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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

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  • @dineshpant4098
    @dineshpant4098 7 лет назад +19

    Though I am a Hindu by birth but I am a Buddhist by heart and nature. Lord Buddha's continence fascinates me. Recently visited Mcleodganj, the aura of His Holiness Dalai Lama's Temple is still fresh in my mind. I love watching all these videos. Great.

  • @sonam8347
    @sonam8347 7 лет назад +59

    I love ur way of speaking.. I do respect ur innocence. Sir....now I love to follow whatever u said... My heart wants to follow ur rules as a disciple.. in the world full of distractions I found u as my saviour ..bless us...

    • @Calligraphy-dilipaweeratunga13
      @Calligraphy-dilipaweeratunga13 6 лет назад +2

      sonam sharma "ATHTHAAHI ATHTHANO NATHO KOHI NAATHO PAROSIYAA" so you should follow buddha's teachings and you will be your own saviour.

  • @shubhadarupvate
    @shubhadarupvate 6 лет назад +18

    Such a big lesson taught yet seems so simple.He's amazing

  • @grishayampolsky
    @grishayampolsky 7 лет назад +81

    haha that paper thing was priceless.
    Mingyur is a very good explanaitor and also funny

  • @simpleandsavored9210
    @simpleandsavored9210 7 лет назад +292

    words of the wise, lots of failure in the beginning is actually success in the long-term.

  • @GOETHALS1000
    @GOETHALS1000 6 лет назад +1

    This is the cutest way to make somebody understand something .......... amazing person ...Thank u for your videos .

  • @exequielbayo59
    @exequielbayo59 4 года назад +7

    I love this guy so much, his teaching are simple and inspiring. Thank you, thank you!

  • @daleincisions
    @daleincisions 7 лет назад +61

    I like the fact that he's talking into millennial problems right now , like the smartphone thing very on point

  • @finnibertlunchiken7792
    @finnibertlunchiken7792 7 лет назад +3

    Love Mingyur Rinpoche. What a great teacher. Love his videos.

  • @BaptisteLandry
    @BaptisteLandry Год назад +1

    Thank you mingyur rinpoche for all shares, very difficult to change habits because we also have the bad habit of try changing what we want as fast as possible.

  • @brahma1905
    @brahma1905 5 лет назад +3

    I change my habit after watching your wonderful video.tq

  • @rajivnayan4545
    @rajivnayan4545 6 лет назад +2

    One thing I have to say that i never seen you guys like that because u have 0 % arrogance and u r giving ur knowledge without any selfishness
    Thank you so much

  • @luisurena9876
    @luisurena9876 7 лет назад +16

    Thank you. 💚💙🌱🙏 I love how Rinpoche explains things.

  • @Mohan27041968
    @Mohan27041968 5 лет назад +2

    He is one of sweetest and Happiest Monks I ever seen.. So lovable...

  • @madanpoudel8878
    @madanpoudel8878 6 лет назад +2

    i have not been influenced as this guy is making me from his action and words!!!
    thank you so much

  • @tracylawlor4214
    @tracylawlor4214 7 лет назад +2

    I've watched this over and over because He's so adorable....

  • @ericjorgearnezinochea9679
    @ericjorgearnezinochea9679 3 года назад +1

    The paper analogy was on point.. because it folded back at the last second. Dont power through your bad habits. its a losing battle. Try to change your enviroment to make those habits less appealing. Other strategy is to replace those bad habits with good or (temporally) less damaging ones.

  • @luciesimackova4805
    @luciesimackova4805 4 года назад +2

    Briliant! So clever and simple

  • @skyvalentine9694
    @skyvalentine9694 7 лет назад +1

    I like this guy. And his way of speaking. and his simple but effective analogies. Ans his humorous way of explanation. A true Buddhist Master you can learn from.

  • @Adv.Prashad_Pawar
    @Adv.Prashad_Pawar 6 лет назад +4

    Golden words that everyone can follow in his life to chage the unwanted things....!

  • @snowflakes8229
    @snowflakes8229 4 года назад +4

    very satisfying part is playing with paper. i have watched many times .great sir

  • @raffaeltroost2660
    @raffaeltroost2660 7 лет назад +6

    This was so helpful Mingyur Rinpche, thank you so much. You are always radiating with happiness I love it. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @pheakros5564
    @pheakros5564 3 года назад +2

    Very good metaphor for discovering ways to change habits. Thank so much.

  • @pnonem666
    @pnonem666 7 лет назад +15

    What a great person! :) There is only good will in his words here

  • @veereshsipraygodentireworl7032
    @veereshsipraygodentireworl7032 6 лет назад +1

    i love to rinpoche , he is extradinary teaching

  • @madeehakanwal6072
    @madeehakanwal6072 7 лет назад +41

    mind blowing learning techniques

  • @syedmuzaffarali2006
    @syedmuzaffarali2006 7 лет назад +121

    Knowledge worth 100 books in 2minutes

  • @bluesea8227
    @bluesea8227 7 лет назад +15

    Hello , I have an illness since I were born . I met alot of doctors but it's not gone away. Doctors said I have nothing wrong with my body . I did x ray ... etc a lot of that. It's 16 years today. and I come here for self healing. I hope I can see the light after I broke my self in many pieces. thanks you !

    • @richiekong6843
      @richiekong6843 7 лет назад

      You can do it. Don't ever give up even not yet meet expectation. Love yourself and your body will self healing.

    • @rudhradevraj8774
      @rudhradevraj8774 7 лет назад

      Dont know that god will or will not bless you but if you work for your self than you will surely emancipate from your misery and will experience the eternal bliss.

    • @ranveersaha4992
      @ranveersaha4992 7 лет назад +1

      Get well soon

    • @brostenko5203
      @brostenko5203 7 лет назад +5

      Might be useful for whoever can accept it.
      Leave the thought about self centered; What's wrong with my illness or body, why I'm not healed? Why none doctor could cure me? Are they stupid doctors?
      It can folow building anger in your mind where those negative thoughts effect to your body cells which produce consequently worsen and slow down your healing.
      Instead ....
      Develop positive thoughts such as loving kindness compasion to everyone.
      It sound naive but when you are sick and could still care others by praying for who have suffering / illness, hopefully they could get happiness / healing.
      Your postive thoughts Automatically produce good cells in your body.

    • @istoppain62
      @istoppain62 4 года назад

      Give it a try don’t stop. Work on inside and there is nothing wrong there

  • @medioguiri
    @medioguiri 4 года назад +1

    I nod enthusiastically while watching this ... on my smart phone ☺

  • @ajaythomaslukose1635
    @ajaythomaslukose1635 7 лет назад +13

    Beautiful demonstration.

  • @CaptainAMAZINGGG
    @CaptainAMAZINGGG 6 лет назад +7

    I'm so in love with this man omg he's the cutest ever. :') he is like all of the joy.

  • @tarundubey5847
    @tarundubey5847 7 лет назад +7

    A priceless advice from a beautiful soul....Thank you sir....Lots of Love....

  • @karmatshomo3510
    @karmatshomo3510 4 года назад +2

    Wondfull and lovely teacher so greth

  • @moniqueesau5024
    @moniqueesau5024 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for your insightful advice.

  • @mach2262
    @mach2262 4 года назад +8

    Really mind blowing at the simplistic yet effective lesson!!! 🤩🥰🙏

  • @sumsum5830
    @sumsum5830 5 лет назад +5

    Sir pls pls do more videos
    It's going to be a blessing to the mankind

  • @ningtopshakya4680
    @ningtopshakya4680 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much Rinpoche la ❤❤❤❤

  • @Kanzu999
    @Kanzu999 6 лет назад +2

    So simple, yet so wise.

  • @kareng1952
    @kareng1952 5 лет назад +2

    Determination and patience are 🔑 to kicking habits. The more entrenched the habit, the greater the determination and patience should be.👍🏻

  • @jassimlatheef1884
    @jassimlatheef1884 6 лет назад +2

    This guy is just awesome!!

  • @Catalystresource
    @Catalystresource 5 месяцев назад +1

    Very effective yet simple explanation. ❤

  • @johnnytortuga5795
    @johnnytortuga5795 7 лет назад +2

    The analogy with the folded paper is perfect.

  • @veronicachani6222
    @veronicachani6222 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you. this is very useful in my case.

  • @ajitmenon8246
    @ajitmenon8246 7 лет назад +20

    Love your videos...they are very good and helpful! Also, good demonstration of how habits are!

  • @phurbulhamo2815
    @phurbulhamo2815 6 лет назад +3

    Omg excellent thank u so much may Buddha bless u always

  • @other785
    @other785 7 лет назад +3

    You're so affable and adorable. Thankyou Paul. :) So simply explained. Lots of love and light to you.

  • @richardcarew4708
    @richardcarew4708 3 года назад

    Master Rinpoche, I too have been a book reader.. and I never watched television.. so.. a book a day was my habit most of my life.. 5 books going all the Time.. the internet came along, at first it was just universities and text only.. access to all the libraries in the World.. far out man.. Smartphone technology brings the internet to every person on Earth.. it's the greatest combination since cans and soup... it's mostly free information.. all those books.. science in actual science papers.. I have been sick for 23 years in bed.. I read.. and look for new information.. because that's what makes me happy... television teaches people to be passive observers.. shut the mind off in favor of someone else's thoughts and ideas.. it's definitely habit forming.. much more than anything else in our society.. it's global.. it's not accurate information.. but if you have no other information.. how can we know?.. and.. you know.. all the kids are doing it, right?.. must be OK.. at least with a smartphone you request the information you receive..
    random thoughts 🤔.. thanks for yet another great teaching video.. and this opportunity to say.. turn off your television.. please.. you will be glad you did 🙏Namaste ✌

  • @subhad6930
    @subhad6930 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you soo much..namo buddhay..

  • @BK00.7
    @BK00.7 7 лет назад +2

    Haha the paper eg was so great, I understand it in sec, it's really hard to change the habits but he gives best way to break it. I love his ways of explaining 👏

  • @sarathyone1
    @sarathyone1 7 лет назад +1

    Thanks master for this wonderful video. What we thought is a difficult job made easy, with this simple and powerful process

  • @auroraa3613
    @auroraa3613 6 лет назад +2

    Always feel so relaxing listening to monks.Dhanyawad! I am grateful for the opportunity that i could get a chance to listen you.

  • @shiraliagrawal83
    @shiraliagrawal83 Год назад +1

    He is amazing teacher🙏

  • @chistayachistaya
    @chistayachistaya 6 лет назад +1

    your explanation is so simple but so convincing

  • @色勒
    @色勒 5 лет назад +2

    So relatable.
    This really helps me with the mind set.
    Thank you so much for sharing this with us.

  • @dilipaweeratunga
    @dilipaweeratunga Год назад +1

    This is the video I found Venarable Bhante. In 2017🙏

  • @jalajamenon8664
    @jalajamenon8664 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Master🙏🙏🙏

  • @monotoshghosh7971
    @monotoshghosh7971 6 лет назад +1

    Wow...the demo is excellent. Hope it will surely help me..thanks

  • @sadabnihal675
    @sadabnihal675 5 лет назад +1

    He's just awesome ... A great teacher....💕💕

  • @shyonacharjee5621
    @shyonacharjee5621 6 лет назад

    Excellent depiction of changing habit.Habit changes not suddenly but gradually through consistent effort

  • @shakuntalachhotu3598
    @shakuntalachhotu3598 4 года назад +3

    Beautifully explain.....

  • @editeisabelfaria2014
    @editeisabelfaria2014 4 года назад

    Obrigada Mestre!

  • @sheilakirwan6900
    @sheilakirwan6900 7 лет назад

    So sweet and simple ...thank you Rimpoche

  • @Earthsuitlife
    @Earthsuitlife 7 лет назад +3

    Beautiful and so succinct. Thank you.

  • @gk411
    @gk411 5 лет назад +1

    Wonderful, that is lovely..om 🙏✌📿🌻🍃

  • @AJHoll
    @AJHoll 7 лет назад +40

    Wow that example with the Paper is an absolutely spot on example for me when I first started No-fap, I tried so many times and failed as many times, but now after 2 years of constantly trying, my metaphorical paper is straighter than it has ever been

    • @tasvak3452
      @tasvak3452 7 лет назад

      H Meister so how long have you been nofapping?

    • @omly85
      @omly85 6 лет назад

      I can relate,i've only fapped once in the last 2 years.It was very hard to do but i'll never go back or give my power away like that again.

    • @emanuellopez8578
      @emanuellopez8578 5 лет назад +1

      r/cursedcomments

  • @yerdans
    @yerdans 7 лет назад +1

    great vid,been wanting to build a reading habit and I think this helps a lot,thank you

  • @10thgrademath66
    @10thgrademath66 7 лет назад +1

    It's really valuable words😀..it is very motivational🤓

  • @mayankrajprajapat8542
    @mayankrajprajapat8542 7 лет назад +1

    So so delight full you are.

  • @Calligraphy-dilipaweeratunga13
    @Calligraphy-dilipaweeratunga13 6 лет назад +1

    Saadhu saadhu saadhu .the paper thing is a miracle

  • @kunjbiharibudania4866
    @kunjbiharibudania4866 7 лет назад +7

    sir you're so funny and simple thanx for the advice thank you very much✌

  • @jom.a.md.s.h.2206
    @jom.a.md.s.h.2206 2 года назад +1

    Namo Buddhay 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Divineline-x6r
    @Divineline-x6r 4 года назад +1

    Thank you!

  • @SimpleHappyZen
    @SimpleHappyZen 7 лет назад +7

    Very inspirational and so funny! We can learn a lot. :) Mindful greetings, Simple Happy Zen

  • @arafatansari9548
    @arafatansari9548 6 лет назад +1

    Sir i liked yours speeches..and process and personality.

  • @missdaytonas
    @missdaytonas 6 лет назад +2

    i love him

  • @dreamyeyes09
    @dreamyeyes09 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this

  • @mahirahmed6388
    @mahirahmed6388 7 лет назад +40

    good ASMR.

  • @vivekmohank2982
    @vivekmohank2982 5 лет назад +1

    Lots of love from heart sir.this video means a lot to me..

  • @BreakFreeAddiction
    @BreakFreeAddiction 7 лет назад +20

    well, when a habit becomes addiction, thats when this doesnt work. I love this example by the way and your videos have soo much value. Thanks for sharing.

    • @DTTaTa
      @DTTaTa 6 лет назад +5

      BreakFree Addiction it does work, just takes more patience ;)

    • @baberuthny3
      @baberuthny3 6 лет назад +4

      Yes it does, just need to accept the addiction, observe it, let it go, be, and repeat.

    • @martfildes9675
      @martfildes9675 6 лет назад +3

      You have eyes, but you did not watch dear. Try again and again and again.

    • @kramraliuga5589
      @kramraliuga5589 6 лет назад +2

      I recovered from 7 years of drug addiction. Now I’m trying to break the habit of smoking cigarettes, I have 4 left, after that I will try and quit. I might fail, but I’ll try again, until I stop. So as I did with drugs.

    • @homoerectussemenallyretent6638
      @homoerectussemenallyretent6638 6 лет назад +1

      Thnx

  • @danjabujas3653
    @danjabujas3653 6 лет назад

    well, I didn't get my answers, but it was a pure joy to watch him "play" with that piece of paper. Thank you for that! :)

    • @MrCmon113
      @MrCmon113 6 лет назад

      He was saying that one should start small and expect failure.

  • @onepercentruleeveryday
    @onepercentruleeveryday 4 года назад +1

    habit changing takes time but it’s rewards come tenfold:) our habits create our destiny

  • @hitonozhimomi2137
    @hitonozhimomi2137 6 лет назад +1

    Ahhh I love this guy mann thank you .

  • @jaymehta2560
    @jaymehta2560 7 лет назад +1

    Amazing .Thank you

  • @viczog6087
    @viczog6087 7 лет назад +3

    Thank you so so much

  • @karmayeshe8935
    @karmayeshe8935 7 лет назад +7

    Lama Chenno🌷🌷🌷

    •  5 лет назад

      Lomachenko?

  • @djcelcatalan7614
    @djcelcatalan7614 6 лет назад

    Thats a good example teacher

  • @kiransinghmar
    @kiransinghmar 5 лет назад +2

    Amazing explanation

  • @love123_ultra5
    @love123_ultra5 7 лет назад +1

    I love his voice

  • @Draxanderful
    @Draxanderful 4 года назад +2

    What paper is that? So beautiful

  • @DoctorObviously
    @DoctorObviously Год назад +1

    This is EXACTLY how kicking off an addiction works too.

  • @lionpower4291
    @lionpower4291 3 года назад +1

    Thanks you so much , i get batter msg from you , you so great

  • @Aprilatemypie
    @Aprilatemypie 7 лет назад +30

    Thank you. ❤️

  • @JANICEWIGAN
    @JANICEWIGAN 3 года назад +1

    Very nice content!!

  • @audreyburton5367
    @audreyburton5367 7 лет назад +5

    Thank you.

  • @sarmisthahalder1669
    @sarmisthahalder1669 7 лет назад +1

    Thanku sir and please bless us to improve our thoughts

  • @tatato1345
    @tatato1345 6 лет назад +2

    This guy is adorable

  • @saugat805
    @saugat805 7 лет назад +1

    thank you :) gave me hope for a lot of things :)

  • @ayeshask3638
    @ayeshask3638 7 лет назад +1

    Excellent sir thank u so much

  • @sumondhy1967
    @sumondhy1967 5 лет назад +2

    Thank

  • @mairepcod4063
    @mairepcod4063 4 года назад +1

    Thanks, 🙏