The Girl In The Back Of The Class Plays With Your Hair ~ ASMR personal attention

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  • Опубликовано: 23 янв 2022
  • can i play with your hair? In this relaxing ASMR roleplay I am giving you lots of personal attention by playing with your hair, brushing your hair in class, inaudibly talking to you, camera and face tapping & more! I hope you enjoy! Eda
    #asmr #relatable #asmrvideo
    Personal attention playlist:
    I'd love for you to watch this creator who inspired me to make this video!! Cloudix ASMR • The Girl In The Back O...
    Thank you for watching my ASMR videos. I truly love doing this and seeing your comments everyday makes me very happy and excited to think of more roleplays and triggers that you might have not seen before... or just experiences that you have childhood memories of.
    What I use to film in this vid:
    iPhone 11 Pro Max
    Tascam DR-05X
    iMovie
    Edafoxx
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Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @edafoxxASMR
    @edafoxxASMR  2 года назад +1638

    hi friends 💖pt. 2 with CURLY hair is up ruclips.net/video/Dyx4yg2ETbk/видео.html

    • @aquatic_editzz
      @aquatic_editzz 2 года назад +24

      yay :)

    • @CallMeVanessa0
      @CallMeVanessa0 2 года назад +40

      Thank you for taking the time to even create a video wirh curly hair❤

    • @Luvv.Lu1u
      @Luvv.Lu1u 2 года назад +9

      I had a headache today thanks for this vid cause idk how but it helped!

    • @janethanna9023
      @janethanna9023 2 года назад +12

      Omg the girls used to love to play with my hair cuz it was so long & curly lol They seemed so intrigued with it but I hated it(the curls) :( I'm fine with it now tho' :)

    • @Tiredprincessss
      @Tiredprincessss 2 года назад +3

      Kıvırcık saçlıyım ve kıvırcık versiyonu yaptığın için seni çok seviyorum :,)

  • @sg6158
    @sg6158 2 года назад +49810

    I was a child that went through child abuse and I wouldn’t let anyone touch me at one point in time but there was this girl in my class who would play with my hair and scratch my back and I felt completely safe, so thank you for making me feel safe again
    3/27/2022
    Thank you to all that have responded with positivity and personal stories, thank you for words of kindness and encouragement.
    To those who had a problem with what I wrote I am not sorry. Nor will I ever be. You don’t have to like what I wrote/shared and I don’t care. I reached out because this video comforts me and I find solace in it, not for attention or likes or anything. It’s life. I am alive, happy and I am Standing for those who have been abused

    • @niyahniyah7635
      @niyahniyah7635 2 года назад +3799

      Sorry u had to go through that 🥺

    • @doopdoop6330
      @doopdoop6330 2 года назад +3128

      Hope ur doing alright now

    • @arifahusic6546
      @arifahusic6546 2 года назад +1955

      Hope u ok😞

    • @tfwnoyandere
      @tfwnoyandere 2 года назад +1565

      good vibes for you

    • @xxdiddlesxx
      @xxdiddlesxx 2 года назад +1562

      Sorry you went through that and glad to know someone made you feel safe, hope you are doing alright sending you much love and good vibes your way🤍

  • @hoshisgf100real
    @hoshisgf100real 2 года назад +26266

    I cant be the only one that in primary school i would pretend not noticing that someone from behind was playing with my hair so they wouldn’t stop 😭

    • @rpasloski
      @rpasloski 2 года назад +1621

      Same
      And if thet know you know then there like oh sorry I`ll stop

    • @courtneycowhat
      @courtneycowhat 2 года назад +2326

      Bro for real, I swear to God if I moved a muscle they would actually stop! 😩

    • @airlie_lol1102
      @airlie_lol1102 2 года назад +235

      Yessss

    • @joycemelo6020
      @joycemelo6020 2 года назад +185

      Faço isso ate hoje

    • @swhsxo
      @swhsxo 2 года назад +126

      same😭

  • @crucellio718
    @crucellio718 Год назад +6761

    I can hear the teacher now. “This isn’t a hair salon, ladies.” 😂😂

    • @Itz_Lanarae
      @Itz_Lanarae Год назад +57

      My teachers don't rlly care that much at my school

    • @sae8250
      @sae8250 Год назад +197

      No because it's a universal experience, literally got told the same and i live in a french speaking area 💀 teachers all share the same braincells

    • @Itz_Lanarae
      @Itz_Lanarae Год назад +14

      @crexem yeah, they just ask if they said you can play with their hair lol

    • @Izzy-oh8yi
      @Izzy-oh8yi Год назад +12

      INR it is so annoying when teachers say that

    • @rain028
      @rain028 Год назад +24

      Hell, they probably need a hair salon if they're saying that.

  • @URLemily
    @URLemily 2 года назад +1951

    There’s a special place in heaven for the “can I play with ur hair?” Girls🥺💓

    • @_rotro
      @_rotro Год назад +30

      God I love them!

    • @TheGuitarTaylorCriedOn
      @TheGuitarTaylorCriedOn Год назад +28

      i appreciate u girlie, this girl looked really tense so i scratched her back and played with her hair
      edit: in primary school, me and my friends would sit and make a chain. i always was in the back tho so i wouldn’t rlly feel the love but it’s okay! playing with someone’s hair also helps me lol

    • @Radiant_Glow8
      @Radiant_Glow8 9 месяцев назад +9

      or the girls that just play with your hair and you don’t say anything or move bc you don’t want them to stop🙃

    • @_Daisy.xx.
      @_Daisy.xx. 4 месяца назад +1

      I'm one of them tysm ❤❤

    • @Grace-bb9ek
      @Grace-bb9ek 4 месяца назад +4

      Oml…I love it when someone plays with my hair like it just feels amazing 💅

  • @MrsLucyDiamonds
    @MrsLucyDiamonds 2 года назад +21249

    This brought me back so ACCURATE! I remember the teachers screaming "THIS IS NOT A BEAUTY SALON" and ruining the most satisfying sapphic experience of being at school.

    • @eve1ynn.
      @eve1ynn. 2 года назад +274

      yeah that was my 4th grade teacher 🥲

    • @nicschnak
      @nicschnak 2 года назад +723

      that line exactly i hated when they said that like GIRL IT FEELS NICE leave me allooooneeeee😂😂

    • @giadaaa6246
      @giadaaa6246 2 года назад +617

      That was my gay awakening 😍

    • @robinbucklyishot329
      @robinbucklyishot329 2 года назад +66

      yeah my teachers even in most of middle school was like that im in middle school now btw

    • @starizmatics
      @starizmatics 2 года назад +11

      lol

  • @Kirsten7
    @Kirsten7 2 года назад +8417

    I’m a teacher and see my pupils (aged 14-17) play with, brush or braid each other’s hair quite often. Or I see them scratch each other’s back. I never tell them off for it, because I think it’s such a sweet gesture!

    • @LifeAsItIs478752
      @LifeAsItIs478752 2 года назад +694

      Yes I’m a first year teacher now but I still don’t quite understand why my elementary school teachers used to get so upset it. Was lice just more of a concern or something?

    • @your_too_cool9825
      @your_too_cool9825 2 года назад +378

      @@LifeAsItIs478752 it’s teachers like you two that make the world better

    • @piqachu
      @piqachu 2 года назад +53

      @@your_too_cool9825 yeah🤩

    • @AuntieMamies
      @AuntieMamies 2 года назад +130

      We all should have had you for a teacher

    • @Kirsten7
      @Kirsten7 2 года назад +55

      @Cait Arnold You’d probably have to travel a little bit to attend English class, since I’m in The Netherlands lol

  • @____Kat____
    @____Kat____ Год назад +3077

    In high school I would receive compliments on my long hair often, usually from girls. This was more often than not followed by a request to play with it. Especially in choir. What amazed me about this was the wide variety of girls that would sit around me and chat while one of them brushed and braided my hair. I wasn’t friends with them, but it made me feel included as they chatted on about personal topics that normally I wouldn’t be hearing about. And almost all of them would have to take a turn feeling my hair after one of them exclaiming how soft it was. I really appreciate that these girls felt comfortable enough around me to be so open and also treat me somewhat special.
    Also this comment section totally passed the vibe check ✅

    • @akrosky5720
      @akrosky5720 Год назад +71

      I love playing with others long hair too. Its sooo nice and calming

    • @strefury6873
      @strefury6873 Год назад +94

      You were the chosen one

    • @josephvanallen6864
      @josephvanallen6864 Год назад +40

      @@strefury6873 *THEY WERE THE CHOSEN ONE!*

    • @strefury6873
      @strefury6873 Год назад +9

      @@josephvanallen6864 yupp

    • @coledibiase5971
      @coledibiase5971 Год назад +73

      This is how dogs must feel.

  • @ari1758
    @ari1758 2 года назад +1655

    This is probably the best comment section I have ever seen in RUclips, no negativity, no hate, just people enjoying the asmr and sharing their nice stories 💖

  • @nyssarc146
    @nyssarc146 2 года назад +14727

    Man, shoutout to everyone who did the hair playing and back drawing to others, yall are the real ones

    • @akrosky5720
      @akrosky5720 2 года назад +436

      I played a lot with long hair of my female friends in class in middle school haha i loved doing it and i really miss it, felt so nice. I never asked but they never said anything so i guess they liked it too (im a guy)

    • @youwishforbile
      @youwishforbile 2 года назад +253

      I did everyones hair, to the point where boys would even ask me to help. my mom took me to pageants, I always loved staring at people getting their hair done.

    • @Lost_andfound_
      @Lost_andfound_ 2 года назад +115

      My friend used to play with my hair, it helped me focus and I used to get my hair pulled so she made my hair soft

    • @ashleytrider9773
      @ashleytrider9773 2 года назад +69

      I was that kid 😎😎

    • @JessicaSmith-si4iv
      @JessicaSmith-si4iv 2 года назад +105

      There was this one guy I always sat in front of in my science class because I knew he would play with my hair.

  • @numbles
    @numbles 2 года назад +11979

    I used to be the girl that would trace peoples backs on the carpet and play with their hair- watching them relax was so nice :) and I always wore a cute sweater that had fluffy dots on it and some other kids would trace on me! I was the weird kid but some people knew I would get stressed easily and would trace the lil dots for me. Honestly shout out to those kids yall saved me in middle school

    • @milesmcgaha8484
      @milesmcgaha8484 2 года назад +753

      @Tanya Farr don’t be rude? How hard is it to just scroll.

    • @Miskitty
      @Miskitty 2 года назад +616

      Shout out to you too, the girls that played with our hair were the best, you were our first Asmr

    • @wanderingbelleasmr1054
      @wanderingbelleasmr1054 2 года назад +390

      @Tanya Farr come on, just why? There’s simply no need for that kind of negativity in such a positive community on such a sweet post.

    • @jessicaroxsable
      @jessicaroxsable 2 года назад +223

      you sound so cute and sweet :’) everyone loved this type of person in school! you’re the best type of classmate

    • @cyb3rsvng
      @cyb3rsvng 2 года назад +218

      @Tanya Farr wow a grown woman picking on someone, get a life

  • @kenzieharrington
    @kenzieharrington 2 года назад +460

    I remember one time in first grade when all of the class sat down on a rug and listened to the teacher read. My teacher would read in a light and really soft voice, which was so relaxing. Then, my friend would always play with my hair and trace my back/neck. That combine with the teachers voice was soooo nice, and this video reminds me of that ❤️

  • @XanDoesShtuff
    @XanDoesShtuff 2 года назад +453

    As a kid in kindergarten I loved the amount of lice outbreaks we'd have at our school since I loved the feeling of popsicle sticks and gloved hands being gently touched and rubbed through my fine hair... always gave me the tingles, thanks for helping me find that feeling again.

    • @mahatawfeek2532
      @mahatawfeek2532 Год назад +99

      I thought you were gonna say "thank you for helping me find the lice"😭😭😭💀

    • @XanDoesShtuff
      @XanDoesShtuff Год назад +27

      @@mahatawfeek2532 yeah, I never got lice at school. My class was overly hygienic

    • @gachaloss
      @gachaloss Год назад +8

      I was always the kid with the most lice. I havent had it for 10 years though gladly! (I'm 13-18.)

    • @MiAmor--
      @MiAmor-- Год назад +7

      *THANK GOD!* I thought I was the only one!

    • @XanDoesShtuff
      @XanDoesShtuff Год назад +9

      @@MiAmor-- FEAR NOT! There are weirdos like us everywhere XD

  • @choco9788
    @choco9788 2 года назад +5757

    As a child I had been sexually assaulted and I was extremely scared of people touching me but there was this one boy in class that would always play with my hair and I remember teaching him how to do braids and hair do’s and all sorts of stuff. Tbh I liked him so much sometimes I’d purposely not do my hair so he could braid it or put it in a pony tail :)

    • @ameliamumford545
      @ameliamumford545 2 года назад +307

      Aww, this is so cute. 😍

    • @CS55CL16
      @CS55CL16 2 года назад +268

      Pleas tell me y’all dated!!

    • @joutakujo2830
      @joutakujo2830 2 года назад +110

      THATS CUTE

    • @choco9788
      @choco9788 2 года назад +176

      @@CS55CL16 I wish!!!

    • @Pixels1nn
      @Pixels1nn 2 года назад +96

      I hope you are doing okay now!

  • @minttea9140
    @minttea9140 2 года назад +12788

    Honestly, I think girls in class playing with our hair or scratching our back is the first ASMR experience to many of us and it's so sweet that this is such a shared experience among many different people🥺

    • @Leonicles
      @Leonicles 2 года назад +154

      Omg, you're RIGHT! That WAS the 1st time I felt the relaxing feeling I get with a good ASMR video

    • @Glitchyybean
      @Glitchyybean 2 года назад +70

      I think if you enjoy that kinda thing and find it satisfying unlike some people who would find it annoying or weird, you're more likely the type of person to like ASMR... That's just what I've concluded 😂
      Because literally everyone here (including me) has been talking about those kinds of things being satisfying and comforting vs most people who don't seem to like ASMR didn't like that lol

    • @meganfoxsclit
      @meganfoxsclit 2 года назад +78

      omg yes i remember this one time in preschool this girl was playing with my hair and i was getting tingles in my head that would shoot down to my back. the teacher told her to stop 30 seconds later 😑 idk why teachers have an issue with that

    • @Wredniara
      @Wredniara 2 года назад +36

      @@meganfoxsclit I'm a teacher, I'm here watching ;) my first experience with asmr was watching one girl playing with hair of another girl (not even mine) and I loved it :)

    • @charlotte8577
      @charlotte8577 2 года назад +3

      @@Wredniara ok

  • @qplaydate
    @qplaydate 2 года назад +918

    !! TIME STAMPS FOR YOU!! !!
    Introduction, small talk. 0:00 - 1:12
    playing with your hair, talking to you. 1:13 - 4:43
    whispering, telling you a secret. 4:44 - 4:58
    continue playing with your hair, talking to each other. 4:59 - 6:51
    Tapping on wooden brush, brushing your hair, talking. 6:52 - 9:26
    Playing with your hair again, chit chatting. 9:27 - 10:28
    Touching your face, writing on your face, touching your hair. 10:29 - 14:36
    Back to playing with your hair. 14:37 - 19:49
    Getting something out of your hair / eye. 19:50 - 21:34
    Playing with your hair, tapping. 21:35 - 24:02
    Tapping on the glasses, talking. 24:03 - 24:44
    Playing with your hair, outro. 24:45 - 27:42

  • @casperrythm3024
    @casperrythm3024 Год назад +133

    "I don't know if I should tell you, but I'm going to tell you okay?"
    No, but in all seriousness, this type of person in the back of the class in public school- God, they were amazing. The back scratching and hair playing and drawing on me, I loved it all so much for no reason. Well, it made me feel safe. It's so nice to feel that again. Thank you. Truly

  • @DreamyWorld19
    @DreamyWorld19 2 года назад +5765

    I was always the "weird girl" that was shy and ignored, but girls always complimented my hair and would ask to play with it. I loved it so much, it made me feel liked and included. Even if it was just for a few minutes and that they would go on with their day and not talk to me again, it still felt special to me because it was one of the few interactions I had with other girls my age since I didn't really have any friends. I always got shivers and tingles when they would play with my hair or write on my skin. It felt different than if it was my mom doing it. The fact that it was girls that I admired and thought they were so cool made me feel special and happy.

    • @JJ-dg6yt
      @JJ-dg6yt 2 года назад +67

      I am exactly the same!

    • @Glitchyybean
      @Glitchyybean 2 года назад +78

      Same in almost every aspect, especially being the "weird girl" because I was a nerdy not really girly type, like video games and anime, and was a good artist 😭😂
      Though I never let most people even NEAR me unless we were close friends... The only people who have actually touched my hair was this one girl Cadence who was more of an aquaintence to me and one of my closer friends named Starr 😂 This usually happened when my hair was down and they caught me off guard tho lol and for some reason they lived touching my hair and always thought it beautiful and soft so I guess that's a thing 😂

    • @mamba6075
      @mamba6075 2 года назад +36

      Awh, that's so sad but also sweet

    • @itsameah2595
      @itsameah2595 2 года назад +20

      I was the same way. Loved when other girls would play with my hair, braid it, comb it.

    • @ASMR_Snek
      @ASMR_Snek 2 года назад +16

      I was exactly the same before I was like oop I’m a man now

  • @MrMergoon
    @MrMergoon 2 года назад +5850

    I’m enjoying reading everyone’s stories 🙂. Such a small comfort making a huge impact. Growing up, I had to be the “tough guy.” My Dad, cousins and uncles were all hard assess. The only thing they understood was anger, and the response was either rage, violence, retaliation and unhealthy things. I was never that person, and for 18 years I tried to force myself to be that person. Then, my Senior year of high school, I became very close with this girl. I remember once, when I was seething with anger and about to do something incredibly stupid, she put her hand on my head and said “just close your eyes and take a deep breath.” I did, as she started playing with my hair and scalp, and I went from 100-0 instantly. Damn near passed out from the drop in blood pressure 😂. Idk where you are today, Kayla. But thank you for showing me another option 💜

  • @Chillibizzle
    @Chillibizzle Год назад +79

    I had my first tingle in kindergarten. My friend and I were seated on top of the monkey bar. I laid my head on her lap and she started playing with my hair. I felt a sensation that went through body starting from the top of my head right down to my toes. The bell rang because recess was over yet I couldn’t get myself to move out of that position it felt so nostalgic like it has happened before. My whole life I was searching for that feeling again. Years later I got the exact same feeling but this time from an asmr video.

  • @samuelchau9745
    @samuelchau9745 6 месяцев назад +16

    Once day in like 7th grade I was preparing for school, got in the shower, and realised my shampoo had ran out. So instead, I used my mom's. That day at school, the girl behind me, who I found cute but actually hadn't talked to before, first stared at my hair, then started playing with it gently.
    "Your hair looks a lot softer and prettier than normal, I like it😊" she said.
    9 years later I still use my mom's brand of shampoo

  • @Godssillyestgoose
    @Godssillyestgoose 2 года назад +5452

    This brought back memories of the girl in my math class, that I didn't really know, who played with my hair. She did it every class and we became very good friends. She knew all sorts of gossip so we would just talk sh*t. I'd always leave class with a super pretty braid🥰

    • @txx.peyton
      @txx.peyton 2 года назад +128

      Omg I’m jealous

    • @chantelbarrios2502
      @chantelbarrios2502 2 года назад +107

      @@agustloof5884 what the fuck

    • @Ell1e_th3_mushr00m
      @Ell1e_th3_mushr00m 2 года назад +10

      Ooo, that's sounds cool. I wouldn't like people playing with my hair. Sometimes I'm okay with it.

    • @Godssillyestgoose
      @Godssillyestgoose 2 года назад +68

      @@agustloof5884 I'm married and expecting a child....so no, no thanks.

    • @yosymndz7491
      @yosymndz7491 2 года назад +67

      In geometry me and the girl next to me would take turns, one fell asleep getting her hair played while the other learned the material, and then we'd switch , at the end we would do the work together to teach what the other had slept through

  • @Dani-ly8vh
    @Dani-ly8vh 2 года назад +3957

    I was bullied and had my hair pulled so I get nervous when people have their hands on my hair.
    However, this girl in my class was playing with my hair and was complimenting it. She didn’t yank it as a joke or belittle me. She braided it and made it look so pretty. Too bad I didn’t catch her name. I hope she’s doing well now. It’s been almost 9 years and I appreciate her kindness towards my hair.

    • @kenziie4399
      @kenziie4399 2 года назад +53

      Aww :((

    • @beeshoney.
      @beeshoney. 2 года назад +221

      funny how people remember the most simple things, a small gesture can stick with you your whole life

    • @Dani-ly8vh
      @Dani-ly8vh 2 года назад +40

      @@beeshoney. I know. I hope she's doing well.

    • @edenmarkley
      @edenmarkley 2 года назад +46

      i had the same experience there was like one girl that would come up and braid my hair while all the other ones would like run away. i really should have become best friends w her.

    • @Lost_andfound_
      @Lost_andfound_ 2 года назад +29

      Same! A girl in my class always played with my hair to make it soft so it was harder to pull, I also had adhd so I felt safe and knew I could focus

  • @kmag738
    @kmag738 Год назад +49

    This has been one of the most relaxing times I’ve felt in a while and I’ve needed it. This comment section has been so calming to read so here’s my story. I have always felt like im 2nd. I don’t have a best friend but I have lots of friends and I’m pretty much always the back up friend. I love to scratch people backs and play with their hair but nobody would do it for me. I used to cry about this cause I thought something was wrong with me cause nobody would braid my hair. I’ve been watching these videos recently and it has brought me back to those times but made me so relaxed. Thank you to everyone and have a good day. 🫶

    • @Ace_of_Storm
      @Ace_of_Storm 9 месяцев назад +3

      ur the best person in the world for playing w people's hair. Thank you ᥫ᭡

  • @asu-ha
    @asu-ha 2 года назад +78

    I had this one friend who knew rubbing my back softly was my literal off-button and she'd do it to me every day without complaining or getting tired for hours- she'd also play with my hair sometimes and it was pure therapy. people like that are amazing

  • @hay.joy.2001
    @hay.joy.2001 2 года назад +3891

    I had a boy in my class one year in elementary school who I think had autism and I remember no one really talked to him or hung around him, because he seemed different, especially to kids who didn’t understand. He was one of the sweetest people I’ve ever met to this day, and I remember he LOVED anything related to dinosaurs, and whenever the class had free reading time or inside recess, I’d let him show me all his dinosaur books he had and he’d tell me every fact he knew about them and it gave me the most asmr anyone’s ever given me. I’m not sure why exactly, but it did. Long story, but I suddenly remembered him today and thought I’d share ❤️ his name was Cody and I think of him a lot, especially when it comes to asmr. Hope he’s doing ok now, wherever he is.

    • @andrea.voith110
      @andrea.voith110 2 года назад +84

      That’s so sweet!

    • @ariellagamliel258
      @ariellagamliel258 2 года назад +72

      i think i know cody. do you live in south florida?

    • @MadsElise
      @MadsElise 2 года назад +16

      Omg that is the sweetest thing I’ve read all day ❤️

    • @BintaSow1709
      @BintaSow1709 2 года назад +27

      @@ariellagamliel258 omg I hope she sees this

    • @kaden9196
      @kaden9196 2 года назад +52

      i always get tingles hearing anyone talk about something they’re really passionate about like the excitement and happiness radiating off of them is so ✨ so it might be something similar!

  • @kiiweeii
    @kiiweeii 2 года назад +11132

    she’s like the girl in high school that i wouldn’t be able to tell if i wanted to be her or be with her

  • @waterfountainmountain747
    @waterfountainmountain747 Год назад +268

    Daily reminder:
    You are loved
    I love you
    Things WILL get better
    Keep your head up
    Manifesting does work
    You are beautiful
    You are trying your best!
    Checklist:
    Have you changed into your pajamas? 🦋
    Have you brushed your teeth? 🌙
    Have you taken your makeup off? (If you wear it?) ✨
    Have you eaten today? 🌸
    Have you told someone you loved them? 🫶🏻
    Have you prayed? ❤️
    Are you comfy? 💐
    Are you relaxed? 🌻
    Just so you know I love you!! 💕
    Blank space if you need it

    • @emilyminassian9
      @emilyminassian9 Год назад +15

      thank you so much for the nice comment!! also thank you for putting blank space, as someone who gets stressed out by numbers and times (i suffer from ocd) it’s nice to keep it in the blank space and not have to focus on anything except the video. (even though all the comments under this video are very nice :))

    • @owlpaw802
      @owlpaw802 Год назад +6

      Your amazing

    • @puritylouloudi8807
      @puritylouloudi8807 Год назад +3

      Ily too!❤
      Thanks so much for caring about us! ❤

    • @Marauders-CHB-Fanatic-uz2go
      @Marauders-CHB-Fanatic-uz2go 3 месяца назад

      Ily so much!! I needed that today and I wish everyone the best in their lives! 🫶🏼

    • @RoomieFTF
      @RoomieFTF 3 месяца назад

      Ty

  • @lucyfurr777
    @lucyfurr777 2 года назад +4395

    I was at a bar one night and this girl started playing with/braiding my hair. She said it was pretty. I felt kind of awkward so I started to chit chat, but she said "shhhh just enjoy it!" Yes ma'am! 🥰🥰🥰🥰 it was so nice and unexpected.

    • @MyNameHere101
      @MyNameHere101 2 года назад +208

      My coworker and I used to do this to each other. A few times every shift we would just walk up and gently pull and scratch each other's hair for a minute or two. It was great working with her.

    • @takingnirvana
      @takingnirvana 2 года назад +56

      This is so sweet ♡

    • @Head_ache4
      @Head_ache4 Год назад +37

      Aww ❤︎ thats so wholesome

    • @defneucr
      @defneucr Год назад +24

      That's cute

    • @dulcx_24
      @dulcx_24 Год назад +7

      Aqw

  • @ellahens
    @ellahens 2 года назад +4543

    Not all of us missing “carpet time” when everyone would trace your back and play with your hair🤌

    • @xiaoc0re12
      @xiaoc0re12 2 года назад +36

      I Dont miss those moments, the girls and boys would always yank my hair and blame it on someone else , to the point it changed into a literal disaster🥲

    • @hammywoods
      @hammywoods 2 года назад +88

      @@xiaoc0re12 aw shit you got the short end of the stick, girls would ask to braid my hair and I felt so special

    • @cyunt8167
      @cyunt8167 2 года назад +4

      same ugh

    • @AurumElm
      @AurumElm 2 года назад +20

      It really depended on if it was my cousin or not behind me. I had trust issues as I turned around 4-5 cause I lost my dog and it was a lot for me(knew him from when I born) so if it wasn't my cousin. Like any little kid, I'd start crying and throw a fit. We're still pretty close now, we're both 13, turning 14 this year. We have a cousin who's 10, turning 11 this year who pretends to be an opera singer when her hair gets brushed by our cousin. And they're two of the only people I let play with my hair, even to today.
      (Along with three of my aunts and two of my friends)

    • @essalyn6065
      @essalyn6065 2 года назад +6

      @@xiaoc0re12 same people used to try and cut my hair😭

  • @lee_loss
    @lee_loss 2 года назад +47

    When I was younger I had a very long hair (to my knees or near there) and lots of the girls in my class liked to play with it! I loved the feeling and just let them! Even one of my favorite teachers styled my hair one time so amazing! It was awesome!

  • @ALampost
    @ALampost 4 месяца назад +11

    This is 2 years later and I still love this and the comment section in the best😂

  • @DizzyOverwatch
    @DizzyOverwatch 2 года назад +3608

    My sophomore year I sat in front of a guy with adhd and whenever it started acting up he would draw shapes on my back with his fingers and he’d play with and braid my hair. It was a win/win for both of us Bc it’d help him stay calm and it’d relax me

    • @RamonaGelosi
      @RamonaGelosi 2 года назад +71

      Omg i love it

    • @alishadigitaldiaries
      @alishadigitaldiaries 2 года назад +40

      that's so cool

    • @tessace4884
      @tessace4884 2 года назад +91

      I want this tbh, like I have ways to cope/relax in class but damn do I want to be able to draw or braid someone's hair, I just don't know anyone so it's damn awkward

    • @kat_wolfywolf779
      @kat_wolfywolf779 2 года назад +13

      @@tessace4884 just do it 🥰

    • @weirdwillowtree4087
      @weirdwillowtree4087 2 года назад +54

      Symbiotic relationships are so cool! Especially when its two humans and not two animal species :>

  • @Enough_Tumbleweed
    @Enough_Tumbleweed 2 года назад +2079

    I can remember sitting in the library a bunch of times and two girls that would always sit behind me would always play with my hair and draw on my back. Probably some of the most intense tingles I've ever felt in my life. Im still in contact to this day with one of them and thats been almost 23 years ago.

  • @Pinkcardss
    @Pinkcardss 2 года назад +46

    Thank you for making these videos. I’m having a lot of panic attacks getting stressed over responsibilities at both work and home, and this helps me shut my brain off for a second at the end of the day. Thank you for bringing me a moment of peace ♥️🌸

  • @dannya1854
    @dannya1854 10 месяцев назад +24

    I remember this one neurodivergent kid that most people thought was annoying and weird but girls noticed he liked playing with their hair and they became chill with him because of it. Such a natural human interaction.

  • @esraywood
    @esraywood 2 года назад +3226

    You’d be having a relaxing time with your friend playing with your hair then the teacher would stop them and say something like “this isn’t a hair salon!” 😂

    • @lazylemonislazy5956
      @lazylemonislazy5956 2 года назад +69

      I had a teacher that would say that but I also had a teacher that would help the girls with their hair if they came to class early enough

    • @alissabennett360
      @alissabennett360 2 года назад +4

      @@lazylemonislazy5956 me too😄

    • @LivingWithLanss
      @LivingWithLanss 2 года назад +27

      Right like? Stfu😭 y did they all say the same thing

    • @esraywood
      @esraywood 2 года назад +12

      @@lazylemonislazy5956 that’s so sweet that they’d help with girls hair :)

    • @esraywood
      @esraywood 2 года назад +8

      @@LivingWithLanss exactly they’d act like it was so distracting like carry on teaching jeez 😂

  • @rose.b.99
    @rose.b.99 2 года назад +1866

    I was the girl who was asked to play with people's hair and trace patterns on their backs. Sometimes they would even fall asleep. I was never on the receiving end of it but I'm glad people liked it as much as they did.

    • @Meg-cc6yc
      @Meg-cc6yc 2 года назад +52

      I was the girl was braided hair and I remember many time the girls I admired would come up to me randomly and start playing with my hair. It was so nice and I love those memories

    • @Hannah-vv7ru
      @Hannah-vv7ru 2 года назад +37

      I want to say thank you on behalf of all those people. You seem like a very kind person. The world needs more of you. ❤

    • @Meg-cc6yc
      @Meg-cc6yc 2 года назад +1

      @@veesha4ever I would have braided ur hair don’t worry :)

    • @Meg-cc6yc
      @Meg-cc6yc 2 года назад +1

      @@veesha4ever you’re welcome, it’s so calming to have your hair played with. I just remember feeling so tired after recess and my friends would always braid my hair. I would return the favor because it made me happy to know they could just relax 💗

    • @reydragonclaw1128
      @reydragonclaw1128 2 года назад +7

      Bless yall's souls for giving people these wonderful, safe and comforting experiences with genuine human interaction, we appreciate you

  • @SarahLynn1330
    @SarahLynn1330 Год назад +144

    I could literally watch hours of you just writing on the iPad, gossiping about fake high schoolers, and playing with my hair besties

  • @SarahLynn1330
    @SarahLynn1330 2 года назад +25

    This is my comfort video- can’t stop coming back. The hairplay is and gossip sooo tingly

  • @haylax8767
    @haylax8767 2 года назад +3281

    High school would have been a lot easier if I had a friend like this.

    • @lennygriffin2761
      @lennygriffin2761 2 года назад +2

      Are you still in high school? Cause I have a question

    • @haylax8767
      @haylax8767 2 года назад

      @@lennygriffin2761 I’m not I’m 22 lol

    • @lennygriffin2761
      @lennygriffin2761 2 года назад

      @@haylax8767 cool lol

    • @wushi_sushi5226
      @wushi_sushi5226 2 года назад +2

      Same

    • @prettyytrash
      @prettyytrash 2 года назад +8

      how would you even be able to though? when I used to do it, it was during carpet time in elementary but high school doesn’t have that.

  • @kingdeezvr
    @kingdeezvr Год назад +56

    I use to have long hair back in elementary school and there were these two girls who loved playing with my hair. They would split it in half and play with it while the teacher was reading in class, making a chain of girls doing each other's hair, all I remember was the sense of comfort and relaxation I felt when they did this. We always got in trouble for doing this tho...

  • @aspirantexpress3634
    @aspirantexpress3634 Год назад +43

    I wish I had a girl like you sitting behind me playing with my hair during my school days

  • @e.r.2020
    @e.r.2020 2 года назад +1856

    This reminds me of a high school friend I had who’d lightly scratch my back w her acrylics, she was funny and knew good gossip just like this video. Good memories :,)

  • @ravellicia
    @ravellicia 2 года назад +2866

    Not a story about someone playing with my hair but remembering it gives me that relaxed feeling:
    Before christmas break, we watched a movie in class and everyone was supposed to bring snacks that we shared. A guy sitting in the row in front of me turned around and started telling me about the filled chocolates he brought and he got so excited about their taste which was already really cute. Then he was like "Have you had one yet? You have to try them, they're so good" and just gave them to me as if we were close friends. Not only did he await my reaction ("they're really tasty, right?!", he also immediately offered me more. All of this while his back was turned to the screen and he was missing out on the movie. I just really enjoyed that he was radiating with happiness and really seemed to care about my opinion in that moment, just a nice personal attention moment :)
    If you've read all of this, have a nice day, you deserve the world ♡

    • @elainimiranda
      @elainimiranda 2 года назад +55

      That's so cute 🥰

    • @emilycmemy3666
      @emilycmemy3666 2 года назад +42

      That's so sweet 🥰

    • @dumbo-ty4kb
      @dumbo-ty4kb 2 года назад +61

      This is so cute. Ppl being excited about little things is adorable.

    • @tavusfatma2125
      @tavusfatma2125 2 года назад +22

      Aww i think he was in love with u XDD 💖

    • @ravellicia
      @ravellicia 2 года назад +30

      @@tavusfatma2125 Pretty sure he already had a girlfriend back then so he was just kind haha :D

  • @tylersj6559
    @tylersj6559 Год назад +33

    I wanted to add my story too!
    So my friends are mostly boys who have a lot of GFS but never keep one and stuff,so I do the cuddly stuff with them,hugging and combing their messy hair,and they do the same with me! It's a really chill experience for us the chaotic children in the classroom

    • @Ace_of_Storm
      @Ace_of_Storm 9 месяцев назад +2

      It was really wholesome, then I read "chaotic children" and Instantantly died of laughter 😂

  • @maxforde3740
    @maxforde3740 2 года назад +42

    i typically hate when people touch my hair but when they play with it with my consent i love it, it's very calming

  • @Appetizerslut
    @Appetizerslut 2 года назад +1814

    I was the girl that always got asked to scratch the boys scalp so they could sleep in class, or play with/ braid the girls hair ☺️ it gave me such comfort getting to help them relax. On the flip side, I had curly hair so none of my classmates would do it back, but my mom always had acrylics and would scratch my scalp for me 🥰

    • @Va.lak.
      @Va.lak. 2 года назад +43

      Oo I know that must've felt good 😭

    • @sukainakhan93
      @sukainakhan93 2 года назад +28

      I also have curly hair but only some students would do it to me and I am a shy kid but still I would do it to you

    • @JxdnOF
      @JxdnOF 2 года назад +19

      I was the boys... like I swear I had this girl that would play with my hair daily to put me to sleep 😂

    • @erin130
      @erin130 2 года назад +16

      Us curly girls always got neglected lol. It was to the point where when someone would want to I'd say no because bit would just make my hair look frizzy lol

    • @potentialnobody6652
      @potentialnobody6652 2 года назад +1

      @@erin130 curly hair is unfortunately not that easy to comb through with fingers when it's dry *sigh*
      and lord help you if your hair did get combed through and your mom gets angry at you for letting girls mess up your hair that she worked hard to keep it intact. sorry mom :')

  • @ProjectFlashlight612
    @ProjectFlashlight612 2 года назад +3550

    Playing with my girlfriend's hair was the ultimate means of calming myself down and showing her that she was everything to me.

    • @ack2463
      @ack2463 2 года назад +213

      Playing with hair is the sweetest thing to do in a relationship I swear-

    • @asmodeus7118
      @asmodeus7118 2 года назад +47

      This is so sweet you made me smile just knowing how happy you guys are

    • @amyvalentine2305
      @amyvalentine2305 2 года назад +5

      omg 🥺🥺

    • @asmr-ft6pw
      @asmr-ft6pw 2 года назад +10

      dont write such thing like girlfriends and relationships...because it hurt me...I don't have any girl friend....

    • @amyvalentine2305
      @amyvalentine2305 2 года назад +20

      @@asmr-ft6pw oof

  • @Moosewearclothing
    @Moosewearclothing Год назад +17

    I’m glad to know that I wasn’t the only one who wouldn’t tell them to stop because it felt so damn good

  • @ChloeKayyy
    @ChloeKayyy Год назад +27

    I had a girl in my choir class who came to class with gel and a brush and did everyone's edges. She was the sweetest.

  • @birddroppings
    @birddroppings 2 года назад +1834

    I have thick, long, and soft hair so the girls and the gays at my highschool loved playing with my hair. In my theatre class I had a guy sit behind me and everytime we read plays, he would either play with my hair or draw on my back with the eraser on his pencil or we would play a game called “guess what im drawing” on my arm. It was both funny and relaxing. We would also get detention for not following along the script and the funniest part is we did the same thing in detention. We usually rehearsed our lines while he played with me hair during that time. As two gays not wanting to be in our toxic household, we lived for detention together. I miss him 😪

    • @Goldun-nah
      @Goldun-nah 2 года назад +90

      The gaysss!!! Yasss thats me 🙋🏻‍♂️! Lol Give me that hair! Tomorrow we switching desks and you drawing on my back lol I always say Dog is mans best friend. Gays are woman’s best friend lol I miss the girl that was in my biology class. Krystal Rainwater. Best back tickler in the tristate area lol

    • @alicatSJ
      @alicatSJ 2 года назад +25

      I loved the "guys what I'm drawing" game! It was so relaxing, but it was fun trying to figure out what they were drawing.

    • @graceingersoll1124
      @graceingersoll1124 2 года назад +11

      Aww you’re so pretty

    • @birddroppings
      @birddroppings 2 года назад +7

      @@graceingersoll1124 aww thank you 🥺🥺 so are you 💕

    • @birddroppings
      @birddroppings 2 года назад +16

      @@Goldun-nah LOLLL i love how we gays always gravitate towards eachother. I love it!!

  • @krishnakukadia1500
    @krishnakukadia1500 2 года назад +1566

    And then this moment gets ruined by that one teacher who is like “ItS nOt A BeAuTy SaLoN GiRls”

    • @Rangerapocalypse
      @Rangerapocalypse 2 года назад +5

      But it’s not tho

    • @rei9376
      @rei9376 2 года назад +63

      @@Rangerapocalypse like no shit we know that

    • @2CRAZZY
      @2CRAZZY 2 года назад +1

      Exactly

    • @Cutiepie0111
      @Cutiepie0111 2 года назад +17

      Why did everyones teacher say this wut the hell

    • @TheUnderNerd
      @TheUnderNerd 2 года назад +1

      @@Rangerapocalypse some enjoy the sensation, though lmao

  • @mintthefurry3804
    @mintthefurry3804 Год назад +19

    this is calming to me. The hair noises and whispering tingles my brain. I’ve heard people whisper to me instead of yell but its rare. And me and my ex friend aren’t friends anymore so I’ve been randomly crying. Its hard shutting off my emotions. So thank you for making this

  • @N0.1_Aaliyah
    @N0.1_Aaliyah Год назад +16

    As a person with really curly hair that would look frizzy and bad if it was played with or brushed, these videos are the only things keeping me relaxed

  • @lllTankemlll
    @lllTankemlll Год назад +37

    I’m a guy so I very rarely get my hair played with and I never knew how relaxing it would be but in my freshman year in high school I put my head on this girls thighs and she started running her hands through my hair I’m honestly grateful that the bell for lunch rang when it did I swear that if it didn’t I would have ascended to heaven to never be seen again this isn’t as good as the real thing but it reminded me of that moment. W girl btw she was/is really nice✌️

  • @tangerinedavis253
    @tangerinedavis253 2 года назад +936

    I dealt with a lot of abuse growing up, and I’m autistic, so I struggled to socialize and figure out when someone was actually being nice, or just making fun of me. But there was a boy in my second grade class who always would sit behind me wherever we were and would play with and brush out my hair. He never made it look weird or or did anything bad to me, and I’ll always be grateful for that little nugget of kindness.

    • @Love_and_Books
      @Love_and_Books 2 года назад +16

      Tangerine Davis That sounds super relaxing!😊

    • @Kiss_My_Aspergers
      @Kiss_My_Aspergers Год назад +21

      I'm really happy to hear that, friend. I hope life [is getting/will get] easier for you with the passage of time.

    • @B0NN3T_BVNNY
      @B0NN3T_BVNNY Год назад +18

      That sounds very relaxing I feel bad that you dealt with abuse I hope you have a good day/ night/afternoon

    • @InfiniteRealitys
      @InfiniteRealitys Год назад +15

      i think im that boy lol (not really) but i love to play with one of my friends that is a girl's hair and i like to braid her hair everyday and by now i dont even have to ask her she just lets me

    • @harrietsmells
      @harrietsmells Год назад +5

      Its been a year, but im autistic and struggling with bullying but i have a friend whos nice and i hope you’re doing well

  • @lizzie.the.little.kitty15
    @lizzie.the.little.kitty15 2 года назад +2902

    Did anyone else just love the tingly feeling when people would play with your hair or was that just me?

    • @stalkingpeopleisfun9870
      @stalkingpeopleisfun9870 2 года назад +59

      Nope, I rly enjoy people playing with my hair, and the best thing about it is that the teacher didn’t care :D
      Btw I’m a Bakugou simp too!

    • @Nugget_Playz47
      @Nugget_Playz47 Год назад +29

      I loved getting my hair played with but I'm in highschool now you'll get in trouble if you do that

    • @Quast602
      @Quast602 Год назад +40

      when I was in elementary school girls would play with my hair, I loved it. At that time if my mom was out of town and my dad drove me to school my hair would be trash, but ofc my girls would take care of me lol 😭👌

    • @Just._.cosmos._.
      @Just._.cosmos._. Год назад +20

      Yeah it's just one of the best feeling ever

    • @InfiniteRealitys
      @InfiniteRealitys Год назад +34

      idk why but everytime someone touches stuff around me and especially touches me accidentally (depends on the person who is touching me though) it gives me the best feeling of tingles ever

  • @foxface.
    @foxface. 10 месяцев назад +6

    I remember once in fourth grade there was an autistic kid who would always play with peoples hair. it bothered most but honestly it was so fun and relaxing when he would sit behind me, and I would just feel something scratching my hair. i would always pretend not to notice because of how relaxing it was. 10th grade now and still friends with the same boy, and we play with each others hair all the time

  • @mnelson2008
    @mnelson2008 3 месяца назад +5

    Spanish class, sophomore year of high school, 1984...her name was Lisa and she sat behind me and would run her pencil through my long hair...was soooo wonderful...I would always hope at the beginning of class she would start...pure heaven.

  • @M1LKY._.B3RRY
    @M1LKY._.B3RRY 2 года назад +1228

    In my school we loved “drawing on peoples backs” with our hands we would pretend to lightly draw a picture on someone’s back. It felt soooo good 😩

    • @jasmine-cn2lq
      @jasmine-cn2lq 2 года назад +56

      omg yes and sometimes we would try and guess what we were drawing on each other’s backs it was so peaceful

    • @chlloettee102
      @chlloettee102 2 года назад +3

      69 likes

    • @chlloettee102
      @chlloettee102 2 года назад +3

      Funny number

    • @user-fn6dy8if9w
      @user-fn6dy8if9w 2 года назад +3

      We did that all the time! It was my favorite game all the way through elementary school and in middle school gym class

    • @Someone.2001
      @Someone.2001 2 года назад +2

      We never did that in my school tbh, I’m in 16 and in college now

  • @Cocoonlaughs_videos
    @Cocoonlaughs_videos 2 года назад +10279

    In third grade, on a carpet, we listened to stories. Then these girls started playing with my hair, but only for a few seconds. Those few seconds they did was pure heaven tho 😇😩
    Edit: TYSM FOR THE LIKES!!!!! It’s the most I’ve ever gotten!

    • @Enough_Tumbleweed
      @Enough_Tumbleweed 2 года назад +221

      Same here and drawing on my back. I used to have two girls that would always sit behind me when we had story time or movie time. They always wrote on my back and played with my hair since I was the only guy with longer hair. Thats been 23 years ago lol

    • @Cocoonlaughs_videos
      @Cocoonlaughs_videos 2 года назад +20

      @@Enough_Tumbleweed ooh that sounds nice

    • @Cocoonlaughs_videos
      @Cocoonlaughs_videos 2 года назад +7

      @Liliana Friberg lol

    • @Enough_Tumbleweed
      @Enough_Tumbleweed 2 года назад +61

      @@Cocoonlaughs_videos definitely the most intense tingles ive ever had physically induced. Now its practically all visual on here unless im getting my hair trimmed.

    • @Cocoonlaughs_videos
      @Cocoonlaughs_videos 2 года назад +8

      @@Enough_Tumbleweed yea I can’t imagine those tingles 😫✨

  • @Fad3dJade
    @Fad3dJade 2 года назад +24

    I’m usually a very hard and tough person, but when someone plays with my hair or scratchs my back, that’s when I’m a whole different person.

  • @crescent4045
    @crescent4045 2 года назад +8

    This is nostalgia and reminder for me, because ever since elementary, the first thing that caught people's attention about me (besides my weird personality) was my hair. A lot of my friends played with my hair, most of the time when we had freetime in class or on the bus. I was bullied so I had trust issues and my anxiety spiked whenever people approached me asking me about my looks, as I was majorly insecure about it. But my friends made me feel at ease whenever they just braided my hair or something like that. So nice video, brings back happy memories.

  • @caitlinoleary8189
    @caitlinoleary8189 2 года назад +715

    When I’d get drunk, I had a friend who would play with my hair and then braid it. She passed away 2 days before you posted this. Thank you 💕

    • @samanthamonroe3826
      @samanthamonroe3826 2 года назад +55

      Sorry for your loss I’m hoping this video helped. Sending all my love your way❤️

    • @khloesandoval1713
      @khloesandoval1713 2 года назад +27

      I’m really really sorry to hear about your loss. I know that’s not easy. But you’ll keep her alive forever with the memory of her braiding your hair, that’ll forever stay.✨♥️

    • @denise8791
      @denise8791 2 года назад +11

      Sorry for you loss. Hold those memories close. Sending lots of love and support💖

    • @andy6877
      @andy6877 2 года назад +7

      Im so sorry for your loss, sending my condolences 💙

    • @negar9396
      @negar9396 2 года назад +5

      God bless her soul~

  • @amber2420
    @amber2420 2 года назад +1572

    So many lovely stories in the comments!
    When I was a teenager I worked in the hair salon and washed people's hair. When I told people that's what I do, they would say 'isn't that gross?' but it wasn't to me. It was really special giving people that moment out of their day where they can just close their eyes and enjoy warmth and touch in a safe environment. A lot of older ladies came in very frequently (once a week or more) to get their hair done and I felt so happy to give them a calming, caring experience. It felt like I was a therapist really helping people. I think almost every person likes getting a nice calming hair wash at the salon 😊❤

    • @TheBecca14bask
      @TheBecca14bask 2 года назад +22

      That's my favorite part! I love it!

    • @dingdongurwrong7720
      @dingdongurwrong7720 2 года назад +14

      You’re so sweet omg ❤️ you sound so lovely

    • @katherinewaddell373
      @katherinewaddell373 2 года назад +13

      I have sensory issues with water because of my eczema flair ups and in middle school my mom would take me to the salon a couple times a week to get my hair washed. It was always the most relaxing experience to zone out / felt like a safe space. Appreciate people like you doing that job!

    • @shinobinaku2693
      @shinobinaku2693 2 года назад +3

      I'm gonna cry you're so sweet😭😭❤

    • @doctrow37
      @doctrow37 2 года назад +3

      I wish I could get my hair washed like that more often 😩 especially when they got long nails 🤤

  • @user-ir1kb1bg7x
    @user-ir1kb1bg7x 6 месяцев назад +8

    Shout out to the girlies who played with hair in school! Y’all were the real ones

  • @makaylaspalding5480
    @makaylaspalding5480 Год назад +11

    just came back to this video
    It's the first one I ever watched by you and I watched it as soon as it came out bc it was on my recommended and now you're my favorite asmrtist
    So glad I found you 😭 no because actually I can't fall asleep without your videos

  • @Y3llowTrainz
    @Y3llowTrainz 2 года назад +1274

    I had a girl in my class who would go half way across the class in the middle of class to play with my hair, it was actually really calming and I loved it. Thanks for bringing that feeling back :)

    • @Bunny-bk4uv
      @Bunny-bk4uv 2 года назад +16

      awwe that’s so wholesome

    • @akrosky5720
      @akrosky5720 2 года назад +3

      I used to play a lot with long hair of my female friends in class in middle school haha. I never asked but they never said anything so i guess they liked it, i was afraid that they didnt or thought that was creepy cuz im a guy

  • @MonicaHernandez-xx8xy
    @MonicaHernandez-xx8xy 2 года назад +339

    My mom would always play with my hair and scratch my scalp, especially after a long stressful day. While doing this she would whisper a prayer and sing to me. And it would calm me down and make me sleepy, she passed away on Mother’s Day last year. Thank you!

    • @_anonnymous_
      @_anonnymous_ 2 года назад +18

      Sorry to hear about your loss ♥︎

    • @EveryoneluvsM3
      @EveryoneluvsM3 Год назад +15

      Awe so sorry for your loss, ur mother seemed like a such a great person 💋💋

    • @TheGuitarTaylorCriedOn
      @TheGuitarTaylorCriedOn Год назад +3

      rip your mother, she seemed like an amazing, beautiful soul🫶🫶

    • @pomodoro144
      @pomodoro144 Год назад +3

      hopefully she’s enjoying a peaceful afterlife ❤

  • @casey_9430
    @casey_9430 Месяц назад +1

    I keep coming back to these videos eda❤❤❤ they bring me such peace.

  • @calmandrelaxation
    @calmandrelaxation Год назад +6

    I keep coming back to this video. It's so relaxing.

  • @FunicidalASMR
    @FunicidalASMR 2 года назад +1546

    Everyone: *sharing their experiences*
    Me: *fails to remember the last time someone played with my hair and relaxed me apart from my hairdresser*

    • @sadeslifestyle_
      @sadeslifestyle_ 2 года назад +12

      no cause same haha

    • @SparkleLuna77
      @SparkleLuna77 2 года назад +12

      Yep although I hated school and was bullied horribly all the way through so it’s not surprising that I didn’t have this experience!

    • @jelly_dog3924
      @jelly_dog3924 2 года назад +4

      Same lol,only reason I pay money to get my hair done

    • @anglerfish5763
      @anglerfish5763 2 года назад +2

      Back in school, it was basically a rule that you couldn’t touch others unless you were family, so I never had my hair played with. The only person who did play with it was my father and he was…rough. I remember trying to keep in my tears because it hurt😞

    • @darcyt5289
      @darcyt5289 2 года назад +13

      *aggressively sits you all down* I AM GONNA PLAY WITH YOUR HAIR AND YOU ARE GONNA LIKE IT!!!

  • @silentdollie
    @silentdollie 2 года назад +1043

    the girls that played with the hair and did the back scratching are the real ones 😭 it always made me feel so nice and safe

    • @akrosky5720
      @akrosky5720 2 года назад +28

      Im a boy but i used to play a lot with long hair of my female friends in middle school haha i just loved doing that its nice to know that girls enjoy it too

    • @juliaa6919
      @juliaa6919 2 года назад +16

      omg i bring a brush now just for this one girl in my history class 😖

    • @akrosky5720
      @akrosky5720 2 года назад +4

      @@juliaa6919 haha i never went this far to bring a hairbrush just for her

    • @_rotro
      @_rotro Год назад +2

      Yeah I actually I was okay with it, cause it felt real good!

    • @Kxxai_
      @Kxxai_ Год назад +2

      FRR AND THIS GIRL IN MY CLASS WOULD ALSO SCRATCH MY HAIR TOO

  • @pomegranteappleson1628
    @pomegranteappleson1628 Год назад +15

    Love when the girls behind me asked to play with my hair. Got so relaxed almost fell asleep 😴

  • @jordan-vl9lj
    @jordan-vl9lj Год назад +4

    i love how everyone has stories with people playing with their hair and making them happy and it’s really sweet knowing i was one of those people playing with people’s hair and making them happy

  • @rainbowdog488
    @rainbowdog488 2 года назад +750

    Every time my friend gets new acrylics, she shows them to me, and then says “check this out” and scratches my scalp and styles/plays with my hair and says how it reminds her of her mom’s hair (brown, fluffy, and curly) and it’s my favorite thing ever 🥰 and when she hugs me she sometimes scratches my back lightly to see if I find it relaxing (I do). My mom used to do stuff like this for me but stopped when I was really young so it’s always nice to find the people like this that want to see you happy/comforted :)

    • @donaldfromtiktok6424
      @donaldfromtiktok6424 2 года назад +14

      Fr! It’s so sweet. There’s this one girl in my class who is so nice to me. Most ppl are nice to me, but this is a different kind of nice. I don’t know how to describe it but it’s like she’s taking “treat ppl how you want to be treated” to a whole new level.

    • @RunninUpThatHillh
      @RunninUpThatHillh 2 года назад

      Play with your mom's hair, or remind her you liked it. We are primates after all. Those little grooming things are special. :)

    • @emilyminassian9
      @emilyminassian9 2 года назад +6

      such a great friendship!

  • @ravikrishnamoorthy4738
    @ravikrishnamoorthy4738 2 года назад +3580

    Hey!! My sis has been diagnosed with idiopathic hyper somnia! Which means she goes without sleep for 24 to 48 hours! I told her to listen to asmr and I made her listen to you! She got her first 5 hours of sleep in 2 days and she loved it! So I make her listen to your asmr every night, and it really helps her get sleep atleast every 3 days, thank you :)
    Edit: I didn’t post this to get like but to just say thank you to Eda
    But thanks for the like :D it’s the most I have gotten :’)
    I show my sister the like she gets everyday and she wanted to say thank you to you all too :)
    We got it to 1k! :D sister says thanks ^^
    Info: this is a bit more info on the disorder my sister has. So basically what I mean is even if she gets a full nights sleep she feels like she has had no sleep whatsoever, she gets really tired because of that and has a hard time sleeping at night, so she goes without sleep for 3 - 4 days. So basically my sis already feels like she’s tired even when she is sleeping and on top of that she can’t sleep, so asmr helps her calm down. I just wanted to tell you guys that’s because, some of you in the replies have been stating that they go without sleep for 3 - 4 days too, I’m not stating that you guys are lying, but my sister’s case is a bit different :) thank you for all the love and support :) good night!

    • @edafoxxASMR
      @edafoxxASMR  2 года назад +748

      😭 I’m so happy it helps ❤️ big hugs to both of you

    • @ravikrishnamoorthy4738
      @ravikrishnamoorthy4738 2 года назад +112

      Ty!
      If you don’t mind? Can I ask you a request please?
      Can you do a video for people who are deaf/hard of hearing?
      Maybe like some visual triggers and stuff like that!
      I’m sure they’ll love it ^^
      Only if your comfortable with it though!
      -much love, a random person

    • @ravikrishnamoorthy4738
      @ravikrishnamoorthy4738 2 года назад +16

      @god's follower hope you slept well :D

    • @seal3249
      @seal3249 2 года назад +16

      Ooo, that's scary. All though, I feel like I already do that without any disease/disorder (I'm probably wrong). Well, is anyone else like obsessed with their device to the point where they think about it at night? I have that. And even though I sleep the normal 8 hours (I sometimes get up to play), I still think about it.

    • @ravikrishnamoorthy4738
      @ravikrishnamoorthy4738 2 года назад +5

      @@seal3249 I used to be thinking of wanting to watch coco melon at night…
      That does count lol-

  • @kirstiesorec4049
    @kirstiesorec4049 7 месяцев назад +3

    Honestly, these school/hair play videos are STILL my favourite. Please do more. I watch this 1 at least once a week 😂

  • @nicolemarie7580
    @nicolemarie7580 Год назад +7

    This brought me back to when people would ask to play with my hair in school. I had long red hair back then. This is a great video and a great reminder of those past moments. Lots of tingles. Thanks!

  • @kyabrazell6616
    @kyabrazell6616 2 года назад +2246

    her: "so, is your hair naturally straight?"
    me who is black and have naturally curly hair: "Uhh sure!"

    • @airlie_lol1102
      @airlie_lol1102 2 года назад +9

      Random fact that was my discord pfp

    • @kupTV27
      @kupTV27 2 года назад +49

      She did a curly hair video! ^^

    • @izziezx
      @izziezx 2 года назад +2

      me

    • @th3cheshirecatthelonelyone145
      @th3cheshirecatthelonelyone145 2 года назад +3

      This made me laugh. Thank you so much

    • @nylal.1851
      @nylal.1851 2 года назад +21

      Or when I have braids
      Random girl:is that your real hair???
      Me:yes…

  • @Ian_MacGregor
    @Ian_MacGregor 2 года назад +535

    I used to have long skater boy hair in middle school I only kinda knew the girl that sat behind me, but one day she started playing with my hair, and I slowly turned to the side just to look at her and she immediately stopped and said sorry and I was like “ohh no, it’s ok.” But my brain was like “don’t stop.” The tingles we’re amazing!

    • @estrellarenteria8346
      @estrellarenteria8346 2 года назад +9

      This is so sweet!

    • @AlexisGonzalez-lm6ur
      @AlexisGonzalez-lm6ur 2 года назад +77

      In those moments you have to never move because the moment you do they always stop and don’t start again 😭😭

    • @kaushy
      @kaushy 2 года назад +15

      @@AlexisGonzalez-lm6ur you're experienced I can tell 😭😭

    • @sarahkidd7477
      @sarahkidd7477 2 года назад +1

      @@AlexisGonzalez-lm6ur had to do the repeated hair flick to hint at them to continue

  • @rosemarymarshall2855
    @rosemarymarshall2855 2 года назад +2

    every single night without fail, i listen to this and think someone is actually playing with my hair and it calms me down so much! thank you for every single one of your videos

  • @kahlanallen8110
    @kahlanallen8110 Год назад +12

    Back when i was in third grade a girl I made friends with,her name was riley,she would like to do my hair and one day during recess she did a braid crown in my hair and I absolutely adored it🥺 its been years and i hope shes okay

  • @solarstevie
    @solarstevie 2 года назад +506

    This makes me miss the boy I sat with on the bus who liked braiding my hair. I started keeping a brush and extra hair bands in my backpack just for him. It was one of the best parts of the day for those years.

    • @CS-nt6yj
      @CS-nt6yj 2 года назад +22

      I was that boy lol. Growing up with three sisters helped to know how to braid. I used to love braiding their hair when they didn't want to do it themselves or let them do makeup on me but other guys would tease me. 😂

    • @amy6374
      @amy6374 2 года назад +2

      @@CS-nt6yj W

    • @Goldun-nah
      @Goldun-nah 2 года назад +12

      I was one of those boys lol imma gay hairstylist now 💅🏻 thanks girlfriends for all the practice!!!! I was known for being able to do multiple style updos with just two pencils lol also I was the only one who knew how to fishtail braid lol

    • @driftingthroughda7037
      @driftingthroughda7037 2 года назад +3

      @@Goldun-nah that’s actually so cool

    • @Meg-cc6yc
      @Meg-cc6yc 2 года назад +2

      @@Goldun-nah you would’ve been my best friend holy shit

  • @bethywethyy
    @bethywethyy 2 года назад +786

    When I was in Year 5, a girl who sat next to me absolutely ADORDED playing and ‘combing’ my hair with her fingers. There was also another girl, who really likes doing my hair, even now. She started in Year 4 and we went to the same secondary together and she still loves to. It was so relaxing, I almost fell asleep in school! Now all I need her to do is come over, plait (she has loads of braids in) and do my hair, whilst listening to your asmr! Heaven ✨

    • @SugaryPiePie
      @SugaryPiePie 2 года назад +19

      I am jelly

    • @piqachu
      @piqachu 2 года назад +1

      I’m the 666th like
      *I am the chosen one*

    • @StayFlo_
      @StayFlo_ 2 года назад

      Question like this, are you like from Canada or something like this? You really give me Canadian or Quebecer vibes😅 (coming from a Canadian-Quebecer)

  • @asmraddict6492
    @asmraddict6492 2 года назад +5

    I've just had a mental breakdown due to stress at school and work and felt the need to go to my safe space, which have been this exact video for months. Thanks Edda for all the efforts you put in relaxing us, stressed and depressed strangers. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @UccCoffeeWithMilk
    @UccCoffeeWithMilk 2 года назад +584

    All these comments are so touching, like I’m actually tearing up. Ever since 1st grade I can remember no one ever wanting to talk to me or interact with me so these stories are so sweet to imagine, it gives me a warm feeling. now I’m a sophomore in college & i hope I can be this type of friend for people to confide in. I love playing with hair also 🖤

    • @akrosky5720
      @akrosky5720 2 года назад

      I played a lot with long hair of my female friends in class in middle school haha. I never asked but they never said anything so i guess they liked it. I loved doing that for shure and i miss playing with long hair

    • @cheyennelawrence1977
      @cheyennelawrence1977 2 года назад +10

      I am raising my children to love and befriend the children like you and I'm sorry no one was there for you when you needed them to be. If we could go back in time I'd hug you.

    • @confused-fellow-humanstahn9107
      @confused-fellow-humanstahn9107 2 года назад +1

      i am sorry

    • @minimochiamv2445
      @minimochiamv2445 2 года назад +3

      *sending you tons of back scratches and patterns + scalp and hair tingles :) ❤

    • @heatheranndixon3944
      @heatheranndixon3944 2 года назад +2

      I know that feeling. My school went from kinder-12th and I left for 4th and 5th grades but figured I would have friends when I came back. I was so wrong, all the people I thought had been my friends in 3rd grade was definitely not my friends in 6th. The first day of 7th I spotted a new kid who I was determined to make friends with because no one deserved to feel alone and unwanted like I had the year before. I proudly call her my sister now as after several family tragedies after we both turned 18 we adopted her as part of our family. My family is also currently the only people who knows she moved out of state and where she is as no-one’s in her bio-family knows.

  • @wildeacademia5351
    @wildeacademia5351 2 года назад +2735

    this makes me think of this teaching assistant in my primary school. she was the loveliest lady ever and always made me laugh. i think she knew i had anxiety before i even realised myself and she used to call me cute nicknames and do my hair everyday. even during our first aid training, everyone had partners but my friends all left me so she said she’d be my partner. she died last year really suddenly of cancer and i didn’t even know until i read it in my local newspaper. it was truly heartbreaking and i have no doubt she changed many kids lives with her warm personality🥺
    thank you mrs g🤍
    edit: just want to say thank you for all the love people are giving. it’s her family who suffered the biggest loss and i hope they’re all doing better since! i appreciate these messages very much. it’s very sweet🤍

    • @apushkal
      @apushkal 2 года назад +80

      She sounds like a dear person.

    • @wildeacademia5351
      @wildeacademia5351 2 года назад +44

      @@apushkal she really was

    • @jasmine-cn2lq
      @jasmine-cn2lq 2 года назад +64

      teachers like that stay with you forever. how lovely you got to meet her. RIP 🤍

    • @lill_thecreativeone275
      @lill_thecreativeone275 2 года назад +27

      She didn’t deserve to die, she sounds like a really nice and kind person who had a kind heart

    • @elfiebxbbles7647
      @elfiebxbbles7647 2 года назад +3

      Hol up so she died last year could be related to Betty white?? Ig we will nevea know

  • @nbell8
    @nbell8 2 года назад +497

    A few months ago, a girl in my class at the end of the day braided my hair and that is probably the most relaxed I’ve felt at school ever (I was the quiet kid so no one really talked to me, so it was really nice to have someone pay attention to me for once ☺️)

    • @SugaryPiePie
      @SugaryPiePie 2 года назад +11

      That is nice to hear but the feeling when someone goes through your hair. Damn

    • @kazuyamiyuki7061
      @kazuyamiyuki7061 2 года назад +8

      Your one of the lucky quite kids I'm the quite kid at my school and not even the teacher knows I'm there most of the time

    • @stixxie569
      @stixxie569 2 года назад +5

      @@kazuyamiyuki7061 im more of a hyper extrovert these days so i tend to scout out quiet kids and play with them. everytime without fail they will let me play with their hair and talk to them, show them videos, etc. its a great feeling giving those people someone to spend a little time with during school when their sitting all by themselves. i used to be just like that (still can be) and remember how lonely it felt and wishing someone would just come up to me lol

    • @kazuyamiyuki7061
      @kazuyamiyuki7061 2 года назад +7

      @@stixxie569 Trust me the lonely kids appreciate it so much. It's like this painful feeling in your chest watching everyone else with friends. And then that one person that shows up outta no where will make their whole year. Trust me they probably still think about you when their lonely again. I remember when I was in animal science in middle school and this one girl grapped my hand outta no where and dragged me to her table to do a group project. It was a crappy project but I had so much fun making it. I didn't she her after that anymore but she really made an impact on me. So what your doing now is helping those people thank you😊

  • @krystal17066
    @krystal17066 Год назад +4

    I come back to this video a lot😴

  • @-Skull-eyes-
    @-Skull-eyes- Год назад +7

    I watched this last night while I was sick (I still am but whatever) and it honestly helped me fall asleep cause my throat was hurting so much so thank you

  • @viktoriapimentel9459
    @viktoriapimentel9459 2 года назад +369

    When I went to a psych ward, my roomate would touch and braid my hair every night before going to sleep. It was hard to sleep at that ward but shed help me calm down and sleep by touching my hair and giving me advice as a parent 🤗 I considered her as my mom there ❤

    • @emilyminassian9
      @emilyminassian9 2 года назад +7

      🥰🥰

    • @user-mc2el4tx5c
      @user-mc2el4tx5c Год назад +8

      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”
      ‭‭John‬ ‭3:16‬ ‭
      ‬ “and saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.”
      ‭‭Mark‬ ‭1:15
      “The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.”
      ‭‭John‬ ‭10:10‬
      Jesus loves you and wants to save you

    • @kamdynbesett9711
      @kamdynbesett9711 Год назад +12

      No way! I have shorter hair, but when I was in a ward, all the girls loved to play with it and I felt so loved.

  • @charisweber698
    @charisweber698 2 года назад +842

    I have hair that’s naturally soft and I always get compliments on it. It’s one of the only features I like about myself. In elementary school i legit had to divide my hair up for 10 different girls and boys to play with. Thank you for bringing that amazing special feeling back that I haven’t felt in a while :)

    • @peachywe4310
      @peachywe4310 2 года назад +19

      Is your hair still soft

    • @charisweber698
      @charisweber698 2 года назад +18

      @@peachywe4310 yeah it is 😅

    • @beatrizp.videos
      @beatrizp.videos 2 года назад +21

      @@charisweber698 let me play with it then 🙏🏻

    • @alessandragonzvar5758
      @alessandragonzvar5758 2 года назад +18

      touching hair after a compliment is a way to prevent mal de ojo! probably why your hair is still so soft even with people who envy you :)

    • @charisweber698
      @charisweber698 2 года назад +2

      @@beatrizp.videos ok bet lmao

  • @elsabowers8036
    @elsabowers8036 Год назад +16

    Susie....you have been playing with my hair for 25 MINUTES ALMOST HALF AN HOUR!
    And have been listening for like idk 2 MINUTES?!
    And yes, i liked my own comment you caught me😂
    Edit1:too the two peeps who liked my comment ty lol

  • @niyatigarge9107
    @niyatigarge9107 Год назад +4

    so i found this timestamps below and it deserves to be on da top~
    !! TIME STAMPS FOR YOU!! !!
    Introduction, small talk. 0:00 - 1:12
    playing with your hair, talking to you. 1:13 - 4:43
    whispering, telling you a secret. 4:44 - 4:58
    continue playing with your hair, talking to each other. 4:59 - 6:51
    Tapping on wooden brush, brushing your hair, talking. 6:52 - 9:26
    Playing with your hair again, chit chatting. 9:27 - 10:28
    Touching your face, writing on your face, touching your hair. 10:29 - 14:36
    Back to playing with your hair. 14:37 - 19:49
    Getting something out of your hair / eye. 19:50 - 21:34
    Playing with your hair, tapping. 21:35 - 24:02
    Tapping on the glasses, talking. 24:03 - 24:44
    Playing with your hair, outro. 24:45 - 27:42
    credit to: @qplaydate

    • @Al1ax249
      @Al1ax249 8 месяцев назад

      Thanks this really helps!

  • @Goldun-nah
    @Goldun-nah 2 года назад +801

    This girl in my biology class we would switch desks every other day. One day I would play with her hair, the next day she would tickle my back neck and head with a closed pen. It literally was the best thing ever. That was in 2002… we are still great friends today. I can’t even remember the last time I’ve had someone do anything like that for me 😭😭😭 I’m 37 now. I just hope I can get someone to scratch/tickle my back and head just one more time before I’m bald headed and hunch backed 🤣

    • @donaldfromtiktok6424
      @donaldfromtiktok6424 2 года назад +8

      I heard about this place where you can pay for this. I forget the name tho.

    • @Kiss_My_Aspergers
      @Kiss_My_Aspergers Год назад +1

      Find a person with a kid. Make sure you vibe with both of them. Start babysitting the kid, especially at night, or on warm summer days. Voilà! Instant free best friend and/or best friend's kiddo(/your niece/nephew/sibling's nonbinary offspring) ASMR.

  • @rachelcarvell4831
    @rachelcarvell4831 2 года назад +664

    This is the kind of experience I wish I had when I was a kid. People are sharing their stories and it comforts me to think that they had this experience, among many that I had yet to even comprehend. Growing up homeschooled I was shut in 24-7, my parents weren’t rich so doing things always felt like a burden to me. I only had my siblings who were toxic and sexually abusive, I wish I had friends who could encourage and comfort me. That I could be open with. Being an adult and moving out at my first chance was the best thing I did, now having friends to be open with and play with each other’s hair. I feel like I’m much younger than I am (I’m 21) as if I was 15 instead. Never take the small experiences or memories for granted if you have them, even if there were only a few for myself. There is good in every situation, you just need to hold on to them and keep moving forward 💜

    • @tonyprobst1382
      @tonyprobst1382 2 года назад +11

      This is so underrated

    • @diamondheart0723
      @diamondheart0723 2 года назад +18

      I love what you said at the end and I'm sorry for your previous years, I hope you are doing OK and and healing.

    • @rachelcarvell4831
      @rachelcarvell4831 2 года назад +9

      @@diamondheart0723 thank you, I think I am ^^ I love this community. Who know the realist and kindest people were in the ASMR community!

    • @isrealjackson5500
      @isrealjackson5500 2 года назад +4

      I feel really bad but not in pity but as in I wish you never had to go through that as a child and or teen.

    • @nikajarred7588
      @nikajarred7588 2 года назад +3

      I was homeschooled as well from 2nd grade to 12th. My issues are mostly from emotional and mental neglect, so I totally understand feeling younger than you are. When I'm stressed, my mental age drops down to about six or seven and I have to be very careful to not melt down in public.
      I have friends and a couple coworkers who know and support me, so I'm getting better I think.
      You're not alone 🙂

  • @tinks1806
    @tinks1806 2 года назад +6

    I discovered your channel a few days ago and I’m hooked on your videos! I usually really don’t like role play type vids because they’re usually ridiculously cringe! But you’re absolutely brilliant! Your accent and voice is so tingly, I’m 37 weeks pregnant and uncomfortable in bed but your videos are really helping me chill out. Thank you!

    • @Ace_of_Storm
      @Ace_of_Storm 9 месяцев назад

      Congrats! Also I hope the birth was smooth ᥫ᭡

  • @vittoria2396
    @vittoria2396 Год назад +8

    This is very relaxing, i like when people touch my hair since it give me tingles and makes me comfortable too. Great asmr, cant believe this is free

    • @akrosky5720
      @akrosky5720 Год назад +2

      Hey, wanna talk about this? I love forms of physical touch too, when i get it from other people. It always makes me fell actually included into the group. Does playing with your hair makes you feel similar ?