Adulting 101: A guide to surviving being a young adult with Lebo Mehlomakhulu

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  • Опубликовано: 24 янв 2025

Комментарии • 85

  • @Ntuthu28_M
    @Ntuthu28_M 2 года назад +40

    One thing about Lebo she's so humble♥️♥️I love love her not to even mention you Ayanda♥️yall are the epitome of what a true woman of God is ...keep up the good work.

  • @taythankane
    @taythankane Год назад +3

    I love how soft spoken you are Ayanda, you remind me of my demeanor.

  • @boipeloandsipho
    @boipeloandsipho Год назад

    This was such a beautiful watch! ❤️ it felt like we were eavesdropping on your coffee date. So vulnerable. Thank you!

  • @ByfaithproductionsNews
    @ByfaithproductionsNews 2 года назад +5

    Wow beautiful topic. My daughter is 21 and she thinks she’s so ready for marriage and I’m like heyi girl, ima kancane… you still have a long way and you still need to learn more about yourself. Hayi ke ugirl uzamenzan when she’s inlove 😂.
    Love you ladies

  • @Lindeka_M419
    @Lindeka_M419 2 года назад +3

    Ayanda please consider having these one on one conversations with Lebo every week I enjoyed this episode so much ❤

  • @CWMNation
    @CWMNation 2 года назад +5

    Ayanda your purity of heart shows so much in this episode. May God heal every wound that's still triggered in this season in Jesus name🥰

  • @corneyeats.6361
    @corneyeats.6361 2 года назад +9

    I'm still navigating my early twenties & this hit hard . I totally loved it!🥺❤

  • @gracehlatshwayo2789
    @gracehlatshwayo2789 2 года назад +14

    Ayanda your work is incredible girl, you genuinely built a safe community for us ladies ❤️ . Lebo you such a super woman...much love 🌷

  • @michaelamaraitjies4176
    @michaelamaraitjies4176 2 года назад +2

    Hi Ayanda my name is Michaela I'm new to your channel just want to say I love your topic such important things to listen to, something I can also go back to when I'm being hard on myself forcing things to happen. I'm 25 years old struggling with career choices sometimes I feel so confused, I'm thankful for the topic💕❤️.

  • @beckyphala5436
    @beckyphala5436 2 года назад +1

    I recently got what I would call my big break after spending the larger part of my early 20s with sooo many dreams and boy does the pressure mount! We need to truly be gentle with ourselves. Own lane, own race

  • @boitumelomogashoa6886
    @boitumelomogashoa6886 2 года назад +1

    I felt that part when Ayanda said i am a pursuer in most of my friendships ,i keep trying and trying and trying and honestly i got to understand that it's okay let certain things okay yes friends come and go and that's okayy and one day just one day you are going to meet you the friend you have always been to your past friends ,and trust me it's so beautiful you would always look up and say God i have been waiting for such .

  • @thatoolga
    @thatoolga 2 года назад +6

    "Your yes to something, is a no somewhere else" 🥺🥺 Really enjoyed this conversation. Thank you Ayanda for this platform and thank you Lebo for pouring into our cup ❤❤

  • @masabathamhlongo6378
    @masabathamhlongo6378 2 года назад +1

    Ayanda, I don’t know why I’m only subscribing now…woman keep up the good work, love your heart🌺♥️

  • @corneyeats.6361
    @corneyeats.6361 2 года назад +1

    ''twenties are very hard to navigate '' felt that when Lebo said it.

  • @mvelo.z.mthombeni
    @mvelo.z.mthombeni 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Ayanda & Lebo🙏🏽❤️💖💫 really appreciate you for sharing your life experiences with us🙏🏽❤️

  • @phumimthiyane289
    @phumimthiyane289 2 года назад +2

    My two favorite girls...love you so much and your lives display uncomplicated Gospel of Christ.

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 2 года назад +3

    Loved this on friendships. I resonate with both of you at various levels. Learning. Unlearning. Allowing God to do a new thing.

  • @nthatifuma
    @nthatifuma 2 года назад +18

    I love such friendships, Lebo is such a great friend, she’s able to be honest and real with her friends without making them uncomfortable 😍😍😍
    You can tell that Ayanda is comfortable and this is a safe space for her❤️
    I have always admired Ayanda , specifically as a friend😢❤️ she takes her friendships so seriously and I hope she is surrounded by the people who are able to receive her well because she’s such a sweetheart you guys😍😍😍❤️❤️😭
    You guys are so beautiful 🔥🔥❤️

  • @prudoschannel5038
    @prudoschannel5038 2 года назад +1

    waitsi l see my life in a few years to come having mature conversations like these, love this a lot :)

  • @sewelalucracia4169
    @sewelalucracia4169 2 года назад +1

    I'm more of Lebo I have lots of yes and lot's of No to things that matter, I need to work on my boundaries, Thanks for this conversation 🙏

  • @charitymbokazi3829
    @charitymbokazi3829 2 года назад +2

    Lebo you such a great woman free spirited person looking good ❤ thank Ayanda

  • @portiasibandar4067
    @portiasibandar4067 2 года назад +8

    Such a grown up conversation and it is well received ☺️

  • @ainaickua3102
    @ainaickua3102 2 года назад

    Enjoyed this episode 🙌🏾. I can relate on Ayanda having to pause and see if a friend would reach out. That’s how I lost many people I once called friends. Lebo, being a fixer, let me just say, I learned the hard way.

  • @prudencedantye9297
    @prudencedantye9297 2 года назад +2

    Loved the conversation, so relatable❤ especially when Ayanda spoke about how she has always been a pursuer in friendships. I was also the same way but I have learnt to let go. I came to a point in my life where I was completely DONE with that. When my energy is no longer reciprocated, I just let go. God has a way of bringing new friends when other friendships end.

  • @leonndhlozi2739
    @leonndhlozi2739 2 года назад +4

    U both look gorgeous, wow 😍❤️

  • @innocentialentsoane3627
    @innocentialentsoane3627 2 года назад +1

    This was really insightful..Thank you Lebo I needed to hear that, twenties are not easy to navigate…Oh and you guys are lovely and humble man❤❤

  • @asandiswamagazi418
    @asandiswamagazi418 2 года назад +1

    I love uLebo bethuna she is authentic
    Thanks Aya💕💕💕

  • @ulander7058
    @ulander7058 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for this conversation Ayanda. You ladies were great. I could relate so much when you speak about being a persuer, you put a name to what I am. It so painful though to hold back when your heart wants to reach out but I guess one needs to come to the realization that not every friend will be a life time friend and that is OK.
    Hope to see more of these conversations 🌺

  • @tidodlamini
    @tidodlamini 2 года назад +4

    I Just Know I'm Going To Listen To This Again and Again! Beautiful Honest Conversation. Thank You So Much For This Ladies.💗

  • @palesamohale4977
    @palesamohale4977 2 года назад +1

    This conversation was so liberating! Thank you so much ladies! May God bless you abundantly!❤❤❤

  • @kiwigirl359
    @kiwigirl359 2 года назад +4

    Wow this podcast is everything....I can relate to the pressure around me. I'm that kind of person who is always looking around to see where everyone is in their lives. I really need to be more gentle with myself

  • @b_reshoketswe2777
    @b_reshoketswe2777 2 года назад +2

    This is so calm and refreshing, thanks Lebo & Ayanda ❤

  • @siphosethumongwe6742
    @siphosethumongwe6742 2 года назад +3

    Aaaarrrg I loved this. I actually didn’t want it to end! 🤗♥️ lovely conversation.

  • @priscillaamankwah3046
    @priscillaamankwah3046 2 года назад +1

    Great Talk Ayanda & Lebo!, wonderful wisdom and advice given.👏🏾💕👍🏾

  • @babsmat7735
    @babsmat7735 2 года назад

    I love Lebo❤️beautiful conversation ladies💖

  • @kgaogelomohlala76kgaogelom48
    @kgaogelomohlala76kgaogelom48 2 года назад +3

    Beautiful episode loved it so much, so light and freeing and motivating ,you guy’s energy was just calm and it’s just everything I really needed to navigate my youth days 😍

  • @leonndhlozi2739
    @leonndhlozi2739 2 года назад +4

    I love this combo❤️❤️

  • @innocenttjimbundu4063
    @innocenttjimbundu4063 2 года назад +1

    This was such a pure and honest conversation, thank you ladies!

  • @lisahlatshwayo4875
    @lisahlatshwayo4875 2 года назад +2

    Throughly enjoyed this❤️

  • @noluvuyomakhoba2901
    @noluvuyomakhoba2901 2 года назад +1

    Wow ladies🥰 thank you for such a wholesome conversation 💓

  • @nompumelelonobula9537
    @nompumelelonobula9537 2 года назад

    This was beautiful to watch 🤗❤ big ups ladies

  • @vanessankhokwe1640
    @vanessankhokwe1640 2 года назад +3

    I really needed this conversation ❤️❤️❤️ thank you

  • @AllThingsLindo
    @AllThingsLindo 2 года назад

    Watching your production for the first time Ayanda, in awe of the quality and the calm in which you executed this chat. Watched this while preparing a very stressful report for work and the calm in how you Ladies had this conversation made me take a step back and just breathe.
    You have a new subbie in me! ❤

  • @malefaeland3711
    @malefaeland3711 2 года назад +1

    Absolutely loved this episode 😍 not to mention the ladies look stunning😍😍

  • @tadiwamatongo9972
    @tadiwamatongo9972 2 года назад

    Thanks so much loves for a beautiful talk. I learned a lot.

  • @siyandangozo
    @siyandangozo 2 года назад

    I honestly enjoyed this conversation.❤

  • @olivebllaq4951
    @olivebllaq4951 2 года назад

    Hi ladies. I'm new on this channel and I'm happy to have found it. Thank you I thoroughly enjoyed the video as I'm on a life journey and learning to be still and there are a few pointers that I resonate with and are very helpful.
    Thank you 🌸

  • @nthatifuma
    @nthatifuma 2 года назад +4

    So excited ❤❤❤

  • @mulindathavha5189
    @mulindathavha5189 2 года назад +1

    I needed this badly,I can relate to everything.

  • @kediboneshushu2891
    @kediboneshushu2891 2 года назад

    Thank you ladies i enjoyed your conversation. Its never too late to learn. ♥️♥️♥️

  • @wandilehlabangane3484
    @wandilehlabangane3484 2 года назад +2

    Lovely conversation ladies 🌻🍃

  • @moemedi_m
    @moemedi_m 2 года назад +6

    I appreciate this conversation so so so much! Urgh Lebo is just the REALEST guys… every conversation she has??! Absolutely Love her!🥺❤️
    Thank you for this conversation Ayanda… you have freed alot of us 🥺🙌🏽

  • @elleakenya
    @elleakenya 2 года назад +1

    I'm 24 still struggling with career choices finding a job and I have to remind myself to be kind to me even if I'm so idle and broke

    • @brighterwithnzu392
      @brighterwithnzu392 5 месяцев назад

      Idle n broke I am at 26. But I'm getting there ❤

    • @elleakenya
      @elleakenya 5 месяцев назад

      @@brighterwithnzu392 I feel led to encourage you I'm 26 and I wrote that comment when I was 24 I just want to encourage you no situation is permanent I'm not rich yet but I am no longer idle I do small business out here in my streets just trust the process and don't be afraid to start small or doing small things that will bring you money. Sending hugs and love your way

  • @olwenenenoncokwana8943
    @olwenenenoncokwana8943 2 года назад

    Your voice sounds sweet

  • @gugulethudube2468
    @gugulethudube2468 2 года назад

    God l love Lebo❤️❤️. Hello ladies

  • @nokwazikunene8392
    @nokwazikunene8392 2 года назад

    Much much much needed. Thank you Ayanda and Lebo :)

  • @Nunu_M
    @Nunu_M 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for this conversation..... ❤️🥺

  • @anelisiwenoguda4451
    @anelisiwenoguda4451 2 года назад +2

    I needed more,it was so short.

  • @tintswalomashaba7694
    @tintswalomashaba7694 2 года назад

    Heyy just show the trailer with my fave Lebo ❤️❤️ went right in

  • @puseletsomafuna4081
    @puseletsomafuna4081 2 года назад

    Love the wisdom from you both. ❤

  • @joeydlaminivlogs
    @joeydlaminivlogs 2 года назад

    I love the honesty ladies

  • @takiramaphosa1643
    @takiramaphosa1643 2 года назад +4

    Such a beautiful and honest conversation 👌👌

  • @xolasitela8663
    @xolasitela8663 2 года назад +1

    Navigating friendships is so hard, how normal it is to not have friends because right now I am tired

  • @lydialekgothoane117
    @lydialekgothoane117 2 года назад

    I enjoyed listening to this❤❤❤lovely conversation ladies!

  • @theegiftedhands6415
    @theegiftedhands6415 2 года назад +1

    Spoke to my heart❤️beautiful 🙏🏽

  • @johannaramaesela9298
    @johannaramaesela9298 2 года назад +1

    Yoo I relate so much to Ayanda😊

  • @thembalihlemiya3395
    @thembalihlemiya3395 2 года назад

    Beautiful 💚

  • @laoneoloratodirakano4658
    @laoneoloratodirakano4658 2 года назад

    I love this podcast ❤️

  • @justchloe3052
    @justchloe3052 2 года назад

    This!😭❤

  • @phakamamjungula8729
    @phakamamjungula8729 2 года назад +1

    Ayanda❤️❤️

  • @faithyyyMoreroa
    @faithyyyMoreroa 2 года назад

    Thank you for this 🙏🏽 y’all dropped bombs!! 🥺🔥🤍

  • @phakamamjungula8729
    @phakamamjungula8729 2 года назад +1

    Lebo❤️❤️❤️

  • @nonhlanhlangwenya7870
    @nonhlanhlangwenya7870 2 года назад

    My fav combo...

  • @joeydlaminivlogs
    @joeydlaminivlogs 2 года назад

    Lol I can relate to you Lebo as a recovering fixer

  • @thandilemagwentshu5433
    @thandilemagwentshu5433 2 года назад +3

    😍😍😍❤️

  • @neojacob5127
    @neojacob5127 2 года назад

  • @OGK11
    @OGK11 2 года назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @charmainekuvare7108
    @charmainekuvare7108 2 года назад

    ❤️

  • @elleakenya
    @elleakenya 2 года назад +1

    I'm 24 still struggling with career choices finding a job and I have to remind myself to be kind to me even if I'm so idle and broke