ASK US ANYTHING Q&A | trust issues, overcoming lust, rough patches & more
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- Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024
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MORE MORE MORE MORE we tend to fall into that slippery slope of "I want, I want, I want, I want". I want this job, this relationship, this car, this house, this friend, this vacation, this this this this AND THAT! OH YEAH THAT TOO! (trust me I am the king of doing this) But we don't always know we are doing that. As Paul Tripp says, we are our own inner lawyer. We justify things we want in a variety of ways. We get so caught up in living JUST for ourselves (because don't get me wrong, taking care of your mental health and life needs are important) that we get sucked into the cyclone that is "this life is about me and my own pleasure." then everything we do, who we date, what job we pursue, what we wear is all about feeling a certain way about ourselves and to others and we forget to love and serve others. When is the last time we went out of our way for someone else. When is the last time we loved that person who we secretly talk about of think negatively about. When is the last time we welcomes being inconvenienced to support someone. We have to be careful to not get caught in the rat race that society can perpetuate so much so that we forget to live beyond our immediate desires. Scripture says, "and they will know you are my disciples by your LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER". It doesn't say "..BY YOUR LOVE FOR YOURSELF". If we want to reflect the Love of Christ we have to reflect loving others and not just ourselves.
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I really wanna send some things from my country, but too scare you may not like them hehehe
hahah don't feel any pressure to send anything but we would love (nearly) everything our Masters Fam sends over!
@@ToriAndChad i'll prob send something:) what's y'all's P.O. box?
@@gracewest8188 the address is 2161 E County Road 540A, #144, Lakeland FL 33813 🤗
"We should never go for reconciliation by manipulation" - wow! Thats one great advice.
we out here hahah
@@ToriAndChad Epic ending 😂 (btw did you lose your tiny hands?)
hahah I gotta bring them back!
@@ToriAndChad yes! ( Tori, sorry for reminding Chad about the tiny hands 😜)
That was fire🔥
Would love to see a “surviving my 20’s”/“what I learned in my 20’s” video!
I love your Christ-centered content and how you chose to lead your lives in a biblical way. Thanks for being you!
I feel so selfish like, I want this channel to grow but gosh I'm gonna really miss having tori and chad reply to us all like we're all on one big groupchat :((
hahahah I'm still here doing my best to reply! If you are ever interested we have a Patreon that includes a discord server with a big group chat! lol so feel free to check that out!
Yes if you are able come join patreon! It's an amazing group of people and Tori and Chad also videocall along with us sometimes and it's the best! :)
Awww
I know right!! But there's always a first for everything :) and knowing them, i'm sure that they'll always try their best to reply to all of us hehe!
@@angelavanoosten1 hiii queen
Clapping for every point and my family is like "Why are you clapping alone?" Gonna write it all down !!!
hahahahahahahab you are hilarious
I agree!
@@ToriAndChad Lol Thankieeuu !!!
WOOW that painting!!! so talented
We were shook!!!
@@ToriAndChad lit erally!!
Thanks for being here yall! Don't forget to read the description!
Ahh I love y’all so much you’re videos are really helpful
Well thanks for that!!!
Chad dropped a spoon today while making coffee jk lol I have nothingggg
hahahah well so far that is winning lol
Seeing tori's healthy green drink made me nervous cause at one point i thought it was a powderized baby yoda. Lolim just dropping by
I love to see what people have sent you! They're so creative and special 💗
Love you guys! Thanks for the genuine advice
Let's gooo!! 💛💛So excited for this!!!
WOOO! We had a great time making this one!!
This video is so good!! So many good advices!! 🔥Love you guys!! 💛
Aww thanks for saying that! We love you too!
Woahhh I’m hyped thank you for this video ..it was much needed 💙
WOOOO!! Thanks for being here with us!
This is perfect. Thank you guys so much🥲
Thanks for the support! We appreciate you!!
love these sit down q&as!!!!! :) love you
That makes us happy!!!
I enjoy all your videos! I would love to hear more about how to deal with rough patches in relationships, how to get through them and how to learn and grow from it!
You both are gems! God bless
You are a gem to us!
You guys are such an inspiration 💕💕💕
Your encouragement inspires us!!
Love watching your videos so much, hope you guys have a good day ❤️
We hope you have an amazing day too!
You both are such an inspiring couple for so many Christians. Having a Christ-centered relationship is just the number one thing required to conquer anything. I just love the series that you'll make. Can feel the anointing of the Holy Spirit when you both speak. Love you'll so much. Praying for more souls to be blessed with your content.
🥺🙈😍😘💞
You are so kind to encourage us! God bless you!!!
Tori and Chad you both have been a huge blessing to my life and I really see you guys as my christian mentors!! Thanks for making these videos❤️ and by the way the sacred search is GOLD!! Every singles or even couples out there should read it!
I love these types of videos!!:) thank you for sharing!! You guys should do a video on “how to deal with rough patches in a relationship”!
Means a lot that you'd like more detail on these questions!
I want all of them to become a whole video hahah love you guys!
Chad's "thing I wish I knew" was simply awesome! Great job!
Why thank you!!
You guys are amazing! Such a good video! And that description 👌
Thanks for taking the time to read it!!
Of course! Whoever doesn’t read it is seriously missing out!
Just finished rewatching the video for the second time. Holy smokes the description today hits different! I really needed to hear this.
hahah you are awesome!
@@ToriAndChad no you!! 🥰
Love you guys and the sweet community you’ve created! There’s no doubt you two were made for this. I’d definitely love to get your advice for those of us in 20’s! :)
We are beyond blessed by these incredible people!
Wow Tori the convictions thing you said is SO TRUE
Just following up from the Podcast today. I'm 160 episodes in. Thanks so much for all you do and being a bright light representing Christ.
The description is filled with so much fire!! Love the part when you said "when was the last time you loved on someone you're speaking about or thinking negatively about" , I think it's so important to love the people who hurt you because the people hurting you are probably hurting inside as well🙌🏻. Always good to lead with love💛.
Thanks for taking the time to read it!!
Before each question I think of the answer I’d give, and then they just give a thousand times betters answer.
Every single time I’m like AMEN
I love your videos! The part where you guys said to just spend time letting God comfort you after a break up made me cry. I struggled with my last relationship and as much as it hurts, being obedient to God is the most important. The fact that he loves us the way he does and comforts us just blows me a way sometimes. He is so, so good💓💓💓 love yall💓
Jumping from person to person is masking the pain and hurt. Hoping that the suppression of a meeting partner will heal things. Loved this video 10 out 10.
I love this!!! I’m sick today, and when I went to my RUclips and your faces appeared;;ya sure brightened up my day! so much love your way.
Love that you started doing Q&A’s more often! 🤍 It is great to listen to your opinions and advice! I trust you so much, and it seems that you really know the best relationship principles! Sending you my love and appreciation! 🤗
Can't wait to share Thursday video on the Home update!! Thanks for being will to trust our advice!!!
@@ToriAndChad That sounds so exciting! I can’t wait! 🤍
Great video guys! I love how Tori was just casually eating those candies while Chad was spitting fire😂😂
And loved the awkward ending hahaha! Much love!🤗
hahaha love you, willy J! Thanks for the support!!
I'd love an "ASK US ANYTHING" Series!! :) i just love you two so much!!
I just wanted to let y’all know that your advice on break ups was really comforting. I am Currently going through an extremely painful and sudden break up. So thank you for the wisdom. God bless you guys❤️
Love watching your videos you guys have wisdom and God is good.
I am so thankful for your honest and wise advice. I always love watching your videos and seeing the love that you have for the Lord and each other. Everything you say points back to God and I LOVE IT!! Thanks for being such great examples and always pushing to grow and be better! 🤍🤍
Thanks for encouraging and lifting us up! That means a lot to us, taylor!
thanks for another video full of wisdom and blessings ❤️i'd personally love it if you could make a series or a full video about dealing with lust. thanks so much guys! appreciate you much!
Needed this 😭😭😭
“THING YOU WISH YOU KNEW IN YOUR TWENTIES”
How do I say this…
We SO NEED THIS VIDEO!!!
Yes please! We need it🙌🏻
Thanks again for this you guys! I think a video on overcoming list would be so great. As a Christian it's something I was naive about and thought it wouldn't affect me having grown up in church... but how wrong I was! By God's mercy I overcame the hardest year of my life battling with lust a few years back 🙏 x
Amazing, Sarah! Thanks for sharing that victory!!!
A video on how to handle/ overcome a crush would be amazing and truly helpful.
Especially when your crush doesn’t event know and your overwhelmed with all these emotions, battling and fighting them in your head.
amen to that
13:45 !!! SO GOOD!🙌🏻🙌🏻 I would love to see more on this question from you guys!!!
& 14:35 !!!!🤍
The description was GOLD today. Wow, There's so much in it!! Thanks, Chad!!
Awww thanks for reading it, Megan!!! We love you!
Of course! Why would I not?!😉😂 Love you more!!
Totally agree Megan!! On fire brother, that coffee did you goood! lol
hahahahah
Yesss make a video on how to deal with lust in a relationship please!!😃 also I love your videos I think this is my favorite series
Yeah that one is super important...
So excited for this!!!
Awww yay!
Hey Megs!!
SHAUGHN IN THE HOUSE!
Hey, Brother! How are you??
the description tho! imma copy that and put it in my notes
Wooo!
So excited to watch this video and great timing! I just got back from volleyball practice and now I can watch this! Thanks for putting videos live at 9:30 haha
hahah anything we can do for you!!!
@@ToriAndChad thanks haha
Admire your channel .you two are full of wisdom🤩 also love the project bill pay shout out too x
Wow this video was fire 🔥😍 you guys are the best!! Would absolutely love a video on how to practically let the guy lead and pursue!? Kinda leading off that question in this video about how to show you're available but not pushy! God bless!
I know this comment is late and idk if you’ll see it, but this Q & A touched on so many of my struggles this week (caring about what others think, lust, etc). Thank you! The Lord works in amazing ways.
Finding what’s really right for us is a long and tumultuous journey... But to just be witness to all that you're saying/teaching us is making me feel so blessed!! ✨
I'm waiting for 'the one' too and whenever the timing is set right. Thank you for making the singles feel less alone and more anticipatory towards whatever wonderful time is approaching! 🙂 (you have set the bar so high...hahaha)
All the anwers need 'elaboration' !!
Thank you as always 👏
P.S - Those gifts were sooooo sweet! The painting was awesome!! You two are super deserving of all such and more!
hahah for us the bar was set by Christ!!! Love that you enjoyed the video and we can't wait to make more for you!
@@ToriAndChad A small suggestion.. if possible could you please continue the finance series. It'll be super helpful especially right now in such uncertain times.
Was that Milka chocolate? Oh my God... They are my most favourite from Germany!! I bought a bag full of them when I was leaving Munich..!! Vacation.. sigh..
@@shwetav i second continuing with the finance series! Those vids were fantastic! I hope they see your comment!! :)
Heeey God bless all of you in this beautiful day!! you are loved!!! ps: Thank you guys for doing this!! I LOVE this relationships advices
We love that you are so kind and encouraging! Thank you for that!!
@@ToriAndChad Awws thank you guys! for always being an inspiration and for always talking about the word of God!
We can't help but do that!
Please do a video on boundaries to have with having male and female best friends while being in a committed relationship/marriage.
Love your videos, always giving your honest advice to situations and questions.
I LOVE YOU GUYS
Wonderful video, as always, Chad & Tori! ☺️ Please, pretty please make a series about lust, I'm currently struggling with it, right now. And I want to overcome once & for all. 💜💙
Thank you so much for all the advice! I've never been in a relationship and I'm just waiting on God..and want his will in my life..I love y'all so much..y'all are an amazing couple 💖💖💖💖
That is the best place to me! We love you!
OMGGGG SO EXCITED!!! only 13 mins ago!!! hiii guys, love ya!!! God blesss! 💗
hahaha Love ya and God bless as well!
Tori you're on FIRE!
That's wha I tell her!!
@@ToriAndChad yes keep telling her! Lol love the awkwardness in the ending too & your voice in the last 2 seconds I'm dying hahahaha
hahahahah
Chad your the white flame bro! ;) haha
I think that doing one on lust, self-intimacy (for those who are single out here), and how to find the one by not looking for one would be so good!!!!!!!
THESE ARE GREAT IDEAS!
I always watch u guys' videos from the first second to the last...I never fast forward 'cause not even a second of it is unengaging!! Such is your energy! So positive and powerful❤✨🌟!! Love you two always😍😍 Thank you so much🤗🤗 Gonna watch the video now🙏❤
aww well thanks for saying that, Jaanvi! That means a lot. we do work hard on videos and it means a lot that people watch and enjoy them!
@@ToriAndChad yes I understand how hard you guys work..we absolutely enjoy watching your videos!!
We love you!
@@ToriAndChad Love you two too🤗❤
can you elaborate on the 20s advice? 🥰 I know there’s so much to learn from mistakes & just going through the experience but would also really like to set myself up for success & make the most of this period of my life! 💃🏻 thanks for sharing all your little bits of advice, always love to hear what you guys have to say 🔥
im usually at home when you guys upload but it looks like im going to be working m-f 8-5 now soo i guess ill be watching on my lunch break from now on 😩
hahah that works for us :)
I love how you reply all the comments here!
anddd anyway, please share about your experience while you are in the waiting season!
God bless you Tori & Chad!
Thanks Elishabeta!!! We appreciate the support!
@@ToriAndChad yep!
anyway, have you guys ever felt like you don't know what should you say in a prayer? if yes, what did you do?
Absolutely that happens to us! We talk to God about not know what to say... We also journal prayers too so it helps us to process our thoughts and feelings as we try to talk to God.. but that is normal. We have a video on Prayer, have you seen that?
@@ToriAndChad Thankyou Chad! I'll see your video about prayer.
It really makes me sad when I don't know how to pray. However, I believe God knows everything before we say a word.
Thank you once again!
God bless you both! ❤
I know your relationship series can often apply to singles but can yall make a video or series about non romantic relationships?! Also thank you, yall are great as always, LOVE YALL!!!!!
OF COURSE WE CAN!
we wil check that out! Thanks for sharing that with us, Hillary!!! Love that people love charities!
I would rreeeaaalllly love a video on building trust in a relationship!! ❤️ I’ve been struggling because of hurts from past relationships and taking it into a new one where he’s showing me he’s so trustworthy 🥺. I just find it hard to believe and am struggling to share things with him.
All the video plans you guys have, do them. 😆😆😆😆 I just can't wait
wooo! Thanks for believing in us!
@@ToriAndChad always
Please make a series on what people should know in their 20s! 💕
I love you guys so much! I’m happily married and not dating however I just love y’all’s content! I went through a bad breakup and I so wish I would have found you guys 6 years ago!
Aww thanks for sharing that!!! We wish we foudn ourselves 6 years ago hahah
Also, CONGRATULATIONS on 73.7k subscribers🎉
Why thank you WhitWhit!
Hii I'm Joyce! Angela's little sister, I am so excited to watch the new video!
OH JOYCEE!!!! Our Fav's baby sister! lol
Hey Joyce!!! 😊
@@allisonlucas018 heyy!
@@ToriAndChad ahww hey!
JOYCEE!! Great to also see you here!🙌
Let’s be clear-I devour EVERYTHING y’all make, so I’m ready for whatever videos you guys make in the future! 😅 Personally though, I was really excited for the money series! Are you guys going to continue on with it or is it on the back burner for now?
We will bring it back! DOn't worry!
I too have been waiting for the continuation of that series 🙈
Yes! Bring it back🙌🏻
Wow! I love how Tori said “date yourself”. You definitely value yourself more and enjoy being single.
straight fire as always! Love hearing about all the amazing these we can give back to, crazy statistic there with 4/10 Americans struggling to pay bills🥺 Also the advice in this video is amazing, such a beautiful way of looking at convictions! Also random side note: those candies like real good lol
so wild... thanks for being here with us sweet, Keana!
Can't wait to get some wisdom here!!!😝
Hope you liked it!
A relationship ends because you’ve outgrown it. It can begin again because you, as two, can fill the new shape.
Practise trust 👏🏼
EXACTLY!
Im single, but still I am learning a lot, thanks to u guys!!!;) Can you guys share more about things you wish you knew in your 20s? Would love to learn from you both. lastly, just love how yall are so genuine and willing to just be real, vunerable, and also being ok with awkwardness at the end of the vid haha
I think that is a great idea!!
Love what give better does! How sad 4 out of 10, that's a lot
yeah :(
Can you guys explain more lust in a relationship like also examples to know where it’s lust or temptation
Will do our best to expound on those!
Crazy when you are from Germany - just makes me smile how happy you are about the German sweets :)
Thanks for bringing wisdom, humour and integrity to all your discussions! I love the way you honour God in giving advice with humility ………and I am chuffed that I can enjoy your videos even though I am old enough to be your mum😘🤣♥️and happily married to the love of my life for 34 years.
make these into a series plssssss
Please please do some stuff on marraige as well! I am a newly wed and would love some guides as a young wife trying to love my husband right!
Wooo! I think that is a great idea!
Yes! please do a whole series on lust!! What you shared was great but I do agree, it needs an entire series. I would like to know more about the protection of your heart and relationship if you are dealing with lust. Can you date if you have not completely dealt with lust?
I love the ending 😍🤣🤣
Would love a video about top books you recommend for different topics!!
Sweet! We will try to do that! in the mean time, do we do have links to our amazon recommendations in the description!
That's my friend!!!
Congratulations 🍾🎉🎊🎈 on 73.7k subscribers.
Thanks!
@@ToriAndChad no problem 😌 tori and chad.
Very informative video you two! thank you! I can also very highly recommend ‘the sacred search’ by Gary Thomas.
Love that you trust that book too!
Iron man in the houseeeeee
Hello guys, hello tori & chad, I have a question that you guys probably have covered before, but in case you haven't, here it is!
What do you think about holding onto photos of exes that you've crossed boundaries with, or perhaps crossed enough to develop soul ties?
I know that there probably is no definite right nor wrong to this question but I would be glad to hear some insights!
And when should this issue be brought up or executed? During a boy-girlfriend relationship? Or before marriage? Or after marriage?
I personally think group photos are fine, but what about couple photos, or photos that exhibit more intimate behaviors(i.e kissing, hugging...or etc).
Thank you!
How to deal with a fear of trusting someone, even though they're not the reason for your distrust?
yeah that is powerful and a hard topic... we all bring fear into relationships in different ways... thanks for the good idea!
Trust is build over time. People Gots to gain the trust.
LOVE this video!! Because of yalls' videos, my partner and i have been able to resolve conflict better than when we first started dating! :) I can't wait for the growth of this channel and the new home update!! Also, I hope to be able to join Patreon and connect more with the Masters fam soon when i start working (i can't afford it right now, i'm a uni student). Btw, missing the tiny hands. Chad, please bring them back!!! (I'm sorry, Tori lol) 🤣 Love yalls! Don't ever stop being you! ❤
Aww that is amazing! Love reading all of this!!! Will bring the tiny hands back just for yoU! We love you!
@@ToriAndChad love yalls! Gonna send a package and a letter over to yalls as soon as i can!! Would yalls be willing to try snacks from my country? :)
Y’all should do a series about lust!!
Do we have to pay you for this excellent idea?!?! lol
Literally my fave christian duo ever !!!! eek sad I missed watching right at 10:30 hahaha
you're too kind!!!
Best advice was communication is key...but it was also bad advice..lol.I had to learn to communicate in the correct way..I learned a lot from the book love languages from Gary Chapman..Not just what my love language is but also to speak my husbands language..That helped a lot!Thank you for great advice.I am grateful for good Christian advice on RUclips.Especially for the youth in these days.Love from South Africa.
Tori&Chad I love yall❤... but anyways I still want yall to continue the 'MONEY' series please🙏🏽
Oh we for sure are gonna do that!
100k... soon 🌞