As a retired nurse practitioner I empathize with your story and frustration with the patient encounter. To me it does sound like Munchalfen syndrome. The parents are feeding the behavior.
As a psych nurse, I can totally relate. Pleas keep the content coming! Your experience is much needed in a field where people feel/think they can do no wrong and their shit don’t stink, it’s refreshing to see someone so reflective and insightful!!
Management will always cover their arses before considering your professionalism. Don't take it personally, otherwise you'll burn out; bless you. Psych nurses rock xx
You are so sweet. I’m sorry you had to experience that with that family. They were looking for a law suit. I hope god protect you all the time. It’s very frustrating. ❤
1. I made it to the end 2. This is the 1st video of yours I’ve ever viewed (via YT algorithm recommendation) 3. Love your rants! I’m a social worker- thus your perfect audience. Bitch away, my friend! Lol
What we need is more people like you... literally... Most of us have to wear a fucking mask at work and can't be ourselves... but I think that if there's more people like you and less like the one's with the stupid corporate rules, the world could be better... and I'm not a nurse and I'm not in America, but can totally relate (unfortunately)... Thanks for the videos!
hah! thx for the comment! (have you ever wondered if there WAS a world full of 'yous' and no one else? sometimes i think it would b emore peaceful, and other times i wonder if the world would just turn out more or less the same lol)
As a new psych nurse…I just switched from labor and delivery to inpatient MH 3 weeks ago… I really appreciate your content. I even made it to the end 😊. I can totally relate to not fitting into the system 🫡. Thanks for sharing! Looking forward to more videos!!
Yea, I would always talk to the patients as much as possible as soon as they got onto the unit. Because they weren’t familiar with the “no personal information” rule. I got lots of good conversations with them, until they were aware of the “expectations” then I turned into a stalker
Thank you for sharing your story. So much unnecessary energy is being waisted on nonsense in this country. We need knowledgeable great nurses like you at work.
So true! I'm not a nurse, but I cant even go to a therapist because of the fear it'll be used agaisnt me in legal things in the future. Once when I was a minor, my doctor referred me to a psychiatrist even though I shared no mental health concerns, and now as an adult, that thing still stained my background. It's still in my record. :/ The sue culture is also bad.
If all the harm that comes from the pharmaceutical companies….and this is what they get worked up about? This is where they see a need for regulation?! This is what makes us all feel crazy
So many nurse just work for a pay check. You can’t do that in nursing it puts the patients in danger. People need not go into nursing if they don’t care about patients.
Sorry you're having such a rough week. Glad you could rant and vent a bit! Liars are the absolute worst. Imagine being in a place where everybody's life already sucks and where reality is iffy, and then deliberately lying in a way that's not only stupid and unnecessary, but also hurts the people who are trying to help you! That kind of thing makes me sick to my stomach. Sorry your bosses didn't have your back either, yeesh.
loved this video and your candor about your frustration - but I know you were made for this world, and caring health care providers sometimes try to fit their round peg selves into the square peg of our current medical system - can't be done, but bringing attention to this is SO important and can maybe smoothe the corners for others??
I have spent many times in the hospital for an array of health issues. I don't feel that a nurse doesn't "give 2 shits about me" if she is more focused on ensuring my meds are correct, double checked, recorded properly and my vitals are done like clockwork, but is a bit cold and technical. Than a bubbly nurse who is coming in to fluff my pillows but screws up my meds, is flippant about rules and protocols. You won't die or have an adverse reaction if your pillow isn't fluffed but you can if your meds are screwed up or something is missed because of sloppy recording of your vitals. This isn't a hotel, it is a medical ward.
yeah I agree. I think I was trying to make the point that often you have nurses who are more preoccupied w/ following protocols and rules than they are with connecting with patients. This is obviously a false dichotomy as you can follow rules and protocols while still connecting with patients, but in my experience, nurses who tend to connect very well with patients often are more lax in these other areas.
@@A_Psych_Nurse I don’t really like “outpatients” to begin with, if they are stable enough to live at home then telehealth should the only option for them.
We need to have tea and crumpets for sure!! 😂😂😂😂 No, I get it though. Im not even finished with Nursing school yet, and I'm already planning my out into Neuroscience. That's a whole other story.. I'm going into Psych and detox, so although I am sure I'll be stressed out, I hope I don't have to deal with any obnoxious family members like that, lol. At least until I get some decorum and tact. Haha! Keep talking. This is therapy for me/some of us too. Happy belated Father's Day!!
My 18yr old autistic son went to a hospital for a psychiatric hold...he wasn't a smoker (and was underage, technically) but his nurse gave him nicotine gum. Which annoyed the crap out of me. Any number of scenarios could have led to that, which is why I never said anything. But it was an irritating situation
So I’m a nursing student and currently a tech on a medsurg floor, and sometimes the patients’ family members are one of the hardest parts of the job. In psych do you have much face-to-face interaction with family members or is it usually over the phone like giving updates? One of the reasons I’m interested in becoming a psych nurse is because it seems like interactions with family members is fairly minimal.
my past job was really the only place where i'd have much interaction w/ patient's families (and then obviously working out-patient you'll have a ton of family interaction, but that was almost always positive for me). If you're going to work inpatient, doubtful you'll have much contact w/ family, but the likelihood of this increases the more you work in private settings vs. public (e.g. state hospitals or state-run facilities).
Haha the mum! "OMG YOU GAVE MY DAUGHTER HER PRESCRIBED PRN MEDICATION!!!!! YOU SHOULD BE DEREGISTERED!!!!" no wonder the poor girl has mental health issues!
Why would the second person's request have any barring on her request? Why didn't you ask her first, " do you mean a nicotine losange or cough drop?" You're a nurse, each patient should be dealt with separately and clarified on what they are asking for. The miscommunication is that you allowed the second patient direct/influence what you thought the first patient was asking for. Mocking the patient for having anxiety. Not cool.
So this sounds like a very frustrating situation that got blown out of proportion for sure, but… completely avoidable if even a basic assessment was done for symptoms when the “lozenge” request was made. You mentioned Tylenol as a PRN, but would you have given it without doing even the most basic pain assessment (0 to 10 how would you rate your pain) and yeah I get it we don’t have a set assessment for nicotine products but I think even just looking at the chart and seeing she has never been given it before should have prompted some inquiry. This is a med error. You could have done more to protect yourself, and the warning was appropriate. Dealing with the parents was punishment enough. You should own some culpability here and I am not seeing that in the video. From one nurse to another I am not here to kick you while you are venting but to offer another POV. That sounds like a super awful experience and I hate you had that. Hopefully you haven’t become complacent in doing basic assessments because that is super rampant in our profession right now. Thanks for the content. It is really helpful and hopefully I am able to return the favor.
Oh my gosh Listen I do criminal and abuse checks … med errors are considered abuse by my state but everyone makes them ! The facility gets fined for the incident… I sooo get what you are saying about it being no big deal…. Your incident was sooo very minor … Crazy convoluted government stuff…
Borderline maybe Me as a guy that hates some medication etc. i don't know accurate Then you have to be more patient as you're already. Weird and respect for you People like npc's And shockingly how does this word npc fits to some of npc's just
It seems like you’re in the right field. I love that you have a life coach. That’s awesome
As a retired nurse practitioner I empathize with your story and frustration with the patient encounter. To me it does sound like Munchalfen syndrome. The parents are feeding the behavior.
As a psych nurse, I can totally relate. Pleas keep the content coming! Your experience is much needed in a field where people feel/think they can do no wrong and their shit don’t stink, it’s refreshing to see someone so reflective and insightful!!
Management will always cover their arses before considering your professionalism. Don't take it personally, otherwise you'll burn out; bless you. Psych nurses rock xx
You are so sweet. I’m sorry you had to experience that with that family. They were looking for a law suit. I hope god protect you all the time. It’s very frustrating. ❤
1. I made it to the end
2. This is the 1st video of yours I’ve ever viewed (via YT algorithm recommendation)
3. Love your rants! I’m a social worker- thus your perfect audience.
Bitch away, my friend! Lol
Welcome to the channel and bless the work you do!
@@A_Psych_Nurse ditto! 🤟
What we need is more people like you... literally... Most of us have to wear a fucking mask at work and can't be ourselves... but I think that if there's more people like you and less like the one's with the stupid corporate rules, the world could be better... and I'm not a nurse and I'm not in America, but can totally relate (unfortunately)... Thanks for the videos!
hah! thx for the comment! (have you ever wondered if there WAS a world full of 'yous' and no one else? sometimes i think it would b emore peaceful, and other times i wonder if the world would just turn out more or less the same lol)
As a new psych nurse…I just switched from labor and delivery to inpatient MH 3 weeks ago… I really appreciate your content. I even made it to the end 😊. I can totally relate to not fitting into the system 🫡. Thanks for sharing!
Looking forward to more videos!!
Yea, I would always talk to the patients as much as possible as soon as they got onto the unit. Because they weren’t familiar with the “no personal information” rule. I got lots of good conversations with them, until they were aware of the “expectations” then I turned into a stalker
Thank you for sharing your story. So much unnecessary energy is being waisted on nonsense in this country. We need knowledgeable great nurses like you at work.
So true! I'm not a nurse, but I cant even go to a therapist because of the fear it'll be used agaisnt me in legal things in the future. Once when I was a minor, my doctor referred me to a psychiatrist even though I shared no mental health concerns, and now as an adult, that thing still stained my background. It's still in my record. :/
The sue culture is also bad.
If all the harm that comes from the pharmaceutical companies….and this is what they get worked up about? This is where they see a need for regulation?!
This is what makes us all feel crazy
So many nurse just work for a pay check. You can’t do that in nursing it puts the patients in danger. People need not go into nursing if they don’t care about patients.
Sorry you're having such a rough week. Glad you could rant and vent a bit! Liars are the absolute worst. Imagine being in a place where everybody's life already sucks and where reality is iffy, and then deliberately lying in a way that's not only stupid and unnecessary, but also hurts the people who are trying to help you! That kind of thing makes me sick to my stomach. Sorry your bosses didn't have your back either, yeesh.
loved this video and your candor about your frustration - but I know you were made for this world, and caring health care providers sometimes try to fit their round peg selves into the square peg of our current medical system - can't be done, but bringing attention to this is SO important and can maybe smoothe the corners for others??
I have spent many times in the hospital for an array of health issues.
I don't feel that a nurse doesn't "give 2 shits about me" if she is more focused on ensuring my meds are correct, double checked, recorded properly and my vitals are done like clockwork, but is a bit cold and technical.
Than a bubbly nurse who is coming in to fluff my pillows but screws up my meds, is flippant about rules and protocols.
You won't die or have an adverse reaction if your pillow isn't fluffed but you can if your meds are screwed up or something is missed because of sloppy recording of your vitals.
This isn't a hotel, it is a medical ward.
yeah I agree. I think I was trying to make the point that often you have nurses who are more preoccupied w/ following protocols and rules than they are with connecting with patients. This is obviously a false dichotomy as you can follow rules and protocols while still connecting with patients, but in my experience, nurses who tend to connect very well with patients often are more lax in these other areas.
Patients parents are slow i swear. Dealing with them is infuriating
well and usually i have GREAT experiences working w/ families, especially in outpatient, but this one was a whole n'other can of worms =/
@@A_Psych_Nurse I don’t really like “outpatients” to begin with, if they are stable enough to live at home then telehealth should the only option for them.
We need to have tea and crumpets for sure!! 😂😂😂😂 No, I get it though. Im not even finished with Nursing school yet, and I'm already planning my out into Neuroscience. That's a whole other story.. I'm going into Psych and detox, so although I am sure I'll be stressed out, I hope I don't have to deal with any obnoxious family members like that, lol. At least until I get some decorum and tact. Haha! Keep talking. This is therapy for me/some of us too. Happy belated Father's Day!!
thank you!
I remember one nurse put Klonopin 0.5mg QID in my mouth I was SHAKING This nurse was terrible i was Cold. That nurse should been fired.
My 18yr old autistic son went to a hospital for a psychiatric hold...he wasn't a smoker (and was underage, technically) but his nurse gave him nicotine gum. Which annoyed the crap out of me. Any number of scenarios could have led to that, which is why I never said anything. But it was an irritating situation
yeah that's understandable--i'd be frustrated too if one of my kiddos got nicotine gum unnecessarily :(
We would love to get your wisdom and advice. Do you do any ZOOM CONSULTING??
psychnursecoaching@gmail.com
Broken system ...Id love to talk with you i have been in your situation
If no one follows the rules then no one is gonna even try to enforce them
So I’m a nursing student and currently a tech on a medsurg floor, and sometimes the patients’ family members are one of the hardest parts of the job. In psych do you have much face-to-face interaction with family members or is it usually over the phone like giving updates? One of the reasons I’m interested in becoming a psych nurse is because it seems like interactions with family members is fairly minimal.
my past job was really the only place where i'd have much interaction w/ patient's families (and then obviously working out-patient you'll have a ton of family interaction, but that was almost always positive for me).
If you're going to work inpatient, doubtful you'll have much contact w/ family, but the likelihood of this increases the more you work in private settings vs. public (e.g. state hospitals or state-run facilities).
Haha the mum! "OMG YOU GAVE MY DAUGHTER HER PRESCRIBED PRN MEDICATION!!!!! YOU SHOULD BE DEREGISTERED!!!!"
no wonder the poor girl has mental health issues!
Why would the second person's request have any barring on her request?
Why didn't you ask her first, " do you mean a nicotine losange or cough drop?"
You're a nurse, each patient should be dealt with separately and clarified on what they are asking for.
The miscommunication is that you allowed the second patient direct/influence what you thought the first patient was asking for.
Mocking the patient for having anxiety. Not cool.
So this sounds like a very frustrating situation that got blown out of proportion for sure, but… completely avoidable if even a basic assessment was done for symptoms when the “lozenge” request was made. You mentioned Tylenol as a PRN, but would you have given it without doing even the most basic pain assessment (0 to 10 how would you rate your pain) and yeah I get it we don’t have a set assessment for nicotine products but I think even just looking at the chart and seeing she has never been given it before should have prompted some inquiry. This is a med error. You could have done more to protect yourself, and the warning was appropriate. Dealing with the parents was punishment enough. You should own some culpability here and I am not seeing that in the video. From one nurse to another I am not here to kick you while you are venting but to offer another POV. That sounds like a super awful experience and I hate you had that. Hopefully you haven’t become complacent in doing basic assessments because that is super rampant in our profession right now. Thanks for the content. It is really helpful and hopefully I am able to return the favor.
Oh my gosh
Listen I do criminal and abuse checks … med errors are considered abuse by my state but everyone makes them ! The facility gets fined for the incident… I sooo get what you are saying about it being no big deal…. Your incident was sooo very minor … Crazy convoluted government stuff…
11:00 what if someone gives there parents permission to speak for you?
I see u very well. Bring pecan sandies...its been difficult. My neigbhor died the son blamed men
Borderline maybe
Me as a guy that hates some medication etc. i don't know accurate
Then you have to be more patient as you're already. Weird and respect for you
People like npc's
And shockingly how does this word npc fits to some of npc's just