Dear John: Why didn't you call me? (HD CLIP)

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 19 май 2021
  • What’s happening in this Dear John movie clip?
    Back at the house, John and Savannah enjoy a quiet evening together, and are tempted to pick up where they left off years earlier, but do not go through with their feelings.
    Rent or buy Dear John here: apple.co/3pNqGon
    What’s the Dear John movie about?
    John Tyree (Channing Tatum from Step Up and The Eagle), an American Special Forces soldier, takes advantage of a leave in the USA to see his father and go surfing. Savannah Curtis (Amanda Seyfried from Solstice and Mamma Mia!) is a student and they meet by chance on the beach. It's love at first sight between them, and although they belong to two different worlds, an absolute passion brings them together for two weeks. But John has to leave again and, following the September 11 attacks, he is sent to Afghanistan. As for Savannah, she must return to the University. For several months, John and Savannah write heated letters to each other. Savannah, more and more worried about the safety of her beloved, questions herself. As desires and responsibilities become more and more opposed, the couple struggles to maintain their commitments. Then, at the worst possible moment, John receives a letter of rupture without any other explanation. He is destroyed and does not understand what is happening to him. When he returns to America for his father's funeral, he sees Savannah again. This one got married. The young girl has not given in to a whim or to her family's orders: if, in John's absence, she has chosen to marry Tim (Henry Thomas from E.T.), whom she has known since childhood, it is because he is suffering from cancer and someone has to take care of his son Alan, an endearing child who is also autistic. Even though the end credits come before the denouement, we understand that after Tim's death, John and Savannah will be able to love each other and raise Alan together, respecting the memory of his father.
    Credits: © 2010 Dear John, LLC. All Rights Reserved.
    Like this video if you want to see more episodes and tell us what you thought in the comments below.
    Don't forget to turn on notifications to catch our next videos!
    Keep up with us on Facebook!
    Binge Society | / bingesociety
    Binge Society - Action | / binge.society.action
    Binge Society - Comedy | / binge.society.comedy
    Binge Society brings you the best of your favorite movies and TV shows! Here you will find iconic scenes, moments, and lines from all the films, characters, celebrities and actors you love. As movie fans, we give you content we know you will enjoy!
    #dearjohn #channingtatum #amandaseyfried #drama #romance #love #passion #military #movieclips #movie #war #shot #home #enlist
  • РазвлеченияРазвлечения

Комментарии • 728

  • @xxxmochibaby
    @xxxmochibaby 2 года назад +3796

    “You think it was hard for you out there?” While he’s literally at war... lol

    • @jesuschristislord6790
      @jesuschristislord6790 2 года назад +212

      women love to make it about them, about how hard it is for them, no matter what. He could have been sitting there with no arms and legs and she would have been like " I COULDNT, IT WAS TOO HARD FOR ME, CANT YOU SEE THAT???:((

    • @Lucky-zj5wb
      @Lucky-zj5wb 2 года назад +132

      Being without the person you love is hard . How do you not comprehend her showing him that is how much she cares . Lol

    • @daniellax334
      @daniellax334 2 года назад +12

      @@jesuschristislord6790 shut up

    • @samanthastephens9720
      @samanthastephens9720 2 года назад +20

      I grew up in a war and I live in a “peaceful” society now. It’s not much different 🙃

    • @chandlerrose4545
      @chandlerrose4545 2 года назад +37

      It’s not easy for the loved ones back at home (not the same). But usually it’s because of how worried they are not because their life sucked without them for a not that big of a length of time.

  • @BadgunmusicII
    @BadgunmusicII 3 года назад +1781

    I was in the Navy and after talking to many friends I realized that a lot of couples that split due to the hardships of the military life never full realized that just the absence of the other’s presence is enough to start the rift. The moment they stopped growing together, they started growing apart.

    • @mav40420
      @mav40420 2 года назад +78

      If the military wanted you to have a wife or girlfriend they would've issued you one🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @Honorbound43
      @Honorbound43 2 года назад +40

      @@mav40420 will never forget this comment as long as I live

    • @zackfozzy7506
      @zackfozzy7506 2 года назад +9

      @@mav40420 ain't that the goddamn truth

    • @TheRealJohnHooper
      @TheRealJohnHooper 2 года назад

      LOL that is pretty obvious..

    • @johnhernandez4763
      @johnhernandez4763 2 года назад +26

      Im in the navy right now. Although I don’t have a partner. But I’ve seen a lot of people who does and swing to some other coz they’re away. I guess it happens on both ends. The ones waiting back home too. Its the sad reality of life. Truth is, nothing is permanent, eventually we will be apart

  • @Rebeccs777
    @Rebeccs777 2 года назад +2757

    She could've helped sick Tim and his son without actually having to marry him. It's important to have clear, good boundaries for life... Whoever said you needed to marry a sick person in order to help them? Draw the line. Help them but protect your own as well ❤️

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 2 года назад +152

      @Miss Manawaka People don’t always get married for love, that’s actually extremely naive. For a lot of people, it is merely a transaction, a contract. For some, it’s for financial security, for others it’s comfort or company and in this case Tim needed around the clock help for himself and his autistic son. Legally it helped and once he died, he knew she would never leave his son alone. On top of that, in terms of finance, living together & her reputation in a small town, not to mention being an actual mother to a child who already has trouble adjusting to the world. It was actually pretty noble of her to even offer to sacrifice her happiness and put a dying man and autistic child before herself. The fact that you guys are even having this debate proves that.

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 2 года назад +75

      @Miss Manawaka The character in the book and the movie very clearly state that they felt they did the right thing for the Tim and his son & even Tim told John that she sacrificed her happiness & love for him to do so because she has always had a big heart and she didn’t want to leave them without any support, they were essentially alone at the end of the day & required substantial aid and time, so yes it was a noble deed. I can’t even imagine how draining and isolating it must have been for her, but she chose to be a mother to a boy whose own mother abandoned him and essentially a nurse to a dying man whose wife abandoned him. It’s strange that people don’t see how selfless she was here.
      However I do apologize if I unknowingly insulted or offended you as that was never my intention, I was merely trying to explain the character’s arc.

    • @judycharles3463
      @judycharles3463 2 года назад +3

      I agree

    • @zuadao
      @zuadao 2 года назад +47

      @@taraz6786 you do know you can help ppl without having to marry them right? selfless? imagine how that dude feels receiving a letter saying thanks but no thanks being thousands of miles away fighting for his life. this movie makes no sense...

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 2 года назад +17

      @@zuadao She could have helped him temporarily sure, but not permanently and around the clock the way Tim and his child needed. She had to sacrifice in order to be there full time, in order to be a mother and a full time nurse/partner.

  • @acacm12
    @acacm12 2 года назад +886

    Let’s be real here. They spent more time apart then they ever did together. They lived separate lives most of the time and had this huge romantic idea of each other. They knew the minute he committed to more time they wouldn’t see each other. Life happens

    • @jennarosekol9928
      @jennarosekol9928 2 года назад +1

      thnx u.

    • @cathyvipi5313
      @cathyvipi5313 2 года назад +35

      Yes, in the book she and Tim were best friends and went to collage together, so she fall for Tim eventually and leave john. which makes perfect sense than been in love with john forever and marry and old dude.

    • @emmawilliamson3859
      @emmawilliamson3859 Год назад +6

      I literally spent 42 days in person with my fiancé before I moved in with him when he got out of the military! That is not a valid excuse!

    • @a_coleman11
      @a_coleman11 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@cathyvipi5313 i wish it was portrayed in the movie like that and not with the other dude

    • @SouthJerzVillains
      @SouthJerzVillains 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@cathyvipi5313so she was a ho in the books too? Lol

  • @rosierennie5867
    @rosierennie5867 2 года назад +616

    "I had no choice"
    Said EVERY cheater ever

    • @smail8002
      @smail8002 2 года назад +44

      'We always have a choice' Spiderman 3 by Toby

    • @apolonioman5479
      @apolonioman5479 2 года назад +8

      @@smail8002 is that “by Toby” really necessary?!? Lmaoo

    • @smail8002
      @smail8002 2 года назад +18

      @@apolonioman5479 gotta give the man the credit haha

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 2 года назад +26

      She didn’t cheat. She told him she was getting married and then got married, it’s not like she fell in love with Tim. Don’t get me wrong, it was a shitty way to break up with someone but it’s not cheating.

    • @raisamontero6600
      @raisamontero6600 2 года назад +14

      Incorrect, she had 2 choices, get married or not get married , she picked the wrong choice.

  • @ACD1994
    @ACD1994 Год назад +244

    I can't believe Amanda Seyfried hasn't won an Oscar. She's such an incredible actress.

    • @littlefairygirl161
      @littlefairygirl161 Год назад +2

      RIGHT?!!

    • @ll2323
      @ll2323 Год назад +1

      Well there’s probably a 30% chance she already does. 😂 jk

    • @user-ch9nr5rw9s
      @user-ch9nr5rw9s 11 месяцев назад +4

      She is an Oscar nominee though for her performance in David Fincher’s Mank. I remember she was the frontrunner for the 2021 Oscars but eventually lost out to the grandma in Minari. She’ll def have an Oscar one day, she just won an Emmy last award season and swept pretty much all the awards for her limited series The Dropout

    • @clarkwatson3217
      @clarkwatson3217 9 месяцев назад

      🤡🤡🤡

    • @justvid366
      @justvid366 7 месяцев назад

      She just cries all the time and makes big sad eyes.

  • @Dr.0203
    @Dr.0203 2 года назад +813

    This is giving me the “Why did you sleep with her? I was alone and she was right there and I missed you.” vibes.

    • @elenaspano5067
      @elenaspano5067 2 года назад +14

      what is this from?

    • @adilevy64
      @adilevy64 2 года назад

      ?

    • @tatskamaster
      @tatskamaster 2 года назад +124

      @@adilevy64 Her logic and explanation is bad. She married some other guy and left him cold and this is her explanation lol. That she needed to "help him". The man was at war and didn't even know why she did what she did because she didn't even tell him and now she is playing the victim and preaching how hard her life was even though the man had gone trough the same shit emotionally but in a WARZONE.

    • @MrAllysonn
      @MrAllysonn 2 года назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂🙂

    • @MrAllysonn
      @MrAllysonn 2 года назад +5

      @@tatskamaster EXACTLY!!!!!!

  • @JEM471025
    @JEM471025 2 года назад +534

    Her relationship with Tim is creepy. He was friends with her parents. And said in the beginning he saw her like a daughter.

    • @smail8002
      @smail8002 2 года назад +31

      I guess he was on 'sweet home Alabama' mode.

    • @gogogadgetabby
      @gogogadgetabby 2 года назад +60

      It's true that's why I don't really feel bad for him. Like he just wanted someone to care for Alan and used a young girl who felt bad for him.

    • @luna8327
      @luna8327 2 года назад +19

      I read the book but in there tim was her friend and he was young

    • @viprz5444
      @viprz5444 2 года назад +9

      @@luna8327 and I’m the book Allan was his brother as well I believe right?

    • @m.b.1111
      @m.b.1111 2 года назад +3

      Same feeling I had when I read the book

  • @luigi2018
    @luigi2018 2 года назад +883

    She used the reverse psychology and blamed him and made it about her

    • @BrikayNichole
      @BrikayNichole 2 года назад +79

      🗣gaslighting

    • @johnhernandez4763
      @johnhernandez4763 2 года назад +56

      Haha women r so good at this. Happened to me before too

    • @luigi2018
      @luigi2018 2 года назад +1

      @@johnhernandez4763 same here 😂

    • @delpicsla65
      @delpicsla65 2 года назад +17

      @@johnhernandez4763 i want to say that’s sexist but it’s not, lol.

    • @soybeans0869
      @soybeans0869 2 года назад +4

      By the end of the day.. it will be and will always be the man's f**king fault 😂 the wonders

  • @amandadaniela
    @amandadaniela 2 года назад +284

    oh to this day this movie makes me so angry, she could’ve clearly helped that guy without marrying him

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 2 года назад +1

      No she couldn’t, in terms of financial help and Alan needing someone there full time to be his mother and also because of his autism, it was the expedient way.

    • @1pixxiy
      @1pixxiy 2 года назад +7

      @@taraz6786 girl no she didn’t need to marry him and she’s not obligated to be Allan’s mom , she could’ve been his guardian

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 2 года назад +6

      @@1pixxiy He needed a mother, not a guardian and she loved him and so she did that for him at the expense of herself. Real love is sacrifice and she truly loved Alan and even Tim in a way, but more in the sense of family. He’s been there her whole life and so she felt like she owed him for taking care of her too.

    • @1pixxiy
      @1pixxiy 2 года назад +14

      @@taraz6786 bro it’s not even her problem if he needed a mother😭 and bro she doesn’t need to be his mother if she really did care for him? plus that tim guy is just weird.. he said she was like a daughter to him and ended up falling in love with her.. u don’t see nothing weird there 💀

    • @1pixxiy
      @1pixxiy 2 года назад +8

      @@taraz6786 and wtf u don’t owe marriage to anyone tf is wrong with you

  • @embracinglady-jess3080
    @embracinglady-jess3080 2 года назад +109

    At this point we need a dear john 2...... Because i didn't get no closure 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @michaeltrinh4394
    @michaeltrinh4394 Год назад +17

    "I saved every single one of your letters."
    "I burned yours."

  • @tinniewinnie3681
    @tinniewinnie3681 10 месяцев назад +40

    2023 and I'm still crying. I have read the book itself and it was a totally different experience reading THAT letter

  • @morganwalker4809
    @morganwalker4809 2 года назад +4

    I need to rewatch ,I don't remember it all like this.

  • @yanniyangq
    @yanniyangq 2 года назад +161

    "Why didn't you write to me?" The line from Notebook, and a better love story.

    • @Anonymous-gt1eq
      @Anonymous-gt1eq Год назад +2

      I just commented that right now...before i scrolled to see if anyone else noticed the similarities of the 2 lines by movies made by the same producer lol
      Good observation 😂👍
      I loved the movie " The notebook" too..all movies by Nicholas Sparks which I've seen, I've loved.
      "The lucky one" too

    • @yanniyangq
      @yanniyangq Год назад +1

      @@Anonymous-gt1eq I have not seen the lucky one. Thanks for sharing!

    • @Anonymous-gt1eq
      @Anonymous-gt1eq Год назад +1

      @@yanniyangq It is very romantic and also sad and painful to watch. The lucky one

    • @alyssawoodman
      @alyssawoodman Год назад +1

      "I wrote you everyday for a year" ❤

    • @janderson947
      @janderson947 9 месяцев назад

      @@yanniyangqhonestly the book is similar but my favorite movies bynicholas sparks:the notebook(movies is better imo)nights in rodanthe,the best of me ,the lucky one ,a walk to remember(movie is better)

  • @desianaputriansyah665
    @desianaputriansyah665 2 года назад +435

    this scene screams i almost do by taylor swift so much and i love it

    • @livelikecactus3732
      @livelikecactus3732 2 года назад +6

      yeah that song plays in my head when i watch this

    • @troydixon3396
      @troydixon3396 2 года назад +1

      I will watch this again fareal I will find time and sit back to watch this

    • @shindanu
      @shindanu 2 года назад +2

      She got that song and dear John from this movie.

    • @daily_madisonbeer
      @daily_madisonbeer Год назад

      @@shindanu no lmao “dear john” is about the singer john mayer that she dated for a while

    • @MsVamPireChic
      @MsVamPireChic Год назад +1

      @@daily_madisonbeer The song is about John Mayer, but Dear John letters are real break-up letters that women send to men in the army. It was a clever play on words 😅

  • @myshadowstalksme
    @myshadowstalksme 2 года назад +6

    She’s so beautiful

  • @EpicMicky300
    @EpicMicky300 2 года назад +867

    She's over there playing the victim: "you think every day wasn't a marathon for me without you?"
    Does that not go double for him? If the distance was gonna be that difficult, why didn't she break up with him before he left?
    Selfish girl.

    • @CpTn_QwRk
      @CpTn_QwRk 2 года назад +12

      Exactly.

    • @something.something189
      @something.something189 2 года назад +67

      My god I hated Savannah so much. I'm glad so many people agree because I read this book as a teenager and even then I couldn't tolerate her self-righteous ass. I don't know if she was a projection of someone or something, but she was written to be easily despised.

    • @danekuhn8350
      @danekuhn8350 2 года назад

      F

    • @TheRumCZ
      @TheRumCZ 2 года назад +5

      Man he was gone for the same time, he was without his love just like her and he was also on fucking war, losing mates, getting shot and so one.. I would honestly just stand up, punch her in the face and leave without a word maybe expect saying: "Bitch."

    • @Soundwave32791
      @Soundwave32791 2 года назад +19

      @@TheRumCZ Why would you punch a woman under any circumstances? Man on woman violence is NEVER acceptable! This is just a fucking movie for christ's sakes!

  • @freddie1989
    @freddie1989 2 года назад +27

    why didn’t you call me back? and i’ll be like ..why are you so obsessed with me? -regina george

  • @ashleyhaley7495
    @ashleyhaley7495 Год назад +26

    Love this movie!!!💖

  • @radiobaked
    @radiobaked 3 года назад +388

    who let him walk out of costuming with that upside-down sergeant rank?

    • @jeffinknoxville
      @jeffinknoxville 3 года назад +12

      First thing I noticed. Stupid

    • @BadgunmusicII
      @BadgunmusicII 3 года назад +61

      Certain laws don’t allow for people to wear the actual uniform. Something as small as just flipping the patch makes it legal.

    • @radiobaked
      @radiobaked 3 года назад +9

      @@BadgunmusicII funny enough, a 1SG told me this before (for a particularly colorful reason), so you aren't the first person I've heard make that claim, but that's actually not true. Stolen Valor laws do exist, but they don't apply to actors or even regular schmoes walking around in broad daylight, pretending to be medal of honor winners. He'd have to be committing fraud (or some other crime where the uniform played a role) for those laws to apply.

    • @beekarinsaan
      @beekarinsaan 2 года назад

      @@BadgunmusicII that's odd. That'll make people point out the mistake and call it stupidity like in this case. 🤣😂

    • @michaelcasillas490
      @michaelcasillas490 2 года назад

      First fucking thing dude how did he pass the board looking so dicked up?

  • @kinsellawasrobbed7515
    @kinsellawasrobbed7515 Год назад

    Now I wanna watch this movie again

  • @xxxmochibaby
    @xxxmochibaby 2 года назад +59

    Tim is the real villain in this story

    • @raisamontero6600
      @raisamontero6600 2 года назад +13

      I totally agreed, as I said, he was a manipulative bastard.

    • @SouthJerzVillains
      @SouthJerzVillains 10 месяцев назад +6

      Na Savannah the ho is the real villain let’s be honest

    • @xxxmochibaby
      @xxxmochibaby 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@SouthJerzVillains she’s not a hoe for helping a dying man with his autistic son… lol are you ok?

    • @swat1710
      @swat1710 4 дня назад

      ​@@xxxmochibaby
      'Helping'? 😂

    • @xxxmochibaby
      @xxxmochibaby 3 дня назад

      @@swat1710 yes helping did you even watch the movie?

  • @dingogoldenretriever5449
    @dingogoldenretriever5449 2 года назад +36

    I love this movie so much,john loves her but did the right thing moving away from savannah,because it's really hard to forget even if you forgive,it's keeps on coming back...😆still trying my best to ignore the past

  • @zamorasings8280
    @zamorasings8280 Год назад +17

    Never be afraid to try and find love
    Be happy that you gave it a shot
    Some people never try at all

  • @mileciasims7029
    @mileciasims7029 2 года назад

    I cried on this movie

  • @johnhernandez4763
    @johnhernandez4763 2 года назад +351

    This story is about a girl who got bored while waiting for her boyfriend.

    • @randommm7768
      @randommm7768 2 года назад +1

      Yes its just wasted my time.

    • @DerekMcAdam2023
      @DerekMcAdam2023 2 года назад +5

      @@randommm7768 didn't you read the book before? Even though married another guy she still love John read the book to make it clear

    • @the_spotted_quacker
      @the_spotted_quacker 2 года назад +9

      @@DerekMcAdam2023 you shouldn't have to read a book to know. The movie should be able to provide all the context needed and if it doesnt that's a failure on the movies part.

    • @cathyvipi5313
      @cathyvipi5313 2 года назад

      @@the_spotted_quacker The movie is total crap compared to the Book. doesn't even have the same ending xD

    • @cathyvipi5313
      @cathyvipi5313 2 года назад +1

      @@the_spotted_quacker i think the book is brutal about love and not a happy ending, and the director wanted a happy ending thats why she marry Tim for pitty and not for love.

  • @margaretstepanis7607
    @margaretstepanis7607 2 года назад +7

    I’d regret it forever ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @merrynichols1514
    @merrynichols1514 6 месяцев назад

    They have no idea what the one waiting is going thru? It's a war within and being alone for long amounts of time really stinks!!!
    Life goes on!!!

  • @eessa1727
    @eessa1727 Год назад

    .I love keep coming to these scenes of Dear Jhon❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jazmynwillis4097
    @jazmynwillis4097 2 года назад +260

    I can see where she is coming from, yes she’s still in the wrong… but I do understand how hard it was for her to wait for him. Remember it’s not like he was across the country just sitting on the beach, he was at WAR. That’s scary asf. Thinking is he coming home or not, is he alive. And that sudden urge to see him but you can’t, and then the letters that were probably sent months after another. So I get how hard it might’ve been for her, but dude stayed and he loved you and through everything, he deserved a call or a letter written back to at least talk about it. And he’s at war. He’s dealing with enough but he stayed for you because he loves you. I can see why people are mad, because it does seem like she’s gaslighting him. But I can see her side even if she’s in the wrong I can still see why it was hard for her.

    • @kristir1262
      @kristir1262 Год назад +8

      Thank you. I never understood her back then. I think I'm more sympathetic now 🤷🏻‍♀️. Life ... will teach you the lesson you look down on 😂

    • @na-dk9vm
      @na-dk9vm Год назад

      Only whores cheat

    • @robertfortier2136
      @robertfortier2136 Год назад +13

      He's a simp. Plain and simple. She wasn't even willing to be loyal and true while he was away fighting in a war. What makes John think that she will be loyal and true in peace time on the home front? She's for the streets.

    • @badillanadia2365
      @badillanadia2365 Год назад

      Fuel ain't my rifampin

    • @zablak689
      @zablak689 11 месяцев назад +3

      Trying to justify marrying another dude while boyfriend's away must be hard...so stop trying...everyone understand how cheaters operates...your understanding of them don't justify their actions.

  • @Dira091998
    @Dira091998 2 года назад +26

    This scene destroys me everytime 💔😭

    • @geoffosborn5642
      @geoffosborn5642 2 года назад

      Me too seeing his rank upside down really really upsets me

  • @haileyburnette137
    @haileyburnette137 2 года назад +30

    my mom absolutely hated when my dad would leave on tour. she was proud of him, but scared every. single. day.

    • @ilikeitslowed3218
      @ilikeitslowed3218 2 года назад +7

      On tour girl who is yo daddy

    • @jeanrehani4774
      @jeanrehani4774 2 года назад +7

      ​@@ilikeitslowed3218 Tour is a military term, it is in reference to a period of time spent in hostile territory, so soldiers who were sent to Iraq two separate times would say they've done two tours in Iraq.

    • @tatskamaster
      @tatskamaster 2 года назад +7

      @@ilikeitslowed3218 Not that kind of tour lmao! Bless your heart

    • @zibelebruciebenubrucieb8850
      @zibelebruciebenubrucieb8850 2 года назад

      Your father is a singer?

    • @williamhermann6635
      @williamhermann6635 2 месяца назад

      But did she leave him for some creepy old sick guy?

  • @justinmelton9178
    @justinmelton9178 2 года назад +22

    The shoulder boards are backwards and it’s mind numbing!

    • @chrisg8767
      @chrisg8767 2 года назад

      Came here to say this. My brain melted just at the thumbnail.

    • @cs-zr9xy
      @cs-zr9xy 2 года назад +1

      He is legally aren’t allowed to wear them correctly. Flipping them makes it legal

  • @brendanstreet6604
    @brendanstreet6604 2 года назад +40

    If you look closely you’ll see the rank on his shoulder boards goes from upside down to right side up. Just thought I’d throw that out there

  • @zaheerkhan1941
    @zaheerkhan1941 Год назад

    I wud never walk that path again. What’s done is done

  • @pinkyamerlli
    @pinkyamerlli 10 месяцев назад

    i love this movie soo much. just likenthe vow

  • @kme321
    @kme321 8 месяцев назад +7

    She sounds like she made excuses for why she left him, yet again the breakup was foreshadowed. Great movie

  • @johnwilliams3408
    @johnwilliams3408 2 года назад +5

    There is always a Jody.

  • @Youholdkeys1
    @Youholdkeys1 Год назад +1

    Ya I know that feeling

  • @judycharles3463
    @judycharles3463 2 года назад +164

    This girl was trifling. How are you going to send your boyfriend off to war? Then, Mary the guy that he was jealous of you being with? She made it sound like she was forced to marry that dude. It’s like, sis, nobody told you to marry him. You could have helped out with the son and his dad without having to marry him. Like I said in the beginning, she was trifling.

    • @fourreading4131
      @fourreading4131 2 года назад +20

      Savanah had a big heart and John knew it to the very first time they met. People should read the book to understand this clearly. Both her parents died while John was away and it was Tim who was with her the whole time. They were there for each other. She did not cheat or anything like that as some comments say. She slowly fell in love with Tim which explains her letters becoming lesser as time went by. She told John all this in her letters. They loved each other clearly but life happens and it steers us away into unexpected directions. Also at the end of the book, John wanted to know if she still loves him so he went to see for the last time if she ever went out to watch the full moon like they used to, as a symbolic way of saying they love and think of each other, and she went outside to watch the full moon. And it was enough for John to know she loves him still.
      She is not the villain here. Nobody is. Thats how good this story is. Nobody's a villain. It's just that life happens.

    • @harisrajput4434
      @harisrajput4434 Год назад

      @@fourreading4131 bullshit

    • @SupernaturalLove100
      @SupernaturalLove100 11 месяцев назад +1

      Have you ever heard of financial security in marriage and being given the authority to decide someone’s medical decisions when they’re sick like…her husband was? Hello? 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @SupernaturalLove100
      @SupernaturalLove100 11 месяцев назад

      @@fourreading4131🎯🎯

    • @yusufraage8554
      @yusufraage8554 11 месяцев назад

      @@fourreading4131 reading is hard that is why people enjoy movies more.

  • @MELON_GUY256
    @MELON_GUY256 2 месяца назад

    Very good story. Inspiring. May Gid bless your love?

  • @princenico1297
    @princenico1297 2 года назад +193

    She had good intentions about helpping her friend with his child but why did she married him? it is inevitable to side with John, she was too selfish

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 2 года назад +9

      How is it selfish to sacrifice your own happiness and marry a dying man you don’t love in order to take care of him in his final days and to be a mother to his autistic child who would be alone in the world once his father dies. 🤔

    • @jamesbond2789
      @jamesbond2789 2 года назад

      @@taraz6786 Thats just BS and you know it

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 2 года назад +1

      @@jamesbond2789 Nope it’s literally what happened. 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @harry-cj6wu
      @harry-cj6wu 2 года назад +11

      @@taraz6786 The selfish part is cheating and marrying Tim. She didn't have to do that, the main reason she did it was because she felt lonely and impatient. Those are selfish qualities.

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 2 года назад +3

      @@harry-cj6wu Nope. She could have done countless other things to stave off being impatient and lonely. She was a rich, white & beautiful woman, she could have had her pick of anyone, it’s not like men weren’t vying for her attention, hell she could have just lived life free of any obligations & gone traveling or something. The point is, she had innumerable paths to walk down and yet chose to be tied down to a terminally ill patient who has no family and cannot afford round the clock care and an autistic child who undoubtedly requires a lot more attention and time, after his own mother abandoned him. The life she chose is difficult and draining and she could have had an easy life, so her actions actually take character and heart. She saw Tim deteriorating and decided to do the right thing because her conscience guided her to it, not all of us can say we would be that selfless.

  • @iamrockness
    @iamrockness 2 года назад +32

    Every word that came out of her mouth was absolute, pure garbage.
    -Deflecting
    -Blaming
    -Self victimizing
    -rationalizing her terrible behavior
    -contradicting her own statements
    -manipulation by crying
    -going into hysterics over being calmly asked to provide a Non-BS answer
    Pure and simple, she took absolutely ZERO accountability for her actions.
    If anything, my mannz dodged a huge bullet when she left his life. What a train wreck of a girl.

    • @williamhermann6635
      @williamhermann6635 2 месяца назад

      Women cry a lot about how men dont validate their feelings. All the dude wanted was for her to validate his feelings and acknowledge she was the cause of his heartbreak so he could get closure. She couldnt even give him that much. Instead, she poured salt in the wound by blaming him and making herself out to be the victim.

  • @taifoorbaloch
    @taifoorbaloch Год назад

    Essence🌹 - you never called.

  • @rahulmore9624
    @rahulmore9624 Год назад +2

    She broke him in pieces 💔

  • @6-cats
    @6-cats 2 года назад +68

    "hearing your voice would have change my mind" WtF! Gurl!! There's no excuse for cheating and ghosting your lover .. manipulative woman

  • @maryn-zs6ly
    @maryn-zs6ly 11 месяцев назад +1

    I wish I could just call him right now to hear his voice. Better yet I wish he’d just call me. We could just be ourselves and everything would be ok

  • @karaElise330
    @karaElise330 2 года назад +30

    I really think my whole family set me up to lose the best thing that ever happened to me

    • @laOrzy
      @laOrzy 2 года назад

      With that attitude yes. You always have a choice for your own actions and destiny, own them and you’ll have control over your life

  • @dave2808
    @dave2808 2 года назад +76

    I remember back in high school, was trying to join the military and my buddy was talking about joining up too. He tells the girl he was with about wanting to join but she says I may not stay loyal. Thinking back, I don’t think he was serious about it, the girls we were going after just weren’t shit, and honestly fuck those years. Gives me a good laugh though thinking about that stuff

    • @tatskamaster
      @tatskamaster 2 года назад +16

      Lmao well hey at least she was honest about it. Better that way than not telling him and cheating anyway.

  • @beccamarie9782
    @beccamarie9782 2 года назад

    Yes, you did have a choice, and you chose!

  • @VLeaks807
    @VLeaks807 3 года назад +2

    😍😍😘lovely

  • @bobbymcdaniel6305
    @bobbymcdaniel6305 Год назад +1

    I don't think she has ever been more beautiful than in this movie. Tatum did a good job too. She is so naturally beautiful reminds me of my ex wife.

  • @Soundwave32791
    @Soundwave32791 2 года назад +39

    Amanda Seyfried's acting is great in this scene though.

  • @MD-jw6lj
    @MD-jw6lj Год назад +3

    Girl, you had a choice

  • @MrMegaTruong
    @MrMegaTruong 2 года назад +1

    His rank is on BACKWARDS at the beginning, then corrected at the end LOL

  • @CH-zc8qx
    @CH-zc8qx Год назад +60

    "You think it was tough out there?" Woman, he was literally at war, busy getting shot at and trying not to get blown up. And he had to live without her too. I'm a woman myself and I understand that sometimes you can't help how you feel. Feelings fade with time and distance. It's unfair but that's how it is. Instead, she makes it about her, blaming him for not understanding and shit. She gets no sympathy from me the moment she started gaslighting him

    • @lalboimanlun1230
      @lalboimanlun1230 6 месяцев назад +1

      Preach ma'am. She didn't even say a single thing about his suffering. He goes through the same shit and on top of that a heartbreak without an explanation and she left him for someone else while despite his hardship he stayed loyal to her.

  • @HoChiMin88
    @HoChiMin88 2 года назад

    This girl crazy

  • @amphibious3381
    @amphibious3381 2 года назад +95

    This is very much like my ex when I did my four years with the marines. She cheats on me and plays the victim. But in my case, she puts out false word that I was the toxic one. Shit ain’t fair but that was 7 years ago. I’ve never put any effort to clear my name. I just deleted my Facebook and moved on. Out of my whole high school graduation class of 2011, I hang out with only one friend on a weekly basis like he’s my brother because he took the initiative to hear my side of the story. No one else.

    • @hdks7228
      @hdks7228 2 года назад +10

      Hey man sorry to hear that, your friend is a keeper. Hope youre doing well

    • @Josh_Exitcamper
      @Josh_Exitcamper 2 года назад +3

      Thank you for your service, Sir.

    • @weilandalt
      @weilandalt 2 года назад +1

      Very sorry to hear that. You deserve better

    • @rrrrrr1283
      @rrrrrr1283 2 года назад +1

      Thanks for your Service Sir 🙏

    • @kyleadriannevalledor9333
      @kyleadriannevalledor9333 2 года назад

      🥺

  • @user-de2yq8bj9m
    @user-de2yq8bj9m Месяц назад

    ❤❤good

  • @CattDodgingCars89
    @CattDodgingCars89 2 года назад +91

    Yea...I don't feel sorry for you, you had no choice but to have an affair? My husband was deployed both when we were dating and after we got married -it's really hard but if you love someone you just have to choose to turn a blind eye to other men/women.

    • @mizibelle
      @mizibelle 2 года назад +21

      Err she didn’t have an affair, you clearly haven’t watched the movie

    • @johnhernandez4763
      @johnhernandez4763 2 года назад

      We will never know the truth, but I hope what u say is real

    • @sierra2687
      @sierra2687 2 года назад +2

      she didn’t have an affair. she married the guy legally to have custody of the son and to take care of him but the marriage was in name only not physical/romantic

  • @seiya.lifestyle
    @seiya.lifestyle Год назад +2

    She: “I had no choice”
    Audience: (……!?)

  • @Sphie9
    @Sphie9 3 месяца назад +2

    Siempre voy a decir que Savanna se equivocó al casarse con Tim. Ella dijo que 'no tenía opción'; pero hay muchas formas de ayudar a una persona enferma y apoyarla sin que sea necesario un matrimonio.
    Ella no lo amaba, y aún así se casó.
    Jhon se merecía algo mejor, algo mucho mejor.
    Él jamás le hubiera hecho lo mismo a ella si hubiese sido al revés.
    Esperaba mucho más de ella, la verdad.

  • @zoickn
    @zoickn Год назад +2

    I once had a love like this. But it was a betrayed love and I walk away.

  • @jackhammer078jack4
    @jackhammer078jack4 2 года назад +2

    Why did you not call me about my cars 🚗 extended warranty 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @rooh5825
    @rooh5825 2 года назад

    LOL his rank is UPSIDE DOWN, it's so horrible that it cannot be unseen... YIKES!

  • @victormaldonado7969
    @victormaldonado7969 2 месяца назад

    Upside down rank is hilarious

  • @truewomanamerican7559
    @truewomanamerican7559 2 года назад +4

    I read the book 📖 😃 🙂

    • @Mz23vehrzed
      @Mz23vehrzed 2 года назад

      I did too and it was sooooooo different with how she ended up with Tim. I don't remember alan being in the movie but in the book only

    • @judycharles3463
      @judycharles3463 2 года назад

      Me too. And, watch the movie. I remember when my sister watch the movie and how angry she was at this scene.

  • @Tonedubz
    @Tonedubz Год назад

    Bro had his ranks on upside down

  • @miguel141980
    @miguel141980 Год назад +8

    She couldn't just help the guy and not marry him while her boyfriend was trying to live another day while at war. Oh yeah, that was really hard for her!

  • @ariannajohnson2917
    @ariannajohnson2917 2 года назад +5

    She came a long way from mean girls

  • @rupenbhujel6601
    @rupenbhujel6601 2 года назад +178

    Actually she cheated on him ...
    Ending was shit as they ended up together Which her character doesn't deserve.
    Movie teaches us true love doesn't exist in long distance relationship.

    • @hct7168
      @hct7168 2 года назад +54

      yeah.. her friend was sick, so what... they had to get married so she could help (?)... some bullshit right there.

    • @jaikohaal
      @jaikohaal 2 года назад +23

      Lol same with The Notebook… she cheats on her man because her “the one” came back. These stories are a poor excuse.

    • @something.something189
      @something.something189 2 года назад +35

      So many of Nicholas Sparks's novels glorify infidelity....it was seen in Notebook, Dear John, The choice...it's all brushed aside for romantic escapism and melodrama. The person is never held accountable for their actions. His books are actually misery porn and nothing else.

    • @rupenbhujel6601
      @rupenbhujel6601 2 года назад +6

      @@something.something189 Choice was worst movie i have ever watch

    • @Soundwave32791
      @Soundwave32791 2 года назад +1

      Has anyone thought about rewriting this movie if Savannah actually had waited for John?

  • @ZekeMagnum
    @ZekeMagnum 2 года назад +5

    Lmao how she makes it about her

    • @taraz6786
      @taraz6786 2 года назад

      She doesn’t. She did it to help Tim and Alan, it was the only way to keep an autistic kid like Alan out of the system because he wouldn’t have survived it, not to mention be a mother to him while his own mother abandoned him. She also helped Tim all the way through to his death.

  • @MasterBetty69
    @MasterBetty69 2 года назад

    We always have a choice.

  • @ivannamartyn9863
    @ivannamartyn9863 2 года назад

    Because i afraid, that you will shout to me, because...

  • @xAlphaBxtch
    @xAlphaBxtch 2 года назад +2

    It’s like I have ESPN or something

  • @schmeelkie075_gaming
    @schmeelkie075_gaming Год назад +3

    She had a choice

  • @DBragg2124
    @DBragg2124 9 месяцев назад

    This movie will forever infuriate me. As a vet, I saw this happen to too many people.

  • @sala7559
    @sala7559 4 месяца назад

    I’m pretty sure she called him “my precious.”

  • @its.Andy1
    @its.Andy1 2 года назад +11

    This part really grinded my gears because at first the way he wore that uniform it was correct. But at this scene when you look at the rank on his shoulder, it’s clearly upside down🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @IceMikeOfficial
      @IceMikeOfficial 2 года назад

      It’s funny because at 2:31 it’s wrong and then the camera angle changes and it’s back to normal

    • @SouthJerzVillains
      @SouthJerzVillains 10 месяцев назад +1

      Who cares lmao

  • @dominicestrada1684
    @dominicestrada1684 6 месяцев назад

    “You thought it was tough out there”… dude literally got shot twice 😂

  • @Blackcat21943
    @Blackcat21943 2 года назад +1

    Awe 2:09 he understands and gives her a hug

    • @nigel_ninja
      @nigel_ninja 2 года назад +2

      Thats the hallmark of a real man. Someone who can muster the strength to be gentle and selfless, even in the face of unspeakable pain.

  • @imegg5898
    @imegg5898 6 месяцев назад

    Permission to have this on my talent night please 🙏✨

  • @trzgvx
    @trzgvx 2 года назад +1

    Dear John:
    -My name is JEFF

  • @codiespencer4314
    @codiespencer4314 Год назад +2

    When he went back he had the choice to reenlist for another term or to return home he chose to because he was doing it for his country I understand that but when your time is up go home be with the ones you love you only get true love once in your life so don't let it fade away

  • @michaelbautista9625
    @michaelbautista9625 2 года назад +2

    Because you havent lap dance me!

  • @user-hq7qo7su8i
    @user-hq7qo7su8i 4 месяца назад

    Esse tbm é fofo mas é uó. Casasse logo com ela e ficasse com ela, era muito melhor❤

  • @joaoalmeida3672
    @joaoalmeida3672 3 года назад +3

    💋❤️👍

  • @whoknows8580
    @whoknows8580 2 года назад

    " i had no choise " she said

    • @fourreading4131
      @fourreading4131 2 года назад

      Savanah had a big heart and John knew it to the very first time they met. People should read the book to understand this clearly. Both her parents died while John was away and it was Tim who was with her the whole time. They were there for each other. She did not cheat or anything like that as some comments say. She slowly fell in love with Tim which explains her letters becoming lesser as time went by. She told John all this in her letters. They loved each other clearly but life happens and it steers us away into unexpected directions. Also at the end of the book, John wanted to know if she still loves him so he went to see for the last time if she ever went out to watch the full moon like they used to, as a symbolic way of saying they love and think of each other, and she went outside to watch the full moon. And it was enough for John to know she loves him still.
      She is not the villain here. Nobody is. Thats how good this story is. Nobody's a villain. It's just that life happens.

  • @jonathantrauner3742
    @jonathantrauner3742 2 года назад +1

    Amanda Seyfried is glorious

    • @julesvan2174
      @julesvan2174 2 года назад

      Yeah but not that Savannah Curtis 😂

  • @chrisvargas8281
    @chrisvargas8281 2 года назад +1

    That rank is upside down man! I had that rank in the army.

    • @jennifertejeda5037
      @jennifertejeda5037 2 года назад

      I saw that years back too. Thank you for your service!

  • @jackhammer078jack4
    @jackhammer078jack4 2 года назад

    His response should: My name is Jeff…

  • @sarakhadi9646
    @sarakhadi9646 2 года назад

    Why don't you call me ?

  • @mikekillagreen9432
    @mikekillagreen9432 Год назад

    Dear John >The Notebook.

  • @mariaanikina6843
    @mariaanikina6843 Год назад

    He should have called himself))).

  • @carloscallejasdominguez4497
    @carloscallejasdominguez4497 2 года назад +116

    The movie should have been called How to be a Simp.

    • @Zyzz710
      @Zyzz710 2 года назад

      lmao back then it was a duty to be one

    • @austinpark2161
      @austinpark2161 2 года назад +7

      @@Zyzz710 lmaooo and now simpin is for fools, my guy, don’t be a fool

    • @sam61480
      @sam61480 2 года назад +7

      If you use the word simp you’re a virgin

    • @Zyzz710
      @Zyzz710 2 года назад +1

      @@sam61480 yeah 99% of the times

    • @alvinchoong1558
      @alvinchoong1558 2 года назад +4

      @@sam61480 erm I call simps out all the time but I'm no virgin. Geez I wonder which category I belonged

  • @O.G.BFrmDaWstSd
    @O.G.BFrmDaWstSd Год назад

    Great movie but it makes me REALLY mad every single time. And Amanda is Hard to get mad at but this movie DOES IT.

  • @williamdolchan8146
    @williamdolchan8146 2 года назад

    His rank upside down

  • @brandonpilate7544
    @brandonpilate7544 2 года назад

    Yea my ex, better known as the one that got away, did me like this.. just stopped talking to me and didnt even have the courtesy to just let me tell her I love her. After almost four years, I still love her and always will. But I know I could never ever let her explain why she speak to me.. crazy how people just can turn off a switch... Whatever...

    • @stonergee420
      @stonergee420 8 месяцев назад

      Same here but this was 12 yrs ago, i ran into her in Walmart the other day but she couldn’t recognize me I lost weight gain 💪🏽 but for her she’s a single mother of 4 ready to mingle 🥴

  • @sitcomchristian6886
    @sitcomchristian6886 2 года назад +6

    Her "I had no choice"
    Him "I know"
    Me "WHAT"