Paula Hurlock "Sex With The Wrong Person Can Cause Chaos In Your Life And Psyche" Pt.2

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @INEVERKNEWTV
    @INEVERKNEWTV  2 года назад +201

    Watch more reasonings from Paula Hurlock:
    Pt 1 ruclips.net/video/FYjTz_tzpTs/видео.html
    Pt.2 ruclips.net/video/tO_zqB2H73o/видео.html
    Pt.3 ruclips.net/video/fsy4WnM95hs/видео.html
    Pt.4 ruclips.net/video/H2n312sBBAE/видео.html
    Pt.5 ruclips.net/video/m2gfC4_3kl4/видео.html
    Pt.6 ruclips.net/video/4exZJinFHZ0/видео.html
    Pt. 7 ruclips.net/video/PqX9PIfI3pU/видео.html

    • @SupaStarSexy
      @SupaStarSexy 2 года назад +5

      May you please provide the pt. 1 of this? Thanks

    • @castrodomino5972
      @castrodomino5972 2 года назад +2

      💯😻😛🥰

    • @Carlos-od7jr
      @Carlos-od7jr 2 года назад +2

      How do I cleanse

    • @castrodomino5972
      @castrodomino5972 2 года назад

      @@Carlos-od7jr there are so many ways fam. Truly it depends on your level if you don't eat shellfish and swine or things that carry a lot of parasites You can start by drinking alkaline water and going on a fruit fast

    • @Carlos-od7jr
      @Carlos-od7jr 2 года назад

      @@castrodomino5972 ill try a fruit cleanse, do you think grounding works aswell

  • @AM-pt6oy
    @AM-pt6oy 2 года назад +3752

    I’ve always felt this to be true. People are so casual about sex and think you are not sexual if you are not. You can be a deeply sexual being and still choose not to sleep around.

  • @stevendungu9145
    @stevendungu9145 2 года назад +2006

    As an empath, when your partner flirts, gives attention or has sex with others, you can feel all of it even though you do not have any evidence to accuse them, the energy is just all around them. It just drains you with endless anxiety, sadness and feelings of self loathing which over time lead to depression and low self-esteem, you always know....

    • @rockyb1
      @rockyb1 2 года назад +80

      ACCURATE

    • @FlyBoiQ1
      @FlyBoiQ1 2 года назад +50

      Definitely went through this

    • @StarLight-tu6ub
      @StarLight-tu6ub 2 года назад +8

      Yesssssssss❤ @Steve Ndungu

    • @chi3812
      @chi3812 2 года назад +19

      Facts!

    • @AudaL
      @AudaL 2 года назад +17

      Yup

  • @Ethiodawg
    @Ethiodawg 2 года назад +738

    I have been bullied for staying clean and not sleeping around. This is exactly why I do it. Why I am the happiest person. It works ladies!!! Don’t mix your energies 😍

    • @EmilyTheStrange82
      @EmilyTheStrange82 Год назад +29

      I can definitely relate. If you're not a follower a lot of people will shame and judge u for it. Don't let these people shame or make u feel awkward for your choices. 😊

    • @babiiluv7931
      @babiiluv7931 Год назад +4

      Good for you!!!!♥️♥️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @duanettereid5010
      @duanettereid5010 Год назад +16

      I am a proud celibate for years! Best feeling ever. I am so happy and peaceful.

    • @nener5441
      @nener5441 Год назад +9

      Happy to say I am experiencing this clean energy life now!

    • @Marchelette
      @Marchelette Год назад +2

      Same ❤

  • @sydneyboyd615
    @sydneyboyd615 2 года назад +923

    That’s why I permanently got off the dating apps. Got tired of men trying to bully me into having sex without any build up, or connection. I love sex but I genuinely feel that sex is a gift from me. I love it. It’s one of my favorite ways to reveal myself. I don’t want to cheapen that experience. And the apps were so destructive to my spirit in so many ways. I feel better now

    • @marty7887
      @marty7887 2 года назад +21

      Real talk woman i is a man and I love sex also pleasuring a woman's body is heaven for me after i finish I feel happy and the woman feels happy also is like a stress reliever and a calories burner

    • @tombstone4986
      @tombstone4986 2 года назад +24

      Women on dating sites are just as nasty n bullies too...

    • @shhh3185
      @shhh3185 2 года назад +29

      Been attempting dating apps for over 15 years and still single due to the assumption that I'm from the porn site they were just visiting. I've rejected more men because of this..it's not like I haven't had opportunities. But I'm ok being alone now . Men asking me about sexual things before they even know my last name FFS.

    • @tombstone4986
      @tombstone4986 2 года назад +7

      @@shhh3185 not ALL MEN just the ones you're meeting...

    • @bigfatjuice
      @bigfatjuice 2 года назад +2

      Can I ask you, how did you manage to process the experiences you had? My friend had a similar experience of being bullied into sex by a man over one of these apps and it was quite traumatic. Trying to recover

  • @bjw3243
    @bjw3243 2 года назад +623

    Grandmother, who will be 96 tomorrow always said, "everyone you sleep with, you are giving them a part of your soul". She is right. Beware, ladies and gentlemen!

    • @larkireri2012
      @larkireri2012 Год назад +8

      Everyone who has been baptized into Christ is a new Creation! The old is gone and the new is come..

    • @dramese
      @dramese Год назад +2

      @@larkireri2012 what that has to do with the comment.

    • @larkireri2012
      @larkireri2012 Год назад +7

      @@dramese That those who are in Christ can get everything they lost back.... EVERYTHING

    • @Slim2xzIsland
      @Slim2xzIsland 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@larkireri2012well you can’t get those walls back after they’re indented in permanently from all those knocks. So like the lady said the idea is too keep your energy pure

    • @larkireri2012
      @larkireri2012 5 месяцев назад

      @@Slim2xzIsland the life in Christ Jesus is completely new.. That is why he is called a new man, the old goes away completely and God builds new walls for that man. I will resort the years that we're eaten by the locust, the big locust and the small locust.. For a good example. People who caught HIV during these sexual escapades, we see many healed with no trace of the disease forever. Faith is the key, and knowing who God is... Loving, kind, merciful, righteous, just and all Powerful..

  • @juliane.alexander619
    @juliane.alexander619 2 года назад +247

    This is the reason why there is a very high rate of depression, addiction and even suicide in fields like porn and prostitution where sex is the actual occupation!

    • @lasantuzza777
      @lasantuzza777 Год назад +1

      yup but if you say that *truth* ppl riot.. it’s time we stop normalizing things that destroy our spirit

    • @M-i-k-a-e-l
      @M-i-k-a-e-l Год назад +10

      Yes and no. They often already had traumas to begin with.

  • @BluPhoenix417
    @BluPhoenix417 2 года назад +4470

    She’s speaking spiritual facts. I’ve been abstaining 6 years, I’m always happier when I do (this isn’t the first time I’ve abstain). You literally take your power back. 💙🖤

    • @NomfundoV8
      @NomfundoV8 2 года назад +178

      I agree wholeheartedly!!Everytime I abstain I feel so much peace.

    • @MissBeeMarie
      @MissBeeMarie 2 года назад +231

      7 years going on 8. I have a lot of clarity. I miss the physical at times, but it’s not worth doing that when the energy is dark. I’m past those days. So sad how people are just going through the motions knowing the person they’re with is no good.

    • @luna39900
      @luna39900 2 года назад +50

      2 years in

    • @wombmanibringlife2649
      @wombmanibringlife2649 2 года назад +127

      May the Almighty Creator bless all of my sisters with righteousness and righteous husbands to share this journey of life, and that you no longer have to abstain. 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

    • @charchar7897
      @charchar7897 2 года назад +158

      Abstinence is amazing and it heightens your spiritual awareness. Discernment be on point, it makes me afraid to go back the other way.

  • @truthseeker5332
    @truthseeker5332 2 года назад +1969

    Actually the signs are clear but we choose to ignore them because like she said they put on an appearance but on the inside they are rotten to the core. Signs like narcissism, machiavellianism & psychopathy are reflections of a dark inner core. You give someone enough time during dating and those personality traits rise to surface especially when they don't get what they want. It's important to not only see when they get angry (which is key) but also how they react with regards to sympathy and empathy. Just don't give into the grand emotional delusion. If you ask me the human race has been hijacked by something sinister and now is not the time to be promiscuous.

    • @bambinoesu
      @bambinoesu 2 года назад +105

      100% had this experience. You definitely right on focusing on when they get angry

    • @toomuchinformation
      @toomuchinformation 2 года назад +58

      Very helpful and insightful comment.

    • @ReinaAfricana
      @ReinaAfricana 2 года назад +101

      So true that happened to me. My ex was a narc. I also notice every man I've been with was married or in some relationship. Folks think it was my dad's and moms karma passed on to me. I always wondered what i do to deserve this? Now im taking back my power.

    • @divinelyintertwined4740
      @divinelyintertwined4740 2 года назад +58

      I am constantly attacked by these type of men , I'm convinced enough after being harvested on for years that I will find my true love in the next realm Now's not the time for me to look for it on this plane. I love this comment a thousand times 🎯🔥 blessed be to you 💚

    • @NomfundoV8
      @NomfundoV8 2 года назад +9

      So so true!!

  • @brittanysapology9528
    @brittanysapology9528 2 года назад +630

    This is very true. I laid down with a toxic guy back in 2015 who had alot of emotional issues and traumas. And I ended up feeling how "lost and confused" he was. I remember feeling like I wanted to die and I had nothing going for myself. But I never felt this way prior to messing with him. So it's true, you become ONE flesh with whoever you lay with.

    • @infari9744
      @infari9744 2 года назад +47

      This is true . It is yuck contracting someone else's yuck

    • @maricruzavila522
      @maricruzavila522 2 года назад +17

      That happened to me!

    • @gizlamcdobby9408
      @gizlamcdobby9408 2 года назад +22

      Does anyone know how to get rid of it? How to get rid of that energy now when we know better and when we are not together with those persons?

    • @brittanysapology9528
      @brittanysapology9528 2 года назад +26

      @@gizlamcdobby9408 Praying to God

    • @latoyawatts168
      @latoyawatts168 2 года назад +3

      @iamBLUSH I feel like this now!! I want it to go away

  • @Godisgreat-777
    @Godisgreat-777 2 года назад +2024

    I read an article titled “sexually transmitted demons”. I must say that’s a real thing because it happened to me. Through that horrible situation and experience, I learned how truly sacred sex is. I’m on my fourth year of abstinence. I will go to my grave staying absent if I must. My soul is worth it. The flesh is nothing but a lie. Great video! Thank you! God bless!

    • @Auntkekebaby
      @Auntkekebaby 2 года назад +29

      Same

    • @blossom6235
      @blossom6235 2 года назад +74

      same here, my 4th year too without sex, and I dont even miss It, I wish I knew then what I know now

    • @love4christ505
      @love4christ505 2 года назад +105

      I have been 10 years or more, got involved with someone I shouldn't have, but I did, and when it ended I ask God to turn off all sexual desire.
      I have been praying for a Godly man. One where we are truly compatible.

    • @phenomenonto328
      @phenomenonto328 2 года назад +68

      Flesh is nothing but a lie! Our souls are precious indeed. Jesus Christ did not die that we may suffer like this 🙌🏾

    • @faay8912
      @faay8912 2 года назад +18

      Can you tell us what happened if you don't mind ? Did you have a demonic possession or something ?

  • @corrijackson
    @corrijackson 2 года назад +549

    This isn't limited to sexual experience, boundaries are important in every aspect.

    • @bri.mainaa
      @bri.mainaa 2 года назад +49

      literal opening doors to people can potentially distort energy in the house/rooms. I've experienced this before and confirmed it
      not everybody means you well

    • @corrijackson
      @corrijackson 2 года назад +20

      @@bri.mainaa this is beyond true ! Certain people I definitely won't let in they leave an evil Ora.

    • @nowthatsacookie
      @nowthatsacookie 2 года назад +6

      Correct!

    • @faithwairimu1466
      @faithwairimu1466 2 года назад +5

      Very true

    • @thesbianbeauty
      @thesbianbeauty 2 года назад +23

      Agreed! Everything carries energy! One must protect their enegery in ALL aspects, not just sexually. I don't even accept things from certain people because of the energy they carry and not wanting that in my house.

  • @delighteze5980
    @delighteze5980 2 года назад +127

    Very true. Whenever I'm in any sexual relationship. I feel sad and depressed but whenever I'm out of that relationship I regain myself. I feel much happier, both physical and mentally. No wonder GOD said we should abstain from sexual sins.

    • @neosrdjan671
      @neosrdjan671 Год назад

      Well, CHOOSE a partner which will UPLIFT YOU... God invented Sex, so he (she) loves it! But, you MUST CHOOSE a right partner. You uplift a partner, and, in the same time, the partner UPLIFTS you.. Cheers!

    • @Coolie-High
      @Coolie-High Год назад +8

      Yeah, I believe you are misinterpreting what she is saying. She never said sex is a sin OR meant for you to interpret sex in that light. She is just educating everyone to be cognizant of who you have sex with and the many breakdowns of why you as a person should be aware of who you are intimate with.
      If you're feeling sad and depress when having sex that means either youre choosing the wrong partner OR your energy towards sex in a negative space(sex is a sin, etc) is bringing your overall sexual experience down. Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable to both parties as it has literally been proven to lower stress and anxiety. It's literally what brings "life" into the world and should NEVER be considered a sin. Peace

    • @bri7625
      @bri7625 7 месяцев назад

      Sex before marriage is a sin

  • @BrokeTruckerGyal
    @BrokeTruckerGyal 2 года назад +1129

    So glad to be in the sacred space of abstinence for a few years now. I've learned my lesson. Thankfully no diseases, no pregnancy, no abortions. But the pain cycles those situations left me in weren't worth it. I'd rather have my peace of mind and unadulterated connection with God. My time will come when the Higher Up ordains it.

    • @mystorymysong777
      @mystorymysong777 2 года назад +18

      You Betta speak on it sis💯👊👏👏👏

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 2 года назад +21

      How is healing done especially when the other generation lived careless lives and their children copied same lifestyles with consequences!

    • @nathaliesaldana
      @nathaliesaldana 2 года назад +7

      Amen

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 2 года назад +3

      @MySultrySounds Thank you my sister,am well.
      Thank you for answering my question,i'm in deep prayer to Abba YAHU'AH for my family whose moral foundations were not that good .
      Please keep me in your prayers to be set free from those chains.
      May Abba YAHU'AH baruk you.

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 2 года назад +3

      @MySultrySounds Thank you,i'm very much humbled.All praises to The Most High Yah.

  • @dexteryoung907
    @dexteryoung907 2 года назад +1790

    She is 100000 percent right on everything! We needed to learn this when we were very young, the world probably would be in a happier place.

    • @f.a.8310
      @f.a.8310 2 года назад +53

      Ain't no "probably" G 💯💪🏽that would DEFINITELY make an impact alone. Less births out of wed-lock
      (marriage is not necessary at ALL), less 'fornication', more 'sex', less toxic soul ties, Healthy mother and father relationships, etc. List goes on.

    • @francinedelery8758
      @francinedelery8758 2 года назад +8

      Yup💯💯

    • @msthang5366
      @msthang5366 2 года назад +11

      Ooh, I didn’t listen..
      I cannot say folks never tried to tell me something..

    • @masemboross4996
      @masemboross4996 2 года назад +33

      Some of us DID learn it, but at the end of the day, kids are going to make their own decisions and live with the consequences of their actions so 🤷‍♂️

    • @stephenhiggins7759
      @stephenhiggins7759 2 года назад +1

      Nonsense - where the spiritual aspect of sex as it relates to other animals

  • @itsnice420
    @itsnice420 2 года назад +187

    She ain’t lying. I just went through this and as of now I’m staying away from sex until I’m fully cleansed spiritually, mentally, and emotionally. I’m gonna be careful that I don’t get caught up in this mess again nor pass on bad vibes/energy to someone else.

    • @rajendrabiswas
      @rajendrabiswas Год назад +4

      do men also get this?

    • @icke11234
      @icke11234 Год назад +7

      @@rajendrabiswas Of course they do, and every man honest and sincere enough to admit to and even speak openly about it and to do the work deserves the utmost respect for it, and more so because there are hardly any real men left anyways.

    • @BlvdTodd
      @BlvdTodd Год назад +1

      FAKZ. 💡

    • @kiaramyles1210
      @kiaramyles1210 11 месяцев назад +1

      I’m cleansed spiritually, mentally however my ex is trying to keep me attached emotionally.

    • @kiaramyles1210
      @kiaramyles1210 11 месяцев назад +1

      I pray he leaves it alone.,

  • @Lisa_Lisa312
    @Lisa_Lisa312 2 года назад +930

    I approve this message... Abstinent for 10yrs, got my peace back, untethered some soul ties.

    • @MissBeeMarie
      @MissBeeMarie 2 года назад +29

      Amen 🙏🏾 7 years going on 8

    • @FatherDIVINE.
      @FatherDIVINE. 2 года назад +5

      That's sad and reaks of low self esteem

    • @nicolelewis6312
      @nicolelewis6312 2 года назад +42

      Those soul ties are real.😭

    • @5Luckyducky
      @5Luckyducky 2 года назад +1

      🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈

    • @louisejones5773
      @louisejones5773 2 года назад +85

      @@FatherDIVINE. because someone is celebate, not married and is deciding to do the right thing and be obedient they reak of low self esteem? Wtf father divine of what? Sir

  • @MsYondaschannel
    @MsYondaschannel 2 года назад +1330

    Nothing but pure facts! As a woman we're carriers. When we have sex with a man. We intake everything that's attached to them rather it's depression, karma, or happiness. It's a soul tie! I've been practicing abstinence for 4 years now. I can't allow myself to be attached to anything. When I choose a man I literally must watch, look, and pray. I need to see his behaviors, actions, and reactions. I've been attached to an unclean spirit before and it's hard as hell to get rid of it. Sex is powerful with the right appointed person. I'm not taking any chances.

    • @CeeceeH1819
      @CeeceeH1819 2 года назад

      I agree but i would say that men carry souls too, they just don't realise it on a conscious level. Even more so for them as they seem unable to control themselves. A Woman's copulin is very powerful.

    • @katherinescooking
      @katherinescooking 2 года назад +45

      Ya ya exactly! I had a first date with a man the other day, and he kept trying to get me to kiss him. I felt so uncomfortable I don’t know him.

    • @MsYondaschannel
      @MsYondaschannel 2 года назад +54

      @@katherinescooking don't even allow an unwanted kiss. Spirits can be transfered through that. You gotta take your time and it's ok to be aline until then. However, I do believe that we all should date. ❤

    • @ABC-ho5jo
      @ABC-ho5jo 2 года назад

      If women were the only carriers sex wouldn't be dangerous because men would have nothing to pass on to the woman 🙄. I'd say everybody is a carrier of disease, curses, toxicity that's why sex is dangerous.

    • @tracyirene8917
      @tracyirene8917 2 года назад +8

      Agree 👍

  • @djenkins2178
    @djenkins2178 Год назад +43

    This is VERY true!! When I got with my youngest daughter's father, I had my own apartment, my own car, a good job etc. etc, but a few months after dating him, I lost my apartment, I lost my car AND I ended up having to let my job go because we moved to another state (to get a fresh start from everything that was happening). 🥺🥺😥😢 I had NEVER been in a place so LOW in my life.....had I known THEN, what I know NOW, I would have "proceeded with caution" with him because it felt like my life went from "sugar to shi× overnight. 😔🥺 When we started dating, he didn't have himself together AT ALL (he didn't have a car, he didn't have his own place) & everything that he was going through was transferred right over to me (spiritually/energetically) so I became everything that he was/wasn't. I should have known better than to mess with a guy that didn't have anything going for himself, BUT (there's always a but), we had known each other since we were 16 (we started dating at 32), we went to high school together, he was a good/loyal/honest guy that treated women well etc. etc. so it was almost like I couldn't help myself. 😕😕 We stayed together for 10 years (I left him in 2020, the relationship became stagnant & everything that was needed to maintain a relationship was GONE), we had a lot of fun, we did a lot of things etc. etc, BUT it taught me a valuable lesson....be VERY mindful of who you are intimate with because that person can/will destroy you if their energy/frequency is bad/low. 🤔🤔 I became a Reiki healer in 2019 & I think that once I became more conscious & I started vibrating on a higher frequency, the feelings that I had for him changed. I knew that he wasn't going to do anything to better the relationship & I wasn't going to do anything to better it either because I was ready to leave so that's when I decided to go. I stayed by myself for 3 years (just me & my 2 girls) so that I could HEAL from the relationship & in January 2023, the Universe sent me the man that I've been waiting for (he's like minded, he doesn't smoke/drink, he doesn't eat meat, he has 2 cars, his own house, his own business etc. etc.) & we've been going STRONG for the past 5 months. I knew that my patience would pay off, I feel like one of the luckiest women on the planet for having such a GREAT man by my side......I'M GRATEFUL!! 😊😊🤗🤗

    • @nana8135
      @nana8135 10 месяцев назад +1

      Good job girlie ❤

    • @elbert3987
      @elbert3987 9 месяцев назад

      Are you still going strong?

    • @djenkins2178
      @djenkins2178 9 месяцев назад +4

      @elbert3987 Grand rising!! YES, we're still going strong & it's been a year since we've been together. 😊😊 As a matter of fact, we're going so strong that we're talking about getting married. 💚💚🤵🏽‍♂️👰🏽 I know that a year of dating isn't that long, but when you reach our age (I'm 46 & he'll be 53 in May) & you find someone that "does it" for you....why wait because when you KNOW, you KNOW. Thanks for asking!! 🙂🙂

    • @elbert3987
      @elbert3987 9 месяцев назад

      @@djenkins2178 Totally agree, happy for you and stay strong 🤗

    • @djputtmusiqtyrant
      @djputtmusiqtyrant 22 часа назад +1

      Money is a he'll of a thing 😅

  • @keithsilo9553
    @keithsilo9553 2 года назад +1173

    I'm a college student and being around so many people of the opposite sex almost had me forgetting about this fundamental principle. Thank you for bringing me back🙏🏿

    • @nicoleowens2318
      @nicoleowens2318 2 года назад +50

      I'm happy to see this comment, I mean no offense but this point is lost on a lot of guys. Women may be beautiful and scantily clad but it's not worth your body, your soul or your future! Beautiful women with light spirits will come if you hold on and keep that attitude, I promise!

    • @seismicvertigo345
      @seismicvertigo345 2 года назад +6

      @@nicoleowens2318 Always good to be fed hope

    • @davidsvarrer8942
      @davidsvarrer8942 2 года назад

      "Being around" is that your euphemism of having sex with them?

    • @cryingsouls9271
      @cryingsouls9271 2 года назад +4

      Pray for men omg yes we all need deliverance

    • @cryingsouls9271
      @cryingsouls9271 2 года назад

      The spirit of perversion break sexual immortality generation curse ijmn

  • @chosenqueen5109
    @chosenqueen5109 2 года назад +304

    My best friend died by suicide in January. Her husband was physically, emotionally & mentally abusive towards her. The week she passed I tried telling her to stop sleeping with him. She told me I didn't understand as I'm not married. But I've always felt that sleeping with a man who cheats, hits you & swears at you will surely drain your energy & finish your self worth ... I wish she was still here, to learn, to grow, to raise her sons, to live 💔😓

    • @talllala
      @talllala 2 года назад +32

      I'm so very sorry for your loss. You tried. All you can do now is strive to be a friend to her sons. That is what any woman leaving children behind would want. God bless you for caring.

    • @chosenqueen5109
      @chosenqueen5109 2 года назад +14

      @@talllala Thank you for your kind response 💚 it's just that they're so young (4 & almost 2). They won't even understand who I am & why I care 😭

    • @sophiapeters3141
      @sophiapeters3141 2 года назад +13

      Married to a very verbal,cheating and some times abusive man,had to end the relationship wasn't happy at all,now I understand why.

    • @talllala
      @talllala 2 года назад +10

      @@chosenqueen5109 Ahhh😢 but one day they will. You're their angel.

    • @SusieQ156
      @SusieQ156 2 года назад +10

      Sorry for your loss ☹️

  • @soulrpower3031
    @soulrpower3031 2 года назад +18

    As a divorcée, I can attest that marrying the wrong person, can not only be chaotic to one’s life, but completely ruin it.

  • @lolachinola9051
    @lolachinola9051 2 года назад +254

    “When people have multiple partners to others they appear happy physically but in reality, mentally they are a mess”
    Speaking from my own experience. When I was younger, I used to do things because I thought it was “normal” and everybody else was doing it too.. After a very negative encounter with a man one night I felt so dirty and sad. And so ashamed of myself. I just slept with that messy guy… why? For what reason? Was I so desperate at my young age to sleep with anybody regardless how that person made me feel? How that person treated my body?
    I swore to myself I would never ever in my life sleep with a person who doesn’t have love for me, who doesn’t love me for me. And whom I loved too.
    1 year after that I met my husband, we’ve been married for 9 years now. Everything really starts with a decision. Now I feel every sexual experience before him was useless. Know your worth 💕

    • @SSJSadAf
      @SSJSadAf 2 года назад +4

      thank you and congratulations 🎉

    • @felicitygrace5113
      @felicitygrace5113 2 года назад +3

      I pray to be on that path and coming into that journey yet it is earlt days and it hurts like hell the breaking up

    • @tewodrosdagnachew7517
      @tewodrosdagnachew7517 Год назад +2

      Tankyou❤

    • @debbyluxe
      @debbyluxe Год назад +1

      @@felicitygrace5113I can relate as I’ll be going through it soon

  • @777sweet
    @777sweet 2 года назад +732

    She is 10000% !!! I’ve experienced that with my ex. Trust me, I left him. Since I got with him so much turmoil and anxiety. When I left him, I had so much peace. My suggestion is take sea salt bath 🛁 or get someone to mix a bath mix for you to remove negativity. Especially if you’re a Empath like myself. We absorb energy easily.

    • @kemarigooden3368
      @kemarigooden3368 2 года назад +17

      Sound's interesting

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 2 года назад +6

      What about cleansing abortions ? Just asking.

    • @nikkinonames5265
      @nikkinonames5265 2 года назад +2

      Yes those banos be the truth! And they work!

    • @nikkinonames5265
      @nikkinonames5265 2 года назад +4

      @Andilena if you have a botanica in you area , they can make one for you or have you buy the items in the store and show you how to mix it to create a bath for you.

    • @CB-ep9il
      @CB-ep9il 2 года назад

      No botanica stores, that's power from the left that u will receive, and it will back fire. Only God's Laws. The Laws of the Thorah are NOT DONE AWAY WITH

  • @MissNolver
    @MissNolver Год назад +99

    Oh sister, I love you!! I'm 45, not married yet, but never had sex with a man before, because I have always believed that sexual intercouse only belongs in a marriage! I'm in love with a man right now and God showed me three years ago, that he's the man I'm going to marry. I have never felt embarrassed to still be a virgin. Actually, both men and women have applauded me, that I'm still a virgin at this age.

    • @kennydee8296
      @kennydee8296 Год назад +8

      YOU are a unique individual, a rare gem who will be loved deeply, I do admire your strong values

    • @MissNolver
      @MissNolver Год назад +2

      @@kennydee8296 Thanks a lot Kenny! 🥰🥰❤❤🧡🧡💛💛

    • @sovereignmeinest1563
      @sovereignmeinest1563 Год назад

      45 and still a virgin?
      I'm sure deep down you resent yourself

    • @ZIONHIGHER
      @ZIONHIGHER Год назад +4

      Bless you ! Your a special Gem !

    • @MissNolver
      @MissNolver Год назад +2

      @@ZIONHIGHER Thank you! 🥰🥰🥰🍀🍀🪷🪷

  • @caroldavidson-hylton900
    @caroldavidson-hylton900 2 года назад +389

    I learnt this in my late 40s. Spread the word, people perish because of lack of knowledge.👍🏾

    • @steppa6765
      @steppa6765 2 года назад +3

      👍

    • @louisejones5773
      @louisejones5773 2 года назад +6

      I totally agree

    • @iegal2526
      @iegal2526 2 года назад +12

      Better to know it later than never 💯

    • @Mscavalli2
      @Mscavalli2 2 года назад +19

      Same here . I am in my mid 40s. Don’t want to tie souls with anyone anymore . It was hard to get rid of the demons attached from previous sexual encounter partners. I feel peaceful.

    • @Natalia-hf3et
      @Natalia-hf3et 2 года назад +4

      ♥️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @MungaiJm
    @MungaiJm 2 года назад +346

    we absorb trauma, emotions and intelligence from other's field of energy.

    • @Natalia-hf3et
      @Natalia-hf3et 2 года назад +8

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 2 года назад +5

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @butterfly713
      @butterfly713 2 года назад +8

      I’m recovering while another person is absorbing his lack of intelligence 😂 sad cycle

    •  2 года назад +2

      Period

  • @MissMotshabi
    @MissMotshabi 2 года назад +57

    This is so true. The last time I was with someone they drained me. I quickly got into an accident, lost money and got into deep debt. They literally stole my luck. It's taken years to do some recovery financial wise.

    • @larkireri2012
      @larkireri2012 Год назад +4

      The Freedom is in Christ. Foe everyone who is Baptised into Christ has become a new NEW creation, the old is gone and the new has come.Yes the old will go completely and you will be free.

  • @walkingbyfaith2885
    @walkingbyfaith2885 2 года назад +599

    AMEN!! I was 14 years celibate, this person chased me for 3+ years, I finally dated, got engaged in less than six months only to discover WRONG PERSON, GOD gave me TWO dreams , I didn't ignore the dreams, just thought I could make a difference, pay CLOSE ATTENTION to your Dreams, both Dreams have come to past 🙏🏾

    • @louisaonyinye7388
      @louisaonyinye7388 2 года назад +7

      Hmmmm....I would like to talk to you.

    • @ofiskitchen5462
      @ofiskitchen5462 2 года назад +15

      Tells us more… what we’re the dreams ?

    • @walkingbyfaith2885
      @walkingbyfaith2885 2 года назад +28

      @@ofiskitchen5462 GOD showing / telling me Exactly what would happen, Scripture says that " I your GOD will not let anything happen on this Earth until He (GOD) reveals it to HIS PROPHETS first

    • @akilahmorris6154
      @akilahmorris6154 2 года назад +15

      Yes I had a dream that a guy I like was a wolf. I didn't listen then God showed my mom I looked like a monkey and I had a disease if I messed with him.

    • @seismicvertigo345
      @seismicvertigo345 2 года назад +2

      Care to share a bit about that warning dream?

  • @necigem
    @necigem 2 года назад +167

    It’s so beautiful seeing all these black goddesses in the comments practicing celibacy/abstinence. I thought I was the only one. It was rare. Now I feel so happy to see so many on the same spiritual path. I refuse to be sexual with anyone until it’s divine timing with my divine partner 🥰

    • @etherealdeal1792
      @etherealdeal1792 2 года назад +13

      It’s comforting to see as a non black goddess also 💜🙏🏼 we are all souls in garments of flesh and blood

    • @tombstone4986
      @tombstone4986 2 года назад +4

      Why make it a RACE issue...sheesh. Why not just say "goddess".

    • @thatgirl3960
      @thatgirl3960 2 года назад +1

      @@tombstone4986 for the black woman who feels unseen for hundreds of years, she is simply seeking an affirmation of herself, little does she realise that her blackness is a new form of oppression. It’s not black vs the rest.... there are several ethnicities with various experiences, all of which are valid.

    • @tombstone4986
      @tombstone4986 2 года назад

      @Nina Boston I'm not white! What is the white page? Why do you all have to always make it a " black thing"? Get over it already. There are others that have gone through the same thing, but you don't hear us saying "brown, yellow, red "!!! U all do it to yourselves a lot of times... Statistics show proof!

    • @carolinpurayidom4570
      @carolinpurayidom4570 Год назад +1

      THeyre not goddesses only humans it dangerous for humans to be put in that pedestal it only harm them and others

  • @richardballin9925
    @richardballin9925 2 года назад +90

    My parents taught me this at a very young age nearly word for word. Be careful with who your spirit mixed with. Sex is a scared powerful act, so much so that it's the only act that pulls a spirit from heaven to form a human.

  • @Thegazelle1000
    @Thegazelle1000 2 года назад +231

    I'm Christian and thanks God I always knew this. I remember when one day the wife of a pastor was preaching about sex with random people. She said "having sex with random people or with someone who sleeps with others people can give you not only STD, but can also open the door for demons in your life. I never forget that!

    • @sokhna-sl4fp
      @sokhna-sl4fp Год назад +15

      - the one who sleeps with a sorcerer become a sorcerer, camerounian proverbe.

  • @pennyproud8587
    @pennyproud8587 2 года назад +716

    Soo true ♥️ my mother (may she Rest In Peace) has been telling me this since I was a young girl. She told me, “when you have sex with a person-you’re having sex with every person that person has sex with because it’s a spiritual portal. People don’t want to believe because they want to be like a dog who returns to its own vomit. When you know better, you do better. Peace and Blessings. 🙏🏽✨♥️

    • @Namanda425
      @Namanda425 2 года назад +22

      Yo this is deep 💀💀💀

    • @Peacebewithu34
      @Peacebewithu34 2 года назад +8

      Chill😭😭😭

    • @zensokriya2250
      @zensokriya2250 2 года назад +5

      Dat is it

    • @himalayan8315
      @himalayan8315 2 года назад +10

      Hi, thanks for this saying as I've never heard it outside of our culture which is Maori, the indigenous people of Aotearoa/New Zealand.
      We in our language say;
      Ko te kuri anake, ka hoki ki tona ruaki.
      Only a dog returns to it's vomit.
      A whakatauki/proverb used in maoridom.

    •  2 года назад +1

      This is exactly what I'm telling my kids. Let me screenshot this rat now!

  • @CeceNaturalful
    @CeceNaturalful 2 года назад +29

    So true. It's no joke. Sex exposes you to so much of the person's energy. I'm currently trying to rebalance myself after being with someone that has a lot of emotional and unresolved issues that they haven't addressed.

  • @MC-rw2bk
    @MC-rw2bk 2 года назад +110

    This energetic dynamic happened to me. Prior to being with said person, I was making $240K and my career was flourishing. I was happy and full of energy. After our relationship, I became unemployed, had fights with friends, etc. My life was ruined in a matter of a few months.

    • @CC-br9qg
      @CC-br9qg 2 года назад +8

      How are you now?

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 2 года назад +5

      Wow

    • @MC-rw2bk
      @MC-rw2bk 2 года назад +15

      @@CC-br9qg I have a few interviews lined up. I'm just trying to conserve my energy and focus on myself.

    • @vv-ec1nh
      @vv-ec1nh 2 года назад +5

      Hi MC, I hope everything will be positive for you again. Keep your head up. God bless you. 🙏🏾💙

    • @marynjoki912
      @marynjoki912 2 года назад +1

      How did you get back coz this is the exact story of my life.celibate 2yrs now but some days are hard hard.

  • @Camillehas4hearts
    @Camillehas4hearts 2 года назад +223

    This message is needed‼️Have you ever had sex with a narcissist (a real life demon)? You loose everything good around you including you spirit.
    Karma is real, you have now experienced the karma that was meant for the narcissist. If I were you, Cut-off sex and communication immediately

    • @stephlon6757
      @stephlon6757 2 года назад +10

      I feel attacked lol . This blunt truth was very much needed 😫🙏.

    • @ositabebe6122
      @ositabebe6122 2 года назад +16

      THIS happened to me i dated a narcissist a real demon like you say and actually he was. I lost everything i tought i was driving myself crazy. Sickness poverty my exhusband almost died. I almoat died. I came back to the Lord and after 3 year later i am becoming who i was. I made myself an exorcism it was really real. I am celebre 3 years and 2 months now. I wanna stay like this untilbtje Lord hgive me the sign i am curated.

    • @mrblaze6982
      @mrblaze6982 2 года назад +9

      I have felt this actually! It messed me up pretty bad… but i cut-off every possible way of communication and ive been getting better every day! Its been a year now and after a lot of reflection and relearning self love things are finally better!

    • @msdemeanour
      @msdemeanour 2 года назад

      Yes, they are evil spiritual vampires. They suck out your soul & grow stronger while you become a weak, empty shell

    • @Unspilled_Tea
      @Unspilled_Tea 2 года назад +3

      I married one and I became a stranger to myself - 99% of the turmoil in that 25 year relationship was centered around sex! I am so much more at peace and the peace really started before the divorce once the sex stopped. I thought that no longer having sex was going to be an issue once he left me - but I rarely think about sex, though I am a very sexual person. When I think of love and a future marital relationship I don’t even think of sex. I think of the physical connection being a result of the deep spiritual and emotional connection we will have. And I will not ever again be pressured into any kind of physical connection.

  • @thequeenmidas
    @thequeenmidas Год назад +15

    This is why it is also important to know your partner's family and ancestral history😮 You do not know what spiritual blessings/ curses they carry on so always take your time in relationships. This was such a learning for me in my early adulthood.

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher 2 года назад +204

    I embraced abstinence and my life changed immediately for the better. I enjoyed more personal peace, avoided drama, focused more in work, significantly increased my income and accomplished so much. Connecting outside of a committed relationship, or any other unhealthy/unbalanced unequally yoked situation is NOT WORTH IT.

  • @kathyalex778
    @kathyalex778 2 года назад +131

    If someone showed me this video 2-3 years ago, I would have laughed off what she was saying. Why? Because I was sleeping casually with boyfriends and I didn't want to believe this...but it is absolutely true. Sex is the most vulnerable physical, emotional, and spiritual act you can do with someone and it is an energetic exchange. I always felt so low after having sex with these loser guys. It's like the act would pull you down to their hellish level. Sex without commitment is so, so harmful. Not even to mention STDs and pregnancy - that's a whole other concern.

    • @dshlwndshlwn7938
      @dshlwndshlwn7938 Год назад

      I know a friend going through a similar process.. could you tell me what did do you to overcome that negative energy? I would appreciate it

    • @Coco-pr3rz
      @Coco-pr3rz Год назад

      Wow

    • @doubyjocelyn6134
      @doubyjocelyn6134 Год назад +1

      Sex before marriage. Not just commitment

  • @user-sq5mb7dk6c
    @user-sq5mb7dk6c 2 года назад +45

    I approve of this message, I've been celibate for the last 4 1/2 years. Best decision ever.

  • @pheneriagonzalez1650
    @pheneriagonzalez1650 2 года назад +62

    Soul ties are broken in the name of Jesus.thank you Lord .I went through this she is telling the truth 🙏.

  • @mystalegacy
    @mystalegacy 2 года назад +361

    True words ✨
    Only the spiritually inclined people understand this ancestral language☀️ thank you ma'a 💫

    • @Natalia-hf3et
      @Natalia-hf3et 2 года назад

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @ladyesther24
      @ladyesther24 2 года назад +3

      Indeed

    • @K_Inspirations
      @K_Inspirations 2 года назад +5

      💯

  • @Abymilde
    @Abymilde 2 года назад +16

    My ex-best friend slept with the wrong men and she ended up becoming schizophrenic. Smh. When I slept with the wrong men, I started failing at everything in life and I'm still here picking up the pieces. I've been celibate now for over 2yrs, my PH balance has returned to normal, my grades are up, and things are getting better for me slowly but I'm not gonna lie, it's hard remaining celibate.

  • @dsmith5986
    @dsmith5986 2 года назад +16

    “keep yourself pure. pure as possible.”-

  • @ceceo9480
    @ceceo9480 2 года назад +122

    Thank you. Your body is sacred, your soul is sacred, energy changes during sex and soul ties are real.

  • @Ribirs
    @Ribirs Год назад +3

    Please girls, this is as true as truth can be. Be mindful of your hearts, of your body. Your body is your first home, having access to your body is having access to your whole being. Very few people are deserving of that, please be mindful. I wish all the best and that god can lead the path of your life for you! ❤

  • @Josh19981
    @Josh19981 2 года назад +349

    This is so true! As a gay guy, I was never interested in the ‘hook up’ culture. I know hook up culture exists in the heterosexual world too. It just seems so soulless and disconnected, more geared towards validation rather than a genuine connection. I’ve had so many people telling me to “get on apps” but it’s not what I’m after or what resonates with me, it never has.

    • @moniqueabundance
      @moniqueabundance 2 года назад +56

      Same as a lesbian woman ! Keep standing in your power x

    • @Josh19981
      @Josh19981 2 года назад +20

      @@moniqueabundance Yes, ma’am! Wishing you all the best, love. ❤️

    • @jesusisapisces
      @jesusisapisces 2 года назад +19

      Good for you, Josh! Hope you find someone who has the same self respect.

    • @Josh19981
      @Josh19981 2 года назад +8

      @@jesusisapisces thank you 😊❤️

    • @naahfam
      @naahfam 2 года назад +26

      Exactly. People who tell me to “get out there, do this, do that” in order to meet people have no right to give me advice when they’ve not met their divine equal, remain single and clueless, and still entertain BS people and situations.

  • @vinaybaijnath6552
    @vinaybaijnath6552 2 года назад +50

    Sexual desire starts from the thoughts and emotions...if you manage yourself in a certain way, the desire will be zero.

    • @seismicvertigo345
      @seismicvertigo345 2 года назад

      True, it's actually funny to hear men whine about how they absolutely need sex because.. men. I have also dealt with those compulsions, but I have been lucky to have been introduced to the discovery that if I entertain other things actively with my mind, for me usually abstract ideologies, I will literally forget to remember to be horny for longer periods of time. It be like that sometimes

    • @nomalie
      @nomalie 2 года назад +5

      Truth

    • @princizzraven2000
      @princizzraven2000 2 года назад +1

      Facts.

    • @hymnodyhands
      @hymnodyhands 2 года назад +1

      Yep

  • @monetenglish68
    @monetenglish68 2 года назад +14

    I experienced this with my daughter's father. After he and I broke up I went into a dark place for a long time. That soul tie I created with him almost caused me to lose my mind. I went on a deep healing and discovered that he and I both hade unhealed trauma. But he went on and didn't care. However with me being an empath I had to cleanse spiritually and emotionally. And when I went through the change I became much more focused and I understood why I accepted what I accepted. Now I'm in a new relationship and spiritually it's peaceful and loving.

  • @naahfam
    @naahfam 2 года назад +111

    I’m going into my fifth month of abstinence. Admittedly, it’s difficult, and I am STILL fighting off soul ties. If I would have known that a few minutes of pleasure would leave my spirit in shackles, I would have never engaged! I like so much better who I am Becoming, but my healing journey remains far from over. My last long term relationship nearly ended my life… and like the speaker said, no one would have EVER suspected the pain I was enduring because I looked perfectly healthy on the outside. I had a thriving career, business, money, a good social circle, travels… physical health… anyone who knew me would have told you I was the coolest person, but behind closed doors, I was sleeping with the devil (naively). Even after the relationship ended, the energy didn’t. I continued to meet the same type of person although the toxicity/poisonous nature gradually became more apparent with each subsequent person. The mental anguish/noise/confusion consumed me until what was almost the very end. Energy is not to be played with. We MUST be careful who we allow in.

    • @CoCoDeLaCruZ
      @CoCoDeLaCruZ 2 года назад

      Greetings Nah Fam. I would just like to share this with you out of love.
      Jesus said"I am the way, truth and life. No man comes to the father except through me. John14:6 jesus is the only one that will truly heal, deliver and make you whole. Please if you like watch this for more info on soul ties/incubus spirit and how a women got rid of it. 🙏 ruclips.net/video/tuo-A4c4Fok/видео.html

    • @rosemaryoneale6694
      @rosemaryoneale6694 2 года назад +7

      Agree 💯 percent

    • @peggygreenidgejarrett3031
      @peggygreenidgejarrett3031 2 года назад

      It is called Men’s the devil sent my way. Wait on God. Men from Satan is half human or beast. The Bible called them beast.

    • @msdemeanour
      @msdemeanour 2 года назад +3

      Five months is nothing. Try 2 years. Then you will know who you are & what you need

  • @april-m5837
    @april-m5837 2 года назад +57

    I always say that sex is the 1 act that literally join man and woman together to make 1 so it should not just be a casual thing and must be taken seriously.

    • @cecegiles7753
      @cecegiles7753 2 года назад

      What if he or she is gay?

    • @E3N8013
      @E3N8013 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@cecegiles7753Thats another level of sin, LGBT is a woke movement and the spiritual aspects was sent by a greater negative power. Don't engage in such please and get therapy to be straight cause ask yourself why did God destroy Sodom and Gomorrah

  • @Chosen2Win333
    @Chosen2Win333 2 года назад +6

    Queen is telling the truth. I had a situationship with an older guy and when I tell you I was drained, depressed, & felt many energies I could not explain. When I finally Ghosted him, It was literally a huge weight off my mind, body, spirit & soul. A year later we spoke and my entire womanhood felt like it jumped at his voice. At that moment I knew I needed every aspect of him off of me spiritually.

  • @mizzcashmoney1
    @mizzcashmoney1 2 года назад +739

    THIS 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 A great reminder for me to stay a virgin until I (hopefully) get married. I don't want to carry any of that baggage into a relationship. I was raised in church so I was always told to wait. I thought I was missing out but then saw how much emotional pain and drama my friends went through who had various sexual partners. I had peace.

    • @ElijahVolcy
      @ElijahVolcy 2 года назад +51

      yes you had literal peace and you are so wise to see that

    • @ckbond41
      @ckbond41 2 года назад +44

      Always follow your heart because you can't go wrong. You are on the right path.

    • @CeeceeH1819
      @CeeceeH1819 2 года назад +49

      The Most High knows best.

    • @ElijahVolcy
      @ElijahVolcy 2 года назад +21

      @@CeeceeH1819 all praises to him

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 2 года назад +36

      Cultivate clarity mentally, spiritually, pure emotions with or without sex/ partner. Marriage will be abundant.
      Don't wait for marriage to be all of you. Cultivate your greatness and a partner will reflect back.

  • @gdisprint2928
    @gdisprint2928 2 года назад +60

    So true. These negative energies are evil spirits around the individuals. Be careful who you yoke with, become friends or take what belongs to another person. Friendships as well as intimate relationships need to be sanctified in Christ in mind body and soul otherwise you’ll have problems. You don’t want a Cain and Abel situation.

  • @yewandeisikalu5366
    @yewandeisikalu5366 Год назад +2

    I've been abstinent for years too.
    I'm so much happier, my mind, body and spirit are so much more calmer and peaceful than ever.
    I can stay this way forever and be very content and happy with my life.

  • @user-iu6bv8vu8o
    @user-iu6bv8vu8o 2 года назад +138

    Keep your energy Pure/ Find a partner with similar energy- keep your clothes on- Remember- All that Glitters is Not Gold & put God First- you will never go wrong- Thanks for this very real & awesome reminder💯

    • @crystaldreams3978
      @crystaldreams3978 2 года назад +1

      Keep your clothes on, so you mean to never have sex ever??😟

    • @user-iu6bv8vu8o
      @user-iu6bv8vu8o 2 года назад +6

      @@crystaldreams3978 that’s for you to decide….but- if you look at the video & understand where she is coming from- she is saying you take on the other persons energies when you sleep with them- it’s deeper then just a moment of pleasure- make sure that when you do have sex- you truly have done your research & know who you lay with….

    • @crystaldreams3978
      @crystaldreams3978 2 года назад

      @@user-iu6bv8vu8o Yeah i know you take on other peoples energy, i just wanted to know if you could have sex with a person that you truly connect with spiritually, mentally and all that. The right person. Cause you said find a partner and keep your clothes on..

    • @nadinegomez8858
      @nadinegomez8858 Год назад

      Sadly hardly any “men” believe in this nowadays :/ most are VERY VERY impure & immoral

  • @janethough2798
    @janethough2798 2 года назад +47

    Mark 10:8 kjv
    And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.” The word of God never fails.

  • @NuCreature8
    @NuCreature8 2 года назад +4

    I agree with everything but minimizing.. Marrying is the answer! It doesn’t get purer then practicing self-control till u meet someone like-minded, same morals, knowledgeable, ready to commit, good role model/leader if male, etc.

  • @DanielleWalcott
    @DanielleWalcott 2 года назад +197

    Great information! Thanks for sharing! Yes. Sex is much more than physical pleasure, it is a spiritual act.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 2 года назад +1

      💯💯💯💯💯

  • @beverlyburke4448
    @beverlyburke4448 2 года назад +242

    This is something that was instilled in me as a child from my Caribbean grandparents and my Southern mother. Truth in every word.

    • @melanier7309
      @melanier7309 2 года назад +6

      My background is the same. Caribbean and Southern. 🇯🇲🇺🇲

  • @teresaharris6401
    @teresaharris6401 2 года назад +12

    This is SOOOO true & something I’ve always known except I never spoke it as eloquently as Ms. Hurlock! Since my early 20’s, I have always been one to take years of celibacy when I felt the need. I, too have been in relationships that were not good for me nor to me….., thus the need to take as much time as I needed to recover, reconstruct & grow from a relationship that never should have happened in the first place!
    Never one to be afraid to seek my alone time, enjoying the peace & tranquility of reclaiming my energy and making it stronger and more vibrant than ever! Not selfish, but love, love, LOVE me some ME, and am so grateful that every experience has indeed brought knowledge so that I can see almost right away when someone is NOT for me. I know without a shadow of a doubt that I am not the woman for just any man, and am ready, willing and able to sit in the knowledge that I’ll KNOW him when I see him….., whenever that is! Oh yes!
    Peace & Blessings to you all!

  • @juanamauk4166
    @juanamauk4166 2 года назад +264

    This is why The Holy Creator instructs His children to be “equally yolked”. Well said lady!

    • @9290SC
      @9290SC 2 года назад +7

      MESSAGE!!! Teach

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 2 года назад +6

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @hazeleyes2381
      @hazeleyes2381 2 года назад +4

      Yes!!!

    • @lisaproctor7675
      @lisaproctor7675 2 года назад +3

      " MEMORIZE THIS TRUTH "
      ( 1 Corinthians 7:39 )
      The wife is bound by the law
      as long as her husband liveth :
      but if her husband be dead, she
      Is at liberty to be married to whom
      she Will :Only in the Lord.

  • @Blys6
    @Blys6 2 года назад +142

    I knew this but I never thought so deep that we take on another’s ancestral lineage. Wow that’s deep.

    • @patricerenee1717
      @patricerenee1717 2 года назад +17

      Especially when you have kids with them.

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 2 года назад +1

      @@patricerenee1717 true but you can’t leave your kid or kids?

    • @Blys6
      @Blys6 2 года назад

      @Welcome's House good for you

  • @di_nankunda
    @di_nankunda Месяц назад +1

    True. My partner is kind, loving, providing, very intelligent, and I've found myself being as he is. I'm very wise and things are going so great in my career these days. I was starting to wonder where it's coming from, and now I've the answer.

  • @marcus7990
    @marcus7990 2 года назад +89

    Wow. The analogy she used with the kid and the soda really opened my eyes. Anything you mix with a lot of different things loses it’s pureness. It does not matter what it is. I’d love to just sit down with her and just listen all day to her teaching on spiritual and physical health for hours.

    • @gp-footy9319
      @gp-footy9319 2 года назад +10

      Anything you mix with a lot of different things loses its purity. I’ll remember this for life!

  • @cam129
    @cam129 2 года назад +84

    I agree with her. Celibacy is a spiritual gift. Sadly, our western culture has turned sex into just a physical act, not a big deal, it is just sex. We are promoting this idea around the globe via our social media, Hollywood, etc.

    • @talllala
      @talllala 2 года назад +8

      And the young people are sucked in because they are the least experienced🙁

  • @Ingaingaweloveanimals
    @Ingaingaweloveanimals 2 года назад +4

    This is exactly why I'm abstinant now. I don't want anymore of the wrong ties. It's very empowering. I have slowly gained back what I was losing giving away...joining with energy and spirit I wasn't meant for

  • @msscorpionize
    @msscorpionize 2 года назад +27

    I've known this for years. Exactly why I don't play that cheating stuff. Or rebound junk. I stopped association with some energies because they mix with unstable energy and its transferred to me. I want no parts of it.

  • @asiaisreal7302
    @asiaisreal7302 2 года назад +30

    I agree with all of this but the guilt of having made these soul ties is not worth it either. If you slip up. Forgive yourself say positive affirmations and have faith in the process that those ties will be broken.

  • @novalove4790
    @novalove4790 2 года назад +20

    I love her analogy with the soda fountain. That is so true. I've always hated entertaining more than one person at a time. You just invest so much energy, that to mix spirits like that causes chaos in your mind.

  • @Luandamagere001
    @Luandamagere001 2 года назад +13

    This is the whole truth, sleeping around is spiritual self defilement, it has severe lifelong consequences that many are not able to manage

  • @lilypadrocks872
    @lilypadrocks872 2 года назад +77

    I remember in my teens a male teacher of mine told us in class never have sex as if it's wearing everyday cloth, Sex is something far more deeper than the physical pleasure we get as a quick pay off, sex is more of a spiritual interaction between two souls, a sought of dialogue that only u and partner can have alone and understand, both urslefs interlinked, but sleeping around can actually disrupt ur inner spiritual core and can be used for sinister purpose, what this lady said is very much right.

    • @lindamazizi3182
      @lindamazizi3182 2 года назад +9

      It's an eye opener....staying pure is essential

  • @JustJohnice
    @JustJohnice 2 года назад +7

    This is why I am remaining celibate until the other partner I chose is healed, cleansed, intune with himself, emotionally mature and sent by the most high! Scary things out here in the world...

  • @shakiramcgee2023
    @shakiramcgee2023 2 года назад +33

    1 year and 5 months for me since I’ve been abstinent and celibate. Glory be to God Now I can think and see clearly I’m not blinded by sex I’m in a healthier mental and spiritual state. I’m able to feel all my emotions head on which helps with my healing process. Ihave my power back.

  • @mystorymysong777
    @mystorymysong777 2 года назад +448

    Sexual intimacy is the easiest way to exchange or siphon energy!!!! She is so dead on point with this. People thought I was crazy when I would say this. I'm so glad that when I learned how important this was I applied it to my life and will continue to do so. Guard your peace and energy at all costs peeps we are worth it!💯💯👊🌟💖 AND the rewards are so much better than that 12 seconds of so called pleasure😁😁😁

    • @kaymsov
      @kaymsov 2 года назад +3

      Animals have sex too. Do they siphon energy. Are we trying to over spiritualone a normal aspect of life.

    • @charitymulindwa5240
      @charitymulindwa5240 2 года назад +5

      @@kaymsov hi. Can an animal bear curses? Can an animal have sex with it's mum or sis or dad or bro. No. It knows better. Imagine having sex with a man or woman who has been in incest?
      people can bear curses. People can bear karma. Animals can't. Animals have sex for recreation not for comfort and oneness. We are not animals. We are highly intelligent beings with super brains. So we know better.

    • @kaymsov
      @kaymsov 2 года назад +1

      @@charitymulindwa5240 exactly we are intelligent so we make deeper meaning for simple animalistic behavior like sex. It's just how we create babies and it's enjoyable. Animals have sex instinctually for procreation and recreation cause it feels good like humans. We are all animals. Logicalise it how you want.

    • @seismicvertigo345
      @seismicvertigo345 2 года назад +1

      @@kaymsov Do animals have precognitive dreams? I don't know but people do. I sure know I do. There seems to be something different about humans where we have access to a sort of information highway that gives us insight into different things. I don't thing there is only necessarily that type of difference between humans and most other creatures. We could have many differences between us. Just my thought

    • @kaymsov
      @kaymsov 2 года назад

      @@seismicvertigo345 interesting. Who knows

  • @Westindiangyal1111
    @Westindiangyal1111 3 месяца назад +1

    She is 100% accurate. Soul ties through sexual interaction is dangerous. Yuh nah fi lay up with everyone and yuh fi be mindful of who yuh ah lay up with.

  • @ambersodyssey
    @ambersodyssey 2 года назад +647

    This is so true, I abstained for 5 years and just got married last December. It was worth the wait 🙏🏽
    Also to anyone else that’s abstained would you say it made you more sensitive / discerning to people spiritually?
    I found I was. I’d either get dreams of insight or warning to leave certain people alone early into knowing them or made aware that they had demons with them and those demons didn’t like me lol

    • @Twitterhelpercreator
      @Twitterhelpercreator 2 года назад +18

      Yes!!!!!

    • @felishapittman2778
      @felishapittman2778 2 года назад +18

      Agreed 1000%

    • @brooklynredbird3298
      @brooklynredbird3298 2 года назад +18

      Yes!! This 100%

    • @nikkinonames5265
      @nikkinonames5265 2 года назад +45

      Most definitely to everything you've stated. I've noticed my visions become more clear and my discernment and how I use to think has changed. I'm also placing myself first and really doing more research before I do anything or meet anyone.

    • @ambersodyssey
      @ambersodyssey 2 года назад +12

      Wow 👏 it’s nice to see I’m not the only one! Do you all have any experiences in particular that stood out to you?

  • @its_just_me3214
    @its_just_me3214 2 года назад +62

    I have been celibate for three months now and I’m trying to cleanse myself, I think my family lineage is curse but I ask god to put on me and end with me so my kids can have a beautiful, healthy, and prosperous life. My ex literally ruined every aspect of my life. I don’t want to transfer that energy, I want to
    Cleanse myself. Please most high help me 🙏🏽

    • @jasmine-fw4yq
      @jasmine-fw4yq 2 года назад +15

      prayer, fasting, and meditating on Bible scripture will help!! just make sure you renounce all your sins and ask for forgiveness for the wickedness that those around you, especially in your family, have partaken in. GOD will surely deliver you. there are also some really good videos that go more in depth about the deliverance process. i suggest minister Kevin LA Ewing’s teachings (this is if you believe in and have already given your life to Christ)

    • @normamurry9083
      @normamurry9083 2 года назад +3

      He will help you, and lead you on the right path, my daughter, just trust him, your YAHUAH.

  • @AmaAgheya
    @AmaAgheya 2 года назад +7

    Don’t cast your pearls before swine. Know your worth. Protect your sacred being.

  • @jelanitarik7423
    @jelanitarik7423 2 года назад +28

    I LOVE her soda analogy!
    Society/entertainment manipulates us, men & women - we give away that which is extremely precious without understanding the spiritual cost!

  • @leishadias4995
    @leishadias4995 2 года назад +115

    This is true. My soul still walks with my ex. I can feel him energetically and most my exes know when I’m going through it. The minute I’m happy they feel and they come in the numbers 🤣 they know because it’s the bond. I don’t have time. I’m saving mine energy for God.

    • @SiriusBMermaid
      @SiriusBMermaid 2 года назад +14

      Take a spiritual bath for 9 days, the waning moon is perfect to cut cords. Pray Psalm 91 while u r making it. You will feel the effects immediately.

    • @leishadias4995
      @leishadias4995 2 года назад +1

      @@SiriusBMermaid hi thank you. What’s a spiritual bath? My aunt says bath in blue but I have idea what that means lol

    • @TaiwoPeterOdeh
      @TaiwoPeterOdeh 2 года назад +21

      Hi Leisha, you can just start by giving your life to Jesus Christ, read His word and fellowship with those who love Him.
      That's the surest route to the deepest of deliverances 💖

    • @testimonytime5981
      @testimonytime5981 2 года назад +3

      That is some crazy shit
      Fast and pray. God is able. He is and always will be the healer

    • @leishadias4995
      @leishadias4995 2 года назад +1

      @@testimonytime5981 facts. Thank you but I’m a guardian. Sent here to heal and guide. I’ll walk with them but I won’t get defeated again. I just wished I picked better lol

  • @yoseflopez5141
    @yoseflopez5141 2 года назад +6

    These videos are so calming. I'd like to imagine this subject matter being mainstream as opposed to the typical garbage we see on the regular.

  • @blossom6235
    @blossom6235 2 года назад +200

    Ever since I've decided to stay celibate, My life took a turn for the best, It's like I've opened a window of blessings, I's been 4 years now and I have to say I feel great, spiritually, mentally and physically, I can truly say now, I never want to have sex with anyone again, I feel free and liberated, feels like a huge weight has been lifted of me.

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 2 года назад +11

      Good for you

    • @Justhavefaith-
      @Justhavefaith- 2 года назад +6

      Amazing

    • @SweetK425
      @SweetK425 2 года назад +13

      I’ve done the same. I feel so much better and I sleep like a baby😊

    • @bettybraswell9238
      @bettybraswell9238 2 года назад +8

      Almost 4 MONTHS for me and I never felt better. So much at peace and nothing but blessings. I love it.

    • @blossom6235
      @blossom6235 2 года назад +3

      Welldone!!! keep on going, God bless you my sister, remember mind over matter, and lots of prayers, you can do this!!

  • @Shediffferent
    @Shediffferent 2 года назад +16

    I pray to brake free from this tie. It is very real and draining. Only the strong will survive. Be very careful who you hang around even just a friend can corrupt your energy field. I dated a suicidal man and became that way.

  • @Tactical_DZ
    @Tactical_DZ 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is profoundly true, thanks for sharing this wisdom. God bless.

  • @charlesgore5827
    @charlesgore5827 2 года назад +156

    As hue mans we are so complex, but don't even begin to know how complex we are. As a group we really do need to take our interactions and discussions to another level, cause this western setting has got us all twisted.

    • @jordanwoodcock9962
      @jordanwoodcock9962 2 года назад +14

      Truth brother. Connection has always has meaning & purpose but now more than ever. The means of communication have become so much easier but yet so further away from truth as distractions have become so much more readily available & accepted. unity is & always has been the answer

    • @nicolataylor536
      @nicolataylor536 2 года назад +9

      @@jordanwoodcock9962 very true..there are so much distraction nowadays..

  • @GoodVibesNewlevel2023
    @GoodVibesNewlevel2023 2 года назад +47

    This is a very insightful message that all young people need to hear before they embark upon these energy draining relationships. Older women and men need to look back over their lives and be honest about the imperfect unions with energy suckers, repent and get spiritual healing.

  • @Ruby-kr6fh
    @Ruby-kr6fh Год назад +3

    "A sexual union...is the sacred union between the masculine and feminine principle in order for both to achieve spiritual enlightenment"

  • @crystalinez831
    @crystalinez831 2 года назад +79

    Yup I ain't been right since. Sex would make me physically sick to my stomach my head would hurt and my energy would be the thoughts of just feeling like I was dirty with this individual. Having sex with the WRONG person for me has made the act just seem so deplorable.

    • @mizzcashmoney1
      @mizzcashmoney1 2 года назад +5

      Physically sick? Wow. Sorry to hear. I'm glad I'm reading these comments and learning from others experiences

    • @prettyllady
      @prettyllady 2 года назад +28

      I feel you on this. The times in my past where I had sex with an sexually immoral man. I’d leave feeling disgusted with myself 😣 Feeling drained, used & not right! I learned real quick that I have to be careful to whom I open myself up too! With my Husband I feel beautiful. I feel good and happy to be alive. The sex just feels so right 🥰 Sex is a spiritual connection and it can be a good connection or a bad one, depending on the Person you’re with. Always Be careful & use discernment in choosing your partners…

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh 2 года назад +3

      AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER, I went #THROUGH THAT WITH MY #EX BOYFRIEND 😇🙏💯

  • @warriorcell9418
    @warriorcell9418 2 года назад +111

    She is speaking truth. I only had learned this in my later year...wish I had known when I was a teen. Good teaching...God blessings cover this woman.

  • @sadeiofficial
    @sadeiofficial 2 года назад +34

    My mom actually shared this awesome video with me! ❤️ She’s always sending me little gems 💎 I’m 21 and have never had a boyfriend ( I share my story on my channel) and this video here has also been so instrumental to my journey. The words spoken here hit my soul a certain way.. I’m listening ❤️ Thank you for teaching us! Aloha 🤙🏾 from Hawai’i 🧘🏽‍♀️🌸🫖🪄

  • @TheResilient1
    @TheResilient1 2 года назад +11

    Thats why it's so important to protect our elders they have a wisdom that we can't get on our own in this day and time

  • @daughterofsarah2793
    @daughterofsarah2793 2 года назад +129

    I am 33 and a virgin. This video has me thinking that is it possible to have never been in love because I never connected with someone on a spiritual level? It was always easy for me to get over a break up. Yes I would be sad for a while but after some time I never regretted dissolving the relationship. I keep thinking with each guy...I will fall in love with him but it never seemed natural and I don't even know how that feels. To me love is what you do despite of how you feel. You may not feel like being inconvenienced but because you value the person you will sacrifice your comforts for the other person. Love is action not words . But I can't help but think that there is a deep emotional connection that one may feel. I don't know what that feels like.

    • @silver_gold9636
      @silver_gold9636 2 года назад +20

      When your time comes and you meet the right person, you will experience this.

    • @seismicvertigo345
      @seismicvertigo345 2 года назад +7

      Pray, turn your spiritual body toward the direction of facing god

    • @missmellz2258
      @missmellz2258 2 года назад +16

      If i may,can i advise you to Pray and Fast Earnestly,for the Person that's suppose to be your Partner(be Brutally Honest & SPECIFIC with GOD & make your Request know...) As long as you are a human being, hunney,You Are L💖VE because your CREATOR IS L💗VE...Forever Blessings,Shalom🙏

    • @kerrymillar1267
      @kerrymillar1267 2 года назад +8

      You sound very wise, I hope you find someone that deserves you.

    • @kbmrigveda5419
      @kbmrigveda5419 2 года назад

      You mental

  • @M.JudgesRemixed
    @M.JudgesRemixed 9 месяцев назад +1

    Yup. She nailed it! And if you are very much in touch with your spiritual essence although you may occupy the material realm you can tune into that other persons energy field before sexual intimacy in order to tell whether their energy is complimentary to yours.

  • @kotic007
    @kotic007 2 года назад +23

    110% I am so tiered of explaining this to other people. It's your vibration with your universe. Trauma that you carry from someone else - the family habits and karma - is the most negative and unpleasant.

    • @louisejones5773
      @louisejones5773 2 года назад +1

      What does "your vibration with your universe" even mean? Please explain that to me

  • @etherealdeal1792
    @etherealdeal1792 2 года назад +32

    Wow I am so grateful for finding this video. I have been celibate for almost two years and my life has been soooo relatively peaceful and my income skyrocketed. Thank you, speaker, and all those commenting their experiences 💜 I had been feeling like I am lame for not casually dating and such but now my path is affirmed. God bless

  • @whitneytiarra8732
    @whitneytiarra8732 2 года назад +57

    I've always felt I've given myself away with my ex partners, and not in a good way. Unfortunately it's taken me over 30 partners later to realize this was something sacred and special meant for someone who shared the same values I do.

    • @rosemaryoneale6694
      @rosemaryoneale6694 2 года назад +1

      Whitney Tiarra, God is a healer, we live and learn hopefully 🙏 Life’s a journey 🙏🙏🙏🤣

    • @SA-iu7xj
      @SA-iu7xj 2 года назад +20

      30 partners, you got to be kidding me 😅

    • @comecorrect1
      @comecorrect1 Год назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @larkireri2012
      @larkireri2012 Год назад +6

      Everyone who has been baptized into Christ is a new Creation! The old is gone and the new is come..

    • @swiftkarma4436
      @swiftkarma4436 Год назад

      ​@@SA-iu7xj🌙

  • @raskofi8406
    @raskofi8406 2 года назад +13

    Let Yah Fiyah 🔥🔥🔥 Bun all Duppy who don’t approve this spiritual message Yah Bless this Queen

  • @TheBookofrhymes
    @TheBookofrhymes 2 года назад +11

    This woman said a mouthful. Very wise.

  • @gemmawilliams1518
    @gemmawilliams1518 2 года назад +4

    I can testify to this revelation. I have decided to wait until the right person comes in my life..🙏