They went at each other like the 2 strong queens they are. Loved it! I honestly think that Malik and his family are really interesting new additions to the cast!
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Yessss I was disappointed in this scene. Randall and Beth were 100%, and the writers made them look foolish by letting Malik's parents take the high ground...
@@rachelrivera2997 Right? He's already gotten one girl pregnant and Deja's parents aren't supposed to be concerned that he's still sexually active? Please.
@@misspriss2482 yes!! It's a valid concern. And if the show comes up with a reason he legitimately can't be sexually active with her (injury or what not), then shame on his parents for bot being upfront about it and just vaguely defending him to a couple with valid concerns. So they're either naive or lying imo!
Fr fr. I feel like they could’ve had they respond “that’s fair. You can’t write Deja off either”. Also, if Malik could’ve come out and said his piece of apology, it would’ve shown him owning up to his part in it too. Both the kid’s sides, and the two adults sides acknowledged their behavior.
This scene got me thinking about Rebecca's dad looking down on Jack. 😥 Parents usually want what's best for their kids but their "best" is not always the best for their kids. I would be concerned for Deja, too
Poor Beth, she has to deal with so much stress and considering Randall is the one who has to be reserved, she has to take up the slack in protecting Deja.
This is what happens when children decide to play house. Some of you commenting are siding with Randall and Beth while others are siding with Malik and his wife. Instead of criticizing each other's children what the four of them should be doing is figuring out some way to move forward. Malik and his wife's son had no business getting some girl pregnant at just fifteen but unfortunately the damage has been done. These parents should be working together and not fighting each other.
Oh wow, I had to go research that just now. Savage. I wonder if the writers/creator knew that beforehand and set it up to be that way or if it was just a coincidence.
It disturbs me that someone can watch a TV show and want to model there mothering style off a fictional character that you see so little of. There's alot more to life then what little you see any character in any show go thru..smh
Haha. Relax. I didn’t say beth was my idol or God. I just said I liked her parenting techniques. Yes, I always try to be the best “I” can be. My words were taken very far out of context I see. Or, maybe was just taken too literally. I don’t know. 😂 Anyway. everything is good here.
Sir TroLLington Da 3rd In my opinion there is nothing wrong from getting inspiration from where ever you see fit. Especially if it makes you better person for it. For instance. Kobe just died. I thought he was great and always gave 100 percent in anything he did. For me that is inspiration. He gave me inspiration not to give up on certain tasks in my life and jeep pushing foward. Though he is real, I wouldn’t care if he was fictional or not. Everyone has inspiration that stems from somewhere. So yes, even though beth is a fictional character, As I am well aware, I still find that she is and can be an inspiration. On another note. Who is anyone to judge as to where I find my inspiration from??? What? So because beth is a fictional character, can I not aspire to be as gentle, smart, and caring as she is??? Simply because she was written, and not real? Hmm. Okay. Well thanks for your opinions. 🙄
I actually like Kelly and if her and Beth hadn’t gotten off to a rough start I actually think they would really hit off since their both strong willed and independent.
I just love at the beginning of the episode, the women thought that they would be the ones holding it together. in the reality it's the women that lost it. Stereotypes shattered!
... Sydney J... Don't worry. They're on their way to their own show. It's all getting ready to be a spin off. Popular and realistic family, with realistic problems. Now... enter the ex gang banger... Dum, dum, dum.... there's more to the story. Glad Deja took responsibility for her part in the lies, etc, but it may be too late to do much about her and Malik moving in together. How do you control kids at that stage of life? In my day, kids were getting married right out of high school. Not that long ago.
I'm surprised the girl found out. Some of these young men don't think anything of fathering kids at a young age or they hide it. I was rolling with Randall until I saw how the dad defended his son and I thought 'huh, that's the other side'. Having a kid out of wedlock isn't the crisis. Having a kid out of wedlock, being unprepared, not having a support system and being reckless IS a problem.
They can write him off and its their daughter. They can say who she is around or not. Their son is their son, their daughter is their daughter period. They dont need to drag their child yes but you can't tell them that they're going to continue to see one another. Nope nope not your kid.
Kelly needs to be more humble with a teenage son who is a father of a 6 mon daughter. Beth needs to see Deja is just like her momma. Making bad decision with men/boys.
@@CherryBlossomBlyue Kelly is living in a glass house and trying to throw stones at Deja. Deja is a child and should not be the subject of Kelly Bias of her Mother situation.
@@bklynfinesse8709 her mother's situation? All she knows is that she was in a bad situation & Beth & Randel adopted her. That's its. Kelly isn't basing her dislike of Deja because of her mother.
@@bklynfinesse8709 & why would Beth think Deja is like her mother, making bad choices in men. Who said Malik was a bad guy? Because he was is teenage father? & you think Malik's parents don't know they have teenage father for a son? Both sets of parents know what have with their children, are very protective of them & will go to bat to show they are good kids, that got caught up in a situation.
That dinner party was so stupid. If you don't want your daughter dating a certain boy you tell her she can't date him and that's the end of it. Why would you invite his parents over to discuss it? Do people really do This? When my mom told me I could not date a boy I said okay and she never saw him again. It was so simple.
@NoMarz Colony To invite the parents over to tell them I don't want your son dating our daughter makes no sense to me, What is the point? And I agree that kids have their own minds and at the end of the day they are going to do whatever they want behind your back. You obviously did not catch that in my statement when I said if my mom said I could not date a certain boy SHE never saw him again. I still saw him without her knowledge.
Because that's usually not the end of it. Just because parents say not up do something doesn't mean they aren't. A dinner meeting was actually a good idea, you get both sets of parents involved you can get your arms around the situation. Have a set of eyes on both sides of the situation. They both, especially Maliks mom, just went into hot-headed. But they came out of it with an understanding.
@@rogergarrison4271 If I were the parent of the boy who girlfriend's parents did not want their daughter seeing my son I would be offended and irritated being invited to a dinner to discuss this. Because at some point it's going to turn awkward because parents are protective of their kids. A phone call would be appropriate to make his parents aware they don't want him dating their daughter, I feel a dinner is unnecessary.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 It's obvious they weren't gonna stop seeing each other. Deja made that abundantly clear. So it comes down to a choice. Either a whole bunch of sneaking around and perhaps a surprise pregnancy or sitting down with the parents, opening up a dialogue and coming to an agreement. I think they did the smart thing. 🤷♂️
@@rogergarrison4271 I guess I'm basing this scene on my childhood. When my mother told me to stop doing something it was not open for negotiation. And 99% of the time she turned out to be right. I continued to secretly date a boy she told me not to and I had to see for myself he was bad news. I'm not saying Malik is a bad guy but Beth and Randall feel he's too advanced in his life to date Deja. There was no negotiation when my mom said no. You can't keep two people apart who want to be together. And that's why I feel the dinner was pointless.
Few Boomers skipped school... maybe because mom stayed home, and available to the school. Or, a neighbor would accidently see you and casually tell your parents .
I would be mad if someone was writing off my son too. I would also be concerned if my teenage daughter was sneaking off with an older boy that has a child.
Malik's parents were just as disrespectful acting like Randall and Beth didn't have reason to be concerned about Malik's behavior. I'm sure he's a great kid, but he's still a teenage father. No one would be thrilled to see him on their doorstep. If the roles were reversed and Deja was the teenage mother and Malik was inexperienced, I would expect his parents to be just as wary and concerned. The experiences a person brings to a relationship matters and too many teens get introduced to stuff they can't handle by dating someone too "old" for them.
I'm sorry, but I wouldn't want my kid dating a teenaged father either. I don't care if he has straight As. he clearly wasn't smart enough to put a rubber on. and in the end Randall was right anyway which is why Malik breaks up with Deja.
Okay you know what, you tried it with me earlier Kelly, Imma need you to not make it a habit. Bruh when Beth came with that one it was overrr
They went at each other like the 2 strong queens they are. Loved it! I honestly think that Malik and his family are really interesting new additions to the cast!
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@@Baepsae_Nation .... It's the new spin off building.
@@smallfootprint2961 wait what???
Bruh the way Beth got up...
She lowkey trained to go.
J Mckoy I mean that lady was real loud for a GRANDMA you know what I’m saying. She tried it.
J Mckoy. for real tho...and she wasn't going to back down
I love the realness of this scene. Two mothers defending their children though not necessarily in the best ways.
DEFINITELY not in the best ways J L O'Bryan.
I'm writing this down, "okay you tried it with me earlier... Imma need you to not make it a habit." That's going in my back pocket.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sameeee
I love that line too!!! Don’t try Momma Beth!😊
When a black mother adjust her position. Things about to get real.
This episode was one of the best in a while. I paused it at least three times to absorb the life Beth was giving
“But what you not gonna do is write him off.”
Your wife is writing Deja off SO HARD RIGHT NOW.
Yessss I was disappointed in this scene. Randall and Beth were 100%, and the writers made them look foolish by letting Malik's parents take the high ground...
@@rachelrivera2997 Right? He's already gotten one girl pregnant and Deja's parents aren't supposed to be concerned that he's still sexually active? Please.
@@misspriss2482 yes!! It's a valid concern. And if the show comes up with a reason he legitimately can't be sexually active with her (injury or what not), then shame on his parents for bot being upfront about it and just vaguely defending him to a couple with valid concerns.
So they're either naive or lying imo!
@rachelrivera I wish I could like twice
Fr fr. I feel like they could’ve had they respond “that’s fair. You can’t write Deja off either”. Also, if Malik could’ve come out and said his piece of apology, it would’ve shown him owning up to his part in it too. Both the kid’s sides, and the two adults sides acknowledged their behavior.
I love how Randall and Beth do NOT let people intimidate them.
The actress playing Malik's mom is just so damn stunning OMG!
This scene got me thinking about Rebecca's dad looking down on Jack. 😥 Parents usually want what's best for their kids but their "best" is not always the best for their kids. I would be concerned for Deja, too
Julia ED81
Exactly.
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Poor Beth, she has to deal with so much stress and considering Randall is the one who has to be reserved, she has to take up the slack in protecting Deja.
If Omar don’t put his damn shirt back on 😂😂
Leave him alone 😂😂 no for real at first I was like what the hell is he doing. This episode was just too hilarious.
Right? Lol
You see the fear in Randall's eyes? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That was some good acting right there!
Lol
I love how Deja broke it up and took the blame and owned her mistake in the situation.
She's a great kid ❤
These Mothers have their children's backs & I love that. This is very realistic.
This is what happens when children decide to play house. Some of you commenting are siding with Randall and Beth while others are siding with Malik and his wife. Instead of criticizing each other's children what the four of them should be doing is figuring out some way to move forward. Malik and his wife's son had no business getting some girl pregnant at just fifteen but unfortunately the damage has been done. These parents should be working together and not fighting each other.
How this Susan Kelechi Watson doesn’t have all the awards is beyond me. She’s incredible!
So they had the original Malik who dated Deja in Higher Learning play the father to Malik, the boy dating their daughter Deja. Classic
Oh wow, I had to go research that just now. Savage. I wonder if the writers/creator knew that beforehand and set it up to be that way or if it was just a coincidence.
My fiance and I, we don't have kids yet. Planning for some time next year. But Beth is the mother I aspire to be. Woman is bad.
It disturbs me that someone can watch a TV show and want to model there mothering style off a fictional character that you see so little of. There's alot more to life then what little you see any character in any show go thru..smh
Haha. Relax. I didn’t say beth was my idol or God. I just said I liked her parenting techniques. Yes, I always try to be the best “I” can be. My words were taken very far out of context I see. Or, maybe was just taken too literally. I don’t know. 😂 Anyway. everything is good here.
Sir TroLLington Da 3rd In my opinion there is nothing wrong from getting inspiration from where ever you see fit. Especially if it makes you better person for it. For instance. Kobe just died. I thought he was great and always gave 100 percent in anything he did. For me that is inspiration. He gave me inspiration not to give up on certain tasks in my life and jeep pushing foward. Though he is real, I wouldn’t care if he was fictional or not. Everyone has inspiration that stems from somewhere. So yes, even though beth is a fictional character, As I am well aware, I still find that she is and can be an inspiration. On another note. Who is anyone to judge as to where I find my inspiration from??? What? So because beth is a fictional character, can I not aspire to be as gentle, smart, and caring as she is??? Simply because she was written, and not real? Hmm. Okay. Well thanks for your opinions. 🙄
I actually like Kelly and if her and Beth hadn’t gotten off to a rough start I actually think they would really hit off since their both strong willed and independent.
1:13 "We're about to have a BMW situation: Black Mama Whoopin"
Randall's face when he started making his way over said it all 🤣🤣
1:19- The way that both husbands were the steadying forces behind their wives...
First Cameron, and now Foreman? All we need now is Chase to guest star
Beth is not playing around. I love it.
lmao Beth was so funny in this eppy
The way they both knew they had to grab their wives lol
I just love at the beginning of the episode, the women thought that they would be the ones holding it together. in the reality it's the women that lost it. Stereotypes shattered!
Beth is about that life
WOW they really tackled internalized racism!!! This is us needs more attention
... Sydney J... Don't worry. They're on their way to their own show. It's all getting ready to be a spin off. Popular and realistic family, with realistic problems. Now... enter the ex gang banger... Dum, dum, dum.... there's more to the story. Glad Deja took responsibility for her part in the lies, etc, but it may be too late to do much about her and Malik moving in together. How do you control kids at that stage of life? In my day, kids were getting married right out of high school. Not that long ago.
This was awesome! That whole episode was by far my fav!
devworlddaily
It looks like a very great show!
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Hope they find some great future for Deja in seasons to come
Great to see Omar Epps again!
Reminds me of the episode of The Cosby Show when Vanessa was sneaking out with Jeremy. Except he bore the brunt of it all, not his parents.
Would people still feel the same way if Malik had been a teenage mother???
Randell not scared of him..
My teen daughter getting with a teen parent? That’s a non starter.
I kinda agree
Elinor Jenkins either or, I was basing it off of Deja, now put away your “what about”
I'm surprised the girl found out. Some of these young men don't think anything of fathering kids at a young age or they hide it. I was rolling with Randall until I saw how the dad defended his son and I thought 'huh, that's the other side'. Having a kid out of wedlock isn't the crisis. Having a kid out of wedlock, being unprepared, not having a support system and being reckless IS a problem.
Beth wanted all of the smoke, she wanted the California wildfire
I love Deja so much, you have no idea
They can write him off and its their daughter. They can say who she is around or not. Their son is their son, their daughter is their daughter period. They dont need to drag their child yes but you can't tell them that they're going to continue to see one another. Nope nope not your kid.
Kelly needs to be more humble with a teenage son who is a father of a 6 mon daughter. Beth needs to see Deja is just like her momma. Making bad decision with men/boys.
Why should she be more humble?
This comment didn't make sense.
@@CherryBlossomBlyue Kelly is living in a glass house and trying to throw stones at Deja. Deja is a child and should not be the subject of Kelly Bias of her Mother situation.
@@bklynfinesse8709 her mother's situation? All she knows is that she was in a bad situation & Beth & Randel adopted her. That's its. Kelly isn't basing her dislike of Deja because of her mother.
@@bklynfinesse8709 & why would Beth think Deja is like her mother, making bad choices in men. Who said Malik was a bad guy? Because he was is teenage father? & you think Malik's parents don't know they have teenage father for a son? Both sets of parents know what have with their children, are very protective of them & will go to bat to show they are good kids, that got caught up in a situation.
What happened to these two? The dad talked to Randall once after this. Great dynamic!
Please how can i get the full series
Where can I watch season 4 ful episodes uk ?
Everybody always assumes that the dads are the hotheads always ready to fight, but they have nothing on when Mama Bears come out to play.
If these people don't get out lol
House would be thrilled to see this side for foreman
Yoo these mommas about to swing.
Nice job
That dinner party was so stupid. If you don't want your daughter dating a certain boy you tell her she can't date him and that's the end of it. Why would you invite his parents over to discuss it? Do people really do This? When my mom told me I could not date a boy I said okay and she never saw him again. It was so simple.
@NoMarz Colony To invite the parents over to tell them I don't want your son dating our daughter makes no sense to me, What is the point? And I agree that kids have their own minds and at the end of the day they are going to do whatever they want behind your back. You obviously did not catch that in my statement when I said if my mom said I could not date a certain boy SHE never saw him again. I still saw him without her knowledge.
Because that's usually not the end of it. Just because parents say not up do something doesn't mean they aren't. A dinner meeting was actually a good idea, you get both sets of parents involved you can get your arms around the situation. Have a set of eyes on both sides of the situation. They both, especially Maliks mom, just went into hot-headed. But they came out of it with an understanding.
@@rogergarrison4271 If I were the parent of the boy who girlfriend's parents did not want their daughter seeing my son I would be offended and irritated being invited to a dinner to discuss this. Because at some point it's going to turn awkward because parents are protective of their kids. A phone call would be appropriate to make his parents aware they don't want him dating their daughter, I feel a dinner is unnecessary.
@@raephaelemasirnille5794 It's obvious they weren't gonna stop seeing each other. Deja made that abundantly clear. So it comes down to a choice. Either a whole bunch of sneaking around and perhaps a surprise pregnancy or sitting down with the parents, opening up a dialogue and coming to an agreement. I think they did the smart thing. 🤷♂️
@@rogergarrison4271 I guess I'm basing this scene on my childhood. When my mother told me to stop doing something it was not open for negotiation. And 99% of the time she turned out to be right. I continued to secretly date a boy she told me not to and I had to see for myself he was bad news. I'm not saying Malik is a bad guy but Beth and Randall feel he's too advanced in his life to date Deja. There was no negotiation when my mom said no. You can't keep two people apart who want to be together. And that's why I feel the dinner was pointless.
If Omar Epps don’t put his shirt back on....
Wait Dr Eric Foreman knows Randall ?
To be fair "back to a cycle of teenage pregnancy" wouldve been clunky but still worked
Few Boomers skipped school... maybe because mom stayed home, and available to the school.
Or, a neighbor would accidently see you and casually tell your parents .
Born in 1980 makes ‘The big 3’ Gen X , not Boomers .
@@NotSpillingTheTea As a '80s child everybody was your mama and knew who your mama was. Skipping school was not happening.
I would be mad if someone was writing off my son too.
I would also be concerned if my teenage daughter was sneaking off with an older boy that has a child.
Randell and Beth were disrespectful in this scene towards Malik parents
Malik's parents were just as disrespectful acting like Randall and Beth didn't have reason to be concerned about Malik's behavior. I'm sure he's a great kid, but he's still a teenage father. No one would be thrilled to see him on their doorstep. If the roles were reversed and Deja was the teenage mother and Malik was inexperienced, I would expect his parents to be just as wary and concerned. The experiences a person brings to a relationship matters and too many teens get introduced to stuff they can't handle by dating someone too "old" for them.
I'm sorry, but I wouldn't want my kid dating a teenaged father either. I don't care if he has straight As. he clearly wasn't smart enough to put a rubber on.
and in the end Randall was right anyway which is why Malik breaks up with Deja.
Jesus loves you and He can change your life ❤❤
Omar scars nobody
Beth and Randall were fixing to get slapped up in their own home lol
hey, you that is reading this: Jesus loves you ❤️
Man I was hoping there was gonna be some Mandingo fighting 🦍🦍