I think it should be common practice to start leaving hateful comments and bullying the shit out of ALL family channels no matter if they have done anything wrong or not - simply cause the idea of using kids for clout is fucking disgusting and probably puts them in a 90% chance of doing something sick.
By that logic money is a basic human necessity too because you need money to buy food. And having a safe income source IS a privilege. Just saying that to get the food you have to be in the club
@@debeb5148ruby is in the top spot of this club, her channel makes her family millions, and she still withholds food she absolutely has lots of as punishment. also, you don't stop needing food if you don't have a job. it's necessary whether you're broke or not.
@SquidimirLeninclesIt's not that they didn't, they unfortunately can't in any meaningful manner. Police can only trigger CPS interventions, not open a criminal investigation. Unfortunately, police can only intervene if they actually observe abuse or overt neglect. Her videos aren't concrete evidence of abuse; after her arrest, they'll now be evidence. Without cooperation from the children or verifiable abuse, it's extremely difficult for CPS to actually do something concrete. Her videos don't qualify as proof of neglect or abuse for an investigation to proceed successfully. Now that there's absolute proof, hopefully those children will be able to trust enough to really talk about what went on. Their statements will help connect police calls, teacher concerns, the videos and any CPS calls that didn't have enough actionable material. If this woman would have had a CPS visit, I think it's more than likely that she could have snowed the investigator, then been prepared for any future visits.
@SquidimirLenincles From a June 2023 article on the idiotic Texas governments BS attempt to keep providing care that literally doesn't meet the Federal standard for the other 49 states. Not joking. "Faced with a troubled foster care system and a 12-year-long lawsuit for putting children in state custody at risk, Texas legislators this year made sweeping changes to state agencies that look after vulnerable kids removed from their homes. But legislators’ focus was less on conditions for children in the system and more on reducing the number of kids entering state care. The Legislature zeroed in on how child abuse investigations kick off and play out, making it harder for the Department of Family and Protective Services to remove children from homes, saying parents facing abuse accusations are entitled to more rights. While lawmakers ironed out new policies on investigations to prevent kids from entering the system, they stuck to basic fixes for children already in the state’s care. In one instance, they mandated the state provide foster kids duffel bags and backpacks - instead of trash bags - to transport their belongings. For years, the state has been entangled in a federal lawsuit for putting children in state custody at risk. The judge in the case first declared in 2015 that children age out of the system more damaged than when they enter. Since then, court watchdogs have found that caretakers misused psychotropic drugs, residential facilities housing kids were not in compliance with safety standards and that the state child welfare agency was not tracking child-on-child abuse."
@@shawncat This is mostly only true for relatively wealthy white people. CPS regularly takes kids away from less fortunate people for extremely sketchy reasons when you compare it to what has been going on in this case.
The bed-wetting bit hit deep. As a former bed-wetter in my youth, there is nothing more embarrassing than having to to your parent and admit you 'messed up' again. My mother understood that my body was just growing at an awkward pace, it really doesn't matter if you drink anything right before bed. To think this poor girl was forced to sleep on the bathroom floor. Absolutely infuriating. I certainly hope these children find peace and not believe that any of this was their fault.
Usually happens when the kid is stressed too. So the parents need to stick together,find out what's stressing them out n get it sorted n work it out to make it stress free homelife for the sake of the kids.
I never understood nor will I ever understand parents getting mad at children for bed wetting. It's not like they *want* to, it's probably humiliating and uncomfortable for them enough without the shaming. And I'm pretty sure such a negative reaction to it from parents makes it even worse
I actually looked into it. Medically this is quite normal and just how the body works. Once the child reaches a certain age the bed wetting simply stops. It's biology. Happened to me. I wet the bed and then it just cleared up without me doing anything. Like a switch just flipped in my brain. Kind of like getting mad a person's nose runs.
@@kennyhogg5820 yeah its very, very common for children from the ages to 3 to 7 to wet the bed, which I assume it was her 6 year old, unless she had another younger kid, so it is very common for her. the stress thing and comes up more to kids of the age of 8 and up who still wet the bed, than its more of a problem. I am pretty sure most people can say they wet the bed at least once as a kid, I still remember mine and I was like 5 and Im 25 now, because it is quite embarrassing even a kid doing it once (which I think I did, but Im not my parent, so who knows what I don't remember)
I was sent to wilderness therapy just before i turned 18. It was miserable. Ive hated even luxury camping for a weekend since i was a child and my parents knew that, but they sent me anyway. I get out of the shower one night after having a totally normal day and suddenly im in a car driving from chicago to North Carolina with total strangers. 100 straight days. I definitely can say that it helped with /some/ things but my life has never been the same since then. Its like how most people see covid nowadays, the time before and the time after are completely different eras. It is deeply traumatizing and it feels like youre being thrown away. You have zero freedom, zero personal belongings short of underwear, zero access to the outside world. You dont get to make decisions. You dont have free will. You cant read. You cant play games. You cant talk to people unsupervised. You cant eat when you want to. You dont even get to decide when to go to the bathroom. Not that there even is a bathroom, theres a hole in the ground. Which they made us dig ourselves. The motto of those places should be “we expect you to act like adults while being treated like toddlers”. I wish i had seen this video sooner so more people would see this. August, if you see this comment, please, please do a video on these horrible places. Tell our stories. Trails Carolina was the name of the place i was sent if you need a place to start. Thanks to anyone whos read this far. I hope the world can see what wilderness therapy really is.
I’m sorry if I sound mean but I’m genuinely curious. Based on the things you went through, if you had a choice would you feel safer at boot camp or wilderness therapy? Cause both seem horrendous in my opinion. If you can’t keep your child under control and have to resort to sending them to an abusive place to get their behavior “fixed”, then you’re an unfit parent and should’ve never had the child..
@@XkiR0z i wasnt even "out of control", i was depressed autistic 17 year old with parents who didnt know what to do with that so made me someone else's problem lol. And i have never been to and know very little about military boot camp so i dont think im qualified to speak on a comparison of the two.
@@ShadeGaming4444 Oh jeez, I’m really sorry you went through that! I hope you can recover from the trauma it might’ve given you. I actually didn’t even know what wilderness therapy was until August told me to look it up which I did. It disgusts me that these places aren’t shut down. Especially since from what I’m aware, some kids get really badly injured or even die. It’s a wonder why people haven’t done anything to shut them down yet. They don’t help with kids problems, they just give them eternal PTSD.
That's why those things are highly illegal in most of the developed world (and even large parts of developing). The covid before/after, hm, I do understand the picture, what you're trying to say, but now that got ME curious. Because, at least where I live, people usually don't think that there's a before/after situation (just a "during" and everything else). (Apart from antivaxx and/or conspiracy people, but I'm talking about the majority of normal people.)
I was 13 and I was in wilderness at the start of covid so I thought people were joking. we had no way to know about outside events other than what the staff decided to tell you and the one letter a week you get from your parents. I was at SUWS of the Carolinas for 73 days, it was horrible
What pisses me off the most is, IF what the neighbor claimed about trying to get the police's help multiple times and the police doing jack shit is true, that means if the child NEVER MANAGED TO ESCAPE THIS PSYCHO, it means this would have continued. It makes me even sick thinking about this situation.
@@Ssylphie the police are technically under no legal obligation to protect anyone from anything. Legally speaking, cops exist to protect property, not people. They should have said there was a black teenager vandalizing something; that would have gotten officers on site immediately. #TheMoreYouKnow
This woman is exactly like my own mother, using food and other needs as punishment, using public shaming, treating infants as if they are adults and revelling in the power she has over somebody else as if they were objects, using excessive restraint. She even uses the same "You're not supposed to like me" line. The worse part for me is that I know the children will have to deal with people trying to downplay the abuse and trauma because so many turd-heads will try and play it as "Oh but she only wanted what's best for you" in full sincerity. I am glad these children managed to get out.
It's difficult to realize just how INSANE people like this are when you're going through it personally because everything seems kind of normal.🫠 Therapy would be your best friend. I wish you the best and hope you're doing better now.
I feel so Bad for you, sounds like you didn't get to live your Childhood. Sometimes i Make myself not eat because i feel ive already eaten a egg of a Apple today and thats all i Will eat cause i feel i Will become fat and not eat to The point i feel sick. I would not eat If My Moms would not Make me. But enough about me. Who cares about me? I Know i dont. Brobably not My friends or family, they brobably just feel obligated to. But how was your Day❤️?
I'm a father of a 3 year old and I literally can't comprehend how you can treat a child these ways. Me and my wife show nothing but love to our daughter and it hurts to think about how miserable these kids must be
Being a parent is rough, the best you can do is to make sure you do better then those who were horrible, and make sure that you raise your kid to be a decent person.
Everything she’s done to her kids is sickening but the part where she deprived them food as punishment I just couldn’t wrap my head around. One of the greatest joys I get out of being a mother is feeding my kids and even the little chew noises they make or the way they try to talk to me with a mouth full of food. Anybody else and open mouth eating noises I can’t stand but something about my kids eating a good warm meal brings me immense joy and satisfaction. My oldest of my 2 kids is 12 and I still make his lunches for school every morning because I want him to eat good. Both my kids are always welcome to help themselves to the fridge and cuboards whenever they please. And also I know they will be more content and behave better if they have full bellies. Even adults act out when they are hungry. There’s no logic or reason behind using food deprivation for any kind of punishment for anyone.
@@diondotyx7015 Food deprivation is a very old punishment that parents would use in rare situations, but its something you don't really see anymore since it can get the parents or any adults watching over them in trouble. The only people who use such penalties are either old-school parents who don't really try to adapt, or crazy people who really need to be dealt with.
Agreed, and it would still be her responsibility! She's just trying to throw her own child under the bus. How would a 3 year old access p*rn if a parent is being mindful of their child's online activities? How could she allow her child to ab*se multiple people in her family if she knew it was happening?? Why did she not seek actual help for her child instead of abusing him in hopes it'd fix the issue??? It's so mind-boggling to think she believed that using her child's supposed behaviour would be enough to excuse her of neglect and abuse. Those poor children 😔
I wouldnt be surprised if it was in fact her and her accomplice doing the sxual abuse because they have been arrested and investigated so she quickly reveal her own child doing these things before he spoke up
@@ugh55 - Exactly. If she is telling the truth, then she's just dug the hole deeper for herself, because kids that young usually only get into sexual things if they are being sexually abused.
I don’t believe Ruby regarding the SA she alleges her child did for a few reasons: the kids didn’t seem to have access to smart devices, a 3 year old wouldn’t know how to search for prn, Ruby’s idea of what is immoral/pornographic is very odd considering how irate she was about the Flo Rider song, in the interview of Jodi’s niece Jessie they said they were accused of things they did not do so to me it seems Jodi may have told Ruby that the child was doing things and the child may have even ‘confessed’ because people will ‘confess’ to things to stop being tortured and it is clear the two youngest were being abused to a degree most would call torture.
This vile woman sent her son away for having social media, took away his bed. Called her daughter fat for eating when she was hungry. Wouldn’t give her SIX year old daughter lunch cause “she should of made it”. When the teacher texted her out of concern that she had nothing to eat.
It's even more disgusting when you listen to the podcast she did with that woman where they talk about being ok with your child not loving you. It's even crazier that the other woman (her business partner) was supposedly some kind of therapist or something, she used to work helping people out of their addictions and what not.
@@SK-rs1hu Bro if a therapist is "hurting" you than what you need is a psychiatrist, because clearly you need drugs to deal with your issues. They are there to give advice, if you don't respect them than you won't respect their advice and they won't respect you. You find someone who you can stand talking to, if their advice still "hurts" you than maybe you are not ready for introspection. Try hard drugs instead. If it wasn't for my therapist I never would have realized I have PTSD, and may still be using a dozen bags of heroin every day.
"Victim is when a person chooses not to be responsible for themselves." I've never wanted to hit a person more in my entire life. This is like... the embodiment of an abuser's mindset. The victim is always at fault no matter what. The victim isn't *really* a victim, the abuser is just forcing them to take responsibility. The victim is in the wrong, the abuse is just consequences. This woman is even more royally fucked up than I thought.
What's sad about it is that there's no way she could of naturally been that way. I'm not defending her behavior in any way and its unbelievable and unfortunate what she has done but she's doing that because her parents probably acted that way towards her and to her its just "natural parenting" to her.
Can we just give her a round of applause for the neighbors? They obviously saw that something was going on it instead of ignoring it, they tried to help. Those are some W neighbors right there and a great example of being neighborly.
As someone who has been abused by a parent seeing a mother so shamelessly record and admit that she abuses her children is just awful a parent is supposed to be someone who cares for you and loves you not be sadistically cruel and starve your kids
DISCLAIMER: I SUPPORT FURRIES. But I can see why your parents abused you as someone from the so called “normal” people and furry community and I’m sorry you went through that it’s just sad to see how toxic today’s world is
@@The_Foxy2039 what in tf is wrong with you, how insensitive can you be. Also its not like they were a furry from the moment they were born, you need to sought out your empathy.
whoa.. yea when u think about this very youtube channel predicted this event almost perfectly accurate. family channels need to be looked at very closely ruby needs to face much worse than just jail. i sure hope the inmates and correctional officers treat her with very "special" care. evil deserves to at least face the suffering that their victims faced
Danielle Burgoli (Catch me outside girl from Dr Phil) talks about being sent to this kinda Ranch where the kids were basically neglected or humiliated. Now that she's more famous with her music career, she was able to be heard about it. While I agree one could say she was out of control, she was just a child.
The teenage camp thing happened to a good friend of mine. His family were strict religious folks that'd do stuff like cutting power to the house and having the kids hide under the bed on Halloween. He's got Asperger's and was over diagnosed meds to the point he was basically a drug addict by the time he was a teen. One day he literally brought a gun to school in his backpack because of bullies. His grandma caught him and they sent him to that camp. He was only supposed to do like a month there but he did it for like 6 months. They'd strip search him and basically fed him only bread and water for multiple months. He went from being obese to very skinny.
In high school, these girls I'd hang out with would put the ACE family on when we had free time at the end of Community and Families Studies. I felt so uncomfortable in a way I couldn't describe. It was uncanny, and disturbing. And they tried to play it off like " they're just documenting their child grow up, and posting it. Whats wrong with that?". It was the "and posting it" part. Childhoods are meant to be sacred and special, not plastered across the internet without express, fully informed consent from the child. For example, child actors: they audition, they take time to grow accustomed to the idea of being on screen, they can comsent to that. But having mundane, even embarrassing childhood experiences put up for stramgers, particularly unsavoury types, to see? It's ethically wrong.
the only "family channels" i've ever heard of have been abusive and/or neglectful, at this point i doubt there is a single family channel that doesn't mistreat the crap out of their kids.
Any that show their children regularly can be abusive. There's a select few channels nowadays that have family content without exploiting the kids. Mommacusses is one that acts out their kids parts instead of using them. There's a couple others who do similar things, and I can appreciate that. There's no real way to tell through the screen what they're like off camera, but at least they have better parenting tips than "withhold necessities from your child"...
you know why that is? Those are the people that feel they need to go out of their way to show the rest of us what a wonderful loving normal family they have. NOBODY except complete psychos feel the need to let anyone else see inside their home to that degree or feel the need to prove such a thing. They do it BECUASE they are abusers and don't want anyone knowing.
@crispinbotticelli4082 Eh, the Father could be a ruthless jerk (If I remember correctly, he makes his child cry sometimes) at times but aside from that, it looks fine. (Also, Hadn't watched FGTeev in years, so don't really have much to say about them)
@@isreallytoastyhere3711 Sadly its true I was just emotionally abused as a kid and I still hear my Mum's horrible words towards me or her gas lighting me and more...I can't imagine what these kids will go through I do hope they at least get a lot of help.
I had been waiting for months, I found out about this lady a few months ago from Atozy, and since then I was like " I really, really hope someone looks into her and her family." I'm glad the police finally rescued the kids, and I hope they get better lives after this.
I'm so glad August actually went into detail of this person's abominable "parenting." This is absolutely disgusting. Anyone who commits these atrocities against children should receive life imprisonment and I hope she goes away for a painfully long time.
FINALLY! Some fricking Justice! This woman deserves to be arrested and I really hope she gets the punishment she deserves. And hopefully the children will be taken under people who will take better care of them then this evil women never could
Well, they'll just be sent into the foster care system which is an underfunded and unsupervised can of worms... I wish them the best of luck. I hope it's better than the horrific situation they were in but I won't hold my breath. As a society, we don't look out for abused children in any way that would be considered humane.
As a former abused child seeing things like “let’s take a moment to realize how much better our life is then the abused kids” Like yeah I fricking know my life is bad…saying stuff like this is really heartbreaking for everyone but especially those that understand the pain.
This is just disgusting- the only thing as bad as the abuse is her being in court acting like the abuse is able to be justified. She’s such a liar but even so if a three year old is watching those kind of videos their parents are to blame. Who looked at her and decided that they wanted to emulate her parenting? Crazy.
@@meredithjohnson2843 exactly. It's depressing that she got famous at this and that people think she's a good parent. Some people have claimed she's "got old fashioned parenting style" but my boomer dad even thought starving kids was a bad idea and my grandma realized it was a bad idea part way through kid #2 of 7, and her parents didn't even do that. Back in ye olden times it was even considered a bad idea since back in the day kids had to work and laborers work a lot less at physical labor when they're starving. Back in the 70s it was already becoming unpopular since it was feared starving kids would make them become obsessive with food and either over eat and get fat or under eat ans become spindly little weaklings, ans now we know that it can be more damaging than that. The other things like taking away a kids bed or grounding a kid for months for asking what movie they're going to see isn't even strict parenting or old fashioned parenting, its pure abuse.
dude… talk about jodi, ruby’s connections partner. she abused her niece when she was a teenager, and had a lot of power in the mormon church. recently, the niece was interviewed on the mormon stories podcast and her story is FUCKING CRAZY. her story needs to be heard- i’m telling you! jodi and ruby are absolute monsters.
If a child is “assaulting” another child, that’s typically a sign of abuse being done to that child. So either she’s lying, or she’s choosing to ignore harm done to her children in favor of harming them herself
One of my best friends got kidnapped in the middle of the night and sent to the woods for months without knowing why or when (or even if) he'd be able to get back. His parents did that to him. WTF
You are right, August. either things are labeled as being drama ... or racist. And she laughs while talking about starving her kids. Truly evil. Not drama, just EVIL.
8:38 at my camp, there was a girl in my cabin who had gone to one of these. Her abusive father had signed her up for it, I remember she was talking about being kidnapped, hiking everyday, wearing the same clothes and underwear that would get so disgusting and they couldn’t change. I think she’s better now and out of the hands of her father.
This is absolutely awful! There's no excuse for any parent to abuse or neglect their own children. It's heartbreaking to think about the countless loving adults out there who would give anything to have kids while situations like this continue to happen.
Hope you're feelin better, bud. Thanks for the content (: It was super obvious that this lady was abusive towards her children. Glad something is finally happening.
I’ve seen kids from situations like these. No words can describe the pain I want to inflict on Ruby for putting those children through literal hell. Thanks for talking about this, August. If anybody reads this, please if you can support the children if you can as they’re still needing the support, even if they’re out of that hellhouse. I think the eldest daughter is putting up a full google doc with evidence to help her in court.
I was just thinking of a movie called "let's go to prison." Where the main character sells drugs to a cop intentionally getting himself locked in with someone he wants to beat up every day. I have a feeling she will be in a special security unit because too many people would do her harm.
Occasionally, I was sent to bed without dinner. It wasn't "trauma" for me it was a lesson learned. But the extent this person went with her children is disgusting and should result in serious jail time.
one night without dinner is a normal punishment, but you make sure you feed your kid the next morning. I know parents normally use this when kids refuse what was made for dinner, so they let the kid choose to eat it or wait till breakfast as a lesson. I don't think thats abuse but hey I am not a parent, just know from when i was a kid and what I hear on TV and such.
Similar thing…. I was told that home wasn’t a restaurant and that I’ll eat what was made when I’m hungry ( I did) that happened very rarely …. But this lady took it to another level! Not even jail punishes you like this.
@@charliehofmann3524 You can't force a child to eat. If they're not going to eat dinner that's their choice but they'll have to go to bed hungry. My family doesn't have it like that so safe to say I'll have to implement the same for my daughter. We don't live in a palace, the pantry isn't stocked with snacks you can munch on all night. 🤷🏽 I've had to eat food I don't like as well. Which is usually oatmeal or some lentils with pasta.
This is why I like the family fudge as a family channel. It's literally just the mom showing the meals she makes her kids and what they wound up eating, she never shows their faces unless they're on a vacation and it's only if they wanna be on camera.
Can you imagine the stunted communication skills between these kids and the outside world? Can you imagine what relationships/marriage would be like for the kid who was denied a movie because they asked what movie they were going to? They’d be terrified to ask/talk about anything. I sincerely hope those kids get good, solid therapy after this.
Hi! Child of a facebook "family vlogger". Privacy is not a place in ways I cannot explain. For example my bird died, she was my baby, and she filmed me crying while my child was being buried. Even though she didnt post it I had to live in fear it might be. Another example is if I film something or make a video so I can show just friends/family or keep it for myself she makes me send it to her under the promise its A. Not gonna be posted or B. Only for family but it always end up posted for monetization. I am very pro anti family vlogger
When you get old enough to move out, I hope you do and I hope you never speak to your parents again because I wouldn’t. I know that if my cat died right now and my mom recorded me crying and probably slap the shit out of.
@tylerplayzgamez So, why are you commenting? You took the time to type and post the comment didn’t you? You could’ve saved that time and scrolled past this comment.
@tylerplayzgamez7668 Yeah I know it was, but making a joke about someone sharing their similar experiences about something that negatively effected them, can make it seem like your undermining their personal experience, and it’s just not the best thing to do mate.
The way i was raised and treated by almost everyone already fucked me up. But add millions of people calling me a loser on top of that, I'd be so fucked up there'd be no fixing it.
Family channels are so terrible and so is most of social media. The way social dynamics have changed and now literal child abuse is seen as worthy content to quite a few people is truly disturbing, and we wonder why more and more cases are popping up
There was one where she pulled over for an accident they weren't in to see if the others were okay (no doubt trying to get something on camera). But then she specifically talked to the 6 year-old and told her "We should have been in that accident".
This hits me especially hard as I work with kids for my job. I currently work as a Campus Supervisor (the guys in the Neon Green Vests) at the middle School I went to as a kid, and I'm currently enrolled in college classes to help me become an Elementary School Teacher. Every aspect of my career path centers around making sure kids are healthy and happy. So to know that a group of kids were suffering like this, and the one making them suffer was *their own mother,* Well... _It makes my blood boil._
those poor poor babies, im so happy they’re safe edit: as i commented this i wasn’t really into the video so i had 0 clue what this woman did in depth, and oh my god. She’s legit insane, those children will never heal, no matter what kind of therapy they go through. i’m going to pray (even though i’m not religious) that they find peace within themselves, thank whatever god there is they’ve finally got justice
the thing this made me realise is that none of this is normal and it's still so weird to me. im 22 years old now and it still surprises me when i hear about people talk about these things, and then going "oh wait, i forgot not everyone experienced that" because thats how i grew up. its horrible, and i hope those kids are doing better now
Family channels should be illegal. There is no other reason than exploitation. Who in their right mind would want strangers watching their children on the internet anyway?
RUclips must step up and do something about these family channels, I'm not gonna hold my breath for something to be done because RUclips in typical RUclips fashion always ignores issues in their platform. I feel bad for the kids having to go through all that stuff, no kid deserves anything like this, ever.
I will never understand why they don't do shit about these types of channels but yet if a gamer says one bad word they jump all over that. RUclips is horrible for not doing something.
We learned the difference between needs and wants in kindergarten. With that being said, food, shelter, and a stable home environment are not wants- they are needs. Basic human needs.
You can never get over abuse. I was consistently abused by most of my family as a child and teen. You can recover from some of the damage enough to be able to enjoy life and get past it but abuse does damage that lasts forever. That said, I completely agree and that is a terrible mother.
Ruby said that eating was a *privilege*. So she was starving her children and blaming them for her abuse. She also left them alone for days on end. I hope the courts throw all the books at her. I feel so bad for those children. It’s not going to be easy to deprogram them and convince them that they’re not bad. They have been programmed to be exactly what their mom wanted them to be. Including following her instructions in their religion. My brother and I grew up in a fundamentalist Christian cult, and it’s taken years to change our beliefs about religion. The number 1 reason why my mom got I’d into the cult was because the church convinced her that our souls were in danger. They also encouraged her abuse and told her it was necessary to save our souls. I hope they are surrounded by people who love them and will help them deprogram.
As someone who grew up in similarly abusive households, the one nice thing about social media is that at least people and posting evidence of how they abuse their children. A lot of the things those poor kids experience I've gone through the same or similar after being adopted, but there was never enough "proof" for CPS to do anything. I really hope they are getting the care and help they need and get a really really awesome family to love them and help them experience a better life.
This is just further proof that family channels shouldn’t exist.💀
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@SquidimirLeninclesthey may be decent up front but no one really knows what its like behind the scenes
It does seem like the venn diagram of “family channel” and “unhinged sociopath” does have a bit of overlap.
I agree family channels should personally not exist
I think it should be common practice to start leaving hateful comments and bullying the shit out of ALL family channels no matter if they have done anything wrong or not - simply cause the idea of using kids for clout is fucking disgusting and probably puts them in a 90% chance of doing something sick.
Something that this mother doesn’t understand is that food is NOT a privilege, it is a BASIC HUMAN NECESSITY.
By that logic money is a basic human necessity too because you need money to buy food. And having a safe income source IS a privilege. Just saying that to get the food you have to be in the club
@@debeb5148ruby is in the top spot of this club, her channel makes her family millions, and she still withholds food she absolutely has lots of as punishment. also, you don't stop needing food if you don't have a job. it's necessary whether you're broke or not.
Food is both, but if she has it and her kids haven't eaten, then she OWES it to them
@@debeb5148food can be stolen, yet money can’t be used more than once.
@@debeb5148 Uh nope ever hear of theft
Glad this sick lady was arrested. Story was wild as hell and sickening
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@SquidimirLeninclesIt's not that they didn't, they unfortunately can't in any meaningful manner. Police can only trigger CPS interventions, not open a criminal investigation. Unfortunately, police can only intervene if they actually observe abuse or overt neglect. Her videos aren't concrete evidence of abuse; after her arrest, they'll now be evidence. Without cooperation from the children or verifiable abuse, it's extremely difficult for CPS to actually do something concrete. Her videos don't qualify as proof of neglect or abuse for an investigation to proceed successfully. Now that there's absolute proof, hopefully those children will be able to trust enough to really talk about what went on. Their statements will help connect police calls, teacher concerns, the videos and any CPS calls that didn't have enough actionable material.
If this woman would have had a CPS visit, I think it's more than likely that she could have snowed the investigator, then been prepared for any future visits.
@SquidimirLenincles The burnout rate for that job...
@SquidimirLenincles From a June 2023 article on the idiotic Texas governments BS attempt to keep providing care that literally doesn't meet the Federal standard for the other 49 states. Not joking.
"Faced with a troubled foster care system and a 12-year-long lawsuit for putting children in state custody at risk, Texas legislators this year made sweeping changes to state agencies that look after vulnerable kids removed from their homes.
But legislators’ focus was less on conditions for children in the system and more on reducing the number of kids entering state care. The Legislature zeroed in on how child abuse investigations kick off and play out, making it harder for the Department of Family and Protective Services to remove children from homes, saying parents facing abuse accusations are entitled to more rights.
While lawmakers ironed out new policies on investigations to prevent kids from entering the system, they stuck to basic fixes for children already in the state’s care. In one instance, they mandated the state provide foster kids duffel bags and backpacks - instead of trash bags - to transport their belongings.
For years, the state has been entangled in a federal lawsuit for putting children in state custody at risk. The judge in the case first declared in 2015 that children age out of the system more damaged than when they enter. Since then, court watchdogs have found that caretakers misused psychotropic drugs, residential facilities housing kids were not in compliance with safety standards and that the state child welfare agency was not tracking child-on-child abuse."
@@shawncat This is mostly only true for relatively wealthy white people. CPS regularly takes kids away from less fortunate people for extremely sketchy reasons when you compare it to what has been going on in this case.
The bed-wetting bit hit deep. As a former bed-wetter in my youth, there is nothing more embarrassing than having to to your parent and admit you 'messed up' again. My mother understood that my body was just growing at an awkward pace, it really doesn't matter if you drink anything right before bed. To think this poor girl was forced to sleep on the bathroom floor. Absolutely infuriating. I certainly hope these children find peace and not believe that any of this was their fault.
Usually happens when the kid is stressed too. So the parents need to stick together,find out what's stressing them out n get it sorted n work it out to make it stress free homelife for the sake of the kids.
I never understood nor will I ever understand parents getting mad at children for bed wetting. It's not like they *want* to, it's probably humiliating and uncomfortable for them enough without the shaming. And I'm pretty sure such a negative reaction to it from parents makes it even worse
I actually looked into it. Medically this is quite normal and just how the body works. Once the child reaches a certain age the bed wetting simply stops. It's biology. Happened to me. I wet the bed and then it just cleared up without me doing anything. Like a switch just flipped in my brain. Kind of like getting mad a person's nose runs.
@@kennyhogg5820 yeah its very, very common for children from the ages to 3 to 7 to wet the bed, which I assume it was her 6 year old, unless she had another younger kid, so it is very common for her. the stress thing and comes up more to kids of the age of 8 and up who still wet the bed, than its more of a problem. I am pretty sure most people can say they wet the bed at least once as a kid, I still remember mine and I was like 5 and Im 25 now, because it is quite embarrassing even a kid doing it once (which I think I did, but Im not my parent, so who knows what I don't remember)
I was sent to wilderness therapy just before i turned 18. It was miserable. Ive hated even luxury camping for a weekend since i was a child and my parents knew that, but they sent me anyway. I get out of the shower one night after having a totally normal day and suddenly im in a car driving from chicago to North Carolina with total strangers. 100 straight days. I definitely can say that it helped with /some/ things but my life has never been the same since then. Its like how most people see covid nowadays, the time before and the time after are completely different eras. It is deeply traumatizing and it feels like youre being thrown away.
You have zero freedom, zero personal belongings short of underwear, zero access to the outside world. You dont get to make decisions. You dont have free will. You cant read. You cant play games. You cant talk to people unsupervised. You cant eat when you want to. You dont even get to decide when to go to the bathroom. Not that there even is a bathroom, theres a hole in the ground. Which they made us dig ourselves. The motto of those places should be “we expect you to act like adults while being treated like toddlers”. I wish i had seen this video sooner so more people would see this.
August, if you see this comment, please, please do a video on these horrible places. Tell our stories. Trails Carolina was the name of the place i was sent if you need a place to start. Thanks to anyone whos read this far. I hope the world can see what wilderness therapy really is.
I’m sorry if I sound mean but I’m genuinely curious. Based on the things you went through, if you had a choice would you feel safer at boot camp or wilderness therapy? Cause both seem horrendous in my opinion. If you can’t keep your child under control and have to resort to sending them to an abusive place to get their behavior “fixed”, then you’re an unfit parent and should’ve never had the child..
@@XkiR0z i wasnt even "out of control", i was depressed autistic 17 year old with parents who didnt know what to do with that so made me someone else's problem lol. And i have never been to and know very little about military boot camp so i dont think im qualified to speak on a comparison of the two.
@@ShadeGaming4444 Oh jeez, I’m really sorry you went through that! I hope you can recover from the trauma it might’ve given you. I actually didn’t even know what wilderness therapy was until August told me to look it up which I did. It disgusts me that these places aren’t shut down. Especially since from what I’m aware, some kids get really badly injured or even die. It’s a wonder why people haven’t done anything to shut them down yet. They don’t help with kids problems, they just give them eternal PTSD.
That's why those things are highly illegal in most of the developed world (and even large parts of developing).
The covid before/after, hm, I do understand the picture, what you're trying to say, but now that got ME curious. Because, at least where I live, people usually don't think that there's a before/after situation (just a "during" and everything else). (Apart from antivaxx and/or conspiracy people, but I'm talking about the majority of normal people.)
I was 13 and I was in wilderness at the start of covid so I thought people were joking. we had no way to know about outside events other than what the staff decided to tell you and the one letter a week you get from your parents. I was at SUWS of the Carolinas for 73 days, it was horrible
"Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child"
True
Wise words
A wise man
Istg I've seen this comment on Dhar Mann videos
@@YoumnaKhodro very
Very weird how the mom has a business to help parents be better parents
Oh, it was bad. From videos I've seen on that business, Ruby was giving bad advice. Very bad advice.
@@JessicaKasumi1990did the business go under?
Damn I REALLY hope so-
This was to save face.
I think Connections has because of Ruby and Jodie getting busted.
@@renamon5658
What pisses me off the most is, IF what the neighbor claimed about trying to get the police's help multiple times and the police doing jack shit is true, that means if the child NEVER MANAGED TO ESCAPE THIS PSYCHO, it means this would have continued. It makes me even sick thinking about this situation.
Police released that they were there 15 times between March 2019 and august 31, 2023
@@rainbowblossom143Holy shit- the system is so broken
I've watched a few longer videos on this case. Definitely giving Lori Vallow/Chad Daybell vibes.
@@Ssylphie the police are technically under no legal obligation to protect anyone from anything. Legally speaking, cops exist to protect property, not people. They should have said there was a black teenager vandalizing something; that would have gotten officers on site immediately. #TheMoreYouKnow
@@aabrightlove I know and it is so so stupid. And cops wonder why people don’t like them.
This woman is exactly like my own mother, using food and other needs as punishment, using public shaming, treating infants as if they are adults and revelling in the power she has over somebody else as if they were objects, using excessive restraint. She even uses the same "You're not supposed to like me" line. The worse part for me is that I know the children will have to deal with people trying to downplay the abuse and trauma because so many turd-heads will try and play it as "Oh but she only wanted what's best for you" in full sincerity. I am glad these children managed to get out.
It's difficult to realize just how INSANE people like this are when you're going through it personally because everything seems kind of normal.🫠 Therapy would be your best friend. I wish you the best and hope you're doing better now.
I feel so Bad for you, sounds like you didn't get to live your Childhood. Sometimes i Make myself not eat because i feel ive already eaten a egg of a Apple today and thats all i Will eat cause i feel i Will become fat and not eat to The point i feel sick. I would not eat If My Moms would not Make me. But enough about me. Who cares about me? I Know i dont. Brobably not My friends or family, they brobably just feel obligated to. But how was your Day❤️?
@@minnanerra stop seeking attention. Also you sound like you have an eating disorder (I’m not a doctor)
Mine too. 🫂
Wow. That's insane.
I'm a father of a 3 year old and I literally can't comprehend how you can treat a child these ways. Me and my wife show nothing but love to our daughter and it hurts to think about how miserable these kids must be
Being a parent is rough, the best you can do is to make sure you do better then those who were horrible, and make sure that you raise your kid to be a decent person.
BASED PARENT
Everything she’s done to her kids is sickening but the part where she deprived them food as punishment I just couldn’t wrap my head around. One of the greatest joys I get out of being a mother is feeding my kids and even the little chew noises they make or the way they try to talk to me with a mouth full of food. Anybody else and open mouth eating noises I can’t stand but something about my kids eating a good warm meal brings me immense joy and satisfaction. My oldest of my 2 kids is 12 and I still make his lunches for school every morning because I want him to eat good. Both my kids are always welcome to help themselves to the fridge and cuboards whenever they please. And also I know they will be more content and behave better if they have full bellies. Even adults act out when they are hungry. There’s no logic or reason behind using food deprivation for any kind of punishment for anyone.
@@diondotyx7015 Food deprivation is a very old punishment that parents would use in rare situations, but its something you don't really see anymore since it can get the parents or any adults watching over them in trouble.
The only people who use such penalties are either old-school parents who don't really try to adapt, or crazy people who really need to be dealt with.
@@xanthiusdrake2775 no excuse to keep a child from eating. Making them starve is very sickening. Terrible parents do that.
The fact that she accused a CHILD of sexual abuse is crazy.
FR it is
Agreed, and it would still be her responsibility! She's just trying to throw her own child under the bus. How would a 3 year old access p*rn if a parent is being mindful of their child's online activities? How could she allow her child to ab*se multiple people in her family if she knew it was happening?? Why did she not seek actual help for her child instead of abusing him in hopes it'd fix the issue??? It's so mind-boggling to think she believed that using her child's supposed behaviour would be enough to excuse her of neglect and abuse. Those poor children 😔
@@Pindolene Ikr it's sad they don't deserve that happening to them at all. 😞
I wouldnt be surprised if it was in fact her and her accomplice doing the sxual abuse because they have been arrested and investigated so she quickly reveal her own child doing these things before he spoke up
Average woman taking accountability
"my child was introduced to corn at a young age but its his fault he's messed up not mine" absolutely insane
And if the child was really abusing others from such a young age, he learned it from someone.
She’s definitely lying. She wouldn’t even let the youngest son at 3 to get himself a snack, how would he even get access to the internet.
@@ugh55 - Exactly. If she is telling the truth, then she's just dug the hole deeper for herself, because kids that young usually only get into sexual things if they are being sexually abused.
Her timeline doesn't make sense, and if anything kind of hints at her as the perpetrator if anything.
I don’t believe Ruby regarding the SA she alleges her child did for a few reasons: the kids didn’t seem to have access to smart devices, a 3 year old wouldn’t know how to search for prn, Ruby’s idea of what is immoral/pornographic is very odd considering how irate she was about the Flo Rider song, in the interview of Jodi’s niece Jessie they said they were accused of things they did not do so to me it seems Jodi may have told Ruby that the child was doing things and the child may have even ‘confessed’ because people will ‘confess’ to things to stop being tortured and it is clear the two youngest were being abused to a degree most would call torture.
This is *HORRIBLE!* No mother or father should never, I repeat *NEVER* abuse or neglect their child or children!
no.
jk
Thank you for stating the obvious lol
if you had of said “ever” and not “never” it wouldn’t sound like you support child abuse
ikr
Looking forward to her ukulele-apology video…
But seriously, this is eerily similar to the Turpin family.
This vile woman sent her son away for having social media, took away his bed. Called her daughter fat for eating when she was hungry. Wouldn’t give her SIX year old daughter lunch cause “she should of made it”. When the teacher texted her out of concern that she had nothing to eat.
*have made. But yes. She's absolutely disgusting.
nice trans flag
This makes me angry. How can people treat children this way and not feel terrible for it?? I think “evil” is an understatement for this woman
She is a psychopath
She is a monster
It's even more disgusting when you listen to the podcast she did with that woman where they talk about being ok with your child not loving you. It's even crazier that the other woman (her business partner) was supposedly some kind of therapist or something, she used to work helping people out of their addictions and what not.
This is why trying out different therapists is important, they can be batshit like the rest of us.
She acts more like a sellout. Money went to her and killed common sense.
She was a marriage counselor and tried to break up marriages instead of saving them. Cause misery loves company
@@ugh55so I can have several therapists hurt me instead of one? I'm just saying it's been some years and I've never had one make anything better
@@SK-rs1hu Bro if a therapist is "hurting" you than what you need is a psychiatrist, because clearly you need drugs to deal with your issues. They are there to give advice, if you don't respect them than you won't respect their advice and they won't respect you. You find someone who you can stand talking to, if their advice still "hurts" you than maybe you are not ready for introspection. Try hard drugs instead.
If it wasn't for my therapist I never would have realized I have PTSD, and may still be using a dozen bags of heroin every day.
"Victim is when a person chooses not to be responsible for themselves."
I've never wanted to hit a person more in my entire life. This is like... the embodiment of an abuser's mindset. The victim is always at fault no matter what. The victim isn't *really* a victim, the abuser is just forcing them to take responsibility. The victim is in the wrong, the abuse is just consequences. This woman is even more royally fucked up than I thought.
Yeah, that's a really fucked up thing to say.
FR, I SAW IT AND WANTED TO SCREACH
@@fraskf6765 to what?
I wonder why serial killers never choose this kind of people as prey. Oh right, most of the time they are the same kind of people: bullies and cowards
What's sad about it is that there's no way she could of naturally been that way. I'm not defending her behavior in any way and its unbelievable and unfortunate what she has done but she's doing that because her parents probably acted that way towards her and to her its just "natural parenting" to her.
I'm not sure what's more surprising, that justice still exists for all, or that RUclips _ACTUALLY_ did their job!
I don't know either and that's sad
Can we just give her a round of applause for the neighbors? They obviously saw that something was going on it instead of ignoring it, they tried to help. Those are some W neighbors right there and a great example of being neighborly.
As someone who has been abused by a parent seeing a mother so shamelessly record and admit that she abuses her children is just awful a parent is supposed to be someone who cares for you and loves you not be sadistically cruel and starve your kids
DISCLAIMER: I SUPPORT FURRIES. But I can see why your parents abused you as someone from the so called “normal” people and furry community and I’m sorry you went through that it’s just sad to see how toxic today’s world is
She wasn't just shameless. She was proud. She is a sick bitch.
@@The_Foxy2039What do you mean by you can see why they were abused?
@@The_Foxy2039 what in tf is wrong with you, how insensitive can you be. Also its not like they were a furry from the moment they were born, you need to sought out your empathy.
@@The_Foxy2039 wtf dude why would you need to say that?
I'm glad you decided to address this. Since you've pointed out in the past that family channels are exploitive and unhealthy for the children. Thanks.
whoa.. yea when u think about this very youtube channel predicted this event almost perfectly accurate.
family channels need to be looked at very closely
ruby needs to face much worse than just jail. i sure hope the inmates and correctional officers treat her with very "special" care.
evil deserves to at least face the suffering that their victims faced
For me it starded with the camp live family channels. That is 100% child abuse..
Oh yeah.
Even worse are the women who get knocked up by losers who have a little fame for clout.
@@incognit01233 Nope.
I hope these children find a loving , deserving home.
Same, I hope so, too.
Same here but they are gonna need a lot of deprogramming after years of lies and proper gander.❤ to allxxx
My guess dad has them now and he would of known what was going on, so I am afraid those kids are being abused still
The fact that she trying to shift the blame to a child is actually wild. If she gets away with this I’ve lost all faith in the justice system
I appreciate your seriousness on the topic. It's refreshing to not see you try to work jokes into it like the majority of other channels.
its awful that it happened, but its good that the kids are safe from their evil mother
with years and years of PTSD when the mother will get like 2 years in prison those kids are living a life sentence in their head
No food as a punishment IS abuse PERIOD.
The fact that this is something that needs to be said is horrible....
@@Isntmycatcute it is extremely sad. And some people in these comments actually believe that food is a privilege.
@@charliehofmann3524bots
The whole the toubled teen/ troubled kid industry is just evil and needs to be torn down and everyone involved investigated.
Danielle Burgoli (Catch me outside girl from Dr Phil) talks about being sent to this kinda Ranch where the kids were basically neglected or humiliated. Now that she's more famous with her music career, she was able to be heard about it. While I agree one could say she was out of control, she was just a child.
The teenage camp thing happened to a good friend of mine. His family were strict religious folks that'd do stuff like cutting power to the house and having the kids hide under the bed on Halloween. He's got Asperger's and was over diagnosed meds to the point he was basically a drug addict by the time he was a teen. One day he literally brought a gun to school in his backpack because of bullies. His grandma caught him and they sent him to that camp. He was only supposed to do like a month there but he did it for like 6 months. They'd strip search him and basically fed him only bread and water for multiple months. He went from being obese to very skinny.
Yikes
In high school, these girls I'd hang out with would put the ACE family on when we had free time at the end of Community and Families Studies. I felt so uncomfortable in a way I couldn't describe. It was uncanny, and disturbing. And they tried to play it off like " they're just documenting their child grow up, and posting it. Whats wrong with that?". It was the "and posting it" part. Childhoods are meant to be sacred and special, not plastered across the internet without express, fully informed consent from the child. For example, child actors: they audition, they take time to grow accustomed to the idea of being on screen, they can comsent to that. But having mundane, even embarrassing childhood experiences put up for stramgers, particularly unsavoury types, to see? It's ethically wrong.
the only "family channels" i've ever heard of have been abusive and/or neglectful, at this point i doubt there is a single family channel that doesn't mistreat the crap out of their kids.
Ever heard of FGTeev?
Any that show their children regularly can be abusive. There's a select few channels nowadays that have family content without exploiting the kids. Mommacusses is one that acts out their kids parts instead of using them. There's a couple others who do similar things, and I can appreciate that. There's no real way to tell through the screen what they're like off camera, but at least they have better parenting tips than "withhold necessities from your child"...
you know why that is? Those are the people that feel they need to go out of their way to show the rest of us what a wonderful loving normal family they have. NOBODY except complete psychos feel the need to let anyone else see inside their home to that degree or feel the need to prove such a thing. They do it BECUASE they are abusers and don't want anyone knowing.
@crispinbotticelli4082 Eh, the Father could be a ruthless jerk (If I remember correctly, he makes his child cry sometimes) at times but aside from that, it looks fine. (Also, Hadn't watched FGTeev in years, so don't really have much to say about them)
this mom explains the reason why every kid deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a kid.
The saddest one to me is the few kids not getting Christmas while the others did. Idk why but that’s so freaking heartbreaking to me
Yeah, even though that wasn't even the worst punishment, it was one of the most saddening ones for me.
I hope the kids recover from the abuse they have suffered.
@@isreallytoastyhere3711They can't recover completely, but they can get better. No need to be a downer on things.
@@isreallytoastyhere3711 Sadly its true I was just emotionally abused as a kid and I still hear my Mum's horrible words towards me or her gas lighting me and more...I can't imagine what these kids will go through I do hope they at least get a lot of help.
I hope atleast the younger ones atleast dont remember this when they grow up
@forreal2022 it'll be all over the internet
The fact that she legit cried over her kid dancing to one portion of a song showed just how psychotic she was
I don't think she wanted her kids to have nice things
I had been waiting for months, I found out about this lady a few months ago from Atozy, and since then I was like " I really, really hope someone looks into her and her family." I'm glad the police finally rescued the kids, and I hope they get better lives after this.
Yea what was happening was crazy. I feel deeply sorry for these kids.
I'm so glad August actually went into detail of this person's abominable "parenting." This is absolutely disgusting. Anyone who commits these atrocities against children should receive life imprisonment and I hope she goes away for a painfully long time.
FINALLY! Some fricking Justice! This woman deserves to be arrested and I really hope she gets the punishment she deserves. And hopefully the children will be taken under people who will take better care of them then this evil women never could
Im sure she will be super popular in prison.. i hope some of the more crazy inmates give this bitch a taste of her own medicine.. i mean lessons.
I don't think she deserves to go to jail
*she deserves to go to hell*
Well, they'll just be sent into the foster care system which is an underfunded and unsupervised can of worms... I wish them the best of luck. I hope it's better than the horrific situation they were in but I won't hold my breath. As a society, we don't look out for abused children in any way that would be considered humane.
@@Koooschny_skYeah she deserves to go there
@kicxiarykoschny7365 Hmmm, wait a min.
She deserves both. ✅
As a former abused child seeing things like “let’s take a moment to realize how much better our life is then the abused kids”
Like yeah I fricking know my life is bad…saying stuff like this is really heartbreaking for everyone but especially those that understand the pain.
The name “Ruby Frank” just sounds like an evil Charles Dickens character.
This is just disgusting- the only thing as bad as the abuse is her being in court acting like the abuse is able to be justified. She’s such a liar but even so if a three year old is watching those kind of videos their parents are to blame. Who looked at her and decided that they wanted to emulate her parenting? Crazy.
It makes sense she'd think that. She's been pretty open about abusing her kids and faced zero backlash and even got fame for it.
@@arthas640 which is also crazy- how did she say/ do all those things on RUclips and gain such a huge following? It’s actually terrifying.
@@meredithjohnson2843 exactly. It's depressing that she got famous at this and that people think she's a good parent. Some people have claimed she's "got old fashioned parenting style" but my boomer dad even thought starving kids was a bad idea and my grandma realized it was a bad idea part way through kid #2 of 7, and her parents didn't even do that. Back in ye olden times it was even considered a bad idea since back in the day kids had to work and laborers work a lot less at physical labor when they're starving. Back in the 70s it was already becoming unpopular since it was feared starving kids would make them become obsessive with food and either over eat and get fat or under eat ans become spindly little weaklings, ans now we know that it can be more damaging than that. The other things like taking away a kids bed or grounding a kid for months for asking what movie they're going to see isn't even strict parenting or old fashioned parenting, its pure abuse.
Sadly, way too many whackjobs.
@@meredithjohnson2843 her followers I think it's safe to assume are evil monsters.
dude… talk about jodi, ruby’s connections partner. she abused her niece when she was a teenager, and had a lot of power in the mormon church. recently, the niece was interviewed on the mormon stories podcast and her story is FUCKING CRAZY. her story needs to be heard- i’m telling you! jodi and ruby are absolute monsters.
Do you have a link? Or is "Mormon stories" the name of the podcast? Id like to hear it
@@splatninja9447idk but look up Jessi Hildebrandt. That's the niece. The interview should come up
the police call from the neighbour is chilling. im praying for the poor kids.
The police were honestly really lazy, if multiple calls like that are made, they should have just gone in and checked at that point.
If a child is “assaulting” another child, that’s typically a sign of abuse being done to that child. So either she’s lying, or she’s choosing to ignore harm done to her children in favor of harming them herself
One of my best friends got kidnapped in the middle of the night and sent to the woods for months without knowing why or when (or even if) he'd be able to get back. His parents did that to him. WTF
jesus your friend's parnets must be insane
You are right, August. either things are labeled as being drama ... or racist. And she laughs while talking about starving her kids. Truly evil. Not drama, just EVIL.
8:38 at my camp, there was a girl in my cabin who had gone to one of these. Her abusive father had signed her up for it, I remember she was talking about being kidnapped, hiking everyday, wearing the same clothes and underwear that would get so disgusting and they couldn’t change. I think she’s better now and out of the hands of her father.
There was a short period in my life that the tomboy in me would have enjoyed that.
Religious fundamentalist cult camp. Say it like it is. USA USA USA 🤮
@@diannt9583That's not being a tomboy, that's just disgusting.
@@katodd2925 yeah
@@diannt9583Nah bro, that's called the masochist side of you lmao
I Remember when you had 200k subs, glad to see you’re still doing well with progression. Much love
He has and will continue
@SquidimirLenincles Maybe one day.... one day.
I remember when he had around 11K subs
that mom looked straight into the eyes of her baby and all she saw were dollar signs
Im a new dad, my daughter is now 9mo and I couldnt imagine life without her. Shes my world.
That being said, I hope this lady rots in prison.
This is absolutely awful! There's no excuse for any parent to abuse or neglect their own children. It's heartbreaking to think about the countless loving adults out there who would give anything to have kids while situations like this continue to happen.
As the amazing Swoop would say, it's not drama, it's dangerous. I feel so bad for the kids.
I feel like this case is the embodiment of that Swoop quote.
This is horrifying. I hope she gets the book thrown at her and that the kids are placed somewhere where they're safe and loved
Her kid that escaped had duct tape on his arms and feet. Gives us a pretty good idea of what was going on behind the scenes.
9:33 I’m tapping out I can’t hear anymore of this. I hope she, the husband, and the business partner rot in prison for the rest of their lives
Old saying goes:
"Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child"
This phrase is tired
@@ceegee5724 but true
@@ceegee5724 You got a suggestion for a new one?
@@HakuZaku Exactly
Hope you're feelin better, bud. Thanks for the content (:
It was super obvious that this lady was abusive towards her children. Glad something is finally happening.
I’ve seen kids from situations like these. No words can describe the pain I want to inflict on Ruby for putting those children through literal hell.
Thanks for talking about this, August. If anybody reads this, please if you can support the children if you can as they’re still needing the support, even if they’re out of that hellhouse. I think the eldest daughter is putting up a full google doc with evidence to help her in court.
I was just thinking of a movie called "let's go to prison." Where the main character sells drugs to a cop intentionally getting himself locked in with someone he wants to beat up every day. I have a feeling she will be in a special security unit because too many people would do her harm.
@@ZebraLuv prisoners are notorious for beating up rapists/child abusers so here’s hoping
Occasionally, I was sent to bed without dinner. It wasn't "trauma" for me it was a lesson learned. But the extent this person went with her children is disgusting and should result in serious jail time.
That's still fucked, dude
one night without dinner is a normal punishment, but you make sure you feed your kid the next morning. I know parents normally use this when kids refuse what was made for dinner, so they let the kid choose to eat it or wait till breakfast as a lesson. I don't think thats abuse but hey I am not a parent, just know from when i was a kid and what I hear on TV and such.
Similar thing…. I was told that home wasn’t a restaurant and that I’ll eat what was made when I’m hungry ( I did) that happened very rarely …. But this lady took it to another level! Not even jail punishes you like this.
@@queendefaultdefault1080 no it isn't. Not normal at all. What the hell is wrong with people to think that's normal? Holy shit.
@@charliehofmann3524
You can't force a child to eat. If they're not going to eat dinner that's their choice but they'll have to go to bed hungry. My family doesn't have it like that so safe to say I'll have to implement the same for my daughter. We don't live in a palace, the pantry isn't stocked with snacks you can munch on all night. 🤷🏽 I've had to eat food I don't like as well. Which is usually oatmeal or some lentils with pasta.
Thanks for covering this. Please keep us up to date with her case. I'd love to see her get what she deserves.
This is why I like the family fudge as a family channel. It's literally just the mom showing the meals she makes her kids and what they wound up eating, she never shows their faces unless they're on a vacation and it's only if they wanna be on camera.
And we thought a mom telling her child to cry was bad
What a despicable human being. I hope she gets everything that’s coming to her when she goes to prison.
Can you imagine the stunted communication skills between these kids and the outside world? Can you imagine what relationships/marriage would be like for the kid who was denied a movie because they asked what movie they were going to? They’d be terrified to ask/talk about anything. I sincerely hope those kids get good, solid therapy after this.
This is actually heartbreaking. I can’t imagine being these kids, I feel so bad😢
gotta feel bad for most of the kids in these family channels no kid deserves this
Hi! Child of a facebook "family vlogger". Privacy is not a place in ways I cannot explain. For example my bird died, she was my baby, and she filmed me crying while my child was being buried.
Even though she didnt post it I had to live in fear it might be.
Another example is if I film something or make a video so I can show just friends/family or keep it for myself she makes me send it to her under the promise its A. Not gonna be posted or B. Only for family but it always end up posted for monetization.
I am very pro anti family vlogger
Me: I an’t reade’n all that
When you get old enough to move out, I hope you do and I hope you never speak to your parents again because I wouldn’t. I know that if my cat died right now and my mom recorded me crying and probably slap the shit out of.
@tylerplayzgamez So, why are you commenting? You took the time to type and post the comment didn’t you? You could’ve saved that time and scrolled past this comment.
@@cascadedeclipse8240 bro it’s a joke
@tylerplayzgamez7668 Yeah I know it was, but making a joke about someone sharing their similar experiences about something that negatively effected them, can make it seem like your undermining their personal experience, and it’s just not the best thing to do mate.
Did t expect you to jump on this but I’m happy you did. What she did was honestly disgusting
The way i was raised and treated by almost everyone already fucked me up. But add millions of people calling me a loser on top of that, I'd be so fucked up there'd be no fixing it.
This is how you raise future serial killers
This is crazy because I literally live so close to the area they live I can’t believe someone is so sick to be able to do this to children
She and Mike from Daddy O’Five would get along nicely
She makes Daddy O Five seem like father of the year
Family channels are so terrible and so is most of social media. The way social dynamics have changed and now literal child abuse is seen as worthy content to quite a few people is truly disturbing, and we wonder why more and more cases are popping up
That's rough. Thanks for bringing a level head and considerate perspective to the situation.
All children deserve a loving parent but not all parents deserve a loving child.
There was one where she pulled over for an accident they weren't in to see if the others were okay (no doubt trying to get something on camera). But then she specifically talked to the 6 year-old and told her "We should have been in that accident".
This makes me really greatful to have such a loving, caring mum! 😞
Same.
Same.
Cheers to that!
This hits me especially hard as I work with kids for my job. I currently work as a Campus Supervisor (the guys in the Neon Green Vests) at the middle School I went to as a kid, and I'm currently enrolled in college classes to help me become an Elementary School Teacher. Every aspect of my career path centers around making sure kids are healthy and happy. So to know that a group of kids were suffering like this, and the one making them suffer was *their own mother,* Well... _It makes my blood boil._
I don't understand, how people can derive a feeling of power, from abusing children. It's messed up.
The duck has layed another egg.
It appears to me that sociopathy is sharply on the rise. Things are so bad these days.
Nah, people are just more out about it now. Social media and all
those poor poor babies, im so happy they’re safe
edit: as i commented this i wasn’t really into the video so i had 0 clue what this woman did in depth, and oh my god. She’s legit insane, those children will never heal, no matter what kind of therapy they go through. i’m going to pray (even though i’m not religious) that they find peace within themselves, thank whatever god there is they’ve finally got justice
Same, I’m happy they’re safe, too.
the thing this made me realise is that none of this is normal and it's still so weird to me. im 22 years old now and it still surprises me when i hear about people talk about these things, and then going "oh wait, i forgot not everyone experienced that" because thats how i grew up. its horrible, and i hope those kids are doing better now
Look at August being so mature... and I agree I didn't realize how bad this crazy woman is and I hope her kids are safe and she gets what she deserves
I’m so glad she was arrested.
So happy that she was arrested cause she didn’t let her kids eat or sleep if they did something that just cruel
This mom is indeed mean
HELP I ONLY READ THAT IN LIKE 3 SECONDS WHILE WAITING FOR MY PHONE TO ROTATE AND GIVE ME FULL SCREEN AND I THOUGH YOU SAID "THAT MOM IS A MAN" 😭😭
Sure is
And I thought I was mean.
mean is an understatement
.....mean? MEAN?! You're either a troll or an idiot. Mean does not begin to describe this monster.
_"Eat breakfast after morning chores"_ doesn't sound unreasonable to me as a parenting style.
Ah. The rest of the story.
Family channels should be illegal. There is no other reason than exploitation. Who in their right mind would want strangers watching their children on the internet anyway?
I’ve been waiting for you to make this
RUclips must step up and do something about these family channels, I'm not gonna hold my breath for something to be done because RUclips in typical RUclips fashion always ignores issues in their platform. I feel bad for the kids having to go through all that stuff, no kid deserves anything like this, ever.
I will never understand why they don't do shit about these types of channels but yet if a gamer says one bad word they jump all over that. RUclips is horrible for not doing something.
It’s pure evil I think it’s good she actually got charged with abuse
Life or maggot food. She either gets in the prison or under it. As a father myself, I HOPE this woman never sees her kids again.
We learned the difference between needs and wants in kindergarten. With that being said, food, shelter, and a stable home environment are not wants- they are needs. Basic human needs.
8 Passengers: "I'm the worst and abusive parent on RUclips."
Daddy'0five: Hold my beer
They're both terrible, for sure. But I think 8 Passengers is way worse.
What a disgusting mother, hope the kids can get over this abuse
You can never get over abuse. I was consistently abused by most of my family as a child and teen. You can recover from some of the damage enough to be able to enjoy life and get past it but abuse does damage that lasts forever.
That said, I completely agree and that is a terrible mother.
@@Juzokinnie sorry too hear that, no one should suffer like that, that are tragic some parents are doing something like that too there child
Every kid deserves a good life but not every parent deserves a good life
Ruby said that eating was a *privilege*. So she was starving her children and blaming them for her abuse. She also left them alone for days on end. I hope the courts throw all the books at her.
I feel so bad for those children. It’s not going to be easy to deprogram them and convince them that they’re not bad. They have been programmed to be exactly what their mom wanted them to be. Including following her instructions in their religion.
My brother and I grew up in a fundamentalist Christian cult, and it’s taken years to change our beliefs about religion. The number 1 reason why my mom got I’d into the cult was because the church convinced her that our souls were in danger. They also encouraged her abuse and told her it was necessary to save our souls.
I hope they are surrounded by people who love them and will help them deprogram.
As someone who grew up in similarly abusive households, the one nice thing about social media is that at least people and posting evidence of how they abuse their children. A lot of the things those poor kids experience I've gone through the same or similar after being adopted, but there was never enough "proof" for CPS to do anything. I really hope they are getting the care and help they need and get a really really awesome family to love them and help them experience a better life.