I needed to hear this because nobody ever told me. When my mom divorced my dad, I lost a part of her. I believe I looked so much like my dad and she resented it. I ended up going to live with my dad and lost contact with my mom for awhile. I felt she truly just didn't want me. My dad was addicted and abusive. I ended up in foster care. Moving from one home, to another home, to another home. I felt like I didn't belong anywhere and begin to self destruct on a mission to be accepted. I chose the wrong men who were abusive. I became full of rage because I wanted all the right things but didn't know how to get them. I needed direction. I recently found God. God led me here. Thank you for posting, this has cleared up so much for me. God is truly the answer to life no matter who you are or what you are going through!
Keep going ❤you have GOT this I had one friend who stayed pure she JUST got married this year to a man who is also a virgin or was lol we are 29!! She waited and honored herself her parents and GOD and he delivered: wait on HIM it is worth it!!
42 years happily married virgin to virgin and I give you warnings for after the wedding: 1 do not weaponize sex 2 do not demand or expect to be chased and begged for what you have promised to give freely 3 do figure out how to be responsive years after
Thank you for humbling me and teaching me at the same time I don’t have a mother and father and now I’m 21 aged out of the foster system and have a man of God now I get to learn and I’m grateful God bless you
Oh my goodness my heart goes out to you! Please keep pursuing Jesus and surrounding yourself with godly people in a good church! Sheila Wray Gregoire’s podcast is also excellent teaching-and from a very different perspective than Voddie-helping you to identify abusive men, for ex, which I almost married one of…a returned missionary. They are RAMPANT in our culture partially bc we erroneously assume an overall godly man will carry that general kindness into marriage, the hardest relationship where the worst in us comes out…please be careful!
“girl, you leave me…I’m going with you.” Amen! That’s the attitude both men and women need to have in a marriage. It’s a fight to choose to love sometimes and yet, it’s extremely important. I’m coming up on 25 years of marriage and it has been a million choices to love on both our parts to get this far. And ladies, we got to stop acting like we are lovely and lovable all the time and it’s our husbands that need to work harder and love more in the marriage. I am NOT lovely and lovable all the time and my husband has had to dig real deep to choose to love me sometimes. 😂
That's YOUR story. I am a woman who has stayed home, dedicated my life to my highly-respected-as-godly husband, studied every passage of Scripture possible to be the perfect wife - to find out that he has lived a horrible double life of sin that started even before our marriage. And no, I'm not perfect. That's MY story.
@@StaceyMurphey-bk2wyI pray you will find peace and inner healing from this horrible betrayal. Only God can heal you, please let go of the unforgiveness, bitterness, resentment, and pain when you’re ready. These feelings will destroy you if you allow it. Your life is not over. God has a plan for His daughter. Please cling to Him, not religion. He will cover you. You are worthy, 🔥💯
My mother grew up in a Christian home, with parents that berated her for giving up her educational career to come along side my father to run his business. Even to point that my brother & i have been told by my grandparents our entire lives that what our parents do for a living is “lowly,” and we are less than for earning a clean living as fishing bait distributors. Thank you for the message that brings scriptural clarity to what i have always thought: my mothers willingness to put her career aspirations aside to follow my fathers vision for family excellence is the best choice for all of us. (And yes, my mother was an excellent teacher; now excellent as a business person). As a result, i see my parents being “fishers of men” daily at work. Frequent conversations with others on how God improves their lives, and if He has done it for us, He will do the same for others. Thank you, pastor, for confirmation that following Gods will is valued above cultural titles. We are to be about the business of the Kingdom as a family.
These days you can’t tell the difference between believers and unbelievers. I’m glad I grew up in a Christian household and was taught to dress and act like a lady.
Praise the Lord, that's so wonderful, @SachelleCambria! My dear late Mother taught us 3 girls, my 2 sisters and I, how to be feminine, how to dress and act like a Christian lady, and that's how I raised my own now middle-aged daughter!
We live in a 2 timothy 2 world.. it would be a pleasure to be loved and have a man lay down his life... rare indeed. Most men step over women to get to the next woman
The problem is not men..the problem is that we looking at the wrong men...There are alot of good men out there...I know coz have 2 sons n a husband who are godly men...n my sons are looking a good women but its proving to be a hard task!
@@anndey-oe8mzHa! I respectfully disagree with that, it is the men, (of course not all) but A LOT, (if you’re out there and single), it’s not that women are looking in the wrong places, and just like you stated, it’s the women too (your own sons can’t find a good one) 🤷♀️
@@anndey-oe8mzit is hard for your sons to find a good woman, because women get validation from the flesh. And when hurt etc they cannot see a good man from a bad man. They will always look for someone who will mistreat them too. Exactly what was preached. Men are more voyeuristic than women so they tend to ‘cheat’ as women are more emotionally led. Thats why there is this cycle of hurt from the emotional side and more lust from the male side.
@@browngirl2533Godly man don’t want worldly women. Which men today are still wanting. As Godly woman should date only Godly man. How hard is that to understand. Women are being pushed to love these worldly man by the media. To open their bodies for others not their husband. Even at church girls openly want a worldly man if he just acknowledged Jesus. Which doesn’t make him Godly man make him a false follower.
Me too. I wasn’t raised with any biblical beliefs or knowledge. I was a selfish young lady and didn’t want many children but as a mature woman I repented and regret I didn’t multiply as I was purposed. BUT GOD I hear you, there are children who need my biblical mothering. I will pray about adoption 🙏
I raised my son to know the difference in a good woman and one that has no respect for others .. also treat a woman the way you expect a man to treat me (mom) or sisters .. with respect .. make sure they believe in God ! That will make your marriage strong you become one ❤ but when they go out into this wicked world they stumble to get what they want they feel is good and find on their one but will remember your words .. and say I should have listened and that’s ok it’s never too late to include God in your life… I love this guy because he preaches the sermon no one really want to hear and we need to hear ALL of the Bible … peace to everyone!
He’s so on point you know I thought growing up in the 90s what I wore was skimpy but now when I go to the mall today, everything is cropped there’s barely any fabric on anything, and this is normalized. We need to understand what it means to be consecrated as a response to Gods love. “to what aspect of my person am I drawing attention today and is that honoring Christ” thank you Voddie
Sorta frustrating. I’m a single mom for 8 years. I used to homeschool while being abused. I finally left him. No child support and I’ve been working NONSTOP for 8 years- had to put my kids into public school. I’m barely home. When I am I’m attending the kids. But it’s hard to teach them how to run a home, live each other, or anything. I do my best. Nobody from church has ever been willing to help me. It’s pretty sad. I’m not mad- but the coaches at school are raising my boys. It’s hard being a man to boys as a female. I’m barely able to cook. They do that for themselves. As teenagers- they take care of each other a bit. It’s painful to hear these messages. I feel backwards and alone.
Sis Christ Jesus is with you. Explain to them this message, some times it will help them build stable families. You can still make a difference the Holy Spirit being your helper.
@@Megan-ih1zi I’m definitely teaching “them” (I think you’re referring to my kids)? The need for stable healthy God centered relationships and families so they have better situation than I did. The reason I struggle with these messages is not because the Holy Spirit isn’t helping me…. It’s the dynamic of being in a male/ female ROLE which allows me to be myself. I want to live the life he’s describing. It’s Biblical, and so many years I am single being the man/ provider- and it’s lonely and hard. It just is. I have good and bad seasons- but I always desire to have a family again, and enjoy being a woman, in my feminine role. That’s what this message is about. Being “home with the kids” isn’t what I do. I can’t. See? They don’t necessarily need the help to see how terrible single mom life is. I never signed up to be abused either. Hope deferred…. has made my heart sick. Waiting so long sick.
@JennyAmigo31 My heart is with you, sis. There are still many positive things they are learning from the present circumstances. 2. Do you remember the heavenly blessings in Ephesians? They are ours as children of God. There is absolutely nothing that our God can not do. That day will come to pass and the rest will be history. Restoration is real.
Sorry this is very unfortunate but God understands your situation everything won't be perfect for us because we live such in a fallen world...the Lord is definitely with u even down to the coaches helping out with ur kids im pretty sure your children will turn out amazing ..shoot I had both parents and still went down a path of destruction because we didn't have Christ...youll be happy and amazed one day that your children turned out so great and they will recognize when their older all that u sacrificed for them and love you dearly and give you the world...just keep clinging to Christ and be a reflection of him the Lord will be with you God bless you and Happy Sabbath ❤...also if the church isnt helping you and sees your struggle maybe u should find a new church...the church is supposed to be our family and a helping hand in the time of need especially for single mothers 🌹
Amen. Praise the Lord, Jesus for leading me here, and saving me through His grace, I am praying I can become this kind of godly biblical woman to serve and obey my God's will and vision for me and for those I get to serve Him with as wife, mother, and faithful daughter to her Heavenly Father's Law, for it is GOOD. So much repentance and unlearning are needed. I was a wretched, evil woman. Still feel her come through sometimes...But He has changed my heart of stone for a heart of flesh, and now I yearn only for Him, for our Lord to help me transform into he eomwn he created me to be-for the Truth of His vision, and He is the Truth. So much sn in my flesh. And even more gratitude to Him, Jesus who chose to save me from death in my sin and arrogant, rebellious ignorance of His Holy Love. Thank you pastor Baucham, may God continue to bless your ministry and your wife and children, and those of us receiving this guidance and leadership - may we grow in our faith in our God, Jesus Christ, by His Holy Spirit, protecting us from evil and temptation, as we walk sisters and brothers in Him, together.
There was some hard truths in this sermon that I needed to hear and I have some things to work on and pray about like dressing more modesty (not wearing tight clothes) and being submissive to my husband.
Kinda depends on which woman of the Bible we're talking about. A biblical woman might look like Deborah and lead a country and prophesy what God says over them, run a business and be generous with her profits like Lydia or the Proverbs 31 woman, teach God's word over others like Priscilla, study God's word like Mary Magdalene and then sharing what you learn, or even killing a dictator like Jael did. There are countless ways to be a Biblical woman - not just one.
This is real the most realest message I’ve heard so far Amen God bless you all, I’ve met only that type of women for so long that I’ve decided to stay single I’ve been single for 10 plus years now no kids no matter how hard they tried, I said no I just knew in my heart This isn’t Holy, I’m near my 40 years, every woman or should I say girls cause age don’t matter I’ve met women in the 40s still doing the club thing and dressing up like a bunch of jazze bells it’s scary not sexy or sophisticated it’s just disgusting. But in Jesus Christ I’ve trusted my wife will come some day and she will be a wonderful human being with Jesus Christ in her life and decent.
"And the truth shall set you free!" Not because you want it to, but because you NEED it too. Amen?! Thank you Voddie Bauchman for tough spiritual meat to chew on instead of baby food which can only take you so far. I needed to hear this again in my life and be reminded of the cause in which I must stand always as a wife and mother.
I asked for help got none, my husband ask for an accountability partner and not one man volunteered. There is little help in today’s church’s for those who struggle.
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The way even elderly women like myself dress today is extremely difficult for me to have to look at! My sweet late Mother always dressed modestly and taught us, her 3 daughters, to dress modestly also!
I would love to get some feedback to my questions; I ask genuinely not just for debate 1)His definition of love is rather neutral, neither positive or negative, "acting on behalf of the object that is loved". Why doesn't the definition say something like "acting to benefit the one that is loved"? 2) Can womanhood ever be separated from marriage and motherhood? How can women who are not wives or mothers act biblically? 3) Are there any characteristics of womanhood that also apply to men (reverence, purity, something else not mentioned in the video)? 4)Condoleeza Rice can leave her job at any time. The ax murderer is an unrelateable example. I have seen Christian men cheat, not provide for their family, r4pe children, and all kind of other things that are not Christlike. What does it actually mean to live in submission to that kind of man? No one is perfect but the joke he made does not build hope in me. If the husband wants to leave, the submissive wife remains. If she wants to leave, he goes with her to make her submit.
1. The object that is loved is first and foremost the lord. On both sides of the marriage. Then each other. 2. Yes. Of course. Women can act biblically if they aren’t married or mothers. A woman who seeks God first, who uses her work, her hands, and her gifts to make more of Jesus. Who acts pure and diligent. 3. Men are first and foremost accountable to God. They have a much higher responsibility than women in that regard. They are responsible for loving their wives, sacrificing their wants and needs for their wives and families, working together in mutual respect and patience. 4. If a man leaves, is he upholding his covenant before the Lord? Again, he is responsible to the Lord for his actions. Sovereign God isn’t up there choosing who he forgives, he works in every person through every sin…Vodie did give an example of this. If the man is acting outright sinful, the woman does not use the opportunity to seek vengeance or ill will, nor does she partake in the sin, but continues to grow spiritually and seek to her church for counsel. The goal is restoration, on both sides, not separation. If she is abused, or cheated on, there are clear guidelines in scripture for the family and of the churches role to assist. That’s why it’s so important to be a part of a church that loves Jesus and holds true the word of God.
Good points. I would also like to add the importance of choosing our husband's and wives. To throughly get to know the person AND their family. Their relationship with their parents, especially father. The most important relationship they must have is with God and Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. These cannot be simple words. The man or woman must display their commitment to God and our Savior daily. We, in time, will plainly see if they are a person of God. If someone is an abuser or has severe mental issues, emotional issues, God will reveal these things to you so that you may flee from wickedness. But we must use discernment that God gave us. I say these things as a young man who Jesus Christ recently just pulled me back into his flock. I realized the error of my ways, and was going down a dark path. God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit spoke to me in October 2024 to stop what I was doing (sexual immorality and lustful things) and to read the Bible quickly. Once I started, I realized I been going against God for so long and committing horrible sins against Him and my body. I now realize im not to have sex until I marry, and only to a woman who is of God and seeks a lifetime relationship with him. If im to never find a woman to marry, ill never have sex again, as it's a horrible sin to God's body he gave me. All this to say, its important to choose a wife or husband of God. Not just marry anyone. No child of God needs to be with a man or woman who physically and emotionally abuses them. It saddens me when I read about this, but we glorify not God, but looks and status in our modern times. Anyway, good comment. Ill pray for everyone in this comment section. God bless you @@mfernandez4338
My counselor is telling me to allow my husband to watch porn. That I need to have a secure attachment not an attachment of anxiety where I'm forcing him to behave. ...I don't know how to balance where it's my biblical duty that his body is mine and submit to him (he thinks porn is fine)...while recognizing that his sin is his sin. The book of 1st Peter, where submit to my husband. And obey the Lord myself. What do I do?
Pray and ask that your husband would be convicted of his sin and that Jesus would walk along side him as he over comes it. That his eyes would be open. Amen
Your counselor is wrong. As a Christian woman I have been exactly where you are. I am so so sorry. Firstly...your counselor is giving you the world's advice. It is a failure. Jesus says that to look on a woman with lust is to commit adultery in your heart, and it wasn't a metaphor. A man looking at porn is literally having sex with her in his mind. The world makes all of us (in crude terms) cuckolds and depressed. You're being prescribed psychological arsenic. I was told the same. I will tell you now...if you aren't one of those women who "brush it off", you will never have this imaginary secure attachment. As a woman whose husband was a porn addict, I can tell you honestly that it is a near equivalent to being cheated on relentlessly. It stole my sanity and my weight and my hair. It stole him, his touch, and his manhood. Modern psychology is lying to us and making us willing victims of adultery, and I can not stress that enough. Science backs up what is happening in porn addiction, and it is not good. While you are to submit to your husband, he is sharing his (your) body with other women. Period. You are not "making him behave", you are asking for loyalty. You are asking for Biblical manhood, not overpowering him. In the same way that you should object if he began practicing paganism, you should object to adultery. Is your husband a believer in any way?
Please get rid of that counselor, try to find someone faith-based, the porn is dangerous to a relationship, I will only cause more complex issues down the line. Maybe find a pastor or respected male who could counsel your husband. I'll definitely be sending you prayers❤
I would just comment that age based ministry is not of the devil as per min 6-it is Wisdom. And wisdom is the “principle thing” according to Proverbs! This does not mean children should be excluded from main church services all the time, but it is also wisdom to teach kids on a level of simplicity they can understand. I learnt very little in church as a child but still remember many things thanks to Sunday school.
I'll tell y'all. I was issued ABUs in the military and I didn't get them altered or anything. One of the men told me they could still see my curves under the ABU top. Sometimes it's not our fault. I was harassed no matter what.
I don't think that's what this message meant. I think it means to not put it out there on purpose, don't go looking for the attention. Some women walk around with just covering a tiny bit of their parts but let everything else hang out. We have curves as women, but don't go flaunting it. And your right, men will still make statements even when we're covered up modestly. How we react to that is what matters too.
Keep in mind we live in modern Sodom and Gomorrah times. The media has brainwashed, with the help of lazy parents whom many don't shape their lives around God, to believe physical looks, money, and status is king. Even above God. Many men chase after lust and sex as I did. They do not know any better because of their parents, and the constant bombardment of lustful media online and on TV. Sexual immorality is a horrible sin most, if not all of us are guilty of. Please choose the right man if you are to marry. Make sure he is a man of God and lives by his ordinances the best he can. You need to do the same. God bless you all.
I think it's okay to voice you disagree but if he makes a final decision then you as wife must support him and do everything to help him see it through. If it turns out to have been a bad decision then you don't throw it in his face saying, "See I told you so". Also, I don't believe you have to support him if what he is asking involves sinning. That's where you can put your foot down and follow the Lord. I don't speak on behalf of the pastor in the video but from my own thoughts and what I have learned over the years. God bless!
I don't understand why we have so many men telling Christian women how to be women. If we don't believe women can teach men how to be men, why are men doing so for women? Doesn't the Bible say the older WOMEN need to teach the younger WOMEN? The double standards we have in Christianity are what drive so many away from the church.
He got on mens head , and rightfully so and i enjoyed it. But when my ex wife heard this all she said was misogyny. I said , no he is just holding up a mirror to you like he did to me .
How should a biblical man act???? Men are the leaders of their homes and their wives should know how to "act" because they have graciously, lovingly guided them.
Hi, thanks for this audio, it’s really helpful. But I have a question. He spoke about sunday school is culture influenced and the same with groups of kids the same age Where can i find the data about this wich supports this argument? Sorry for my broken english - greetings from Germany 🙋🏻♂️
Thank you Voddie for teaching on Ephesians 5 and the misuse of verse 21 to try to suggest mutual submission in marriage. God did not make an error when He designed marriage & family. Anyone who reads Ephesians 5 with an open heart, spirit, and in CONTEXT can clearly see that it is NOT teaching that husbands submit to wives. That is why the parallel between Christ & the church is mentioned. Christ never submits to the church. The relationship IS hierarchal and the authority/headship rests with ONE party, and it is not the woman/the church. I know modern feminists and Christian women who have been poisoned and deceived by feminist ideology absolutely hate it but true women of God see the purpose of it & that Christ Himself demonstrated submissiveness to the will of the Father, even unto death for our sakes. It is not weak or inferior to be submissive--it takes great strength and truly, it can only be done by loving and being empowered by the Holy Spirit.
Submission only comes through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. If a man does not submit to Christ his wife won’t submit to him. And yes the man is to submit to Christ and he shouldn’t argue about it. When a man is submitted to the Lord he does not practice any sexual immorality - 1 Thessalonians 4:2,3 and he walks in joy, peace and righteousness - Romans 14:17.
@@kmountain5533 Untrue. A man may not submit to Christ--the wife is still commanded to submit to her husband. As Voddie explained, conditional submission is not God-honoring.
@@kmountain5533 Wives are commanded to submit to their husbands in the fear of Christ. Wives are not absolved of that responsibility just because the husband is not obedient. Your opinion is false and you have no biblical basis for it. I may not agree with Voddie on everything, but he is 100% correct on this topic. I pray the Lord convict you of your rebellion.
Overall another excellent sermon. One stupid comment, that old men leave their wives for younger women because they want the affection of a daughter. Rather because after a few years after marriage wives stop being sexually responsive. Obviously I speak in generalities but for the most part men get a younger woman for the sex they're not getting at home anymore. Cold sex as a duty is insufficient. That's not an excuse of the man's sinfulness BUT rarely is the wife who starves her husband of sexual affection spoken to as also sin.
If you’re a genuine born again believer, while the situation of sex in the marriage needs healing, you don’t go out of the marriage and have sex with a younger woman/any woman. It’s willful sin, and you are not excused to commit it. Work on your marriage. Start loving your wife. Be present. Ask God for wisdom in healing your intimacy issue. This idea of adultery in a Christian home is deplorable. Walk in holiness. Choose your spouse.
@@karinteeples9715 I agree completely that to seek affection from a different woman than your wife is wrong. However, I do NOT believe most men who do commit adultery do so for just emotional support. It might start that way but some sort of physical intimacy usually results when a man and woman not related are emotionally close. Now consider your reaction. You put the entire burden on the man as if it is always or even most commonly his fault. You automatically default to a misandric gynocentric view. I remind you the BIBLICAL advice in most cases of a contentious woman is to stay away rather than pursue her.
@@JRRodriguez-nu7poIt was the MAN who wanted to go out of the marriage and sleep with another woman, not his wife. So yes, I put 💯blame on him for that sinful act. Truth~ we all need continual healing and biblical restoration in our hearts and thoughts. If a truly godly biblical marriage is revealing adultery and sexual misconduct being committed ~ it is sin. And I question if they are genuine believers. Their fruit stinks.
I agree with this for the most part, however, when it comes to the way dads treat their daughters, I don't agree that the reason men go looking for relationships with younger women is due to not being able to be affectionate with their daughters. There are some great men out there, that can keep a relationship with their daughter fatherly affectionate. There are also a lot of men that molest their daughters as soon as they come close to puberty, and even more so for step-dads. Because of this, I would be very cautious in pushing physical affection between dads and daughters as an overarching rule. The statistics say that of girls that are sexually molested, 53% are abused by their biological fathers; 15% by stepfathers, and 8.8% by uncles. One in 9 girls and 1 in 20 boys under the age of 18 experience sexual abuse or assault.
1:05:45 is the truth and feminism doesn't like it. Working for a boss she will do and won't disrespect. Her husband though....means nothing unless shes been taught to be a wife and love her husband biblically.
Is there a place for single women anywhere? In church we get looked over and society scorns us. I couldn't even get a straight answer from a pastor. I'm not looking for a husband and I don't want any children.
There is a place for everyone in the kingdom of God. Single or Married, God's Sovereignty Rules. Whatever estate we find ourselves, it is essential to recognize that God’s sovereignty governs all things. We glorify God by trusting His wisdom and goodness in the estate He has placed us in. Thomas Watson, summed it up nicely, “Wherever God has placed you, it is to glorify Him by contentment in Him. Contentment in God's plan brings glory to Him” But I don’t think it’s right for Christians to say, “I don’t want a husband and children”, we should say, “Lord, I belong to you and you know what’s best for me, if you want me married, I will do that to your glory and if you want me single, I will glorify you in that as well… Thy will be done on earth as it is and heaven”
@@Contramundum-777i use to not want children or to get married. Reading the Bible and reconnecting with Jesus Christ has brought me back to my senses and all the sinful things I was doing and saying. I would honestly love to have a wife and kids, but its up to God. If God is to bless me with a loving wife of Christ and children, I will gladly accept; So that now my wife and I can worship Christ together and raise God's children.
Thats why husbands shouldnt leave their wives. Because she is supposed to devote her life to her home. And a woman shouldnt leave her husband and kids. Because her children need her and her husband is supposed to commit to providing protecting and leading his wife and their children until death
Where are these teaching woman. I’m old never learned how to be a wife and mother. Those with problems get no help. Smile and say nothing not to get involved!
I generally love his teachings, however suppose a couple did not have this discussion prior to marriage and mom and dad have to work to pay the bills. Or even a young woman has gone through medical school and is now a physician working in their field... surely there is a way to be a Godly woman and still work. and Still Love God and raise your children in a Godly home. I am not at all offended by this sermon. I just think it offers no Grace for women who work because they have to, or they have been called to use their gifts outside of the home.
I find it strange he actually believes God's word about this but denies what His word says about so many other very important things. How dies he kn ih w what is the truth?
@@GODSTRUTH3236 He does not believe in the literal millinium, he is an amillinialist. There is no such thing as literal 1000 year reign of Christ, it is spiritual, no such thing as literal 144,000 Jews who will evangelize, allegorical. No telling what else. He is also reformed= Calvinist.
I needed to hear this because nobody ever told me. When my mom divorced my dad, I lost a part of her. I believe I looked so much like my dad and she resented it. I ended up going to live with my dad and lost contact with my mom for awhile. I felt she truly just didn't want me. My dad was addicted and abusive. I ended up in foster care. Moving from one home, to another home, to another home. I felt like I didn't belong anywhere and begin to self destruct on a mission to be accepted. I chose the wrong men who were abusive. I became full of rage because I wanted all the right things but didn't know how to get them. I needed direction. I recently found God. God led me here. Thank you for posting, this has cleared up so much for me. God is truly the answer to life no matter who you are or what you are going through!
Hallelujah. I'm happy you have found God. I wish for you to follow my page and join on those fasting and some teaching on the word and prayers
God loves you my sister ❤
I'm on the same road God doesn't make mistakes 🙏🫂🙏
He doesn't. You will overcome and speaking healing and restoration over your life.@@willietheyorkie7272
Hallelujah this is beautiful 🙏🏾🤌🏾
I’m a 20 year old woman and a virgin waiting for marriage. This made me cry so bad ❤❤❤ God bless you all
May God Bless you
I got married at 22 and had a first kiss wedding. I know how you are feeling. Keep up the faith ❤️ God bless you for your faithfulness!
Keep going sis please keep your purity! ❤ its worth it
Keep going ❤you have GOT this I had one friend who stayed pure she JUST got married this year to a man who is also a virgin or was lol we are 29!! She waited and honored herself her parents and GOD and he delivered: wait on HIM it is worth it!!
42 years happily married virgin to virgin and I give you warnings for after the wedding:
1 do not weaponize sex
2 do not demand or expect to be chased and begged for what you have promised to give freely
3 do figure out how to be responsive years after
Thank you for humbling me and teaching me at the same time I don’t have a mother and father and now I’m 21 aged out of the foster system and have a man of God now I get to learn and I’m grateful God bless you
Oh my goodness my heart goes out to you! Please keep pursuing Jesus and surrounding yourself with godly people in a good church! Sheila Wray Gregoire’s podcast is also excellent teaching-and from a very different perspective than Voddie-helping you to identify abusive men, for ex, which I almost married one of…a returned missionary. They are RAMPANT in our culture partially bc we erroneously assume an overall godly man will carry that general kindness into marriage, the hardest relationship where the worst in us comes out…please be careful!
@@debras3806 thank you
“girl, you leave me…I’m going with you.” Amen! That’s the attitude both men and women need to have in a marriage. It’s a fight to choose to love sometimes and yet, it’s extremely important. I’m coming up on 25 years of marriage and it has been a million choices to love on both our parts to get this far. And ladies, we got to stop acting like we are lovely and lovable all the time and it’s our husbands that need to work harder and love more in the marriage. I am NOT lovely and lovable all the time and my husband has had to dig real deep to choose to love me sometimes. 😂
That's YOUR story. I am a woman who has stayed home, dedicated my life to my highly-respected-as-godly husband, studied every passage of Scripture possible to be the perfect wife - to find out that he has lived a horrible double life of sin that started even before our marriage. And no, I'm not perfect. That's MY story.
@@StaceyMurphey-bk2wyI pray you will find peace and inner healing from this horrible betrayal. Only God can heal you, please let go of the unforgiveness, bitterness, resentment, and pain when you’re ready. These feelings will destroy you if you allow it. Your life is not over. God has a plan for His daughter. Please cling to Him, not religion. He will cover you. You are worthy, 🔥💯
My mother grew up in a Christian home, with parents that berated her for giving up her educational career to come along side my father to run his business. Even to point that my brother & i have been told by my grandparents our entire lives that what our parents do for a living is “lowly,” and we are less than for earning a clean living as fishing bait distributors. Thank you for the message that brings scriptural clarity to what i have always thought: my mothers willingness to put her career aspirations aside to follow my fathers vision for family excellence is the best choice for all of us. (And yes, my mother was an excellent teacher; now excellent as a business person). As a result, i see my parents being “fishers of men” daily at work. Frequent conversations with others on how God improves their lives, and if He has done it for us, He will do the same for others. Thank you, pastor, for confirmation that following Gods will is valued above cultural titles. We are to be about the business of the Kingdom as a family.
Love this! This encouraged me as working wife/mom turned stay at home wife/mom. I just want to please God by prioritizing my family! Thank you
Love to hear testimonies such as yours. Absolutely inspirational and edifying. That's so much for sharing.
These days you can’t tell the difference between believers and unbelievers. I’m glad I grew up in a Christian household and was taught to dress and act like a lady.
Praise the Lord, that's so wonderful, @SachelleCambria! My dear late Mother taught us 3 girls, my 2 sisters and I, how to be feminine, how to dress and act like a Christian lady, and that's how I raised my own now middle-aged daughter!
This message has me pulling up my dress to avoid showing cleavage, and i am by myself. That is how powerful the message is 🙏
Amen
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love it! That’s how it ought to be
Yes!
When you practice it when no one is looking, it becomes second nature ❤
Pulling down my skirt 😢
Haven't even heard the video yet but seeing this comment first in the thred had me do the same thing 😅❤
Every woman, young and old, every man young and old should listen to this message😊
Speaking with my Pastor, he told me I was a Titus II Woman. Read it, but this sermon brought it home. Respect & Blessed Be Dr Baucham ✝️
Every time I hear Voddie I question many of the pastors I here preach as I wonder why they never preach/teach on these real issues. Hmmmm. 👏🏾 🙌
I say the same thing am blown away by his preaching am thankful that a came across him I listen to him a lot now
We live in a 2 timothy 2 world.. it would be a pleasure to be loved and have a man lay down his life... rare indeed. Most men step over women to get to the next woman
Very true yet this is very sad
The problem is not men..the problem is that we looking at the wrong men...There are alot of good men out there...I know coz have 2 sons n a husband who are godly men...n my sons are looking a good women but its proving to be a hard task!
@@anndey-oe8mzHa! I respectfully disagree with that, it is the men, (of course not all) but A LOT, (if you’re out there and single), it’s not that women are looking in the wrong places, and just like you stated, it’s the women too (your own sons can’t find a good one) 🤷♀️
@@anndey-oe8mzit is hard for your sons to find a good woman, because women get validation from the flesh. And when hurt etc they cannot see a good man from a bad man. They will always look for someone who will mistreat them too. Exactly what was preached. Men are more voyeuristic than women so they tend to ‘cheat’ as women are more emotionally led. Thats why there is this cycle of hurt from the emotional side and more lust from the male side.
@@browngirl2533Godly man don’t want worldly women. Which men today are still wanting. As Godly woman should date only Godly man. How hard is that to understand. Women are being pushed to love these worldly man by the media. To open their bodies for others not their husband. Even at church girls openly want a worldly man if he just acknowledged Jesus. Which doesn’t make him Godly man make him a false follower.
Mr. Voddie Baucham really hit the nail on the head about a mother worrying about splitting her love between baby #1 & baby #2
Oh, I wish I heard this message 30 years ago. Anyway, thank you Lord that I have heard it.
Me too. I wasn’t raised with any biblical beliefs or knowledge. I was a selfish young lady and didn’t want many children but as a mature woman I repented and regret I didn’t multiply as I was purposed. BUT GOD I hear you, there are children who need my biblical mothering. I will pray about adoption 🙏
I raised my son to know the difference in a good woman and one that has no respect for others .. also treat a woman the way you expect a man to treat me (mom) or sisters .. with respect .. make sure they believe in God ! That will make your marriage strong you become one ❤ but when they go out into this wicked world they stumble to get what they want they feel is good and find on their one but will remember your words .. and say I should have listened and that’s ok it’s never too late to include God in your life… I love this guy because he preaches the sermon no one really want to hear and we need to hear ALL of the Bible … peace to everyone!
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He’s so on point you know I thought growing up in the 90s what I wore was skimpy but now when I go to the mall today, everything is cropped there’s barely any fabric on anything, and this is normalized. We need to understand what it means to be consecrated as a response to Gods love.
“to what aspect of my person am I drawing attention today and is that honoring Christ” thank you Voddie
Recovering Feminist here, LOVING this message! ❤
Same ❤
Awesome!! Blessings!!🔥
I wish I had this message as a teen, wow. But it’s never too late
Amen
Amen! God Redeems! Praise the Lord!
Sorta frustrating. I’m a single mom for 8 years. I used to homeschool while being abused. I finally left him. No child support and I’ve been working NONSTOP for 8 years- had to put my kids into public school. I’m barely home. When I am I’m attending the kids. But it’s hard to teach them how to run a home, live each other, or anything. I do my best. Nobody from church has ever been willing to help me. It’s pretty sad. I’m not mad- but the coaches at school are raising my boys. It’s hard being a man to boys as a female. I’m barely able to cook. They do that for themselves. As teenagers- they take care of each other a bit. It’s painful to hear these messages. I feel backwards and alone.
Sis Christ Jesus is with you. Explain to them this message, some times it will help them build stable families. You can still make a difference the Holy Spirit being your helper.
@@Megan-ih1zi I’m definitely teaching “them” (I think you’re referring to my kids)? The need for stable healthy God centered relationships and families so they have better situation than I did. The reason I struggle with these messages is not because the Holy Spirit isn’t helping me…. It’s the dynamic of being in a male/ female ROLE which allows me to be myself. I want to live the life he’s describing. It’s Biblical, and so many years I am single being the man/ provider- and it’s lonely and hard. It just is. I have good and bad seasons- but I always desire to have a family again, and enjoy being a woman, in my feminine role. That’s what this message is about. Being “home with the kids” isn’t what I do. I can’t. See? They don’t necessarily need the help to see how terrible single mom life is. I never signed up to be abused either. Hope deferred…. has made my heart sick. Waiting so long sick.
@JennyAmigo31 My heart is with you, sis. There are still many positive things they are learning from the present circumstances. 2. Do you remember the heavenly blessings in Ephesians? They are ours as children of God. There is absolutely nothing that our God can not do. That day will come to pass and the rest will be history. Restoration is real.
@@JennyAmigo31Do you live in Oklahoma?
Sorry this is very unfortunate but God understands your situation everything won't be perfect for us because we live such in a fallen world...the Lord is definitely with u even down to the coaches helping out with ur kids im pretty sure your children will turn out amazing ..shoot I had both parents and still went down a path of destruction because we didn't have Christ...youll be happy and amazed one day that your children turned out so great and they will recognize when their older all that u sacrificed for them and love you dearly and give you the world...just keep clinging to Christ and be a reflection of him the Lord will be with you God bless you and Happy Sabbath ❤...also if the church isnt helping you and sees your struggle maybe u should find a new church...the church is supposed to be our family and a helping hand in the time of need especially for single mothers 🌹
Amen. Praise the Lord, Jesus for leading me here, and saving me through His grace, I am praying I can become this kind of godly biblical woman to serve and obey my God's will and vision for me and for those I get to serve Him with as wife, mother, and faithful daughter to her Heavenly Father's Law, for it is GOOD. So much repentance and unlearning are needed. I was a wretched, evil woman. Still feel her come through sometimes...But He has changed my heart of stone for a heart of flesh, and now I yearn only for Him, for our Lord to help me transform into he eomwn he created me to be-for the Truth of His vision, and He is the Truth. So much sn in my flesh. And even more gratitude to Him, Jesus who chose to save me from death in my sin and arrogant, rebellious ignorance of His Holy Love. Thank you pastor Baucham, may God continue to bless your ministry and your wife and children, and those of us receiving this guidance and leadership - may we grow in our faith in our God, Jesus Christ, by His Holy Spirit, protecting us from evil and temptation, as we walk sisters and brothers in Him, together.
There was some hard truths in this sermon that I needed to hear and I have some things to work on and pray about like dressing more modesty (not wearing tight clothes) and being submissive to my husband.
Had to come back to this massage ❤i was re-entering the world
Kinda depends on which woman of the Bible we're talking about. A biblical woman might look like Deborah and lead a country and prophesy what God says over them, run a business and be generous with her profits like Lydia or the Proverbs 31 woman, teach God's word over others like Priscilla, study God's word like Mary Magdalene and then sharing what you learn, or even killing a dictator like Jael did. There are countless ways to be a Biblical woman - not just one.
This is real the most realest message I’ve heard so far Amen God bless you all, I’ve met only that type of women for so long that I’ve decided to stay single I’ve been single for 10 plus years now no kids no matter how hard they tried, I said no I just knew in my heart This isn’t Holy, I’m near my 40 years, every woman or should I say girls cause age don’t matter I’ve met women in the 40s still doing the club thing and dressing up like a bunch of jazze bells it’s scary not sexy or sophisticated it’s just disgusting. But in Jesus Christ I’ve trusted my wife will come some day and she will be a wonderful human being with Jesus Christ in her life and decent.
Only four-and-a-half minutes in, and absolute gold.
Edwardian dresses are so pretty.
Wow this is deep Pastor Voddie
"And the truth shall set you free!" Not because you want it to, but because you NEED it too. Amen?! Thank you Voddie Bauchman for tough spiritual meat to chew on instead of baby food which can only take you so far. I needed to hear this again in my life and be reminded of the cause in which I must stand always as a wife and mother.
6th time listening to this 😅
Beautiful isn't it
This is my 3rd 😅 and I'm sharing it with everyone I think it'll bless.
Sooo much blessings to hear the word of God, who loves me and care, and teach
This message is transformative!
I asked for help got none, my husband ask for an accountability partner and not one man volunteered. There is little help in today’s church’s for those who struggle.
I'm so sorry! But the answer is to find a better church body! They're out there! God's best!
@@annmelvin4170 very hard to fins especially. Southern CA
THE CHURCH I ATTEND WOULD BE GLAD TO DISCIPLE YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND AND COME ALONG SIDE OF YOU SISTER. THEY HAVE SO MANY GOOD CLASSES FOR COUPLES AND SINGLES. 12025 Industrial Ave, South Gate, CA 90280 COMMUNITY OF FAITH BIBLE CHURCH 9AM COUPLES CLASS, 10.30 AM WORSHIP SERVICE
The way even elderly women like myself dress today is extremely difficult for me to have to look at! My sweet late Mother always dressed modestly and taught us, her 3 daughters, to dress modestly also!
Already amazed
And it's the truth..
I needed this ❤
Powerful illustration of comparison at the end!
Amen! This nan keeps it REAL
Love this message, have come back to it over the years
Amen pastor.
God bless u, your family and your channel brother/sister, but may i know the exact name of this sermon?😇❤️🩹🛣️✝️
4:16 i legit was thinking that
“Do you have something with more?” 🤣😭🙏🏾
Seriously!
That’s a beautiful purpose they have !!!!
I tought this one was going to be for us, to help us make a good choice
I would love to get some feedback to my questions; I ask genuinely not just for debate
1)His definition of love is rather neutral, neither positive or negative, "acting on behalf of the object that is loved". Why doesn't the definition say something like "acting to benefit the one that is loved"?
2) Can womanhood ever be separated from marriage and motherhood? How can women who are not wives or mothers act biblically?
3) Are there any characteristics of womanhood that also apply to men (reverence, purity, something else not mentioned in the video)?
4)Condoleeza Rice can leave her job at any time. The ax murderer is an unrelateable example. I have seen Christian men cheat, not provide for their family, r4pe children, and all kind of other things that are not Christlike. What does it actually mean to live in submission to that kind of man? No one is perfect but the joke he made does not build hope in me. If the husband wants to leave, the submissive wife remains. If she wants to leave, he goes with her to make her submit.
1. The object that is loved is first and foremost the lord. On both sides of the marriage. Then each other.
2. Yes. Of course. Women can act biblically if they aren’t married or mothers. A woman who seeks God first, who uses her work, her hands, and her gifts to make more of Jesus. Who acts pure and diligent.
3. Men are first and foremost accountable to God. They have a much higher responsibility than women in that regard. They are responsible for loving their wives, sacrificing their wants and needs for their wives and families, working together in mutual respect and patience.
4. If a man leaves, is he upholding his covenant before the Lord? Again, he is responsible to the Lord for his actions. Sovereign God isn’t up there choosing who he forgives, he works in every person through every sin…Vodie did give an example of this. If the man is acting outright sinful, the woman does not use the opportunity to seek vengeance or ill will, nor does she partake in the sin, but continues to grow spiritually and seek to her church for counsel. The goal is restoration, on both sides, not separation. If she is abused, or cheated on, there are clear guidelines in scripture for the family and of the churches role to assist. That’s why it’s so important to be a part of a church that loves Jesus and holds true the word of God.
Good points. I would also like to add the importance of choosing our husband's and wives. To throughly get to know the person AND their family. Their relationship with their parents, especially father. The most important relationship they must have is with God and Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. These cannot be simple words. The man or woman must display their commitment to God and our Savior daily. We, in time, will plainly see if they are a person of God. If someone is an abuser or has severe mental issues, emotional issues, God will reveal these things to you so that you may flee from wickedness. But we must use discernment that God gave us. I say these things as a young man who Jesus Christ recently just pulled me back into his flock. I realized the error of my ways, and was going down a dark path. God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit spoke to me in October 2024 to stop what I was doing (sexual immorality and lustful things) and to read the Bible quickly. Once I started, I realized I been going against God for so long and committing horrible sins against Him and my body. I now realize im not to have sex until I marry, and only to a woman who is of God and seeks a lifetime relationship with him. If im to never find a woman to marry, ill never have sex again, as it's a horrible sin to God's body he gave me. All this to say, its important to choose a wife or husband of God. Not just marry anyone. No child of God needs to be with a man or woman who physically and emotionally abuses them. It saddens me when I read about this, but we glorify not God, but looks and status in our modern times. Anyway, good comment. Ill pray for everyone in this comment section. God bless you
@@mfernandez4338
Could someone share the source of this sermon? It was in chicago but I would like to find the "original" pls
My counselor is telling me to allow my husband to watch porn. That I need to have a secure attachment not an attachment of anxiety where I'm forcing him to behave. ...I don't know how to balance where it's my biblical duty that his body is mine and submit to him (he thinks porn is fine)...while recognizing that his sin is his sin. The book of 1st Peter, where submit to my husband. And obey the Lord myself.
What do I do?
Pray and ask that your husband would be convicted of his sin and that Jesus would walk along side him as he over comes it. That his eyes would be open. Amen
Your counselor is wrong. As a Christian woman I have been exactly where you are. I am so so sorry.
Firstly...your counselor is giving you the world's advice. It is a failure.
Jesus says that to look on a woman with lust is to commit adultery in your heart, and it wasn't a metaphor. A man looking at porn is literally having sex with her in his mind.
The world makes all of us (in crude terms) cuckolds and depressed. You're being prescribed psychological arsenic. I was told the same. I will tell you now...if you aren't one of those women who "brush it off", you will never have this imaginary secure attachment.
As a woman whose husband was a porn addict, I can tell you honestly that it is a near equivalent to being cheated on relentlessly. It stole my sanity and my weight and my hair. It stole him, his touch, and his manhood. Modern psychology is lying to us and making us willing victims of adultery, and I can not stress that enough. Science backs up what is happening in porn addiction, and it is not good.
While you are to submit to your husband, he is sharing his (your) body with other women. Period. You are not "making him behave", you are asking for loyalty. You are asking for Biblical manhood, not overpowering him. In the same way that you should object if he began practicing paganism, you should object to adultery.
Is your husband a believer in any way?
Find a new counselor. A Christian counselor
Please get rid of that counselor, try to find someone faith-based, the porn is dangerous to a relationship, I will only cause more complex issues down the line. Maybe find a pastor or respected male who could counsel your husband. I'll definitely be sending you prayers❤
You need to seek Biblical counseling. That counselor is giving you terrible, unwise counsel. Time to find better counseling.
Love this!
Great video
I would just comment that age based ministry is not of the devil as per min 6-it is Wisdom. And wisdom is the “principle thing” according to Proverbs! This does not mean children should be excluded from main church services all the time, but it is also wisdom to teach kids on a level of simplicity they can understand. I learnt very little in church as a child but still remember many things thanks to Sunday school.
Amen God bless Voddie
Ouch!
Thank you 🙏🏼 God bless
😂😂... Man, this man is preaching. ❤ Take us back Lord 😭
I'll tell y'all. I was issued ABUs in the military and I didn't get them altered or anything. One of the men told me they could still see my curves under the ABU top. Sometimes it's not our fault. I was harassed no matter what.
I don't think that's what this message meant. I think it means to not put it out there on purpose, don't go looking for the attention. Some women walk around with just covering a tiny bit of their parts but let everything else hang out. We have curves as women, but don't go flaunting it. And your right, men will still make statements even when we're covered up modestly. How we react to that is what matters too.
Keep in mind we live in modern Sodom and Gomorrah times. The media has brainwashed, with the help of lazy parents whom many don't shape their lives around God, to believe physical looks, money, and status is king. Even above God. Many men chase after lust and sex as I did. They do not know any better because of their parents, and the constant bombardment of lustful media online and on TV. Sexual immorality is a horrible sin most, if not all of us are guilty of. Please choose the right man if you are to marry. Make sure he is a man of God and lives by his ordinances the best he can. You need to do the same. God bless you all.
Solid
Amen ❤
Amén 🌹
My favorite comment was the comment about buying clothes for his daughter. “Hoochie mama central haha”
Does anyone have the link to the Sunday school message Coffee refers to?
May i know which sermon is this from? Thank you
All I can say is wow. Praise God I am convicted
I wish someone would have told me all these things 10years ago...
You finally heard it. Means God loves you. It's not too late
I feel the same, but now I teach it to my young daughter, thank you God
Did you not have a bible 10 years ago?? Its all there if you woulda just opened it
@@sweezyjackson4935 no I didn't have a bible 10 years ago. I got my first Bible 3 months ago.
@sweezyjackson4935 I have had a bible for over 40 years and had read Titus 2 many times, but I have never heard it the way Voddie has explained it!
Agreed. Christian men should also be aware of becoming false teachers too.
18:00 🙏🙏🙏
Please explain what reverent actually means! Can I disagree with my husband? He believes I am critical and unsupportive if I don’t agree with plans.
I think it's okay to voice you disagree but if he makes a final decision then you as wife must support him and do everything to help him see it through. If it turns out to have been a bad decision then you don't throw it in his face saying, "See I told you so".
Also, I don't believe you have to support him if what he is asking involves sinning. That's where you can put your foot down and follow the Lord.
I don't speak on behalf of the pastor in the video but from my own thoughts and what I have learned over the years. God bless!
Your husband is not God. You are not unintelligent. God considers us. He serves us.
@Reviewland963 do you read the bible? Jesus said himself that he came to serve. Read the gospels.
I don't understand why we have so many men telling Christian women how to be women. If we don't believe women can teach men how to be men, why are men doing so for women? Doesn't the Bible say the older WOMEN need to teach the younger WOMEN? The double standards we have in Christianity are what drive so many away from the church.
There was one for men too. Anyone have the link?
Has anyone located the segment of the sermon where he addressed us men or husbands?
I had it will re upload it
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He got on mens head , and rightfully so and i enjoyed it. But when my ex wife heard this all she said was misogyny. I said , no he is just holding up a mirror to you like he did to me .
Love these Ted Talks!
Older couples could still adopt and raise children for many years
Yes older parents are often better
A woman can draw attention just by the airs she carries when she walks in the room… teach modesty. Period.
Note: a lusting man will lust no matter what
. If he's listing no matter what, that's on his soul. But if I'm going around trying to get the boys to lust after me, that's on my own soul. Right?
How should a biblical man act???? Men are the leaders of their homes and their wives should know how to "act" because they have graciously, lovingly guided them.
Hi, thanks for this audio, it’s really helpful.
But I have a question.
He spoke about sunday school is culture influenced and the same with groups of kids the same age
Where can i find the data about this wich supports this argument?
Sorry for my broken english - greetings from Germany 🙋🏻♂️
I don't have that sermon. Hopefully I will find it and post it
It’s not really a sermon; just research online the origins of Sunday School
@@debras3806 Thank you! ;)
Thank you Voddie for teaching on Ephesians 5 and the misuse of verse 21 to try to suggest mutual submission in marriage. God did not make an error when He designed marriage & family. Anyone who reads Ephesians 5 with an open heart, spirit, and in CONTEXT can clearly see that it is NOT teaching that husbands submit to wives. That is why the parallel between Christ & the church is mentioned. Christ never submits to the church. The relationship IS hierarchal and the authority/headship rests with ONE party, and it is not the woman/the church.
I know modern feminists and Christian women who have been poisoned and deceived by feminist ideology absolutely hate it but true women of God see the purpose of it & that Christ Himself demonstrated submissiveness to the will of the Father, even unto death for our sakes. It is not weak or inferior to be submissive--it takes great strength and truly, it can only be done by loving and being empowered by the Holy Spirit.
Submission only comes through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.
If a man does not submit to Christ his wife won’t submit to him. And yes the man is to submit to Christ and he shouldn’t argue about it.
When a man is submitted to the Lord he does not practice any sexual immorality - 1 Thessalonians 4:2,3 and he walks in joy, peace and righteousness - Romans 14:17.
@@kmountain5533 Untrue. A man may not submit to Christ--the wife is still commanded to submit to her husband. As Voddie explained, conditional submission is not God-honoring.
@@kmountain5533 Wives are commanded to submit to their husbands in the fear of Christ. Wives are not absolved of that responsibility just because the husband is not obedient. Your opinion is false and you have no biblical basis for it. I may not agree with Voddie on everything, but he is 100% correct on this topic. I pray the Lord convict you of your rebellion.
We need dressmakers to make a come back
I’m not trying to be a clothes line evangelist, but I’m so tired of women’s business hanging all out there.
Amen 🙏
Overall another excellent sermon. One stupid comment, that old men leave their wives for younger women because they want the affection of a daughter.
Rather because after a few years after marriage wives stop being sexually responsive. Obviously I speak in generalities but for the most part men get a younger woman for the sex they're not getting at home anymore. Cold sex as a duty is insufficient.
That's not an excuse of the man's sinfulness BUT rarely is the wife who starves her husband of sexual affection spoken to as also sin.
If you’re a genuine born again believer, while the situation of sex in the marriage needs healing, you don’t go out of the marriage and have sex with a younger woman/any woman. It’s willful sin, and you are not excused to commit it. Work on your marriage. Start loving your wife. Be present. Ask God for wisdom in healing your intimacy issue. This idea of adultery in a Christian home is deplorable. Walk in holiness. Choose your spouse.
@@karinteeples9715 I agree completely that to seek affection from a different woman than your wife is wrong. However, I do NOT believe most men who do commit adultery do so for just emotional support. It might start that way but some sort of physical intimacy usually results when a man and woman not related are emotionally close. Now consider your reaction. You put the entire burden on the man as if it is always or even most commonly his fault. You automatically default to a misandric gynocentric view. I remind you the BIBLICAL advice in most cases of a contentious woman is to stay away rather than pursue her.
@@JRRodriguez-nu7poIt was the MAN who wanted to go out of the marriage and sleep with another woman, not his wife. So yes, I put 💯blame on him for that sinful act. Truth~ we all need continual healing and biblical restoration in our hearts and thoughts. If a truly godly biblical marriage is revealing adultery and sexual misconduct being committed ~ it is sin. And I question if they are genuine believers. Their fruit stinks.
@@karinteeples9715 Women of course never commit adultery. Nor is it sinful for wives to weaponize sex.
@@JRRodriguez-nu7poNo. she is just as guilty and choosing sin and immorality too. She made the choice. She is in sin. 💯😊
Eph Ch 4:22???
I agree with this for the most part, however, when it comes to the way dads treat their daughters, I don't agree that the reason men go looking for relationships with younger women is due to not being able to be affectionate with their daughters. There are some great men out there, that can keep a relationship with their daughter fatherly affectionate. There are also a lot of men that molest their daughters as soon as they come close to puberty, and even more so for step-dads. Because of this, I would be very cautious in pushing physical affection between dads and daughters as an overarching rule.
The statistics say that of girls that are sexually molested, 53% are abused by their biological fathers; 15% by stepfathers, and 8.8% by uncles. One in 9 girls and 1 in 20 boys under the age of 18 experience sexual abuse or assault.
? 👏🏼👏🏼Does anyone have the link for the MEN?
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Are you in AK? If so, what church do u attend?
Amen
1:05:45 is the truth and feminism doesn't like it. Working for a boss she will do and won't disrespect. Her husband though....means nothing unless shes been taught to be a wife and love her husband biblically.
The 'Christian' women who were probably shouting "AMEN!" when he addressed Men sure were quiet as a church mouse...
Because the devil brainwashed this world into being backwards from Gods word
He is a Godsend
Is there a place for single women anywhere? In church we get looked over and society scorns us. I couldn't even get a straight answer from a pastor. I'm not looking for a husband and I don't want any children.
There is a place for everyone in the kingdom of God. Single or Married, God's Sovereignty Rules. Whatever estate we find ourselves, it is essential to recognize that God’s sovereignty governs all things. We glorify God by trusting His wisdom and goodness in the estate He has placed us in. Thomas Watson, summed it up nicely,
“Wherever God has placed you, it is to glorify Him by contentment in Him. Contentment in God's plan brings glory to Him”
But I don’t think it’s right for Christians to say, “I don’t want a husband and children”, we should say, “Lord, I belong to you and you know what’s best for me, if you want me married, I will do that to your glory and if you want me single, I will glorify you in that as well… Thy will be done on earth as it is and heaven”
@@Contramundum-777i use to not want children or to get married. Reading the Bible and reconnecting with Jesus Christ has brought me back to my senses and all the sinful things I was doing and saying. I would honestly love to have a wife and kids, but its up to God. If God is to bless me with a loving wife of Christ and children, I will gladly accept; So that now my wife and I can worship Christ together and raise God's children.
“older girls” please tell us the difference between woman and girl.
I know that a woman does what she must, and a girl, does what she wants.
You'll have to listen to the sermon again. He explains it fully between a woman and a girl and how they should act.
What year was this sermon?
I so love truth. So thankful he doesn't hold back and speaks of life lessons. Hoping the "Biblical Man Sermon" is just as meaningful 🙏🏽
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Selah ❤🙇♀️✝️🙇♀️❤️🔥
A long time ago, mothers made clothes for their daughters 😮
Powerful and so needed in 2024
I love all of my 4 kids and i would still ask him.
That beautiful 😍
Thats why husbands shouldnt leave their wives. Because she is supposed to devote her life to her home. And a woman shouldnt leave her husband and kids. Because her children need her and her husband is supposed to commit to providing protecting and leading his wife and their children until death
Where are these teaching woman. I’m old never learned how to be a wife and mother. Those with problems get no help. Smile and say nothing not to get involved!
I generally love his teachings, however suppose a couple did not have this discussion prior to marriage and mom and dad have to work to pay the bills. Or even a young woman has gone through medical school and is now a physician working in their field... surely there is a way to be a Godly woman and still work. and Still Love God and raise your children in a Godly home. I am not at all offended by this sermon. I just think it offers no Grace for women who work because they have to, or they have been called to use their gifts outside of the home.
Isn’t our calling to stay at home as Titus 2 says?
Dec 17 2024🎉🎉🎉❤️
Good luck finding a woman like Voddie (and the Bible) described- even in the church.
The woman shouldn't act in in one way or the other according to Calvinists. You're either elected or not
I find it strange he actually believes God's word about this but denies what His word says about so many other very important things. How dies he kn ih w what is the truth?
Kindly elaborate. Don't understand. What did he denied?
@@GODSTRUTH3236 He does not believe in the literal millinium, he is an amillinialist. There is no such thing as literal 1000 year reign of Christ, it is spiritual, no such thing as literal 144,000 Jews who will evangelize, allegorical. No telling what else. He is also reformed= Calvinist.
@@donnaguyton153 You make no sense.