is there someone who's say that cooking and cleaning is women's responsibility and changing a tire is men's responsibility? both can do both. help each other and respect each other. that's when the things work!
You don't get oil change or flat tires everyday and manly duties like cooking and cleaning. Every month a woman goes through 4 phases of menstrual cycle which causes a chemical imbalance probably why a woman acts a particular way. Plus every situation is different.
To be honest, I would normally agree that once you're shouting you're on the losing end of the argument. However, this time I believe that she does have a stronger point, she's just frustrated with this notion. His counter is beautiful and W. But... the things he mentioned as a man's duty is not an everyday thing. I totally get her frustration. She has stepped out of the home and is working full time outside. It's not the same as solely being a housewife. But every family has to find its rhythm stills.
Then you should be able to relate it more since men have been doing this for ages understand their frustration and on top of that if an exhausted person comes home to a person who is again shouting think how hard it would be for him Same goes for women as well but since this change has come now they are just not able to handle it that well
Sorry sir ,the point is she dont like at all to do it .the woman should take care of the family even if she work when she is tired the husband will Help .at list we do like this in sud italy .
she has 100 % valid point. the thing is her voice pulled her down. if she communicated her point in different manner, visual aids etc. the world will take it.
Flat tire happens once in a blue moon. And let's be honest, if it goes flat, we call the insurance company. But cooking, cleaning, ironing, and laundry happen every day. If they both work full time, he has to take on at least half of housekeeping duties.
You both work so the man should do half the housework. You both work so the woman should do half the yardwork. Pay half the bills. Help rake leaves, shovel snow. If women expect men to do half of woman's work. They shouldn't have a problem with doing half of men's work.
@thomasspann8678 I agree. Gardening is part of the household duties and should be split 50/50 if both are working full time. Men's job isn't just an occasional flat tire like the dude in the video claims. In fact, there are no male and female jobs in a household where women cover the bills as a solo or an equal provider.
Agree with girl because listen carefully she said that if both man and woman go to work outside and when they return man feels tired but woman has to do all the chores! No matter how tired!!
I will agree that the household chores should be split especially if one of the leaders in the household isn't working or barely working, just remember when things get heavy you will rely on him
If you think that working at home is only a woman’s job then don’t tell her to earn money it’s your job simple as that. Even if she’s yelling her anger is justified . If you both are working to earn money then it’s not only her job to cook and clean . She can be as much as tried as you so help her if she cooks you clean that’s how partners work . Still if you want her to do all the house chores than don’t expect her to do a job earn yourself
Who told woman to do a job if a man is providing you everything then why can't cook for him why can't do his laundries. If a man is doing his functions properly than why woman always come up with an excuse
Yes if both are earning and there many bills that one person can't afford and they're helping each other in that they have to help each other to do other things of their house
@@Mohamedali-n1c if you are not pressuring your wife to earn money and providing her with everything then she can do all the house chores . Still you should help her sometimes cause she will be your wife not maid unless you’re extremely tired of course . But if you expect her to earn money and do all the work at home alone as well then you’re nothing but a failure . And I’m sure no girl would want to marry someone like that either .
@MahiraMahmud-ew1qk if a wife is earning for herself and she is not helping his husband neither doing other things at home then she also is a failure and no man will marry a woman like her
@@MahiraMahmud-ew1qk okay but do you compare hours as well? I'm not trying to be rude, but say in my case a few years ago I work 12 to 16 hours a day, while my wife worked 8 hours as part time. She is a Sahm now, but my point is i worked every day for nearly a whole year while she was doing everything at home.
so a woman takes care of the house and a man takes care of the woman's car? does changing tyre ONCE in a while equate with cooking and cleaning every single day? if that is his argument, then he is not fit to be a life partner.
I think they're both right. One an oil change and a tire being fixed doesn't happen every single day. Every single day a meal has to be cooked every single day. The dishes have to be done. If a woman is working 40 hours a week and her man is working 40 hours a week then yes he should help out with stuff around the house. That doesn't mean that she's not life material. It's a partnership you're supposed to work together.
How long does it take to shovel the snow? Cut the grass? Negotiate contracts or deals? House repairs?.... after a 40 hour shift..... cause last time I check laundry and chores aren't a every day thing either.
Dude, I get one flat tire maybe every 2 or 3 years. You have to clean and cook every day. You are comparing apple vs oranges. If you are both working full time, the housework is split 50/50.
He has a valid point there are different responsibilities for each person in a house hold... you can discuss these responsibilities but discussion is key❤
In all honesty it depends. My wife worked (sahm now) 8 hour days while i work 12 to 16 hour days she did everything. Any money she made went towards fun spending things, like dates, taking kids and me to movies, buying new things for the house. Every penny i earned went to house and car payments, utilities, food, and then saving for rainy days. She did all the house work while i most of the time was to tired to do anything since i am in factory work. I still tried to do my part, but she just shooed me away to bed whenever i got home after making me dinner. At my factory we was short staffed for a LONG time (1+ year) and i worked every day for 11 months and she always took care of me.
We have no different duties. Men can clean, do the dishes etc. The only difference is we don't because we pretend we gonna fight if needed to protect family. Women fight for family everyday
Disagree with this man, these men are putting extra pressure on women.. earning is a man's job . Men should earn.. here as the women is sharing men's part of work the men should also help the women in house.. i can say that in the most calming way.. because tires don't puncture everyday.. pipes don't leak everyday.. there is a reason men as stronger because since ancient time they were suppose to work outside. Today for financial independency women have to work...
Her argument isn't valid, guaranteed she wouldn't ever do the same job as a man. Construction, garbage collecting, any hard physical labor, period. He's totally right on point.
Most families' household chores don't require hard physical labour on a daily basis (if ever). Construction or garbage collection is a paid profession, not daily personal household duties. Whereas cooking, cleaning, ironing, laundry, etc. need to be done every day regardless. If both partners work full time, these duties should be split equally between them.
Nahh i honestly don't agree with him, a wife is someone that was suppoused to be stand by your side no matter what and it's the same for the husband, she's not someone that is suppouse to JUST cook and clean, a wife is not a maid. Cooking and cleaning is a every day duty beside do you need to change your tire daily??? Do you change your oil everyday??? She kinda have a stronger point, it's not only about chores it's not only HER chore, if you let your wife doing ALL THE CHORES while she's tired af than you're a unfitting husband, you clearly don't care about her.
he’s talking about a damn housewife when she was clearly talking about a woman working full time and also taking care of the house while the man just works full time. She’s 100 right and this edit is not it😂
This lady sounds like my wife. I just left her after 10 yrs because she is beyond comfortable. We have a 6 yr old and our agreement was she would be a stay at home wife until our son was in school. I’ve worked and average of 60 hours a week since he was born, fixed/washed her car when needed/wanted, clean up the house on my day off (dishes, laundry, vacuuming, dusting etc) maintain the outside of the house, spend time with my son when I do have free time, and to finish it off, I’m the only cook in the house. She always said that she was tired or had so much to do. Yet when she wanted a stab at my responsibilities and tried to be like me, she gave up after a few weeks. Different responsibilities is absolutely a thing because MOST women will NOT put up with everything a man does for his family. I’m now a single father sleeping in my truck working in my career field that I will retire very comfortably from and can still support myself, my son, and baby mama. Yet she has the nerve to say I’m lazy and a piece of shit father. 🤷🏼♂️
I worked in the trades every day for 40 years, from 100+ to -40 and came home every night knowing I was going to help my wife who also worked a stressful writing job always having deadlines. I knew having children was both of our responsibilities, for 7 years I worked a part time job from 5-11 on top of working 8 hours as a air-conditioning technician in the Alabama Heat when we first married so we could get ahead. I watched my parents work and we were always taking care of, my father worked at Seal Power, built homes and we farmed about 100 acres there was not a lazy bone in his body. I learned we do what we need to, to take care of our family.
Me and my husband work and when we get home we help each other with the chores 😌 my father and mother in laws are such great parents they raise such a good man❤️❤️
That is mostly true. However I do want to add something. Yes we have different responsibilities however that does not mean I am the one who has to cook every night for everybody. Having different responsibilities does not mean that we adhere to old stereotypes and traditions. He can cook I will change my own tires cause I hate cooking. I love my car, though.
That’s fine ! But I expect the man’s job done right …. And there’s men that have that type of woman and still take her for granted ! So I understand when she yell!
I agree with her. We work and do these functions every day. Men do functions maybe once or twice a month. Soooo its 2025....we both can cook , clean sometimes...
Completely its men make sure the house isn’t gonna break my Dad is a blue collar worker something most men wouldn’t even do he is the reason the streets are flooded with sewage he has to go out of town for a week he has to go to different states and he works 16hrs a day and I get 4 hours with him and I get four month with him and everyday with my mom for four months but on the weekends my dad makes the most of it he made up the time by taking me to super cross my favorite sport and the next day to the dirt bike track this is what men work for to bring their wife and children happiness ❤
Not even. How often do those things break inside the home? Now compare that to how often you need to eat, have clean clothes and sheets and look after children, if you have them.
💯 ❤ I am truly blessed to be a STAH mommy and wife. Yes! Definitely different duties. Getting thee babies ready for the day. Breakfast. Lunch. Cook dinner. Take care of them when they're sick. Clean home. Laundry. Run errands. Appointment scheduler.... Hubby has to go to work with men who constantly gripe at him more than I can imagine. Comes home so mentally and physically exhausted. Hurting himself accidentally from wrenching all day. All the heavy components from a semi truck... he does so much❤ 14 years strong with communication, snuggles to end the night and wake up to an amazing man and beautiful children. As a man of our home, he keeps the $ flowing... gas in the car. Bills paid on time. A roof over our head. Food on the table. Car maintenance done. Our leader as God almighty intended♡
I get up at 5am get to work at 5.45am I Finnish work at 6pm I go home my wife makes my meal and then I'll wash and dry the pots afterwards and on my days of I'll clean the house with her then go shopping together on other days women are there to be loved like men are loved as well my wife is a diamond this is why we are strong together and love each other ❤❤❤
I do that everyday, I do the house chores, I work, I take care of the kids and I help him with his business, he never gives me a dime for my shoes, clothes, meds, make up, perfume anything for me that's why I have to work my ass off while holding my babies, and managing the store and house , and still my husband says I'm stupid and lazy 😅,,, then there's these girls 😊
This is just an example, think of the bigger picture. Getting a flat is a rare occasion (a man’s function. Cook, clean, laundry, kids every day/ week thing. She’s just saying she’s tired. But girl, the approach was nit it. :)
They both need help. I'm single 15 years and the funny thing is i go to wrk everyday then come home and i cook and i clean and do laundry and pay child support and make time for my child and time for my ex's children. To me they don't do half what i do. I wouldn't change my life for the world and they sit there whining. Hard to run with the big dogs when you pee like a puppy.
All of the duties she listed were correct I consider those my job BUT I work because I want to. If the man pays for everything so I don't have to work like a man but some women do and in those cases I think that the man should be able to help. If you are working for extra pocket money your duties should come first
I will mop the floor, do the dishes, wash the clothes, change the bed but girl--- you gotta tune up the car, change the alternator,mow the lawn, clean the gutters, trim the trees,till the garden, shovel snow. Y'all still want to trade jobs??? Bill Burr said it best----- any job you can do in your pajamas ain't hard. Now I gotta go shovel snow,,, make me a sandwich and a cup of coffee,,,,geeezzzz.
He failed at a reality check. The reality check would be let's share household responsibilities. Roles at home don't need to be traditional. She can be fit to be a Wife and have non-traditional roles. Clearly, he wants traditional roles.
Women a secured relationship and secured future and house and car and put no work beside tricking I appreciate the women who wolr and good hearted but this women deserve a Oscar for being unaware of reality and a Chris rock slap
..,..I believe this was based on the 50/50 argument where she states she working full time as well and still has certain responsibilities that should be shared. So if it’s 50/50 let that be across the board. We pay bills equally, parental responsibilities equally and household chores equally.
I work 12 to 15 hrs a day to feed my family and I get nothing in return but headaches that's why I leave our house at 5am in the morning just to have a peace of mind
The man goes to work, while the woman stays at home, handling the cleaning, dishes, and other household duties. Despite not going to work outside the home, she is expected to remain energetic and not be tired after a long day of managing the household.
Look both sides are correct. I will admit that much. Whether man or woman. Its completely logical that after you come home from work. Youre exhausted. So how about we split the responsibility? Okay ill clean and you do the dishes. Ill do the laundry and you cook food. Is that so hard?
First what he's giving her isn't a reality check. He gave her his view, his... sorry to say this... weak, outdated defense of what he was taught a "real" man, a "real" husbands different responsibilities are. As if a woman couldn't possibly change a tire for example. And second, he raised his voice as well, the more agitated he got. Which is the same thing he reprimanded her for. So it's again a typical double standard. When a woman gets louder and defends her point, she gets told she shouldn't raise her voice, shouldn't be hysteric and so on but when he does the same, suddenly that's okay. Yeah right. I'm wondering who Really needs the reality check out of these two....
The problem is that they work, but they work for themselves, because that's her money, they don't help you pay the bills and then they want you to help them with the shores around the house! Getting married nowadays is no fun for a man, good luck running your life!😂😂😂
I can't hear this sh.t anymore Flat tires , every day??? 😂 Every week ? So many guys can't change a flat tire.. Shame on All men they don't want to help in household They want to stay big kids
My husband and I share all responsibility. He might wash the dishes and I might mow the lawn or vice versa. If he is working on the car I'm there handing him the tools and lighting his cig for him or refilling him the coffee or dumping the oil out of the oil pan. So what WA the argument on both sides there. There can be some equality among the sexes but just different roles. He cooks great steak but my lasagna is the bomb.
This man is extremely selfish and toxic. Stay away from him. His arguement stands good if it was a housewife. But he wants a woman to work hard all day equally and c9me home and do everything else.. while he sits on sofa watching TV and waiting for a day flat tire will happen so he can call roadside assistance. Ridiculous
She will do both as a single mom. When the man and woman goes to work there is a difference thing happening in the relationship. Both employers and husbands are considered providers. If a woman works just to have money that's fine. She kept her promise to her boss or company and gave her 100% for whatever they agreed to provide her. It could be more than money, also a car, Purchase card, maintenance and gas card and more. She did what was required to be provided for. Yet here's the difference She comes home and expects the same provisions her husband promised to provide her as a wife. He goes to his employor gains the provisions that he agreed to for working with that employer and bring them home to provide for you. Do you now see the difference. Most women do not want to provide what they make and if so it's usually very little. So now you will keep your promise to gain what your employer provides to you for the work you did for them and use the work you did for your employer as an excuse not to keep your promise as a wife and do wifely duties for your husband while to receive fully all the benefits he provides for you. So you gave a hundred percent to get the benefits from your employer and now you only want to give 30 to 50 percent to receive the benefits of your husband. Would Amazon allow you to use the work you did for lets say for Walmart and apply it to work you were suppose to do for them and provide you a hundred percent what they agreed to with you for doing less work? No! More than likely they would fire you. I tell men to stay away from those women as in the example with Amazon men are the one that is getting scammed, not women.
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Do you agree with that?
is there someone who's say that cooking and cleaning is women's responsibility and changing a tire is men's responsibility? both can do both. help each other and respect each other. that's when the things work!
Work doesn't choose gender do whatever comes to be done to keep family close -kit
Nope@@DevikaSajeesh-l4v
No
You don't get oil change or flat tires everyday and manly duties like cooking and cleaning. Every month a woman goes through 4 phases of menstrual cycle which causes a chemical imbalance probably why a woman acts a particular way. Plus every situation is different.
To be honest, I would normally agree that once you're shouting you're on the losing end of the argument. However, this time I believe that she does have a stronger point, she's just frustrated with this notion. His counter is beautiful and W. But... the things he mentioned as a man's duty is not an everyday thing. I totally get her frustration. She has stepped out of the home and is working full time outside. It's not the same as solely being a housewife. But every family has to find its rhythm stills.
Then you should be able to relate it more since men have been doing this for ages understand their frustration and on top of that if an exhausted person comes home to a person who is again shouting think how hard it would be for him
Same goes for women as well but since this change has come now they are just not able to handle it that well
Sorry sir ,the point is she dont like at all to do it .the woman should take care of the family even if she work when she is tired the husband will Help .at list we do like this in sud italy .
So you say that a man has No daily duties on his Family? Which he fulfills also? Weak argument
she has 100 % valid point.
the thing is her voice pulled her down. if she communicated her point in different manner, visual aids etc. the world will take it.
No. She doesn’t have a point.
Flat tire happens once in a blue moon. And let's be honest, if it goes flat, we call the insurance company. But cooking, cleaning, ironing, and laundry happen every day. If they both work full time, he has to take on at least half of housekeeping duties.
You both work so the man should do half the housework.
You both work so the woman should do half the yardwork.
Pay half the bills.
Help rake leaves, shovel snow.
If women expect men to do half of woman's work.
They shouldn't have a problem with doing half of men's work.
@thomasspann8678 I agree. Gardening is part of the household duties and should be split 50/50 if both are working full time. Men's job isn't just an occasional flat tire like the dude in the video claims. In fact, there are no male and female jobs in a household where women cover the bills as a solo or an equal provider.
Agree with girl because listen carefully she said that if both man and woman go to work outside and when they return man feels tired but woman has to do all the chores! No matter how tired!!
Did you see the video.
Yelling is the same as using (!) I'm right here, don't yell "it's a sign of low intelligence" 🫵
I agree
agreed
She is making a lie that a woman comes home okay but a man comes tired that's a obvious lie
When you are both working full time the household duties should be 50/50 split
50/50 is killing our culture as an African u girl u need to be a wife in a family not a fighter dude.
She's right
That is the Dummheit Argument I‘ve ever Heart from a man 💔💔💔
What he said is concerning for humanity
Wäre are u living in the 1800 the world has no women Concept 💔
Don't have a job ma"am
U don‘t have a Job?
If both work both share house shores, in that case she stay home with her funcrions and you provide as a man ur function hes not husband material
Home duties should be 50/50... that's MARRAGE. EACH PERSON CONTRIBUTES EQUALLY DOING IT TOGEATHER IN LOVE AND PRIDE‼️‼️
And who has assigned these tasks to a woman in the first place? Women can fix tires and men can cook and clean... Who made these rules, really????
Patriarchy...societies...roles...go figure 🤷
I will agree that the household chores should be split especially if one of the leaders in the household isn't working or barely working, just remember when things get heavy you will rely on him
If you think that working at home is only a woman’s job then don’t tell her to earn money it’s your job simple as that. Even if she’s yelling her anger is justified . If you both are working to earn money then it’s not only her job to cook and clean . She can be as much as tried as you so help her if she cooks you clean that’s how partners work . Still if you want her to do all the house chores than don’t expect her to do a job earn yourself
Who told woman to do a job if a man is providing you everything then why can't cook for him why can't do his laundries. If a man is doing his functions properly than why woman always come up with an excuse
Yes if both are earning and there many bills that one person can't afford and they're helping each other in that they have to help each other to do other things of their house
@@Mohamedali-n1c if you are not pressuring your wife to earn money and providing her with everything then she can do all the house chores . Still you should help her sometimes cause she will be your wife not maid unless you’re extremely tired of course . But if you expect her to earn money and do all the work at home alone as well then you’re nothing but a failure . And I’m sure no girl would want to marry someone like that either .
@MahiraMahmud-ew1qk if a wife is earning for herself and she is not helping his husband neither doing other things at home then she also is a failure and no man will marry a woman like her
@@MahiraMahmud-ew1qk okay but do you compare hours as well? I'm not trying to be rude, but say in my case a few years ago I work 12 to 16 hours a day, while my wife worked 8 hours as part time. She is a Sahm now, but my point is i worked every day for nearly a whole year while she was doing everything at home.
so a woman takes care of the house and a man takes care of the woman's car? does changing tyre ONCE in a while equate with cooking and cleaning every single day? if that is his argument, then he is not fit to be a life partner.
Well someone with low intelligence can't really understand anything like you can't understand his point
Are you serious? He made an example and you think that's all men do. That's idiocy
I think they're both right. One an oil change and a tire being fixed doesn't happen every single day. Every single day a meal has to be cooked every single day. The dishes have to be done. If a woman is working 40 hours a week and her man is working 40 hours a week then yes he should help out with stuff around the house. That doesn't mean that she's not life material. It's a partnership you're supposed to work together.
How long does it take to shovel the snow? Cut the grass? Negotiate contracts or deals? House repairs?.... after a 40 hour shift..... cause last time I check laundry and chores aren't a every day thing either.
I'm standing with the girl in reality....
After having baby I have to go to my office help my baby and do household work thats hell
Dude, I get one flat tire maybe every 2 or 3 years. You have to clean and cook every day. You are comparing apple vs oranges. If you are both working full time, the housework is split 50/50.
NOT. GOING. TO. BE. A. WIFE. PERIOD.
He has a valid point there are different responsibilities for each person in a house hold... you can discuss these responsibilities but discussion is key❤
It's called sharing the responsibilities 50/50!
That is saying some sh*t here she is wright what people expect from a woman is unhuman as for responsbilities different famlies difrent responsibilty
Broken heart
In all honesty it depends. My wife worked (sahm now) 8 hour days while i work 12 to 16 hour days she did everything. Any money she made went towards fun spending things, like dates, taking kids and me to movies, buying new things for the house. Every penny i earned went to house and car payments, utilities, food, and then saving for rainy days. She did all the house work while i most of the time was to tired to do anything since i am in factory work. I still tried to do my part, but she just shooed me away to bed whenever i got home after making me dinner. At my factory we was short staffed for a LONG time (1+ year) and i worked every day for 11 months and she always took care of me.
We have no different duties. Men can clean, do the dishes etc. The only difference is we don't because we pretend we gonna fight if needed to protect family. Women fight for family everyday
Disagree with this man, these men are putting extra pressure on women.. earning is a man's job
. Men should earn.. here as the women is sharing men's part of work the men should also help the women in house.. i can say that in the most calming way.. because tires don't puncture everyday.. pipes don't leak everyday.. there is a reason men as stronger because since ancient time they were suppose to work outside. Today for financial independency women have to work...
Her argument isn't valid, guaranteed she wouldn't ever do the same job as a man. Construction, garbage collecting, any hard physical labor, period. He's totally right on point.
Most families' household chores don't require hard physical labour on a daily basis (if ever). Construction or garbage collection is a paid profession, not daily personal household duties.
Whereas cooking, cleaning, ironing, laundry, etc. need to be done every day regardless. If both partners work full time, these duties should be split equally between them.
Household work is duty of every family member not only of women
She is yelling because she is sick of all the negative men say. I have a flat tyer, i change it.
Nahh i honestly don't agree with him, a wife is someone that was suppoused to be stand by your side no matter what and it's the same for the husband, she's not someone that is suppouse to JUST cook and clean, a wife is not a maid. Cooking and cleaning is a every day duty beside do you need to change your tire daily??? Do you change your oil everyday??? She kinda have a stronger point, it's not only about chores it's not only HER chore, if you let your wife doing ALL THE CHORES while she's tired af than you're a unfitting husband, you clearly don't care about her.
Lady you were fighting for equal rights.
I support the girl…stay away from that guy he’s the type that will leave you when u can’t cook or clean even after u just gave birth..
he’s talking about a damn housewife when she was clearly talking about a woman working full time and also taking care of the house while the man just works full time. She’s 100 right and this edit is not it😂
This lady sounds like my wife. I just left her after 10 yrs because she is beyond comfortable. We have a 6 yr old and our agreement was she would be a stay at home wife until our son was in school. I’ve worked and average of 60 hours a week since he was born, fixed/washed her car when needed/wanted, clean up the house on my day off (dishes, laundry, vacuuming, dusting etc) maintain the outside of the house, spend time with my son when I do have free time, and to finish it off, I’m the only cook in the house. She always said that she was tired or had so much to do. Yet when she wanted a stab at my responsibilities and tried to be like me, she gave up after a few weeks. Different responsibilities is absolutely a thing because MOST women will NOT put up with everything a man does for his family. I’m now a single father sleeping in my truck working in my career field that I will retire very comfortably from and can still support myself, my son, and baby mama. Yet she has the nerve to say I’m lazy and a piece of shit father. 🤷🏼♂️
Couldn't agree more. If I had a wife, I would still help out, as long as there were no complaining about it.
I worked in the trades every day for 40 years, from 100+ to -40 and came home every night knowing I was going to help my wife who also worked a stressful writing job always having deadlines. I knew having children was both of our responsibilities, for 7 years I worked a part time job from 5-11 on top of working 8 hours as a air-conditioning technician in the Alabama Heat when we first married so we could get ahead. I watched my parents work and we were always taking care of, my father worked at Seal Power, built homes and we farmed about 100 acres there was not a lazy bone in his body. I learned we do what we need to, to take care of our family.
I think that men and aunty with spax need to know the year we are in.
Yes seriously that's woman job😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤.
This is why all the billionaires are passport bros. 🤔 💯
She’s always screaming, and I can’t understand her.
Me and my husband work and when we get home we help each other with the chores 😌 my father and mother in laws are such great parents they raise such a good man❤️❤️
No woman works harder than a man.
That is mostly true. However I do want to add something. Yes we have different responsibilities however that does not mean I am the one who has to cook every night for everybody. Having different responsibilities does not mean that we adhere to old stereotypes and traditions. He can cook I will change my own tires cause I hate cooking. I love my car, though.
That’s fine ! But I expect the man’s job done right …. And there’s men that have that type of woman and still take her for granted ! So I understand when she yell!
You said it all brother.This is why you are single lady
HE SPITS THE TRUTH SHE ISN'T AWARE OF.
Haha, work..., clean..., and do the laundry... and cook that call being an adult.
I agree with her. We work and do these functions every day. Men do functions maybe once or twice a month. Soooo its 2025....we both can cook , clean sometimes...
So you change her tire every single day??? 😂😂
How often do you fix the tires and change oil? Twice a year?
Be strong as women and men let,s show them why we are the head of the house 🏠
Tbh i work and so is my husband, we both agree that if one of us is tired after work, then the other will have to cook/clean for the day
I confuse very easily,so you wouldn't cook and clean, KNOW YOUR ROLE 😅
That's why men are happy alone. Don't have deal with that crap. Yelling and creating drama. Go be rested alone.
Completely its men make sure the house isn’t gonna break my Dad is a blue collar worker something most men wouldn’t even do he is the reason the streets are flooded with sewage he has to go out of town for a week he has to go to different states and he works 16hrs a day and I get 4 hours with him and I get four month with him and everyday with my mom for four months but on the weekends my dad makes the most of it he made up the time by taking me to super cross my favorite sport and the next day to the dirt bike track this is what men work for to bring their wife and children happiness ❤
Not even. How often do those things break inside the home? Now compare that to how often you need to eat, have clean clothes and sheets and look after children, if you have them.
A guy like that 😢...run girl
😂😂😂 honestly idk who is right ✅️ and who is wrong ❌️
💯 ❤ I am truly blessed to be a STAH mommy and wife. Yes! Definitely different duties. Getting thee babies ready for the day. Breakfast. Lunch. Cook dinner. Take care of them when they're sick. Clean home. Laundry. Run errands. Appointment scheduler.... Hubby has to go to work with men who constantly gripe at him more than I can imagine. Comes home so mentally and physically exhausted. Hurting himself accidentally from wrenching all day. All the heavy components from a semi truck... he does so much❤ 14 years strong with communication, snuggles to end the night and wake up to an amazing man and beautiful children. As a man of our home, he keeps the $ flowing... gas in the car. Bills paid on time. A roof over our head. Food on the table. Car maintenance done. Our leader as God almighty intended♡
If I’m working then we better share that house work
Why is she yelling man 😏
I get up at 5am get to work at 5.45am I Finnish work at 6pm I go home my wife makes my meal and then I'll wash and dry the pots afterwards and on my days of I'll clean the house with her then go shopping together on other days women are there to be loved like men are loved as well my wife is a diamond this is why we are strong together and love each other ❤❤❤
I do that everyday, I do the house chores, I work, I take care of the kids and I help him with his business, he never gives me a dime for my shoes, clothes, meds, make up, perfume anything for me that's why I have to work my ass off while holding my babies, and managing the store and house , and still my husband says I'm stupid and lazy 😅,,, then there's these girls 😊
This is just an example, think of the bigger picture. Getting a flat is a rare occasion (a man’s function. Cook, clean, laundry, kids every day/ week thing. She’s just saying she’s tired.
But girl, the approach was nit it. :)
If the man and woman are working,
they should devide their house work 50 /50.
But if the women don't work outside then she can do household work.
They both need help. I'm single 15 years and the funny thing is i go to wrk everyday then come home and i cook and i clean and do laundry and pay child support and make time for my child and time for my ex's children. To me they don't do half what i do. I wouldn't change my life for the world and they sit there whining. Hard to run with the big dogs when you pee like a puppy.
All of the duties she listed were correct I consider those my job BUT I work because I want to. If the man pays for everything so I don't have to work like a man but some women do and in those cases I think that the man should be able to help. If you are working for extra pocket money your duties should come first
There are roles a husband and wife have in a marriage but nah, an oil change every 3 mos doesn't equate to me cooking and cleaning EVERY day
I will mop the floor, do the dishes, wash the clothes, change the bed but girl--- you gotta tune up the car, change the alternator,mow the lawn, clean the gutters, trim the trees,till the garden, shovel snow. Y'all still want to trade jobs??? Bill Burr said it best----- any job you can do in your pajamas ain't hard. Now I gotta go shovel snow,,, make me a sandwich and a cup of coffee,,,,geeezzzz.
My Brother, teach them.
If you're both working you should hire a maid.
She is so loud I can't hear her.
He failed at a reality check. The reality check would be let's share household responsibilities. Roles at home don't need to be traditional. She can be fit to be a Wife and have non-traditional roles. Clearly, he wants traditional roles.
Ur right the louder you yell...
Shes complaining but doesnt work or even get paid like a man. Yet shes here yapping?
Men don't change the tyre daily but women have to cook clean and do the dishes daily everyday 365 days which is tiring
Women a secured relationship and secured future and house and car and put no work beside tricking I appreciate the women who wolr and good hearted but this women deserve a Oscar for being unaware of reality and a Chris rock slap
..,..I believe this was based on the 50/50 argument where she states she working full time as well and still has certain responsibilities that should be shared. So if it’s 50/50 let that be across the board. We pay bills equally, parental responsibilities equally and household chores equally.
I work 12 to 15 hrs a day to feed my family and I get nothing in return but headaches that's why I leave our house at 5am in the morning just to have a peace of mind
Bro that’s my mom but my dad dont change the tires 💀
Women right but men 🃏
👌He is correct.
The man goes to work, while the woman stays at home, handling the cleaning, dishes, and other household duties. Despite not going to work outside the home, she is expected to remain energetic and not be tired after a long day of managing the household.
Look both sides are correct. I will admit that much. Whether man or woman. Its completely logical that after you come home from work. Youre exhausted. So how about we split the responsibility? Okay ill clean and you do the dishes. Ill do the laundry and you cook food. Is that so hard?
First what he's giving her isn't a reality check. He gave her his view, his... sorry to say this... weak, outdated defense of what he was taught a "real" man, a "real" husbands different responsibilities are. As if a woman couldn't possibly change a tire for example. And second, he raised his voice as well, the more agitated he got. Which is the same thing he reprimanded her for. So it's again a typical double standard. When a woman gets louder and defends her point, she gets told she shouldn't raise her voice, shouldn't be hysteric and so on but when he does the same, suddenly that's okay. Yeah right. I'm wondering who Really needs the reality check out of these two....
Even if single, you have to work, cook, clean, etc. their arguments are weak.
The problem is that they work, but they work for themselves, because that's her money, they don't help you pay the bills and then they want you to help them with the shores around the house! Getting married nowadays is no fun for a man, good luck running your life!😂😂😂
I have never seen her be 1. Positive 2. Have a decent conversation without yelling
It is just called being an adult
Again it's the mans duties to actually change that oil n to change that tire.
That dish washer needs to replaced bad nocking sound
That why it was the woman stayed at home to take care of kids and the home , i believe thats why we have dysfunctional families in America
Why is she shouting 😡.
I dont agree with him the house and children are his too so its his responsability too you dont need to fix a car everyday
Uhmm I do all those things and maintain my car only thing I dont do is cook...and he started yelling towards the end
You are screaming equally 😂
I can't hear this sh.t anymore
Flat tires , every day??? 😂
Every week ?
So many guys can't change a flat tire..
Shame on All men they don't want to help in household
They want to stay big kids
He sould be a critical thinking teacher, period 😂
My husband and I share all responsibility. He might wash the dishes and I might mow the lawn or vice versa. If he is working on the car I'm there handing him the tools and lighting his cig for him or refilling him the coffee or dumping the oil out of the oil pan. So what WA the argument on both sides there. There can be some equality among the sexes but just different roles. He cooks great steak but my lasagna is the bomb.
Don't forget clean the gutters cut the grass do any repairs on home roof appliances car repairs shovel snow
This man is extremely selfish and toxic. Stay away from him. His arguement stands good if it was a housewife. But he wants a woman to work hard all day equally and c9me home and do everything else.. while he sits on sofa watching TV and waiting for a day flat tire will happen so he can call roadside assistance. Ridiculous
Who in the hell wants that woman
She has no clue at all 😂
I feel pity for his wife / wife to be this kind of man
She will do both as a single mom. When the man and woman goes to work there is a difference thing happening in the relationship. Both employers and husbands are considered providers. If a woman works just to have money that's fine. She kept her promise to her boss or company and gave her 100% for whatever they agreed to provide her. It could be more than money, also a car, Purchase card, maintenance and gas card and more. She did what was required to be provided for. Yet here's the difference
She comes home and expects the same provisions her husband promised to provide her as a wife.
He goes to his employor gains the provisions that he agreed to for working with that employer and bring them home to provide for you. Do you now see the difference. Most women do not want to provide what they make and if so it's usually very little.
So now you will keep your promise to gain what your employer provides to you for the work you did for them and use the work you did for your employer as an excuse not to keep your promise as a wife and do wifely duties for your husband while to receive fully all the benefits he provides for you. So you gave a hundred percent to get the benefits from your employer and now you only want to give 30 to 50 percent to receive the benefits of your husband.
Would Amazon allow you to use the work you did for lets say for Walmart and apply it to work you were suppose to do for them and provide you a hundred percent what they agreed to with you for doing less work? No!
More than likely they would fire you. I tell men to stay away from those women as in the example with Amazon men are the one that is getting scammed, not women.
What a mouth 😂😂😂