This is the video that made me move out of my mom's house, get a girlfriend, and put on 20 pounds of muscle mass. It's been 2 years since then, and my growth has only just begun. Thank you Teal, for helping me find my connection to the divine masculine.
Thanks for sharing. I'm pretty much almost there, mentally, minus the girlfriend part. Too much of the 1st aspect, yet to find healing, for that leap of faith.
World is broken beyond repair or to put it this way. Bringing in a total order in to a chaos place where universe originates is impossible. It's like coming to a jungle and saying to animals why can't you all just be friends. It's never going to happen, all you can do is realize and accept that.
"I feel like it's our job to protect everybody in society" yes. THIS is why society feels so unsafe. Because men are lost in little boys roles looking to women to be their mommies instead of owning their divine masculinity. I am so fucking sick of having to keep myself safe and do everything myself because no men want to step up and take ownership. Thank you so much for making that clear and for giving this gift to us 🤯🤯🤯🤯
The guys who end up trying to protect others who are useless, end up dead. And for no reason. The woman gets to go on with her life. No issues. You protect yourself. If you deserve the independence to move onto another guy who can better accommodate your needs. If you want responsibility dont be a victim. Its because men are not being real men. No. Its because you are having unrealistic expectations
@Tim Gega I'm facing some format of this issue in my life. One way or the other. Wife did this. Own mother, aunt and cousins did this. Blaming and seeing themselves as victims. Much more than that. Its almost like every step forward I take, something new happens.
@@versetripn6631 Well, to be honest, I wrote that comment before seeing the end of the video. Instead of sticking with a channeling of real men, and of their thoughts and feelings, she put her own desires in the second half. She really fucked up an incredible opportunity to show the reality of our situation and bring understanding to women. And possibly bring us together. At least she tried. I really appreciate when somebody makes an effort to cross over lines of division. But she's still got a ways to go.
YES!! I paused to write that line down. Feels so very true to me as a woman. I hate being expected of anything. It suffocates the natural flow of my energy and creativity.
While I listenned to the first part, I felt like men just wanted us as objects to do what they want to make them feel better and they wanted us to like it. I felt completly unrecognized but I was concious this wasn't about me, it's about how men feel.
@Tess cg And Movies I have actually felt this way as a guy, but maintaining such a high vibe is so hard, I feel like if I am not like that I am not good enough for anything
I’m a woman and Teal expressed what I’ve been concerned about for a decade. There are many women who understand this and who are saddened by it. Society has lost it’s rudder.
An observation from now watching both videos for male and female splits : “Traditional role” male: “I feel like women want everything” “Non-traditional role female: “I feel like I have to do everything” 🤭
Me too I had no idea some men think that way. I have always worked to support my family my children. I focus on work and I don't look for a man to support me it's my responsibility. I can't believe that's a bad thing and men at work are hoping I fail for taking responsibility for my life and my children.
Tricia Payne no man is hoping for you to fail, but we are supposed to be the providers and in this day and age of empowered women we are loosing our part on the society. We'll just have to adapt and find new rolls to fulfill
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Just going by what was said let's hope it's not true. If men's roles are providers why are they so many single women and children without a man supporting them. Men stopped filling that role long ago and women stepped up and did what they had to do.
@@triciaboyme5992 I think that's just him being angry at being tossed out of his role in society. He feels trapped misused. It's very hurtful for a man to never be needed. On top of that those same women with that ideology are making the work force harder for him. I don't hold his view myself, but I completely understand.
As a woman, YES I agree that there is a natural inherent difference between men and woman on the physical (relative) dimension...but that difference is not between "weak" and "strong" but rather, the "types of strength" and the ways and situations in which they're expressed. And YES that primal male essence IS what women want....but this is something that men have to actually "find"....It's not about just the primal "urges", but the undistorted awareness of them, the acceptance of them as not only "o.k"..but natural and normal....and the ability to know the appropriate expression of them and, yes, the responsibility aspect...I think this goes for knowing how they feel as well....feeling no shame about those emotions...but then taking responsiblity for dealing with THEM appropriately as well. The word "self mastery" comes to mind. Total turn on! A man who fits this general description is strong enough in himself that he wouldn't feel at all threatened by a woman's strengths...and thus, would be less likely to elicit that "bitterness" that tends to come from women who don't feel free to be both "soft" and "strong" interchangeably...as is appropriate in their own various roles. This man would have the understanding that women are far more than traditional roles have defined them as and would actually find them far more interesting. I think this is where we're headed next.....Men will find their way back to trusting what's naturally within them....and once they truly find it and master it, there will be nothing there for women to fear or hate because a man in this state can allow women to be fully who they are as well. KUDOS TEAL!
MaCoeur oh WOW. Best comment I’ve read on this video. You’ve put it beautifully, further refining what Teal has shown us in her video as the 2nd aspect in men. I wish Teal could have further described things the way you have, just for clarity. That it’s not just about going with men’s primal urges, it’s about taking the responsibility to find appropriate outlets for expressing those urges without hurting or oppressing anyone - but of course Teal was channeling there, so she probably couldn’t just chime in with her own feedback at that moment. . Felt so good by the end of your comment, it felt like a wisp of a glimpse into a world where it’s possible for men to be men and effortlessly hold space for women to be women.
Oh - My - God!!! 😍 Yes!!! This is exactly what men want from a woman! Freedom to be soft and strong interchangeably as is appropriate in all our differing roles... If I had that my life would be complete. Your comment is a total turn on. 😘❤
Jeffrey Sherman WOW really??? I would love to be able to do that too Jeffery, as a woman I dream of being able to move between the soft and strong aspects of myself while having my man hold space for me. To be so secure in my own inner femininity and power that I am just able to be myself. I know this will free me to be able to hold space for him in turn and allow and enjoy him to be himself and give him either support or space when he needs it, without descending into neediness or bitterness. I had started to despair and wonder if men like that even existed, so your words here renew my feeling of hope! So thanks for writing your comment, I see it as encouragement that someday I will find the man who complements me and I can complement him. Deep down I think so many of us, men and women, just want to feel happy within ourselves and make our partners (future or present) happy too. Nothing surpasses the ecstasy of feeling good inside and being able to bring joy to the one you love, simply because both of you are whole on the inside as well. I wish you good luck in finding the one who is right for you! And hope that many of us on this journey of self-evolution find what we are looking for :)
46:18 "In this part, I feel like I can't trust myself because I'm a man. But that part is like 'no, because you're a man you CAN trust yourself." That stuck with me!
Was anyone else kind of into Teal while she was expressing the divine masculine? My heart fluttered a few times. Haha Was a powerful and very alluring energy to experience! Thank you Teal for holding space for that expression! 💜
Soul Journey I was and it was weird for me! I’m a straight woman and I’ve watched Teal hundreds of times and never once felt attracted to her. Could admire her beauty but more in the way you would admire a colourful flower, or a nice sculpture or something. I was a bit zapped to realise I felt deeply attracted for a few moments to the 2nd primal masculine part, but I realised that I wasn’t attracted to Teal, I was attracted to the 2nd male energy she channeled and how he was a self-assured, yet respectful grown up. Interestingly the minute Teal stopped channeling the primal masculine 2nd aspect, my attraction vanished. Weird. But I know she was definitely channeling something that wasn’t her, and wasn’t her idea of male energy in this video. It WAS something that wasn’t her, she was just the conduit for it, very male yet felt unthreatening and sexy!
In the same way, I absolutely felt repulsed by the 1st male she channeled. He made my skin crawl with his entitled blindness to the fact that women don’t exist just to fulfil his needs. All the rage I didn’t even know I had against dozens of men just like this who have molested, stalked, harassed me when I rebuffed their advances came bubbling up. I was amazed to find myself getting angry at “him”, and once again understood Teal was just the carrier of this energy. Incredibly work in this video by TS. Don’t know how she does it but I’m so glad she made this video, it’s been healing for me as a woman to realise what I like in a man and what I will absolutely not tolerate.
Carrie Hobbes It was interesting for me because I am bisexual, but have never been attracted to her specifically. But once she was an expression of both masculine and feminine, something clicked. Very interesting to experience. It was refreshing to experience such a pure expression of the masculine that way! Very primal and exciting!
Soul Journey How interesting to read your experience as someone who is bisexual! I found it especially interesting how Teal became a combination of masculine and feminine energies for you. For me she was totally masculine at that point when I started to feel attracted to her. It made me realise how I was absolutely not at all affected by her feminine appearance at that point. Very revealing to me in the sense that I realised I respond to a man’s energy far more than I do to the physical appearance of a man when I am attracted to a guy. That second male energy was so incredibly primal mature male that it just made Teal’s inherent femininity recede in a really strange way. I have never experienced this before. It’s kind of blowing my mind a little bit, need to meditate and process this further!!! I’m guessing depending on our individual sexual orientations we each picked up on what we were attracted to? Sort of like Teal was a “mirror” reflecting back to us the “image” of what stirred attraction in us, whether it be pure masculine or a combination of masculine and feminine. Fascinating stuff! I enjoyed reading about your experience. It’s made me think even more deeply about my own. Thanks for sharing! “It was refreshing to experience such a pure expression of the masculine that way. Very primal and exciting!” - Couldn’t agree more :)))))
Carrie Hobbes I like that idea of the mirror. You may have something there! An expression of what aligns with us most. For me her being female was something I embraced, for you it faded away! Our reality is always a reflection of where we are at! Pretty magical! Thank you for your experience as well!
Weird how it's taboo to speak about being interested in status while it's something people are supposed to care about and chase. How are you supposed to achieve something if you're not being honest about wanting it in the first place? Sending mixed signals to the universe gets you mixed results..
true... but hers the thing.. binch watch her videos .. u must take time for you and adk yourself... what makes you happy... what does it feel for u .... what makes you happy.. not what you u do for others to get valedation in order to feel worthy or needed... get your petsonal boundaries in place... i wish u luck love and truth
Don't like how you are role playing a male but clearly miss presenting what males actually think or feel considering u are not a male. Just saying, like u cannot represent an entire gender by putting on a hat
I love this video. It kind of gives my female aspects a confidence boost, because I always thought men didn't want any aspect of the feminin. Knowing they like us to take care of them and to support them feels good. It also feels good knowing that they want to own us not as objects but as a different beautiful unpredictable species. ❤️❤️❤️Thank u for showing this Teal.
Same here! I too felt a weight lift as I watched this video, and I was surprised because I am a woman and didn’t expect that to happen. Somehow seeing that second male aspect made me feel free and open as well. I dunno, maybe it was the heavy burden that patriarchy placed onto me when I was a little girl? Maybe that’s what was released when I saw the second male aspect - just knowing that that possibility even exists was so liberating. “it also feels good knowing that they want to own us not as objects but as a different beautiful unpredictable species” - you’ve put it perfectly. It does feel wonderful, doesn’t it? :) To be celebrated for our feminine spontaneity and creative energy for once!
Wow! You thought that! I think you thought that because you saw the masculine defense I spoke about earlier. Far from making his needs of the feminine known men draw into a stoic masculine defense when we DON'T get our needs met. It was so convincing to you that you must have thought men don't even require anything at all. I'll post my comment again here: You portray men as "wanting a mommy" and a sissy if a man expects "a woman to take care of him" I don't thibk men are this disconnected from ourself to think this. Maybe we are browbeaten by women to deny our needs and we do but men have needs from women. Men want to be looked after and tended to and yes in a motherly way of sorts. It's fair to say women want to be cared for in a masculine way. Men are taught to deny our needs in order to please women because women have been told they owe men nothing. It's damaging to men when women are told it's demeaning to women to care for men. "To expect anything of women is to trap an ocean. I like how wild they are" He's lieing to himself in order to cope with not having his needs met so he takes on even more responsibility with nothing in return. A self respecting man has needs and does have expectations of a woman. It's said men are simple and have no needs. Just dole out sex and were good. That is a classic stoic masculine defense to not getting our needs met and becomes destructive. Unlike women, the last thing he will do is complain about it and let her know. What I hear is him lieing to himself, then compensating by doubling down on masculine giving while dening his needs in order to make her happy. I see a man being consumed by women and allowing it to take place out of a stoic masculinity defense mechanism. This will eventually eat him up inside, make him lonely and unhappy and he may not even know why. Or if he does he can't escape his masculine defense in order to say what's wrong. I see him withdrawing from his wife and not even be able to admit to himself that his needs aren't being met..he simply withdraws from her until things fall apart.
I definitely identified with the walking on broken glass. Personally, less so the woman in society views though for the first. For the second part, I felt lots of resonance, but can't quite embody that part, due to my life being on broken glass ALSO when you came back to the first part smiling, I vibe with that so much. After discovering this for us men we need to start giving ourselves more permission to become more of the second. And when we run into ourselves, keep it in mind as a compass :)
I remember dating my ex... I wanted nothing more than to meet all her needs of protection and love, but couldn't provide it at the time. The Shame I felt....was so real. And here teal puts it into perspective
I just wanna say that the longer i do semen retention, the more and more i feel like the divine masculine in this video. I’m getting close to a year on retention and the level of self confidence and self awareness I’ve gotten is unreal. I feel like I’m finding my real self and that real self definitely feels primal like teal described.
It means he has trained himself to climax and not ejaculate if I am understanding that correctly. It is also a way for men to have multiple climaxes in one go around. (That's how I know about it) I always felt like men kinda got the shaft on that one and started looking into if it's possible for men to have multiple...because you should be able to 😊. @jaredmello
It was so helpful to see Teal embody these energies, for me. Seeing a woman doing this really helped me open up and be willing to extend my compassion to the 1st male aspect, which was pretty triggering to me. Trying to listen to actual men expressing those sentiments just makes me want to bash in some heads, so this was enlightening. I'm going to share this with the BF and see what he thinks. Thank you, Teal!
I'm a woman, and as anyone might guess by my icon, I've always been really drawn to rock music, and rock stars. And now, after watching this video, I think I see better why that is, as many of them embody a lot of the characteristics of the "primal" male aspect (right down to the long hair and no shirt! 😁). Creativity, confidence, freedom, very open/overt and welcoming (as opposed to predatory) sexuality, community leadership (lots of rock bands develop "tribes" of devoted fans that they look after, like the Deadheads or the KISS Army), lots of resources at his disposal/provider potential, displays of physical strength/energy (dancing, stage-diving, etc.), working together as a loving team with other males instead of childish competition and throat-cutting...and probably lots more aspects. It probably explains the groupie phenomenon, too. Women see some of that divine masculine coming out and they go nuts for it. And if you're looking at a band like Nirvana, for example, you'll see men who are not only *not* intimidated by women's talents, but who actively support and provide safe space for women and their creativity (for example by touring with and promoting all-female bands like L7, Shonen Knife, or Calamity Jane; making their gigs safe spaces by stopping the show anytime a woman was getting groped; organising and playing benefit concerts specifcally for women's issues/charities). All the men in Nirvana are/were really good examples of that type of divine masculine.
*It's a bit sad it takes a genius uber-talented woman to show men what true connected (divine) masculinity is, but it was a rather brilliant energy-channeling performance by Teal.* I thought the conclusion and summary were especially insightful and priceless. The more intuitive man is happier and NOT threatened by women.. no matter what role they play.. as he is more connected and in flow with his primal masculine energy which includes the fact he is simply genetically far stronger physically than a woman.. whether he has a 3 piece suit on(or she does!) or he is donning casual hippie-ware. *Fabulous work, Teal! - Clearly, becoming an actress is ALSO an available career avenue for you from a talent perspective.* :)
I agree I was expecting to cringe all the way through, but when she was the "Traditional Guy" I thought, yep, he reminds me of half of my ex-boyfriends and when she was the second guy I felt intensely attracted to her.
@@jdwyer5708 I feel like this is also a really good example of the two energies inside every individual. Like when you look at charts feminin energy is intuitive and flowy and emotion and the divine masculine has integrated those things within its essence. Just like the divine feminine has the masculine integrated. The expression that comes out is unique to every person and different between men and women
I actually had a conversation about that topic, with a male friend, a couple days ago. He especially talked about, how he was raised with the stigma, that every man is 'only driven by their physical desire' and that they're all 'misogynists and rapists' and stuff. I was shocked and felt so very sad for him. I respect and admire him a lot, for his courage to open up and speak about his experiences and his 'male perspective'. It helped me so much, to better understand what (at least some) men are going through, especially when it comes to dealing with women or persons of a different sex in general. We are all in this together, no matter how we identify (sexually). We can only live together in harmony, when we learn to see and understand each others perspective.
This struck such a deep chord for me, especially the ending. I felt like a lot of what you said I felt or knew but could never articulate, it felt like jigsaw pieces snapping together
"I feel like a criminal that didn't do anything"... 😖 Teared up a bit. Thank you. I have never felt so understood. (I'm a bit different but 95% on it) if i could find a woman who would even be open to recieving me like this... and listening and understanding like her... i would feel compelled to give her the world
This is compelling viewing. Measured, assertive, vulnerable, it’s confusion creates clarity and the anger and frustration that is apparent in every man. Well done nailing the influence of mothers if not kept in check. You’re a class act Teal Swan. Thankyou for verbalising and role playing the traumas and dramas. that will enable me to feed my masculine essence and natural expression. Own it, claim it and collecting it from luggage carousel number 5.
Absolutely spot on! My thoughts exactly on this mess today. Seems like the more driven and disciplined a man is. The harder it is to find a women thats a match. And it goes from them loving those qualities about you to them shaming you for those same qualities months /years later. As a man, anything you do or say (good or bad) WILL be used against you at a later date. lol Great job Team Teal. Hope to have the pleasure of meeting you folks next week at the mirror event. Thanks for sharing!
John Franco the more driven and discipline you are, the more it motivates a woman to stay in check with herself. So, it is not about finding a good match but rather how bad she wants to be with a man you are.
Were you trying to ''discipline'' her and got rejected after that? Are you sure she rejected you because of those characteristic you have? How did you end up feeling shamed? Maybe that women was just crazy and have nothing to do with what most women are.
Brilliant indeed. I feel more attuned with the non-traditional role and I have been working for more than a decade on my own emotional trauma but since 6-2017 the discovery of this channel change so much. This came to me when I needed the most. I need to find my home where I can manifest my truth. Thank you Teal.
My bad. I should I kept watching before I commented to you. No need to explain I totally understand your comment now. Although that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t want to hear more!
This Video got me almost layed last night. I opened my long hair, took of my shirt, and danced while i spread my wings. I with you on building the intentional communitys and take on health (gosh, its simple Traditional Chinese Medicine...Food Emotions), Living, Parenting, Go with the Flow Life Purpose Jobs... I say yes to that... while at the same time i know i am a piece of dirt AND fantastic human being. Lets ROCK!
Wow, that quote about bitterness is so true. "I want bitter people to stay like 100 miles away from me." Resentment is ANATHEMA to me, I hate it so much. Good video, Teal!
“It doesn’t see that I created that”... part of me. It is so true. “I have been taught I can’t trust myself...” so true. Every aspect of society has taught us to be disconnected. From the cradle. We have been fragmented and traumatised. Spiritual, emotional, physical and sexual “violence” has been the root of this. To stay committed and connected requires dealing with this abuse. Because of our shadow we have bought into the idea to be afraid of our true nature. Great work by Teal very inspiring.
This was powerful stuff! I’ve seen a lot aspect 1 in Society. I resonated a lot with Aspect 2. What I’ve been feeling since I was a young child. A lot folks will put down aspect 2 and judge us a certain way, it can lead to isolation which is why we’re just very hard to find
@D MMy femininity with a man has nothing to do that I feel secure with my masculinity, i feel i got to explore this as a single parent to a son but one doesnt have to be one, i feel i cant be all either within both feminine and masculine energy, it is interesting and i love understanding both perspective. In my masculinity gives me an idea but has no answer and yet room to wiggle or more yet no room. How can one not praise it all, it is both liberating and humble and yet strong and solid and fuels, empowers and protect femininity and yet dont need or expect any exchange from one another
Teal, could you do a video of when a Man or Woman integrates masculine and or feminine energy both within their being, but still maintaining their primary identity? I think it's equally important that men and women understand each other, that neither one are perfect. We can help each other with other aspects; Some men are more creative and caring than some women. And some women are more leading and industrial than some men. Yet, with this spectral balance they still maintain sexual balance within their being.
hahahahaha lol :'D I was really attracted to teal just then when she channeled the 2nd part and then she said she knows that this is what women want and winked, I literally died a little. I really hope that this encourages men to be themselved and set their divine masculine free.
As a women my masculine 100% resonates with the second aspect. I actually can be very masculine at times I’m a triple Leo lol. And my feminine totally doesn’t mind there being separation between men and women. I want to be taken care of, provided, for and dominated in certain areas of a relationship. I love this video, it was brilliant.
4x sag here and sameee *high five*. We re all mozaics in our own right but it s beautiful to see the potential and healing of each of these energies ^^
Real man hate woman who are to much in there masculine..this is the sickness of our modern times. The male and female roles are reversed thats why we all are confused..its called social programming its going on since the 50s. The result is becomming an actual problem in society today.
@@activellabella5076 sorry to say but I am far from the first type..my comment regards to woman who are lost and programmed and act like a man. But at the same time they like to find a man who is soft and more feminine so they have control in the relationship..thats what i see arround me..
@@FrankValdez1234 Think about it in terms of evolution. If women get horny for the 2nd one, then the 2nd would outsurvive the 1st ones. Something must have happened (social conditioning) that men are not like the 2nd one in the first place (you only act, hmm do you mean you don't enjoy acting that? if you get pussy and validation for being the 2nd one why not to be it most of the time?).
@Flowered Sentiments YOU ARE AWAKE. I say this as a black woman and many of US have soo much submissive work to do. We fail at being partners which is why we are alone. #sotonat1on
I know if Teal reads these comments but I have to give an astounding THANK YOU. I actually saw this video 3 hours after it was posted and waited days to watch it because, based on other videos, well, I expected to see something I would have disagreed with and I was putting off something that I thought would arouse negative feelings about you. I couldn't have been more off. I see myself as mostly the second aspect with forced traits of the first. I actually see myself as the divine masculine awakened into a time when I have been shackled and displaced, trying to feel my way around the zietgeist. I think a few things weren't covered though. Mostly, that, for a true masculine soul, the need for support is all emotional and sex is a deep well of emotional support for the true masculine. Most other manifestations of sexual desire are a distortion. You mentioned in passing that the "traditional" system was derived for the misguided purpose of SECURING that emotional support(locking it in by any means necessary) and ideally that is what a man wants: I support you physically so you can support me emotionally so I can support you physically) but no connected, intuitive man wants a weak woman either. A vulnerable woman, yes but not a weak woman. This something I realized when I came to the conclusion that the ideal relationship dynamic is when you could go on "naked and afraid" and both parties would mutually thrive, with shared responsibilities and recognition of each others strengths and weaknesses. The idea of set Roles should be eschewed for optimum cohesion.
I like this comment. I think there is truth in what you said about "securing" a source of emotional support. I think that's ok, and natural and good. But it's a good way to think of it. The bargain is struck between a man and a woman, to provide for each other's needs.
Hi! I'm a man. Yup. Other than the lack of how men recharge their energy, I really enjoyed this video. I can't keep on going without resting. When my adult duties aren't needed, resting in a caring woman's comfort is the best rest that I know. There I have time to heal my inner self. I feel revived afterwards, like I've been reborn from something deep. And my energy's a thousand folds stronger. If my being is let in, women are WAY better at being a comforting resting place for me. May be that men are better at comforting women, or that women are just a pit of comfort for other human beings (or it's just me). I wouldn't know. Women, how do you feel the difference between being in comfort by the different genders?
Very unique to me I think, but to answer your question as a woman, I don't experience energy recharge after resting with someone comforting me in the level that you described for yourself, and, I can feel comforted by both genders, but when comforted by a man I trust and love the feelings of safety and reliability are very intense, and when comforted by a woman I connect with and love then the feelings of care and openness are really intense. In both occasions love is the primary feeling, but these seem to be the tones surrounding, in my case anyways. Take care.
Lovely comment. To answer your question, yes. Women are comforting in a soothing feminine way. Safe Men make me feel safe enough to relax and be comforting and feminine myself.
The second man is the one I've been craving! The one I've been longing for. I have felt hes out there somewhere. I can sense him in my husband and he comes out from time to time and it drives me crazy because I want more of him. It feels like I am allowed to be a woman and I can relax into that. It's like he holds a safe space for me to dance within. I feel like when he holds his place as masculine I am able to hold my place as feminine. It feels heavy and unnatural to me to shoulder that energy and I've thought I've needed to. I do see the suppression he's under, and I see how I've been apart of that suppression. Thank you teal, this helped heal a part of my father wound too and made me look at how I've treated the masculine ❤
Teal, I don’t know how you do it. You have such a profound insight into the minds and hearts of guys. I hope to find more guidance and advice, possibly workshops or guides to work through some of the challenges we face. I’d buy the book if you wrote one for us guys. I’d buy it for my friends. I myself wish to be an authentic man, but struggle finding the truth as I scan the internet. All your work resonates greatly with me. You are amazing.
Thank you for this quality content. As a trans woman, I can feel some of my resistance to masculinity slipping away. This perspective makes it feel less like a threat to my identity and more like something I merely don't personally wish to embody. I can also feel my anger toward the male gender cooling down. Funny that that's something I have recently been working on. I also have to say that as a heavily lesbian leaning pansexual, I would probably be a lot less repulsed by men if more of them were aligned with the primal essence.
Aaa you are awesome. I m a trans guy and I wondered if trans folks were out there also shedding metaphorical skin and learning to embrace all parts of ourselves. We can stay true to our identity and open to understand all facets of it and free at the same time. Blessings to you,sister.
Spot on (mostly), I feel like I want to become succesfull doing something I love, to be able to provide both physically and emotionally to a family. I feel the freedom by just letting go and it's awesome. While working as a group fitness instructor I get the leader "feeling" every week. The problem I have is that I feel so free and happy with myself I don't feel the need to go to parties or hang out with friends. And yeah, as an instructor I have to be carefull not to say or do something which in this world would make a woman feel wierd. I hate having to think of what I do when I see a woman outside in the dark. BUT .. .. I have come to the conclusion that if I stay true to the free man version, no one is afraid of me and I can connect truely with every woman I meet. If I speak the truth and doesn't blend out to think in my brain, people (woman) will sense the authenticity and like me for who I am, no matter what I say or do. Thanks Teal!
This is one of the best videos I've seen from Teal, and a wonderful channeling. As a woman it gave so much energy and so much hope for the masculine, I crave a divine masculine like that in my life. That energy is just like the sun
Thank you for this video, Teal. I've been feeling very confused about men, what they want, why they do some things that they do, what they think and why many seem really angry especially towards women. This video clarified a lot of things for me. Hopefully it will benefit both myself and the men in my life I care about.
This felt absolutely perfect. It actually reflects many thoughts and Feelings of my own. I felt really repulsed by the first one because I Always felt it was just this box and I actually Always fought to be that second one as much as I can. The Thing I got from this Video is to embrace the Deep nature of mine I Always knew existed even more so I loose the fear of it being disaproved in Society and just do it.
We don't... We're terrified every second, but we have to bury that, laugh about it... Because if we didn't you'd be even more terrified... Would you prefer men wear fear or courage... Bravery and courage aren't an absence of fear.
That interesting thing to say. Can you imagine how fearful it is to always have to put yourself in danger to protect those who are more vulnerable then u BUT u still scared but have to step up to the plate of Protection. That's how alot of men feel but can't express it because it makes them look weak. Now we don't go thru that. So know I don't envy them. I admire them alot and respect that aspect of them and that part of life. SHOUT OUTS TO THE MEN. My husband is awesome 👌 👏 😘
@@EveofPyrite very true BUt as men they are designed physically to be stronger then women ,children, elderly etc. They have to put they self out there to protect. WE as women choose to. PROTECT. but we are only obligated to protect the children. Men have to protect Everybody.
I dipped into it part way through while recording it for viewing later - well I was floored by how f*****g brilliantly Teal was at channeling' the current masculine energy! Awesome Teal !!!
The second one is great to be striving for! Lots of balance and nuance there. I only recently discovered Teal, and she’s pretty awesome. A wonderful discovery.
What you might call channeling, I learned to do this during "blind contour" drawing. Your ability to do this with an animated entity is a phenomenal application; I hadn't considered. Genius. // It is not about separation and differences (closed system analysis of Western Dualism). It's about finding the emergent synergy within the united diversity (Dynamical Systems Theory). The Orientals understood it as the harmony of the Ying and Yang (Eastern Religion). Both the male states you presented long to find and reclaim this lost relationship/harmony with womanhood.
Damn. I’m a gay man and this was still so relatable. We definitely faced different challenges though. Teal can you PLEASE pretend to be a gay male in your next video. We have very little guidance or direction or role models to look to for healthy relationship behaviors and advice.
Teal, you’re such a gift. As a woman, this has helped me heal my wounded masculine. The example that I had for masculinity was my father. He did the best he could but I didn’t realize how much of his trapped traits I’ve held inside. I’ve been trapped in many ways then one in my masculinity. Thank you for helping me be set free within. Love to you
As a woman I feel super in love and drawn to both men splits... the first one makes me feel safer...the second one is even more attractive but I feel insecure around him because his so open and dynamic... so i tend to choose men that remind me more of the first split although I feel like they suffocate me... interesting ^_^
The first fragment suffers from an abject lack of responsibility and as such, wallows in self pity and anger at women. If you can't take responsibility, truly, then you can't take positive ownership. You just become a controlling tyrant with no regard to how those you affect feel, think, or anything else. It's dehumanizing. It also limits their growth because they're either in the archetype of the tyrant or the man child who doesn't want to sacrifice or take responsibility for anything.
As a woman this explains a lot. I kinda wish men knew how to express this. Now that I have a better idea it makes so much more sense. I'm also gender fluid so I feel that second masculine aspect sometimes. Needing to know when I can let myself break down and wanting to protect others. And I also like that there's a difference between men and woman. I like that there's a space for feeling like that. But I also respect people who don't feel like either. As long as I can be myself, that's what matters. Also if women make you feel shitty for doing something nice like holding a door open for them then that's on them. That's not you being disrespectful. True femininists are secure in themselves. They want freedom for men and woman. And men should also have the freedom to want to be gentlemen or live their lives in a more traditional role if they want to. I guess the main thing I want to apologize for is that group of feminists that are kinda like the bad apples of the group. And if makes you guys feel better I don't understand them either.
@Joseph_66 I don't agree. When I heard the no1 I felt like the man I want is gone. If I would meet a man like that I wouldn't be with him at all. That's because when men are TRYING/faking to be kind, they supress their masculine energy and that's why they finish last. That's my opinion from experience. Also if I supress my feminine side, I noticed men don't approach me.
@@thisisntallowed9560 a problem that some men have is that we have been taught,by women that masculinity is wrong which is why we suppress it, we learn how to be men by listening to women but then find we are unnatractive, we then see men who have all the traits that women complain about being highly successful with women which is why men need to watch what women do rather than listen to what they say.
@@dizmop I don't think masculinity is wrong, I actually feel attracted to it. But I feel like the way masculinity has been described (being violent, bad...), men are trying to be masculine, therefore they are trying to be violent, emotionless and bad sometimes. And it feels to me that this maybe false definition is destrying the mature, protective man that I'm attracted to. And I honestly don't know what is the true definition of masculinity. I just want a masculine man that I can trust I guess if a man would just follow his feelings and intuition he would find out the definition of masculinity. A man who follow his own definition of what it is to be himself. If he acts like he wants to be someone he's not by being cut off emotionally and acting all tough (exaggerating it), I'm not attracted. And I'm not attracted to a man who acts submissive (I don't know how to describe it). You know if a man repress his masculine side because he doesn't want to ''frighten'' or ''displease'' me, it might feels unnatural, if he's doing it I can't notice it and I've been dating men who were boring as hell and I think it's because of that. He's faking being gentle for example. I found myself attracted to men who were almost mean to me (maybe that's just me) but I think it's because it makes me feel more submissive and it awakens my hormones you know. I like when men tease me that's a good way to make me feel little. I don't know if what I'm saying feel completly insulting to you?? I don't have the answer
This is so crazy, I'm in tears.. being a single mom for so many years. I stayed married to this masculine essence faithfully, even in my singleness, because it's like I am holding down the fort, playing both roles, while waiting for him to arise.. yet, I'm not particularly drawn to having a man who does not see me as his one and only Queen. I do not want to lead a harem..
My body was shaking through the traditional role aspect. Primarily my femanine aspect was reacting to this energy. This truth of current cultural experience. I felt the love and support through this secondary expression. A lot more safety in my body.
Male, 26, have approximately 0% of that baseball hat guy. Pretty accurate for my classmates. Never understood what were those mysterious things they wanted/needed to do so badly. Couldn't help but think they had some other reasons to be unease and/or abusive upbringing that made them like that. They seemed brainwashed to me, like they are repeating things they don't really mean.
I've figured a lot of this stuff myself but that explains the full the picture. I was looking for this information my whole life. Thank you Teal, you have a gift and I really appreciate you ❤️
No, actually I ended up not liking gemini for their splits generally, but this is my personal interpretation. specially the desire to be always "free" which I tend to not oppose to until results into not being able to assume "any type of" responsibility. It looked to me like a lack of capacity for introspection. Apart from what Teal exposes here we have to realize that life is not always displayed the way we like individually and eventually we all have to make compromises and also understand very well team work. Also males in real life can display both characters exposed here in one, maybe at different times in life. Also there are other many aspects. A Capricorn male is more of a traditional type by nature and has his own sex appeal, for example. There is so much more about relationships than it is explained here.
@@cameliaancacoca4013 I see. I'm a Gemini man, and a big fan of Jordan Peterson who teaches that meaning is to be found in responsibility. Thus I feel more free when I've fulfilled my responsibilities, as long as I chose those responsibilities freely in the first place. Honest communication is also something I feel is deeply intertwined with Gemini's freedom, so if we give in to manipulation & duplicity it becomes harder to live honestly and thus harder to freely express ourselves. Thus I believe genuine freedom for Gemini is achieved through maturation and integration. But that's just my shower thoughts lol. Peace and love be with you 🙏
What I think is truly amazing is that you did this in response to people asking, which I think is freakin awesome! It's an unleashing of the higher male within both men and women, liberation for all!
Wow. The "provider" and reference to everything and everyone needing to thrive under his responsibility is a very helpful bottom line. Both aspects agreeing on that is fascinating, empowering and affecting me deeply.
Teals interpretation of the two positions consider active engagement with the masculine identity. Because I felt disagreement with the interpretations, it made me challenge in myself what my masculine role is. I am a privileged white guy, I have been able to be an individual. It has given me many freedoms, but also has meant I have lost touch with the importance of identity as masculine. I look forward to running through the questions and seeing what my masculine essence comes up with. Tuning in to this element of myself, which I considered insignificant, gave me insights of fear of responsibility. Fortunately my other aspects of myself and my privileged position lead me forward naturally towards responsibility over time. This previously unconscious conflict, now recognised is something I can really look into. Very useful video. Thank you teal.
You gotta stop seeing your skin color as a privilege. Whites are a global minority and enduring an active racist hate campaign against them. This privileged white man nonsense has got to go. All you're doing is denying reality to look like a good person to people who hate you.
For me there is a huge difference between this video an the video about the split in women. In this video I had the feeling Teal swas channeling the traditional man and the enlightend man, when in the other video it felt more like the split between the traditional and the modern woman and I would love to see also the enlightend woman and the modern man part.
I truly resonate with the first one. The second one seems like an unrealistic fantasy projected by women. The first one is the shaming of men who aren't how they want. The second is a projection of a fantasy, and the expression of the box they expect men to be in.
The second one is exactly how the divine masculine is supposed to be. The first is insecure, confused, and immature. Which is a direct result of society trying to control us.
The fact that I already did this before I ever thought about watching this and the integrated masculine talked and behaved exactly as shown... INCLUDING LONG HAIR AND REFUSING TO WEAR A SHIRT hahahaha love that guy. Perfectly executed. The only thing I thought I wish I could tell the second aspect is "since you see the "traditional" as a boy, doesn't that make him your son you need to take care of? Shouldn't you own him too?" because all I could feel from that boy is someone who feels uncertain, not good enough and unappreciated. It's like an instinct" You're hurting and I can't you leave like that", and when at the end he started talking about this ghost inside of him I got incredibly excited thinking "yes! Come closer, come closer!"
It is extraordinary for a woman to understand men so well and help men to fine their true self. About three years ago I realized that my real self deep inside was different than the unhappy life I was accepting so I did make difficult choices facing the hardship and difficulties changing my life. I have not quite succeded yet but now I have hope again and I'm working at it like if I feel twenty year younger.
This is the video that made me move out of my mom's house, get a girlfriend, and put on 20 pounds of muscle mass. It's been 2 years since then, and my growth has only just begun. Thank you Teal, for helping me find my connection to the divine masculine.
growing is amazing... keep going :)
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Thanks for sharing.
I'm pretty much almost there, mentally, minus the girlfriend part. Too much of the 1st aspect, yet to find healing, for that leap of faith.
I want both men and women to heal
Me too my friend
Me too
Me too
I don't. We need this
World is broken beyond repair or to put it this way. Bringing in a total order in to a chaos place where universe originates is impossible.
It's like coming to a jungle and saying to animals why can't you all just be friends.
It's never going to happen, all you can do is realize and accept that.
"I feel like it's our job to protect everybody in society" yes. THIS is why society feels so unsafe. Because men are lost in little boys roles looking to women to be their mommies instead of owning their divine masculinity. I am so fucking sick of having to keep myself safe and do everything myself because no men want to step up and take ownership. Thank you so much for making that clear and for giving this gift to us 🤯🤯🤯🤯
Yup
It's not mens fault tho
The guys who end up trying to protect others who are useless, end up dead. And for no reason. The woman gets to go on with her life. No issues. You protect yourself. If you deserve the independence to move onto another guy who can better accommodate your needs. If you want responsibility dont be a victim. Its because men are not being real men. No. Its because you are having unrealistic expectations
@Tim Gega I'm facing some format of this issue in my life. One way or the other. Wife did this. Own mother, aunt and cousins did this. Blaming and seeing themselves as victims. Much more than that. Its almost like every step forward I take, something new happens.
Sounds like you are playing the victim by blaming men and excusing something about yourself that makes you unacceptable.
*I've never felt so loved. I've never felt so understood. Thank you, Teal, from the bottom of my heart.* ❤❤❤
Ha gaaaaaay!
You get love
@@MemoG-vz5hf so you’re the traditional male, got it lol
Lame ass suck-up.
Clown statements like this continue to feed this beast of bullsh*t.
Deception...a mastery worth noting.
@@versetripn6631 Well, to be honest, I wrote that comment before seeing the end of the video. Instead of sticking with a channeling of real men, and of their thoughts and feelings, she put her own desires in the second half. She really fucked up an incredible opportunity to show the reality of our situation and bring understanding to women. And possibly bring us together. At least she tried. I really appreciate when somebody makes an effort to cross over lines of division. But she's still got a ways to go.
"to expect anything of a woman is to trap the ocean"
*Faints*
It works both ways. We shouldn't trap men either.... Peace and Love to Teal and All Sentient Beings ⚛️
Community Stripper .
YES!! I paused to write that line down. Feels so very true to me as a woman. I hate being expected of anything. It suffocates the natural flow of my energy and creativity.
I fucking loved hearing that! Defiantly swooned a little, I’m saving that as a quote lol 💕🌸~
Tiffany L YES. Thank you
When the second one came through and speaked i was complety turned on. Everything he said made me feel protected and loved.
While I listenned to the first part, I felt like men just wanted us as objects to do what they want to make them feel better and they wanted us to like it. I felt completly unrecognized but I was concious this wasn't about me, it's about how men feel.
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@@thisisntallowed9560 wise words seeker, wise words!
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@Tess cg And Movies I have actually felt this way as a guy, but maintaining such a high vibe is so hard, I feel like if I am not like that I am not good enough for anything
I had to stop video several times to stop myself from crying uncontrollably. How, in all 9 hells can a woman, ANY woman, understand men so good?
Dude it’s so meta, I thought this girl’s right in my head! 😂
Why stop yourself from crying?
She's channelling.
It's in the script. Lol
I’m a woman and Teal expressed what I’ve been concerned about for a decade. There are many women who understand this and who are saddened by it. Society has lost it’s rudder.
An observation from now watching both videos for male and female splits :
“Traditional role” male: “I feel like women want everything”
“Non-traditional role female: “I feel like I have to do everything”
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Literally! thanks for highlighting this.
As a man, I'm deeply offended by the deep curve of the peak of that baseball cap. The rest of the video is wonderful.
Me too I had no idea some men think that way. I have always worked to support my family my children. I focus on work and I don't look for a man to support me it's my responsibility. I can't believe that's a bad thing and men at work are hoping I fail for taking responsibility for my life and my children.
Tricia Payne no man is hoping for you to fail, but we are supposed to be the providers and in this day and age of empowered women we are loosing our part on the society. We'll just have to adapt and find new rolls to fulfill
An outfielder needs the curve to be able to hide the direct rays of the sun while still keeping eyes on the ball. Subtle advantages can be game changers!
Just going by what was said let's hope it's not true. If men's roles are providers why are they so many single women and children without a man supporting them. Men stopped filling that role long ago and women stepped up and did what they had to do.
@@triciaboyme5992 I think that's just him being angry at being tossed out of his role in society. He feels trapped misused. It's very hurtful for a man to never be needed. On top of that those same women with that ideology are making the work force harder for him. I don't hold his view myself, but I completely understand.
As a woman, YES I agree that there is a natural inherent difference between men and woman on the physical (relative) dimension...but that difference is not between "weak" and "strong" but rather, the "types of strength" and the ways and situations in which they're expressed. And YES that primal male essence IS what women want....but this is something that men have to actually "find"....It's not about just the primal "urges", but the undistorted awareness of them, the acceptance of them as not only "o.k"..but natural and normal....and the ability to know the appropriate expression of them and, yes, the responsibility aspect...I think this goes for knowing how they feel as well....feeling no shame about those emotions...but then taking responsiblity for dealing with THEM appropriately as well. The word "self mastery" comes to mind. Total turn on! A man who fits this general description is strong enough in himself that he wouldn't feel at all threatened by a woman's strengths...and thus, would be less likely to elicit that "bitterness" that tends to come from women who don't feel free to be both "soft" and "strong" interchangeably...as is appropriate in their own various roles. This man would have the understanding that women are far more than traditional roles have defined them as and would actually find them far more interesting. I think this is where we're headed next.....Men will find their way back to trusting what's naturally within them....and once they truly find it and master it, there will be nothing there for women to fear or hate because a man in this state can allow women to be fully who they are as well. KUDOS TEAL!
MaCoeur oh WOW. Best comment I’ve read on this video. You’ve put it beautifully, further refining what Teal has shown us in her video as the 2nd aspect in men. I wish Teal could have further described things the way you have, just for clarity. That it’s not just about going with men’s primal urges, it’s about taking the responsibility to find appropriate outlets for expressing those urges without hurting or oppressing anyone - but of course Teal was channeling there, so she probably couldn’t just chime in with her own feedback at that moment.
. Felt so good by the end of your comment, it felt like a wisp of a glimpse into a world where it’s possible for men to be men and effortlessly hold space for women to be women.
Oh - My - God!!! 😍 Yes!!! This is exactly what men want from a woman! Freedom to be soft and strong interchangeably as is appropriate in all our differing roles... If I had that my life would be complete. Your comment is a total turn on. 😘❤
Jeffrey Sherman WOW really??? I would love to be able to do that too Jeffery, as a woman I dream of being able to move between the soft and strong aspects of myself while having my man hold space for me. To be so secure in my own inner femininity and power that I am just able to be myself. I know this will free me to be able to hold space for him in turn and allow and enjoy him to be himself and give him either support or space when he needs it, without descending into neediness or bitterness. I had started to despair and wonder if men like that even existed, so your words here renew my feeling of hope!
So thanks for writing your comment, I see it as encouragement that someday I will find the man who complements me and I can complement him. Deep down I think so many of us, men and women, just want to feel happy within ourselves and make our partners (future or present) happy too. Nothing surpasses the ecstasy of feeling good inside and being able to bring joy to the one you love, simply because both of you are whole on the inside as well.
I wish you good luck in finding the one who is right for you! And hope that many of us on this journey of self-evolution find what we are looking for :)
Carrie Hobbes I really love this exchange! Wishing both of you the best of luck in finding happiness in this life 🤍
Were marriages ACTUALLY successful back in the 50s or were people just so scared of divorce, God and speaking out?
I thought the same exact thing. They were deff afraid of image and divorce. Image was all that mattered
Marriages were not happy .. they stayed together for the sake of survival. John Gray's book Beyond Mars and Venus talks about this
@@myriambarrera-montes4732 they were not as unhappy as well and happiness wasn't the main thing anyway because it was for the kids
50s society is not TRADITIONAL at all. It's a consumerist society
God damn this is good. Thank you for channeling this energy.
46:18 "In this part, I feel like I can't trust myself because I'm a man. But that part is like 'no, because you're a man you CAN trust yourself."
That stuck with me!
with me too
Teal is so fkng cool, that energy of the free man aspect feels amazing, let that now be dominant in society!
Let's go!!! We have work to do
Wow. I thought it was horrific and couldn't relate at all! If it wasn't for your comment I would have thought it might be totally made up
Was anyone else kind of into Teal while she was expressing the divine masculine? My heart fluttered a few times. Haha Was a powerful and very alluring energy to experience! Thank you Teal for holding space for that expression! 💜
Soul Journey I was and it was weird for me! I’m a straight woman and I’ve watched Teal hundreds of times and never once felt attracted to her. Could admire her beauty but more in the way you would admire a colourful flower, or a nice sculpture or something.
I was a bit zapped to realise I felt deeply attracted for a few moments to the 2nd primal masculine part, but I realised that I wasn’t attracted to Teal, I was attracted to the 2nd male energy she channeled and how he was a self-assured, yet respectful grown up.
Interestingly the minute Teal stopped channeling the primal masculine 2nd aspect, my attraction vanished.
Weird. But I know she was definitely channeling something that wasn’t her, and wasn’t her idea of male energy in this video. It WAS something that wasn’t her, she was just the conduit for it, very male yet felt unthreatening and sexy!
In the same way, I absolutely felt repulsed by the 1st male she channeled. He made my skin crawl with his entitled blindness to the fact that women don’t exist just to fulfil his needs. All the rage I didn’t even know I had against dozens of men just like this who have molested, stalked, harassed me when I rebuffed their advances came bubbling up. I was amazed to find myself getting angry at “him”, and once again understood Teal was just the carrier of this energy.
Incredibly work in this video by TS. Don’t know how she does it but I’m so glad she made this video, it’s been healing for me as a woman to realise what I like in a man and what I will absolutely not tolerate.
Carrie Hobbes It was interesting for me because I am bisexual, but have never been attracted to her specifically. But once she was an expression of both masculine and feminine, something clicked. Very interesting to experience. It was refreshing to experience such a pure expression of the masculine that way! Very primal and exciting!
Soul Journey How interesting to read your experience as someone who is bisexual!
I found it especially interesting how Teal became a combination of masculine and feminine energies for you. For me she was totally masculine at that point when I started to feel attracted to her. It made me realise how I was absolutely not at all affected by her feminine appearance at that point. Very revealing to me in the sense that I realised I respond to a man’s energy far more than I do to the physical appearance of a man when I am attracted to a guy. That second male energy was so incredibly primal mature male that it just made Teal’s inherent femininity recede in a really strange way. I have never experienced this before. It’s kind of blowing my mind a little bit, need to meditate and process this further!!!
I’m guessing depending on our individual sexual orientations we each picked up on what we were attracted to? Sort of like Teal was a “mirror” reflecting back to us the “image” of what stirred attraction in us, whether it be pure masculine or a combination of masculine and feminine. Fascinating stuff!
I enjoyed reading about your experience. It’s made me think even more deeply about my own. Thanks for sharing!
“It was refreshing to experience such a pure expression of the masculine that way. Very primal and exciting!” - Couldn’t agree more :)))))
Carrie Hobbes I like that idea of the mirror. You may have something there! An expression of what aligns with us most. For me her being female was something I embraced, for you it faded away! Our reality is always a reflection of where we are at! Pretty magical! Thank you for your experience as well!
Really loved the part where she told that men don't wanna open unless they feel nothing they feel responsible towards will collapse
Yesss
Weird how it's taboo to speak about being interested in status while it's something people are supposed to care about and chase. How are you supposed to achieve something if you're not being honest about wanting it in the first place? Sending mixed signals to the universe gets you mixed results..
true... but hers the thing.. binch watch her videos .. u must take time for you and adk yourself... what makes you happy... what does it feel for u .... what makes you happy.. not what you u do for others to get valedation in order to feel worthy or needed... get your petsonal boundaries in place... i wish u luck love and truth
Don't like how you are role playing a male but clearly miss presenting what males actually think or feel considering u are not a male. Just saying, like u cannot represent an entire gender by putting on a hat
I know right? And if you ARE open about wanting it, you are an Asshole with a capital A.
sorry honey
You can own things but you shouldn't let things own you.
I love this video. It kind of gives my female aspects a confidence boost, because I always thought men didn't want any aspect of the feminin. Knowing they like us to take care of them and to support them feels good. It also feels good knowing that they want to own us not as objects but as a different beautiful unpredictable species. ❤️❤️❤️Thank u for showing this Teal.
Thank you, you beautiful soul. As a man, it feels amazing to hear that. Thank you for understanding me.
Same here! I too felt a weight lift as I watched this video, and I was surprised because I am a woman and didn’t expect that to happen. Somehow seeing that second male aspect made me feel free and open as well. I dunno, maybe it was the heavy burden that patriarchy placed onto me when I was a little girl? Maybe that’s what was released when I saw the second male aspect - just knowing that that possibility even exists was so liberating.
“it also feels good knowing that they want to own us not as objects but as a different beautiful unpredictable species” - you’ve put it perfectly. It does feel wonderful, doesn’t it? :) To be celebrated for our feminine spontaneity and creative energy for once!
Women won't be "owned" by anyone anymore no matter how "nice" anyone makes it sound like
And we are becoming free from the cage of "beauty" as well.
Wow! You thought that! I think you thought that because you saw the masculine defense I spoke about earlier. Far from making his needs of the feminine known men draw into a stoic masculine defense when we DON'T get our needs met. It was so convincing to you that you must have thought men don't even require anything at all. I'll post my comment again here: You portray men as "wanting a mommy" and a sissy if a man expects "a woman to take care of him" I don't thibk men are this disconnected from ourself to think this. Maybe we are browbeaten by women to deny our needs and we do but men have needs from women. Men want to be looked after and tended to and yes in a motherly way of sorts. It's fair to say women want to be cared for in a masculine way. Men are taught to deny our needs in order to please women because women have been told they owe men nothing. It's damaging to men when women are told it's demeaning to women to care for men. "To expect anything of women is to trap an ocean. I like how wild they are" He's lieing to himself in order to cope with not having his needs met so he takes on even more responsibility with nothing in return. A self respecting man has needs and does have expectations of a woman. It's said men are simple and have no needs. Just dole out sex and were good. That is a classic stoic masculine defense to not getting our needs met and becomes destructive. Unlike women, the last thing he will do is complain about it and let her know. What I hear is him lieing to himself, then compensating by doubling down on masculine giving while dening his needs in order to make her happy. I see a man being consumed by women and allowing it to take place out of a stoic masculinity defense mechanism. This will eventually eat him up inside, make him lonely and unhappy and he may not even know why. Or if he does he can't escape his masculine defense in order to say what's wrong. I see him withdrawing from his wife and not even be able to admit to himself that his needs aren't being met..he simply withdraws from her until things fall apart.
That moment when learning about masculinity from a naked women you never met that channels the divine masculine isnt even strange to you anymore...
What?
I definitely identified with the walking on broken glass. Personally, less so the woman in society views though for the first.
For the second part, I felt lots of resonance, but can't quite embody that part, due to my life being on broken glass
ALSO when you came back to the first part smiling, I vibe with that so much. After discovering this for us men we need to start giving ourselves more permission to become more of the second. And when we run into ourselves, keep it in mind as a compass :)
Good luck,man. You absolutely can be free and will one day ^^ Keep your light,awesome being
I remember dating my ex... I wanted nothing more than to meet all her needs of protection and love, but couldn't provide it at the time. The Shame I felt....was so real.
And here teal puts it into perspective
I just wanna say that the longer i do semen retention, the more and more i feel like the divine masculine in this video. I’m getting close to a year on retention and the level of self confidence and self awareness I’ve gotten is unreal. I feel like I’m finding my real self and that real self definitely feels primal like teal described.
So that means no sex too, or only no masturbation
It means he has trained himself to climax and not ejaculate if I am understanding that correctly. It is also a way for men to have multiple climaxes in one go around. (That's how I know about it) I always felt like men kinda got the shaft on that one and started looking into if it's possible for men to have multiple...because you should be able to 😊. @jaredmello
@@jaredmello..didn't know how to add to the reply above 😂😅
Why r u red pill if your masculinity is divine ?
@@AlyaaAbraham lol how am i red pill?
It was so helpful to see Teal embody these energies, for me. Seeing a woman doing this really helped me open up and be willing to extend my compassion to the 1st male aspect, which was pretty triggering to me. Trying to listen to actual men expressing those sentiments just makes me want to bash in some heads, so this was enlightening. I'm going to share this with the BF and see what he thinks. Thank you, Teal!
Teal, you are so talented! Regardless of whether people believe you are channeling or method acting, this is just pure empathic gold. Brava!
I'm a woman, and as anyone might guess by my icon, I've always been really drawn to rock music, and rock stars. And now, after watching this video, I think I see better why that is, as many of them embody a lot of the characteristics of the "primal" male aspect (right down to the long hair and no shirt! 😁).
Creativity, confidence, freedom, very open/overt and welcoming (as opposed to predatory) sexuality, community leadership (lots of rock bands develop "tribes" of devoted fans that they look after, like the Deadheads or the KISS Army), lots of resources at his disposal/provider potential, displays of physical strength/energy (dancing, stage-diving, etc.), working together as a loving team with other males instead of childish competition and throat-cutting...and probably lots more aspects. It probably explains the groupie phenomenon, too. Women see some of that divine masculine coming out and they go nuts for it.
And if you're looking at a band like Nirvana, for example, you'll see men who are not only *not* intimidated by women's talents, but who actively support and provide safe space for women and their creativity (for example by touring with and promoting all-female bands like L7, Shonen Knife, or Calamity Jane; making their gigs safe spaces by stopping the show anytime a woman was getting groped; organising and playing benefit concerts specifcally for women's issues/charities). All the men in Nirvana are/were really good examples of that type of divine masculine.
Thank you so much for posting this, Teal. I don't think we can solve societal problems until we address this honestly.
Surprisingly well done, I have little to no objections to your interpretation
*It's a bit sad it takes a genius uber-talented woman to show men what true connected (divine) masculinity is, but it was a rather brilliant energy-channeling performance by Teal.* I thought the conclusion and summary were especially insightful and priceless. The more intuitive man is happier and NOT threatened by women.. no matter what role they play.. as he is more connected and in flow with his primal masculine energy which includes the fact he is simply genetically far stronger physically than a woman.. whether he has a 3 piece suit on(or she does!) or he is donning casual hippie-ware. *Fabulous work, Teal! - Clearly, becoming an actress is ALSO an available career avenue for you from a talent perspective.* :)
Haha cmon really
I agree I was expecting to cringe all the way through, but when she was the "Traditional Guy" I thought, yep, he reminds me of half of my ex-boyfriends and when she was the second guy I felt intensely attracted to her.
@@jdwyer5708 I feel like this is also a really good example of the two energies inside every individual. Like when you look at charts feminin energy is intuitive and flowy and emotion and the divine masculine has integrated those things within its essence. Just like the divine feminine has the masculine integrated. The expression that comes out is unique to every person and different between men and women
I also felt that wild attraction.
Incredibly encapsulated 🤍
I actually had a conversation about that topic, with a male friend, a couple days ago. He especially talked about, how he was raised with the stigma, that every man is 'only driven by their physical desire' and that they're all 'misogynists and rapists' and stuff. I was shocked and felt so very sad for him. I respect and admire him a lot, for his courage to open up and speak about his experiences and his 'male perspective'. It helped me so much, to better understand what (at least some) men are going through, especially when it comes to dealing with women or persons of a different sex in general. We are all in this together, no matter how we identify (sexually). We can only live together in harmony, when we learn to see and understand each others perspective.
This struck such a deep chord for me, especially the ending. I felt like a lot of what you said I felt or knew but could never articulate, it felt like jigsaw pieces snapping together
Yup, yup and yup!
"I feel like a criminal that didn't do anything"... 😖
Teared up a bit. Thank you. I have never felt so understood. (I'm a bit different but 95% on it) if i could find a woman who would even be open to recieving me like this... and listening and understanding like her... i would feel compelled to give her the world
Hell yeah! I'm so psyched to be watching this video! Thank you so much Teal you are a bloody lifesaver
bloody lifesaver thats scary
This is compelling viewing. Measured, assertive, vulnerable, it’s confusion creates clarity and the anger and frustration that is apparent in every man.
Well done nailing the influence of mothers if not kept in check. You’re a class act Teal Swan. Thankyou for verbalising and role playing the traumas and dramas. that will enable me to feed my masculine essence and natural expression. Own it, claim it and collecting it from luggage carousel number 5.
Absolutely spot on! My thoughts exactly on this mess today. Seems like the more driven and disciplined a man is. The harder it is to find a women thats a match. And it goes from them loving those qualities about you to them shaming you for those same qualities months /years later. As a man, anything you do or say (good or bad) WILL be used against you at a later date. lol Great job Team Teal. Hope to have the pleasure of meeting you folks next week at the mirror event. Thanks for sharing!
John Franco the more driven and discipline you are, the more it motivates a woman to stay in check with herself. So, it is not about finding a good match but rather how bad she wants to be with a man you are.
Were you trying to ''discipline'' her and got rejected after that? Are you sure she rejected you because of those characteristic you have? How did you end up feeling shamed? Maybe that women was just crazy and have nothing to do with what most women are.
Brilliant indeed. I feel more attuned with the non-traditional role and I have been working for more than a decade on my own emotional trauma but since 6-2017 the discovery of this channel change so much. This came to me when I needed the most. I need to find my home where I can manifest my truth. Thank you Teal.
"A world full of sissy boys."
Those have been my thoughts exactly!
Can you expound on this? Or would
You like to at least?
My bad. I should I kept watching before I commented to you. No need to explain I totally understand your comment now. Although that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t want to hear more!
I like the second guy. He's way more trust worthy and nice
I could have set through 3 hours of this. Miss Teal Swan thank you.
streamliner86 same!!! Lol incredible
Second that
This Video got me almost layed last night. I opened my long hair, took of my shirt, and danced while i spread my wings. I with you on building the intentional communitys and take on health (gosh, its simple Traditional Chinese Medicine...Food Emotions), Living, Parenting, Go with the Flow Life Purpose Jobs... I say yes to that... while at the same time i know i am a piece of dirt AND fantastic human being. Lets ROCK!
Wow, that quote about bitterness is so true. "I want bitter people to stay like 100 miles away from me." Resentment is ANATHEMA to me, I hate it so much. Good video, Teal!
“It doesn’t see that I created that”... part of me. It is so true. “I have been taught I can’t trust myself...” so true.
Every aspect of society has taught us to be disconnected. From the cradle. We have been fragmented and traumatised. Spiritual, emotional, physical and sexual “violence” has been the root of this. To stay committed and connected requires dealing with this abuse.
Because of our shadow we have bought into the idea to be afraid of our true nature.
Great work by Teal very inspiring.
This was powerful stuff! I’ve seen a lot aspect 1 in Society. I resonated a lot with Aspect 2. What I’ve been feeling since I was a young child. A lot folks will put down aspect 2 and judge us a certain way, it can lead to isolation which is why we’re just very hard to find
As a woman I just feel more secure in my masculinity and in men if they have this mindset in mind..
Huh? I'm a woman and I really want to understand...what you meant. And YeS, I reread the comment multiple times!! 😜💬🗨
That's so interesting. I feel off when I'm in my masculine too long
@D MMy femininity with a man has nothing to do that I feel secure with my masculinity, i feel i got to explore this as a single parent to a son but one doesnt have to be one, i feel i cant be all either within both feminine and masculine energy, it is interesting and i love understanding both perspective. In my masculinity gives me an idea but has no answer and yet room to wiggle or more yet no room.
How can one not praise it all, it is both liberating and humble and yet strong and solid and fuels, empowers and protect femininity and yet dont need or expect any exchange from one another
Teal, could you do a video of when a Man or Woman integrates masculine and or feminine energy both within their being, but still maintaining their primary identity?
I think it's equally important that men and women understand each other, that neither one are perfect. We can help each other with other aspects; Some men are more creative and caring than some women. And some women are more leading and industrial than some men. Yet, with this spectral balance they still maintain sexual balance within their being.
I second this❤
Yes I totally agree!
Teal's like, I don't want to wear a shirt at all! Blake: Errr, ummmmm
hahahahaha lol :'D
I was really attracted to teal just then when she channeled the 2nd part and then she said she knows that this is what women want and winked, I literally died a little. I really hope that this encourages men to be themselved and set their divine masculine free.
@@AsNatureIntended13 hahahaha me toooo 😂
He seems like he could flow with it... surprising maybe, but he’s channeling as well
They used to be married!
@@goodhumourman they were married?
OMG. Revolutionary. My husband and I have talked about these things for years. Lol
As a women my masculine 100% resonates with the second aspect. I actually can be very masculine at times I’m a triple Leo lol. And my feminine totally doesn’t mind there being separation between men and women. I want to be taken care of, provided, for and dominated in certain areas of a relationship. I love this video, it was brilliant.
4x sag here and sameee *high five*. We re all mozaics in our own right but it s beautiful to see the potential and healing of each of these energies ^^
Real man hate woman who are to much in there masculine..this is the sickness of our modern times. The male and female roles are reversed thats why we all are confused..its called social programming its going on since the 50s. The result is becomming an actual problem in society today.
@@SabyMp Your comment screams the energy of the 1st type (man). And that's not a good thing.
@@activellabella5076 sorry to say but I am far from the first type..my comment regards to woman who are lost and programmed and act like a man. But at the same time they like to find a man who is soft and more feminine so they have control in the relationship..thats what i see arround me..
@@SabyMpNo one likes feminine men. We want to be protected, we don’t want servants.
This second male is completely how I perceive my dad. He is able to feel his and other people's emotions. And I definitely feel protected next to him.
you re lucky to have had that experience... pass this on your lineage and community!
The first aspect is repulsive, the second aspect is literally the sexiest thing I have ever seen jfc 😩😩😩😩
Community Stripper the second one is what women want men to be like 😂 the only reason some men “act “ like that is to get more pussy
@@FrankValdez1234 Think about it in terms of evolution. If women get horny for the 2nd one, then the 2nd would outsurvive the 1st ones. Something must have happened (social conditioning) that men are not like the 2nd one in the first place (you only act, hmm do you mean you don't enjoy acting that? if you get pussy and validation for being the 2nd one why not to be it most of the time?).
@@zeedo666 You don't like being 2nd? I personally think he was very manly (more than 1nd)
That's from my pussy's percepective to be direct
@Flowered Sentiments YOU ARE AWAKE. I say this as a black woman and many of US have soo much submissive work to do. We fail at being partners which is why we are alone.
#sotonat1on
Thank you!!!
I know if Teal reads these comments but I have to give an astounding THANK YOU. I actually saw this video 3 hours after it was posted and waited days to watch it because, based on other videos, well, I expected to see something I would have disagreed with and I was putting off something that I thought would arouse negative feelings about you. I couldn't have been more off. I see myself as mostly the second aspect with forced traits of the first. I actually see myself as the divine masculine awakened into a time when I have been shackled and displaced, trying to feel my way around the zietgeist. I think a few things weren't covered though. Mostly, that, for a true masculine soul, the need for support is all emotional and sex is a deep well of emotional support for the true masculine. Most other manifestations of sexual desire are a distortion. You mentioned in passing that the "traditional" system was derived for the misguided purpose of SECURING that emotional support(locking it in by any means necessary) and ideally that is what a man wants: I support you physically so you can support me emotionally so I can support you physically) but no connected, intuitive man wants a weak woman either. A vulnerable woman, yes but not a weak woman. This something I realized when I came to the conclusion that the ideal relationship dynamic is when you could go on "naked and afraid" and both parties would mutually thrive, with shared responsibilities and recognition of each others strengths and weaknesses. The idea of set Roles should be eschewed for optimum cohesion.
I like this comment.
I think there is truth in what you said about "securing" a source of emotional support.
I think that's ok, and natural and good.
But it's a good way to think of it.
The bargain is struck between a man and a woman, to provide for each other's needs.
Hi! I'm a man.
Yup.
Other than the lack of how men recharge their energy, I really enjoyed this video.
I can't keep on going without resting.
When my adult duties aren't needed, resting in a caring woman's comfort is the best rest that I know. There I have time to heal my inner self.
I feel revived afterwards, like I've been reborn from something deep. And my energy's a thousand folds stronger.
If my being is let in, women are WAY better at being a comforting resting place for me.
May be that men are better at comforting women, or that women are just a pit of comfort for other human beings (or it's just me). I wouldn't know.
Women, how do you feel the difference between being in comfort by the different genders?
Very unique to me I think, but to answer your question as a woman, I don't experience energy recharge after resting with someone comforting me in the level that you described for yourself, and, I can feel comforted by both genders, but when comforted by a man I trust and love the feelings of safety and reliability are very intense, and when comforted by a woman I connect with and love then the feelings of care and openness are really intense. In both occasions love is the primary feeling, but these seem to be the tones surrounding, in my case anyways.
Take care.
Lovely comment. To answer your question, yes. Women are comforting in a soothing feminine way. Safe Men make me feel safe enough to relax and be comforting and feminine myself.
The second man is the one I've been craving! The one I've been longing for. I have felt hes out there somewhere. I can sense him in my husband and he comes out from time to time and it drives me crazy because I want more of him. It feels like I am allowed to be a woman and I can relax into that. It's like he holds a safe space for me to dance within. I feel like when he holds his place as masculine I am able to hold my place as feminine. It feels heavy and unnatural to me to shoulder that energy and I've thought I've needed to. I do see the suppression he's under, and I see how I've been apart of that suppression. Thank you teal, this helped heal a part of my father wound too and made me look at how I've treated the masculine ❤
I have been using youtube for 12 years. This is one of the best videos I have seen here. Thank you so much
Teal, I don’t know how you do it. You have such a profound insight into the minds and hearts of guys. I hope to find more guidance and advice, possibly workshops or guides to work through some of the challenges we face. I’d buy the book if you wrote one for us guys. I’d buy it for my friends. I myself wish to be an authentic man, but struggle finding the truth as I scan the internet. All your work resonates greatly with me. You are amazing.
Thank you for this quality content. As a trans woman, I can feel some of my resistance to masculinity slipping away. This perspective makes it feel less like a threat to my identity and more like something I merely don't personally wish to embody. I can also feel my anger toward the male gender cooling down. Funny that that's something I have recently been working on. I also have to say that as a heavily lesbian leaning pansexual, I would probably be a lot less repulsed by men if more of them were aligned with the primal essence.
Aaa you are awesome. I m a trans guy and I wondered if trans folks were out there also shedding metaphorical skin and learning to embrace all parts of ourselves. We can stay true to our identity and open to understand all facets of it and free at the same time. Blessings to you,sister.
Spot on (mostly),
I feel like I want to become succesfull doing something I love, to be able to provide both physically and emotionally to a family. I feel the freedom by just letting go and it's awesome. While working as a group fitness instructor I get the leader "feeling" every week. The problem I have is that I feel so free and happy with myself I don't feel the need to go to parties or hang out with friends. And yeah, as an instructor I have to be carefull not to say or do something which in this world would make a woman feel wierd. I hate having to think of what I do when I see a woman outside in the dark. BUT ..
.. I have come to the conclusion that if I stay true to the free man version, no one is afraid of me and I can connect truely with every woman I meet. If I speak the truth and doesn't blend out to think in my brain, people (woman) will sense the authenticity and like me for who I am, no matter what I say or do.
Thanks Teal!
This is one of the best videos I've seen from Teal, and a wonderful channeling. As a woman it gave so much energy and so much hope for the masculine, I crave a divine masculine like that in my life. That energy is just like the sun
Every person on earth should see this. Brilliant!
Thank you for this video, Teal. I've been feeling very confused about men, what they want, why they do some things that they do, what they think and why many seem really angry especially towards women. This video clarified a lot of things for me. Hopefully it will benefit both myself and the men in my life I care about.
This felt absolutely perfect. It actually reflects many thoughts and Feelings of my own. I felt really repulsed by the first one because I Always felt it was just this box and I actually Always fought to be that second one as much as I can. The Thing I got from this Video is to embrace the Deep nature of mine I Always knew existed even more so I loose the fear of it being disaproved in Society and just do it.
Thank you teal, you let me out.
where were you?
@@sednafloating7027 in a hell of my own making
Richard Brawley that’s great to hear I’m happy for u ❤️❤️
the boat comes back when they're all dead
Let yourself roaaar!!
Absolutely incredible, I actually never knew the second man existed. I'm really glad you showed him to us, I understand him.
watch the movie Rob Roy. liam neeson demonstrates positive ownership in that movie. it's a movie recommended by teal herself!
@@DavidLinn I will thanks :D
I’m envious of how men naturally feel safer than we women do
Same tbh
We don't... We're terrified every second, but we have to bury that, laugh about it... Because if we didn't you'd be even more terrified... Would you prefer men wear fear or courage... Bravery and courage aren't an absence of fear.
That interesting thing to say. Can you imagine how fearful it is to always have to put yourself in danger to protect those who are more vulnerable then u BUT u still scared but have to step up to the plate of Protection. That's how alot of men feel but can't express it because it makes them look weak. Now we don't go thru that. So know I don't envy them. I admire them alot and respect that aspect of them and that part of life. SHOUT OUTS TO THE MEN. My husband is awesome 👌 👏 😘
@@phglam a lot of men are glad to do that. I'm a woman and even I am glad to protect the people I love.
@@EveofPyrite very true BUt as men they are designed physically to be stronger then women ,children, elderly etc. They have to put they self out there to protect. WE as women choose to. PROTECT. but we are only obligated to protect the children. Men have to protect Everybody.
Its soO true! I can recognize this split n men all over the place.
Yes. It's incredible how spot on this was.
@@queengoblin
BS!!
I dipped into it part way through while recording it for viewing later - well I was floored by how f*****g brilliantly Teal was at channeling' the current masculine energy! Awesome Teal !!!
I love Teal's ability to see all sides.
This is so scarily accurate, it makes me feel like I have no original thoughts.
A great vid would definitely be an actual Male & actual Female role freely in the same vid and see what happens
The second one is great to be striving for! Lots of balance and nuance there. I only recently discovered Teal, and she’s pretty awesome. A wonderful discovery.
Thanks for seeing us Teal ❤️
What you might call channeling, I learned to do this during "blind contour" drawing. Your ability to do this with an animated entity is a phenomenal application; I hadn't considered. Genius. // It is not about separation and differences (closed system analysis of Western Dualism). It's about finding the emergent synergy within the united diversity (Dynamical Systems Theory). The Orientals understood it as the harmony of the Ying and Yang (Eastern Religion). Both the male states you presented long to find and reclaim this lost relationship/harmony with womanhood.
Damn. I’m a gay man and this was still so relatable. We definitely faced different challenges though. Teal can you PLEASE pretend to be a gay male in your next video. We have very little guidance or direction or role models to look to for healthy relationship behaviors and advice.
I was about to comment the same!
i can't even begin to describe how much this helps me. thank you for showing this to me, much love!
"I feel like to expect anything of a woman is to trap the ocean."
Bam.
Teal makes a helluva man.
Teal, you’re such a gift. As a woman, this has helped me heal my wounded masculine. The example that I had for masculinity was my father. He did the best he could but I didn’t realize how much of his trapped traits I’ve held inside. I’ve been trapped in many ways then one in my masculinity. Thank you for helping me be set free within. Love to you
As a woman I feel super in love and drawn to both men splits... the first one makes me feel safer...the second one is even more attractive but I feel insecure around him because his so open and dynamic... so i tend to choose men that remind me more of the first split although I feel like they suffocate me... interesting ^_^
Weird, you thought the first one was safe? To me, he seemed like a ball of negative energy ready to explode - a ticking time bomb.
Father wounds?? The first man is repulsive to me because of how unsafe he feels to my body.
The first fragment suffers from an abject lack of responsibility and as such, wallows in self pity and anger at women. If you can't take responsibility, truly, then you can't take positive ownership. You just become a controlling tyrant with no regard to how those you affect feel, think, or anything else. It's dehumanizing. It also limits their growth because they're either in the archetype of the tyrant or the man child who doesn't want to sacrifice or take responsibility for anything.
As a woman this explains a lot. I kinda wish men knew how to express this. Now that I have a better idea it makes so much more sense. I'm also gender fluid so I feel that second masculine aspect sometimes. Needing to know when I can let myself break down and wanting to protect others. And I also like that there's a difference between men and woman. I like that there's a space for feeling like that. But I also respect people who don't feel like either. As long as I can be myself, that's what matters. Also if women make you feel shitty for doing something nice like holding a door open for them then that's on them. That's not you being disrespectful. True femininists are secure in themselves. They want freedom for men and woman. And men should also have the freedom to want to be gentlemen or live their lives in a more traditional role if they want to. I guess the main thing I want to apologize for is that group of feminists that are kinda like the bad apples of the group. And if makes you guys feel better I don't understand them either.
I want this second man!
Me too!!
@Joseph_66 I don't agree. When I heard the no1 I felt like the man I want is gone. If I would meet a man like that I wouldn't be with him at all.
That's because when men are TRYING/faking to be kind, they supress their masculine energy and that's why they finish last. That's my opinion from experience. Also if I supress my feminine side, I noticed men don't approach me.
@@thisisntallowed9560 a problem that some men have is that we have been taught,by women that masculinity is wrong which is why we suppress it, we learn how to be men by listening to women but then find we are unnatractive, we then see men who have all the traits that women complain about being highly successful with women which is why men need to watch what women do rather than listen to what they say.
@@dizmop I don't think masculinity is wrong, I actually feel attracted to it.
But I feel like the way masculinity has been described (being violent, bad...), men are trying to be masculine, therefore they are trying to be violent, emotionless and bad sometimes. And it feels to me that this maybe false definition is destrying the mature, protective man that I'm attracted to. And I honestly don't know what is the true definition of masculinity.
I just want a masculine man that I can trust
I guess if a man would just follow his feelings and intuition he would find out the definition of masculinity. A man who follow his own definition of what it is to be himself.
If he acts like he wants to be someone he's not by being cut off emotionally and acting all tough (exaggerating it), I'm not attracted.
And I'm not attracted to a man who acts submissive (I don't know how to describe it). You know if a man repress his masculine side because he doesn't want to ''frighten'' or ''displease'' me, it might feels unnatural, if he's doing it I can't notice it and I've been dating men who were boring as hell and I think it's because of that. He's faking being gentle for example.
I found myself attracted to men who were almost mean to me (maybe that's just me) but I think it's because it makes me feel more submissive and it awakens my hormones you know. I like when men tease me that's a good way to make me feel little.
I don't know if what I'm saying feel completly insulting to you?? I don't have the answer
@@dizmop What part of your masculinity do you think is wrong?
This is so crazy, I'm in tears.. being a single mom for so many years. I stayed married to this masculine essence faithfully, even in my singleness, because it's like I am holding down the fort, playing both roles, while waiting for him to arise.. yet, I'm not particularly drawn to having a man who does not see me as his one and only Queen. I do not want to lead a harem..
Yes
So in other words men don't want the "traditional role" and don't want to be told they are women for not taking on that false role.
My body was shaking through the traditional role aspect. Primarily my femanine aspect was reacting to this energy. This truth of current cultural experience.
I felt the love and support through this secondary expression. A lot more safety in my body.
"And the intelligent will shine like the splendor of the firmament, and those who justify many will be like the stars forever and ever"
Guy two made me cry. I see so much of this in my man's behavior. This makes me really want to meet you someday Teal.
Male, 26, have approximately 0% of that baseball hat guy. Pretty accurate for my classmates. Never understood what were those mysterious things they wanted/needed to do so badly. Couldn't help but think they had some other reasons to be unease and/or abusive upbringing that made them like that. They seemed brainwashed to me, like they are repeating things they don't really mean.
I've figured a lot of this stuff myself but that explains the full the picture. I was looking for this information my whole life. Thank you Teal, you have a gift and I really appreciate you ❤️
On the second “split” she have lot of the perspective of an Gemini type of man. She is Gemini herself.
Everybody in the comments is saying the second aspect is super sexy. Is that something you feel about Gemini men?
No, actually I ended up not liking gemini for their splits generally, but this is my personal interpretation. specially the desire to be always "free" which I tend to not oppose to until results into not being able to assume "any type of" responsibility. It looked to me like a lack of capacity for introspection. Apart from what Teal exposes here we have to realize that life is not always displayed the way we like individually and eventually we all have to make compromises and also understand very well team work. Also males in real life can display both characters exposed here in one, maybe at different times in life. Also there are other many aspects. A Capricorn male is more of a traditional type by nature and has his own sex appeal, for example. There is so much more about relationships than it is explained here.
@@cameliaancacoca4013 I see. I'm a Gemini man, and a big fan of Jordan Peterson who teaches that meaning is to be found in responsibility. Thus I feel more free when I've fulfilled my responsibilities, as long as I chose those responsibilities freely in the first place. Honest communication is also something I feel is deeply intertwined with Gemini's freedom, so if we give in to manipulation & duplicity it becomes harder to live honestly and thus harder to freely express ourselves. Thus I believe genuine freedom for Gemini is achieved through maturation and integration. But that's just my shower thoughts lol. Peace and love be with you 🙏
Wow this was amazing!! Thankyou so much Teal! What the 'true' male essence said at the end had me in tears, it just struck the chord of truth ❤️
This is healing my insomnia lol
What I think is truly amazing is that you did this in response to people asking, which I think is freakin awesome! It's an unleashing of the higher male within both men and women, liberation for all!
It did trigger stuff in me and I found myself arguing with the 'guy'
Wow. The "provider" and reference to everything and everyone needing to thrive under his responsibility is a very helpful bottom line. Both aspects agreeing on that is fascinating, empowering and affecting me deeply.
Absolutely incredible..beautiful. Makes my heart swell with excitement that this mentality exists. 🙏♥️
Teals interpretation of the two positions consider active engagement with the masculine identity. Because I felt disagreement with the interpretations, it made me challenge in myself what my masculine role is. I am a privileged white guy, I have been able to be an individual. It has given me many freedoms, but also has meant I have lost touch with the importance of identity as masculine. I look forward to running through the questions and seeing what my masculine essence comes up with. Tuning in to this element of myself, which I considered insignificant, gave me insights of fear of responsibility. Fortunately my other aspects of myself and my privileged position lead me forward naturally towards responsibility over time. This previously unconscious conflict, now recognised is something I can really look into. Very useful video. Thank you teal.
You gotta stop seeing your skin color as a privilege. Whites are a global minority and enduring an active racist hate campaign against them. This privileged white man nonsense has got to go. All you're doing is denying reality to look like a good person to people who hate you.
I definitely lean more towards the second one, but I would love to see you take on the consciousness of gay men.
For me there is a huge difference between this video an the video about the split in women. In this video I had the feeling Teal swas channeling the traditional man and the enlightend man, when in the other video it felt more like the split between the traditional and the modern woman and I would love to see also the enlightend woman and the modern man part.
I truly resonate with the first one. The second one seems like an unrealistic fantasy projected by women. The first one is the shaming of men who aren't how they want. The second is a projection of a fantasy, and the expression of the box they expect men to be in.
Agree
The second one is exactly how the divine masculine is supposed to be. The first is insecure, confused, and immature. Which is a direct result of society trying to control us.
The fact that I already did this before I ever thought about watching this and the integrated masculine talked and behaved exactly as shown... INCLUDING LONG HAIR AND REFUSING TO WEAR A SHIRT hahahaha love that guy. Perfectly executed. The only thing I thought I wish I could tell the second aspect is "since you see the "traditional" as a boy, doesn't that make him your son you need to take care of? Shouldn't you own him too?" because all I could feel from that boy is someone who feels uncertain, not good enough and unappreciated. It's like an instinct" You're hurting and I can't you leave like that", and when at the end he started talking about this ghost inside of him I got incredibly excited thinking "yes! Come closer, come closer!"
Wow well done, this is terrific, feel super heard and seen rn, awesome teal, ur incredibly talented, great skills, great perspective,
It is extraordinary for a woman to understand men so well and help men to fine their true self. About three years ago I realized that my real self deep inside was different than the unhappy life I was accepting so I did make difficult choices facing the hardship and difficulties changing my life. I have not quite succeded yet but now I have hope again and I'm working at it like if I feel twenty year younger.
Please make videos with the 2nd male
Wow.. Fantastique Thanks. Teal IS THE Divine masculine lol!
Not quite. But this is an AMAZING performance! I *love* Teal!