People are literal clowns. They act like they don‘t see you, or can‘t remember your name, they pretend they didnt see your wins (on social media, TV), and ignore you in person. This is why I abandoned social media- these same people from your relatives, hometown or community centers will pretend. They dont want to give your credit because they have no excuse for their blatant failure.They will congratulate dengeneracy and completely ignore real good/successful wins. The more successful I get, the more I recognize how far behind people are; incapable of holding a conversation, eye-contact, their promises/ committments, etc. They just continue to dwell in their miserable lives then try to project that onto you. They‘re the definition of failure.
Smart move. I abandoned social media in 2016, that was 8 years ago! I couldn’t handle the insanity leading up to the election and most of my friends/family were liberal… People I thought that had my back turned on me real quick for expressing my Conservative opinions. It was a tough time, but I feel so much better having left it.
It is a natural instinct for anyone to feel bad if they see someone else succeed where they think they should have as well. The thing we don't know is all the efforts those people put in but didn't see the results they expected to have. You can have two people putting forth equal amounts of efforts into something but only one of them succeeds. Why is that? Sometimes it just boils down to luck. I can guarantee you that nobody wants their efforts to be in vain.
This is the truth. People unfollowed me and stopped watching my stories whenever i would display success through social media. The things that i thought would make them like me more only pushed them further away from me.
@SpaceBxrr I'm trying to have an understanding of human psychology. Who did this story trigger and why? What about this one? Are they ignoring me because I succeeded where they failed? It's about evaluating peoples behaviour depending on the content provided.
Same as you! When they first get to know me, everyone liked my cat, cars and food I've shared and now only 1 of my older colleagues liking what im sharing (my cooking skills). It was 15 colleagues before. So strange. And anyways there was a colleague sharing a Pic of him from the back as sitting at the coast of an average lake (not even like a huge, beautiful view). It has received closely 200 likes lmao. Sometimes my dishes are getting nothing at all. This is ridiculous and shows really well how pathetic are most of these people.
We live in a competition based reality that if you're not climbing over the next guy then you're getting climbed. I do not subscribe to this rhetoric because I believe we will only rise as one unified force of nature, together.
yeah, none of them talk to me because i'm currently fixing my underwater life. all i got is my mom and i love her even if sometimes she's a little overprotective because i know deep down she cares for me. what other kind of love do I need?
@@khalidhassan9423 It's always good to be love and be admired but it's not the paramount of the reality. Righteousness is able to flourish when we are can put our egos aside and speak truth without fear, to speak from the heart.
@@Flatteryfoxit’s normally like that, highly successful people show less jealousy towards other highly successful people. Sometimes people could reach a goal, but when they know you are more significant than them, envy takes root in their heart because not only are you succeeding in many things but you are conscious as well
See nobody talks about the reverse of this. When I was going through hard times and trying to climb up out of a hole and it seemed like everyone else was succeeding, then I must have become like "dead weight" to them and then they proceeded to ghost me and burn bridges just because I hadn't succeeded yet at the same time as them. The problem is when people treat each other as an us vs them cult.
Some of these people are actually offended by your success. In fact, they look for things to criticize and blame you for so they can use it as an excuse to trash talk you behind your bank and sabotage your progress. Beware of people who make bogus claims of being offended by something you allegedly did or said, and avoid.
That's so true. I've found that even hobby achievements that bring no added financial success will also make people this way, especially if the achievements far succeed what is normal in society. I run my own small botanical garden in my home and 3D print, and it's a coinflip as to whether or not a person will show joyful awe when they discover my abilities, or an envious offended demeanor. One time I had a person tell me they didn't believe I could grow cannabis while standing in front of a 5 foot tall half pound yielding monster of a plant, sparkling with trichomes and purple fades and looked like something out of a High Times magazine. I asked them: "How can you deny the reality of what you are face to face with this very moment?"
I lost friends and got ignored after I got engaged or became manager at my job. I was totally alone after I gave birth except for some family members. Lost my best friend that I have known since I was 14 because I bought a house. She wouldn't take my calls. I have been a widow for 19 years. No friends. Just my dogs and my sons have my back.
The people around you want you to do well, just not better than them. So many see that your success is making them look bad. Crabs in a bucket don't like it when one is making an escape. That's why I low key my activities, especially my successes.
if that's the case then why is toddler here bitchin' again if everyone wants this for themselves? he's making everything up then about others. as I said, he's yapping all about himself. he'll never fix this as he is a woman trapped in a man's body. he will want his lgbt sandwhich coming up next and gobbled it straight down, I know this clawn and so do many others.
The crabs in a bucket analogy sums up humanity for real it's to much the more I'm around many people the more I would rather enjoy doing things within my own company that way I know I won't have the negative weak ass energy from other's attempting to repeatedly steal from me.
Watch out for these types- some will go through great lengths to see you fail and go backwards in life. Theyre not the healthiest minded people. Sure a lot of their shenanigans stems from jealousy and envy, these are people to refrain as much contact with as possible for their intentions will not typically be in your favors. Watch your backs☝️
bro when they see us doing well they get jealous and envious. they're like, why is he succeeding? why i'm miserable?? and then they get together and gangstalk us. my neighbors are all covert narcs and I know they listen to every single thing i do. i go to the bathroom and i can hear them also going to their bathroom. it's insane but chosen ones will always have these people.
Facts, I get starred at, or I park my car at a parking lot(my favorite spot I know) then all of sudden a random car pulls in next me all fast and quick and I'm like damn what's the rush. Every time I come around people get quite, scared, looking down, fidgeting etc etc I'm just a lay back guy don't bother no one
This is so true honestly. The title relates to my current life situation rn 😭. All my friends are busy doing their own thing and are no longer as available as they used to be. Competition, intimidation, comparison, envy, insecurity/projection, etc.
Bruh this is why we need to stop using social media and just keep quiet it’s pretty sad that people can’t be happy for you it’s honestly pathetic it is what it is
Yeah I had to leave my place of work because my co-workers became increasingly hostile towards me as I progressed more within my career and obtained higher ranks and acquired more skills it was really fucking weird because it was the combat engineers and we're literally going to potentially have to save each others lives constantly. I think it's extraordinarily dysgenic to act that way in that specific workplace and I joined the military to actually avoid that from occurring. But it occurred anyways.
It's because we have literally turned everything into an every man for himself competition and only putting out the highlights of our lives on social media causing everyone to compare themselves to each other. If we encouraged more teamwork and collaboration, then perhaps this could change.
People are always hatting on me for know reason and i completely have no idea why,i lost everything, things got stolen from me,and had to come to a place i didnt even want to go, and i have no idea what the hell is really going on anywhere, because i am being convided for whatever reason,uts like people are keeping things from me.
you look successful because it looks like you're chilling at home by yourself and your room is clean. society doesn't like that and thats why i presume you're living by yourself. i'm like that but i live with 2 siblings currently and it actually feels like no one's there. we're on the right track
I can relate to this. I had to push away from some people in my life cos they were just doubting me and being negative. Goals being achieved, life gets better with the right people around. Bless up.
I recently stumbled upon your channel and it’s been a godsend. I don’t know what it is exactly, but there’s something about your voice, the reassurance and confidence that comes with it, that puts my anxious mind at ease. I’ve been going back and binging your videos, even falling asleep to them when I’m tired. Anyway, God bless and stay strong, brothers. 🙏
The problem is some people have never experienced respect you have get to their level to show them your not taking it but you will always have the last laugh
I'm really seeing this now. Most people are just struggling with their s h itty lives, and they get mad, like, why do others have abundance? And they dont even bother to try or look into anything, they are just order followers and society followers
I’m reading East of Eden by John Steinbeck right now and I wanted to share a passage that struck me, as many have so far. “In uncertainty I am certain that underneath their topmost layers of frailty men want to be good and want to be loved. Indeed, most of their vices are attempted short cuts to love. When a man comes to die, no matter what his talents and influence and genius, if he dies unloved his life must be a failure to him and his dying a cold horror. It seems to me that if you or I just choose between two courses of thought or action, we should remember our dying and try so to live that out death brings no pleasure to our world.” I, like everyone, think about my own death and mortality. And I think often about how I interact with the world, my good and my evils. I think recognizing that some vices or negative things that belong to me may be my short cuts in an attempt to be loved, and that I may be able to find holy or good replacements for things on my way to my own death. And I will live my life In a way that, upon my inevitable death, I can be cherished as good.
When I was in my teens, struggling , low income family..My relatives used to mock me, taunt me ...But they were always in touch with me. I knew all of this, but stayed quiet and ignored them. But my mom had a soft corner for them, despite the fact that they were despicable toward us. And sometimes, me and my mother got into arguments over this. But I kept working hard, today I am financial stable , have reached a social status equivalent to my relative who used to taunt me. I have a family , wife , 2 kids. I am at peace now. But now those same toxic relative who used to mock me, have gone silent, they have ignored me completely. And it has been years since I heard from them, however they talk among each other, but not with me. When my mom passed away in covid times, some of them did not even care to attend my mother's funeral. That's when I realized, they were toxic to the core toward me !
Me, I WANT to be around folks more successful from than so I can learn from them. I’m proud of my friends that gain new levels of success Whenever I started to make more money, learned economics, and got my first property I had a couple of friends of 10+ years that started acting completely different. It’s insane.
Ye when you START MAKING IT IN LIFE everyone goes away, not when you fall down a bad hole like drugs. If you become a famous RUclipsr, nobody wants to talk to you anymore.
Its kinda both. When I was making 9.50/hr had tons of "friends", then when I was homeless everyone was gone, now making 90k and traveling the world literally no one speaks to me from USA now.
We live in a competition based society where if you aren't climbing you're getting climbed. But it also goes both ways, I've fallen on hard times and everyone immediately disappeared. Nobody knows what to do when they see someone fail. So they see that person as some sort of alien. If you're seen as that after succeeding then it is because success has become so rare. If success was more common then I don't believe there would be as much hate.
@@robinmc142 nah man we were still in different towns in the USA but they would call and video chat on the regular. Now it never happens. Oh well I am busy with work and learning a new language hopefully I will make new friends in a year or two.
Ye because everyone wants to be you of course. They're ashamed. Not proud. Bro you make us feel better, that's why we watch you, just not for the reasons you think you do.
@@dorianlawson6791 was that even English? I'm just saying we watch him because it makes us proud that at least we're not him, just to decode that because you clearly don't speak English very well.
This is so true it's funny I'm going threw THAT NOW its a bit quiet and lonely 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 Don't mind to be honest rather be in peace women also it's a weird time people act funny and when u confront them they will say NOTHING BUT U CAN FEEL A VIBE THATS NOT QUITE RIGHT 🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣🖕🏿THEM😂😂😂😂KEEP IT MOVVVVVVINNNGGGGGGGGGGGGG😂😂😂
What gets me is. every video is going on that day week or month. And im way in uk.. is exactly how terry explains. This is why im hated despite most people in my city knowing and seeing with their own eyes that Childhood was rough.. care system/ abuse physical and mental by own mother , step dad and relatives until 27 before and after care .. mom still won't tell me who dad is as oldest son. 4 other kids younger know theirs. Im 28. Socially people know and saw it. And wished they had a hand in my demise because im still alive. Now. Evil is at a high here in uk like wanlking streets going to work, even feeding their kids.. These people are evil that ive known.. all my life here and the true genuine i can count on 1 hand In my city. Coming from somone with 0 mates and 0 trusted relatives. Over 1 and half years since i qent out with a mate. Ir relative and as lonely as it gets.. Ive never had peace like it unless i travel aboard.
You have said it recently that life can be borderline and that is made up by certain people by the haters, you can only avoid it qhen you stay at home the most time or move to an other city where the general mentality is different because those certain people cause you stress evry time and you can handle it but your subconciousnes not because it is hard abuse
Wow man, now that's what I'm talking about! Keep up the energy and let the rest fall by the wayside. We going to see this through til the bitter end and they ain't seeing the freight train about to hit 'em! Love, truth, enlightenment.
My believe is that those people are the matrix or possess by demons, its the same, just an bad and false ratio, just bots, no soul, no hearth, no humanity, just an bot like the garbage man from ghost in the shell
Yeah I feel you on this.. it’s almost like spiritual warfare in a way. Like when you start to do something different/ better someone or something just pops up and try’s to get as much information out of you as “it” can to see how you’re doing and where you’re at
Godspeed Bro! I think about you when I’m goal setting and getting away from certain people. I’ve been cooking from scratch since January and back to my pre-pandemic size, lost over 20 pounds and I feel fantastic. Yesterday I ate out and it was even healthy food and I just feel sick today. I made up my mind. I just have to take the time and eat from scratch And yes, some of the women in my group have stopped talking to me
Same pattern: 1) They say subtly passive-aggressive remarks to get you confused/emotional 2) If you fall for the trap and get upset, they say they were just joking and to not take things so seriously. 3) If you go on the offensive and call them out, they immediately play the victim and try to make you out to be the irrational aggressor.
are you good? sorry about this toddler, he still has two empty pools to fill with his tears before he becomes a half decent candidate. instead, he's decided to film his demise for everyone to see.
It was the 2nd anniversary of my suicide attempt due to how my first relationship ended. I was 25, almost 26 at the time. Long story short: She got pregnant and I left the choice up to her whether or not to keep the baby. She didn't want adoption, and said if she had the kid she would keep it. I wasn't ready for a child, and she went ahead with the abortion. I offered to come to the appointment, but she refused to have me there. She went cold after this, it felt like the flip of a switch to "I don't love you anymore". She used to call me names, my nickname being "airhead". Whenever I was at her house watching movies or whatever, she would position her two dogs in-between us. It seemed as though she cared more for those dogs than me, especially since she would scold me if I moved a certain way and upset the dogs (I have restless legs). She wouldn't let me help her cook, and would shoo me out of the kitchen every time. One time she asked me to pick up McDonald's for her on my way to work (we both worked overnights at the same grocery store). I brought her the food and the first thing she said wasn't "thank you", it was "You forgot my drink!". I offered a couple times to help her organize and clean her crafting room, she was an artsy person and I love artsy people. Every time I offered help she would say "you just wanna fool around". The night I think she got pregnant, she climbed on top of me and initially sex and I told her I should put a condom on and she just got more into it and didn't let me. I wasn't ready for kids and told her this before. She got more distant as time went on (mind you this relationship lasted 4 months). 2 years in and it just haunts me that I let someone betray and degrade me to the point I wanted to die. I have scars on my left arm and every year on 6/21, they seem to pop out more and shine brighter. I try not to ruminate but I listen to these videos to know what to look out for now. I struggled to describe what the hell was wrong with her mentally. I told her that I was having a rough time and was stepping down from my management position at work because of too much stress, to which she replied: "That's your own fault." I went into the bathroom and cut my wrists 25 times after that comment. Those words still haunt me. Being in a romantic relationship scares the ever living shit out of me now because there are a lot of women like her.
Nah they keep quiet and distance themselves due to your serial killer energy. Just have to reflect and quit yapping without thinking already, you already have two empty pools to fill with your tears. You got nothing.
I've already Evolved, I'm a Different Animal, but still the Same Beast. Gohan has been So Gone for So Long, he Aint Even Within Reach. The Levy Broke and the Dam Breached. Me and the Bros were Swimmin During Hurricane Ian Down in Fort Myers Beach.
I would try to avoid him if it is possible for you. The one uppers are the worst downers in existence. My guess is he probably likes negative talk too. I'm wondering what the response would be if you said something like "I just won 1000 dollars on a scratch off." He might try to say he won 2000 on a scratch off once or something, or down your win and be like "Oh that's nothing, hardly a mortgage payment" There's no winning with these types.
@@jacob8266Because we have turned it into a culture of constant competition and every man for himself. This culture can be changed, however, if we encourage teamwork and collaboration.
I think it is not good to normalize these haters like they are haters that what it is, no they are not normal they is something very false about them, yes they try not only to ruin your day they want to seperate you from yourself with their stupid bot behavior and bot theater and mirage you false evidence
Imagine if people like this guy had purpose and didn't feel the need to expose themselves as being the exact type of person our man is talking about in the video. The irony...
I'm the most successful person now in my friend group and only my 7 closest friends still text and post and call me. Only two of them want to hang out.
@@roxy8298 yes, i already told him I was concerned as well. even gave him a heads up. but he doesnt change. some people have to learn the hard way, dont let him take your energy like that. that was the whole spiel behind these vids - play victim as a male while laughing and taking everything you got. he's feeling his own psychotic energy and thinking it's other people - really weird guy. That's why I always say, he's talking about himself in every vid and use the analogy of the drunk outside of a beer store rambling which he fits closely.
@@roxy8298 these kinds of people never change. hes the type to walk into a mcdonalds and look people he doesnt know up and down like he knows them, and possibly get in a fight with any or all of them. that's where his entire theory is birthed from. a thin layer of nice which doesnt exist on the surface and he might have you hoodwinked of your purse and your own sanity. just say no at the end and walk away
When you are completely alone........it means you are WINNING......
Remember guys success is the greatest revenge to haters
People are literal clowns. They act like they don‘t see you, or can‘t remember your name, they pretend they didnt see your wins (on social media, TV), and ignore you in person. This is why I abandoned social media- these same people from your relatives, hometown or community centers will pretend. They dont want to give your credit because they have no excuse for their blatant failure.They will congratulate dengeneracy and completely ignore real good/successful wins. The more successful I get, the more I recognize how far behind people are; incapable of holding a conversation, eye-contact, their promises/ committments, etc. They just continue to dwell in their miserable lives then try to project that onto you. They‘re the definition of failure.
Smart move. I abandoned social media in 2016, that was 8 years ago! I couldn’t handle the insanity leading up to the election and most of my friends/family were liberal… People I thought that had my back turned on me real quick for expressing my Conservative opinions. It was a tough time, but I feel so much better having left it.
Amen wherever, whoever you are 😂 Lol 😇❤ peace upon you! Last shall be first so they better get ready we taking over soon 😊
I agree 100%!
Facts 🎯💯
It is a natural instinct for anyone to feel bad if they see someone else succeed where they think they should have as well. The thing we don't know is all the efforts those people put in but didn't see the results they expected to have. You can have two people putting forth equal amounts of efforts into something but only one of them succeeds. Why is that? Sometimes it just boils down to luck. I can guarantee you that nobody wants their efforts to be in vain.
This is the truth. People unfollowed me and stopped watching my stories whenever i would display success through social media. The things that i thought would make them like me more only pushed them further away from me.
@SpaceBxrr I'm trying to have an understanding of human psychology. Who did this story trigger and why? What about this one? Are they ignoring me because I succeeded where they failed? It's about evaluating peoples behaviour depending on the content provided.
Yooooooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Same bro so nice to know im not alone in this weird ass world
Yeah it's weird. I travel the world barely anyone watches. Yet someone's cat video 200 likes
Same as you! When they first get to know me, everyone liked my cat, cars and food I've shared and now only 1 of my older colleagues liking what im sharing (my cooking skills). It was 15 colleagues before. So strange. And anyways there was a colleague sharing a Pic of him from the back as sitting at the coast of an average lake (not even like a huge, beautiful view). It has received closely 200 likes lmao. Sometimes my dishes are getting nothing at all. This is ridiculous and shows really well how pathetic are most of these people.
It’s crazy when your own siblings resent your success.
We live in a competition based reality that if you're not climbing over the next guy then you're getting climbed. I do not subscribe to this rhetoric because I believe we will only rise as one unified force of nature, together.
yeah, none of them talk to me because i'm currently fixing my underwater life. all i got is my mom and i love her even if sometimes she's a little overprotective because i know deep down she cares for me. what other kind of love do I need?
@@khalidhassan9423 It's always good to be love and be admired but it's not the paramount of the reality. Righteousness is able to flourish when we are can put our egos aside and speak truth without fear, to speak from the heart.
@@carlhannen1769Exactly. Teamwork and collaboration.
Worse with parents. Like bruh. That's literally what kids are supposed to do. Surpass you.
Truth bombs. I’m 60- I can tell you unequivocally that all of this is 110% true. People HATE those who succeed
This is why god always paves a way for you to succeed and heal, during the process of endurance
God is good! 🙏 Only Jesus can save. He is the way the truth and the life! ❤
I only have 1 friend left after I became successful. Truth.
Same
Same & they are also successful
@@Flatteryfoxit’s normally like that, highly successful people show less jealousy towards other highly successful people. Sometimes people could reach a goal, but when they know you are more significant than them, envy takes root in their heart because not only are you succeeding in many things but you are conscious as well
Oh yes, nothing quite like American jealousy! Big smile to your face, while silently hoping you will fail, fall hard!
It's not just in American society, it's in every part of the world. People these days are toxic to the core
See nobody talks about the reverse of this. When I was going through hard times and trying to climb up out of a hole and it seemed like everyone else was succeeding, then I must have become like "dead weight" to them and then they proceeded to ghost me and burn bridges just because I hadn't succeeded yet at the same time as them.
The problem is when people treat each other as an us vs them cult.
Sometimes silent and distance is best .there's times we have to answer are calling and go a different path ❤
Some of these people are actually offended by your success. In fact, they look for things to criticize and blame you for so they can use it as an excuse to trash talk you behind your bank and sabotage your progress. Beware of people who make bogus claims of being offended by something you allegedly did or said, and avoid.
That's so true. I've found that even hobby achievements that bring no added financial success will also make people this way, especially if the achievements far succeed what is normal in society.
I run my own small botanical garden in my home and 3D print, and it's a coinflip as to whether or not a person will show joyful awe when they discover my abilities, or an envious offended demeanor.
One time I had a person tell me they didn't believe I could grow cannabis while standing in front of a 5 foot tall half pound yielding monster of a plant, sparkling with trichomes and purple fades and looked like something out of a High Times magazine.
I asked them: "How can you deny the reality of what you are face to face with this very moment?"
Had it happen plenty of times. Was the worst in middle school.
I lost friends and got ignored after I got engaged or became manager at my job. I was totally alone after I gave birth except for some family members. Lost my best friend that I have known since I was 14 because I bought a house. She wouldn't take my calls. I have been a widow for 19 years. No friends. Just my dogs and my sons have my back.
nasty woman wrong channel
Congrats on your engagement! Hopefully management doing well for you
When fake recognize real
The people around you want you to do well, just not better than them.
So many see that your success is making them look bad.
Crabs in a bucket don't like it when one is making an escape.
That's why I low key my activities, especially my successes.
Facts
if that's the case then why is toddler here bitchin' again if everyone wants this for themselves? he's making everything up then about others. as I said, he's yapping all about himself. he'll never fix this as he is a woman trapped in a man's body. he will want his lgbt sandwhich coming up next and gobbled it straight down, I know this clawn and so do many others.
in other words, toddler is just a bitter hag. the same ones that left him cut and dry, lol.
in other words, toddler is just a bitter hag. the same ones that left him cut and dry, lol.
The crabs in a bucket analogy sums up humanity for real it's to much the more I'm around many people the more I would rather enjoy doing things within my own company that way I know I won't have the negative weak ass energy from other's attempting to repeatedly steal from me.
Watch out for these types- some will go through great lengths to see you fail and go backwards in life. Theyre not the healthiest minded people. Sure a lot of their shenanigans stems from jealousy and envy, these are people to refrain as much contact with as possible for their intentions will not typically be in your favors. Watch your backs☝️
You are a content machine brother. Best RUclipsr out there 💯
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bro when they see us doing well they get jealous and envious. they're like, why is he succeeding? why i'm miserable?? and then they get together and gangstalk us. my neighbors are all covert narcs and I know they listen to every single thing i do. i go to the bathroom and i can hear them also going to their bathroom. it's insane but chosen ones will always have these people.
Yup if it anyone they hate they hate the chosen one the most
there is no us, as in, you and him - what are you yapping about. everything you and toddler said is nonsense.
That's fucking whack if they're literally trying to stalk you through the walls lol.
Facts, I get starred at, or I park my car at a parking lot(my favorite spot I know) then all of sudden a random car pulls in next me all fast and quick and I'm like damn what's the rush. Every time I come around people get quite, scared, looking down, fidgeting etc etc I'm just a lay back guy don't bother no one
Wow Im going through the same EXACT thing with a neighbor, nice to know I'm not alone.
This is so true honestly. The title relates to my current life situation rn 😭. All my friends are busy doing their own thing and are no longer as available as they used to be. Competition, intimidation, comparison, envy, insecurity/projection, etc.
I already knew it was gonna come down to this
Bruh this is why we need to stop using social media and just keep quiet it’s pretty sad that people can’t be happy for you it’s honestly pathetic it is what it is
Yeah I had to leave my place of work because my co-workers became increasingly hostile towards me as I progressed more within my career and obtained higher ranks and acquired more skills it was really fucking weird because it was the combat engineers and we're literally going to potentially have to save each others lives constantly. I think it's extraordinarily dysgenic to act that way in that specific workplace and I joined the military to actually avoid that from occurring. But it occurred anyways.
It's because we have literally turned everything into an every man for himself competition and only putting out the highlights of our lives on social media causing everyone to compare themselves to each other. If we encouraged more teamwork and collaboration, then perhaps this could change.
And the fact that 99% of people will not be successful. That doesn't mean that all 99% of those people are bad people or hating on the 1% who succeed.
And they take so much joy when something goes bad for you …I e seen guys who the highlight of their life was anytime something bad happened to me
Yep even if its something very easy to help with they won't to see you get into a very bad situation
People are always hatting on me for know reason and i completely have no idea why,i lost everything, things got stolen from me,and had to come to a place i didnt even want to go, and i have no idea what the hell is really going on anywhere, because i am being convided for whatever reason,uts like people are keeping things from me.
Sounds like your chosen! I've been in the same position, the hate IS real trust me because the Lord chose us and they mad! 😂❤
Suffer when it is necessary . Dirt to gold.❤
you look successful because it looks like you're chilling at home by yourself and your room is clean. society doesn't like that and thats why i presume you're living by yourself. i'm like that but i live with 2 siblings currently and it actually feels like no one's there. we're on the right track
I can relate to this. I had to push away from some people in my life cos they were just doubting me and being negative. Goals being achieved, life gets better with the right people around. Bless up.
The problem is some people have never experienced respect you have get to their level to show them your not taking it
Omg !some are just so feeble minded to take action to do anything i swear especially a co-worker that makes your day harder 😡
I recently stumbled upon your channel and it’s been a godsend. I don’t know what it is exactly, but there’s something about your voice, the reassurance and confidence that comes with it, that puts my anxious mind at ease. I’ve been going back and binging your videos, even falling asleep to them when I’m tired. Anyway, God bless and stay strong, brothers. 🙏
I’ve been watching now for the Past 2 Years and put on people I felt needed help. Terry Joel Jr is A REAL ONE❤😇🙏
You are a constant reminder to their FAILURES!!!
Only real recognizes real.
Your high level spirit irritates peoples very low level spirit
The problem is some people have never experienced respect you have get to their level to show them your not taking it but you will always have the last laugh
I'm really seeing this now. Most people are just struggling with their s h itty lives, and they get mad, like, why do others have abundance? And they dont even bother to try or look into anything, they are just order followers and society followers
They don't got there papers or ssi some came back track but they won't spill the beans like other immigrants I talk to
Speaking facts this is exactly how it is.
I’m reading East of Eden by John Steinbeck right now and I wanted to share a passage that struck me, as many have so far.
“In uncertainty I am certain that underneath their topmost layers of frailty men want to be good and want to be loved. Indeed, most of their vices are attempted short cuts to love. When a man comes to die, no matter what his talents and influence and genius, if he dies unloved his life must be a failure to him and his dying a cold horror. It seems to me that if you or I just choose between two courses of thought or action, we should remember our dying and try so to live that out death brings no pleasure to our world.”
I, like everyone, think about my own death and mortality. And I think often about how I interact with the world, my good and my evils. I think recognizing that some vices or negative things that belong to me may be my short cuts in an attempt to be loved, and that I may be able to find holy or good replacements for things on my way to my own death. And I will live my life In a way that, upon my inevitable death, I can be cherished as good.
So true my own family trash talks then smiles when your around but they stab you in the back every chance they could get
The biggest thing I notice is they always trying to One Up you! If you done something they did it too
Yep. When u best them. They done.
terry, you are at your best when you talk about the zombification of society
Yes!
It’s TRUE ITS TRUE
When I was in my teens, struggling , low income family..My relatives used to mock me, taunt me ...But they were always in touch with me. I knew all of this, but stayed quiet and ignored them. But my mom had a soft corner for them, despite the fact that they were despicable toward us. And sometimes, me and my mother got into arguments over this.
But I kept working hard, today I am financial stable , have reached a social status equivalent to my relative who used to taunt me. I have a family , wife , 2 kids. I am at peace now.
But now those same toxic relative who used to mock me, have gone silent, they have ignored me completely. And it has been years since I heard from them, however they talk among each other, but not with me.
When my mom passed away in covid times, some of them did not even care to attend my mother's funeral. That's when I realized, they were toxic to the core toward me !
STEVE CAMPBELL FROM THE DOJO SALUTES YOU ! ❤
Good vid. That’s why i never hated. I just waited for my turn💯
Ya. They jealous haters.
Me, I WANT to be around folks more successful from than so I can learn from them. I’m proud of my friends that gain new levels of success
Whenever I started to make more money, learned economics, and got my first property I had a couple of friends of 10+ years that started acting completely different. It’s insane.
Thank the Lord we have this kmowledge
Ye when you START MAKING IT IN LIFE everyone goes away, not when you fall down a bad hole like drugs. If you become a famous RUclipsr, nobody wants to talk to you anymore.
Its kinda both. When I was making 9.50/hr had tons of "friends", then when I was homeless everyone was gone, now making 90k and traveling the world literally no one speaks to me from USA now.
@@perfection9669 ye probably because you're not over there anymore so they can't hang out with you.
We live in a competition based society where if you aren't climbing you're getting climbed.
But it also goes both ways, I've fallen on hard times and everyone immediately disappeared. Nobody knows what to do when they see someone fail. So they see that person as some sort of alien.
If you're seen as that after succeeding then it is because success has become so rare. If success was more common then I don't believe there would be as much hate.
@@robinmc142 nah man we were still in different towns in the USA but they would call and video chat on the regular. Now it never happens. Oh well I am busy with work and learning a new language hopefully I will make new friends in a year or two.
Ye because everyone wants to be you of course. They're ashamed. Not proud.
Bro you make us feel better, that's why we watch you, just not for the reasons you think you do.
Read this a second time and realized this is one of the backhanded compliments, an insult. You going to take that, toddler, from a beta worm?
Read this a second time and realized this is one of the backhanded compliments, an insult. You going to take that, toddler, from a beta worm?
@@dorianlawson6791 was that even English? I'm just saying we watch him because it makes us proud that at least we're not him, just to decode that because you clearly don't speak English very well.
Being at a work event yesterday, I felt like this with ppl looking and distancing themselves quietly.. 😮
We came to this planet to reach our highest potential in life...
Awesome, I'm so jacked now, on my way to they gym. Love the points you have been making that you sent monk for years and built yourself.
People want to see you doing well, just not better than them.
Facts
So True Bro 💯👍🏽😎🔥
This is so true it's funny I'm going threw THAT NOW its a bit quiet and lonely 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Don't mind to be honest rather be in peace women also it's a weird time people act funny and when u confront them they will say NOTHING BUT U CAN FEEL A VIBE THATS NOT QUITE RIGHT 🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣🖕🏿THEM😂😂😂😂KEEP IT MOVVVVVVINNNGGGGGGGGGGGGG😂😂😂
I have badass boss vibes.....people purposely dont come around me...
What gets me is.
every video is going on that day week or month.
And im way in uk.. is exactly how terry explains.
This is why im hated despite most people in my city knowing and seeing with their own eyes that
Childhood was rough..
care system/ abuse physical and mental by own mother , step dad and relatives until 27 before and after care ..
mom still won't tell me who dad is as oldest son. 4 other kids younger know theirs. Im 28.
Socially people know and saw it. And wished they had a hand in my demise because im still alive. Now.
Evil is at a high here in uk like wanlking streets going to work, even feeding their kids..
These people are evil that ive known.. all my life here and the true genuine i can count on 1 hand
In my city.
Coming from somone with 0 mates and 0 trusted relatives.
Over 1 and half years since i qent out with a mate. Ir relative and as lonely as it gets..
Ive never had peace like it unless i travel aboard.
13:00 "Times are tough, but they ain't got nuthin' on me."
Chris Knight - Nothing On Me
I’m writing A NEW BOOK CALLED THE DISCRIMINATION AGAINST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE….COMING OUT IN 2026
First time watching your content. Your website looks really neat!
Hope everyone's enjoying the weekend.
Energy does not lie
Stay on your purpose fellas!
Fatherless homes breed's immortality,it's mostly not the man's fault that he get divorce-graped
You have said it recently that life can be borderline and that is made up by certain people by the haters, you can only avoid it qhen you stay at home the most time or move to an other city where the general mentality is different because those certain people cause you stress evry time and you can handle it but your subconciousnes not because it is hard abuse
dat one guy saying honor to the end was his reply for the insult- it was but he meant it both ways
This one is great bro!
Millions left me. Most make more money than me. They are hating on my happiness 😊
Wow man, now that's what I'm talking about! Keep up the energy and let the rest fall by the wayside. We going to see this through til the bitter end and they ain't seeing the freight train about to hit 'em! Love, truth, enlightenment.
REAL💯💯💯.🙏🏽🩸God bless you always
Thank you for the video Terry ❤
My believe is that those people are the matrix or possess by demons, its the same, just an bad and false ratio, just bots, no soul, no hearth, no humanity, just an bot like the garbage man from ghost in the shell
Exactly
Yeah I feel you on this.. it’s almost like spiritual warfare in a way. Like when you start to do something different/ better someone or something just pops up and try’s to get as much information out of you as “it” can to see how you’re doing and where you’re at
I feel the energy through the video. Makes my pits start beading with sweat, lol.
Its start with God & Jesus
Nah gods a tyrant there is evidence in the Bible he even sent his son to die to pay for everyone's sins. I follow Jesus only God I do not.
Real talk a hater always a hater
Godspeed Bro! I think about you when I’m goal setting and getting away from certain people.
I’ve been cooking from scratch since January and back to my pre-pandemic size, lost over 20 pounds and I feel fantastic. Yesterday I ate out and it was even healthy food and I just feel sick today. I made up my mind. I just have to take the time and eat from scratch
And yes, some of the women in my group have stopped talking to me
Same pattern:
1) They say subtly passive-aggressive remarks to get you confused/emotional
2) If you fall for the trap and get upset, they say they were just joking and to not take things so seriously.
3) If you go on the offensive and call them out, they immediately play the victim and try to make you out to be the irrational aggressor.
GO😎SINGLE !!!!!!!
Got a like
So true!!! Btw can we have a house tour king?????
I bet his house is better than yours and he earned it… your probably a daddies girl…
sure thing. he's on it. here are the keys.
are you good? sorry about this toddler, he still has two empty pools to fill with his tears before he becomes a half decent candidate. instead, he's decided to film his demise for everyone to see.
It was the 2nd anniversary of my suicide attempt due to how my first relationship ended. I was 25, almost 26 at the time. Long story short: She got pregnant and I left the choice up to her whether or not to keep the baby. She didn't want adoption, and said if she had the kid she would keep it. I wasn't ready for a child, and she went ahead with the abortion. I offered to come to the appointment, but she refused to have me there. She went cold after this, it felt like the flip of a switch to "I don't love you anymore". She used to call me names, my nickname being "airhead". Whenever I was at her house watching movies or whatever, she would position her two dogs in-between us. It seemed as though she cared more for those dogs than me, especially since she would scold me if I moved a certain way and upset the dogs (I have restless legs). She wouldn't let me help her cook, and would shoo me out of the kitchen every time. One time she asked me to pick up McDonald's for her on my way to work (we both worked overnights at the same grocery store). I brought her the food and the first thing she said wasn't "thank you", it was "You forgot my drink!". I offered a couple times to help her organize and clean her crafting room, she was an artsy person and I love artsy people. Every time I offered help she would say "you just wanna fool around". The night I think she got pregnant, she climbed on top of me and initially sex and I told her I should put a condom on and she just got more into it and didn't let me. I wasn't ready for kids and told her this before. She got more distant as time went on (mind you this relationship lasted 4 months). 2 years in and it just haunts me that I let someone betray and degrade me to the point I wanted to die. I have scars on my left arm and every year on 6/21, they seem to pop out more and shine brighter. I try not to ruminate but I listen to these videos to know what to look out for now. I struggled to describe what the hell was wrong with her mentally. I told her that I was having a rough time and was stepping down from my management position at work because of too much stress, to which she replied: "That's your own fault." I went into the bathroom and cut my wrists 25 times after that comment. Those words still haunt me. Being in a romantic relationship scares the ever living shit out of me now because there are a lot of women like her.
Really resonated with this video... 🙏
Remember....you cant divorce YOURSELF.
Nah they keep quiet and distance themselves due to your serial killer energy. Just have to reflect and quit yapping without thinking already, you already have two empty pools to fill with your tears. You got nothing.
Message on point and totally timely….thank you 🙏
That is not all true the ones who do are your true friends.
Turn off social media and listen to what your heart tells you...
I've already Evolved, I'm a Different Animal, but still the Same Beast. Gohan has been So Gone for So Long, he Aint Even Within Reach. The Levy Broke and the Dam Breached. Me and the Bros were Swimmin During Hurricane Ian Down in Fort Myers Beach.
I wish thing would get better for other's but unfortunately most ppl dont got it easy and came back track to the USA now i know its personal 🙏🏽
Just work your ass off and be picky with women. Scarcity creates value.
Yes bro 👍
True bro 💪😎💯👌
One guy always try to 1 up me. I paid 19k in taxes this year, and he has to say shit like oh I paid 30k in taxes this year.
I would try to avoid him if it is possible for you. The one uppers are the worst downers in existence.
My guess is he probably likes negative talk too. I'm wondering what the response would be if you said something like "I just won 1000 dollars on a scratch off."
He might try to say he won 2000 on a scratch off once or something, or down your win and be like "Oh that's nothing, hardly a mortgage payment"
There's no winning with these types.
@@jacob8266Because we have turned it into a culture of constant competition and every man for himself. This culture can be changed, however, if we encourage teamwork and collaboration.
@@jacob8266in today Society has so much negative Nancy
Unless you clean that up, no one will take you seriously. Can't you see, girl, it's you that has been discarded. You don't even know yourself.
and look who stabbed who in the back 🟢🟢
Hard on top of hard. Yes .
I think it is not good to normalize these haters like they are haters that what it is, no they are not normal they is something very false about them, yes they try not only to ruin your day they want to seperate you from yourself with their stupid bot behavior and bot theater and mirage you false evidence
I lost many "friends" when I started doing my s@#$
Imagine this guy never hits 100k because everyone realizes all his content is the same.
Where’s your content ?
Imagine if people like this guy had purpose and didn't feel the need to expose themselves as being the exact type of person our man is talking about in the video. The irony...
@@jacob8266 okay bud give me 2 videos I made that are pretty much the same video. Go ahead.
@@jacob8266 👍💯
I'm the most successful person now in my friend group and only my 7 closest friends still text and post and call me. Only two of them want to hang out.
Is it just me? This whole message was CLEAR AS MUD!
It's nonsense to confuse further. However, he has made it clear that he wants to be a guru incel forever.
@dorianlawson6791 well don't you think he's going about it ALL wrong. I want to be clear, I'm not hating, I'm really concerned
@@roxy8298 yes, i already told him I was concerned as well. even gave him a heads up. but he doesnt change. some people have to learn the hard way, dont let him take your energy like that. that was the whole spiel behind these vids - play victim as a male while laughing and taking everything you got. he's feeling his own psychotic energy and thinking it's other people - really weird guy. That's why I always say, he's talking about himself in every vid and use the analogy of the drunk outside of a beer store rambling which he fits closely.
@@roxy8298 these kinds of people never change. hes the type to walk into a mcdonalds and look people he doesnt know up and down like he knows them, and possibly get in a fight with any or all of them. that's where his entire theory is birthed from. a thin layer of nice which doesnt exist on the surface and he might have you hoodwinked of your purse and your own sanity. just say no at the end and walk away
Shining like you've just been hawk-tuah'd!!
1:00 they dont even believe you exist yeah
Untill they 'need' you again.