0:00 0:34 Why am I making this video 0:57 How moving on felt 1:31 After breakup effects 2:05 Loss of self worth 2:24 Why we can’t move on 2:53 Should we BLOCK after breaking up 3:22 why is it okay to STALK 4:24 How to deal with possession and anxiety 5:31 How to deal with MISSING THEM ? Yaad toh aati hai 7:01 Sometimes we don’t love the person but how we feel with that person 7:40 HOW TO MOVE ON (real tricks I used) 8:10 Convenience calls ❌ 8:43 Rebound relationships ❌ 9:13 Physical rage and nature heals 9:57 Why are good friends important after a breakup 10:35 Moving on was hard 11:54 A message for you 🤍 13:27 Have faith in god 13:40 Outro
Mine was 8.5 years of relationship.and its been 1.5 years after that breakup and I am still trying to move on. I was in depression and almost gave up... That time I had no idea about how to deal with,or parents goal and everything.I was just trying to do every minimal possible thing so that he would stay in my life...I begged multiple times. I cried, i screamed....... But it is what it is...no hate for him. Now I just seriously want to move on. This is my life I also want to be happy I also deserve to be happy and that's only my responsibility to make myself happy again....Yes still I get flashbacks, but I cheer myself up from then I am single not because that I don't believe in love but this time I want myself to be complete... I don't need anyone to complete me...If someone genuinely comes into my life it will be a cherry on the cake only.... P.s- whoever reads my comment please give a like so that everytime I will get a notification I will read this again and will make myself motivate again
7 years of healthy relationship and one mistake from both of us and our relationship destroyed in a month. I never thought she can leave or I have to live without her. Trying to move on it's really the taulf phase of my life I hope I will recover soon .
100 reasons to stay alive: 1. to make your parents proud 2. to conquer your fears 3. to see your family again 4. to see your favourite artist live 5. to listen to music again 6. to experience a new culture 7. to make new friends 8. to inspire 9. to have your own children 10. to adopt your own pet 11. to make yourself proud 12. to meet your idols 13. to laugh until you cry 14. to feel tears of happiness 15. to eat your favourite food 16. to see your siblings grow 17. to pass school 18. to get tattoo 19. to smile until your cheeks hurt 20. to meet your internet friends 21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve 22. to eat ice cream on a hot day 23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day 24. to see untouched snow in the morning 25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire 26. to see stars light up the sky 27. to read a book that changes your life 28. to see the flowers in the spring 29. to see the leaves change from green to brown 30. to travel abroad 31. to learn a new language 32. to learn to draw 33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them 34. Puppy kisses. 35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek). 36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them. 37. Trampolines. 38. Ice cream. 39. Stargazing. 40. Cloud watching. 41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets. 42. Receiving thoughtful gifts. 43. “I saw this and thought of you." 44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you." 45. The relief you feel after crying. 46. Sunshine. 47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention. 48. Your future wedding. 49. Your favorite candy bar. 50. New clothes. 51. Witty puns. 52. Really good bread. 53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time. 54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.) 55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling. 56. The smell before and after it rains 57. The sound of rain against a rooftop. 58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing. 59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them. 60. Trying out new recipes. 61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio. 62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage. 63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable. 64.Breakfast in bed. 65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater. 66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning). 67. Pray (if you are religious) 68. Forgiveness. 69. Water balloon fights. 70. New books by your favorite authors. 71. Fireflies. 72. Birthdays. 73. Realizing that someone loves you. 74. Spending the day with someone you 85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed. 86. Someone’s skin against yours. 87. Holding hands. 88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world. 89. Singing off key with your best friends. 90. Road trips. 91. Spontaneous adventures. 92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes. 93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees. 94. Thunderstorms. 95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland. 96. The taste of your favorite food. 97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning. 98. The day when everything finally goes your way. 99. Compliments and praise. 100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realise you did it. Ps : Never forget you are a beatiful person Life is so beatiful so live, live like no one else exist, live for yourself, don't care of bad people, you are strong, i love you 🫶
I want to add 1 more thing for people who are going through this - Just accept that he is not that person anymore who was making u happy who was your love and you will not get that fulfilling feeling from him anymore. He can’t offer u that happiness so just accept it than you will see clearly everything and will not wants to associate with him 🙌
That realization was the breaking point for me.. After 4 months of betrayal without any self worth i texted him and i sensed he is not the same person anymore. I thought i will break down when he replies and i would have lots of things to talk to him but i ended the chat within 5 minutes wishing him good luck. After that i just moved on easily. 😊
Mera bhi yahi maanna hain ye thought bas ese hi ek din bethe hue aagya kyuki me jab bhi usse contact krne ki koshish krti vo mujse baat to karleta tha par uski tone uska andaz bohot badal chuka tha Mano voh move on hochuka h vo bhi bohot jaldi meanwhile me yaha uske attention k liye 2019 se ab tk k saalo se usike piche lagi rahi pr usko mujse itni detachment hogai thi ki muje uski baato me pyar apne aap mehsus hona bnd hogya, jaanti to me thi hi ki mere jindagi me dobara fir shyd kabhi na aaye pr khud ko bevakoof bnati chali abhi recently yeh hi khayal aaya ki ab na vo insaan bhi bdal chuka hai or me khud bhi bohot basal chuki hoon ab usse milkar lagta hain ki ye vahi ni h jisse mene kbhi pyar kia tha Haan 2 pal ko muje sab yaad aajata hain usse dekh k shyd usse kabhi ni bhula pau or shyd usse ye Ehsaas bhi nahi ki vo Kitna important tha mere liye pr mera ek mazboot side bhi hain jisse ye sab smjh aachuka hain ki ab usse aage bdhna h
I was in a relationship for 5 serious years.. atleast from my side..but he broke up with me without giving proper reason.But after much stalking skills i came to know he i was with someone else..that thing shattered me to the core. I went through all the grief of breakup...but after sometime i came to know his gf married to some other guy.. that day i took a breath of relaxation. and he came back to me i didn't felt a thing...he was just like any other stranger to me
I also feels relaxed after seeing that...Mine has same story but we had 2 years relationship and broke up 10 days ago...I believe in Karma so he will obviously get back what he has done but he had so much ego anything can happen in his life but he will not come back to me... trying to move on so badly
@@bristipanja4480 those who idolize other peoples while being in the relationship are the most horrible ones, like my ex literally broke up with me just because I scold him for adding his ex into his socials and then he blocked me from everywhere.I wish I had some kind of pills to escape this horrible phase of my life but ya you have to go through every moment to make your life best of it .
Explanation thing is real. People don't even want to explain you or give something to think about. I think someone has done something with them which they are giving us unknowingly.
The block nhi krne wli cheez jo aapni boli literally bhut shi h .... bcuz block krne ke baad aapko jyada aati h .....ise acha h apna normal rho aur apne kaam se kaam rkho.....n it makes u more powerful ki tum us bnde ko Bina block kre bhi ignore kr skte ho...it's a superpower..it takes time but doing it worths all pain...❤❤❤
@@hemakrishnan9377toh to Acha hai na....u still keep him unblocked...thats even easy for u because aap kuch dekh nhi skte unka but he can see how happy u r now that he is not in your life
@@AnnoyedIcedTea-en4hn usne mujhe block kar diya har ek jagah se and yeh bohot he difficult hai, like farewell tha degree college ka uss din jhaghdha hua then shaadi ka hope deke agle din mujhe block kr diya :)
3 years after my relationship ended, I took her for granted and decided to focus on my career. When I was settled enough, she had moved on. It feels so void like I literally wanted her validation in everything I did. She was so perfect but it's all my fault, I should have given her the time she deserved. I don't know if I'll ever be able to move on knowing the fact that I messed up everything.
Same bhai... it was all my fault, now I'm at better place gonna be a Doctor, I have a good career ahead but jiske saath iss career ko jeene ka sapna dekha tha vo gya na?
@@ishaankapil4982 suno bhaiya Ye sab hota hai... Koi na koi mil hi jayega ... Atleast aapko vo tho mila jo aap banna chte the ... Par kuch hote hai unko vo bhi ni milta aur ye bhi ni milta Par hn It hurts jab hum bhot jyada dhyan dete ho but they just don't care . Sorry kuch jyada hi hai ye sab sorry apke time waste krne ke liye bhaiya
Hey ,I'm 20 year girl. 1. Accept 2. Let them go. 3. Don't force yourselves to move on 4. Don't use any new person. 5. Focus on goals and career. 6. Connect to close friends. 7. If you don't want to forgive them for their mistakes it's ok mt kro you are not god . 8. Manifest the move on with I will do it . ( Tum karloge yrr ❤️)
i cant block her..ಥ_ಥಥ_ಥಥ_ಥಥ_ಥ. she cant stand for me anymore and she left me. i begged her alot but she cantಥ_ಥಥ_ಥಥ_ಥಥ_ಥ beifre alll of this i still have hope.ಥ_ಥ i cnt block her. please help me.
I did block him and the fact it hurts more ki usko koi padi hi nahi hai he didnt stop me ki mtr block kro and he just said tujhe sort krna hai nahi krna to chlija mtlb didnt give me time aur menne kiya block but the one suffering is me not him
Does not matter no of years! I had 2yrs of Living relationship. Unfortunately She did not take a single stand. And Bhai jab samne wala 1% stand na le aur tumne uski baat ghar dost sabse ki ho yar sab chijo se bhagna impossible hota h. Jab aap apna 100% de rhe ho n Bhai Lagta hai sab khtam koi yesa kre to. But life ki ek sachai h, Agar Koi ja rha hai n to usse jaane do. Rehne waale lakh kamiya ho reh lenge. Rishte hm kisi specific insaan ke liye nhi, Apne liye bnate h ki wo insaan sayad mere se jyda meri fikar karta h. Roo lo jitna Rona h. Bhagwan pe sab chodho aur Khush rho tumne kisi se dilse pyar ki. Apni galti na dhundho ki maine kuch galat kiya ki usne kyo ki. Maa Baap ke bare mai socho Dosto ke bare. Bohot Kismat se life mili hai. Ek mahine do mahine ro lo Aur Mehnat Kr Bhai. Jai Shree Ram.
@@YashviBagga@YashviBagga Uske saath kya hoga Jisne Bilakhta hua Marta hua Chhod diya Ek Ese innocent insaan ko jo dil s chahta tha.... Pure emotions the..... But Ese Chhod diya usko ki Mr gya yaa jinda h y tk nhi Puchha........ Kya krega Kse krega y tk nhi socha..... Or jiske saath kiya Vo bechara us ladki k Sbse weakest time m. Haath pkd k Khda tha........ Use Bilakhte huye uthaya tha or usi ladki n us bechare ko bilkhte rote Chhod diya.... Us ladki k saath kya hoga
I’m just letting you that I’m 28 and I definitely needed to hear you talk about this … thank you for making this, it has helped me change my perspective on how I see the break up
My suggestion is the basic rule to move on" jab next lajavab hoga to ex apne aap dimag se nikal jayega" So guys whenever you broke up with someone and wanted to move on always remember there is better person then them who is waiting for you so ye dimag me rakho you will heal naturally apni worth Kam nhi karni bhale ab tumhara ex tumhari aukaat se bahar nikal gaya ho apne dimag me ye baat yaad rakhna you are much more worthy then your ex and much much better person is waiting for you, and trust me this words are magic just try to apply into your life and see the magic
No doubt he is my first thought of mrng and last thought of night'.but i still gave up on him .he couldn't understand my love so i let him go ... kabhi kabhi kisi ko jane dena hi pyar hota hai..
Didiii aapko literally award milni chahiye yaar 😍😍😍😍.. aapko nahi maalum aap anjaane Mein kitne logo ki shaayad jaan tak bachaayi hogi aapnee... Thankyou so much for all your words.. really grateful
13:1513:3613:43 that shake in your voice shows what you've gone through and I'm genuinely thankful to you for making this video because sometimes god puts unexpected strangers in your life to heal you, u're really healing something u didn't break 🥺.... Lots of love dear and thank you so much, god bless you 🙏❤️✨✨
I went through this phase during covid ... With zero friends zero outing and zero motivation, i had to quit my job , my father got covid , everywhere there negativity and felt helpless, i couldnt reach him out , tried with 100 other phone numbers to reach him , but was ... Vague as he blocked all those 100 nos 😊 , the worst part was that i didnt get a closure .. it took me 3 years to realise what u realised after 1 year ...(yaar call krne s koi faeda nahi hai) and that roo cuz one fine day i called and a girl picked up 😮.. that was the changing moment for me 😊.. that one day and now its today i never interfered in his life ... ❤ I have cracked 3 major gov jobs and living a peaceful life with my parents 🙏 And yea that 'MOVE ON' is still happening because the "pain" from "hai" to "tha" is damn REAL thanx for this video, ws just scrolling through and got to see this ❤ its full of positivity and need to reach n number of people ❤ we need to talk on this more because people like us "need" to hear this !! ❤ Thanx again wish u good luck ❤
Please help me to get rid of his memories as i cant move on he never gave me a closure he is happy with some other girl he blocked me but initially he was the one who made me believe in trus love his efforts made me to love him and when i fell for him desperately and madly he walked out of my life with some other girl
This is totally relatible....me iss time isse time se guzar Rahi hu .... Or yeh soch kar orr jadda dukh hota hai yeh mera tha...mujhe raat koh i love you bolta thaa abh kisi or koh bolega and this is killing me inside ...aise log kabhi life me naa aye ..yehi se pta chalta hai ki yeh duniya kisi ki nahhi hai...SIRF BHAGWAN HI TUMHARE HAI ...but kbhi kbhi ye soch kar bagwan par gussa bhi aata hai ki apke haqq..me tha agar wo life me nahi tha toh kyu diyaaa kyu diyaaaaa .
Absolutely ...kabhi kabhi Bhagwan pe bhi gussa aata hain ... Chot lagne par sharir se khoon nikal ne ka dard hum sehlete hain But Dil tootne ke baad behti aansoon ka dard saha Nehi jata
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
Going through same, but somehow keeping myself strong, I wish aap bhi is sab se nikal paayein, it pains a lot, but we can't just sit and let that thing destroy us.
Ngl Your words just literally make me calm i have just lost someone 4 months back and i was feeling so suffocating since he left but now i feel so good i feel like yeah i'm good now instead of being with who was not even mine tho he make promises but never has guts to keep and you were right ppl use us for timepass but i've been with him for a year and it was not joke for me i put my all and ik it was hard but now i'm thanking god for removing him in my life i'm doing more better than before in my life and thanks to you you're sich a nice person whomis helping everyone for healing lots of love from me...💗
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
@@YashviBagga@YashviBagga Uske saath kya hoga Jisne Bilakhta hua Marta hua Chhod diya Ek Ese innocent insaan ko jo dil s chahta tha.... Pure emotions the..... But Ese Chhod diya usko ki Mr gya yaa jinda h y tk nhi Puchha........ Kya krega Kse krega y tk nhi socha..... Or jiske saath kiya Vo bechara us ladki k Sbse weakest time m. Haath pkd k Khda tha........ Use Bilakhte huye uthaya tha or usi ladki n us bechare ko bilkhte rote Chhod diya.... Us ladki k saath kya hoga
I wish I had this video last year when I was being dragged through hell and back😂 i dumped all that rage and sadness in the gym and it gave me A LOT of confidence. anyway, I got through and in a better place. So anyone who’s going through a rough patch.. it is temporary. It will pass💗
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
My boyfriend brk up with me after 8 yrs of close n healthy relationship. He did not even give his single effort to save this relationship. Now he moves to another city n marrying another girl. Literally he wants house wife not a independent girl lyk me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭im broken totally plzz God save me plzz🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am with u girl I am for you don't cry my bf also have a girl who Merrie this girl and even he said to me that he love me more 😢😢😢 but these days he doesn't pic my calls always talk his finance
@@ishansharma2660 hey listen majburi is not everything bro 100 baat ki ek baat agar koi wakiye pyaar karta hai toh jindgi bhar saath nibhata hai everything matters alot ki kaise aap har situation ko handle krte ho apne loved ones ka saath paane le liye yar!!
Although i’ve already moved on from everything and now i don’t care how much anyone puts efforts on me, i’m in my self-love era until i get someone who has same mentality as mine i.e. date to marry. I would also say she said everything that i wanted to listen. I wish i had an elder sister like her! a guy who will get her will be the luckiest ❤
When you said 1 year ke bad you were moved on bt 1year feels like many years.i feel that imotion.i think when you put yourself first then everything is moved on❤
Thank you so much!!😭💓I was literally going through these things. My relationship was of 2 years and recently had a breakup. TYSM!!! LOVE YOU BEYOND WORDSS🥺💗
Block nahi karna is a right option agar block kroge to tumhe lgega ki kahi use message to nahi krna hoga yhi sochte rahoge agr block nahi kroge to khud dikh jyega ki use tumhari need nahi h aage badho 👍
Thank you so much this really means a lot.. i can also understand how you went through that tough phase.. you just made me feel like i exist and worth enough to live..
I was in love for 9 years .I waited him for almost 5 years before getting into a relationship .later on realised the relationship was just from one side only.He only loved me in accordance with his convenience.Gave him so many chances only to realise he isn't worth anything.
you deserve this ....its benifits of western culture....relationship before marriage rakhna he kyun hai ab ghume past lekar jisko koi sarif successful ladka accept nahi karne waala....isliye indian culture best hai shaadi tak no relationship.....10 jagah muh maarne waala kabhi loyal nahi rahega keep in mind for both boys and girls
Never stalk. Jane do. That's important. Yea then don't block just unfollow and think they're dead. You cant bring back a dead person The person decided to move on bas. Apni soul ko acha banao. Hum unke us version se pyaar karte hai jo humne banaya hai. This video is helping me
3 years of relationship and 2 years to move on. Apni self respect se upr kisi ko mt rkho. Maine apne 5 saal barbad kre uske piche jisko meri feelings ki kdr tk ni hui shodte wqt😌 sometimes still miss her but i accept that now ki vo meri ni hai😊❣️
@@YashviBagga mai jo 2 years ki bat kr ra move on ke Usme se 1 year sirf use vapis apne life me bulane ke liye bhut gir chuka tha 5-6 number change kiye kbhu uski frnds se bol ra ki plss bat suno ik bar bat krne ka moka do but vo chle gai ab humne ik dusre ko unbock rkha hai but kbhi msg ni kiya😊
@@YashviBagga@YashviBagga Uske saath kya hoga Jisne Bilakhta hua Marta hua Chhod diya Ek Ese innocent insaan ko jo dil s chahta tha.... Pure emotions the..... But Ese Chhod diya usko ki Mr gya yaa jinda h y tk nhi Puchha........ Kya krega Kse krega y tk nhi socha..... Or jiske saath kiya Vo bechara us ladki k Sbse weakest time m. Haath pkd k Khda tha........ Use Bilakhte huye uthaya tha or usi ladki n us bechare ko bilkhte rote Chhod diya.... Us ladki k saath kya hoga
Sahi baat hai,release the toxic energy with physical activity. It really helps mera bhi break up hua ,i isolated completely, purabarbad karliya sab kuch .but abphirse sahi se shuru kiya aur umeed hai sahi ho jayega
I just watched your this vedio . i had a relationship of 3 years and he was my bestie also. i didnt had a female friend because of him . i just had a break up and this helped me a lot thanks yrr . ek female hi dusri female ko smjh skti hai yrr . GOD BLESS YOU ...JAI SHRI RAM
@@SanaFatma-e8b To be honest ...love is just a game played between two in end one will win means one will move on and one will loose and would never be able to move on .... i would recommend your from my point of view that all males are like this only ... i just dont trust any male now ... i was too comfortable with him more than my parents and now i regret all my 3 years with him
@@chahatverma1348 same thing happened people just decide randomly that they don't wanna stay and ruin other peoples time begging was never a good option that too I realised today
U r doing God's Work for many out here bro!!!!! More power to you and all the people who can relate to this !!! U r more than what happened to you!!! U r enough alone!!!! Love yourself more than anyone else on this whole planet!!! Keep going ❤️🕉️🫂
Ahhh itni sari ldkiyan kya ldkiyan bhi itna serious pyar kr skti h amazing i hope.i should find anyone of u ... Guls as i lost her my world she is completely changed now everything shattered all i see now is darkness al i hear now is cry for help inside of me i need myself to heal me 😢
I know it is much tougher to move on , for people with 4 + years of relationship. I was in a relationship for 1.5 years. It still breaks my heart. I really loved my guy. Honestly i was feeling kinda impossible to move on. All the moments we lived together keeps flasing in my mind. Honestly since this pain is so profound, tgat many a times I let down my self respect by calling and messaging him. He used to scold me, disrespect me, but in my mind i had only one thing "but atleast I am talking to him". He called me a leech. I lowered my own self respect, with this video and comments, i really understood, no amount of pain, should be enough to put down my self respect.
U r absolutely 1000% correct. I m moving on after being in a relationship for 25 years….it takes a life time to know a person but still one life is not enough to know everything. It’s tough it’s hard to move on bcoz of our emotions but u have to take a stand n move on n which I m doing. Karmic people come in our life to teach us a lesson so we don’t repeat the same mistake again. Love u all ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You ever felt like dying inside 🙂? Ps : you're not alone bruh !! Keep your head up hope y'all recover from shit you can't explain and haha bless me too ! Have a good one
Honestly I saw few people on social media platforms talking about this topic !! And I’m so thankful to you for being here and being everyone’s therapy💗 Honestly i also had a breakup 8 years ago and i can’t even forget a single memory (I’m just so stucked between everything) life goes on. Ig after watching ur video I can really feel so much better that I didn’t felt from past 7 years !!! This was much needed💗💗💗 this is the time to heal and show the world my Real true feelings about my life and i am grateful to god for sending u as a therapy ,, cuz I had therapy sessions but they never worked but your one video made my life go like a butter !! Thankful and grateful to you💗💗💗💗
I don't know what to say 🥺🥹 bt i genuinely felt that ye sb exactly mere sath abi ho rha h jo aapne btaya abi..... 2 and half years of realtionship and then suddenly aapko bola jata h ki sorry ghrwale nhi manege so breakup is the only option bt after some tym aapko khi se pta chlta h ki vo only ek bhana tha vo bnda cheat kr rha tha actually vo bss trap tha jisme baki ldkiyun ke sath aap bi fss gye.......i can't tell whole story bt only i know what am facing 3-4 mhine the jb nind aati hi nhi thi bilkul bi and eating disorder anxiety depression and alll.....bt healing is imp for ur ownself.....now it's been 9 months of breakup bt now i can say that am on the process of healing and am sure that one day i will make myself happy again 🙂🤍
So sorry to hear this i hope u get better superrrr soonnnn just remember this that no one should be more important for you than your family and god i wish best for you and hope you get all the happinesss positivity in your life ahead Radhe Radhe❤
@@ghanishthakapoor8742 thanku so much for ur kind words ❤️it really mean a lot.....and ya i will priorities myself from now and good wishes and happiness to u too 🤍🩵
Anyone thinking they cant ever move on after a breakup, I am assuring you that you can, its totally possible and you dont even need another relationship to help you move on. If you're not breaking up with a toxic person just because you think you cant move on then youre doing a huge mistake
He will say that I broke up with him but his actions showed that he actually broke up and was waiting for me to say what he was feeling. So yeah I'm crying here alone and I saw him going out with another girl doing his fav things which I was never invited to b/c he was always busy.
2024 has taken many things from me. I lost my grandmother. I couldn't see her for the last time. After that, I lost my five puppies. My family (especially my brother, sister, and father) and I tried, but we couldn't save them. In this situation, I also can't go back home because of my exams. I am a college student. Being a student freelancer and making money was like, "Wow, I did it!" But last month, I lost my freelancing work. And now I have lost someone whom I never wanted to lose. Thank you, Lord Shiva and Lord Rama, for the exams and for helping me become tougher through all these losses. One good thing is that I never liked to read books. I hated reading. But I realized I need a mentor. In the Mahabharata, Lord Krishna helped Arjuna as a mentor during his tough time in the war. So, I started reading the Gita. I think I should just do the right thing and not worry about what I get as a reward. Har Har Mahadev Bless everyone, Mahadev. Be with them to help them forget their sorrows, Lord. Do not let go of their hands.
Same bro 2024 is worst year my grandfather whom I loved the most died suddenly my grandmother got cancer my bf brokeup with me still praying to God to heal me
There is nothing like moving on some part of us will always be there in them and vice versa. I have been in 3 yr relationship its almost a year now theres not a single day i don’t think about her though she is with some other guy still I love her and part of my heart still wants her back. To all those who are suffering a piece of advice> its very much normal to feel bad and have thoughts about your past but you have to stay strong and keep yourself motivated to continue the life without the person with whom you thought of living the whole life.
😢😢😢 trying my level best to come out of it ,from past 9 days ...but thank u for this valuable video. Bohut relax howa otherwise my heart was aching, my arms legs were so heavy,but now i m feeling better ,thank u❤
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
@@YashviBagga@YashviBagga Uske saath kya hoga Jisne Bilakhta hua Marta hua Chhod diya Ek Ese innocent insaan ko jo dil s chahta tha.... Pure emotions the..... But Ese Chhod diya usko ki Mr gya yaa jinda h y tk nhi Puchha........ Kya krega Kse krega y tk nhi socha..... Or jiske saath kiya Vo bechara us ladki k Sbse weakest time m. Haath pkd k Khda tha........ Use Bilakhte huye uthaya tha or usi ladki n us bechare ko bilkhte rote Chhod diya.... Us ladki k saath kya hoga
I think pain goes away when you do something about it. And the first thing is to ACCEPT it. as long as you keep denying the feeling of pain and keep lying to yourself you would keep revolving in the cycle. Accept it, feel it for a time and then let it go by realising that Peace is the ultimate luxury.
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
Thankyou so much for this video❤ Felt like I needed this. I needed to let go. They just weren't meant for me for some reasons, but it's fine, right!? That's life. It's transitory. Things change, situations change, PEOPLE change, but it has been rightly said that everything just happens for a reason! And at some point, we find out the reason, and I'm sure a lot of people can relate, it is an ecstatic, truly empowering and such a pleasing feeling when you find yourself saying that "okay, this was why it happened, and I'm so glad it happened because if it hadn't, I wouldn't be feeling what I'm feeling, I wouldn't be the person I am" I'm so happy that I've made right choices by just deciding that "this is it. It's enough. It's done for. Time to be back again" I'm proud of myself❤ sending a lot of blessings, happiness & courage your way! You're so strong & an inspiration to many!❤✨
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
"I'm trapped in a toxic relationship with someone who walked out on me a few days ago, claiming I'm 'chaotic.' But then his friend revealed they're in Pune, which was a shock. Fast forward to my birthday, he shows up, claiming he's struggling with depression and financial issues. The irony is that I've always been the one supporting him, buying gifts and covering expenses (around ₹2,000 weekly). Despite my initial happiness seeing him again, he's been ignoring me. I've invested so much emotional energy into loving him that I'm now stuck. I don't know how to move on or continue in this relationship. What's killing me is the suspicion that he might be looking for someone else. The thought alone makes me freak out. But what hurts even more is knowing that someone else might love him better, someone who deserves his love more than I do. It's a painful feeling, and I'm just so angry and confused."
Yashvi, you've truly brightened my day. I can relate I went through a similar journey, it took a year to move on from a six-year relationship. Now, I'm finding happiness and growth.
I can relate with every single word. Jab sleep is a escape, uthne ka man nahi kare kyunki kuch pata nahi kya karna hai jiske around puri zindegi plan karli thi wo insaan hi nahi hai ab zindegi me. Uthne se wohi sab same same. Mere 8 saal relationship jab toota mujhe ye baat digest karne me 8 mahine chale gaye. Uska ek call ek msg ke liye har ek second wait karna sochna ki kitna th sab accha tha ye tha wo tha but ab wo insaan kisi or k saath hai kisi or saathe wo sab cheeze wo sab baatein karta hai sochna or andr hi andr tootna I know that feeling. Thank you Yashvi I can relate to you. And I hope whoever going from this situation get healed. I still trying my best to be happy aline
Chodke naamo nishaan us insaan ka, Khud se mulakat Karo Thoda sa muskura do Chaand ko dekh ke Sitaaron se thodi baat karo Zara mohabbat se hat ke Is qaynat ki khoobsurti ko niharo De rahe Hain aawaz Ye jharne, ye pahad ye wadiyan Thoda inhe bhi toh tum pukaaro Hamesha dusro ke liye hi gaaoge kya..? Uthao guitar or char line Khud ke liye bhi gungunana seekho Bohot roye ho tum kisike liye Ab akele muskurana seekho Apne aapko behtar banao Aur dekho is jahan me Kitna or kuch khaas hai Jo dhund rahe ho tum Kisi or mai Wo sab tumhaare pass hai Na jane kyu ese ho gaye tum Apne aap ko is qadar bhool gye. Kyu is Safar ko bhool gye Ek hamsafar ki talash mai. 🖤The Abhishek 🖤
bhai mai ro diiiiiiiiiiii...i kinda moved on but this was some really emotionally intimate video that made me realize i did it the correct way and i swear I'm proud of myself. thankyou yashvayyyy didiiii i love you🤍
I cannot thank you enough for this video in last some months I have lost 7 kgs after my breakup and he is happy with someone else only after 2 months of breakup he is with someone else and look where I am I literally want to heal
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
@@ashokdusad2956 sun bkl tu sari ladki ko reply de rahe hai vo bhi ise tarha ye dikhata hai ki tu ek no ka gawar or leach admi hai to kabhi apne to kuch nhi kar paya or agar kisi ki bhen yaha aa ke apna dukh share kar rahi to use bhi demotivate kar rha hai real life Mai me tere gese ko ladkia red flag bolti hai ye band kar de chutiye nhi to tera email me save kar liya hu aur tune apni maa ki jo disrespect ki hai uske liye Mai Teri mummy ko sorry bolta hu ❤
Their is something that I'm going through and I'm kind of stuck in the relationship their is a hope that one day everything will be alright but maybe not idk what to do but i just felt so good when you were talking it was peaceful I felt that.. Ki aap bas bolte raho and I should just sit and listen , this was the best video I have ever watched in my entire life.
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
@@ashokdusad2956 same thing happened with me she 1st time Cheated and after 6 six came back she cry and touched feet says sorry and lots of time then after 2 week she cheated again 😂
Pyar kro pr khud se , you will never hurt ❤. Nice vdo di mujhe jarurat nhi thi iss vdo ki pr still i watch till end, comments padh kr dukh hue ki apni life ke itne precious time hm kisi or ko dete h or ek din wo hme chor kr chale jate h . Kyse kisi ki koi feeling ke saath aysa kr skta h , mai hmesa se khud ke liye jina sikhi hu hmesa khud ko khush rakhti hu don't care about others because i don't want ki koi dusra aakr meri feelings ko hurt kr de , i love how you explain everything ❤
Much needed going through tough time. Situationship is even more painful. Everyday waiting, no contact situation. But God is helping me to come out of this painful experience....thank u universe
Im currently going through this phase... He was my first love ever... I had my first experiences of everything with him but after 1.5 yr i realised he was never mine... Saw his ex's 126 photos in his backup and mine were literally 4 He always took me for granted.. i even forgave him kyuki usne mujhpar hath uthaya tha and he never said sorry i was a short tempered girl to i accept ki mai gusse me gaali dedeti thi to he used to tolerate that bas yahi cheez ... Baaki he never cared, he never loved me, i used to cry all night and vo gaane gata tha call par mera rona sunkar like he didnt even give a fuck...one time he called me to meet me in his hometown.. i was ready to travel 12hr by train alone(i never travelled alone in train) but adhe raste me he said ke 'Matt aa" and he didnt even called me once raat bhar bhi to know if was okay or not and i cried that day ki what if something happened to me? He said to? Tu akeli hai ky pure bharat me ?... Firbhi i stayed but today im letting him go ... I have to know my worth
So here's a problem i face after breakup ki mujhe next relationship toh jana nhi hota daar lgta haiii lekin at the same time agr us healing time pe somebody is treating me nicely nd filling that empty space in my heart jaha mera ex hua karta tha i start to like that person but andar se i know ki i didn't move onn i still cry i still see our previous pictures and I'm also scared of another relationship but mujhe woh dusra ladka pasand bhi ata hai at the same time
Yashvi i swear you deserve all the love. I thought ki ye meri hi story narrate hori hai. Bro you actually healed something u didnt break. I can relate to you so much and i want you to know that you are actully the besttt and you deserve all the happiness di. I love youuu i just came here from a reel and got to know the same feeling jo m feel krri thi aur bhi log h jo deal kr rhe h isse and iske baare me baat krna sbse difficult part hota h. All the girls here never be insecure kisi aur ku wjh se. You girls are the prettiest. Ik how it feels but always treat yourself better. Proud of you di for speaking on this and actually showing the world that yessss girls also feel its not about only the men in love. But women in love hits different too.
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
When two people break up, they both have their own side of the story. This is my side. I realized too late how much she meant to me, and by then, it was already over. Now, someone else has taken my place in her life. I never thought this could happen. I was so sure she would never leave me. I understand now that if I had respected her, treated her well, shown her care, and valued her, things might have been different. It’s hard to believe she’s not with me anymore. My heart feels heavy with sadness and regret. I haven’t slept well for the past four nights. I keep waking up from bad dreams, and it feels like I’m stuck in a nightmare that keeps repeating. I feel so sad and full of regret. I know time will help me feel better, but the regret will stay with me. This is very hard for me, and I’m struggling to deal with it. I don’t know how long it will take to heal, but I’m trying to be patient. I take full responsibility for what happened. I know she loved me more than anything, and I’ll always remember and cherish that love. I haven’t heard anything negative from her anyone. She’s such a wonderful person, and she deserves someone who will appreciate her. I’m so grateful to have her in my life. The person who will be in her life will be incredibly lucky. I guess I just jinxed myself.
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0:34 Why am I making this video
0:57 How moving on felt
1:31 After breakup effects
2:05 Loss of self worth
2:24 Why we can’t move on
2:53 Should we BLOCK after breaking up
3:22 why is it okay to STALK
4:24 How to deal with possession and anxiety
5:31 How to deal with MISSING THEM ? Yaad toh aati hai
7:01 Sometimes we don’t love the person but how we feel with that person
7:40 HOW TO MOVE ON (real tricks I used)
8:10 Convenience calls ❌
8:43 Rebound relationships ❌
9:13 Physical rage and nature heals
9:57 Why are good friends important after a breakup
10:35 Moving on was hard
11:54 A message for you 🤍
13:27 Have faith in god
13:40 Outro
Its night 2.26 nd i miss him nd watching this video its been 3 yers ab tak nhi ho raha. 😂
6 साल रिलेशनशिप में रही मतलब उसने तेरी 6 साल खूब ली पोज बदल बदल के और अब तुझे छोड़ दिया यार ये तो बहुत ज्यादा गलत किया उसने तेरे साथ
Please make more sit and talk videos. Your videos literally help me calm my anxiety and I can sleep peacefully.
@@payalsahota9438 yeah confused where to go and i saw her vedio
Tum bhagwatgeeta ko samzho nahi toh tum pagal ho jawoge
Mine was 8.5 years of relationship.and its been 1.5 years after that breakup and I am still trying to move on. I was in depression and almost gave up... That time I had no idea about how to deal with,or parents goal and everything.I was just trying to do every minimal possible thing so that he would stay in my life...I begged multiple times. I cried, i screamed....... But it is what it is...no hate for him. Now I just seriously want to move on. This is my life I also want to be happy I also deserve to be happy and that's only my responsibility to make myself happy again....Yes still I get flashbacks, but I cheer myself up from then I am single not because that I don't believe in love but this time I want myself to be complete... I don't need anyone to complete me...If someone genuinely comes into my life it will be a cherry on the cake only....
P.s- whoever reads my comment please give a like so that everytime I will get a notification I will read this again and will make myself motivate again
Didi 8.5, is a long time why did you break up
He cheated on me@@poulamikarmakar6500
Take ur time wo uska waqt tha ab tumhra waqt hai ye waqt badal jaoge tum mujhe yakeen hai..👍 God bless you
You deserve much more in life❤
7 years of healthy relationship and one mistake from both of us and our relationship destroyed in a month. I never thought she can leave or I have to live without her. Trying to move on it's really the taulf phase of my life I hope I will recover soon .
I think all loyal people are present here with broken heart 🍷koii na more power to uh
Yesss😢
@@mousumi-l4g wait and trust u will meet someone who will take care of yr each and every tear
Yupp....!
Hmm🥲
this is world of playboys and plaaygirls
100 reasons to stay alive:
1. to make your parents proud
2. to conquer your fears
3. to see your family again
4. to see your favourite artist live
5. to listen to music again
6. to experience a new culture
7. to make new friends
8. to inspire
9. to have your own children
10. to adopt your own pet
11. to make yourself proud
12. to meet your idols
13. to laugh until you cry
14. to feel tears of happiness
15. to eat your favourite food
16. to see your siblings grow
17. to pass school
18. to get tattoo
19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
20. to meet your internet friends
21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve
22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
24. to see untouched snow in the morning
25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
26. to see stars light up the sky
27. to read a book that changes your life
28. to see the flowers in the spring
29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
30. to travel abroad
31. to learn a new language
32. to learn to draw
33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
34. Puppy kisses.
35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
37. Trampolines.
38. Ice cream.
39. Stargazing.
40. Cloud watching.
41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
43. “I saw this and thought of you."
44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
45. The relief you feel after crying.
46. Sunshine.
47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
48. Your future wedding.
49. Your favorite candy bar.
50. New clothes.
51. Witty puns.
52. Really good bread.
53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
56. The smell before and after it rains
57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
60. Trying out new recipes.
61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
64.Breakfast in bed.
65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater.
66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
67. Pray (if you are religious)
68. Forgiveness.
69. Water balloon fights.
70. New books by your favorite authors.
71. Fireflies.
72. Birthdays.
73. Realizing that someone loves you.
74. Spending the day with someone you
85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
86. Someone’s skin against yours.
87. Holding hands.
88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
89. Singing off key with your best friends.
90. Road trips.
91. Spontaneous adventures.
92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
94. Thunderstorms.
95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
96. The taste of your favorite food.
97. The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning.
98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
99. Compliments and praise.
100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realise you did it.
Ps : Never forget you are a beatiful person Life is so beatiful so live, live like no one else exist, live for yourself, don't care of bad people, you are strong, i love you 🫶
Only one reason to die
@@Ayoo-d4w huhh my reason can be:- if the person i love the most puts a gun on my head yk what will be my reaction:-i would die for u
great tips ❤
Hats off to U😊
😭
Never thought i would have to search and watch this
Exactly 💔
Same here
yes
💔💔💔
Did u move on
Puri youtube par isse best move on wali video nahi mili. No nonsense only straight facts.
I want to add 1 more thing for people who are going through this - Just accept that he is not that person anymore who was making u happy who was your love and you will not get that fulfilling feeling from him anymore. He can’t offer u that happiness so just accept it than you will see clearly everything and will not wants to associate with him 🙌
The best point ❤
That realization was the breaking point for me.. After 4 months of betrayal without any self worth i texted him and i sensed he is not the same person anymore. I thought i will break down when he replies and i would have lots of things to talk to him but i ended the chat within 5 minutes wishing him good luck. After that i just moved on easily. 😊
Why is this comment section filled with he comments..it was a she for me
True
Mera bhi yahi maanna hain ye thought bas ese hi ek din bethe hue aagya kyuki me jab bhi usse contact krne ki koshish krti vo mujse baat to karleta tha par uski tone uska andaz bohot badal chuka tha Mano voh move on hochuka h vo bhi bohot jaldi meanwhile me yaha uske attention k liye 2019 se ab tk k saalo se usike piche lagi rahi pr usko mujse itni detachment hogai thi ki muje uski baato me pyar apne aap mehsus hona bnd hogya, jaanti to me thi hi ki mere jindagi me dobara fir shyd kabhi na aaye pr khud ko bevakoof bnati chali abhi recently yeh hi khayal aaya ki ab na vo insaan bhi bdal chuka hai or me khud bhi bohot basal chuki hoon ab usse milkar lagta hain ki ye vahi ni h jisse mene kbhi pyar kia tha Haan 2 pal ko muje sab yaad aajata hain usse dekh k shyd usse kabhi ni bhula pau or shyd usse ye Ehsaas bhi nahi ki vo Kitna important tha mere liye pr mera ek mazboot side bhi hain jisse ye sab smjh aachuka hain ki ab usse aage bdhna h
I was in a relationship for 5 serious years.. atleast from my side..but he broke up with me without giving proper reason.But after much stalking skills i came to know he i was with someone else..that thing shattered me to the core. I went through all the grief of breakup...but after sometime i came to know his gf married to some other guy.. that day i took a breath of relaxation. and he came back to me i didn't felt a thing...he was just like any other stranger to me
I also feels relaxed after seeing that...Mine has same story but we had 2 years relationship and broke up 10 days ago...I believe in Karma so he will obviously get back what he has done but he had so much ego anything can happen in his life but he will not come back to me... trying to move on so badly
@@bristipanja4480 those who idolize other peoples while being in the relationship are the most horrible ones, like my ex literally broke up with me just because I scold him for adding his ex into his socials and then he blocked me from everywhere.I wish I had some kind of pills to escape this horrible phase of my life but ya you have to go through every moment to make your life best of it .
Did you moveon please tell because I can't moveon i think i will do suicide now 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Remember dear, a relationship always work when the boy is putting more efforts.
Explanation thing is real. People don't even want to explain you or give something to think about. I think someone has done something with them which they are giving us unknowingly.
The moment you said " we always cross a line to make them impressed or we do something extra that they finally validate us " you got me queen.
The block nhi krne wli cheez jo aapni boli literally bhut shi h .... bcuz block krne ke baad aapko jyada aati h .....ise acha h apna normal rho aur apne kaam se kaam rkho.....n it makes u more powerful ki tum us bnde ko Bina block kre bhi ignore kr skte ho...it's a superpower..it takes time but doing it worths all pain...❤❤❤
what if he has removed me from his social media, mobile contact. He dumped me
@@hemakrishnan9377toh to Acha hai na....u still keep him unblocked...thats even easy for u because aap kuch dekh nhi skte unka but he can see how happy u r now that he is not in your life
@@AnnoyedIcedTea-en4hn usne mujhe block kar diya har ek jagah se and yeh bohot he difficult hai, like farewell tha degree college ka uss din jhaghdha hua then shaadi ka hope deke agle din mujhe block kr diya :)
Yeah it's true maine mere ex ko aise hi Kara and today I fuck don't care about him anymore
@@swagatadas4708acha hua jo jata hain use hane do
3 years after my relationship ended, I took her for granted and decided to focus on my career. When I was settled enough, she had moved on. It feels so void like I literally wanted her validation in everything I did. She was so perfect but it's all my fault, I should have given her the time she deserved. I don't know if I'll ever be able to move on knowing the fact that I messed up everything.
You loved her more man
Same thing with me brother same. Humko pata hain kasa lagta hain yeh
This is exactly my story.
Same bhai... it was all my fault, now I'm at better place gonna be a Doctor, I have a good career ahead but jiske saath iss career ko jeene ka sapna dekha tha vo gya na?
@@ishaankapil4982 suno bhaiya
Ye sab hota hai... Koi na koi mil hi jayega ... Atleast aapko vo tho mila jo aap banna chte the ... Par kuch hote hai unko vo bhi ni milta aur ye bhi ni milta
Par hn It hurts jab hum bhot jyada dhyan dete ho but they just don't care .
Sorry kuch jyada hi hai ye sab sorry apke time waste krne ke liye bhaiya
Hey ,I'm 20 year girl.
1. Accept
2. Let them go.
3. Don't force yourselves to move on
4. Don't use any new person.
5. Focus on goals and career.
6. Connect to close friends.
7. If you don't want to forgive them for their mistakes it's ok mt kro you are not god .
8. Manifest the move on with I will do it .
( Tum karloge yrr ❤️)
Even I don't have any friend 🥺
same girl i’m 19 too going thru this
@@ap0calyps3i me also what was ur case?
@@ap0calyps3i it's ok we deserve better ❤️
@@prakritiparmar3055 it's ok hm Insan time do khudko thik nhi hoga but adat ho jayegi we deserve better ❤️
Ekdum ulti baat, dosto block kar do usko... Block karne se hi umeed khatam hogi aur dheere dheere tum aage badhoge
i cant block her..ಥ_ಥಥ_ಥಥ_ಥಥ_ಥ.
she cant stand for me anymore and she left me.
i begged her alot but she cantಥ_ಥಥ_ಥಥ_ಥಥ_ಥ
beifre alll of this i still have hope.ಥ_ಥ
i cnt block her. please help me.
@@nex_777 talk to me may be I can help you
Because same thing is happening with me
@@nex_777bro you beg her to block you.
@@nex_777 please let her go, you deserve better. Believe me
I did block him and the fact it hurts more ki usko koi padi hi nahi hai he didnt stop me ki mtr block kro and he just said tujhe sort krna hai nahi krna to chlija mtlb didnt give me time aur menne kiya block but the one suffering is me not him
girl healed me man, wow. always saw her as a fun mazak kinda person. never knew she can be my therapist
Muah 🤍🤍🤍
Acceptance is the key to move on 🎉
Does not matter no of years! I had 2yrs of Living relationship. Unfortunately She did not take a single stand. And Bhai jab samne wala 1% stand na le aur tumne uski baat ghar dost sabse ki ho yar sab chijo se bhagna impossible hota h. Jab aap apna 100% de rhe ho n Bhai Lagta hai sab khtam koi yesa kre to. But life ki ek sachai h, Agar Koi ja rha hai n to usse jaane do. Rehne waale lakh kamiya ho reh lenge. Rishte hm kisi specific insaan ke liye nhi, Apne liye bnate h ki wo insaan sayad mere se jyda meri fikar karta h. Roo lo jitna Rona h. Bhagwan pe sab chodho aur Khush rho tumne kisi se dilse pyar ki. Apni galti na dhundho ki maine kuch galat kiya ki usne kyo ki. Maa Baap ke bare mai socho Dosto ke bare. Bohot Kismat se life mili hai. Ek mahine do mahine ro lo Aur Mehnat Kr Bhai. Jai Shree Ram.
Same situation mere sath hui bs hum living relationship me nhi the
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Radhe Radhe, jai shree krishna ❤❤❤🙏🙏
❤
The way she explained everyy point!!!!!!✨️❤😭😭
Literally damnn positive>>>>>>>✨️🧿
I love youu
I love u @@YashviBagga
@@YashviBagga@YashviBagga Uske saath kya hoga Jisne Bilakhta hua Marta hua Chhod diya Ek Ese innocent insaan ko jo dil s chahta tha.... Pure emotions the..... But Ese Chhod diya usko ki Mr gya yaa jinda h y tk nhi Puchha........ Kya krega Kse krega y tk nhi socha..... Or jiske saath kiya Vo bechara us ladki k Sbse weakest time m. Haath pkd k Khda tha........ Use Bilakhte huye uthaya tha or usi ladki n us bechare ko bilkhte rote Chhod diya.... Us ladki k saath kya hoga
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She is healing something she didn't break♥️
Lots of love to you! 🫂
@@YashviBagga❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Many are doing the same
@@shivanigujjar9301 Accha
She is healing the whole country ❤
The fact that you were so raw and open with us means a lot, thank you so much. I really needed this ❤️
Can never script my heart out even if I try on such topics hehe! Thankyou for the appreciation 🤍
@amishanarayan1708 time pass h sb , because o free h Isliye
I just hope my girl also gets move on
I’m just letting you that I’m 28 and I definitely needed to hear you talk about this … thank you for making this, it has helped me change my perspective on how I see the break up
My suggestion is the basic rule to move on" jab next lajavab hoga to ex apne aap dimag se nikal jayega"
So guys whenever you broke up with someone and wanted to move on always remember there is better person then them who is waiting for you so ye dimag me rakho you will heal naturally apni worth Kam nhi karni bhale ab tumhara ex tumhari aukaat se bahar nikal gaya ho apne dimag me ye baat yaad rakhna you are much more worthy then your ex and much much better person is waiting for you, and trust me this words are magic just try to apply into your life and see the magic
No doubt he is my first thought of mrng and last thought of night'.but i still gave up on him .he couldn't understand my love so i let him go ... kabhi kabhi kisi ko jane dena hi pyar hota hai..
Same here 🥺🥺 but smjh nhi arha kaise krna h ab life m ky krna h
Didiii aapko literally award milni chahiye yaar 😍😍😍😍.. aapko nahi maalum aap anjaane Mein kitne logo ki shaayad jaan tak bachaayi hogi aapnee... Thankyou so much for all your words.. really grateful
Yashvi, this is the most clear cut, relatable, and practical 'how -to" video I've ever seen about breaking up and moving on.
You have my heart girl❤️
13:15 13:36 13:43 that shake in your voice shows what you've gone through and I'm genuinely thankful to you for making this video because sometimes god puts unexpected strangers in your life to heal you, u're really healing something u didn't break 🥺.... Lots of love dear and thank you so much, god bless you 🙏❤️✨✨
This is exactly I healed. Every word in this video is from practical experience, i can tell. These are not small tips, this is actually the path
I went through this phase during covid ... With zero friends zero outing and zero motivation, i had to quit my job , my father got covid , everywhere there negativity and felt helpless, i couldnt reach him out , tried with 100 other phone numbers to reach him , but was ... Vague as he blocked all those 100 nos 😊 , the worst part was that i didnt get a closure .. it took me 3 years to realise what u realised after 1 year ...(yaar call krne s koi faeda nahi hai) and that roo cuz one fine day i called and a girl picked up 😮.. that was the changing moment for me 😊.. that one day and now its today i never interfered in his life ... ❤ I have cracked 3 major gov jobs and living a peaceful life with my parents 🙏 And yea that 'MOVE ON' is still happening because the "pain" from "hai" to "tha" is damn REAL thanx for this video, ws just scrolling through and got to see this ❤ its full of positivity and need to reach n number of people ❤ we need to talk on this more because people like us "need" to hear this !! ❤ Thanx again wish u good luck ❤
Please help me to get rid of his memories as i cant move on he never gave me a closure he is happy with some other girl he blocked me but initially he was the one who made me believe in trus love his efforts made me to love him and when i fell for him desperately and madly he walked out of my life with some other girl
@@Khushi-ux5ns Same situation I am going through
Omg ❤️❤️🥺🥺. You're extremely strong
Which government you have cracked bro?
God blessed u
This is totally relatible....me iss time isse time se guzar Rahi hu .... Or yeh soch kar orr jadda dukh hota hai yeh mera tha...mujhe raat koh i love you bolta thaa abh kisi or koh bolega and this is killing me inside ...aise log kabhi life me naa aye ..yehi se pta chalta hai ki yeh duniya kisi ki nahhi hai...SIRF BHAGWAN HI TUMHARE HAI ...but kbhi kbhi ye soch kar bagwan par gussa bhi aata hai ki apke haqq..me tha agar wo life me nahi tha toh kyu diyaaa kyu diyaaaaa
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Absolutely ...kabhi kabhi Bhagwan pe bhi gussa aata hain ...
Chot lagne par sharir se khoon nikal ne ka dard hum sehlete hain But Dil tootne ke baad behti aansoon ka dard saha Nehi jata
Feeling same....ab toh marna padega...usko vulane ke liye....😭😭😭
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
Going through same, but somehow keeping myself strong, I wish aap bhi is sab se nikal paayein, it pains a lot, but we can't just sit and let that thing destroy us.
How are you now?
Ngl Your words just literally make me calm i have just lost someone 4 months back and i was feeling so suffocating since he left but now i feel so good i feel like yeah i'm good now instead of being with who was not even mine tho he make promises but never has guts to keep and you were right ppl use us for timepass but i've been with him for a year and it was not joke for me i put my all and ik it was hard but now i'm thanking god for removing him in my life i'm doing more better than before in my life and thanks to you you're sich a nice person whomis helping everyone for healing lots of love from me...💗
Thankyou baby! Makes my day So glad i could be of help! 🤍
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
@@YashviBagga@YashviBagga Uske saath kya hoga Jisne Bilakhta hua Marta hua Chhod diya Ek Ese innocent insaan ko jo dil s chahta tha.... Pure emotions the..... But Ese Chhod diya usko ki Mr gya yaa jinda h y tk nhi Puchha........ Kya krega Kse krega y tk nhi socha..... Or jiske saath kiya Vo bechara us ladki k Sbse weakest time m. Haath pkd k Khda tha........ Use Bilakhte huye uthaya tha or usi ladki n us bechare ko bilkhte rote Chhod diya.... Us ladki k saath kya hoga
I wish I had this video last year when I was being dragged through hell and back😂 i dumped all that rage and sadness in the gym and it gave me A LOT of confidence. anyway, I got through and in a better place. So anyone who’s going through a rough patch.. it is temporary. It will pass💗
Sadness eats time.Be patient.Time will eat sadness...❤
Or i will get used to the pain?
you're right....jab aap hope khtm krdete ho uss inshan se....you actually starting moving on
Same hora h mere shat hope me hi hu Mai
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
man i dont know why but i cried so hard while listening you. thanks alot. god bless youuuu
My boyfriend brk up with me after 8 yrs of close n healthy relationship. He did not even give his single effort to save this relationship. Now he moves to another city n marrying another girl. Literally he wants house wife not a independent girl lyk me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭im broken totally plzz God save me plzz🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am with u girl I am for you don't cry my bf also have a girl who Merrie this girl and even he said to me that he love me more 😢😢😢 but these days he doesn't pic my calls always talk his finance
Kya kbhi koshish ki uski majboori samjhne ki ?
@@ishansharma2660majboori bhenchod kuch ni hoti, unka mann bhar jata hai....
@@ishansharma2660 hey listen majburi is not everything bro 100 baat ki ek baat agar koi wakiye pyaar karta hai toh jindgi bhar saath nibhata hai everything matters alot ki kaise aap har situation ko handle krte ho apne loved ones ka saath paane le liye yar!!
God saved u from that aashole trust me.
took me 6 years to completely move on..after taking so much repurcursions..this video has all the ingredients which needs to be done.
Healing someone you didn't break..hatssoff❤
Although i’ve already moved on from everything and now i don’t care how much anyone puts efforts on me, i’m in my self-love era until i get someone who has same mentality as mine i.e. date to marry. I would also say she said everything that i wanted to listen. I wish i had an elder sister like her! a guy who will get her will be the luckiest ❤
So glad i could be of help! 🤍 Big hug lil sister!
When you said 1 year ke bad you were moved on bt 1year feels like many years.i feel that imotion.i think when you put yourself first then everything is moved on❤
Thank you so much!!😭💓I was literally going through these things. My relationship was of 2 years and recently had a breakup.
TYSM!!! LOVE YOU BEYOND WORDSS🥺💗
Block nahi karna is a right option agar block kroge to tumhe lgega ki kahi use message to nahi krna hoga yhi sochte rahoge agr block nahi kroge to khud dikh jyega ki use tumhari need nahi h aage badho 👍
Moral of the story :- relationship banao hi mat
Thank you so much this really means a lot.. i can also understand how you went through that tough phase.. you just made me feel like i exist and worth enough to live..
I was in love for 9 years .I waited him for almost 5 years before getting into a relationship .later on realised the relationship was just from one side only.He only loved me in accordance with his convenience.Gave him so many chances only to realise he isn't worth anything.
Hate convenience lovers, they are shit!
Mam अच्छे लड़कों को अच्छी लड़कियां क्यूँ नहीं मिलती
Relatable 😢
😢 this is so sad
you deserve this ....its benifits of western culture....relationship before marriage rakhna he kyun hai ab ghume past lekar jisko koi sarif successful ladka accept nahi karne waala....isliye indian culture best hai shaadi tak no relationship.....10 jagah muh maarne waala kabhi loyal nahi rahega keep in mind for both boys and girls
Never stalk. Jane do. That's important. Yea then don't block just unfollow and think they're dead. You cant bring back a dead person
The person decided to move on bas. Apni soul ko acha banao.
Hum unke us version se pyaar karte hai jo humne banaya hai.
This video is helping me
3 years of relationship and 2 years to move on. Apni self respect se upr kisi ko mt rkho. Maine apne 5 saal barbad kre uske piche jisko meri feelings ki kdr tk ni hui shodte wqt😌 sometimes still miss her but i accept that now ki vo meri ni hai😊❣️
Us :)
Missing isn’t ever a fair reason to put your self respect down, I hope healing and happiness for you all🤍
@@YashviBagga mai jo 2 years ki bat kr ra move on ke
Usme se 1 year sirf use vapis apne life me bulane ke liye bhut gir chuka tha 5-6 number change kiye kbhu uski frnds se bol ra ki plss bat suno ik bar bat krne ka moka do but vo chle gai ab humne ik dusre ko unbock rkha hai but kbhi msg ni kiya😊
Us bro❤
@@YashviBagga@YashviBagga Uske saath kya hoga Jisne Bilakhta hua Marta hua Chhod diya Ek Ese innocent insaan ko jo dil s chahta tha.... Pure emotions the..... But Ese Chhod diya usko ki Mr gya yaa jinda h y tk nhi Puchha........ Kya krega Kse krega y tk nhi socha..... Or jiske saath kiya Vo bechara us ladki k Sbse weakest time m. Haath pkd k Khda tha........ Use Bilakhte huye uthaya tha or usi ladki n us bechare ko bilkhte rote Chhod diya.... Us ladki k saath kya hoga
Sahi baat hai,release the toxic energy with physical activity. It really helps mera bhi break up hua ,i isolated completely, purabarbad karliya sab kuch .but abphirse sahi se shuru kiya aur umeed hai sahi ho jayega
I just watched your this vedio . i had a relationship of 3 years and he was my bestie also. i didnt had a female friend because of him . i just had a break up and this helped me a lot thanks yrr . ek female hi dusri female ko smjh skti hai yrr . GOD BLESS YOU ...JAI SHRI RAM
Sorry but may I ask breakup kyu hua
Im also dating my bsf and have no other femal friends. Shit im scared now
@@Shreya-me4fg He don't want to stay with me now and i begged to him to stay with him
@@SanaFatma-e8b To be honest ...love is just a game played between two in end one will win means one will move on and one will loose and would never be able to move on .... i would recommend your from my point of view that all males are like this only ... i just dont trust any male now ... i was too comfortable with him more than my parents and now i regret all my 3 years with him
@@chahatverma1348 same thing happened people just decide randomly that they don't wanna stay and ruin other peoples time begging was never a good option that too I realised today
U r doing God's Work for many out here bro!!!!! More power to you and all the people who can relate to this !!! U r more than what happened to you!!! U r enough alone!!!! Love yourself more than anyone else on this whole planet!!! Keep going ❤️🕉️🫂
Ahhh itni sari ldkiyan kya ldkiyan bhi itna serious pyar kr skti h amazing i hope.i should find anyone of u ... Guls as i lost her my world she is completely changed now everything shattered all i see now is darkness al i hear now is cry for help inside of me i need myself to heal me 😢
This is the best video I have seen for healing. I needed this❤ Thank you so much❤
I know it is much tougher to move on , for people with 4 + years of relationship. I was in a relationship for 1.5 years. It still breaks my heart.
I really loved my guy. Honestly i was feeling kinda impossible to move on. All the moments we lived together keeps flasing in my mind. Honestly since this pain is so profound, tgat many a times I let down my self respect by calling and messaging him. He used to scold me, disrespect me, but in my mind i had only one thing "but atleast I am talking to him". He called me a leech. I lowered my own self respect, with this video and comments, i really understood, no amount of pain, should be enough to put down my self respect.
Same story bro
U r absolutely 1000% correct. I m moving on after being in a relationship for 25 years….it takes a life time to know a person but still one life is not enough to know everything. It’s tough it’s hard to move on bcoz of our emotions but u have to take a stand n move on n which I m doing. Karmic people come in our life to teach us a lesson so we don’t repeat the same mistake again. Love u all ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Kya aapka relationship sch me 25 saal ka tha 😢
8:43 great said . i see many people do that without thinking of their new partner
You ever felt like dying inside 🙂?
Ps : you're not alone bruh !! Keep your head up hope y'all recover from shit you can't explain and haha bless me too !
Have a good one
I feel like i should die bcz of the stress and memories i cannot handle
That's so painful 😢
Think of your future and parents 😢😢@@saniya106
@@_Emily-xoxo_ I agree 💯
Im dyng 😢 aj rishta khatm kiya sara din roty nikl gya
Lagta sab fazol h life bekaar h
Honestly I saw few people on social media platforms talking about this topic !! And I’m so thankful to you for being here and being everyone’s therapy💗 Honestly i also had a breakup 8 years ago and i can’t even forget a single memory (I’m just so stucked between everything) life goes on. Ig after watching ur video I can really feel so much better that I didn’t felt from past 7 years !!! This was much needed💗💗💗 this is the time to heal and show the world my Real true feelings about my life and i am grateful to god for sending u as a therapy ,, cuz I had therapy sessions but they never worked but your one video made my life go like a butter !! Thankful and grateful to you💗💗💗💗
I’ll make these sit and talk therapies more often in 2024 I promise🤍
@@YashviBagga means a lot💗💗
I don't know what to say 🥺🥹 bt i genuinely felt that ye sb exactly mere sath abi ho rha h jo aapne btaya abi.....
2 and half years of realtionship and then suddenly aapko bola jata h ki sorry ghrwale nhi manege so breakup is the only option bt after some tym aapko khi se pta chlta h ki vo only ek bhana tha vo bnda cheat kr rha tha actually vo bss trap tha jisme baki ldkiyun ke sath aap bi fss gye.......i can't tell whole story bt only i know what am facing 3-4 mhine the jb nind aati hi nhi thi bilkul bi and eating disorder anxiety depression and alll.....bt healing is imp for ur ownself.....now it's been 9 months of breakup bt now i can say that am on the process of healing and am sure that one day i will make myself happy again 🙂🤍
So sorry to hear this i hope u get better superrrr soonnnn just remember this that no one should be more important for you than your family and god i wish best for you and hope you get all the happinesss positivity in your life ahead Radhe Radhe❤
@@ghanishthakapoor8742 thanku so much for ur kind words ❤️it really mean a lot.....and ya i will priorities myself from now and good wishes and happiness to u too 🤍🩵
That guy gonna suffer the same way
@@ghanishthakapoor8742 thanku so much for your good wishes 🥹🩷 and god bless you too 🤍
@@BakedbySimran i leave everything upto god.....and thanku for ur concern 🩷
Mosttttt sensible video on RUclips related to moving on after a break up...
3 mahine pehle dekha tha ye video Aaj totally move on kar Gaya main ।। Thanks for sharing your experience yashvi
How??
Anyone thinking they cant ever move on after a breakup, I am assuring you that you can, its totally possible and you dont even need another relationship to help you move on. If you're not breaking up with a toxic person just because you think you cant move on then youre doing a huge mistake
I never knew I wanted this until i watched it :)
Lots of love and healing!
mujhe nhi pta yashvi didi aap mera ya comment padho ga ya nhi lakin apna jitna acha sa btaya hai kisi na nhi btaya
thankyou😢
He will say that I broke up with him but his actions showed that he actually broke up and was waiting for me to say what he was feeling. So yeah I'm crying here alone and I saw him going out with another girl doing his fav things which I was never invited to b/c he was always busy.
Haha same same
🫂🫂
Im crying but im hopeful sab thik ho jayega ekdin
2024 has taken many things from me.
I lost my grandmother. I couldn't see her for the last time. After that, I lost my five puppies. My family (especially my brother, sister, and father) and I tried, but we couldn't save them. In this situation, I also can't go back home because of my exams.
I am a college student. Being a student freelancer and making money was like, "Wow, I did it!" But last month, I lost my freelancing work.
And now I have lost someone whom I never wanted to lose. Thank you, Lord Shiva and Lord Rama, for the exams and for helping me become tougher through all these losses.
One good thing is that I never liked to read books. I hated reading. But I realized I need a mentor. In the Mahabharata, Lord Krishna helped Arjuna as a mentor during his tough time in the war. So, I started reading the Gita. I think I should just do the right thing and not worry about what I get as a reward.
Har Har Mahadev
Bless everyone, Mahadev. Be with them to help them forget their sorrows, Lord. Do not let go of their hands.
Same bro 2024 is worst year my grandfather whom I loved the most died suddenly my grandmother got cancer my bf brokeup with me still praying to God to heal me
2024 feels like a curse 💔
Your way of talking is soo beautiful... It feels like a talk between best friends... You are brave... Keep going ❤
There is nothing like moving on some part of us will always be there in them and vice versa.
I have been in 3 yr relationship its almost a year now theres not a single day i don’t think about her though she is with some other guy still I love her and part of my heart still wants her back.
To all those who are suffering a piece of advice> its very much normal to feel bad and have thoughts about your past but you have to stay strong and keep yourself motivated to continue the life without the person with whom you thought of living the whole life.
😢😢😢 trying my level best to come out of it ,from past 9 days ...but thank u for this valuable video. Bohut relax howa otherwise my heart was aching, my arms legs were so heavy,but now i m feeling better ,thank u❤
Same position brother don't worry we will pull through
Everthing will be alright dear
Thankyou for healing something you never broke😭😭😭
Hello Mera v backup hoo gye he
Thank you... ❤ you are giving strength to the ppl who are dealing with this issue. And guiding so correctly.
So glad i could be of help! 🤍
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
@@YashviBagga@YashviBagga Uske saath kya hoga Jisne Bilakhta hua Marta hua Chhod diya Ek Ese innocent insaan ko jo dil s chahta tha.... Pure emotions the..... But Ese Chhod diya usko ki Mr gya yaa jinda h y tk nhi Puchha........ Kya krega Kse krega y tk nhi socha..... Or jiske saath kiya Vo bechara us ladki k Sbse weakest time m. Haath pkd k Khda tha........ Use Bilakhte huye uthaya tha or usi ladki n us bechare ko bilkhte rote Chhod diya.... Us ladki k saath kya hoga
So beautifully explained di ❤ I'll definitely use this and try to focus on myself more and for my future
Feel confident on yourself , jo hoga sahi hoga ye soch rakho
Wow ! What a soul uh have ❤️
The most genuine girl i have ever seen ..... I followed you since last 9-10 months... Keep growing 📈
Thank you so much 😀 means alot to me! 🤍
@@YashviBagga❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I think pain goes away when you do something about it. And the first thing is to ACCEPT it. as long as you keep denying the feeling of pain and keep lying to yourself you would keep revolving in the cycle. Accept it, feel it for a time and then let it go by realising that Peace is the ultimate luxury.
❤thank you so much
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
Thankyou so much for this video❤ Felt like I needed this. I needed to let go. They just weren't meant for me for some reasons, but it's fine, right!? That's life. It's transitory. Things change, situations change, PEOPLE change, but it has been rightly said that everything just happens for a reason! And at some point, we find out the reason, and I'm sure a lot of people can relate, it is an ecstatic, truly empowering and such a pleasing feeling when you find yourself saying that "okay, this was why it happened, and I'm so glad it happened because if it hadn't, I wouldn't be feeling what I'm feeling, I wouldn't be the person I am" I'm so happy that I've made right choices by just deciding that "this is it. It's enough. It's done for. Time to be back again" I'm proud of myself❤ sending a lot of blessings, happiness & courage your way! You're so strong & an inspiration to many!❤✨
I’m really proud of you too babu! Keep moving forward towards things that are meant for you🤍🤍
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
"I'm trapped in a toxic relationship with someone who walked out on me a few days ago, claiming I'm 'chaotic.' But then his friend revealed they're in Pune, which was a shock.
Fast forward to my birthday, he shows up, claiming he's struggling with depression and financial issues. The irony is that I've always been the one supporting him, buying gifts and covering expenses (around ₹2,000 weekly).
Despite my initial happiness seeing him again, he's been ignoring me. I've invested so much emotional energy into loving him that I'm now stuck. I don't know how to move on or continue in this relationship.
What's killing me is the suspicion that he might be looking for someone else. The thought alone makes me freak out. But what hurts even more is knowing that someone else might love him better, someone who deserves his love more than I do. It's a painful feeling, and I'm just so angry and confused."
Confuse mt hoiye , give yourself sometime
I'm going through it. Thanks for reminding some of the important things. I hope I'll get through it.
God is with you
She is the one giving us strength to move on though she is not the one who broke us💗
Jaan💖💕💗
मतलब तू भी दे चुकी हैं 😂😂😂
Yashvi, you've truly brightened my day. I can relate I went through a similar journey, it took a year to move on from a six-year relationship. Now, I'm finding happiness and growth.
I’m glad we could make the right choices in life! Stay happy and blessed 🤍
I can relate with every single word. Jab sleep is a escape, uthne ka man nahi kare kyunki kuch pata nahi kya karna hai jiske around puri zindegi plan karli thi wo insaan hi nahi hai ab zindegi me. Uthne se wohi sab same same. Mere 8 saal relationship jab toota mujhe ye baat digest karne me 8 mahine chale gaye. Uska ek call ek msg ke liye har ek second wait karna sochna ki kitna th sab accha tha ye tha wo tha but ab wo insaan kisi or k saath hai kisi or saathe wo sab cheeze wo sab baatein karta hai sochna or andr hi andr tootna I know that feeling. Thank you Yashvi I can relate to you. And I hope whoever going from this situation get healed. I still trying my best to be happy aline
I pray anything that meants for you finds its way faster and you get happiness in every way possible 🤍
Same situation
If u don't mind can you please share reason of breakup?
True lovers live apart but their soul live together. If someone let u alone, he may leave for urs cheering. I did it.
Yrrr didi aap bahot zyada ache ho.... mujhe iss cheez ki bahot zyada zaroorat thi i swear to god.... thank you so much di.....i love you ❤
Chodke naamo nishaan us insaan ka,
Khud se mulakat Karo
Thoda sa muskura do
Chaand ko dekh ke
Sitaaron se thodi baat karo
Zara mohabbat se hat ke
Is qaynat ki khoobsurti ko niharo
De rahe Hain aawaz
Ye jharne, ye pahad ye wadiyan
Thoda inhe bhi toh tum pukaaro
Hamesha dusro ke liye hi gaaoge kya..?
Uthao guitar or char line
Khud ke liye bhi gungunana seekho
Bohot roye ho tum kisike liye
Ab akele muskurana seekho
Apne aapko behtar banao
Aur dekho is jahan me
Kitna or kuch khaas hai
Jo dhund rahe ho tum Kisi or mai
Wo sab tumhaare pass hai
Na jane kyu ese ho gaye tum
Apne aap ko is qadar bhool gye.
Kyu is Safar ko bhool gye
Ek hamsafar ki talash mai.
🖤The Abhishek 🖤
Beautiful!! 👏 ❤ You wrote this?
@@ashnayak27 me ☺️
It was really good man ❤
@@laxmipatel8331 Thanks
bhai mai ro diiiiiiiiiiii...i kinda moved on but this was some really emotionally intimate video that made me realize i did it the correct way and i swear I'm proud of myself. thankyou yashvayyyy didiiii i love you🤍
I love you too baby! 🤍
I love you too baby! 🤍
I cannot thank you enough for this video in last some months I have lost 7 kgs after my breakup and he is happy with someone else only after 2 months of breakup he is with someone else and look where I am I literally want to heal
Start reading bajrang baan once every week and put water on a shivling on mondays 🤍 You’ll heal faster
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
@@ashokdusad2956 feeling really bad for the women in your family ❤️
Bhagwan unko aap jaise insaan ke saath rehne ki shakti de 😊
@@ashokdusad2956 sun bkl tu sari ladki ko reply de rahe hai vo bhi ise tarha ye dikhata hai ki tu ek no ka gawar or leach admi hai to kabhi apne to kuch nhi kar paya or agar kisi ki bhen yaha aa ke apna dukh share kar rahi to use bhi demotivate kar rha hai real life Mai me tere gese ko ladkia red flag bolti hai ye band kar de chutiye nhi to tera email me save kar liya hu aur tune apni maa ki jo disrespect ki hai uske liye Mai Teri mummy ko sorry bolta hu ❤
Me too from yesterday
THANK YOU SISSS....i have moved on after 1 year finallyyy....it feels so good now...that chahe jo tumhe pure dil se part was so relatable yaaaaarrrrr
Babe u wer on time in my scrolling section ....Thanks Sis...uske chakkar me dost nai bache naa paise yaar worst phase ever !!
I saw first as such video in which a girl didn't cry while talking about it ❤ Thankyou ...it was needed!!
So glad i could be of help! 🤍
Their is something that I'm going through and I'm kind of stuck in the relationship their is a hope that one day everything will be alright but maybe not idk what to do but i just felt so good when you were talking it was peaceful I felt that.. Ki aap bas bolte raho and I should just sit and listen , this was the best video I have ever watched in my entire life.
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
@@ashokdusad2956 same thing happened with me she 1st time Cheated and after 6 six came back she cry and touched feet says sorry and lots of time then after 2 week she cheated again 😂
Pyar kro pr khud se , you will never hurt ❤. Nice vdo di mujhe jarurat nhi thi iss vdo ki pr still i watch till end, comments padh kr dukh hue ki apni life ke itne precious time hm kisi or ko dete h or ek din wo hme chor kr chale jate h . Kyse kisi ki koi feeling ke saath aysa kr skta h , mai hmesa se khud ke liye jina sikhi hu hmesa khud ko khush rakhti hu don't care about others because i don't want ki koi dusra aakr meri feelings ko hurt kr de , i love how you explain everything ❤
hotel mei jaaa kr self care kr
Much needed going through tough time. Situationship is even more painful. Everyday waiting, no contact situation. But God is helping me to come out of this painful experience....thank u universe
Im currently going through this phase... He was my first love ever... I had my first experiences of everything with him but after 1.5 yr i realised he was never mine...
Saw his ex's 126 photos in his backup and mine were literally 4
He always took me for granted.. i even forgave him kyuki usne mujhpar hath uthaya tha and he never said sorry i was a short tempered girl to i accept ki mai gusse me gaali dedeti thi to he used to tolerate that bas yahi cheez ... Baaki he never cared, he never loved me, i used to cry all night and vo gaane gata tha call par mera rona sunkar like he didnt even give a fuck...one time he called me to meet me in his hometown.. i was ready to travel 12hr by train alone(i never travelled alone in train) but adhe raste me he said ke 'Matt aa" and he didnt even called me once raat bhar bhi to know if was okay or not and i cried that day ki what if something happened to me? He said to? Tu akeli hai ky pure bharat me ?... Firbhi i stayed but today im letting him go ... I have to know my worth
So here's a problem i face after breakup ki mujhe next relationship toh jana nhi hota daar lgta haiii lekin at the same time agr us healing time pe somebody is treating me nicely nd filling that empty space in my heart jaha mera ex hua karta tha i start to like that person but andar se i know ki i didn't move onn i still cry i still see our previous pictures and I'm also scared of another relationship but mujhe woh dusra ladka pasand bhi ata hai at the same time
I usually don't comment on YT videos but this is the most authentic video i've ever seen ❤️ this video is feeling like a warm hug
And here goes a genuine warm virtual hug for you darling💗
@itsbhawnapal samee
this one was like a warm hug, thank you didi 🌻💛
Yr ek ek point bhut sahi laga bhut Jada Acha laga kafi kuch samjh aaya💯🥺🥺
Please make a video on a stucked love. Means no anything started between us but always thinking about that person due to some hints given by them.
Yashvi i swear you deserve all the love. I thought ki ye meri hi story narrate hori hai. Bro you actually healed something u didnt break. I can relate to you so much and i want you to know that you are actully the besttt and you deserve all the happiness di. I love youuu i just came here from a reel and got to know the same feeling jo m feel krri thi aur bhi log h jo deal kr rhe h isse and iske baare me baat krna sbse difficult part hota h.
All the girls here never be insecure kisi aur ku wjh se. You girls are the prettiest. Ik how it feels but always treat yourself better. Proud of you di for speaking on this and actually showing the world that yessss girls also feel its not about only the men in love. But women in love hits different too.
पहले देती हो बाद में पछताती हो तो पहले ही सोच लिया करो , बाकी जो प्यार लड़के की सकल सूरत हवाबाजी फोन कपड़े या कोई और दिखावटी चीज देख कर होता है वो बस लेन देन का व्यापार है और थोड़े ही दिन चलता है और 90 परसेंट लड़कियां लड़के की दिखावट पर मरती हैं असल में सिंपल सोबर लड़के जिनके दिल में लडकियों के लिए कोई बेईमानी नहीं होती अक्सर अपनी simplicity के कारण आजकल की फुकरी लड़कियों द्वारा नकार दिए जाते हैं और बाद में यही मतलबी लड़कियां जो अपने मतलब के लड़के को चुनती हैं बाद में धोखा होने लड़के द्वारा उनको यूज किए जाने का जूठा डिंडोरा पिटती हैं
Career pr dhyan do guys...varna Move on ke chakkar me L lag jayenge 💀
Ryt dear 😊
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True broo
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It's healing but at the same time it's hurting 💔
When two people break up, they both have their own side of the story. This is my side. I realized too late how much she meant to me, and by then, it was already over. Now, someone else has taken my place in her life. I never thought this could happen. I was so sure she would never leave me.
I understand now that if I had respected her, treated her well, shown her care, and valued her, things might have been different. It’s hard to believe she’s not with me anymore. My heart feels heavy with sadness and regret.
I haven’t slept well for the past four nights. I keep waking up from bad dreams, and it feels like I’m stuck in a nightmare that keeps repeating. I feel so sad and full of regret. I know time will help me feel better, but the regret will stay with me.
This is very hard for me, and I’m struggling to deal with it. I don’t know how long it will take to heal, but I’m trying to be patient. I take full responsibility for what happened. I know she loved me more than anything, and I’ll always remember and cherish that love.
I haven’t heard anything negative from her anyone. She’s such a wonderful person, and she deserves someone who will appreciate her. I’m so grateful to have her in my life. The person who will be in her life will be incredibly lucky. I guess I just jinxed myself.