I'm just wondering how he goes from having the penthouse to being expected to mow the lawn. so, either this story is translated from another language or it didn't happen
You're right. I'll happily move heaven and earth for my family simply because they deserve it. Remember, there will be no drama in a happy, healthy and supportive family. These stories only show the outliers.
Well, either you're in a healthy family that'll reciprocate or in a toxic one that raised you to believe you must put up with the drama and abuse to keep the eace "because it's family"
@@SneakNationCEOI think the comment is referring to families being toxic and unhealthy. So your comment about damn right my family is great is just random and doesn't add to the conversation.
Reddit stories only... or life experience + few entertaining reddit tales that may or may be accurate. The majority of families are somewhat to very f'ed up. Good ones are more rare - Think on it and don't let your good fortune blind you to obvious reality 🙃@karankrishnamoorthy4465
Story one: “I no longer feel bad for him because he had brought this on himself.” Apparently you felt bad for him for a long time. Long and strong enough to allow yourself to be abused in your own house and even be chased out of your own house. I honestly believe if OP didn’t have a gf/fiance, he wouldn’t have done anything and remained spineless in his own house.
I think there's a difference between empathy and paternal love here. OP was raised to honour and respect his dad, which can blind some kids into ignoring the red flags because "family." So his wording is more to say OP became apathetic to that fact.
First story: Hope everything works out with Alice in the end. And while his dad deserves Linda, a part of me hopes he realizes now how much he's hurt his family because of his selfishness, dumps her and finds someone not a gold digger. Second story: Sounds like the professor has gotten emotionally attached to the bf due to shared interests and is having a one-sided emotional affair. Some one needs to have a conversation with her before she ruins her life and possible OP's as well. The bf and his friends sound like good guys, but the best way to not fall for temptation is to avoid it entirely.
On the other hand, Alice put the kibosh on the engagement because she listened to his dad's squeeze, of all people. Not exactly a rock of a person to have in your life tbh.
@@Spagg0tYeah. Like think about it; would you rather trust the word of a man you trust and you known for over a year, or the word of some lady that just lives at his house that you just met? That could be problematic in the future for their relationship.
There is one way to make sure, and that is for OP's BF to flirt back qnd see which direction the professor leans. But as it is going, she seems to be leaning into an affair.
Story 2: having an relationship with your professor from my knowledge will get you into trouble specially with you hanging out with student, drinking and sharing a airbnb absolutely not. That would need to be nipped in the bud.
First op's story is so interesting cause I would have told my dad he can stay at my house while he gets on his feet but his affair partner and ap's 5 year old child? Not on this earth are they staying in my house. If that was a deal breaker to my dad then he could find somewhere else to live.
I wouldn't let a cheater stay. He was dating woman half his age - gross pedo on top of a cheater... Hell no. And he cheated on his wife cause she got menopause?! Dad can go rot on the streets...
can 3 of us live there rent free for the unforseeable future? -> you want us to move out? okay just give us 6 more months and we will consider it. does his dad have no sense of pride? pathetic
im with you here, i wouldve done the same. id be all for my dad staying in a situation like this but i wouldnt let his affair partner or the child any where near my living space
Second story: I hate the idea of dictating who my partner hangs out with because it feels controlling to me, so I was on the professors side at first (she just seemed desperate for a friend.) BUT when she blatantly ignored the gf at dinner and acted rude towards her is where I personally would draw the line and ask bf to cut her out
Story 1: OP should have acted sooner and should have more spine. It’s his house and the fact that he let Linda walk all over him shows that he should have done something about it much earlier. Also, his mom is a G.
Story 1: This whole story can literally be summed up with a single emoji: 🤦🏾♀️ Story 2: Sounds like professor is hoping to take things to the next level and needs to have BF sever ties with her for good.
First: You should have checked your father from day one of them living in your house. Also, that 🐴 is one to talk about housecleaning when she's not providing for her nor her child. Also, raise your child sis. Second: She has a whole fiance, yet she's practically hovering around OP's bf and ignoring her. Also, you're faculty, what are you doing with a student?
ST1 As soon as the gold digger had got them both fired, OP's dad should have dumped her, but of course he's one of those guys who thinks with their head down there and not up there. She's inviting random people she meets at the supermarket etc to OP's house, that's not on, OP should have put his foot down when that happened and told her no strangers until OP approves of them, I wonder if she's sneaking men in and sleeping with them behind OP's dad's back? The cheek of that hypocrite to accuse OP of being Lazy and living off dad's money, I'd have said bit rich coming from the gold digger. Should have smirked back and said "Lies" "She dared me not to cross the line", Oh Linda you mean the same line you crossed when you lied to Alice about OP cheating, yeah that line, the line is gone, all gloves are off, you can't shout abuse at OP,, talk about a line and threaten to make OP homeless which you can't even do that after everything you've done to OP.
I kinda feel like him and Alice aren’t gonna work out…the fact she took the word of her father in laws mistress so seriously, especially when she’s quite obviously trying to smear OP. Like she really fell for that “patriarchy” BS so easily? Slow down before you end up like your dad
She didn't take it fully to heart but it was a thought and possibility to her. OP said she didn't know the full extent of Linda's issues and so took her a bit more seriously than she should have.
The kind of woman who will believe another woman over her partner she supposedly trusts. And sure I get she felt weird but sge was gone out the door the second something came up, leaving OP to deal with his illness alone with an abuser in the house. So much for in sickness and in health. Forget about household chores, that's the kinda treatment that's an actual red flag.
@@willow_nightstaff she knows the basics of the relationship, and she just witnessed her try to lie on OPs name multiple times. An outside opinion should not break trust so easily, this is a woman she’s never met not even her friend.
You act like Alice ghosted or cut off OP. If someone says your SO is cheating and bringing women home, it could cast a little doubt. She doesn't live with him so she doesn't actually know what goes on in his house, while Linda does. Also, Alice hadn't known OP for too long. It's not the same as a ten or five year relationship where it's like "I KNOW he would never do that to me. He just isn't like that" Someone saying your SO is cheating WILL put a tiny bit of doubt in your mind until or unless it gets cleared up.
@@willow_nightstaff not if I just caught them in multiple lies right before they tried to accuse cheating. Even if she never knew of her existence, her repeated failed attempts at slandering the OP as a first impression should let her know she shouldn’t be taken very seriously
"God knows what he has seen in that woman that he had put everything at stake for her." This is what I like to call _24-karat Cooter Syndrome,_ where a guy will happily burn his own life to the ground, family included, all for a piece of @$$.
I'm not so sure about this Alice girl. If someone can so easily turn her against you, without even talking to you about it, then is a relationship with her even worth pursuing.
It sounds to me like there was some truth to him not helping out with chores while they were together but if that wasn't the case then yes, there's no need to be together if you don't trust each other.
That professor relationship with the bf is awfully unethical. Every professor I’ve had would always maintain it as a professor/student relationship and never even let it get to the friendship level. I have personal cellphones of professors and had meetings with them at coffee shops, but it was always to discuss academic matters.
Indeed. Like, I can understand when the teacher is a family friend already, as my childhood hometown was pretty small and there were two teachers (one of which was my homeroom teacher) that're fairly close with my uncle and she knows quite some of my extended family so we've been facebook friends since I was a young teenager. She congratulates me on my milestones like most family friends do and that's it. But this? Nuh uh.
Letting your 54 year old dad and his 29 year old girlfriend move in to your big house after your mom divorced him for cheating with said 29 year old is such spineless behavior. You almost have no right to complain if you think doing that is any help to anyone. If you even think to care about your mom at all you wouldn’t let the young adult who ruined her decades long marriage into your house.
I think the real issue is why Alice listen to women in general than men. Because it clear there a conversation about men issue, like men not helping with house kind of topic. She listen to stranger woman, not listen to partner (man), then listen to partner’s mom. See the pattern. That is gonna be a issue in the future if he didn’t discuss it early.
@@kantimeowpaw4693 He obviously doesn’t do chores, lol Alice should know that, because she won’t do that for him And calling a woman that cleans his house “a wh…” is so disrespectful. He should call his father that
@@Commentator488 I think the context is lacking. Did she clean the house or just boss around other people to clean their house. For example, he is mopping the floor she then try to find fault to make you mope that area again? Based on her personality, this might not be that far fetch. Given how entitled she sound I highly doubt she done any chores around the house. Also let's not forget she has a 5 year old girl who is just like her. Not disciplined. Her child probably make a mess and she demanded OP to fix the mess that her child made. Not to mentioned, OP did mentioned he cooked his own food, did the dishes and laundry whenever he wanted to.
fr like kick her out when she continued to disrespect you in your own house and your father lies abt him owning it i kinda understand bossing him cuz she thinks its her husbands hosue (still wrong tbh) but bro we need to blame the father WAY more
He is a reasonable and thoughtful individual. The rationale in this situation was difficult because if he does kick her out, he alienates his troublemaker dad. That would be a problem since humans, as social animals, seek to maintain social bonds. Struggling with the strategy of making a pragmatic decision is not "spineless." Not immediately defaulting to dark triad behaviors when someone mistreats you is not "spineless." Y'all simply lack nuance.
In story 1, how did Alice get gaslit so bad "yah he is a cheater its in his blood?" "What do you mean by that?" "Because his dad cheated on his mom with me" Seriously, whoever wrote this needs to take a creative writing class
Alice reads like the kind of woman who will believe another woman over her partner she supposedly trusts. And sure I get she felt weird but she was gone out the door the second something came up, leaving OP to deal with his illness alone with an abuser in the house. So much for in sickness and in health. Forget about household chores, that's the kinda treatment that's an actual red flag.
He’s a grown up and can take care of himself while he’s sick. She can help him, as she did but she can’t stay with him all the time. They aren’t married, what in sickness and in health are you talking about? She’s not a red flag, you are.
The OP in the first story is so insufferable because of his lack of back bone. Bro you have ZERO reason to complain, when you could have at any point told her it was your house. Like don't complain if you're not gonna actually doing something about it 😂😂
Story 1: let the fiancé go, if she is so easily swayed then she cannot possibly make a good and loyal wife. Anyone with charisma and a persuasive manner can turn her against you.
Tbh if Alice believes the stepmom without asking her bf .. that's not relationship material, how can you marry someone who has doubts when an outsider tells you bs. Have a lil faith.
Story 1 The fact that the woman couldn’t even keep silent about her relationship with her boss when there were a clear “no dating your co-worker” role. Just told me at once that she didn’t know the word boundaries or no. So I would not have let them stay at his house if I was him.
Why people can't understand what a difference between close friendship and affection is very thin and you cant just ask people if it is one or another, you have to use your own head.
If they could pay for a wedding in a honeymoon why the f*** couldn't they pay for a house why would you allow them to move into your house knowing they have money to get their own place this makes no sense to me? A person that sit there and say that they don't want to take sides when they find out that their parents one of them are cheating that shows right there that they don't care about the parrot that's been cheated on so he agrees with his father cheating which in that case I can't wait to his fiancee cheats on him so he can know how it feels.
Honestly, i am not nearly as patient as the first story's OP. I swear that the second week she kept ordering me around i was gonna yell at her so badly. Thankfully, my father's girlfriend is a lovely woman and if one day they were in a similar situation i would be happy to have them in my house.
Why tf did the poster of the first story put up with Linda for so long? I mean it's obvious that English wasn't his first language, so he was probably from a stricter, more traditional culture that required him to support his dad, but still. He let them walk all over him
Anyone know the original title or username of the first story? I'd like to check if there are any updates, but googling this title just brings up this video.
Never trust a girl that says "he's my brother!" And it's not her actual brother. Only acceptions, they grew up as siblings or one was adopted later. Or one is way younger, and there should absolutely be nothing going on because of the age gap. But more often than not, a girl says, "He's like my brother," and it's a guy of similar age that already has a girlfriend, she digs him and is just waiting for her movie romance with him to blossom.
2nd story: ngl, don't blame you for feeling there might be something going on, especially with how she completely ignored you!! that's so rude!! But if you trust your boyfriend, and by what you say he seems to respect your boundaries, I don't think you need to worry. However, if you still have concerns about her, I'm sure you can bring it up with him. He doesn't seem like he'd do anything what with how you described him.
Story 2- it is unethical that a teacher/ex teacher spends time with a student that is still.currently at the same school. The op can tell the ethics committee and get her kicked out
story 2:luckily the bf isnt cheating.accompany him with his events with his professor until he graduates.then have a happy life with him until he either cheats or dies
I feel like OP and Alice need couple's therapu. Because appearently she doesn't know you well enough to know about what happens in your house and that you ACTUALLY are suportive and she didn't tell you she talked to your stepmonster. There needs to be absolute transparency in a relationship
The most unbelievable part of this is a freelance graphic designer making as much money as he's claiming. Hahahahaha and I just got to the part he's with a famous influencer. Hahahaha
Yeah I don’t really want a partner who takes someone else’s word at a whim over mine, especially when the person they are getting the info from is toxic af. And then needs “space” to process it. Like okay Alice lmao
If Alice was so easily swayed, why would anyone want to be with someone like that? Would never have worked out in the end. Dodged a bullet by having a shaky foundation to a relationship.
In the second story is seems like the "professor" was just trying to hang out with folks that share her interest... She never actually made any moves other than hanging out. The girlfriend is over reacting and needs to trust her bf. If he isn't trying to cheat then nothing is gonna happen.
Nah you did right, and as far as Alice is concerned if she was so quick to believe someone that you don’t like that’s not someone you be having in your life long term
Story 1: OP has rose colored glasses about his father and his actions. He downplayed the reason for the affair, c'mon he left her because of menopause? Lame excuse. Not only that he moves in with his son for a year + to 'start a business". He's using him for a place to stay, and avoiding busting the bubble of Linda's fantasy. Story 2: the teacher definitely is attracted to the BF and wants him to herself.
Women that use terminology like "patriarchal" tend not to be wife material. Cut Alice loose - there's a reason why she jumped to those conclusions after talking to that maniac.
@@wombattakat What heavy stuff? The most she actually had "laid" on her was an accusation of cheating from a woman that she knows the op has problems with.
Men that don’t like terminology like “patriarchal” aren’t husband material. Alice shouldn’t be with a grown up man who doesn’t know how to take care of himself. Alice should find someone who suits her better and acts like an adult.
How about dont abandon your partner cause they going through natural changes coming with age. Funny how if woman leaves a man for whatever reason shes bad and gold digger. But man being bag of crap is somehow always excused from his crap. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Waste wife didn't left him earlier - he evidently lived off her wealth
@@morganablackwater2017 yeah I would never do this only idiot would cheat. Like anyone else with common sense would say you could either divorce the person if thier dangerous or grew apart over time spending together or work on the marriage if you still love the person and you think your capable of working it out.
@@morganablackwater2017 Yeah you don't know what you're talking about. Women leave men all the time and don't get any flack about it unless they are obviously gold diggers. If a man leaves a woman or if a woman leaves a man, society always lable him as the problem. Saying things like "he didn't appreciate her" or "he was only interested in looks" or "he was a cheater". More recently it's more commonly been "he's misogynistic" "he's patriarchal" "he doesn't value women".
When work becomes more important than your family there's something very wrong with society. As for the secretary like most shes a gold digger wanting the status of CEO's wife. They are revolting
I somewhat divided between determining PhilipClair as an ID with negative sanity on 2nd form, like he gathers sanity with skill 1 & 2, and when he's 45, he'll reset his sanity to 0 and start using negative sanity, in which his skill 1 & 2 are greatly enhanced and 3 is just straight up powerburst. However, self-debuff/harm ID isn't too uncommon now, so yeah, maybe the self-burn thing can be real since we do have one due to how disproportionate his status condition be (Sinclair Talisman😅 ). Though I certainly hope that if PhilipClair deal with self-inflict burn, he'll self-inflict burn count rather than potency.
By day 2 of telling me what to do in my own home she would have been out the house period! Stop being nice to people who confuse privileges as entitlements!
People acting like that “patriarchy” comment is b.s. as if “weaponized incompetence” isn’t a dedicated genre on TikTok. Women want a man, not a man-child.
Story 2: A professor and account by 25. She probably didnt have much of a social life growing up and wants it now. Her life has probably always been on the fast track, if her fiance and friends are boring to her she should end the engagement, but getting married young is something that was probably pushed on her or part of some 10 year plan nonsense she made for herself years ago. Now she has met people she acrually enjoys and is learning to act her age. I dont know if she is flirting with op's boyfriend and is jealous of op or if she is being friendly and, being a fast lane woman, doesnt get along with other girls/doesnt know how to.
If they built wealth together then she's entitled to a portion of that wealth. But if they both built wealth separately then she's not. From the story the op said that they worked together so she's entitled to a portion of that wealth. However leaving him with just a car and some(not half some) savings means she made off with more than was fair.
@@davidnash8208 Well it depends on whether she had the business before they got married and whether they worked together to grow it. Again the poster said they worked together so he should get a portion of it. Also as i said she made off with more than what was fair.
Story one dude how cab you understand both pov when your dad straight up said he's leaving your mom because of menopause dude started our as a selfish prick
Actually professor is an easy title to get. All you have to do is teach a collage course. I had a professor who was a grad student in collage. I think she was either 22 or 25.
@@lilchristuten7568well, at least in Australia, you can’t do that: Level A - Associate Lecturer/Research Associate/Postdoctoral Research Fellow Level B - Lecturer/Research Fellow Level C - Senior Lecturer/Senior Research Fellow Level D - Associate Professor Level E - Professor So just by teaching you’ll be a lecturer. I am yet to see a Professor without a PhD and years and years in the field. It’s a coveted academic title. And you must demonstrate leadership in research, which a grad student can’t do since they are the ones being led
@@lilchristuten7568 in USA “professor” is still the highest academic rank, and it takes years to progress from assistant professor to associate professor to just professor. And the poster hasn’t specified where they are from so it’s up for speculation
@@SAstashova I just told you that a grad student was a professor in a class I took. Clearly it's not that hard to get the designation "professor" as you make it out to be.
I have to wonder what the dad ever saw in her. Being with her cost him his marriage, his job, his son and a home, all while being smug and cruel about it
How is it possible that the ex wife got almost all of her ex husband's money when they both earn much the and she has her own company the child is an adult.. fake story
Story 1: Dad and Linda would have been out as soon as Linda started acting like a fool
Dad and linda would be gone the moment the dad decided to be a wh*re and a pedo who cheats on my mum.
Id have never let them in to begin with
Everyone talking about the drama meanwhile I'm salivating at the thought of working from home and being able to afford the 3 Bedroom said home
I'm just wondering how he goes from having the penthouse to being expected to mow the lawn. so, either this story is translated from another language or it didn't happen
@@Jerseybytes2 ,You can have a penthouse AND a garden. They are not mutually exclusive. You know that right?
@@jessicathompson236 a garden, sure, that's normal. But a lawn that you need to mow?
Don't forget that his parents are wealthy, so they might helped him
@@Pi-is-Bi , Sure it's possible. Sometimes a penthouse has the only access to the whole roof.
The more of these I hear, the more I realize how much people put up with for their family.
You're right. I'll happily move heaven and earth for my family simply because they deserve it. Remember, there will be no drama in a happy, healthy and supportive family. These stories only show the outliers.
Well, either you're in a healthy family that'll reciprocate or in a toxic one that raised you to believe you must put up with the drama and abuse to keep the eace "because it's family"
@@SneakNationCEOI think the comment is referring to families being toxic and unhealthy. So your comment about damn right my family is great is just random and doesn't add to the conversation.
Right!!! Here I am trying yo keep distance to avoid those stressful family members, but these people just take it.
Reddit stories only... or life experience + few entertaining reddit tales that may or may be accurate. The majority of families are somewhat to very f'ed up. Good ones are more rare - Think on it and don't let your good fortune blind you to obvious reality 🙃@karankrishnamoorthy4465
Story one: “I no longer feel bad for him because he had brought this on himself.” Apparently you felt bad for him for a long time. Long and strong enough to allow yourself to be abused in your own house and even be chased out of your own house. I honestly believe if OP didn’t have a gf/fiance, he wouldn’t have done anything and remained spineless in his own house.
Exactly, what an idiot 😂
I think there's a difference between empathy and paternal love here. OP was raised to honour and respect his dad, which can blind some kids into ignoring the red flags because "family." So his wording is more to say OP became apathetic to that fact.
Yeah but Jesus respect and rolling over are two different things.
Just Humans being Humans 🙂
Most of them only now how to h3rt u, use u, give u fake sensation of security/family✨ and then leave u at your lowest☺️
I hate Linda
First story: Hope everything works out with Alice in the end. And while his dad deserves Linda, a part of me hopes he realizes now how much he's hurt his family because of his selfishness, dumps her and finds someone not a gold digger.
Second story: Sounds like the professor has gotten emotionally attached to the bf due to shared interests and is having a one-sided emotional affair. Some one needs to have a conversation with her before she ruins her life and possible OP's as well. The bf and his friends sound like good guys, but the best way to not fall for temptation is to avoid it entirely.
On the other hand, Alice put the kibosh on the engagement because she listened to his dad's squeeze, of all people. Not exactly a rock of a person to have in your life tbh.
@@Spagg0tYeah. Like think about it; would you rather trust the word of a man you trust and you known for over a year, or the word of some lady that just lives at his house that you just met? That could be problematic in the future for their relationship.
Personally, I'm having same hunch as mother in story and think Linda is gonna leave him anyway, now that she knows the truth.
Alice believed one crazy gold digger without getting OP’s side or confirming Linda’s story with anyone else. She’s a complete idiot
His dad deserves Linda? What the hell does that even mean?
Story 2:She is acting suspicious and inappropriately (professionally…if he was or is still a student).
There is one way to make sure, and that is for OP's BF to flirt back qnd see which direction the professor leans. But as it is going, she seems to be leaning into an affair.
Story 2: having an relationship with your professor from my knowledge will get you into trouble specially with you hanging out with student, drinking and sharing a airbnb absolutely not. That would need to be nipped in the bud.
First op's story is so interesting cause I would have told my dad he can stay at my house while he gets on his feet but his affair partner and ap's 5 year old child? Not on this earth are they staying in my house. If that was a deal breaker to my dad then he could find somewhere else to live.
I wouldn't let a cheater stay.
He was dating woman half his age - gross pedo on top of a cheater... Hell no.
And he cheated on his wife cause she got menopause?!
Dad can go rot on the streets...
can 3 of us live there rent free for the unforseeable future? -> you want us to move out? okay just give us 6 more months and we will consider it.
does his dad have no sense of pride? pathetic
im with you here, i wouldve done the same. id be all for my dad staying in a situation like this but i wouldnt let his affair partner or the child any where near my living space
Second story: I hate the idea of dictating who my partner hangs out with because it feels controlling to me, so I was on the professors side at first (she just seemed desperate for a friend.) BUT when she blatantly ignored the gf at dinner and acted rude towards her is where I personally would draw the line and ask bf to cut her out
First story I'm glad OP finally open his eyes about his dad. He needed that wake up call. Hopefully he'll be ok, and screw his dad and Linda.
His dad was not a bad person but a bad husband but a great father
Story 1: OP should have acted sooner and should have more spine. It’s his house and the fact that he let Linda walk all over him shows that he should have done something about it much earlier. Also, his mom is a G.
Story 1: Linda be flying out my property head over heels as soon as she first tried to boss around about the chores
Story 1: This whole story can literally be summed up with a single emoji: 🤦🏾♀️
Story 2: Sounds like professor is hoping to take things to the next level and needs to have BF sever ties with her for good.
First: You should have checked your father from day one of them living in your house. Also, that 🐴 is one to talk about housecleaning when she's not providing for her nor her child. Also, raise your child sis.
Second: She has a whole fiance, yet she's practically hovering around OP's bf and ignoring her. Also, you're faculty, what are you doing with a student?
Story 1: mom is a champ
ST1
As soon as the gold digger had got them both fired, OP's dad should have dumped her, but of course he's one of those guys who thinks with their head down there and not up there.
She's inviting random people she meets at the supermarket etc to OP's house, that's not on, OP should have put his foot down when that happened and told her no strangers until OP approves of them, I wonder if she's sneaking men in and sleeping with them behind OP's dad's back?
The cheek of that hypocrite to accuse OP of being Lazy and living off dad's money, I'd have said bit rich coming from the gold digger.
Should have smirked back and said "Lies"
"She dared me not to cross the line", Oh Linda you mean the same line you crossed when you lied to Alice about OP cheating, yeah that line, the line is gone, all gloves are off, you can't shout abuse at OP,, talk about a line and threaten to make OP homeless which you can't even do that after everything you've done to OP.
First story was full of red flags but obviously she thought it was a carnival
I kinda feel like him and Alice aren’t gonna work out…the fact she took the word of her father in laws mistress so seriously, especially when she’s quite obviously trying to smear OP. Like she really fell for that “patriarchy” BS so easily? Slow down before you end up like your dad
She didn't take it fully to heart but it was a thought and possibility to her. OP said she didn't know the full extent of Linda's issues and so took her a bit more seriously than she should have.
The kind of woman who will believe another woman over her partner she supposedly trusts.
And sure I get she felt weird but sge was gone out the door the second something came up, leaving OP to deal with his illness alone with an abuser in the house. So much for in sickness and in health.
Forget about household chores, that's the kinda treatment that's an actual red flag.
@@willow_nightstaff she knows the basics of the relationship, and she just witnessed her try to lie on OPs name multiple times. An outside opinion should not break trust so easily, this is a woman she’s never met not even her friend.
You act like Alice ghosted or cut off OP. If someone says your SO is cheating and bringing women home, it could cast a little doubt.
She doesn't live with him so she doesn't actually know what goes on in his house, while Linda does. Also, Alice hadn't known OP for too long.
It's not the same as a ten or five year relationship where it's like "I KNOW he would never do that to me. He just isn't like that"
Someone saying your SO is cheating WILL put a tiny bit of doubt in your mind until or unless it gets cleared up.
@@willow_nightstaff not if I just caught them in multiple lies right before they tried to accuse cheating. Even if she never knew of her existence, her repeated failed attempts at slandering the OP as a first impression should let her know she shouldn’t be taken very seriously
"God knows what he has seen in that woman that he had put everything at stake for her."
This is what I like to call _24-karat Cooter Syndrome,_ where a guy will happily burn his own life to the ground, family included, all for a piece of @$$.
I'm not so sure about this Alice girl. If someone can so easily turn her against you, without even talking to you about it, then is a relationship with her even worth pursuing.
No it is not
She needed space lol and yeah, patriarchal bringing is a big turn off for women
It sounds to me like there was some truth to him not helping out with chores while they were together but if that wasn't the case then yes, there's no need to be together if you don't trust each other.
She’s gullible. No evidence and yet she believes a crazy woman over a guy she knows for a while. Alice should go
Exactly. And honestly it seems like op is interested in her for her looks more than her person.
Story 1: I think we all want to be like OP's mom
That professor relationship with the bf is awfully unethical. Every professor I’ve had would always maintain it as a professor/student relationship and never even let it get to the friendship level. I have personal cellphones of professors and had meetings with them at coffee shops, but it was always to discuss academic matters.
Indeed. Like, I can understand when the teacher is a family friend already, as my childhood hometown was pretty small and there were two teachers (one of which was my homeroom teacher) that're fairly close with my uncle and she knows quite some of my extended family so we've been facebook friends since I was a young teenager. She congratulates me on my milestones like most family friends do and that's it. But this? Nuh uh.
Letting your 54 year old dad and his 29 year old girlfriend move in to your big house after your mom divorced him for cheating with said 29 year old is such spineless behavior. You almost have no right to complain if you think doing that is any help to anyone. If you even think to care about your mom at all you wouldn’t let the young adult who ruined her decades long marriage into your house.
Story 1 I would have told the woman before they got married, so it would save me and the dad all the trouble in the world
Why did Alice just listen to a complete stranger before even speaking to her partner?
I think the real issue is why Alice listen to women in general than men. Because it clear there a conversation about men issue, like men not helping with house kind of topic. She listen to stranger woman, not listen to partner (man), then listen to partner’s mom. See the pattern. That is gonna be a issue in the future if he didn’t discuss it early.
@@kantimeowpaw4693
He obviously doesn’t do chores, lol
Alice should know that, because she won’t do that for him
And calling a woman that cleans his house “a wh…” is so disrespectful. He should call his father that
@@Commentator488 I think the context is lacking. Did she clean the house or just boss around other people to clean their house. For example, he is mopping the floor she then try to find fault to make you mope that area again? Based on her personality, this might not be that far fetch. Given how entitled she sound I highly doubt she done any chores around the house. Also let's not forget she has a 5 year old girl who is just like her. Not disciplined. Her child probably make a mess and she demanded OP to fix the mess that her child made.
Not to mentioned, OP did mentioned he cooked his own food, did the dishes and laundry whenever he wanted to.
Another entertaining story about a common spineless Redditor. 💀
Btw Merry Christmas 🎉😂
fr like kick her out when she continued to disrespect you in your own house and your father lies abt him owning it i kinda understand bossing him cuz she thinks its her husbands hosue (still wrong tbh) but bro we need to blame the father WAY more
He is a reasonable and thoughtful individual. The rationale in this situation was difficult because if he does kick her out, he alienates his troublemaker dad. That would be a problem since humans, as social animals, seek to maintain social bonds. Struggling with the strategy of making a pragmatic decision is not "spineless." Not immediately defaulting to dark triad behaviors when someone mistreats you is not "spineless." Y'all simply lack nuance.
@MaryAX these people think emotional connections don't mean anything so don't bother lol
In story 1, how did Alice get gaslit so bad
"yah he is a cheater its in his blood?"
"What do you mean by that?"
"Because his dad cheated on his mom with me"
Seriously, whoever wrote this needs to take a creative writing class
I swear I know it’s family but come on people, don’t take people sh*t. Even when it’s family have some boundaries.
Alice reads like the kind of woman who will believe another woman over her partner she supposedly trusts.
And sure I get she felt weird but she was gone out the door the second something came up, leaving OP to deal with his illness alone with an abuser in the house. So much for in sickness and in health.
Forget about household chores, that's the kinda treatment that's an actual red flag.
Alice definitely seems like she’s gullible
He’s a grown up and can take care of himself while he’s sick. She can help him, as she did but she can’t stay with him all the time.
They aren’t married, what in sickness and in health are you talking about?
She’s not a red flag, you are.
The OP in the first story is so insufferable because of his lack of back bone. Bro you have ZERO reason to complain, when you could have at any point told her it was your house. Like don't complain if you're not gonna actually doing something about it 😂😂
Story 1: let the fiancé go, if she is so easily swayed then she cannot possibly make a good and loyal wife. Anyone with charisma and a persuasive manner can turn her against you.
Bro traded in a used classic LaFerrari for a brand new Nissan Altima 😂 bro is restarted 🔥🔥🔥
"mom is not a vindictive woman", nah, she's just best friends with karma
Tbh if Alice believes the stepmom without asking her bf .. that's not relationship material, how can you marry someone who has doubts when an outsider tells you bs. Have a lil faith.
Story 1
The fact that the woman couldn’t even keep silent about her relationship with her boss when there were a clear “no dating your co-worker” role. Just told me at once that she didn’t know the word boundaries or no. So I would not have let them stay at his house if I was him.
This is one of those that I want to hear the other side of the story before I believe this guy is an innocent victim here.
Why people can't understand what a difference between close friendship and affection is very thin and you cant just ask people if it is one or another, you have to use your own head.
If they could pay for a wedding in a honeymoon why the f*** couldn't they pay for a house why would you allow them to move into your house knowing they have money to get their own place this makes no sense to me?
A person that sit there and say that they don't want to take sides when they find out that their parents one of them are cheating that shows right there that they don't care about the parrot that's been cheated on so he agrees with his father cheating which in that case I can't wait to his fiancee cheats on him so he can know how it feels.
Honestly, i am not nearly as patient as the first story's OP. I swear that the second week she kept ordering me around i was gonna yell at her so badly. Thankfully, my father's girlfriend is a lovely woman and if one day they were in a similar situation i would be happy to have them in my house.
Why tf did the poster of the first story put up with Linda for so long? I mean it's obvious that English wasn't his first language, so he was probably from a stricter, more traditional culture that required him to support his dad, but still. He let them walk all over him
Alice is kind of dumb for believing a woman she barely knew over her fiancé but what do I know 🤷🏾♀️
If the gold digger finds you've got more money and status then your dad will be kicked to the curb and you will be her next target
He thinks his parents where doing ok except he never saw them together. 🤔
The first story has such an obnoxious writing style: “Yes, blah blah blah”; “No, blah blah blah”
That lady from the second story says
(my boyfriend) every single time she refers to him she is super possessive
Anyone know the original title or username of the first story? I'd like to check if there are any updates, but googling this title just brings up this video.
Never trust a girl that says "he's my brother!" And it's not her actual brother. Only acceptions, they grew up as siblings or one was adopted later. Or one is way younger, and there should absolutely be nothing going on because of the age gap. But more often than not, a girl says, "He's like my brother," and it's a guy of similar age that already has a girlfriend, she digs him and is just waiting for her movie romance with him to blossom.
Story 2 : do they mean professor assistant, because how is a professor 25 years old
2nd story: ngl, don't blame you for feeling there might be something going on, especially with how she completely ignored you!! that's so rude!! But if you trust your boyfriend, and by what you say he seems to respect your boundaries, I don't think you need to worry. However, if you still have concerns about her, I'm sure you can bring it up with him. He doesn't seem like he'd do anything what with how you described him.
Bro the mother at story one is a wine aunt + boss girl💀💀👌
Story 1- i feel bad for op because he is a pushover.
Story 2- it is unethical that a teacher/ex teacher spends time with a student that is still.currently at the same school. The op can tell the ethics committee and get her kicked out
His mom is the best
story 2:luckily the bf isnt cheating.accompany him with his events with his professor until he graduates.then have a happy life with him until he either cheats or dies
I feel like OP and Alice need couple's therapu. Because appearently she doesn't know you well enough to know about what happens in your house and that you ACTUALLY are suportive and she didn't tell you she talked to your stepmonster. There needs to be absolute transparency in a relationship
OP chose to be spineless for years instead of putting his foot down until everything had crumbled. Too bad for him, zero sympathy
This. He’s 26 years old but act like he’s 16. He’s not a real man. A real man would’ve solved the problem 3 months in.
The most unbelievable part of this is a freelance graphic designer making as much money as he's claiming.
Hahahahaha and I just got to the part he's with a famous influencer. Hahahaha
Story !: Guy is a total bro for not Outting his dad until Linda crossed the line completely
Yeah I don’t really want a partner who takes someone else’s word at a whim over mine, especially when the person they are getting the info from is toxic af. And then needs “space” to process it. Like okay Alice lmao
If Alice was so easily swayed, why would anyone want to be with someone like that? Would never have worked out in the end. Dodged a bullet by having a shaky foundation to a relationship.
In the second story is seems like the "professor" was just trying to hang out with folks that share her interest... She never actually made any moves other than hanging out. The girlfriend is over reacting and needs to trust her bf. If he isn't trying to cheat then nothing is gonna happen.
Nah you did right, and as far as Alice is concerned if she was so quick to believe someone that you don’t like that’s not someone you be having in your life long term
Imagine if Linda starts going after the son because The son is well off
Bro you really gonna leave story 1 on a fucking cliff hanger like that
Story 1: OP has rose colored glasses about his father and his actions. He downplayed the reason for the affair, c'mon he left her because of menopause? Lame excuse. Not only that he moves in with his son for a year + to 'start a business". He's using him for a place to stay, and avoiding busting the bubble of Linda's fantasy.
Story 2: the teacher definitely is attracted to the BF and wants him to herself.
i want to be like first guy’s mum she sounds so cool
In the first story, the second she got feisty with me, I said, do you wanna see a magic trick she would’ve been homeless with snapping my fingers
Story one- SHE’S LITERALLY 20 YEARS YOUNGER THAN HIM
Women that use terminology like "patriarchal" tend not to be wife material. Cut Alice loose - there's a reason why she jumped to those conclusions after talking to that maniac.
Alice is a victim of Linda’s manipulation, that was some heavy stuff she had laid on her. I think Alice and OP will be fine
@@wombattakat
What heavy stuff? The most she actually had "laid" on her was an accusation of cheating from a woman that she knows the op has problems with.
Men that don’t like terminology like “patriarchal” aren’t husband material. Alice shouldn’t be with a grown up man who doesn’t know how to take care of himself. Alice should find someone who suits her better and acts like an adult.
If I was dad I would get rid of the wife before hand then find a new woman
The story would still be the same except the word ,cheater, will be remove
How about dont abandon your partner cause they going through natural changes coming with age.
Funny how if woman leaves a man for whatever reason shes bad and gold digger.
But man being bag of crap is somehow always excused from his crap.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
Waste wife didn't left him earlier - he evidently lived off her wealth
@@morganablackwater2017 yeah I would never do this only idiot would cheat. Like anyone else with common sense would say you could either divorce the person if thier dangerous or grew apart over time spending together or work on the marriage if you still love the person and you think your capable of working it out.
@@morganablackwater2017
Yeah you don't know what you're talking about. Women leave men all the time and don't get any flack about it unless they are obviously gold diggers. If a man leaves a woman or if a woman leaves a man, society always lable him as the problem. Saying things like "he didn't appreciate her" or "he was only interested in looks" or "he was a cheater". More recently it's more commonly been "he's misogynistic" "he's patriarchal" "he doesn't value women".
Man, this is so weird to hear when my step mum is named Linda too
Your father cheated, he wouldn't have made it past the threshold.
When work becomes more important than your family there's something very wrong with society. As for the secretary like most shes a gold digger wanting the status of CEO's wife. They are revolting
I somewhat divided between determining PhilipClair as an ID with negative sanity on 2nd form, like he gathers sanity with skill 1 & 2, and when he's 45, he'll reset his sanity to 0 and start using negative sanity, in which his skill 1 & 2 are greatly enhanced and 3 is just straight up powerburst.
However, self-debuff/harm ID isn't too uncommon now, so yeah, maybe the self-burn thing can be real since we do have one due to how disproportionate his status condition be (Sinclair Talisman😅 ).
Though I certainly hope that if PhilipClair deal with self-inflict burn, he'll self-inflict burn count rather than potency.
First story...this guy is such a friggin push over
Why are they always a Graphic Designer? 😂😂
By day 2 of telling me what to do in my own home she would have been out the house period! Stop being nice to people who confuse privileges as entitlements!
People acting like that “patriarchy” comment is b.s. as if “weaponized incompetence” isn’t a dedicated genre on TikTok.
Women want a man, not a man-child.
Story 1: a three bedroom penthouse has a uayd🧐🧐🧐
story 2 that intro come on yes girl u should be worried if the man has no problem with what his teacher is doing then that man is not yo man
S1: your girlfriend is suspicious
Alice doesn’t seem like a good partner ether. She swallowed all of Linda’s lies with a shaker of salt. OP needs to find a better woman
Story2:she is super obvious she after your bf you need to carful or she will crus the line
Story 2: A professor and account by 25. She probably didnt have much of a social life growing up and wants it now. Her life has probably always been on the fast track, if her fiance and friends are boring to her she should end the engagement, but getting married young is something that was probably pushed on her or part of some 10 year plan nonsense she made for herself years ago. Now she has met people she acrually enjoys and is learning to act her age. I dont know if she is flirting with op's boyfriend and is jealous of op or if she is being friendly and, being a fast lane woman, doesnt get along with other girls/doesnt know how to.
I know he was going to propose that all was happens in these story’s
If Mom had her own successfuk business why did she need money from his Dad?
If they built wealth together then she's entitled to a portion of that wealth. But if they both built wealth separately then she's not. From the story the op said that they worked together so she's entitled to a portion of that wealth.
However leaving him with just a car and some(not half some) savings means she made off with more than was fair.
@@lilchristuten7568 why would he not get a portin of her business?
@@davidnash8208
Well it depends on whether she had the business before they got married and whether they worked together to grow it. Again the poster said they worked together so he should get a portion of it. Also as i said she made off with more than what was fair.
To take money from the w**re
Alice was living in a goddamn zoo💀
Op needs a spine. Why did he let it go on for so long.
Source of stories?
Count the BF's...
If anyone knows the op's username from stroy one could you let me know
I'm confused with the 2nd story. Is the professor a he or she?
He went down on his niece😐😑 8:14
are these all AI prompts?
Story one dude how cab you understand both pov when your dad straight up said he's leaving your mom because of menopause dude started our as a selfish prick
Lmao calling a random faculty member a professor. This is a serious title you earn by much harder work and never at 25
Actually professor is an easy title to get. All you have to do is teach a collage course. I had a professor who was a grad student in collage. I think she was either 22 or 25.
@@lilchristuten7568well, at least in Australia, you can’t do that:
Level A - Associate Lecturer/Research Associate/Postdoctoral Research Fellow
Level B - Lecturer/Research Fellow
Level C - Senior Lecturer/Senior Research Fellow
Level D - Associate Professor
Level E - Professor
So just by teaching you’ll be a lecturer. I am yet to see a Professor without a PhD and years and years in the field. It’s a coveted academic title. And you must demonstrate leadership in research, which a grad student can’t do since they are the ones being led
@@SAstashova
Did the writer of the story say he was from Australia?
@@lilchristuten7568 in USA “professor” is still the highest academic rank, and it takes years to progress from assistant professor to associate professor to just professor. And the poster hasn’t specified where they are from so it’s up for speculation
@@SAstashova
I just told you that a grad student was a professor in a class I took. Clearly it's not that hard to get the designation "professor" as you make it out to be.
Second ❤❤❤ hi Telltales 👋 ☺️ 😊
I have to wonder what the dad ever saw in her. Being with her cost him his marriage, his job, his son and a home, all while being smug and cruel about it
If story 1 is not fake. Does anyone know If OP and Alice are together? Or anyone has the username of OP?
People actually believe these stories? lol
How is it possible that the ex wife got almost all of her ex husband's money when they both earn much the and she has her own company the child is an adult.. fake story