This Is Us S03E17 Clip | 'Will Randall and Beth Bend or Break?' | Rotten Tomatoes TV

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  • @katbrax8622
    @katbrax8622 5 лет назад +730

    Man that was the most beautiful argument I have ever seen between a man and a woman. No one called anyone an obscene curse word,no punches thrown. Wow. He should support Beth and respect that she is an individual as well as a wife, mother, friend and councilor.

    • @chrism7163
      @chrism7163 5 лет назад +43

      And she should not blame her husband for her own mistakes

    • @africanworldtour3767
      @africanworldtour3767 4 года назад

      How can i het this movie

    • @ayannapostlewaite9459
      @ayannapostlewaite9459 4 года назад +1

      AFRICAN WORLD TOUR Its a tv show called This Is Us and you can watch it on NBC or Xfinity on Demand

    • @trealravenel7886
      @trealravenel7886 3 года назад +2

      it wasn't the healthiest

    • @jaynehogue2459
      @jaynehogue2459 2 года назад +8

      And she should respect him and realize he is an individual a husband and a father

  • @Chaundra1030
    @Chaundra1030 5 лет назад +636

    I kept saying "that's not fair" to myself when she mentioned his anxiety attack but let's not forget about Randall's angry voicemail. What's so amazing about this show is the realness, we all have those moments. I don't think there is a good guy or bad guy here just 2 people who are in the thick of it and need to pull themselves out. Hopefully together ❤

    • @Deimonos85
      @Deimonos85 4 года назад +5

      lol no way close.. he was frustrated when she didn't show up to that important dinner...
      but her mentioning his anxiety attacks... ridiculous personal attack.. like throwing at your wife's face that you lost some major time taking care of her ovarian cancer or something...

    • @gingerisevil02
      @gingerisevil02 2 года назад +28

      @@Deimonos85 he personally attacked her…. He called it “teaching bored housewives how to twirl.” He put down her passions and called her a bored washed ho housewife, basically. The same thing his father did to his mother

  • @anwandamanfred8498
    @anwandamanfred8498 5 лет назад +537

    The biggest mistake Beth did was bring the anxiety attacks into the argument. She realized the error after she said it. It's ok to have arguments but it's not ok to use one's weakness to attack them.

    • @aliezahjuarez1212
      @aliezahjuarez1212 5 лет назад +13

      True, honestly, its still the same.

    • @maddoxthecreator
      @maddoxthecreator 4 года назад +8

      Anwanda Manfred It’s not the first time she’s mentioned his anxiety. It’s definitely below the belt

    • @bklynfinesse8709
      @bklynfinesse8709 4 года назад +31

      The Message Randall left on her Vm was very disrespectful & egotistical. Don't dish it out, if you can't handle.

    • @Deimonos85
      @Deimonos85 4 года назад +3

      @@bklynfinesse8709 what a selfish human being

    • @bklynfinesse8709
      @bklynfinesse8709 4 года назад +2

      @@Deimonos85 Which 1? Randall or Beth or Both

  • @nolosolo8589
    @nolosolo8589 3 года назад +154

    The transition to Rebecca and jack arguing makes the scene even more intense

  • @blckqueen8044
    @blckqueen8044 4 года назад +126

    Both of them had valid points. That voicemail Randall left on beth’s phone was so mean

  • @breathe4me8
    @breathe4me8 5 лет назад +831

    I’m team Beth - she has made so many sacrifices for Randall time and time again. Why do we always want the women to drop everything for their family?

    • @rebeccahillman8722
      @rebeccahillman8722 5 лет назад +111

      Randall has made sacrifices to. On top of that there were several times that she decided not to say anything. You have to Express how you feel before it gets to this point. There both at fault it's not about either or.

    • @1anonymous_moon
      @1anonymous_moon 5 лет назад +17

      team Beth, too.

    • @missj4085
      @missj4085 5 лет назад +9

      I hear ya sista!

    • @happydeedee2441
      @happydeedee2441 5 лет назад +5

      Preach baby preach!

    • @Keepcalmngarden
      @Keepcalmngarden 5 лет назад +59

      All you people who took side are also team single. The Marriage is the team, no one 100% right or wrong

  • @juliechaise4974
    @juliechaise4974 5 лет назад +289

    I have anxiety attacks, and it's a real fight. But Beth is right. I think it's really hard to live with an anxious person. And Randall always wants to be perfect and has fantaisies. He forgets Beth's dream and what she does for him (William/Kevin/flat/politics). It's a deep argue but necessary. For each side.

    • @truthseeker9249
      @truthseeker9249 17 дней назад +1

      Me too. This is why I am always determined to never be a burden on anyone. My mental and emotional struggles should never negatively affect anyone but me.

  • @iZkingzz
    @iZkingzz 4 года назад +64

    Damn when Randall turned around and said "no" was so smooth

  • @juliad9947
    @juliad9947 5 лет назад +205

    This hits me so hard! 😭I've done everything for my husband. Now he's accomplished and has everything he ever wanted, but I gave up my job, left my country, adapted to any lousy job I could find just to be close to him and support him but I'm still waiting for my moment to shine. I feel like I lost myself on the way...

    • @ShantolEdwards-x7m
      @ShantolEdwards-x7m Год назад +16

      Hey girl did you find yourself?

    • @daustin8888
      @daustin8888 10 месяцев назад

      Good! That's what you are supposed to do you dumb bimbo.

    • @thandondlovu5392
      @thandondlovu5392 2 месяца назад +7

      I'm so sorry 😔 Hopefully you will find a way back to yourself.

    • @steffenweiss1018
      @steffenweiss1018 2 месяца назад +1

      You should divorce and go find yourself. Better to suffer now and regret it later

    • @BackAndBlacker
      @BackAndBlacker 10 дней назад

      You made that choice, don't blame him.

  • @AvaniVee
    @AvaniVee 4 года назад +60

    This ‘R&B’ episode is one of the finest in the series. From script to performance - it’s beautifully raw. It’s refreshing to watch the messiness of a relationship unfold on-screen. Brilliant work by everyone involved in the telling of this story!

  • @mimim6857
    @mimim6857 5 лет назад +488

    I think they are equally to blame for what is wrong in their marriage.

    • @maragathm
      @maragathm 5 лет назад +67

      If she gave up her dreams she made him believe that was OK then Beth is to blame. You can't go 20 years into a marriage and blame your partner for your choices, did she communicate to him clearly that she was not OK with his decisions or did she make him believe that she was happy with him taking charge.
      She belittling his anxiety attacks she crossed the line that is a big NO NO, if your husband has special needs and you had to give up on your needs to accommodate his condition you only do it out of love not out of pity, and you don't regret that sacrifice or throw it back in his face as if they are to blame for being sick. Mental illness is serious if you love someone you don't make them feel less for not being perfect.

    • @jehustrachan6015
      @jehustrachan6015 5 лет назад +17

      Anu that comment she made about the anxiety attacks she can’t come back from that and the hurt in his face said that now I know I’ve missed the last few episodes but this clip was something else

    • @frankie5862
      @frankie5862 5 лет назад +23

      Anu very good points, BUT when Beth said his parents were in it, Randall KNEW she was right but refused to except that and then said that she was being revisionist about their history!! I love Randall and know that he has special needs, but he wouldn’t have had a career, a beautiful family and the chance to look after his terminally ill father if not for all the bending that Beth did while understanding & dealing with his condition, Why oh why can he not give Beth the ONE THING that SHE NEEDS in all of their 20 years together, Sorry but he can’t use his condition this time, in a moment of anger Beth mentioned it, and apologised, and right away it’s all her fault!! 😡😡😡😡. Sadly now that Beth has at long last taken a stand, I cannot see any way back from this!

    • @medhabasu2509
      @medhabasu2509 5 лет назад +6

      @@frankie5862 anxiety does not come and go as one wants. He cannot use his condition "this time" Makes literally no sense. Beth wants to dance. And Randall wants to save lives being the city Council. All Randal asked was her to take care of THEIR children. And never at the cost of her career. No one is to be blamed. They are both ambitious individuals who also happen to be parents. These conflicts are natural.

    • @frankie5862
      @frankie5862 5 лет назад +8

      Medha Basu I apologise using the words ‘this time’ but Beth said it herself they promised not to get lost in themselves, she broke that promise and he let her! Through the whole argument Randall refused to take on board what Beth was saying was true, even though he knew with the flash back to his parents argument she was right. Beth should not have thrown his panic attack’s in his face, but she knew the minute she said it, it was wrong and apologised! Giving him the excuse to walk out and making Beth the villain! I have people in my life who suffer with anxiety and panic attack’s but they don’t refuse to except when they’re wrong, like Randall!!
      I love Randall and Beth but seeing this other side to him his absolute refusal to except that he’s in anyway at fault in this argument is sad, but he has to take some responsibility for the state of their marriage!

  • @unsaturatedfats5323
    @unsaturatedfats5323 5 лет назад +289

    Beth saying the anxiety attack thing was dumb for so many reasons, mostly because it made her the villain and him the martyr when they both have valid complaints and are at fault for the issues in their marriage.

    • @otsombia
      @otsombia 5 лет назад +39

      saying hurtful thins is something that happens in a dispute between married people, remember the message he left on her phone... she is not a villain, but that was low and untimely

    • @therawrpie
      @therawrpie 5 лет назад +7

      Wym she said sorry immediately

    • @daniela16xx
      @daniela16xx 5 лет назад +16

      An because of the martyr position, it erases completely the hurtful voicemail that Randall left

    • @otsombia
      @otsombia 5 лет назад +6

      @@therawrpie if life as human being was simple as saying sorry for every bad we do... wouldn't that be nice, hurt your partner and just say sorry immediately, the hurt disapears immediately

    • @frankie5862
      @frankie5862 5 лет назад +6

      Phelton Phive in my opinion you’re missing the point. Beth apologises when she’s wrong, in this argument Randall refuses point blank to except any fault on the argument, even though he knows she’s right, all through their twenty years together it’s always been Beth, as she says has to bend in every situation she’s the one who steps up to the plate so Randall can stay on track. Randall can say he loves her and cares for her ( and he does!) all he wants but not once has he taken the time to consider her dreams, but she has to fall in line so he can fulfill his! So where is Beth’s apology from Randall for putting her dreams to one side for him! 😡

  • @ConsuelaEsseboom
    @ConsuelaEsseboom 4 года назад +213

    Listen, I don't think Beth was wrong for saying what she said about his anxiety attacks. She meant it. It's the same thing she said after tonight's episode (March 3,2020), almost a year later: "I'm afraid that if I put any more weight on you, you'll crack." Basically what she's saying is 'there's no room for me in this relationship.' and ironically that's what she said about her mother.. There's no air around her mother.

  • @lmitchell477
    @lmitchell477 5 лет назад +122

    This scene was so freakin fire!!!!!! The dialogue was AMAZING!!! The performances were heart wrenching.. and The anxiety comment was relevant becasue she deals with alot.. but when he needs space he doesnt let her have it.. bit we all say things in the heat of the moment and this was one of those times.

  • @gregorypost2308
    @gregorypost2308 Год назад +18

    What makes this beautiful is that they pushed through and found solutions because they loved one another. Everyone has their dream and life is complicated.

  • @MarshmallowSketches
    @MarshmallowSketches 3 года назад +61

    I have anxiety and Panic Attacks/Anxiety Attacks but I completely agree with Beth. Randall is constantly taking on new challenges and fighting for new dreams and where does that leave Beth? She’s always on the sidelines and the one time that Beth has something she is passionate about, it just has to be about Randall. I just don’t think it’s fair at all. I feel like he’s constantly making things about him and he completely forgets how his actions could affect Beth, he never takes anyone’s feelings into consideration.

    • @JoseDiaz-cr2nd
      @JoseDiaz-cr2nd 2 месяца назад

      When you marry you become one, he's accomplishments are her accomplishments as well because he needed her support more than anything

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@JoseDiaz-cr2nd sorry dude but thats bullshit. Your partner and you will never have the same exact dream, you have to support each other.

    • @danielwhite7822
      @danielwhite7822 Месяц назад +1

      The only problem with Beth's situation is that she time and time and again made it seem as if she gave up on dance when she really didn't

  • @okaykell
    @okaykell 5 лет назад +252

    I'm team Beth on this one.

    • @rashadhaughton22
      @rashadhaughton22 4 года назад +7

      I'm always team Beth

    • @jillmayer9501
      @jillmayer9501 4 года назад +19

      I mostly am too but it’s not that simple and that’s why this show is so great. Her biggest fault in this argument (aside from the anxiety attack comment) is “you let me.” Nobody is responsible for your choices other than yourself. I understand her feeling that way but to put that on him when he’s been a very supportive and loving husband throughout the show is very unfair. The truth is she let him. No ones really to blame for it. This show is so real

    • @noahsmith5715
      @noahsmith5715 3 года назад +4

      Im with randall on this one

    • @gj1695
      @gj1695 3 года назад +4

      @@noahsmith5715 I'm just Team Sterling K. Brown! The guy is brilliant.

  • @patrickdavey2990
    @patrickdavey2990 5 лет назад +120

    Randall is still wearing the same ring as the flash forward from an earlier episode. They'll work this out.

  • @Amandasbarros
    @Amandasbarros Год назад +19

    "our lives don't work if I'm not the one doing the bending" DAMN

  • @joyajohnson2216
    @joyajohnson2216 2 года назад +22

    they were scaring me with this arc 💀💀 I thought I was gonna lose my favorite couple

  • @christopherphillips8027
    @christopherphillips8027 4 года назад +33

    Damn, what a scene. This was real. This was awesome. You felt this. Sterling K. Brown and Susan Kelelchi Watson played this scene very well. Scenes like this is what makes great television. This scene should go down as one of the best in television history. I would put this up there with some of the best husband and wife fights in television history..Arthur Findlay slaps Maude, Alicia Florrick asking Peter for a divorce on The Good Wife are the two that stand out in my mind.

  • @emmaolivia1812
    @emmaolivia1812 5 лет назад +83

    I like the part at 0:39 when he turns around

  • @samiai8905
    @samiai8905 5 лет назад +46

    Honestly this fight is just... it's rare. You don't ever see a fight between a married couple without violence or yelling or any filthy tricks to justify breaking a relationship apart. There was no fear in either of them that things would go out of control.
    I absolutely adore how Beth would not stand down. From the very beginning she was bending. After having an epiphany that changed EVERYTHING for her, she deserved to get it. The anxiety attacks was a low blow but in all honesty, Randall did it first so I don't really blame her. She wanted to both hurt him and also prove her point with the most powerful punch. It was just too powerful
    And I love Randall but man, she is right. He made all these choices that are good but he never sought to actually discuss how this would affect the relationship. He left it to 'love finds a way' which is what he has always done.
    I really hope someone was listening in, Annie is the one I would want to the most. She is way too removed from the serious parts of the narrative (which is good since she is so young) but now that it's season 4 she needs to get some serious stuff. Plus it is a good way to parallel with young Randall, especially since she is such a daddy's girl.

    • @jonathanespino7075
      @jonathanespino7075 2 года назад +2

      She wanted to hurt him and "its too powerful"? It gets my attention that you dont find It low

  • @mynameisAmina-Sh
    @mynameisAmina-Sh 5 лет назад +56

    I feel Beth so much in this episode! 😭😭😭😭

  • @LovelyKatelynn
    @LovelyKatelynn 2 года назад +9

    As someone who has severe anxiety, it is extremely draining on your partner. I personally don’t hold her at fault for feeling the overwhelmingness it’s tough dealing with the anxiety let alone loving someone who has severe anxiety.

    • @truthseeker9249
      @truthseeker9249 17 дней назад

      Exactly. Me too! The fact that even people like us side more with Beth but other people have the nerve to say Randall is in the right and Beth has no right to feel this way is appalling.

  • @kj1998
    @kj1998 3 года назад +19

    I know most people are going to say "not everything is about gender bla bla bla...", but in this case, it kinda is as well. The Pearsons have been internalizing traditional gender norms ever since Rebecca stayed home to care for her 3 kids. Its funny how This is Us never really explicitly discuss about gender norms when the main characters seem to have quite rigid ideas of it (Jack, Toby, Randall). They discussed about a lot of things (racism, body image issues, depression, addiction, coming out, etc.), but not gender norms or sexism in general.

  • @marthacvd
    @marthacvd 5 лет назад +50

    Such a powerful scene. Loved this episode 😍

  • @evanstallard1515
    @evanstallard1515 Год назад +7

    1:52 Randall's face is forever a meme😅

  • @cookiemonster1017798
    @cookiemonster1017798 5 лет назад +21

    Both of them play the role in what’s wrong to be honest, Beth needs to be more ambitious and Randall needs to be more understanding of Beth’s dreams. I feel if they both discussed how they both can achieve what they want and find a balance they would be fine. Marriage is a partnership not a competition.

  • @kathconserv
    @kathconserv 2 года назад +18

    Beth is is stronger than anyone on the show.

  • @LShorty
    @LShorty 5 лет назад +62

    the speech that went through my mind during this episode:
    NONONONONONONONONONONONO
    I WILL NOT STAND FOR THIS. RANDALL PULL YOUR STUFF TOGETHER AND BEND LIKE BETH NEED AND BETH APOLOGIZE FOR THOSE INSENSITIVE WORDS AT THE END.
    YOU WILL STAY TOGETHER AND YOU WILL ACT LIKE YOU GOT SOME SENSE.

    • @frankie5862
      @frankie5862 5 лет назад +1

      L S Beth DID apologise!! Sadly Randall, knew she was right about his parents, and refused to except it, Beth said she’s the one who always bends and she is so right, she made allowances for him and his condition for 20 years, but he never bent for her, and he never took her dreams seriously, as was proved with the voicemail he left her! Sadly I can’t see any way back from this now that Beth has taken her stand.

    • @LShorty
      @LShorty 5 лет назад +2

      @@frankie5862 no you don't get to give up hope Beth and Randall are forever!!!!✊ Lol jk if u couldn't tell

    • @frankie5862
      @frankie5862 5 лет назад

      L S ok you’re Entitled to your opinion, but even though I know it’s only a show, I’ll have to agree to disagree! 😂👍

  • @ainASH86
    @ainASH86 5 лет назад +112

    funny thing is, when it was rebecca and jack's fight, randall totally blamed jack.

    • @maragathm
      @maragathm 5 лет назад +25

      Their issue was more complicated because it involved an ex boyfriend who was hitting on Rebecca.

    • @katbrax8622
      @katbrax8622 5 лет назад +16

      A boy will be 99.9 percent on his mother's side.💕💯

    • @trishattx
      @trishattx 5 лет назад +15

      he was right, and it's his fault now too

    • @samiai8905
      @samiai8905 5 лет назад +15

      @@maragathm But it had nothing to do with him being an ex. No matter what he definitely trusted Rebecca. It had to do with Jack being so insecure about being left in the dark and have that horrible thought that he was making her miserable for nearly 2 decades

  • @ags5696
    @ags5696 5 лет назад +4

    Between Beth and Randall and Charlie and Nicole both are the best verbal fights I’ve ever seen.

    • @NeptuneLady1957
      @NeptuneLady1957 24 дня назад

      Who are Charlie and Nicole?

    • @ags5696
      @ags5696 24 дня назад

      @NeptuneLady1957 The couple from A Marriage Story

  • @emilyprovance7413
    @emilyprovance7413 4 года назад +15

    As someone who has had anxiety my whole life had panic attacks since I was seven, stemming from nothing specific what she said about his panic attacks was absolutely called for.
    You don't get to use mental illness or issues as an excuse as long as you refuse to even try to get out for them..

  • @Averywhitehall
    @Averywhitehall 3 года назад +5

    Susan Kalechi Watson has such great cheekbones!!!

  • @sibanipanigrahy5509
    @sibanipanigrahy5509 4 года назад +16

    Randall always wanted all the things HIS way. He gets angry whenever things go different then he wanted them to be. She put up with every whim of his. She wants something for herself for the first time in this marriage. And Randall can't see past the inconveniences he has to face.

  • @Hayley-nm8uq
    @Hayley-nm8uq 2 года назад +3

    I can see my man being a Randall. He's amazing and I pray I have the patience of Beth

  • @atuhairemarilyn5427
    @atuhairemarilyn5427 5 лет назад +34

    When she said "anxiety attacks" woooow🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @anwandamanfred8498
      @anwandamanfred8498 5 лет назад +7

      I knew she messed up when she said that

    • @atuhairemarilyn5427
      @atuhairemarilyn5427 5 лет назад +2

      @@anwandamanfred8498 I just don't see them recovering from this..20 years of built up anger and rage whew!!!

    • @atuhairemarilyn5427
      @atuhairemarilyn5427 5 лет назад

      @@anwandamanfred8498 I just don't see them recovering from this..20 years of built up anger and rage whew!!!

  • @blkluvchnl
    @blkluvchnl 4 года назад +19

    Randall didn’t hear a word she said

    • @kathconserv
      @kathconserv 2 года назад +10

      He never does. It’s always about him.

    • @truthseeker9249
      @truthseeker9249 17 дней назад +1

      No he didn't. My fiance and I are different people. I have a lot of emotional struggles and he has some too. But we always do our best to listen to each other even when we disagree. With fights, they can get pretty bad and some pretty bad things can be said but we always work it out and we always apologize.

    • @BackAndBlacker
      @BackAndBlacker 10 дней назад

      No, he heard everything she said.

  • @samarelsilmani
    @samarelsilmani 3 года назад +3

    I missed this is us 🥺💔 I came back here to see my people ❤️

  • @CCCCCCCCCCCmany
    @CCCCCCCCCCCmany 5 лет назад +15

    “I’m all out speeches.”

  • @shahkarim3394
    @shahkarim3394 6 месяцев назад +1

    Throughout the clip, you could see the disbelief in Randal’s eyes. He just couldn’t believe that he was going through this “Admit it” argument all over again
    He thought he’d have a different equation with Beth compared to Jack and Rebecca. But that “Admit it” argument made him believe that some things don’t change with time

  • @alanamcmillian5810
    @alanamcmillian5810 2 года назад +5

    My favorite part of this episode was when Beth didn't let Rebecca put her input on her conversation with Randall.

  • @winter_s_44
    @winter_s_44 4 года назад +19

    You’re responsible for communicating your desires and frustrations. You built a facade on being the “head of the household” but it was a lie because you were really keeping your real feelings bottled up and now you’re holding him responsible for that. Sorry, Team Randall on this one.

  • @rohin369
    @rohin369 4 года назад +14

    i’m team beth but it sucks to understand both of their points. amazing actors

  • @paulamitchell1653
    @paulamitchell1653 23 дня назад +1

    Just don't follow the manipulation... It's a give and take.... Being honest with yourselves...Sounds like Beth is done but Randall had a flashback of his parents and he was stuck in that moment....he couldn't admit you are right---- Beth.... An apology from a perfect person is hard....

  • @theimmortalhunter
    @theimmortalhunter 5 лет назад +29

    Beth; Toby and even Miguel to some extent will never understand what that family has been through
    Jack was their life force and without him their world fell apart
    Randall got the worst of it
    He wanted to be the rock of his family but in Beth he saw someone he can lean on too
    But using his "anixety attacks" made Randall realize that being like Jack has its problems and that is you dont often get to lean on someone
    Jack kept things till his dying breath
    And Randall who come closest to him but his trauma catches up to him everytime
    He just walked out because the one person who knew how he has to deal with his issues used that point just to hurt him
    That kind of broke his sappy world apart

    • @HerLovesBooks
      @HerLovesBooks 5 лет назад +21

      We all have pain. Beth lost her father too. Toby has been through stuff. Zoe was sexually molested. The Big 3 are not the only ones who have endured loss, but they behave like they are.

    • @theimmortalhunter
      @theimmortalhunter 5 лет назад +3

      @@HerLovesBooks
      They were part of something that was almost perfect
      And they lost that
      People rarely get a chance to live with that
      And I agree Randall voice message was too far
      But Beth knew how his panic attacks affected him
      Panic attacks are no joke
      And when you are with the love of your life you don't try to use their traumatic psychological issue as point to win an argument
      But yeah I agree what Zoe endured something which is much more than anyone has endured on that show

    • @3191mal
      @3191mal 5 лет назад +7

      @@HerLovesBooks exactly! This family needs to get over it. and not ruin their lives and others forever!!

    • @jacobsherman8666
      @jacobsherman8666 4 года назад +2

      The kids need to start going to church because there's one way and ONLY way to heal.

    • @goldenage323
      @goldenage323 2 года назад

      Beautifully said

  • @BeautiAnniee
    @BeautiAnniee 2 месяца назад +1

    Team Randall. Responsibilities pile up in relationships. In parenting and adulting, sometimes sacrifices are made when the things that pay the bills need more time than the things you want to do. Beth is throwing her self guilt onto Randall.

  • @southernsoulaccess
    @southernsoulaccess Год назад +3

    This scene ate

  • @vaidawe1540
    @vaidawe1540 5 лет назад +31

    I'm team Randall. Beth had her chances to go for her dreams, but I think she just lacked courage. So it's easier to blame Randall for everything despite the fact that he is really understanding ant supportive man. It seems she is a bit jealous because her husband had that courage to do what he want. And the scene in the store showed that she was just too afraid to do what she want.

  • @moveslikeninja1
    @moveslikeninja1 5 лет назад +12

    oof this argument was so well carried out through the season. also-- beth bringing up the anxiety attack was a low blow, but randall's voicemail was also low so i think that blame is shared
    i just love both of them and im so glad they found a compromise / solution for things T . T

  • @kevinharris3993
    @kevinharris3993 Месяц назад

    I have been a Christian for over 36 years and have been in leadership positions and watched Pastors demand their wives give up everything to support his dreams and visions. Whenever that happens you usually create a miserable marriage for title and position only or divorce. Beth is right. She has made so many sacrifices for Randall's dreams, but where she is wrong is that she allowed it. Both are wrong but Beth was complicit in it. Now she can no longer endure being looked over so she is striking back. Randall can't see it because it has gone on so long that he has normalized and would have to admit even though he was adopted, he is truly his father's son.

  • @rohin369
    @rohin369 4 года назад +3

    i think they are both to blame here. randall consuming beth’s life and beth expecting more from randall than he can handle

  • @Lkerrigan1
    @Lkerrigan1 2 года назад +1

    Knowing the decades they evolved through their old roles make sense as do the new twists and turns. Just got to find an evolved way to co-exist.

  • @truthseeker9249
    @truthseeker9249 17 дней назад

    All I can say is that I would never again be with a man like Randall in the first place, let alone marry him or have children with him. That first date between him and Beth showed Beth and us the audience all we need to know about him and I would have been running away terrified if I were her. Their marriage was always going to lead to this. I have no patience for overly obsessive people or for people who steamroll me with constantly demanding my support and attention but then screaming bloody murder if I turn around and ask for one thing. I made the mistake of being with someone like that before and those are mental scars that will never heal. Never again.

  • @camdenhunt7565
    @camdenhunt7565 2 месяца назад +9

    Randall is a narcissist plain and simple. He weaponizes therapy language, changes Beth's words on her and frankly, I wouldn't be surprised if he fakes his anxiety attacks.

  • @karleighrock593
    @karleighrock593 2 месяца назад

    Beth’s not wrong!! Randall always had things his way and she was the one who made sacrifices. When it was time for her to have her dream job, Randall couldn’t handle it.

  • @leila8694
    @leila8694 5 лет назад +28

    I think she needs to look into teaching day classes. There must be some kind of dance classes going on during the day. This would be the most practical solution.

    • @frankie5862
      @frankie5862 5 лет назад +1

      Leilani VisikoKnox-Johnson if only it was that simple!! 🤔

    • @leila8694
      @leila8694 5 лет назад

      Fran 55 Nothing about their situation is simple. But it is something to look into as a possibility.

  • @yankeefederer1994
    @yankeefederer1994 3 дня назад

    Beth is a grown woman. You have twenty years to say no. Her placing the responsibility of her actions on him is ridiculous. She can be right in saying his vision has been the default, but she can't complain if she never voiced her issues with it beforehand. If you are an adult, it's your responsibility to advocate for yourself in a healthy relationship, and then it's your partner's responsibility to be open to that message. But if you don't say anything, you can't turn around and complain about the result. That is revisionist history.

  • @albertoolmeda5085
    @albertoolmeda5085 5 лет назад +1

    Hi, just wanted to know if by any chance anyone knows who plays the instrumental song that's playes at the end of the episode when Randall leaves?

  • @ANonymous-be3sb
    @ANonymous-be3sb 5 лет назад +1

    Has no one noticed that at 14:40, the time with them on the bed at the dorm. Beth looked like she was going to vomit when she started kissing him. What's that all about? I wonder if she really was sick in this episode. It was a weird kiss.

  • @grantajgaming5459
    @grantajgaming5459 4 года назад +4

    “I don’t want to be in this house with you right now”
    That’s cold

  • @andychang2739
    @andychang2739 4 года назад +1

    This is great acting

  • @Nitra813
    @Nitra813 2 месяца назад

    “Im all out of speeches”
    Good now is the time for ACTIONS.
    No more empty promises

  • @alanaterrel9914
    @alanaterrel9914 3 года назад +4

    Team Randall... Beth chose to do those things, it doesn't matter what he wanted she could of said No and she didnt, don't blame someone for you being afraid to use your voice

    • @HelloGudbye93
      @HelloGudbye93 Год назад +4

      A true partner doesn't let you shrink yourself. They don't knowingly stream roll over you or have a self-centered way of walking through marriage and then shrug and say "well you should've stuck up for yourself 🤷🏿‍♂️" that's not being a partner. When you put more and more and more on your spouse's shoulders and you only stop when they speak up or break isn't a healthy marriage. A real partner should check in. Should see how the other is holding up. They should ASK and discuss and check to see if their partner is okay. They should COMMUNICATE and see if their spouse is okay with making a huge life decision instead of just making it for them and expecting them to roll with the punches no matter what

    • @BackAndBlacker
      @BackAndBlacker 10 дней назад

      ​​@@HelloGudbye93 Communication is a two-way street. If Beth wasn't ok with those decisions she should have voiced that before. Instead of making it seem like she was ok with those decisions.

  • @michelleb9884
    @michelleb9884 5 лет назад +7

    Amazing acting.

  • @giordanaoliveira8651
    @giordanaoliveira8651 4 года назад +1

    This scene was the best

  • @ggdagenie
    @ggdagenie Год назад

    episode?

  • @Nina-vr3dx
    @Nina-vr3dx 2 года назад

    On a side note, anyone know the name of the paint color in their bedroom? Lol I love that blue

  • @sasusaku23726
    @sasusaku23726 4 года назад +2

    Could someone help me understand what is was that Beth meant when she said “You don’t even realize it, but they’re both in it!” to Randall? Who did she mean by “both”?

    • @michelleb9884
      @michelleb9884 4 года назад +4

      She was referring to his parents.

  • @juliamiller5120
    @juliamiller5120 11 месяцев назад +1

    As someone with a depression and anxiety disorder, I’m on Beth’s side here. The anxiety attacks comment wasn’t even out of line. It is so easy to lose yourself in taking care of someone else. Randall had a panic disorder, and she felt like she had to hold everything together while he was spinning out. It’s a very valid point.

    • @Big-back23
      @Big-back23 6 месяцев назад +1

      How ? Randell would do anything for Beth but Beth can’t do anything for him? She’s rude and acts like she’s does everything when she does nothing

    • @juliamiller5120
      @juliamiller5120 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Big-back23she showed up for him time and time and time again. She has always supported him and his dreams. And this one time, she has a dream. Something she desperately missed and needed back in her life and he’s expecting her to sacrifice it for him.

  • @ynazzra
    @ynazzra Год назад +1

    I hated this fight. Felt like there were my parents fighting

  • @PhoenieFroe313
    @PhoenieFroe313 2 месяца назад

    They messy for putting in the "I'm doing the bending" line lol..

  • @jamisendinel663
    @jamisendinel663 5 месяцев назад +1

    I think it’s interesting Randal can’t bring up a time where he bent for Beth

  • @naturelove831
    @naturelove831 2 месяца назад

    Well that was intense

  • @Raymint
    @Raymint 5 лет назад +4

    This show's LIT!!!!!!!!

  • @gloriagarza4149
    @gloriagarza4149 4 года назад +1

    Both fighting for their dreams, or who holds the power in their relationship, but forgetting they have a daughter struggling with doubts and fears about her sexuality

  • @laurasamaniegovarela6455
    @laurasamaniegovarela6455 5 лет назад

    Quisiera saber como se llama la canción que suena de fondo al terminar la pelea, alguien pudiera decirme como encontrarla?

  • @GreenLight5444
    @GreenLight5444 5 лет назад +24

    OF COURSE IT HAD TO BE BETHS FAULT

    • @rebeccajones8628
      @rebeccajones8628 4 года назад +1

      She treated him like crap when he wanted to get married. She did that to him time and time again. Now she gets sensitive?

  • @Loverb1989
    @Loverb1989 3 дня назад

    I’m glad she went off… He needed to hear all of that. Now have an anxiety attack 😎😎😎😎

  • @jonjbivins
    @jonjbivins Год назад +1

    Relationships are tough

  • @estheredwards4125
    @estheredwards4125 5 лет назад +11

    I hope every thing work out for them thats marriage for you

  • @KingAshleys
    @KingAshleys 2 года назад +2

    Jack didn’t have to go there with Rebecca

  • @Rocket3gt
    @Rocket3gt Месяц назад

    Damnnnnnnnn the low blow, but you can't blame someone because you lacked the courage to pursue something you loved to do she used him for an scapegoat

  • @nuel-elisaac1854
    @nuel-elisaac1854 5 дней назад

    Good luck to you ... "He's out of Speeches...."

  • @MrDarryl90210
    @MrDarryl90210 Месяц назад

    This a prime example of why marriage and kids is a horrible idea. You can never ever win and simply relax!

  • @wj7296
    @wj7296 2 года назад

    this was like watching my parents fight. damn i remember i was so shitless scared they would brakeup but they found the door🥹

  • @farhasyed599brovsbro
    @farhasyed599brovsbro 10 месяцев назад

    Randall deserved everything Beth said

  • @tsienna2050
    @tsienna2050 5 лет назад +3

    In my marriage also, I am all bent out of shape.

  • @malehlohonolo8463
    @malehlohonolo8463 3 года назад +4

    Anxiety attack comment so unnecessary. Women we need to learn to fight clean and in a conducive manner

  • @nloubriel2336
    @nloubriel2336 2 месяца назад +1

    *0:37**-**0:48*
    🥹😭

  • @catac1ysm13
    @catac1ysm13 3 месяца назад

    Generally, men dreams support the family where a womans dream supports themselves. Not to say that she wouldnt be there but ther dreams would seperate them to a certain extent

  • @otsombia
    @otsombia 5 лет назад +18

    break! Randall has 90% of the blame she has only 10%

  • @Ellen2378-b5k
    @Ellen2378-b5k 2 месяца назад

    Team Randall

  • @vyentro29
    @vyentro29 5 лет назад +7

    Anxiety attacks. Ooooof. Team Randall all the way.

  • @enriettarutsvara8468
    @enriettarutsvara8468 2 месяца назад

    The only thing is she lied abt working with her ex,that's all

  • @jessicajoyner7999
    @jessicajoyner7999 4 года назад +2

    Team Beth all. The. Way!

  • @a.h.a.y.w6754
    @a.h.a.y.w6754 Год назад

    I hate it when Randall is about to cry 🤢

  • @erikhopkins9488
    @erikhopkins9488 5 лет назад

    Don't do it Randall!

  • @BWT599
    @BWT599 Год назад

    Dude could have made it better by ordering nachos and wearing a T shirt 👕 😅