My God you are too much. You are teaching us. My ex husband left me for old supply. They are supposed getting married and the old/ new supply been doing all she can to rub it in my face. I had to block and make my social media private. My ex just asked me to be friends. I said absolutely not. They been trying to blend the family with my kids. My kids are grown thank God. My kids said mommy daddy is toxic. I feel like I am on Days of our lives. They love chaos and confusion for real.
Narcissists love to triangulate as many people as they possibly can for their never-ending source of fuel supply. They want to keep everyone around them in a tizzy. It makes them feel all special, and full of adoration. Soulless Creatures... Empty meat suits!
That part about "have their cake and eat it, too" really struck me. One time, when I caught my (now ex) husband texting a woman, he said, with a complete serious face, "I thought I could have you AND have other women". He's a psycho, lunatic and narcissist all rolled into one.
Their ego is boundless, thinking we are going to accept substandard treatment. I discarded that 🤡 then blocked him on everything, there will be no hoover!! 😊
Haha mine said what he doesn't get from me he gets from the other one lol. He said she is mediocre in bed and nothing compares to what him and I had but he gets the feelings of love and emotions from her. He said he was not in love with me and did not have the soul connection .
I think the disorder needs to be reclassified in the DSM as a delusional disorder or developmental disorder bc there is so much more going on than a personality disorder. They should be diagnosed more frequently and get an SSI check bc they are intellectually impaired and delusional 😂
Telsha, on the HONEYMOON, the energy changed. He checked out like a year and a half into the marriage..... You are so right. I wish I had known what this was prior to MARRRYING this weirdo! I am officially free thank JESUS! I can't believe I had to go through this...
Exactly what my narc did. He told me I was the only one in the marriage after 3 months, cheated so many times in just a year and discarded me. Lied he has married to the new supply even before giving me a divorce petition and now they are fighting and devaluing each other. I am thriving and healing and God has blessed me with six figures job while they and the flying monkeys are bowing their heads in shame.
I was the one he wanted to marry, but I figured him out. I saw how he was trying to groom me for minimum effort while he returned to his harlem. I realised that he loved my supply and he was attracted to me physically but ultimately I was just a stand in for his optics. I made him look good. See him tying to convince me how much he misses me and that he thinks about me every minute of every day, yet he turned me into an object for his convenience. He really is for the birds!! Once I came to my senses I took my 🥾 🥾 and ran when he least expected it; 6 months after meeting him. Good bye crow!!!
😅 Yep T. Can you only imagine the hell that Narc is putting the new wife through? That supply is seeing that ugly face behind that Narc mask. Say a little heart felt prayer for her ladies. 😢
I was the new supply we got married- he was still talking to the old supply and all the others he had behind my back. Yep they do sleep with street women- there own kind. they do! Now I’m the old supply- he tried coming back to me. Nope, changed my number then moved away..
Yesterday was my last day at court with the narc I got 75 percent and he got 25 percent I got to live in the house with the kids so can u imagine what going on over there he’s must be over there giving it to the new supply blaming her for all he’s mistakes telling her it’s her fault why he lost he’s over there giving it to her now thank god am free free at last
the biggest shock ever was when I spoke to the clerk of the justice of the the peace who married us...maybe 10 month later.. she said the judge came back after the wedding that day and said "well Thats not going to work" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the judge had seen his share of con men.
They can make a new pair of shoes look dusty, dirty, and raggedy within a few days. It's the truth! The creatures are destructive from their feet up... Human Wrecking Balls!
any relationship or marriage will never work if God did not bring the two together to do His will. Every relationship will die and not be strong or stable without Christ being the center of the bond. People fight against God's will trying to create their own relationships which will only cause them pain, regret, and wasted time. God will close their doors and they will always have lack, struggles, depression, anxiety, and they will never trust one another.
I was the new supply that he married. I had no prior knowledge of NPD. I quickly found out and sent him back to her, his mammie or whoever he is with now. Worst 4 months of my life. Best thing I ever grew through tho!
@unkn0wnr0ckstar okay!!!!!!! Something wasn't right, and I knew I was healed more than that. He crossed a boundary that I didn't realize yet was a boundary! He had to goooo
This is exactly what is happening with my ex narc. I was engaged to her for 2 years now she's engaged to a really old dude who looks like Yoda, no offense and they became engaged at the bistro she and I ate at regularly. Coincidence, I think not! They are having almost the exact same relationship I had with her and I will bet big dollars they go through with the wedding. But yet I almost expect a hoover after they tie the knot. Yes she is a clown.
You dodged a bullet 😉 and the funniest thing is that she is gaslighting herself by marrying that downgrade hoping you will be affected.. yes you are!! Big time! You’ll be sitting comfy with some 🍿seeing how her dumb arranged circus will collapse. Wish you well 🍀
Thank you for speaking the truth and educating!! Husband cheated on me with escorts he’d meet online for 16 years. I never would have believed it, but it’s true, he actually admitted it in the one moment of honesty I think I ever got. I’m never dealing with these people again.
😂😂😂😂 YES THESE BIRDS MAKES THE CRAZYNIESS MOVE.. WHEN IT COMES TO SUPPLY THEY ALWAYS DOWN GRADE AFTER US THE NEW SUPPLY LOOKS LIKE A OLD WIND MILL 😂Y'ALL THESE ADAM FAMILY CHARTERS ARE SOMETHING ELSE.. LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA ❤❤❤ I CANT STOP HOLLORING 😂😂 THESE ROACHES NEED TO BE SPRAYED
So I guess they both like old windmills cause the narc I was with has not put out any new pics of him or his new supply in a long time. Maybe he has it so buisy that he doesnt have any time for facebook😂
@@leandraherring1824 yeah the funny thing is that I dont think of him that often only when I see a pic of him somewhere that pops up. And then I do miss him, the person I thought he was. But yeah he was just a dusty weirdo. Backwards walking giraff
! ARE SO ON POINT!!.....YOU!! have me holding my side from laughing so hard when you sing...hit da light button!....is you rockn with yo girl? And we you be shouted... Yes, I say it......ducks with combat boots/Jerry curl wig slidn off.....pockets touching in bk. We are sooooooooo bless to have yo powerful voice informing us/praying for us/guiding us to a powerful place of healing/ renewal of our spiritual relationship with jaweh ! and the final ( no contact!)....B R E A K UP !! with the wicked evil narcissistic.... THANK YOU!!you are the DOC. of narcissistic behavior. And a beautiful joy of laughter.
It’s so true! My ex husband refused to settle and insisted on a trial… after 18 months of motion after motion in court drama we are finally divorced! He refused to settle even though we offered multiple reasonable offers in order to end it and avoid a trial. Nope he had to go all the way. He even went so far as to line up witnesses to testify towards his good character, and lied about mine. Anyway, after all was said and done, we ended a horrible 21 year marriage. It took the judge 90 days after the trial to render her decision I finally got the verdict and not only are we divorced but she gave me everything to include no visitation with our children. Only one is now still a minor at this point.. he testified that he never cheated on me, but his lawyer slipped up at one point, and try to make him seem like he was not a serial cheater and referred to his current supply as his long-term girlfriend…. He made this reference while I was on the stand during cross examination. Right after he said that I said, I’m not sure how he would have a long-term girlfriend, since we are currently still married…. Ok buddy. Meanwhile, during the 18 months of fighting for a divorce, he started sending me text messages and emails with Messages such as happy Mother’s Day. Hope you have a wonderful day blah blah blah. I guess he’s getting tired of the long-term girlfriend. 😂 sucks to be him 😂😂😂😂
Omg I'm going through this now and like you trying to stay out of court but it's not looking good even though there really isn't anything left to fight over bc the big issues have been resolved except he wants to be able to drop my child off god knows where overnights and I'm not ok with that when my child can just come back to my house. I really want to know how you got custody and no visitation 😮. I know he doesn't really want custody but its fighting for 50/50 but wants to drop the child off for overnights and only has him for a week at a time.
Thank you Telsha for allowing God to use you to promote healing for those who have suffered from narcissist abuse. I didn’t know how to put words to what I suffered through for many years and I wish that I had access to this type of information. I also appreciate your style of delivering your valuable insights! You make me laugh when I look back on a truly desperate situation. You are saving lives.
You really hit the target on this one. The narc had married me. We got married on a Wednesday and within that same week...damn sure nuff he started his 🤬with me early morning, on Friday 3 AM. We both were laying in the bed and his phone was beeping like crazy, back to back with text messages. This HIGH POCKET JACKASS had the nerve to text this person back right in front of me. I knew it was one of his " old supply" who he discarded to marry me." Got mad and pissed off when I questioned him about the early morning text messages. This damn fool tell me that it was his guy friend " from his job" texting to let him know what was going on at the job. I told him to stop with the bull.... He got mad and jumped out the bed when I said he and his friend must be gay. Ain't no straight men going to be texting each other back and forth at 3 in the morning. So we argued back n forth. He put his high pocket pants on and tried to leave the house. I stopped him at the door a few times and finally he pretended to go back to bed. Later that morning, "Friday," he left the house and I didn't see him until Sunday afternoon. He went to work on Saturday morning, driving for the city bus company. Someone told me they saw him driving the bus and had the other supply on the bus with him while he was working. So I'm guessing he spent a night with the other supply. Thank you Telsha for this video. You hit the 🎯! 😂 Love you girl!
Those internal demons don't let them sleep.😂 my ex narc would jump at as soon as I was sleep to leave. Smh 2,3,4 a.m. just disrespectful! I hope your doing better.
You speak the truth…..the Narc is afraid to be alone. M ex told me that he didn’t know how I was able to be without. He buried a second wife and a month later was starting a new relationship. I was trying to figure out when he had time to grieve! And why was he trying to be my “friend “ after the new marriage? What in the world?
His back burner now wife is a codependent narcissist too. 2 narcs. More videos about them marrying a new supply and one half their age would bring some more insight as to why they do this. This narc BIRD is a confused mess causing me to be confused and I just want this mess to leave my brain. 3.5 years healing and still healing. God has his grip on me though. Stay prayed up y’all.🙏🏻
for real. Mine narc went back to his ex wife and remarried her in secret while still seeing me. When I found out, he wanted to continue to see me. OMG the audacity. I blocked him.
Ms. T, you're always making me laugh at these clowns 😂😂😂 Thanks to God and you, I made it out and away from the narcissist I was married to. Thank you so, so very much for your words of wisdom. Your videos have taken me through some really tough days. You gave me hope when I really needed it. ❤ May God continue to bless you and help you to reach so many others.
😂😂😂😂Miss T you should have a Carriculum in every school about NPD..... (SERIOUSLY). Thanks to you and some other teachers on RUclips, I can spot them a miles away in thick fog. 🎉😂😂😂. I feel liberated to resist them completely🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃😂🎉🎉🎉
Hello Miss T thank you do much , my ex narc back to me because he had nowhere to go he's homeless, thing is I took him in,lost my place because of his loud rants we ended up staying in motel, may 1st 2022 he left me stranded with no money in July of 22 ran off and married my cousin 😮 yeah, to this day I'm still homeless sleeping in my car been going no contact every since, I'll get through it trust and believe My Creator has my back, 💯💪 thank you for your time and inspiration , 😅😊❤
Thank you for this insightful message. The Narssicis I was involved with is now married to the new supply ( which had been in the picture for 2 years when he was exposed) and he being an opportunist is realizing the God of this universe isn't pleased with his treatment of his children. He needed options he thought he would have but it's not working out the way he thought it would.... poor soul. I'm praying for mercy because if he got what he deserved OMG...I wouldn't wish what he deserves on anyone
😂 ~ YOU'RE GREAT T😁🎉 Almost all I can say is wheeew! 😂 Even before I'd figured it all out, exactly, I can only thank the dear, sweet, sweeeeet LOOORD that I had enough sense to keep prolonging the engagement. 😂 I was embarrassingly gullible, naive and waaaay too trusting......but that was then. 😂
I needed this! 4 years together.. 2 years of love bombing 2 years of Hell! Cheating Gaslighting disrespect! Never was I this naive person! Found out he’s “engaged” to a girl he cheated on me with less than 2 months of fully blocking him! I dodged a bullet! & yes he was sleeping w prostitues! Said he couldn’t be alone! He’s broke, no car, no license, living w his mother smh
Oh Lord Telsa I am so happy that I can laugh so hard over this madness that God took me out of😂 the Narc tried to contact me yesterday and realise that he is still on block after over 3 years!😂
I always wondered what he was thinking in his twisted mind staring at our huge portrait of our wedding on the wall I made the biggest mistake of My life Only to find out I made the biggest mistake of My life
I know I was the one who got away 😂🤲🏽🙌🏽♥️ Five years down the drain but I never felt so free in the end and I Thank God 🤲🏽for giving me that peace ✌🏽 to be able to move forward and don’t look back nor question the bullshit he lied about over the years know sex 🙌🏽🤲🏽 I got away untouched he wore me down confused 🤔 me all the time but I couldn’t be broken and I was unbothered by him getting Married 😂happy honesty relief from all the emotions and burden of a Devil, I Felt Free 😢❤🤲🏽
I'm so grateful for you and your channel. Fresh out of a narc relationship and going through the detox process. Thankfully they are leaving to move to another state in a couple weeks... And of course there is the request to remain friends and check in periodically. I flat out told him there is no need, and he tried to explain away how it would be beneficial. Not today OR EVER Satan! Thank you again for all of the education you give about these demons.
She married the new supply 16 days after the discard then returned 4 months after she got married, that mistake on my part only lasted 4 months. After 20 years it's finally over, narc slayed 😅I sent her right back to her 3rd party snaggle tooth karmic hubby
I'm still married to the one and plan on divorcing him what I will write on the divorce papers gonna have that demon scared 😂 he better be ready exposure to the fullest 31/2 years married to a demon from the pitts of hell
Misty you make me laugh LOL😅 you are hilarious I love your content I love your videos thank you so much for the update cuz I definitely was involved with a narcissist and he is a fruit cake and nutty Buddy and your nutcase so glad I got rid of him the best thing I could have ever done time and patience and prayer God see you through every trial and tribulations love peace and blessings to you and your family stay strong and stay blessed 🙏👍💯🫶
I was discarded after I found out she was married and had and fiancee. Even though I said I didn't care. But now wants to be friends lol this video is spot on.
Warning!! Do NOT try to sip anything while T is talking about the britches with the pockets touching in the back lol. OMG I could not contain my laugh, I spit that water out it was so funny 😂😂😂
They get mad when they can't get out to play, indeed. The lies about chores that never got done at that person's house, but he always needed time for chores. It was obvious when i saw this person only 2 days a week and he couldn't keep those days half the time and his house was never clean save for the ribot vacuum. He wasn't doing chores. Called out on that i eventually got everything thrown in my face for this behavior at times when he was the one hurting me.
Again you are always so on point, Isaw a picture of him and his new wife.He don't look happy.He wasn't holding her.He wasn't even close to her like he was with me.However, I think he might be good because she was OK with being the side piece, so she might be okay with this open marriage stuff that he was asking me about .They might actually be good.
I was the new supply but instead engaged lol 😢. This is so spot on. She shelved me for the old supply (emotionally unavailable type) when I put my foot down on her financial issues. I helped her get a car, an apartment n was the first person to ask her for her hand in marriage etc.
I love this channel, you crack me up! Finally my tears of pain are now tears of joy! These backwards walking giraffes are in my rear view and they look even worse from the back
😂😂😂😂I Luv it! Go head Ms.Tea! I can't get enough when you say "Them britches with the pockets touching in the back" !!! I'm weak & also here for it! No lies told here Mam! Blessings for the honest info🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👼🏽💕🌺🌺
Yes and I wonder why God didn't protect the person I have to say I have truly questioned God like where is he what is he doing was he had an amusement park when this is happening to all of us did he not see was it his day off which I guess in eternity could be our entire lifetimes maybe it was his day off I don't know
Lol!! You are so funny!! “Pockets touching” the narc I was married to lost a bunch of weight, lips all dry.. he looked a mess after I left, telling me I wouldn’t ever find anyone better, lol, he was begging me to stay without saying the words. I could see it in his weak looking eyes.
You’re sooo right about this. He Hovered me back and I caught him in a lie . I found out that he had started a new relationship with a new supply and he said she was just a friend from school.and he gave me her phone number and told me to ask her was they just friends.he didn’t know that I heard the conversation between them. Right then I knew I was dealing with a narcissist clown. It was over!.
Oh yes the narc said at first I wanted my cake and eat it too .. long tome ago .. and looking back yes there was this new person the whole last hear I would get yelled at for nothing on calls .. so i stopped . No contact for 6 months the narc is begging me i text , how awful!!.
Telsha! I lost it at 12:50 😅 I normally understand the English language very well, but I lost you 🤣🤣 You helped me sooo much with this video, thank you! I’m doing good most days, but today, I don’t know… a lot of reminiscing about that back walking giraffe and his NS. My best friend took me out for a nice walk at a beautiful place and afterwards we did a spontaneous BBQ at a lake. So nice and the best company, but I had a hard time. I can’t get over him it seems… it needs time I know. But when I came home, I watched a video of Quint and after that I watched yours. You have no idea how much of an impact you have on me. I appreciate your video’s so much, no words. Bless you girl! 🌺🌈💃😘 I’m off now, I want to rewatch your video again, cause I want to unravel what you said! Haha
"Narcissists go and put their own selves in prison and then they get mad because their in there." THIS.
My God you are too much. You are teaching us. My ex husband left me for old supply. They are supposed getting married and the old/ new supply been doing all she can to rub it in my face. I had to block and make my social media private. My ex just asked me to be friends. I said absolutely not. They been trying to blend the family with my kids. My kids are grown thank God. My kids said mommy daddy is toxic. I feel like I am on Days of our lives. They love chaos and confusion for real.
You have the upper hand. Let her rub it in your face. She got the scraps you threw away..she going to learn.
Narcissists love to triangulate as many people as they possibly can for their never-ending source of fuel supply. They want to keep everyone around them in a tizzy. It makes them feel all special, and full of adoration. Soulless Creatures... Empty meat suits!
Yep, Days of Our Lives is what it is.
Or AS THE STOMACH TURNS UGH
@@rochellemack642😂 I died because that is a great description.
That part about "have their cake and eat it, too" really struck me. One time, when I caught my (now ex) husband texting a woman, he said, with a complete serious face, "I thought I could have you AND have other women". He's a psycho, lunatic and narcissist all rolled into one.
For some strange reason, either male or female think they are entitled to something. I like myself too much to entertain that Bs.
Perfectly said 😂.
thank God your done!
Their ego is boundless, thinking we are going to accept substandard treatment. I discarded that 🤡 then blocked him on everything, there will be no hoover!! 😊
Haha mine said what he doesn't get from me he gets from the other one lol. He said she is mediocre in bed and nothing compares to what him and I had but he gets the feelings of love and emotions from her. He said he was not in love with me and did not have the soul connection .
I think the disorder needs to be reclassified in the DSM as a delusional disorder or developmental disorder bc there is so much more going on than a personality disorder. They should be diagnosed more frequently and get an SSI check bc they are intellectually impaired and delusional 😂
it should be classifird as EVIL. I work alongside doctors who have this disorder. They are intelligent and know what they do
@@harrietboateng5239I'm a retired RN... You are spot on! 💯💯💯 They honestly believe they are their own gods with the little g.
Yea A CHECK ALRIGHT A CHECK OUT OF MY LIFE UGH
They should be under the state’s care, they’re not well, the need a conservator and SSI‼️
@@beemonroe4330 how would satan operate covetly? satan uses narcissiists
Telsha, on the HONEYMOON, the energy changed. He checked out like a year and a half into the marriage..... You are so right. I wish I had known what this was prior to MARRRYING this weirdo! I am officially free thank JESUS! I can't believe I had to go through this...
Exactly what my narc did. He told me I was the only one in the marriage after 3 months, cheated so many times in just a year and discarded me. Lied he has married to the new supply even before giving me a divorce petition and now they are fighting and devaluing each other. I am thriving and healing and God has blessed me with six figures job while they and the flying monkeys are bowing their heads in shame.
Good for you 🥳 if the last laugh was a person 😂
I was the one he wanted to marry, but I figured him out. I saw how he was trying to groom me for minimum effort while he returned to his harlem.
I realised that he loved my supply and he was attracted to me physically but ultimately I was just a stand in for his optics.
I made him look good.
See him tying to convince me how much he misses me and that he thinks about me every minute of every day, yet he turned me into an object for his convenience.
He really is for the birds!!
Once I came to my senses I took my 🥾 🥾 and ran when he least expected it; 6 months after meeting him.
Good bye crow!!!
😅 Yep T.
Can you only imagine the hell that Narc is putting the new wife through? That supply is seeing that ugly face behind that Narc mask. Say a little heart felt prayer for her ladies. 😢
😮😮😮😅😅
God be with her because she's sleeping with the devil 🙏
They know it 😈 👿 😈
I was the new supply we got married- he was still talking to the old supply and all the others he had behind my back. Yep they do sleep with street women- there own kind. they do!
Now I’m the old supply- he tried coming back to me. Nope, changed my number then moved away..
Yesterday was my last day at court with the narc I got 75 percent and he got 25 percent I got to live in the house with the kids so can u imagine what going on over there he’s must be over there giving it to the new supply blaming her for all he’s mistakes telling her it’s her fault why he lost he’s over there giving it to her now thank god am free free at last
Yesss he’s blaming her- boy she’s catching hell…❤️
Tks
Perfect timing 😂😂😂 their wedding is coming up I’m bringing the popcorn! Oh and he sweet as pie to me now 😂😂
Lol😂😂
the biggest shock ever was when I spoke to the clerk of the justice of the the peace who married us...maybe 10 month later..
she said the judge came back after the wedding that day and said "well Thats not going to work" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
the judge had seen his share of con men.
😂😂😂😂😂....with them shoes turned up in the front and them pockets touching in the back 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...those pigeons 😂😂😂Lord Jesus please help me❤❤❤
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Them shoes do be dusty. I had to check when I dropped off my daughter 😂😂😂
They can make a new pair of shoes look dusty, dirty, and raggedy within a few days. It's the truth! The creatures are destructive from their feet up... Human Wrecking Balls!
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any relationship or marriage will never work if God did not bring the two together to do His will. Every relationship will die and not be strong or stable without Christ being the center of the bond. People fight against God's will trying to create their own relationships which will only cause them pain, regret, and wasted time. God will close their doors and they will always have lack, struggles, depression, anxiety, and they will never trust one another.
I was the new supply that he married. I had no prior knowledge of NPD. I quickly found out and sent him back to her, his mammie or whoever he is with now. Worst 4 months of my life. Best thing I ever grew through tho!
girl you dodged a missile.
You dodge an atomic bomb 😂
Wow, 4 months? I hope you got that annulled sis. 😢
@unkn0wnr0ckstar okay!!!!!!! Something wasn't right, and I knew I was healed more than that. He crossed a boundary that I didn't realize yet was a boundary! He had to goooo
@ecunningham2062 thank God
This is exactly what is happening with my ex narc. I was engaged to her for 2 years now she's engaged to a really old dude who looks like Yoda, no offense and they became engaged at the bistro she and I ate at regularly. Coincidence, I think not! They are having almost the exact same relationship I had with her and I will bet big dollars they go through with the wedding. But yet I almost expect a hoover after they tie the knot. Yes she is a clown.
You dodged a bullet 😉 and the funniest thing is that she is gaslighting herself by marrying that downgrade hoping you will be affected.. yes you are!! Big time! You’ll be sitting comfy with some 🍿seeing how her dumb arranged circus will collapse. Wish you well 🍀
Thank you for speaking the truth and educating!! Husband cheated on me with escorts he’d meet online for 16 years. I never would have believed it, but it’s true, he actually admitted it in the one moment of honesty I think I ever got. I’m never dealing with these people again.
sis they are EvIL & disgusting aren't they ..
😂😂😂😂 YES THESE BIRDS MAKES THE CRAZYNIESS MOVE.. WHEN IT COMES TO SUPPLY THEY ALWAYS DOWN GRADE AFTER US THE NEW SUPPLY LOOKS LIKE A OLD WIND MILL 😂Y'ALL THESE ADAM FAMILY CHARTERS ARE SOMETHING ELSE.. LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA ❤❤❤ I CANT STOP HOLLORING 😂😂 THESE ROACHES NEED TO BE SPRAYED
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So I guess they both like old windmills cause the narc I was with has not put out any new pics of him or his new supply in a long time. Maybe he has it so buisy that he doesnt have any time for facebook😂
@@ainahaga 😂😂😂 GIRL JUST LEAVE THEM DUSTY BIRDS WHERE THEY AT
@@leandraherring1824 🤣🤣🤣
@@leandraherring1824 yeah the funny thing is that I dont think of him that often only when I see a pic of him somewhere that pops up. And then I do miss him, the person I thought he was. But yeah he was just a dusty weirdo. Backwards walking giraff
They live by the “have your cake and eat it too”. My ex worked very hard to keep this going
It's always a threesome with a narcissist. MamiSoTrue had an amazing live yesterday about this.
! ARE SO ON POINT!!.....YOU!! have me holding my side from laughing so hard when you sing...hit da light button!....is you rockn with yo girl? And we you be shouted... Yes, I say it......ducks with combat boots/Jerry curl wig slidn off.....pockets touching in bk. We are sooooooooo bless to have yo powerful voice informing us/praying for us/guiding us to a powerful place of healing/ renewal of our spiritual relationship with jaweh ! and the final ( no contact!)....B R E A K UP !! with the wicked evil narcissistic.... THANK YOU!!you are the DOC. of narcissistic behavior. And a beautiful joy of laughter.
Hazards to HUMANITY😮😮😂😂
It’s so true! My ex husband refused to settle and insisted on a trial… after 18 months of motion after motion in court drama we are finally divorced! He refused to settle even though we offered multiple reasonable offers in order to end it and avoid a trial. Nope he had to go all the way. He even went so far as to line up witnesses to testify towards his good character, and lied about mine. Anyway, after all was said and done, we ended a horrible 21 year marriage. It took the judge 90 days after the trial to render her decision I finally got the verdict and not only are we divorced but she gave me everything to include no visitation with our children. Only one is now still a minor at this point.. he testified that he never cheated on me, but his lawyer slipped up at one point, and try to make him seem like he was not a serial cheater and referred to his current supply as his long-term girlfriend…. He made this reference while I was on the stand during cross examination. Right after he said that I said, I’m not sure how he would have a long-term girlfriend, since we are currently still married…. Ok buddy. Meanwhile, during the 18 months of fighting for a divorce, he started sending me text messages and emails with Messages such as happy Mother’s Day. Hope you have a wonderful day blah blah blah. I guess he’s getting tired of the long-term girlfriend. 😂 sucks to be him 😂😂😂😂
Ugh! My divorce just started
Omg I'm going through this now and like you trying to stay out of court but it's not looking good even though there really isn't anything left to fight over bc the big issues have been resolved except he wants to be able to drop my child off god knows where overnights and I'm not ok with that when my child can just come back to my house. I really want to know how you got custody and no visitation 😮. I know he doesn't really want custody but its fighting for 50/50 but wants to drop the child off for overnights and only has him for a week at a time.
Thank you Telsha for allowing God to use you to promote healing for those who have suffered from narcissist abuse. I didn’t know how to put words to what I suffered through for many years and I wish that I had access to this type of information. I also appreciate your style of delivering your valuable insights! You make me laugh when I look back on a truly desperate situation. You are saving lives.
Her humor, delivery, and timing is unmatched! ❤
Welcome, dear. I hope you feel better these days.
JESUS ❤
Factz! 🔥💐
She described my narc ex-husband to a "T"
You really hit the target on this one. The narc had married me. We got married on a Wednesday and within that same week...damn sure nuff he started his 🤬with me early morning, on Friday 3 AM. We both were laying in the bed and his phone was beeping like crazy, back to back with text messages. This HIGH POCKET JACKASS had the nerve to text this person back right in front of me. I knew it was one of his " old supply" who he discarded to marry me." Got mad and pissed off when I questioned him about the early morning text messages. This damn fool tell me that it was his guy friend " from his job" texting to let him know what was going on at the job. I told him to stop with the bull.... He got mad and jumped out the bed when I said he and his friend must be gay. Ain't no straight men going to be texting each other back and forth at 3 in the morning. So we argued back n forth. He put his high pocket pants on and tried to leave the house. I stopped him at the door a few times and finally he pretended to go back to bed. Later that morning, "Friday," he left the house and I didn't see him until Sunday afternoon. He went to work on Saturday morning, driving for the city bus company. Someone told me they saw him driving the bus and had the other supply on the bus with him while he was working. So I'm guessing he spent a night with the other supply. Thank you Telsha for this video. You hit the 🎯! 😂 Love you girl!
Those internal demons don't let them sleep.😂 my ex narc would jump at as soon as I was sleep to leave. Smh 2,3,4 a.m. just disrespectful! I hope your doing better.
So gladdddddd God rescued me from that mess! TGBTG!
Facts
You speak the truth…..the Narc is afraid to be alone. M ex told me that he didn’t know how I was able to be without. He buried a second wife and a month later was starting a new relationship. I was trying to figure out when he had time to grieve! And why was he trying to be my “friend “ after the new marriage? What in the world?
His back burner now wife is a codependent narcissist too. 2 narcs. More videos about them marrying a new supply and one half their age would bring some more insight as to why they do this. This narc BIRD is a confused mess causing me to be confused and I just want this mess to leave my brain. 3.5 years healing and still healing. God has his grip on me though. Stay prayed up y’all.🙏🏻
Going through the exact same
Situation. He married someone twenty years younger than him
Well,my husband is currently married to me and living with his next now so they have ZERO integrity
It’s your laugh just thinking about how they are looking with them pockets touching 😂😂😂 🤦🏽♀️
I can't understand how they marry multiple times if that's how they feel... That's the definition of insanity!!!
for real. Mine narc went back to his ex wife and remarried her in secret while still seeing me. When I found out, he wanted to continue to see me. OMG the audacity. I blocked him.
Man sis isn’t it funny how we’re all having the same experience? It’s almost as if it’s spiritual lol
Sounds just like a ex of mine 💯 💯 that I discarded
I'M HOLLERING 😂😂😂😂😂
Ms. T, you're always making me laugh at these clowns 😂😂😂 Thanks to God and you, I made it out and away from the narcissist I was married to. Thank you so, so very much for your words of wisdom. Your videos have taken me through some really tough days. You gave me hope when I really needed it. ❤ May God continue to bless you and help you to reach so many others.
😂😂😂😂Miss T you should have a Carriculum in every school about NPD..... (SERIOUSLY). Thanks to you and some other teachers on RUclips, I can spot them a miles away in thick fog. 🎉😂😂😂. I feel liberated to resist them completely🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃😂🎉🎉🎉
Wow! Cheated on for life! 🤗 Glad it's not me now.
Facts..
Their CONFUSED BIRDS
W🫢W‼️Ms.Tee you hit the ball⚾️ put of the park with this one. You ain't never. You got these JOKERS down to a SCIENCE "REALTALK"💯
I be saying this on and off all day “ hit that like button” 😂😂
Hello Miss T thank you do much , my ex narc back to me because he had nowhere to go he's homeless, thing is I took him in,lost my place because of his loud rants we ended up staying in motel, may 1st 2022 he left me stranded with no money in July of 22 ran off and married my cousin 😮 yeah, to this day I'm still homeless sleeping in my car been going no contact every since, I'll get through it trust and believe My Creator has my back, 💯💪 thank you for your time and inspiration , 😅😊❤
Thank you for this insightful message. The Narssicis I was involved with is now married to the new supply ( which had been in the picture for 2 years when he was exposed) and he being an opportunist is realizing the God of this universe isn't pleased with his treatment of his children. He needed options he thought he would have but it's not working out the way he thought it would.... poor soul. I'm praying for mercy because if he got what he deserved OMG...I wouldn't wish what he deserves on anyone
Them Britchez!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Your A Comedian sis!!! ❤U Tho!!😂😂
FACTS!! They literally walked right into a TRAP. Lol
😂 ~ YOU'RE GREAT T😁🎉
Almost all I can say is wheeew! 😂 Even before I'd figured it all out, exactly, I can only thank the dear, sweet, sweeeeet LOOORD that I had enough sense to keep prolonging the engagement. 😂 I was embarrassingly gullible, naive and waaaay too trusting......but that was then. 😂
I needed this! 4 years together.. 2 years of love bombing 2 years of Hell! Cheating Gaslighting disrespect! Never was I this naive person! Found out he’s “engaged” to a girl he cheated on me with less than 2 months of fully blocking him! I dodged a bullet! & yes he was sleeping w prostitues! Said he couldn’t be alone! He’s broke, no car, no license, living w his mother smh
Oh Lord Telsa I am so happy that I can laugh so hard over this madness that God took me out of😂 the Narc tried to contact me yesterday and realise that he is still on block after over 3 years!😂
I'm laughing so hard I need this thank u...
Stay off their social media page for godsake.
I always wondered what he was thinking in his twisted mind staring at our huge portrait of our wedding on the wall
I made the biggest mistake of
My life
Only to find out I made the biggest mistake of
My life
I Thank GOD for using you to teach us about these demons. Ty for the truth you teach May GOD continue to Bless You.
How are you so on point? This is unreal. I cracked up on the amusement parks! True facts!
Wow....I needed to know this. Things are making sense now. Thank You Jesus for this word. I took notes so I don't forget.
I know I was the one who got away 😂🤲🏽🙌🏽♥️
Five years down the drain but I never felt so free in the end and I
Thank God 🤲🏽for giving me that peace ✌🏽 to be able to move forward and don’t look back nor question the bullshit he lied about over the years know sex 🙌🏽🤲🏽 I got away untouched he wore me down confused 🤔 me all the time but I couldn’t be broken and I was unbothered by him getting Married 😂happy honesty relief from all the emotions and burden of a Devil, I Felt Free 😢❤🤲🏽
Pockets touching in the back, 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
wow! exactly what i am going thru now.
I wish all your content was on FB too because I need to share this one for sure lolol
I'm so grateful for you and your channel. Fresh out of a narc relationship and going through the detox process. Thankfully they are leaving to move to another state in a couple weeks... And of course there is the request to remain friends and check in periodically. I flat out told him there is no need, and he tried to explain away how it would be beneficial. Not today OR EVER Satan!
Thank you again for all of the education you give about these demons.
She married the new supply 16 days after the discard then returned 4 months after she got married, that mistake on my part only lasted 4 months. After 20 years it's finally over, narc slayed 😅I sent her right back to her 3rd party snaggle tooth karmic hubby
I'm still married to the one and plan on divorcing him what I will write on the divorce papers gonna have that demon scared 😂 he better be ready exposure to the fullest 31/2 years married to a demon from the pitts of hell
Same girl, just officially got divorced from this clown! Yep, they can only last like 2-3 years in a marriage lololol. So pathetic!
Misty you make me laugh LOL😅 you are hilarious I love your content I love your videos thank you so much for the update cuz I definitely was involved with a narcissist and he is a fruit cake and nutty Buddy and your nutcase so glad I got rid of him the best thing I could have ever done time and patience and prayer God see you through every trial and tribulations love peace and blessings to you and your family stay strong and stay blessed 🙏👍💯🫶
I thank God for pulling me out of hell, the person she is with now took out my trash. Thank you sir!
Sister, you nailed this one! 😄
I wish them well on their marriage 🥳🥳🥳
#not4me
#selfworthandselfloveonly
I have never seen him so pissed off no sex for 3 years she won’t let him go anywhere lmao
I was discarded after I found out she was married and had and fiancee. Even though I said I didn't care. But now wants to be friends lol this video is spot on.
Warning!! Do NOT try to sip anything while T is talking about the britches with the pockets touching in the back lol. OMG I could not contain my laugh, I spit that water out it was so funny 😂😂😂
Yep, SOOOO checked out! 😮😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hazard to humanity I’m dying 😂
You are so on point but you are hilarious❤❤❤❤❤
I sing-along with your ''hit that like button'' song....... Fun!
Shoes definitely turned up and Dusty 😅
They get mad when they can't get out to play, indeed. The lies about chores that never got done at that person's house, but he always needed time for chores. It was obvious when i saw this person only 2 days a week and he couldn't keep those days half the time and his house was never clean save for the ribot vacuum. He wasn't doing chores. Called out on that i eventually got everything thrown in my face for this behavior at times when he was the one hurting me.
Again you are always so on point, Isaw a picture of him and his new wife.He don't look happy.He wasn't holding her.He wasn't even close to her like he was with me.However, I think he might be good because she was OK with being the side piece, so she might be okay with this open marriage stuff that he was asking me about .They might actually be good.
Not the pockets turned to the back!😂😂😂🤍
😂😢😅😊she said such colorful truth!
God bless them BOTH! enjoy that jungle juice love .... Now hit that like button!!!
Jesus that part 🙏🏾hv mercy smh😮
I was the new supply but instead engaged lol 😢. This is so spot on. She shelved me for the old supply (emotionally unavailable type) when I put my foot down on her financial issues. I helped her get a car, an apartment n was the first person to ask her for her hand in marriage etc.
You hit the nail on the head as always. All true.
That disgusting booger I'm so mad right now
💯 💯 sister ..the ball dropped on the day I married that fool ..
They are really stupid ..it been 7 months since I discarded that clown.
I love this channel, you crack me up! Finally my tears of pain are now tears of joy! These backwards walking giraffes are in my rear view and they look even worse from the back
😂😂😂😂I Luv it! Go head Ms.Tea! I can't get enough when you say "Them britches with the pockets touching in the back" !!! I'm weak & also here for it! No lies told here Mam! Blessings for the honest info🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👼🏽💕🌺🌺
I'm Hollering 😂😂😂
I really feel sorry for her new guy...but that's a test we all need to learn and I'm outta there for good!!!
It's sad when a narcissist trick somebody into marrying them and they are a Christian and you're not supposed to get a divorce
Adultery is grounds for divorce according to the bible
Yes and I wonder why God didn't protect the person I have to say I have truly questioned God like where is he what is he doing was he had an amusement park when this is happening to all of us did he not see was it his day off which I guess in eternity could be our entire lifetimes maybe it was his day off I don't know
I have watched this video bout 30 times today😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I pray all of em get married and find something to do
Hey sis!
I don't think she quite knows 😂
It's the biggest mind f&$k 😂
I've literally never rolled my eyes so many times....❤
Lol!! You are so funny!! “Pockets touching” the narc I was married to lost a bunch of weight, lips all dry.. he looked a mess after I left, telling me I wouldn’t ever find anyone better, lol, he was begging me to stay without saying the words. I could see it in his weak looking eyes.
They do take it literally. I couldn’t leave the house if I did mad for days. It was really bad.
You’re sooo right about this. He Hovered me back and I caught him in a lie . I found out that he had started a new relationship with a new supply and he said she was just a friend from school.and he gave me her phone number and told me to ask her was they just friends.he didn’t know that I heard the conversation between them. Right then I knew I was dealing with a narcissist clown. It was over!.
Real mess mein it horrible. 😂😂
Oh yes the narc said at first I wanted my cake and eat it too .. long tome ago .. and looking back yes there was this new person the whole last hear I would get yelled at for nothing on calls .. so i stopped . No contact for 6 months the narc is begging me i text , how awful!!.
Telsha! I lost it at 12:50 😅 I normally understand the English language very well, but I lost you 🤣🤣
You helped me sooo much with this video, thank you! I’m doing good most days, but today, I don’t know… a lot of reminiscing about that back walking giraffe and his NS. My best friend took me out for a nice walk at a beautiful place and afterwards we did a spontaneous BBQ at a lake. So nice and the best company, but I had a hard time. I can’t get over him it seems… it needs time I know. But when I came home, I watched a video of Quint and after that I watched yours. You have no idea how much of an impact you have on me. I appreciate your video’s so much, no words. Bless you girl! 🌺🌈💃😘 I’m off now, I want to rewatch your video again, cause I want to unravel what you said! Haha
Obviously about me ...and they need to stop and go on somewhere bye felicia