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⭕️feminist movement is toast😂😂😂 cuz it's you removing the comments that go against it... jus remember that you're sharing this content, cuz you know the feminist movement has fallen .
OP, You need to pin the name of the film in the comments.
Thank you
"Look how far we've come!" isn't meant to be an argument against moving forward, it's meant to be a rallying cry for further progress.
To bad Feminism lost the plot and are now all about power and hate. It is sad to watch 150 years of progress thrown away just so feminists can be woke.
@VadulTharys That is an unrealistic perspective. Apparently you have only noticed a limited selection of women. I suggest you expand your horizons.
@@VadulTharyspower and hate? Which delusional world you live in?
😂 Did feminist oppress men ? Start r@ping them. Are feminist causing male infanticide like misogyny did?
Are feminist murdering men?
Coz all those things are happening to women STILL.
Where is the POWER AMD HATE you speak about? On the incels media you watch?
@@VadulTharys wake like defending children from sexual abuse? Because that happens A LOT. Like it's more than the 50% of the total of sexual abuses. That what you mean about power and hate? About protecting victims of marriage violence? Or any type of violence?
@@VadulTharysSo saying "stop hitting women" or "women aren't objects for your pleasure" or "women deserve the same, full consideration from doctors" is woke?
My aunt went back to school after raising 5 kids and her husband , got her Masters at 50.
Got my BSBM AT 49. Proudest day ever!
I am getting my masters next year at the age of 42. I am a stay-at-home mom to one child.
Glad she did, but it's little snarky comments like "raised her husband" that puts your position in a bad light. If you want people to stand with you and not instinctively against you, then being civil is a step in the right direction.
Yeah, but I don't think your aunt signed up for classes then got married after the fact , deciding she would just not show up to class for 6 sessions.
Congrats!
My mom got her Bachelors in her 40s. Then my dad passed and she got her Masters. Not using it. But I suspect shes offputting in interviews and a remote Masters probably got diminished by interviewers.
Went to college in the early 70's. The male students thought the only reason women attended college was to find a husband. I could have cared less about getting married. I was unsure of who I wanted to be, so you can imagine my surprise when I was informed of my purpose for attending college. Who knew
What did you end up doing with your career? (PS love the attitude you had. I can imagine how hard it would’ve been dealing with such entitled douches)
@@pseudopuppy160 I worked in a male dominated legal field. They were confused on what to do with us. You could work your way into a position where you were excepted as one of the guys, but it came with its own set of eye-opening interactions. In the late 90's, i was in a dark room with 6 burly guys when the woman on the monitor bent over showing her thong. It was like a barber shop quartet harmonizing "Butt floss". Then they remembered there was a woman in the room and they all started looking for that hole to crawl in.
So, did you marry but still have a job or did you not marry? I hate that women think they have to choose one out the other.
@@nidzaboricua3294 I did both, but not necessarily well, the marriage didn't last. I have AB- blood and I miscarried all 5 of my pregnancies. My husband wanted children and I don't hold it against him. We entered into an agreement and undenounced to me, I couldn't uphold my end of the marriage and have children.
When I was 49 I almost married again. He had 2 young teenagers, one was autistic. The man was financially secure (healthy six figure income and stock market portfolio) engineer and we had been friends for 40 yrs. (skiing, fishing, and drinking buddies since we were 9).
We did a dry run and tested the waters. I was lonely and miserable. A day of drudgery and stimulating conversations with an 11 and 13 yr old children just didn't make for a healthy mind set. When the highlight of your day is 5 o'clock happy hour, its time to do something else. That fiasco cost me my best friend.
My generations choices were few but being miserably unprepared on options, led to marriage. It was expected but the 1st and foremost reason for marriage, "procreation", wasn't in the cards. I moved on and had a career. I invested more in that career than my female counterparts and 99% of the males. There were no other demands on my time, so I could. So to all the women that whine about not making as much money as men, I have 1 question, why not, I did. The answer. They have 2 jobs and aren't doing either one as well as they could.
So, the question is what do you want? You are facing the same thing women of the 20th century faced, just with more options. There are fools that tell you they have it or did it all, but someone got shortchanged somewhere. My friends' children, got shortchanged.
I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I did and what I would do if I did it again. I would recommend picking 1 and doing your best at it. Choose wisely. If the opportunity arises, in time, you might achieve both, but few do.
I grew up with several female friends that did it their own way.
Friend #1: Graduated from college.
Went to work
Met an English Lord and married him
Became a lady, mother and husbands right
hand in his political aspirations
Youngest child reached 16 and she
went back to working publicly.
1 yr later, she went back to her original job
Friend #2: Graduated from college.
Went to work
Married a Texas cattle baron.
She lives on the job with her children and
the 10,000 acres the house sits on, tells all
She eats, sleeps, lives on the job with her
family.
Friend #3: Graduated from college.
Went to work
No children or husband and they call her
"Your Honor".
We call her Judge Chrissy
Friend #4: Graduated from college.
Went to work
Focused on her career and had 1 child.
Still married, never sober
Don't be in a hurry. Don't believe what everyone claims. Do what is good for you.
I was in a checkout line and the woman in front of me had 8 children with her. The oldest was 9 or 10. They were all spotless. Not a dirty nose or a hair out of place between them. They were well mannered, polite, helpful and a closely knit caring family unit. I was dumbfounded and frozen in place because I realized there as no way I would have achieved what she did. Not only was she a mother, she was the best I've ever seen.
@@nidzaboricua3294 they removed the answer I gave. It was long and I'm not doing it twice. I tried marriage and children but I have AB- blood and miscarried 5 times. He had married for family so i don't blame him for moving on. I went into career mode for the next 25 yrs. and almost married again at 49. You can only do one at a time if you want to do well at either one. They tell you can do both and you can, just not as well as everyone thinks they can. Someone always gets short changed. Its usually the kids
My grandma was a college graduate (English Lit major), even though she met my grandpa on the bus and wrote in her diary that night "today I met the man I'm going to marry." She was given a sewing machine as a graduation gift from one side of the family, and a type writer from the other side ❤ I didn't realize the first time I watched this movie why I liked it so much, but now that I'm a grown up, I get it.
The sad thing is, many people believe a wife cannot be a college graduate. Very backwards.
Both gifts are useful.
@@ViolettaD1485 absolutely. Though, she used the typewriter more often, being that she was a writer.
I would love a sewing machine 😊
My grandparents went to college back in the late 50s. And this mentality was true. All of the women wanted to get married, but my grandfather told my Nana that he wouldn’t marry her until she finished her degree. He believed education to be important, because no one could take that away from you. And true to his word, despite her arguments, he didn’t marry her until she graduated in 1959. She graduated and married him in the same summer. It kind of scary to see films like this and personally know how accurate it is.
Your Grandfather sounds awesome.
That's a Man!
Glad that she stuck it out - she got an education and her man! Plus he sounds like he was worth waiting for.
Your grandfather was wise.
Imagine this scenario:
Your grandfather dies young in an accident, leaving behind a young widow, small children and a mortgaged house. There might be a little life insurance, survivors benefits for the kids, but to make ends meet, his widow has to work.
A college graduate, especially in the 1950s or 1960s should be able to get a job above minimum wage.
The fact these 2 have been in more than 1 movie together shows the connection they have!
Which movie has their another duet?😃
I Wanna know too
When my 15 year old daughter expressed a desire to become a lawyer my mother-in-law told her that’s not a woman’s job. She succeeded in taking away all of my daughters self-confidence. My MIL was not a nice woman She hated me for the entire 50 years I was married to her son.
I’m sorry. She missed out.
… and YOU passively watched her destroy your child. You chose to keep that evil woman in your life & the life of your child. I’m heartbroken for that poor girl: betrayed by two generations of women.
What did she become?
Blame whomever - doesn't make the girl less put down. She'll hopefully be okay though, if she can develop a better internal locus of control than you did. You should tell her that you want that
For her
@@pseudopuppy160 This. She is to blame as well.
My Great Grandmother, Grandmother, Mother and I all got our degrees. My GG had to have my Great Grandfather sign off on her courses. My Grandmother had to get permission from her father to leave campus after dark. My mother had to prove she was worth her spot in the Computer program to a group of men. I didn't have any of that
Don’t ever forget the struggle women had to go through for education, and the vote!
Wow. When I was born in 1969 my mom and dad's 4th child, my mom had to forge my dad's signature just to get her tubes tied. That was only 55 years ago.
@landofthelivingskies3318 my GG graduated from Wesleyan College in 1924. My Grandmother from Young Harris College in 1948 and then Western Carolina University in 1954. My mother graduated from Pace University in 1980. And I graduated from Caldwell University with my BA in 2016 and from The University of Glasgow in 2020 with my MSc. It is amazing how far the women in my family have come in 100 years
@@landofthelivingskies3318- This goes both ways. I had to sign for my husband’s vasectomy about 20 years ago.
Men getting angry at the fact that women want a career tells you all you want to know about them.
Men get angry about the fact that you work in their industry.....deal with it all the time
@@amhomestead3437 why is it a problem? There's so job based on gender
Women not realizing they're still working for a man when they go get a job
@@justwalkin1928 I dunno, go ask them? 🤓
@@ekatrinya but they’re getting paid. Husbands don’t pay their wives.
I wasn't able to finish high school due to my health. I was able to work for a few years but not long. I've been disabled my entire life. But I've always had an interest in certain subjects and my husband paid almost 1000 euros just so I could study two subjects from home, entire corses sent to me with a teacher available through email (a professor in fact) to grade homeworks for each chapter. One was a language course. The other was a psychology course I'd always been most interested in. I absolutely loved it. ❤❤❤❤
Your husband sounds really supportive. I'm actually disabled myself and most likely won't finish my bachelor's degree because of it.
@@DaydreamingSophie
I don’t know the nature of your disability, but I hope you can continue to chip away at those requirements.
Even if it’s just a course at a time.
May you find the strength to continue 💜☮️
@@dtschuor459 Thanks. Unfortunately it doesn't look that way, I've already been doing that for a few years and now my body can't keep up at all anymore. At least I don't have to pay for university or this would be so much more stressful than it already is. I've also known for a while now that I'll never be able to work so this degree is just for fun and for my own self confidence. It's just so difficult to give up something that I actually enjoy.
That's actually one of the sweetest things I've ever heard. What a sweetheart your husband is. And congrats on getting to take the classes that interested you ❤
@@dtschuor459 Apparently my answer got deleted.
Unfortunately I've already been doing that for a few years now and now it's gotten to the point where I can't continue. I haven't made my final decision yet because I actually enjoy it and hope that maybe something will change but I'm now in my second semester of leave and don't know how long I can continue with that. At least I don't have to worry about the cost, university in my country is free.
Julia Roberts is one hell of an actress!! 🎭
She played the same in every movie.
Beautiful girl looking at the world full of hope
Something happens and she frustrated and starts pacing while arguing
Guy falls in love watching her
A change of heart from the opposition makes all her hurt go bye bye
And we all live happily after 😂
Kirsten Dunst stole every scene she was in.
And a good home wrecker too
My grandmother was a highschool drop out who became a nurse (time where different in the 40's). Had to stay in her career so she could afford any opportunity for her three children. My mother resented her for years for not being there when she needed her. Now my elder sister resents my mother for not making more money when she was younger....
They r both product of their times. Ur mom hated her mother coz during that time moms stayed home. It was the norm so for her to not have mom for many events was frustrating. Ur sister born in a time when shit is expensive and relying on one salary is not enough. Of course she wished her mother also worked so they could afford better things.
@@kanikagaral7637 I think you missed the main point. People aren't going to like your decisions. You can't please everyone even your own children. Typically people don't like your decisions because of their own bias.
Thankfully my grandmother, mother and sister have found understanding and gratitude in each other. But there was a rift between the three for years. Each one had different needs because of their personalities. Each one has made different "sacrifices" to meet those wants/needs.
@@angiecas8180 I want trying to make a point. All I said there is a perfect explanation why the 2 thought in that way. They r valid in their feelings. Both of them are right and so are their mothers.
My grandmother got her degree in education and that's why my grandfather married her because she was educated woman like his mother.
His mother was revolutionary!! I don’t know her & I adore her for this story alone.
They should make a part 2. I would love to see where each person is in life, with all the wisdom they received. Reunion 🫂 is needed 😌 🙌 😍
Admittedly I've never watched this but it seems to me it's about personal choice and everyone should be allowed to make their own choice so if they choose not to work and get married and raise their children That is literally their choice and it is perfectly okay! It's also okay to choose not to do that It's just not okay to make the choice for someone else.
This movie is amazing and the cast is stacked with well known talent. One of my favorites!
This movie is definitely worth watching. Haven't seen it in years, but I'm already planning to watch again this week. It'll make you so mad, break your heart, and then restore your faith all over again! 🤭🩷
Marion Seldes... Amazing. A great actress. I was privileged to know her
I saw her on Broadway with Angela Lansbury and they were electric on stage together.
@@jeannecrowley8383which show?
@@ViolettaD1485 Deuce. It was such an amazing show. Two retired tennis players who played doubles. It wasn't critically acclaimed.
Here's a great interview with the two of them.
ruclips.net/video/4Uvb8h0DWCI/видео.htmlsi=Ec1bJYNn_n1iYqi5
President was right change does take time. It takes a lot of patience and time to achieve a change in society. My eldest aunt and youngest aunt are 12 years apart in age.
The eldest was allowed to study till high school because it was considered enough education for a girl to become a good housewife by her parents. My grandparents firmly believed spending money on girl's education is nothing but waste of resources but by the time my youngest aunt finished high school, my parents supported her to attend college going against my grandparents and convinced them to approve reluctantly.
In the end my youngest aunt became a teacher and have a successful career after marriage among all girls of our family in her generation.
Julia my girl. She always chooses the best roles.
Women have been going to college and graduating for a long time. My great grandma graduated from OWU in 1901 at the age of 18 with a degree in business and accounting. She married the next year to a man who had graduated from Wittenberg and whose family owned a farm. The older generation lived in the small house and the younger generation working the farm lived in the big house. He took care of the milk cows, sheep, and crops, and started other side businesses which he made successful and then sold off at a profit. She took care of the kids, the chickens, the vegetable garden, and the books to run the house, farm, and other business ventures. Being a stay at home mom is a job if you do it right.
Your grandma getting to go was great, but that doesn’t mean there were options for every woman. What subjects she studied and what career options she had after graduating would have been limited.
Being a SAHM is great if you want it, but if it’s the only choice a girl is given then many will suffer.
Nobody is putting your grandma down. But not everyone wants to live like your grandma did
Sorry I rather actually use my brain and study something that I find interesting than wiping kids asses and chasing after chickens thanks. Not even being able to be given that option is kind of a big deal. Using your grandma as some kind of golden age ruler of morality and ambition is pretty pathetic
my mother could read her first NOVEL at the age of 3 and she was given a FULL PAID SCOLARSHIP. HER FATHER TOLD HER NO< educating a women is like educating a dog he said. HEY WAIT A MINUTE!! Don't they have schools for dogs now.. WOW we are getting up in the world. SMH
Well my great grandmother was a brilliant person without any formal education and sworn to make my grandmother have a degree but failed midway...but my mother could complete her high school before joining stitching course but both my parents wanted my career to flourish what they didn't do...Well I have completed my PhD and already pursuing my post doctoral studies
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Look back?! Thats,like saying - be thankful you're not beaten daily!!!😮
The older lady first statement is applied in Europe and western world only, the first university in the world was formed by a north African woman living in morroco.
That’s kinda all they see and care about their world is small and growing to small to see the others
@@LizaRamirez-Garcia 😂🤣 No, sweetie, YOUR world is the small one. The literal tech you're using to spew your garbage comes from innovation patented and amassed in the WESTERN world that's united the entire world. Cry about it.
Not true. Like it or not, the true concept of universities as we've known them for centuries began in Europe.
That doesn't change the fact that very few women were college educated in the 1850s in the US. In fact, that's where sororities (then called women's fraternities) started-- the few privileged women attending colleges wanted societies with common goals and purpose.
@@LulaMae21 👏👏👏 PREACH!
The principal is the grandma from Home alone 4
This thinking still happens, especially at religious schools like the one I attended. Some women go to get their “MRS degree.”
Why everybody hating on corsets in Hollywood??
Probably for the same reasons people stopped wearing them.
@@helgaioannidis9365 lack of materials and women in factories due to the war, bras and girdles replacing corsets, hippies who didn't even wear bras, and diet culture? Corsets simply went out of style and women stopped wearing heavy dresses. It's not the "symbol of oppression" it's what we replaced with bras and diet culture which is arguably worse
@@cannibal_squirrel actually the main reason probably was tuberculosis
@@helgaioannidis9365 a John Green fan? Regardless, I don't think tuberculosis is a good reason to hate corsets
@@helgaioannidis9365nope it was material issue, the difference between wearing a daily corset and a fancy corset was like flats vs stilettos. and people forget that men wore versions of them for a few hundred years too. There were plenty of things to oppress women, a practical garment wasn't one of them
*“We've come a long way baby.”*
That was a cigarette commercial slogan through the 1970's & 80's (Virginia Slims).
*But we still have a long way to go.*
Just 10 years ago the United States Post Office would not let me have a post office box unless my husband came in, and signed paperwork saying I could have a P.O. Box. WTH? What if my husband was abusive, and I was trying to get away? What if I'd already left him? My mother is divorced long ago, she didn't have to prove anything to get a P.O. Box.
*Something so simple, and I was reduced to someone's property.* Maybe we haven't come as far as we thought. We still have a long way to go.
👵☮️🖖
I wasn't married ten years ago but didn't need permission from anyone to get one. I have no idea why that post office would have asked that.
I’ve seen like 12 clips of this movie in the past week I wonder why 🤔
At the turn of the century my Native American grandmother graduated from college, a concert pianist. She was the most magical grandmother. She lobbied Congress for Native voting rights from the 30s until the late 50s. Toured Europe as a college student playing in an orchestra.
Sad thing id now a mother cant stay home with her children .
Who said that? The point is women should get the same choice as men get including how they want their career and family life to be, not that everyone has to work or that everyone has to be a wife
So you're mad because your grandmother lived her live as a pianist?
Jilia Roberts is always amazing actress ❤
My Monalisa always ahead of her time ❤️
Somebody get the Chief's kicker on the line
All good points, but why is a grown-ass woman throwing a tantrum at the school principal? Can she not argue like an adult? Yelling over someone is the worst way to get your point across.
That older woman is wrong. Just because things have gotten better, that doesn't mean progress should stop.
Why is this in my algorithm??????? I saw this when i was preteen whne it first came out. We rented it fro block buster. I thought it was flat/lame at the time. Now I see the power in it. It should've gotten better reviews back in the day.
I didn’t watch this movie when it came out, because it seemed so overdone and on the nose. Even as a liberal feminist, I don’t like a lot of modern fiction set in the past with a feminist message. They love writing the characters through a modern lens. You don’t need that.
I can definitely see your point- even in this short clip the main character has to take a jab at corsets lol
They were never meant to be torture devices!
Can you imagine being a genial woman back than? And before that.
In way it should be like a curse, being capable of so much but not able to do much.
I finished college in the NINETIES and was the only woman in my most of my earth sciences classes, particularly the upper level classes. It was almost all younger male students.
Me, on my deathbed, not wishing I'd finished a masters degree. Look, thats great for women that want it. But to do it to lrove something to someone else...no thanks.
Prince Charles?! 😂
Thank you!! I was wondering where I know him from 😅
"change takes time"
Unless it affects men and then it's rectified right away.
True I see the male suicide rates drop with every suicide
Speaking as a man, it really isn't. We do have a lot of stuff easier, I'll admit that. But we're still trapped by stigma over emotions, and trapped by the expectations of what a man should be. Change is happening, but it's very slow.
@@edwardking9359 that's because it's man fighting man. Do women make those rules? No. They might go along with them, but men have no problem dismissing what women say.
You haven't, but other male commenters have blamed women for issues that are perpetuated by men, not realizing they aren't actually addressing the issue because it's easier just to point the finger.
No, it doesn’t. If that were true we wouldn’t have so many homeless veterans.
Ahh! I’d forgotten Dominic West was in this!!
İ don't understand why would they want to go to college if they are not going to use the knowledge to get a job
Did that teacher ended up with that male teacher? I remember they had some feelings but I don’t remember that they got together or not
I graduated college in 1992. In my first year a woman in the dorm room next to mine said flat out,with laughter & pleasure, that she was only there til she found a husband. That was 1988 or '89. I was stunned.
And that's what she did.
My classmates say their only goal is marriage and it's 2024.Imagine how stunned I am!!
It would be so nice if RUclips videos didn’t add mood music.
They let McNulty teach at a women's college?!
I must see this movie!!
Wow! They sure were behind in the west! Alqaraween university in North Africa established in 892 AD by a Muslim woman gave degrees to women 1100 years ago
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I will never understand those who become 'influencers' for no good reason other than to be 'popular' and who constantly rant to their followers about their 'feelings' on what they think Feminism is or 'should be' according to Zero books.
Social media rewards controversy, arorgance and hypes. Thank goodness that's only a tiny subset of the population.
Dadly was very yrue they used to vall university courses, marriage one, marriage two, etc
The point is that we have a choice. God gave me a husband and im grateful. I had the opportunity for a college degree and said no thanks. It was my choice. Unfortunately, gals are being told to chase careers and not strive for being married at all. Being wife and a mom can be just as fulfilling (if not more) than being a career woman.
On what year is this based?
Mr. Big's mom.
She would be surprised to see that most women and men today are choosing to stay single and half the ones who do get married end up divorced.
The college's realized they could make a nice profit from their "degree's".
Omg this is still going on at BYU!!!!
What does the text message say at the end?
What's the name of the film?
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Funny, I am in college bidding my time til someone proposes😂😂😂i hate going to school. I want to serveamd be a helper to my husband and be a homemaker and have lots of kids😂😂😂this college thing isn't for me
Your choice, of course.
Your children will suffer from your ignorance. Women who hate to better themselves teach their children school isn’t critical to a better life. Historical statistics tell the story.
Whats the name of this movie?
Mona Lisa Smile
What movie is this?
That lady is from Home Alone 3 right?
Congratulations you succeeded. 50% from 20 and upove will be single, 1 out of 3 had an abortion, 1 out of 4 have an STD. You missed the fact that women could have always attended college or work but being married and having wasn't villainized.
Uncommon women and others is a much better choice
Why are they pushing this movie nonstop?
There is nothing wrong with getting married?
It’s sad knowing that women have to give up on dreams to be married with a bunch of kids. Women have to sacrifice their youth and body for men then later in life that’s when women are allowed to be themselves.
Excuse you. I'm a married woman with 4 beautiful children. I'm also educated and very much myself. Honestly if I didn't spend so much time on my phone I could be writing my book or any number of other things. The only thing in my way is myself. My husband aids and abets my hobbies and pursuits. It pains him when I'm frustrated with my own progress. Is my life perfect? No. But that's a me problem. I feel more empowered with my husband and children than I ever felt single, and I certainly don't feel restricted or trapped by them. Marriage isn't for everyone, but my family is the best part of my life. Try again.
Many women are still sacrificing their bodies...with "hook up" culture and then when they finally realize they do want a family, they have to go through higher risk pregnancies or fertility treatments.
@@adedow1333
Honestly you can share your life story without putting some one else’s down.
The “ try again” wasn’t necessary.
You are lucky you found a supportive husband. Own it
@@adedow1333 women like you are detrimental to others. You project yourself onto others. You could have put your point across better.
No one forced them to get married. You make no sense.
Thank You!!🙏agora dá para ver o que falam em inglês!!Muito obrigada!!!🙏Perfect!!!Estou tentando aprender inglês!!!🩷Amo Hollywood!!🩷❤️
What? Is this about The Crucible?😮
Yes these young women can graduate from college… but what for? They’re all destined to be housewives and mothers. What’s the point of going to college if you’re not going to USE it?!
education is important for far more then a job. Education helps you use your mind, think for yourself and understand the world around you. Knowledge is very powerful. And it helps you vote and work for change in society.
An educated society will progress faster, vote more deliberatly and invent more things. You dont have to make profit from something for it to be worthwhile.
It's all about having women's back, until they make a decision the movement doesn't agree with. My mom has a degree in Polish linguistics and pedagogics. The one thing she regrets in life is being cheated into a never-ending career, which has her retirement postponed by the state over and over again, that the economy is forcing her to have.
Women should have a choice and people shouldn't be forced to require a household where both people need to work because of some rotten idea of equality of outcome.
Both need to work because we wanted to move to big cities. In my parents hometown a lot of women don't work and some men are just part time. I love the capital so much that it is worth working. If you don't want to work either marry rich or go live in a small rural village. That's what people used to do in the past.
@@user-rc2ct7cs1gexactly. Everything is getting so costly that even though 10 yrs back here men wanted housewives, nowadays most of them say they prefer a working woman bcz they see that cities are costly and with the degrees they have, they need to live in cities bcz that's where companies are at and if you want to have a family with a woman and even 1 child and consider the child's education it will cost a lot and also now since boys from here move to other places for further study and learn to live on their own so they also don't feel the need of someone to do all their work, but rather they are ready to share work with a working woman.
Yeah, and these women didn't get a choice, because no one told them about it. This is a college, not a marriage agency. They should encourage studying, instead of telling women studying is pointless as their only role is a wife.
Women always work. They don't just sit at home. Having a choice means they can choose the type of work.
It's not a free choice if some options are hidden, discouraged, or not talked about.
"The Movement" didn't force your mom to pick a bad career path or have a career at all. 😂
You seem to have some kind of a personal axe to grind. Nothing you said made any sense. The state cannot force you to work. Are you mentally stable?
My grandmother got her degree in 1902. (In the midwest) it wasn't "inconceivable " this is propaganda
"i personally havent expirienced it, so its not true"
CORSETS AREN'T BAD! I HATE HATE THAT MISCONCEPTION. UGH.
What film please?
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The feminism is so campy in this movie.
He assumed that she was engaged.That's mad disrespectful, especially to a feminist.
I thought she had been engaged, but broke it off due to distance?
@@tinasapienza6552 oh.
Corrests are not bad. It was their verison of a bra.
Isnt she the same one that gave Richard Greer a hummer?
Grrrr. I cannot stand Julia's character in this film.
Wow I use to 100% agree with her character here now I see a selfish woman who can’t believe the world doesn’t fall to her will and believes everyone else’s view no matter is wrong and needs to be changed. That is Feminism today in a nut shell. Heaven help you if you dare to disagree in any way with them. Disgraceful!! Disrespectful!!! Bullies!!!!!
Lol someone's been brainwashed.
@@LulaMae21 you saying you believe the feminist crud being dished out these days?
That there’s No difference between a man and a woman?
That there’s an unknown number of genders and that gender and sex are two completely different things?
Believing that drivel is a picture of a brainwashed person.
That is an absolutely Great film. Although I do now have some issues of the results personally about Women getting all the increased privileges that they accumulated over those decades & Year's. I'M a regular Male member of the Society, that doesn't care too be patronized by many of the Female gender. Who take every bit of positive or adjusted equality issues, and try too shove it down the throat's of us Male's that might, or occasionally tell them Off or criticize Their opinions, logic, rational, or just tell them too Hush up, and pipe down, for a While.
Coincidentally they claim that we have our personal opinions on everything? But they often time's fail too hear themselves or realize that they are also stubborn as Hell as well. Thanks for Sharing again.
I never did understand why a woman would waste the time and money to go to college just to get married. Why bother?
Presumably to get a “higher quality of man” 🙄
College was cheaper back then. They weren't going into debt for it like today.
I think she was just bitter
It was a stupid movie, women feeling held back or wronged because of some perceived hurdles set by the other half of the population who were just doing their job.
Yes, history is a lie.
My mother went to beauty school raised two kids THEN went back to College graduated at the top of her class, became a teacher and has since retired…looks like Julia is the only one limiting herself😂😂😂 I can’t be havin babies AND going to school…that sounds like WORK😂
Back in this time period, the art and science of managing a home was work.
The problem is that these students thought the only thing a woman is made for is being a wife and having kids. Actually there not in college technically, there preparing for that, but none of them wants to go to college because "that's not what women do"
@@joannepoland9664 It still is work..probably worse because kids have activities and distractions so they don’t help out around the house like in the past
She had support. Some people are trapped between impossible choices
@roxyortiz8819
A. I’ve seen the movie
B. I’m a DUDE
C. You argued ZERO points
D. Go F Yourself if you don’t like my analysis
Why exactly did marriage become something scornful and demeaning?
when they don't make use of the education.
its a dating pool for women. esp during the time of this show.
You don't understand the point. It wasn't about marriage' virtues or deficits. It was about disappearing into your marriage
Its an argument against women being content married and having their primary role be caregiver. It’s a cult leftist point used to destroy the happiness of women. you think you’re going to be happier serving your boss and career than your husband, family and home. dream on
When society made women's only worth.
Disappearing huh? So being a loving wife, raising kids and doing housework is disappearing? Everyone wants to change the world. How about starting with what is inside your walls and maybe only then complaining about society after you’ve become perfect yourself…oh wait…
You know, children should have well-rounded, educated mothers. And their husbands would belittle them less. As a female art history professor myself, I hated this movie and Roberts' smug, self-righteousness and disdain for other women's choices.
Then you didn’t understand the movie, it wasn’t saying women can’t be mothers it was saying they should actually have that choice and make it for themselves and that being married and a mother doesn’t stop women from further pursuing careers they’re passionate about and want because at the time women could get educated but not get a job in their field because of the belief that they were just going to get married and stop working forever
Silly me always thought children should have loving, caring mothers who like being mothers.
My grandmother wasn't educated, but she was a good mother. You don't need an education to raise healthy, happy kids into healthy, happy adults.
An education comes in handy when a person wants to be able to earn money without risking their health.
Just as I suspected, this movie is full of feminist ideology. No thanks! 😂😂. Most movies are nowadays anyway 🤷🏻♀️. Great female cast though! Let's go back to chick flicks and romance 🥹
“Their husbands would belittle them LESS”? What the heck does that mean? Your statement sounds like it is normal for a husband to belittle his wife.
Disliked for no movie name
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This film is a lie, and it wrongly harmed the reputation of this school that tirelessly advanced women's rights through education.
When i was younger i admired her. Now i realize what a destructive narcissistic character she was.
amen
I admire her more now. I grew up in a very conservative environment and this movie was refreshing
Narcissistic when she just wanted to see more intelligent women actually use and practice their intelligence outside of marriage. That women, at the time, were more than just the one role they were told to, housewife.
Yes, she wanted those girls to have a choice of their own. She is a true narcissist.
What's wrong with an Mrs degree
When you husband dies unexpectedly at a young age, in his mid forties to early 50’s the market for good available men it not as good as you would think. And if you have children, some men are just jealous a$$ H@:/$ and pick at your kids not thinking about who needs to be the adult!
An angry feminist upset that girls are prioritizing being a wife, mother and creating a family over academic prowess. I guess creating, teaching and building the next generation inside a home is somehow suppressive.
Angry feminist upset about woman having dreams of studying but being pulled down because "women can't and wouldn't go to college, only be a wife and a mother, and if you're a woman who goes to college you are inferior"
I guess you don't have yet the enough neurons to watch a movie and understand the plot.
When forced on you, it is oppressive. Nice try ignoring the fact that they were not given much of a choice.
@guellaliguemra2321 Interesting... you said it was "forced" on women and yet also state "not much of a choice". So... you're saying there is a choice. 👍
@@brookcodyprice So because 3 women in a country can study and the rest are prohibited, does that mean that "there is a choice, so everyone should do it"? I think you are deliberately ignoring that women were prohibited from going. Yes, they could legally enter, but their husbands beat them until they denied requests to do anything other than be a housewife.
@lookingforstars Interesting... you use the word "country" as though there's just one that allows women the privilege of an education. Are you a time traveler from the 5th century? We have computers and Google now.. It's really easy to look up information.
Look how far we’ve come..we’re more depressed and alone than ever but hey
Not true. My grandma says that in the past people were more depressed and had no help. Now people get help so it seems like things are worse but are actually improving.
We're depressed because of the economy.
I don't know the amount of drug abuse happening among housewives seems to have gone down.
That might be how you feel, loser. But I feel great.
See how miserable career actresses were- rich, lonely and also ALONE...Betty Davis, Faye Dunaway...
⭕️😂😂😂 feminist movement is toast
Do you not like the women to have their own credit cards and jobs? I don't want to be responsible for my able-bodied and intelligent sister's subsistence. The feminist movement helped all kinds of people out. It wasn't just women and girls who benefit from feminism
@ErH-sl2nh ⭕️ i don't care if women have a job. they can do whatever they want, except, expect me to cater to them or be submissive to them or play whatever mind game it is they wanna play with a word salad they spewed outa their mouth. the want that life... let'em have at it. us men won't be a party to it.
⭕️😂😂😂 the credit card debt... they have men pay for them. jus like the college debt that they owe... at HOW MUCH MORE than men do...? yeahhh ... they can get all they want. us men aren't gonna pay for it.
So you hate your daughter? You want to take away from her the right to buy a house, drive, work, study, have a bank account, marry for love and not for financial needs?
@@user-rc2ct7cs1g maybe he's one of those deadbeat fathers, who'd marry off (a.k.a sell) his 16yo daughter to a 40yo man
What's wrong with getting married in college?
Whats the name of the movie?
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Thank you ❤