It was freaky to hear at first, huh? Two swingers opening up about their unconventional marriage. Hearing all the 'tea'. But now that we all see that there is clearly something not right with this makes you now....lose interest.
It's like he's trying to convince himself that he's happy. You can be divorced and still be really cool friends. The kids are in their 20's. He can free himself from this bondage and find true love and peace.
Yeah but Will is in his 50’s and been with her since he was in his mid 20’s they both have but i feel like he should move on cause i wouldnt try hard to make it work with someone after years of trying and its just the same cycle
But he will loose half his money. These Vile feminists will claim they're opressed but don't talk about the unfair judgments men go through in divorce proceedings.
Why is everyone always repeating the same shit they hear "couple goals" just come up with your own shit.. They're doing theirs different and I'm not in it so I don't see the problem. Who are they hurting? It's their life and their truth.
After seeing Will Smith's reaction at the Oscar's I think it's safe to say that it is pure denial when he said Jada having other partners doesn't bother him...
I think Will is more upset that Jada's side piece confirmed rumors about their marriage and now he feels forced to address it . He looks hurt (his image is being tarnished) ashamed , defeated , almost about to come to tears in these interviews. Damnit Jada why didn’t u make him sign NDA
Cuz it's nobody's business, like I'm non-monogamous and all the girls I talk to know this. But at the same I wouldn't want somebody else telling my business, that actually annoys me. If anybody is going to tell it it's going to be me.
He's defeated he is losing his bankability, due to this stain to his "black excellence power couple and power family" public image. Which means he's defeated he's losing money and opportunities and a "good" reputation. Which is insane if you think about it, to lose job offers and likeability just because you're in an open relationship with your wife, don't get me wrong, but it's their own fault for decieving the public. But then again can you blame them? The puritanism in this world wouldn't let them gain the success they have today if they had been open about it. But it's irking me that Will is playing the sympathy card for the following reasons: Will had been having boy toys and multiple love interests at the same time since forever, since he'd been with his first wife actually and she herself even had said back in the day that she had caught him once with one or TWO in one bed, . He got with Jada cause she was great for his public image and an even greater cover up that did the same as him. Their marriage upgraded them jn Hollywood and that was their goal. They were even more bankable together than apart. And that's why they got and stayed together. Now that the (half) truth is out he's playing damage control, his playing the one that is the loyal one and is proftting off of it with a book, while Jada is demonised for it. When don't forget, will gave his blessings for the then relationship of that man with Jada.he doesn't give a f* cause he's been doing the same since the beginning. They both were and are in a mutual partnership having a completely open relationship and now she is the one taking all the blame, cause her bf talked to the press and Will is the one playing victim. Ew. It's beyond me. It's always the women that take the fall and it's disgusting. There's a reason he said in his interview with Oprah that he feels he has failed all the women in his life. It's cause he did. He said it to gain sympathy and pity from the viewers watching, to humanise himself more, now that his "black excellence, Hollywood power couple+power family" facade has ended, hence to have more people buy his book and to make himself look even more like the victim and the bigger man with the "never feeling enough" complex. Also Will, has traumatised his two children. They themselves have admitted it. He forcefully KISSED ON THE MOUTH jaden on a number of times, even on tv, on Ellen for example (!) and he also seggsualised his daughter willow, pushing her to be a pop artist, when she didn't want to, saying provocative pop songs she didn't like, while being a kid. Both his kids have admitted to being wierdly pushed and on bad terms with Will in the past especially (now they're good, but that trauma stays with you forever). In fact if Jaden and willow didn't have a mom likr Jada they wouldn't have at least partially healed. Willow constantly praises her mother. And for a good reason. So to the people slxt shaming and demonising Jada: stop shaming her people. It's insane and completely hypocritical. It's plain wrong. And one last thing, if Will hadn't been a Hollywood creep with his own children, if he and Jada had been their authentic selves from the start, I'd like them a lot more. And on the other hand they don't owe the world a god damn thing, regarding their own marital situation and their business. They don't. So it seems surreal to me that they have ti apologise for it. The only apology they do owe is their own children, Will in particular for close to preparing them to be grommed and preyed on Hollywood as kids, and secondly for playing the "monogamous power couple" card so full on that they portrayed a perfection that is completely fake in reality. And the world owes all the apologies to Jada for being once again the once taking the fall and the hate and the criticism and for being the recipient of blatant misogyny and hypocrisy.
His Marriage Is a Masquerade of Real Happiness. How you gonna feel comfortable to kiss on your wife's holes ? When you kno, other dudes are spitting occasionally into them ? The other families are different bcz no one knoz when it happens. I don't know what Smith is waiting for to swap lovers with jada or indulge in group play.
I will translate this: “We are married but we both talk to other people on the side, and if while we are talking with another person and it becomes sexual, we do it as long as I tell my other half, then it’s ok. “ Just say you have an open marriage.
What's next orgy marriage? Liberals constantly trying to redefine behaviors that make someone human trying to promote annalist behavior. A human should not look up to a sex life of a dogs as the new culture and promote it.
All that fancy avoidance talk he giving Oprah to say they openly sleep with other people and the rumors going around for years are true. Sad part is I can’t get the few seconds back I wasted on this non sense. Let me give you tube a rest.
@@justicett0 Go watch their videos where they confirmed to having an open marriage. August told that he got his blessings from Will Smith before their so called entanglement. Will is not upset because of her cheating, will is upset because it got public and his image got tarnished. Will literally cheated on his first wife to be with Jada. He sleeps around too, not only Jada.
@@earth2639 THEY made their personal life public. There are so many celebs who keep their marriages private. Kerry Washington for example has a VERY private life. One even knew she got married until AFTER she got married. They started this when they decided to put their relationship on red table talk.
@@earth2639 celebs can have private marriages and relationships. There are sooo many examples. However, many celebs publicize their marriages and relationships. It’s inevitable that people are gonna talk about it when it’s public.
He cried the frustration out when he was making his acceptance speech and felt a sense of relief, that's why he's went on to dance at the after parties.
He can philosophize his current situation ad nauseam but he can not hide the heartache in his eyes every time he tries to convince us that he is okay when he is not.
@@thisisbillgates The only one projecting anything is you. I only comment on what I see. You obviously are reacting to what you have read. Kindly, begone and be blessed.
Will straight up said it: "she had to make herself happy and i had to make myself happy". "She decided she wanted to cheat but itd look bad if only she did it so i agreed to cheat too".
How can you exploit a man who put his business in a book, interviewed by the biggest name, made him millions! Y’all dead set on making him a victim. Just because he cries (he’s an actor) doesn’t mean he’s innocent & being treated unfairly.
@@crs_stl I wonder if he has side pieces because he’s forced to fit into the “open relationship” mold Jada has asked of him. As in, he likely needs to have the side piece to be equal to her and to not feel alone when she’s with someone else. I think if he were given a choice, he’d only have Jada and no one else.
I think there is still love there but Jada is really not taking this marriage seriously. They should cut out everyone else and work on things privately. There is hope for them if she chooses her family over her midlife crisis.
I remember once on their show when they said Will didn’t want to end his first marriage and wanted to work it out. But, the wife said no. He said he would have done anything to keep the marriage but the ex insisted. I feel that he really doesn’t want a divorce with Jada either and going along with her crazy idea of a marriage. I think divorce is better than living our one life so miserable like this. It’s cringing to watch him talk. He is not normal self.
They're cashing on their Babylon lifestyle. They don't care if u're upset about their behavior. It's lucrative.. If u thought this dude would decide to get a divorce from jada, u're wrong. WILL SMITH is staying with the b**** for the cash flow 🤔😳
For me As black woman as wife jada should have conducted herself with dignity and remain faithful to her husband as wel as preserve her husband dignity. If she needed healing she should have going to church speak postar, traveling the world, sleeping her son friend who is mentaly illl boy that was disgrace! right now jada trashed, brused her husband ego and selfsteem
We can see right through your brokenness Will. Why pretend? She wants to entangle with someone else, let her go. You will be stronger because of it. Be the man that God has set you out to be.
I think she wants to stay because of Will’s status and money. But she wants her fun on the side. That’s not true love. So sad for him but he needs to face the consequences of assaulting a comedian on stage.
@@BT-ch9gf But it won't be because of loyalty ,love etc. It's just because they consider that choice a failure. Because he already divorced and divorcing twice for him is just a no no. And there are all these power issues coming with it. They are quite powerful as a couple. United they can face adversity better.
it's a fear of not being good enough for someone or a fear of failure....it's shitty cause it can happen to either partner in a relationship and they end up fighting so hard to stay with someone that isn't good enough for them, but it's the shitty person who gets to feel like they're better, and the better person who feels inferior.
@@latishadaniels4304 He wants to have a harem of girls ( ruclips.net/video/updG5a_-FMk/видео.html - ruclips.net/video/0XRKJWB7VTc/видео.html ). The man is hurt by the woman he loves, he clearly does not know how to deal properly with this situation. It's hard 4 him.
It’s obvious he’s wrapped around Jada’s finger. What she says goes regardless of how he feels about it. Will can continue trying to fool himself and us with words, but his actions speaks otherwise.
After watching the Oscars, damn celebrities be crazy. They talk about their sex life publicly for their ego, then physically assaulted someone on tv, then gets a best actor award wtf?
He’s regurgitating her gaslighting talking points. She never wanted to be married, wasn’t ready to be a mom. He uses the word” we” when he really meaning “ she” it’s time for Will to let it go. She never wanted him.
Both of them are established celebrities. The whole family is talented. I don’t see why they feel the need to put all their dirty laundry out there. People don’t do movies or sing anymore. They just jump in the reality show bandwagon.
@@W_T_D I agree! 😊 Personally, I don't have a reason to dislike Will or his family. Whatever direction they chose to go in their personal life/marriage don't make me dislike them. It may not be the ideal marriage but it appears that they still have a strong family bond and love for one another. That's important even if they weren't married. Unfortunately, a lot of marriages gets far worse than this.
His eyes tell us everything. He sounds happy and confident, but eyes look puffy. His face is two shades player than before. This man just described marriage as a prison. It’s obvious he’s miserable and just trying to look like he’s in control of the marriage.
My my, aren't YOU one for nuance. He never said, or even necessarily implied, that marriage is a prison. His exact words were, "friendship vs marital prison." He wasn't saying that marriage IN and OF ITSELF is prison. He was describing a TYPE of marriage, a type of UNHEALTHY marriage, that is equatable to prison. I simply take the man at his word. His eyes don't look puffy to me. I don't see anything off about him. Maybe because I'm more open-minded about the kind of relationship he's talking about, and maybe because I don't judge it, so I'm not LOOKING for anything to be off about him. I think you're looking too hard, as a result of your preconceived notions.
Chris really handled this whole thing with so much grace. It’s just a testament to his character 100% my kids could learn from this finally an actor with self-control and dignity
The bottom line is that is not a marriage. A marriage has a clear line of definition, if you don't like the definition then call it something else, but don't call it a marriage.
Marriage came from the bible, created and defined by God. It isn't a thing that came from evolution or the big bang theory. It was created by God for the human race. If you don't like his creation, that's fine, you can go ahead and be in a defacto partnership or civil union, but don't call it a marriage. Marriage isn't for man to redefine, it belongs to God. Periodt.
@@user-ef5id9km3p 😂😂😂😂 Theres nothing godly about the biblical god!! Experts added up satans murders and Gods murders.. Satan 10 people. YOUR god killed 25 MILLION men women and children!!!! Why dont you listen to the number 1 textoral critic in the world "Bart Ehrman". Who started off as a devout christian, until he studied properly.. The bible is a man made fabrication that has been changed many many times.. Look Bart up, he will show you how fake it is lmao
Bc he's a simp. You girls don't like that lol we keep tryna tell you all that buy you're all insistent on a "nice guy" well this is what happens when you get one
He's clearly in denial that his marriage fucked up and ran it's course. Will clearly lying when he said it wasn't hard for him, the man nearly burst into tears. What man would sit there and take that from his wife and say wasn't hard for him? Will got to admit his marriage is over, get a divorce and move on.
It must be exhausting trying to pretend to be something you're not. I'm glad that after years of denial, Will can finally be truthful not for us, but to himself, because the freedom it brings to your life is PRICELESS!!!!
I been thinking the same thing he’s about to explode always very private and now telling everything at once never a good sign of someone’s mental status he needs help he’s dying inside
I agree with you, he doesn't look well, I haven't seen him this thin either, look how skinny his ankles are, you can see in his eyes his words are not his truth
If two people truly love one another you won't consider having an open relationship it's just not the way things work sadly for Will Smith I think she's the only one who wants it that way
I think it’s sad to think that this is okay and a possible way to have a happy marriage… this is a real representation of two really broken beings trying to find a justification on their messed up marriage and their failure to commit period. They can sugar coat it all they want…
Agree 100% To think this is the type of relationship they are showing their kids as "normal" is disgusting..The only people i feel sorry for are their kids, they have no hope with these two as parents..
And that's the real reason Will Smith slapped Chris Rock last night. His anger was not with Chris, but with his wife. He's just trying to fool himself to believe that all that cheating is no big deal and theirs is a happy marriage.
Is everything about “freedom” these days? What happened to commitment, loyalty and the value of one’s body? Not saying the new generation isn’t already ruined but these guys are meant to be role models
A human being isn't "supposed" to be ANYTHING, especially when it comes to other people's expectations of them. They are under ZERO obligation to meet the public's expectations of them as "role models." They are allowed to live their lives for themselves, as THEY see fit - not for you or for a bunch of children they've never met. Besides, the standard of what makes a good "role model" is different for every individual. So their idea of a good role model will most likely differ from yours. And guess what? THAT'S PERFECTLY OKAY. The world isn't gonna burn to the ground because it isn't quite the way you think it should be.
Everyone can do whatever they want as long as they're adults, consenting to things and not harming others. So I don't understand what's your problem. Also they don't owe you a god damn thing. It's their business and their dynamics. You do you and they'll do them. Stop judging, based on your monogamous and personal beliefs and start living a less miserable life, more focused on you and on empathy. Just because someone is different than you it doesn't mean that commitment etc., hence the values YOU believe in are disappearing, just because THEY'RE not following them. It's what works for THEM and they have every right. Puritanism is what destroyed them cause they had to play the perfect monogamous power couple. When they should have been their authentic selves. Not announcing it to the world of course. They don't even owe the world inside info and transparency, cause again, it's THEIR god damn bussiness. Now, what they DO owe actually is an apology to their children for pushing them from an early age to be stars and perfectionists. These children have self admittedly obtained so much trauma from that and are only now finding their peace and healing. Now that's something to talk about instead of Will and Jada's bussiness in bed and personal relationship. Cause whatever they have they're a team. But that team exhausted and seggsualised their children while still kids for the sake of a career (Will in particular, Jada helped them heal actually, but she still partly at fault for allowing what happened with them and Will for so long until their kids moved out of their home from an early age and stopped talking to their father. He should thank all his lucky stars that they're on good terms with him now).
I’ve always thought their marriage was weird….. 1. Jada early on expressed her undying love for Pac, the way he supported her, encouraged her, protected her to me he always saw her as a sister but she saw him as a romantic love when really it was kinda in a weird way the things she didn’t get from her father. 2. Will was just new and easy for her when they got together but time would tell they were not a good match after sex, there really wasn’t any connection. 3. Jada always said she never saw herself as a mother maybe because she wasn’t truly mothered, this began the road to her unhappiness not her kids but losing herself in a role as her husband continued on in his prime. 4. She expressed her unhappiness and he told her he is not responsible for her happiness, I remember when he first said this in interviews a while ago. That’s when she went back to acting and was in a band. But she was still unfulfilled 5. Will is all ego he does not take failure well, hence the reason he didn’t want to divorce in his first marriage but your ego still doesn’t control someone else’s choices. 6. Jada divorcing Will would break him, which is why he agreed to never divorce again no matter what happened …. It’s failure in his eyes. A failed marriage does not equal a failed divorce to him. He thrives off of attention and positive reinforcements- which is another reason he feels the need to shove their personal life to the forefront- he needs acceptance. 7. I remember Will going on a vacay with his son and his ex…. Ummm what wife would agree to that, I bet he slept with his ex then.. that’s probably when he and Jada was on the rocks and they were both doing things to make each other happy….. 8. I knew august wasn’t lying as someone who was an extra on girls trip said he was up there daily to see Jada, he’ll when they were out at shows they looked more like a couple than her and will. 9. The issue wasn’t that her and august were together the issue was that Jada and will always told each other what they would go do and with who to make them happy she just didn’t tell him about this one.That is what the problem was. 10. Jada lied when she said she couldn’t remember why her and gabby union had beef, I think it’s because Will was one of gabbys dudes during her own self proclaimed ho phase. Women never forget why they had an issue with another woman… I didn’t buy their red table interview, they both knew why they had an issue. 11. Jada is a self proclaimed Ghandi/ mother Theresa type thinking she she can fix or help others when she should be doing exact same for herself. Those that think they are always the answers for others use that as a distraction from their own issues. ,”bringing herself to the red table” was not truly authentic. 12. I wish they stop 🛑 telling all the intimate details of their personal life, it’s really not necessary for us but self serving….go invest in psychotherapy instead. 13. This is a part of what Will meant by telling Jada “I’m going to get you back” hold on tight there is more to come I’m sure….. probably a love chi,d, a boyfriend etc They are both becoming more and more weird to me.
This just seems like a normal relationship with ups and downs, not a "weird" relationship. And if you're not interested in knowing these details then don't check their interviews 😆
These are my thoughts almost exactly! Will is holding on to his vows of till death do us part so strongly I think because of his parents dysfunctional relationship. He doesn't want to be anything like his abusive father. So hes going in the total opposite direction and exalting Jada in the relationship by giving her whatever she wants including this open arrangement they have.
I didn’t read all that but if you think pac wasn’t smashing you are silly. PAC saw jada as more then a sister. A brother doesn’t write a poem to his sister talking about how she makes him climax. Stop it. Half of what you said was non sense I couldn’t read any more
I love Will a lot he is one guy that I loved watching growing up. I feel so bad for his sadness and trying to cover it up with happiness. Dude you deserve so much more in life than to be hiding behind something so out of your wants. Please don’t crumble because you are so humble and down to earth.
This is a joke. You didn't grow up with Will like go to school with him, play together on the soccer team or watch cartoons on weekends. You watched him act all your life. You don't know him. He and Jada are both attention seeking narcissists. Spare your sympathy for people with real problems. Like orphans or those who are homeless.
It wouldn't be for me but it's still a marriage it's what's okay with in their marriage. Part of the problem is everybody else wants to press their views on someone else's life which is totally inappropriate especially if they're not hurting anybody.
@Chayil 74 what? When many religions find it acceptable to have multiple wives? People need to reevaluate why we think we can define normal and appropriate in other people's relationships
Pretty much. For better or worse they say. It seems that they still get along and enjoy each other as a family. I've definitely seen people go through much worse. At the end of the day it's whatever makes them happy.
That is the most narrow minded what not … Oprah never wanted to be married and she still is not even though marriage was common in life growing up… heck everybody is married around me but my sister has never wanted to be married but she has been with the same persons for 15 years… Willow thinking the way she thinks is what she thinks cause she is grown
He seems to be trying to save face. That interview where Jada disclosed. He looked torn up. His face said it hurt and he was embarrassed. She never wanted marriage nor monogamy. He should have stayed with his first wife but he was stupid. Jada doesn't love him as a wife should. I have lost respect for him. I have watched him from fresh prince days, I just can't see him in the same way anymore.
Instead trying to play shrink on the internets… how about you watch his show “best shape of my life” and read the book… He looks and sounds like a ppl pleaser who for the first time is becoming ok with ppl not being pleased… while that is freeing it is still hard to do and deal with the fall out…
Whenever I see Will on show or even here in RUclips, there’s pain in his eyes. Might not really be what he’s feeling but looks like she bring out the worse in him…
He’s a good actor, but the eyes give him away. You can tell he’s not happy with the situation he’s in. But both of them are so rich that it would be a horrendous divorce to go through. This just hits different after what happened at the oscars.
Success and wealth doesn't make broken people whole.And hurting people tend to lie to themselves in order to scope.The man talks and try to sound convincing but his eyes speak volumes.
Those two are trying SO HARD to convince the world that they are happy when in reality they are just trying to make misery work together. Personally, I really feel like it's Jada who sets all the rules in this relationship and he is TRYING desperately to make her happy. She said on her Red Table BS talk that she cried and cried on her wedding day to Will because she didn't know if it was what she wanted. This man has been trying to keep her ever since and he's even resorted to allowing for an open marriage. Can't stand Jada and I never knew Will was this weak.
Since Will Smith resigned from the Academy, I feel he should be stripped of the award. It's one thing to slap someone on live international tv, but then to quit the very Academy that gave him the award? That's a total disrespect to the entire industry. He's not God, but he's acting like he is.
The idea that this arrangement is "not about sex" is preposterous. It's very clear that Jada never wanted to be sexually monogamous, and seeing as how Will is a man, that's probably something he could eventually easily agree to. August Alsina wasn't going to offer her intellectual depth! Trust me it's about sexual variety with these two 😎
I agree, but August actually is pretty deep, his convo does stimulate the imagination and mind, that's why their entanglement lasted so long, great emotional sex with goodtalks, she was able to fulfill her need to be a healer as she said, so it was a good time had by all lol meanwhile Will is dippin and doing his own thangs on the side
@@lesegom7172 For me As black woman as wife to black man jada should have conducted herself with dignity and remain faithful to her husband as wel as preserve her husband dignity. If she needed healing she should have going to church speak postar, traveling the world, sleeping her son friend who is mentaly illl boy that was disgrace! right now jada trashed, brused her husband ego and selfsteem
Why are ppl so triggered? They don’t want to legally divorce. You live your life. I’ll live mine. I’ll love you forever. They’re not bothering anybody. It works for them. It’s not cheating if the other person knows. Isn’t this the era where ppl don’t have to label or identify anything? Call it polyamorous if you want a fancy term. So many say “marriage is just a piece of paper.” Well divorce is too apparently. They did not invent this. Take this from a healthcare professional who’s cared for tons of CATHOLICS keeping up images, living apart but never legally divorcing. When they get sick in comes their very kind wife/husband with a rosary while the life partner is at the bedside. No drama. They haven’t been together in 20yrs but they won’t divorce.
But they're will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith. They're not you and me, your average Joes. They have a public image to maintain that brings them likeability, opportunities, money, good reputation, so overall bankability. They played the "power couple+power family showing how black excellence in Hollywood can be done", cause our world is way to hypocritical and puritanical for them to be transparent about their open relationship and agreement since fhe beginning. Also they don't actually owe the world a god damn thing regarding their personal life and I find it preposterous that they have to apologise, explain, lie, sugarcoat, and do danage control. But then again can you blame them for lying? They would not have the success they have today if they were apart and if they were open about their situationship. Simple as that. To me they sound like two people that knowingly entered a partnership and a mutual agreement on being in an open relationship. It's sad that their romantic life and likeability determines their job opportunities. That should be determined only by their talent and by their moral compass. For example, it's far more shocking and important to talk about the fact that Will has pushed both his children into becoming stars and having careers from a young age and seggsualising them, than what he does in bed with Jada. That's the least important and worthy of judgement in comparison to the trauma he's caused his own children.
She made him do whatever she wants and Will tries to make it work by convincing himself that it is what he wants too. The Will Smith of the past before he was broken down wanted a perfect family and so he tries to this day to make it seem perfect even though everyone can see now through the cracks on his face that it is not. He is almost near shattering - I hope he get's through this.
@@chrisdaly6355 I had no idea either. I thought he kinda was off this last decade. She has been breaking him so she can use him and sleep around. Just awful. I hope he gets away from her and heals as soon as possible. He deserves so much better.
He's not truly on board with this. You can tell just by looking at him. He's a broken man and this is the only way he can reconcile his wife cheating on him and degrading him on the world stage and him staying with her.
Yes, because he was also smashing someone else. They were having an affair for 4 years. She lied about being separated and Will has said, no they weren't. They both nasty and disrespectful.
@aneshiamarie_ literally searched through so many comments to find this. It’s really sad how close minded people can be, and you’re exactly right that this is why people don’t wanna talk about it. I think they’re brave to put it out there despite knowing all these people are going to judge and criticize them to death for it
@@Yourmom_dotcom a polyamorous relationship can't be one sided, there's tons of reason the other partner will tolerate it, and it's not healthy. That's why alot of people don't talk about it.
One of my relatives tried this open marriage thing and now they are divorced. I wasn’t surprised because it’s the most moronic thing I’ve heard of in my entire life.
"Marital prison" and "Bad marriage for life." Jada was only in the marriage for her own career from the very beginning. Will was truly in love with her. She has been breaking his heart and poisoning his mind continuously for decades.
@@glam0r0us adultery is a loaded word. It's not adultery if both parties consent. I think it's super weird they expend so much energy and media time on their love life. Why are they preaching to us plebs? Lol. Have your own weird private life & keep it private lol
@@aussiejubes definately. I cant get myself to watch. Ever. I just see pieces here and there. And omg. It shocks me SHE wants all this out there. Is she trying to justify something? Seriously.
@@dariusbutts3139 I need to rephrase that because It sounds a little harsh. I’m perplexed by some of the things they do but I have nothing against them.
This honestly makes me sad. Nobody truly knows unless you’re in the household but he always speaks about trying to make her happy but I don’t recall her speaking about her trying to pursue making him happy. I think that is what causes a lot of good men to stop being a certain way after being dogged out by some women.
The next person shouldn’t have to pay for someone else’s betrayals. If you can’t choose a good partner or leave when someone becomes toxic that’s on you. The blame is never one sided.
@@emhu2594 Your comment shows me how immature & superficial you are. You say that you choose a good partner...WHAT IF THAT PERSON HAD NOT BEEN HONEST WITH YOU? iT'S NOT BECAUSE THEY INTENTIONALLY LIED, BUT LIED TO THEMSELVES. PEOPLE CHANGE. SOMETIMES YOU CAN ADAPT TO THOSE CHANGES. You make a choice at a young age & then, you grow...now, you have to adjust to the same person, but you are different. TRY doing that...over a lifetime relationship. There are good reasons for divorce & it is about people's inability to ADAPT.
The more I hear about their relationship the less I want to hear.
It was freaky to hear at first, huh? Two swingers opening up about their unconventional marriage. Hearing all the 'tea'. But now that we all see that there is clearly something not right with this makes you now....lose interest.
Agree
@@unpopularopinion5449 BOOM!! And them denying these allegations....when we knew this, AT LEAST 15 years ago.
Same here
@@unpopularopinion5449 thank u, same here
It's like he's trying to convince himself that he's happy. You can be divorced and still be really cool friends. The kids are in their 20's. He can free himself from this bondage and find true love and peace.
Precisely
Yeah but Will is in his 50’s and been with her since he was in his mid 20’s they both have but i feel like he should move on cause i wouldnt try hard to make it work with someone after years of trying and its just the same cycle
It's about the money she will get half ...
But he will loose half his money. These Vile feminists will claim they're opressed but don't talk about the unfair judgments men go through in divorce proceedings.
Lol he had no prenup but if i was him i would cut my losses and run like hell
That he would ruin his career over her eye roll is truly terrifying. The man needs serious help.
Il est envoûté
His career ain't over. Says who? The establishment? Please!
@ Not over.....but its painfully obvious that he needs psychiatric help.
@ it's tarnished
@ Not ruined... but that he's willing to
This is why I never ever look at celebrities as "couple goals".
Exactly!!!
Thank you! 🙌🏾
Facts!!!
Lllooool real ish
Why is everyone always repeating the same shit they hear "couple goals" just come up with your own shit..
They're doing theirs different and I'm not in it so I don't see the problem. Who are they hurting? It's their life and their truth.
Yesterday he snapped... All the years of betrayal and sadness locked within his soul which he has been masking all these while.
Based
Betrayal;? They are both sleeping with other people.
@@Michelle-pn9xt Right!!!! What betrayal???
Yessssss
stop making excuses for him.. he should have left her long ago
After seeing Will Smith's reaction at the Oscar's I think it's safe to say that it is pure denial when he said Jada having other partners doesn't bother him...
Did it bother him when he was enjoying his partners?
What set him off was when she told him that August texted her and said that he wouldn't let anyone talk about his ho like that.
@@wintersantiago2274 obviously not as bad as Jada having hers 😂
@@tearl5676 😂😂😂
So let me get this straight, will is cool about his wife sleeping other dudes but couldn’t handle a simple innocent joke… right, he lost his mind.
They make no sense together. Stop torturing each other in this toxic whatever it is.
He is delusional, simple as that..he needs to release himself
He is a manipulated beta wi, mp and jada is a 304
There was a time when people wanted to be him
Exactly, something is not right with him….
Oprah: did it hurt sitting there?
Will: no!
That's not what I saw. Man was on the verge of tears.
He has bought his own act.....but in this case he missed the mark I agree. He looked broken and she looked utterly unashamed and said so.
I know I saw that version too, lol
His mouth said no it wasn't hard sitting there but his body language told a whole different story 🤷🏽
Oprah keep my wife out of your f.....g mouse.
He was almost nodding yes
"Bad marriage for life." What a great affirmation. Bound to work out.
Followed by fake laughter
It’s a joke
@@slickspidey A joke that he seems to believe could really make his marriage work
They say the because of what outside people think they know about they marriage
And then they fist bumped like the damn wonder twins.
I think Will is more upset that Jada's side piece confirmed rumors about their marriage and now he feels forced to address it . He looks hurt (his image is being tarnished) ashamed , defeated , almost about to come to tears in these interviews. Damnit Jada why didn’t u make him sign NDA
Will has male partners. That's why he's upset that it got out.
Cuz it's nobody's business, like I'm non-monogamous and all the girls I talk to know this. But at the same I wouldn't want somebody else telling my business, that actually annoys me. If anybody is going to tell it it's going to be me.
He's defeated he is losing his bankability, due to this stain to his "black excellence power couple and power family" public image. Which means he's defeated he's losing money and opportunities and a "good" reputation. Which is insane if you think about it, to lose job offers and likeability just because you're in an open relationship with your wife, don't get me wrong, but it's their own fault for decieving the public. But then again can you blame them? The puritanism in this world wouldn't let them gain the success they have today if they had been open about it. But it's irking me that Will is playing the sympathy card for the following reasons: Will had been having boy toys and multiple love interests at the same time since forever, since he'd been with his first wife actually and she herself even had said back in the day that she had caught him once with one or TWO in one bed, . He got with Jada cause she was great for his public image and an even greater cover up that did the same as him. Their marriage upgraded them jn Hollywood and that was their goal. They were even more bankable together than apart. And that's why they got and stayed together. Now that the (half) truth is out he's playing damage control, his playing the one that is the loyal one and is proftting off of it with a book, while Jada is demonised for it. When don't forget, will gave his blessings for the then relationship of that man with Jada.he doesn't give a f* cause he's been doing the same since the beginning. They both were and are in a mutual partnership having a completely open relationship and now she is the one taking all the blame, cause her bf talked to the press and Will is the one playing victim. Ew. It's beyond me. It's always the women that take the fall and it's disgusting. There's a reason he said in his interview with Oprah that he feels he has failed all the women in his life. It's cause he did. He said it to gain sympathy and pity from the viewers watching, to humanise himself more, now that his "black excellence, Hollywood power couple+power family" facade has ended, hence to have more people buy his book and to make himself look even more like the victim and the bigger man with the "never feeling enough" complex. Also Will, has traumatised his two children. They themselves have admitted it. He forcefully KISSED ON THE MOUTH jaden on a number of times, even on tv, on Ellen for example (!) and he also seggsualised his daughter willow, pushing her to be a pop artist, when she didn't want to, saying provocative pop songs she didn't like, while being a kid. Both his kids have admitted to being wierdly pushed and on bad terms with Will in the past especially (now they're good, but that trauma stays with you forever). In fact if Jaden and willow didn't have a mom likr Jada they wouldn't have at least partially healed. Willow constantly praises her mother. And for a good reason. So to the people slxt shaming and demonising Jada: stop shaming her people. It's insane and completely hypocritical. It's plain wrong. And one last thing, if Will hadn't been a Hollywood creep with his own children, if he and Jada had been their authentic selves from the start, I'd like them a lot more. And on the other hand they don't owe the world a god damn thing, regarding their own marital situation and their business. They don't. So it seems surreal to me that they have ti apologise for it. The only apology they do owe is their own children, Will in particular for close to preparing them to be grommed and preyed on Hollywood as kids, and secondly for playing the "monogamous power couple" card so full on that they portrayed a perfection that is completely fake in reality. And the world owes all the apologies to Jada for being once again the once taking the fall and the hate and the criticism and for being the recipient of blatant misogyny and hypocrisy.
His Marriage Is a Masquerade of Real Happiness.
How you gonna feel comfortable to kiss on your wife's holes ?
When you kno, other dudes are spitting occasionally into them ?
The other families are different bcz no one knoz when it happens.
I don't know what Smith is waiting for to swap lovers with jada or indulge in group play.
No he doesnt. He looks perfectly fine just as he said.
I will translate this: “We are married but we both talk to other people on the side, and if while we are talking with another person and it becomes sexual, we do it as long as I tell my other half, then it’s ok. “
Just say you have an open marriage.
Just say adultery🤣🤣
What's next orgy marriage? Liberals constantly trying to redefine behaviors that make someone human trying to promote annalist behavior. A human should not look up to a sex life of a dogs as the new culture and promote it.
@@TheRealHeavenlyHands You got that right....God is against it too
@@bkit5 It’s not even liberals, it’s just people who want more than one partner for some reason. I personally couldn’t do that.
All that fancy avoidance talk he giving Oprah to say they openly sleep with other people and the rumors going around for years are true. Sad part is I can’t get the few seconds back I wasted on this non sense. Let me give you tube a rest.
His smiles and laughter are just a front to hide the hurt.😢
What hurt???They are both cheating and they both a part of the rainbow community🏳️🌈😏
@@angiepronzola6622 did you even watch the video? Or do you not care
@@justicett0 Go watch their videos where they confirmed to having an open marriage. August told that he got his blessings from Will Smith before their so called entanglement. Will is not upset because of her cheating, will is upset because it got public and his image got tarnished. Will literally cheated on his first wife to be with Jada. He sleeps around too, not only Jada.
@@prachisharma444 Exactly
He sounds ridiculous. This is a prime example of sometimes it’s best to keep your private life private.
Exactly
Fr! Marriage is between 2 people and no one else. No one needs to know what’s going on in their marriage.
How? The world won't let them live in private. They can't move without the world watching...
@@earth2639 THEY made their personal life public. There are so many celebs who keep their marriages private. Kerry Washington for example has a VERY private life. One even knew she got married until AFTER she got married. They started this when they decided to put their relationship on red table talk.
@@earth2639 celebs can have private marriages and relationships. There are sooo many examples. However, many celebs publicize their marriages and relationships. It’s inevitable that people are gonna talk about it when it’s public.
He's hurting no matter how much he laughs about it. You can see the pain.
When your wife's smashing younger men and you don't have the balls to quit. It definitely hurts!
@Ruth Esther it's all for the money, that interview too . Must have gotten millions from oprah for that .
That’s moar clear note than ever before
He is acting, they both have affairs, that is what an open marriage is.
Really?😂
Jada has trained him to respond exactly the way she wants him to. He's either brain-washed or masking his pain.
You're Bill Smith, talk to him.
Both
The latter
She might be his handler.
Great Point 👉👏👏
When Will cried at the Oscars after getting the award, you could see all pain and unhappiness coming forth.
That clown put himself there~in all those unhappy situations with his “wife” so no pity for the goon.
Them was crocodiles tho no? He's a bumbaclart..cringe! I can't get enough if it. I'm single as a jay bird!
So all those millions, mansions, cars and fame dont give you happiness and fulfilment. You need Jesus brother.
He sure as shit wasn't crying at the after party.
He cried the frustration out when he was making his acceptance speech and felt a sense of relief, that's why he's went on to dance at the after parties.
Will is a great actor, he’s an expert at masking his own emotion, but in this case we can see right through it. Free him up
Agreed! Will is a better actor than we all know! His jokes hide what's really going on underneath.
He's a Libra he knows how to fake it..
@@PaNDa14KiiTTy is that something they say about libra?
@@rmjmoviereviews6876 yup im a libra myself and i tend to mask my feelings
@@PaNDa14KiiTTy But doesn't everyone know how to mask their feelings???
The slap he gave Chris was really for his wife
😂😂😂😂
Not really
He can philosophize his current situation ad nauseam but he can not hide the heartache in his eyes every time he tries to convince us that he is okay when he is not.
Well he should leave her then. You can’t force someone to love you when they don’t. Clearly Jada doesn’t love him.
Stop projecting your own insecurities and unhappiness onto others.
@@thisisbillgates it’s clearly Will whose unhappy
@@thisisbillgates The only one projecting anything is you. I only comment on what I see. You obviously are reacting to what you have read. Kindly, begone and be blessed.
Case in point. Last night at the Oscars.
It is PATHETIC how low into the ground Jada has taken this man. She has literally destroyed him.
what a horrible woman
She's a wicked, evil woman. From Ms. Harper Stacey.
Being a willing participant is not the same as being a victim.
She's worse than Putin
And August
If you want friendship and not marital prison then you should NOT be married. Get divorced and become friends.
"We die together, bad marriage for life"
Jesus... It's like two lunatics deluding themselves into their own psycho trip
Nicely said
The weirdest thing!!! Practically cursing their own marriage
Yea. And jada led that phrase and will looked like he could throw up having to say it. Pure emotional abuse
indeed yess🤣🤣
My thoughts exactly, they are both delusional
Will straight up said it: "she had to make herself happy and i had to make myself happy".
"She decided she wanted to cheat but itd look bad if only she did it so i agreed to cheat too".
Yep.
Oh NOOO really??? He needs to count his losses and run.
They both do that. They both agreed to do it.
@@Michelle-pn9xt Agreeing was the result of abuse.
Bingo!
If Oprah was a good friend instead of exploiting Will, she should've told him right there and than to get out before something bad happens.
How can you exploit a man who put his business in a book, interviewed by the biggest name, made him millions! Y’all dead set on making him a victim. Just because he cries (he’s an actor) doesn’t mean he’s innocent & being treated unfairly.
Staying with someone not in love with you will only lead to sadness, he loves his wife too much for his own good.
He has his side pieces to
Omg here goes the martyr storyline again.
@@no_prisoners6474 🤣🤣
@@crs_stl I wonder if he has side pieces because he’s forced to fit into the “open relationship” mold Jada has asked of him. As in, he likely needs to have the side piece to be equal to her and to not feel alone when she’s with someone else. I think if he were given a choice, he’d only have Jada and no one else.
I think there is still love there but Jada is really not taking this marriage seriously. They should cut out everyone else and work on things privately. There is hope for them if she chooses her family over her midlife crisis.
I remember once on their show when they said Will didn’t want to end his first marriage and wanted to work it out. But, the wife said no. He said he would have done anything to keep the marriage but the ex insisted. I feel that he really doesn’t want a divorce with Jada either and going along with her crazy idea of a marriage. I think divorce is better than living our one life so miserable like this. It’s cringing to watch him talk. He is not normal self.
You summed it up PERFECTLY!
Agreed 100%. I think she is totally off
Their marriage is nothing more than PR stunt. They are benefiting from it: books, interviews, the Red Table Talk.
They're cashing on their Babylon lifestyle. They don't care if u're upset about their behavior. It's lucrative..
If u thought this dude would decide to get a divorce from jada, u're wrong.
WILL SMITH is staying with the b**** for the cash flow 🤔😳
👏👏👏
If Will is so happy with his open marriage then why does he have so much misdirected anger?
So the smith family doesn’t know the boundaries of privacy…we know everything about them that we don’t need to
For me As black woman as wife jada should have conducted herself with dignity and remain faithful to her husband as wel as preserve her husband dignity. If she needed healing she should have going to church speak postar, traveling the world, sleeping her son friend who is mentaly illl boy that was disgrace! right now jada trashed, brused her husband ego and selfsteem
@@sophiedion1738 they can do what they want, but where's the respect? Will looking like Gemini man out here (crap movie)
There's probably not even a family left to speak of
😂🤣😂🤣
And we know nothing. They are in control of their own narrative. Genius
We can see right through your brokenness Will. Why pretend? She wants to entangle with someone else, let her go. You will be stronger because of it. Be the man that God has set you out to be.
But he does the same thing too
@@anasmelagi489 when? With who?
@@anasmelagi489 2 wrongs dont make a right. Why give into her crap? Not only broken, but a weak man too.
I think she wants to stay because of Will’s status and money. But she wants her fun on the side. That’s not true love. So sad for him but he needs to face the consequences of assaulting a comedian on stage.
Feel really bad for Will. That is what a broken man looks like.
If they divorce I will not be surprised. They don't seem "nontraditional." They seem like they are hanging on by a thread.
They'll never be divorced. Lol are you not paying attention.
@@BT-ch9gf But it won't be because of loyalty ,love etc. It's just because they consider that choice a failure. Because he already divorced and divorcing twice for him is just a no no. And there are all these power issues coming with it. They are quite powerful as a couple. United they can face adversity better.
thats actually wat i see an wat im gettin from all the talking in circles will n jada both do lol
Facts
@@kiabeetv9784 like, it's the perfect set up. They both do whatever they want. And they're still best friends lol.
I feel bad for him, deep down this isn’t the relationship he always dreamed of, an he’s trying to sugar coat it 😞 🤦🏽♂️
it's a fear of not being good enough for someone or a fear of failure....it's shitty cause it can happen to either partner in a relationship and they end up fighting so hard to stay with someone that isn't good enough for them, but it's the shitty person who gets to feel like they're better, and the better person who feels inferior.
Should have stayed with his beautiful first wife
@@nGUNNARp 💯
@@robingagan6288 His first wife didn't want him. He fought for that relationship to work.
@@suras8984 was he running around with jada?
This guy can't even fool himself... "was it hard sitting there?" "No"... what a lie and he knows it
That's not a marriage dude. He tried to make it work, Jada did not.
Please don't make assumptions.
Ppl hear what they want to hear, the man said he had other relationships also and that they were separated for a little while.
@@latishadaniels4304 He wants to have a harem of girls ( ruclips.net/video/updG5a_-FMk/видео.html - ruclips.net/video/0XRKJWB7VTc/видео.html ). The man is hurt by the woman he loves, he clearly does not know how to deal properly with this situation. It's hard 4 him.
Exactly. I think he loves her more than she loves him.
@@victors. or Harem of guy's think about it
*Will doesn't feel like Will Smith*
He seems to be in the sunken place
You felt will Smith before?
This is the real Will Smith we never knew.
It’s obvious he’s wrapped around Jada’s finger. What she says goes regardless of how he feels about it. Will can continue trying to fool himself and us with words, but his actions speaks otherwise.
got to kick that woman to the curb, she's killing him.
These comments give me hope for humanity. Glad not everyone is morally depraved.
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
💯💯😯
Amen.
Not me. All I see in here are judgemental attitudes.
Yup
After watching the Oscars, damn celebrities be crazy. They talk about their sex life publicly for their ego, then physically assaulted someone on tv, then gets a best actor award wtf?
WILL SMITH ISN'T BEING HONEST WITH HIMSELF
He’s regurgitating her gaslighting talking points. She never wanted to be married, wasn’t ready to be a mom. He uses the word” we” when he really meaning “ she” it’s time for Will to let it go. She never wanted him.
Shes got borderline disorder for sure. ZERO empathy
I can't decide who I can't stand more. The two of them have maintained a relationship because they are equally weird.
@@W_T_D I concur ,Oprah is a not a good person.
It's because you're equal parts broke. Rich people do what they want lol
Both of them are established celebrities. The whole family is talented. I don’t see why they feel the need to put all their dirty laundry out there. People don’t do movies or sing anymore. They just jump in the reality show bandwagon.
@@W_T_D I agree! 😊 Personally, I don't have a reason to dislike Will or his family. Whatever direction they chose to go in their personal life/marriage don't make me dislike them. It may not be the ideal marriage but it appears that they still have a strong family bond and love for one another. That's important even if they weren't married. Unfortunately, a lot of marriages gets far worse than this.
They are still living the dream! Just in a very alternate way. 😂
Look at his face during the table talk.... How could he say it wasn't uncomfortable.
His eyes tell us everything. He sounds happy and confident, but eyes look puffy. His face is two shades player than before. This man just described marriage as a prison. It’s obvious he’s miserable and just trying to look like he’s in control of the marriage.
Yes! Ty! Quit the DAMN LIES!!!
I think he loves Jada more than she loves him
I think he loves Jada more than she loves him
My my, aren't YOU one for nuance.
He never said, or even necessarily implied, that marriage is a prison. His exact words were, "friendship vs marital prison." He wasn't saying that marriage IN and OF ITSELF is prison. He was describing a TYPE of marriage, a type of UNHEALTHY marriage, that is equatable to prison.
I simply take the man at his word. His eyes don't look puffy to me. I don't see anything off about him. Maybe because I'm more open-minded about the kind of relationship he's talking about, and maybe because I don't judge it, so I'm not LOOKING for anything to be off about him. I think you're looking too hard, as a result of your preconceived notions.
Nothing wrong with how his eyes look... Some people are happier in polygamy
An emotional affair can be worse than a physical one - they won’t make it.
Jadas was both she said. Probably to digg it further. Same reason she picked a guy who was known for having a big d.
Happiness cannot be chased after and captured. The more you seek it, the more it evades you. True happiness slips in quietly by a life well lived.
Jada has brainwashed him... he is not ok 😔
Will wanted a traditional marriage. I feel sorry for him having to compromise his beliefs for her. Now things are out of control. Smh
Yeah
What if I tell u there are rumour he banged M.Robbie ?
Actually he didn't. There are interviews of him admitting to sleeping with other women years ago...
He is not innocent
But why is everyone putting the blame on Jada and not Wil
Chris really handled this whole thing with so much grace. It’s just a testament to his character 100% my kids could learn from this finally an actor with self-control and dignity
The bottom line is that is not a marriage. A marriage has a clear line of definition, if you don't like the definition then call it something else, but don't call it a marriage.
Marriage came from the bible, created and defined by God. It isn't a thing that came from evolution or the big bang theory. It was created by God for the human race. If you don't like his creation, that's fine, you can go ahead and be in a defacto partnership or civil union, but don't call it a marriage. Marriage isn't for man to redefine, it belongs to God. Periodt.
@@user-ef5id9km3p 😂😂😂😂 Theres nothing godly about the biblical god!!
Experts added up satans murders and Gods murders.. Satan 10 people. YOUR god killed 25 MILLION men women and children!!!!
Why dont you listen to the number 1 textoral critic in the world "Bart Ehrman". Who started off as a devout christian, until he studied properly.. The bible is a man made fabrication that has been changed many many times.. Look Bart up, he will show you how fake it is lmao
@@WildandFree4 not saying I agree or disagree I’m finna go look it up it peaked my interest 💀
@@user-ef5id9km3p watch Joseph Prince
@@WildandFree4 God can end every living thing’s life this second and He will have done no wrong. Our lives BELONG to Him and Him alone.
The more Will talks the more I get confused and ticked off.
Bc he's a simp. You girls don't like that lol we keep tryna tell you all that buy you're all insistent on a "nice guy" well this is what happens when you get one
Lol dont know why this is so funny to me
He's clearly in denial that his marriage fucked up and ran it's course. Will clearly lying when he said it wasn't hard for him, the man nearly burst into tears. What man would sit there and take that from his wife and say wasn't hard for him? Will got to admit his marriage is over, get a divorce and move on.
@@troybernal5085 as much as i want to disagree, you right
@@gunnyo50 a man that his own thing going on
This did not age well especially after Jada revealed they've been separated since 2016.
Their marriage sounds so complicated they don't even know what's going on. He was trying to slap the fool out of himself by slapping Chris
It must be exhausting trying to pretend to be something you're not. I'm glad that after years of denial, Will can finally be truthful not for us, but to himself, because the freedom it brings to your life is PRICELESS!!!!
Yes!!!
He's mad at Jada and took it out on Chris because he doesn't have the courage to leave Jada who makes him absolutely miserable.
This sounds anything but genuine..
Welp that's your problem
He's an actor
Yeah
Something is off with will. Is he going nuts because of his wife's craziness, he does not look or seem well.
I been thinking the same thing he’s about to explode always very private and now telling everything at once never a good sign of someone’s mental status he needs help he’s dying inside
I feel like he just tries to become like Jada cause she is the one initiating it and he low key love her. I feel he had no choice
I agree with you, he doesn't look well, I haven't seen him this thin either, look how skinny his ankles are, you can see in his eyes his words are not his truth
SO TRUE 👍🏻
He does look very off
I call denial. He's in deep denial. He is so afraid of losing her for good that he will do anything to keep her.
What yall did reflected on your kids. This is important and should not to be looked over. No laughing matter in my mind.
Yeah! It’s quite sad
If two people truly love one another you won't consider having an open relationship it's just not the way things work sadly for Will Smith I think she's the only one who wants it that way
"The eyes, Chico, they never lie". It's curious to notice that his eyes don't match the expression of the words that come out of his mouth...
No Real Man Who Respects himself Will Let His Wife Be With another Man 🙅🏽♂️🙅🏽♂️💯
Agreed.
Amen to that
He is doing the same thing. Why is it so hard for people to understand that they are both doing this? There is no respect. They sleep with whoever....
Your son’s friend at that
Have you been emotionally abused
I think it’s sad to think that this is okay and a possible way to have a happy marriage… this is a real representation of two really broken beings trying to find a justification on their messed up marriage and their failure to commit period. They can sugar coat it all they want…
Agree 100% To think this is the type of relationship they are showing their kids as "normal" is disgusting..The only people i feel sorry for are their kids, they have no hope with these two as parents..
I feel sorry for the 2 lost kids😥
Will is a weak man.. She wanted a traditional marriage, she didn't, so he bent to her will.
@@lesegom7172 he*
She's a self conscious, attention seeking girl. He's dependant on her and can't get out, so he's accepted this horrible life
If you have an open marriage, do you really even have a marriage? 🤔
And that's the real reason Will Smith slapped Chris Rock last night. His anger was not with Chris, but with his wife. He's just trying to fool himself to believe that all that cheating is no big deal and theirs is a happy marriage.
Is everything about “freedom” these days? What happened to commitment, loyalty and the value of one’s body? Not saying the new generation isn’t already ruined but these guys are meant to be role models
Their CHILDREN😪😪😪
A human being isn't "supposed" to be ANYTHING, especially when it comes to other people's expectations of them. They are under ZERO obligation to meet the public's expectations of them as "role models." They are allowed to live their lives for themselves, as THEY see fit - not for you or for a bunch of children they've never met.
Besides, the standard of what makes a good "role model" is different for every individual. So their idea of a good role model will most likely differ from yours. And guess what? THAT'S PERFECTLY OKAY. The world isn't gonna burn to the ground because it isn't quite the way you think it should be.
Everyone can do whatever they want as long as they're adults, consenting to things and not harming others. So I don't understand what's your problem. Also they don't owe you a god damn thing. It's their business and their dynamics. You do you and they'll do them. Stop judging, based on your monogamous and personal beliefs and start living a less miserable life, more focused on you and on empathy. Just because someone is different than you it doesn't mean that commitment etc., hence the values YOU believe in are disappearing, just because THEY'RE not following them. It's what works for THEM and they have every right. Puritanism is what destroyed them cause they had to play the perfect monogamous power couple. When they should have been their authentic selves. Not announcing it to the world of course. They don't even owe the world inside info and transparency, cause again, it's THEIR god damn bussiness. Now, what they DO owe actually is an apology to their children for pushing them from an early age to be stars and perfectionists. These children have self admittedly obtained so much trauma from that and are only now finding their peace and healing. Now that's something to talk about instead of Will and Jada's bussiness in bed and personal relationship. Cause whatever they have they're a team. But that team exhausted and seggsualised their children while still kids for the sake of a career (Will in particular, Jada helped them heal actually, but she still partly at fault for allowing what happened with them and Will for so long until their kids moved out of their home from an early age and stopped talking to their father. He should thank all his lucky stars that they're on good terms with him now).
Preach. You have to be responsible with your freedom
I don’t think of Will and Jada smith as role models at all. Never did. I like them as people, as actors, but not role models.
Those who lack the courage will always find a philosophy to justify it
I’ve always thought their marriage was weird…..
1. Jada early on expressed her undying love for Pac, the way he supported her, encouraged her, protected her to me he always saw her as a sister but she saw him as a romantic love when really it was kinda in a weird way the things she didn’t get from her father.
2. Will was just new and easy for her when they got together but time would tell they were not a good match after sex, there really wasn’t any connection.
3. Jada always said she never saw herself as a mother maybe because she wasn’t truly mothered, this began the road to her unhappiness not her kids but losing herself in a role as her husband continued on in his prime.
4. She expressed her unhappiness and he told her he is not responsible for her happiness, I remember when he first said this in interviews a while ago. That’s when she went back to acting and was in a band. But she was still unfulfilled
5. Will is all ego he does not take failure well, hence the reason he didn’t want to divorce in his first marriage but your ego still doesn’t control someone else’s choices.
6. Jada divorcing Will would break him, which is why he agreed to never divorce again no matter what happened …. It’s failure in his eyes. A failed marriage does not equal a failed divorce to him. He thrives off of attention and positive reinforcements- which is another reason he feels the need to shove their personal life to the forefront- he needs acceptance.
7. I remember Will going on a vacay with his son and his ex…. Ummm what wife would agree to that, I bet he slept with his ex then.. that’s probably when he and Jada was on the rocks and they were both doing things to make each other happy…..
8. I knew august wasn’t lying as someone who was an extra on girls trip said he was up there daily to see Jada, he’ll when they were out at shows they looked more like a couple than her and will.
9. The issue wasn’t that her and august were together the issue was that Jada and will always told each other what they would go do and with who to make them happy she just didn’t tell him about this one.That is what the problem was.
10. Jada lied when she said she couldn’t remember why her and gabby union had beef, I think it’s because Will was one of gabbys dudes during her own self proclaimed ho phase. Women never forget why they had an issue with another woman… I didn’t buy their red table interview, they both knew why they had an issue.
11. Jada is a self proclaimed Ghandi/ mother Theresa type thinking she she can fix or help others when she should be doing exact same for herself. Those that think they are always the answers for others use that as a distraction from their own issues. ,”bringing herself to the red table” was not truly authentic.
12. I wish they stop 🛑 telling all the intimate details of their personal life, it’s really not necessary for us but self serving….go invest in psychotherapy instead.
13. This is a part of what Will meant by telling Jada “I’m going to get you back” hold on tight there is more to come I’m sure….. probably a love chi,d, a boyfriend etc
They are both becoming more and more weird to me.
All of your points 100% correct
This just seems like a normal relationship with ups and downs, not a "weird" relationship. And if you're not interested in knowing these details then don't check their interviews 😆
These are my thoughts almost exactly! Will is holding on to his vows of till death do us part so strongly I think because of his parents dysfunctional relationship. He doesn't want to be anything like his abusive father. So hes going in the total opposite direction and exalting Jada in the relationship by giving her whatever she wants including this open arrangement they have.
I didn’t read all that but if you think pac wasn’t smashing you are silly. PAC saw jada as more then a sister. A brother doesn’t write a poem to his sister talking about how she makes him climax. Stop it. Half of what you said was non sense I couldn’t read any more
@@xprrj There’s nothing normal about it, and if you think it is, that’s very sad.
I love Will a lot he is one guy that I loved watching growing up. I feel so bad for his sadness and trying to cover it up with happiness. Dude you deserve so much more in life than to be hiding behind something so out of your wants. Please don’t crumble because you are so humble and down to earth.
He's exactly the same as Jada. Why feel bad for him...
well, he’s crumbling now
He crumbled 👋🏾
This is one of those comments that make your eyes flick up to double check the date, then flick up again to make sure it wasn't edited.
This is a joke. You didn't grow up with Will like go to school with him, play together on the soccer team or watch cartoons on weekends. You watched him act all your life. You don't know him. He and Jada are both attention seeking narcissists. Spare your sympathy for people with real problems. Like orphans or those who are homeless.
Do people seriously think a G.I. Jane joke pushed this man over the edge?
I just don’t get it .. if it’s an open relationship then it’s not a marriage !
Exactly
Why even state vows?
Open marriages are valid
It wouldn't be for me but it's still a marriage it's what's okay with in their marriage. Part of the problem is everybody else wants to press their views on someone else's life which is totally inappropriate especially if they're not hurting anybody.
@Chayil 74 what? When many religions find it acceptable to have multiple wives? People need to reevaluate why we think we can define normal and appropriate in other people's relationships
Will and Jada gon stay together no matter how miserable they are with one another lol
WEIRDOS
Yup
Pretty much. For better or worse they say. It seems that they still get along and enjoy each other as a family. I've definitely seen people go through much worse. At the end of the day it's whatever makes them happy.
Who wants to live a life like that tho 😂😂😂😂
@@mzmoey You say they are happy do you?
Will Smith is a damn liar. She cheated on him, and now he's pretending they had an open relationship. That woman destroyed him.
When willow said she didn't believe in marriage that told everyone that her parents don't either.
😂😂😂😂
Exactly. Kids are shaped by the environment they grew up in
So sad when young peoople aren't raised with any principles.
That is the most narrow minded what not … Oprah never wanted to be married and she still is not even though marriage was common in life growing up… heck everybody is married around me but my sister has never wanted to be married but she has been with the same persons for 15 years…
Willow thinking the way she thinks is what she thinks cause she is grown
He seems to be trying to save face. That interview where Jada disclosed. He looked torn up. His face said it hurt and he was embarrassed.
She never wanted marriage nor monogamy. He should have stayed with his first wife but he was stupid. Jada doesn't love him as a wife should.
I have lost respect for him. I have watched him from fresh prince days, I just can't see him in the same way anymore.
He admited on this video that it wasn't hard for him to do that red table with jada about august..
He did his first wife wrong too. I don’t think he needs to be married, woe to the good woman that falls for him!
Instead trying to play shrink on the internets… how about you watch his show “best shape of my life” and read the book…
He looks and sounds like a ppl pleaser who for the first time is becoming ok with ppl not being pleased… while that is freeing it is still hard to do and deal with the fall out…
Whenever I see Will on show or even here in RUclips, there’s pain in his eyes. Might not really be what he’s feeling but looks like she bring out the worse in him…
May be, he was holding in a fart.
He’s a good actor, but the eyes give him away. You can tell he’s not happy with the situation he’s in. But both of them are so rich that it would be a horrendous divorce to go through. This just hits different after what happened at the oscars.
It clearly is not working for them....and will looks like it broke his heart...
Success and wealth doesn't make broken people whole.And hurting people tend to lie to themselves in order to scope.The man talks and try to sound convincing but his eyes speak volumes.
I see the same thing in his eyes.
@@barbararichardson2747 it makes me feel like he really needs a hug and someone he can tell the truth to.
CHILE, PLEASE. You must be a Millennial. We knew the tea about Will, for nearly 20 years. Sympathy for WILL!!? Ha!
@@domarq lol you stuck in the 90's? Ebonics went out of style long ago...I can't take you seriously when you havnt even mastered english...
Funny how “marital prison” is known to some other people as “loyalty” 🧐
He’s going crazy; I feel like this is just the beginning
Agree 100%!!
Hes coming unglued, he needs to get away from all that toxicity
I'm concerned about his mentall health
I get that feeling too. 😔
Him and her are both crazy!
Those two are trying SO HARD to convince the world that they are happy when in reality they are just trying to make misery work together. Personally, I really feel like it's Jada who sets all the rules in this relationship and he is TRYING desperately to make her happy. She said on her Red Table BS talk that she cried and cried on her wedding day to Will because she didn't know if it was what she wanted. This man has been trying to keep her ever since and he's even resorted to allowing for an open marriage. Can't stand Jada and I never knew Will was this weak.
Since Will Smith resigned from the Academy, I feel he should be stripped of the award. It's one thing to slap someone on live international tv, but then to quit the very Academy that gave him the award? That's a total disrespect to the entire industry. He's not God, but he's acting like he is.
The idea that this arrangement is "not about sex" is preposterous. It's very clear that Jada never wanted to be sexually monogamous, and seeing as how Will is a man, that's probably something he could eventually easily agree to. August Alsina wasn't going to offer her intellectual depth! Trust me it's about sexual variety with these two 😎
Nah Will is a weak man. Basically bended to what she wanted, not what he wanted
OMG I Iove the original cabbage picture.
I agree, but August actually is pretty deep, his convo does stimulate the imagination and mind, that's why their entanglement lasted so long, great emotional sex with goodtalks, she was able to fulfill her need to be a healer as she said, so it was a good time had by all lol meanwhile Will is dippin and doing his own thangs on the side
@@eet6067 Aww, thank you ❤️
@@lesegom7172 For me As black woman as wife to black man jada should have conducted herself with dignity and remain faithful to her husband as wel as preserve her husband dignity. If she needed healing she should have going to church speak postar, traveling the world, sleeping her son friend who is mentaly illl boy that was disgrace! right now jada trashed, brused her husband ego and selfsteem
She literally gaslit him into a relationship that he seems uncomfortable in
Why are ppl so triggered? They don’t want to legally divorce. You live your life. I’ll live mine. I’ll love you forever. They’re not bothering anybody. It works for them. It’s not cheating if the other person knows. Isn’t this the era where ppl don’t have to label or identify anything? Call it polyamorous if you want a fancy term.
So many say “marriage is just a piece of paper.” Well divorce is too apparently. They did not invent this. Take this from a healthcare professional who’s cared for tons of CATHOLICS keeping up images, living apart but never legally divorcing. When they get sick in comes their very kind wife/husband with a rosary while the life partner is at the bedside. No drama. They haven’t been together in 20yrs but they won’t divorce.
I must say…my “divorce” has mad me re-evaluate “entanglements”. Like isnt it easier to accept they can’t be loyal
Stay single. Safer for STDS
He can, she can't
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But they're will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith. They're not you and me, your average Joes. They have a public image to maintain that brings them likeability, opportunities, money, good reputation, so overall bankability. They played the "power couple+power family showing how black excellence in Hollywood can be done", cause our world is way to hypocritical and puritanical for them to be transparent about their open relationship and agreement since fhe beginning. Also they don't actually owe the world a god damn thing regarding their personal life and I find it preposterous that they have to apologise, explain, lie, sugarcoat, and do danage control. But then again can you blame them for lying? They would not have the success they have today if they were apart and if they were open about their situationship. Simple as that. To me they sound like two people that knowingly entered a partnership and a mutual agreement on being in an open relationship. It's sad that their romantic life and likeability determines their job opportunities. That should be determined only by their talent and by their moral compass. For example, it's far more shocking and important to talk about the fact that Will has pushed both his children into becoming stars and having careers from a young age and seggsualising them, than what he does in bed with Jada. That's the least important and worthy of judgement in comparison to the trauma he's caused his own children.
She made him do whatever she wants and Will tries to make it work by convincing himself that it is what he wants too. The Will Smith of the past before he was broken down wanted a perfect family and so he tries to this day to make it seem perfect even though everyone can see now through the cracks on his face that it is not. He is almost near shattering - I hope he get's through this.
Spot on
@@chrisdaly6355 You, were you right!
@@Melisande777 I had no idea his wife was broadcasting their marital issues till the Oscar slap
@@chrisdaly6355 I had no idea either. I thought he kinda was off this last decade. She has been breaking him so she can use him and sleep around. Just awful. I hope he gets away from her and heals as soon as possible. He deserves so much better.
It happened
Oh please, spare me he was talking like a true politician. Words that say nothing and reveal nothing
This man just snapped on live TV…..and that was just the first time we have seen it.
He’s going to lose it.
He lost it. Bad marriage for life is only coming true if one dies soon.
He's not truly on board with this. You can tell just by looking at him. He's a broken man and this is the only way he can reconcile his wife cheating on him and degrading him on the world stage and him staying with her.
for people is ok if he has other people, but are mad she has other people? I don't get this, why is she supposed to be faithful when he is not?
I believe it when August said Will gave him the go ahead to smash Jada
Of course Will gave the okay for it to happen.
Yes, because he was also smashing someone else. They were having an affair for 4 years. She lied about being separated and Will has said, no they weren't. They both nasty and disrespectful.
@aneshiamarie_ literally searched through so many comments to find this. It’s really sad how close minded people can be, and you’re exactly right that this is why people don’t wanna talk about it. I think they’re brave to put it out there despite knowing all these people are going to judge and criticize them to death for it
@@Yourmom_dotcom a polyamorous relationship can't be one sided, there's tons of reason the other partner will tolerate it, and it's not healthy. That's why alot of people don't talk about it.
One of my relatives tried this open marriage thing and now they are divorced. I wasn’t surprised because it’s the most moronic thing I’ve heard of in my entire life.
"Marital prison" and "Bad marriage for life." Jada was only in the marriage for her own career from the very beginning. Will was truly in love with her. She has been breaking his heart and poisoning his mind continuously for decades.
Why do they keep trying to pioneer terms for things that already exist? Like polyamory and open marriage lol.
Or be honest and just say their failing. Instead of using words or terms to allow adultery.
@@glam0r0us adultery is a loaded word. It's not adultery if both parties consent. I think it's super weird they expend so much energy and media time on their love life. Why are they preaching to us plebs? Lol. Have your own weird private life & keep it private lol
@@aussiejubes yessssss ! Thats what im thinking. They had their kids crying over it too. Anything but divorce doesnt sound like much of a commitment.
@@glam0r0us I know! The whole family - that whole Red Table Talk thing - gives me the ick!
@@aussiejubes definately. I cant get myself to watch. Ever. I just see pieces here and there. And omg. It shocks me SHE wants all this out there. Is she trying to justify something? Seriously.
Never thought I’d think so little of a childhood hero. Sad to see how far a man can fall for some pre-owned 🐱
I have been happily married for 39 years. The key to a happy marriage is NOT this...
This family just keeps getting weirder and weirder.
IKR
They’re Scientologists so it makes sense they’re weird
FR
Yes Will, Jada and those 2 kids. Weirdos!
@@dariusbutts3139 I need to rephrase that because It sounds a little harsh. I’m perplexed by some of the things they do but I have nothing against them.
This honestly makes me sad. Nobody truly knows unless you’re in the household but he always speaks about trying to make her happy but I don’t recall her speaking about her trying to pursue making him happy. I think that is what causes a lot of good men to stop being a certain way after being dogged out by some women.
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The next person shouldn’t have to pay for someone else’s betrayals. If you can’t choose a good partner or leave when someone becomes toxic that’s on you. The blame is never one sided.
@@emhu2594 Your comment shows me how immature & superficial you are. You say that you choose a good partner...WHAT IF THAT PERSON HAD NOT BEEN HONEST WITH YOU? iT'S NOT BECAUSE THEY INTENTIONALLY LIED, BUT LIED TO THEMSELVES. PEOPLE CHANGE. SOMETIMES YOU CAN ADAPT TO THOSE CHANGES. You make a choice at a young age & then, you grow...now, you have to adjust to the same person, but you are different. TRY doing that...over a lifetime relationship. There are good reasons for divorce & it is about people's inability to ADAPT.
Will is talking about making anyone happy, and himself. Grow up
Will, marriage isn't a prison. Marriage is God ordained! People don't be foolish! A marriage is like the ministry.
I think if you reach a point where you constantly hurt eachother then the relationship is not good.
Narcissist don't hurt! They just use each other and whoever else that they can use!