1101
    @reallyrho1101 4 года назад +86

    I get up and shower, do my hair and makeup, albeit not as much makeup, and wear nice clothes everyday. This past week has been hard but looking my best helps.

  • @miriamfrayle5322
    @miriamfrayle5322 4 года назад +328

    Please please make a fragrance video!!!
    -Love
    One of your “elegant ladies” 💛

  • @beautyforumbyangela
    @beautyforumbyangela 2 года назад +7

    Well said & true. I am home all of the time. I feel sloppy & frumpy. This video is exactly what I needed to hear. I want to elevate my lounge wear & sleep wear intentionally. Thank you for the cheat sheet. You look amazing. Cheers 😉 🌷

  • @joanevelomoljo6068
    @joanevelomoljo6068 3 года назад +2

    Thanks Ana! Learned a lot from this video!!! You are 101% true bout the silk and lace sleepwear... Had a discussion with my husband and bought some.. It worked like magic!

  • @lizard6444
    @lizard6444 4 года назад +158

    The funny thing about me is that I always make sure I have good quality bedding, towels and home ware, but I forget about myself. Thank you for reminding me.

  • @suriya5318
    @suriya5318 4 года назад +76

    When my dad was alive he tried to teach me etiquette as a young kid Anna is helping me become that classy woman I should be. ❤️ I truly love your content.

    • @becuteforme
      @becuteforme 4 года назад +3

      Suriya Ali that’s sweet!

    • @sheilam5248
      @sheilam5248 4 года назад +1

      Deepest condolences for your loss. You must have loved your father very much.

  • @rmkpilates
    @rmkpilates 2 года назад +2

    This was eye-opening. Thank you I needed this. Be beautiful and be you.

  • @LaLa-if3sr
    @LaLa-if3sr 2 года назад +1

    Thank you, Anna, for making a quality video!

  • @Fornothing_atall
    @Fornothing_atall 4 года назад +61

    I took your advice, and I donated all my old and animated clothes. My closet is sightly smaller, but it feels good not having childish clothes as an option.
    I’ve been following your advice about matching the same color, and fabrics; I’ve gotten so many compliments on how I look classy now. Thanks Anna.

  • @sesekaka5994
    @sesekaka5994 4 года назад +982

    Karl Lagerfeld: "Sweatpants are a sign of defeat. You lost control of your life, so you bought some sweatpants.”

    • @iamcom4ta
      @iamcom4ta 4 года назад +19

      😂😂😂😂

    • @LM-oz5cw
      @LM-oz5cw 4 года назад +92

      life is too short, wear what you like and are comfortable in.

    • @bonitabonita3431
      @bonitabonita3431 4 года назад +7

      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 THANNNK YOUUUUUUU DAHLING FOR KEEPING KARL ALIVE 😘😘😘😘😘♥️♥️♥️&&& REMINDING ME 🤩

    • @anetabrlikova8454
      @anetabrlikova8454 4 года назад +32

      That is actually true. I had some crazy days past week because of this pandemic and yes I was wearing leggings for a 3 days even to public. It was terrible and yes I was feeling like I was loosing control over everything. Normally I would never wear leggings in public. It is completely different feeling to put little effort and dress nicely, you cope with everything way better then in leggings or sweatpants. It is about you feeling good about yourself.❤

    • @sethrintatu
      @sethrintatu 4 года назад

      Hahaha!

  • @melissagoddessdevi
    @melissagoddessdevi 2 года назад

    Loved this video. Very helpful. Thank you Anna. I think the information you provide on this Channel is priceless. Nowadays almost nobody will share this type of information since posible don’t want to help others to upgrade in life so that’s why I appreciate so much all the information you share on this channel.

  • @jessicablakemore5290
    @jessicablakemore5290 2 года назад +3

    I think just the practice of dressing to feel my best, for myself regardless of who sees, will be life changing. Thank you for this!