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  • imagine sliding in DMs lol couldn't be me
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  • @martins96244
    @martins96244 3 года назад +2320

    Nothing will stop me from sliding in your dm's, lucid

  • @Mr.Craftastic
    @Mr.Craftastic 3 года назад +594

    Nowadays people are idolising self destruction.

    • @user-qq1gc7lf7e
      @user-qq1gc7lf7e 3 года назад +15

      You hit the nail

    • @Crock0Dial
      @Crock0Dial 3 года назад +8

      It's fucking stupid that people actually believe these things

    • @hoeffice
      @hoeffice 3 года назад +2

      wait wdym?

    • @Monsizr
      @Monsizr 3 года назад +21

      @@hoeffice Just look around, it is everywhere. People idolizing celebrities is one of the worst things amongst young people.

    • @hoeffice
      @hoeffice 3 года назад +2

      @@Monsizr yea I see that but wdym self destruction?

  • @F30Ayan
    @F30Ayan 3 года назад +414

    5 to 8 years from now I will see Lucid's video saying "I lost my V-card"

    • @JazzD_335
      @JazzD_335 3 года назад +56

      but he will be married.... Hopefully

    • @32Barco7
      @32Barco7 3 года назад +14

      nah he's keeping it in his wallet safe and sound

    • @bluecat4148
      @bluecat4148 3 года назад

      @@JazzD_335 probably

    • @daraotl5187
      @daraotl5187 3 года назад +4

      @@JazzD_335 and his marriage will literally be his first relationship, probably, and it will be a car crash in slow motion.

    • @creemcheems4333
      @creemcheems4333 3 года назад +2

      hopefully hes married then

  • @static8566
    @static8566 3 года назад +827

    I don't need sleep, I need this.

    • @TurtleChad1
      @TurtleChad1 3 года назад +4

      A Turtle also needs *this*

    • @TYYR3SE
      @TYYR3SE 3 года назад +3

      I don't need sleep, sleep needs me

    • @itachiuchiha7663
      @itachiuchiha7663 3 года назад

      Itachi need this too

    • @sen8596
      @sen8596 3 года назад +2

      Video 49 min ago comment 1 day ago

    • @illeyan8098
      @illeyan8098 3 года назад

      @@sen8596 he’s a member and he gets to see Lucids videos before us

  • @j.s0n
    @j.s0n 3 года назад +580

    Honestly yeah man theres no point in spending time on a girl unless you plan on actually marrying her, or seeing if she is someone you would want to marry.
    Same goes with anything. Don't waste time on anything if you don't plan on making something out of it.

    • @dovydasspiliauskas6759
      @dovydasspiliauskas6759 3 года назад +8

      this comment says one day ago, but this vid got posted 30 mins ago, wtf

    • @khairpur1
      @khairpur1 3 года назад +4

      timetravel? tf?

    • @khairpur1
      @khairpur1 3 года назад +1

      fr tho agreed man

    • @wyatteashley8877
      @wyatteashley8877 3 года назад +14

      @@dovydasspiliauskas6759 they get early access they’re a member

    • @itachiuchiha7663
      @itachiuchiha7663 3 года назад +2

      Fax bro, fax!

  • @federali
    @federali 3 года назад +343

    “dad how did you meet mom”
    “jimmy i slid in with 3 y’s”
    best thing i’ve heard all year.

    • @splicix6226
      @splicix6226 3 года назад

      Lmao

    • @aahan6952
      @aahan6952 3 года назад +6

      am i dumb that i dont get what the 3ys mean

    • @asmit935
      @asmit935 3 года назад +2

      @@aahan6952 I am with you man

    • @jordans03
      @jordans03 3 года назад +11

      @@aahan6952 "heyyy"

    • @splicix6226
      @splicix6226 3 года назад +2

      @@aahan6952 it means like heyyy with the 3 y's

  • @KaiiOS
    @KaiiOS 3 года назад +655

    “Never Trust a girl who was born on her birthday” ~ Einstein, Probably.

    • @KaiiOS
      @KaiiOS 3 года назад +13

      Calm down qts it was a joke

    • @red-ct7hw
      @red-ct7hw 3 года назад +2

      @@KaiiOS ok daddy

    • @bakuretsu4488
      @bakuretsu4488 3 года назад +2

      I'm definitely gonna be using this quote in my life from now on

    • @iclassifyasabagofjuice284
      @iclassifyasabagofjuice284 3 года назад

      straight fax

    • @lalfada9637
      @lalfada9637 3 года назад +1

      So 1 girl on 1461 would be ok 3 years on 4 ? That's a good ratio.

  • @Daze
    @Daze 3 года назад +377

    am I a cave man?

  • @TheTalentlessWriter
    @TheTalentlessWriter 3 года назад +524

    But it worked for Quavo :(

  • @dionpog81
    @dionpog81 3 года назад

    You are a wise man Lucid.

  • @deressa9552
    @deressa9552 3 года назад +206

    Lucid is too respectable. While other people half his age and double his age are trying to be playboys, Lucid is just real and tells the truth

    • @AKFakuade
      @AKFakuade 3 года назад +5

      "other people half his age"
      Lucid's 20... 😳

    • @angelmpm2
      @angelmpm2 3 года назад +2

      @@AKFakuade 😬

    • @relentlessrye1894
      @relentlessrye1894 3 года назад +1

      @@AKFakuade I thought he was 19

    • @AKFakuade
      @AKFakuade 3 года назад +1

      @@relentlessrye1894 I could be wrong, he could be 19 or 20.

  • @user-qq1gc7lf7e
    @user-qq1gc7lf7e 3 года назад +154

    Most relationships nowadays are just built on sex and not actually connecting deeper with the person. If your relationship can’t last without sex, it’s not a real relationship lol.

    • @user-qq1gc7lf7e
      @user-qq1gc7lf7e 3 года назад +13

      @Rocket Start and that’s why you MUST be vigilant about this stuff.

    • @Atrex_Reaper
      @Atrex_Reaper 3 года назад +10

      @Rocket Start bro my girlfriend never met me to smash, she actually "chased" Me. And she told me she wants to grow old with me.

    • @w..r.i.z.z
      @w..r.i.z.z 3 года назад +8

      @@Atrex_Reaper aye she a real one don’t lose her 👍

    • @carfuen1073
      @carfuen1073 3 года назад +1

      I agree but u don't have to wait untill marriage to have sex or marry her just beceaus u are to lazy to look for someone else

    • @user-qq1gc7lf7e
      @user-qq1gc7lf7e 3 года назад +7

      @@carfuen1073 what you said made 0 sense

  • @qime
    @qime 3 года назад +326

    I'm so glad I found Lucid's channel, this man's on a whole nother level of chill and intelligent.

    • @georgialeksiev8056
      @georgialeksiev8056 3 года назад +1

      Another*

    • @qime
      @qime 3 года назад +3

      @@georgialeksiev8056 well it wouldn't make sense to say "a whole another level"

    • @arjay_2002
      @arjay_2002 3 года назад +4

      @@qimelol what? “nother” is informal of another. Another is still correct and makes sense

    • @qime
      @qime 3 года назад +2

      @@arjay_2002 just say the sentence out loud both ways

    • @arjay_2002
      @arjay_2002 3 года назад

      @@qime you should try that yourself

  • @kitro9041
    @kitro9041 3 года назад +122

    Whoever lucid lose his v-card too gone have super powers

    • @cmaulion
      @cmaulion 3 года назад +31

      Or she’ll get shot through her torso because lucid has kept his nut for over 1000 days, imagine when it comes out.

    • @feelingsnotfound2822
      @feelingsnotfound2822 3 года назад

      Nice grammar

    • @mannyx2796
      @mannyx2796 3 года назад

      I ain't a grammar navi but this was hard to read

  • @s000sdas
    @s000sdas 3 года назад +46

    Thank God people like you exist, I'm on NoFap because of you bro.

  • @kamzy1795
    @kamzy1795 3 года назад +44

    This guy should be a therapist...
    This guy changed my life drastically... Changing the way of looking at relationship. Thanks alex aka lucid making changes on my life

  • @light4217
    @light4217 3 года назад +44

    Our generation need these words LUCID! You are going to be a wise man in the future, as you are already.

  • @Rush-qr1ve
    @Rush-qr1ve 3 года назад +23

    Dumb tiktokers: omg Charlie demilo is the best role model EVER 😱
    This guy: exist

    • @w..r.i.z.z
      @w..r.i.z.z 3 года назад

      Yes lucid is 27 octillion times better than trashy tiktok influencers

    • @meteo5582
      @meteo5582 3 года назад

      @@Jcon4002 *kids

  • @zakkulolzies
    @zakkulolzies 3 года назад +42

    How am I here so early? "The world may never know"

    • @David-in4ft
      @David-in4ft 3 года назад +1

      Dude it came out 30 minutes ago and it says your comment is a day old

    • @user-eh9ov6eo2n
      @user-eh9ov6eo2n 3 года назад +4

      @@David-in4ft he is a member bro they get vids a day early

  • @goingsupernowa
    @goingsupernowa 3 года назад +53

    I've been in a relationship for the first time, for about almost 3 months and I've found out what I though to be as normal things in relationship was mind blowing to my partner like respecting each others and their need and wants, I've been like very ''disgusted'' by current humanity (my generation being Z) how they do everything over the text, I mean they can suit them self but as you said are you gonna tell your child that you slid in his moms dm's.
    Kinda pathetic.

  • @superstars6175
    @superstars6175 3 года назад +15

    Alex’s thinking kinda reminds me of proper islamic teachings when it comes to loving a woman. I really congratulate him for having such an awesome thinking! Thank you so much for sharing this :)

    • @Ismu13
      @Ismu13 2 года назад +2

      Me too thought the same way

    • @brynalimarshall557
      @brynalimarshall557 2 года назад +2

      Same I noticed the same thing

  • @zolzo238
    @zolzo238 3 года назад +31

    when he talked about people sending streaks to eighteen different girls i immediately thought about my “friend”. He always talked about how he wanted to have a girl and how he was going to do the dirty with her and other stuff. I tried so hard to tell him to focus in school, himself and not to pursue girls on social media because as lucid said a waste of time but my “friend” didn’t listen to me. When i first meet a girl i’m interested in i think about if i could imagine her as my wife. I haven’t met a girl that i really like, i just want to enjoy teenage life rn and do fun things while i’m still learning about life and stuff.

    • @beastbronco1233
      @beastbronco1233 3 года назад +8

      Bruh ur not even 18 just date a girl for fun💀💀everything don’t gotta be abt marriage

    • @Ridhawi1
      @Ridhawi1 3 года назад +3

      Don’t take the first guys advice that commented on ur comment

    • @beastbronco1233
      @beastbronco1233 3 года назад

      @@Ridhawi1 yea fs dating girls and hanging out w females is such a waste of time

    • @yasinfazley8313
      @yasinfazley8313 3 года назад +1

      @@beastbronco1233 Is that what you call fun? 💀💀💀💀

  • @youssefa4
    @youssefa4 3 года назад +14

    3:05 He blurred his phone because he's sliding into my dm's.

  • @YoungDumBased
    @YoungDumBased 3 года назад +10

    I normally like your vids but idk about this one bro. I got my last ex gf by dming her. I didn't have to spend all day texting her. If someone can be interested in you, talking to them online works. I used to be on board w this nofap stuff because I thought it was a support system for addicts, but now it is becoming this weird community of virgin "alphas" who feed eachother misinformation about relationships having had little to no experience with them. Bro, you gotta realize, if you spend as much energy avoiding something as you do indulging in it, that thing still controls your life and you have learned no discipline. Just sounds like you guys haven't stepped out of your comfort zones yet. Maybe it is time! Love💚

    • @sliferx0
      @sliferx0 3 года назад +1

      Yes, its weird how they think marriage its some kind of disney movie plot, like its the end of the journey, that you have to be soulmates bonded by destiny, when the original goal of marriage was to be an alliance between families not love.

  • @khalidwaya8603
    @khalidwaya8603 3 года назад +9

    Bruh I think you have a bad experience with DMing girls doesn’t necessarily make it a bad thing you can have an amazing relationship with a person from one DM

  • @talhahhussain6064
    @talhahhussain6064 3 года назад +15

    Honestly guys do the wrong thing. Instead of chasing dreams they chase women. The best way in life is love your family and just be a lone wolf. If you want to have friends keep the circle small and stay clear of toxic people. Doing all this a beautiful and successful women will come to you

  • @judahweesner2651
    @judahweesner2651 3 года назад +11

    Wtf, this dude literally just said the same exact stuff about dating that my dad tells me
    I feel like lucid is what my parents want me to be like, I'm really starting to look up to this dude

  • @Rhemzie7
    @Rhemzie7 3 года назад +14

    Lucid has opened my eyes so much more than anyone else. Beyond blessed to gain knowledge from this man, he’s actually changing my life for the better, and for that I’m grateful. Stay true Lucid, literally no one can stop your mentality.

  • @iampg42
    @iampg42 3 года назад +17

    actually really good points, how is your kid gonna feel when you tell them you met their mom by texting her?

    • @Flybabyfish
      @Flybabyfish 3 года назад +2

      thank you for supporting lucid! i see that yellow heart :)

    • @iampg42
      @iampg42 3 года назад +1

      @@Flybabyfish my pleasure

    • @jugz9130
      @jugz9130 3 года назад

      This is reality , that's how u communicate u know

  • @crystalwhite205
    @crystalwhite205 3 года назад +15

    Lucid, you're a national treasure. Wish more guys had this mindset.

  • @raine467
    @raine467 3 года назад +5

    Ive never been this early so im leaving a comment

  • @emsdaddyyy
    @emsdaddyyy 3 года назад +5

    my boyfriend came up to me in person and said can I have your phone number? and we started talking for like a week and said I am going to marry you, i was like woah a little too soon then i ask him why didn't you just ask me for my snapchat or something and he said because it's a waste of time lol fast forward two years later we are still together and we still want to marry each other ! lmao take Lucids advice !

    • @carfuen1073
      @carfuen1073 3 года назад +2

      Im pretty sure it wouldn't have been different if he asked for your snap you can text on snap aswell

  • @DaniBeenAound
    @DaniBeenAound 3 года назад +10

    I just want to watch anime with someone :(

  • @alwaysyouramanda
    @alwaysyouramanda 3 года назад +25

    You guys don’t want to be stuck paying child-support to some girl that goes out drinking with it daily. 🥺🧡

  • @raphelito
    @raphelito 3 года назад +30

    lucid is smart, he doesnt wanna get into pointless relationships

    • @slimshady7625
      @slimshady7625 3 года назад +3

      @@clajeo7771 How can he speak about relationships when never had one ?

    • @talkymocha9994
      @talkymocha9994 3 года назад +2

      @@slimshady7625 becasue pointless relations ships make people like you

  • @alex-c808
    @alex-c808 3 года назад +13

    why bro snapped like that, this guy was spitting straight fax when he talked about dming a girl being about true love

    • @dreamymoon6135
      @dreamymoon6135 3 года назад

      @LiveLongLaughing mhm u should read one of replies to another one of your comments...and awsm name bro😁... that's what life should be

    • @dreamymoon6135
      @dreamymoon6135 3 года назад

      @LiveLongLaughing then you ve earned a sub👍

  • @RaffikiK
    @RaffikiK 3 года назад +5

    Don't pursue women. When I slid into dm's I felt worthless. Then I realized that, real love is made from meeting people in real life, not through a phone screen.

  • @rioluvo
    @rioluvo 3 года назад +4

    I don't really agree with this, I understand what you mean by not chasing people who seem uninterested. However, simply because your initial interaction was made online. That doesn't equate to the inability to form a loving and trusting relationship from it.

    • @randomaccount8086
      @randomaccount8086 3 года назад

      How could he know? He's a virgin XD. But don't worry, he's the smartest w/o experience...

    • @sliferx0
      @sliferx0 3 года назад

      @@randomaccount8086 I dont think he is virgin, thats probably a trait for his online persona.

    • @randomaccount8086
      @randomaccount8086 3 года назад +1

      @@sliferx0 I kind of wondered that as well, but he probably is.

  • @mohammadasifbinfaruk2289
    @mohammadasifbinfaruk2289 3 года назад +4

    My bro keepin it Halal

  • @ElFknKronos10
    @ElFknKronos10 3 года назад +2

    Bro I dm girls every couple of months, I kinda gave up on that shit. I'm from cartagena, colombia and meeting chicks here is impossible. You're either from a good neighborhood or the ghetto. And chicks from the good neighborhoods (like me as well) are extremely superficial, they only care about popularity, brands, fancy places, social media, gossip, etc.
    So, a guy like me who doesn't give a fuck about those things and that is not part of a big social circle, has no chance. I dm girls that don't look like those types of girls, but they still turn out to be that way. So disappointed, I feel like high school was the only place where I could date.

  • @scythee8746
    @scythee8746 3 года назад +4

    Bro?

  • @beleteayele510
    @beleteayele510 2 года назад +2

    true relationship is built by God , if we can't love God , you can't love a person truly

  • @altacc2960
    @altacc2960 3 года назад +8

    Lucid: I dont need a gf Me: explains why he has a v card

  • @user400
    @user400 2 года назад +2

    alhamdulillah. the absolute best way is through meeting their family and marrying.

  • @johanmaisonneuve9936
    @johanmaisonneuve9936 3 года назад +4

    Yo I heard that in a few months (at least in my country) Ph and all other p sites are gonna need a id check. I’m so happy that it finally happens I hope it will help people to stop visiting them.

  • @DannyKingston14
    @DannyKingston14 3 года назад +2

    Me who got a girl from sliding in dms 😳

  • @jomppa5362
    @jomppa5362 3 года назад +8

    Well I've actually won on the lottery so I guess I'm catching Lucid on my dms next...

  • @akstronaut5657
    @akstronaut5657 3 года назад +2

    Aye lucid I love you bro but you needa stop thinking so deeply I mean u know yourself better than I do but thinking so deeply about everything and everyone's questions isnt a good thing because then everything is so technical and nothing makes sense or matters at that point. Maybe its just me but seeing everything so technical makes me depressed. Just sum yo think about. Also not going against your views, its literally sum to just think about.

    • @StacyMcCabe
      @StacyMcCabe 3 года назад +2

      Bro he was saying simple thing. Is your idea of technical scratch games.

  • @realhomy
    @realhomy 3 года назад +6

    Now Imagine Lucid asking for a girlfriend in runescape

    • @conqueror0407
      @conqueror0407 3 года назад +2

      Jarvis cries***

    • @realhomy
      @realhomy 3 года назад +1

      @@conqueror0407 fr

    • @editor7354
      @editor7354 3 года назад

      @@conqueror0407 loooooo

    • @editor7354
      @editor7354 3 года назад

      @@conqueror0407 looooool*

  • @sebass7268
    @sebass7268 3 года назад +7

    Bruh lucid dead ass only be speaking facts he really the realest

  • @spookedcam7119
    @spookedcam7119 3 года назад +3

    Alright. Who hurt him.

  • @jimv7902
    @jimv7902 3 года назад +2

    Ok so let's say u persue a girl in real life and u want to marry her and she rejected u its still the shame thing i don't slide just to get action bro and so what we met on Instagram if i date her and realise that we fit why wouldn't i make her my gf

  • @raifule4b
    @raifule4b 3 года назад +7

    If you want to date, date with someone you know irl and trully love because life is better than media

    • @dreamymoon6135
      @dreamymoon6135 3 года назад

      And media shows u what it wants to that's just the good side but irl isn't like that ❤️👍

  • @TTInfiniteGaming
    @TTInfiniteGaming 3 года назад +2

    with your follow count, sliding into dms would definitely work. bitches chase clout ode

  • @jakemcdonald9638
    @jakemcdonald9638 3 года назад +7

    Mfs really rather talk to girls who live hundreds of miles away than do something with their life

    • @DannyKingston14
      @DannyKingston14 3 года назад +4

      That’s weird af 😭😭

    • @Panginu
      @Panginu 3 года назад +4

      this is me, im 15, now i know not to do idiotic things and waste my time

  • @davidpazmino_
    @davidpazmino_ 3 года назад

    Ok

  • @Vanatice
    @Vanatice 3 года назад +6

    lucid, im not a fan of sliding in dm's but i have found love through my phone. i dont understand why you and so many others are even wondering how its possible, when love is just a feeling inside you. theres no questions to be asked imo, its just love bro

    • @editor7354
      @editor7354 3 года назад

      No.

    • @Vanatice
      @Vanatice 3 года назад

      @@editor7354 whose business are you minding dude, keep to your own

    • @editor7354
      @editor7354 3 года назад

      @@Vanatice love thru phone nah. He’s not wrong

    • @Vanatice
      @Vanatice 3 года назад

      @@editor7354 can i ask you whats love to you?

    • @Vanatice
      @Vanatice 3 года назад

      @@editor7354 cause to me its wanting to meet this person as soon as we can, spending all our time together for as long as we want - i dont think thats any different from you

  • @plus2579
    @plus2579 3 года назад +1

    Bro I feel this cus I never dated any girl cus they just wanted to have sex and shit and I never did with them and now I found a girl that wants what I want which is a future with her and I’ve met her family and she’s met mine and we actually spend a lot of time with each other’s family. I wanna marry this girl and she wants the same I just hope it works out

  • @xnexus1770
    @xnexus1770 3 года назад +7

    I swear lucid is my therapy 😖.

    • @dreamymoon6135
      @dreamymoon6135 3 года назад +1

      Yup he's pointing u somewhere...and you just understood that...its all in u..you r a great person that's why u r watching these and feeling grateful..❤️.

  • @ASALWAY
    @ASALWAY 3 года назад +1

    Man if there is a RUclipsr who I made the notification bill of his channel on
    And I almost never miss his videos
    That RUclipsr would be you buddy
    THANQ ..

  • @tofoo72
    @tofoo72 3 года назад +5

    0:49 Fax. If everyone were like that the world would be much better ngl.

  • @ThePowerBunny
    @ThePowerBunny 3 года назад +1

    This is why I deleted my instagram twice when I noticed I was getting too "thirsty"... and stay away from online dating. It's so superficial and quite demoralizing

  • @danielpartida1090
    @danielpartida1090 3 года назад +6

    lucid, after asking if you were crying countless times, i will accept that you are not crying and tell you that you have been like a big brother to me even though you don’t know i exist. got so much respect for you fr homie

  • @beam7626
    @beam7626 3 года назад +2

    I will never get a girlfriend, so yeah

  • @user-qq1gc7lf7e
    @user-qq1gc7lf7e 3 года назад +3

    Imagine how legendary it would be if you get married and both of you vow to still remain virgins forever. I aspire for a relationship like that. What do you think about this idea lucid?

    • @Flybabyfish
      @Flybabyfish 3 года назад +2

      Sex is a natural calling to show love to your spouce. What are the benefits to not having sex? the couple still practice sexual chastity even though theu are married. Plus part of marriage is being fruitfull by having children, and seeing the goodness, beauty, and wonder of childhood when they may have frogoten theirs. :)

    • @user-qq1gc7lf7e
      @user-qq1gc7lf7e 3 года назад +2

      @@Flybabyfishhaving kids is a choice. You can’t deny someone’s entire marriage because they didn’t have kids. Plus it’s cruel to bring kids in this world just so you can have some type of “meaning” in life.

    • @user-qq1gc7lf7e
      @user-qq1gc7lf7e 3 года назад +1

      Lol imagine being the couple that saves their marriage by bringing another human into this already fucked world.

    • @Flybabyfish
      @Flybabyfish 3 года назад

      @@user-qq1gc7lf7e it’s not a choice...If you are married then sex is a given! And so If couple should is open to sex then they should be open to new life. That is it’s function besides showing affection. It would be like chewing food but then without swallowing, that misses the purpose of digestion to give life to yourself. Also, The world is not cruel, but there are cruel people in it. That’s why when people have kids we should raise them well, to appreciate everything in the world! The good, the truths, and the beauty!

    • @tootbitaj
      @tootbitaj 3 года назад +2

      @@Flybabyfish I wish I was in your world it sounds so nice... Sex isn’t a given, some people marry for money, nationality, or to get out of an abusive situation. And having sex doesn’t mean you have to have children. It would be cruel especially if you aren’t 100% committed or sure you want to be a parent. People like me are hesitant to marry because I know I will be pressured to have kids like my mom has been doing to me since puberty because she wants grandkids. There are enough unclaimed and neglected kids in the world, and the suicide rates show it. If I want to adopt that’s my choice and if you think reproducing if your life’s purpose then that’s yours.

  • @tavanjumala5932
    @tavanjumala5932 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for changing my mind :)

  • @paupazos9579
    @paupazos9579 3 года назад +5

    We need more guys who think like that, its honestly so hard

  • @MyFather7865
    @MyFather7865 3 года назад +2

    Well can I get this v card in my country or in Amazon

  • @FrenzyBoi
    @FrenzyBoi 3 года назад +5

    Nowadays, people rely on the internet for relationships. Interaction through a phone screen doesn't make a bond closer, but rather keeps you at that same level until you both meet up irl. This is why people say that they need the real thing in order for it to be real.

    • @dreamymoon6135
      @dreamymoon6135 3 года назад +1

      @LiveLongLaughing can't agree more....see I think it's becoz man is getting sad..and that's how most of them are they dont have happiness and everyone is frustrated that's why p and gf/bf stuff becomes important and then follows looks...which get praised and so on..then some get catfished and what not..and so people don't have patience ( including me, myself )and just don't want to face reality which both painful and very beautiful becoz that's what's beautiful isn't it....that one good friend who's awsm...and those fake ones who r there for status and all those sorts of these...

    • @dreamymoon6135
      @dreamymoon6135 3 года назад +1

      @LiveLongLaughing yup

  • @madmax-sr1to
    @madmax-sr1to 3 года назад +1

    Bro it’s natural for guys to actually want to score, some people just want to get laid my guy🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @Threat1
      @Threat1 3 года назад

      Well keep doing it no one said to not it’s the truth and it hurts you can keep doing what you like but the truth remains there

  • @lexxander8052
    @lexxander8052 3 года назад +7

    Lucid always makes me smile 😊 and gives me the fresh breath of air that I need

  • @benjicommentary
    @benjicommentary 3 года назад +2

    if she don’t text you first she don’t want you

  • @yzack5521
    @yzack5521 3 года назад +3

    At least someone that understands me..
    Its not just patethic but its a waste of time in my opinion texting back and forth for 2 hours, instead of giving me a call and talk for 30 minutes and know each other ! And no its not wierd imo

  • @deleted2321
    @deleted2321 2 года назад +1

    I think snapchat and all that stuff is just dumb. Kids are always on always on Snapchat getting their "streak" it's just dumb. You speak facts, so glad I came across your channel a month ago or so.

  • @ieatbeef1107
    @ieatbeef1107 3 года назад +3

    i 100% agree my guy online relationships wont feel "real" meeting a girl online then meeting her IRL it dosent feel "real"
    finding a girl in anywhere IRL could feel "real"
    keyword "could"

  • @lucid2314
    @lucid2314 2 года назад +2

    2:32 i cant with the i slid in with 3 y's lmao

  • @davecrz6576
    @davecrz6576 3 года назад +11

    Was just about to say fuck it and send a dm to this girl I was seeing for about a year and I barley know anything about her. Covid screwed up a chance I had so I'll probably just focus on myself or wait till covid is over or something

    • @Flybabyfish
      @Flybabyfish 3 года назад +2

      That is really great to focus on! You've got this dude💪
      also just wanted to say, thank you for supporting lucid i see that red heart :)

    • @carfuen1073
      @carfuen1073 3 года назад

      If u talked to her and you think there's a chance shoot your shot she might be waiting for u to dm her what lucid says is just to reasure himself that he's not a looser he is jealous of the guys who have the balls to slide in to someones dms it takes a lot of courage and it is really fun once you do it sure it won't go as planned but you learn a lot from it just be careful w who u dm if u dm a girl that has ab ego bigger that the eifel tower move on she is not the one good luck 🔥🤞

  • @YHProd
    @YHProd 3 года назад +1

    I had a girlfriend and we where dating since 2019 and just recently she blocked me on snapchat and everything just because I didn't respond to her and its is my fault so yeah I'm pretty much lonely now 😔

  • @333xantana4
    @333xantana4 3 года назад +3

    Slid in my girls dms now we’re in a commited 1 year relationship..😁💕

  • @thatneo4133
    @thatneo4133 3 года назад +1

    going to send this to my friend who calls himself an alpha and has 700k snap score
    (if you're somehow reading this, could you get a life please?)

  • @user-eq1xi3we2x
    @user-eq1xi3we2x 3 года назад +2

    especially sliding into the dms of a youtuber or somebody popular, which would result in a 99% chance of you getting involved in some drama with them
    and even if you hook up, let's be real, that relationship is not going to stick

  • @ظلمهالزمان
    @ظلمهالزمان 3 года назад +1

    مرحبا ياحبذا تترجم فيديواتك للغه العربيه لكي تعم الفائده لتخلص من الاباحيه والعاده السريه شكرا

  • @thenoblemute7669
    @thenoblemute7669 3 года назад +3

    The extrovert in me agrees with you, I hate dming and texting and alllll that crap. That being said one of my favorite parts about dating is when you're in the " discovery ? " stage . like that but where you're both dancing around trying to get closer without stepping on each others toes. I love it. So with that in mind, I don't worry about whether or not I'll be with her forever because I enjoy the process.

  • @Wowwow-wl6me
    @Wowwow-wl6me 3 года назад +1

    I disagree with your ideas somewhat, you don't find love by looking at a girl either and that'd be weird, either way you are gonna have to get to know the girl before you decide you love her, I don't think there's something wrong with meeting a girl from the internet as long as you are capable of meeting her irl after that. I agree with the general idea that dming a bunch of girls basically begging in the dms is cucked though.

  • @dellz6562
    @dellz6562 3 года назад +10

    At this point, I think lucid has a camera in my house

  • @zyryx1793
    @zyryx1793 3 года назад +1

    You are cringe fam it is completely normal in our times to find love through the interne,well you don´t actually find love but when you meet its the same as a normal date nothin special

  • @khairpur1
    @khairpur1 3 года назад +4

    I have nothing but the utmost respect for you, my g. Really game-changing shit u doin.

  • @Lerox-gw1tc
    @Lerox-gw1tc 3 года назад +1

    You can find love through a phone screen because sometimes thazzzz juzz the way it izzz

  • @soullmao1773
    @soullmao1773 3 года назад +4

    I really wish every dude had this mindset

  • @khaled_non6688
    @khaled_non6688 3 года назад +1

    Bro ur principal of life it’s similar to Islam if u see this comment I recommend u to Learn about more Islam ☪️

  • @user-uz1gj5ju9d
    @user-uz1gj5ju9d 3 года назад +3

    Honestly needed this video so badly. I’m still young but even at my age the mind games being played between girls and guys is so toxic.
    Like trying to win someone over by talking trash about another person, trying to be superior to by rejecting someone for the sake of it and to screenshot a person shooting their shot.
    It’s kind of sad and I used to be a part of it but this video woke me up.

  • @LiljamezZz
    @LiljamezZz 3 года назад +1

    I dont like using social media besides youtube and discord the only time i use insta or other stuff is when i talk to friends which is rarely

  • @masongoodwyn9006
    @masongoodwyn9006 3 года назад +3

    Wow, this hits different

    • @randomaccount8086
      @randomaccount8086 3 года назад

      No it doesn't...MAAAAAYBE in a fantasy world where 90% women aren't trash, otherwise strong no.

  • @Kegotback
    @Kegotback 3 года назад +2

    Once again another wholesome ass video with more context to takeaway within 5min than a 50min zoom lecture. The world today revolves around the online dating game that’s the reality of it but I want no parts. At the end of the day success for me and purpose is everlasting. Relationships n women will always be there. Speaking of which an authentic genuine one is the only one to put time into for the pursuit of building an empire (marriage) thats just my feelings. I completely agree with you personally from my experience of being in a 2.5 year relationship in high school n just being played with. It changed my life and honestly it shaped my mindset for the person I am today. Love you Lucid and love all my homies in the community

  • @kei-lk2zv
    @kei-lk2zv 3 года назад +7

    everyone’s ego online is so inflated you literally cannot have a conversation with any genuine human

    • @fadelxss406
      @fadelxss406 3 года назад

      Facts couldn’t agree more fam

  • @sssskimmy1
    @sssskimmy1 2 года назад +1

    I agree sliding in dms doesn't really work. I don't do it and I don't answer guys who dm me.

  • @umeshkashyap6070
    @umeshkashyap6070 3 года назад +3

    We need more of these Lucid Talks.
    Keep continuing them bro! Full support

  • @Tlinet
    @Tlinet 3 года назад +2

    OMG im 69th like

  • @freddyfps2
    @freddyfps2 3 года назад +3

    lucid bro u the goat changed my life

  • @mahmoud-mj3yw
    @mahmoud-mj3yw 3 года назад +1

    Imagine not going to school and still smarter and wiser than 90% of it