HOW I GOT RID OF MY STUFF: Tips & Tricks for Downsizing to Move Into Your Tiny Home.

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  • Опубликовано: 10 ноя 2020
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    UPDATE I may not have described the Minimalism Challenge properly. On day 1 you get rid of 1thing, day 2 get rid of 2 things (over and above the 1 thing from day 1), day 3 get rid of 3 things (over and above the 1 item from day one AND the 2 items from day 2), and so on. You'll get rid of 496 items in a 31 day month.
    Probably the hardest thing I had to do to make my tiny house dream a reality was downsize my lifestyle and possessions. Its definitely daunting and it can be hard to know where to start the process of getting rid of (lets be honest) most of your possessions 🤷🏻‍♀️.
    In this video I share the things I did that worked for me. I love to set myself a challenge so I started with multiple rounds of the 30 day minimalism game • How to Play the 30-Day... .
    I hope you find the video helpful. Remember that what worked for me may not work for you. Try a few things to find what works.
    If you have any tips or tricks that you’ve used to downsize your belongings please share with the friends here.
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Комментарии • 1,6 тыс.

  • @jocelyn-r
    @jocelyn-r 2 года назад +256

    Honestly, one of the best videos I’ve seen on minimalism. No distracting music, no annoying special effects. Just simple, honest, genuine and very useful advice from someone who seems very real, genuine and kind. Love it 💕

  • @poodlegirl55
    @poodlegirl55 3 года назад +237

    We were downsizing in retirement and I had trouble choosing what to get rid of because we hadn't found a new house yet. I started focusing on what I really wanted to keep and that helped. I would clear a room out, clean, paint whatever it needed and then look through the stuff and chose my favorite things and put them back. I started to love the less cluttered look and it got easier to get rid of things. When we listed our clean, decluttered house it sold the first day. And my smaller house does not seem smaller and it's lovely being surrounded by only things you love.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +13

      That’s a great way to approach it. Good for you! 😊

    • @k8sl
      @k8sl 2 года назад +4

      This is my approach, thereby creating a space for a new thing to happen.

    • @pamelabryant7390
      @pamelabryant7390 2 года назад +6

      Congratulations on your actions of decluttering and selling your house on the first day. I bet you felt wonderful that all that work paid off so quickly paid off paid off congratulations again

    • @eScential
      @eScential 2 года назад +2

      But when i got the house. I now need many costly items abandoned or tossed out 😨

    • @k8sl
      @k8sl 2 года назад +6

      @@eScential sometimes (often) there are ways to find the things without buying them new. So many people are moving, downsizing, tossing, there’s an abundance.

  • @patschneider5671
    @patschneider5671 3 года назад +184

    I do this backwards: Day 1 I got rid of 31 items; Day 2 was 30 items, etc. I had more energy and focus at the beginning of the month. Did this in Nov and got rid of 339 items. Didn’t do it in Dec. haven’t done it this month. I’ll start again in February!
    Great video! A Colorado Viewer

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +17

      Hi Pat. That’s ingenious! You’re right that you always have more motivation at the beginning. Thanks for sharing ☺️🙏🏼.

    • @barbaracostian5844
      @barbaracostian5844 2 года назад +4

      This makes sense to me!

    • @faithhopelove9176
      @faithhopelove9176 2 года назад +3

      Great idea!!!

    • @chrys2953
      @chrys2953 2 года назад +4

      I did the same! Backwards makes so much more sense to me!

    • @nancylenau8997
      @nancylenau8997 2 года назад +1

      I thought about doing what you said, but it does not work for me, I realized I have very little amount of out fits Lol! . But I love your idea I will do it for my kitchen items witch I have to much, thanks!

  • @johnvanegmond1812
    @johnvanegmond1812 3 года назад +207

    I think that minimalism is only having possessions that serve you. If you have stuff you don't need, it's a burden.

  • @SherryEllesson
    @SherryEllesson 3 года назад +173

    The designer William Morris (an ancestor of mine) said, "have nothing in your homes that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful." Lovely video.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +16

      I love that quote. Words to live by 😊.

    • @sofondadavis5028
      @sofondadavis5028 3 года назад +7

      I had to add know to be useful at this present moment/time.

    • @michelelavender1967
      @michelelavender1967 3 года назад +9

      Sherry,the problem is I love lots of beautiful things in my house,could be cheap things but arty and lovely,Love our William Morris x

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +4

      😂

    • @michelelavender1967
      @michelelavender1967 3 года назад +3

      @@LarryNewmanSusanNewman haaaaa from Athens Greece

  • @alissonvonderlane862
    @alissonvonderlane862 3 года назад +117

    I find that being in the right 'mood' is essential... Those pragmatic days are the best to get rid of stuff!

    • @johnvanegmond1812
      @johnvanegmond1812 3 года назад +8

      Very good! Thank you. When I am in a place where I can lead my thoughts with reason and logic, and follow with emotion, pragmatism is much easier. If I lead with emotion, reason and logic don't get a voice.

  • @ledahl9
    @ledahl9 3 года назад +160

    I have a gift rule. Something to eat or drink; read; burn (candles/the type I use); need for garden (manure, etc).

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +20

      Excellent rule. Better for you and better for the environment 😊🙏🏼

    • @annenyman678
      @annenyman678 3 года назад +10

      Right! Something that can be used up.

    • @debbiegibson3604
      @debbiegibson3604 3 года назад +8

      I tell everybody that if they want to give me a gift just give champagne. I'll even take a bottle of prosecco from Aldi!

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +4

      ❤️🤣❤️

    • @elizabethdoran7626
      @elizabethdoran7626 3 года назад +5

      I use this when buying adults presents all the time

  • @gulfgal98
    @gulfgal98 3 года назад +133

    Even if you do not live in a tiny house, this video is very valuable. Downsizing your possessions can be very freeing emotionally. When your possessions own you, you have less time for creativity and other things in your life. I do not live in a tiny house, but I have realized just how much "stuff" my husband and I have accumulated over the years that we really do not need. For the last year, I have been working on trying to minimize a vast array of possessions that we never use. I had kind of fallen behind on that task. This video is so inspiring to me to tackle doing that again with a more focused mission. Thank you for posting this video..

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +2

      Thanks Nancy! 😊

    • @k8sl
      @k8sl 2 года назад +7

      Yes, am clearing my place out in a big way now, a friend said to me “We have no obligation to haul the previous generations stuff through our lives”.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  2 года назад +2

      That’s a great philosophy 🙏🏼❤️😊

    • @My_Secret_ArtSketchbook
      @My_Secret_ArtSketchbook Год назад

      Live your free life Creatively because it's your RIGHT please. Live your life- do whatever- take that first step. PEACE

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  Год назад

      🙏🏼😊

  • @1224Serendipity
    @1224Serendipity 3 года назад +53

    I lost my job due to COVID so we were forced to downsize and at first it was so painful to get rid of my stuff but as I get more into it I am feeling so much lighter. I am still feeling very guilty for the harm I have done to my bank account and the environment.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +3

      Please take care and stay strong 🙏🏼❤️.

    • @marisamarino7596
      @marisamarino7596 Год назад +6

      I hear you on the bank account.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  Год назад +2

      I love what you said. Yes be gentle and kind to ourselves. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @1224Serendipity
      @1224Serendipity Год назад +1

      @Cheryl McKenney 💕thank you for your kindness.

    • @SF-ru3lp
      @SF-ru3lp Год назад +2

      Don't feel bad, Daisy! We all grow into our better decisions! G Ire

  • @placebo11000
    @placebo11000 3 года назад +123

    Honestly I got rid of 3/4 of my things and there was less than $20 worth of things I ended up needing later

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +8

      Me too! LOL.

    • @alanbirkner1958
      @alanbirkner1958 3 года назад +3

      We have 1600 sq.ft. A lot is empty space....big living room and kitchen, huge master bedroom.
      Tina

    • @johnvanegmond1812
      @johnvanegmond1812 3 года назад +3

      I hear you. A few years ago I did the same thing. Uncanny you mentioned $20 because that is the figure for me too. And $10 was on two books I wanted to read again. And then I gave one away when I was done.

    • @valerierogers9609
      @valerierogers9609 3 года назад +2

      There's always fear, or excuse, about needing something later. At least in my experience, it rarely happens.

  • @bonitaquandt4862
    @bonitaquandt4862 3 года назад +41

    I began my minimal life when I moved from a house to an RV. BIG CHANGE. For my kitchen, I emptied one very big cabinet in my kitchen. As I cooked, I put in it the items I used. Plates, bowls, appliances, etc. When it became full, I began the process of deciding what must stay in the cabinet, or what must go. Now, I moved to the RV before clearing out the house. I put into the cabinets in the RV what I felt I needed, and I began cooking in the RV. If I was missing something, I went back to get it. If it fit in the RV, great. If my RV was full, then I had to decide if I could live without it, or something in my RV cabinets. I am so grateful for that. It really helped me box up everything left in the kitchen and move it on to others. And I learned how little I really need to cook.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +3

      That’s a great way to do it 😊.

    • @SpiralSister
      @SpiralSister 3 года назад +4

      I did about the same thing, but didn’t have too much time (hours), after moving from a townhouse to our RV. But I haven’t missed much! And so true about replacing anything missing in less than 20 minutes or $20!
      The next hurdle was deciding what to keep after my parents died. 🤷🏼

    • @silverlining1973
      @silverlining1973 3 года назад +5

      My Instant Pot has been a huge help in reducing the amount of stuff we have in the kitchen. There’s so much that can be done with it!

    • @minkademko2335
      @minkademko2335 Год назад

      Don't tempt me. LOL

  • @laughinlori6893
    @laughinlori6893 3 года назад +244

    Thirty years ago I worked with a guy who could get everything he owned into his car in an hour. "Cause you never know when you might want to leave."

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +76

      Was he on the witness protection program? LOL

    • @laughinlori6893
      @laughinlori6893 3 года назад +11

      @@myBIGtinyhouselife The guys at the mine were thinking criminal activity of some sort.

    • @meredithheath5272
      @meredithheath5272 3 года назад +14

      @@myBIGtinyhouselife Great, humourous response!

    • @txspacemom765
      @txspacemom765 3 года назад +61

      This was me, from 15 to 25...hahahaha! No criminal activity. I worked FT and housesat, so I made it easy to move from place to place. LOL I saved a TON of money, my nest egg, that 20 years later is letting me live my life.

    • @chalktalkwithshari4173
      @chalktalkwithshari4173 3 года назад +14

      Sounds like non-commitment syndrome rather than minimalism.

  • @sustillman
    @sustillman 3 года назад +26

    My variation on the 31 day challenge:
    Get rid of 31 things on day 1! Then each day 1 less, That way it gets easier, with fewer things per day if your energy lags. And you can give yourself bonus points on days you do more than required!

  • @myrnaedmisten599
    @myrnaedmisten599 3 года назад +127

    Wow. That was awesome. We moved from a large house to an 1000 sq ft apartment. I’m ready to get rid of more stuff! I’m going to try your hangar trick to see what I’m actually wearing. Really enjoy you. BTW I’m 81. It’s never too late.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +7

      Thank you Myrna. So nice t meet you ☺️.

    • @merlehester113
      @merlehester113 3 года назад +9

      Omg I am 79 and as a young lady on here said a hoarder of what I called treasures and precious memories that just have to stay in my mind.

    • @christinesmith8721
      @christinesmith8721 2 года назад +4

      I am 76 a and still trying to downsize...I love my things because of memories, and also I get comfort from my things more than people...The older I get the less time I want to spend with people, that's when I love my little memories around me.. But now is the time for my stuff to go as I may end up living in my camper 😔 😟 so I am starting now to fill camper first with needed stuff, then what is left has to go..All the best you ladies out there we are in this together...Praying ❤️ praying 🙏 for each of us...God 🙌 bless

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  2 года назад

      Hi Christine. I like the way you're approaching it. Good luck 😁❤️

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  2 года назад

      Hi Merle. Good luck! ❤️😊

  • @carolynbrown4112
    @carolynbrown4112 3 года назад +24

    It's funny how we always want what we don't have. I used to live in a tiny cramped apt for many years before I was finally able to afford a much larger 4 br home. I feel so blessed to have this larger home with extra rooms to host family/friends and have extra space for things I love, like craft room and home office to work from home. I used to feel claustrophobic in my tiny apt. Now I am very grateful for the extra space. I guess it can be said that I have too much stuff, but I shop wisely on a budget and only purchase what I love so I no longer feel guilty ridden about it. My lesson learned is this: Big space or little space, do whatever makes you happy because life is too short to be in a constant state of misery. After living in a cramped apt for so many years, I now wake up everyday ever so grateful and I thank God for finally having a bigger space.

  • @HMSkillBuilders
    @HMSkillBuilders 3 года назад +113

    I am purging on a regular basis. Thanks for the common sense experience.

    • @maryannebrown2385
      @maryannebrown2385 3 года назад +11

      That is one thing I am thankful for during this whole CoVid mess. Being at home so much I go from room to room, really seeing my belongings. Have been working several hours everyday going through stuff-keep, donate, or recycle. If it goes in the keep pile, I go through it a second time and put more in the donate pile. I am the first to admit I keep possessions due to the feelings they give me, but not necessarily because I have need them. This year I really am realizing how little I actually need.

    • @My_Secret_ArtSketchbook
      @My_Secret_ArtSketchbook 3 года назад +9

      Avoid shopping malls. It worked for me. I distracted myself with reading books, housework, gardening.

    • @vanessamay3689
      @vanessamay3689 3 года назад +3

      @@My_Secret_ArtSketchbook
      That’s true.I realised when I retired I would shop as bored 😐 However I now walk and distract the urge by gardening and have taken up a watercolour class that I love.

    • @joyliedtke5551
      @joyliedtke5551 3 года назад

      I took my time purging... maybe 3 years, so I wouldn't regret any choice. After 75 years of life...4 grown children (who haven't taken much)...and 50 years of marriage, it truly is a blessing to not be weighed down. One thing I've learned is you can't declutter someone else's things!! (I have a granddaughter named Adalina.) 🙂

  • @gloriagamer
    @gloriagamer 3 года назад +129

    I made a schedule and listed everything in my house so by move day I had nothing to do. One day all wall items came down even if it only took five minutes that was all I did. Another day I did one junk drawer and again even if it only takes ten or fifteen minutes you are done. That keeps you from ever becoming overwhelmed.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +11

      What a great idea! Thanks for sharing 🙏🏼☺️.

    • @wishingb5859
      @wishingb5859 3 года назад +12

      Good for you. I get intimidated by lists. I have tried them a few times. Instead, I am filling a trash bag every day. 7 trashbags is just about perfect to fill my town trash bin.

    • @wishingb5859
      @wishingb5859 3 года назад +12

      I also do a trash bag full of Good Will for the weekend.

    • @wishingb5859
      @wishingb5859 3 года назад +26

      I totally agree with just doing 5 minutes as a breathtaking concept. Years ago, I was a part of the Sparkpeople community and they recommended 10 minutes of exercise per day and their audience had examples of people who were bed-bound move from 10 minutes exercising in bed to eventually exercising in a wheelchair to a walker and more than one of them ended up doing 5K's by a year or two later. Often just a year later. What surprised me is that they never recommended for people to go over 10 minutes. Their philosophy was that when the 10 minutes got very easy, people would go over and that is what happened. But they were more concerned that when the people got lazy again, they would still stay at that minimum of 10 minutes because stopping completely was the enemy. This week, I was doing my one bag at a time and I was carrying it up the stairs from the basement and it became fun. Fun even though the cellar was full of mold and I had recently had a main line back up with sewage everywhere. It was fun was the thought after, "This isn't as bad as I thought." (I was only doing a bag at a time. I would work for 5 minutes and then come upstairs and watch television and then the next commercial, I would go down for another few minutes and bring another bag up the stairs. I never got winded or tired or frustrated or discouraged. I only needed the energy for a few minutes at a time and I only needed the strength to carry one bag.

    • @ravenhummel8202
      @ravenhummel8202 3 года назад +9

      Steps....that's how I operate my life. No stress, but, you accomplish a lot.

  • @susanvonstehling7686
    @susanvonstehling7686 3 года назад +124

    I have a very hard time parting with items, but my daughter suggested I take photos of each of the items in question.That way I have the remembrance of the item and can release the actual item thereby decreasing clutter. So much easier to get rid of stuff this way.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +9

      Thanks for sharing Susan, I think most of us have a hard time letting go🙏🏼☺️.

    • @SpiralSister
      @SpiralSister 3 года назад +20

      I took pictures too and have 7,000 plus pics on my phone!! Haha! I photographed everything that my parents had (after they passed), and we are selling the stuff they hoarded. Watching a lot of it mold or rust has been another mental hurdle. 😢

    • @chameleonsandcaramel5979
      @chameleonsandcaramel5979 3 года назад +13

      Yeah, I do that sometimes, too! My problem is I have literally THOUSANDS of photos on my phone/backed up already because I do stuff like that all the time. That’s even how I shop! I rarely actually BUY things I like when I go to the store. Instead I take pictures of everything I like. Saves money and clutter in general but makes my phone and cloud space get full very quickly. Lol

    • @marlenefanucchi942
      @marlenefanucchi942 3 года назад +2

      Great idea

    • @AKim-uu4hg
      @AKim-uu4hg 3 года назад +8

      @@chameleonsandcaramel5979 I love the idea of “shopping” by taking pics of things you like! I’m going to try that too. Thank you! I have the same problem with thousands of pics on my phone. I’m horrible about clearing them out! My husband and I will take a pic or show each other (if we’re both at the store) the card we’re “giving” each other for a holiday or a birthday. We read it, love the thought of it, and put it back on the shelf for someone else to enjoy & buy!! We’ll say “Oh, Honey - here’s the anniversary card I’m sending you!” We get a laugh out of it & we save $5 or whatever cards cost nowadays! Wish me luck on my picture shopping!!

  • @tracyportillo137
    @tracyportillo137 3 года назад +26

    I thought I was the only one feeling so overwhelmed starting to do this! Thank you for stressing how overwhelming it can be. I feel like I'm no longer alone.

  • @leruemartin9377
    @leruemartin9377 3 года назад +41

    I love that idea of no gifts. I don’t like for them to get me gifts.

    • @maggielarge7293
      @maggielarge7293 3 года назад +2

      Disposable gifts are my go to. Or functional items. Like my daughter moved out on her own this year do she’s getting a nice metal mixing bowl set. And my other children are getting baskets of food items. . .

    • @alanbirkner1958
      @alanbirkner1958 3 года назад +1

      I got a gift card for a thrift shop, and a gift card for a craft store. My son gave me his old electric drill. Tina

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +4

      No, it’s really because we tend to value experiences over things.

    • @leruemartin9377
      @leruemartin9377 2 года назад

      @@myBIGtinyhouselife I totally agree. I value spending time with those loved ones instead of getting some material item. My middle son is super thoughtful sometimes and he gets me things that are personalized. He had this book made for me. It was a mama bear story of how mom loves the son and the son loves mom. I treasure that so much. He always writes a lot on cards he gives me. He is very thoughtful one year he celebrated me twice on Mother’s Day because he said I deserved to be celebrated on the USA day and the Mexican holiday. So he sent me to work cause he was out of town two gifts flowers, and chocolates. It’s not the gifts it’s the experience and thoughtfulness.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  2 года назад

      He sounds lovely and you’ve obviously done a good job of raising an amazing human ❤️❤️

  • @connieowens3543
    @connieowens3543 3 года назад +172

    I could listen to you for hours. You're hilarious. You may not be a minimalist but you're a realist. I just found your channel and I'm catching up on previous videos. Enjoying watching you from USA.

  • @tim-youtubewatcher2726
    @tim-youtubewatcher2726 3 года назад +50

    I sometimes think age plays a part in downsizing. They say you spend the first half of your life collecting stuff and the second half trying to get rid of it. I started my midlife clear out a few years ago,but as a man I have a lot of quality old tools and I worry that if I part with them I would never be able to replace them, as modern tools don,t seem to have the same quality. Also so many of my possessions I have had given and even though I don,t use them I feel a sense of attachment to the person who gave me them.
    Thanks for another great video,the "go play with yourself" line really made me laugh out loud !!!

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +10

      Hi Tim. I think the tools are worth finding a spot for, as long as you use them. I agree with your philosophy about the stages in life 🙏🏼😊.

    • @lauralake7430
      @lauralake7430 2 года назад +1

      With tools, i think the key is strict organization and eliminating doubles and triples of tools. Old tools are usually good, except for the electrics. My mom has three wrenches of her dads hung in a shadow box in the kitchen. He was a tool and die maker, and those were important memories.

  • @rosepistilli223
    @rosepistilli223 3 года назад +48

    This is literally the coziest video I have ever seen. 🥰

  • @awarenessvillage
    @awarenessvillage 3 года назад +17

    I'm listening to audiobooks as I declutter. That keeps me from reading everything I come across or tricking myself into keeping things I know I don't want.

  • @ms.hunter962
    @ms.hunter962 3 года назад +59

    My dad was a hoarder and a soldier , so we had to move like 26k pounds of stuff every year or two. When I was a teenager I started getting into minimalism bc I in no way wanted to ever have that much stuff in mg house ever again lol

    • @merlehester113
      @merlehester113 3 года назад +11

      I hate to say this but I relate to your dad. All the memories I have accomplished through the yrs, and my grannys and grandpa's farm things omg.....so precious in our minds lol

    • @miaschu8175
      @miaschu8175 3 года назад +17

      I think that I've become a bit of a hoarder because my mum was the opposite. We moved numerous times (my mum had also been in the army, so perhaps it became a habit!) and my mum would just get rid of stuff, including my things that I loved.
      When I was six, I found that much loved toys hadn't moved with us, like my dolls house (I'm actually feeling that sadness again while writing this) and I once went on a search for my baby dolls and found them hidden in her bedroom, ready to throw out.
      Losing things that I loved made me want to cling onto things more. I became even more emotionally attached to my toys and ornaments.
      I now realise that I have a toxic relationship with my belongings. I've had to downsize and am desperately trying to declutter. It's really hard.
      The one thing I know, for sure, is that being too extreme either way isn't good for us or those affected by our choices.

    • @SpiralSister
      @SpiralSister 3 года назад +1

      That’s exactly why I’m a minimalist. 🦋

    • @SpiralSister
      @SpiralSister 3 года назад +5

      Mia, same with my dad. He hoarded because he grew up with NOTHING. 😢

    • @merlehester113
      @merlehester113 3 года назад +3

      @@SpiralSister I hoarded all my granny and grandpa's things from way back in the day. could not stand to part with them.......Now I have to My children call it all junk but it is treasure to me lol

  • @catic15
    @catic15 3 года назад +70

    I challenged myself a few years ago to get rid of 3 things per day - after two years it's really made a huge difference. Now I'm ready to ramp it up, because I'm hoping to go tiny in about 2-3 years. The momentum is building . . .

  • @humansarehorrible6053
    @humansarehorrible6053 3 года назад +16

    It's hard but worth it. It's amazing how good you can feel when you have less clutter.

  • @fade2blk289
    @fade2blk289 3 года назад +17

    My father used to say, "If you haven't used it in the last year you probably don't need it.". I think he was right! I'm getting ready to move from a nearly 1300 sq ft home into a small apartment and I'm definitely going to use some of your suggestions, so thanks!

  • @wandrousvindella716
    @wandrousvindella716 3 года назад +9

    I've been purging (again) and it reminded me of the summer I lived in my '73 VW Beetle. Simpler times, but I had everything I needed.

  • @christinaroseman9926
    @christinaroseman9926 3 года назад +91

    Oh can I ever relate to the Christmas dishes, the "good" dishes, the party glassware, etc. I haven't entertained for years because my home is so cluttered, so thank you for the common sense I needed to hear to get my a++ in gear.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад

      😂😂😂🙏🏼

    • @nataliebutler
      @nataliebutler 3 года назад +5

      I decided to use all the 'good' things everyday. I don't have separate everyday dishes or anything I keep just for best.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +6

      Yes! Why have things just for a special occasion? You ARE a special occasion! ☺️🙏🏼.

    • @laughinlori6893
      @laughinlori6893 3 года назад +2

      That is so true. I can't entertain because all of the stuff I NEED to entertain takes up too much room. That is perfect. 😀

    • @Soo_Blessed
      @Soo_Blessed Год назад +1

      You can do it !!

  • @DrLoriV
    @DrLoriV 2 года назад +13

    I have appraised objects for clients for nearly 25 years...the ones they love don't equate to monetary value. Most people want to know the value of the things they don't care about so they can sell them or donate them. Objects spark emotions, it just depends which emotions. The three most valuable categories of objects are fine art, furniture, precious metals including jewelry, monetarily speaking. Other items relate to family history, ancestry, heirlooms etc. Those are priceless so if you are downsizing make sure the important heirlooms go to family members.

    • @coolwater55
      @coolwater55 2 года назад

      Yes, this is more manageable way to look at it for most people. Needs are subjective.. family photos and the few pieces inherited by my grandparents are key for me to keep.
      Also, aesthetics of items that provide beauty give me joy. Downsizing my China cabinet and special decor was the most difficult.

    • @coolwater55
      @coolwater55 2 года назад

      I subscribed to your channel from this excellent overview you wrote... that really affects one's life!

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  2 года назад +1

      Thank you! 😊

  • @wishingb5859
    @wishingb5859 3 года назад +25

    I inherited my grandmother's house and when she was almost near the end of her life, we needed to do some renovations for the bathroom and hallway so while she was in rehab, I started cleaning out the closets that belonged to my grandmother, and my great grandmother and great uncle and other relatives and I filled a double dumpster with things from their deep closets. Not walk-in mind you. The closets were only as wide as a door with a small bar across but they were amazing at keeping the clutter inside of the closets. Not me. When I have stuff, it spills out of the closets into the room. I have been watching minimalism pages and have started doing one bag a day. I guess that is a variation of the challenge. Well, my basement flooded and I spent a week cleaning up and today, my friend from work showed up and tossed the stuff from half the basement and I was amazed at how many things my grandmother and great grandmother and uncle still had down there. I had only asked for help carrying a few things up but my friend filled up a whole dumpster's worth and if there was room in the dumpster, I would be getting rid of more because there is nothing better than mold and mildew for getting someone to let go of all of the belongings possible.

  • @garnetmuse
    @garnetmuse 3 года назад +15

    I am an organizer and I'm very excited about your sharing how you did the clothes on the hangers and reverse them as you went. It's very visual and it's result-oriented to see exactly what we wear and what we don't wear. I'm going to share that a lot with a lot of people. Thank you very much

  • @karenfisher5274
    @karenfisher5274 3 года назад +137

    Vegan homemade gingerbread coffee creamer! Sounds delicious! Yes, recipe, please!

    • @Meechka
      @Meechka 3 года назад +25

      She made a separate video on it. Check her videos.

    • @jacquiesallemi
      @jacquiesallemi 3 года назад +5

      Sounds yummy! Recipe please! 😊

    • @AnnaDandAdam
      @AnnaDandAdam 3 года назад +3

      Agreed! Yes please!

    • @AnnaDandAdam
      @AnnaDandAdam 3 года назад +3

      So helpful. Thank you for sharing your process

    • @ritsp1291
      @ritsp1291 3 года назад +8

      Omg you spoke as if I myself was talking of ME! I have to start my 31 day challenge this month ...wish me luck!!! And thanks for encouraging me

  • @alliphil1
    @alliphil1 3 года назад +78

    I don’t know how I stumbled upon this but I LOVED the 1 thing per day idea!!! I’m planning to downsize from a 5br 2-story house to a tiny house and this video was just perfect for clothing and clutter downsizing. Gonna do one room per month and looking forward to it! Thank you!!

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +6

      That’s awesome! Good luck 🙏🏼☺️.

    • @mskrislewis
      @mskrislewis 3 года назад +4

      Was it 1 thing per day? I understood 1 thing on day 1, 2 things on day 2, etc.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +8

      On day 1 you get rid of 1thing, day 2 get rid of 2 things (over and above the 1 thing from day 1), day 3 get rid of 3 things (over and above the 1 item from day one AND the 2 items from day 2), and so on. You'll get rid of 496 items in a 31 day month.

    • @alliphil1
      @alliphil1 3 года назад +16

      I actually ended up doing my own version of this. Since I'm not moving for quite a while, I chose to do just one area of the house, then moved to another area. So I started by focusing on my (way over-cluttered) pantry for a full week.... literally one shelf at a time any time I was in my kitchen.
      Made the decision to declutter 1-2 things per day. But it's so easy that you ended up doing FAR more than 2 things.... it's kind of addictive after a while. LOL! I think I'm clearing about 5-10 things per day but chose to make the goal very small and very focused on one area.
      Even cleared out my "junk drawer" in 10mins flat. I'm still decluttering my kitchen one cabinet and one drawer at a time. It's VERY satisfying I must say... mostly because I'm not feeling exhausted with cleaning/decluttering using a goal of only 1-2 things daily YET day by day all the clutter is disappearing. VERY easy and VERY satisfying. I think I'd be overwhelmed with trying to move dozens of things in a day, so this works really well for me. By the time I'm actually ready to move, I'd be all set with zero overwhelm. Love this!! 😊

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +2

      Good for you! ☺️🙏🏼

  • @danyvorphal
    @danyvorphal 2 года назад +7

    I’m not a minimalist. I just started my decluttering journey. I’ve noticed that starting is really hard and I tend to keep most of the stuff I’m reviewing. So I pick one category, I select things to sell and donate and put them in a box. I wait a couple days, and I select thing again, from that same category. I do this 3-4 times. Every time gets easier to let go of things.
    With the “selling” pile, I post everything in Facebook marketplace. If it doesn’t sell in 2 weeks, I donate it.

  • @JeanneKnits
    @JeanneKnits 3 года назад +7

    I went from a 2000 sq ft house to a 22 foot motorhome and a full-time RVer lifestyle. I started reading The Minimalists in 2010 and by 2012 I had sold the house and was on the road. One thing I did in those 2 years was move from my master bedroom to the guest BR. I only brought over stuff I as needed it. Was about 6 months or so. I then was able to feel confident I could easily get rid of the stuff still in the master BR closet and drawers.
    Been on the road for 8+ years, and I still have to go through drawers and cabinets to see what I haven't used and get rid of it.

  • @askolejack
    @askolejack 3 года назад +18

    I am sentimental and know who gave me almost everything I have. So, when my parents died within a few months of each other it was hard to part with their things. I read someplace to only keep something if 1) you have an actual need for it, 2) there’s a history or story behind it, or 3) you love it. I still love too many things, but I did get rid of much more than I might have without this advice.

    • @SpiralSister
      @SpiralSister 3 года назад +2

      I’m somewhat sentimental too, because items hold Energy from people. At least for some amount of time. 🌀

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 3 года назад

      What's the strangest thing in your pile?
      I just sold an identical Walkman to a guy like in Pretty Woman. Puzzles, lots of subjects on tons of things.
      A half dozen things with flamingos on them. Lots of Kleenex boxes (sinus).
      12 billion plastic containers that never make it "away."
      I just put like stuff together and move on

  • @YogaBlissDance
    @YogaBlissDance 3 года назад +22

    You actually could start any day! Like TODAY as day 1.

  • @merrywalsh2809
    @merrywalsh2809 3 года назад +8

    Liked & subscribed! You motivated me to pause this video, get up, and put three more items of clothing on my donate pile. I moved into what will probably be my final home ten months ago. I have already purged quite a bit, but have more left to do. The reason for doing this is so that my kids are not stuck with the job whenever I depart to the great beyond, and because I value space and hate clutter. My advice is to keep the job small. I try to get rid of a few items at a time, at least once a week. Just a regular chore, like cleaning the bathroom. 🌸

  • @margarettt7675
    @margarettt7675 3 года назад +7

    I enjoyed this video!
    We are on a slightly different trajectory, and your tips will come in handy!
    We downsized from 1800 sq. ft. with three outbuildings, to 640 sq. ft. five years ago. We had two weeks notice to move (closing date on sudden sale of our cottage where we were living). We moved with all our belongings into the smaller home which was already furnished, and we were also renovating the smaller house (and we are still renovating the small house). There is one small linen closet, and the kitchen cupboards, no other storage on the main floor. The basement is unfinished, not full height, and was moldy and leaky when we moved in. The garage roof leaked. These storage areas have since been dried in and are drying out.
    At first we had tunnels between the boxes from the kitchen, bathroom, and the bed.
    Our most pressing round of downsizing was to tighten up our food supply, such as reducing the two bottles of mustard, two salt shakers, etc. to just one of each. That took a year, no food was thrown out.
    Our good furniture went to our kids in the first few months.
    We also donated one whole truckload of furniture, kitchen ware, and good clothing to the women's shelter, and another truckload of the same to the homeless men's shelter.
    We outfitted a travel trailer, completely.
    We still have too much stuff, but over time we are finding we are using it up.
    Our biggest remaining issue with downsizing is our "big house" furniture, which is crammed into a small house. There isn't much room left for the humans.
    When the structural renovations are completed, we hope to focus on interior storage and appropriately sized furniture, but this is yet to come, as we have other priorities, such as a new roof, siding, and a porch repair, to address first.
    In the meantime, we grow and preserve much of our own food, cook everything from scratch, recycle everything from composting, sewing old clothes into new items, and washing plastic bags for reuse, and all of this activity takes space. But all of this activity also uses up our existing stuff. Very little goes out to the recycling bin, and we generate only one bag of garbage a month. So we are balancing downsizing with partial self-sufficiency.
    And we are having a blast.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +1

      Wow! That’s amazing!😊

    • @susanmichelfelder3912
      @susanmichelfelder3912 Год назад +2

      Wonderful post! Thank you.

    • @lauramitchell6725
      @lauramitchell6725 Год назад

      Margarettt: I agree with the way you used everything up over time. (I HATE waste!) My husband and I took care of my parents for 24 years. My mom went first then after my Dad died, we sold a 2500 square foot duplex that was fully equipped on each side. I sold the extra furniture,linens,etc, but kept all of the food,zip lock bags,etc.,toiletries and cleaning supplies from both apartments. We have been in our 900+ square foot house for six years and I have yet to buy any of those items except food. The Minimal Mom’s concept of inventory makes so much sense,but since I had the storage space,it just didn’t make sense to me to NOT use it up.🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @scrappyquilter102
    @scrappyquilter102 3 года назад +29

    We have had to move a number of times over the years, and I found that each time we had to move, was a great opportunity to get rid of stuff. But I wanted to tell you that you are a great influencer. I will keep in mind that process of "one thing in one day, two things in two days" etc. Just thinking about one room at a time, I can picture myself easily getting rid of LOTS of things. It is so rewarding.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад

      Thanks! It’s actually a really fun game. ☺️

    • @KadilakHomes
      @KadilakHomes 3 года назад

      good luck!!

    • @justyeeeeeetit
      @justyeeeeeetit 3 года назад +1

      An easy way to do that would be on the day of the month declutter that many items!

  • @BunnyDogLover
    @BunnyDogLover 3 года назад +9

    I love your video! Our son is actually Executive Producer of the Minimalist documentary. It was interesting to see that it was a catalyst for you. I liked your video very much because it is easy to relate to our peers who are in that same 'timeline of life' explaining their own personal journeys. Many people in our generation were influenced by parents and/or grandparents who started out having very little after the war was over, so by working hard to obtain 'things' which made our lives easier was the 'carrot' and what we learned. Then, of course, companies became proficient at showing us all how their items were necessary in our lives! As always, though, time goes on and we see the necessity for change. :-)

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +1

      Thanks Terri. It was a great documentary 😊.

    • @BunnyDogLover
      @BunnyDogLover 3 года назад

      @@myBIGtinyhouselife - Thanks! I'll pass that on to Jeff. :-)

  • @marshabrubaker185
    @marshabrubaker185 3 года назад +5

    I went through my place & donated 3/4 of my stuff. I feel so much lighter & happier. Next up is sentimental items. I started this process as I was tired of dusting & moving things around. Things I wasn't using & didn't enjoy anymore. I also started this process as I'm planning on moving from California to Michigan next summer. I'm planning on taking only what will fit in my car. 🤞

  • @janinafisher101
    @janinafisher101 3 года назад +30

    This was a really good video for those contemplating tiny house living or who need inspiration for downsizing. One of my favourite pieces of inspiration was a book called "goodbye, things" by a young Japanese man named Fumio Sasaki. After I finished reading it (at 3am) I went through my closet intending only to "get rid of one thing right now" and one hour later I had 100 empty clothes hangers and 2 large piles of clothes to give away! I had been suffering from burnout for 2 years up until that moment, and that book and that action turned my life around!
    Thanks for the picture of your sweet sleeping kitty. Can't believe it's snowing there when we've been having 20°C weather here in Eastern Ontario! I guess it'll get here soon enough. Thanks Adelina!🇨🇦

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +3

      Hi Janina ☺️. I’ll have to check that book out, thanks for sharing, it sounds amazing. No one naps like a cat, LOL. Stay safe 🙏🏼.

    • @janinafisher101
      @janinafisher101 3 года назад +3

      I found it at my local library! It will inspire you!👍

    • @laughinlori6893
      @laughinlori6893 3 года назад +1

      I second that recommendation!

    • @moniquefrench2862
      @moniquefrench2862 3 года назад +1

      Janina, my local library has a copy, and I've put a hold on it. Thank you for the tip!! Looking forward to a great read 😀

    • @janinafisher101
      @janinafisher101 3 года назад

      Enjoy, Monique! It is quite amazing!

  • @kimberlyhamilton864
    @kimberlyhamilton864 3 года назад +28

    If you get rid of 1 item on day 1, 2 items on day 2..... by day 30, you will have gotten rid of 528 items! That is quite a challenge but your overall suggestions are great for minimizing!

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +6

      I didn’t explain it very well so I put a not in the video description notes: On day 1 you get rid of 1thing, day 2 get rid of 2 things (over and above the 1 thing from day 1), day 3 get rid of 3 things (over and above the 1 item from day one AND the 2 items from day 2), and so on. You'll get rid of 496 items in a 31 day month.

    • @SpiralSister
      @SpiralSister 3 года назад +1

      I was thinking that too! But think she meant get rid of one item a day for a month. 😉

    • @SpiralSister
      @SpiralSister 3 года назад

      Okay, just saw she clarified.

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 3 года назад +2

      Worst part is not bringing new stuff HOME.

  • @BobbiDoll
    @BobbiDoll 3 года назад +6

    I am not a minimalist, and I don't intend to move. But I keep trying. One of these days I might even finish.

  • @kingfisher9553
    @kingfisher9553 3 года назад +9

    I love art and have a huge piece of art that hangs on the wall in my office (which was supposed to be a small dining room). The piece is 4' x 4'. I've waited 50 years to own an art piece like this and I won't be giving it up. So, although my house is considered small, I do have art on the walls and therefore need lots of wall space. I really hate clutter, however, and love hearing about minimalist practices. I like my house to have lots of open space. It creates a space of calm.

  • @ladyanlu9004
    @ladyanlu9004 3 года назад +5

    I found that one big motivation for me to downsize was the fact that I went from a 2 bedroom average apartment to a really small room at my mom's. My stuff was in storage for over 2 years, and when I finally got my own place again, it was really easy to donate a lot of the stuff, because not having room for it, and it being boxed up in storage for 2 years.

  • @elverdad6805
    @elverdad6805 3 года назад +4

    "You wanna buy me wine? No problem!"
    Love it!

  • @tomaszwyszkowski2253
    @tomaszwyszkowski2253 2 года назад +5

    We as a family downsized our posesions for years. Its a process. Our shopping habits had changed along the way, gift giving and recieving has changed as well.
    This video was great, thank you.

  • @kallasusort2986
    @kallasusort2986 3 года назад +9

    Books - tough for me. So I pulled out all the books I had from 20 years ago (keep reference books) gave them to friends or donated them. Then I went through books from 15 years ago, then 10 years ago. Our interests change through the years - so I was able to justify letting them go. Note I kept my favorite Herbal books, Spiritual books, Essential oil books, a few favorite cook books - recipes now online.

    • @menotme5560
      @menotme5560 2 года назад

      I donated a lot of my books to my local library. That way, I still have access to them but don’t have to keep them in my house.

  • @elizabethglenbentley7882
    @elizabethglenbentley7882 3 года назад +54

    Just stumbled on your Tiny House! Really enjoyed it. It was like having a conversation with a friend with good solid advice. Thanks.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +3

      Thanks Elizabeth ☺️

    • @sarahtorgerson8533
      @sarahtorgerson8533 3 года назад +3

      Yes! I've been on a mission for some time decluttering and leaning toward minimalism to help alleviate sensory issues and anxiety.
      Also looking for videos to send to my mother who needs inspiration.

  • @casey4314
    @casey4314 3 года назад +4

    Glad I found your video! What worked for me was coming to the conclusion that I had more income going out than i had income coming in. Ultra stressful. Until I accepted this to be true - I was unable to understand why I struggled so much financially. I wanted the champagne lifestyle on a beer budget so to speak. It was pure madness - I could never achieve it. So after that realization I had chosen to turn inwards. I started watching video's from from other countries such as Varanasi India Beyond, Brittany Taylors early minimalism video's, Timber Hawkeye, Sailing Zatara (they are not minimalists at all but I just LOVE this family!), and so much more. I basically googled "minimalism" and just searched and searched and searched for good quality minimalism video's such as tiny houses and van life. I became very attracted to simple living and what that gave to me. It gave me freedom. Freedom to finally breathe at last - while living with very few things. It gave me relief from financial burdens. I shopped less. Paid my bills. Purchased smarter at the grocery store. I got rid of 90% of my possessions! I wanted to live with the freedom of not owning anything I could not carry or lift myself. I don't miss a thing! I have just what I need. Currently I follow: Heal Your Living and The Minimal Mom on RUclips. Both are about beautiful people living a solid minimalist lifestyle. They are such a pleasure to watch and very inspiring! I am planning on purchasing a 60L backpack in the future and seeing if I can live out of it! Minimalism has helped me in many areas of my life including a lot of inner reflection, having a solid foundation in daily gratitude, having values and living by them! I love minimalism so much and even though it's been over 5 years practicing I am still minimizing believe it or not!!!! Anyway - however any of you out there live as a minimalist - I wish you all a beautiful day - within and without. Peace Everyone.

  • @gailh3048
    @gailh3048 3 года назад +4

    So happy that I’ve just found your channel. I’ve spent the last few weeks trying to empty my late sister in laws house. She was a terrible hoarder and saved/collected everything. It’s taking forever to undo years and years of hoarding. I’m now determined to de-clutter my own belongings so my kids don’t have to do it, so finding your channel is very timely! I followed Marie Condo and use her folding techniques too.

  • @txspacemom765
    @txspacemom765 3 года назад +10

    I'm in my year or so window of moving to somewhere smaller. I won't be in a tiny home but something around 800 square feet, from almost 1800 now. I have emptied out loft already and half of my office. My goal is to only have my desk, a lamp, chair and my desktop in my office, along with a few pictures on the wall. Both closets are empty, save for my 2 fancy dresses. I've been a minimalist for 30 years and it ebbs and flows, with your lifestyle. Sometimes I had more or less, big or small spaces. My requirement, right now, for anything I am keeping, is it used to be on a scale from 1 to 10, things had to be a 5 or above to be considered a keep. Now, it's an 9 or10 and that's it and boy! I am loving it! And I am loving my spaces! I then put like with like and saw where I had too much extra. I then organized by the categories that mattered to me: Health, work, animals, hobbies, comfort. Many things overlapped but I have what fits my lifestyle. I've been following The Minimalists for years and they are fun! Thanks for the video!

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +3

      Thanks for sharing your journey Heather 🙏🏼☺️

  • @donnabuzzella5035
    @donnabuzzella5035 3 года назад +7

    Did this once last year and could hardly remember what I even got rid of and unfortunately could not tell 500 things were gone from the house. Need to try and do this again

  • @janetbransdon3742
    @janetbransdon3742 2 года назад +1

    I love that 20 minutes or $20. It is so true. Some things like your crystal glasses and things that are considered valuable can be gifted to family and friends. I gave a dear friend of mine a gorgeous large painting he always admired. I gave it to him and when I visit him I take a few minutes and enjoy the artwork on his wall. Win win.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  2 года назад

      That’s a lovely way to approach downsizing Janet 😊❤️

  • @Ana-eb7ho
    @Ana-eb7ho 3 года назад +4

    Yes- Collect moments, not things ( but I still stay with my books...) :)

  • @KeepItSimpleSurvival
    @KeepItSimpleSurvival 3 года назад +21

    Simple is awesome! Just put all the stuff you do not need......on the side of the road, it will be gone within 24 hours!!!!!!

    • @wownewstome6123
      @wownewstome6123 3 года назад +4

      If living on a low traffic street, just post a note under craigslist's "free" section saying it's at the curb, first to grab it, it's yours. "Free" is in their "for sale" section.

    • @MmMm-dy1jb
      @MmMm-dy1jb 3 года назад +2

      I literally just did that this morning... everything was gone by 3 p.m....yay!

  • @HollyOak
    @HollyOak 3 года назад +4

    Two years ago I needed to get new glasses, so I bought stemless wine glasses. They look like an elegant water glass and have more than one use. Right now I'm in the process of decluttering and reorganising everything. It's always inspiring hearing from others who have been through it.

  • @sherrymesser9410
    @sherrymesser9410 3 года назад +8

    I enjoyed rehoming nice things I no longer needed, as well as recycling, donating and repurposing.

  • @alrightyru
    @alrightyru 3 года назад +5

    Girl you just said Alberta! I was born in YYC and raised in YEG. My apartment is only 635 sq feet and it's so cluttered! Your 10 mins of advice has already got me started. Subscribed 🙌

  • @karenwilson7295
    @karenwilson7295 3 года назад +7

    Thank you for your viewpoint. I’ve been on this minimializing path for the last year now for our own things. Nice to hear from someone that doesn’t want to sell me thing to organize my stuff. LOL. I actually do like that idea of taking everything out and then only putting back what you need. I think that would be a great way to tackle my kitchen and pantry. Good thing to do while isolating and limiting our exposure while we deal with Covid. Sending well wishes from Vancouver, stay safe.....😃

  • @tiblanes
    @tiblanes 3 года назад +4

    So excited to know you live in a tiny house in Calgary. I live in Medicine Hat. I’ve only just begun my minimalist journey and believe that minimalism is unique to each person. What is minimalist for one may not be for another. But as long as I’m working on reducing my things I am more minimalist than I was before. I don’t feel the need to compare myself to others but I do enjoy learning from the experiences and experiments of others. Thank you for your vlog. I wish you success.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад

      Thanks Tanya ☺️.

    • @Soo_Blessed
      @Soo_Blessed Год назад +2

      For some people I don't think minimalist is a good term I think simplifying is a good term have a more Simple Life but not stark and bare

  • @caseyglenar7268
    @caseyglenar7268 3 года назад +27

    I don’t plan on going tiny and I have plenty of space to “hide” things but I still feel trapped with stuff and clutter. I have been on a mission to declutter (Swedish death clean) for a year or more and have made good progress but these tips, a little from here and little from there, are so useful and are delivered in a great fashion. I have an empty in-law apartment downstairs from me where my mom lived, and that is where a lot of my excess ended up. This has given me the incentive to keep going and finally get rid of the stuff that I had a hard time letting go of. I don’t miss the stuff downstairs unless I have to deal with it, which happens regularly, so you have made me realize that if it goes somewhere else, anywhere else, I won’t have to keep dwelling on it. It’s true, anything I have donated or put to the curb (I have a great curb location for that) I no longer think about. Onward and upward then! Thank you.
    My first viewing of your videos, I subscribed. I love your couch area and windows and will go and look at the rest of your house. I am enamored with tiny houses.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +1

      Thanks Casey 😊. Good luck and stay safe 🙏🏼.

    • @wishingb5859
      @wishingb5859 3 года назад +4

      I was always confused by the types of processes that took all of the clutter from the closets and put it in the room. I always failed miserably that way. I am loading one trash bag per day and getting it out of the house right now and that works for me. When I tried to do it with everything out I would just end up with a seriously messy house for a month. It just caused me to collapse. When, instead, I look through the closet and take a few things out every day, it feels much more fun.

    • @caseyglenar7268
      @caseyglenar7268 3 года назад +1

      @@wishingb5859 I can’t do it that way either. Way too overwhelming and I don’t really have all that much clothing. My curse is paperwork. I hate sorting that.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +1

      Your system works great too. I think we all need to do what works for us personally so we don’t get overwhelmed 🙏🏼😊.

    • @wishingb5859
      @wishingb5859 3 года назад +2

      @@caseyglenar7268 My Coworker has changed my paperwork. He kept drilling it in my head, "Touch it once" and now I have a PO Box and I open the mail at the Post Office and put the envelopes and junk mail in recycling at the post office and I don't take the sales magazines out of their doors. (I could see the same magazines online) Opening the mail at the Post Office has been so good for me. I don't miss bills or tax things and I never have a pile. Once I get home, it is pay the bill and file it. If there is a letter or card from a friend, it is answer it that day. I have a magnetic document pocket attached to my fridge for things that need research but that only happens a few times per year.

  • @darthdebby
    @darthdebby 3 года назад +13

    This is such a great guide for those wanting to reduce their footprint in general. ❤️

  • @MyChico76
    @MyChico76 3 года назад +12

    My issue with trying to downsize is I have thought's of "I paid a lot of money for that. I can't just get rid of it'" I gotta get over that mentality. I have way too many things I really do not use often.

    • @carolynwhelan8633
      @carolynwhelan8633 3 года назад +1

      FaceBook marketplace!!

    • @2TexasTuff
      @2TexasTuff 3 года назад +1

      Laura Sylvia I know what you mean.

    • @poodlegirl55
      @poodlegirl55 3 года назад +4

      I had to get my mind around the fact that keeping useless stuff doesn't get you your money back.

    • @the76libra2
      @the76libra2 3 года назад

      That's my issue too. I have enough stuff in my 3 bedroom 3 car garage house that there's no room to fit or move or do anything. I can barely park my lil SUV in the garage. I am in desperate need or goi g thru n reorganizing n getti g rid of stuff too. The stuff I can get to is all "new" n I can't get thru my head of getting rid of stuff I'll need sooner or later n that's still good. Plus being physically disabled really sets me back. I can't lift n move boxes to get thru my garage n organize n ean it. I can only stand a few minutes at a time n sitting up isn't very long either. I am binge watching these videos n videos from others n one way or another I gotta get it done. Thank you for how your videos are just like a conversation with a friend instead of lectures or dictative. What works for one doesn't always work for the next, as you said. You have great advice n I really enjoy your videos.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for sharing Bridget. Stay well and safe 🙏🏼❤️.

  • @tiki424ma
    @tiki424ma 2 года назад +6

    I’m in the process of downsizing to prepare for when my 4 th son graduates next summer. I will be selling my 3 bdm home and it will be a major undertaking after 30 plus years raising kids. My biggest challenge is photos! I’m researching tiny homes and appreciate your info and tips. You are doing exactly what I’m hoping to do! except living in a cold climate, i’ve been in Wisconsin for 30 yrs and never want to shovel or drive in snow again!!

    • @HappyNurse47
      @HappyNurse47 2 года назад +1

      What did you end up doing with the photos? I am facing this challenge right now. I hate to just throw them away but in this era of digital pictures....

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  2 года назад +2

      I have my photo albums in a tote in the shed under the gooseneck.

  • @anitaluevano9643
    @anitaluevano9643 3 года назад +16

    I make it a rule every 2 weeks I go through my stuff and donate to salvation army if I buy i thing from the store it tames me keeps me from over stuffing my house and it feels good to donate

  • @alissonvonderlane862
    @alissonvonderlane862 3 года назад +13

    Your tiny house life has really reassured me on the 'feasibility' of that project. Minimalist in spirit :-)

  • @BRuthable
    @BRuthable Год назад +3

    Hello…this is so helpful to me and I’m just halfway thru the video! I wanted to tell you it really is helpful as I have been working on downsizing for over a year. I have been donating lots of things but have so much more to do. My husband of 47 years passed and I decided after about 3 years that I needed a smaller home. Living in this 2 story house 43 years has accumulated much. Thank you for sharing helpful information! Best wishes!

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  Год назад

      I'm so sorry for your loss 🥺. It's a process so take your time ❤️.

  • @godsservant6649
    @godsservant6649 3 года назад +10

    Love this video & your calm soothing voice! Thank you! I love blessing people with items and books that I think that they would enjoy. So far I am batting 💯 percent. It becomes a joy rather than a burden to let go of those things knowing that they will continue to have a “good home.”God bless!!

  • @chameleonsandcaramel5979
    @chameleonsandcaramel5979 3 года назад +5

    Thanks for the video! I’m probably not going to be moving into a “tiny house” but most likely will be having to downsize majorly (for me) in a few months. You gave me some helpful information to feel like there are things I can go ahead and start doing to feel like I will be able to make that transition more smoothly for myself. My biggest problems with downsizing in general are 1) I am EXTREMELY sentimental, and 2) my “maybe” pile or “not sure” basket ends up way too big. Like WAY bigger than the “get rid of” pile. But hey, I guess every little bit counts. The $20, 20 minutes thing was helpful, too, as well as being reminded “what do you want more? What is more important or priority to you?” Thanks a bunch.

  • @Rita-yw2tn
    @Rita-yw2tn 3 года назад +9

    I’m so happy that you popped up on here I’ve been wanting to find some kind of help to declutter for quite some time now thank you so much for sharing this with us . I’m starting by just going through a few drawers & my clothes . I feel that if I haven’t worn something & still hanging in the closet I don’t need or want it anymore . I’ve got a lot of memories from my parents since they passed away but , I’m letting most everything go . Again , thank you for sharing this sweetie I love it !!!

  • @ceres4786
    @ceres4786 3 года назад +33

    I would like to know how to make the gingerbread creamer!!

  • @lonniereagh8061
    @lonniereagh8061 3 года назад +7

    Adelina I love your channel and could watch you all day! You're like listening to a good friend. It makes me wish I could sit and have coffee with you! I did my second downsize about 5 years ago, and at that time I had to put most of my things in storage for 3 months. I remember so clearly having the closest thing to a panic attack I've experienced because my storage space was too small and everything would not fit, so I rented a second space. Over the 3 months, I couldn't even remember most of what I had in there and by time I moved in to my condo had donated or sold most of it. I felt a HUGE weight had been lifted and will never forget how good it felt. I haven't missed one thing! It was such a good life lesson!
    Also, being vegan, I would LOVE your creamer recipe! You are so inspiring! Looking forward to your next video! 😊

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад

      Hi Lonnie. Yes, that’s how I felt when I finally let go of those ‘maybe’ items. The creamer recipe is on the way 🙏🏼☺️.

    • @lonniereagh8061
      @lonniereagh8061 3 года назад

      @@myBIGtinyhouselife
      Thanks for replying. You made my day! 😊 Looking forward to trying the creamer. Enjoy your week in the snow!

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +2

      Stay safe ☺️

  • @michelejones5538
    @michelejones5538 3 года назад +2

    We’re trying to get rid of all the crap we collect. We’re such hoarders, and in a 1000 square foot house, that doesn’t work well. We had rat paths through our house, not really easy to move around. 90% of the stuff we really do not need.

  • @rachelcarvell4831
    @rachelcarvell4831 Год назад +1

    I will be moving out of state and into a room half the size of my apartment bedroom which is already very small. The process if condensing my life has been overwhelming. You gave a lot of tools for my tool box and have helped me so much!

  • @elviragutierrez8396
    @elviragutierrez8396 3 года назад +5

    Ahhhhhh, your voice is so relaxing, and I can concentrate and learn from you!!!! Thank you.

  • @dcharmed2
    @dcharmed2 3 года назад +17

    I've told you this before: I wish you were my mom.❤ I really feel that I could learn a lot from you. I believe we could have fun conversations over pancakes and coffee (I drink only black coffee, by the way.😉) I heart you. ❤💋

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад +8

      Thanks Jenny. I spent hours and hours with my mom in the kitchen having coffee, eating freshly baked bread and talking. I miss her so much but when I bake it reminds me of her. My youngest (21) also drinks coffee black ☺️❤️.

  • @LydiaKrow
    @LydiaKrow 3 года назад +4

    This is very good advice! Very relatable for me how you went from accumulation to deliberately downsizing. I've been a minimalist for most of my life (though to be fair I've noticed the criteria for minimalism has shifted somewhat, so I'm no longer considered minimalist), but if you have to downsize all at once, my best tip is to think of the things that you like to obsess over and let yourself have as much of that as you can /neatly contain/ in your space. That could mean a lot of different things - when I moved in with my partner I downsized an entire craft room into one 6' tall, 4' wide bookshelf by focusing on my obsession with paper crafting. I got rid of everything else, most of which I discovered I didn't use more than once or twice a year. Also recognize if you are a novelty junkie, like I am. I love having new pens, but I get disgusted after a while because I have WAY TOO MANY, so I constantly have to fight the urge to buy new stationery. It's maddening, but worth it because I feel so much calmer in a clean, organized space.

  • @lorrainemarcketta489
    @lorrainemarcketta489 3 года назад +3

    Thanks so much for this presentation. Your way of describing the process is so down-to-earth and stress-free. Really loved it.

  • @tiffnb90
    @tiffnb90 3 года назад +3

    My 3rd (and youngest child) just moved out this week. Feeling the empty nest in a BIG way! Projects like the 31 day challenge will help keep my mind off having an empty nest which I am struggling with at the moment and also accomplishing a big goal at the same time. Looking forward to doing some home improvement tasks as well and maybe one day I can transition to a tiny home - it is a dream! Thanks for the motivation.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад

      It’s bittersweet when your kids head out on their own. Good luck ❤️🙏🏼.

  • @AKim-uu4hg
    @AKim-uu4hg 3 года назад +1

    Loved your video - and you made me laugh! Your closet rod idea is brilliant! It's so hard to get rid of things but once you do it, it feels so good to see clear space instead of clutter. Thank you for your video!!

  • @jenniferbentzen160
    @jenniferbentzen160 3 года назад +1

    Thank you.... all of you beautiful souls. This was pleasant and helpful. The calmness in your presentation and the factual tips you shared is truly inspiring.

  • @narcep437
    @narcep437 3 года назад +4

    That’s an amazing tip to store your maybes for a while, that was really helpful

  • @vickiniazi8280
    @vickiniazi8280 3 года назад +48

    I would like the gingerbread creamer

  • @michelewynn9140
    @michelewynn9140 3 года назад +1

    I love watching your videos ☺️. I'm going tiny in the spring and you're right, it is a challenge at first to pair down, but once you start, it's actually kind of fun.

  • @missmable6015
    @missmable6015 3 года назад +17

    One of my tips is ....if I've not used it in 6 months or more, it's gave away or donated.

    • @birgip.m.1236
      @birgip.m.1236 3 года назад +4

      That doesn't work in a place with multiple seasons that occur in a year and come around a year later.

  • @cf6468
    @cf6468 3 года назад +4

    Great ideas. I just pulled all of my clothes out and picked out the things I hadn't worn in a year. I did this several times. Each time changing the reason for not needed something. It felt so good. I need to go through one more time and I think i will have my clothes done. I love the hanger idea. Thank you again!💕🐈

  • @stephaniedaniels9285
    @stephaniedaniels9285 3 года назад +3

    Great advise!!! Minimizing stuff gave me so much freedom!!

  • @rondaduse-anthony6755
    @rondaduse-anthony6755 3 года назад +1

    I love this video! You're touching on the points I've struggled with, it's helpful. Thanks for sharing - you're very inspirational ♡

  • @RobertPeru2749
    @RobertPeru2749 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much. The lease to my apartment is up at the end of this year and I plan on moving into a class b motorhome. I realize to most that would seem like plenty of time to get rid of the majority of my things but I'm the type of person that has a hard time letting things go. Your ideas will certain help me achieve my goals. Thanks again!

  • @elizabethrichmond2934
    @elizabethrichmond2934 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for this video. It is everything that I needed to hear today. I've been agonizing over downsizing. How to do it, how to get started etc. I've been an emotional and physical wreck thinking about this. But your calm approach has helped me to confirm this is what I want to do and not to be afraid of missing my things for needing something after the fact. The $20 / 20 minute tip Will be employed :-)

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  2 года назад +2

      I’m glad it helped ❤️😊.

    • @minkademko2335
      @minkademko2335 Год назад +1

      I had to "flip the switch" in my attitude about my stuff before I could get rid of it. I'm still going through it, and it's been over a year. What a mental process, finding the strength, and the right attitudes, to eliminate possessions!

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  Год назад +1

      It can very difficult. It's a one step at a time thing for sure ☺️❤️

  • @tzipporah7635
    @tzipporah7635 3 года назад +7

    Thank you for this video and all these tips! Im actually moving in with my partner in a few months, with my 2 kids and his, 3. So, we are not downsizing at all! Itll be 7 people under one roof. So, having tips like this can be a lifesaver/space saver in a larger home as well😊

  • @michelleortega1514
    @michelleortega1514 3 года назад +2

    I moved from a 3 bd 2 bath apt to a 26 foot travel trailer.I got rid of everything except some cloathes and family pictures.I kept my cast iron skillet,2 saucepan and a small frying pan.I kept 4 plates,bowls and glasses.Its been great .I have had to buy a few things for my rv like a small vacuum but otherwise its been good

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад

      That’s awesome!! Glad to hear you are loving your new lifestyle ☺️.

  • @thatdayintimebysue3551
    @thatdayintimebysue3551 3 года назад +6

    Great tips! This video showed up in my feed at a great time since we just downsized from a five bedroom house with an attic and garage to one of two bedrooms with no attic or garage. Though we spent the last two years clearing out, we still brought way too much stuff. We did rent off site storage, and your tips will help when we start clearing that out. For me, one of the biggest issues was also the kitchen, but my craft stuff runs a close second. Many thanks!

    • @maggielarge7293
      @maggielarge7293 3 года назад

      Ahh, craft stuff! I still hope to convert the attic to a craft room, but alas there is too much other stuff up there now. My goal is to minamalize, repair this old house, and make it worth a fortune fir the next home owner.

  • @forgetthatgirl
    @forgetthatgirl 3 года назад +3

    Just came across your video and so happy to find a fellow Canadian living in a tiny house, I’m currently in a condo,but eventually want to get out and move into a tiny house. I’ve also been practicing a more minimalist lifestyle for three years and still working on reducing my possessions

  • @youtimeful
    @youtimeful 3 года назад +3

    Would LOVE the recipe! I am so glad to find your channel. So many times I feel the tiny home videos are from people who aren’t into cooking, or varying their wardrobes, etc. Thank you for all you share.

    • @myBIGtinyhouselife
      @myBIGtinyhouselife  3 года назад

      I just filmed it and will upload tomorrow. Stay safe 🙏🏼☺️