I keep watching this and it excites me even more with how Rich teaches. I am in the beginning stages of growing my coaching business and anytime I feel stuck, I get so much insight and techniques that's so valuable. Best wishes to all coaches out thier!!
I stopped this video 20 min in and went and bought your book. I listened to the whole thing in a day. The insights and principles were very simple yet so profound. Im saying the 18 principles to myself out loud once a day to really get it into my heart and soul. Thank you Rich
Like a few of the commenter here, Rich's coaching style seemed to be a bit abrasive to me and definitely not the traditional style of coaching we're taught in coaching schools. However, after delving into his book and many of his videos and especially the coaching demo ones such as this one, I see how that as a high performance/leadership coach his style of coaching is appropriate and direct. He calls people out, asks them uncomfortable questions, takes them in directions they didn't expect to go, but he has never done it in a way that was rude or disrespectful. He explains it in another video as "high flame coaching" and "coaching to serve not to be their friend". In fact he constantly reassures them that it's human to feel the way they do, that he feels the same way they do a lot of the times, he constantly asks for their agreement/permission to go down a path, and so on. So basically what initially seemed abrasive, is actually becoming clearer that it's just the confidence and experience that he has that's triggering my own fear and self doubt of how to coach clients. I'm learning so much from Rich's and other Evercoach coaches on how to listen for insights, create space for them to take place, and to go deeper than most coaches would be brave enough to take their clients. Thank you for all the amazing insights and perspective shifts Rich 🙏🏼😊
Amazing reflection, Firas! It's all about gaining experience and adapting your coaching style to your clients and what they need (not necessarily what they want), without crossing the line of rudeness or being disrespectful. We're so happy you found this video valuable for your coaching journey. Thanks for sharing :)
Hello, I just watched rich's video and seen your comment! I think it was incredibly brave to recognize how that triggered you! May I ask if it still does?
@@timeaftertony5247 Thank you Amanda. Recognizing that was it was my own self-doubt and fears that were triggering me has made it easier not to be overwhelmed by them. I'm happy to say that I'm leaning more into what makes me uncomfortable both in my coaching and personal life thanks to Rich and the many great coaches I've had the great fortune to work with and learn from.
Rich, if you get the note - your slowing down to 'being together' (second coaching) is a priestly way of being, a divine way of being. Can hear the needle drop, feel the pulse...amazing!
Just finished watching this in its entirety. We can argue that he’s not following all the ICF competencies etc, but at the end of the day if you didn’t learn something from this either has a coach or as a client I would be very surprised. The coin toss thing was awesome. Hats off to those who volunteered to go up on stage and be vulnerable like that.
Yup I noticed it too, lots of suggestions/indications with the coachees that usually a coach "shouldn't" do, but that does raise the question if it is more important to ultimately positively affect a coachee or to 100% avoid having any type of biased influence in their decisions. Either way, I definitely learned watching him.
It is extremely rare that I like and favourite a video on RUclips. It would be criminal if I didn't do just that for this fundamentally moving empassioned display by someone who very quickly became one of the most respected people I look up to. Couldn't be happier I clicked on this video. Absolutely brilliant
Rich Litvin is a gift. Thank u for sharing your experiences and being the awesome coach u r i am learning. Just started my professional coaching career and with great coahes like him im learning abf growing. The peace in this season in confirmation to so many Word in my life.
It was so amazing to see how Greg’s entire demeanor completely changed when he began talking to Rich “on the phone” 3 years into the future. It actually moved me to tears. I really hope that Greg knows that this reality he was able to glimpse for a moment IS ALREADY REAL, and existing, and available for him!
At some points, i disagreed with the interruptions he was making, suggesting, limiting the options. But then he said, its his way of coaching. Totally fine with it now. Powerful questions were amazing at few moment. The Coin activity was wonderful too. It was really interesting to note that how the client is responding to both choices. Its all about insight. I like his theme. Thanks for wonderful insights.
Glad you found this valuable, Sohaib! Every coach has their own style, there's always something to learn but there will be things we don't want to replicate and that's okay too :) Thanks for sharing!
I'm in the process of completing a life coaching qualification and he is doing everything that we are taught not to do! He is putting his map of the world onto the client. He refers to his own examples constantly and doesn't use the cleanest language. I am shocked he has so many followers. Surely people can see he's being a showman?
A course or certification shows you one way ("their" way) of doing things. There are many other coaching styles, models, and methodologies out there. We believe it's important for coaches to learn from different sources and take what resonates and leave what doesn't. It's the best way to create your own unique methodology that works for you and your ideal clients. Thanks for sharing ❤
So much more than technique and experience, Rich really holds an alchemical space of possibility and freedom that's palpable in these interactions. That comes from a person who has done and does their own work continually. I think that's the most priceless message of all in this video. :)
Wow, I am so impressed with Rich's ability to connect with the clients at such short span of time, to feel so deeply about how they felt, and the insights he is able to dish out to them. It is crazy. I am also very amazed how you use another client, Nathan, to address and bring awareness to Jess. It is unbelievable. I don't think what Rich did is "model-lable" because I have never seen anyone doing it in such manner. Just curious though, is it usual for a coach to be so directive and also "talk" so much? I had impression that the coach is to listen and nudge clients towards a particular direction (solutions)...
It really depends on the coach and on the coachee, Mounyee! Sometimes, as a coach, you will have to give more or give less if it's what your client needs to move forward. Thanks for sharing your insights ❤
I understand the pilot completely. I’m in the aviation industry myself. For Pilots and Flight Attendants...they make it seem like if you leave it’s death...so much went into where he’s at in his life. I UNDERSTAND.
And that's ok! We're not meant to resonate with everyone's art and style, but it's important to learn different perspectives till you find what works for you ;)
Just beautiful to witness & be right there in the room taking it in. I got what I needed. Thank you Rich, and thanks to your clients there. Transformation came from each of you. 🦋
wow - simply wow. So many thoughts and keywords and Aha moments in this video. I extremely liked that part with a coin. That was like my mind just blew away. The way Rich is slowing down and explaining, building such strong trust and bonds so quickly, asking questions deep enough to facilitate the growth. Literally, one of the best videos I have seen on RUclips in quite a long time.
this is amazing content. I am a GP and I feel such a love to do coaching, basing it on my GP experience but this is pure gold which actually does help me with my GP consultations as well, thank you.
Thank you sincerely Rich! That was poetry in motion! I am very grateful for your presence and example, this was unlike anything I’ve witnessed in a demo! Many, many blessings to you and yours, much love
I picked up on his being as much as I did the lessons, the being part is what I admire most! He redefined how I viewed coaching as a whole! To be in silence and not have the answers they expect you to provide but instead ask the powerful questions that shift their thinking! This has changed me in so many ways not just with strategies but the way I view and carry myself! I am truly grateful and will share this forever more!!
According to the video, the submodalities used during the demonstration were visual, auditory, and kinesthetic. Visual submodalities were used throughout the video. For instance, the coach asks the client to close their eyes and visualize breathing in deeply [1:02]. Kinesthetic submodalities were used when the coach asks the client to feel their breath in their belly and chest [1:02]. Auditory submodalities were used when the coach asks the client to sigh [1:04].
We're so happy this video was valuable and we hope our channel can support you in your new coaching journey ❤! There's so much we can learn from watching master coaches live in action, if you'd like to see more coaching demonstrations, here's our playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLLz6vjpxFbXjbUJ9ZgZXpmjgWmqXzWNEJ. Thanks for sharing!
Very interesting!!! I would like to know what were the questions that you sent to this person before meeting back in L.A??? Minute 27. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and for helping people!!!
That coin trick reminded me of that one Friends episode where Phoebe did something similar to elicit the actual desire from Rachel about her having a baby.
The use of silence and pace is great, undoubtedly he has a powerful style. However I was less comfortable with his own agenda led style. The participant who spoke of not feeling like his business was doing good enough and Rich knocked him down, while it might have been a compliment he was using his barometer to measure not the "client's". There were lots of other examples of him pushing his POV, but as another contributor says maybe thats his style. No sure its a great example of coaching though.
Thanks for sharing, Lena! Undoubtedly, each coach has their own style. We can pick and choose what works for us and keep honing our skills with those elements :)
So much to take in here. I've bookmarked the video and will watch it again in bite-sized chunks to make sure I get full value. I've got the book - it's also fabulous.
I appreciate the video being posted. I am a mental health and career counselor. I have been considering getting some coaching training as well but I have continued to have mixed reactions. If I am being honest, there is a part of me that has seen coaching as a joke. This video, and others like it, are really challenging that assumption, but part of be remains skeptical. I wonder if coaching should not be a viable career or that coaches depend on charisma to direct a client to conclusions. The other side of me thinks that maybe counseling is not as powerful as I think it is. That counseling is so bound by tradition and the assumption of superiority that I have allowed myself to remain blind in thinking that it is the only way. Perhaps the intersection of counseling and coaching might be a beautiful path to helping people on a deep level. I had similar reactions to Rich. At times I was really captivated by his approach. He seems to really be present with his clients, but he also then seems to guide them. I am not sure what I think of the guidance. I sometimes think that perhaps the audience members are so bought into the approach that he has that they will believe just about anything he says because he says it in a charismatic and emotional manner. The other side of me thinks he may just be the real deal; a genuinely connected individual that helps draw the client to their inner wisdom. Anyways, there may be better spaces to post these reflections, but I thought I would be honest about this video as well as how it connects to a larger process I have been going through; to get trained as a coach (to connect with my counseling experience) or to not be trained in coaching, that is the question:)
Hi Kirk! Thank you for sharing this very insightful and thought-provoking message. We believe coaching and counseling are both equally powerful, they can both create a great impact on clients, just with different methodologies and approaches. And it's all about finding a methodology that works for you (or taking what you like most from other coaches and creating your own). Coaching can be such a great complement to other careers such as counseling, we'd encourage you to take some time to explore free coaching content to help you decide if it's the right path for you. You can watch this video about what is coaching: ruclips.net/video/oYUyCvWdjq0/видео.html, and find many more tools, methodologies, and demonstrations on our channel. ❤
@@mindvalleycoach Thanks so much for being open to my reactions. I appreciate the support and link to learn more about coaching. I plan on continuing to learn from the videos on your channel. Thanks for posting them!
We're so happy you enjoyed this, Lavinia! We totally recommend this powerful interview with Rich Litvin to watch next: ruclips.net/video/kb7lA5gyJ2M/видео.html ❤
So glad you enjoyed it, Esriette! You can also find more coaching demonstrations here: ruclips.net/p/PLLz6vjpxFbXjbUJ9ZgZXpmjgWmqXzWNEJ Thanks for sharing ❤
Thanks - really an eye opener..... powerful- -and love the sentence someting like "you as a coache find your way" The book is ordered .....Thanks for you
It's a video on deep coaching demonstrations for educational purposes. Key word being demonstrations, not a full blown 2 hour private one on one coaching session where he's not trying to educate a whole room of people on the fundamentals of deep coaching AND coach at the same time all in under 90 minutes. There's only so much turkey you can cook in an hour and a half, if you want your turkey well done than that's going to cost you 4 hours! Give this man a break!
I really like the ideas that Rich shares in this video, many concepts have done a lot of good for my soul, but I struggle to internalize and practice so many ideas, because I'm not a native English speaker (I'm Italian). I understand English very well, but unfortunately I think in Italian and therefore to properly understand everything Rich says, I would have to write down and transcribe his speech, which is a very long job, I have done this job in the past as a student, but now that I'm a mom I have no time (or patience). Furthermore, there are no English subtitles for this video, thus the job of writing the transcript is even more difficult. Have any of you followers already done the work of transcribing this video? Or do you know if it can be done with an artificial intelligence application? Or do you know of the books that Rich has written, in which he talks about his principles, the ideas that he talks about here? Thanks in advance, with love
We're happy you resonated with this video and Rich's teachings! Unfortunately, we don't have the transcription for this video but you can activate the automatic subtitles offered by the RUclips platform. Regarding his book, we recommend "The Prosperous Coach" co-written by Rich Litvin and Steve Chandler, a must-read for all coaches! We hope this helps. Thanks for sharing :)
Hi there! If you resonate with Rich Litvin's coaching methodology, you might want to check out this course: www.evercoach.com/being-an-exponential-coach/ :)
Great question, Nicola! That scenario can definitely happen and it'll be a great testimonial for you as a coach. But serving so powerfully can also invite your clients to see the possibilities of working with you for longer. Seize the opportunity to invite your client to dream even bigger or reflect with them on what they need to do next, and how you could support their journey. Coach them through that. Let us know if this provides any insight to your question ❤
@@mindvalleycoach Thank you so much for your answer, its exactly where I want to take my coaching, deeper and to the next level. I think my main reason for asking this question, is because I often wonder if I have chosen the wrong clients to work with. Through my own life experiences I have travelled the road of working with people who have suffered from trauma and as a consequence , mental health problems. I excel in this field and it does expand into working with people who branch out from minor depression into wanting to achieve their dreams and goals. But seemingly a lot in this client group cannot afford therapy of coaching, due to be unstable. Any ideas? I am considering changing my client group at present, because I want to work with people who can afford me, to create my own dreams and be able to invest in myself consistently.
@@nicolafarnhill2184 Thanks for sharing that, Nicola. It's definitely a tough place to be as you're obviously helping people who need your services, but they are also holding you back from your highest potential and dream business. The question to ask would be, are you serving your ideal audience or an audience who needs what you have to offer? It would be interesting to evaluate what your ideal audience is (including their investment capacity). How you can use your current talent, skills, and knowledge, to serve an audience who will allow you to charge what you feel is right and grow your business as you desire? We definitely suggest reflecting on it, redefining your *new* ideal client avatar, and then assessing if it feels good to change your audience. Maybe you want to serve both. There's a concept called the Hedgehog Concept by Jim Collins (www.mindtools.com/pages/article/hedgehog-concept.htm) which can help you in this process. Let us know if this was useful and how it goes! ❤️
Congratulations on your RUclips channel! And we're glad you enjoyed this video. We actually do have a podcast interview with Lisa Nichols, you can watch it here: ruclips.net/video/vatdJwzFggA/видео.html And we also recommend this video to help you grow your RUclips channel: ruclips.net/video/qw7wCLkyvoY/видео.html Hope these bring value to you! Enjoy :)
Coaching actually starts at 35.17. Rich brought his experiences into coaching sessions. His relations with father,mother, man's group etc, not . If I paid for this I would be disappointed. I really expected something special after his into. I found his style patronising. I felt like he talks too much about himself and some of the insights were forced. Sometimes it felt like he was lecturing his clients. It was useful to watch though for learning purposes.
I was kind of torn about whether this was coaching, or a bit of a taste of his discovery session. I think it may have been a bit of both. It did at times come across a bit more like consulting and therapy at times and some coaching. I’m still just discovering Richard and so far I’m quite happy with what I’m seeing and reading but continuing to see which parts would be something I would be able to employ authentically what works for me.
Knowing when to share your personal experience and when not to is a high level coaching skill. It build rapport and cements trust with someone you just meet and allows them to drop deeper into the experience with you. He did it masterfully at different junctures....when if he didnt.... it could of went into a different direction. Hats off to him.
On the spectrum of coaching / mentoring / etc, this isn’t authentic coaching. He’s leading and projecting his own experiences, which doesn’t allow the client to join their own dots for sustainable transformation. He may get results but they will be short term. Clients will become dependent on him because he is doing too much of the work.
I really loved this 👌🏼. Love his way of coaching. Listening and picking up the «invisible» details. Laughed when he tossed the coin 😂. So true. We usually know deep inside what we really want.
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I keep watching this and it excites me even more with how Rich teaches. I am in the beginning stages of growing my coaching business and anytime I feel stuck, I get so much insight and techniques that's so valuable. Best wishes to all coaches out thier!!
This is fantastic, Angel! So glad we can provide value for your journey. Thanks for sharing, keep up the good work :)
Hey Angel, from one coach to another, how is your practice going after two years?
I stopped this video 20 min in and went and bought your book. I listened to the whole thing in a day. The insights and principles were very simple yet so profound. Im saying the 18 principles to myself out loud once a day to really get it into my heart and soul. Thank you Rich
This is so amazing, Christopher! We're so glad you enjoyed the video and book. Thanks for sharing ❤
Wow. Which of Rich's book did you buy?
@@godfreytafida2370 prosperous coach, the 18 principles are practical and can be easily put into practice
@@cfrka114 I agree. The Prosperous Coach is excellent. Listened to it and then bought it print.
Like a few of the commenter here, Rich's coaching style seemed to be a bit abrasive to me and definitely not the traditional style of coaching we're taught in coaching schools. However, after delving into his book and many of his videos and especially the coaching demo ones such as this one, I see how that as a high performance/leadership coach his style of coaching is appropriate and direct. He calls people out, asks them uncomfortable questions, takes them in directions they didn't expect to go, but he has never done it in a way that was rude or disrespectful. He explains it in another video as "high flame coaching" and "coaching to serve not to be their friend". In fact he constantly reassures them that it's human to feel the way they do, that he feels the same way they do a lot of the times, he constantly asks for their agreement/permission to go down a path, and so on. So basically what initially seemed abrasive, is actually becoming clearer that it's just the confidence and experience that he has that's triggering my own fear and self doubt of how to coach clients. I'm learning so much from Rich's and other Evercoach coaches on how to listen for insights, create space for them to take place, and to go deeper than most coaches would be brave enough to take their clients. Thank you for all the amazing insights and perspective shifts Rich 🙏🏼😊
Amazing reflection, Firas! It's all about gaining experience and adapting your coaching style to your clients and what they need (not necessarily what they want), without crossing the line of rudeness or being disrespectful. We're so happy you found this video valuable for your coaching journey. Thanks for sharing :)
Hello, I just watched rich's video and seen your comment! I think it was incredibly brave to recognize how that triggered you! May I ask if it still does?
@@timeaftertony5247 Thank you Amanda. Recognizing that was it was my own self-doubt and fears that were triggering me has made it easier not to be overwhelmed by them. I'm happy to say that I'm leaning more into what makes me uncomfortable both in my coaching and personal life thanks to Rich and the many great coaches I've had the great fortune to work with and learn from.
There is just so much peace in the space he creates, it took me about 15 minutes to come back to my senses. Buying the book pronto.
So glad you enjoyed it, Carlos! We hope you love the book as much as we do ❤
Tears of joy , this is my passion! Thankyou Rich for bringing up every emotion I have in this video! So powerful
❤❤❤ Thank you, Bonnie!
Remember what he said about stop looking for what you agree or disagree with...just take it in & be with it? How quickly some commenters forgot.
I was just thinking this!!
Well said Bob.
Pure fire, I feel bad I didn't have to pay for this!
Ha ha :) We're just happy to provide value to support your coaching journey ❤
My feelings exactly ☺️
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Rich, if you get the note - your slowing down to 'being together' (second coaching) is a priestly way of being, a divine way of being. Can hear the needle drop, feel the pulse...amazing!
It's definitely a skill to be comfortable in that silence, isn't it?! Thanks for sharing, Gerlinde Christina ❤
Excellent way to help people understand introverts... Most people have no idea I am an introvert, but it is true.
We are all unique in our own way. Thanks for sharing, Debbie! :)
Just finished watching this in its entirety. We can argue that he’s not following all the ICF competencies etc, but at the end of the day if you didn’t learn something from this either has a coach or as a client I would be very surprised. The coin toss thing was awesome. Hats off to those who volunteered to go up on stage and be vulnerable like that.
Yup I noticed it too, lots of suggestions/indications with the coachees that usually a coach "shouldn't" do, but that does raise the question if it is more important to ultimately positively affect a coachee or to 100% avoid having any type of biased influence in their decisions. Either way, I definitely learned watching him.
I love how he started with the possible and worked backwards to identify the strengths from the present. ❤
Yes, great catch! ;)
I love the uses of the conversational skills and his listening skills. Absolutely by the book without breaking suit 👏👏👏
So glad you enjoyed this, Zach! Thanks for sharing ❤
I have a strong sense that Rich is a landmark graduate. His language and the way he talks is full of landmark distinctions and styles. awesome
Is that a good thing?
I’ve done quite a bit of Landmark and to me it doesn’t account for the billions of different personalities in the world they are trying to make one.
I noticed the same thing
11:40 Distinctionary
16:29 Conventional success
22:02 givers and takers
31:58 connect, invite, create, propose
35:15 starts 1st conversation
47:27 Starts 2nd conversation
1:12:52 audience feedback
1:18:31 Starts conversation
1:28:11 the coin decision exercise
Thanks for sharing this, Daniel! Super useful for the community ;)
@@mindvalleycoach You are welcome! my pleasure.
It is extremely rare that I like and favourite a video on RUclips. It would be criminal if I didn't do just that for this fundamentally moving empassioned display by someone who very quickly became one of the most respected people I look up to. Couldn't be happier I clicked on this video. Absolutely brilliant
We're so happy you enjoyed this so much, G C! Thanks for sharing ❤❤
Rich Litvin is a gift. Thank u for sharing your experiences and being the awesome coach u r i am learning. Just started my professional coaching career and with great coahes like him im learning abf growing. The peace in this season in confirmation to so many Word in my life.
Thank you for your kind words ❤❤
It was so amazing to see how Greg’s entire demeanor completely changed when he began talking to Rich “on the phone” 3 years into the future.
It actually moved me to tears. I really hope that Greg knows that this reality he was able to glimpse for a moment IS ALREADY REAL, and existing, and available for him!
We ❤ this! Thanks for sharing, Makala!
It moved me too! So powerful
It moved me to tears too
WOW!!!! Absolutely, Absolutely POWERFUL!!!! I’m in tears. I really needed to watch and listen to this!!!!
Isn't it?!?! Glad you enjoyed it as much as we did, Zillah! Thanks for sharing :)
At some points, i disagreed with the interruptions he was making, suggesting, limiting the options. But then he said, its his way of coaching. Totally fine with it now. Powerful questions were amazing at few moment. The Coin activity was wonderful too. It was really interesting to note that how the client is responding to both choices. Its all about insight. I like his theme. Thanks for wonderful insights.
Glad you found this valuable, Sohaib! Every coach has their own style, there's always something to learn but there will be things we don't want to replicate and that's okay too :) Thanks for sharing!
I am impreessed- I learned a lot of how to ask the right questions an how to give the client a space ... wonderful experience
Glad you enjoyed it, Kristin! ❤❤
Phenomenal use of pauses in his speaking. Fantastic speaker. His book, The Prosperous Coach with Steve Chandler is phenomenal.
We love their book too! :)
I'm in the process of completing a life coaching qualification and he is doing everything that we are taught not to do! He is putting his map of the world onto the client. He refers to his own examples constantly and doesn't use the cleanest language. I am shocked he has so many followers. Surely people can see he's being a showman?
A course or certification shows you one way ("their" way) of doing things. There are many other coaching styles, models, and methodologies out there. We believe it's important for coaches to learn from different sources and take what resonates and leave what doesn't. It's the best way to create your own unique methodology that works for you and your ideal clients. Thanks for sharing ❤
So much more than technique and experience, Rich really holds an alchemical space of possibility and freedom that's palpable in these interactions. That comes from a person who has done and does their own work continually. I think that's the most priceless message of all in this video. :)
Thanks for sharing! We're so glad you enjoyed it ❤
Wow, I am so impressed with Rich's ability to connect with the clients at such short span of time, to feel so deeply about how they felt, and the insights he is able to dish out to them. It is crazy. I am also very amazed how you use another client, Nathan, to address and bring awareness to Jess. It is unbelievable. I don't think what Rich did is "model-lable" because I have never seen anyone doing it in such manner. Just curious though, is it usual for a coach to be so directive and also "talk" so much? I had impression that the coach is to listen and nudge clients towards a particular direction (solutions)...
It really depends on the coach and on the coachee, Mounyee! Sometimes, as a coach, you will have to give more or give less if it's what your client needs to move forward. Thanks for sharing your insights ❤
I understand the pilot completely. I’m in the aviation industry myself. For Pilots and Flight Attendants...they make it seem like if you leave it’s death...so much went into where he’s at in his life. I UNDERSTAND.
There's something about this fellow that just doesn't click.
And that's ok! We're not meant to resonate with everyone's art and style, but it's important to learn different perspectives till you find what works for you ;)
Just beautiful to witness & be right there in the room taking it in. I got what I needed. Thank you Rich, and thanks to your clients there. Transformation came from each of you. 🦋
So glad you found it powerful, Robyn! Thanks for sharing ❤
This is a very powerful coaching. Just wow!
Glad you enjoyed it, Mae! Thanks for sharing ❤
Wow Rich! This is amazing! Your service is a gift to the planet.
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This coaching demonstrating is fantastic to witness.. I want a coach now
It's always recommended for coaches to have their own coaches! It's a great way to learn and work on oneself ❤❤❤
I see this video with tears in my eyes at the end! Thanks, so great!
Glad you enjoyed it, Moi ❤
wow - simply wow. So many thoughts and keywords and Aha moments in this video. I extremely liked that part with a coin. That was like my mind just blew away. The way Rich is slowing down and explaining, building such strong trust and bonds so quickly, asking questions deep enough to facilitate the growth. Literally, one of the best videos I have seen on RUclips in quite a long time.
Wow! Thank you so much for sharing that, Petr! We're so happy you enjoyed this video ❤
Omg 44:29. This is it. I felt this man's soul and i think that is the whole point. Crying.
We hear you ❤❤❤
this is amazing content. I am a GP and I feel such a love to do coaching, basing it on my GP experience but this is pure gold which actually does help me with my GP consultations as well, thank you.
Glad this was valuable! Thanks for sharing 💜
As a new minted life coach, this completely resonated with me… as far as coaching approach!! I will definitely get his book.
That's fantastic! You're gonna love the book ;)
This was absolutely amazing! Rich is definitely a master of this coaching craft! I’m literally tingling after watching this!!
We ❤ him too! We're so happy you enjoyed this ideo. Thanks for sharing!
thank you Ajit for giving me this gift, thank you Rich for your lessons. It really helpful for a newbie in coaching like me.
Glad you resonated with this! Thanks for sharing :)
Thank you sincerely Rich! That was poetry in motion! I am very grateful for your presence and example, this was unlike anything I’ve witnessed in a demo! Many, many blessings to you and yours, much love
We're so happy you enjoyed it, Amanda! What was your favorite insight? Thanks for sharing ❤️
I picked up on his being as much as I did the lessons, the being part is what I admire most! He redefined how I viewed coaching as a whole! To be in silence and not have the answers they expect you to provide but instead ask the powerful questions that shift their thinking! This has changed me in so many ways not just with strategies but the way I view and carry myself! I am truly grateful and will share this forever more!!
@@timeaftertony5247 What a beautiful reflection and full of insights! Thanks for sharing, Amanda ❤️
According to the video, the submodalities used during the demonstration were visual, auditory, and kinesthetic.
Visual submodalities were used throughout the video. For instance, the coach asks the client to close their eyes and visualize breathing in deeply [1:02]. Kinesthetic submodalities were used when the coach asks the client to feel their breath in their belly and chest [1:02]. Auditory submodalities were used when the coach asks the client to sigh [1:04].
Great insights! Thanks for sharing 💜
You are most welcome
Love the reference to Patrick Lencioni. He’s awesome. Love his material.
Thank you for sharing! :)
You are an amazing person. I'm simply floored.
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Rich has great insight and demonstrated great coaching techniques.
Glad you enjoyed it, Neil! Thanks for sharing :)
This is so powerful. I felt the vibes in the room in this record which was done 5 years ago. Speechless..
We're so happy you enjoyed this, Vaida! Thanks for sharing ❤
wow this has been really insightful, I just got into coaching and I'm grateful for this
We're so happy this video was valuable and we hope our channel can support you in your new coaching journey ❤! There's so much we can learn from watching master coaches live in action, if you'd like to see more coaching demonstrations, here's our playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLLz6vjpxFbXjbUJ9ZgZXpmjgWmqXzWNEJ. Thanks for sharing!
that was so powerful.. wow.. extremely inspiring.. Thank you so much for posting this.
We're so glad you found it valuable, Edson! Thank you for sharing ❤
Love this. Made me smile big for the participants!
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I loved this so much, I shared it with my co workers.
Wow that means so much to us! Thank you, Michael ❤❤❤
Very interesting!!!
I would like to know what were the questions that you sent to this person before meeting back in L.A??? Minute 27.
Thanks for sharing your knowledge and for helping people!!!
Aside from my previous comment, thank you for bringing us such ahhhmazing value and education!
So glad you enjoyed this, Aissa! Thanks for sharing ❤
I loved this video! This is deep coaching at its root 🙂 Gotta get my hands on that book! 📙
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This was absolutely INSIGHTFUL AND AMAZING
We're so glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing ❤
This is really eye opening! Thanks so very much for sharing your heart with us.
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This was amazing, so clear but most importantly inspiring
So glad you resonated with this! Thanks for sharing 💜
This was very helpful. Thank you! 💛
We're so glad it was! :)
Rich is the real deal, no doubt!
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So powerful & inspiring!! So grateful to have found you!!!
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That coin trick reminded me of that one Friends episode where Phoebe did something similar to elicit the actual desire from Rachel about her having a baby.
So true, Rebecca! Friends is a classic ❤
Love your style and stamina and talent and clarity!
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Thank you so much for sharing this online. So helpful vor me
We're so glad you found it valuable! Thanks for sharing :)
Very insightful and helpful to learn from! Beautiful video.
We're so happy it was! Thanks for sharing ❤
Wow! What a session. Masterful demonstrations! Thanks for sharing.
So glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing ❤️
The use of silence and pace is great, undoubtedly he has a powerful style. However I was less comfortable with his own agenda led style. The participant who spoke of not feeling like his business was doing good enough and Rich knocked him down, while it might have been a compliment he was using his barometer to measure not the "client's". There were lots of other examples of him pushing his POV, but as another contributor says maybe thats his style. No sure its a great example of coaching though.
Thanks for sharing, Lena! Undoubtedly, each coach has their own style. We can pick and choose what works for us and keep honing our skills with those elements :)
.I felt like I was speaking through Carolyn. This was a great session
Wow ❤! Thanks for sharing :)
This was so inspiring! I can't wait to start coaching!!
We're so glad you enjoyed this, Lauren! Thanks for sharing and enjoy the journey!
So much to take in here. I've bookmarked the video and will watch it again in bite-sized chunks to make sure I get full value. I've got the book - it's also fabulous.
Amazing! We're so happy you found so much value in this video. Thanks for sharing ❤
I appreciate the video being posted. I am a mental health and career counselor. I have been considering getting some coaching training as well but I have continued to have mixed reactions. If I am being honest, there is a part of me that has seen coaching as a joke. This video, and others like it, are really challenging that assumption, but part of be remains skeptical. I wonder if coaching should not be a viable career or that coaches depend on charisma to direct a client to conclusions. The other side of me thinks that maybe counseling is not as powerful as I think it is. That counseling is so bound by tradition and the assumption of superiority that I have allowed myself to remain blind in thinking that it is the only way. Perhaps the intersection of counseling and coaching might be a beautiful path to helping people on a deep level. I had similar reactions to Rich. At times I was really captivated by his approach. He seems to really be present with his clients, but he also then seems to guide them. I am not sure what I think of the guidance. I sometimes think that perhaps the audience members are so bought into the approach that he has that they will believe just about anything he says because he says it in a charismatic and emotional manner. The other side of me thinks he may just be the real deal; a genuinely connected individual that helps draw the client to their inner wisdom. Anyways, there may be better spaces to post these reflections, but I thought I would be honest about this video as well as how it connects to a larger process I have been going through; to get trained as a coach (to connect with my counseling experience) or to not be trained in coaching, that is the question:)
Hi Kirk! Thank you for sharing this very insightful and thought-provoking message. We believe coaching and counseling are both equally powerful, they can both create a great impact on clients, just with different methodologies and approaches. And it's all about finding a methodology that works for you (or taking what you like most from other coaches and creating your own). Coaching can be such a great complement to other careers such as counseling, we'd encourage you to take some time to explore free coaching content to help you decide if it's the right path for you. You can watch this video about what is coaching: ruclips.net/video/oYUyCvWdjq0/видео.html, and find many more tools, methodologies, and demonstrations on our channel. ❤
@@mindvalleycoach Thanks so much for being open to my reactions. I appreciate the support and link to learn more about coaching. I plan on continuing to learn from the videos on your channel. Thanks for posting them!
@@kirkthiemann9331 We're so happy to contribute to your journey, Kirk! Enjoy the learning and reach out anytime ❤
Lots of salesmanship- I'll buy it!!!
wonderful explanation of an introvert
Thank you for sharing, Dominique! :)
Wow... Thank you for bringing my attention to this, Ajit. Profound work here. Truly inspirational.
We're so happy you enjoyed this, Lavinia! We totally recommend this powerful interview with Rich Litvin to watch next: ruclips.net/video/kb7lA5gyJ2M/видео.html ❤
I hit pause, paid for two coaching sessions. My first session is tomorrow.
Amazing!
Peripheral positioning exercise for the pilot … as a new coach soon to graduate. I would use that method.
Interesting, Carmen! Would you care to share what this method is about and how to use it, for our fellow coaches? :)
This is excellent stuff ‼️ ‼️ Wow 💯 Mind blowing insight ❤️❤️
So glad you enjoyed it, Esriette! You can also find more coaching demonstrations here: ruclips.net/p/PLLz6vjpxFbXjbUJ9ZgZXpmjgWmqXzWNEJ Thanks for sharing ❤
Thanks - really an eye opener..... powerful- -and love the sentence someting like "you as a coache find your way"
The book is ordered .....Thanks for you
So glad you enjoyed it ❤ Thanks for sharing, Pernille!
Best video ive ever watched
Thank you, Andres! We appreciate you :)
Thank you Rich, I really enjoy your content.
LOVE it. Love the content. So Deep
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Me, me, me... you are making it all about you. Coach are meant to listen no talking so much! Love Martexica comment, could not agree more.
It's a video on deep coaching demonstrations for educational purposes. Key word being demonstrations, not a full blown 2 hour private one on one coaching session where he's not trying to educate a whole room of people on the fundamentals of deep coaching AND coach at the same time all in under 90 minutes. There's only so much turkey you can cook in an hour and a half, if you want your turkey well done than that's going to cost you 4 hours!
Give this man a break!
Did you create the word coach or are your environmental or traditional conditioning what you are defining all coaches
What we see on the outside is never what is truthfully what is truly going on with them on the inside
So true!
Amazing work! Thank you for making this available of all :)
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I got what I needed.
Fantastic! :)
Quite an intuitive video. thank you
Glad it was useful! Thanks for sharing :)
I really like the ideas that Rich shares in this video, many concepts have done a lot of good for my soul, but I struggle to internalize and practice so many ideas, because I'm not a native English speaker (I'm Italian). I understand English very well, but unfortunately I think in Italian and therefore to properly understand everything Rich says, I would have to write down and transcribe his speech, which is a very long job, I have done this job in the past as a student, but now that I'm a mom I have no time (or patience). Furthermore, there are no English subtitles for this video, thus the job of writing the transcript is even more difficult. Have any of you followers already done the work of transcribing this video? Or do you know if it can be done with an artificial intelligence application? Or do you know of the books that Rich has written, in which he talks about his principles, the ideas that he talks about here? Thanks in advance, with love
We're happy you resonated with this video and Rich's teachings! Unfortunately, we don't have the transcription for this video but you can activate the automatic subtitles offered by the RUclips platform. Regarding his book, we recommend "The Prosperous Coach" co-written by Rich Litvin and Steve Chandler, a must-read for all coaches! We hope this helps. Thanks for sharing :)
❤ Wonderful to experience the complete video too ❤️
Glad you enjoyed it, Fred!
Wow 👌 he's on point great quality
Thanks for sharing!
That was bloody amazing.
So glad you enjoyed it! What was your favorite insight? ❤️
Infinite grateful blessings for this transformational experience 🔥🌠🤩😍🥰🌈🦄♾💗🙏💫🌟
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I like your philosophy the most. What do I have to do? Usually I don't ask but I Wanna put my whole Energie to go with you
Hi there! If you resonate with Rich Litvin's coaching methodology, you might want to check out this course: www.evercoach.com/being-an-exponential-coach/ :)
Amazing experience just watching this video.
Thanks so much for sharing ❤
I love this video Rich, Thank you for your insight. Can I ask, what if you serve so highly that the client doesn't need to hire you?
Great question, Nicola! That scenario can definitely happen and it'll be a great testimonial for you as a coach. But serving so powerfully can also invite your clients to see the possibilities of working with you for longer. Seize the opportunity to invite your client to dream even bigger or reflect with them on what they need to do next, and how you could support their journey. Coach them through that. Let us know if this provides any insight to your question ❤
@@mindvalleycoach Thank you so much for your answer, its exactly where I want to take my coaching, deeper and to the next level. I think my main reason for asking this question, is because I often wonder if I have chosen the wrong clients to work with. Through my own life experiences I have travelled the road of working with people who have suffered from trauma and as a consequence , mental health problems. I excel in this field and it does expand into working with people who branch out from minor depression into wanting to achieve their dreams and goals. But seemingly a lot in this client group cannot afford therapy of coaching, due to be unstable. Any ideas? I am considering changing my client group at present, because I want to work with people who can afford me, to create my own dreams and be able to invest in myself consistently.
@@nicolafarnhill2184 Thanks for sharing that, Nicola. It's definitely a tough place to be as you're obviously helping people who need your services, but they are also holding you back from your highest potential and dream business. The question to ask would be, are you serving your ideal audience or an audience who needs what you have to offer? It would be interesting to evaluate what your ideal audience is (including their investment capacity). How you can use your current talent, skills, and knowledge, to serve an audience who will allow you to charge what you feel is right and grow your business as you desire? We definitely suggest reflecting on it, redefining your *new* ideal client avatar, and then assessing if it feels good to change your audience. Maybe you want to serve both. There's a concept called the Hedgehog Concept by Jim Collins (www.mindtools.com/pages/article/hedgehog-concept.htm) which can help you in this process. Let us know if this was useful and how it goes! ❤️
Oeee I learned something 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️ “Who does?”
So glad you found it valuable ❤︎
This is just amazing!!
Glad you resonated with this, Sunita!
Today I've started my youtube channel. Thank u so much for this video. Hope to see you soon interviewing Lisa Nichols.
Congratulations on your RUclips channel! And we're glad you enjoyed this video. We actually do have a podcast interview with Lisa Nichols, you can watch it here: ruclips.net/video/vatdJwzFggA/видео.html
And we also recommend this video to help you grow your RUclips channel: ruclips.net/video/qw7wCLkyvoY/видео.html
Hope these bring value to you! Enjoy :)
Sorry, I've forgotten to add " again " in the sentence.
@@SanjayBishnoi Oh, yes!! We hope so too, she's the best :)
“You have to polarise people” people in the comments ‘loved it’ ... ‘hated it’....
Haha true that :)
Coaching actually starts at 35.17.
Rich brought his experiences into coaching sessions. His relations with father,mother, man's group etc, not . If I paid for this I would be disappointed. I really expected something special after his into. I found his style patronising. I felt like he talks too much about himself and some of the insights were forced. Sometimes it felt like he was lecturing his clients. It was useful to watch though for learning purposes.
Thanks for sharing, Goska. Every coach has their own style and their own methods to create results :) We're glad you found some value out of it!
I was kind of torn about whether this was coaching, or a bit of a taste of his discovery session. I think it may have been a bit of both. It did at times come across a bit more like consulting and therapy at times and some coaching. I’m still just discovering Richard and so far I’m quite happy with what I’m seeing and reading but continuing to see which parts would be something I would be able to employ authentically what works for me.
Knowing when to share your personal experience and when not to is a high level coaching skill. It build rapport and cements trust with someone you just meet and allows them to drop deeper into the experience with you. He did it masterfully at different junctures....when if he didnt.... it could of went into a different direction. Hats off to him.
On the spectrum of coaching / mentoring / etc, this isn’t authentic coaching. He’s leading and projecting his own experiences, which doesn’t allow the client to join their own dots for sustainable transformation.
He may get results but they will be short term. Clients will become dependent on him because he is doing too much of the work.
This was sooooo good!
Thanks for sharing, Tia! ❤
I really loved this 👌🏼. Love his way of coaching. Listening and picking up the «invisible» details. Laughed when he tossed the coin 😂. So true. We usually know deep inside what we really want.
Great highlights, Cecilie! Thanks for sharing ❤
This is fantastic
So glad you enjoyed it, Lugwa! Thanks for sharing ❤
hey rich tnx a lot.
what is a symbol of depth in the nature or where ever
This is too good!🤩👏
Glad you enjoyed it, Ellenit! Thanks for sharing :)
Waw, you're doing very great, I admire your skills brother. Keep it up and I will keep learning from you. 1:07
Glad you enjoyed this! 💜