Oh honey, I’m still wearing my dog’s tags on a chain around my neck and she died 2 years ago. You’ve suffered a tremendous loss; it’s not being a whiner. It’s just tears from missing your boy. ❤
I was just saying the same thing to my husband after watching this episode. Blue was your life partner. You are not whining. You are grieving. Hard. We are here supporting and loving you however you present yourself. Feel all the feels. As a therapist I cannot emphasize that enough. Journal, talk about, process, and it will get easier with time. It will never really go away unfortunately, because he will never be back. It is the unfortunate cost of love.
I lost mine 3 years ago I have a sample of her fur her collar her tags & a paw print we brought her home & buried her I wanted her cremated so if we moved I could take her with me
It took me 25 years to even think about getting another dog after Eli died of pancreatic cancer. It felt like I was betraying his memory to have another canine brother. I am now at a place where I have another pup and I live her, but no one will ever replace Eli.
61 year old fella here , so sorry about Blue, i lost my buddy Bones 2 years ago, during my Cancer he was my comfort. And watching your channel. keep moving foreward, i liked the episode where becka hung out with you. take care my dear , thanks for all you do for me.
That's true. And this love isn't reciprocal yet. We can see Maria isn't yet ready to love Taz as she did with Blue. I hope she'll overcome her pain soon.
@@aquabot True, and it's inevitable. Pain dampens and love won't be stopped. I know Taz is picking up and adjusting to the loss of Blue too. And she's just a baby. But we all know she's in good hand though. I appreciate watching it all happen naturally. Had to go through something similar, and it took my current boy's love to help me appreciate what I lost and what I HAD even more. 😎🐈⬛
My dog died 25 years ago next month. I STILL CRY when I think about him for too long or when I see a dog who looks like him. You never get over losing a pet... a scab sort of forms over the hole they leave in your heart, but you never fully heal. I wish you much love and peace. Be gentle with yourself.
WHINE ALL YOU WANT! 🫂🫂🫂🫂 We miss Blue too, I honestly still find it hard to watch your channel without him. Not because I don’t enjoy your content I just miss seeing how happy you both were together. Stay strong girly 🖤🫂 💙
Ria grief is so unpredictable. I lost my Mum a year ago, she was 96 so it wasn't unexpected but it hits me like it was just yesterday. I go full on for days and days and then have a day or two that I cry just all day. Crying shouldn't be thought of as a bad thing. Crying is such a relief valve. Google what it does for your body...it's quite amazing. Hugs to you and Tas. Hugs to you. I turned 60 this year and if it's one thing I've learnt it's to look after yourself when you need it. ❤
Dear Maria, you are not complaining. You have been through a lot. Grief takes time. Be kind to yourself and take what ever time you feel your body/mind/soul needs. We will all wait and be there for you. 💚
I was with my boyfriend 3 years when he died last March. After 18 months, I finally started to thaw out emotionally. A friend told me "The depth of your grief is a reflection of the depth of your love." You loved Blue way longer than 3 years and it has only been months. Grieve as long as you need to grieve. Shutting down anyone who told me how I should feel protected my mental health. Hugs Baby Girl.
I lost my soul dog, Murphy, four years ago. He was 6. It was aggressive and tragic. As time goes on, my heart has healed a little. There are days and seasons that I still miss the crap out of him and cry like it just happened. You loved Blue with everything you had and your grief will wane on some days and others will just consume you. There is nothing wrong with it. ❤
I have watched your videos for a while now but never commented. Here is my comment. Someone once told me that when it rains, it pours, but at the end of the storm there is always a rainbow. 🌈 And at the end of the rainbow is always a pot of gold. So keep your head up. You got this girl. Do it for Blue and most importantly you. 🫶🏼
I lost my cat a year ago and still can hardly think of her without tearing up. I sleep with a blanket that has a picture of her right above my head so I feel some sort of comfort. Thinking of you daily and sending love.
Wow, I get it. Driving home a few days ago with my teen daughter and I just started crying. She said don’t cry mom. How sweet. I told her I was just tired of continuously going. Dried it up, got home, took a 4 hour nap (lol). Watched tv in my room with some coffee and then I was good!!! Husband and kids gave me space I needed for a bit. Anyway, love you and Taz! Thanks for reading!!!!
First time commenting from Spain here. Don't say sorry for missing Blue, I wish I could make it all better for you. I love these videos showing back to basic van life. ❤
litterky blue like watching them like blue became so special to me like I don’t even know how but I love them so much and I love Maria blue and Taz in her whole entire family so much
Oh our beautiful Ria…Blue will never leave your thoughts…he was so special…we are all dog lovers and by the comments we care very much…l still cry over dogs that have shared my life….always know …we care…and a big hug to Taz…
Excited for you and we all have those moments. If I crash and burn I didn't have to think to deep about what's breaking me. If you tap the side of the lid in a triangle, the seal will release. I noticed you did the same against the wood. Safe travels
I lost 2 furkids in 6 months. One was 15 & one was 12. I bawl every time you mention blue. I loved that furkid. I sent my sister your tube just because of blue. Before he passed. I have a 12 yr old pit mix and a 4 yr old lab mix I adopted last month. I still miss Bella & Jack. A song I’ve just heard is by jelly roll. “I’m not ok” it resonates w me about life in general right now. ❤
You are doing awesome Maria. My heart aches for you every time you show us your grief. It is a long complicated process but you are one tough cookie! Keeping you in my thoughts
I’m glad you are doing something new and fun!! You and Taz really need a break!! I can’t wait to see where you’re going!!! So excited!! Happy Camping and Safe Travels!! ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🐶🐶🐾🐾
Friends is 100% my go-to for comfort tv. I know almost every single word to every single episode. Ross is my favorite!! I reference a line of his daily. ❤❤❤
Girl there's no need to apologize. Being a fan of you and your journey I still struggle with blue being gone and he wasn't even my dog. He touched so many people and he'll live on forever through you and your art. And I know nothing I say or do will ever make the pain any better. Just know that his spirit has been left all over this country thanks to you. And that is a beautiful thing. You will always have that spirit to drive you and lead you. We love you Ria. And we're always here for you. always.
No need for sorry Maria, your videos puts smiles on our faces and make us happy, So THANK YOU for being here for us as we will ALWAYS be here for you and Taz.
I promise you; FRIENDS has gotten me through depression. I love friends. I watch them every single day over and over. I listen to them when I go to sleep. Thank you for sharing your content.
Everyone has times in their lives that it isn't all sunshade and rainbows. You are entitled to have off days. You went through a lot in a few months. It takes time to grieve a loss of your best friend. Love watching your channel. Stay safe and take care.
You're not whining Maria. Grief sucks. I lost my dog Molly last December. I have to steel myself everytime I come in from shopping because she isn't there. We spent most of our days together and she was almost like a therapy dog. I held her as she passed and it still hits me. Feel hugged, from Austria. X
Take all the time you need to get better. I lost my dog 4 years ago, and still miss him. I laughed so much when you said "who tightened this ,the hulk?!! So funny!! I love the TV show of friends too! One of my favorites. Your dog Taz is beautiful! Take care.
Grief comes in waves. There’s no cookie cutter way of going through it. So sorry about Blue & getting ripped off. Praying 2025 is your best year yet. 🙏🏻
I don’t know if anyone said this or not but if you have trouble opening jars, just hit the lid into the corner of something hard. It will pop it right open! Usually I just hit it on the counter, I just wasn’t sure what you had in the rig 😊 Thanks for your content, I really admire your strength!
It's okey to feel the way you do. Blue was a huge part of your life. I know, because my cat of 18 years just passed away a couple of weeks ago. I knew it was coming. I know i gave her the best life i could and she was spoiled beyond belief. I'll miss Sandy cat not drinking my sweet tea and begging for chicken. Much love to you.❤❤❤❤
Easy way to open jars is get a spoon under the the lid with the little lip bit and lift it a bit if that make sense you will hear a pop then you can open jar easy. As for you healing take time and it’s good to cry x❤
Great Job on recognizing that you needed to show yourself grace and acknowledge that you needed a breather. A lot of people do not do that and push on because for generations that is what we are told and then end up worse off. I was in the Navy and “suck it up buttercup” was etched in my brain, so much so that I too repeated it to many only to realize that that only works until it doesn’t and then you have a lot more to fix and that it will take a minute to do so. You continue to take your breaks when needed. I find a good movie to immerse myself into and eat chocolate. Everyone does it different and different events cause people to need breaks, but that doesn’t mean it’s not needed. I miss my boy Romeo all the time and wish he was with me. I lost him in October 2018 and think he will always be in my heart to miss from time to time. Blue was one of a kind. You gave him a great life and he returned it with unconditional love and joy. Whenever you feel that sting of missing him, thank him for being part of your life for as long as he was. It will help a little. Sorry this is so long.
Ria, you can cry and share your grief, it’s part of healing. You are not complaining, you have been through a deep loss and you loved Blue very much. My dog passed 12 years ago and I still think of her every day, but ai can tell you with time the hurt does ease and eventually you will find more joy in the memories than grief. Just take each moment as it comes.
I’ll be praying for you Maria. And don’t ever feel like when you are venting it’s you complaining and we don’t want to hear it. I’ll listen to you for hours if it makes you feel better. It’s okay not to be okay. And take a break when needed. I’ll be here whether you post every week or once a year. ❤
Maria, I think being rundown (for me anyhow) makes us emotional. It took me a long time to get over my pup I had for 17 years. I understand. Take time to care you. We will be here for you. I hope this trip will give you some well needed rest and peace inside.
It's better to go with your grief when you need to let it out. You will always have the memories of Blue and your journey together. You may want to try "chunking" your work. Organize the most important tasks first, then break those down into manageable parts. This will help keep you on track. Thanks for sharing your journey with us, the highs and lows. Enjoy the wins and learn from the challenges.
Ria, I lost my fur baby Molly over two years ago.. she was so much to me. I miss her more than I can say. A companion like no other.. always there.. support through thick and thin. It is somewhat of a comfort to see you kiss Tazz so much.. I can tell your bond has deepened. She is to be cherished too.. God knows everything on this earth is temporary. Sweet, beautiful Maria, never worry or feel bad about sharing your pain or loss.. this is what makes us human and relatable. Love ya girlie.. please be safe and don't stay out of our country for too long.🤗🙏🐕
Young lady, I exceed your age probably by almost three or four decades. I do worry about young people like you and the things that put them on edge. I remember stories from grandparents when they were going through the Great Depression. It was a horrible time most certainly - but when asked, they always said that you have to move on. Comparatively speaking, they went through a situation many times worse than the relatively minor life stresses that are knocking today's young people on their pins. You and all that you love are mortal - if you and your loved ones are healthy - you have the whole basket of life goodness in your lap you are RICH. Have had to watch many dearly loved family members and my pets pass away over all my years. The scars are still in my heart from their loss and I take both sadness & comfort in their memories. Enjoy this time in your life because there are many more life challenges that lie ahead (loss of family members, personal illness, etc.) that will cut you to your core. There is much truth to that old bumper sticker adage; "Don't sweat the small stuff, because it is ALL small stuff". You have your life, health, your parents, siblings and a dear little dog that thinks the world of you with a grand adventure ahead of you, both. Shed a tear, certainly, but don't let it handicap you - dust yourself off, stand up, stand tall and keep moving forwards.
Does it help Maria out financially too if we watch old videos so she can replace at least some of her things?? I know the lost video footage is irreplaceable.
@@sabrinakhan5749 do they get more money for different age groups?? I just know that I can’t really afford to send money but I can watch on my night shifts.
Hugs... its a loving human to have that tear moments. You will always have wonderful memories of blue. He's in doggie heaven loving you as always. Keep strong
Don’t ever feel the need to apologize for being upset about Blue. My dog JD died almost 3 years ago and I STILL have those moments where I start bawling my eyes out as if he had just died. Literally, at least once a week still. It’s been something that I haven’t been able to get last. I have two new dogs since, but they still can’t fill that hole in my heart 😢
I love your laugh. You make me smile. So sorry you havent been in the best of spirits but totally understandable. I know what its like to lose a pet. Theyre truly family! Glad you have Taz there to help you through it though. Hope your trip lifts your spirits and you see way better days moving forward. Sending you love and comforting vibes.
You have to be proud that you gave blue the best life he could ever have he was never caged up he never had to sit in a house he lived his best life with you and you're the one that gave it to him ❤️🩹🥰
Thank you for posting a new video today. It was a needed distraction from grieving my mom’s passing 2 years to the day today. Anyways, thank you for helping me get through this process with your content.
💙 it's harder to get over the loss of pets 💙 when that bond is so strong 💙 it changes you forever 💙 it's been a difficult time for you 💙 I miss my babies deeply, always will 🙏
Crying releases sadness and tension. Sometimes you need to cry. We all do that, or should, even males. You did a great job cleaning your Defender. Hang in there. Focus on the future, not the rearview mirror. We learn from our past and make cherished memories of better times. Those stinkin' thieves will get theirs, no doubt.
Tazzy is so cute♥️♥️♥️‼️ It’s always so hard when you have to say goodbye to your furbabies. So very sorry for your loss!! Safe travels!! I can’t believe almost everyone I follow are putting up videos today including some from Norway who rarely post. Gives me something to do between coughing, sneezing, and runny nose, yeah, I’m sick…. So thank you to all of you for the videos to watch!!
Your resilience is epic! It truly is not the trials which define us rather it is the way we bounce back and answer the sorrow bestowed upon us. I always love your sense of humor in the face of adversity. ❤ Oh yes, a spoon under the lip, used as a lever, will vent the vacuum and you will be able to open it no problem. Perhaps try it sometime. 🤓
SENDING YOU BIG HUGS!!!! I’m sorry you’re going through this. I lost my dog in May and we were so close like you and blue. I took her everywhere. Life is so empty without her. All I can say is you’re gonna have a good days and bad days and just take one day at a time.
Big hugs Maria! I miss seeing Blue too😕 You and Blue loved each So much, it's ok to have sad days. Your love for Taz is so sweet and good to see ❤️ You're an inspiration! Love you guys ❤️🤗❤️🙏
You are still mourning your baby! Let yourself do what you need to mourn Blue. Also, it was a blow to have all your footage of Blue get stolen. Give yourself the time you need, and I will be praying for you, and Tazz.
Dear Ria, I have my moments too when I think of my lil 5 pound chihuahua, who passed in 2017. I empathize and know what you are going through. I also know that you will heal and be greatly blessed by the funny moments and the times Blue protected you. Hugs
This is a wonderful video, and so are you. This Autumn season is the best, so the fall theme was amazing.The tough times recently can add up. Thank goodness you have Taz, a sweet pup. I wanted to reach in and help you with that jar to open it. This is a great camper also. Thanks for this most recent video update. Best wishes to you always.
MARIA!! I love your channel!! As another independent lady living on her own I wanted to share a hack I have for opening jars passed down to me from my mom: if you tap the edge of the lid with like a butter knife or the edge of the counter it helps release the seal to make it easier to open.
You and Taz wine all you want to us. We get you both for different reasons and our past rise up emotions at unexpected moments and sometimes it's really ok to not be ok. It's part of the process. I'm so excited about next weeks video eeeekkkk.
Anytime you need to vent or cry we're here for you You got this girl . Also a quick way to open a jar that doesn't want to open is to tap it with a butter knife on top with the handle end I found that way works for me all the time .
First off - you're not whining. You're expressing emotion. You're human. The notion that crying is weak or that you have to soldier on is false. You are grieving. Grief is complex & normal & ok. Cry - walk through - it's how you will process the love & loss. No gets through this life without loss. 💛💛 Grief is just love - with no where to go. Much love. 💙💙 From a fellow Michigan girl.
12:03 **pro tip: hit the metal lid to a corner or a hard floor to get a tiny mule of air in there, the vacuum is the reason you can’t open it so if you get a little air in there with a little pressure to the soft metal lid you are going to open it easily (avoid breaking the glass obviously).
Be gentle with yourself Hun you can’t rush grief. My Dad was watching over Sugar Bear when he passed, it was over a year before I could pull into that driveway without tearing up. Take care of yourself and know we are all with you in spirit
Ria, I understand how debilitating grief can be. There is no time limit on grief. We are here for u. Everytime your grief creeps up on you and takes hold, know that all of your subscribers are giving u a big warm supportive hug. ❤❤❤
My husband and I just moved fulltime onto our sailboat. The first thing we packed and unpacked were the ashes of our 3 beloved pups Sydney-our Australian Cattledog, Bella-our Neapolitan Mastiff, and BoPeep- our Border Collie mix. Even though they had their special place at our house and we saw their pictures everyday, finding their new special place in our boat brought a flood of emotions. It's been a number of years since the last one passed but we still find ourselves grieving for them and missing them every single day. Blue was a treasure. He will always be with you in spirit and we all grieve for him with you. It's ok to have rough days. We're all here for you. ❤❤
Donna, my three dog ashes travel with me. Almost scattered my golden Buddy in the lake by us we went to all the time, couldn't do. I wanted him with me. In my will, I will have all my animals and me combined and scattered together on the streets of Paris.
Taz reminds me of my dog I lost a couple years ago. She was really sweet. I think Taz has really grown since it's been the two of you, she looks like she's opened up. I used to think my dog needed a friend.. Im not sure she did... Taz looks like she enjoys the one on one with you...
Much love to RIa and Taz and Angel Blue ❤if the jar wont budge put a little hope in the top it releases the pressure inside the jar....great vlog as always keep strong ❤
It will get better Maria but it does take a lot of time to grieve! We had a springer spaniel for 15yrs who had to be put to sleep due to failing health! Well it took me approximately 5 yrs to fully get over the grief & still my heart tugs when I think about him but I can smile about him now! We have rescued a total of 7 cats in the time he’s been gone as I cannot live without some type of animal around to talk “baby talk” tp 🥰
1) my soul dog passed 1 year ago. I cry all the time. It hasn't gotten easier, just different. I'm so sorry for your loss. 2) you're inspirational..regardless of mood. your life, what your doing, how you tackle challenges that are super scary for a lot of people [me for sure]...I'm learning a lot from you
Oh honey, I’m still wearing my dog’s tags on a chain around my neck and she died 2 years ago. You’ve suffered a tremendous loss; it’s not being a whiner. It’s just tears from missing your boy. ❤
I was just saying the same thing to my husband after watching this episode. Blue was your life partner. You are not whining. You are grieving. Hard. We are here supporting and loving you however you present yourself. Feel all the feels. As a therapist I cannot emphasize that enough. Journal, talk about, process, and it will get easier with time. It will never really go away unfortunately, because he will never be back. It is the unfortunate cost of love.
I wear a ring with my dog’s name on it. He (Cody) passed over 2 years ago. I think of him many times each day.
I lost mine 3 years ago I have a sample of her fur her collar her tags & a paw print we brought her home & buried her I wanted her cremated so if we moved I could take her with me
I always keep my dogs collars when they pass😢
It took me 25 years to even think about getting another dog after Eli died of pancreatic cancer. It felt like I was betraying his memory to have another canine brother. I am now at a place where I have another pup and I live her, but no one will ever replace Eli.
Healing takes time. There’s no reason to apologize. We’re all here for you.
61 year old fella here , so sorry about Blue, i lost my buddy Bones 2 years ago, during my Cancer he was my comfort. And watching your channel. keep moving foreward, i liked the episode where becka hung out with you. take care my dear , thanks for all you do for me.
Taz loves you so much. I can't help but watch her watching you. It's sweet.
That's true. And this love isn't reciprocal yet. We can see Maria isn't yet ready to love Taz as she did with Blue. I hope she'll overcome her pain soon.
@@aquabot True, and it's inevitable. Pain dampens and love won't be stopped. I know Taz is picking up and adjusting to the loss of Blue too. And she's just a baby. But we all know she's in good hand though.
I appreciate watching it all happen naturally. Had to go through something similar, and it took my current boy's love to help me appreciate what I lost and what I HAD even more. 😎🐈⬛
Someone give this babe a hug. Quickly.
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Agreed 👍 man!
Just what I thought after a few minutes into this video. She needs support and comfort and a big hug.
My dog died 25 years ago next month. I STILL CRY when I think about him for too long or when I see a dog who looks like him. You never get over losing a pet... a scab sort of forms over the hole they leave in your heart, but you never fully heal. I wish you much love and peace. Be gentle with yourself.
WHINE ALL YOU WANT! 🫂🫂🫂🫂 We miss Blue too, I honestly still find it hard to watch your channel without him. Not because I don’t enjoy your content I just miss seeing how happy you both were together. Stay strong girly 🖤🫂 💙
Ria grief is so unpredictable. I lost my Mum a year ago, she was 96 so it wasn't unexpected but it hits me like it was just yesterday. I go full on for days and days and then have a day or two that I cry just all day. Crying shouldn't be thought of as a bad thing. Crying is such a relief valve. Google what it does for your body...it's quite amazing. Hugs to you and Tas. Hugs to you. I turned 60 this year and if it's one thing I've learnt it's to look after yourself when you need it. ❤
You’re very right I also turned 60 this year and a loss of a pet is devastating ❤❤❤
My mother passed away 33 years ago and I still mourn for her..I still cry ..she was my best friend.
Dear Maria, you are not complaining. You have been through a lot. Grief takes time. Be kind to yourself and take what ever time you feel your body/mind/soul needs. We will all wait and be there for you. 💚
I was with my boyfriend 3 years when he died last March. After 18 months, I finally started to thaw out emotionally. A friend told me "The depth of your grief is a reflection of the depth of your love." You loved Blue way longer than 3 years and it has only been months. Grieve as long as you need to grieve. Shutting down anyone who told me how I should feel protected my mental health. Hugs Baby Girl.
Love how much Taz has adapted to POE lifestyle !
Little tip from an old timer. When a lid is hard to open, make a couple of good taps with a knife handle and it will release.😊
I lost my soul dog, Murphy, four years ago. He was 6. It was aggressive and tragic. As time goes on, my heart has healed a little. There are days and seasons that I still miss the crap out of him and cry like it just happened. You loved Blue with everything you had and your grief will wane on some days and others will just consume you. There is nothing wrong with it. ❤
I have watched your videos for a while now but never commented. Here is my comment. Someone once told me that when it rains, it pours, but at the end of the storm there is always a rainbow. 🌈 And at the end of the rainbow is always a pot of gold. So keep your head up. You got this girl. Do it for Blue and most importantly you. 🫶🏼
I lost my cat a year ago and still can hardly think of her without tearing up. I sleep with a blanket that has a picture of her right above my head so I feel some sort of comfort. Thinking of you daily and sending love.
Wow, I get it. Driving home a few days ago with my teen daughter and I just started crying. She said don’t cry mom. How sweet. I told her I was just tired of continuously going. Dried it up, got home, took a 4 hour nap (lol). Watched tv in my room with some coffee and then I was good!!! Husband and kids gave me space I needed for a bit. Anyway, love you and Taz! Thanks for reading!!!!
First time commenting from Spain here. Don't say sorry for missing Blue, I wish I could make it all better for you. I love these videos showing back to basic van life. ❤
Me, crying over your dog,,,,,but I really loved him,,,😢 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 some dogs are just unforgettable 🥰
litterky blue like watching them like blue became so special to me like I don’t even know how but I love them so much and I love Maria blue and Taz in her whole entire family so much
Oh our beautiful Ria…Blue will never leave your thoughts…he was so special…we are all dog lovers and by the comments we care very much…l still cry over dogs that have shared my life….always know …we care…and a big hug to Taz…
Going through loss as well, my friend, I'm praying for you. I hope it gets easier in time.
Losing a pet is so hard! Just try to think of all the great days you had with Blue and the great memories you made. ❤
You are processing your grief for Blue by giving so much love to sweet little Tazzy. She also misses Blue. You are both helping each other heal💜
roaming reckless is my comfort show
Me too!! And Friends, and The Office, and Seinfeld but … also RR!!
Completely agreed!!
Excited for you and we all have those moments.
If I crash and burn I didn't have to think to deep about what's breaking me.
If you tap the side of the lid in a triangle, the seal will release.
I noticed you did the same against the wood.
Safe travels
I lost 2 furkids in 6 months. One was 15 & one was 12. I bawl every time you mention blue. I loved that furkid. I sent my sister your tube just because of blue. Before he passed. I have a 12 yr old pit mix and a 4 yr old lab mix I adopted last month. I still miss Bella & Jack. A song I’ve just heard is by jelly roll. “I’m not ok” it resonates w me about life in general right now. ❤
You are doing awesome Maria. My heart aches for you every time you show us your grief. It is a long complicated process but you are one tough cookie! Keeping you in my thoughts
Self time is very important, take your time. Virtual hugs to you Ria
I’m glad you are doing something new and fun!! You and Taz really need a break!! I can’t wait to see where you’re going!!! So excited!! Happy Camping and Safe Travels!! ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🐶🐶🐾🐾
My best buddy passed 6 years ago and I still talk to him everyday!!
Friends is 100% my go-to for comfort tv. I know almost every single word to every single episode. Ross is my favorite!! I reference a line of his daily. ❤❤❤
Girl there's no need to apologize. Being a fan of you and your journey I still struggle with blue being gone and he wasn't even my dog. He touched so many people and he'll live on forever through you and your art. And I know nothing I say or do will ever make the pain any better. Just know that his spirit has been left all over this country thanks to you. And that is a beautiful thing. You will always have that spirit to drive you and lead you. We love you Ria. And we're always here for you. always.
No need for sorry Maria, your videos puts smiles on our faces and make us happy, So THANK YOU for being here for us as we will ALWAYS be here for you and Taz.
Your positivity is contagious. I still miss my little guy and it’s been 7 years . I have his footprint tattooed on my arm .
I promise you; FRIENDS has gotten me through depression. I love friends. I watch them every single day over and over. I listen to them when I go to sleep. Thank you for sharing your content.
Luxury is what you need after the past months of what you went through! Glad you made this video
Everyone has times in their lives that it isn't all sunshade and rainbows. You are entitled to have off days. You went through a lot in a few months. It takes time to grieve a loss of your best friend. Love watching your channel. Stay safe and take care.
You're not whining Maria. Grief sucks. I lost my dog Molly last December. I have to steel myself everytime I come in from shopping because she isn't there. We spent most of our days together and she was almost like a therapy dog. I held her as she passed and it still hits me. Feel hugged, from Austria. X
Oh Lord, 'Salem's Lot is one of my favorite books of all time! It gets creepier and scarier as it goes on. Stick with it!
Take all the time you need to get better. I lost my dog 4 years ago, and still miss him. I laughed so much when you said "who tightened this ,the hulk?!! So funny!! I love the TV show of friends too! One of my favorites. Your dog Taz is beautiful! Take care.
Grief comes in waves. There’s no cookie cutter way of going through it. So sorry about Blue & getting ripped off. Praying 2025 is your best year yet. 🙏🏻
I don’t know if anyone said this or not but if you have trouble opening jars, just hit the lid into the corner of something hard. It will pop it right open! Usually I just hit it on the counter, I just wasn’t sure what you had in the rig 😊 Thanks for your content, I really admire your strength!
Thank you for always being real and sharing. Know that when you are in the grieving process, it’s never complaining. You are grieving ❤.
It's okey to feel the way you do. Blue was a huge part of your life. I know, because my cat of 18 years just passed away a couple of weeks ago. I knew it was coming. I know i gave her the best life i could and she was spoiled beyond belief. I'll miss Sandy cat not drinking my sweet tea and begging for chicken. Much love to you.❤❤❤❤
Easy way to open jars is get a spoon under the the lid with the little lip bit and lift it a bit if that make sense you will hear a pop then you can open jar easy. As for you healing take time and it’s good to cry x❤
your channel is my comfort show
Great Job on recognizing that you needed to show yourself grace and acknowledge that you needed a breather. A lot of people do not do that and push on because for generations that is what we are told and then end up worse off. I was in the Navy and “suck it up buttercup” was etched in my brain, so much so that I too repeated it to many only to realize that that only works until it doesn’t and then you have a lot more to fix and that it will take a minute to do so. You continue to take your breaks when needed. I find a good movie to immerse myself into and eat chocolate. Everyone does it different and different events cause people to need breaks, but that doesn’t mean it’s not needed. I miss my boy Romeo all the time and wish he was with me. I lost him in October 2018 and think he will always be in my heart to miss from time to time. Blue was one of a kind. You gave him a great life and he returned it with unconditional love and joy. Whenever you feel that sting of missing him, thank him for being part of your life for as long as he was. It will help a little. Sorry this is so long.
Ria, you went through something tragic. Healing takes time.
Ria, you can cry and share your grief, it’s part of healing. You are not complaining, you have been through a deep loss and you loved Blue very much. My dog passed 12 years ago and I still think of her every day, but ai can tell you with time the hurt does ease and eventually you will find more joy in the memories than grief. Just take each moment as it comes.
I’ll be praying for you Maria. And don’t ever feel like when you are venting it’s you complaining and we don’t want to hear it. I’ll listen to you for hours if it makes you feel better. It’s okay not to be okay. And take a break when needed. I’ll be here whether you post every week or once a year. ❤
A tip to open jars, pierce the top with a knife, or use a bottle opener to pop the top, it breaks the seal and opens soooo easily! Life changer!
Maria, I think being rundown (for me anyhow) makes us emotional. It took me a long time to get over my pup I had for 17 years. I understand. Take time to care you. We will be here for you. I hope this trip will give you some well needed rest and peace inside.
It's better to go with your grief when you need to let it out. You will always have the memories of Blue and your journey together.
You may want to try "chunking" your work. Organize the most important tasks first, then break those down into manageable parts.
This will help keep you on track.
Thanks for sharing your journey with us, the highs and lows. Enjoy the wins and learn from the challenges.
Love to you, sweetie girl. It takes time to work through the loss of our fur babies.💞
Same personality, i do the same thing. The love for our dogs is real. Love you
Everybody needs an opportunity to vent. I’m here for you Ria! Vent away! ❤
Ria, I lost my fur baby Molly over two years ago.. she was so much to me. I miss her more than I can say. A companion like no other.. always there.. support through thick and thin. It is somewhat of a comfort to see you kiss Tazz so much.. I can tell your bond has deepened. She is to be cherished too.. God knows everything on this earth is temporary. Sweet, beautiful Maria, never worry or feel bad about sharing your pain or loss.. this is what makes us human and relatable. Love ya girlie.. please be safe and don't stay out of our country for too long.🤗🙏🐕
Young lady, I exceed your age probably by almost three or four decades. I do worry about young people like you and the things that put them on edge.
I remember stories from grandparents when they were going through the Great Depression. It was a horrible time most certainly - but when asked, they always said that you have to move on. Comparatively speaking, they went through a situation many times worse than the relatively minor life stresses that are knocking today's young people on their pins.
You and all that you love are mortal - if you and your loved ones are healthy - you have the whole basket of life goodness in your lap you are RICH.
Have had to watch many dearly loved family members and my pets pass away over all my years. The scars are still in my heart from their loss and I take both sadness & comfort in their memories.
Enjoy this time in your life because there are many more life challenges that lie ahead (loss of family members, personal illness, etc.) that will cut you to your core. There is much truth to that old bumper sticker adage; "Don't sweat the small stuff, because it is ALL small stuff". You have your life, health, your parents, siblings and a dear little dog that thinks the world of you with a grand adventure ahead of you, both.
Shed a tear, certainly, but don't let it handicap you - dust yourself off, stand up, stand tall and keep moving forwards.
Very wise words…
Thanks I needed to hear that. ❤
Have a great trip! Be very careful. So sorry about Blue. I lost my little Saban, I was heart broken. Love Taz have a great time!
Yay been all day watching ur old videos love you and your videos ur my comfort RUclipsr thankyou ❤❤❤
Does it help Maria out financially too if we watch old videos so she can replace at least some of her things?? I know the lost video footage is irreplaceable.
@@lynellethompson5521 yeah because I’m sure they get paid for how many views they get and watching the adverts that come on the videos
@@sabrinakhan5749 do they get more money for different age groups?? I just know that I can’t really afford to send money but I can watch on my night shifts.
Hugs... its a loving human to have that tear moments. You will always have wonderful memories of blue. He's in doggie heaven loving you as always. Keep strong
I'm😢 so sorry Blue was the most beautiful spectacular dog.We all loved him and miss him.
Really enjoy your channel. To see how much love you have for your fur babies is beautiful.
Don’t ever feel the need to apologize for being upset about Blue. My dog JD died almost 3 years ago and I STILL have those moments where I start bawling my eyes out as if he had just died. Literally, at least once a week still. It’s been something that I haven’t been able to get last. I have two new dogs since, but they still can’t fill that hole in my heart 😢
I love your laugh. You make me smile. So sorry you havent been in the best of spirits but totally understandable. I know what its like to lose a pet. Theyre truly family! Glad you have Taz there to help you through it though. Hope your trip lifts your spirits and you see way better days moving forward. Sending you love and comforting vibes.
Praying for you and taz. ❤❤❤
You have to be proud that you gave blue the best life he could ever have he was never caged up he never had to sit in a house he lived his best life with you and you're the one that gave it to him ❤️🩹🥰
Very sweet and well said
Thank you for posting a new video today. It was a needed distraction from grieving my mom’s passing 2 years to the day today. Anyways, thank you for helping me get through this process with your content.
Your pain at missing Blue is totally warranted. My heart breaks for you.
I have watched your channel now for years and when Blue passed I cried when you let us know.
i hope you have a good friend to give you support.
💙 it's harder to get over the loss of pets 💙 when that bond is so strong 💙 it changes you forever 💙 it's been a difficult time for you 💙 I miss my babies deeply, always will 🙏
Sending hugs. Grief isn't linear and comes in waves!
Crying releases sadness and tension. Sometimes you need to cry. We all do that, or should, even males. You did a great job cleaning your Defender. Hang in there. Focus on the future, not the rearview mirror. We learn from our past and make cherished memories of better times.
Those stinkin' thieves will get theirs, no doubt.
Ross is definitely the funniest! His high pitched voice moments always make me laugh!!!
Tazzy is so cute♥️♥️♥️‼️
It’s always so hard when you have to say goodbye to your furbabies. So very sorry for your loss!!
Safe travels!!
I can’t believe almost everyone I follow are putting up videos today including some from Norway who rarely post. Gives me something to do between coughing, sneezing, and runny nose, yeah, I’m sick…. So thank you to all of you for the videos to watch!!
Your resilience is epic! It truly is not the trials which define us rather it is the way we bounce back and answer the sorrow bestowed upon us. I always love your sense of humor in the face of adversity. ❤ Oh yes, a spoon under the lip, used as a lever, will vent the vacuum and you will be able to open it no problem. Perhaps try it sometime. 🤓
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I love you, Blue and Tazzy! Take all the time you need when you need it!
We love you, Maria!!! Thank you for being transparent and vulnerable with us!!
SENDING YOU BIG HUGS!!!! I’m sorry you’re going through this. I lost my dog in May and we were so close like you and blue. I took her everywhere. Life is so empty without her. All I can say is you’re gonna have a good days and bad days and just take one day at a time.
Big hugs Maria! I miss seeing Blue too😕 You and Blue loved each So much, it's ok to have sad days. Your love for Taz is so sweet and good to see ❤️ You're an inspiration! Love you guys ❤️🤗❤️🙏
You are still mourning your baby! Let yourself do what you need to mourn Blue. Also, it was a blow to have all your footage of Blue get stolen. Give yourself the time you need, and I will be praying for you, and Tazz.
Dear Ria, I have my moments too when I think of my lil 5 pound chihuahua, who passed in 2017. I empathize and know what you are going through. I also know that you will heal and be greatly blessed by the funny moments and the times Blue protected you. Hugs
This is a wonderful video, and so are you. This Autumn season is the best, so the fall theme was amazing.The tough times recently can add up. Thank goodness you have Taz, a sweet pup. I wanted to reach in and help you with that jar to open it. This is a great camper also. Thanks for this most recent video update. Best wishes to you always.
MARIA!! I love your channel!! As another independent lady living on her own I wanted to share a hack I have for opening jars passed down to me from my mom: if you tap the edge of the lid with like a butter knife or the edge of the counter it helps release the seal to make it easier to open.
Yep tap a jar on the edge and it will open easy. Friends is my ultimate comfort show too, I watch the it all the way through every year x
The first book I read of Mr. King was Pet Sematary . I was glued from start to finish. I highly recommend it Ms. Barrera.
You and Taz wine all you want to us. We get you both for different reasons and our past rise up emotions at unexpected moments and sometimes it's really ok to not be ok. It's part of the process. I'm so excited about next weeks video eeeekkkk.
Thanks for being vulnerable with us all. The ups and downs of life will forever be there. Much appreciated 🙏🏻
Anytime you need to vent or cry we're here for you You got this girl . Also a quick way to open a jar that doesn't want to open is to tap it with a butter knife on top with the handle end I found that way works for me all the time .
Riss is my favorite. The tanning episode is the best
Omg I love Friends, my hubby, and I have watched it so many times. Lol it never gets old.
First off - you're not whining. You're expressing emotion. You're human. The notion that crying is weak or that you have to soldier on is false. You are grieving. Grief is complex & normal & ok. Cry - walk through - it's how you will process the love & loss. No gets through this life without loss. 💛💛 Grief is just love - with no where to go. Much love. 💙💙 From a fellow Michigan girl.
12:03 **pro tip: hit the metal lid to a corner or a hard floor to get a tiny mule of air in there, the vacuum is the reason you can’t open it so if you get a little air in there with a little pressure to the soft metal lid you are going to open it easily (avoid breaking the glass obviously).
Be gentle with yourself Hun you can’t rush grief. My Dad was watching over Sugar Bear when he passed, it was over a year before I could pull into that driveway without tearing up. Take care of yourself and know we are all with you in spirit
Ria, I understand how debilitating grief can be. There is no time limit on grief. We are here for u. Everytime your grief creeps up on you and takes hold, know that all of your subscribers are giving u a big warm supportive hug. ❤❤❤
My husband and I just moved fulltime onto our sailboat. The first thing we packed and unpacked were the ashes of our 3 beloved pups Sydney-our Australian Cattledog, Bella-our Neapolitan Mastiff, and BoPeep- our Border Collie mix. Even though they had their special place at our house and we saw their pictures everyday, finding their new special place in our boat brought a flood of emotions. It's been a number of years since the last one passed but we still find ourselves grieving for them and missing them every single day. Blue was a treasure. He will always be with you in spirit and we all grieve for him with you. It's ok to have rough days. We're all here for you. ❤❤
Donna, my three dog ashes travel with me. Almost scattered my golden Buddy in the lake by us we went to all the time, couldn't do. I wanted him with me. In my will, I will have all my animals and me combined and scattered together on the streets of Paris.
Taz reminds me of my dog I lost a couple years ago. She was really sweet. I think Taz has really grown since it's been the two of you, she looks like she's opened up. I used to think my dog needed a friend.. Im not sure she did... Taz looks like she enjoys the one on one with you...
Much love to RIa and Taz and Angel Blue ❤if the jar wont budge put a little hope in the top it releases the pressure inside the jar....great vlog as always keep strong ❤
It will get better Maria but it does take a lot of time to grieve! We had a springer spaniel for 15yrs who had to be put to sleep due to failing health! Well it took me approximately 5 yrs to fully get over the grief & still my heart tugs when I think about him but I can smile about him now! We have rescued a total of 7 cats in the time he’s been gone as I cannot live without some type of animal around to talk “baby talk” tp 🥰
1) my soul dog passed 1 year ago. I cry all the time. It hasn't gotten easier, just different. I'm so sorry for your loss.
2) you're inspirational..regardless of mood. your life, what your doing, how you tackle challenges that are super scary for a lot of people [me for sure]...I'm learning a lot from you