@@vonherrmanna yeah I totally understand what u went through as I've been too as it's been 3 years since I've seen my kids and they must've been brainwashed by now
My ex has done everything you said including withholding Doctors appointments, telling them that I was cheated on by my ex girlfriend 30 years ago, which I told my ex before we got married. She has stolen from me and now has taught my adult son to spy on me and he also has stolen from me. All I can say is she won, I no longer see my son due to his behaviour. That is the lowest of lows. I hope god forgives her for her sake.
If I was in a situation where an ex told my child that I was too cheap to pay for their summer camp my response would be that "Mom takes the money that should go to your summer camp so that she can live alone and chase bad men." I mean, hey, it would be the cold, hard truth. Divorce is expensive. It always means less money is available for the child.
I heard this from friend, thia was happening for years very sad , hope and prey for people this , actually its kind sick if ask me , could feel his pain
My wife did this while we were still together. I worked nights our whole marriage and she began pitting us, my children and me, against one another, threatening to wake me up to beat their butts. When I heard her doing this, we got in to a huge fight and she snuck away two days later and told everyone that I was abusive and her and my kids were living in constant fear of me.
I unfortunately understand this dynamic unjustly instilling fear against you in the children when usually you are the parent who provides the most love and affection to the child. It’s insidious and abuse do what you can to prevent it from continuing. Therapy can help
My relationship was great. 4 years ago the kids started accusing me of the stuff he does, my kids refuse to talk to me. The last 2 years I had to flee living in my car with my youngest who’s not his because he called 160 false cps reports. The only time the kids come in is digging for info on my location, at first I told them but they are working for him now and I can’t trust them. I’m dying without my kids. To go from everything ok and they always called me to get them out of his place because he IS abusive, he tried killing me in 2003, i just think it’s ridiculous that all of a sudden my kids became enemies with no warning. I don’t even know what happened. Heartbreaking
I lost my children after leaving an abusive relationship so I can definitely relate. He used the children, our daughter especially to spy on me, then called CPS to report me. I couldn’t even go to the laundry room downstairs without being accused of leaving the children alone and in danger. My children also treat me like an enemy to this day and they are in their 30’s. It’s very heartbreaking. I’m sorry you have gone through this 🙏🏾
This is my ex-wife to the letter, and she wonders why our marriage disintegrated. Haven't seen my son now in 4 years. Dumbest thing I ever did was get married. I will never make that mistake again. MGTOW is the only way for a man to go.
@@EuniqCustomCreations I can't afford too fight any more. By the time I pay taxes and child support I'm lucky if I have any income left. The last court case cost $25K just to get it to court.
Yup. When my oldest was 3, Ill never forget these words: " just leave daddy, no one wants you here daddy, no one loves you daddy*.....even tho I hardly ever see her, 12 years later I'm still the biggest POS in that kids eyes.
it is astounding that the bad mouthing parent does not comprehend that the child ABSOLUTELY will pick up on the fact that one parent is bad moutihng, and the other is not. so don't do that, the child will trust you more automatically.
I know what im gonna be looking forward too, i dont get any info about my kids and she sees me as a bad father, she denies me access. I gave her 3 weeks notice to see them, following court orders (sapposed to be 24 hours notice), i was working out of town, i couldnt take them because suddenly her mom had them for that weekend. Happened more than a few times.
Believe me I have thought about doing the same as an alienated mother now almost 30 years but he doesn’t deserve the energy l left him not my children for a reason he can’t hide for long. I’m sure his current partner knows how he is which is why she stayed. Always remember In seeking revenge, we risk becoming the very thing we despise. Be the best human you can be. That’s the greatest revenge!
Guys, marry another woman (choose carefully this time). Have a lovely family. Don't worry about the ex and her child. if The child is worthy he or she will find you and seek the truth. If they are unworthy, you have your whole other family to enjoy your life with You don't need one kid, that kid NEEDS a biological father. Always remember that. If the vindictive ex makes it impossible and wants to play games, remove yourself from that rigged game and start fresh 😉
My ex alienated my son from me doing some of this. One other thing she did was to always refer to the kids as “her” kids. Never “our” kids.
@@vonherrmanna yeah I totally understand what u went through as I've been too as it's been 3 years since I've seen my kids and they must've been brainwashed by now
My ex started by forcing my children to call me by my first name
@@EuniqCustomCreations oh no
@@ychunks3710 he totally erased me from their lives literally. They view the children as objects/possessions
@@EuniqCustomCreationsso sorry to hear that, it's the same that happened to me
My ex has done everything you said including withholding Doctors appointments, telling them that I was cheated on by my ex girlfriend 30 years ago, which I told my ex before we got married. She has stolen from me and now has taught my adult son to spy on me and he also has stolen from me. All I can say is she won, I no longer see my son due to his behaviour. That is the lowest of lows. I hope god forgives her for her sake.
If I was in a situation where an ex told my child that I was too cheap to pay for their summer camp my response would be that "Mom takes the money that should go to your summer camp so that she can live alone and chase bad men." I mean, hey, it would be the cold, hard truth.
Divorce is expensive. It always means less money is available for the child.
I heard this from friend, thia was happening for years very sad , hope and prey for people this , actually its kind sick if ask me , could feel his pain
My wife did this while we were still together. I worked nights our whole marriage and she began pitting us, my children and me, against one another, threatening to wake me up to beat their butts. When I heard her doing this, we got in to a huge fight and she snuck away two days later and told everyone that I was abusive and her and my kids were living in constant fear of me.
I unfortunately understand this dynamic unjustly instilling fear against you in the children when usually you are the parent who provides the most love and affection to the child. It’s insidious and abuse do what you can to prevent it from continuing. Therapy can help
The with holding of information usually begins before the "wife" starts the divorce proceedings.................
with holding
Yep, totally true...
My relationship was great. 4 years ago the kids started accusing me of the stuff he does, my kids refuse to talk to me. The last 2 years I had to flee living in my car with my youngest who’s not his because he called 160 false cps reports. The only time the kids come in is digging for info on my location, at first I told them but they are working for him now and I can’t trust them. I’m dying without my kids. To go from everything ok and they always called me to get them out of his place because he IS abusive, he tried killing me in 2003, i just think it’s ridiculous that all of a sudden my kids became enemies with no warning. I don’t even know what happened. Heartbreaking
I lost my children after leaving an abusive relationship so I can definitely relate. He used the children, our daughter especially to spy on me, then called CPS to report me. I couldn’t even go to the laundry room downstairs without being accused of leaving the children alone and in danger. My children also treat me like an enemy to this day and they are in their 30’s. It’s very heartbreaking. I’m sorry you have gone through this 🙏🏾
@@EuniqCustomCreations 😔 so sad but similar. Sending hugs love and strength ❤️❤️❤️ definitely sucks.
@ Definitely does and send it right back to you 🥰 Thank you 🙏🏾
This is my ex-wife to the letter, and she wonders why our marriage disintegrated. Haven't seen my son now in 4 years.
Dumbest thing I ever did was get married. I will never make that mistake again. MGTOW is the only way for a man to go.
@@jasa9707 don’t give up fighting to see your son
@@EuniqCustomCreations I can't afford too fight any more. By the time I pay taxes and child support I'm lucky if I have any income left. The last court case cost $25K just to get it to court.
@@jasa9707 I can relate… *sigh*
Yup. When my oldest was 3, Ill never forget these words: " just leave daddy, no one wants you here daddy, no one loves you daddy*.....even tho I hardly ever see her, 12 years later I'm still the biggest POS in that kids eyes.
it is astounding that the bad mouthing parent does not comprehend that the child ABSOLUTELY will pick up on the fact that one parent is bad moutihng, and the other is not. so don't do that, the child will trust you more automatically.
This shit hurt so bad smh i miss my kid
Me too 😢 I’m so sorry
Sarah you are amazing where do you get your knowledge
I know what im gonna be looking forward too, i dont get any info about my kids and she sees me as a bad father, she denies me access. I gave her 3 weeks notice to see them, following court orders (sapposed to be 24 hours notice), i was working out of town, i couldnt take them because suddenly her mom had them for that weekend. Happened more than a few times.
I’m an alienated father 💔💔and im willing to put my ex’s name and city out there so people know how horrible she is
Believe me I have thought about doing the same as an alienated mother now almost 30 years but he doesn’t deserve the energy l left him not my children for a reason he can’t hide for long. I’m sure his current partner knows how he is which is why she stayed. Always remember In seeking revenge, we risk becoming the very thing we despise. Be the best human you can be. That’s the greatest revenge!
Sounds like my ex wife and 16 year old daughter. Sad and hurts
What is sad is finding out how many people actually go through this…sorry you’re going through it
@ I agree. Just gotta keep showing the kids that you are consistent with your actions, words, and that they know you will always love them.
This video could be 49.255 hours long.
My brothers ex is just like those women
Short summary - don't get married
Guys, marry another woman (choose carefully this time). Have a lovely family. Don't worry about the ex and her child. if The child is worthy he or she will find you and seek the truth. If they are unworthy, you have your whole other family to enjoy your life with
You don't need one kid, that kid NEEDS a biological father. Always remember that. If the vindictive ex makes it impossible and wants to play games, remove yourself from that rigged game and start fresh 😉
My dad was a vicious narcissist and i am glad he is gone
Unfortunately mine is still here and continues to wreak havoc 😫
Meanwhile, Islamic fathers laugh.