A tearful David Draiman shares a powerful, very personal story during Disturbed concert
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- During the #disturbed show in Milwaukee, frontman #daviddraiman became emotional as he shared a very personal story and also described how he misses #chesterbennington and #scottweiland
He lost his girlfriend as a teenager to suicide as well. Inspiration for his song "Inside The Fire". It's everywhere and it's ignored. Hats off to him for talking about this.
I had the same, and she was my first girlfriend.
It completely and utterly destroyed me on a level that has never been matched by any other event in my life.
I still think about her sometimes and it's been nearly 20 years since it happened...
@@raveturkey1996 I'm so unbelievably sorry you had to go through that. Stay strong my friend. ❤️🙏🏻
@@larssullivanfan2496 thanks brother :)
didnt he lost an upcoming child too?
He actually lost her from an overdose
Hearing the people in the crowd acknowledge each other after seeing all the hands raised….telling each other “I love you, I love you, and I love you, you are not alone”, was magical to hear. People need those moments
That part was really strong...a feel Stupids scream like idiots in this moment so sad...but that part "you are not alone, I love you, really touch me"
Maybe I'm biased, but metal heads are some of the greatest, most genuine people this world has to offer. Perhaps being in touch with the darker side of life and seeking outlets for aggression helps us empathize a little more than most.
@@mikemurphy1208 Absolutely true
That was Amazing 👏!!
What a MAN for standing and showing that EVERYONE can struggle with anything in life, but YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! If only more singers were this honest and spread the word, maybe we would all have a little more hope and support in our lives! The world is a hard place to live in for the majority of people, we just need to understand that,, speak out, and ask for help, as there are people out there in the same boat, and also those who can help!! ❤❤🖤🖤🤍🤍💙💙💚💚💜💜
Not every vocalist can talk about depression and suicide. Dave Draiman spoke from the heart. "You are not alone". God bless him.
James Hetfield says the same thing when Metallica plays Fade To Black live
David’s wife of 11 years, mother of their 3 year old child filed for divorce in February before V-Day (finalized now) and he lost his 14 year old Akita dog. I can’t relate to how he feels 110%.
Oh dear... the poor ‘victimhoodster’ wants some sympathy and whatever donation you can spare. Same tribe... same story.
Hi. @@isonation. I just last nite heard “Don’t Tell Me” for the first time and it really tugs my heart. I relate to it so much. I’m sadly separated from my husband for over a year. I just found out he has a girlfriend. We were together over 30 years, so of course I expected this to happen one day, and I truly hope he is happy and she treats him well. But omg does this hurt... REALLY bad.
@@isonation. Also, I’m so sorry that you can relate to him, too. Take care & wish you well.
"I try to keep this pain inside, but I will never be alright" ~Chester
I've always been someone who suffered from mental illnes(anxiety, depression etc.) yet in these last few years after suffering the loss of my grandmother to cancer and more recently my 6 year old dog to acute Leukemia, my dog who dragged me through and helped me overcome the depression and overwhelming sadness of losing my grandmother to both cancer and dementia. I fear the emotional pain more than I do anything else, I fear being sober because I've more often than not drank most nights since the death of my dog, sometimes into complete avoidance and oblivion. I'm terrified of the magnitude and depth of my pain. Because it was already too much 2 years ago when my nan passed away and now it's unfathomable. I'm not coping at all, It's pure grief, isolation and loneliness every day, no matter how much I try. I suffer from severe social anxiety too so, I'm basically f*cked. Misery is me.
@@EmmaLouise91 It sounds so cliché but there's always help available no matter what and no matter at what time. I'm a very introverted person and I like keeping myself to myself and generally bottle my feelings up, I've also had I invasive thoughts in the past. I've found that there is immense relief in just making a small effort to talk to someone close. Whether that be a parent, sibling, work colleague, even a friendly neighbour, it doesn't matter as long as you trust them, and you _will not_ be judged or be perceived as weak for having spoken about how you're feeling. There is no shame in asking for help, the mightiest of warlords never won battles by themselves.
You're here as a result of love and so you are loved. No one in the world is, has been, or ever will be as unique as you. You have your own sense of humour, dreams and ambitions, opinions and talents and a whole life to live full of experiences, love and potential. I sincerely hope you can find the help you deserve to overcome your feelings and live life to the fullest.
Best wishes from some random guy on the internet.
@@EmmaLouise91
I can relate to you 100% and life becomes intolerable… But I have someone with me, who I have known since I was 27yrs old, and his name is Jesus… I had never felt peace in my entire life until he revealed himself to me at a church service one night. I didn’t even know He existed, after being brought up as a catholic and attending many catholic schools and my sister and I were sent to mass alone each Sunday. It meant nothing to me, as no one even approached us to find out why 2 very young girls were alone. I had been sexually and psychologically abused by my own father, and my mother wasn’t able to be available for me as she suffered greatly from depression, and at the hands of my violent father… When I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Saviour, I knew that He loved me, and He has been healing me little by little from the Complex PTSD and other mental health issues… There’s a scripture in the Bible that says “He came to heal the broken hearted and to bind up all of their wounds” and I’m a witness to that fact… We are all sinners, and this is why Jesus gave his life for you and me. He paid the ransom for our sin, so that if we turn away from it, he forgives us for every sin we have committed, and he remembers it no more. We have been promised a comforter (who is the Holy Spirit) who comforts us in our times of great sorrow.
I can tell you that God the Father loves you with unconditional love, and he is there to hide you from the storm in His arms. He hurts when you hurt, and He wants you to call out to Him. He is closer than you know, in fact the Bible says “He is closer than hands and feet”. He also says in the Bible “Call upon Me in your day of trouble, and I will rescue you, and you will honour Me”
He is a wonderful God, and has made all of creation (including our precious pets) just for us to enjoy and be awestruck by…
I have nothing to gain by telling you all of this, but I truly care about you and your life… My prayer is that you would know who it is who created you, and will know the same joy that all of us who know him are experiencing. That you would have Hope in your heart, knowing that you are not alone on this earth. The Lord says “I will never leave you nor forsake you”, and may you know that too in your heart …
God bless you precious one 🙏♥️🙏
Don’t understand why people think Chester was murdered when there are evidence that he was battling depression
😢😢😢🙏🙏🙏
Chester's death hit me like a truck. It's just so painful to see someone take their life after they saved yours.
same and certain songs have me in tears
same, The news just hits me the most.
Linkin park and disturbed music took me through my teen ages and got me forgot to my parrents divorce when i was 7, And bullying at my 10. It deffinitely saved my life.
Wow brother that was a Profound Comment - Really - Painful to watch the one that saved Your Life take Theirs
Same. Every one of their hits just sounds like an extreme calling out for help now
RIP Chris Cornell (July 20, 1964 - May 18, 2017), aged 52
RIP Layne Staley (August 22, 1967 - April 5, 2002), aged 34
RIP Scott Weiland (October 27, 1967 - December 3, 2015), aged 48
RIP Taylor Hawkins (February 17, 1972 - March 25, 2022), aged 50
RIP Chester Bennington (March 20, 1976 - July 20, 2017), aged 41
You will be remembered as legends.
Chris and Chester were preparing to reveal a web of sick corruption in the music/entertainment industry before their untimely death's. They may have died by the people who caused their depression and addiction, rather than the depression and addiction itself. Keep children away from the entertainment industry, too many are traumatized and abused by those who have power and influence. Some grow to be rockstars, while being handled and controlled by the same people who abused them. It can be hard to speak out, and we see what happens when you try.
@@chrisgore8597
Okay, Qultist.
@@TotsNater I agree. Tired of seeing this kooky trash in the comments.
@@chrisgore8597 no wonder you have no friends
And Keith Flint😢
It breaks my heart to see Draiman tear up like that. I can't believe he admitted to almost dying because of his depression. I'm very happy he's still here on this earth and as a fan, I hope he stays strong and continues to fight his demons through the power of his music. 🤘Stay Indestructible, Be Unstoppable!🤘
Agree as well, his music delivered me through everything negative in my life! 🙏
@@tracyannbielhy9794 I think David caught it way before covid, c'mon just look and listen to his lyrics I really doubt someone unbroken could do it no matter how crazy talented he'd be
We can all agree he “won’t back down” from this fight
im glad hes still hare
I listen to David every day since the Sound of Silence.
His powerful voice singing that song truly affects my mood in such a good way.
Thank you David ❤
So brave of him to admit that to the world. Im so glad hes still here. ❤❤❤
Ele admitiu o que? Comecei a segui lo agr não sei nada da sua vida se puder me contar te agradeço ❤
People saying "I love you" to each other at the end was beautiful.
They sound drunk
@@pnut3844ableand? The drunk heart says what the sober mouth is too shy to say
@@WildWinterberry no, no it does not. You apparently have zero idea of how biology works 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@pnut3844able I'd rather deal with an honest drunk, than a sober liar.
One hardcore rocker
Yet another human being that has feelings and sheds tears. Respect to this man💯
your tears are felt peae
Same here, David. Demons nearly took my life 5 years ago. I fought back. Got the help I needed. I’m still recovering, still fighting. I will not give up. Love you David.
Congrats on 5 years. I know it wasn't easy
¡Fuerza amigo! 💪
wow you are registered in heaven! don't give up the LORD is Watching
❤
Que Deus te dê forças todos os dias 🙌😊
I can't even describe how much respect I have for this guy. That's a real man. He's just a regular person trying to get through his life while still wanting to inspire and help others and being a good example. We are all with you David. We love you. ❤
you my in lighten friend have seen the light peace
We already lost legends like Chester. We dont need to lose any more to depression. Its awesome that David Draiman wants to pick up the mantle of bringing light on the subject. Cause it needs to be addressed more.
Not only is the music of Disturbed amazing on its own merit, the MESSAGES that Disturbed give us bring some light to the darkness.
David Draiman is a gift to the world and a hero we could not have done anything to earn.
Agreed❤
He is beyond correct…
I’ve been fighting it for decades…. And you do feel alone… and it’s a complete nightmare
You are NOT alone. Take care man.
All the best, you're not alone!
It's especially nightmarish for men, because society wants to believe men don't go through that, and push men to shove it all down. I'm glad David came out about this, a high-profile male singer like him coming out about this is a huge step forward in visibility for men's mental health.
I wish you through that hell man. Stay strong and keep fighting
Stay strong, for you are never alone. ❤
Disturbed has touched my heart and saved my life countless times
Hello, how are you doing today? Thanks for your love and support🎵❤️
Same! Tina! You aren't alone in that. ❤
"I'm tired of losing everybody I loved due to Depression and Addiction"
I 100% agreed with you!
1:26 Everytime I hear Chester's name, I got goosebumps!
Frick I miss Chester too
Was a great show last night
Chester Bennington helped me when I needed it most I only wish I could've been there to help him when he needed it most
@Ott-ep7sl it's important for people like us to always be surrounded by loved ones. Unfortunately he was alone with his demons for too long at the time that it happened
it's been 6 years now. 6th anniversary..
That ending with the crowd was beautiful. "You are NOT ALONE" "I love YOU, and YOU, and YOU..."
David, is the bravest and most humble frontman I have ever seen. He is the reason I am now doing a PhD in Psychology and Neurology so I can help others who have been through trauma so thank you David for your strength and I wish you knew how much your music and your amazing soul has done for me. A truly wonderful person. Know that you have helped save and change my life. I owe this band so much.
My hand held high and tears streaming down my face … It’s too REAL !!
This. This right here is why I will always choose David and Disturbed. Their music, their relentless advocacy for mental health and their own vulnerability is what keeps me going❤
To my brothers and sisters who fight with themselves everyday, please listen to this message. You are not alone.
I never had paid much attention to these guys, as I haven’t been into that genre of metal,but this guy is the real deal.
From comforting a girl at a show, to this, and now I’m starting to really check out their music. I’m impressed, for many reasons, but most of all for his authenticity.
Tears running... Knowing that, without our son in our lives, my wife would probably not be around anymore... She dont get the help she needs with her sickness, no one in the healthcare listen. Yet, she fights each day, does everything for us and our son. She is the strongest one I know, far more of a fighter then myself. I truly wish I could take her pain instead, to give her a good life. Thank you for this, I needed it, to see and understand that we are not alone. I hope you all heal, feels the love you need. Take care out there.
May your wife find peace brother. Keep up the fight.
Sounds like she's not the only one with strength in your home. Take care. Xxx
@@joshuahaught4812 Thank you for that, it truly means alot❤ Always, we will never give up.
@@susiew2521 Thank you! We do what we have to for the ones we love. You too❤
Wish you and your family well
My three son’s and nephew’s got me hooked on them since they first came out. I LOVE 💕 THEM!!!!!
I saw a news article about this speech and I really needed to hear this today... we're never alone, music unites us ✊️ ❤
I kind of realized this about lonliness recently, that there are a ton of people feeling lonely, but in that we're actually not alone.
I've been on both sides of this issue myself. David Draiman, you are so loved, and I am so glad you stepped back from that final doorway. You're a hero whether you realize it or not. You and the band have saved lives with your compassion and the messages you bring with your music and your honest openness. This world needs many more people like Disturbed's band members, now more than ever. The world loves and needs you. Hugs to all of you. Please don't ever give up. You're a shining light in the darkness that this world has become.
Last night i had the best conversation ever with my uncle. He's an older guy, and he is currently suffering from cancer. He's always listening to Aerosmith and the like, so imagine my surprise when sitting around the campfire he starts telling me about how he went to a Disturbed concert back in may. Me and the family were talking about music earlier that day so he had already figured how much of a metalhead i was. Never would've taken my uncle for one. We spent basically the entire night talking about Disturbed and Breaking Benjamin and FFDP. Never would've thought he'd be the guy to struggle with mental health, but he said to me that the speech David gave really motivated him. You are never alone!
Man this hits strong, I lifted my hand up.
Me too. In fact It made me get a get an appointment with a rehab facility... Oh like the guy who filmed this I wanna say: Stay strong brother, I love you...
I was there at the Concert in Chicago when he gave this speech, when everyone raised their hands it was really a beautiful moment
Você pode traduzir o discurso dele para mim não falo esse idioma,Amo essa a banda!
I met this man in 2000 at revolution in ft Lauderdale. I tell you what. When he handed me his bands tape I couldn't believe how genuinely nice he seemed.
As a veteran, I have dealt with depression head on. It almost beat me a few times but I tell you, you can overcome it with the tenacity of fighting a war but it will test you and your resolve. David is right, we are not alone, we all are together in this war.
Bless your heart ♥
So gut wrenching. And so true❤ Love you David. Keep fighting. So touching I'm in tears. Yes, I have experienced it😅 also
No smile emotion intended!
David, I love you. And I love all of you who might read this. You are NEVER alone.
I miss Chris, and Chester too. And I would miss you more... thank you for being here!😢❤❤❤❤❤❤
I don't cry easily but this almost brought a tear to my eye this morning. You are not alone. I will also add a line from a country song that I have a framed poster of: Every storm runs out of rain, just like every dark night turns into day.
That’s beautiful Matty , thank you for sharing 🙏💜✨
Thank you I needed to hear that today💞
At a dying fetus concert this would not happen he'll be telling everybody to f*** it up and metal concerts are not for people who are soccer moms.....
People battling their demons so quickly and easily forget that they're not alone. What an absolutely profound moment when he showed everyone with hands raised. I've been a fan of this band the last 23 years and there's a reason and it's not just the music.
The homies telling each other "I love you" at the end 🤙🏼 real shit. Always let your friends and family know they are loved and cherished
I’ve struggled with suicidal ideation my whole life, and Disturbed has been a source of inspiration and strength for me for many years now, over 12 years I believe. I’m going to see them live for the first time in Arizona for the Take Back Your Life tour, and the name of the tour and the timing of me trying to finally do something with my life is such crazy timing, and to tour in my home state as well. I’m probably gonna cry like crazy.
Sending you love, loads of strong energy, inspiration and most of all... a hug! ❤ You're worth it, we NEED you!
See you there
One day at a time. We’ll overcome this
Beautiful, very moving, extremely true and important ❤
Come on David, we can't lose you too. #youarenotalone
I saw Disturbed 2 nights ago and when he discussed this topic he made me cry. When he cried I sobbed
I’m very sorry for your loss . David, you are brave and strong. God bless . 🌹🇨🇦
Thank you! 🌹🇨🇦
Damn dude, it's crazy how everyone there has or knows someone with depression. That's actually a wake-up call. I'm not a huge fan of Disturbed, but David is definitely doing something real and powerful here and I respect that. Hope he is doing better now
How many times can I comment on a Disturbed video how much I love David Draiman? So raw, so open. We are so lucky he has chosen to sing for us in his career.
I just had to cry... The end was very cute with the people telling them they love each other. David saying "you are not alone" was so emotional. Didn´t taught it hit me that hard.
Hello, how are you doing today? Thanks for your love and support🎵❤️
I get the pain David. Please don't leave us David. You have helped so many.❤
As a recovering addict and dealing with depression and anxiety..and P.T.S.D..Sobriety is king...But we need The Support of the ones we love..Often judged instead of reached out to by a helpful hand....For those also suffering..This Too Will Pass...Stay Strong...There is Love out there waiting for you to except and return .❤Never give up!!!!!
Wow ! Hats off to you lovely man you are an inspiration to us all ❤️
"You are NOT f*** alone.. i LOVE you, and i LOVE you, and i LOVE you... "
That's a power massage right there.
If you listen at the end of the video, it sounds like someone in the audience is telling those around him, “I love you”. Absolutely love this guy
Massive respect for DD, what a kindhearted beacon of light in this dark world. A bringer of epic art, wisdom and love.
His "wisdom" is nothing more than lackluster, platitudinous deepities proffered to elicit a sheep-like response from a crowd of sycophants. Addiction and depression, both, are entirely in one's control...even a minimal grasp of Greek stoicism bears this out, and conflating "addiction and depression" with what a child at St. Jude Children's Hospital has to endure is an idea that takes a special kind of myopic psychopathy to even entertain, much less utter to a large audience.
When I saw all those hands...I would hug every and each one of them...People..we need love and acceptance.. I send a virtual hug to all of you! ❤ Let's keep on fighting to choose life every day!
Hello, how are you doing today? Thanks for your love and support🎵❤️
This really got me, I'm having a harder time than usual with both of those things and this speech really hit a nerve. I'm so glad not only did he give this speech, but he survived. So I'm just gonna keep my head up, knowing things will get better as usual. We have plenty of time to be dead, let's make the best of our lives! Things could always be worse! Don't be afraid to ask for help. If someone is gonna judge you for these problems, then their fuckin opinion doesn't matter anyway!
Thank you David!
🤘😁🤘
I could listen to this man speak all day.
When he says you are not alone you can hear people saying I love you and I love you ❤️ beautiful
Hello, how are you doing today? Thanks for your love and support🎵❤️
You are so right David. Bless you and yours.🙏🔥⚖️🕊️🐦❤️
You are loved and truly unique please don't let us loose another wonderful person and artist. 😢
He is a good human loves everyone equally. May the positivity he spreads stay with him always..... stay blessed it not an easy thing depression its not only a demon but only you as a person can bring yourself out of that dark hole 🕳 all the blessings for 2024 from South Africa
I'm fighting my own demons, but it's very heartening to know that I'm not alone in the fight. Stay strong, and don't give up! 🤘
You are not alone. God bless you all. Depression is so lonely. If you are watching this and you are in the dark place. I love you.
I'm with U David & Disturbed!!! Heart & SouL....
One of the best bands ever it would not be the same with out you david draiman. dont take the short cut in life please you are needed more than you realize trust me i know life is not easy but we all have to keep on fighting even when we are exhausted and, feel we are getting nowhere. You Are one of my all time favorite singers in this lifetime.
I wanrt to give him a hug.
im speechless. that was beautiful and honest. the people are sick because the world that we live in makes us sick. dont fight each other or yourself, fight the ones that enslave our thoughts and lifes. we all know who they are.
We lost Chris and Chester. I’m not ready to lose David too 😢💔
Same❤
I am mentally ill and thanks to bands like disturbed talking about it gives me hope. God bless disturbed
That beautiful, heartbreaking, truthful, and incredibly poignant ❤
Salt Lake City Utah I saw my first concert of disturbed God bless you so much I hope you get better and your voice will get better soon love you guys😊
Dammit man this was moving asf, me and my wife loved seeing him play last night, it was so amazing, for Disturbed, Dorothy, and Beartooth!
OMG HOW POWERFUL!! GOD BLESS YOU! ❤️ 🙏
Que hermoso es el METAL, que puro y humano las palabras de éste grande , es un vocalista espectacular. I AM Gonna cry again
He's probably the most honest and real musician/celebrity that I know. Speaks from the heart and knowing that Disturbed's music has inspired many people to pull out of depression and/or addiction is so heartwarming.
Tears are just rolling down David. THANK YOU for your very powerful, meaningful, and personal heartfelt message. In this country, and probably this world, the stigma that still lingers about both of these DISEASES cripples me. I have worked in healthcare for 20 years. It never gets any easier to see a human being suffering, trying to climb out of the hole, and finding they are forever stigmatized as "just another junky", or "just another crazy person". I abhor the terms junkie and crazy, and I only use them for the sake of this post. Thank you for shining a bright light on something that has been living in darkness for centuries. Keep the faith and never give up on yourself!
@@Realbrantleygilbertmusic I'm doing great, David; thank you! You are very welcome for the love and support! It is easy to support an artist of your caliber. Your love and commitment to the creative process is inspiring!
@@Realbrantleygilbertmusic Nope... sorry
@@Realbrantleygilbertmusic Thanks, but no thanks....how gullible do you think I am?!
I am so thankful to see multiple bands stand up and say something, it helps me realize that the issues I have effect even those that are on top of the world.
You’re not alone my brothas and sisters , you’re never alone !!!
I'm a servivor twice. You are the only one who has the balls to admit it to everyone. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I teared up badly when he confessed to the crowd.
My reason to fight was my prostate cancer diagnosis in 2021 .. still here, still fighting, still faithful
Love you David Draiman - Exceptional human being! We're never alone!
As a grown ass man. The one of few only things that can make me cry is seeing someone going through what I have
Thank you David. My hand was up with all the others. For that moment, it felt so freeing, so peaceful. In that second, truly knowing you’re not alone. We’ve lost too many people and I’m so grateful you David, and those in the audience were there to raise their hands and share their hearts. 🙏🏻
Saving this so I can play it every time I need to hear it. Thank you, David.
Wow this is so beautiful to see. Addiction is hell, i am an alcoholic for 15 years now. Quitting and starting again. What this man says is so powerful.
What a beautiful way to memorialize those he has lost and hopefully save lives by showing people how NOT alone they are.
I raised my hand while watching the video.........
God Bless you Dave. We need You!!!!!!
Now!!! You.. are.. a... ROCKSTAR! AMEN BROTHER! I spent 40 years and finally beat it. 😢❤
David is incredible. He seems to really care. His heart comes out in his music. He sings with passion. That is an artist, above an beyond all this push button garbage we see in music today. This band has been around a quarter of a decade and still is going strong. Power to the real artists in the world.
Just lost my job due to an anxiety issue and I haven't seen this before. We are all affected whether or not we want to acknowledge it. The message rings through.
Not to take away from what he was saying in anyway, but it's so cool to me that he has such rhythm even in the way he speaks. Every sentence sounds like someone reading poetry
What a MAN for standing and showing that EVERYONE can struggle with anything in life, but YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! If only more singers were this honest and spread the word, maybe we would all have a little more hope and support in our lives! The world is a hard place to live in for the majority of people, we just need to understand that,, speak out, and ask for help, as there are people out there in the same boat, and also those who can help!! ❤❤🖤🖤🤍🤍💙💙💚💚💜💜
Very emotive, God bless his soul
Everyone, whether they're a Disturbed fan or not, needs to hear this!
David now I admire you more then ever. I deal with mental issues for the most part of my life and I won't give up. You should never give up too. Nobody ever should give up. No matter how tough it gets just remember guys that your win would encourage those who's struggling as well. Thank you David.❤
The end where they started saying I love you to each-other was Heartwarming to hear
I saw skillet live and they take a moment and deal with issues of addiction and depression. And the way skillet leads into overcoming issues is with their song “Rise” it’s really cool! Skillet puts on a great show and they’re an extremely positive driven band.
I love skillet so much
@@profound369 same here. They’re great.
I too have struggled with depression, addiction & almost made the decision to walk away from Life too, but I recovered. My family is my strength. Your story truly made me emotional
For someone that huge in the public eye to admit that to the crowd took a Hell of a lot of guts we all deal with demons and nobody even the ones reading this right now are never alone
being part of this exact crowd i was brought to tears