That’s how my grandpa got to go to a good highschool back in the day, the neighbors all thought he had the best chance of the neighborhood kids to do well so they pooled money.
Being wealthy and unsympathetic has nothing to do with funding someone else's education, and without a written agreement, a second-hand conversation means nothing.
Someone tell her daughter that she doesn’t need to go to out of state Ivy League universities…she could literally get the same degree at any community college….im a Nurse Practitioner and I went to community college and it costed me less than $15k…the other NP I work with attended Ivy League universities for the same degree as mine and they are around $100k in student debt
for story #2 if you just put even selling his land out of the picture, shes basically demanding somebody else pay for her kids college funds, which is unreasonable
What happened to the family friend? I wanna know if he got scolded by OP and I feel bad for Lily because her mother was playing stupid games and won a stupid prize and her daughter has to suffer as well because of her mother
I want to know how it makes any sense to people that someone wealthy should give you their money? Generational or worked for, it's still theirs. I am dirt poor and yet I am not gonna walk up to Elon Musk and ask him to pay my bills just because he can afford it. WTF
The thing is though is that most rich people make their money off of other people's labor, either by charging them for stuff that they themselves Don't use, or by paying them as little as possible and collecting most of the profits.
@@bored_person Which I know and totally get, and I am all for taxing the wealthy and making them pay greater in accordance to their wealth not a bog standard price for all, and also I love charity and feel like instead of a second yacht that they can work to help people live better lives through donations, but if I was rich and some random person told me that I have to sell my property or my business or even my bracelet and give them the money because they need it that's bogus. You don't even ask for help, you just demand it? That's not how that works.
@@musingsnplaylists absolutely agreed. An individual demanding that another individual sell their property and give them money to her does not help with systemic changes. All it does is reinforce people's capitalist viewpoints.
Exactly. I'm not rich and i have allot of money but i give a bit of money to people who need it. Purple just like excuses and reasons to hate people@@qq84
Landlords are considered money-hoarding villains so often because they have the unmitigated gall to charge people for a place to live. There's a particular image associated with the stereotype of the "covetous Jew" and I've seen more than a few people use it in the context of shitting on landlords (not one specific one, mind, but anyone who owns habitable property and requires payment for other people to use it).
A lot of people just hate landlords in general because the own property and charge other people to use it. Good or bad, fair or unfair, some people see them all as evil, and it's way more common than you might think.
Well, it's understandable that members of the community side against the landlord given that wealthy people get demands out of the blue from activists groups to donate money or be labeled. Some self-entitled people/groups look for individual "decision makers" in an organization, and instead of submitting requests to the organization, they go directly to pressure that individual decision maker ("just say yes because it's not even your money so it's no loss to you") to shortcut the process and remove oversight and fairness.
@lucgermain9310 you are the perfect example of the people siding with her, with her having no claim or right to the landlord's property, you just fabricated a baseless scenario of her making good choices but being the victim of a "deadbeat" spouse who left. Your immediate response to hearing "single mother" is to fabricate a luxurious past that grants her victim status and entitlement.
Yes, some blame can be put on her for the "deadbeat" spouse leaving, because she got pregnant (either through improper planning or stupidity) with a guy that she knew nothing about. It leads to the belief that she acts solely on impulse and not choosing a good partner. The only time the moniker "single mother" is not in a bad light is if the husband died as a result of an accident or as part of the military and in which case i would use "widow" instead of "single mother" to make it sound better.
@lucgermain9310 if you chose to be a single mother for 15+ years thats your own fault. either she decided to allow her life and her daughter's life to continue to be nothing more than a struggle by refusing to find a partner (something thats basically required for giving your child a decent life) OR each partner she found cut ties after realizing that the mother is a manipulative and entitled person.
Reasons to never be directly involved with tenants. If i run my own properties, I will never expose that I'm the landlord to tenants. The smart 9nes might figure it out, but those same ones will likely have a brain and rational thoughts than will mean they aren't stupid or crazy. There are properties I plan to manage. Likely buying more as time goes on. I could and plan to do so. I will take advantage of every advantage I've earned. This can all be done from a distance and if need be I can move closer and myself and my brother can enter the service industry that applies to basically cost us as little as possible in the long run for the short term till we build to a point. A tenant like this would not be getting a renewal. They would be gone and out of my hair in less than a year. And I would never lose money to rent no matter what. I do not care. Your issues are your own. If you have to pay rent is two installments and split it between the beginning and mid month then so be it, but rent will be paid. If you stop paying I will start eviction. The tenants issues are not the landlords issues. I've never expected a break as a renter and never paid late. If you have an issue then it on you. If you can't pay then find other accommodations and with your last months rent you put down and your deposit I can likely work with you on something. But this instance is insane and the fact that there was a community of people on her side is insane. Even at my lowest point I never would've expected the landlord to cover anything for me. Always cover utilities and so on besides maybe water and sewer which was basically a connection fee and $10/mo. And even some of those were simply lumped into rent. The audacity of some people is surprising.
@@Deathbomb9 is it even legal to hide who the landdlord is? i mean you are making a contract between tenant and landlord so if anything goes wrong you have to know who it is for legal reasons
@@REYCER0 the LLC would be the contracting body with the tenant. Liability is still there. I don't have to disclose that I own the property myself. If I have an LLC that manages properties. You aren't hiding, it's just a different name on the lease and that isn't illegal. If youve ever rented from a management company you payed the management company right? Because that's who was on the lease. Yet someone else owned that property.
It is not, which makes it 100% fake - immagine an attorney argumenting with sympathy in a case where a tenant demands the landlord to sell his property lmao. No legal facts were stated here, so I'm pretty sure it never happened. The attorney of the entitled mother would even have told her to not go to court over this and all - no attorney would push you to court in such a case.
@@AECH_CH The OP was the one taking action against the tenant on defamation and slander. The tenant or her attorney are not the ones pushing the case, they are defendants on the defamation claim from the OP.
@@shivenbhupendra1100 Yes, but even if they were to go to court - the attorney of the entitled mother wouldn't have pleaded in this way - he'd have done damage control - playing robbin hood is nice for movies, but doesn't work IRL - OPs wealth is completely irrelevant to her claim/actions and thus they are basically not defendable. The attorney likely would've told her to remove the posts proactively and try to make up for what she did so that there would've been at least some mildening circumstances for her.
Even if he sold the property, per her request, it would have been his money and not hers. He wouldn't have to give her anything, and she would have been out of a place to live, too.
Then she'd moan and wail that she had no place to go because the new owner would never let her pay that amount of rent she paid OP, and she'd sell the same "uncaring landlord" narrative, just in different packaging. Wonder if that was the backup plan.
It is a classic moment when karen thinks she has the upper hand and then gets slammed into the ground by two things called "reality" and "consequences."
It doesnt even matter if the dude DOES have the money to help, its HIS money and they arent even alittle bit related. WTF. This lady is a crazy person!
I will understand people like this. Make it simple. "Yes I have money. No it is not yours. I own property. No it is not yours. I owe you nothing. It doesn't matter if I'm selfish. What I own, you are not entitled to. It does not matter if you have less. I do not need to paint myself as the perfect landlord." The end.
It’s easy to tell that OP was trying his best to be calm and think things through as level headed as possible, even when a community was against him. But the second his kids got bullied at school, anyone here knew that Emily was done for. I do feel bad for Lily, but very hopeful that she’ll get to wherever her ambitions take her. She doesn’t need an expensive prestigious school to become someone of value. Her being a good person and plans to go about her life makes her a worthwhile person.
she very well could have, as we do not really know what happened between her and her mother before the court proceedings. She clearly understands her mother was in the wrong, but it can be difficult gathering the courage to speak out against a parental figure, particularly if they are doing this for your own interests.@@GenGamesUniverse
@@mwtds7257 Sure justice wasnt served in the way of jailtime, HOWEVER she was taught a valuable lesson and suffered financially for her hubris, thinking somehow she could get away with this fiasco.
It’s simple, does Emily own the property? No. Is Emily’s daughter OP’s daughter? No. Then it’s not OP’s problem, OP is Emily’s landlord why would he sell the property and give Emily the money when there’s no guarantee Emily or her daughter will even pay back the money?
you know the world is really fucked when people can just demand that someone sells their own property to pay for something they have nothing to do with.
Did they cut off the family friend for falsely testifying?! This story is another case of someone trying to be forced to pay for a child that isn’t yours! OP should have evicted her immediately after she made post but also should have recorded the conversation as well.
@@JellyMyst It's not. Here in the UK, it could take up to around a year before the tenants move out, they could literally squat in the house and the landlord could do nothing.
What a weird hill the mother picked to die on, like her thought process was "I'm gonna harass and try to squeeze money from my LANDLORD??" When has that EVER worked? Astounding
As soon as the story got out to community, she could've just put up gofundme or whatever, apologize and possibly mend relationship with landlord but no, doubled down.
Wow the entitlement of this woman. I don't know how he didn't bust out laughing from this request so crazy. I love how people are so generous with other people's money. All those people saying that Opie has the money and should sell his house that he rented to her at a discount all these years are just as delusional and crazy.
@@juliearmfield2634 I can't even fathom how the mother in question can come to the conclusion that asking one's landlord to pay for someone else's college bill, as at all a good idea and not outright preposterous.
@@snarkymoosesshack8793 I know I cannot wrap my head around her entitlements and manipulation. I feel really bad for the daughter because it sounded like the daughter was completely humiliated by her mother's actions
I'm just astonished as to the audacity in her thinking that even with the sale of the property she would be the recipient of the proceed of that sale! I mean, you don't own the property, that's not his kid (unless I missed something) and what was your thought process that led to that conclusion? I mean what were the steps that convinced you that you were entitled to anything this person owes you anything outside of the terms of your LEASING AGREEMENT? 😂😂😂😂😂😂 that's so baffling to me, truly.
Emily is the perfect example of single mom entitlement. Just because you are a single mom, that does not give you the right to any special treatment or privilege.
Who are these people that took the moms side? If she had told me that story I would have ask why does your landlord need to pay for you daughters college. Even if he is the richest guy in the world. He has no obligation to give you money. I went to college and paid for it myself I worked and went to school it was hard but my mom couldn’t help me. Or you get student loans. Glad the daughter had a good head on her shoulders. I am sure she will be fine. It won’t be easy but people work and go to school all the time.
Simps having the white knight syndrome. While the entitlement is completely on the bat-shit crazy mom a lot of it is also enabled by white knights who will come M"lady rescue just to get a shot at that 2/10 female cat.
The only reasonable answer is "Your lack of family planning isn't my problem". Like she didn't even ask to get a loan or something, no - she wanted a handout absolutely unacceptable. She didn't pay rent? Kick her out ASAP - you don't need to be a nice guy, you're rich my dude. Why do you care about what other - most likely financially uneducated pesants - think about you? I'm not for feudalism and all, but if someone disrespected my like that, they'd whish they never knew me - especially not after your initial generousity.¨ Story is probably still fake though: No attorney would argue with sympathy or such stupid shit. There are laws. You "exploiting her" has a legal definition - in some countries there's a ROI limit on properties and stuff. So unless that was met - easy provable - the attorney wouldn't talk anything.
They didn't argue about it. They tried to paint her as such and their case was that the charged of rent was too high and her being exploited about her because she's single mother. I suggest repeating the video to get a better clarity in the situation.
Unbelievable. So her doing "anything" for her daughter means trying to steal a man's property? The moment she stopped paying her rent you should have evicted her. The woman must have lost her mind.
This story is bs and let me tell u why First of all any competent attorney would not let that family friend on that stand since as he said “we were shocked” so the witness wasn’t disclosed to the opposing counsel Second of all even if u had a verbal agreement which is paid for over a year (4yrs for college)it’s not really a legally binding since for this types of contracts u need to put it in writing and again any competent attorney would throw this in their face Edit: and oh for a contract to be valid you need to get something in return (i give u her college tuition for x) Edit2:ok got one more thing For a person at 34yrs old to have alot of properties they’d have to leverage debt and if you do that u can’t rent it out for a cut since u have to pay mortgage from the rent money
On your last point, you're wrong. He had other properties which meant he could still afford the reduced rent. The bank doesn't care whether the mortgage is paid using your salary or the rent of the property
@@muhammedahmed3291 i agree but i assumed that since they have all that debt they would need the rent money for the mortgage… nonetheless the story is still fake😂😂
This is very true. Some people think they are entitled to other's things just because of their unfortunate situation. Had a cousin like this. Blocked her everywhere and cut off contact.
Sadly this is why most guys try to stay away from single moms. I know not all but ive seen so many who just feel entitled to being helped. Like oh i deserve you taking care of me and paying my bills because poor me and my children. The worst was my ex had a neighbor who she use to help babysit her kids one day my ex tells me that the mom asked her for help with some money my ex told her I was helping her pay her bills well hearing this she demanded my ex tell me to help her pay hers too because as a men I should be okay with helping a mom lol like what!? Crazy thing my ex agreed lol
@@nathanbrown7906 she didn't stay single took in with some scumbag that she later gave up her children for. I know this because I saw on the news after he stabbed her while she was sleeping because she had a new boyfriend. She later died in the hospital and her new bf died instantly.
@@nathanbrown7906 ex came in while they were both in bed and stabbed them while they slept. Boyfriend died instantly and she suffered in a hospital for a year before finally passing away.
why doesn't she just,,,, get a loan? tf there was no need for any of this. and why couldn't OP kick her out sooner if she was refusing to pay rent month like 2 that should've been the plan
As a Christian guy, If I were as wealthy as he was, I'd offer the daughter tuition at a much cheaper college because it isn't her fault. But selling the house? No, I'd actually rather outright give it to someone who needs it than sell it for an education. A place to live is much more important than a couple years studying at some school for a piece of paper.
I would not reward coercion. That ask was outrageous, and she had no qualms hurting OP and his family. Had she humbly asked for help maybe they could’ve found a way but why try when someone goes for your jugular? I’m a Christian too. I’d have suggested crowdfunding, deferment and working for a year, scholarships, loans, anything but threatening and blackmail.
No you wouldn't do that, and if you did it wouldn't be good enough for this woman. This lady is obviously crazy for thinking her landlord should sell his property to pay for her kid. What part of this story makes you think that this person is rational? He did her a favor by letting her pay less rent, she then tried to exploit his kindness and slander his name. Get real clown.
This is why you don't pity someone because of their circumstances. Don't treat a single parent any differently than a couple with kids, you are setting yourself up to be misinterpreted, or as in this case, having your kindness exploited. Being a single mother is hard, as is being a single father, but the moment you cross the line with this individual you cannot go back.
This story is BS who in their right mind would side with this shameless woman! He is not the father of the child and even if he is a rich landlord so what it’s not her money so why would people side with her to have him sell his property to fund her child dreams!!! BS!
The only reason why I believe this story is because something similar happened to my mom. She started to help employee’s kid tuition to go to Middle school and High school. Kid was smart. So he got accepted to college. Then they demanded that she pays for his college too? My mom said no she can’t afford it and she did enough and that she will rather pay for another kid to go thru middle school and high school. They tried to shit talk her to the community. Unfortunately the entire town loves her so it fell on deaf ears and they were ostracized.
It would be nice if the school took the opportunity of discussing with the students the aftermath of the bullying, in the context of the court ruling: emphasizing that their accusations and harassment of innocent camarades (because of baseless rumors they heard adults spew) were their own unjust doing, with genuine consequences that they would hate to be on the receiving end of. An introduction to how Justice works as an institution (vs the court of opinions and gossip) might give them more food for critical thought.
Wtf? Why did you put your family through this, Op??? 30-day notice to pay or quit, then lawyer up! Is this even real??? What landlord is this naive? Being a landlord is about dealing with tenant drama. How could he become this successful but allow this to go so far?
I had a situation like this kinda so my dad we will call him D and mom M had this girl trying to get a house to rent and this houses fees where 1200 and the house was very very nice and she was got prego (We will call her ER entitled renter and her boyfriend BW Breadwinner)and mind you we had to pay 1200 for her to stay in that house for free if she didn’t and and she called d and said:I’m not paying you we don’t have enough! Literally yelling and she demanded that we made her rent 900 dollars so we had to pay 300 for her if we did that and d felt bad so he agreed and she had her kid and she started paying for her rent oh sorry she didn’t her boyfriend did when she told us she wouldn’t be able to pay she said her boyfriend refused to pay and our friend was her neighbor and that day BW and ER were yelling at each other and he ended up leaving BW was yelling loud about another man in the house and The next day she got a new boyfriend and the next year she got pregnant again She called D letting him know she was pregnant so her bill was going to be 800 and M said no way were are doing that D but my dad gave her benefits again agreed and she broke up with her boyfriend and got a new one and she got prego and said it will be 700 and my dad said no and she started freaking out crying and screaming that she couldn’t afford rent and hanged up and D felt guilty and was about to agree but M shut that down real fast and the next day ER called again and said do you want my kids to end up on the street I can’t find anywhere as nice for 800! And D hanged up next week Er called and said:I’m suing your because the door feel out! And we found out it was because her boyfriend broke down the door🤦♀️ we got court evolved to and her boyfriend texted D and said I’m gonna pay you I’ll drive to your house to pay and D said that’s not how it works and then Her bf sended a photo of his trucks slashed tires and said I can’t make it and our neighbor saw him slash his own tires and long story short she kept trying to manipulate D but M kept him on the right track and she got kicked out and we never saw from her again and her kids were fine and she broke up with Bf bc she only was dating him for money Srry if there errors in my texts it was rushed
11:56 It's time to evict this lady . Her daughter is not your responsibility . She is really delusional . You went above and beyond to help her . My suggestion is to make her move out and find another place to live .
Going to an expensive college will not guarantee success. Many millionaires go to community college, state college, and junior college, etc. Yes, some millionaires do go to expensive colleges. Find a college that fits the budget, and work smart and work hard, and learn to invest your money and build up your skills. OP has chosen a good investment idea, buying real estate. It's not the easiest to get into, but still a decent investment strategy.
OMG I saw the title and thought that the Ops mother wanted her to sell her home, to pay for her daughter's education, not one of her tenents. What kind of crazy do you have to be to expect her landlord to pay for her college fees?!
fake story, almost all these stories are fake, but if you like it okay but dont think this actually happened, you're just being trauma dumped with shit like this
Good on Lily for being the better person than her mother, and on you OP for looking out for your family. Hope the children's bullies learnt something from this
Someone else’s kids are not your responsibility. Even if he did take financial advantage when it came to rent that’s his right since he’s the landlord.
Even if the dude had ten billion dollars just sitting around, it's not his bleeping responsibility to pay for anybody's college education. It's HIS MONEY. Those who are well off are under ZERO obligation to help those who are not. It's nice when they do, but they're not bad people for not doing so. The entitlement today is just insane.
@@spoonnn1738 I would only help if: ● helping them wouldn't put me in any compromising position or if it would hurt me or someone I care about ●I expect them to be grateful after I help them. No one is entitled to my help regardless of how badly they need it, even if it's a life or death situation.
it's not my problem. maybe I would help them out of generosity but asking to sell your house is insanely criminal. btw it's your hard earned money as you were always working to reach the place you are now. it's not selfishness if you're not going to borrow money to those people aka stealers. but yeah I also felt bad for the girl, she shouldn't be ashamed of what her mom done but I admire her bravery taking her mom's responsibly although she's likely innocent@@spoonnn1738
Kinda reminds me of the story of that magician youtuber who helped a homeless man but the homeless man backstabbed him and lied snd nearly destroyed rhe youtuber's reputation
I can actually believe this story for once. A measure of levelheadedness all round but also a degree of petty that I believe someone is easily capable of
Wow, i thought this gonna about OP's mom or mother figure like in law or step or something, not some random woman that he has already being graciously generous with.
this is absolutely a fake story. On what planet would anyone expect a landlord to sell their property to fund a stranger's education? What happened to student loans? How is this even an argument in court a lawyer would make?
So, she received a lot of generosity then decided to take advantage of said generosity and destroy a person's reputation because she wasn't getting what she wanted. Typical single moms.
Story 1: Even if (bit if) OP had the means to fund the tenant's daughter's education, he did not have any obligation to do so. Ability is not obligation. Why would anyone think OP should sell his property and take a financial hit for someone who is barely more than a stranger?
Soooo... Why should he pay for some random persons education? It would be like if i try to get bill gates, elon musk or mr. Beast to pay my bills. I have absolutely nothing to do with them, but they have money and i just some of their products.
Ok, did anyone in his "community" opt to sell their house to give the moms daughter the expensive education? Exactly, ofc no because it's insane I don't know why having extra money means you gotta dump it on a strangers kid. Not your responsibility regardless of your financial situation. So why are they bitching at you? I would have told em that if that is reasonable to do for a stranger, than they should go and get a crowdfund. Bunch of assholes.
All I could think was that if the “community” cared so much they could have literally crowdfunded the daughter’s education.
Or sold their home and give the money to her.
Yep 1000s of people people putting in 50-100$ each and boom the kid has a fully paid ride to a good college
That’s how my grandpa got to go to a good highschool back in the day, the neighbors all thought he had the best chance of the neighborhood kids to do well so they pooled money.
Exactly!!!!
Oh no, no, no. That simply won't do because that would require them all to practice what they preach! That's asking too much from hypocrites. 😂
Being wealthy and unsympathetic has nothing to do with funding someone else's education, and without a written agreement, a second-hand conversation means nothing.
No way would I demand my landlord sell this house to pay for my kids education. He's not responsible for my kids.
She could stand on the corner she could raise a GoFundMe instead of using her power to tear others down she should have built herself up
The mother was a joke! Who in their right mind would demand that? Who would agree with her? OMG that is so stupid!
She was not bad for asking that, for the first time, but what comes after - yeah, the bad
Man this guy had Phoenix Wright as his attorney, beautiful
Someone tell her daughter that she doesn’t need to go to out of state Ivy League universities…she could literally get the same degree at any community college….im a Nurse Practitioner and I went to community college and it costed me less than $15k…the other NP I work with attended Ivy League universities for the same degree as mine and they are around $100k in student debt
for story #2
if you just put even selling his land out of the picture, shes basically demanding somebody else pay for her kids college funds, which is unreasonable
give people an inch and they take a mile and try take your property too🤦🏾♀️
and harassing your wife and children too. they have gone too far...
What happened to the family friend? I wanna know if he got scolded by OP and I feel bad for Lily because her mother was playing stupid games and won a stupid prize and her daughter has to suffer as well because of her mother
I want to know how it makes any sense to people that someone wealthy should give you their money? Generational or worked for, it's still theirs. I am dirt poor and yet I am not gonna walk up to Elon Musk and ask him to pay my bills just because he can afford it. WTF
The thing is though is that most rich people make their money off of other people's labor, either by charging them for stuff that they themselves Don't use, or by paying them as little as possible and collecting most of the profits.
@@bored_person Which I know and totally get, and I am all for taxing the wealthy and making them pay greater in accordance to their wealth not a bog standard price for all, and also I love charity and feel like instead of a second yacht that they can work to help people live better lives through donations, but if I was rich and some random person told me that I have to sell my property or my business or even my bracelet and give them the money because they need it that's bogus. You don't even ask for help, you just demand it? That's not how that works.
@@musingsnplaylists absolutely agreed. An individual demanding that another individual sell their property and give them money to her does not help with systemic changes. All it does is reinforce people's capitalist viewpoints.
I love when other people judge someone for not helping someone yet they never offer a finger of help
Yes, they're generous when it's about putting a burden on someone else.
"I'm so generous with telling you to gift her 50k."
@@qq84 it's a hatred of rich people. these people always say "I'd help if I could, but I'm not rich!" but they're full of shit
@@viciousrape Yes, but then you can say: Even you have a few dollar to spare, why don't you give that? aso.
Exactly. I'm not rich and i have allot of money but i give a bit of money to people who need it. Purple just like excuses and reasons to hate people@@qq84
This is why white people in America are getting replaced
it's crazy how any members of the community were ever on board for a LANDLORD to pay for a tenants education
I'd give those people a home for sale sign with the ep's phone number on it so they can sell their home for the ep's kid.
Landlords are considered money-hoarding villains so often because they have the unmitigated gall to charge people for a place to live. There's a particular image associated with the stereotype of the "covetous Jew" and I've seen more than a few people use it in the context of shitting on landlords (not one specific one, mind, but anyone who owns habitable property and requires payment for other people to use it).
@@WhatIsThisEven5011 It's a damned shame such an excellent image is besmirched so. Never fails to get a laugh from me, that one.
A lot of people just hate landlords in general because the own property and charge other people to use it. Good or bad, fair or unfair, some people see them all as evil, and it's way more common than you might think.
Well, it's understandable that members of the community side against the landlord given that wealthy people get demands out of the blue from activists groups to donate money or be labeled. Some self-entitled people/groups look for individual "decision makers" in an organization, and instead of submitting requests to the organization, they go directly to pressure that individual decision maker ("just say yes because it's not even your money so it's no loss to you") to shortcut the process and remove oversight and fairness.
Perfect example of giving someone and inch, and they take a mile. He helped them out with lower rent, to her trying to basically steal his property...
Her being a single should have been the first hint.
@lucgermain9310 True but knowing what we know now kind of makes that moot point imo
@lucgermain9310 you are the perfect example of the people siding with her, with her having no claim or right to the landlord's property, you just fabricated a baseless scenario of her making good choices but being the victim of a "deadbeat" spouse who left. Your immediate response to hearing "single mother" is to fabricate a luxurious past that grants her victim status and entitlement.
Yes, some blame can be put on her for the "deadbeat" spouse leaving, because she got pregnant (either through improper planning or stupidity) with a guy that she knew nothing about. It leads to the belief that she acts solely on impulse and not choosing a good partner. The only time the moniker "single mother" is not in a bad light is if the husband died as a result of an accident or as part of the military and in which case i would use "widow" instead of "single mother" to make it sound better.
@lucgermain9310 if you chose to be a single mother for 15+ years thats your own fault. either she decided to allow her life and her daughter's life to continue to be nothing more than a struggle by refusing to find a partner (something thats basically required for giving your child a decent life) OR each partner she found cut ties after realizing that the mother is a manipulative and entitled person.
i-if she managed to get the community together for this could she not have crowdfunded the money?
She preferred violence.
@@TyPhenirW0LF😂😂😂
No that would mean not getting her way.
The “community” is always happy to help, until they have to bring out their wallets.
Imagine taking the issue all the way to court when you know for a fact that your case is so obviously fake and indefensible. I could never.
Reasons to never be directly involved with tenants. If i run my own properties, I will never expose that I'm the landlord to tenants. The smart 9nes might figure it out, but those same ones will likely have a brain and rational thoughts than will mean they aren't stupid or crazy. There are properties I plan to manage. Likely buying more as time goes on. I could and plan to do so. I will take advantage of every advantage I've earned. This can all be done from a distance and if need be I can move closer and myself and my brother can enter the service industry that applies to basically cost us as little as possible in the long run for the short term till we build to a point. A tenant like this would not be getting a renewal. They would be gone and out of my hair in less than a year. And I would never lose money to rent no matter what. I do not care. Your issues are your own. If you have to pay rent is two installments and split it between the beginning and mid month then so be it, but rent will be paid. If you stop paying I will start eviction. The tenants issues are not the landlords issues. I've never expected a break as a renter and never paid late. If you have an issue then it on you. If you can't pay then find other accommodations and with your last months rent you put down and your deposit I can likely work with you on something. But this instance is insane and the fact that there was a community of people on her side is insane. Even at my lowest point I never would've expected the landlord to cover anything for me. Always cover utilities and so on besides maybe water and sewer which was basically a connection fee and $10/mo. And even some of those were simply lumped into rent. The audacity of some people is surprising.
@@Deathbomb9 is it even legal to hide who the landdlord is? i mean you are making a contract between tenant and landlord so if anything goes wrong you have to know who it is for legal reasons
@@REYCER0 the LLC would be the contracting body with the tenant. Liability is still there. I don't have to disclose that I own the property myself. If I have an LLC that manages properties. You aren't hiding, it's just a different name on the lease and that isn't illegal. If youve ever rented from a management company you payed the management company right? Because that's who was on the lease. Yet someone else owned that property.
@@Deathbomb9I’m not reading that
Go cry about it😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Citieskylines shut up you 6 year old go change your diapers
How is the single mom's struggles and efforts relevant to her claim to what I suspect is at least tens of thousands of dollars of equity?
It is not, which makes it 100% fake - immagine an attorney argumenting with sympathy in a case where a tenant demands the landlord to sell his property lmao.
No legal facts were stated here, so I'm pretty sure it never happened. The attorney of the entitled mother would even have told her to not go to court over this and all - no attorney would push you to court in such a case.
@@AECH_CH The OP was the one taking action against the tenant on defamation and slander. The tenant or her attorney are not the ones pushing the case, they are defendants on the defamation claim from the OP.
@@shivenbhupendra1100 Yes, but even if they were to go to court - the attorney of the entitled mother wouldn't have pleaded in this way - he'd have done damage control - playing robbin hood is nice for movies, but doesn't work IRL - OPs wealth is completely irrelevant to her claim/actions and thus they are basically not defendable. The attorney likely would've told her to remove the posts proactively and try to make up for what she did so that there would've been at least some mildening circumstances for her.
@@AECH_CH my guy its not that deep, I am just pointing out its OP thats the plaintiff.
@@shivenbhupendra1100 Ok, all good :3
Since when has it been a landlord’s responsibility to pay for tenant’s college?? Are we living in a real world?
Even if he sold the property, per her request, it would have been his money and not hers. He wouldn't have to give her anything, and she would have been out of a place to live, too.
She told him to sell the property and loan her the money. Like??? 😂
@@Nil_Samalike what
Then she'd moan and wail that she had no place to go because the new owner would never let her pay that amount of rent she paid OP, and she'd sell the same "uncaring landlord" narrative, just in different packaging. Wonder if that was the backup plan.
@@Nil_Sama And she said that her daughter would pay it back, like that is a huge dept on her daughter.
@@WEIRDxGRIM Really proved how stupid she is. At that point it wasn't even for her daughter anymore, she just wanted to be a leech.
It is a classic moment when karen thinks she has the upper hand and then gets slammed into the ground by two things called "reality" and "consequences."
It doesnt even matter if the dude DOES have the money to help, its HIS money and they arent even alittle bit related. WTF. This lady is a crazy person!
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Wow this is the perfect example of a Chinese saying "A dog will not say thank you but will bark to ask for more."
Good one! 👍
Dont compare that woman to a dog, that poor dog cant do any other Sound to comunicate with us.
Dogs can at least show affection.
I will understand people like this. Make it simple. "Yes I have money. No it is not yours. I own property. No it is not yours. I owe you nothing. It doesn't matter if I'm selfish. What I own, you are not entitled to. It does not matter if you have less. I do not need to paint myself as the perfect landlord." The end.
I'd just offer to match whatever they get for selling their home for the ep kid's college fund.
The way she manipulated everyone…
Exactly 💯
It’s easy to tell that OP was trying his best to be calm and think things through as level headed as possible, even when a community was against him. But the second his kids got bullied at school, anyone here knew that Emily was done for.
I do feel bad for Lily, but very hopeful that she’ll get to wherever her ambitions take her. She doesn’t need an expensive prestigious school to become someone of value. Her being a good person and plans to go about her life makes her a worthwhile person.
As much as I feel sorry for Lily, she should have said something before this escalated to defamation.
she very well could have, as we do not really know what happened between her and her mother before the court proceedings. She clearly understands her mother was in the wrong, but it can be difficult gathering the courage to speak out against a parental figure, particularly if they are doing this for your own interests.@@GenGamesUniverse
Jesus christ, can't these scammers go try to rob a billionaire and leave the normal folks alone?
It be better if they did not try to rob anyone period.
Then again, the billionaires are too smart for women so they have to find “easier targets”.
@@Captainjoshua177 Well, true. I guess that would be like trying to steal from Al Capone...
tbf, they did go after a landlord, not the folks paying more for the same units next door. so they kinda did?
@@cameronlang6858😂😂😂😂😂 so he a billionaire because he own few homes
Its always nice to see justice being served.
Justice was not served since she didn't spend time in jail for the consequences of her words had to the landlord's children
@@mwtds7257 Sure justice wasnt served in the way of jailtime, HOWEVER she was taught a valuable lesson and suffered financially for her hubris, thinking somehow she could get away with this fiasco.
It’s simple, does Emily own the property? No. Is Emily’s daughter OP’s daughter? No. Then it’s not OP’s problem, OP is Emily’s landlord why would he sell the property and give Emily the money when there’s no guarantee Emily or her daughter will even pay back the money?
you know the world is really fucked when people can just demand that someone sells their own property to pay for something they have nothing to do with.
That is what this new found entitlment, reparation BS is all about, because you have a lot, now you must give it to me now..
I wonder if there is connection between Emily being a single mother and her being batshit crazy.
It's the classic situation of "Give an inch, and they take a mile". They don't take a foot, a yard, or ten feet. They take a mile.
a scooby do mystery for sure
Did they cut off the family friend for falsely testifying?! This story is another case of someone trying to be forced to pay for a child that isn’t yours! OP should have evicted her immediately after she made post but also should have recorded the conversation as well.
If OP did that though Emily could have used that for her allegations as “proof” that OP is a greedy and heartless landlord
I hear it's not easy to evict tenants. Even ones who habitually never pay rent.
@@JellyMyst It's not. Here in the UK, it could take up to around a year before the tenants move out, they could literally squat in the house and the landlord could do nothing.
thats rough, where I live you give them 30 days. if they arent out then you call up the local sheriff/police and schedule a visit
@@Thaddius0 You're lucky.
What a weird hill the mother picked to die on, like her thought process was "I'm gonna harass and try to squeeze money from my LANDLORD??" When has that EVER worked? Astounding
As soon as the story got out to community, she could've just put up gofundme or whatever, apologize and possibly mend relationship with landlord but no, doubled down.
Helping that single mom turned out to be the worst mistake OP ever made
Single mother. Master of terrible choices and entitlement.
Good he evicted her. No sympathy at all. Daughter could have stopped it.
the daughter probably didn't know.
@@typicalairhead6846how does the daughter not know when the whole community knows to the point the kids got bullied
Kids could not affect their crazy parets to stop acting out.
Comes from personal expirience, lol
I don’t know how to describe it but the way this story is worded just isn’t human. On top of it being fake I’m 90% sure this was AI
Wow the entitlement of this woman.
I don't know how he didn't bust out laughing from this request so crazy.
I love how people are so generous with other people's money.
All those people saying that Opie has the money and should sell his house that he rented to her at a discount all these years are just as delusional and crazy.
A woman's greed and entitlement know no bounds.
@@snarkymoosesshack8793 This Woman's greed and entitlement definitely didn't
He should tell them to help her! Why does it have to be him?
@@juliearmfield2634 I can't even fathom how the mother in question can come to the conclusion that asking one's landlord to pay for someone else's college bill, as at all a good idea and not outright preposterous.
@@snarkymoosesshack8793 I know I cannot wrap my head around her entitlements and manipulation.
I feel really bad for the daughter because it sounded like the daughter was completely humiliated by her mother's actions
I'm just astonished as to the audacity in her thinking that even with the sale of the property she would be the recipient of the proceed of that sale! I mean, you don't own the property, that's not his kid (unless I missed something) and what was your thought process that led to that conclusion? I mean what were the steps that convinced you that you were entitled to anything this person owes you anything outside of the terms of your LEASING AGREEMENT? 😂😂😂😂😂😂 that's so baffling to me, truly.
Emily is the perfect example of single mom entitlement. Just because you are a single mom, that does not give you the right to any special treatment or privilege.
Or…OR. This is a fake story dunking on an easy target and spreading yet MORE disapproval for single mothers?
Get a grip, mate.
If the neighbors want to help so bad they can give her money jeez
It’s crazy how op does 1 good deed for a single mother that years later comes back to bite him in the butt.
“No good deed goes unpunished.”
@@arealmessagefromhell4875 its so damn true
I understand how the mom just wanted to give her daughter an opportunity, but she took it too far.
Who are these people that took the moms side? If she had told me that story I would have ask why does your landlord need to pay for you daughters college. Even if he is the richest guy in the world. He has no obligation to give you money. I went to college and paid for it myself I worked and went to school it was hard but my mom couldn’t help me. Or you get student loans. Glad the daughter had a good head on her shoulders. I am sure she will be fine. It won’t be easy but people work and go to school all the time.
That's the part that gets me!
Yes, the mom was bat-shit crazy and entitled, but whooo are these people that supported???
Simps having the white knight syndrome. While the entitlement is completely on the bat-shit crazy mom a lot of it is also enabled by white knights who will come M"lady rescue just to get a shot at that 2/10 female cat.
The only reasonable answer is "Your lack of family planning isn't my problem".
Like she didn't even ask to get a loan or something, no - she wanted a handout absolutely unacceptable. She didn't pay rent? Kick her out ASAP - you don't need to be a nice guy, you're rich my dude. Why do you care about what other - most likely financially uneducated pesants - think about you?
I'm not for feudalism and all, but if someone disrespected my like that, they'd whish they never knew me - especially not after your initial generousity.¨
Story is probably still fake though: No attorney would argue with sympathy or such stupid shit. There are laws. You "exploiting her" has a legal definition - in some countries there's a ROI limit on properties and stuff. So unless that was met - easy provable - the attorney wouldn't talk anything.
They didn't argue about it. They tried to paint her as such and their case was that the charged of rent was too high and her being exploited about her because she's single mother. I suggest repeating the video to get a better clarity in the situation.
I’m starting to think that there was a reason why she’s a single mother…
Unbelievable. So her doing "anything" for her daughter means trying to steal a man's property? The moment she stopped paying her rent you should have evicted her. The woman must have lost her mind.
What kind of mental gymnastics did that woman use to come the conclusion that the landlord could help out her daughters college education
This story is bs and let me tell u why
First of all any competent attorney would not let that family friend on that stand since as he said “we were shocked” so the witness wasn’t disclosed to the opposing counsel
Second of all even if u had a verbal agreement which is paid for over a year (4yrs for college)it’s not really a legally binding since for this types of contracts u need to put it in writing and again any competent attorney would throw this in their face
Edit: and oh for a contract to be valid you need to get something in return (i give u her college tuition for x)
Edit2:ok got one more thing
For a person at 34yrs old to have alot of properties they’d have to leverage debt and if you do that u can’t rent it out for a cut since u have to pay mortgage from the rent money
On your last point, you're wrong. He had other properties which meant he could still afford the reduced rent. The bank doesn't care whether the mortgage is paid using your salary or the rent of the property
@@muhammedahmed3291 i agree but i assumed that since they have all that debt they would need the rent money for the mortgage… nonetheless the story is still fake😂😂
This is very true. Some people think they are entitled to other's things just because of their unfortunate situation. Had a cousin like this. Blocked her everywhere and cut off contact.
Sadly this is why most guys try to stay away from single moms. I know not all but ive seen so many who just feel entitled to being helped. Like oh i deserve you taking care of me and paying my bills because poor me and my children. The worst was my ex had a neighbor who she use to help babysit her kids one day my ex tells me that the mom asked her for help with some money my ex told her I was helping her pay her bills well hearing this she demanded my ex tell me to help her pay hers too because as a men I should be okay with helping a mom lol like what!? Crazy thing my ex agreed lol
Sometimes they are single for a reason
@@nathanbrown7906 she didn't stay single took in with some scumbag that she later gave up her children for. I know this because I saw on the news after he stabbed her while she was sleeping because she had a new boyfriend. She later died in the hospital and her new bf died instantly.
@@mshake7056 how the new boyfriend die?
@@nathanbrown7906 ex came in while they were both in bed and stabbed them while they slept. Boyfriend died instantly and she suffered in a hospital for a year before finally passing away.
He found out why the dad didn't want to raise a kid with that woman.
I would take her to court, and send an eviction notice to any tenants who posted online support for her defaming me
Even if you're rich that is not your child
why doesn't she just,,,, get a loan? tf there was no need for any of this. and why couldn't OP kick her out sooner if she was refusing to pay rent month like 2 that should've been the plan
As a Christian guy, If I were as wealthy as he was, I'd offer the daughter tuition at a much cheaper college because it isn't her fault. But selling the house? No, I'd actually rather outright give it to someone who needs it than sell it for an education. A place to live is much more important than a couple years studying at some school for a piece of paper.
I would not reward coercion. That ask was outrageous, and she had no qualms hurting OP and his family. Had she humbly asked for help maybe they could’ve found a way but why try when someone goes for your jugular? I’m a Christian too. I’d have suggested crowdfunding, deferment and working for a year, scholarships, loans, anything but threatening and blackmail.
No you wouldn't do that, and if you did it wouldn't be good enough for this woman. This lady is obviously crazy for thinking her landlord should sell his property to pay for her kid. What part of this story makes you think that this person is rational? He did her a favor by letting her pay less rent, she then tried to exploit his kindness and slander his name. Get real clown.
I would not give or even hint at the offer of a red cent.
They ought to have started eviction as soon as Emily started that mess.
Take a shot everytime "years of hard work and sacrifice" is mentioned
Funny how you can sue someone for not selling THEIR property
Payed for mutliple months of legal proceedings, couldnt pay for college tuition
Regardless how much money any landlords have/don’t have it is not their job to pay for someone’s education
This is why you don't pity someone because of their circumstances. Don't treat a single parent any differently than a couple with kids, you are setting yourself up to be misinterpreted, or as in this case, having your kindness exploited. Being a single mother is hard, as is being a single father, but the moment you cross the line with this individual you cannot go back.
This story is BS who in their right mind would side with this shameless woman! He is not the father of the child and even if he is a rich landlord so what it’s not her money so why would people side with her to have him sell his property to fund her child dreams!!! BS!
How do people that think like this even survive in the real world? She had 18 years to save up money for her daughters college fund...
The only reason why I believe this story is because something similar happened to my mom. She started to help employee’s kid tuition to go to Middle school and High school. Kid was smart. So he got accepted to college. Then they demanded that she pays for his college too? My mom said no she can’t afford it and she did enough and that she will rather pay for another kid to go thru middle school and high school. They tried to shit talk her to the community. Unfortunately the entire town loves her so it fell on deaf ears and they were ostracized.
It would be nice if the school took the opportunity of discussing with the students the aftermath of the bullying, in the context of the court ruling: emphasizing that their accusations and harassment of innocent camarades (because of baseless rumors they heard adults spew) were their own unjust doing, with genuine consequences that they would hate to be on the receiving end of. An introduction to how Justice works as an institution (vs the court of opinions and gossip) might give them more food for critical thought.
No good deed goes unpunished
Wtf? Why did you put your family through this, Op??? 30-day notice to pay or quit, then lawyer up! Is this even real??? What landlord is this naive? Being a landlord is about dealing with tenant drama. How could he become this successful but allow this to go so far?
99.99% chance of this story being a creative writing exercise. 😂
Where’s her daughter’s father ? The way she acts shows she drove that man away
I had a situation like this kinda so my dad we will call him D and mom M had this girl trying to get a house to rent and this houses fees where 1200 and the house was very very nice and she was got prego (We will call her ER entitled renter and her boyfriend BW Breadwinner)and mind you we had to pay 1200 for her to stay in that house for free if she didn’t and and she called d and said:I’m not paying you we don’t have enough! Literally yelling and she demanded that we made her rent 900 dollars so we had to pay 300 for her if we did that and d felt bad so he agreed and she had her kid and she started paying for her rent oh sorry she didn’t her boyfriend did when she told us she wouldn’t be able to pay she said her boyfriend refused to pay and our friend was her neighbor and that day BW and ER were yelling at each other and he ended up leaving BW was yelling loud about another man in the house and The next day she got a new boyfriend and the next year she got pregnant again She called D letting him know she was pregnant so her bill was going to be 800 and M said no way were are doing that D but my dad gave her benefits again agreed and she broke up with her boyfriend and got a new one and she got prego and said it will be 700 and my dad said no and she started freaking out crying and screaming that she couldn’t afford rent and hanged up and D felt guilty and was about to agree but M shut that down real fast and the next day ER called again and said do you want my kids to end up on the street I can’t find anywhere as nice for 800! And D hanged up next week Er called and said:I’m suing your because the door feel out! And we found out it was because her boyfriend broke down the door🤦♀️ we got court evolved to and her boyfriend texted D and said I’m gonna pay you I’ll drive to your house to pay and D said that’s not how it works and then Her bf sended a photo of his trucks slashed tires and said I can’t make it and our neighbor saw him slash his own tires and long story short she kept trying to manipulate D but M kept him on the right track and she got kicked out and we never saw from her again and her kids were fine and she broke up with Bf bc she only was dating him for money
Srry if there errors in my texts it was rushed
11:56 It's time to evict this lady . Her daughter is not your responsibility . She is really delusional . You went above and beyond to help her . My suggestion is to make her move out and find another place to live .
Going to an expensive college will not guarantee success. Many millionaires go to community college, state college, and junior college, etc. Yes, some millionaires do go to expensive colleges. Find a college that fits the budget, and work smart and work hard, and learn to invest your money and build up your skills. OP has chosen a good investment idea, buying real estate. It's not the easiest to get into, but still a decent investment strategy.
OMG I saw the title and thought that the Ops mother wanted her to sell her home, to pay for her daughter's education, not one of her tenents. What kind of crazy do you have to be to expect her landlord to pay for her college fees?!
fake story, almost all these stories are fake, but if you like it okay but dont think this actually happened, you're just being trauma dumped with shit like this
The Emily could’ve set up a go-fund me or something like that if she had the whole community on her side
How about Emily track down her ex and make him back pay child support
so ur telling him to sell the property he payed for for ur daughters education
Good on Lily for being the better person than her mother, and on you OP for looking out for your family. Hope the children's bullies learnt something from this
i would have sold the property to move them out then just never give them the money and use it to flip another property
Easy question
"Is OP responsable for your kid college?"
"No."
"Then f off".
Someone else’s kids are not your responsibility. Even if he did take financial advantage when it came to rent that’s his right since he’s the landlord.
Even if the dude had ten billion dollars just sitting around, it's not his bleeping responsibility to pay for anybody's college education. It's HIS MONEY.
Those who are well off are under ZERO obligation to help those who are not. It's nice when they do, but they're not bad people for not doing so. The entitlement today is just insane.
They are a bad people. If you see drowning human being will you help him or just ignore this?
@@spoonnn1738 Ignore them im not risking my life for someone elses
@@spoonnn1738 I would only help if:
● helping them wouldn't put me in any compromising position or if it would hurt me or someone I care about
●I expect them to be grateful after I help them.
No one is entitled to my help regardless of how badly they need it, even if it's a life or death situation.
it's not my problem. maybe I would help them out of generosity but asking to sell your house is insanely criminal. btw it's your hard earned money as you were always working to reach the place you are now. it's not selfishness if you're not going to borrow money to those people aka stealers. but yeah I also felt bad for the girl, she shouldn't be ashamed of what her mom done but I admire her bravery taking her mom's responsibly although she's likely innocent@@spoonnn1738
Kinda reminds me of the story of that magician youtuber who helped a homeless man but the homeless man backstabbed him and lied snd nearly destroyed rhe youtuber's reputation
NTA once you win this court case Evict her!
I can actually believe this story for once. A measure of levelheadedness all round but also a degree of petty that I believe someone is easily capable of
entitled mom thought she had op under her finger
Lol a selfish single mother who would have guessed 😂😂 bet she drove the father away too
Ai generated?
Wow, i thought this gonna about OP's mom or mother figure like in law or step or something, not some random woman that he has already being graciously generous with.
Another fake "real life" story. 😂
Perfect example of "I gave them my finger to hold,but they tried to pull my whole hand down" and "breaking the same plate you ate in"
this is absolutely a fake story. On what planet would anyone expect a landlord to sell their property to fund a stranger's education? What happened to student loans? How is this even an argument in court a lawyer would make?
You would be surprised at the level of some people’s audacity
So, she received a lot of generosity then decided to take advantage of said generosity and destroy a person's reputation because she wasn't getting what she wanted.
Typical single moms.
If going to a prestigious university puts you and your family into poverty, ITS NOT WORTH IT!!!
Story 1: Even if (bit if) OP had the means to fund the tenant's daughter's education, he did not have any obligation to do so. Ability is not obligation. Why would anyone think OP should sell his property and take a financial hit for someone who is barely more than a stranger?
Family members & neighbors should pitch in... Oh, that's right!! They don't care!!! 😡
Soooo... Why should he pay for some random persons education? It would be like if i try to get bill gates, elon musk or mr. Beast to pay my bills. I have absolutely nothing to do with them, but they have money and i just some of their products.
slander,defamation and breach of contract.
Why do people that own nothing expect such outrageous favors...
Emily could win the Tour de france just by her sheer backpedaling skills.
Ok, did anyone in his "community" opt to sell their house to give the moms daughter the expensive education?
Exactly, ofc no because it's insane
I don't know why having extra money means you gotta dump it on a strangers kid. Not your responsibility regardless of your financial situation.
So why are they bitching at you?
I would have told em that if that is reasonable to do for a stranger, than they should go and get a crowdfund.
Bunch of assholes.