My brother is autistic | Royan Lee | TEDxKitchenerED

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 68

  • @noahlundberg3288
    @noahlundberg3288 4 года назад +30

    I'm autistic myself and really liked your talk. Also saved by my dog on a daily basis.

  • @christopherhennelly7486
    @christopherhennelly7486 5 лет назад +39

    Thank you for doing the talk. I understand so much of what you have shared. I'm 57 years old, my brother is 58. We are the younger of six kids. I have struggled with understanding the things you spoke of. I cried when you started to choke up. Peace. Keep doing public speaking you are gifted.

  • @MilanMulji
    @MilanMulji 7 лет назад +41

    " communication only exist when the information is received and processed " what a great teach!!!

  • @amybe3
    @amybe3 6 лет назад +35

    Thank you for sharing this, it may me cry. I love someone with autism and that person that most people love the most, is my son.

  • @raynalreyes5769
    @raynalreyes5769 6 лет назад +52

    I never comment on videos but I'm going to start to hope I can release some of my thoughts, and hopefully relate to some people. This was very touching and I really enjoyed the mix of comedy + reality...this man is inspiring.

    • @maurosoto8029
      @maurosoto8029 4 года назад +1

      I am very pleased that the Autism Spectrum is comming to be more and more understood, and not as a disability. Only that not all of us are made the same. I have a Godson who was born autistic. His mother, my Goddaughter who is the most courages young lady I have ever known. To give birth to him and care for him from the age of 13. It wasn't of her own free will to have him. To take care of him was.

    • @Myadigi
      @Myadigi 11 месяцев назад

      Thankyou❤

  • @amelienicole-g
    @amelienicole-g 25 дней назад

    My sister has a rare chromosomal abnormality and a secondary diagnosis of autism. She is seventeen and I am nineteen, freshly moved out of home, away from my sister for the first time in my life. I loved the humour and empathy in this talk- thank you so much for sharing your experience.

  • @StevenTookey
    @StevenTookey 8 месяцев назад +1

    You are a good man my son has autism and he is lucky enough to have an older brother like you thank you for doing this and letting people know and understand ❤

  • @ragdollpetgrooming2565
    @ragdollpetgrooming2565 2 года назад +2

    By far the best explanation by family member I’ve ever seen

  • @honeyhoney6920
    @honeyhoney6920 Месяц назад

    Really resonated with this talk, even 8 years later. I wish a part of me had seen this earlier, but I'm glad to have watched this. ❤

  • @CalmintheChaosHomeschool
    @CalmintheChaosHomeschool 3 года назад +5

    I love your humor. Thank you for helping us look at the challenges we face as parents of children on the spectrum in a more light hearted way.

  • @evelynspaghetti4978
    @evelynspaghetti4978 7 месяцев назад

    I know this is 7 years old..but so much gratitude to the the speaker, Royan, for sharing his story. That was incredibley moving and informative. Thankyou so, so much ❤

  • @patricia_anotherway
    @patricia_anotherway 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing your story with us and giving us language to understand the journey of our son. For sure this will change our lives and his. Sending gratitude, abundance, and love to your heart. Thank you! 💛🌸

  • @jackiemitchell8869
    @jackiemitchell8869 2 года назад +4

    I love your comments near the end about autism and ADHD being cognitive variations and not deficits and dysfunctions.

    • @alleycat616
      @alleycat616 9 месяцев назад

      At the same time I don’t think it’s realistic to say that. These behaviors are often very dysfunctional in our society. That’s just the reality. Most people don’t understand. So I don’t think it’s fair to act like these are just simple variations of normal either. If it were, people with autism, their families/parents, teachers etc. wouldn’t have so many struggles to keep things functional for everyone.

  • @shahidahmed5779
    @shahidahmed5779 3 года назад +2

    One of the best TEDX talks I've heard

  • @DillyDallyDiane-t8s
    @DillyDallyDiane-t8s 5 лет назад +8

    I love the different perspective !! This brought tears to my eyes!

  • @everettcoleman2335
    @everettcoleman2335 3 года назад +4

    My eight year old brother is autistic so this really hits home for me

  • @chloesance699
    @chloesance699 7 лет назад +13

    Such wonderful articulation and heart. I appreciate and value this talk.

    • @raynalreyes5769
      @raynalreyes5769 6 лет назад +1

      The same, I value you for pointing this out Chloe!

  • @Echoer_24
    @Echoer_24 9 месяцев назад

    16:45
    This talk resonates with me so much, as the youngest and with having 2 differently abled siblings, it’s been hard to understand to say the least. I appreciate your view, and I hope to be able to see their weird as normal.

  • @SincerelyReal
    @SincerelyReal 6 лет назад +3

    Thank you for sharing, your story is very touching.

  • @saraelizabethdiamond1951
    @saraelizabethdiamond1951 5 лет назад +3

    Beautiful story and lesson. Thank you so much for giving us your perspective!

  • @mariajattan5093
    @mariajattan5093 5 лет назад +3

    How beautiful speech!!! I got emotional when you did. Best wishes xx

  • @whitenymphwaterlily
    @whitenymphwaterlily 4 года назад +4

    "let that sand go... the beach is much more beautiful when you do so..." love that..

  • @zeynepbilgi
    @zeynepbilgi 6 лет назад +2

    Particularly heart touching after 17.40

  • @grahmedmisten231
    @grahmedmisten231 Месяц назад

    Lived with one for 22 years.

  • @Ms-yv5li
    @Ms-yv5li 4 года назад

    Thank You Sincerely

  • @theresamuschkat191
    @theresamuschkat191 8 лет назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your story Royan!

  • @brendatan4419
    @brendatan4419 3 года назад

    Awesome sharing-I enjoyed your humorous, articulate and touching story🤗🤗. Keep it up, Royan, Jia-yu👏👏.

  • @rosewater6456
    @rosewater6456 3 года назад +8

    I have an autistic son. I think your brother may have treated you as a stranger just because he was out of the habit of being with you. Not that he had forgotten you. I also think that he may have pushed your daughter out of jealousy. My son was upset when my daughter was born. Sometimes they feel like they are being replaced and that doesn't feel good.

  • @bangjaemun
    @bangjaemun 2 года назад

    Thank you

  • @meredithslack850
    @meredithslack850 5 лет назад

    So good. Thank you.

  • @crelq-lq2qu
    @crelq-lq2qu 4 года назад +1

    My autistic brother is the reason I go through depression every single day of my life

    • @brandonmonestime7129
      @brandonmonestime7129 4 года назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Gamjnrr
      @Gamjnrr 4 года назад +2

      Yo bro just read your message, my brother had autism too, just make sure you spend time with him like I do and make them feel loved

    • @rashmirani1806
      @rashmirani1806 3 года назад +1

      @@brandonmonestime7129 what was funny?

  • @heloisasa3715
    @heloisasa3715 2 года назад

    This is beautiful!

  • @BrandonZoras
    @BrandonZoras 8 лет назад +1

    Amazing talk Royan!

  • @vlogs-jl2bv
    @vlogs-jl2bv 2 года назад

    My brother is autistic and its a lot to handle

  • @jiyeon8793
    @jiyeon8793 6 лет назад +3

    I relate to you soo much

  • @krugerfuchs
    @krugerfuchs 4 года назад +1

    It's a difference not a disability

  • @siddikanurani2985
    @siddikanurani2985 3 года назад

    Excellent 💕

  • @SOAmusicOfficial
    @SOAmusicOfficial 6 лет назад +2

    mine is too.

  • @LG72292
    @LG72292 5 лет назад

    Amazing video

  • @deniseroberts6405
    @deniseroberts6405 5 лет назад

    Please refer to a "closed" Facebook account, "Westlake Academy Charter School Corruption & Administrative Retaliation" which lists the City of Westlake/ Westlake Academy School District's legal representative's PRIVATE email discussion between (1) the Texas Education Agency legal counsel representative and (2) the parent's special education law firm during administrative due process hearing for Child Find violation. The parent's lawyer sent the school lawyer's private email discussion to the parent in ERROR. The school lawyer's private email and other numerous email correspondent letters data shows CLEAR evidence for SPECIAL EDUCATION CORRUPTION and substantiated proof for federal and state violation in acts of CONSPIRACY to defraud a Federal funded program and the government

  • @playstoreaccount5512
    @playstoreaccount5512 3 года назад

    🙏

  • @ritugurung6211
    @ritugurung6211 3 года назад

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @vanessam.84
    @vanessam.84 5 лет назад +1

    😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @boscoli3801
    @boscoli3801 6 лет назад

    HI Mr.Lee Im Bosco from Mumba,.

  • @garrettfisher4721
    @garrettfisher4721 4 года назад +2

    'Differently abled'? Jfc...but I did enjoyed your talk

  • @nou5913
    @nou5913 5 лет назад +4

    only just now learned its still inequitable? Capitalism and equity are complete opposites smh, how could you even think that for a second

  • @Z1X1473
    @Z1X1473 Год назад

    Same

  • @pizzagroom6221
    @pizzagroom6221 10 месяцев назад

    very typical of a sibling to turn their sibling's autism into a humblebrag about themselves

  • @Aiken47
    @Aiken47 4 года назад

    The world will never be equitable

  • @jh6336
    @jh6336 3 года назад

    21.24 minutes of my life, thar I'll never get back.....abstract, with no message.

    • @phantym150
      @phantym150 Год назад

      Maybe you're on the spectrum??