8 Reasons Why People Stare At Sigma Males

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  • @achievegreatnessmedia
    @achievegreatnessmedia  11 месяцев назад +18

    Hey everyone! Thanks for watching! If you find value in my content, make sure to hit the like button and subscribe to the channel for more! I really appreciate it! 👍

    • @smokeysgt2568
      @smokeysgt2568 11 месяцев назад

      Thank You, ever since I was a kid I knew I was different, I always viewed and processed the world in the micro so I could better understand the macro. Unfortunately all my life I was continually told this was wrong, that I was broken. I believed them so I accepted what they said, and tried most of my life to change myself. I was constantly stumbling, constantly being frustrated with myself and to the point of hating myself. Now I know why. I was trying to try change who I was and who was born to be. I cant say thank you enough. What Ive learned through you has revealed to me was that there was never anything wrong with me. I was just being misunderstood and being defined as flawed because I didn't fit in the predetermined box. Popularity has always been a major red flag for me that was to be avoided and questioned. I will forever remember this point in my life as a moment of clarity when I feel the feelings of self doubt and used this moment when its time for a recharge and self-reflection. Thank you.

    • @hebrewisraelitescharleston843
      @hebrewisraelitescharleston843 11 месяцев назад

      It'll be interesting to hear you talk about Hebrew Israelite Sigmas.. the Top of the Best males on Eretz

  • @thobaniselby2842
    @thobaniselby2842 7 месяцев назад +8

    May all of us sigmas rise n spreading wisdome every were we go, peace to the creater salute.

  • @chrispicquet733
    @chrispicquet733 10 месяцев назад +7

    I learned a long time ago to stop trying to fit in with the click.I am different.i don't need validation for anything, especially,life changing decisions, which always drove my friends and family insane!

  • @edigabrieli7864
    @edigabrieli7864 8 месяцев назад +6

    One thing that was never mention here is the fact that when we are forced to ask for help we always give something back as a reminder of our appreciation, maybe a gift or an invite to a show or a meal or a promise to help that person in whatever they may need and we always keep that promise even years later or even if it cost us more than the value of the favor we have received. And the strangest part is that we do it because we owe it to ourselves.

    • @martianknight6341
      @martianknight6341 8 месяцев назад +1

      debt's must be paid. the hardest thing in the world for sum folks to do, is to even admit out loud that they need help. have a great day.

  • @alexpearson8481
    @alexpearson8481 11 месяцев назад +17

    I have no clue if I’m a sigma. I check off most of the boxes, but not all. My gaze is troubling because people have troubles looking me in the eye. They get nervous and look away, So I’ve learned to avoid too much of a strong eye contact - but that confuses them. They think I’m not paying attention.

    • @TroyDeFrates-jh8fc
      @TroyDeFrates-jh8fc 10 месяцев назад +1

      Try using the "Triangle Gaze" technique more often until it becomes natural and easy....takes the edge off our eyes....

  • @TizerisT.
    @TizerisT. 10 месяцев назад +12

    100% agree about not wanting to be a walking advert. I’d rather be understated than a clone with a giant Nike logo on his chest

  • @simongathii2738
    @simongathii2738 11 месяцев назад +10

    Thanks for making me understand my self

  • @ideegeniali
    @ideegeniali 9 месяцев назад +3

    It's not about rushing, but walking with purpose. If i decided I'm going from point A to point B, i want to get there efficiently. I plan efficient trajectories trough moving crowds. I hit nobody. While I'm walking I enjoy meditating and explore inner space. If something catches attention, it's not to blame about distraction, but an occasion to observe and undestand depths of meaning about a minor detail others would slip trough unnoticed.

  • @nateone6632
    @nateone6632 11 месяцев назад +23

    I hate it sometimes because I feel like there's a spot light on me..also I'm so high energy and ADHD/always thinking so deeply I can tell people until they know me are almost suspicious or unsure of me

    • @trevork9932
      @trevork9932 11 месяцев назад +6

      Your not alone on this one, feel that

    • @thedopeone96
      @thedopeone96 10 месяцев назад

      Real shit same here we are sooooo misunderstood its not even funny at all we live a hard life forreal

    • @mariuscristian4030
      @mariuscristian4030 8 месяцев назад +1

      Same

    • @cactu5jack
      @cactu5jack 3 месяца назад +1

      Lmfao oh Lord have mercy.. 🤣🤣

  • @felixlopez4176
    @felixlopez4176 10 месяцев назад +6

    So crazy its like hearing someone els explaining who i am i literally relate to all of them

  • @tokomarwina9964
    @tokomarwina9964 11 месяцев назад +24

    And always have a sense of humor on top of it.

    • @dvelarde
      @dvelarde 4 месяца назад

      Do you have a sense of humor about being unable to form a complete & comprehensible sentence? Comprehensible to anyone other than YOU, I mean. NEVER use a preposition without having used the noun it refers to first. NOBODY will know what "IT" refers to.

    • @tokomarwina9964
      @tokomarwina9964 4 месяца назад +1

      @@dvelarde with 20 "likes" I get you're not a sigma, you're not IT.

  • @paulhain1972
    @paulhain1972 11 месяцев назад +20

    Happens to me all the time.

    • @smoothlyrough512
      @smoothlyrough512 10 месяцев назад +1

      It's because you had a boogie hanging 😂

    • @scanadaze
      @scanadaze 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@smoothlyrough512 Bata. Feel special now?

  • @waitienchan6410
    @waitienchan6410 11 месяцев назад +7

    Agree 100%. Just sharing a recent discovery. My suffering (not physical pain), is due to my judgement about events, things, people, behaviours, current affairs etc. I am working on giving up any judgement. 🙏

    • @freespeechchampsusanwojcic2528
      @freespeechchampsusanwojcic2528 11 месяцев назад +2

      I think this is a phase most sigmas go through. We're analytical and thirst for knowledge, so we absorb as much information about events, things, people, behaviors, current events, etc. and form judgements when they don't line up with our own conclusions. Most sigmas grow out of this phase when we realize the only thing we have control over is ourselves and our reactions to said stimuli. Many of us do suffer concerning ourselves with the world's problems, but that fades once you realize that other people in the world are not like us and don't see a correct path and will only continue to make the same mistakes so there is no reason to waste any of our mental capacity on them.

  • @TroyDeFrates-jh8fc
    @TroyDeFrates-jh8fc 11 месяцев назад +12

    1:00. I am a 5-6/10 handsome man...average, but my ability to allow others set their boundaries in a conversation before I fully enter the topic with my thoughts allows them to feel safe talking to you. Charm is simply the ability to get another to drop their guard, even for a moment, and they will connect with you.
    2:00. Physical presence is simply established by our self-respect. People can smell it a mile away like a hormone.
    3:00. I am a published poet. Adding some "$10 Words" to your vocabulary will intrigue people.
    4:00. We look busy because we are. Time is the most valuable thing in our life.
    5:00. This is simply being fully in the moment. We are positive forward lookers that have already lesrned from the the past and left it behind.
    6:10. Seriously fellas, man-up and forge a brass pair for pity sake.
    8:00. I retired at 45 without help. Freedom has been my life goal. I sacrificed and did without to reach this goal.

    • @dilipmurmu9253
      @dilipmurmu9253 11 месяцев назад +2

      👍👌🙏💐🧘‍♂️

    • @frankydaisukegiron9168
      @frankydaisukegiron9168 10 месяцев назад +2

      you say 6 out of 10 but dont ever forget we judge ourselves too strongly from now on a 8 out of 10 but in the ones that love you eyes a 100 out of 10 its about right. :D

  • @drewford3205
    @drewford3205 11 месяцев назад +8

    Absolutely on the mark

  • @17ducatti
    @17ducatti 5 месяцев назад

    The more I delve into this topic, the more I realize what I am and why I am. Appreciate the videos….plz don’t let up.

  • @mrbee3534
    @mrbee3534 10 месяцев назад +11

    Sigma when sober..,Alpha when drunk

    • @Vikingnartists
      @Vikingnartists 5 месяцев назад +1

      That’s why I gave up alcohol, hate alphas and my drunk self included

    • @mrbee3534
      @mrbee3534 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@Vikingnartists Hate alcohol...Give up Alpha...= Solitude.

    • @Vikingnartists
      @Vikingnartists 5 месяцев назад

      @@mrbee3534 luckily yes

    • @mrbee3534
      @mrbee3534 5 месяцев назад

      @@Vikingnartists Choice is stronger... permanent with commitment ...luck is transient.

    • @Vikingnartists
      @Vikingnartists 5 месяцев назад

      @@mrbee3534 yes luckily solitude without alcohol by choice

  • @nouscratos5484
    @nouscratos5484 11 месяцев назад +13

    Sigmas are bothered by everything and everyone, lacrimae mundi, but they know they cannot influence many things, they don't have a group mind or tend to group, so they know some problems of the society are unsolvable. Also, they don't want to "spoil the mood" of others with unnecessary negativity of the world problems, and also sigmas pretend better then the average volk not to be bothered by a certain things. While the most people are willingly ignorant of the world problems, or address them black and white, pro and against - like they do with their favorite football teams, sigmas are completely conscious, but are at peace with their findings.

  • @kyivwithgeofftanya5546
    @kyivwithgeofftanya5546 11 месяцев назад +4

    I find that I walk faster when I am thinking intensely. I navigate to my destination on automatic and often have 2 or more topics, problems and trains of thought at once. My wife tugs my arm to slow me down so she can keep up, it’s our signal 😎😂

  • @marktorch9079
    @marktorch9079 11 месяцев назад +5

    Sigma walk as described here is very different from the Alpha male. Slow, distinct. said to show confidence by not being in a hurry. Seems to me then the pace at which 1 chooses has nothing to do with confidence but the impression they might give off relys on other factors

  • @stephenthomason5983
    @stephenthomason5983 9 месяцев назад +1

    I was thinking you've been following me, but then again, i would have known that....
    Love your videos young man...
    They are putting lots of minds at rest ...🧡

  • @sayanmazumder1914
    @sayanmazumder1914 10 месяцев назад +3

    Walking Advertisements😂😂 7:24

  • @mhonk33
    @mhonk33 11 месяцев назад +2

    Great perspectives and the background music. Always love learning something new. Engaging video and a delight to watch. Thank you :)

  • @69erthx1138
    @69erthx1138 10 месяцев назад +3

    I believe the strongest Sigma trait is opposition to social norms. Others are scared to challenge the system, you see an opportunity for positive conflict. In this one builds and fosters an environment for growth for everyone. The second trait is genuine empathy, your "payback" is seeing the encouragement in others and opening their perspective. A sigma is aware that their individual lack of internal self-confidence is simply a shadow trait, it is seen as mere illusion and dismissed.

  • @KevinStewart-y2t
    @KevinStewart-y2t 6 месяцев назад +1

    Its sickening how accurate

  • @boydnuttall9031
    @boydnuttall9031 11 месяцев назад +5

    "Instead of dwelling on problems, Sigma Males are always a step ahead, thinking about solutions and the best way forward."
    This is second nature to me and I am sure to most sigma males. We can see solutions quickly and clearly and I have no doubt it baffles many of those individuals that are around us. This video is spot on with the characteristics of a sigma male. Very well done.

    • @jmofisi
      @jmofisi 10 месяцев назад

      True. They think I am trying to take over,when silent, they assume I am plotting something 😂

  • @omargarza7060
    @omargarza7060 5 месяцев назад +1

    I absolutely agree. 100%

  • @reinaldoortiz3769
    @reinaldoortiz3769 11 месяцев назад +2

    Awesome video!

  • @muhammadsharif1718
    @muhammadsharif1718 9 месяцев назад

    When the surrounding gazes tend to underestimate there is an ambivalent feelings of anger and happiness of puzzling ... still get going seemingly unaffected.

  • @smoothlyrough512
    @smoothlyrough512 10 месяцев назад +3

    Not sure if I'm a sigma, but I accidentally get all the attention when I walk into a room. Do i have a boogie, am i cute, is my zipper unzipped. It can be VERY off putting

  • @Dagm1111
    @Dagm1111 9 месяцев назад +1

    It's not really a mystery, but only a knowing of our true nature that exists in all humans. It's self realization and lifting up the vail that we're all born with 💟

    • @dougedoug2105
      @dougedoug2105 9 месяцев назад +1

      I’ve sat back and observed many many people over the past few years. And what I’ve learned as the sigma male/lone wolf was that most people subscribe to group think and largely act and behave in fairly predictable ways. If you have a sound understanding of human nature then you can pretty much manipulate and manuever just about anyone without their knowing. I wish I had discovered this in my 20’s now that I’m in my 30’s because I would’ve saved myself so much wasted time. 😂
      “The best thing about human beings is that they stack so nicely.”
      - Frank Underwood 😉

  • @randyhankison1036
    @randyhankison1036 11 месяцев назад +2

    Yep,right on

  • @aljanbaritos9250
    @aljanbaritos9250 10 месяцев назад +1

    true I walk fast and focus on the goal

  • @Dazbo76
    @Dazbo76 10 месяцев назад

    I love your channel… very insightful thanks mate… may I ask do you use a I to help make your videos? Im inspired I want to be a content creator, this format is great there is interesting things in life people should learn… 🙏

  • @Versatilad
    @Versatilad 11 месяцев назад +4

    I do everything extreme until I figure it all out.

  • @MikeYunn
    @MikeYunn 6 месяцев назад +1

    This have been very uncomfortable , I double down on being unseen with the way I drees

  • @ngoditrustbeats5045
    @ngoditrustbeats5045 9 месяцев назад +1

    All great

  • @skyybluu3118
    @skyybluu3118 10 месяцев назад +1

    Love your videos thank you

  • @jaji9678
    @jaji9678 9 месяцев назад +1

    Spot on

  • @madhusudanragothaman2355
    @madhusudanragothaman2355 10 месяцев назад +1

    I agree 100 Percent.

  • @CAUSEDEATH
    @CAUSEDEATH 10 месяцев назад +2

    Seems EVERYONE stares at me, even children and newborns

  • @jtjimenez05
    @jtjimenez05 10 месяцев назад +1

    I could literally walk into a room of 100 people and find the one person staring at me without looking around. I hate attention.

  • @LaciNicole
    @LaciNicole 9 месяцев назад +1

    When a sigma walks in, people don't say it, but they start observing the sigma. They are searching for the reason they felt that cold unease ripple throughout their beings. Little do they know, that feeling of uncertainty is yet unnamed, and yet is an innate attribute of the sigma. In addition, this strange feeling upon a sigma entering the room is completely unique, only present in the rare sigma typing.

    • @dougedoug2105
      @dougedoug2105 9 месяцев назад

      I began a new job recently and there’s about the same amount of males as female coworkers. Well there’s this one guy who’s the unspoken alpha of the department. He’s young, tall, muscular, masculine, and extremely good looking with a very full thick beard to match. I can tell that he has his way with women and he’s probably going to inherit some type of leadership position in the future, but I always notice him staring at me. He even goes out of his way to bump into me which is how I know I’m somehow on his radar.
      I’m sure it’s because I haven’t validated him yet, most alpha males attract both male and female suitors, so he’s not used to anyone not bowing down and introducing themselves to him. Me on the other hand from a physical standpoint we’re equally attractive except that he’s got the height advantage. I’m perplexing him because although I’m not an alpha male, I elicit the same reactions from people and I don’t have to assert my dominance or work for their attention.
      Anyway I always catch him checking me out almost like he’s dying to come and talk to me too but I guess he continues looking in my direction because he hasn’t yet figured out my secret: That secret being that my confidence lies in the fact that I do not need nor am I looking to seek his personal approval.
      I may not be an alpha but I’m a sigma and I sense a mutual respect between us. That’s how I can tell if another man has good character or not, when he can sense that I’m probably equally as bad ass as he is, minus the challenge or dcik measuring contests. Men respect other men when their confidence is organic and not forced.
      Although I don’t much care for hierarchies, I do acknowledge that they exist but because I’ve learned one of life’s secrets, the fact that you cannot please everyone, I don’t have to waste valuable time playing the traditional social game. A beautiful drop dead gorgeous lover told me just yesterday verbatim that I “can force her to submit” without her understanding why. It’s the sigma in me Baby 😉 👊🏽

  • @ideegeniali
    @ideegeniali 9 месяцев назад

    People I walk with (e.g. my wife) would complain about my speed and ask me to slow down and then start talking drama. I think part of the reasoning for my fast pace is to force walking companions to pay attention to the fast paced walk which is a challenge than need brain power, to divert their brain power away from drama.
    For similar reason I drive car fast as well, it's a more intense brain activity that requires more focus and attention, which i can divert away from listening to drama i'm not interested in, if i have other people in the car performing small talk.

  • @voxpopneverdies2025
    @voxpopneverdies2025 10 месяцев назад

    I suffered this in meetings. The second thing that occoured was every man in the room through the meeting always delivered a challenge, that was subdued quickly and the next one in the pecking order would start. Over time women once they had achieved male status in management also started to do this.

  • @gstacks814
    @gstacks814 8 месяцев назад +1

    when you try to blend into the background in public, but wind up sticking out like a sore thumb.

  • @MohammadAtallah-nq3jc
    @MohammadAtallah-nq3jc 9 месяцев назад +1

    I agree with you sir

  • @MaddyMaxxx
    @MaddyMaxxx 10 месяцев назад +2

    Maybe we walk fast cause we got to take a piss

  • @nealfry2230
    @nealfry2230 11 месяцев назад +2

    I'll Always Love me Neal Patrick Fry

    • @nealfry2230
      @nealfry2230 10 месяцев назад +1

      The moment Eye go Beaver Hunting
      I'm the WoN being hunted by Foxes and
      that's no bull, I'm Horney.
      I started dating Chearleaders in the
      2ND grade.
      Heroes Hayden Panettiere is THE
      Most Breathtakingly Beautiful Lady I've ever seen in my Life. That's the Truth.
      I'll Always Love you Hayden Panettiere
      With Everlasting Love Faithfully Forever Your's Always Lovingly,
      Neal Patrick Fry a.k.a. Sundown from the Vietnam Generation.

  • @ideegeniali
    @ideegeniali 9 месяцев назад

    Sigma here. I think i have fast pace when walking with someone to divert some of their brain power away from drama into concentration on paying attention to avoid obstacles. I overload their senses so that they hopefully cut off unuseful drama and offer meaningful conversations instead.

  • @jukijunk
    @jukijunk 11 месяцев назад +1

    Everyone here: "Yup, Sigma Male! Thats me right there!"

  • @markclark9239
    @markclark9239 10 месяцев назад

    Hello that is so excellent 👏 doing great always so wonderful bless you all ✨️ 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @PatientZeRo-vh4zi
    @PatientZeRo-vh4zi 11 месяцев назад

    This is crazy, I didn't know there were others.

  • @jeanpaul4100
    @jeanpaul4100 11 месяцев назад +2

    I thought it was because i look weird lol.

  • @HoldYourPerspective
    @HoldYourPerspective 9 месяцев назад +1

    this is all men's baseline, the others traits come out because we allow life to reflect in our actions

  • @czeslawbrasewicz7891
    @czeslawbrasewicz7891 10 месяцев назад

    Fully agree ❤

  • @alb2be
    @alb2be 10 месяцев назад

    Chest up, chin out to the interview. Charisma comes with it because it's a sense of purpose. Eye contact is this and words help make it so. It takes steps get out, but we help keep chill our shields helps shield those around us. We've prepared for it, thought about it, dreamed about it and..... hmm.....clouds... Simple style? What's that? Ktsu and start again

  • @joshpalmer4889
    @joshpalmer4889 7 месяцев назад +1

    I walk slower than most ppl we aren’t all the same but…duh.

  • @Stylecounciler3000
    @Stylecounciler3000 10 месяцев назад

    I am one. It's not easy.

  • @knottreel
    @knottreel 11 месяцев назад +3

    They all wear beards, they all are young and single, they stare off into space.

  • @johnmckiernan987
    @johnmckiernan987 10 месяцев назад +1

    Gee, I always thought it was due to the smell of garlic of my breath.

  • @Michael-yi4mc
    @Michael-yi4mc 7 месяцев назад

    My dogs stare at me right before dinner time.

  • @Helm-w1q
    @Helm-w1q 3 месяца назад

    When people stare at me I always check my zipper on my pants.

  • @jaknohi1909
    @jaknohi1909 10 месяцев назад +1

    I catch women staring at me all the time even with there bfs an i just walk away

  • @garrettmay6537
    @garrettmay6537 11 месяцев назад +1

    Me 💯

  • @RajaramSetaram
    @RajaramSetaram 10 месяцев назад +1

    Lone wolf

  • @arbanalechordin4710
    @arbanalechordin4710 9 месяцев назад

    A unique breed of man. God damnit I hate being normal, I would love to be a sigma male. How can I become one?

    • @martianknight6341
      @martianknight6341 8 месяцев назад

      LoL never let any1 label you/yourself, fuck their labels

    • @AnyMatter
      @AnyMatter 6 месяцев назад

      Sigmas are dumb... They speak less... So ppl can't say anything but staring them instead

  • @27pugsly
    @27pugsly 11 месяцев назад +2

    Cause we cute weird guys 😅

  • @stevenegleston
    @stevenegleston 10 месяцев назад

    I walk hella fast

  • @adrianrose7703
    @adrianrose7703 9 месяцев назад

    I”m fed up with sigma channels. We need a channel for us frustrated betas.

  • @CyberAscendant
    @CyberAscendant 11 месяцев назад

    Some of this is not true at all but I’ll take the sentiment

  • @StrikeBuster-b2b
    @StrikeBuster-b2b 10 месяцев назад

    I stare at everyone. I hope someone has to say about it.

  • @sattolbert
    @sattolbert 8 месяцев назад

    So is there a such thing as a sigma female???

  • @talkingdog8006
    @talkingdog8006 11 месяцев назад

    Its my really bad body odor that makes people look at me and i take daily shower and scrub with oil based soap but its something like natural gas like a skunk aura.

  • @prototype9904
    @prototype9904 10 месяцев назад +1

    I disagree with one of these ~ Walking faster than everyone else
    Rushing around is NOT a sign of a well thought out plan, and is not indicative of being/having importance/status. The king doesn't have to run, he simply walks with purpose. It's the kings fool that runs when summoned.

    • @fishbear2961
      @fishbear2961 4 месяца назад +1

      He didn’t say run

    • @prototype9904
      @prototype9904 4 месяца назад

      @@fishbear2961 Apparently you can't understand a basic metaphor, or you're just trying to straw man me. I don't know or care ~ So either way, you offer nothing in the way of disproving any arguments against my point.

  • @marcusza9
    @marcusza9 10 месяцев назад

    Damn I'm so sigma😂

  • @khelben1979
    @khelben1979 11 месяцев назад +1

    That someone would be more intelligent than another person just because he or she walks faster you say? I doubt it. ;) Some of your videos are OK but it's not uncommon you get the facts wrong. I usually put the thumbs up on your videos, but this one felt sloppy, in my opinion.

    • @achievegreatnessmedia
      @achievegreatnessmedia  11 месяцев назад +4

      Like with anything, nothing is always 100%. There are always exceptions. It's not that people are smarter BECAUSE they walk faster, but it's a correlation found that more intelligent people tend to walk faster. There have been studies that point to this being the case. As with anything, you are free to do your own research on this! Cheers.

  • @uldi1s
    @uldi1s 11 месяцев назад

    This must be for others to know, because we don't notice or care if someone is staring at us

  • @manicminer7840
    @manicminer7840 11 месяцев назад

    Thoughts? Yeah
    If they value shit, well
    Shit they got.

  • @Vikramt21
    @Vikramt21 11 месяцев назад +1

    🍷🥂🍻🍾🍺

  • @JC-sc9rx
    @JC-sc9rx 10 месяцев назад

    Ill tell you what makes me tick. BBQ Chicharrónes and chocolate milk.

  • @alb2be
    @alb2be 10 месяцев назад

    Chest up, chin out

  • @MaddyMaxxx
    @MaddyMaxxx 10 месяцев назад

    I speak in parables do to everyone is on the spectrum

  • @goldLuck1
    @goldLuck1 8 месяцев назад

    People look at you because you are weird, not because you are a "sigmamale".

  • @Michael-yi4mc
    @Michael-yi4mc 7 месяцев назад

    Saying that the election was rigged or it’s a witch hunt isn’t very sigma.

  • @marktorch9079
    @marktorch9079 11 месяцев назад

    Would you describe Elon Musk as a Sigma Male? If so why?