Unlearning My Type | Cuffing Season Vol. 2 | Part 6 | Jerry Flowers

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  • Опубликовано: 29 янв 2025

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  • @BK-ny3wb
    @BK-ny3wb Год назад +39

    "When it's a blessing from God, you will not have to exchange your mental health, to keep it". ☝️🎙️🎙️🎙️

  • @Hermione617
    @Hermione617 3 года назад +398

    "Bare minimum feels like royal treatment when you're settling." DANNNGGG. I need to tattoo that in my mind.

  • @LizY9271
    @LizY9271 3 года назад +308

    If only our eyes saw souls instead of bodies 🙏🏾

  • @doricanyirenda5897
    @doricanyirenda5897 3 года назад +245

    FATHER, DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES!!🙌🙌🙏

  • @Erin-v5d
    @Erin-v5d 2 часа назад

    FATHER, DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES 🙏🏼

  • @eliaali9884
    @eliaali9884 20 дней назад +1

    “Bare minimum feels like royal treatment when you’re settling” made me gasp for air and hold my chest literally 😂 whew

  • @hannahchaney3630
    @hannahchaney3630 3 года назад +128

    Just want to say, the dude God brought into my life didn’t have some physical aspects I had on my ‘list’. There were things I didn’t ask he had that I liked too! We really do need to depend on God more than our type. And let me just say, wow, he’s a man of God who takes care of me like I needed and wanted and I’m at peace. I am attracted to him for real, but I had to get some of those minor things out of the way to embrace what God had for me. God said He had my ‘perfect mate’ and I’m here to say, He is faithful to His promises.

  • @virtuous_committed
    @virtuous_committed 3 года назад +101

    That is one thing I have learned over these years, if you would allow the Holy Spirit to lead, guide, & direct you, when it comes to dating, you will never pick the wrong one. Because God will reveal the true intent of that person and if he don't he will give you an unsettling within your spirit that you cannot continue on with them.

    • @visionvixxen
      @visionvixxen 3 года назад +3

      Amen… it is just interesting because nothing is perfect so until you know what the God man is like, you don’t know if you’re letting go of everyone.
      I never feel like they’re good or God enough and can wait, but have been prompted so many times to not be too picky./

    • @86Kera
      @86Kera 2 года назад +2

      Wished I knew this years ago but I’m thankful I know this now

    • @abeekuadventures380
      @abeekuadventures380 7 месяцев назад +2

      Amen to this. The Lord has protected me from the wrong people. One Girl i even planned on asking out, the Lord said no. It's better to follow obedience over our feelings.
      Obedience isn't always fun, but it's life saving. And amen to everything you've said.

  • @altheatrice4356
    @altheatrice4356 3 года назад +80

    Yes, they are "eye candy" but they not "soul food" - I WILL be quoting this one sir!!! Hallelujah!

  • @againstallodds144
    @againstallodds144 2 года назад +7

    Lord forgive me for complaining when your molding me for your purpose ..

  • @lyndsey.malaniamarie
    @lyndsey.malaniamarie 3 года назад +66

    "If you don't know where you're going, you don't know who to take with you"
    his purpose has a plan, and not everyone is going where you're going.
    Know your assignment

  • @doricanyirenda5897
    @doricanyirenda5897 3 года назад +97

    If they rejected you but that's not what I had for you anyway you won!!!🙌🙌🙏🙏💛💛😊

    • @sis5239
      @sis5239 3 года назад

      🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @oldskoolempire6314
    @oldskoolempire6314 2 месяца назад

    'You weren't like that until you met them' 😢😢😢😢 this hit deeeeeep🔥

  • @doricanyirenda5897
    @doricanyirenda5897 3 года назад +133

    When you have entertained foolishness a history of trauma can cause for you to excuse and ignore mistreatment because you've survived worse... Bare minimum feels like royal treatment when you are settling.. A couple can be married 20years and bear no fruit.. It's not about length Its about Fruit🙌🙌🙏🙏

    • @mackenziehogan86
      @mackenziehogan86 2 года назад +2

      AMEN!!! this was put very well🙌🏼 thank you for your words

    • @shaharraturpin3028
      @shaharraturpin3028 Год назад

      🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 family and I

    • @kbaby5158
      @kbaby5158 Год назад

      AMEN!!! You are so right

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Год назад +3

    God can turn broken pieces into MASTERPIECES.

  • @GG17250
    @GG17250 Год назад +14

    Be OPEN to who God brings you. I can almost guarantee it is not the type you would have picked!!!!

    • @abeekuadventures380
      @abeekuadventures380 7 месяцев назад +2

      Yes. You know it will be from God when you don't have to force it to happen.

  • @froever4344
    @froever4344 3 года назад +78

    "God sends someone to you not for Romance but to Advance"!!!💥💥💥💥

    • @Begrhe
      @Begrhe 5 месяцев назад

      Mmmmm

  • @chanelle.n
    @chanelle.n 3 года назад +26

    “You don’t have to flirt to convert” 😨😨😨that part tho! 🙌🏽

  • @upilekchepa3740
    @upilekchepa3740 3 года назад +23

    ''You're not an introvert, you're in too hurt'' i felt that

  • @ksmith212121
    @ksmith212121 3 года назад +64

    This sermon is raw but we need it. Thank you Jesus💞

  • @indeaford6281
    @indeaford6281 3 года назад +12

    Not me closing my mouth when he looked at the screen and said “yes you with your mouth open” 😳🙌🏻

  • @RoyalSpringsMusic
    @RoyalSpringsMusic 3 года назад +23

    This is like God's trauma therapy 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🙌👏🙌 JESUS

  • @shayjohnson7843
    @shayjohnson7843 4 месяца назад

    This is good! And King Solomon and his momma….hmmm what a teaching…. I got so much about this message for me!

  • @tiffanyscantlebury5536
    @tiffanyscantlebury5536 3 года назад +17

    Fireeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!! this was for me!! edges goneee snatched

  • @lyteraine8033
    @lyteraine8033 3 года назад +34

    This touched me in every aspect of what I have gone through and trying not to go through again. Breaking the cycle and doing it in God’s way and his will. Amen.

    • @heyonope7682
      @heyonope7682 3 года назад

      Gods will be done Amen

    • @nathaliasimone_
      @nathaliasimone_ 2 года назад +1

      I STAND IN AGREEMENT FOR MYSELF AS WELL IN JESUS’S NAME I PRAY AMEN 😁🤗👐🏾👐🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾✨❤️🙏🏾

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад

      Don't forget to add in Jesus name prior to saying Amen. Because that is where the power is, and that's how it gets to the Father. IN the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. AMEN. GOD BLESS. 💜💛💙❤️🌹💗💖🦋💕

  • @adon_tai
    @adon_tai 20 дней назад

    On time! Managing the emotional and spiritual reset. A long relationship was changing my heart. I could notice physical and character changes that weren’t of me. Each day we fight!

  • @Talaya33
    @Talaya33 3 года назад +26

    Lord!!! You just preached my whole life story🤦🏾‍♀️ “I cannot solve a problem with the same mindset I created it in.” Father, detox me from my preferences! I thank God that He is a deliverer, a mind renewer, and life transformer. Hallelujah! Thanks, Pastor Flowers, for you and your family’s obedience.

  • @Itsjustqt
    @Itsjustqt 3 месяца назад

    This is too good! Confirmation from God himself!

  • @doricanyirenda5897
    @doricanyirenda5897 3 года назад +71

    You will always end up in wars you don't even need to fight when you are out of position.. 🙌🙌🙏

  • @ginasway291
    @ginasway291 4 месяца назад

    FATHER, DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES

  • @Duhitsanti
    @Duhitsanti 2 года назад +10

    “Reading and listening to all the spiritual stuff but still loving the wrong thing”Lawd that hit me like a ton of bricks, thank you Holy Spirit for using Pastor Jerry as a vessel

  • @teressastevenson3844
    @teressastevenson3844 5 месяцев назад

    Amen Thank you Lord God

  • @jaybee3426
    @jaybee3426 3 месяца назад +2

    This teaching helped me see that my preference was marriage over singleness. To the point where I was willing to marry a handsome worldly man instead of remaining a single woman; who is seeking first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness. So, marriage has just become a casualty of my preferences.

  • @ysolinawilliams1293
    @ysolinawilliams1293 Год назад

    ✨❤️‍🔥PURE TRUTH. ❤️‍🔥 LORD I REPENT. ❤️‍🔥✨

  • @STAUG2001
    @STAUG2001 3 года назад +10

    Lord he did not say 6 ft, 6 figures, and 6 pack!!! I hollered when he said you could be with the devil!! I haven't asked for all of that but I did have some devils. And I was too. Thank you Lord for the healing that is taking place in my heart, mind, and soul in this season.

  • @healinghubwithPraiseMercy
    @healinghubwithPraiseMercy 3 года назад +10

    If I don't know His voice in devotion,I won't know His voice in direction🔥🔥

  • @veleciadudley5383
    @veleciadudley5383 Год назад

    father detox me from my preferences in the mighty name of Jesus

  • @Shanaejastewart
    @Shanaejastewart 2 года назад +1

    Detox me Lord...I repent from thinking I'm god...ur way is the best way Lord🙏

  • @TiaraAcoff-lq2qe
    @TiaraAcoff-lq2qe 2 месяца назад

    Amennn. May we rejoice in the truthhhhh

  • @kholiendlovu1435
    @kholiendlovu1435 2 года назад +2

    Father, DETOX ME FROM MY PREFRENCES

  • @destinicrawford1913
    @destinicrawford1913 5 месяцев назад

    Father, Detox me from my preferences

  • @kathryndobrowolski3812
    @kathryndobrowolski3812 3 года назад +5

    “ you uh huh sir with your mouth opened , yep compatibility can be a trap yep “ (man that part had me undone lol )
    The devil can send pain gift wrapped as your preference!
    Geeeez almost took me out!!! So true !
    These messages are truth. God is using this man to speak his words

  • @josannebritto6898
    @josannebritto6898 Год назад +1

    Father Detox Me From My Preferences !!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @JT-sc4ke
    @JT-sc4ke 2 года назад +10

    Oh you betta preach! You’re preaching, teaching, real, real, really good! Father, detox me from my preferences in the mighty, matchless, chain breaking name of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ! Come on in Holy Ghost and set me free so I can get married and do ministry for the glory of God. Team Fkowers please pray for the brother! I wanna get it right. My type have to be pleasing in the Lord’s sight!

  • @PlantandBloomWithGrace
    @PlantandBloomWithGrace 3 года назад +19

    So much resonated with me, especially ‘if you don’t know where you’re going , how are you going to know who to bring along”. I have to listen to the rest of the series now.

    • @sis5239
      @sis5239 3 года назад +2

      I’m late. I just know he’s going to drag me out the door

  • @beloveddaughter_ofgod6789
    @beloveddaughter_ofgod6789 3 года назад +2

    Pastor Jerry Flowers preaching !! This man is talking to me and I'm trying to receive. This man said yeah they EYE CANDY BUT THEY AINT SOUL FOOD!!! Phew when you realize the importance of your soul being led and feed by the one who gives life and have company with Christ.

  • @Holytrinityone
    @Holytrinityone 3 месяца назад

    FATHER, DETOX ME FROM MY PREFRENCES!

  • @trishelleriley6756
    @trishelleriley6756 11 месяцев назад +1

    Father, detox me from my preferences again Lord! Amen🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @kellyconner1675
    @kellyconner1675 Год назад +1

    I am inspired by how you preach! Every word hits my soul! Amen

  • @purposeoverpreference
    @purposeoverpreference 2 года назад +1

    Gosh this is so rich. Such sound Biblical doctrine. Thank you Holy spirit, thank you pastor for allowing yourself to be but a vessel.

  • @brendaluchemo
    @brendaluchemo Год назад

    Hell sends what you prefer; God sends what's purposeful....whew chile that cut deep! Thank you Sir for this super timely sermon. Watching from Kenya ❤
    Edit: Spiritual decay happens one compromise at a time!🤯🤯 You always end up in wars that you don't need to fight when you are out of position! PREACH!! Bare minimum looks like royal treatment when you are settling! DAMN!! I really needed this sermon! God doesn't want you to just have facelifts, He wants you to have heart transplants🤯🤯 Need to listen to this AGAIN AND AGAIN

  • @yvonnewatungwa9858
    @yvonnewatungwa9858 Год назад

    You have no idea how much thorns and dirt you have removed in my life through your sermons 🙌…l call them therapy

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад

    COME ON JESUS. THAT IS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT.

  • @nathifablanchfield8925
    @nathifablanchfield8925 Год назад

    FATHER DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES!!! 👏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @jillh440
    @jillh440 Год назад

    🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯🔥BEST EVER!!!!!!!

  • @charlinecharlostin3188
    @charlinecharlostin3188 Год назад

    This is what my SOUL NEEDED !

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад

    Bars. Lol. Yes. He is the potter and we are the clay. Thank you Lord, Jesus. Thank you Lord. AMEN.

  • @kimberlysingleton306
    @kimberlysingleton306 3 года назад +5

    LORD TEACH ME TO SEE FRUIT OF YOU .....

  • @prudencebrown9576
    @prudencebrown9576 3 года назад +4

    A blessing from God you will not have to exchange your mental health. A blessed word from God this one.

  • @visionvixxen
    @visionvixxen 3 года назад +7

    This is great. Jesus, I tried this last time… and one seemed to mimic you… Please this time, I don’t even want to date. Keep them away and bring me Your pick when You feel the time is right. Contract signed… thank you!

    • @shay6665
      @shay6665 8 месяцев назад

      Hope you find or found them. My ex pretended to be equally yoked with me too

  • @mwilamapipo8858
    @mwilamapipo8858 Год назад

    This was a definite timely word for me.
    It's how all the events happening in my life rested on this word.
    God is intentional y'all!🥹

  • @JeanineRichardson
    @JeanineRichardson Год назад +1

    FATHER Detox me from my preferences.!!!!!!!

  • @blessedbrand
    @blessedbrand 3 года назад +30

    This teaching is so transformational. Thank you Pastor Jerry. You really ministered to me when you said, “God doesn’t give you a spouse for romance, but for advancing his kingdom.” It’s about glorifying the Father not about about self.

  • @kimberlysingleton306
    @kimberlysingleton306 3 года назад +7

    DETOX ME OH LORD FROM MY PREFERENCE ✊🏾

  • @yahkar
    @yahkar 3 года назад +17

    🤦🏾‍♂️ " *What if they are only compatible with your Rock Bottom* ? " 🥵 #MyFibula&Tibula

  • @bizhelpguru
    @bizhelpguru 2 года назад +1

    Still good, still relevant

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад

    COME ON HOLY SPIRIT. TEACH. THANK YOU LORD JESUS. LORD HELP US TO LET GO OF THE MOTH'S IN OUR LIVES. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN.

  • @nikolemccoy9488
    @nikolemccoy9488 Год назад +4

    I told my Ex. You not gonna like me no more and I know it, I'm going with GOD. Sure enough it happened it didn't even affect me. He became unattractive to me not physically but spiritually. I instantly saw the CORE of his HEART.
    "EYE CANDY, BUT NOT SOUL FOOD"

  • @drechanelp
    @drechanelp 6 месяцев назад

    Oh my gosh!!! This is sooooo good!!! Hit everything I'm going through. "Some people are only compatible with the crawling version of you!"

  • @minielaurent3285
    @minielaurent3285 2 года назад +4

    God has Anointed this man to preach!!!! My ears are so tuned in and I’m actually receiving this ! Keep going man !!!!

  • @mynappyspirit
    @mynappyspirit 3 года назад +3

    This man preached his face off. This was soooo good.

  • @Gorgeous_Royalty
    @Gorgeous_Royalty Год назад

    FATHER, DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES ‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @DivinelyDistinguishedCee
    @DivinelyDistinguishedCee 3 года назад +7

    THIS SHOULD BE TAUGHT IN SUNDAY SCHOOL, PRESCHOOL, 1ST YEAR OF UNI....EVERYWHERE Y'ALL. God bless this Ministry to reach the ends of the earth 🌎 🙏🏾
    I remember my ex who laughed at you Sir when y'all were starting out and I found you online looking for godly youthful* counsel that I could understand at the time not knowing he was a total counterfeit that the enemy had brought because he noticed how I'd started getting my spiritual life together.
    But here I am by His grace, finally back in His will. 🥺♥️ He's a merciful God.

  • @LoveJoyPeacePatienceKindness
    @LoveJoyPeacePatienceKindness 3 года назад +2

    As Jerry prayed us out I was watching him, as I closed my eyes I saw a brief image of his 'robe' covered in sparkling multi colored jewels!
    Thank You Jesus for his pure heart, you are using this vessel of truth to help us mature & grow into the person You have called us to be. Holy Spirit, bless him & his family, fill them up Lord! Thank You for protection, provision & peace in Jesus name, amen 🙏🏼🤍🕊️

    • @artforchrist5065
      @artforchrist5065 2 года назад

      This is so beautiful. I truly feel the Holy Spirit convicting me when Jerry preaches.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад

    It is pain gift wrapped in your preference. The devil IS a lie. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Amen.

  • @syriablackwell
    @syriablackwell Год назад

    Never mind therapy, frfr this right here is medicine to my soul. Your choice of words and how you use them are like poetry Pastor Flowers you are indeed a anointed man of Valor. May God continue to bless you and ur family all the days of yall lives ❤

  • @kishiablackman2348
    @kishiablackman2348 Год назад

    FATHER DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES.

  • @travisrogers1465
    @travisrogers1465 2 года назад +6

    I am listening so much, I need this. I should have stayed on my journey with God. I took my sight off Him and now, I lost what He placed in front of me, through not listening and ego. Father, I apologize to you for straying from that path. I need you now more than ever. Keep me thirsting for YOU and I’ll keep what you create for me next time. 🙏🏽

  • @Brightilov
    @Brightilov 3 года назад

    Yeeeeeeah hallelujah

  • @michaelscardino8346
    @michaelscardino8346 3 года назад +1

    God is the one who turns broken pieces into a Master piece. This is so good Amen !

  • @yolandawilliams3319
    @yolandawilliams3319 3 года назад +6

    UNLEARNING MY TYPE!!!!

  • @yasminayanna
    @yasminayanna 3 года назад +1

    🗣️FATHER DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES!

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад

    AMEN. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN. THANK YOU LORD. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN.

  • @fulufhelodongola1983
    @fulufhelodongola1983 3 года назад +6

    FATHER DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад

    And I will ALSO give you. LORD HAVE MERCY. THAT'S SUCH A BLESSING. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN.

  • @tracygagnon59
    @tracygagnon59 3 года назад +6

    Weed's and Wheat ... WoW🗣️⚡👑⚡👑⚡👑⚡

  • @rebeccajohnson5158
    @rebeccajohnson5158 Год назад

    This is 🔥 Outsatanding message Holy Spirit filled. Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah

  • @AshalynChane
    @AshalynChane 7 месяцев назад

    BLESSING!!

  • @jeaninerichardson7179
    @jeaninerichardson7179 Год назад

    YES INDEED THIS is IT... STRAIGHT flesh slicing TRUTH!!!!!

  • @80Eburnett
    @80Eburnett 2 года назад

    Father, detox me from my preferences!!

  • @sixteen.candles.4644
    @sixteen.candles.4644 10 месяцев назад

    I love that he said *if* marriage is your journey.

  • @lucihubbard8853
    @lucihubbard8853 3 года назад +4

    This is deep. I'm going to need to watch it a few more times.

  • @michellehimes2347
    @michellehimes2347 5 месяцев назад

    This is true this happen liking my type before what I've now, my preference. I was wanting what I wasn't ready for , I thank GOD through JESUS that he protected me from myself., when you are my yourself, the flesh will play with you and put what you desire with false .and not knowing GOD word will destroy what GOD desire for you. I had to learn this along because people I was around wasn't the same as I desiring GOD as I was as a teenager, but at 56 now and hearing this is awesome to know all of what GID was teaching me was protecting me from what could have destroyed me. This is why I praise GOD through JESUS, he has protected for so many years and now thank you Father in the name of Jesus, love this sermon thanks Jeremy, GOD bless you and your family,

  • @Qrazyjamaica9
    @Qrazyjamaica9 3 года назад +12

    Wow. Bare min feels like royal tx when you’re settling. Def made me sad 😢. I’m in the process of forgiving myself and forgiving those who I gave my heart to and gave me back heartache. It’s not easy BUT I’m accepting this detox I’m going through. I thank God for his UNCHANGING LOVE. Also want to encourage anyone else who maybe going through similar detox, God literally will NOT and HAS not forgotten about you. Keep your head in the Bible and sermons like these and literally write these things down and read them back, they help!!
    Thank you God for Pastor Jerry.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад

    YOU WON. HALLELUJAH. HALLELUJAH. HALLELUJAH. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN.

  • @IAmDrJessicaColleen
    @IAmDrJessicaColleen 3 года назад +1

    Whew get out of my life!! Lol this man just preached my whole dating life Jesus 😭

  • @kimberlysingleton306
    @kimberlysingleton306 3 года назад +2

    FATHER DETOX ME FROM MY PREFENCE ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

  • @michellehirsch-davis3968
    @michellehirsch-davis3968 2 года назад

    Father detox me from my preferences amen🎉

  • @Ineedmypeace
    @Ineedmypeace 3 года назад +6

    I live in Ohio .. I’m coming to a service soon. Thank you pastor jerry for amazing words and sermons thank you lord for using pastor jerry and his wife to speak to me.

    • @yolandawilliams3319
      @yolandawilliams3319 3 года назад +1

      I live in Illinois and I plan to attend a service also

  • @Spic.and.span.janitorial
    @Spic.and.span.janitorial 10 дней назад

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾