Let Women Play Their Hard Game - Why This Always Backfires

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  • Опубликовано: 4 июн 2024
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  • @LeeEverett1
    @LeeEverett1 Месяц назад +7

    I used to have a bad habit of blaming myself when women played games with me and I'd feel resentful.
    Nowadays I've accepted that that's just what women do and I laugh at them with a new mindset of "wow, you blew it with a good high quality guy that would have treated you good" and let them get with guys who treat them like crap.
    The moment a woman plays games I delete their number immediately and never contact them again without a care in the world. Next.

  • @ChosenCheq
    @ChosenCheq Месяц назад +44

    The version of them that we like is the illusion they put up.. underneath, they're monstrous. And they don't think they need to heal.. madness.

    • @CrackheadEnergy420
      @CrackheadEnergy420 Месяц назад +5

      Powerful message right there.

    • @aizakku8399
      @aizakku8399 Месяц назад +1

      it's a damn shame that you see one without makeup that you like because it gives the illusion of beauty-as-depth but they turn out just as cold and distant as the others. Oh well, back to the alcohol rack.

  • @ryansmulti-verse8204
    @ryansmulti-verse8204 Месяц назад +68

    if you don't hit it off immediately with someone, I wouldn't even waste your time. Seriously. You gotta connect spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically, or it ain't it. Figure yourself out first.

    • @duckyh9712
      @duckyh9712 Месяц назад +7

      This is a lot of work unfortunately. And if you don’t have to do these things to attract the girl more often than times she’s just a 304

    • @jamesb8619
      @jamesb8619 Месяц назад

      What you mean figure yourself out first? As if females aren’t already the problem. You can have all the ingredients that a woman wants but these creatures are the most shallow people out there. Nothing satisfies them. They want more and more, it’s draining. Men on the other hand have to settle down with what they can get which is unfortunate.

    • @jasonlockhart5633
      @jasonlockhart5633 Месяц назад +3

      Word

    • @fantasy8833
      @fantasy8833 Месяц назад

      you get back what you give out. So if you are hard on women and always looking for red flags, other people will do the same to you

  • @CrackheadEnergy420
    @CrackheadEnergy420 Месяц назад +26

    Only give what you receive. Do not waste energy.

    • @fantasy8833
      @fantasy8833 Месяц назад

      i disagree, , , whatever you give in the universe you will get back,,, mostly not from the same person but it still comes back 10x

    • @CrackheadEnergy420
      @CrackheadEnergy420 Месяц назад

      @@fantasy8833 In my experience that has got me hurt several times.

  • @YouTubeOverrated
    @YouTubeOverrated Месяц назад +27

    I swear I hear so many stories of girls “playing hard to get” and none of them understand the damage it does. Not just to the relationship, it also does a lot of damage to their significant other by making them feel like they do not mean anything to them.

    • @kevincampos3797
      @kevincampos3797 Месяц назад

      They do that as projection because it works on them I guess.

  • @user-jz6to8md3c
    @user-jz6to8md3c Месяц назад +18

    Women are energy vampires.

    • @Eternal_Hoop
      @Eternal_Hoop Месяц назад

      They say the attention is a better orgasm

    • @DanishFaultFinder1
      @DanishFaultFinder1 Месяц назад +4

      Just avoid and deflect those Iphone in hand Narcs...God bless...

  • @doctorgames101b
    @doctorgames101b Месяц назад +15

    Playstation is better than her-station.

  • @blazebradley4276
    @blazebradley4276 Месяц назад +11

    It’s numbing at this point bro 😂

  • @mattyfelton954
    @mattyfelton954 Месяц назад +32

    I'm no longer approaching women at all. If she is not a narcissist she would have no problem approaching me.

    • @user-ju6zx3rm8d
      @user-ju6zx3rm8d Месяц назад +1

      unless you are a Chad (top 3% of men in terms of looks) they will not approach you. Wake up

    • @photographyenthusiast9941
      @photographyenthusiast9941 Месяц назад +4

      If you are actually a decent man you are more apt to be approached by narcissistic women.
      I have no problem approaching men, but that’s because I’m not afraid to.
      -Most women want to be approached, but the best approach is friendship first.

    • @sponkmcdonk3898
      @sponkmcdonk3898 Месяц назад

      you sound like a woman. They don’t initiate

    • @DanishFaultFinder1
      @DanishFaultFinder1 Месяц назад

      Or just get to realize its over with what used to be the opposite sex...No wasting resources, precious life time, no usery...Thank god almighty Amen..​@@photographyenthusiast9941

    • @DanishFaultFinder1
      @DanishFaultFinder1 Месяц назад +3

      Stay clear of those narcs..God bless

  • @cloudcastellio9617
    @cloudcastellio9617 Месяц назад +14

    I’ve spoken with virgins and I could tell simply because they are willing to converse.

    • @jamesb8619
      @jamesb8619 Месяц назад +3

      Are you talking about women?

  • @bronwankhan3323
    @bronwankhan3323 Месяц назад +20

    From my personal experience that is 💯 percent correct. If a woman playing it cool, appearing aloof, seems distant like and acting uninterested. From past experience. It is a covert narcissist.

    • @jasontandy3357
      @jasontandy3357 Месяц назад +10

      That’s like 80% + of females these days!

    • @maijensen3317
      @maijensen3317 Месяц назад

      If a woman isn't interested in you, she is a narcissist?
      Would you diagnose your daugther as a narcissist if she isn't interested in all the men who find her attractive?

    • @jasontandy3357
      @jasontandy3357 Месяц назад +4

      @@maijensen3317 He said “playing it cool, appearing aloof, seems distant like and acting uninterested” nowhere did he say that a woman needs to express genuine interest in all the men that are in-turn interested in her. I’m very sure he meant a woman that has a genuine interest in a man and continues to act like this is, from his past experience, is a covert narcissist. And I have to agree with him! Because I said 80% of women but in my personal experience it has been closer to 95%, mostly in America but many in other Western nations. I also think this is mostly a Western phenomenon, at the moment and I pray it stays this way until this place burns to the ground!

  • @HANZELVANDERLAAY
    @HANZELVANDERLAAY Месяц назад +14

    Covert narc..draining ur life force... YOU NAILED IT👍

  •  Месяц назад +7

    even worse is the BPD episode...and then their emotional downfall when they realize they lost an amazing thing.

    • @UnseemlyGenie00
      @UnseemlyGenie00 Месяц назад +6

      Best revenge is to improve yourself. Always put yourself first before any wahman because the only person you can count on is yourself

  • @riseup902
    @riseup902 Месяц назад +5

    I just got out of a marriage with someone who was extremely narcissistic. She exhibited text book definition symptoms from the gaslighting, manipulation, rage episodes, triangulation, lack of empathy, refusing to go to therapy, and fighting over the most trivial things. Trust me you don't want to be in a relationship with someone who's like this. It ain't worth it, and if you come across one just run. I mean just run as far away as you can. You will be in a losing war if you marry one.

    • @DanishFaultFinder1
      @DanishFaultFinder1 Месяц назад +1

      Ruuuuuun get to the Chooppaa...Even AZ had to learn...Dont waist no more time on 'Them'

    • @jasontandy3357
      @jasontandy3357 Месяц назад

      What is quite unfortunate as I think this type of behavior has been amplified and spread like a virus due to a perfect storm of social media dating apps, western feminism, gynocentrism, marriage laws and other laws now, etc. In the past, probably a very small percentage of women actually acted like this, but now it’s become the vast majority.

  • @danyealaldubi6200
    @danyealaldubi6200 Месяц назад +13

    The most frustrating thing they do is lead you on. If you arent interested say something. Dont say you can hang out and then leave me on delivered for 2 days without a set time or day for a date. Females behave like this simply because they have the options. If they didnt they wouldnt be so flaky and iconsistent. As a guy we cant be flaky and inconsistent because we dont have the options😂. So we try too make shit happen right out of the gate.

  • @BigBadMF43
    @BigBadMF43 Месяц назад +3

    Insecure woman only feel confortable with insecure guys who let them play games and control.

  • @samkahlout2740
    @samkahlout2740 Месяц назад +1

    You'd be lucky to have a friend like Terry. He's as real as it gets. We need more people like this.

  •  Месяц назад +2

    "they have the nightmare before Xmas inside"
    precisely

    • @DanishFaultFinder1
      @DanishFaultFinder1 Месяц назад

      Its the cross of being A Straag...Avoid and deflect at any cost..Amen god bless..

  • @HANZELVANDERLAAY
    @HANZELVANDERLAAY Месяц назад +5

    Yes their internal dialogue..is absolute CRAP

  • @Eternal_Hoop
    @Eternal_Hoop Месяц назад +3

    Make the woman ascend to your level or leave her

  • @vroom.thereal
    @vroom.thereal Месяц назад

    Thanks for these videos man, these are helping me every day 🤘🏻

  • @questtobethebest
    @questtobethebest Месяц назад

    Thank you

  • @theycallmedilweedyt2029
    @theycallmedilweedyt2029 Месяц назад +1

    Had the same situation finding out how she felt fr on her close friends story😂

  • @cmoe-dq5kb
    @cmoe-dq5kb Месяц назад

    Excellent jacket bruh...also excellent messages I've seen in the videos I seen do far...bravo 🍻

  • @terencebyrd1067
    @terencebyrd1067 Месяц назад +1

    Congratulations on hitting 90k, Joel! Nubreed attacking your channel actually helped it. 😎 ..... Chosen one's always come out on top. Praise the Most High.

  • @prescottosegie
    @prescottosegie Месяц назад +2

    Well said terry I have dealt with women like that in my past. That have played the hard game. I
    Made two decisions In 2018 and 2019 1. I made the decision to stop dating women in the united states 🇺🇸 and 2. I won't be getting married in the united states 🇺🇸 I'll be getting married overseas. I'll make sure that the women I marry will sign a prenup and NDA forms

    • @DanishFaultFinder1
      @DanishFaultFinder1 Месяц назад

      2018 last encounter with one of what used to be the opposite sex...Now I'm out and done...I've seen the light(TJJ helped and tons of other wise MEN)..living Monk life....Living in my self built paradise Aka...The drama free ZONE...😊😊😊

  • @garudaghost4728
    @garudaghost4728 Месяц назад

    Good video my friend

  • @Livingmybestlife82
    @Livingmybestlife82 Месяц назад +2

    Common sense.. but it isn't so common these days.

  • @Mike_Cosentino
    @Mike_Cosentino Месяц назад +1

    Based

  • @siwy792010
    @siwy792010 Месяц назад +1

    The poor dog 😂

    • @DanishFaultFinder1
      @DanishFaultFinder1 Месяц назад

      Yes indeed...I have two neighbors of what used to be the opposite sex...Both have dogs that bark most of the day. As 'mother' dosent need them until the workday or visiting the other narcs friends or family is done...They are barking until no more voice is heard..Most days....You cant do nothing..Cant explain nothing to those without MORALS ETHICS VALUES or PRINCIPLES...God will call the dogs when he chooses...Amen

  • @shrimp3683
    @shrimp3683 Месяц назад +4

    Bro how do you upload everyday within such short time period, really have a lot to share

    • @HANZELVANDERLAAY
      @HANZELVANDERLAAY Месяц назад +4

      He is amazing....a bit repetitive..but I feel I need it drilled into me over and over again

  • @garymorrison4675
    @garymorrison4675 Месяц назад

    💯

  • @DTyler311
    @DTyler311 Месяц назад

    Not the belgian malinois bruh lol
    We gotta save em JJ haha

  • @cloudcastellio9617
    @cloudcastellio9617 Месяц назад

    Unfortunate.

  • @user-jz6to8md3c
    @user-jz6to8md3c Месяц назад

    Is that jacket the dallas cowboys joel im interested to know.

  • @HEXfutures
    @HEXfutures Месяц назад +1

    🎉

  • @lomahi997
    @lomahi997 Месяц назад +1

    pick better. there are many good trad girls

  • @edwinrivera-ig4ib
    @edwinrivera-ig4ib 21 день назад

    You silly goose

  • @positivechallengetv
    @positivechallengetv Месяц назад +1

    i watch for edutainment 😂

  • @carlhannen1769
    @carlhannen1769 Месяц назад

    I'd only ever bring them down to a basic level anyway.

  • @nodustflyzone
    @nodustflyzone Месяц назад +2

    You’re right tho!

  • @SnakesandDoggies
    @SnakesandDoggies Месяц назад

    Bro, did you see Katarina Lomanova's dance from yesterday? Sweet Fancy Moses! I might have to put my adult films away for a few days... 🤤

    • @photographyenthusiast9941
      @photographyenthusiast9941 Месяц назад

      Um, yeah, if you want to be able to enter the Kingdom of Heaven.

    • @SnakesandDoggies
      @SnakesandDoggies Месяц назад

      @@photographyenthusiast9941 I get pretty close when I pause the video for a couple minutes let me tell ya...

    • @photographyenthusiast9941
      @photographyenthusiast9941 Месяц назад

      @@SnakesandDoggies Well if you actually want to date a real live woman...you might consider it. Most women don't want men into that sort of thing.

  • @believe49
    @believe49 Месяц назад

    Authentic spiritual focus focuses on one’s self. All this content and comments about how mean women are are actually the opposite of (good) spirituality. Focus on yourself and you’ll be unbothered by anyone else. And no one owes anyone anything so not getting what you want doesn’t make the other horrible or even wrong for their choice of not “giving” to you.

  • @djredrayne
    @djredrayne Месяц назад

    lol

  • @Idontlikepolitics
    @Idontlikepolitics Месяц назад

    Crazy don't stop being crazy just cause you don't acknowledge it! 👍

  • @nodustflyzone
    @nodustflyzone Месяц назад +7

    I wish I could hug you lol

    • @SFbayArea94121
      @SFbayArea94121 Месяц назад +5

      Should hug ya 10 kidz Bruh 😂😂😂 lololol

    • @geodude6244
      @geodude6244 Месяц назад +5

      He's outta your league sis

    • @tunglungastro
      @tunglungastro Месяц назад

      "can't touch what you can't have"
      Keep on wishing, Sis. 🫠

    • @kevincampos3797
      @kevincampos3797 Месяц назад

      You wish lol

  • @staceyembling9916
    @staceyembling9916 Месяц назад

    😈💅🏻

    • @TurkAskeri229
      @TurkAskeri229 Месяц назад +1

      get help

    • @HealthyLife9250
      @HealthyLife9250 Месяц назад

      If y’all are so pretty why are y’all he ones who wear makeup ?

  • @cloudcastellio9617
    @cloudcastellio9617 Месяц назад

    You bin dipping huh huh… you been dodging you’re just too much for Mr. incredible oh my God

  • @RainbowBright33
    @RainbowBright33 Месяц назад

    What about matching energy tho? If a man is leaving you on seen, shouldn't you leave him on seen also? I think we should let men lead, but there is a difference between submission and being a door mat. We can't just be answering and available all the time to these men.

    • @SFbayArea94121
      @SFbayArea94121 Месяц назад +3

      Lulz 😂.

    • @DanielRicany
      @DanielRicany Месяц назад

      No

    • @RainbowBright33
      @RainbowBright33 Месяц назад

      ​@@DanielRicanyso we should be always available? Always answer right away? When he doesn't??

    • @RainbowBright33
      @RainbowBright33 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@DanielRicanyyou think men like Pick Me women who are always available?? I don't think so.

    • @johnsmith1034
      @johnsmith1034 Месяц назад +2

      @@RainbowBright33ironic you calling them pick me women to shame them when that phrase was created bc they get picked by men😂😅