That’s great, and I’m sure he appreciates it. But it isn’t just about love. It’s also about respect. Consideration. John *promised* her one more year and he was out. Then he signed up for more time *without any discussion or thought to the promise he made.* When you are planning a future with someone, they’re supposed to get a vote or at the very least a heads up. Not be told after the fact and just expected to deal with the consequences of a decision they had no choice in and we’re not taken into consideration during.
Regardless of what anyone says Nicole, you're a great woman for that alone, and a rare one I may add, your husband is a lucky man and I aswell as many other men would kill for one like you god bless you and your husband
People are too hard on Savannah. Two years is a long time and she has a right to a loving relationship the way she envisions it. Love is not being miserable waiting for someone to come home.
Love is always worth waiting for otherwise it isn't love, but convenience. I know of stories of people whose relationships were broken apart because the woman wasn't willing to wait for her deployed boyfriend to return. Guess what, the woman was still single and had failed relationships in the past. The boyfriend came back and he was able to connect with another woman of greater patience. I wonder who ended up on top in the end of those runs. Still, if a woman can't wait then she has to move on and accept the consequences of her choices even if in the end she forfeited a good man. No excuses.
@@doctorfate6414 great speech! Amazing! I would love to speak with you about alot of things. Seems like you will help me get closure with your knowledge. How can I get a hold of you?
Love is always worth the wait. I can say that from personal experience seeing as I am actually waiting on someone for 2 years(17 months left) if you truly love someone you will never give up on them.
@@FernandoMartinez-pv1id stop listening to propaganda and start listening to citizens there. American soldiers literally raped the women, why do you lot like to disregard these facts coming from the victims themself?
@@me-oh9du I did stop listening to Propoganda like the one you're spouting. Funny enough you'll defend anything our enemies do but if even 1-100 of our Soldiers do anything wrong, that speaks for the Millions that didn't. "America is this Evil Empire" says all of Europe, yet when Russia starts making a move who does everyone turn to for free help? Sweden and Finland can fuck off if they think they deserve to be in NATO. I assume you support it being disbanded since America is nothing but pure evil in your eyes and the Taliban, Vietcong, North Koreans, and Iraqis are justified every time. Name 1 Empire in History that would allow Canada, Mexico and Basically all of Europe to exist when we have the means to conquer them all in an afternoon but instead protect them when they aren't even paying their fair share.
They are both at fault in this movie. Why did John sign up for the army again without consulting with her first? I personally found that pretty selfish too.
This is my cousin, he enlisted and was told his team would be deployed. 3 years and nothing than he decided to get married and his team got deployed he got mad. He really wanted to go… I think this is way he always bowling and out all night. I feel for his wife, my cousin never had motivation his whole life, I helped him get is diver license, I went to his house everyday when he locked himself in his room for a week one time I tried talking to him but he wouldn’t budge. I feel like he a lost soul or missing something. He says he regrets getting out of the army. Idk maybe he just thinks differently or the fact that his dad wasn’t always a dad figure.
I could never understand why people get into the army to begin with... It makes alot of things so much harder. Life is hard enough as it is. Why make it harder on yourself?
Some have a sense of duty and do things for the benefit of others rather than only thinking of themselves. The attitude of your comment is inherently selfish, which isn't always a bad thing but its not the only path
@@blackbutterfly233ify "defend your country" you mean fat politicians who start the war in the first place and never see a second of it in their life and it is the normal people dying for them.. and they tell you you are dying for a good cause and you believe them.
Marriage is love across oceans if needed. if you can’t love someone if they are not with you 24/7, your love is not strong. He wasn’t leaving to go explore the world with friends, he was leaving to go serve his country, one of the highest callings one can do.
John is Goodman with a good heart and he has always been loyal with her and kept himself true to her . Meanwhile she couldn't handle it and decided to go look for a man that's not right it's not ok. You can't expect one loyal the other not
The book got me frustrated because after all those years they still loved each other and her husband knew that basically gave them his blessing because he knew he would die. But they still decided to not be together. Honestly I think a lot of it too was he concern for his autistic brother but he can write it in the will that she has custody plus John would he fine with that.
To see jesus,have you back,write you more valentines day cards,learn to sing,write you songs,write you more poems,buy you flowers once a week,be sweet and romantic,put on the best birthday and Christmas for you,show I love and appreciate you,then try again with a proposal,basically give it my all.x
I know this movie is supposed to be a love story.. But Jesus it's depressing... Sure a quick fling.. But expecting her to wait, basically forever... An what if he doesn't come back? What if he dies..?
I wish I had joined the marines or have became a navy seal. I dont like citizen life working to be comfortable with ordinary life sucks once you reach your achievements your average no advancing through the ranks and learning to be a badass leader in which your squad can follow or set an example for your own family one day.
Then do it😂 Im 19 and went through basic training with 39 and 40 year olds who were absolute savages. Don’t talk like it’s too late, also… put up or shut up
First all, i dont have plan. I just work with my bro. I dont know nothing to move out from somewhere. I stay here, darling. Supose i gonna abroad, my heart does not want to go. I want to stay and know you better. We lost many things as stories together, but i believe God wants us together. I am in love again for you. I hope this is not happen in wrong time. I prefer you, my italian boy as old times. You like U2 and i Sydney O'Connor. You remeber. So sweet from your part. If someone was betwen us, i could not to visit you there, but it does not work well when there is a third person. I want to embrace you strong and kiss you softlly. Take of you forever. The shit guy separated us from each other he is already dead. He is crazy. I am afraid of him. Nobody told the story, only i can feel. Nobody talks nothing. Why? I love you and i never could not to say for you. One night, i prayed to God forgetting you. I slept and my heart was conformed with situation, therefore something take me to the shop. I was conformed only to see you. As i need a drink to relief my thirsty. You are the one and i did not know. Please we must talk honey. I saw another day a stories on Facebook, the movie Damages, the guy saw both together and he was desespareted and fallen don and died. I am afraid. I dont want nothing bad happen. Please. Why do you confess this love?
So true women don’t understand the brotherhood u have in the military and the guilt u feel that all your guys are re-inlisting and your not u feel Empty and u don’t belong home
movie shows that being a soldier was a bad idea. stepping up to save your country and love ones was a bad idea. it just showed that being a HEROES are a stupid idea.
Wow if some these people in this room really didn't care about what he thought in this movie . It about her if she couldn't wait ok tell him she was looking at the guy already you can see it in the movie . John was the great love she was thinking about him . She wanted him because she was getting the hose thing she wanted he was going to give her that . John new that why he ask her what to do . Then the last letter she and him didn't know that he gave the money I mean come in it was a small town and they new he sold his father coin . It a joke it didn't show not of his stuff like being shot twice and he didn't have anyone to tell . Because if you remember she said it ben to months before she wrote him and she getting marry please it was a joke . I like the movie bit nobody wanted hear what he went thought . I mean she didn't know about John father. She left him and now after the other guy die she want him back wow you cheated and that what it is was cheated if not you should of call him the excuse that she gave was a joke . It didn't say nothing just hold told her it wasn't her fault lol all about her . If I see her I would just got back on my bike show her she made her choice long time ago
It’s not like she jumped into bed with the first guy she saw. 🙄 She helped a terminally ill man with his autistic son, they relied on her and she sacrificed her happiness to be there for them completely. The hate fueled towards her is so moronic.
Yeah, go two years without physical affection, he single in all but name, waste two years of childbearing years, put yourself on pause when there’s plenty of men who are around every day. Sure.
I hate her in this. Having a father who was in the military and him having to live with ptsd....the service is so hard on them. Her saying that he should have talked to her is ridiculous. They go through so much, and the people they serve with become their family just as much as their actual family. They can't just quit....so she really pisses me off in this. But the main thing that irritates me is the fact that she sent a letter. Dear john, letters are real, and they make our men and women of service go crazy. I had a friend who received one and if i hadnt called him when i did, he would have taken his own life. I hate Savannah in this movie with a passion..what she did was wrong on so many levels!
She's not, she's just very hurt and angry, imagine someone going AGAIN for two years not knowing if they will be alive and they didn't even talked it out before deciding
@@charlielrambo1342 exactly, it’s all about her her her her? The guys life is on the line and she just has to wait with herself til he’s back. Is that so hard to wait with yourself? But let’s have a hissy fit when life gets tough.
@@Cloud987600 so it should be all about him then? She already waited, life is not as simple as you think it is.....why should she just wait for him? What if something happened again and he had to go for more years? You are being selfish
@@charlielrambo1342 stop flipping it. If it’s not about him then by default it should be about her? Your argument tactic is going in circles. Anyways it’s a movie stfu already
Growing pair helps if she wants you simple if you want make decisions she should have respected that lifes full challenging decisions she's not rightly going wait forever she's all wrong.
@@mebeb6399 it's movie depicted one of many real world decisions made every day lifes full challenging experience decisions choices sure faith ,belief or understanding its fate reality-based
@@mebeb6399 nowadays women make decisions about their life men make decisions choice wisely liveing with the decisions myself experience never-ending journey every day I made decisions outcomes I live with got lots stress lots guilt lots less sleep effects are learning from the decisions finding right ways to handle it completely coping mechanism trigger art of defection detachment liveing best practices of golden rule thanks for your input
Yes because they had a plan, a future and he just decides to leave her again for another 2 years when they had literally just finished a long distance relationship. I would be pissed and also question his love and commitment after that.
@@NolanHawkeyeAnthony It never got in the way of said love but love isn’t enough to sustain a relationship, being present, sacrificing & compromising are only a few important cornerstones that make a lasting relationship. Him choosing to re-enlist might seem heroic but it also means he is choosing that over her. Not to mention, that’s the reason she married Tim, because he was terminally ill and he needed a long term guardian for his autistic son. Technically that is ‘heroic’ too because she sacrificed her happiness to do so but in John’s eyes, it was wrong so it’s about perspective.
I supported my husband through every deployment and his second enlistment. If you really love someone, you're a lot stronger than you think!
That’s great, and I’m sure he appreciates it. But it isn’t just about love. It’s also about respect. Consideration. John *promised* her one more year and he was out. Then he signed up for more time *without any discussion or thought to the promise he made.* When you are planning a future with someone, they’re supposed to get a vote or at the very least a heads up. Not be told after the fact and just expected to deal with the consequences of a decision they had no choice in and we’re not taken into consideration during.
That’s great, but this life is not for everybody so you can’t expect every person to act in the same way. Not to mention, they’re both so young still.
No offence or disrespect intended but it is a bit silly to get killed so USA can get oil and heroin from Afghanistan
Regardless of what anyone says Nicole, you're a great woman for that alone, and a rare one I may add, your husband is a lucky man and I aswell as many other men would kill for one like you god bless you and your husband
Yea the problem is you are not every woman.
This movie, along with the notebook.
Tore my heart out
you should watch “the best of me” that’s another great one.
@@plainjaney I think I’ve seen that one.
@@plainjaney Ohhh The Best of Me...So good but talk about rip your heart out 😢
Watch the vow as well. Channing tatum nailed it
I don’t understand why it tore your heart out. The whole book is a bunch of bad decisions that they could of avoided.
I never finished this movie i cry too hard Everytime i try so now i only watch it in pieces like this
I love this scene soooooo freakin much!
People are too hard on Savannah. Two years is a long time and she has a right to a loving relationship the way she envisions it. Love is not being miserable waiting for someone to come home.
Love is always worth waiting for otherwise it isn't love, but convenience. I know of stories of people whose relationships were broken apart because the woman wasn't willing to wait for her deployed boyfriend to return. Guess what, the woman was still single and had failed relationships in the past. The boyfriend came back and he was able to connect with another woman of greater patience. I wonder who ended up on top in the end of those runs. Still, if a woman can't wait then she has to move on and accept the consequences of her choices even if in the end she forfeited a good man. No excuses.
@@doctorfate6414 tze way a mans love isnt like a womans.
@@doctorfate6414 great speech! Amazing! I would love to speak with you about alot of things. Seems like you will help me get closure with your knowledge. How can I get a hold of you?
Yeah 😩🥺😩🥺
Love is always worth the wait. I can say that from personal experience seeing as I am actually waiting on someone for 2 years(17 months left) if you truly love someone you will never give up on them.
I LOVE DEAR JOHN MOVIE 🎥💜
This clip is so touching٫ Nicholas sparks did a good job with this story❤️💖
That is what Nicholas Sparks do!!!! The best! :)
Just tell me what to do, You tell me what to do
Come with me
Well i can't do that.
IKR
20 Years later and I can only imagine how their Characters feel with what happened recently (I know they're fictional.)
What do you mean
@@ElConquistador39 Afghanistan falling to the Taliban.
@@FernandoMartinez-pv1id 10 4
@@FernandoMartinez-pv1id stop listening to propaganda and start listening to citizens there. American soldiers literally raped the women, why do you lot like to disregard these facts coming from the victims themself?
@@me-oh9du I did stop listening to Propoganda like the one you're spouting. Funny enough you'll defend anything our enemies do but if even 1-100 of our Soldiers do anything wrong, that speaks for the Millions that didn't. "America is this Evil Empire" says all of Europe, yet when Russia starts making a move who does everyone turn to for free help? Sweden and Finland can fuck off if they think they deserve to be in NATO. I assume you support it being disbanded since America is nothing but pure evil in your eyes and the Taliban, Vietcong, North Koreans, and Iraqis are justified every time. Name 1 Empire in History that would allow Canada, Mexico and Basically all of Europe to exist when we have the means to conquer them all in an afternoon but instead protect them when they aren't even paying their fair share.
They are both at fault in this movie. Why did John sign up for the army again without consulting with her first? I personally found that pretty selfish too.
Thank you!
I found it to be his fault. She waited 2 years and he promised she was his priority. Then he signed up again and left her
A man chases after his dream. A woman chases after a man.
@@27gv true.
This is my cousin, he enlisted and was told his team would be deployed. 3 years and nothing than he decided to get married and his team got deployed he got mad. He really wanted to go… I think this is way he always bowling and out all night. I feel for his wife, my cousin never had motivation his whole life, I helped him get is diver license, I went to his house everyday when he locked himself in his room for a week one time I tried talking to him but he wouldn’t budge.
I feel like he a lost soul or missing something. He says he regrets getting out of the army. Idk maybe he just thinks differently or the fact that his dad wasn’t always a dad figure.
Don’t need to be ask don’t need to be told orders are orders, Hooah!
I could never understand why people get into the army to begin with... It makes alot of things so much harder. Life is hard enough as it is. Why make it harder on yourself?
Clearly you are not strong enough to defend your country
Someone's gotta do it
Some have a sense of duty and do things for the benefit of others rather than only thinking of themselves. The attitude of your comment is inherently selfish, which isn't always a bad thing but its not the only path
@@blackbutterfly233ify "defend your country" you mean fat politicians who start the war in the first place and never see a second of it in their life and it is the normal people dying for them.. and they tell you you are dying for a good cause and you believe them.
It's there job. And we gotta be grateful for it
I tell you.. you can go.. so i can be married with someone else 😅😅
My favorite scene
7 years exactly it should be!
I mean marriage is day and night together. I wouldn't support my husband leaving us.
Marriage is love across oceans if needed. if you can’t love someone if they are not with you 24/7, your love is not strong. He wasn’t leaving to go explore the world with friends, he was leaving to go serve his country, one of the highest callings one can do.
Imagine this the other way around..
Oh yeah walk away from the conversation that works well in relationships. Talk together..work together.
He made a commitment to the army for another 2 years without speaking to her. I think she can have 5 min to gatger her thoughts
She waa hurting
Love this movie ❤
Maybe the name of the movie?
Vreau sa te linistesti... sa nu te mai lupti tu cu tine... lasa dragostea din inima sa te inunde nu te opune! Asa ai facut 8 ani...
Adi- Keep my hand and do not let it go and all the world will fell the peace!
John is Goodman with a good heart and he has always been loyal with her and kept himself true to her . Meanwhile she couldn't handle it and decided to go look for a man that's not right it's not ok. You can't expect one loyal the other not
Epic
Vreau sa vii la mine si sa stai cu mine si sa traim in pace si in iubire!
The book got me frustrated because after all those years they still loved each other and her husband knew that basically gave them his blessing because he knew he would die. But they still decided to not be together. Honestly I think a lot of it too was he concern for his autistic brother but he can write it in the will that she has custody plus John would he fine with that.
Well that's when you know if you are both in it or you are the one deeply in it 🥴🥴in love there will always be the one who loves deeper
The fact that didn’t even end up together 😭
Yes!
To see jesus,have you back,write you more valentines day cards,learn to sing,write you songs,write you more poems,buy you flowers once a week,be sweet and romantic,put on the best birthday and Christmas for you,show I love and appreciate you,then try again with a proposal,basically give it my all.x
I know this movie is supposed to be a love story.. But Jesus it's depressing... Sure a quick fling.. But expecting her to wait, basically forever... An what if he doesn't come back? What if he dies..?
I wish I had joined the marines or have became a navy seal. I dont like citizen life working to be comfortable with ordinary life sucks once you reach your achievements your average no advancing through the ranks and learning to be a badass leader in which your squad can follow or set an example for your own family one day.
Then do it😂 Im 19 and went through basic training with 39 and 40 year olds who were absolute savages. Don’t talk like it’s too late, also… put up or shut up
De 8 ani te astept sa decizi ce vrei cu mine... si inca nu vrei iubirea mea ci orice altceva... de ce? Ce nu am wu si gasesti in alta parte?
Great
❤❤❤❤❤
move on John. Just move on.
Maybe tell him what he can have
U don't understand
First all, i dont have plan. I just work with my bro. I dont know nothing to move out from somewhere. I stay here, darling. Supose i gonna abroad, my heart does not want to go. I want to stay and know you better. We lost many things as stories together, but i believe God wants us together. I am in love again for you. I hope this is not happen in wrong time. I prefer you, my italian boy as old times. You like U2 and i Sydney O'Connor. You remeber. So sweet from your part. If someone was betwen us, i could not to visit you there, but it does not work well when there is a third person.
I want to embrace you strong and kiss you softlly. Take of you forever. The shit guy separated us from each other he is already dead. He is crazy.
I am afraid of him. Nobody told the story, only i can feel. Nobody talks nothing. Why?
I love you and i never could not to say for you. One night, i prayed to God forgetting you. I slept and my heart was conformed with situation, therefore something take me to the shop. I was conformed only to see you. As i need a drink to relief my thirsty. You are the one and i did not know. Please we must talk honey. I saw another day a stories on Facebook, the movie Damages, the guy saw both together and he was desespareted and fallen don and died. I am afraid. I dont want nothing bad happen. Please. Why do you confess this love?
So true women don’t understand the brotherhood u have in the military and the guilt u feel that all your guys are re-inlisting and your not u feel
Empty and u don’t belong home
To turn off instagram.
movie shows that being a soldier was a bad idea. stepping up to save your country and love ones was a bad idea. it just showed that being a HEROES are a stupid idea.
I like Fllm
Maybe the name of the movie?
@@مادلينلا dear John on Netflix
🧡
Ahloa I’m shanebearddj cool
Wow if some these people in this room really didn't care about what he thought in this movie . It about her if she couldn't wait ok tell him she was looking at the guy already you can see it in the movie . John was the great love she was thinking about him . She wanted him because she was getting the hose thing she wanted he was going to give her that . John new that why he ask her what to do . Then the last letter she and him didn't know that he gave the money I mean come in it was a small town and they new he sold his father coin . It a joke it didn't show not of his stuff like being shot twice and he didn't have anyone to tell . Because if you remember she said it ben to months before she wrote him and she getting marry please it was a joke . I like the movie bit nobody wanted hear what he went thought . I mean she didn't know about John father. She left him and now after the other guy die she want him back wow you cheated and that what it is was cheated if not you should of call him the excuse that she gave was a joke . It didn't say nothing just hold told her it wasn't her fault lol all about her . If I see her I would just got back on my bike show her she made her choice long time ago
She couldn't even wait another 2 years.
@Rhideemed if the roles were reversed he would be just as much of a scumbag as she was.
The way everybody is hating on Savannah reminds me of how everybody hates Tori Vega.
It’s not like she jumped into bed with the first guy she saw. 🙄 She helped a terminally ill man with his autistic son, they relied on her and she sacrificed her happiness to be there for them completely. The hate fueled towards her is so moronic.
Yeah, go two years without physical affection, he single in all but name, waste two years of childbearing years, put yourself on pause when there’s plenty of men who are around every day. Sure.
@Rhideemed Is it any different?
Ministry for INFJ, own university for us
I hate her in this. Having a father who was in the military and him having to live with ptsd....the service is so hard on them. Her saying that he should have talked to her is ridiculous. They go through so much, and the people they serve with become their family just as much as their actual family. They can't just quit....so she really pisses me off in this. But the main thing that irritates me is the fact that she sent a letter. Dear john, letters are real, and they make our men and women of service go crazy. I had a friend who received one and if i hadnt called him when i did, he would have taken his own life. I hate Savannah in this movie with a passion..what she did was wrong on so many levels!
Afgahn… ever read Kabbalah.
1:25 then have me understand your si...oh youre just gonna walk away..
This girl is soooo annoying
She's not, she's just very hurt and angry, imagine someone going AGAIN for two years not knowing if they will be alive and they didn't even talked it out before deciding
@@charlielrambo1342 exactly, it’s all about her her her her? The guys life is on the line and she just has to wait with herself til he’s back. Is that so hard to wait with yourself? But let’s have a hissy fit when life gets tough.
@@Cloud987600 so it should be all about him then? She already waited, life is not as simple as you think it is.....why should she just wait for him? What if something happened again and he had to go for more years? You are being selfish
@@charlielrambo1342 stop flipping it. If it’s not about him then by default it should be about her? Your argument tactic is going in circles. Anyways it’s a movie stfu already
@@Cloud987600 lol, just admit that she did wait for him, but when it's about him making a decision for her, he didn't. At the end, it was about him.
Growing pair helps if she wants you simple if you want make decisions she should have respected that lifes full challenging decisions she's not rightly going wait forever she's all wrong.
How is she all wrong ?? Women’s prime is in her 20s and she should find someone that she can settle with. She should not waste another two years
@@mebeb6399 it's movie depicted one of many real world decisions made every day lifes full challenging experience decisions choices sure faith ,belief or understanding its fate reality-based
@@mebeb6399 nowadays women make decisions about their life men make decisions choice wisely liveing with the decisions myself experience never-ending journey every day I made decisions outcomes I live with got lots stress lots guilt lots less sleep effects are learning from the decisions finding right ways to handle it completely coping mechanism trigger art of defection detachment liveing best practices of golden rule thanks for your input
This is so ridiculous. This movie is about how much she loves this guy but can’t put up with his reinlisting?
Yes because they had a plan, a future and he just decides to leave her again for another 2 years when they had literally just finished a long distance relationship. I would be pissed and also question his love and commitment after that.
@@taraz6786 but her love is so strong for him nothing, even a heroic decision to deploy again, should get in the way of said love
@@NolanHawkeyeAnthony It never got in the way of said love but love isn’t enough to sustain a relationship, being present, sacrificing & compromising are only a few important cornerstones that make a lasting relationship. Him choosing to re-enlist might seem heroic but it also means he is choosing that over her. Not to mention, that’s the reason she married Tim, because he was terminally ill and he needed a long term guardian for his autistic son. Technically that is ‘heroic’ too because she sacrificed her happiness to do so but in John’s eyes, it was wrong so it’s about perspective.
@@NolanHawkeyeAnthony when will people realize love isn't enough to sustain a relationship
@@taraz6786 so you hate america then,just say that
The acting and writing are so so bad!
and bitch character cheated on him, in the movie
How is it cheating when she left him ? She broke up with him
She broke up with him first
Leave John. She is going to screw her friend and end up taking all your father's hard earned money. Run and don't look back
Alone - viren.. 🥺🥲