It’s crazy how you TEACH & Prepare a man ONLY to be in another relationship and give the other man or woman something they couldn’t give you! Not that they are the BETTER ones, it’s that they had a Fresh start & try do it differently. To be honest, they don’t change. It’s a honeymoon stages. This is insane. SOME not all men/women come that easy. Most don’t want to WORK for it. Being compatible only means they are willing to put up with things you didn’t!! someone who is EASIER; doesn’t make them better, just compatible, to put up with all they crap. & Honeymoon stages work in beginning. My experience it doesn’t last. Only to prove to they friends and others it can but they live miserable just to not admit they are wrong. & you was the answer to someone else’s prayer. YOU ARE THE BLESSING! So, let it go! They didn’t deserve you & they already know it. The grass always look greener on the other side. When it’s NOT! So beautiful woman & men you’re Nobody Option, Let them keep searching for “THE ONE”. ❤️
I completely agree with you! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 you’re so right! She’s not better she is just ok with putting up with the narcissistic little boy and I’m not! I think he also takes pride in hurting me knowing that me hearing of the news of him supposedly getting married would hurt me. He’s sick and I’m dodging a bullet from a little boy likes to intentionally inflict pain to others for pleasure, I hope she knows what she’s getting if she truly is about to marry him because yes they definitely do not change he will also hurt her intentionally
💯 on point! Most of these guys are narcissist or have narc traits and are just love bombing the new supply. Have been through this situation. 4 years and one child later and he never could commit or marry me. A few months later and he’s already moved on and the new supply moved in his home that we shared. Heartbreaking 💔
Thank you so much for sharing this information with us. This is so helpful for me right now. Gifting him to her will open up my own blessings. I must let go in order to receive.
This is what happened to me it was kinds scary girl dumped me for another guy i get married 4 years later and out of no where she found her num and tried to tell her bunch of negatives
the thing about my ex is he readded me on fb after having blocked me when we first broke up, it's like he WANTS me to see how happy he is with this new girl. I finally said enough is enough and unfriended him again after seeing the engagement post.
again 👌🏻 very good....tired of beeing a teacher “all the time” but ok ;) (don’t be suprised women, when the ex one day, like 10years after you dumping him amd he marrying in 5 months comes to you with a words “my wife s all the time jealous of you...” amd you even never ever met her....;) i think i dont have to continue :)
My friend got engaged nov 30 2020 and the wedding is March 23 2021. I do not get that. He has 3 kids in texas with his ex. This new lady has 2 kids under the age of 10. They both are retirement military but his ex wife talking half his for support and 1/2 pension ... I think he is was having an affair all this time
I love your video! It helps me to think that there's no forever in this world. They love you now there's no guarantee they still gonna love you tomorrow. Because they are not belong to us. After my boyfriend broke up with me he got married in 2week. Healing it takes time, it's not gonna be ok the next day. 😭😭😭 this is only happened last month.
Nope I am not gifting anyone anything! I am petty like that…. I think that he is missing out and it was gods plan from the get go.. some people come into your life’s as blessing some as lessons
It's been 6 years last I seen my ex recently I put up a Facebook and noticed his Facebook with his new wife 😢 Well 6 years is a long time but It hurt to see this but I'm gonna be honest it made me wanna start drama lol but then I think about it and say nah they are meant for each other. My pain anit there no more 😊and don't wanna waiste it on my past
Well done. About to go through this as ex put up on his fb that he is married 😂 we split for the 2nd time in February. I'm thinking he must keep supply on rotate. I'm looking forward to how this pans out 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I left him twice because I would get hit with the silent treatment when I wanted to address issues. He is also was trying to push 50 50 relationship on me. Love bombed, made promises and then back tracked. Done done done.
Ok but it doesn’t mean that a good woman should be treated any kind of way just because she cooks and do things naturally that we do and they not man enough or mature and need to leave for another woman who does none of it. So THEY CAN GO AWAY! Lol 😂. Who cares. I dodge a bullet. They maybe NARCISSISTIC and met another Narcissistic person! May God bless them Both ❤️
If he doesn’t marry you in 5 years, he will never marry you? I beg to differ because I am that person who will marry my love after 5, 6, 7… Most women leave a relationship after many years to find out the grass is not greener instead of being supportive of their partners with good communications. When the compatibility is there, the chemistry is there, one will do everything for the sake of « marry me » sabotages something special. Ex-girlfriend got married 6 month post breakup. Here is a person who 6 months earlier was begging me for engagement even though we had that discussions severally and she knows why I am not proposing when she wants me to. So you just move on to the next person who is will to propose? Is that the new norm now? Any way, I gifted her to that dude.😃
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after bring separated for 3months All thanks to mr Willson whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days.
Hey chengi, hope you're well. With my story I wasn't in a open relationship with her but I believe we both liked each other in school and college. After college 4 years later now I found out she got married in March and had a son. She got engaged to a family relative from her country just over a year after I stopped seeing her, dropped out her university course ruining her career to become a school teacher, became a housewife till now, and had a son before her wedding 🙄. Not sure if she had the marriage certificate done before that but fornication being a big sin One friend stopped speaking to her as she unfollowed her just because she couldn't make it to her wedding for good reason. One of her relatives is friends with my sister and said she's stuck up and a housewife not doing anything. Basically I feel God saved me and I dodged a bullet. I wouldn't want a wife like her that I'm paying rent or mortgage along with paying for her otherwise I won't be able to save for my own stuff.
My timeline is 3 months (I think in God's calendar it's less than that) and after that we need to know whether we're working towards marraige including setting a date etc..... I just dont see why women especially if you're in your late 20's should spend more than 3 months with a man without the assurance of marraige
Sorry, I don’t agree. Sometimes people don’t fit. Maybe you were not a fit for him, more than a filler but less than a soul mate. Then he met his soulmate, she enjoys hiking, attends church regularly and is sincere, they can talk for hours, she enjoys sports and his friends rather than shopping and lunches. This video is very misleading. Maybe she is just smarter, prettier, funnier and more agreeable, has better connections, is very stable emotionally. Women need to know their limitations.
I see a lot of men who seem to believe that the grass is always greener. Then when they get out into the dating world they realize that they can't maintain all of those women they pine for and dream of. They realize that the previous partner wasn't so bad and find someone who is much less than the ideal they got in their head. They remember how difficult it was just to find her and settle because being alone sucks more. They willingly accept a woman who is most likely a level down from their previous partner because they are comfortable enough to stay. In these situations, this person is actually a lot like the previous partner. Same hobbies, interests, maybe they look similar (although a lot of times they're less attractive). These men eat humble pie and learn to accept "good enough" because they alternative is too much work and too exhausting.
It’s crazy how you TEACH & Prepare a man ONLY to be in another relationship and give the other man or woman something they couldn’t give you! Not that they are the BETTER ones, it’s that they had a Fresh start & try do it differently. To be honest, they don’t change. It’s a honeymoon stages. This is insane. SOME not all men/women come that easy. Most don’t want to WORK for it. Being compatible only means they are willing to put up with things you didn’t!! someone who is EASIER; doesn’t make them better, just compatible, to put up with all they crap. & Honeymoon stages work in beginning. My experience it doesn’t last. Only to prove to they friends and others it can but they live miserable just to not admit they are wrong. & you was the answer to someone else’s prayer. YOU ARE THE BLESSING! So, let it go! They didn’t deserve you & they already know it. The grass always look greener on the other side. When it’s NOT! So beautiful woman & men you’re Nobody Option, Let them keep searching for “THE ONE”. ❤️
Getting your ex back shouldn't be a problems i just got my lover back with the help of Mr osekhametalor
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I completely agree with you! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 you’re so right! She’s not better she is just ok with putting up with the narcissistic little boy and I’m not! I think he also takes pride in hurting me knowing that me hearing of the news of him supposedly getting married would hurt me. He’s sick and I’m dodging a bullet from a little boy likes to intentionally inflict pain to others for pleasure, I hope she knows what she’s getting if she truly is about to marry him because yes they definitely do not change he will also hurt her intentionally
💯 on point! Most of these guys are narcissist or have narc traits and are just love bombing the new supply. Have been through this situation. 4 years and one child later and he never could commit or marry me. A few months later and he’s already moved on and the new supply moved in his home that we shared. Heartbreaking 💔
@@Gigi-rg7xyand, women are perfect angels, right?
Thank you so much for sharing this information with us. This is so helpful for me right now. Gifting him to her will open up my own blessings. I must let go in order to receive.
Amen
Such healing words for my heart!! I desperately needed to hear this.
Sadly, same for me
Your insight is excellent. Even though I was hurt by the breakup, l'm actually proud that he has matured in his marriage.
This was very helpful as always. I feel like a relief/comfort after hearing your words. Thank You.
Amiris Batista I’m so glad to hear it ❤️🙏🏾😘
I heard one guy say " one woman's as good as the next , all we need is for her to look good and not bug us...no complicated' :00
I'm like this, if you dumped that person it's none of your business what he/she does.
This is what happened to me it was kinds scary girl dumped me for another guy i get married 4 years later and out of no where she found her num and tried to tell her bunch of negatives
the thing about my ex is he readded me on fb after having blocked me when we first broke up, it's like he WANTS me to see how happy he is with this new girl. I finally said enough is enough and unfriended him again after seeing the engagement post.
How has it been? Are they married? My ex is married and I'm hurt because we have a 2 year old daughter together that he doesn't see
He had anxiety and this new lady is a speech pathologist who knows how to keep him calm
again 👌🏻 very good....tired of beeing a teacher “all the time” but ok ;) (don’t be suprised women, when the ex one day, like 10years after you dumping him amd he marrying in 5 months comes to you with a words “my wife s all the time jealous of you...” amd you even never ever met her....;) i think i dont have to continue :)
If you dumped him then you shouldn't complain about him moving on.
That’s so tough if you dumped him for being unfaithful and he turns around and is faithful for someone else
@@ebonydixon933 leopards don't change their spots
I dumped him by accident while coming off meds💔
@@Humbledone.same situation 💔💔
@MarySumm sorry that is just a bs excuse.
Wow thank you for addressing this question. It's so refreshing 💕
You are welcome 🤗
My friend got engaged nov 30 2020 and the wedding is March 23 2021. I do not get that. He has 3 kids in texas with his ex. This new lady has 2 kids under the age of 10. They both are retirement military but his ex wife talking half his for support and 1/2 pension ... I think he is was having an affair all this time
I cried like a baby.... all healing tears.
🤗🤗💕
I love your video! It helps me to think that there's no forever in this world. They love you now there's no guarantee they still gonna love you tomorrow. Because they are not belong to us. After my boyfriend broke up with me he got married in 2week. Healing it takes time, it's not gonna be ok the next day. 😭😭😭 this is only happened last month.
Omg 😢
Did he ever come back. Going through this and want him to reach out, so i can make him feel small 😊
The first few words made me feel better
My ex told me he made the wrong choice and has no choice but to live with it.
He's spitting game.
He dumped me and just married someone else yesterday
Why has my ex fiancé still has my number when his married ?
Ppl don't even have answer of the question why they want to get married ?
Getting your ex back shouldn't be a problems i just got my lover back with the help of Mr osekhametalor
Wh'tsapp him
You Spoke nothing but the truth, thank you chengi.. love you- your long time Subbie here from Philippines 🇵🇭
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I did that in the beginning. But the trouble I have found that some women don't put in much effort. It makes men feel drained.
Nope I am not gifting anyone anything! I am petty like that…. I think that he is missing out and it was gods plan from the get go.. some people come into your life’s as blessing some as lessons
It's been 6 years last I seen my ex recently I put up a Facebook and noticed his Facebook with his new wife 😢
Well 6 years is a long time but It hurt to see this but I'm gonna be honest it made me wanna start drama lol but then I think about it and say nah they are meant for each other. My pain anit there no more 😊and don't wanna waiste it on my past
Well done 👏🏽
Well done. About to go through this as ex put up on his fb that he is married 😂 we split for the 2nd time in February. I'm thinking he must keep supply on rotate. I'm looking forward to how this pans out 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I left him twice because I would get hit with the silent treatment when I wanted to address issues. He is also was trying to push 50 50 relationship on me. Love bombed, made promises and then back tracked. Done done done.
Everything that you have said is understandable, and I can relate.
Well Said , thank you !
Ok but it doesn’t mean that a good woman should be treated any kind of way just because she cooks and do things naturally that we do and they not man enough or mature and need to leave for another woman who does none of it. So THEY CAN GO AWAY! Lol 😂. Who cares. I dodge a bullet. They maybe NARCISSISTIC and met another Narcissistic person! May God bless them Both ❤️
If he doesn’t marry you in 5 years, he will never marry you? I beg to differ because I am that person who will marry my love after 5, 6, 7…
Most women leave a relationship after many years to find out the grass is not greener instead of being supportive of their partners with good communications. When the compatibility is there, the chemistry is there, one will do everything for the sake of « marry me » sabotages something special.
Ex-girlfriend got married 6 month post breakup. Here is a person who 6 months earlier was begging me for engagement even though we had that discussions severally and she knows why I am not proposing when she wants me to. So you just move on to the next person who is will to propose? Is that the new norm now? Any way, I gifted her to that dude.😃
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Hey chengi, hope you're well.
With my story I wasn't in a open relationship with her but I believe we both liked each other in school and college. After college 4 years later now I found out she got married in March and had a son. She got engaged to a family relative from her country just over a year after I stopped seeing her, dropped out her university course ruining her career to become a school teacher, became a housewife till now, and had a son before her wedding 🙄. Not sure if she had the marriage certificate done before that but fornication being a big sin
One friend stopped speaking to her as she unfollowed her just because she couldn't make it to her wedding for good reason. One of her relatives is friends with my sister and said she's stuck up and a housewife not doing anything.
Basically I feel God saved me and I dodged a bullet. I wouldn't want a wife like her that I'm paying rent or mortgage along with paying for her otherwise I won't be able to save for my own stuff.
What if he married the women he left you for
Then move on with love ❤️
Let them get on with it. How she got him is how she will lose him.
My timeline is 3 months (I think in God's calendar it's less than that) and after that we need to know whether we're working towards marraige including setting a date etc..... I just dont see why women especially if you're in your late 20's should spend more than 3 months with a man without the assurance of marraige
20 is too young. Wait longer.
😞💯 soo true, this is exactly what ive been going through
Thank you Chengi 💕
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Sorry, I don’t agree. Sometimes people don’t fit. Maybe you were not a fit for him, more than a filler but less than a soul mate. Then he met his soulmate, she enjoys hiking, attends church regularly and is sincere, they can talk for hours, she enjoys sports and his friends rather than shopping and lunches.
This video is very misleading. Maybe she is just smarter, prettier, funnier and more agreeable, has better connections, is very stable emotionally. Women need to know their limitations.
I see a lot of men who seem to believe that the grass is always greener. Then when they get out into the dating world they realize that they can't maintain all of those women they pine for and dream of. They realize that the previous partner wasn't so bad and find someone who is much less than the ideal they got in their head. They remember how difficult it was just to find her and settle because being alone sucks more. They willingly accept a woman who is most likely a level down from their previous partner because they are comfortable enough to stay.
In these situations, this person is actually a lot like the previous partner. Same hobbies, interests, maybe they look similar (although a lot of times they're less attractive). These men eat humble pie and learn to accept "good enough" because they alternative is too much work and too exhausting.
Amen.