Why You Should Never Text A Girl Again
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Girls love to text. But does that mean that in order to get her attention and build the attraction that you should be texting her as often as you can? No it doesn't and for many reasons. So you'll learn why you should almost never text a girl in the future and the only exception.
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Never text a girl unless you are asking her out! This is not about having a text buddy and getting to know her it is only a tool to set up a date and build attraction and get to know her in person!
Never text until you are in a relationship. It got me screwed. Texting kills attraction. Not to mention, it creates a lot of misunderstandings.
So fucking tru
So true man. Texting fucked me up for ages.
Noted that down
Bro I swear people can never tell what I mean when I text :(
I wish i seen this video sooner .... darn it . Im stoping texting from now on. Thank you
I agree with everything you said trip except for calling the day of the date to confirm. That comes off as needy.
You have to confirm. Just send a text that says: “hey see you tonight at 8”
This was magnificent, Tripp. Thanks for always spreading the good word.
If someone is interested of you, doesn't matter if you texting her, she will appreciate that you are texting her. If she doesn't care all what you are saying in this video it's correct.
These minds games working only for the wrong person
Yeah, but texting can easily cause loss of interest. Way easier than talking in person.
what we can do with the coronavirus
if we go no contact she will be like he doesn't care while other people not gonna hesitate sending messages and shit
Why are you so concerned with one women? Theres 3.5 billion of them on this planet. You're a catch, right? Get out there and meet another one.
Text her and ask if she has a sister
Bro I've always done my best texting girls and sending emojis
Us women do not give two cares if a man uses emojis. It’s actually really cute. What bothers me is when a man sends to many texts before I reply! That’s a turn off.
Emojis aren’t a turn off. Ur not a women I’m not sure how u can speak for us lol . Never have I ever had a friend complain that a man sent a smiley face and heart emoji. It’s when they become clinging to fast to soon.
Tripp for younger guys that are in (high school/college), girls think it’s weird if you call right off the bat without texting first. You’ll kind of have to build rapport and build attraction thru text and Snapchat. Any suggestions ?
Voice messages 👌
calling is actually 🥶
How about a Covid update on this video?
What happened if she is far?
How am i suppose to keep in touch with the girl im seeing over a quarentine
Quarantine is the exception
Mabe i don't like her, so why to waste time and money for dates
Some of the worst beta male advice i’ve ever seen Lol i’m actually a feminine and masculine dude and I have no problem getting, sleeping with, or simply befriending women. Advice like this is what keeps men lonely, insecure, single and low confidence. Get out there and be yourself when interacting with women and they’ll come to you. Also don’t treat them like a piece of meat. Talk less and listen more and then you’ll understand more about your surroundings and situations.
Look guys. He's wrong about this.
You need to text the girl.
Just be careful what you're texting.
Definitely Use Emojis. Girls love to see emojis,😊
It let's them know that you are up to date, and you are able to communicate with them on several levels. Plus you can find out a lot about a girl just by having a few short texting conversations with them..
Btw, never argue with them while texting.
Its too easy to say things that you wouldn't in person.
but its too easy to start an argument over text
The link is dead.
Which one? Both just worked for me!
@@TrippAdvice
The first one.
Get over that oneitis dudes
Texting is the default method of communication unfortunately. It's a great way to kill any chance with someone from the get go. What many people don't realize is that when you text someone you like, you are not being valued to your full potential because to them you are merely words on their phone screen. It's also important to realize that you are one of several people that this person is communicating with thorough this format. If you want to stand out among the rest and make your presence known, make a phone call instead. It's a confident move, it's proactive, and a great way of indirectly letting someone you know that you value them more so than the rest.
Yes, never reduce yourself to a line of unread text.
Screen shoted your comment. Good advice
Gonna text girls now and ask them to wear gloves and masks on a date, that’s gonna create a perfect romantic mood
Vladdy lmao let it be
Latex. Latex gloves and a latex mask.
Back when texting first became a thing there was a rush to come up with all these different techniques to build attraction over text. I'm glad we've finally come to our senses in the community about how those things have been working against us.
Yeah let’s get back to normal here
@@TrippAdvice
The link is dead.
@@dannyboyakadandaman504furl9 Were you doing that pre-Covid?
@@dannyboyakadandaman504furl9 Just checking lol. Not saying it can't be done. Any man worth their salt has been able to do it. And I'm not saying the friendzone is a bad place to be - I've had plenty of relationships that first started off as friends, and I have great friendships with women that started off romantic. Just agreeing with @Tripp Advice that a lot is left out of your control over text, whereas you have a much better handle on the situation when a woman is with you in person. People never read what you wrote. They read what they think you wrote, and it's all dependent upon their mood, what they're doing at the time, etc. etc. In person, you're able to manage a person's emotional (and physical) journey with you from start to finish.
It also depends on what you're looking for. If you wanna play the orbiter game, that's cool. I just think there are better, more exciting and fulfilling ways to live one's life.
And you're wrong. Women aren't attracted to assholes, they're attracted to confidence. Just turns out most assholes are confident.
what when you are in a pre couple relationship(not official yet)?, text or still go ftf or call?
Someone tell him there is a National lockdown coming soon, and we'll have no other choice but to chat like it's 2001 😀
Pandu Wobbles lmfaoooo
lol yeah we not supposed to come out bro
Make a date ... after the lockdown and wait...hopefully shl be alive stil
@@stainMK2 lol
Call her on the phone rrs!
"Texting is dangerous, it can be misinterpreted, instead go on dates with a bunch of other girls while you are waiting for your big date." Got it!
Everyone on the earth should watch this video. People are texting too much. “Don’t text girl unless you ask her out”
All 3 of my relationships in the last 10 years ended much worse than anyone here could possibly imagine, made 0 sense, did me huge harm and ptsd - all thanks to texting. It was never my fault. I, contrary to them, was always very careful with my words, but it doesnt matter. Once you start arguing via text, the only possible ending is complete disaster. Ive said this many times and noone had ever understood. This guy is completely right. Listen to him.
Oh, and NEVER be ironic or sarcastic in texts, ever, with anyone.
Don't text. Don't call. Go to her house and knock on her door.
Yes, texting has ruined a lot for me ...both from my end and her's...
Mark Audu same i’m old fashioned and when you don’t text girls a lot they think it’s low interest and lose interest smh i lost so many bitches by not texting them a lot
@@iamgreatness6649 wtf when you dont text girls they'll text you more lmao, its way better
That’s all wrong, Text a lot, use a lot o emojis, kkkkkk, cuz every guy that don’t know what to do (like yourself) is watching all this “relationship coaches” telling you to not text, not call for 3 days not let her know you like her etc...etc... since week guy out there are getting those type of trainings, if you express yourself, and be who you are, guess what, you will be unique because everyone else is trying to hard to do the right thing they learned from the coach, Yep. Don’t try to be an alpha if you are a beta, some girls out there like betas. Stop trying and go live YOUR life. Dating is a numbers game, date a lot and stop trying to be the right guy and look for the one who actually likes “YOU”, nobody uses a mask for to long. Stop trying to be accepted, stop trying to be hired and start acting like you are hiring. Let her qualify, let her chase you, accept you the way you are.
I’m guessing this video was recorded before the whole Covid-19 situation
Believe it or not there was a time before Covid
Wonder if people even date nowadays. All this information is useless now..
@@eladbari it's useful depending on where you live, Life's gonna be a different just based on that itself man or at least until everything goes back to normal
Yes, I totally agree... well said.
Old classic time has gone when girls used to text more and boys just responded to their texts.
It always feels like the women have more power in txt. You say one wrong thing boom ghosted
I'm a woman and I HATE when men text me. Just call me! Maybe I'm old or old fashioned, but texting is for my family and girlfriends. Pick up the phone and ask me out and then we're done. We'll talk and get to know each other on actual dates. That's how it should be. I was JUST talking to my best friend today about getting a home phone and only giving that number out to men. It'll eliminate the whole texting thing right away!
Completely agree 💯
totaly agree ! and also it is a way to settle boundaries : when and what to text ;)
Damn it to hell. I knew it so well and still messed it up by texting her too much.
if you don't have time , put the speed at 1.5 :)
And that's pretty crazy cuz I've told my friend there's plenty of times because it has happened to me once I sent a girl a message and she read it in an angry way because she was angry of course we smoothed it all over once I caught her and explained it with voice but shit would have went left if I didn't
Thanks for the advice, but im going to stop watching dating advices, this makes me feel bad and every video just make trust even less in women, honestly up to this point i dont think im very interested in dating, sounds like such a waste of time, i can invest all that time in practicing, writing music, recording jams and even reading. Its me or aproaching to girl to get them is more complicated than what people really says? sorry but what you should do when you already reached the point where you feel needy and your physical desires are eating you from the inside, even if you were trying to pursue something worthy and the only thing you get is rejection?
I understand what you're going through, Women honestly are addicted to playing games rather than valuing proper and honest communication.
I feel you man the best thing we can do is work on ourselves our confidence and women will come to us and make it easy
What if girl is in another country?
He is right but the problem is if the girl writes to you, there is no choice to respond or else she will move on.
Hey Tripp, i was wondering if you could do a video giving advice on how to text a girl or keep in touch with someone in this difficult times (coronavirus, lockdown, etc)
Going OLD SCHOOL on this one, you are! But it's what has to be done! I'm 47 years old and us older dudes used to say in our 20s/30s that "phone calls WERE ONLY for setting up dates, not for chatting." I've learned that the latter did not work and it's not because I can't talk , but it has to do with the old inadvertently seeming "needy" thing without even acting "needy."
That being said, person looks a little younger than myself, but I need a brush up, because I thought I could get away with the texting in ways I would never phone, and it does not work! Nothing more than a "what address" or "I'm slightly late" to an actual meeting via text. Going back to the old school rules on text that I used on the phone indeed
Well... Send voice message if you're teasing her instead of texting.
OK this is a bit stupid. Better advice, don't text someone unless it is to convey information rather than emotions and it is during work time. So, you are due to meet your guy or gal at 6pm for dinner, but there is a snarl up at work and you have to work overtime. Text her immediately and explain this so that she can accommodate the change of plan. You are held up in traffic, then text this fact. You want your guy to pick up a couple of steaks from the supermarket on the way home, perfectly acceptable to text. Other than that, unless it is an LDR, then there is no real reason to text, otherwise it starts to come off as needy.
You need to make a rapprt tho. So some texting is necessary evil
was dating easer before texting was invented
There are countless videos on the internet giving "advice" on how to text a girl when the best advice all along was simply don't text her. This is by far the best video all men who are in the dating market need to watch. Well said, sir!
I just got the GIRL number and did I just text her and after that she didn’t even read my text and she blocked me then I call her and I asked her why did you blocked me and she didn’t reply and she blocked me. She being very nice when I’ve been talking to her
So no texting in a LDR. How do you keep communication going then?
If a girl prefers to text just walk away fellas. Or she used to call and now all she does is text or text hours to text back clear sign she’s not interested point blank.
This is so true , texting gives her non sexual attention, women are addicted to attention
100%
If you’re gonna call… give her a heads up before hand in person “i’ll call you at _pm”
I texted a woman and she read my text and she didn’t respond back so that told me everything about her and I know I didn’t do anything wrong
Depressing news for those who get ourselves tangled up in long-distance things :-/ Where she always keeps on texting, seeking all that validation the other way. And there's a freakin' international flight embargo that prevents us meeting in person month after month.
I long distance texted a girl for the best part of a year before meeting and we really bonded and got to know each other during that time as well as becoming best friends. Eventually I traveled there and everything worked out great. The relationship didn't last forever but that was on me.
So should I mentally text her? 🤔 😂
Takeaway:Guys don’t send emojis.
Girls text me all the time - sometimes I have to respond....
One of your best videos
Interesting ..
Old school is the New school!!!
LOL really? dating is dead, for at least the next 6 months or more
does this apply to having emojis in your tinder profile?
VALUED 1 bruh
I think texting was fine following its real purpose which was just to send messages. It was not until people started using it as a tool for conversation that got complicated. Man gives a rational meaning to words, including of course verbal interactions. Women tend to define the texting in an emotional way, they can't help doing so. My experience has always negative in this matter. During verbal conversations women are capable immediately of interpreting whatever you want to communicate to her. It's totally the opposite through texting. Let's go back to just sending plain messages.
I get your point, but I'm such a smooth texter that that's gonna actually hurt my game
I’m the same way, I just try to keep a balance. Not texting her everyday etc
How to be a smooth texter bro help!!!!
@@jatinrai3509
It's all about brainstorming all kinds of word connections with whatever she throws at you, but it's very important that you make her understand from the start that you're a playful writer.
Because if you mess up there your witty comments won't land properly, especially through text where it's harder to pick up on sarcasm and such.
Of course practice is key, it's a gradually developed skill. You don't need necessarily a girl to practice, you can also practice creative writing by yourself with a journal. That alone will make you a faster and smoother writer, also study humour and consume tons of comedy entertainment: sitcoms, stand-up, RUclips videos, movies etc. You will gradually absorbe proper comedic timing and form.
Good luck!
@@bluebotlivingston6016 bruh the thing is I've always sucked at chatting with girls always either they get bored of me or I'm not able to seduce them like if I wana become her bf .they seems uninterested in me that shitn hurts so if u could help a Little bit in detail😿😭🙏
@@jatinrai3509
1) Be healthy: workout, sleep well and eat clean. This is crucial.
2) Don't take yourself too seriously and drop being needy, you need to act as if you're already drowning in pussy. Otherwise girls will pick up on that needy vibe and that's highly unattractive.
3) Find a creative outlet you're really passionate about, develop it to the best of your abilities and become skillful at it. I suggest music, girls tend to find musicians very attractive. But other skills can work as well, you need to find what works for you.
4) Read books costantly, become a well-rounded and informed person. Get interested in all sorts of topics, interested people become interesting people.
5) Develop your sense of humor, study comedy. Practice delivering lines out loud like an actor would do.
6) Understand that if you're not already happy with yourself girls won't fix that, girls are an added bonus to an already amazing life. If you think that only girls will make your life amazing you're in for a very miserable time, and you risk to waste most of it. Be the best version of yourself first, and girls will naturally notice that.
7) Write a lot, at least a page a day of personal thoughts and reviews of your days. You need to practice writing and speaking if you want to become smooth with girls, there's no way around that. If you can't practice with girls do it by yourself in front of a mirror, it's gonna be hard but you'll get better fast.
8) There's no such thing as "The One" so don't get too attached to any particular girl, especially if she rejects you. You will be rejected many many times, that's good. That's practice, when it happens learn from it and move on. No girls owes you anything, if she's not into you let her go. As you develop yourself more and more girls will be into you, but you need to keep growing.
9) It's not even about the girls, it's about doing your best to have a good life. This is your only shot, why should you settle for mediocrity? Why not seeking constant learning and improvement?
10) Do your best to love yourself, if you don't accept yourself fully as you are how can you expect a girl to do it for you? Gradually become the personality you would like to date, by costantly improving in any area you can think of; thanks to new and better habits.
Peace.
That's some godo advice bro! you know something that happened to me quite often, was texting a girl, and then all of a sudden she'd just go like "so you're gonna flirt with me forever over text messages, when u gonna ask me out".
Why waited that long it was about time though... she could've lost interest at the end
We don’t call because the sound quality sucks and girls think that they are talking properly and men be like “haa,what, what was that, pardon me” so texting is best way to communicate.Well when she stops texting don’t text just ignore.And if she flakes to date then ignore it don’t even try to try on other girl cause same thing willl happen. It’s a huge loop. So stay neutral and focus on your hobbies and please trip make a separate book on art of texting 😅
When you are doing it right, texting is a fantastic tool to build attraction, anticipation, imagination, lust, mystery etc, etc... I work with words (Publishing House) and written words can be *extremely* powerful. Why do you think the "50 Shades of Grey"-trilogy sold over 150 million copies? Answer: written words are fantastic to evoke (sexual) imagination, fantasy, lust, and every other feeling needed to turn women on. If you are a bad writer, bad with words, skip texting... that's OK. Otherwise texting is very powerful. Texting has helped me tremendously in courting women, in the dating process and in keeping women "warm and hot". Keep texting! But only if you know what words mean, how powerful they can be, and how women react to words... Words evoke feelings and emotions in women - learn to use this tool correctly.
Excellent advices!!
This advice makes sense if you're talking about someone you may already know in reality, but it is a chicken and the egg situation if you're attempting any type of online dating where the only option is text communication. Most women won't agree to meeting without a bunch of prolonged banter, which more often than not, is actually about shit testing your patience rather than actually getting to know you. Have fun spinning your wheels, boys. 🙄
This video makes a lot of sense man! Respect
B.I.G. question. Does this apply even when you are together with her. Like saying good morning everyday? Sorry for the amateur question but I never had a father figure to teach me these things
Don't say good morning to her every damn day, even if you are in a relationship.
@@adelfhipster3936 lol I made this grave mistake and it f'ed up my relationship
My girlfriend lives an hour away. We can't talk on the phone bc of a language barrier so we don't have a choice. She sends a lot of emotions and doesn't like if I don't reciprocate
She texts me
People dying left and right and TripAdvice giving out dating advices.
796 people died in Italy yesterday alone
people were always dying left and right are you just learning about this?
@@Curiousnessify gtfo here troll
@@DCFTW68 he is right im not sure who you call a troll, more people died every day in total than what corona did
According to the WHO, everyday about 26,000 people die from cancer, about 24,000 from heat disease, about 4,000 from diabetes, 2000 die from mosquitoes...people have always been dying left and right. It just didn't cross your mind cos the media isn't always shoving it in your face. Now you have some numbers and you think you're woke.
Quickly, I f she doesn't reply from me,most confidently, I could text with her again,due to loosing of the times,urs most sincerely H
So long as your consistently seeing her twice a week, more than proves she's interested, otherwise you would have been cut off or she made some excuse to call it quits. Impress in person, and stop with the between texts and calls. That's during the relationship over time. Texting and calling are only to set dates
I hate texting! Every time I meet a girl she has to ruin a good thing by turning my phone into an electronic leash. Girls need to get a damn life outside of impersonal phone validation. I say from the beginning that i really hate texts and will do my best to answer and return calls. Then they complain I’m not replying to their texts lol.
Man you changed my life !
Idk. I had a friend (male) that didn't text and it was annoying. I don't wanna call just to ask a question like dance club rec.
Text is stupid and ruins everything. No context. Hahaha odd. The word text in ruining text
What if you meet them on a dating app?
ask for their number & call them
Here's a tip text her but use a different approach what ever her name use a different one and say I in a relationship with your boyfriend
She told me she can't date because her parents don't want for now (she is 18 btw, I am 24), and she has to wait at least 6-7 months before they give her the permission. So I told her we could text sometimes for these months but not everyday (cause she was continuously blowing up my phone). Did I handle it correctly?
We've known each other at the beach, so we kind of dated there for a week, but she wasn't allowed to stay away from their parents and alone with me, and i couldn't escalate phisically so much (and she knows it). She told me she is been really sad that she couldn't see me because of her parents. So i don't know what to do, if i should reach out to her sometimes or not...
I knew texting wasn't that important! Thanks Tripp
Totally fucking agree. I’ve done this more then once where I lost my chances with a girl I really liked because she misinterpreted my text when I was trying to be funny and build rapport....now I don’t play any games and use texting ONLY for setting up a date point blank PERIOD
What about voice messages in iMessages or video messages
Still can be left unheard, ignored. Communicate via phone call, get her response on the spot. No time to react.
Thanks for the video I really need those advice
Bro do a video on how to dive into them dms
sorry brother but women love attention and go to anyone that will give it.
True in general but I used to text her almost every day for over 2y... of course made a lot of mistakes, used emojis, texted too much and too emotional... but for over 2y we were lovers 👍
Look I told you your not going to be first your not going to last but you could be next
..... I still CALL people!
I got screwed big time with texting. Not happening again
Hey, I agree with this. I have asked a girl online to have a phone call but she says "idk" I don't know. What do you think? I am giving it like a week then I will ask again.
Also I am trying to figure out my purpose. But I keep finding myself wanting to try to chat with the girls I am interested in. I don't like this about me. I think it is because I am now divorced and not use to being by myself again. I find myself wanting attention and I know I dont need it.
Great video but what if this person is in a different country and you are trying to build rapport ?
When we're on vacation we stay in the same room and she always forgets to carry her towel into bathroom and after taking shower calls me for the towel and put her hand out and take it. She is a muslim hijab girl and don't allows me to kiss or hug her but she does like this more often. Asks me to close my eyes and changes the dress in front of me. Shall I consider these kind of acts as invitation and go inside the bathroom or just act as a nice guy like what I'm doing now??!! Can any expert advice me please??
U go for it. She is not a virgin.
Has Batman ever sent emojis…exactly
I'm embarrassed that I didn't realize any of this...Forever grateful!
Thank you for this vid Tripp
You’re welcome
Can only do if u are single.. ahem...