cheaters that didn't think they were getting caught today - REACTION
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Hey ya'll! Today on my channel we are reacting to some cheaters that got caught and called out on social media, specifically tiktok. Enjoy
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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I make a joke or two. I love poking fun at social media, weddings, entitled people, tiktok and OF COURSE petty people. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
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You could hear the children in the background when the woman was kicking out her husband and the mystery woman. How awful of a person do you have to be to do such a thing in front of your kids and allow another woman to disrespect your wife in the process. I’m glad she’s divorcing that man, neither her nor her children deserve that.
I would have had the cops come and throw them out - I tell you to get out and you refuse? Sorry honey, this ain't your house, and your boytoy signed this place over to me in the divorce *we are still going through.*
It's like the guy is just adding fuel to his pyre with the judge doing something dumb like this 😒 🙄 🤦♀️
I would of said to her" if it ain't my house why do I have a key and if it ain't let's call the cops and see who house it is "
Agreed, except calling him a man is too generous! You trying to be a saint? 😂JK, well said Roo!👍
Sometimes addicts do it.
My mom’s ex husband, an alcoholic, was bringing women home at the end of their marriage, to the exact same apartment my mom was in, and she had nowhere to go.
She just asked women to leave, and the women usually didn’t have enough connection with reality to understand they should leave immediately, so mom just slept at the kitchen waiting for it to be over.
@@katyadade1041 he was probably hoping she would willingly leave, so he could have claimed she wanted to leave in the divorce, so he could still live there instead of her
After a couple months of dating this guy I found out from a friend of a friend of a friend that he had a girlfriend.... that he lived with.
Girlfriend was kind enough to reach out to me. I apologized profusely. She said it wasn't the first time and she was done with him.
We talked for quite a long time and found out we had a lot in common (besides him). She invited me to come over and hang out for a while and to surprise him when he got home.
I suppose it could have been a trap but it wasn't. We were hanging out in the living room eating pizza and drinking beer when he came home.
He was completely casual when he walked in the door and saw both of us there chilling in the living room. He said "Hey ladies, lemme grab a beer."
He strolled past us into the kitchen, but instead of hearing the refrigerator open we heard the back door open and he exited.
And he never came back!
We hung out for a couple hours before I eventually left. He never returned. About a week later he sent some friends over to get his stuff.
Girlfriend and I have now been besties for years.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is awesome ❤️
Borders on Evil you two - but he SO deserved it. He probably wet himself while sneaking out the back door.
Yes girl
I love everything about this! Good for you, you two took out the trash and gained a wonderful friendship!
For the woman trying to convince the mom 'it wasn't her house' best response should've been "Then why did my keys work?"
Isn’t that wild??? I woulda pulled the trespassing card and just pulled her hair to get her out of my bed, no warning, just get out
I would have charged the girl in my bed with breaking and entering! Then both cheating guy and the girl in my bed would be getting sued and I would have denied knowing the boyfriend and have them both arrested for breaking and entering!
i would have strait up punched, i could definitly NOT be that calm
I would've called the police cause on the intruder.
Girl you do not get to sleep in my bed, which is already a big NO, and then have the audacity to tell me that's not my house!? Disrespect me in my house and in front of my children!? It's either the police or the ambulance, either way you're getting out of there asap!
@@scarlett8895I don't know if the cops would even show up. In my area they avoid all domestic disputes like the plague. (I'm in Canada so it's probably because they don't want to get punched.)
Cheating isn't about sex usually. It's about a combination of many things: low self esteem, big egos, "thrill of the chase", "the grass is greener on the other side of the fence" syndrome, excitement, danger, etc. As someone that's been cheated on and betrayed in the most bizarre ways, I will never understand why someone wants to throw their family away for such stupid reasons!!
It’s about morals
Charlotte thank you for pointing out that it's NOT because of imperfections that we get cheated on. It's because of the flaws of the CHEATER. AMEN girl! Amen.
Mmmhmm yup!!!
Yes indeed 😂😂
Yep. Their low self esteem is what causes them to stray in the first place. They aren't confident in their relationship so they seek validation elsewhere.
@@usernameisunavailable8270 agreed. Though sometimes they are just low down and dirty narcissists who ENJOY sneaking around and gaslighting others. 😠
As someone who cheated, this is true. People who cheat need to work on themselves instead of vacillating in a relationship and attempting escapism to avoid their issues.
I know a couple who met because his fiancée was cheating with her fiancé. They literally met in a bar on the night they caught their partners cheating. That was 32 years ago, they've been married for 31 and have two kids together. Some people just make the best of a bad situation...
They should make that into movie
@@maeannengo4908 Right?!? Would that not make a hilarious Christmas Hallmark movie? They could even put "based on a true story" at the end of it.
@@Keshlynne yes!
@@Keshlynne HAHAHA YES
This sounds like a Reddit post 💀
I once saw an clip from a podcast where it came out that one guy thought cheating was ok, and was trying to defend it, but also said that he’d leave a girl if she cheated on him, and if that is not the most hypocritical, selfish, and butt-backward thing ever. How can someone sit there with so little empathy for someone they supposedly love and say that “it’s ok if I sleep around, but I’m dumping you if you do.”
because they're narcissists and fcked in the head.
I think I know what you're talking about. That's a common male podcaster thing to say. Pearl believes it too. Their reasoning is that is nature for men to wander and fuck around and "spread their seed 🤮" but unnatural for women too. So they use their delusional form of BiOlOgY to justify it.
Also sounds misogynistic too unfortunately :/.
They think it's different because "women can't have sex without feelings and men can". It's nonsense... Not to mention this would mean they think the women they're cheating with have feelings for them and they still did it. Terrible people
Facebook recommended my exes other woman as a friend to me 🤣 her public photos and his comments on her post were all I needed to see.
That’s amazing
I was dating the love of my life when his WIFE called me one night! I didn't know he was married until she called. She had a feeling that I had no idea! Her mother suggested we get together to talk. She figured out he was cheating when ANOTHER GIRL called the wife to let her know she needed to get tested because he had given her...and us...Gardnerella vaginalis!! The other girl knew he was married, but he told her "we're separated! " It was a fiasco, but we all got tested and treated and I helped the wife pack up his stuff and we hauled it to his mom's house! DiDi (the wife...now ex-wife) and I have been best friends for almost 30 years now!🤣😂
Omgosh. I Love that you and Didi became Besties and it's been 30 yrs. That's a win 👏🏽 😊
How old are you, I am 26
Hell yeah, I’m glad you found a best friend in all that! Also, I’m so sorry for what y’all went through, that sounds like a rollercoaster and a half. :(
Now that is some badass story, how you meet and become best friends and spitting the cheating bastard
I LOVE this story ❤
My aunt found out her husband was not only cheating on her but also had 2 babies on the way by 2 different women. She invited both women plus his first child mother to her house. Once they got there she called him to come home. She said he walked in he stopped and looked at all of them he didn’t say anything just walked to their room and started packing his things then left.
He accepted his fate before they even had to say anything. He knew it was over before the confrontation even began. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know your marriage is finished when your partner locates and personally invites over the people you've been cheating on them with to let you know that they know exactly what you've been up to.
He better not run away from the responsabilities of thoses babies though, actions have consequences.
@@kaihiroku8495 Unfortunately he more than likely will try to dodge the responsibilies of the kids. I feel bad for all four of those women who probably had no idea what was going on behind their backs.
@@anakatsukifangirl2944 and he probably will try to start it all over again and perhaps knocks up some other women
I hate that it happened, but I love the solidarity between women these days ❤
8:55 “when you give the ugly guy a chance”
The girls emptying the pool need to learn how to use a water hose as a syphon lol. Makes it a lot more efficient😂😂😂
I was in treatment for drug addiction a few years back (clean now). We were sitting in group 4 hrs from home and this girl starts sharing about her sugar daddy. The more she explains him I get more flags. Finally I said what’s his name? She then said my husbands name! I was absolutely EMBARRASSED in front of 40something women. This girl was mortified. She didn’t know 😢
Omg! I'm so sorry. It shows your amazing strength though. So many could have fallen off the wagon so early ( or even later) in sobriety. I'm glad to hear you're still clean. A hat tip to you and prayers for an amazing, happy future. 🙏❤️
Grats on being clean, super proud of you! Stay strong
Dang...I don't know what to say except sorry for pert of you two ladies.
Congrats on being sober.
As for that girl she must have been horrified she not only outed her SD but to a woman she knew!
Divine intervention
Not cheating is about the kind of person you want to be, it's about wanting to be an honorable person with a developed set of ethics, it's NOT ABOUT WHO YOUR PARTNER IS.
THIS! Only one person is at fault for cheating, the cheater! 👏👏👏
I mean...Unless its an abuse situation and someone is afraid to leave. We make one exception. Every one else, Spot on.
@@13gondolla37 *exception
@@jodyknight I blame auto correct
@@jodyknight thank you
Long story short, but I went to high school with girl #1 and her long term boyfriend. I ended up working with the bf, and just making innocent conversation, I asked him if he was still going out with girl #1 in front of our coworkers, including girl #2. What followed was the most awkward silence I've ever experienced, and I later found out guy was cheating on girl #1 with girl #2 and it was sort of an open secret and everyone knew about it but didn't talk about it. (Girl #1 had been told, but she was just in denial). Fast forward 15 years and I hear girl #1 was getting divorced from the bf because of his chronic cheating.
TLDR: once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't find that out the hard way, people!
The guy at 9:02 must have a LOT of money because there's NO WAY he got all of them because he's such a great guy. 🤣🤣🤣
Right?!
I remember a colleague who was married was cheating with another colleague. When the wife found out she came to the office and made everyone know about it including the management. I’ve never seen 2 people getting fired that fast. The CEO just took them from their arms and literally throw them out of the building personally. That was nice to watch. And we had no clue they were cheating.
God bless that ceo
@@ching2443 Yep, today all workplace relationships are a serious liability to HR and the company!
I don't understand why were they fired, isn't it only a problem when it's a boss and an employee? Otherwise isn't it your personal business?
@@ching2443 fr
@@EmyN sometimes companies don’t want people with a certain type of moral code, because who they hire reflects what their company’s stand is, and if it was within the contract that the signed parties agreed on. Then yes, the company had every right to fire them (I’m pretty sure, depends on the laws ur country/state has too)
When I found out my ex was cheating I packed all of his stuff into boxes and dropped them all off on the other woman's front lawn. (former friend, I knew where she lived) She called me hysterical begging me to come get his stuff and him because he couldn't stay with her. I said, "Sorry! Not my problem!" and never answered a call from either of them again. It felt great.
Good on you.
🤣🤣🤣 oof, sucks for you, ex friend. Toodaloo!
Great! I have a solution for her:
his stuff being on her lawn does not constitute that he needs to move in with him. This isn't 1700s puritan america.
She can ALSO pack up all his stuff and drop it off somewhere, like at a dump. Technically when you sign it to goodwill, you have to attest that these things are yours on the donation form. Soooooo... don't.
Now his shit ain't at none y'all's houses. Fixed!
“To the left , to the left
Everything you own in a box to the left…”
LMAO @ "Who are you Sir?, "Just an innocent bystander doing the Lord's work?"
I'm pretty sure the dog shelter doesn't want him either. I would refuse him at the door, saying we don't take "drop offs", make an appointment. LMAO
I had a client few years back who was married and had two daughters, both under the age of 10 who was cheating with a guy that worked in our same building who was also married and had twins under the age of 10. It was absolutely disgusting. One Valentine’s, they both called out from work & went to a hotel cuz at night they had plans with their spouses. How do I know all this? SHE WOULD TELL ME! While others were around! Zero shame.
I'd be like "why are you telling me? Sharing isn't always caring."
I had a similar situation at a previous job. They ended up both leaving their spouses for each other and then they didn’t last three months after that. Sometimes I think it’s about the excitement of sneaking around. You are so right, it’s disgusting.
I guess she needed You SweetCaroline, to understand just how HOT she was (In addition to being a double home wrecker)
@@GregBrownsWorldORacing That’s so funny you say that cuz she really did think she was hot sh*t. She was the type that flipped her hair every 3 mins. 🤣
@@kayleighandhercat1351 Honestly? Work was so stressful I needed some entertainment lol.
My ex(20) was cheating with a 16 year old. He told me she was a church friend, and that his family helped her out because she had a rough home life. I met her she was a nice girl, and there definitely signs that her family was garbage. It wasn’t until he convinced me to move in with him with no family around, struggling to support us. He wasn’t working, I was working, and going to school. I had come in while he was sexting her. I freaked out, packed my stuff, called my mom, and drove 9 hours to move back in with my parents. He wasn’t even ashamed, but I did hear he had a nice long visit with the police.
He wasn't cheating, he was preying on her.
Where are you? Its legal to date a 16 years old here!??
I wish they would up the age for everything to 18!!! I mean you can have sex here at 16 but can't buy a cigarette to smoke afterwards!!!!!! Its crazyyyyyyy !! 18 for everything makes it easier!
He DESERVED statutory r*pe charges. She was a minor. How many 16 yr old girls aren't impressionable? Not many. He was a dirt bag!!
In the US, some states have the Romeo and Juliet law, stating if she’s 16, it’s legal IF he’s UNDER 4 years older.
@@cheriremily9360 No he was doing both
Okay, funny story 😅
I came across your video on my recommendations.
My daughter who was sitting beside me, not really paying attention to anything else. As soon as i play your video, she immediately looks up at the TV and starts the smile 😄
She was smiling, laughing and jumping up and down through out the entire video.
It was adorable!! 🥺
This is her first time watching you and you became her favourite.
Thank you for making her day 😊❤️
Haha I literally had an ex who tried to deny the instagram algorithm, like bro do you really thing I'm that stupid? Mans was also a gaslighter and narcissistic af so no suprises there😂
Yeah I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone and thinking _"hm! You know what would be fun? What if I just um.... left the person I supposedly love with massive emotional trauma, trust issues and a completely shattered sense of self-worth?"_
right??? i dont get it!!
Can't understand this, if the person wants so bad to be with others while in a relationship, they could have just found someone who wants and likes an open relationship. Why would they insist on taking a path of lies, fights and manipulation? It's harder for them too, so why?!
@@lilacea6047 i guess its because they dont want that. They want secrets, lies, the thrill of living a double life. They wouldn't be satisfied even IF they had an open relationship. I have heard of people in open relationships that still act shitty. Its a them problem
@@akiluckyakilucky7524 exactly some people are narcissistic and those people get off on the thrill of manipulation which honesty doesn’t give
Honestly I agree with part of your comment. It shouldn't be up to another person to fix someone if they're already "broken" in a sense. Yes you shouldn't just be with someone, create an emotional connection, and then cheat. But I don't think someones mental health is a reason to stay with someone. It would be worse for them both, and eventually do more damage for the relationship and the individuals.
As a polyamorous person I absolutely do not understand cheating. Like... If you want to see other people ASK YOUR PARTNER. If they're not okay with that dynamic then you need to stick to being monogamous or leave the relationship.
Edit: I've been with my longest partner for 10 years. I'm somewhere on the asexual spectrum and he is not. I am polyamorous still and seek deep romantic and emotional connections with others. My long term partner needs an emotional connection before being intimate with others. If/when he is sexually active with new partners he and his partner(s) are tested before and after. No one in our polycule has tested positive for STIs because we test regularly and take protection seriously. I'm currently with only one partner at the moment because I'm working too much to properly invest in additional relationships. This doesn't make me any less polyamorous in the same way being single doesn't make you aromantic or asexual.
I recognize this relationship dynamic isn't for everyone and that is okay. Please just be respectful. There are people who abuse polyamory/open relationships, people who claim to be this but don't communicate with their partner(s) about it. They are not the polyamorous community. They're just jerks.
And honestly, I've seen more jerks in previous monogamous relationships than I have being polyamorous.
Or seek counseling. There is such a thing as the poly monocross pair too.
THANK YOU💯💯💯💯💯
EXACTLY
@@rnbsteenstar poly monocross??
@@jman217 I was referring to the Cross pairing of a poly mono relationship because one of the partners is mono and the other is not.
Its genuinely disheartening to see that so many individuals resort to cheating. I can recall an instance from my time in the military when someone in a facebook group brought up the Buzzhumble site that had been featured in the news. As a result, people who had created dating app profiles approximately six years prior found themselves exposed and caught
"The one time I agreed either Logan Paul about anything." Same 😂
"If Jay-Z can cheat on Beyonce none of us are safe" - Charlotte 😁 . Just wanted to add a corollary to that statement . "If Jay-Z can be kicked in an elevator for cheating , none of the cheaters are safe" 😜 .
I hate how the narrative since then has low key been Solange is crazy. Discredit a person (or her sister) for reacting to cheating in outrage and then they can’t call you on your cheating. Men often even do this in divorce and family court; it was done to me. I had the nerve to yell at my first husband in front of his mother (who had enabled and even encouraged the cheating, BTW), while our son was nowhere around, and once we got to court, his attorney brought it up and the judge just couldn’t believe I would act so “irrationally.” Um… I yelled at him. He screwed a woman repeatedly in my bed, sometimes with my son in the house, and forged a check to clean out MY bank account. But I was irrational. That’s how it is. There are people who still call Solange crazy.
Why we acting like we know how Beyoncé is in a relationship. Most really famous people are horrid to be in relationships with because the type of person who becomes famous more often than not are very narcissistic which is one of the worst things in relationships. That’s why very few Hollywood marriages last. Most of those people suck irl.
I knew my ex was cheating when he couldn't stop talking about this girl he worked with. Everything he talked about was about her, even started comparing me to her. When I asked if he was cheating he went crazy on me and threatened to kill himself.
Edit: My ex is very well alive 😒
What the hell?
I'm so sorry!
Call his bluff, lol.
What a crazy leap..
That’s nuts I’m so sorry that happened!
4:21 YES!! EXACTLY!
Let me share a little something with you. When I met my boyfriend we both were extremely clear about not wanting a relationship. We both wanted to explore and still be able to go out with other people. We were just good friends who talked everyday, lived in different cities and hooked up when we saw eachother. Let me tell you, in the five months this went one, not ONCE, not a SINGLE TIME, I had the occasion to hook up with someone else. After these 5 months my bf asked me if we wanted to let the thing become more serious and I said yes, but we weren't quite ready to "close" the relationship, yet. When he finished his studies he came back to his city (where I also live) and we closed the relationship for good.
I never hooked up with anyone, and not because I didn't want to, I just didn't want to go on a crusade to find someone to hook up because THAT SHIT IS TIRING. He was able to hook up a couple of times because living in a dorm gives you more occasions, but still, a couple of people in almost 6 months.
Cheating is absurd to me! You have to ACTIVELY GO OUT and SEARCH for a hook-up, and it's difficult even for single people/people who are trying to find a one night stand. It's not just the act of cheating that is disgusting, you are not accidentally falling into someone's privates. You're actively going out, lying about where you're going, omitting to people to whether you're in a relationship or not, hooking up, going back home, and then keeping that shit a secret.
WHY????
0:26 even the cat was disgusted with that man-child's foolishness!
The thing that still makes me angry about previous unfaithful partner is not them, the lying, the gaslighting, the blatant disrespect or the side pieces. It's the fact that i will forever question anyone's motivations. My husband, friends, children, coworkers. Any possible connection i make is always tainted by doubt and then shame for not being able to trust. THAT is rage inducing and makes me wish fervently for the duplicitous toads down fall.
Right? that's the part that gets me too! I find someone amazing who is into me and seems to want all the same things I want, then I start to question it all. Which isn't fair to the person you're with, so you keep your mouth shut so that you don't drop your damaged rantings onto an innocent person...then it bottles up, you worry, you fret, you get exhausted, you even get angry - and we both know danged well, that will eventually begin to affect the person you're with, they'll end up unhappy and either cheat on you or leave you thereby completing the cycle. Took me years to break that cycle. And I truly feel horrible for anyone I dropped that BS on, not their fault and they deserved better.
Yeah, I haven’t gone on a date in ten years since divorcing my husband. But not only was he cheating on me with a hooker, he was becoming abusive. So there’s that too…..
my current boyfriend has been my online friend for 15 years. he was there when i was married. he was there when i found out i was pregnant with my second child. he was there when my now ex husband denied that child and claimed i was cheating on him. he was there during my divorce with my ex husband and baby drama crap with my 3rd son's bio dad. he knew of my feelings for him back in 2011, but chose someone else instead and so i stopped talking to him. 5 years after that i missed the friendship i had, so i added him again in 2016, but it wasn't until 2017 that we talked and he realized that he had feelings for me all along. 5 years later with one of those being no contact (2019-2020), we're in a comfortable place. communication is key for us, especially because we live literally overseas from one another. anyway, he knows all about my past and the damage done and while he hasn't made the best choices himself, he is making changes in order to focus on me and help me through all of that crap. because of the distance, we do have an open relationship of sorts, but i am ace, so i have zero interest in finding anyone to scratch that itch, but i also don't know what he does because he prefers his privacy and if i push too much he will get mad and ignore me for a while.....but that is one of the changes he is making in order to make me feel more relaxed.
You shouldn't let the actions of one horrible person effect every relationship in your life. I said something similar to my ex when I found out he was cheating but the fact is, when everything is out of control, one thing you can always control is your reaction and the way you handle the situation. In a way it also somewhat feels like the other person "Wins" as once they are out of your life, they still have such a huge impact. Do yourself a favour and don't close yourself off, be open to the love you deserve. ✌
I hear you. I have been cheated on by all my previous partners before I met my current one and the trust issue is so real. It's been five years of cooperation and understanding and I still get major anxiety and panic attacks
The fact that that girl was able to get the three girls her boyfriend was cheating on her with was very impressive. I hope she dumped him, and the four of them became besties :)
When you don’t blame the girls but the guy and him alone. 💁🏻♀️
@@Isa-nj5fp I would blame both, IF the girls knew he was in a relationship. If they thought that they were the only one in his life, then yes, JUST him, they are as much a victim as OP... and, yes, it DOES occasionally happen.
First time ever watching you and immediately I loved it because you reminded me of my aunt who passed away recently and it felt so nice to see someone with the same attitude and personality as her
Way back when, before I met my husband I had a friend. We grew up in the same neighborhood, he was a friend of my brother whom I had a crush on when I was an awkward 15 year old. Fast forward, not my crush anymore because he was always flying from girl to girl, he just loved all kinds of girls, I was 19 and he asked me out. I told him I’d go out to movies but since he was so into girls just as friends. Turns out I’m at the beach and a young woman from the neighborhood whom I knew as his ex asked me if I’d gone out with him. Lol we figured every time they fought he’d ask me to a movie. We sat there chatting because we knew he’d turn up at some point. He did and we called him over. He knew, we knew and he was mortified that we didn’t really care he was a dog. 😂 it was so much fun to see him squirm.
Cheaters never change, don’t stay with them. Edit: this was back 1983/84 no social media back them, dumbasses still got caught.
I broke up with a guy for cheating on me with his ex. He had the nerve to say "Why are you hurting me like this?" It was at that moment I lost the last tiny scrap of respect I ever had for him.
You were a mirror for him, he was saying that to himself.
This is the power of social media, once one person knows you’re cheating on your partner, then EVERYONE knows because everyone joins in the hunt of finding the person being cheated on to inform them
I love how the flamingo light sometimes looks like a bow in your hair hahaha
Charlotte, you’ve never sounded more Canadian then when you yelled
“HOLD theh PHOENEEE”
My oldest brother was married three times. He wrecked every marriage by cheating and with different women, and this was before the age of social media. His wives found out every time he just sucked at covering his tracks.
Kennie JD said something about cheating that I will always keep with me from now on. "Cheating is the act of someone who hates you" And I agree with her statement 1000%. If you can get out of a relationship where you know your partner is cheating on you then don't even THINK, just LEAVE because they do NOT respect you, they do NOT love you, and they may very well just straight up hate you. I wouldn't want to be in a place where I'm not wanted.
Was this during a bad movie and beat?? 😮
@@brittanyr2927 I think she mentioned this in the Ned Fulmer scandal video
Literally was bout to comment bout Kennie JDs quote but absolute facts
@@wallflowernook ooh I haven’t seen that 😳 Thank you!
I don’t think it’s hate, it’s pure narcissism and greed. The cheaters never want to leave their perfect partner but do want the cherry on top.
The video at the pool lol look at his dog just standing there watching 😂
There are 4 guys in the world
1st The guy who doesn’t care
2nd aren’t sure about the relationship
3rd true love with them
4th The guy who feels bad
I don't understand cheating either. One of my ex's cheated on me. I found out and she left then came home to all her crap in trash bags outside the front door and the lock changed. If you're not happy in your relationships just get out of them. It's gross and wrong on soooooo many levels.
It's fair. A friend of mine did the same thing. Her ex cheated and then proceeded to treat her poorly while living in her apartment. She went home from work early and carried all of his stuff outside. He then shouted at her about "gow can you do this?! I'm homeless now???". Should've thought about that BEFORE.
My thoughts exactly! But I guess some people like to have their cake and eat it too. Super selfish and entitled if you ask me. (-_-;)
Same, same.
It was glorious: stacked the trash bags inside garage door then opened it as he pulled in after a work trip.
Very satisfying reveal.
I told her to go live with the person she cheated on me with or move back in with her parents but she wasn't coming back in my house
We were engaged, he cheated and I sent him to his momma’s house. No regrets I’m grateful I dodged a bullet .
4:25 - People who cheat don't love the person they're cheating on, as they don't have the emotional maturity and intelligence (which actual love requires) to stay faithful or fix/end the relationship when they're not happy. Cheating just doesn't make sense to anyone who can genuinely love.
I'm Aro/Ace (in the sense of never having felt love of that sort for another) and even I don't see how cheating makes sense.
@@Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith I've come to the conclusion - using acquaintances as examples - that a lot of people say they love someone just because they get to have sex on a regular basis and end up in shit relationships, having to raise kids they never wanted. Brain power at work😏.
True this.
Some people are emotionally connected and not sexually and visa versa kinda try find a partner that fulfill both needs but that's hard
@@karenwilliams5941
Many people also don't take time to get to know themselves and figure out what type of person they actually want to be with, instead of just getting into a serious relationship with someone they don't really know that well.
When you genuinely know what type of person you want to have a proper relationship with, you won't accept anyone else. You will also have made enough space in your life to notice when your ideal person enters it.
[sorry for the loooong reply🤪]
My best friend and I of 25 years met when we were introduced while getting ready for a party at a mutual friends place. We didn’t know we were dating the same guy (he was in college and a TA at our high school) and didn’t know because I called him Danny and she called him Dan. We are sitting talking about the same dude and finally came to the conclusion that we were infact dating the same dude.. we surprised him together at the frat house party.. we find out years later from a guy we remained friends with that dude was literally bragging about the notches on his “bedside belt” and allll of his notches were high schoolers!
Friendly reminder to everybody that polyamorous relationships can be healthy because polyamory is *not* the same as cheating, monogamy is not the only way to be happy! It’s cheating if you partner doesn’t know/doesn’t consent to you being with other people while in a relationship with them, and polyamory comes in different ways; whether polyamory for you means you and your partners all are together and all love each other or if your partner knows and okay with you being with other people (as long as you are transparent with them about what you do with that other person/people) and of course, set up boundaries with each other
The man with the twins could do a dna test but they could be his. I have large extended family. My cousins and I range from dark to light. We are part Native American. Some look like full blood native some look full blood white. In one family alone there are four children ranging from blonde/blue eyed and so white you’d think they were Irish to black hair and eyes and so dark you’d think he was full native. And uncle who looks Greek a cousin with Scottish red hair and complexion. This also leads to weird things like blue eyes with dark brown hair and a red beard.
Was looking for this comment. My father in law shares absolutely no physical resemblance to either of his kids. They are most definitely his though especially his son (my partner).
Ya, my bio grandfather is Puerto Rican and of my moms 7 siblings, two of them came out with blonde hair and blue eyes. Everyone else looks Latin, or at least mixed.
I came looking for this comment! The children could be his, especially if mother is white or even mixed race. Genetics are crazy but look at the twins that were born where one was white and one was black and I believe both parents were black.
The one black and one white twin girls had a white patent and a black parent. So crazy. The girls look just alike but different races and they are gorgeous! Genes are WILD.
Agreed! Genetics are crazy!
I took being cheated on so badly. It was 6 years ago. I've had to do a lot of self healing but to say I have ptsd is an understatement. I still have a hard time hearing or saying his name or her name. He cheated on me with a "friend" of mine.
It's s long story and still pisses me off. I think the friend part is what made it so traumatic since I already had trust issues when it came to friends.
But, I have married an awesome guy and have two beautiful (no, seriously, they're adorable) kids. I'm happy now. 😊
If you pray, pray to break those soul ties. It worked for me and it has worked for so many people. Break those soul ties and the other bonds dissolve one by one. I hope you can get out ahead of this. It’s not fair or fun to live in chains of guilt, regret, shame, or pain, whether you did anything to “deserve” those feelings or not. You’re worth doing what it takes to live in spiritual health and freedom. ❤️
I believe you...they are probably the cutest 😇😇
I was recently cheated on and this video made me so much happier :) thank you! Doing great 🌻
No one deserves to be cheated on.
I would have called the police the second the girlfriend refused to leave and told me my house wasn't my house. Be like oh it isn't? Let's test that hypothesis shall we?
Right??? She was so calm!! I wouldn’t have even said anything, woulda just yanked her hair and dragged her out of MY bed. She ain’t gonna clean up the love juices anyways, least she can do is relieve your tension right then and there 🤷🏽♀️
@@meliisonthemoon8130 lmao
Why tf she let him crash there in the first place?
Just wanted to clear something up she said in the beginning. CHEATING IS STILL POSSIBLE IN A POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIP
Exactly. If your partner is unaware of someone else in your bed that's cheating
Yup! I once had a guy tell me polyam wasnt cheating. Well he's right, but forgot that cheating is defined by that relationship's specific boundaries. I would consider cheating to be messing with my friends, hiding partners, lying, manipulating, or hitting on a relative 🤷🏾
oh 100% i got cheated on by my (ex) polyam partner
Yup. And They don’t have to have physical touch to be cheating. You can still cheat by what u say, do, and how u act. Flirting is cheating.
True story! If every person in the situation doesn’t agree to a new person and new person is allowed in anyway then it’s cheating!
I love that my fiancé and I have morals and respect for each other.
For a split second when Hess then he was thinking “OK this could be either the greatest night of my life or the worst”
My ex threw a full on 3 year old tantrum when I caught him cheating. All I could do was laugh.
Gurl u deserved better
Go you! I'd just laugh at him too. Throwing a damn tantrum like a little kid cuz he thought he could get away with it - glad he's your ex. You deserve better!
Ew 🤢 i disgusted just by reading your comment 🤣 I'm happy for you 😘
As you should 😂😂
My ex cheated on me with my best friend. I caught them and we all worked together so Monday shift was interesting but I was over it. I sent her a sympathy card on the first anniversary, they married and he cheated on her but not with me I don’t have sloppy seconds
Perfect karma and revenge. I would have sent her a joker so she knows that she’s the joke
Usually cheaters are either completely numb to all guilt and don’t give a fuck about their partner’s feelings, or they feel a void of some sort with their partner and they DO feel bad but not enough to stop because there’s an adrenaline rush that comes with the taboo. The third case is they feel trapped in their relationship, don’t love their partner anymore but either don’t have the balls to breakup or they can’t leave the other person. Don’t get urself into any of the above situations it doesn’t work for anyone
If I ever found another woman in my bed, I would beat her until the cops came, and then turn on the man until they arrest me 😡
I feel soo bad for her and I applaud her for acting so calmly and maturely despite the situation. Good for her for leaving him!!!
The tantruming ex thing - we've seen it a few times. They have the emotional maturity of children, but the capacity to lie like adults. Terrible people.
Married 43 years here, and neither of us have ever been unfaithful. And it's EASY! You just don't do it. If it's offered, you just say, "No thank you. I have better at home." No strange sex is worth losing your SO, your family, your dignity, and your self-respect. A good marriage is so worth it.
I love your reactions! Laughing so much!
Left my ex after he was caught cheating . I was gone for 3 days when I got a call from his boss . His boss begged me to take him back and to come see him to talk . Given I was young , I gave a second chance and went back . Second time it happened, I packed up without saying a word and never went back . Man enough to cheat , childish enough to have a tantrum when realizing he did wrong .
Why did his boss begged you to take back your ex?
the ex probably faked the call
@@maeannengo4908 the only thing I can think of , crocodiles tears in front of his boss . It was pathetic and I was dumb enough to fall for the BS .
@@maeannengo4908 if he's the boss' reverse nepo all the ex had to do was "act up" enough for the boss to do anything to make it stop. I don't know if that's what happened, but we have two of those in one of the restaurant outlets I worked at - one was actively perving on me (same-sex perv, which in his words meant no one was gonna believe me if I snitched) and the other dumped all the work on me and cursed out anyone who accidentally gave him more work i.e. wiping a drop of water off a table. I wanted to say something to my original manager, he just told me to let it go, those two were protected by a company CEO because they were "old buddies" and held more power as a dishwasher and a chef than upper management. To my knowledge they're still there.
9:36 the fact they were THAT determined to empty the pool💀💀 made the time for it and everything
Plus, all that chlorinated water, if there’s any grass or plants in the way of those buckets, then they’re straight up dead, too.
I can’t even watch this. It’s pissing me off too much. I LOVE your videos. I’m just so pissed at these cheaters taking their families for granted.
Browski did not leave until her mans left the house😭😭😭 2:43
Also notice how it's always the less attractive partner in the relationship, that cheats on the one that is entirely out of their league 💀
Yes!!!!! They want to break you so much that’s why they do that.
People can’t take accountability… especially the one who cheated on her boyfriend and when someone posted the truth against her video playing the victim, she reported it as harassment.
Girl, the truth doesn’t harass people, it only feels like that to you cause you can’t play the victim anymore when so many people know now
Technically it is harassment as it is posting her name and face without her consent. However, he was making a response to her own tiktok, I believe, so hmmmMmMmMM.
You right on people not wanting to take responsibility and get free pity.
@@lilblkrose she posted a lie online and someone responded to it. Not his fault she put her real information (name, who she’s dating, etc) online. He just called her out on lying to people
@@TsukiKageTora That's why I was like, hmm hmm but agreed.
For what I've heard, cheaters are people who either can't handle compromise, or are scared of intimacy and go back to the stage of relationship they can handle but with another person, or find what they already have is not enough, or they don't like that the everyday of a couple is not as exciting as they thought so they get to new relationships without ending the main one because of cowardice.... and so on.
Anyway, a commited relationship puts aside the being with someone just for the kicks and because you simply want to be with them in all the senses. If you don't then have the guts to be straight about it.
“Monty, where does one find the audacity?” 3:46
Back in the late 1990's I lived in a small town. I was in my late teens and one of my friends was dating someone in their early to mid 20's. Creepy but I digress. He had an ex and a kid with that ex. When the ex saw my friend she would flip out and start doing all these petty things. Showing up unannounced, talking about their kid, talking about how great their sex life was, etc. My friend was always upset but just kept quiet. Welp, I lived right near one of the only bars in town and got to witness some funny stuff over the years. This night I had gotten up to grab and drink and pee. I thought I heard a familiar voice coming through the kitchen window. I go over and take a seat only to see my friends BF and his Ex making out. They were waiting for a taxi and talking very loudly about how they can't wait to Ef each others brains out. The ex said something along the lines of "what about your GF?" and he said something disgusting about only liking her for being young and she'll never find out. I told my friend the next day and she broke up with him. What a creep.
✨It was the ‘90’s✨
@@randomsandra4039 If my life depended on remembering every guy I shagged in the 70s and 80s, I'd just have to stand up for the firing squad and say, "Let's get this over with"!
Funny thing is, now I know I'm asexual, and back then I was trying on men like I tried on shoes, just couldn't find the right fit. I thought there was something wrong with me, because I found sex boring and icky, but I thought if I kept trying I'd find someone I felt passionate about. I finally did, and I was faithful to him. Sex was low on the list of what I loved about him, but at least it wasn't icky! He died in 1989 at age 32. I've been married twice since, but never felt that way again. Both marriages ended badly, the 1st one ended up being a murder story on "Unsolved Mysteries".
I won't try for a third unless I find another asexual with whom I can enjoy a deep friendship.
@@LazyIRanch wow! Mine story is a bit like yrs, the beginning bit and men like shoes. Life is a funny ole game. Now I'm in church and work for Jesus. Funny how we all different. He saved me!!!!!
YOU are a good friend! Kudos!
@@LazyIRanch He was murdered? Oh, honey, I'm so sorry you went that! What a nightmare!
Once a cheat, always a cheat. If they're willing to cheat with you, they will cheat on you, too. Also, "I had to cheat to be sure I really wanted to be with you " is the lamest excuse ever. A leopard doesn't change it's spots.
Facts 💯💯💯💯
Gonna expose myself here. I cheated once on a bf and I can tell you for abosolute facts I would never ever ever do it again. It was over 15 years ago and the guilt still eats me up to this day. My reasoning was it was to erm experiment with the same sex before we officially committed. Still wish i had just told him and not hurt him. Not all cheaters like myself do it again. However sadly many many do xoxoxox
I disagree, if people are willing to work on themselves, they have the ability to change. They just have to want to change.
@Happyhellopeople Most of the time, it's about opportunity.
@@The_Lazy_Crafter Girl, I understand. Worst decision of my life. I was in destruction mode and on a path of poor decisions. It isn't an excuse, I hurt a lot of people, but I love every day with regret and changed my ways. I value my family over myself and that woke me up.
When I was in 7th grade I met this girl who was a grade below me and we seemed to have a lot in common, I saw a lot of myself in her and vice versa. She wasn't super confident and she had some trouble standing up for herself when we first met so I always kind of felt protective of her and tried to look out for her. So a year or two later she gets her first bf and it's great for like 2 weeks and then we see him at the mall holding hands with some girl who had "rawr" written on her cheek with pen (I talk shit but if one of the cute emo boys ever "rawred" at me I would've rawred back lmao) anyway she doesn't confront him and basically runs away so we go outside and she calls him and he tries to say it wasn't him lmfao how many emo curly gingers could there be?! She starts acting like she's gonna give in and pretend to believe him and she's looking at me for help so I tell her "we both know it was him. You don't need this shit. Tell that geek to beat it!" And she literally just cuts him off mid-sentence and screams "beat it, geek!" And sassily snapped the flip phone shut and we started cracking up 😂
We said "beat it, geek" to each other for years after that lol and honestly.. it really seemed like she had more confidence after that, oddly. Obviously it sucks to me cheated on, even if you're only 14.. but I think standing up for herself just felt great and she pulled from that in the future.
I have no idea what in this video even made me think of this now 😂
I went on several dates with a guy in college and we were getting pretty serious when I found out he was already in a relationship. I apologized to the girlfriend and swore I had no idea and I’m not even kidding her response was “oh I don’t really care I just don’t want to hear about it”
I NOPED OUT OF THAT SITUATION SO FAST. I immediately assumed I wasn’t the only extra girl he was seeing on the side and took no chances on catching any of what they were all sharing 😂😂
This is a daily reminder that people do not cheat with better, they cheat with EASY.
Well hang on. Yeah I agree it doesn't mean better, but it's not fair to shame the single person if they didn't know.
@@NoudlePipW i didn't mean the other person is 'easy' in some patriarchal slut shaming way, really I meant convenient and accessible.
Being deceived isn't a moral failing.
Sounds like bitter immaturity to me, when your man cheats on you the stupidest thing you can do is come at the other woman sideways. The smartest thing you can do is befriend that bitch and compare notes over a couple glasses of wine and plot your revenge. Actually, the fact that you two would be hanging out is actually any cheaters worst nightmare wanna see him squirm? Befriend the other woman. She didnt lie to you and hurt you, he did learn where to place your anger hun
Not necessarily, it is a bit weak to blame the person you're not in a relationship with though. Says a lot.
@@NoudlePipW I think by easy, they didn't mean "hoe" necessarily. I took it more as easy = opportunity (which is why cheating happens a lot of time)
Omg that audacity of that girl to not leave someone else's house! You actually have to made of audacity for that!!
Cheating is hard and I would never do it. Hiding from your partner, making sure people you know don’t see you, and trying to keep up with lies. That’s a full time job and I already have one!
He's got it like that??? He must have a big.......HEART🤣🤣🤣
C'mon now. You know you meant to say... wallet! 🤣
@@Utoobeh4tesfreespeech 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m 62 and just been told by Charlotte that I’m cool, I’m totally monogamous and respectful of my partner.
Did you think you weren't cool just because you're 62?
Please don't think such a thing! 🙃
I was once "the other woman", and completely oblivious to it. Hung out with my ex's best friend, cuz he said: He had the day off, he and his wife got divorced etc. I shrugged, went with it. I get a phone call later at work FROM HIS WIFE. Who says that everything was a boldfaced lie, and he was supposed to be at work that day and he's done this before many a time. She wasn't mad at me, she was mad at him.
I can't stop laughing at that one line: "and that guy, wow, I'm not even mad I'm just impressed, how did that happen?One big family, love pentagon 🤣🤣".
I love the second one. That cat was looking at him like "What the hell is wrong with this dude!"! lol. 😀
Miss Charlotte: You know what’s cool? Being monogamous and respectful to your partner!
Every Tater Tot ever: 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I could never lol
We may be taters but we are all RESPECTFUL taters! 💯
I’m polyamorous so I was like “hell naw monogamy sucks” but honesty is everything
👏🏼 🥔 👏🏼 🥔 👏🏼
Being monogamous is fine, and do honour any agreement of only being with each other if you've made this agreement - the being respectful to your partner is key! Another polyamorous person here... Yeah, I go out with someone new every now and again, but I'd never do it behind a partner's back or lie about it! Really not that difficult.
When I confronted my (now) ex-husband for cheating, he said: "I had hoped that you'd never find out". THAT's at the bottom of every cheaters motives - they think they won't get caught.
LMAO the pool bit is hilarious 😆
Ok, I'm convinced that people who cheat are bored, like it takes so much dedication to mess with your life 😒
This reminds me so much of 8 years ago. Me and my now husband were part of several arcade gaming and competitive groups. And there was this one guy that always hung out with us to train because we were around the same range of skill level so we became quite close. I became friends with his gf cause he would bring her along. After about a year, he got quite popular because he got really good in the games we were competing in and would start bringing in several different girl “friends” every training session. Then some years later, I was invited into a facebook group by his former gf, and now ex-fiance. Turns out that they were supposed to get married but she found out that the guy was rotating through more than a dozen women and they were all clueless of each other’s existence until they were all brought into that facebook group. And I was invited there to be their witness so I got to witness all the craziness. 😅
It is when you see they've somehow got 2 seperate lives with the houses, kids & everything else that always gets me.
I've had a couple of partners cheat on me, and now although it might seem a sad existance, I have moved onto a single, multiple-animal daddy lifestyle & couldn't be happier! Just chilling with my cat & reptiles is much more stress-free than trying to understand & please another human being!
@@leeannarcher I've yet to find anything as heartwarming as looking down & seeing my corn snake peeking up at me from inside my onesie or the sensation of my bearded dragon snuggling in deeper to my neck. My others are nice to handle, but those 2 are especially affectionate. 😊
It’s not that they don’t feel bad , they just don’t feel bad until they’re caught 💀💀💀
"Where does one find the audacity?"
Well, at *Audacities-R-US*
OF COURSE!! 😂😂😂
i am convinced that a large portion of the human population was born without a conscience.
Heck, i recently heard that nearly half of humans don't have an inner voice/dialogue, and i thought inner dialoguing was something that EVERY human being does.
Wait what? They don't???? For real?
Doesn't mean they don't have a conscience
@@kailah8249 If they do have consciences, they sure as hell don’t act like it. Look at all of the stupid evil shit that people are doing.
Stuff that could have easily been avoided if they stopped to think about consequences.
People are not considering consequences for their actions.
If they were, Charlotte would not have much content to work with.
A what? Sometimes I have to think to myself, but I don't have a voice in my head.
Right? It's like they're zombies or something. That part of them that's supposed to make them feel bad about their wrongs and empathize and have compassion for others is just broken. Like some kind of zombie.
Oooh I fell that bathroom interaction sooo much! I was not in a bathroom but in a break moment with all my coworkers (mostly ladies) and everyone was sharing what they did the day before.. So there is this thing if you are seeing anyone of the colleagues casually, especially higher grades it's mostly kept hush hush... Not something that most would share with colleagues. So the day before one of the higher ups invite me to go for sightseeing, for me it's pretty normal, walk around, have a nice conversation and just stay outside a bit... thinking nothing of it I went and soon this guy started talking about how much he was making and getting sort of flirty in a way that made me uncomfortable, for his personality, his conversation... All of it. So the next day having a boring gazillion hours to pass with the other coworkers we were talking and I shared that I went sightseeing with said higher-up. All of a sudden I notice one of the girls turned around from making her coffee, with a strange face she asked me if he had invited me for dinner... And she was so anxious as though she wanted me to say "no he didn't"
He didn't invite me in fact... But the time we said bye was around dinner time...
This coworker then became so silent and you can see something boiling inside her... In fact next thing she does she "takes a walk" I. E. She goes to the higher up in question...
What I can only guess is that guy did a "double date" that previous day and invite her for dinner just minutes after saying bye to me.
Turns out without saying anything my coworker had found out what kind of man she was getting involved with before it would be too late
bosses dating underlings is also a very scummy and sometimes illegal thing why would you even participate in that
I never unterstand why people dating colleagues at a job
@@DraconiInfernalus I got a thing for dudes in my industry they are so much nicer then tradies and office workers lol
The random strangers blowing up the spot needs to keep happening.
Lol all your accents I love it. I do the same thing haha
@charlottedobre as an FYI your skin tone can be as dark as your darkest parent or as light as your lightest parent (or anywhere in between).... there are even fraternal twins of interracial couples where one twin is black and the other is white (in skin tone)... it just depends which genes you get from each parent and whether they’re recessive or dominant 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🌟🌈 so those twins could be his as the wife was white (and he also probably has some white genetics)
Thats what I was thinking, I wasn't going to immediately assume in that scenario because there have even been twins born with one really white and one really black so I just normally think it's just genetics.
This was the case with the twins of friends of mine. The girl was a dark as her Ugandan mother, and the boy was as white as his British dad.
They both went to the same uni, and, to save money, shared a flat.
They'd been there seven or eight months when one of their neighbours (to whom they had never spoken beyond polite greetings) spoke to the girl to warn her that her "boyfriend" was having other girls around when she wasn't there.
It was all sorted out with red-faces and laughing. Thoughtful neighbour though.
That's very true. I have Indonesian blood and I have dark complexion, but my daughter is dark blond with a bit darker skin and my son is just blond and white. I always have to remind myself that he has to have sunscreen even with little bit of sun, because he will burn. My husband was as kid silverblond so he takes after his father. 😅
Yes, my dad is white as can be and my mother is Filipino with olive skin that tans very easily. My younger sister is very white as well but I have a darker skin tone like my mother. A lot of teachers don’t realise that we are sisters until they see our last names😂
Thank you for that. I have interracial children and grandchildren and I have never understood why people don’t get this concept. Genetics, baby!
I 100% agree with something I heard once before that cheating is an act of evil. Its evil. You cannot claim to love somebody while making the conscious decision to do something that you know will hurt them. There can't be love there.
“If Jay-Z cheated on Beyonce…non of us are safe“ 😂💔
12:40 can we appreciate that the girl who exposed them did the right thing, and did the best she could to get to the girl being cheated on?
If you want to be poly, or have an open relationship, you need to not only discuss that openly with your partner, but have them willingly consent! If they aren't comfortable with that, and you cant be monogamous, then give them the respect of walking away and finding are partner whos okay with it. Dont just cheat because you feel you can get away with it.