The Most Narcissistic TikToker on the Planet
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- TikTok, my arch nemesis. Today, we look at who might just be the most narcissistic person I have ever seen on the app. A woman named BethanyBachie, who claims that being attractive makes like more difficult. Buckle up.
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Whoever gave her that big of an ego needs to be locked up💀
Her mirror told her that, It's her personality I can't imagine she has many friend's. I doubt it!!!
It’s a smoke screen. Deep down she’s awfully insecure, which is where all of this is coming from.
Her narcissistic mind is the one that inflated her ego 💀
Her single mom who wanted to be her best friend instead of her parent💀
This has nothing to do with ego. What she expirenced is real. But it has nothing to do with attractiveness. She expirenced sexism and a lot of it and doesn't know how to name it
Imagine not looking beyond how people physically look when evaluating who you want to keep in your life. How unbelievably shallow.
IKR, ridiculous.
Frr, girl needs to get a grip
@@TemmieContingenCRoblox forever
@@KagurimiPAIN I HATE-
Especially when you have a face you have to cover up lol...
So sad that she believes SA is a form of looks validation. She's 2 seconds away of telling a victim "you are lying, you were not SA'd because you're ugly".
Edit: To everybody who's been in this scenario: I'm with you, you are not to blame for what happened, no matter what AHs like the one in the video say. This happens because those beasts failed as humans and justifying it with your physical appearence is just another idiot attempt to deflect the blame from those beasts. I love you, guys, just for who you are, you didn't deserve what happened and it will never be your fault.
A warm hug from Mexico city 🤍
I was drugged and kidnapped at 17. I wouldn’t have claimed I was attractive.
Yeah…I hope something didn’t happen to her to make her think that way
Imagine saying this to a kid lol. I dont even have anything to say to this.
she is denying/ find a justification which does not exist a valid one for someone who dont control their thoughts and do whatever they want. Besides beauty is subjective. She is pretty but she was prettier before talking.
It's also nasty because young people, girls and boys, that are SA'd tend to be generally conventionally unattractive, many overweight. Half of the job of the abuser is already done by society. Also 1/3 of all women in the US have or will experience SA at some point in their lives- I'm absolutely certain that every one wouldn't pass this woman criteria for attractiveness.
This is going to be so cringy and embarrassing for her in a few years.
“The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence.”- Charles Bukowski
This is now my favorite quote
Holy shit, I love this quote.
I know I'm late to the party, but there's a thing called the Dunning-krueger Effect that sums this up pretty well!
I hope that this is somewhat true.❤
Or if you prefer it in poetry "The best lack all conviction, while the worst
Are full of passionate intensity" WB Yeats
Her : "I do not want someone to be with me because of my appearance"
Also her : *choosing friends by attractiveness*
You know what they say, "Rules for thee, not for me", all that.
The way she talks about her beauty alone, I'd expect this absolutely stunning, almost otherwordly beautiful person, with a pure heart and inner light that you can see in her smiles, that makes her eyes light up, that almost makes her glow and makes her even more beautiful. But she's just...a person. I mean, she is pretty, but she is not this stunningly beautiful goddess she acts like she is.
Can you give an example of someone you'd consider to be beautiful like that?
Honestly I don't think humans are capable of the kind of beautiful I described. Beauty exists, people are beautiful, but goddess-level beautiful like I talked about is might be just for the myths and fairy tales.
@@hamdiyazid200 Jared Leto comes to mind. He also has a kind of sinister aspect to his appearance too, but I've seen him in person, and he's beautiful. Implausibly so. Like an otherworldly kind of beauty that doesn't seem real, and can't quite be captured in a photo/video.
She is a 6.5 at best
She is a 6.5 at best
I physically cringed when she said she was "naturally charming". Very hard. This has never happened to me before.
she isn’t, everyone at our school hated her
I almost spat out my water when she said it 😂
She’s pretty but also in the totally normal range, where did that ego come from? Lol
Where's that charm she thinks she possess? She could be considered cute until she opens her mouth. Then everything goes out the window.
Lol
@@allysondekorne1227lmaooo
“It’s a high schooler mindset” please don’t group me in with her
Saying she has the mindset of a highschooler is an insult to highschoolers💀
It’s really more like middle school at oldest popular kid mindset
Wait, she said ugliness is subjective but two seconds later she says if your 400 pounds and ugly as f**k you don’t have to worry about getting assaulted!? She totally contradicted herself!
She’s the definition of that mean girl in high school. I have been overweight my whole life and have been assaulted 4 times. Yet oh well that’s obvious not true because I’m ugly and fat duh!
Vapid in the dictionary has her photo by it. She has nothing interesting or quality to add. Maybe she’s the female version of Shallow Hal?
It's subjective, but in her world she's the subject. So subjective to her means "my opinion dictates reality".
Honestly, the whole videos is a contradiction🤦♂️
the way you can tell that in her head being assaulted multiple times is a justification for a person's attractiveness sends a cold chill down my spine..
lol the girls in my class who got harassed by my childhood rapist took it as a compliment and didnt report him and attacked me for speaking the truth about it they were all very ugly in all aspects of their existence actually self confident people dont need validation like that
She clearly has some inability to process her trauma correctly.. hopefully she'll grow out of it
@@spookybeansyeah I actually feel quite sorry for her. This wreaks of childhood abuse.
Thinking SA is about attractiveness and not about violence is wild, it also puts the blame on the victim so she has some serious stuff she needs to work through.
SA full from?
se*ual abus e@@jishajain7341
@@jishajain7341 full form is sexual assault. a lot of social media platforms would flag your content if you mentioned triggering words like that. censorship and allat
@@lucva gotcha, thanks !
It also undermines and invalidates other victims’ experiences.
She isn‘t ugly but she isn’t pretty either. She just looks like a normal person. She doesn’t have something that makes her „Special“.. she is definitely not above average… also who are we to call someone ugly and others pretty? Being pretty is so individual/objective, it is impossible to tell who is attractive and who‘s not. I could be attractive to my neighbour e.g and not attractive to the cashier. In Addition, being Attractive isn’t just looks, but also personality and her personality is disgusting.
Also, I think she’s exaggerating. Every Women is facing the same problem it’s not something that’s only happening to her
Yes nice looking girl. That’s it, nice, but very normal, I can look out my window and see many nice looking people. I think this is the real problem, she wants to live in the delusional she is special, it’s immature and I hope she grows out of it and learns some humility, for her own sake
subjective*
Wha? You mean every person faces these problems. Well some people sadly. Since she’s talking about attractive people, and ugly people in general. So the topic is people.
@@michaeljames4630 even subjectively, most people would not say she’s anything striking. So she in fact, is very average looking
Right? I don’t think most people would believe her to be unattractive, but I mean, she’s not exactly Victoria’s Secret Angel level gorgeous, either.
When it can go either way - like w/her, personality makes all the difference; if I didn’t hear her saying all this crap I’d probably say, “oh, sure, she’s cute.” But being a really sweet/kind person could change that to “she’s quite pretty” while the horrible attitude leads you more to the “I mean, she’s not ugly but she’s pretty average…” opinion.
Assault has nothing to do with attractiveness, it has all to do with perceived vulnerability.
I mean extremely handicapped people, who I would dare to say aren't commonly considered the most attractive, are victims of SA, physical abuse, and mental abuse waaaaayyy more often then people without any disabilities.
As a person with several physical disabilities I have been assaulted abused catcalled I would be considered vulnerable and be at risk
Absolutely. Just like in those rest homes the old people get sexually assaulted, abused and gaslighted pretty badly too. They’re old people, and still get abused. It has nothing to do with how attractive you are. It’s more about how vulnerable and weak you can be.
I think so too, I'm not trying to be too hard on myself but I wouldn't say I'm attractive, and I've had guys be creeps to me, it is about vulnerability
@@lapislazuli06 I'm sure you're beautiful. I know what the original commenter meant with what they said but i don't really agree that disabled people are often unattractive, since there are so many types of disabillities. So as someone who is both an assistant nurse who sees disabled people all the time and as someone who has been SA'd myself, you are a strong and beautiful person💕
@@lapislazuli06 more about the perpetrator wanting to feel powerful because they feel powerless. seeing is that’s the only reason those who are “perceived” as vulnerable are targeted. it’s not the victims fault for looking a certain way, but more so about the perpetrator being insecure enough to try & demonstrate “power” over those they think they even have a chance against.
Did it ever occur to her that a lot of people are being nice to her because they are simply nice people? Nice people do exist, a lot more than is generally believed.
That's actually an extremely common problem for people with low self esteem (myself included). It creates some cognitive dissonance when people treat you nicely, so you start to come up with reasons to write it off. A common one is if your friend compliments you, and you reply "you're just saying that because you're my friend". For me, I always felt like people only tolerate me because I am disabled and they feel sorry for me, not because they actually like me as a person or even think I'm deserving of any kindness. It made it less jarring when people were cruel to me, because I felt like I deserved it, and I still struggle with that.
Those kind of people are self-centered and oblivious to others, they genuinely think everything happening around them is about them and the result of something they did or something they said or what they look like. They don't consider other humans with emotions as possible variables. I think in her head she doesn't take into account that others are just as complexe and unique as her with personal experiences and needs and a moral compass. That's the definition of the main character syndrome
@@cactusadams7752Fax
@@cactusadams7752I think you might actually be right to an extent. If attractive women make contact with me I immediately jump to the defensive. I try to hide it just in case it’s unwarranted but every single time this has ever happened it was because they were trying to manipulate me out of something or to do something for them that would be of no benefit to me.
Sorry to hear that, @@jackwhite8238
She says she does, but I don't think she actually realizes that beauty is quite subjective. Like when I look at her, I don't get those fuzzy feelings of "Wow, she's so beautiful." To me? She's honestly nothing special. Certainly not ugly, but she really just doesn't evoke those feelings. Like, at all. And that isn't me trying to "humble" her or even really comment on her looks. There is NOTHING wrong with how she looks at all.
But it's ironic because when she hears "Hey, you aren't actually THAT pretty." She thinks "Oh they're lying because they're jealous." Like??? Maybe these thoughts are because you're insecure?? And maybe people are telling you that because they want you to know PEOPLE CAN TELL?? We all know that being overconfident and arrogant are defense mechanisms. And when people give you a reality check it normally isn't out of malice. It's because acting like this is fucking embarassing. Especially when you frankly don't actually have your looks to fall back on...
exactly, dudes honestly average. craaazyy that shes over here acting like the gods handcrafted her
She seems like the person who blew up in highschool and got a big head about it.
Yeah. Even though she is saying allot of dumb things. I don't want to be too harsh on her, as she is basically a child. I'm sure she will snap out of it..........Eventually.
@@poopoppy we hope
shes the definition of a goth girl in school
@@poopoppynarcisists dont grow out of it. Trump is one. my step dad is one. They are objectively shitty people.
@@professional_shitter80???????? Literally how ?????????
She is most definitely mid, and the narcissistic behavior makes her a 0/10
I have a now very good friend that I originally met at a party. She is drop dead georgous. She was the “love” interest of a friend of a friend at the time, so I just went up to her and talked to her as she didn’t really know anyone there. Later she said, that a lot of girls are usually either vary, or outright mean to her when they first meet her. Simply because they see her as competition. She liked how genuine I was and just treated her like anybody else.
Honestly, she doesn’t like talking about her looks, nor does she ever put it in focus. She is the most down to earth and nice person I know. But I know she does get treated differently of how she looks. And not always fairly:
6:54 the fact that she uses SA to try and prove that her life is harder than people than that of people she finds unconventionally attractive is disgusting. It’s hard to believe that people don’t realize these struggles go beyond people that are “attractive”
As an 18 year old girl we don’t claim her. I promise we aren’t all like that.
Thank the GODDESS!
I am a retired litigator and I have a lot of respect for the generations below mine. I hope that some of you like Greta, Hogg, and Gonzalez will clean up the fu world we left behind.
I hope you will climb over the corpses of these narcissistic RUclipsrs in your generation in order to do so.
That's a weird thing to say. No one said all 18 yo are like that. Thats like saying all 30 yo are like Hitler because they shared the same age
@@wa0187 Don’t worry about this one, Smiley.
As a 57 year old retired litigator and a self-avowed eccentric, I found that there are more people who want to control how are you communicate then listen to your substantive message.
It is a certain type of priggishness. The need to say some thing about everything. There is no way that @wa0187 has significantly participated in this conversation by this statement. By knocking down your statement and adding nothing of substance to the conversation her/himself, they prove their very trollish nature.
Am 16 and honestly I felt ugly my entire life but seeing this woman actually makes me want to rethink my life choices
This is what happens when parents say “their jealous” every time someone don’t like the kid
Dude, she's like a living caricature of all of those wattpad/deviantart OCs written by 12 years olds.
Claims to be above looks, but never stops talking about how attractive she is.
Thinks everyone she talks to is trying to flirt with her.
Is tired of people fawning over her, but also anyone who doesn't is suspect/out to get her.
Thinks bad things can only ever happen to her.
It's like she had a checklist, I swear.
Underrated comment
Yeah she's a walking contradiction of what comes out of her mouth!🤣😂✌️
when i was a 12 year old wattpad writer, i hope to god i had better protagonists than this person 💀💀
A predator gives zero fucks if you're attractive. The vast majority are more concerned as to whether they can overpower you so you don't fight back. My best friend's mother would most likely destroy this woman from her wheelchair: she's a strong character, takes shit from nobody, homely in appearance, and such a genuine, gold-hearted person. She was SA'd because she is disabled and physically unable to resist, not because she's a bombshell. This TikTok narcissist has a lot to learn about the real world.
Exactly.
period
Rape has indeed nothing to do with sex. It's all about power. And you may even be familiar with the one who rapes you.
18....she's still in mandatory education and it shows..
These people never seem to realize that most of us have those exact same problems, we just don't also have the benefit of being ''pretty'' to take the edge off the pain.
Exactly. She's talking as if it's an all or nothing proposition, and it isn't.
You shouldn't be allowed to have access to TikTok etc. until your prefrontal cortex is fully developed.
She doesn’t know what she wants
If someone being mean to her she’s complaining about it and if people are nice to her she’s accusing them of being superficial
She hates being subjectively pretty and she loves being attractive
It’s a mess
She is so rude. Calling others ugly is never okay. Saying ugly people don't go through bigger problems than you do is stupid and wrong. Those 'ugly' people do drastic things to themselves to not be ugly anymore. I used to think i was ugly and i went through years of having eating disorders because people like her said i was ugly. I was then SA'd so i went through another problem with food eating wayy to much so it wouldn't happen again but guess what??? It happened multiple times again. It wasn't about looks it was because those people are sick. Everyone goes into toxic relationships. I was in one for years and it was very bad. she's not the only person who goes through that and because iv'e had personal experience it makes me so angry.
Every couple sentences she's right on the verge of a good point, and swerves hard like she has a peanut allergy and the good point is a peanut farm
Yea, it actually comes across as well written satire. If she was an actress performing this as a joke it's nearly funny.
Unfortunately we have to assume she's being serious, which makes this rather pathetic and depending on how far into her real life she carries this behavior it's either delusional and/or narcissistic.
Hard to know from just one data point, can only assume she's been sheltered from reality growing up and hasn't come to terms with how substantially average she is and just no better than anyone else.
I've been trying to learn about "culture" a little bit more, for some reason and I've come to understand that the rational person is a duck.
I feel like I'm understanding in reverse.
I appreciate the information that you've brought to my attention.
When she said, “a guy followed me on a bike high. What do I do?” That’s when you call the cops my guy or inform a family member/trusted adult that you’re being followed.
For her it's a foregone conclusion that she is super pretty. There is no chance someone would find her unattractive. She is in for a rude awakening when she grows up and realizes, because of her personality, guys will put her in the only wanna have sex with her category. No chance a good man would ever deal with this.
Unfortunately that is not true. I know many nice guys who have girlfriends/wifes just like that. Otherwise perfectly sensbile, trustworthy, intelligent men. But where their dick comes into play, brain is dead. They adore their beautiful, creedy, mean, disgusting, cheating women. By the way, works both ways.
Sad thing is she'd just use her big brain "attractive people are hard people doing hard choices" theory to self-justify lol
She literally said as a child she was naive like EVERY OTHER SINGLE CHILD
What a sad world to live in to be shocked when people are nice just because.
She is 18. She is going to look back at this in a few years and be wildly embarrassed.
I can't believe someone my age behaves like this. It's unbelievable how out of touch with reality she is.
Narcissistic people don’t
@@garakstailorshopit’s immaturity and she’s not fully developed yet.
"Is this person real!?, is this like a government experiment!?" 😂😂
Some perverts targeted me in public toilets in Japan, but I don’t think it was just because of my looks. It’s more about someone being vulnerable and the situation they’re in that leads to those kinds of things happening.
Okay, I'm double dipping and I don't feel sorry for it:
I fully believe her, when she says that she never had actual friends that cared for her. Because w/e she's saying, it makes me feel like I'm listening to an unloved person and that makes me genuinely sad for her - but her way of coping is dumbfounding, to say the least. This is the most narcissistic take on why you feel like nobody likes you. "Gosh, I feel like I'm just too good looking, but this also proves: if you are less good looking (from MY OWN VIEW), then you can't possibly be nice, because ugly people don't have real problems.
The jokes with this idiot really don't need a writer, she tells them all by herself.
yea maybe she doesn't have real friends/ppl who care about her because of how she acts and how she treats others. she doesn't seem like she shows basic levels of compassion. it's hard to be around a person like her, who think everyone should bow down to them and how better they are then ppl deemed "uglier". js lol.
I’m a couch potato that has nothing going on in my life.
Except I’m in bed.
1:30 its kinda true tho.. its normal and common to happen too, i faced that
Agreed. Was about to comment the same.
@@CyberpunkProtagonist Yea she's right
11:06 "I didnt have any knowledge"
You still got no knowledge!!!!
She still got no knowledge!!!!
She has less knowledge because she came to the wrong conclusion lol
i’m not attractive.
i know that.
the second she started to mention s/a, OH MY GOD.
i know multiple people including myself who have had HORRIBLE experiences with this kind of thing. news flash- ITS NOT ABOUT LOOKS! it’s about manipulation! having power!! she’s so blind.
1. How does she know she’s attractive
2. She’s five feet and one inch tall. How is she attractive and not an elf? 🤔
3. How does she have a friend, and a friend whose house she can walk to?
4. HOW DOES THE GOVERNMENT LET HER VOTE?! 🫣
*calls herself attractive
Proceeds to have a shot of the fattest cat I've ever seen
I wish I was confident enough to tell people who call me ugly that they're just wrong
if she believes that ugliness is subjective 4:26 , then shouldn't she be fine with people calling her mid? After all, someone's looks are only a matter of opinion right?
There are few rotten apples in 8,000,000,000 humans.
When she described what literally has happened/will happen to every single woman, several times in their lives as a "pretty girl problem" I almost lost my sh*t.
Being attractive is easy life. Talkin from experience.
You get what you want.
That's so not true it's unbelievable
@@Nancy20012 you have it much easier to sell yourself and much easier to get sympathie of other people. And if you are smart you use that against other people. Its easy. People want to be around you, they want your approval, they see you as some kind of idol.
Yes in that sense I agree if you use your looks as a tool to manipulate others , but not otherwise
@@Nancy20012 exactly. And this does not only open doors in friendships, but also for your career, starting in job interviews up to conferences.
And also, i have to say, as everyone should know who lived in the last two decades, the lesser attractive people are easier targets for other insecure people. They are getting bullied way more often and compared to in a negative way, because they are way easier to target and mostly to shy and insecure to defend themselfes.
You learn that in every bully prevention course for schools.
@@dom3827 Someone being insecure does not necessarilly mean they are too shy to defend themselves. It could very well mean that they become nasty because of their insecutity and they become the bully. Depends on the person.
Her entitlement is astounding. She really thinks that she is the only one who has problems.
4:33 There is a bug in her hair! It's on our right side going down towards the blue writing!!!! 😮
Yeah, i saw it.. ew.
“It’s a personality trait babes” she would definitely know😹
This is why it’s so important to understand the distinction between having self esteem and being on love with yourself.
As someone who most would consider unattractive due to my mild/severe acne (yes, I do wash my face as much as I can and I still have acne because of my extremely oily skin), I go through some shit that some attractive people might not know (like the girl in this video). I get called horrible names (just like how attractive people get called names) and my face and acne are the main targets for others to poke fun at me for. Some attractive people also might go through things I go through too. The societal pressure for girls to be a specific weight, body type, boob size, etc., will never be fulfilled because no one's body can be exactly like how society wants women to look (this can go for men too). This girl is just delulu smh.
9:17 she just called herself a piece of shid
she’ll NEVER kno the struggles in this life of a task that “takes balls”
Im honestly sorry for her, it's sad that someone gets like this in first place...
I wonder how she will look back at this "struggle" in 20 years
TikTok will be the epitome of chaos in 10 years.
I think it's already there.
Like it isn't already.
It’s already there and it’s going downhill from there
tiktok is chinas trojan horse
I think it's more like randomness because you can't predict what they'll do
Attractiveness is NOT just a physical thing. It’s about people being enticed by your presence and wanting to be around you. I’m not surprised that this girl has attracted and will keep attracting men who are only out for her physical appearance because there’s not much going on for her outside of that. I have rarely seen a person (teenager or not) who’s aura is more off-putting and unattractive.
This is a great example of how social media is destroying people's sanity...
Victim complex. She wants to be the victim of something. She's also very immature, which is kinda given at her age, but still, go deal with your problems instead of seeking validation.
As an ugly person, I appreciate you bringing this to light and debunking these allegations against me.
"So seductive and so charming" Spent an entire video showing everyone that she doesnt have either of those
People like this are very insufferable
I'm sure she will never regret any of the things she's said
She probably will once she grows up and realizes why she has no friends and nobody wants to be around her.
It's a shame about her being so rude about anyone she doesn't think is attractive, because I get when people say there are tough bits that come with being what society considers hot. I have a friend who's pretty conventionally attractive and likes making herself look good, she gets avoided by some people, harassed by others, her social life isn't great because a lot of people treat her in a way that feels fake, and so on. It's a real thing and it's not amazing. If that was all she was stressed about I would absolutely get it. Difference between this lady and my friend is that my friend doesn't think being normal/ugly is some kind of moral failing or that she should distance herself from unattractive people because they'll just sabotage her out of jealousy or something.
I agree these videos are dangerous, her opinions are dangerous. That being said, she stated she is 18. I am concerned with what she has been surrounded with to believe these things, it makes me wonder what her home environment is like if she has these beliefs. I believe she should be held accountable for her actions, but I also think we should offer some guidance along with critiques.
Also, as an ugly person, these things happen to anyone and everyone. I find it scary that she believes you have to be attractive to be SAd because children are harmed every day and children are not attractive.
"People keep on stalking me like 4 guys where stalking me on a walk to my friends house!"
Guy 1: looking at his phone walking on the sidewalk
Guy 2: just enjoying the walk
Guy 3 & 4 (friends): talking and walking
"High" bike guy: just enjoying the late night ride
Walking around believing you are a 10 when you are a 4.2 should be a crime.
Did she actually say she got treated different as a TEN YEAR OLD because of her ATTRACTIVENESS???
I don't understand how this person doesn't understand that anyone can be kidnapped, anyone can be SA'd, anyone can be followed. It doesn't matter how unattractive or attractive you are people will always do something like that no matter what.
Hi
shes so disgusting, i dont even believe how someone could agree with her
I mean, I feel for her if this is true but I also question her life choices if these things were when she was older. No victim blaming but it's like if I got robbed 10 times before I was 20 because I walked through the ghetto flaunting my money. I'm still a victim but someone needs to help teach me making better life choices.
Either way, that sucks if that stuff happened to her. I still wouldn't tell people not to make friends with people less attractive than them.
If anything it increases more depends on your race
Exactly.such a sad reality in my opinion
She doesn't want someone to be with her just because of her looks, but they sure as hell won't be staying with her for her personality.
YEP!
She literally says "being ugly is a personality trait", then goes on like a 10 min rant😂 🤦🏾♂️like, bro, how is this not satire?
She clearly doesn't understand why "ugly" people don't like her....😅
She doesn't have a personality. Well, only a toxic one.
She right tho, ugly is a personality trait and she has said trait
She couldn't have put it better, being ugly is also about personality
How kind of her to demonstrate it for us
Facts 💯 Exactly why "stereotypically" average or below average people have no problem getting laid, getting married, having families and fulfilling lives. She needs to seriously touch some grass. Not to mention has she ever heard that beauty is in the eye of the beholder? Everyone has a different type preference. I'm positive there are men who wouldn't find her physically attractive at all because they are into an entirely different look.
She not even that good looking.
@@Luvlymarshmellow666When I see someone bragging about their looks: 🧐
A random low wage working woman: 😳🤭
@@__-tp4tm um ok? No one asked.
@@Luvlymarshmellow666 I couldn't spot anyone asking you either. Strange.
you can be the prettiest person in the world, but a mindset like this immediately makes you the complete opposite
She said herself that beauty isn't just a surface characteristic, but involves personality traits, so she's ugly af by her own standards. He beauty is skin deep but her ugly goes to the bone.
Agree. If you’re ugly on the inside, you’re just an ugly person, inside and out. Like this girl 👆🏼
I’ll give her a 5 or 6 on a scale of 10. Personality is a 1 on the same scale. Delusion runs deep with this one.
exactly. those who exalt themselves will be humbled, but those who humble themselves will be exalted
Precisely
As a conventionally unattractive person, I can say that I, too, have
1. Been SA'ed
2. Been followed by random men
3. Had a bunch of people be fake nice to me and pretend to be my friend only to sabotage me
4. Been in abusive, toxic relationships
5. Had people alter their personalities to try and get my approval
Likewise,
I'm generally seen as attractive and I've never been SA'd or kidnapped or anything like that. I also don't think people are nice to me because of my looks. Not everyone is trying to manipulate or get something from u all the time.
I have been in an abusive relationship, but that happened because I had low self esteem, not because of my looks. The abusive guy would have screwed anything that moved lol.
This girl is delu-lu. Abusive fake people don't just follow attractive people wherever they go. But you know what traits do attract these things? Vulnerability and low self esteem. Ain't got anything to do with looks.
@@BeesRecipes Well said!
Then by her standards, you're definitely a very attractive person.
Me too hun
Same
The fact she thinks that ONLY pretty and attractive people get SA and creeped upon at nights and being almost kidnapped is such a disgusting thing to me. She has main character syndrome.
She is 18 so I’m not surprised, 18 is still pretty much a child they have no real world experience outside of their own. Every teenager goes through some type of main character syndrome, though it varies.
IMO she is a traumatized child trying to rationalize the world around her and why the things that happened to her happened.
Her mentality is still that of child, and due to her trauma it more than likely that it delayed her in the mental and emotional development department.
It kind of gives narcissistic but not really… it’s more self absorbed & oblivious than anything.
@@itzTeTeShe still should know what a personality is by now.
@@itzTeTeI don't think she's traumatized...more like wants attention
@@itzTeTeor a child
You do know that being self absorbed and oblivious at the same time, depending on context, is the literal text book example of narcissism, right? Lol
She absolutely embodies this mindset and image if how Y/N characters in Wattpad stories are portrayed by the author. Everyone who sees them just immediately falls in love and wants to be their friend or in a relationship with them. Like, I'm all for delulu can be a selulu but she is seriously out of it and I'd recommend psychiatric care at this point.
Oh my god you’re right
Fr
I mean she's not ugly but she's that girl you'd walk by in public and not really notice tbh
she needs to get rid of the bangs...her hair is soooo thin and her forehead being greasy af makes her honestly look really bad she honestly just looks very average with very thin hair
This was my reaction as well. Yes she's pretty, but ffs... I live in South Florida. There are stunning women everywhere here. She's not even close to that level especially with that incredibly terrible personality. My God.... Cannot imagine being so vain and unaware at the same time 😂
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT
agreed but if you talked to her youd probs never talk to her again LOL
BRO I SAID THAT IN MY HEAD TOO SHE LOOKS LIKE A LOT OF THE GIRLS ON MY CAMPUS and there’s nothing wrong with that ofc, but she ain’t no supermodel, and even if she was this attitude would make her ugly either way
...I no longer believe that this girl has ever experienced any sort of SA. The way she speaks, it's like she's proud. Like it's a badge of honor. Like it's proof that any man wanted her.
Y'know, I've been through that mindset before, and also seen other young girls go through it. Before we'd ever known what it was like to _actually_ be cared for. Or to be taken advantage of.
There's no pride in it. You don't brag about it. Not once you know what it's like. How worthless and pathetic it feels.
her definition is a guy she doesn’t find attractive finding her attractive
The way she giggled, snickered and smiled when saying she was "Almost kidnapped" and "SA'd multiple times" Actually made me see red. I know not all victims act the same but I've never never never met a victim of SA who BRAGGED about it cause they thought were pretty. I was without words...
reminds me of the girls at my school who thought themselves to be superior by getting attention from a pedo really disturbing and did nothing to report really shows how society is a shitshow when i think abt it it actually is the opposite of a compliment for me it never was i just the like ew get off me as IF lmao there is a reason this idiot goes after minors nothing to be proud of
@@Chulpansilu
I know what you mean. I was even jealous that the pedo showed no interest in me, while the “pretty” popular girls were smitten with him (even though he was cheating on his pregnant wife).
It wasn’t till I became an adult I realised that he didn’t show any interest in me because it had more to do with my personality and he would have picked up on the fact that I’m not easily manipulated, rather than for the reason that I want pretty enough.
Called a woman physically ugly cuz she had an odd head shape with an unjustified putrid ego that she'd take out on others and so I simply called her ugly her response was " I get harassed everytime I leave the gym do clearly not" some women really use anything to cope with the reality they are ugly inside and out
I was thinking the same thing and literally screamed “wtf is wrong with her?” when she was smiling when she said that she was almost SAed. No SA victim would act like this lunatic.
I was SAed from when I was 9-13 and I have CPTSD because of it. I don’t even feel comfortable around my own dad, and she has the damn audacity to smile and brag about being almost SAed because she’s attractive?! She doesn’t have a working brain… it’s all mush up there 🤢.
I think she’s lying, flat out
If being sexy was a crime, she would be a law abiding citizen
Edit: I just logged on to RUclips after a long vacation, and GOD DAYUM! 2.2K LIKES? What I said was literally an intrusive thought, plus I barely post anything on social media in general, so this is a huuuge shock to me! Thanks, I guess…?
Uhh burn 😬
Cloaker,what the fuck.
She'd be Barney Fife.
@@dachsrottweiler😭✋
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
6:34
“I have been SA'd .. so much- like- ….*sighs*”
Miss girl. I’m not saying this didn’t happen to you, but I definitely doubt it did. This is a very sensitive topic, traumatic as well. It’s almost insulting to people that have gone through this, because people don’t just speak about an experience like this so casually.
Not meaning to dig into someone's business (and am _really sorry_ to bring up something unpleasant) but maybe this could shed a bit of light to those reading this in future
Was you, by any chance, involved in those traumatic experiences?
I never was so it's hard for me to say for sure, but I know that different people have different coping mechanisms and reactions to bad things in life, some have laugh, some have tears, others just close themselves up, so it was kinda hard for me to tell if she truly had something like that or to what extent
And up until recently (couple of years tbe) I didn't really think that laughs can be counted that people lived through something traumatic or that they aren't through it completely, but I've met some people that changed my view on life and that even light, seemingly normal laughs can actually show people trying to cope up with something. It becomes more obvious when u see similar people with more unnerving or high-pitched laughs seemingly in inappropriate situations
That's why I was asking if you had something unpleasant in your life, to try and get more complete picture, but I am sorry to bring sensitive topics and you may not answer
@@OtcheR_ (my comment is old this kind of comes off as a bit offensive to me tbh, sorryy))
I have been through something that isn’t SA, but it’s still traumatic. I don’t like using that word, but I went to therapy and I’m not over it, and I have a friend that I met through therapy also. We both don’t like talking about what we went through to get us there. when anyone mentions it, I go quiet, I can’t talk about it. i have another friend who had some things going on, we don’t really talk about that either, but sometimes we might discuss it a bit. My friends that have gone through things, and me, don’t just talk about it so causally. now, this girl, I don’t really know what to think. Her outlook on “ugly people”-I definitely disagree with. I don’t want to assume what may or may not have happened to her,, if I was typing my first comment out now, I would definitely have worded it differently.
@@-.-elliroseishappy-.- I see, thanks you for your elaborated (and very quick at that) answer! Again, I'm sorry for asking, sometimes my curiosity takes the best out of me, especially it comes to different life mishaps, since ~half of my childhood I was trying to understand my demons more (a whole hell of them, I'd say), so sometimes it's hard to control
About that girl, I think she's learned 1-2 lessons in her life about being acquainted to some bad people and trying to see world from this perspective only, like trapping herself in thought pattern & making herself unable to think about other stuff
But well, it's not really our demons so we're not to guess it, let strangers be strangers
Also, just looked into your name a bit more, _glad you're happy_ :3
And a random joke to switch conversation flow for the ending:
What do we call a bear without teeth? ... A _gummy_ bear! :D
Now, have a good day~
@@OtcheR_ lol, you have a good day as well! good luck in life :D
It's even funnier because she literally just looks like a normal person.
@@haylie.joy.2001lets not forget all the makup, editing, special affects zendaya gets from her team. shes pretty but shes not like a goddess
@@haylie.joy.2001she's prettier then zendaya lol but still like a 6 at best
@@Gesu_925bad take
@@user-gx9et2rh4q why
@@Gesu_925you’re terribly blind i fear 😕
I bet if she had a friend who she considered less attractive than herself and they were assaulted, she'd be offended that the predator didn't pick her. And she'd absolutely try to invalidate or even straight up deny that friend's experience.
Her video reminds me of that voice over where there is a skit of 'me being kidnapped' or 'gen z being kidnapped' and they say 'Why de you pick me??🤭🤭 do you think Im cute???🤭'
That video is obviously just a joke but she seems to personify it perfectly
Facts 💯
Assaulter: aight girl gonna assault you
Her: umm hello!? I’m the pretty one here
Assaulter: nah Imma pass, you ugly
Her: reeeeeee
I had multiple friends throughout my life like this. They were literally jealous that I was assaulted and they weren’t. Like what?? It made absolutely no sense to me. Like ok I’d gladly trade with you if I could?🙄
Facts that's disturbing af
between her and a goose i’m choosing the goose
UrM actually he is scientifically a duck☝️🤓
@@Dragonzilla2.0ducks and gooses are different…
@@ZenityReal dont worry about him, he's a quack
The fact that she called herself seductive and charming ☠️. No one who is truly seductive or charming has to say that they are, it is simply known.
She comes off as incredibly insecure.
Anddd yet she offended millions of people who’ve basically come to the comments saying “You’re not that attractive! I’VE been SA’d more than you will ever be ugh!” Basically, its the appreciation of the capacity.
She doesn't realize the reason people avoid her is because of her personality.
this girl is SO infuriating, you’d get father talking to a brick wall..
She is very child like ..
Her voice brings her whole being down on the charming meter
Just because you might be attractive on the outside does not mean you are not an incredibly ugly person. She illustrates this pretty well 🙄
She’s not even attractive, and I’m not saying that to put down her looks or anything but people who have an ugly personality and who put down others whilst telling everyone how beautiful they are only come across as ugly and that usually correlates with their looks too because then people start picking out all their flaws and they start to not be so pretty anymore
@@nennaj6186 so true!!!
Nenna- I agree completely. She is totally average looking. Her personality drags her down into hideous territory though
And she’s not even attractive lol
@@callen9623 fr
Expects empathy, offers none
Facts. I hate ppl like that
Yeah, it’s like asking someone for a favor and not paying it back.
as a male survivor of SA (from 15/16 until 22 (age)) and way more. Thank you for calling out people like this. It's horrendous how people like that act like they have some form of exclusivity to assault/harassment/whatever.
I have a really tough time believing her when she talks about how she gets followed constantly, and such. Her behaviour feels a lot more like she is twisting everyone's motives to fit her personal narrative ("This person is walking the same way? they must be following me!!" etc)
I'm so sorry you've had to experience that at such a young age. You matter so so much and you're amazing. Anyone that says otherwise is a liar. Stay strong ❤
Allo fellow SA guy, she have to realise that other people's actions and thought aren't always about her.
As for you, I understand what you're coming from, for me it happened when I was younger, and recently, I think I always attract the same kind of people, so I've decided to stay alone, I'm older with kids who are adults, and I don't want a girlfriend or a wife anymore. In my case, the SA was played as big joke, twice, and I don't want that to happen again. I deal with it alone, because I'm not the generation who was taught to talk about this, and the few friends I've talked to find that funny for some reasons. Take care, good luck in the future.
Edit : english isn't my language.
Are you alright now?
@@MarvinHartmann452are you still friends with those people who find it funny?:(
I'm so sorry for what you went through. ❤
I don't know who told her she was so attractive. There's nothing more unattractive then a person who thinks she's more attractive than she really is.
Yeah true that. She has absolutely no humility. Good lord she's immature and so very shallow.
Yeah, her bangs look weird on her ngl, plus her voice is annoying. VERY annoying.
I mean, she is pretty. But the funny thing about attractiveness is that it'll make a huge difference if you are nice (compared to an unattractive person who's just as nice.)
But if you're mean it doesn't matter
She okay to me I see them every where average looking girls
@@melchiorlise2466she's not unattractive. She is not pretty. There is a difference
She has the tone and cadence of someone who is making up every story she's telling on the spot, and her facial expressions give me the creeps, because it reminds me of narcissists I've dated in the past. If you know anyone who speaks like this girl does, for your sake, STAY AWAY!
100%
Once you’ve been with a narcissist, You can feel the fake, you can’t unsee the false self in other narcissists. The way she speaks is unsettling and that’s because now you have a radar that picks up on it after your narcissistic ex.
It’s very surface, there is no meaning to anything they say, it’s just to hear herself talk. Yuck
@@jooxumja there's also this thing where they pretty much expect that because they're voicing a thought they're having, then it's the objective truth of how the world works. And you can see their eyes kinda squinting, as if they're a deity judging everyone and speaking natural laws into existence or something. It's really disturbing.
@@marcosdiogenes9380 so true! You have a way with describing it that’s spot on.
I also have dealt and am in the midst of healing from a narcissist. He was textbook covert. There was also this strange thing were he wouldn’t look me in the eye but kinda flutter his eyes when I tried to make eye contact.
I have also seen his eyes turn black during one of his rages. They are demonic beings, I’m sure of it. Just flesh portals to be taken over by some malignant archon.
Just sayin’ it gets dark
She is clearly a narcissist. She can't go 30 seconds without complimenting and speaking highly of herself 😂 God damn, even if she was a 10 I would never want to be with her. Imagine how your life would be living with that..
Her explanation of SA’d is probably “ohh this guy looked at me wierd”
she would be the type who would say that about a guy she doesn’t like looking her way or a guy who rejects her advances…
She’s 18, so no surprise. Beauty fades and it’s subjective, but dumb is forever.
Straight up nothing but the truth
Yeah everyone is dumb in their own ways. Can’t really change that, but that’s what makes us human.
Dumb isnt forever either) shes just a kid
I am reading a book right now by Judge Judy from 1998 called that - Beauty Fades, Dumb is Forever. Very good read so far.
We were all "dumb" at 18. We thought we knew it all but had no clue. One day she will look back at this and be like...wtf was I thinking!
Pro tip:
If you've almost been kidnapped in the past, plastering your face all over the internet is probably a bad idea
Nevermind the fact that she probably has not reported any of these "attempted kidnappings"
@@incubus364
Sadly, we don't know how many sexual violence incidents against women doesn't get reported. I do believe her that she probably been stalked and worse in her life, but her virulent belief that fat uglies aren't going to be survivors of theses crimes is toxic.
@@cremetangerine82 or some people are so arrogant that they automatically assume everyone is a pedo. Did you know on tiktok a woman at the gym tried to expose a guy on the internet calling him a pervert just because he glanced at her for half a second.
@@redfatseal2407 you've gotta be careful. There's lots of danger
@@spicybeantofu yes I know, even for boys as well. There's gay people in my lockeroom who tries to hump us
All her "issues" and "hardships" are just problems ALL women face 😂
I wouldn't even call them "problems"... (I mean, the assault is a scary issue of course - trust me I know) but "having groups follow you", or having people fake being nice is just... LIFE.
Ya know?
To speak as though she's pretty and that somehow that's the reason that LIFE happens to her is very disturbing. 😕🤷🏼♀️
@@inthelandofmorethansmall7582”having groups follow you” isn’t normal and shouldn’t be normalized. But the “fake being nice” I agree with
@@attackonshadows I mean, they do though. Groups walk along the same routes as people who are alone.
Not every group has nefarious intentions. Groups of girls follow a boy in the hall at school. They whisper and giggle.
But if you're specifically talking about a single girl walking home from the club after she has drank and flirted with them all night, and then they followed her, yes it IS normal.
That is to say, it's often what will happen.
Just like if I went to a rough part of town with $100 bills stapled on my clothes, I'd be lucky to make it home clothes or alive.
Does "normal" mean "should"? No ofc not. But it's like, if you smoke cigarettes, typically you're going to experience health problems. And that's pretty normal for a cigarette smoker.
It's not atypical. It's not GOOD! ... But its not RARE either. Ya know?
@@inthelandofmorethansmall7582Don't act naive you know exactly what type of group they're talking about.
@@inthelandofmorethansmall7582I honestly think you're a bit weird for trying to normalize behavior like that.
Those weird oily bangs truly balance out her INCREDIBLE out of this world BEAUTY. It’s so nice of her to tone down her looks so we don’t get blinded by her radiance. ❤❤❤
🤭😂😂😂
😂
It’s the forehead sweat, look at the SHINE ‼️
literally couldn't focus on anything but how much they were mildly infuriating me, glad i'm not the only one lol
And that forehead acne ✨💅😩
"Ugly people don't have problems"
Me, someone who grew up "ugly": has been bullied, never taken seriously, been excluded, treated like a joke, has low self esteem, ended up as a people pleaser, lacks self-confidence, I could go on from there
(the following should be read in her voice) Yeah but like, you're not hot, though, so it totes doesn't count...
Yeah, but my makeup is so expensive!!! Omigosh!!!! How could your "problems" ever be wOrSe than MINE???
I'm literally filled with so much self-hatred because I'm ugly and fat (amongst other things) that I became suicidal at 10, but I'm not pretty so my problems obviously don't matter nor count 🤷🏻♀️
exactly. and fat people have health Problems to Boot and those are the really serious Problems compared to "everybody is so nice to me"
Im sure you’re absolutely stunning, gorgeous, beautiful and worth it. A lot of the time people call others ugly to lift their own self esteem, it’s rather pathetic really. Im glad you’ve survived till now and I hope you keep on pushing, fuck anyone who called you ugly them bitches blinder than a worm
As someone who’s pretty unattractive and got bullied for it a lot, I’m just watching this like 😐 I’ve also been the victim of SA and other awful things, these people look for weakness and vulnerability. I’m just. There are no words!
"I don't want people to be with me because of my looks!"
Girl that's the only thing you can offer. Personality is -9000.
-9000?
Nah she -100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000
Her personality is a solid -90
LOL! FACTS
@@ymz.hu.3gyt damn you right tho
Nah she's genuinely average looking. Definitely not ugly. But just an average looking girl. Someone needs to be honest with her about this.
She sounds like the kind of person who says "who would SA/stalk you? You're not THAT hot."
Well like, she literally kind of did.
@@loyalty5207I will admit I commented before I got to that part
@@Liltwilightprincess2Looks like you were right
I had a girl who worked with me at a hotel and our manager started sexually harassing me so I stopped working there. She heard why and said I doubt you got sexually harassed because he don’t do it to me. I obviously didn’t wanna be done that way which is why I stopped working there but she acted like I was making it up but I’ve worked in several places that this stuff has never happened at. I’m not the type to just accuse unless it’s happening but if you threaten to fire me because I won’t kiss you and many other things he did I’m gonna assume it’s not just nothing. I put up with a lot just thinking maybe I’m taking it the wrong way but trying to kiss me confirmed it. Then after he called me breathing weird on the phone and she still acted like I was full of myself because he didn’t do it to her. I would have loved to trade places if she wanted it so bad but I couldn’t. 🤣
@@jessicahanson6105i am sorry that has happend to you ❤🫂