He worked at the company for 10 years and left because of disrespect from his colleagues 😥This Is Us

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024

Комментарии • 13 тыс.

  • @rvanheukelum
    @rvanheukelum 3 месяца назад +224892

    The only ones who remember the long days you spend in the office are your children.

    • @billierohl5479
      @billierohl5479 2 месяца назад +1958

      So true

    • @asadb1990
      @asadb1990 2 месяца назад +3049

      This is why for us in millenial and younger generation. We don't work more than 8h for the day that we are paid.

    • @nedra67
      @nedra67 2 месяца назад +302

      Facts

    • @rashardwilburn
      @rashardwilburn 2 месяца назад +166

      Preach

    • @halomaster7131
      @halomaster7131 2 месяца назад +367

      Yeah but that's why you teach them that the life they have was earned and that sacrifices have to be made to better the lives of the ones we love

  • @marcdelfau4894
    @marcdelfau4894 2 месяца назад +89501

    Calm, respectful and determined. A Man he is.

    • @ttoughtask7296
      @ttoughtask7296 2 месяца назад +114

      you know this is make believe right?

    • @Mr_Cognito
      @Mr_Cognito 2 месяца назад +459

      ​​​@@ttoughtask7296It matters not, whether this scene is from fantasy, or reality. Good examples of what a man should be are few and far between these days, and I personally believe this is a good one. Even if it isn't real, is it not something we should still strive for?

    • @marcdelfau4894
      @marcdelfau4894 2 месяца назад +108

      ​@@ttoughtask7296 Mr_Cognito answered your question with great talent. Welcome to the world where bad is good, and fantasy real...

    • @marcdelfau4894
      @marcdelfau4894 2 месяца назад +42

      @@Mr_Cognito is brillant.

    • @doriancoleman5979
      @doriancoleman5979 2 месяца назад +26

      A truly Demure man

  • @delesespriggs8156
    @delesespriggs8156 2 месяца назад +48564

    When my father passed away my boss was one of the first people I saw at the church. My colleagues stepped up and helped me. I will never forget that.

    • @NotWhoYouThoughtRU
      @NotWhoYouThoughtRU 2 месяца назад +2717

      I am an RN. When my father was on hospice and literally dying, as I got the call from the hospice nurse telling me he only had a few hours. I went to my boss and told him I had to leave. His words exactly, “If you walk out that door, you will be fired”. I turned around and walked back to the break room and then the nurses station gathering my belongings. I clocked out, went to his office and tossed my badge on his desk and walked out. After everything was said and done, I filed unemployment which he denied. I gave the unemployment officer the taped recording, along with my father’s death certificate. I recvd an unemployment check. Then my lawyer sent him some paperwork to inform him that the company as well as him directly were being sued. That was a wonderful day and a nice settlement

    • @kimcollar1166
      @kimcollar1166 2 месяца назад +40

    • @lealowenstern
      @lealowenstern 2 месяца назад +29

    • @lealowenstern
      @lealowenstern 2 месяца назад +33

      ​@@NotWhoYouThoughtRU ❤

    • @DevilKai917
      @DevilKai917 2 месяца назад +283

      ​@indychapman that is a respectful win. The boss has SO MUCH lack of respect that he'll bury his own work environment before he let his employees deal with an incredibly high life changing experience... you have grace, integrity, and dignity. I salute you

  • @Botshapa
    @Botshapa 27 дней назад +3095

    Right after this beautiful heartfelt speech, his boss and colleagues would go straight to lunch and it’s forgotten. Don’t ever make your job your life. It’s a place you make money to build a life with your real family

    • @TheGeenat
      @TheGeenat 27 дней назад +52

      Yeah. Nice speech and all but nobody give AF to be honest. Dont let the door hit you on the way out.

    • @elparcero1220
      @elparcero1220 24 дня назад +118

      @@TheGeenat LOL. that Door ended up WIDE OPEN, because people a realizing what the guy said nowadays.
      Then the Big Wigs complains WhY nObOdY WaNts To WoRk?
      P.S. You sound like the boss that wants serfs, slaves, not employees.

    • @bayiheboh
      @bayiheboh 24 дня назад +9

      20 hours a day, you call it "build a life"? You must one of that kind of boss😏

    • @Botshapa
      @Botshapa 24 дня назад +5

      @@bayihebohwho’s doing 20 hour days?! I say work, even if you’re an employee but INVEST your working money now so you work less hours in the future

    • @yvonnewheeler6230
      @yvonnewheeler6230 24 дня назад +4

      ❤Amazing speach amazing man no job is worth them not caring for your strength as a human ❤

  • @Post2kart
    @Post2kart 3 месяца назад +47702

    Know your worth!! Walk away when people stop showing you the respect you have earned!

    • @wallyreyes8876
      @wallyreyes8876 3 месяца назад

      Well men give, give,give and keep on giving to the ungrateful parasites we call women.
      Walk.away you say, know your worth you say.

    • @Farmer_Rick_Ross
      @Farmer_Rick_Ross 2 месяца назад +80

      Shortly after this clip, he falls on hard times and becomes homeless.

    • @houseofpain3580
      @houseofpain3580 2 месяца назад +20

      How? HOW?

    • @Farmer_Rick_Ross
      @Farmer_Rick_Ross 2 месяца назад +135

      @@houseofpain3580 I just be lying bro 😎

    • @LAR-hs2qt
      @LAR-hs2qt 2 месяца назад +45

      🎯👍👍👍 unless, God tells you otherwise--He has a plan and you are part of it. Let Him guide and don't be afraid.

  • @C10Scottsdale
    @C10Scottsdale 3 месяца назад +29440

    A man with integrity and soul. Many times in business, we forget the human side of things.

    • @RobStewart-jp8pz
      @RobStewart-jp8pz 3 месяца назад +2

      A spiteful man with Ego and

    • @nunyabidnes6010
      @nunyabidnes6010 3 месяца назад +44

      Lil bro should've quit a long time ago. He was a fool to waste ten years there

    • @RobStewart-jp8pz
      @RobStewart-jp8pz 3 месяца назад +5

      @@nunyabidnes6010 Why was he a fool to be successful in a company for 10 years and make a lot of money. He's sour because his pride got hurt. His pa died and he's petty. Look how he acts the whole movie. Always crying.. always who but insecure. Pretty pathetic

    • @manuelshaul9244
      @manuelshaul9244 3 месяца назад +2

      U said a mouthful

    • @zauris3
      @zauris3 3 месяца назад +9

      Its a movie

  • @patrickgardner2204
    @patrickgardner2204 3 месяца назад +107888

    "Oh, im also taking most of the clients with me"

    • @InspoDesigno
      @InspoDesigno 3 месяца назад +6128

      this. because otherwise it would be the squeezed out lemon leaving the office after having giving everything and getting nothing.

    • @jermainefritz3432
      @jermainefritz3432 3 месяца назад +562

      Dam right

    • @IlIlIlIlIlIlIlIl-v9h
      @IlIlIlIlIlIlIlIl-v9h 3 месяца назад +1023

      Noncompete Agreement enters the chat

    • @michaelpulice6100
      @michaelpulice6100 3 месяца назад

      Noncompete my ass​@@IlIlIlIlIlIlIlIl-v9h

    • @mickymackjack4563
      @mickymackjack4563 3 месяца назад +246

      Cant do that but wishful thinking

  • @DS91284
    @DS91284 27 дней назад +231

    There is a man who respects himself.
    And deserves respect. ✊️

  • @caineteyable
    @caineteyable 3 месяца назад +18079

    so calm, yet the wave of anger in between those words are shattering .

    • @animebrat76
      @animebrat76 2 месяца назад +57

      Sounded more like he wanted to cry

    • @Jinx259
      @Jinx259 2 месяца назад +201

      @@animebrat76anger and tears quite often go hand in hand

    • @sylviatowns8880
      @sylviatowns8880 2 месяца назад +29

      We must all show compassion and respect. Our families matter and we should share and support each other. No natter if your a boss, worked aid, assistant. We all matter. People need to know and appreciate the worth of others. No matter the race, space or space we all wanna be appreciated and admired. Blessings

    • @rahchida
      @rahchida 2 месяца назад +64

      I don't see anger, I see disappoint more than anything.

    • @cyclingnut2122
      @cyclingnut2122 2 месяца назад +23

      ​@@animebrat76Well yeah obviously anger followed by tears coz he's sacrificed so much worked dam hard, just to get disrespected

  • @soulstalker4624
    @soulstalker4624 3 месяца назад +15480

    Giving someone a basket of something they are allergic to has to be the most spineless out of touch thing you can ever do.

    • @KindCountsDeb3773
      @KindCountsDeb3773 3 месяца назад +152

      it could kill him, would a Boss do that if he still wanted this mans work? A little overboard for me. Nasty boss, but would he do that?? I don't think so.

    • @andreamcafee9970
      @andreamcafee9970 3 месяца назад +71

      ​@KindCountsDeb3773 Things like this are true. It doesn't matter the business. I was also a shamed of the coworkers. I would have done something on my own. I've worked for people like this boss. Even if all I could do was show up with a plate of cookies.

    • @lskulski
      @lskulski 3 месяца назад +352

      @@KindCountsDeb3773it’s not that the pears where malicious, that’s not the problem. It’s the fact that it just showed how little the boss cared. A box of a fruit he should know his employee is allergic to because he almost died once in front of him, and a hallmark card with a typed out lazy signature. For 10 years of hard work and 80% of the clients, that is an act of supreme disrespect and ingratitude.

    • @TylerWin
      @TylerWin 3 месяца назад +4

      @@KindCountsDeb3773lol either youre a bootlicker or as careless to the people around you as that boss 😂

    • @thatoneguy9816
      @thatoneguy9816 3 месяца назад +19

      Spineless?

  • @Jokenword
    @Jokenword 2 месяца назад +8343

    Buddy is a KILLER at delivering monologues

    • @mkingadiffernce
      @mkingadiffernce 2 месяца назад +23

      Yes he is

    • @luqmanabubakar6097
      @luqmanabubakar6097 2 месяца назад +15

      What is the name of the movie?

    • @BigMonty686
      @BigMonty686 2 месяца назад +54

      @@luqmanabubakar6097 “This is us!” NBC tv series.

    • @nunuonroad9969
      @nunuonroad9969 2 месяца назад +64

      Bros voice was made to be heard

    • @danielsantos3254
      @danielsantos3254 2 месяца назад +66

      I'd say this monlogue is also worth a triple "oh damn!" from Andre Braugher

  • @deltaalfa3521
    @deltaalfa3521 23 дня назад +208

    My pop is a wise Man. One of the many bits of wisdom he gave me was. “ALWAYS leave on YOUR TERMS”. “NEVER Leave on Their Terms”.

    • @hlaingphyooo3633
      @hlaingphyooo3633 18 дней назад +4

      A great thanks to your comment. I was mentally broken down these past days and your wise pop advice encourage me. Thanks men.

    • @deltaalfa3521
      @deltaalfa3521 16 дней назад +2

      @ it’s a pleasure to pay forward. Keep up the fight

  • @pedinhuh16
    @pedinhuh16 2 месяца назад +9969

    This is why you should never be loyal to a company.
    It's your job, not your life.

    • @brownsuga7461
      @brownsuga7461 2 месяца назад +78

      Amen, Amen, I've tried telling this to my daughter and she's not grasping at it 😊

    • @klimax2923
      @klimax2923 2 месяца назад +35

      I don't totally agree with these

    • @666neoselen
      @666neoselen 2 месяца назад

      stay loyal to your wife, & get ready to "cheat" on the company you're hired.
      many studies showed it's better to go from one job to another because the next job you're not hungry for any place, you want a better one than the current one.
      and you still being employed makes you desirable.
      because another already keep you.
      a mere 0.1-1% begging for a raise,
      or a 10-15% asking for a new job ?

    • @tynj4173
      @tynj4173 2 месяца назад +83

      This is why I wanna own my own business and have a company worth being loyal to. Wanna treat people right.

    • @L-W-ko1hn
      @L-W-ko1hn 2 месяца назад +14

      ​@@klimax2923why??

  • @tanguymichael
    @tanguymichael 2 месяца назад +3296

    When my father died, my boss whom I've been working with less than a year, He gave me support like no one did, on the burial day the whole office was closed and came to be with me, His family too. And as if that wasn't enough he told me to take as much time as I need and when I came back 45 days after, he welcomed me with his arms wide open, and by the end of each month I received my monthly salary regardless of the 6 weeks I spent home... I'll never ever forget that.

    • @ohnoitisnt666
      @ohnoitisnt666 2 месяца назад +98

      wow 45 days.

    • @Akennessy
      @Akennessy 2 месяца назад +26

      Blessed

    • @jyoungspins2200
      @jyoungspins2200 2 месяца назад +77

      They hiring?😊

    • @alexanderhexforge3567
      @alexanderhexforge3567 Месяц назад +78

      It really doesn't cost too much to be a human. Some people get it, some people don't. Respect is given its due where it's found.

    • @goofytuber9011
      @goofytuber9011 Месяц назад +26

      I really believe that when you do good things for other people, you carry good energy wich will attracts good thing and people in your life. He will get something back eventually.

  • @HJWorldwide
    @HJWorldwide 3 месяца назад +17740

    You can still get your point across calmly and collectively. Walked out a gentleman 👊🏽

    • @DonKongemorder
      @DonKongemorder 3 месяца назад +46

      Well it depends on the type of person you’re talking to because most people will cut you off and talk over you and then there’s people that was raised right and with respect for other people where they will let you talk and then talk when you have finished

    • @Bigtoedilemma
      @Bigtoedilemma 3 месяца назад +12

      Yeah only if literally everyone else let's you which doesn't happen In real life. Ain't no way an asstard boss wouldn't interrupt and force this conversation into a private room get out of your own doodoohole

    • @ΠαναγιώτηςΘεοδώρου-ι8ρ
      @ΠαναγιώτηςΘεοδώρου-ι8ρ 3 месяца назад

      Some people are more animal than human. They only understand what animals understand.

    • @OgglyGoogly
      @OgglyGoogly 3 месяца назад +6

      He rambled on no one cares he left no one cares and then the day goes on and they hire another person.
      No one remembered his ranting as taylor swift had a concert he was yesterdays news like at any work place.

    • @PJOZeus
      @PJOZeus 3 месяца назад +9

      Yes he made his point. A point that will stick with almost no one
      Not memorable, not powerful, not concise
      He quit, that’s all they’ll remember.

  • @Gigatt06
    @Gigatt06 5 дней назад +6

    Good for him! Classy, sincere, and still respectful! I'm proud of him!!

  • @tjthreegreenbananas155
    @tjthreegreenbananas155 2 месяца назад +4926

    The smoothest resignation ever. Respect.❤

    • @LaSerpentDEden
      @LaSerpentDEden 2 месяца назад

      Yea then they say, "in your contract you said you'd give two weeks notice so you will be forfeiting all severance packages" companies are VULTURES who will not even wait until you're dead before consuming your soon to be carrion corpse.

    • @ChineduOpara
      @ChineduOpara 2 месяца назад

      He should have just gone back to Wakanda

    • @nathanieljones1832
      @nathanieljones1832 2 месяца назад +18

      Almost as if it was scripted?

    • @maxschwitzer9390
      @maxschwitzer9390 2 месяца назад +44

      @@nathanieljones1832 Yeah, that's how movies work. Still gotta have someone write the thing to sound good.

    • @RosieMiddleton-u2m
      @RosieMiddleton-u2m 2 месяца назад +3

      Nope, most definitely not. It was a solid 6/10 tho.
      When you think with your head instead of your heart, this is very normal.

  • @anirudhranjan2934
    @anirudhranjan2934 2 месяца назад +3618

    This is what being articulate means. He exactly expressed everything he wanted to calmly.

    • @RiveroA
      @RiveroA 2 месяца назад +28

      It’s a scene from a movie or TV show, they have scripts and practice and have cue cards. They also act and put or leave out emotion. This is just acting and reading the script

    • @lokismischief2512
      @lokismischief2512 2 месяца назад +11

      ​@andresnrivero, if only real-life confrontation was coherent, lol

    • @gracefaithjanet2673
      @gracefaithjanet2673 2 месяца назад +4

      Exactly without shouting or swearing

    • @lokismischief2512
      @lokismischief2512 2 месяца назад +8

      @@gracefaithjanet2673 damn those pesky actual emotions...

    • @ThisIsTerry2024
      @ThisIsTerry2024 2 месяца назад +15

      @@RiveroAno shit… I could have sworn this was real life… thanks for the look out Sherlock

  • @J0emurf3
    @J0emurf3 2 месяца назад +8011

    Leave the table if respect is no longer being served 👍🏻

    • @jillkeough3452
      @jillkeough3452 2 месяца назад +5

      How do you feel assured that everything will be ok in leaving the job?

    • @currinwoodruffwoodruff1555
      @currinwoodruffwoodruff1555 2 месяца назад +12

      Veni Vidi Vici

    • @CSmith-oz4wp
      @CSmith-oz4wp 2 месяца назад +9

      Corporate world has damaged the workers. Owners, CEO’s, VP’s, District VP’s, District Managers, Branch Managers, Sales Managers, Department Managers, Assistant Department Managers, Team Leaders and finally the Labor Force. Now do you see the issues that face the work force, to many chefs in the kitchen. With each step down the position ladder individuals get less training and poor mentoring. Each one of those positions create primadonna that are only looking for power and will not help those below them on the ladder.

    • @otitogreat9404
      @otitogreat9404 2 месяца назад

      Wat if food is being served 😅

    • @mattsutman1154
      @mattsutman1154 2 месяца назад +3

      All that dignity doesn’t pay a single bill.

  • @Shastings1024
    @Shastings1024 Месяц назад +225

    The show is This is us. Great show

    • @breezylk3376
      @breezylk3376 Месяц назад +2

      the n ame please

    • @SamuelOlver
      @SamuelOlver Месяц назад +17

      ​@@breezylk3376Bro he just said it😑

    • @froomerce
      @froomerce Месяц назад +5

      @@SamuelOlver😂

    • @Shastings1024
      @Shastings1024 27 дней назад +2

      @@SamuelOlver 😂🤣😅

    • @andreahaynes2451
      @andreahaynes2451 24 дня назад

      Wow I never knew that. Thank you. I have to watch this show

  • @nantegeedith964
    @nantegeedith964 2 месяца назад +4737

    “I came, I saw, I conqured”..... In a calm voice....😊❤😊 respect

    • @Cheldesho
      @Cheldesho 2 месяца назад +16

      Its a movie lmao relax kid

    • @gigiheights4195
      @gigiheights4195 2 месяца назад +11

      ​@@Cheldesho
      and he's right... 'cause many were lynched

    • @Cheldesho
      @Cheldesho 2 месяца назад

      @@gigiheights4195 it is right.. but in reality.. you dont even be like that.. not as perfect like in the movies tho

    • @thisisme2476
      @thisisme2476 2 месяца назад +40

      Veni, Vidi, Vici...

    • @milah1958
      @milah1958 2 месяца назад

      That's my school moto...​@@thisisme2476

  • @analiagasparri8645
    @analiagasparri8645 2 месяца назад +1811

    This is called dignity. Hats off, hands down. A true gentleman.

    • @rickholliday7040
      @rickholliday7040 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you

    • @TristenIngram
      @TristenIngram 2 месяца назад +7

      Dignity after 10 years of eating shit? Nah it’s called fatigue.

    • @2manandamic
      @2manandamic 2 месяца назад

      ​@rickholliday7040 your welcome lil grasshopper

  • @KrisJeff-ji2bt
    @KrisJeff-ji2bt 2 месяца назад +2883

    In other words, im taking everything I know and starting my own business with all the clients i brought in. Beautiful word play

    • @CHARRISSEJOHNSON
      @CHARRISSEJOHNSON 2 месяца назад +19

      Exactly 💯

    • @Browngirl67
      @Browngirl67 2 месяца назад +7

      Beautiful and FACTS❤️

    • @ceothesheriffshow
      @ceothesheriffshow 2 месяца назад +6

      As he should 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @darleneanderson7188
      @darleneanderson7188 2 месяца назад +2

      👏🏽👏🏽

    • @DDELFIERRO
      @DDELFIERRO 2 месяца назад +13

      Unless he’s got a no compete clause, signed an NDA and didn’t poach the client list

  • @annieromo74
    @annieromo74 20 дней назад +13

    So classy, respectful and courageous! THIS is a lesson your children will grow up remembering.

  • @doctorskara
    @doctorskara 3 месяца назад +4519

    Work hard, get taken advantage of.

    • @charleysimmons427
      @charleysimmons427 2 месяца назад +43

      every time

    • @SheepDog210
      @SheepDog210 2 месяца назад +44

      Almost 32 years with same company- same result. Me and six other long timers left the company a year ago!

    • @BJelks
      @BJelks 2 месяца назад +39

      Exactly when you work harder they want to use you more but not pay you for that work. I don’t let no one use me no more.

    • @blooky102
      @blooky102 2 месяца назад +7

      not unless it pays well because then you can use that money on the things you want.

    • @sharonlaudat3297
      @sharonlaudat3297 2 месяца назад +1

      Truth

  • @kidapple123
    @kidapple123 Месяц назад +5754

    I worked at my engineering company for 6.5 years. I made them unbelievable amount of margins a good hard working engineer like this clip. Got cancer and they terminated me within 4 months of my battle. My eyes opened wide and will start a company with my Dad once I beat this. There is only one way to go from the rock bottom. I will put God first this time. It hurts but this is the reality as we are all replaceable.

    • @Dr.Nagyonfaj
      @Dr.Nagyonfaj Месяц назад +207

      That's why you never give a corporation your loyalty. You go there, do a good job, get paid. Period.

    • @vishnus8226
      @vishnus8226 Месяц назад +26

      Good luck pal

    • @tebogokgopanemolotsane6930
      @tebogokgopanemolotsane6930 Месяц назад +41

      Good luck on both fronts. God bless you.

    • @EzejaRuth-ki9xm
      @EzejaRuth-ki9xm Месяц назад +44

      God will heal you but don't hate them see it as inspiration to start your own and build it big and teach them how to treat others better

    • @onlymxnny8704
      @onlymxnny8704 Месяц назад +8

      Best of luck 🙏 amen

  • @winterzen8553
    @winterzen8553 2 месяца назад +3503

    Calm, composed, excellent language skills! No disrespect but secure within himself! He takes his knowledge and expertise with him! The clients will follow him

    • @monicapowers3208
      @monicapowers3208 2 месяца назад +32

      Did you say, ‘excellent language skills’? 😂

    • @graffiticreative7649
      @graffiticreative7649 2 месяца назад +6

      White lady, excellent language skills eh?

    • @brendahawkins8211
      @brendahawkins8211 2 месяца назад +13

      And he will not talk ill of his last employer. Other people will tell his story. And his ex-employer will never make this mistake again.🎓

    • @joelwillis2043
      @joelwillis2043 2 месяца назад +8

      chat gpt vibes

    • @katiebeark
      @katiebeark 2 месяца назад

      Are you surprised that a black man can speak eloquently? White people always want to add that to their sideways compliments.

  • @deemukaru7601
    @deemukaru7601 Месяц назад +3

    The reality in his message is relatable in today's society where hard work, honesty, dedication can mean nothing. One must honor themselves

  • @tytamtammie5837
    @tytamtammie5837 2 месяца назад +1759

    Wow, I can relate. I served 33 years in the military. It took me 3 years to retire, because they couldn't seem to process the paperwork due to the ever changing command staff. Finally had to threaten them with a Congressional... left the military with no goodbyes, no job well done, no thanks from my senior staff. My team of young awesome soldiers texted me and wished me farewell. Take time to reassess your priorities because no one else will.

    • @aminahlady9092
      @aminahlady9092 2 месяца назад +68

      Thank you for your service
      live well

    • @SixTwoHemi
      @SixTwoHemi 2 месяца назад +49

      Thank you for your sacrifice

    • @CMALady72
      @CMALady72 2 месяца назад +33

      Thank you for sharing your experience and for the time served. Most people are knowledgeable about the sacrifices service members make however some don’t understand how the sacrifices were made.

    • @aruppini
      @aruppini 2 месяца назад +31

      I would expect this from a private company, not the military. Sorry man.

    • @robertgault1664
      @robertgault1664 2 месяца назад +23

      Thank you for your dedication and hard work in the military! I also served and understand how a chain of command can be selfish and not want to let you retire or give you the proper time to get your affairs in order. It's sad how they treat some soldiers.
      🫡 Thank you for your SACRIFICE!

  • @crisorell8216
    @crisorell8216 2 месяца назад +3122

    "I came, I saw ... I CONQUERED."
    the best line. ❤

  • @BradleyPerkins-i6p
    @BradleyPerkins-i6p 2 месяца назад +2320

    This is why I love where I work now. I just quit a company that screwed me out of insurance and was just a bad work environment. I was just a number. Now I work at a company doing something I NEVER thought I would be able to get close to. And the greatest thing is the CEO himself hired me to be our VPs right hand man at the new location and keeps in touch with me. This showed me what true leadership was. And I’m NEVER getting this opportunity again in life

    • @mannysawa9779
      @mannysawa9779 2 месяца назад +13

      what you do now for work?

    • @MayurShinde-h5i
      @MayurShinde-h5i 2 месяца назад +16

      Take my resume 👀

    • @toorealfortv100
      @toorealfortv100 2 месяца назад

      Smoke crack with me bro!

    • @graceomeronye4776
      @graceomeronye4776 2 месяца назад +8

      Wow!! That is what I call Grace. Remain blessed ❤

    • @Thomogon
      @Thomogon 2 месяца назад +8

      That's fantastic! I had the same thing happen to me, then I got a new manager and a new position. Safe to say it wasn't the same anymore.

  • @ajbangerter1388
    @ajbangerter1388 28 дней назад +4

    If someone disrespected my father the way this man was disrespected I’d do more than just quit, his self control is admirable

  • @Jayyess
    @Jayyess 3 месяца назад +2401

    At work, you’re 100% replaceable, at home you’re not. Your work would replace you in a week if you died. Your family would never get over it. Whoever is reading this remember that. Your family is more important than money.

    • @One4Faith2Hope
      @One4Faith2Hope 2 месяца назад +11

      Amen!

    • @jamescoleman8954
      @jamescoleman8954 2 месяца назад +19

      Yeah, you may be replaceable by a body, but not everybody is that replaceable at work because some are a lot better than others

    • @mesajon2602
      @mesajon2602 2 месяца назад +15

      This is not always true some persons are irreplaceable, companies often forget the intangible attributes/assets that each individual possesses

    • @FonandSlimGamingyoutubechannel
      @FonandSlimGamingyoutubechannel 2 месяца назад +6

      Beautifully said

    • @CassiaLopes-dy9cp
      @CassiaLopes-dy9cp 2 месяца назад +5

      What you said is so deep… Beautiful!!!

  • @diane1659
    @diane1659 Месяц назад +2080

    My dad was a trucker 45 yrs when he got sick his boss ST was right there holding his hand and rubbing his head thanking him for his performance and having his back when he only had 2 trucks they are together again in heaven 💞💞💞🙏🙏🙏

    • @Maximilian0011
      @Maximilian0011 Месяц назад +35

      lovely sharing..., respect and love is everything, we live as guests here just for a brief time.

    • @number36420
      @number36420 Месяц назад +35

      This is rare to hear. Rip to your father. 99 percent of employees hold zero respect and no one cares.

    • @mitchstrider6419
      @mitchstrider6419 Месяц назад +3

      That's beautiful. I'm sorry for your loss; but you know where he is; and he's waiting for to cone hone again. I respect your sharing and God Bless 🙏🏻

    • @diane1659
      @diane1659 Месяц назад +1

      @@Maximilian0011 thank you so much 💞

    • @diane1659
      @diane1659 Месяц назад

      @@number36420 thank you so much 💞💞

  • @brenturquhart7090
    @brenturquhart7090 2 месяца назад +2321

    So very true. My whole life I idolized my dad. I wanted to be just like him, and it happened. I wore a suit, had a briefcase, company car, trips away from home, yes the whole nine yards.
    One day my dad pulled me aside and told me not to do what he did. He told me to put my kids and family first. I quit my job the next day and haven’t looked back. Best decision I ever made, thanks dad, I miss you, I love you and I see you in my son’s eye everyday.

    • @chandrakanthotkar7262
      @chandrakanthotkar7262 2 месяца назад +26

      What a tribute man😊

    • @xberry4516
      @xberry4516 2 месяца назад +15

      God bless

    • @skyecloud968
      @skyecloud968 2 месяца назад

      Same here. I hope one day I will be able to hit my future kids as hard as he did with his kids and how he disrespected his kids every week. Best father of the year 😢

    • @glueck07
      @glueck07 2 месяца назад +5

    • @mutantbarbeque4653
      @mutantbarbeque4653 2 месяца назад +36

      ...so you just quit your job? And? How are you paying your bills? How are your children eating?
      This reeks of another desperate RUclips comment for likes

  • @spadesofhearts7714
    @spadesofhearts7714 Месяц назад +17

    This is us: A show that refuses to let any of its characters have a small amount of continued happiness

    • @Trisjack20
      @Trisjack20 Месяц назад +1

      It is in some ways an absolute masterpiece, but I cannot enjoy it. It is too emotionally rough and I fond I only have a limited interest in that in my fiction. Doesn't stop it being a top class example of storytelling, writing and acting.

    • @spadesofhearts7714
      @spadesofhearts7714 Месяц назад

      @Trisjack20 Yeah, it wasn't all bad. It's funny how they'd create something to be happy about and immediately throw a "but" in there.
      Like "This person is having a baby! Yay!... But it's blind and deaf"
      Or "This person beat cancer! Yay!... But now they have fatal gut eating bacteria from an unknown island". Lol

    • @SamuelOlver
      @SamuelOlver Месяц назад

      ​@@spadesofhearts7714Still love the show lol

    • @tnasr3254
      @tnasr3254 11 дней назад

      The argument can be made discontent defines the human condition for most

  • @Marcshark-t8o
    @Marcshark-t8o 2 месяца назад +3805

    Be where you are “WANTED” , not “TOLERATED” 🤐😳

    • @NunyaDamnBiz1984
      @NunyaDamnBiz1984 2 месяца назад +10

      That's Sooooooooooooooo Deep!!!!! 😂😂😂

    • @tishsmith7366
      @tishsmith7366 2 месяца назад +16

      I'm living this right now....hustle hard for a company that tries to humiliate and demean you, looking for an opportunity to pin scapegoat on you. But god. You must leave before you feel more insane than you've never felt before. thinking that your team needs you... you need your sanity more.

    • @pollywantsacracker9648
      @pollywantsacracker9648 2 месяца назад +4

      I needed to see this today. Know my worth.

    • @harbingertheheretic3541
      @harbingertheheretic3541 2 месяца назад

      So all men should leave the western world and go to central America, South America, and Asia. Got it.

    • @Αλεξανδρος69
      @Αλεξανδρος69 2 месяца назад +1

      How old are you ? Hahahahahaha
      Learn that .....where when you put your pin in ATM machine the paycheck is bigger ...

  • @ordanisfrancisco6599
    @ordanisfrancisco6599 2 месяца назад +1358

    I worked at a small painting company that had high expectations (the usual). I was informed about an employee who spent countless hours and bent backwards for the company. The guy literally worked to death... he passed away while on the job and had sacrificed all his time away from family. The company didn't even acknowledge him for his hard work. Let alone give his family money to cover for their loss. Don't ever give your life up, especially to these greedy corporations. Work to live, and dont live to work.

    • @QuikBlazer
      @QuikBlazer 2 месяца назад +6

      Did you leave the place

    • @ishmoilemohammed9829
      @ishmoilemohammed9829 2 месяца назад +9

      Well said, no truer words to live by!

    • @TheMzTR
      @TheMzTR 2 месяца назад +4

      💯%FACTS

    • @buckrogers2362
      @buckrogers2362 2 месяца назад +2

      His company acknowledged him every payday with a paycheck and every Monday morning w a job. Don’t be greedy . Someone else would love to have your job , so go ahead and leave that place .

    • @Dropshipping102
      @Dropshipping102 2 месяца назад

      😅😅😅😅😅.​@@Capellx

  • @dathany200
    @dathany200 2 месяца назад +1005

    When my mom passed away from cancer, my bestfriends were at the mosque even before her body arrived, my ladies colleagues helped me to wash her with me ( I was 8 mos pregnant, my dean and my male colleagues helped to dig up the grave, later everybody plus my students came together and prayed for her. I was very very lucky. I will never forget them.

    • @theatersfreak
      @theatersfreak 2 месяца назад +32

      الله يرحمها ويغفر لها 🤲🏼

    • @SlugRiot
      @SlugRiot 2 месяца назад

      @@theatersfreakameen

    • @lindalawon9151
      @lindalawon9151 2 месяца назад +18

      Beautiful people.

    • @LaurenceOConnor-fg4dk
      @LaurenceOConnor-fg4dk 2 месяца назад +4

      Allah ain't God. You're on the wrong road.

    • @anashussen1601
      @anashussen1601 2 месяца назад

      @@LaurenceOConnor-fg4dk you read that beautiful comment and this is what you reply with?

  • @meffox1189
    @meffox1189 15 дней назад +5

    Much respect for him leaving a very toxic workplace. Honor thy Father and move on to what will be a better situation. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Excanda
    @Excanda 3 месяца назад +685

    That is how you walk out. RESPECT

  • @DarkKingsKing
    @DarkKingsKing 2 месяца назад +743

    When my mom passed, I got her house, her car, and about 80% of her other belongings. 20% went to my sister. My boss gave me 30 days of paid leave to grieve and move. Company policy only gives 14 days max, but she gave me 30 because she gave me her accumulated vacation days (something else she's not supposed to do) and because she's awesome.

    • @ofentsewill6315
      @ofentsewill6315 2 месяца назад +34

      Cherish your boss

    • @bronzefire5404
      @bronzefire5404 2 месяца назад +22

      Definitely don’t find that too often with companies these days. So many treat you like a number and you’re only as good as the last time you punched into the clock.

    • @alosialee
      @alosialee 2 месяца назад

      ​​@@bronzefire5404this. We lost a lady that had been working for the last store I worked in for over two decades. They sent a care package to the memorial service. 150$ worth of fried chicken, sides, and flowers. Her daughter was back at work the very next day.
      Edit to add: I realized my comment may come off a little meh in a comment section praising a good and decent boss and human being. Please know I'm very happy for those that have people like this in their lives that actually give a dang. Happy the OP got to have all that time to grieve and go through their process. Really happy. And I have no doubts they cherished that boss or they wouldn't be here speaking on her behalf. Love that for the both of them and may good things be always in their futures.

    • @decimater97
      @decimater97 2 месяца назад +13

      Sister got a rough inheritance.

    • @mmmbbop9351
      @mmmbbop9351 2 месяца назад

      You a woman?

  • @LuckyMiller247
    @LuckyMiller247 3 месяца назад +2240

    Don’t fool yourself into thinking your bosses and coworkers care about you.

    • @LoukasRegas
      @LoukasRegas 3 месяца назад +42

      My boss is my uncle lol he kinda has to

    • @iheartscaryclowns
      @iheartscaryclowns 3 месяца назад +6

      Exactly! 🍺

    • @LB.99
      @LB.99 3 месяца назад +14

      My boss is my dad and he talks to and treats the other employees a lot better than me while at work, which I understand but, there's definitely good bosses out there

    • @JayDuron-in1hj
      @JayDuron-in1hj 3 месяца назад +6

      I never do. Peace ✌🏻

    • @ryanalving3785
      @ryanalving3785 3 месяца назад +14

      In some cases they do. My great Uncle originally hired my boss. My mom used to work there. My boss met me as a child. She's almost extended family. And my coworkers have become great friends, even after they moved on to other jobs.
      It really depends on the culture of the office.

  • @doriscunningham2583
    @doriscunningham2583 18 дней назад +1

    A MAN HE IS! CALM AND RESPECTFUL! YOU DID THAT

  • @spycam82
    @spycam82 Месяц назад +355

    Bro fired shots of truth with calmness, clarity and confidence.

  • @carol-us4xn
    @carol-us4xn 3 месяца назад +1482

    He's very eloquent and influential in his dialogue. 💯

    • @newvision4l314
      @newvision4l314 2 месяца назад +9

      He ends up being president like 20 years into the future in this show 🫡

    • @JannikF-zd5uy
      @JannikF-zd5uy 2 месяца назад +11

      Show name?

    • @Thi-Nguyen
      @Thi-Nguyen 2 месяца назад +4

      Most of the shows I’ve seen him in, he speaks very eloquently.

    • @b33thr33kay
      @b33thr33kay 2 месяца назад +1

      Why do you write like a Chinese bot? Even your name is suspect.

    • @Xsamael3
      @Xsamael3 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@JannikF-zd5uy This is Us

  • @MDarkraven
    @MDarkraven Месяц назад +539

    Respect and Love for Sterling K. Brown. This is a master class in acting❤️ A demonstration of what true conviction and integrity look like.

  • @krystylecollier
    @krystylecollier 4 дня назад +2

    “I came, I saw, I conquered.” BARS 🔥🔥

  • @joshuamaruve4252
    @joshuamaruve4252 3 месяца назад +1249

    It's is a drama series: This Is Us

    • @dannyw2621
      @dannyw2621 2 месяца назад +301

      I had to scroll so much just for this. Thanks!

    • @nmbutterfly52
      @nmbutterfly52 2 месяца назад +23

      Thank you so much !!!

    • @redbugg99
      @redbugg99 2 месяца назад +12

      I never work for anyone in my entire life ....
      YES? THAT IS EXACTLY YOU....
      IF YOU CAN FIGURE OUT HOW TO BECOME INDEPENDENT...
      YOU DESERVE ALL THIS AND MORE ... AS ALL YOU ARE JUST A BUNCH OF EXCUSES. FACT.

    • @simonmahlangu923
      @simonmahlangu923 2 месяца назад +8

      Thanks bro

    • @donnasvenningsen5785
      @donnasvenningsen5785 2 месяца назад +8

      Great series!!

  • @user-jr2yt2nz2d
    @user-jr2yt2nz2d 3 месяца назад +565

    Don't waste your life for a corporation that replaces you in a few days.

    • @jdjack519
      @jdjack519 2 месяца назад

      A big part of why this economy is so fucked up is that they *think* they can replace us in days, and they treat us like it's true, they convince us it's true, and it's not. The truly valuable people at my job would probably take two new hires to replace, and they would only *start* keeping up with the one old employee's output *after* they got trained.

    • @Marcshark-t8o
      @Marcshark-t8o 2 месяца назад +1

      Korporashun$🤮

    • @79visual
      @79visual 2 месяца назад +1

      yep, but this is worse, they won't be able to replace him. He was personally responsible for most of their clientele. How many you think will be walking away when he leaves? Clientele like that are loyal to the person that brought them to the business, not to the brand name.

  • @kesaiatuinaro9703
    @kesaiatuinaro9703 3 месяца назад +849

    Wow...Im speechless. He's so humble...integrity he has, honesty is the best policy

    • @thomasmacklin-k8e
      @thomasmacklin-k8e 2 месяца назад +9

      Being humble is easy when the script you've been given to read and memorize is written that way. In real life, we also have a prepared script. It's called the Bible.

    • @yzimny8377
      @yzimny8377 2 месяца назад

      🎉🎉🎉🎉💖

    • @hopeamen3929
      @hopeamen3929 2 месяца назад +1

      @@thomasmacklin-k8eAmen being humble with the word of God in you bursting to say things to those who disrespected you and blessing them with your humble speech of I know you did care, to disrespect me, and look so shocked by my speech 😮 😅but yeah y’all have a bless day anyhow!! 😊Godly people can be powerful by being humble in their speaking to those self-serving and the lost souls who need Jesus Christ just looked foolish

  • @theapprovedpony2028
    @theapprovedpony2028 28 дней назад +4

    Fist up in the air for this man! RESPECT EARNED !

  • @MyCleverHandle
    @MyCleverHandle 2 месяца назад +222

    I watched a company I worked for promote a Texas regional sales manager to a national position which required him to pull up roots and move his family to Southern California. In the 1980s, when SoCal real estate prices were 50% higher than Texas. Promises of mortgage assistance were broken. They sent a junior level employee to Texas with a one month's salary severance check for this chosen and groomed manager. I knew what was happening from my position in the Payroll office and made a call to this employee from my home to let him know what was coming his way. Then I quit. This guy is still my friend, way more important than that job could ever be.

  • @C00kiem0ns3r4
    @C00kiem0ns3r4 3 месяца назад +1478

    I was told once, " this is the highest you'll be at this company. I'm not retiring anytime soon". I put in my 2 weeks shortly after.
    Kings and queens. Know your value.

    • @TexBond-cz9pd
      @TexBond-cz9pd 2 месяца назад +54

      My response: I don't need you to retire. Accidents happen all the time. I will wait.

    • @Zeina107
      @Zeina107 2 месяца назад +14

      @@TexBond-cz9pd
      😂 you in the maffia?

    • @leechrec
      @leechrec 2 месяца назад +4

      @@TexBond-cz9pd hehe ikr. Me: "That may be true. But karma is a bitch."

    • @lashlarue59
      @lashlarue59 2 месяца назад +8

      You wanted a promotion?Promotions are generally worthless. You work to maintain your lifestyle and to gain experience and knowledge to make even more money elsewhere. You gave them 2 weeks notice? Why? You can bet your ass if they wanted to get rid of you it would be instant. You own them nothing.

    • @Sigmayerofstora
      @Sigmayerofstora 2 месяца назад

      @@TexBond-cz9pdcringe

  • @AnthonyDenova-gr4vv
    @AnthonyDenova-gr4vv 3 месяца назад +11616

    "I saw , I came, I conquered"
    perfect
    (Edit) Stop killing me phone

    • @menhardbesho
      @menhardbesho 3 месяца назад +183

      The great roman phrase: Veni, Vidi, Vici

    • @Vecto
      @Vecto 3 месяца назад +27

      ​​@@menhardbesho Thanks Sherlock, we didnt know.

    • @NebulaTraveler2956
      @NebulaTraveler2956 3 месяца назад +169

      Yeah well, its "I came, I saw, I conquered".😊

    • @hsinni5208
      @hsinni5208 3 месяца назад +35

      @@NebulaTraveler2956yeah, thats correct lmao. Howd the original comment get it so wronng

    • @ommsterlitz1805
      @ommsterlitz1805 3 месяца назад +5

      And so the company went from 60 person to be 60 000 peoples company because they were not hindered by a pretentious 🐒

  • @gabigrether8323
    @gabigrether8323 25 дней назад

    He did it in a quiet, dignified way that threw the truth in their faces.

  • @isaacfreemanmensah4068
    @isaacfreemanmensah4068 Месяц назад +113

    Even in his anger, he went hats off as a sign of respect to them. Dude's got his mind made up from the feelings he's kept back for all those times of disrespect from them. He's the real one!

    • @bigdot2355
      @bigdot2355 Месяц назад +2

      That hats off is a pop culture reference to people making an exit in style

  • @billstorm5889
    @billstorm5889 2 месяца назад +144

    I became a widower Young at the age of 40. It left me absolutely broken and six figures in debt. I was a teacher in the South Bronx and dedicated myself to the children in my care and to preparing for my retirement so I can get a little bit out of life. After I retired covid hit, but all the friends I had in life were my work friends. When I needed them the most all of them wouldn't even give me a quick text much less a phone call or a visit when covid eased. I lost the four closest members of my family of my generation to that disease and all my so-called friends never sent me a kind word. It would have meant the absolute world to me if they did. How I regret not being a little bit more selfish and building a social life outside of work. If I could only turn back time.

    • @MrsDonnaE
      @MrsDonnaE 2 месяца назад +7

      I’m so sorry for your losses! I am currently the oldest living member of my family now, at 56, I have 2 very close friends but we speak a few times a month, sometimes less. I hear you. Praying that things change for you!❤❤❤

    • @sweetuntilimnot
      @sweetuntilimnot 2 месяца назад +5

      My sincere condolences for your loss ... But double ouch for the lack of common decency of your work friend.. I'm so sorry. As long as you have breath it's not over...may those new friends stumble across your path soon and fill the void ❤🫂

    • @meta_morphic_mind
      @meta_morphic_mind 2 месяца назад +4

      I wish for your happiness

    • @CoolestMasud
      @CoolestMasud 2 месяца назад +3

      Sincerely, May you find happiness again.

    • @naaborkor2288
      @naaborkor2288 2 месяца назад +3

      Really sad to read this. I pray the Lord to send you genuine and lasting friends to make up for those you wasted your resources on.

  • @waheedaagjee2784
    @waheedaagjee2784 2 месяца назад +69

    It hits home harder when u say it calm..collected and composed..Instead of being a raging lunatic..respect

  • @Mike-b2t1q
    @Mike-b2t1q 15 дней назад

    Good man. Getting to walk out with a clear minded head held high. A man of conviction

  • @corteyaandzoeysmith1916
    @corteyaandzoeysmith1916 2 месяца назад +137

    When you finally realize you need to reorganize your priorities and act on it! Bravo!

  • @triciaryan2595
    @triciaryan2595 3 месяца назад +204

    what a beautiful man . he is so stead fast even when was in the face of unappreciated work he did . heartbreaking.

    • @samuelmyers9146
      @samuelmyers9146 2 месяца назад +1

      It's amazing what a script can do huh?

  • @patferguson6087
    @patferguson6087 2 месяца назад +357

    He is a class act.
    He is dignified.
    He is honourable in the face of disrespect he refuses to be diminished. This is a man who knows his personal worth.
    More power to him.
    🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @Paris__Michael
      @Paris__Michael 2 месяца назад

      💯💯💯💯💯💥💥💥💥💥‼️‼️💪🏾💪🏾…..

  • @AceFootballCrib
    @AceFootballCrib 18 дней назад +1

    Leaving when you know your worth is when your respect starts been felt 💯

  • @denisquaid-d8u
    @denisquaid-d8u 3 месяца назад +1382

    Before, i was in his place too. I know exactly what feeling he had. Respect.

    • @ROCEMPOWERMENT
      @ROCEMPOWERMENT 3 месяца назад +3

      It's only a movie numbnutz

    • @Sammy38
      @Sammy38 3 месяца назад +27

      ​@@ROCEMPOWERMENTso people can't relate to a movie?

    • @Elevenses.
      @Elevenses. 3 месяца назад +4

      ​​@@Sammy38 he doesn't seem like the ones, who have experienced reality while growing up but still I hope I am wrong, and if he has had a bad day and wrote this comment out of irritation, it would be great if this is the case.

    • @Voldemortbro
      @Voldemortbro 3 месяца назад +2

      Okay can you help me pay off my debts

    • @DeeconYT
      @DeeconYT 3 месяца назад

      Cap you still live with mum an dad

  • @captainamerica3139
    @captainamerica3139 3 месяца назад +501

    character is EVERYTHING!

    • @papasmurf8275
      @papasmurf8275 22 дня назад

      Tell that to the Americans who voted for Trump

  • @margaretcrum7740
    @margaretcrum7740 2 месяца назад +360

    Now that’s how you quit a job with dignity and peace, well spoken❤well spoken

  • @pauluskay5125
    @pauluskay5125 Месяц назад

    Stay at where you are celebrated at not where you are taken advantage of... A strong man indeed!

  • @annsmith7207
    @annsmith7207 2 месяца назад +82

    There is no amount of money that buys compromising personal integrity and an abusive workplace that does not understand employees are to be valued -- time to go -- but leave with integrity and professionalism like this guy! BRAVO !

    • @hotrodray6802
      @hotrodray6802 2 месяца назад

      Never worked for shitbox Walmart, have you ?

  • @amourdoctrina9435
    @amourdoctrina9435 Месяц назад +71

    Fort Meyers was my duty Station when my Dad, the former Marine, passed. We buried him in Norfolk Cemetary with the 'Old Guard' supporting our family. It is wonderful when you are recognized as a 'Human being' deserving of respect for your dedication.

  • @alphasquad7788
    @alphasquad7788 2 месяца назад +87

    This was me 14 years ago. That confrontation experience was my springboard to work for myself. I walked away with MY clients and never looked back. The one line hallmark message we take from this is that there is no I in team.
    So go for it!!!

  • @calltalkvent7946
    @calltalkvent7946 5 дней назад

    That right there was the best delivery of the message "kiss my tail" ever. They use us and disrespect us every step of the way. Don't ever give your all to a company that you don't own. They don't care or love us.

  • @african3974
    @african3974 3 месяца назад +100

    I learned many years ago, that anyone is replaceable in a workplace. Your hours lost at home is irreplaceable, your time away from kids will NEVER be regained.... Heard a billionaire say that if he could do it all over again, he wouldn't... he lost 2 marraiges and friends, little time with his kids or something... but that hit hard. Live for your family, not your work

    • @ladyindaroom
      @ladyindaroom 2 месяца назад

      🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @windsorSJ
    @windsorSJ Месяц назад +85

    I worked with a guy with a small company from the moment I left school at 15. At first it was just me and him and we worked well together. The company grew and employed more people but I was always 2nd in command. After 22yrs he started to disrespect me and all the experience I brought to the company. So I left.
    15yrs later there was a knock on my door. I opened it to see my old boss standing there. He came to apologise to me for how he had treated me and told me that he didn't realise how valuable I was till I was gone. At least he finally recognised it. I was asked to speak at his funeral.

    • @shelleyharris4176
      @shelleyharris4176 Месяц назад +8

      15 years later.

    • @wristedhip
      @wristedhip Месяц назад +4

      Know that his family knew how important you were to his and their lives. After a few years gone, he likely told his family how special you were daily. I'm sorry you had to endure this.

    • @Questra7
      @Questra7 Месяц назад

      What took the nibba 15 years lmao

    • @GreyPunkWolf
      @GreyPunkWolf Месяц назад +1

      15 YEARS ? Hooooly. Better late than never I guess, but sheesh. What a friend indeed. Sorry for your loss though.

    • @alexandrucristian1920
      @alexandrucristian1920 Месяц назад

      Movie name guys?

  • @RevWarRev
    @RevWarRev 2 месяца назад +34

    Pure class. This is why work isn't 'family'. This is why you don't miss those once-in-a-lifetime moments for the job.

  • @XsSlayeR3
    @XsSlayeR3 6 дней назад

    When my father in-law passed away the first thing my boss did was tell me not to worry about work and to come back only when I felt ready.
    He made sure everything was taken care of and ensured I knew I did not need to think about work.
    I am very blessed to be able to consider my boss and colleagues not just people I work with but my friends.

  • @XxxAtlantaxxX
    @XxxAtlantaxxX 3 месяца назад +790

    Never invest yourself too deeply in a company unless you own it or a significant enough share and ironclad contracts so they can’t push you out.

    • @mauricejohnson6123
      @mauricejohnson6123 3 месяца назад +5

      THAT'S THE WHITE MAN!🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @redwolfshogun
      @redwolfshogun 3 месяца назад +16

      ​@@mauricejohnson6123 I fail to see how being white has relevance

    • @StonkSlayd-ky1ve
      @StonkSlayd-ky1ve 3 месяца назад +7

      ​@@redwolfshogunstudy history. The past 400 years of it.

    • @redwolfshogun
      @redwolfshogun 3 месяца назад +9

      @StonkSlayd-ky1ve and how is that relevant in today where hiring practices make life even for those whom previously weren't a part of it. Furthermore slavery in the United States is no longer legal, so again, this point is very irrelevant

    • @StonkSlayd-ky1ve
      @StonkSlayd-ky1ve 3 месяца назад +6

      @@redwolfshogun legacy system still benefits them

  • @lesliemelton1100
    @lesliemelton1100 2 месяца назад +29

    I did the same thing 25 years ago to preserve my self-respect. I was working for a grass roots tech company, working 6 days a week, and taking 3 buses just to get there. One day, we were doing the monthly billing, which was going out in the evening mail, and my boss got upset because we missed the mail pickup time for the mail box across the street from the office, and he had a major meltdown. The next pickup was scheduled for the next morning, but he carried on as if his world had come to an end. He talked to me like I had a tail and even slammed the door in my face. I quit that same day.

    • @wassimtheboss3818
      @wassimtheboss3818 2 месяца назад

      it good you did that but in this video it's not the same thing this man was 70% of the business an he worked 10 years and he did great things for his company and his father past away and no one chow up sooo

  • @jimmyking998
    @jimmyking998 2 месяца назад +814

    And he needs to take the 80% of the customers people with him

    • @faerie1772
      @faerie1772 2 месяца назад +16

      Yes yes and hell yes

    • @StArFuRyZz
      @StArFuRyZz 2 месяца назад +45

      I used to work for a law firm - when 2 of the partners left they not only took all their clients but their associates/paralegals/secretaries.
      And about $25+ million a year in billing.

    • @michael029138
      @michael029138 2 месяца назад +5

      @@StArFuRyZz "Ouch"

    • @joehasberryjr7398
      @joehasberryjr7398 2 месяца назад

      Facts 😮play

    • @diamondjim7560
      @diamondjim7560 2 месяца назад

      @@StArFuRyZz Wasn’t that one of the final season episodes of The Practice? The one with James Spader and introduced William Shatner as Denny Craig? Launched the far better spinoff, Boston Legal.

  • @JC-wd7ct
    @JC-wd7ct Месяц назад +3

    Never sacrifice important time with your loved ones and especially your own health for a company - you are just another cog in the wheel, even if you're the top dog. The moment they don't need you, they will not remember everything you sacrificed to do your best.

  • @quckeditz
    @quckeditz 2 месяца назад +61

    I love how calm and soft his words are while still being commanding at the same!

    • @Johnacegaynor
      @Johnacegaynor 2 месяца назад

      I would of been like you see we are in a meeting? Dont come in here woth this monologue you wanna quit put in your two weeks notice...

  • @hendrilitajoshua1164
    @hendrilitajoshua1164 2 месяца назад +89

    I FELT THAT. Hindsight is a cruel mistress.....but, he LEARNED.

  • @Raithed
    @Raithed Месяц назад

    My dad passed away this year, it was very rough, and at the funeral, my boss came, my boss's boss came, 16 of my other colleagues came. While i don't have much in the family, they were my family. I am grateful for that to the end of my days.

  • @gorgeousreacting1978
    @gorgeousreacting1978 2 месяца назад +63

    I work for a company that told us to get used to their faces because we would see them more than our children and husband. I no longer work there. That didn't sit well with me. These greedy companies could care less about their employee's.

    • @Altered4n892t
      @Altered4n892t 2 месяца назад +5

      I used to work in a call center. On the holidays it was really crazy. The supervisor just fell out of his chair and died, heart attack. He wasn’t 30 yet. The emt’s came put him on a gurney and left. Everyone was silent. About 150 people were there. The big bosses told us to get back to work. 2 ft away from where the dead body had been 15 minutes earlier. That’s cold, really heartless.

    • @MrAngle69
      @MrAngle69 2 месяца назад

      my union brothers preach that i’m trying find some thing else to do

    • @chrismixxsoundscreations827
      @chrismixxsoundscreations827 2 месяца назад

      ​@Taluta394 sorry you had that experience. How soon after did you leave? Work is work but situations like this are why there are so many extra rules and resources now, like a company counselor/therapist you could talk to. Some businesses have to be forced to treat people like people and to give them time to tend to the needs of their humanity outside of what the company is paid for.

    • @lisahinton9682
      @lisahinton9682 2 месяца назад

      @gorgeousreacting1978
      The expression is ".. could NOT care less." Think it through - if someone could NOT care less, they have new care at all, and have no care left to give. Think it through.

  • @AnaRussellQBFE
    @AnaRussellQBFE 2 месяца назад +404

    How do I honor my fathers legacy? With no hard feelings and 1000% dignity and self-respect. Bravo! ❤⭐️❤⭐️❤

    • @Johnacegaynor
      @Johnacegaynor 2 месяца назад

      Lol this is dumb and overly dramatic. Wanna quit? Save the monologue. Put in your two weeks notice and quit.... tf is all this extra shit

  • @bobbymackey3809
    @bobbymackey3809 2 месяца назад +208

    I took a week off work for a family vacation to Hawaii. My newly hired boss said "I would NEVER take a vacation at this critical time". Several months later, I skipped a vacation with my kids to show loyalty for the job. A couple months after, that same boss fired me for insubordination, because I disagreed with a bad decision she made. A few months later she stormed out and quit. Turns out she didn't know how to to half the stuff I was doing.

    • @charlesmarcus7864
      @charlesmarcus7864 2 месяца назад +9

      So did the job reach back out and hire you or offer to hire you back? I’m kinda invested in the story

    • @p.gizzle90
      @p.gizzle90 2 месяца назад

      @@charlesmarcus7864I too am curious to know the rest of the story.😮

    • @Hメ狼
      @Hメ狼 2 месяца назад +2

      And the Rest of the story ?
      ... is history I guess

    • @BunnyWatson-k1w
      @BunnyWatson-k1w 2 месяца назад +1

      I have a friend who worked 22 years for a company. She was fired over the phone while on vacation. Some fellow employees were also on vacation and heard it first over a tv newscast.

    • @dnhyp3rx
      @dnhyp3rx 2 месяца назад

      The other half of the stuff you were doing, she didn't know were things that had to be done

  • @slmeucalesa1
    @slmeucalesa1 10 дней назад +1

    every person who left a job, organization, or relationship where they were not truly respected.......

  • @iheartscaryclowns
    @iheartscaryclowns 3 месяца назад +207

    He walked out like a Boss!! 🔥

  • @billyvelasquez3884
    @billyvelasquez3884 3 месяца назад +114

    It is best to start your own business if you feel you have the talent.

    • @jackventure3703
      @jackventure3703 2 месяца назад +1

      Sounded like he wanted to retire and be with his family and stop missing out his life.

    • @ansteve1
      @ansteve1 2 месяца назад +2

      As someone who tried to start a business, your milage may vary. There is so much more to running a business even from just yourself. I personally would rather put 40 hours a week at a corporate job than ruin another passion by trying to monetize it. Even if you are the best at your trade you still have paperwork, taxes, bills and accounting. It's great for those who can.

    • @ZOOTSUITBEATNICK1
      @ZOOTSUITBEATNICK1 2 месяца назад +1

      I never had fewer vacations/less time off than when I started/owned the company.

    • @jimwilliams4532
      @jimwilliams4532 2 месяца назад

      I think people miss the point. Start your own business and see how it feels to be responsible for payroll. You may feel undervalued but you should know what the company is doing on your behalf.

  • @jakubgodyn7413
    @jakubgodyn7413 3 месяца назад +266

    On death bed, no one ever says "I wish I worked more"

    • @xerikl
      @xerikl 2 месяца назад +1

      No but they do wish they had more to leave their families. More work/income will help with that

    • @MArkusHuerles
      @MArkusHuerles 2 месяца назад +6

      ​@@xeriklnah working more doesn't necessarily mean you have more to leave.

    • @heatherkingston1445
      @heatherkingston1445 2 месяца назад

      @@xerikl Leaving your family with great memories is way more important than leaving them with physical stuff. If your family wants you to leave them stuff, then you should question why that is?

    • @xerikl
      @xerikl 2 месяца назад

      @@heatherkingston1445 I'm going to guess that you're a woman.

    • @wake6000
      @wake6000 2 месяца назад +1

      @@heatherkingston1445memories don’t fill their stomachs buddy;)

  • @debonairagent
    @debonairagent Месяц назад

    Sterling is an incredible actor and the way he spoke and articulated himself all while maintaining respect and poise when the situation toward him was disrespectful is an absolute mastery. Great dialogue and great acting.

  • @candeerhunter
    @candeerhunter 2 месяца назад +253

    I was loyal to a fault with a company , often working 12 or 14 hours a day for six or seven days a week for roughly five years, I was compensated well, but the day I quit all I received was a smile a hand shake and a thank you. That was the biggest eye opener of my working life.

    • @beyondtwominutes
      @beyondtwominutes 2 месяца назад +8

      Unfortunately it's often that way. At times it's what we got to do but it's not worth it if our family or relationships suffer because of it.

    • @Porschegirl718
      @Porschegirl718 2 месяца назад +20

      What did you want?

    • @candeerhunter
      @candeerhunter 2 месяца назад

      @@Porschegirl718 it just seemed like an empty thank you if that makes sense, we were seemingly close group of people that were really helping this guy build up the business and that's fine and I didn't really expect anything except maybe a more honest or sincere thank you. May seem petty to some but to me it really drove home the fact that wether you're the person living for your work or the person that runs out the door after eight hours, unless you own the company, you both mean the same

    • @allanmason3201
      @allanmason3201 2 месяца назад +12

      @@Porschegirl718 Maybe they hoped for some sincere expressions that they'd be missed? It's stupid to wish for such recognition, though. It's best to do the minimum necessary at work, and seek fulfilment and true appreciation elsewhere.

    • @DB2SAUCY
      @DB2SAUCY 2 месяца назад +5

      That’s all your supposed to get you quit u didn’t retire there or sum

  • @michaelmontgomery727
    @michaelmontgomery727 3 месяца назад +71

    That's how a company often dies.

  • @mohdshanawase143
    @mohdshanawase143 2 месяца назад +129

    That's the coolest and most eloquent resignation speech I've ever heard.❤

  • @DoingGodsservice
    @DoingGodsservice 12 дней назад

    He still didn’t lose at the end, he gained a lot of valuable experience and there are companies out there that would pay him his worth

  • @MSharps
    @MSharps 2 месяца назад +70

    I left a company I worked for, by asking the chairman what my name was (I was the IT manager), I'd been there several years, I walked out calling him a wanker as I left.

    • @BunnyWatson-k1w
      @BunnyWatson-k1w 2 месяца назад +9

      The owner of my company didn't know my name for the first year I was there. He would just say "Hey buddy" or "Hey dude" as I greeted him by name each morning.

    • @michaelfukano5994
      @michaelfukano5994 2 месяца назад +8

      As a teen, I worked for Value City in the 90s. Owned by the Schottenstiens. Mr Schottenstein was almost 90 but knew every employee that worked for him across like 70+ stores. Knew their names, their families, everything. Always a smile, a handshake, and asking how you were. Also wasn't afraid to roll up his sleeves and help. Asked him one time about it when he was helping me and he said "I started just like this. I wasn't given a million dollars to start a business. I busted my ass to earn it. I started as a stock clerk and I'll die as a stock clerk." Only owner I ever put in the extra hours to help.

  • @nico-leighsmith3385
    @nico-leighsmith3385 2 месяца назад +547

    “This is us” one of the best series ever‼️

    • @bangsarmy1
      @bangsarmy1 2 месяца назад +4

      By far

    • @hairbytyger6916
      @hairbytyger6916 2 месяца назад +8

      I need to watch it

    • @ayn2562
      @ayn2562 2 месяца назад +2

      MVP

    • @WisdomOver50
      @WisdomOver50 2 месяца назад +1

      Looks amazing! Which season and episode is this from?

    • @L333gok
      @L333gok 2 месяца назад +2

      Considering how inaccurately they portray the men of his kind compared the personalities they have irl, I wouldn’t say it’s much good personally.

  • @Ptay0000
    @Ptay0000 2 месяца назад +32

    I work for a bank as a district operations leader. My dad passed away three years ago this past August. The funeral was 2 hours away from the closest branch. I wasn't expecting anyone to drive that far. Every person from every one of my 18 branches came out and it sent me into tears. I will say that they all knew my dad and my parents are the kindest and most giving people you'll ever meet. People than have only met my father once showed up when they saw his name in the obituaries. It was the most amazing tribute to a very long life very well lived by a very giving man.

  • @kingshomes8546
    @kingshomes8546 18 дней назад +3

    Financial freedom grants you the calm to walk out

  • @MindTrippin-SinceBirth
    @MindTrippin-SinceBirth Месяц назад +56

    There was a Woman in the UK who worked with old people all her life, she asked them what they regret most in life... Working to much and listen to other people instead of doing what YOU want... This was 26 years ago and i am glad today i listen to their advices