Jeezy CAN'T handle Jeannie Mai's ANGER issues & TOXIC mom? | Jeezy is SELFISH for divorcing Jeannie?

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
  • 00:00 Intro
    00:23 Jeannie Mai contest the her and Jeezy’s divorce
    02:46 Jeezy divorcing Jeannie because of different family values
    04:10 Jeannie Mai talks about her anger issues
    06:26 Jeezy is not marriage minded
    08:04 Jeezy could not handle Jeannie’s mother and family
    09:26 History of how Jeannie treated her husbands
    14:36 Jeannie’s alleged associate spills tea on Jeannie
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  • @AbigaillOwusu
    @AbigaillOwusu 9 месяцев назад +802

    isn’t it funny how the man who loved her and stayed with her for 10 + years, she didn’t feel safe enough with to have a child with and yet the man who made her feel safe enough to have a child with just left after two years smh the grass ain’t always greener

    • @giovanahc
      @giovanahc 9 месяцев назад +24

      Smh ❤

    • @africanodyssey4805
      @africanodyssey4805 9 месяцев назад +124

      But she didn't love him🤷🏾‍♀️ she married him bc she thought it was what she was supposed to do, be wth a man her mom would approve of. Their divorce is inevitable. Someone like Jeezy was always her type.

    • @Tra_C
      @Tra_C 9 месяцев назад +49

      A BM with some coins is the go to when trying to get a💰 Plus Freddy had no money and she ain't bout that

    • @jessicamarie8299
      @jessicamarie8299 9 месяцев назад +64

      @@africanodyssey4805She married Freddy at the time because he was the higher earner. She didn’t have much until she got hired on the real as a talk show host.

    • @jessicamarie8299
      @jessicamarie8299 9 месяцев назад +72

      @@Tra_CFreddy had more money then her at the time. He comes from money Jeannie said that during one of her episodes

  • @space_man2
    @space_man2 9 месяцев назад +2265

    Unpopular opinion but just cause he filed first doesn’t mean shes the issue 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @HeyMe75
      @HeyMe75 9 месяцев назад +201

      She is not. He planned this.

    • @space_man2
      @space_man2 9 месяцев назад +249

      @@HeyMe75 exactly, and now his PR team is running a whole smear campaign against her. Disgusting.

    • @shonc17
      @shonc17 9 месяцев назад +302

      His new girl will be by his side in a few months! He is calculating!

    • @sonyap8253
      @sonyap8253 9 месяцев назад +143

      ​@shonc1842 this man definitely stressed his other baby moms out. He wants to control his woman 👀

    • @unbiasedtv6525
      @unbiasedtv6525 9 месяцев назад

      ​@HeyMe75 oh shut up grandma 🙄🤣

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 9 месяцев назад +635

    The only victim is the daughter. It's hard growing up when you come from a broken home 🙏🏾 my heart goes out to her the most.

    • @nthuthukomdluli1052
      @nthuthukomdluli1052 9 месяцев назад +32

      Their. Daughter will be OK

    • @user-wr2fi7ly9l
      @user-wr2fi7ly9l 9 месяцев назад +35

      He has other women he left single with children, so daughter will be fine

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar 9 месяцев назад +5

      The daughter will be just fine Guarantee JM will remarry within 2 yrs.

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar 9 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@nthuthukomdluli1052exactly lol. It's not like these are financially impoverished ppl.

    • @KJ-yn8pr
      @KJ-yn8pr 9 месяцев назад +4

      Their both rich she’ll be fine

  • @jillilucy
    @jillilucy 9 месяцев назад +351

    Listen. Jeanie Mai isn’t shy about anything. We’ll know the truth when she’s ready to share. But right now no matter what anybody says this is very heartbreaking and I hope She takes her time to process and heal from this. Public figure or not divorce is hard

    • @tracym1989
      @tracym1989 9 месяцев назад +4

      Amen.

    • @user-fe5jm9cf4f
      @user-fe5jm9cf4f 9 месяцев назад +12

      Its nothing for her to explain he went for looks and she was toxic af plus her family all in her business

    • @Heat_Rush
      @Heat_Rush 9 месяцев назад +3

      She should've choose better. She choose an abusive hood dude, so oh well.

    • @lifeis2171
      @lifeis2171 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Heat_Rush😂😂😂

    • @jenn5628
      @jenn5628 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@Heat_Rush exactly so much for dark meat on the side

  • @ValerieAbena
    @ValerieAbena 9 месяцев назад +930

    ‘I’m looking for compassion. If I can’t find it at home, at least I can get it from my mother’. Ouch

    • @MahoganyBthe_1
      @MahoganyBthe_1 9 месяцев назад +128

      Yeah, that was a stinger! 🥺

    • @OhGodSheALeo
      @OhGodSheALeo 9 месяцев назад +101

      I thought he was gonna say another woman 😭

    • @tmarie69
      @tmarie69 9 месяцев назад +99

      No but fr it’s crazy she said thatTO HIS FACE on Beyoncé internet.

    • @Rooted_Locs
      @Rooted_Locs 9 месяцев назад +48

      @@tmarie69not Beyoncé’s internet chile😂

    • @christinem8799
      @christinem8799 9 месяцев назад +21

      @@tmarie69don’t let the beyonce haters see you say this 😂 they hate that saying

  • @Forever20young
    @Forever20young 9 месяцев назад +1560

    Let’s NOT kid ourselves. Jeezy is Toxic AF himself. Just look at his past relationships. Need I say more?.. 🤷🏽‍♂️🫤😮‍💨

    • @cindyp6528
      @cindyp6528 9 месяцев назад +92

      Exactly.

    • @cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204
      @cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204 9 месяцев назад +241

      Exactly. Sound like empressive giving excuses for this man

    • @tommesiacooper1258
      @tommesiacooper1258 9 месяцев назад +118

      @@cocosheabuttarosemaryqueen9204Jeanie became babymomma number 3 she should have chose better

    • @urstrulii5932
      @urstrulii5932 9 месяцев назад +31

      Im sure. But rest assured everyone has a toxic past or things that we need to be reflective on. He probably grew some ,hence she got him to walk down the aisle? That probably was super huge for him. Not taking up for him per say but again we are all a working process wether we know it or not. I do feel he could have tried a little harder

    • @2jcward
      @2jcward 9 месяцев назад

      Right he love making women baby mammas.

  • @jyabriel08
    @jyabriel08 9 месяцев назад +122

    Empressive: "i made some wild accusations last video"
    Also Empressive: *continues to make accusations and assumptions this video*. Girl 😂

  • @mitchelltynes1042
    @mitchelltynes1042 9 месяцев назад +427

    I feel incredibly bad for jeannie because even if she couldn't change who she is, she did try to make it work. She became more submissive which is not in her nature, she remarried taking on Jeezy's last name when she did not do the same in her first marriage, and she changed her mind on having a child when she said for years she was happy being childless.
    That's a lot of compromise and being honest, I don't see what Jeezy has done to match that level of commitment. Nonetheless it's just disappointing all around 😕

    • @whiteteaandpeonies9145
      @whiteteaandpeonies9145 9 месяцев назад +33

      Same I'm thinking! :/

    • @dakotarobinson4345
      @dakotarobinson4345 9 месяцев назад +76

      a man in love, fights . I think she was in love with him but I don’t think he was in love with her. even though they have been together for a long time I don’t think they spent that much time together overall. I think jeannie over romanticized their relationship like a lot of us women do . I hate it for her personally bc she sacrificed so much for him. I’m devastated for her .

    • @christy3d
      @christy3d 9 месяцев назад +53

      Right. Some men too want to see how much they can get you to compromise or do for them if it’s not your “norm “. Once accomplished , the thrill is gone smh..

    • @AJ-mt9zt
      @AJ-mt9zt 9 месяцев назад +29

      She should've chose better.

    • @userJFK
      @userJFK 9 месяцев назад +16

      She’s the one at fault and could’ve chosen a better spouse for herself

  • @Arianah192
    @Arianah192 9 месяцев назад +695

    This divorce was inevitable. This is what happens when people get married after knowing each other for 3 minutes.

    • @IGAQ411
      @IGAQ411 9 месяцев назад +49

      Not 3 mins, lol.

    • @ramoyarichardson5823
      @ramoyarichardson5823 9 месяцев назад +51

      Not quite because she shared on the real that they dated and spoke about stuff and have been at a particular place in life where they were solid and know what they want etc. So the time has nothing to do with it. People have dated for less time and are still married and happy.

    • @pareeshaslaughter6798
      @pareeshaslaughter6798 9 месяцев назад

      More so that negro dude had a hidden motive. He wouldn't even marry the other baby mothers he had children with......smh

    • @TripleBlsdNHlyFvrd
      @TripleBlsdNHlyFvrd 9 месяцев назад +47

      Not true... People have known each other for a lot longer and someone still does the fool.... It's the person's character. People have known each other for shorter periods and have lasted decades etc...

    • @urstrulii5932
      @urstrulii5932 9 месяцев назад +11

      Not all the time because everyone is different with different personality, issues etc...

  • @jewels24k
    @jewels24k 9 месяцев назад +206

    They're really giving Jeanie the villian edit..... maybe it's well deserved, but until his/her tell-all interview/book comes out, we'll never really know 🤷🏾‍♀️.

    • @tikaroxanne7286
      @tikaroxanne7286 9 месяцев назад +20

      Only because Jeezy was the one who filed, men rarely do that. Also she admitted her attitude is terrible.

    • @4theLoveofCurls
      @4theLoveofCurls 9 месяцев назад

      Because no matter how progressive people say they are, they're still willing give men a pass while tearing down another woman. It's sad.

    • @ChampagneMommy3
      @ChampagneMommy3 9 месяцев назад +3

      With her help. She doesn’t make it hard lol

    • @CuirPhotodotNet
      @CuirPhotodotNet 9 месяцев назад

      ....everyone is well aware of what's up with HIM...however now the spotlight of scrutiny is on HER...and it's NOT a good look.....

  • @Grey_fox12
    @Grey_fox12 9 месяцев назад +126

    As a black man that loves black women and mainly dates black women, I grew up always hearing the bs excuse that the sistas are loud and aggressive and angry which is why us black men tend to date outside of our race. Its situations like this where I just laugh and smh. I've always felt that there's loud and aggressive women in every race. Latin women for example are universally known as extremely fiery and aggressive women, yet I've never heard a latin man say they don't mess with latin women because of that.. I'm just happy to see as time has gone on all the excuses brothas make to date outside of their race end up blowing up in their face. Look at Jonathan Majors for example, yet another brotha chasing a below average white woman only for him to realise how unstable they can be. In my personal opinion and experience, I believe the strongest, most loyal, respectful and mentally stable woman you could ever be with is a black woman. Did I also say beautiful? I forgot to say beautiful lol

    • @DarkandlovelyLovely
      @DarkandlovelyLovely 9 месяцев назад +22

      Exactly, it’s never been us. We were never the problem and never will be.

    • @hashslingingslasher4214
      @hashslingingslasher4214 9 месяцев назад +11

      @@DarkandlovelyLovelyperiod

    • @daniellefunderburg9277
      @daniellefunderburg9277 9 месяцев назад +12

      YES ALL THIS!!!
      Thank you, Thank you and Thank you!!
      My ex white sister in-law was the devil. She put on that valley girl act with others but I saw right through her. She was wicked then and is wicked now.

    • @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024
      @bmwjourdandunngoddess6024 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@DarkandlovelyLovely EXACTLY. Period.

    • @kekedream
      @kekedream 9 месяцев назад +7

      👏🏾 u said it! Ppl love coming after us for being strong because men (of all races) are socialized to want doormats, not partners. Bw deserve to be treated as equals in a relationship, not a doormat 👀

  • @nonkululekomkhwanazi7505
    @nonkululekomkhwanazi7505 9 месяцев назад +21

    She was horrible to her first husband. I can't believe she said didn't respect him out loud😩

  • @classyvxbe
    @classyvxbe 9 месяцев назад +297

    Whew.. divorce, separation & breaking up is in the air !😩

    • @xoxohayaati
      @xoxohayaati 9 месяцев назад +15

      😷😷😷

    • @brielax4441
      @brielax4441 9 месяцев назад +25

      Venus & Mercury were in retrograde at the same time in August & September..

    • @princessjada3808
      @princessjada3808 9 месяцев назад +13

      You noticed too.. gessh😷😷😷

    • @p.7489
      @p.7489 9 месяцев назад +17

      This retrograde not playing.

    • @earthmatters8866
      @earthmatters8866 9 месяцев назад

      @@brielax4441stop being a stup! PEOPLE just don’t like to make relationships (of any kind) work. Has nothing to do with the moon, stars, the devil! It’s PEOPLE!

  • @craigslistreplies3485
    @craigslistreplies3485 9 месяцев назад +1018

    The term "submissive" is triggering AF. It amazes me in 2023 people still think like that.
    Even the bible teaches MUTUAL submission.
    I am a whole woman, married to a whole man. We may have some traditional gender roles (ie he chooses pays household bills) BUT we are PARTNERS, with EQUAL value, and contribution (different but equal)

    • @queenjanee6290
      @queenjanee6290 9 месяцев назад

      Bc they find it sexy when they do it 😂😂

    • @TheLovesnowangel
      @TheLovesnowangel 9 месяцев назад +110

      I agree. When I hear submit I think of dogs and slaves. We are neither so the respect and care should be mutual and earned.

    • @GeorgieAna
      @GeorgieAna 9 месяцев назад +38

      What verse or book teaches mutual submission? I think I missed that.

    • @7102lefteye
      @7102lefteye 9 месяцев назад +135

      @@GeorgieAna In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. Ephesians 5:28
      Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. Colossians 3:19
      Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for he Ephesians 5:25
      Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.
      Peter 3:7
      In Ephesians 22-25Paul tells husband and wives to submit one another.
      Here is a few…

    • @jalesadrakes4759
      @jalesadrakes4759 9 месяцев назад +101

      @@GeorgieAna Ephesians 5, verses 21-33. It starts out with saying how both the husband and wife should submit to each other, but people love to leave that part out.

  • @noxxie1496
    @noxxie1496 9 месяцев назад +276

    I'm so shocked by how Jeannie is ruled out as the bad person when none of us know exactly what happened, not even to mention that Jeezy's past relationships showing his toxicity...🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ But also these two were such a random pair, so their separation is expected. IF IT TURNS SHE IS THE SOLE PROBLEM, I'D BE DISAPPOINTED TO SEE SHE ISN'T WHO I THOUGHT SHE IS🤡.

    • @AJ-mt9zt
      @AJ-mt9zt 9 месяцев назад +43

      These dudes always find a way to play victim. He's created multiple broken homes.

    • @_Palesa_M
      @_Palesa_M 9 месяцев назад

      I noticed that when black men marry outside their race and when that marriage doesn't work out, the women are villainized and made to take the blame. You see it with Kim K as well, all of a sudden Kanye was the perfect and present father when in actuality he was very absent.

    • @vmlksm9
      @vmlksm9 9 месяцев назад +1

      It’s Black male worship.

    • @alkahinat4558
      @alkahinat4558 9 месяцев назад +12

      She seems kinda cool, ngl
      Made shockingly bad decisions
      Marrying an ex felon and baby mama creator, smh

    • @Zoraya4833
      @Zoraya4833 9 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@AJ-mt9ztthe women allowed it

  • @ciciriddick
    @ciciriddick 9 месяцев назад +57

    Jeannie ran away from home as a teenager and didn't talk to her mom for years. She has a whole video with her mom about it on her channel. It's honestly really sad and explains, but doesn't excuse, why both of them act the way they do.

    • @TheodoreBakes
      @TheodoreBakes 9 месяцев назад +6

      Thats what I was thinking. And shes a capricorn like me so I get her on a whole other level.

    • @Tiajones333
      @Tiajones333 9 месяцев назад +1

      If you know the real story her mother kicked her out the house because somebody did something to her sexually assaulted her plus her and her mother didn't have a good relationship how about it took the person who did something to her side

    • @ciciriddick
      @ciciriddick 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@Tiajones333 I do know the real story. She wasn't kicked out she ran away because her mom chose her abuser over her.

    • @geminiflame_
      @geminiflame_ 7 месяцев назад

      And I'm currently in the process of running away. Looking for a place to rent🤷🏾‍♀️I'm tired & done.

  • @Forever20young
    @Forever20young 9 месяцев назад +975

    Jeanie got her 15 minutes of marriage, a biracial black baby 👶🏽 with her “dark meat on da side🙄”🍖, and a few cute IG stories, and Jeezy got to adjust his public image to look like a “family man”. The honeymoon is over and the relationship ran its course and wore out its news cycle 📰😴. 💁🏽‍♂️ They BOTH got what they wanted. That’s all folks! The END! 😆

    • @RY-os9vw
      @RY-os9vw 9 месяцев назад +31

      💯🎻! If she has a temper, then she was nasty about her response to him, which many brothers don’t tolerate.

    • @giovanahc
      @giovanahc 9 месяцев назад +62

      Long story short huh? 😅❤

    • @true4585
      @true4585 9 месяцев назад +56

      I was about to write my comment, but you said it all. This is it.

    • @candiicaine5596
      @candiicaine5596 9 месяцев назад +25

      Yeah, it's above us now.

    • @fah232
      @fah232 9 месяцев назад +10

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @ishasankoh3684
    @ishasankoh3684 9 месяцев назад +125

    They say you can't turn a hoe into a housewife, well you also can't turn a three time baby daddy longtime bachelor into a husband. Not every man is committed and family oriented, especially when they lack the experience. I think they both fell in love with the idea of each other, infatuation does not sustain a relationship. If you have to change so much of yourself in order to make your partner happy, the odds of the relationship succeeding are slim to none.

  • @dbabeh41
    @dbabeh41 9 месяцев назад +137

    Can we all take a min to think how heartbreaking this must be for Jeannie especially if she was blindsided 😢😢😢. I won’t wish this on anyone!

    • @mygirlngema3107
      @mygirlngema3107 9 месяцев назад +10

      jennie is sensitive but puts up a front ,people don't see this.

    • @bernanevarez8182
      @bernanevarez8182 9 месяцев назад +9

      Exactly! I’m so gutted for her. I know this will scar her deeply 😢

    • @mea174
      @mea174 9 месяцев назад +11

      Yes, thank you! It’s sickening to see how much people are getting some sort of weird joy out of seeing a marriage & family fall apart. It’s not easy going through something like this in general. Let alone in the eye of the public

    • @emilysmith3650
      @emilysmith3650 9 месяцев назад

      @@mygirlngema3107no she doesn’t, she’s most of the time very honest

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@mygirlngema3107🤣🤣🤣🤣. Yawll are gullible ASF if you believe anything is real w these manufactured PR relationships.

  • @elmatt4496
    @elmatt4496 9 месяцев назад +46

    Jeezy's own mother put a gun in his face and threatened to shoot him at the age of 14. Living with two self admitted SUPER controlling women would have been traumatising for him. Pray for healing for both parties and baby Monaco. This is so sad

    • @tparker4458
      @tparker4458 9 месяцев назад +8

      I never heard about that. And I’m a fan of jeezy. Is there an interview I can look up? I’d like to hear his story

    • @elmatt4496
      @elmatt4496 9 месяцев назад

      @@tparker4458 yes it was released 1mknth ago Lewis Howes RUclips channel.

    • @Tiajones333
      @Tiajones333 9 месяцев назад +1

      Yup

  • @evemoore2135
    @evemoore2135 9 месяцев назад +972

    Being a submissive wife is not as easy as people think, it's not something you can just decide to do one day. It's something that you already have in you to do.

    • @LYNNroofingGal
      @LYNNroofingGal 9 месяцев назад +167

      That's why people need to be honest and be with someone that allows them to be themselves.

    • @aliciatargaryen
      @aliciatargaryen 9 месяцев назад +24

      Exactly.

    • @Mbalz779
      @Mbalz779 9 месяцев назад +185

      Also submission becomes easier if you are a man who is a good leader

    • @AJ-mt9zt
      @AJ-mt9zt 9 месяцев назад

      She was just trying to troll the black community and one up bw. A liberal feminist with her own money being submissive?? Nah..lol. Now she sees that she got the same Bm.

    • @elmatt4496
      @elmatt4496 9 месяцев назад +43

      Jeezy's own mother put a gun in his face and threatened to shoot him at the age of 14. Living with two self admitted SUPER controlling women would have been traumatising for him. Pray for healing for both parties and baby Monaco. This is so sad

  • @geminimind
    @geminimind 9 месяцев назад +743

    Any relationship being marketed to consumers is an institution that we just cant’t trust. How many more celebrity couples have to break-up for people to learn this lesson?

    • @yendaaaa
      @yendaaaa 9 месяцев назад +7

      Say it.

    • @newnew-dh7ij
      @newnew-dh7ij 9 месяцев назад +14

      Exactly people are always screaming about couple goals just from these outside exteriors we see. No marriages are perfect not even these Christian marriages. Couple goals, to me is the emotional ability to work with each other through past traumas emotional issues having boundaries and be ok with each others triggers and boundaries. And if we are not ready for those things we should not be getting into marriages. Times have changed people just don't love like they once did and the ones that do get overwhelmed with loving and not receiving the same in return. Wait on God.

    • @tab5470
      @tab5470 9 месяцев назад +5

      1000%

    • @tab5470
      @tab5470 9 месяцев назад

      @@newnew-dh7ij Hmm, I didn't know that "Christian marriages" is desire standard...when their are so many Christian loud mouth cheaters from politicians to evangelical....Many so call Christian are a bunch of FAKE and hypocrites....

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar 9 месяцев назад +10

      Absolutely!! These "PR" relationships are all manufactured.

  • @whiteteaandpeonies9145
    @whiteteaandpeonies9145 9 месяцев назад +74

    To me, it seems as if Jeannie put much more into the marriage than Jeezy did. Especially when it comes to changing her mind on big topics such as children. I feel for her! I always enjoyed her input on The Real and she doesn't seem to me as if she's the toxic one, like some people try to make her seem.

    • @Basementjacks
      @Basementjacks 9 месяцев назад

      You don't know her. You can't comment if she's toxic or not. But she mentioned before that black guys are only side pieces but she made Jeezy into a main course , she said that on the real. She went on people's podcast to say that she has a very very bad Temper also. She's not perfect either

    • @ATown36205
      @ATown36205 9 месяцев назад

      That word came out o few times I’m sure

  • @storiking650
    @storiking650 9 месяцев назад +6

    Empressive, Jeannie is not part Chinese, she is FULL Vietnamese, however one parent is from North Vietnam & the other is from South Vietnam & according to Mama Mai, when she was coming up, that wasn't done, in fact it was forbidden. It was such a violation, Mama Mai's abusive father NEVER accepted Jeannie (her 1st child), in fact, they did their best to try to convince her to get rid of baby Jeannie & over the years, as her kids were growing up, her father NEVER showed Mama Mai & the grandchildren any type of love & kindness, so much so, even though he's an elderly man now, he still has NO REAL CONTACT w/them today. The family is soooooo largely volatile, abusive & disjointed, that these poor behaviors have bled themselves into the behaviors & lives of the next 2 generations. As an example, Mama Mai turned around & both physically, mentally & emotionally abused Papa Mai. Jeannie, who grew up watching this & being abused by her Mom, turned into both a rebel, running away from home at a young age & she became volatile, aggressive & an abuser herself. Jeezy fell in love with JEANNIE'S REPRESENTATIVE & over these last 2 years, he met the actual "Jeannie Mai" & knew it couldn't work bcuz he knows he cannot be in a relationship w/a woman w/so much serious emotional baggage, that manifests itself in the form of rage, violence, disrespect & control. Lastly, it's pretty obvious that the Asian Community looks to the White Community as their measure of success, beauty & what is right or wrong. They go out of their way to suck up to White people, often adopting their bigotry & beliefs, even though they themselves are not treated equal anymore than how Whites treat us Blacks & Native Americans the only ones who have been here in this country w/their asses since the BEGINNING of "The New World". Jeannie's views on Black men as a " side dish, while "White keeps her RIGHT", a.k.a. " Mean & Lean" 😒🙄, was her ATTESTING to 1 of her embarrassing, despicable TRUTHS, that inadvertently slipped out that episode, but ain't nobody no fool except 1 person & that 1 clearly has since woken up from his foolish slumber & that is why he's been sneakily planning on divorcing the girl for MONTHS!!! #TheTruthCannotBeHiddenForLong

  • @shashavengesayi6055
    @shashavengesayi6055 9 месяцев назад +46

    Wishing Monaco Mai Jenkins the most stable, peaceful upbringing 💝

  • @AEady24
    @AEady24 9 месяцев назад +341

    So sad, this has gotten too public and is already too messy.

    • @MrsIkonwa
      @MrsIkonwa 9 месяцев назад +13

      The part that’s bothering me most is how people are speculating without a clue.

    • @Mstruebeauty25
      @Mstruebeauty25 9 месяцев назад +3

      It started out messy once he put it out.

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar 9 месяцев назад

      These PR relationships LOVE that they get attention. Good or bad. Dont be naive.

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@MrsIkonwait's SOCIAL MEDIA. Of course people will speculate lol. Duh.

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@MrsIkonwaif you TRULY didn't't like that , you wouldn't be on social media. Let's stop the fakery. .

  • @latarshabatts7336
    @latarshabatts7336 9 месяцев назад

    The best video I’ve watched on this topic!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @jaleesaf2180
    @jaleesaf2180 9 месяцев назад +3

    "Once his preference stopped preference ing" I AM SCREAMIN!!!!!!! I love it

  • @nyasha9623
    @nyasha9623 9 месяцев назад +380

    One thing I’ve noticed is Jeanie is really addicted to getting things for instagram or social media. So many of their posts are professionally done. Her ex complained about how he planned a romantic trip to Italy and she was focused on getting Insta photos and editing them.

    • @theREALESTrealistUNPOPULAR
      @theREALESTrealistUNPOPULAR 9 месяцев назад +81

      That's so annoying

    • @OhGodSheALeo
      @OhGodSheALeo 9 месяцев назад +4

      He what? What is that word

    • @niabelizaire3596
      @niabelizaire3596 9 месяцев назад +84

      Jeannie has a habit about disclosing every detail of her life on social media and to the general public. I’m a firm believer in not posting your business on Facebook, Instagram and other digital platforms or discuss your personal life with other people, especially when you barely know those individuals. That’s what annoys me about Jeannie.

    • @NoOne-wt3sv
      @NoOne-wt3sv 9 месяцев назад +53

      @@niabelizaire3596 she thinks this is being relatable and down-to-earth, but it can come off as “keeping up with the joneses” being never satisfied.

    • @niabelizaire3596
      @niabelizaire3596 9 месяцев назад +50

      @@NoOne-wt3sv Jeezy knew how unfiltered she was yet, he still stayed with her, placed a rock on her finger and procreated with her 💍

  • @reneesmith9693
    @reneesmith9693 9 месяцев назад +2080

    I honestly don’t know why everyone is so shocked🫤

    • @latoyaeubanks8121
      @latoyaeubanks8121 9 месяцев назад +200

      Right her first husband called her trash

    • @YesssHoney
      @YesssHoney 9 месяцев назад +200

      Totally agree. When I heard the way she expressed herself about her previous marriage, I knew she was the issue.

    • @julsc2106
      @julsc2106 9 месяцев назад +38

      True have you seen her mangled feet😢

    • @MBCrusin
      @MBCrusin 9 месяцев назад +72

      I’m not shocked at all. I called this, I’ve been a Jeezy fan all my life and I knew they wouldn’t work

    • @Forever20young
      @Forever20young 9 месяцев назад +78

      @@julsc2106
      Not the mangled feet 👣❕🫣🤭😅😂🤣

  • @melwill9868
    @melwill9868 9 месяцев назад +1

    When people tell you who they are...BELIEVE THEM...The FIRST time!

  • @jlynn4736
    @jlynn4736 9 месяцев назад

    May i just say i appreciate the thorough research and visuals you put in your content.

  • @Bibirallie
    @Bibirallie 9 месяцев назад +244

    After rewatching her interaction with Freddie and her failing to notice her temper with Freddie, hearing about the fundraising fiasco, I am starting to think that Jeannie isn’t who I thought she was, but still doesn’t mean she is the sole issue.

    • @tyiingram9878
      @tyiingram9878 9 месяцев назад +5

      Agreed 💯

    • @Rooted_Locs
      @Rooted_Locs 9 месяцев назад +22

      No one shows their true self frfr like that…ESPECIALLY CELEBRITIES

    • @isidoraklamm
      @isidoraklamm 9 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly 💯

    • @ao6685
      @ao6685 9 месяцев назад +1

      Narcissist

    • @shanel4294
      @shanel4294 9 месяцев назад +2

      She seems to be somewhat self aware

  • @AFFTFOMSICHTS
    @AFFTFOMSICHTS 9 месяцев назад +170

    It’s easy to get along with someone during the honeymoon phase, you’re so focused on the newness feeling, you’re willing to “overlook” things that would normally bother you, not even just red flags, but also the logistical parts of a relationship.
    Feelings come and go, the logistics of combing your life with someone else’s have to be on point or it’s not gonna last.

  • @lilithajezile4536
    @lilithajezile4536 9 месяцев назад +13

    Look at his dating history, all the broken homes he created. Let’s see the trend here. He can’t always be the victim. At some point he needs to take accountability for his part in all these broken homes.

  • @xevan_knight_official
    @xevan_knight_official 9 месяцев назад +10

    I feel like Jeezy was having to spend and feed Jeanie and her WHOLE family for everything. I feel bad for the child. Children are the real victims. This is why it's SO important to be careful, mindful and patient with who you decide to sleep with, marry and procreate with. Dating and finding meaningful, lasting relationships is so difficult in today's world. Everything seems to just be getting worse

    • @user-xu4dh2ye2w
      @user-xu4dh2ye2w 7 месяцев назад

      Bingo 🎯 She didn't care about him. Just her mother and family. she probably stole thousands from him. Typical Asian culture overly obsessed with family

  • @Chloe_Titles
    @Chloe_Titles 9 месяцев назад +89

    They never looked compatible to me and I am not shocked at all. I was more surprised the relationship was a thing in the first place.

    • @user-dv3kq3rm4h
      @user-dv3kq3rm4h 9 месяцев назад

      Same. The woman is am annoying motormouth nerd. He must've seen this a mile off from where he's coming from and the fact he stepped away tells us she's not his cup of tea. She got her dark meat on the side and a taste of that Kardashian come up but he clearly just had jungle fever and moved onto the next 'cause he realised she has no flavor and no amount of Blackfishing will change that

    • @Happypotato917
      @Happypotato917 9 месяцев назад +4

      CLOCK IT💅🏽

    • @jl4073
      @jl4073 9 месяцев назад +1

      Yep!!!

    • @tparker4458
      @tparker4458 9 месяцев назад

      Same. That’s why I was hoping they worked out tho. Opposites attract!

  • @pajdesign
    @pajdesign 9 месяцев назад +304

    I simply don’t understand why black women are capping so hard when both have shown nothing but disdain for us. Raise your standards sisters. SMH

    • @cindyp6528
      @cindyp6528 9 месяцев назад +50

      Jeannie hasn’t said anything against black women

    • @jroyal4480
      @jroyal4480 9 месяцев назад +31

      That's what I said. Jeezy still probably not date Black women again

    • @TheLovesnowangel
      @TheLovesnowangel 9 месяцев назад +1

      Right! This sounds like a them problem. They both fetishized each other and realized fetishes are superficial and have no true lasting substance

    • @Radicalstories92
      @Radicalstories92 9 месяцев назад +25

      I think it is because this vindicated black women regarding the submission issue and preference case

    • @annmariebusu9924
      @annmariebusu9924 9 месяцев назад +5

      Which black women? Seems like the opposite.

  • @janitakirby645
    @janitakirby645 9 месяцев назад +21

    Everyone in this situation needs prayer and I feel bad for the baby because she didn't ask to be in this

  • @LMLification
    @LMLification 9 месяцев назад +13

    He believed that Jeannie Mai had changed because he bought into the “submissive , soft Asian woman” stereotype and played himself. They might appear that way outside of marriage or before having a baby, but they get really bitchy after that. At the same time, she thought that she had black women beat by scoring a rich black man as a non-black woman, but he treated her just the same in the end, making her a single mother. Facts!

    • @acw079
      @acw079 9 месяцев назад

      This is so true. I lived in the uae and the asian women (chinese, philipino) were so bitchy. Attitude 24/7 but there was also this kind side to them but boy did they have 2 personalities.

  • @tonimillersmith1009
    @tonimillersmith1009 9 месяцев назад +101

    What a woman of another race who is not submissive, fit and fabulous. No say it ain't so. Bless their hearts.

    • @darkcontinentschild2962
      @darkcontinentschild2962 9 месяцев назад +33

      It’s the “dragon” in her. Her words, not mine lol.

    • @nicole4779
      @nicole4779 9 месяцев назад +9

      😂😂😂

    • @Nisha_Nykelle
      @Nisha_Nykelle 9 месяцев назад +9

      Yeah, her dragon AKA her attitude problem is A PROBLEM! For Jeezy, at least!!!

    • @mimid6354
      @mimid6354 9 месяцев назад

      @@darkcontinentschild2962aka Demons

    • @tequilla-mc5ss
      @tequilla-mc5ss 9 месяцев назад +1

      Say it ain’t so!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @vashtikelly6837
    @vashtikelly6837 9 месяцев назад +387

    Why didn't they discuss what was best for their child and the kind of parents they were gonna be before they started a family..😮😮

    • @brielax4441
      @brielax4441 9 месяцев назад +42

      That’s too much like right 😂😂😂

    • @urstrulii5932
      @urstrulii5932 9 месяцев назад +18

      Because in the beginning ppl think and are hopeful that their marriage will last. Heck your spouse could even die. Ppl and things change on the daily. So I feel maybe in that moment they felt sure and im sure that child is and a few other things are some great moments of their marriage. Live/learn 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @simpleislandgirl95
      @simpleislandgirl95 9 месяцев назад +20

      I'm sure they did, but talking and actively doing, definitely aren't the same. Then too it's not just 2 people in the marriage , mama mai is in the mix. 😅

    • @sonyap8253
      @sonyap8253 9 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@simpleislandgirl95the baby, her brother and her momma all live w her.

    • @__gemoftheeast
      @__gemoftheeast 9 месяцев назад +11

      So him not having multiple broken homes created raised any flags to her? I give Grace if it didn’t work the first time. I’ve been there, I get it & I learned from it…but after 2,3,4 broken homes. Chile bye!

  • @divadee8090
    @divadee8090 9 месяцев назад

    @Empressive I'm with you on everything. I was hoping for a different outcome as well. When these two stepped out, they came out SHARP! Hoping for the best for both of them.

  • @yougotgamesonyourphone6947
    @yougotgamesonyourphone6947 9 месяцев назад +10

    She literally admitted all her red flags and people still acting like she may not be at fault

    • @bleudiamondbleu
      @bleudiamondbleu 9 месяцев назад +4

      He has 4 baby mamas. You have to be delusional to think she’s at fault & he don’t have a big part in it as well.

    • @jessp8238
      @jessp8238 9 месяцев назад

      @@bleudiamondbleuIt take two to make a thing go right…

  • @latisha334
    @latisha334 9 месяцев назад +106

    She literally only speaks down on or negatively about her ex-husband. You can tell she didn’t respect him at all.

    • @bleudiamondbleu
      @bleudiamondbleu 9 месяцев назад +14

      That’s not true at all. For many seasons on The Real after their divorce she spoke highly of him and was VERY respectful. Like saying she didn’t date again after the divorce until she saw her ex husband had moved on so she knew he was okay. When it was announced her ex was having a bad she said she’s really happy for him cause he’d be an amazing dad. Don’t just lie for the sake of lying. Pro tip: get all the info before you open your mouth :)

    • @meghanmisaliar
      @meghanmisaliar 9 месяцев назад +3

      Not true. She spoke bad about ALL BM.

    • @_Diaryofwealth
      @_Diaryofwealth 9 месяцев назад

      Are you stupid? Did u not hear him say he move from trash to treasure? When she did nothing but stay calm nonsense

    • @joanna0988
      @joanna0988 9 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@bleudiamondbleuShe was disrespectful towards Freddie during their whole marriage. Even Tamar and Loni told her that she was controlling and bulldozed him. She may have said nice things after they split but calling him a mitch, saying she didn't want to have sex with him, drooling over black rappers, etc was not very nice 🤷

    • @user56gghtf
      @user56gghtf 9 месяцев назад

      If she didn't respect him she wouldn't have taken care of them both financially all those years. She had the be the Alpha in that marriage because the person that should have been wasn't.

  • @librarose319
    @librarose319 9 месяцев назад +52

    I hear everyone saying Jeezy ain't innocent and has a temper but why would anyone wanna stay in a relationship or environment that constantly triggers them to bring out the worst in their character

    • @toshamac4676
      @toshamac4676 9 месяцев назад +4

      True

    • @shanb4520
      @shanb4520 9 месяцев назад +1

      Right!

    • @zenabeme22
      @zenabeme22 9 месяцев назад +2

      Especially if you lived that trauma your whole childhood. You wouldnt want to repeat that same cycle.

    • @librarose319
      @librarose319 9 месяцев назад

      @@zenabeme22 yeessss girl absolutely true !!

  • @shemekaprice3980
    @shemekaprice3980 9 месяцев назад

    Great video my sister 💯💕💕💕

  • @maserati925
    @maserati925 9 месяцев назад +3

    So true about the part about differences in culture, values and expectations I think many people overlook those differences because they want the person so bad.

  • @taneciamiller548
    @taneciamiller548 9 месяцев назад +37

    Protect your peace at ALL TIMES🙏💯

  • @mariusarrondell4210
    @mariusarrondell4210 9 месяцев назад +57

    You really have to take your time to get to know who you are with before getting married. Divorce is the new popular thing right now.

  • @kaylenejantjes8113
    @kaylenejantjes8113 9 месяцев назад +24

    I think the ugliness added to this situation is the people who are acting happy that this is happening especially to Jeannie. Thank you for presenting the situation in a level-headed manner because it takes two to make something not work.

    • @Heat_Rush
      @Heat_Rush 9 месяцев назад

      The happiness is because black men weaponized this marriage against black women saying they keep leaving us for women like her because Asians and all of these other women are better than black women. She also participated by throwing this relationship in black women's faces so no sympathy from us.

  • @rmn_75
    @rmn_75 9 месяцев назад +2

    Moral of the story ladies: the grass is not always greener… stick to your vows and stay with the man you married (as long as he isn’t beating/abusing you)… pretty sure your ex husband wouldn’t have left her after having a child, now she’s a single baby mother🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @Arianah192
    @Arianah192 9 месяцев назад +439

    Maybe I’m just too biased but I don’t like how everyone is assuming that she’s the villain here especially when we know the alleged drama he had with his other baby mama.

    • @Iamsimplybj
      @Iamsimplybj 9 месяцев назад +69

      Let’s not forget about the alleged drama she had with her Ex.

    • @bingo8789
      @bingo8789 9 месяцев назад +18

      What does all that gotta do with his divorce from this woman? Yall some 🐦

    • @HeyMe75
      @HeyMe75 9 месяцев назад +69

      He planned this from the beginning. He had no intentions to stay. He used her.

    • @pareeshaslaughter6798
      @pareeshaslaughter6798 9 месяцев назад +68

      ​@@HeyMe75EXCATLY‼️ by now in 2023 I got passed the whole "black man dating outside his race" thing .....I've been witnessing how they treat ALL women and it was a set up to begin with.

    • @urstrulii5932
      @urstrulii5932 9 месяцев назад +14

      Yeah like everyone is speculating and really don't know.

  • @kenyaarkansasgurl1546
    @kenyaarkansasgurl1546 9 месяцев назад +90

    I just don't understand why ppl can't keep there marriage private jennie exposes way too much on social media

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 9 месяцев назад +5

      Agreed!

    • @janarpatni7622
      @janarpatni7622 9 месяцев назад +9

      Totally agree it just seemed like it was a marriage for social media so super fake

    • @chi8772
      @chi8772 9 месяцев назад

      Well when they keep their lives private, y’all would call them fake 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @shanicewilliams8915
    @shanicewilliams8915 9 месяцев назад +24

    My heart goes out to the baby girl 😢🥺

    • @KJ-yn8pr
      @KJ-yn8pr 9 месяцев назад +1

      Man that girl is so young she has no clue what’s even goin on calm down 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @LadyMusse
    @LadyMusse 8 месяцев назад +1

    I think you hit the nail on the head with this one

  • @pwetty4r4
    @pwetty4r4 9 месяцев назад +43

    Jeezy's PR team working hard I see

    • @isidoraklamm
      @isidoraklamm 9 месяцев назад

      It's so obvious, I know

  • @lovelynae7683
    @lovelynae7683 9 месяцев назад +67

    My ex husband is Asian & knowing his family the women usually not the nicest also his mother was a control freak to the point she tried to control me.

    • @AppleBloom21
      @AppleBloom21 9 месяцев назад +25

      Right that’s literally Asian culture

    • @Hazbinhotel782
      @Hazbinhotel782 9 месяцев назад +18

      Glad you didn't let your evil mother in law control you

    • @__gemoftheeast
      @__gemoftheeast 9 месяцев назад +21

      I grew up w/ many of them & saw that mess. I’m very open to dating any race bc I love learning new & diff cultures. But certain groups, I know how they are & I stay tf away!

    • @LaBellezaMorena
      @LaBellezaMorena 9 месяцев назад +15

      My husband is Asian and yes... the women are something. Thankfully my husband protects me.

    • @DeeDiamond2981
      @DeeDiamond2981 9 месяцев назад +1

      Joy luck club. I learnt alot from that film

  • @cyanmer54
    @cyanmer54 9 месяцев назад

    Lol perfectly said 😂I kept saying “yup” as you’re stating your points

  • @preciouslawrence10
    @preciouslawrence10 9 месяцев назад

    Good video sis. ✌🏾

  • @nikiracarter
    @nikiracarter 9 месяцев назад +181

    Notice how when she got with Jeezy, her aesthetic changed👀 her lips got bigger, skin got darker,fashion become more urban..

    • @kharikhy-ree2242
      @kharikhy-ree2242 9 месяцев назад +48

      Im glad others noticed this ....

    • @christines1821
      @christines1821 9 месяцев назад +35

      Yes yes and yes to this culture vulture

    • @brielax4441
      @brielax4441 9 месяцев назад +43

      I’ve always been curious to know what makes a person do that in interracial relationships.

    • @2jcward
      @2jcward 9 месяцев назад +16

      Right, they saying she’s always adapting. Not sincere.

    • @candiicaine5596
      @candiicaine5596 9 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@brielax4441Yeah, it's weird.

  • @nicole4779
    @nicole4779 9 месяцев назад +28

    Thank you for pointing out that Jeannie made herself into something she isn’t to get the marriage in the first place

    • @lajack6448
      @lajack6448 9 месяцев назад +1

      After this. She’s definitely going to leaning more towards her European ways

  • @Samijo202
    @Samijo202 9 месяцев назад +17

    Lesson for everyone needs to learn from this and I see so many couples go through it as well these days is STOP getting married so fast! Just because you date someone for a year or even 2 doesn’t mean you know what it’s going to be like with that person for the long haul, with kids, financial issues and all the stresses that come along with life and how that other person is going to deal with those. There’s no reason these days to jump into marriage.

    • @joanna0988
      @joanna0988 9 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly. My brother is 30 and he's dating a woman who is 26 for about a year. She gave him an ultimatum last month that they get engaged or she moves on. So he proposed 🥴🙄 Now I'm worried for him because why are we forcing engagements so quickly?! Especially when no one is pregnant 😅

  • @bravebird1578
    @bravebird1578 9 месяцев назад +1

    So how much compassion will she have for her child?! They both saw each other as a come up.

  • @DVYNEMUSCLE
    @DVYNEMUSCLE 9 месяцев назад +41

    Jeezy knew ahead of time how close his wife was to her mom the world knows that but when a man ready to go let him go she a Capricorn she be ok 😂 🥊

    • @urstrulii5932
      @urstrulii5932 9 месяцев назад +3

      Ohhhh didn't know she was a Capricorn? Interesting? Yeah she good then. Lol

    • @Reallychris_
      @Reallychris_ 9 месяцев назад +1

      She was supposed to leave her mom and cleave to her spouse. Women like her will never keep a husband. Jeezy did the right thing. Had he stayed in it and became abusive y’all would be singing another tune. Bringing in a zodiac sign is ignorant.

    • @universallove5472
      @universallove5472 9 месяцев назад +1

      Jeezy is a Libra so he will cry and be fine as well. 😂

    • @iamsas4937
      @iamsas4937 9 месяцев назад +2

      exactly !! Too many mamies here ! This guy isn't serious and keep making single mothers... but bl@ck women keep blaming women SMH

    • @Mika-lz3bn
      @Mika-lz3bn 9 месяцев назад

      PLEASE shut the hell up with that horoscope BS!!!

  • @pwetty4r4
    @pwetty4r4 9 месяцев назад +18

    submit to your husband they say...but if the man decideds to leave anyway "you weren't submitting hard enough!"

  • @davialee3932
    @davialee3932 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for speaking on how he did his previous children’s mothers. Women should really be mindful of how a man treated their last parter.

  • @aishamstout
    @aishamstout 9 месяцев назад +2

    You don't inherit behaviors, you learn behaviors.

  • @Key-1987
    @Key-1987 9 месяцев назад +101

    YES!!!!HER MOTHER IS ALWAYS AROUND AND HER BROTHER JUST MOVED IN WITH THEM 😩😩😩😩ITS TOO MUCH GOING ON IN THAT HOUSE!

    • @urstrulii5932
      @urstrulii5932 9 месяцев назад +30

      Cultural differences. But again he knew that going forward soooooo? 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Ashley50144
      @Ashley50144 9 месяцев назад +1

      Yes , we all know blk ppl don’t & CANT live like that ….. I can only imagine all that chin Chang Ching chin LOUDDD yelling & ish omg 😂😂😂😂

    • @tommesiacooper1258
      @tommesiacooper1258 9 месяцев назад

      @@urstrulii5932and he ignored them for his preference 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Msalike
      @Msalike 9 месяцев назад +3

      Way too much!!!

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 9 месяцев назад +4

      Lmao facts

  • @Pilot_10
    @Pilot_10 9 месяцев назад +31

    Jeezy knew what he was getting into before the marriage. He is a man child who is extremely irresponsible. Jeannie Mai's lifestyles and values were out in front street since day 1. Jeezy just trying to be a bachelor again

    • @nina2222
      @nina2222 9 месяцев назад +3

      Excellent point!

  • @pbj0815
    @pbj0815 9 месяцев назад

    I’ve been waiting for YOUR video!! Chiilllllddddd 👀

  • @therealkoolaidandkale
    @therealkoolaidandkale 9 месяцев назад

    I haven't heard either of them comment while the situation is being spoken on with such conviction.

  • @Iam_highmaintenancebeauty
    @Iam_highmaintenancebeauty 9 месяцев назад +30

    Thank you for speaking up about your speculations! So many ppl and bloggers did just that and I never understand why that is BEFORE waiting for things to come out! Lol but much respect for evening saying it

    • @Happypotato917
      @Happypotato917 9 месяцев назад +3

      She always does that and she’ll keep speculating, after all this is a tea channel.

  • @justtia1031
    @justtia1031 9 месяцев назад +25

    I’m praying for healthy marriages all over… They need marriage counseling, and 1 on 1 therapy. If they work on each other, they maybe be able to stay together

  • @theetripletpodcastwmisstef7667
    @theetripletpodcastwmisstef7667 9 месяцев назад

    This was a much better video, sis! Ghetto Asian had me hollering though! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tresvegan3633
    @tresvegan3633 9 месяцев назад +2

    I hope the families are able to move past this hardship for the baby’s sake 🙏🏽

  • @lotusphoenix8
    @lotusphoenix8 9 месяцев назад +102

    She publicly admitted to her red flags, how did he overlook those just to cite them as his reason for leaving? Did he think he would be the one to tame her? What did he expect would happen if her traits were already on display from the beginning? This is all just ridiculous, now a baby must suffer for their mess. SMH

    • @leilasc4
      @leilasc4 9 месяцев назад +1

      Shes a actress lol

    • @AminahMight
      @AminahMight 9 месяцев назад +13

      He overlooked them because she’s not black.

    • @lotusphoenix8
      @lotusphoenix8 9 месяцев назад +6

      @@AminahMight Well, he shot himself in the foot then.

    • @jennywakeman3267
      @jennywakeman3267 9 месяцев назад +7

      @@AminahMight That's what he gets for believing those "submissive" stereotypes about her.

    • @user-ol9bo2ei1r
      @user-ol9bo2ei1r 9 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@AminahMightright! Say this again. He knew exactly what he was getting into. He should have chose better

  • @jennymarie4073
    @jennymarie4073 9 месяцев назад +15

    Jeezy waited until now to divorce her to promote his businesses.

    • @celebritykarma1
      @celebritykarma1 9 месяцев назад +2

      Has he should ...maybe Jeannie was controlling his move...but Jeezy weird to

  • @willsommervil6141
    @willsommervil6141 9 месяцев назад

    Damn! That was quick 😮

  • @1westprincess
    @1westprincess 9 месяцев назад +1

    The same way y’all congratulate and celebrate these women leaving relationships or marriages that no longer suit them keep that same energy with men that do the same exact thing !

  • @Cpre1111
    @Cpre1111 9 месяцев назад +127

    It's not fair to mostly blame Jeannie. Marriage counseling & work could've healed the rift. It takes 2! I knew this outcome would come. Preferences don't get better treatment. Another broken home 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @iamsas4937
      @iamsas4937 9 месяцев назад +16

      exactly !! Too many mamies here ! This guy isn't serious and keep making single mothers... but bl@ck women keep blaming women SMH

    • @wordlifefactory1656
      @wordlifefactory1656 9 месяцев назад +2

      They (preferences) SURE do market themselves AND the world at large views them that way though. Nowhere else quite like "HOME" in America does it better. The conversation that Jeannie Mai and her ALONE weighed IN about being more submissive was HER DOING.
      No one either asked Jeannie about ALL that or she could've even decided to say "next question" in an interview, if they ever DID. Rather or instead, she went BOLDLY into answering that ISH, intended to knock Black women, as they are the ones in tv land and elsewhere chided for not following their men as much. The "angry black woman" or "sapphire" trope is huge in media and movie plotlines, which continues to play off the masculinized version of women.
      Not that it doesn't exist, Black women may not often play submissive in movies, real instances but there are REASONS that get left out the conversation and that is never FAIR either. If folks wanna have an HONEST discussion, then they should HAVE it with ALL the relevant touchpoints and "cards" at that discussion table.
      What happens instead that is getting ignored, is that there are social causes for why some Black women CANNOT stay in their feminine energy or submissiveness if they tried. They may not be able to fully trust the man to lead, they may be left with responsibilities that need masculine energy to execute or complete, or other VALID situations/reasons. That not being given the proper attention and having Jeannie Mai choosing to discuss it was where she was doing more than she needed to.
      Jeannie weighed in on something, KNOWING she was 1/2 of a Black couple, so basically she was INADVERTENTLY addressing Black women and those that get that non-submissive critique.
      Instead of it being that there should be VALIDATION of all the factors that socially engineer others to think that those Black women that aren't submissive actually always WANT to be that way, it gets PERPETUATED instead.
      That is not the sum of Black women, they are not a monolith, and for anyone to think that sum of Black women being aggressive or non-submissive is accurate is wrong.
      It is not only wrong, inaccurate, but it kills off the potential for Black women to be in the right spaces, seen in ALL facets of their human condition. That viewpoint spread through direct or indirect talk...ahem.. isn't right and it "cheapens" the target that is Black women when someone brings it into discussion.
      Jeannie Mai and her ALONE played INTO that, by saying she was different, or was going to be that way to Jeezy, a Black man, so publicly kinda JUSTIFYING essentially why she got "chose" by Jeezy. Cyn Santana did it TOO, from a Latin standpoint, only to have whatever issues stemmed from issues with Joe Budden. Whether they are good now is not the point, it is the point that the "preferences" are pedestaled, they are elevated by Black men and society at large, as desirability politics plays into things, SO when they have their foot in their mouths, like NOW, they will be sympathized with more, as is what is also happening NOW.
      I don't necessarily applaud their breakup or want to see anyone hurt, BUT I won't jump to covet someone when it is widely known the narrative and PERCEPTION woulda bounced hella different if it wasn't that Jeannie was non-Black.
      Jeannie and Jeannie alone marketed that whole she wants to be submissive to her man story. Maybe she was just introducing conversation and inviting others to discuss a wider one, but she made herself look silly now, anger issues or not.
      Put accountability where it is, have a relationship and be CHOOSY about how much actually gets said to the press. Saying EVERYTHING down to what sex positions they gonna have is only going to leave NO RELATIONSHIP to be had. Folks who stay together longest do practice PRIVACY, something Jenny Mai's bigger mouth clearly didn't know how to do, and Jeezy followed suit trying to defend his new wife with the big mouth stuff she said prior to them connecting. Preferences get perhaps initial better treatment, BUT no matter what, she is still considered a "preference" and she had competitive energy when she made that comment about submissiveness, so she's eating her words or lodging her foot out her mouth now. Simple.

    • @frenchgirl5878
      @frenchgirl5878 9 месяцев назад +1

      They do get better treatment. Just because they get treated like shit too doesn’t mean it’s comparable to the way black men treat us.

    • @jennywakeman3267
      @jennywakeman3267 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@wordlifefactory1656 You made a lot of great points. Ppl don’t care to know actual reasons for why some bw aren’t “submissive, bcuz they don’t care about hearing anything about bw’s experience.” Basically misogynoir bcuz let a nonbw complain about her male counterparts (or anyone for that matter) giving them absolute hell and treating them like sh!t publicly on a mainstream scale and in daily life, and people will care. But bcuz it’s bw saying the same thing (even in the same tone as nonbw or even speaking calmly) and ppl just revert back to bw stereotypes to gaslight.
      And if we’re really being honest, the collective of black women, at least, are the most submissive compared to all races of women bcuz no one else would date/ marry down or have a critical mass of women being with treasonous self-hating men (globally) to put up with all types of ridicule and abuse, all for the sake of trying to appease their man. That is literally submission. Being fully compliant and giving your rights and power to appease others. Bm already get submission from a lot of bw. They just like to lie to the whole world. And due to patriarchy, ppl will believe a bm’s word over a bw's.
      But the few bw that don’t listen (and rightfully so) are waking up, but ppl don’t wanna listen to what we have to say. And the collective of nonbw literally don’t put up with any of this sh!t from men at all. They don't seem submissive.👀
      And I never realized until you mentioned it that Jeanie Mai was indirectly taking a jab at black women with that submissive topic. And it was weird that she even brought that up a few years back, bcuz why would she talk about how she submits to her husband around the same timeframe as when bp were talking about submission online? It’s obvious she was very aware of what was going on in the black spaces of social media, especially YT since that’s where bm are the loudest. She wanted the attention on the urban blogs, which I believe is one of the reasons she got with Jeezy, and with how everything turned out, she’s getting exactly that (or bm are just going to stay quiet like they were when Adele was begging Rich Paul to marry her and give her a baby - I think she just wanted a mixed kid bcuz they’re “trending” nowadays but who knows? 🤷🏽‍♀).
      I noticed that when nonbw have attitude, curse people out, yell, etc., other ppl try SO HARD to not call them angry, aggressive, masculine, manly, loud, ghetto, etc. OR they’ll speak casually to the nonbw as if she didn’t lash out at all whatsoever. But if a bw who’s not even angry slightly raises her voice, disagrees with someone (with no malice & speaks in a casual tone) or if she even sounds remotely annoyed, people will use racist stereotypes or say some racial undertones like “calm down” or “I’m not trying to fight you” or something similar.

    • @user-ol9bo2ei1r
      @user-ol9bo2ei1r 9 месяцев назад +2

      Right. Jeannie should have looked at jeezys past and realize he's not worth the risk.

  • @Stan-kj8fq
    @Stan-kj8fq 9 месяцев назад +7

    This is the best breakdown I heard. Thanks

  • @tiffanyw.6514
    @tiffanyw.6514 9 месяцев назад

    You admitted to having wild speculations last time just to have some more on this video lol chile!!!

  • @siphesihlenkosi3894
    @siphesihlenkosi3894 9 месяцев назад +1

    This whole situation is just crazy!

  • @romeys38
    @romeys38 9 месяцев назад +28

    Serves these men right!! They always thinking other flavors are best for them so don't cry wolf now so stick in what you went into with that same energy 😂😂😂😂

  • @makailacotton1383
    @makailacotton1383 9 месяцев назад +6

    I think this the most we talked about either one of the two in a long time

  • @mo6live
    @mo6live 9 месяцев назад

    Empressive I need you to release the footage girl lol I didn’t know you was living with them

  • @zamahudson8889
    @zamahudson8889 9 месяцев назад

    Spot on 🎯

  • @MahoganyBthe_1
    @MahoganyBthe_1 9 месяцев назад +11

    Jeezy didn’t meet the true Jeanie till after they had the baby. He actually met her representative.

    • @celebritykarma1
      @celebritykarma1 9 месяцев назад +2

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @amab1853
      @amab1853 9 месяцев назад +1

      I believe that too

  • @karmicxpressions7114
    @karmicxpressions7114 9 месяцев назад +32

    They both have issues and did not even think to heal from them before uniting, but then again, many don't. It's not on Jeanie and her 'mommy issues'; it's also about Jeezy and his 'daddy issues'. Age doesn't equate to growth.

  • @lowkey_babe77
    @lowkey_babe77 9 месяцев назад +2

    I agree, he should’ve deffo tried to fight more to work things out. With 2yrs and a baby, he coped out too quickly/easily

  • @teenguyen4124
    @teenguyen4124 9 месяцев назад

    I totally agree 100% of what you said in this video❤

  • @pwetty4r4
    @pwetty4r4 9 месяцев назад +52

    All Jeannie used to talk about is being a submissive wife lmao

    • @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
      @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 9 месяцев назад +10

      😂😂😂 she just knew she broke the wall for being submissive.

    • @pwetty4r4
      @pwetty4r4 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@Totododofodo look where being submissive got her

    • @user56gghtf
      @user56gghtf 9 месяцев назад

      Being submissive to a very toxic person is like hell

  • @letseat3120
    @letseat3120 9 месяцев назад +25

    Everyone is responsible for their own happiness 🤷‍♀️

    • @tparker4458
      @tparker4458 9 месяцев назад +1

      Yes we are. Keeping the right company goes a long way ❤

  • @km-uh2rs
    @km-uh2rs 9 месяцев назад +8

    Fetishes don't survive the trials,tribulations and challenges of real life/marriage.

  • @evettestarks1665
    @evettestarks1665 9 месяцев назад +5

    Marriage takes a lot of work, it’s not right to cut your partner off because of small mistakes. Give a person a chance to change.

  • @latranquilagr28
    @latranquilagr28 9 месяцев назад +11

    Best thing couples can do is keep their relationship private as possible

  • @ChristianMosi
    @ChristianMosi 9 месяцев назад +26

    I never cared for them both NEXT!

    • @candiicaine5596
      @candiicaine5596 9 месяцев назад +1

      Jeezy hasn't been this relevant since 2010 and Jeannie since the Real went off.

  • @blutygah
    @blutygah 9 месяцев назад +5

    I struggle to believe that she acknowledges having such a hot temper yet believes no one has ever called her out on it. Family, friends, past partners, colleagues... there must have been someone who pointed it out. Where I sense she met her match was the push back she got from Young Jeezy.

  • @angwoo82
    @angwoo82 9 месяцев назад

    you touched on both parties very well. good job. very good reporting. i feel they need couples counseling before going through with the divorce, but rich people will do what rich people will do, lol. i like how you call yourself out when you make mistakes in your reporting as well. i love that.