BONUS #9 I quit decorating SO MUCH for holidays and seasons! This video showcases perfectly how I used to decorate with things covering nearly all the flat surfaces. Now I set out a few of our favorite things, and call it good!! So much easier to clean, less to dust, and way less to store throughout the year!
I don’t decorate for any seasonal or holiday - I can get enough of that stuff at other people’s home or at the store- I LOVE coming home to a calm and peaceful home FREE from decor clutter. - no stress to buy, no stress to store, no stress to haul out, no stress to display, not stress to put away, no stress to repair and insure.
Thank you for the gratitude reminder! I’m constantly reminding myself to stop wishing the time away. I had my son when I was 25 and was always in a hurry for him to grow up and I was never living in the moment. I am now 54 and he’s 29 years old, and if I could go back in time to hold that sweet baby boy in my arms again and to be able to just sit in peace with him would be such a blessing. As much as I love the person he’s grown into, I still miss that little baby that was safe with me. I try very hard to stop wishing the days away or wishing for something “better” in our current situation . I’ve even wished away the work days (who doesn’t). I realized not too long ago we wish these days away and then complain the time goes by too fast. Every day is precious, no matter how crazy or stressful it gets because you’ll never get that day or time back again. Thank you♥️
Idk how it works at your house but I highly recommend cooking in bulk somehow. Really help to free up a night or so of not cooking (or ordering out lol)
Yesssss absolutely!! I try to also keep It simple but i get bored easily(im italian and love fresh seasonal Just made meals) so the idea of keeping a weekly menù on rotation for a month might be a good idea but i think i Need guidance... Maybe making It more interesting keeping some sauces on rotation too? I tend to make most of the food we eat from scratch, and with 2 small children sometimes It gets quite complicated, stressful and definitely not something i look forward to... And we end up having dinner real late 😭
love hearing you say to stop wishing time away and while you were standing there wishing for a loft, you couldn't appreciate your baby. I completely agree with that. It's amazing how most people probably do this in some way or another but being mindful that we are doing this will make it that much easier for us to stop when our brain starts going down that path. Thanks for putting this out there!
Yes!! Please do a video of your simplified meal plan!! I love all your videos and so look forward to every new one you post. Wish you could do more of them!!
Hi Candace we downsized last year into a smaller house.I decluttered a lot of stuff and don't miss it.Most people spend most of their time wishing their lives away.I clean but I am not a perfectionist.I break up my cleaning I don't clean the whole house in a day.If I don't feel like doing something I don't beat myself up abour it. We got rid of a lot of holiday stuff.I put a few things out and it is more enjoyable. I too like to just be grateful for what we have and not wish we had something g bigger or better.Hapoy Thursday
Bringing items into our homes definitely need to pass the "worthiness" test. I'm so much more picky about shopping these days. I used to settle for "close enough," but no more.
I'm still in the process of decluttering, but I'm making some good progress! I'm childfree by choice (I'm the cool aunt) but listening to you talk about your kids when they were little was sweet. My nephews and niece are all pretty much adults now but remembering when they would do things like sit on my husband's feet and hold on to his legs always makes me smile. :)
@Simply This Life, I can so relate to this video! 0:42-1:12 - YES - we see potential in the beginning, and now I see it as something I must deal with later! LOL 1- I purchase impulsivity! 2- I purchase and I don't use like I should. 3- Simplifying changes your mindset and surroundings! Thank you for such a great video. MINDSET IS IMPORTANT AND CRITICAL!
I define clutter as things that I haven’t used in a year and are taking up valuable space - both visible and hidden. My friend told me she doesn’t consider it clutter if she can find storage space for it, even if she isn’t using it. She has created storage in the garage to accommodate a lot of things she never uses. I don’t understand this, but I respect her need to hang onto ‘clutter’.
OMG I am like your friend. Loads of things I don’t use, neatly stored. These days I do at least have regular declutters (about once a year) of the stored items. I’m not perfect, but things are better than they were.
I still remember when I taught my then 16 year old son to use the washing machine as he was inclined to say he needed a specific pair of jeans for the next day at 10 o’clock at night, my elder son followed suit and they were responsible for washing their own clothes, I only had to insist they keep whites and coloured clothes separate.
We use them yes!!!! The kids (and my husband) use them to lay on the floor in front of the fire, and we all use them under our arms when we’re sitting on the couch! My husband made fun of me for the longest time for having them, but he used them the most!! 😆
My main problem is buying things because of a great price. There will always be things I like for a great price. I'm at my limit for home things and over the limit for clothes and accessories.
I still struggle with this, but the best work around is just staying out of the store. Even with Instacart I typically just hit buy it again and buy the basics now.
I've watched something about your meals on 3X5 index cards but don't know where to find it now. I'm trying to figure out something so I'm not running to the store every few days
Can you please do a session on your make up? Do you have a lot or have you simplified this down too? Your make up always looks so pretty so I’m interested to know how you deal with this area of organisation and declutterring. Thanks!
BONUS #9 I quit decorating SO MUCH for holidays and seasons! This video showcases perfectly how I used to decorate with things covering nearly all the flat surfaces. Now I set out a few of our favorite things, and call it good!! So much easier to clean, less to dust, and way less to store throughout the year!
I don’t decorate for any seasonal or holiday - I can get enough of that stuff at other people’s home or at the store- I LOVE coming home to a calm and peaceful home FREE from decor clutter. - no stress to buy, no stress to store, no stress to haul out, no stress to display, not stress to put away, no stress to repair and insure.
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Same here! I have four totes, with all seasons of stuff. That includes one tote of wreaths.
Please do a simple meal planning video! I’m always looking for new, easy meal ideas!
I would add how to get helpers involved and dealing family complaints.
Thank you for the gratitude reminder! I’m constantly reminding myself to stop wishing the time away. I had my son when I was 25 and was always in a hurry for him to grow up and I was never living in the moment. I am now 54 and he’s 29 years old, and if I could go back in time to hold that sweet baby boy in my arms again and to be able to just sit in peace with him would be such a blessing. As much as I love the person he’s grown into, I still miss that little baby that was safe with me. I try very hard to stop wishing the days away or wishing for something “better” in our current situation . I’ve even wished away the work days (who doesn’t). I realized not too long ago we wish these days away and then complain the time goes by too fast. Every day is precious, no matter how crazy or stressful it gets because you’ll never get that day or time back again. Thank you♥️
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Yes a simplified meal plan would be wonderful! I hate that it takes me two to three+ hours cooking & cleaning every night for meals!!!
Idk how it works at your house but I highly recommend cooking in bulk somehow. Really help to free up a night or so of not cooking (or ordering out lol)
Yesssss absolutely!! I try to also keep It simple but i get bored easily(im italian and love fresh seasonal Just made meals) so the idea of keeping a weekly menù on rotation for a month might be a good idea but i think i Need guidance... Maybe making It more interesting keeping some sauces on rotation too?
I tend to make most of the food we eat from scratch, and with 2 small children sometimes It gets quite complicated, stressful and definitely not something i look forward to... And we end up having dinner real late 😭
Your channel just gets better and better . This video was very compelling on several levels . Thank you
love hearing you say to stop wishing time away and while you were standing there wishing for a loft, you couldn't appreciate your baby. I completely agree with that. It's amazing how most people probably do this in some way or another but being mindful that we are doing this will make it that much easier for us to stop when our brain starts going down that path. Thanks for putting this out there!
Hey girl! I would absolutely love to see your meal routine!
Thanks for the gratitude reminder. I think we all forget that. Cant completely give up TV. But I dont get it til 9pm.😊🖥
Yes!! Please do a video of your simplified meal plan!! I love all your videos and so look forward to every new one you post. Wish you could do more of them!!
There is so much wisdom here, Candace. Thank you!
Decluttering took pressure off me!! Loooved this!✨️🙌
Hi Candace we downsized last year into a smaller house.I decluttered a lot of stuff and don't miss it.Most people spend most of their time wishing their lives away.I clean but I am not a perfectionist.I break up my cleaning I don't clean the whole house in a day.If I don't feel like doing something I don't beat myself up abour it. We got rid of a lot of holiday stuff.I put a few things out and it is more enjoyable. I too like to just be grateful for what we have and not wish we had something g bigger or better.Hapoy Thursday
Bringing items into our homes definitely need to pass the "worthiness" test. I'm so much more picky about shopping these days. I used to settle for "close enough," but no more.
I'm still in the process of decluttering, but I'm making some good progress! I'm childfree by choice (I'm the cool aunt) but listening to you talk about your kids when they were little was sweet. My nephews and niece are all pretty much adults now but remembering when they would do things like sit on my husband's feet and hold on to his legs always makes me smile. :)
having cats does not simplify my life but I would never not have them
Having kids doesn’t simplify mine either, but they are my everything! ❤️❤️❤️
@Simply This Life,
I can so relate to this video!
0:42-1:12 - YES - we see potential in the beginning, and now I see it as something I must deal with later! LOL
1- I purchase impulsivity!
2- I purchase and I don't use like I should.
3- Simplifying changes your mindset and surroundings!
Thank you for such a great video.
MINDSET IS IMPORTANT AND CRITICAL!
Would love to see a simple meal planning video!! Love your videos. Love your color palette in your home. So simple but yet beautiful!
Aw thank you!
This video was so soothing Candice ❤
I define clutter as things that I haven’t used in a year and are taking up valuable space - both visible and hidden. My friend told me she doesn’t consider it clutter if she can find storage space for it, even if she isn’t using it. She has created storage in the garage to accommodate a lot of things she never uses. I don’t understand this, but I respect her need to hang onto ‘clutter’.
OMG I am like your friend. Loads of things I don’t use, neatly stored. These days I do at least have regular declutters (about once a year) of the stored items. I’m not perfect, but things are better than they were.
❤❤❤YES on the meal plan video and even the holiday decorations from then till now I can see more simplified. Blessings!!!💗
Yes!!! So much less decorating for seasons and holidays! What a difference it's made!
I needed to hear all this today. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
Wonderful video! All so true. Love what you have and live for the moment. It all goes so quickly.
I still remember when I taught my then 16 year old son to use the washing machine as he was inclined to say he needed a specific pair of jeans for the next day at 10 o’clock at night, my elder son followed suit and they were responsible for washing their own clothes, I only had to insist they keep whites and coloured clothes separate.
I would love to see your meal planning and simple meals.
Coming soon!
Such a good idea of video about your meal routine 🤗💛💛💛 I'll be waiting for it a lot 🌿🌿🌿
This Is by far One of the best videos about Daily Life i've Watch ever.
So simple, so TRUE and honest.
Loved this video and what you had to say. Thank you!❤
Do you use all the pillows on your couch? They have to be moved to sit. I never understood massive throw pillows on beds or couches
We use them yes!!!! The kids (and my husband) use them to lay on the floor in front of the fire, and we all use them under our arms when we’re sitting on the couch! My husband made fun of me for the longest time for having them, but he used them the most!! 😆
Such beautiful advice. ❤
Reflections of a homemaker and mother.... sigh..... I hear ya!
My main problem is buying things because of a great price. There will always be things I like for a great price. I'm at my limit for home things and over the limit for clothes and accessories.
I still struggle with this, but the best work around is just staying out of the store. Even with Instacart I typically just hit buy it again and buy the basics now.
I've watched something about your meals on 3X5 index cards but don't know where to find it now. I'm trying to figure out something so I'm not running to the store every few days
Yes to simplified meals!!!!!!!!
I watch Julie Pacheco and Frugal fit mom for easy and cheaper meals-love all of your help
I would love to see your simple meals!!
Ya Girl! Would love to see a simplified cooking video! Please!
Love meal planning videos!
I'll add it to the line up!
Excellent video! And oh so true!
thank you -- this video was helpful.
I would love a meal planning video if you are happy to make it.
Would love to see your meal plan!
Yes please share simplified meals with us!!! 😊
Nice one!
Thanks!
Free, sale, and cute are all 4-letter words! As soon as I realized this, it changed a lot! Bad words!😂😂
Amen!!
Messy is ok. Dirty is not.
SOOO TRUE
you will have more favorite times of life as they grow up. The best of every season.
So True!!!
BEST VIDEO ❤
Can you please do a session on your make up? Do you have a lot or have you simplified this down too? Your make up always looks so pretty so I’m interested to know how you deal with this area of organisation and declutterring. Thanks!
Way too many pillows on those couches.
Way too much everything lol
I notice that people who watch a lot of TV usually have very cluttered houses.
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