I'm 22 and because of some family issues, I didn't get the blessing of learning wisdom from elders. Your perspectives help me understand what matters in the long term and how I wish my life to unfold. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us, I learn so much! 🥰
Good for you! It's awesome that you are open to learning! Each generation has much to teach each other, as long as we are open to LEARN! Many blessings......
love your comments, sandra. i'm 92, widowed, and live alone. my oldest daughter keeps telling me that she thinks i should be in a senior residence. i'm resisting, since i'm still able to keep my home reasonably clean, do my laundry, etc. i like my privacy, my three bedroom house, my bible study group. i love that i can drive to the grocery store, and to church. i love to read, paint, work the hardest crosswords. i want to continue living this way, as long as i'm able. you inspire me, lovely lady !
Rosie, you sound just like my 95 yr old mother! We children are so fortunate to still have you mothers in our lives. God be with you, especially in this Easter season.🌷🌿✝️🌿🌷
Rosie, the people who love us most want the best for us… but what is best for them is not necessarily best for me. I listen to them but let them know, gently, that I don’t appreciate being dictated to.
cliff longlands Just found you Sandra , I am a young 76 man ,live in Normandie ,France and I breed the French competition Selle Francais horses , so like you ,have a business , I feel that it keeps the brain and body active and give's zest for life ,I am by myself lost my Wife in 2019 ,married for 53 years ,so a big blow .In fact I suffered from P T S D .I like your life organization and will indeed use some of your tips ,ie the wardrobe being so tidy and in drawers ,not on so many hangers , I think the direct debit payments is essential ,saves so much time . I shall follow you on a regular basis , now I have found you thanks for the tips cliff .
Welcome Cliff. It’s so nice to have you here. I understand the loss of a spouse. It sometimes is a long grieving process. Good that you are moving on and still living life. Thanks so much for sharing. My daughter has bred thoroughbreds.
I'm 80 yrs young....I work each day to make myself active especially...thinking of other folks..not myself...Reach out...to complete strangers...Talk....Talk...when you make the FIRST MOVE...you'll be surprise to their welcome...Make up a project each day....
Thank you so much. I like this approach to meal planning. I have never done it and have resisted it. But as i get older, it is the perfect way to save money also. I tend to cook when i feel like it and then freeze food. At a minimum I can combine an inventory of the freezer with meal planning.
Hi Sandra … Thank u for your posted videos and thoughts. This one struck a chord with me. I just had my 73rd birthday. I was my husband’s caregiver for almost 8 years. He died with dementia two years ago. In an instant(2012), I became not only his caregiver but the sole financial provider for our family. What a shock! During the last couple of years of his life, caregiving became a full time job, so, like u, I began to brainstorm as to how I could simplify my life, save time and conserve energy and do the most important things begging for my attention. The first thing I did was to get off social media (Facebook); it was difficult at first but became one of the best decisions I ever made. I still have not and will not resume posting on FB. I do “troll” sometimes secretly but never ‘like’ or comment when I do. The next thing I did was cut my hair. It was below-waist length, and I loved doing fun things with it such as Pom-Pom pigtails and Indian braids, occasionally wearing it down and curled. And the third thing I did was buying a rebounding trampoline and putting it in my art studio and ending my Y membership and stopped attending exercise classes - which were great fun, but there was no longer time in my schedule for that. I have kept my hair short since, continue to rebound for exercise and just had 5 tons of riverbed rocks delivered to my home that I am arranging in my ever expanding fantasy gardens - that’s great daily exercise and gets me outside in the fresh air and sunlight. Again, thank u for your inspiring posts!! Just had to share today. I’ve never commented before. ♥️
GingerLou, Thank you so much for sharing your story with us today. We do have to make adjustments when we are the sole caregivers, don’t we? Thank you for letting me know what you’re doing now that your time is more for yourself. Good luck with your beautiful gardens. It sounds wonderful
Dearest Sandra, Thank you for sharing such confidence in ways to move forward especially when life throws some curve balls our way! We all have those times and it is so important not to get so overwhelmed that we lose ourselves in the process. You really do seem to know how to do that so very well. I am so inspired by you and how you manage to remind all of us to bring our focus in on the incremental ways to handle what can sometimes be disorienting and/or frustrating. I am so happy that you have found ways to enjoy your precious time with Arthur and I am sure that your daughter also is a great comfort. Thank you as always, with great respect and love, Dee.♥️ PS Your hair looks beautiful! Have a blessed week!
Excuse me? You’ve simplified your life? OMG! I’m about three years younger than you, and your “simplified” life runs rings around me. I’ve always considered you amazing, but that doesn’t describe the half of it. This video has convinced me to spend less time sitting around on my tush and accomplish more while I still have time. Truly can’t thank you enough.
You are one beautiful woman! I am six decades younger and you are my favorite RUclips channel. I love your zest and spirit. Your content is phenomenal and I am learning so much from you. Forever a fan.
I am 27 and will be 28 this year. My family is complicated and so I grew up without my mother and still don’t have her to this day. I am a mother now and I have to say: I appreciate your videos so much. These are truly a blessing to me. I have been in a funk for awhile now and listening to you, is bringing me out of it. Bringing me into this next stage of my life and womanhood.
This is one of the best videos on being a minimalist for someone over 60. I will turn 69 this fall, I have been widowed for almost 7 years, I'm retired, and my almost 90 year old mom died at the beginning of this year. This is the first time in my adult life that I have lived alone, am not the caretaker for someone, am not working, and can pretty much plan my days for myself. There are so many books I want to read or listen to, wonderful You Tubers to follow, and my small home to take care of that I am never bored or lonely. I am so glad that I have found your channel because, although I love watching the younger You Tubers, I can't quite relate to their stage of life anymore 😃 I think I'll go binge-watch a few of your earlier videos !! Thanks so much.
"Human feelings and comfort are more than material things.... and Grateful of all I have.", totally agree. Thank you for all the information you are sharing like the 'multitasking' - which I believe is a spice of life, 'organizing' which makes life easy, 'blocking' and 'breaking'. 'Meal plan and spacing' very essential. Have nothing to say may you and yours be blessed.
As a 38 year old stay at home mom of a toddler, I appreciate this video so much because it makes me realize that it is not just stay at home moms that get overwhelmed.
Well, you and Arthur must be doing something right to live to see 96yrs..I am surprise that you dont have a housekeeper a least once a week..I am 80yrs old n have a one bedroom apt and to keep my place clean n do my own shopping n wash my own clothes I am exhausted somethings I have to let things go to get out of this,apt for a walk n relax myself.so, I dont know how you and Arthur do it plus he handles the finance that even exhausting plus you have two dogs to care for. .You and Arthur are Fantastic!! I admire you..i know I need a housekeeper so to don't tirer myself out..
I’m 36 and I’m attracted to watch this. So refreshing to watch. I love to live a quiet life even at this age. Material things no longer excites me. I wish to grow old gracefully like you 💕
Dear Sandra, My girlfriend & I just finished reading Behind the Magic Mirror and also Places Within My Heart. Both of us thoroughly enjoyed your books!! Sandra, dear friend, after reading Behind the Magic Mirror, all I can say is what an amazing woman you are. I don't know how you survived all you went through, but you did & look what you've accomplished!! You should be so proud of who you are . When watching you on RUclips, no one would ever know the hell you've been through. What an inspiration you are to so so many. Loved your message today. We all need to simplify our life & have less stress. I look forward to every Tues morning so much. Thank you, Sandra! xoxo
Nina, thank you so much for reading my story. It is one I never thought I would ever live, but it is made me the person I am today. We never know what tomorrow will bring, do we? Thank you for your kindness
Wonderful Sandra, I agree with Naomi in the comments below… Y.O.U. are a phenomenal lady and so beautiful inside and out! Just think you are helping many more people than you will ever know, because not everyone who watches your videos leaves a comment! How thrilling is that! I’m 72 and can say the content of your videos is helpful, thought provoking, and really do inspire. Your children must be so proud of you! P.S. I wish we were neighbors! 🥰 It’s such a blessing to have run across you on RUclips ‘cause listening to you makes me happy! Much love from your new subscriber in Arkansas!
@@lifewithsandrahart I am honored to be one receiving your practical wisdom and insights! This morning as I was opening the bedroom drapes, I could hear you talking about how good posture is so important and to pretend a string is attached to your head and pulling you up. I straightened up immediately, then laughed. I could see you practicing that and now I am following in your steps! Too fun! Hugs!
Love your channel Sandra you are so very wise. I’m 56 but I can already relate to what you say. I am a caregiver to my mother in law and I have to keep an organized life mentally and physically. You really help me.
Thank you, Sandra, for this so very gracious teaching on accepting and loving "what is". My life does not hold the same challenges, but I am learning also to "grow with the flow" instead of heaving my joy against the wall of changes that I am experiencing. A few years ago I had a coworker who was toxic, entitled, critical and judgmental. One day another coworker whispered to me, "I don't think she's been reading her 'Gracious Living' magazine! We howled with silent laughter and the saying has stuck with us ever since, in many situations. Gracious living is a choice and you, Dear Sandra, offer us regular lessons in graciousness that I deem invaluable. Thank you. xo karen
while visiting my daugher,I caught you on TV,I watched the show,romper room in the 60s, I'm so happy to find you,I'm in my sixty's now,you think through life so gracefully and so wonderfully productive,thank you
I just ordered “ Behind the Magic Mirror “ , I’m so happy to see all your other books, Miss Sandra. I’m really excited. And I never miss a video. In fact I watch some , over and over. Their very comforting. Thank you for making my days , so happy. You said you start your day’s by walking the dogs, I stare my days , with coffee and you. Johanna De Tore
Oh Sandra, I’ve been Maria Kondo folding my clothes for a few years now. 😊 I too use my iPhone for recording. I’m sorry that you had to give up your morning meditation and yoga. My mornings are busy and I find that when I’m in nature it’s relaxing and it’s a form of meditation. When I walk my almost 14-year-old poodle Dasher, he likes to prance and he still likes to run, so he’s all over the place. I will keep you and Arthur in my prayers. ❤️❤️ Blessings. 🦋
Lovely lady a joy to watch. I too had 10 years looking after my mother and husband with Alzheimer’s and I emerged after they passed away (at different times) a drained and empty person. Gradually I have put my life back together by cherishing friends, appreciating the simple things in life and enjoying them, and holding on to my faith in God. Your videos are the cherry on the top, thank you so much. Lynne in the UK
You are the Solutions Queen! I love it! Breaking up the cleaning process is the way to go for sure and meditative multitasking while dog walking is another excellent solution. Great tips and thank you for reminding us all not to keep walking into walls but to find solutions that work! You're awesome Sandra!🥰💃TY for the inspiration 😘
You are the symbol of how life should be, that’s why I enjoy watching you. These days is Almost impossible to maintain what you have done. Best wishes, you are lovely.
Sandra, thank you for the inspiration. My husband will be 92 in Oct. and I’ll be 78 in Dec. I worked as a nursing assistant and in the activities dept. in a nursing home until I had to retire back in 2009. I had to have the Whipple procedure surgery done at the Mayo Clinic because I had pancreatic cancer. In the past year my husband has lost some abilities and it’s an adjustment for both of us. I will keep you and Arthur in my prayers 💖.
Hi Sandra! I'm sure that your inspiration has become part of your children's networking. It will allow them to live their best lives. Watching them put these many Techniques to practice in there own lives must give you great satisfaction and pride. Thank you for helping to change the world, one child at a time. I Love you, Louise
Sandra, you are such a treasure! Your videos are meaningful to so many people. This one has motivated me to move forward after two years of what felt like stagnation. Your tips are so common sense and you show how to think through situations to find the best solutions!
Sandra, you are such a sweetheart! I LOVE your haircut. So nice that your daughter was able to cut it for you (a fun time for you to share with her!). You seem to be managing so well even though you are really busy. Such an inspiration to us all! Hugs from Texas.
Like "work in progress" says in her comment, we really learn a lot from you. And not only where the actual facts that you share with us are concerned, but also just in the way you are. Your calmness, willingness to adapt to life, gentle manner etc... You set a good example. Best wishes xx
You are so beautiful you are just the best I could listen to you all day and night nothing is a bother to you you are so calm nothing seems to phase you I am from Belfast in Ireland god bless you
Hi Sandra, organizing your clothes the way you do in your drawers I like that idea. I didn't know you wrote books. W O W ! What kind of books? You do your own house cleaning, etc n Arthur is in your schedule, of course. Wonder Woman. Thank you for your example Sandra. ❤
Thanks for watching. I recently wrote a book on happiness and my other books are memoirs and non fiction. Just go on Amazon and put Sandra Hart Books in search bar.
To simplify I have removed unnecessary furniture and most decor. I clean using Flylady system, a real game changer. Capsule wardrobe. Organized by having a home for everything. Space for art and crafts. Automated bill paying. Only use a debit card, no credit cards, use PayPal. Don't shop for fun. Nurture our garden for exercise and satisfaction, plus volunteer every week. I feel that I am coping well.
Hi Sandra! I just found your channel today and I’m so glad I did. I will be 63 this year, and even though I don’t feel ‘old’, I’ve had a bit of a hard time finding role models for this new time of my life. I simply can’t relate to a lot of the younger channels anymore. I will be catching up on a bunch of your previous videos very soon!
Welcome Doris. I am so happy that you found me and I hope that you will find a comfortable home here within this beautiful community that we have a caring women who want to leave them or purposeful life.
I wish if i had a grandma like u..i wish if i did not lose my grandparents at such a young age😩😭😭😭😭ur grandchildren r so lucky to hv u🥀😭may God bless u💖i just discovered ur channelll anndd m always listening to u bcz i learn a lot from ur wisdom and experiences ..and i feel home😩so thank u..
This video, Sandra, was very helpful. I buried my husband six weeks ago, he did the finances, the grocery shopping and anything outside the house, I did the inside. I now do everything. I am managing fine slowly but I'm getting there. Thank you for your knowledge.
What a beautiful video from a beautiful lady !! Love the haircut !! We are so close in age ! I have started minimizing my home , closets etc. but I am changing menu a little . Your counsel is exactly what I needed today . Yes , we need to pray for world peace !!
Tuesday mornings include some of my favorite "me time" watching your most recent videos. I have had to do a lot of simplifying my life, even when it has meant giving up something that I had really enjoyed in the past. I tell myself that was then, and this is now. It doesn't mean that I will never have fun again - it only means that a new kind of fun will take its place.
I’m impressed, Sandra, with the way you have reorganised and simplified your life since Arthur has returned home. I too am now a carer for my husband, who has health issues, and I can often feel overwhelmed and that my carefree life is now behind me. Your common sense and practical tips, plus your buoyant and positive approach to your situation has given me the inspiration and gumption I sorely needed.
Your haircut is beautiful. Tell your daughter she did a great job. I have come into a strange time of my life. My son has really bad anxiety so doesn't work or drive. My husband has chronic fatigue so just went on short term disability. My parents are divorced and my dad who lives close by has medical problems and can't drive now. I am taking him to the doctor several times a week. My husband's mom has no one to visit her close by except us so we go take her shopping every week. And my daughter is a nurse and needs me to take care of her dog every weekend because of her long hours. I feel like I am caring for everyone! I just found your videos and wanted to say thanks. I can relate. Diet, money, minimalism... all these things are really hitting me now and your videos are very helpful!
Jodi, Who is taking care of you? When we find ourselves in a situation like you are in it really is important that you try to find time for yourself during the day. I know it is hard because I am struggling with many of the same things you are. If we burn out how can we help others in our lives. Would it be possible that your daughter help you a bit during the week with your care of others? I know nurses have a busy schedule, but they do have days off and I’m sure she would love to help you bear some of the burden of your care responsibilities once in awhile. Even several hours one day a week will help you. Thank you so much for being here and I really appreciate your sharing your thoughts with me today.
Sandra, this is such a timely message for me! Things are changing in my home as well & I need to learn to always take a bit of time for me too! Thank you as always, Sandra.
Once again thank you for sharing your wisdom dearest Sandra! I will begin walking in the morning soon, now that it's warming up. I do read scripture and I thank God first thing, grateful for another day of precious life. I'm doing an ongoing purge, and you are inspiring me to reorganize! ❤🙏
I wish my mother had been a close friend and confidante. Growing up was trial and error. Nothing was explained about childbirth, menopause etc. just snide comments. So I learned the hard way. Your children and grandchildren must cherish you. I have a great deal of respect and admiration for you. I hate grocery shopping too. Thank you Sandra, enjoyed the video, as always.
Dear Madam, I stumbled upon your channel and, after watching two of your videos, I really fell in love with the content, your advices, your lifestyle and everything. What a graceful and charming human being you are!!! I'm 35 years old, and up to my early 20s, I lived with my grandmothers (4 of them from both sides of my parents) who sadly passed away and those were the most beautiful and formative years of my life. I always feel so grateful for the blessings of having had my beloved grandmothers when I was a little kid and I truly truly miss them every day of my life. Hearing you and listening to you reminded me of them and I can't tell you how happy I am that I found your channel. I pray God that you continue living a long, healthy and blissful life for many many more years to come. And I for sure will keep listening to you. God bless you always, Madam (I almost called you Mom as that is how I used to call my beloved Mummies). Sending you all my affection and kind regards (from my sweet Djibouti).
Thank you Sandra. I have been a caregiver for my mother who is now 91 for four years. I so appreciate these tips. I have recently hired a caregiver for three days a week. Like you I take care of everything too. The easier we can make it for ourselves the better.
Oh Sandra your life has changed when I lost my husband I had to learn to do all the financial things that he did,hate it Your daughter did a wonderful job with your hair cut. Glad to hear you take time for yourself that’s what I had to learn because at the end of the day I would fall on my face.So please do it ❤️
Sandra at 66 years old I am full time caregiver to my husband of 75 who has Parkinson's. I got some good ideas from this video...especially ordering my groceries online for delivery! I'm going to start doing that. I bet I'll save money. I know what you mean about making 'me time'...it's very easy to neglect that important time for ourselves but so important! Thanks for the reminders and tips! You really inspire me. BTW...Love the haircut!
I'm still working full time (but started a new very serious job). But I do this job at night, so this, for me makes my life easier. I shop online too, it helps ne stay on budget.
Overloading yourself can happened so easy then I’m inclined to start panicking. I’m very fond off giving myself a lecture, not that it always worked, but forsure calming me so that I can think better how and what I must do and how. Thankyou for your message it did me a lot off good. You must have a lovely evening.✨🌺✨🕊✨🌸✨
I have recently discovered the beauty of time blocks. I love it. It's so much less stressful, and I feel like I actually get more things accomplished. I love the part about leaving the grandchildren's fingerprints on the mirrors a little bit longer. I think that's wonderful. I do that too! Thank you for this video. I truly enjoyed it.
Thank you so much Eva. I used to have everything in order until I realized there are more important things to living, including my grandchildren’s sweet handprints in my mirrors!
I finally understand why my Mom went from constantly cleaning the house to not being so nuts about it. One needs to enjoy life as much as they can cause it goes by way too fast. I have always been such a clean freak and spent more time cleaning then anything else. Changing that now.
Good morning Sandra! First, your new shorter hair style looks amazing! It’s so uplifting! Brett did a great job! I, too, work on simplifying my life by decluttering, organizing and compartmentalizing things daily. Your videos are so inspiring to me on this journey we’re on! Thank you! Prayers for you, Arthur, Brett and world peace! Happy Easter! 🙏🏻✝💕
You are amazing. I love your kindness and wisdom. I so respect how you have transitioned so gracefully into the caregiver role. I wish you strength, peace and much love as your journey forward with the wonderful Arthur. He struck gold when he married you. Hugs, judy
First of all, your doughter is very talented, beautiful hair cut. Amazing that talking about the simple,and velued things in life,tuch every one,and are quite the same too,so many of us, from all ages listening to you every week,and get so much from you. Thank you and take care.
Wow girl I love your colors I’m so glad to see you’re out there all the beautiful colors of what you wear I do the same thing I love lots of color so beautiful I just learned appreciate the beauty of life colors life animals God’s creation the beauty of the colors is amazing
Merci pour vos importantes idées pour profiter de chaque heure de la journée. Merci pour votre leadership au niveau de simplifier nos journées. Prendre du temps pour soir est unique et si important. Merci Sandra!
Learning to say STOP is one of the most difficult for women. Especially to ourselves. My Mom was 93 when she passed while saying her nap time prayer. She was active - always. Had taken care of my Dad who suffered w alzheimer’s for 10 yrs. so now i listen to your videos and it reminds me ❣️
You certainly have given your life and service to your parents. No regrets but I know it’s a lot of hard work. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this topic
Thanks Sandra. I'm going to try your clothing organization tips. With all you are doing each day maybe once every week or two let your daughter spend a day or few hours with Arthur, if possible so you can have some more free time to do whatever. Looking gorgeous and God Bless 🥰
Yes you need that "me" time when you are a care giver It is exhausting and you do have to be organized Its not easy and even then there will be days when you feel overwhelmed and so very tired Walking the dogs is a wonderful time for walking meditation and to breath even cleaning can be a wonderful time to meditate We need our down time (bubble bath)? or just to sit quietly and have a cup of tea I I took care of my husband for many years and I took care of everything (including my business ) and since he passed in October it has been another kind of life change Life is always changing Spend as much time a you can with you loved ones Time is the one thing we never have *we only think we do* Enjoy your videos as always
I'm disabled, able to walk around the house & that's it. I really do appreciate all that my partner does for me, I know it's a nuisance now & then, I feel sad that unable to do much & I try my best to give him a good life so on a 'good day' we will go out for a drive in the countryside & take our 2 adorable toy poodles out to run around in the grass & my partner playing with them. Those days are so special to me, especially when my Mum joins us. She's been thru such a lot, she's getting frailer & needs more attention than ever before. I have dinner with her everyday now & I feel like I'm the mother now. It feels so strange. I Thank God that my partner helps me to be with her everyday. Care givers deserve a medal 🏅💞 for their hard work they do, being with their loved ones is all you need. Love is so precious, treat it with respect & you will receive more & more respect & love. 💗
I'm not a caregiver, per se, but right now, I feel like taking care of myself is a full-time job as I navigate new health issues. (Taking care of myself has always felt "illegal" so I also have to come to terms with that, not to mention that it's a big part of what got me into this condition.) The specific things you shared here were very helpful; the principles behind them, even more so. Thank you so much for your gentle transparency and your kind & encouraging way of sharing your wisdom with us. Love you, Sandra.
God bless you yes I love my husband too you got appreciate your mate And of course we learn the values of how we are helping one another I’m always there for my mate my husband I want to be there for him and I want him to be there for me we do in our own way but God bless him and God bless us we all need his help
Hi Sandra, love the new hair cut and your videos. Retired for 6 months now and find cleaning the house throughout the week easier for me too. Started meal planning when my kids started sports in school as it was easier to manage things. So appreciate your sharing ideas that work for you. Praying for you, Arthur, your family, and world peace.
So happy to have found you!💗 A breath of fresh air & the sweetest blessing….at any age! Thank you for sharing a positive outlook & valuable insight in such a special, heartfelt way! You are a beautiful person…inside & out! With gratitude!💐 Jackie😊
No words for your inspiration and your organised way of living. I turned 40 a month back and have been neglecting myself and my health since a few years. Like you’ve mentioned, I had reached a breaking point, and also thought it’s too late now to reset myself. However, your videos, which I am watching regularly now, are inspiring me, and I am slowly trying to motivate myself to positivity. ❤ thanks dear🙂
I could really relate to this week’s vlog. My husband will 90 this year and is in cognitive decline so paying the bills, taxes etc is now my responsibility too. I’ve simplified our monthly bills but haven’t gone to auto pay on all (yet) and I agree about receiving our credit card bill in the mail so I can scrutinize it myself each month ( I could do it online but choose not to). We’ve scaled way back on clutter and possessions in 2020. I like the house to be on the minimal side (easier to keep clean) and don’t feel overwhelmed- you and I think a lot alike and we are doing a good job taking care of our husband and ourselves ❣️
Rebecca, Thank you so much for sharing your situation with your husband. Our allies are probably pretty similar in the care department. I know that you understand what caregiving entails
Hello Sandra😍! It's very important to simplify our lives. It makes us less anxious. The best thing is to be nice with yourself, I learned that at my 51😊Nice listening to you! Lots of love from Greece 🇬🇷💖
i'm so Impressed with your sense of organization. I know I have to organize my clothes. You really inspire me. I guess my weeks get muddled up with doctors appointments. I so admire you.
I don’t know how you do it. Caring for your husband is a full time job. I know because I have caring for my parents since Dec.22, 2021. God your a saint.
@@lifewithsandrahart Thank you for commenting back to me,it is appreciated. My sisters-in-law gave me a break today which was needed. I hope someone gives you a break, it makes a big difference in our mental well being. Takes Care
I'm 22 and because of some family issues, I didn't get the blessing of learning wisdom from elders. Your perspectives help me understand what matters in the long term and how I wish my life to unfold. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us, I learn so much! 🥰
That's really cool. Wish my children felt more blessed by our wisdom. You sound like a really smart young lady.
Our elders know so much. She is such a sweet lady and I always look forward to her videos. Thank you for being open to learning.
I have complete confidence… you will achieve what you are seeking….♥️♥️
I think you are remarkable at age 22 to have the foresight to know this! I wish at age 22 , I was as astute! Best wishes on your life journey!
Good for you! It's awesome that you are open to learning! Each generation has much to teach each other, as long as we are open to LEARN! Many blessings......
love your comments, sandra. i'm 92, widowed, and live alone. my oldest daughter keeps telling me that she thinks i should be in a senior residence. i'm resisting, since i'm still able to keep my home reasonably clean, do my laundry, etc. i like my privacy, my three bedroom house, my bible study group. i love that i can drive to the grocery store, and to church. i love to read, paint, work the hardest crosswords. i want to continue living this way, as long as i'm able. you inspire me, lovely lady !
Rosie, How wonderful that you are still so independent at 92. I feel the same way you do and I want to be able to be in my home as long as I am able.
Rosie, you sound just like my 95 yr old mother! We children are so fortunate to still have you mothers in our lives. God be with you, especially in this Easter season.🌷🌿✝️🌿🌷
You're amazing, Rosie!
Rosie you are amazing and inspiring . if you feel good being home then by all means do it. You are blessed.
Rosie, the people who love us most want the best for us… but what is best for them is not necessarily best for me. I listen to them but let them know, gently, that I don’t appreciate being dictated to.
cliff longlands Just found you Sandra , I am a young 76 man ,live in Normandie ,France and I breed the French competition Selle Francais horses , so like you ,have a business , I feel that it keeps the brain and body active and give's zest for life ,I am by myself lost my Wife in 2019 ,married for 53 years ,so a big blow .In fact I suffered from P T S D .I like your life organization and will indeed use some of your tips ,ie the wardrobe being so tidy and in drawers ,not on so many hangers , I think the direct debit payments is essential ,saves so much time . I shall follow you on a regular basis , now I have found you thanks for the tips cliff .
Welcome Cliff. It’s so nice to have you here. I understand the loss of a spouse. It sometimes is a long grieving process. Good that you are moving on and still living life. Thanks so much for sharing. My daughter has bred thoroughbreds.
I'm 80 yrs young....I work each day to make myself active especially...thinking of other folks..not myself...Reach out...to complete strangers...Talk....Talk...when you make the FIRST MOVE...you'll be surprise to their welcome...Make up a project each day....
God bless your husband is turning 96 👍🏼🙏🏼
Thank you so much. I like this approach to meal planning. I have never done it and have resisted it. But as i get older, it is the perfect way to save money also. I tend to cook when i feel like it and then freeze food. At a minimum I can combine an inventory of the freezer with meal planning.
Hi Sandra … Thank u for your posted videos and thoughts. This one struck a chord with me. I just had my 73rd birthday. I was my husband’s caregiver for almost 8 years. He died with dementia two years ago. In an instant(2012), I became not only his caregiver but the sole financial provider for our family. What a shock! During the last couple of years of his life, caregiving became a full time job, so, like u, I began to brainstorm as to how I could simplify my life, save time and conserve energy and do the most important things begging for my attention. The first thing I did was to get off social media (Facebook); it was difficult at first but became one of the best decisions I ever made. I still have not and will not resume posting on FB. I do “troll” sometimes secretly but never ‘like’ or comment when I do. The next thing I did was cut my hair. It was below-waist length, and I loved doing fun things with it such as Pom-Pom pigtails and Indian braids, occasionally wearing it down and curled. And the third thing I did was buying a rebounding trampoline and putting it in my art studio and ending my Y membership and stopped attending exercise classes - which were great fun, but there was no longer time in my schedule for that. I have kept my hair short since, continue to rebound for exercise and just had 5 tons of riverbed rocks delivered to my home that I am arranging in my ever expanding fantasy gardens - that’s great daily exercise and gets me outside in the fresh air and sunlight. Again, thank u for your inspiring posts!! Just had to share today. I’ve never commented before. ♥️
GingerLou, Thank you so much for sharing your story with us today. We do have to make adjustments when we are the sole caregivers, don’t we? Thank you for letting me know what you’re doing now that your time is more for yourself. Good luck with your beautiful gardens. It sounds wonderful
Dearest Sandra,
Thank you for sharing such confidence in ways to move forward especially when life throws some curve balls our way! We all have those times and it is so important not to get so overwhelmed that we lose ourselves in the process.
You really do seem to know how to do that so very well. I am so inspired by you and how you manage to remind all of us to bring our focus in on the incremental ways to handle what can sometimes be disorienting and/or frustrating.
I am so happy that you have found ways to enjoy your precious time with Arthur and I am sure that your daughter also is a great comfort.
Thank you as always, with great respect and love, Dee.♥️
PS Your hair looks beautiful! Have a blessed week!
Excuse me? You’ve simplified your life? OMG! I’m about three years younger than you, and your “simplified” life runs rings around me. I’ve always considered you amazing, but that doesn’t describe the half of it. This video has convinced me to spend less time sitting around on my tush and accomplish more while I still have time. Truly can’t thank you enough.
LOL!! 😊❤️
Many people never had a parent bother to sit down and give any life advice or input. It’s good you do this. God bless.
That is sadly true. Thanks so much for that
You are one beautiful woman! I am six decades younger and you are my favorite RUclips channel. I love your zest and spirit. Your content is phenomenal and I am learning so much from you. Forever a fan.
Thanks so very much Fran
I am 27 and will be 28 this year. My family is complicated and so I grew up without my mother and still don’t have her to this day. I am a mother now and I have to say: I appreciate your videos so much. These are truly a blessing to me. I have been in a funk for awhile now and listening to you, is bringing me out of it. Bringing me into this next stage of my life and womanhood.
I love you!!!
This is one of the best videos on being a minimalist for someone over 60. I will turn 69 this fall, I have been widowed for almost 7 years, I'm retired, and my almost 90 year old mom died at the beginning of this year. This is the first time in my adult life that I have lived alone, am not the caretaker for someone, am not working, and can pretty much plan my days for myself. There are so many books I want to read or listen to, wonderful You Tubers to follow, and my small home to take care of that I am never bored or lonely. I am so glad that I have found your channel because, although I love watching the younger You Tubers, I can't quite relate to their stage of life anymore 😃 I think I'll go binge-watch a few of your earlier videos !! Thanks so much.
I’m 65 widowed 12 years ago I live with my oldest daughter and her family. God bless you
"Human feelings and comfort are more than material things.... and Grateful of all I have.", totally agree. Thank you for all the information you are sharing like the 'multitasking' - which I believe is a spice of life, 'organizing' which makes life easy, 'blocking' and 'breaking'. 'Meal plan and spacing' very essential. Have nothing to say may you and yours be blessed.
Thank you very much for spending time here and I appreciate your thoughts
Good advice You live in beautiful country.
Wow she is a human dynamo👍🙏🏼❤️
As a 38 year old stay at home mom of a toddler, I appreciate this video so much because it makes me realize that it is not just stay at home moms that get overwhelmed.
Well, you and Arthur must be doing something right to live to see 96yrs..I am surprise that you dont have a housekeeper a least once a week..I am 80yrs old n have a one bedroom apt and to keep my place clean n do my own shopping n wash my own clothes I am exhausted somethings I have to let things go to get out of this,apt for a walk n relax myself.so, I dont know how you and Arthur do it plus he handles the finance that even exhausting plus you have two dogs to care for. .You and Arthur are Fantastic!! I admire you..i know I need a housekeeper so to don't tirer myself out..
I’m 36 and I’m attracted to watch this. So refreshing to watch. I love to live a quiet life even at this age. Material things no longer excites me. I wish to grow old gracefully like you 💕
Dear Sandra,
My girlfriend & I just finished reading Behind the Magic Mirror and also Places Within My Heart. Both of us thoroughly enjoyed your books!! Sandra, dear friend, after reading Behind the Magic Mirror, all I can say is what an amazing woman you are. I don't know how you survived all you went through, but you did & look what you've accomplished!! You should be so proud of who you are . When watching you on RUclips, no one would ever know the hell you've been through. What an inspiration you are to so so many. Loved your message today. We all need to simplify our life & have less stress. I look forward to every Tues morning so much. Thank you, Sandra! xoxo
Nina, thank you so much for reading my story. It is one I never thought I would ever live, but it is made me the person I am today. We never know what tomorrow will bring, do we? Thank you for your kindness
Wonderful Sandra, I agree with Naomi in the comments below… Y.O.U. are a phenomenal lady and so beautiful inside and out! Just think you are helping many more people than you will ever know, because not everyone who watches your videos leaves a comment! How thrilling is that! I’m 72 and can say the content of your videos is helpful, thought provoking, and really do inspire. Your children must be so proud of you! P.S. I wish we were neighbors! 🥰 It’s such a blessing to have run across you on RUclips ‘cause listening to you makes me happy! Much love from your new subscriber in Arkansas!
Lizzy, thanks for such a kind and supportive comment. You have really made my day!!!! Thanks so very much for subscribing! Love having you.
@@lifewithsandrahart I am honored to be one receiving your practical wisdom and insights! This morning as I was opening the bedroom drapes, I could hear you talking about how good posture is so important and to pretend a string is attached to your head and pulling you up. I straightened up immediately, then laughed. I could see you practicing that and now I am following in your steps! Too fun! Hugs!
Love your channel Sandra you are so very wise. I’m 56 but I can already relate to what you say. I am a caregiver to my mother in law and I have to keep an organized life mentally and physically. You really help me.
Brenda I truly understand. Thanks so much for watching today
Thank you, Sandra, for this so very gracious teaching on accepting and loving "what is". My life does not hold the same challenges, but I am learning also to "grow with the flow" instead of heaving my joy against the wall of changes that I am experiencing. A few years ago I had a coworker who was toxic, entitled, critical and judgmental. One day another coworker whispered to me, "I don't think she's been reading her 'Gracious Living' magazine! We howled with silent laughter and the saying has stuck with us ever since, in many situations. Gracious living is a choice and you, Dear Sandra, offer us regular lessons in graciousness that I deem invaluable. Thank you. xo karen
I think acceptance a big part of it
Hello Karen, how are you doing today... it's really my pleasure to meet you here on RUclips
Grow with the flow is a great mantra
while visiting my daugher,I caught you on TV,I watched the show,romper room in the 60s,
I'm so happy to find you,I'm in my sixty's now,you think through life so gracefully and so wonderfully productive,thank you
I just ordered “ Behind the Magic Mirror “ , I’m so happy to see all your other books, Miss Sandra. I’m really excited. And I never miss a video. In fact I watch some , over and over. Their very comforting. Thank you for making my days , so happy. You said you start your day’s by walking the dogs, I stare my days , with coffee and you. Johanna De Tore
Thank you so much. I really hope you enjoy it. Have a great week
Thank you so much , as a 18 yo girl , your channel has been a blessing and has helped me improve my life
Welcome and I’m so happy that you are here Ash
Oh Sandra, I’ve been Maria Kondo folding my clothes for a few years now. 😊 I too use my iPhone for recording. I’m sorry that you had to give up your morning meditation and yoga. My mornings are busy and I find that when I’m in nature it’s relaxing and it’s a form of meditation. When I walk my almost 14-year-old poodle Dasher, he likes to prance and he still likes to run, so he’s all over the place. I will keep you and Arthur in my prayers. ❤️❤️ Blessings. 🦋
Happy Mother’s Day Sandra ❤
Thanks. The same to you?
I am 42 living in Poland. 4 Kids. And I Love to listen to you❤
Lovely lady a joy to watch. I too had 10 years looking after my mother and husband with Alzheimer’s and I emerged after they passed away (at different times) a drained and empty person. Gradually I have put my life back together by cherishing friends, appreciating the simple things in life and enjoying them, and holding on to my faith in God. Your videos are the cherry on the top, thank you so much. Lynne in the UK
Lynne, caretaking is very hard, and we often forget to take care of ourselves during the process. I know I did. Thank you so much for sharing.
You are the Solutions Queen! I love it! Breaking up the cleaning process is the way to go for sure and meditative multitasking while dog walking is another excellent solution. Great tips and thank you for reminding us all not to keep walking into walls but to find solutions that work! You're awesome Sandra!🥰💃TY for the inspiration 😘
I really appreciate your comment and I think we all try to find solutions in our lives that help us make our days better. Thank you again
You are the symbol of how life should be, that’s why I enjoy watching you. These days is Almost impossible to maintain what you have done. Best wishes, you are lovely.
Sandra, thank you for the inspiration. My husband will be 92 in Oct. and I’ll be 78 in Dec. I worked as a nursing assistant and in the activities dept. in a nursing home until I had to retire back in 2009. I had to have the Whipple procedure surgery done at the Mayo Clinic because I had pancreatic cancer. In the past year my husband has lost some abilities and it’s an adjustment for both of us. I will keep you and Arthur in my prayers 💖.
Wow you must have been through a lot Marilyn.. how are you feeling today?
Happy Easter smilei
☀️🌷🕊️ Happy Mother's Day Sandra. You are a Great and Wise Woman! 💌
Thank you and the same to you
Hi Sandra! I'm sure that your inspiration has become part of your children's networking. It will allow them to live their best lives. Watching them put these many Techniques to practice in there own lives must give you great satisfaction and pride. Thank you for helping to change the world, one child at a time. I Love you, Louise
Thank you for your wonderful thoughts Lou. I really appreciate your kindness
Ur a kind and beautiful person inside out
Thank you Lexi
Sandra, you are such a treasure! Your videos are meaningful to so many people. This one has motivated me to move forward after two years of what felt like stagnation. Your tips are so common sense and you show how to think through situations to find the best solutions!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and I appreciate your kind compliments in your comment. So nice to have you here today
Choosing our food is an act of love...
Sandra, you are such a sweetheart! I LOVE your haircut. So nice that your daughter was able to cut it for you (a fun time for you to share with her!). You seem to be managing so well even though you are really busy. Such an inspiration to us all! Hugs from Texas.
Lynn, I was so happy that she volunteered to do it for me. I was ready to chop at it myself!
Like "work in progress" says in her comment, we really learn a lot from you. And not only where the actual facts that you share with us are concerned, but also just in the way you are. Your calmness, willingness to adapt to life, gentle manner etc...
You set a good example.
Best wishes xx
Thank you so very much and I really appreciate your understanding and being here on this journey with me.
You are so beautiful you are just the best I could listen to you all day and night nothing is a bother to you you are so calm nothing seems to phase you I am from Belfast in Ireland god bless you
Hi Sandra, organizing your clothes the way you do in your drawers I like that idea. I didn't know you wrote books. W O W ! What kind of books? You do your own house cleaning, etc n Arthur is in your schedule, of course. Wonder Woman. Thank you for your example Sandra. ❤
Thanks for watching. I recently wrote a book on happiness and my other books are memoirs and non fiction. Just go on Amazon and put Sandra Hart Books in search bar.
Im only 44 but I love listening to your videos. You have a beautiful spirit.
To simplify I have removed unnecessary furniture and most decor. I clean using Flylady system, a real game changer. Capsule wardrobe. Organized by having a home for everything. Space for art and crafts. Automated bill paying. Only use a debit card, no credit cards, use PayPal. Don't shop for fun. Nurture our garden for exercise and satisfaction, plus volunteer every week. I feel that I am coping well.
Hi Sandra! I just found your channel today and I’m so glad I did. I will be 63 this year, and even though I don’t feel ‘old’, I’ve had a bit of a hard time finding role models for this new time of my life. I simply can’t relate to a lot of the younger channels anymore. I will be catching up on a bunch of your previous videos very soon!
Welcome Doris. I am so happy that you found me and I hope that you will find a comfortable home here within this beautiful community that we have a caring women who want to leave them or purposeful life.
Happy Easter to You and Arthur
I wish if i had a grandma like u..i wish if i did not lose my grandparents at such a young age😩😭😭😭😭ur grandchildren r so lucky to hv u🥀😭may God bless u💖i just discovered ur channelll anndd m always listening to u bcz i learn a lot from ur wisdom and experiences ..and i feel home😩so thank u..
This video, Sandra, was very helpful. I buried my husband six weeks ago, he did the finances, the grocery shopping and anything outside the house, I did the inside. I now do everything. I am managing fine slowly but I'm getting there. Thank you for your knowledge.
What a beautiful video from a beautiful lady !! Love the haircut !! We are so close in age ! I have started minimizing my home , closets etc. but I am changing menu a little . Your counsel is exactly what I needed today . Yes , we need to pray for world peace !!
Thank you Yvonne for being here today
@@lifewithsandrahart
Your hair is so pretty! You look nice today! Have a wonderful week!
Tuesday mornings include some of my favorite "me time" watching your most recent videos. I have had to do a lot of simplifying my life, even when it has meant giving up something that I had really enjoyed in the past. I tell myself that was then, and this is now. It doesn't mean that I will never have fun again - it only means that a new kind of fun will take its place.
That is true. We do change over time. Thank you for being a part of this community
I’m impressed, Sandra, with the way you have reorganised and simplified your life since Arthur has returned home. I too am now a carer for my husband, who has health issues, and I can often feel overwhelmed and that my carefree life is now behind me. Your common sense and practical tips, plus your buoyant and positive approach to your situation has given me the inspiration and gumption I sorely needed.
Your haircut is beautiful. Tell your daughter she did a great job. I have come into a strange time of my life. My son has really bad anxiety so doesn't work or drive. My husband has chronic fatigue so just went on short term disability. My parents are divorced and my dad who lives close by has medical problems and can't drive now. I am taking him to the doctor several times a week. My husband's mom has no one to visit her close by except us so we go take her shopping every week. And my daughter is a nurse and needs me to take care of her dog every weekend because of her long hours. I feel like I am caring for everyone! I just found your videos and wanted to say thanks. I can relate. Diet, money, minimalism... all these things are really hitting me now and your videos are very helpful!
Jodi, Who is taking care of you? When we find ourselves in a situation like you are in it really is important that you try to find time for yourself during the day. I know it is hard because I am struggling with many of the same things you are. If we burn out how can we help others in our lives. Would it be possible that your daughter help you a bit during the week with your care of others? I know nurses have a busy schedule, but they do have days off and I’m sure she would love to help you bear some of the burden of your care responsibilities once in awhile. Even several hours one day a week will help you. Thank you so much for being here and I really appreciate your sharing your thoughts with me today.
Sandra, this is such a timely message for me! Things are changing in my home as well & I need to learn to always take a bit of time for me too! Thank you as always, Sandra.
Thank you Donna
@@lifewithsandrahart you're welcome!❤
Your hair is adorable! You look fabulous
Once again thank you for sharing your wisdom dearest Sandra! I will begin walking in the morning soon, now that it's warming up. I do read scripture and I thank God first thing, grateful for another day of precious life. I'm doing an ongoing purge, and you are inspiring me to reorganize! ❤🙏
Thanks so much ! I appreciate your input
I wish my mother had been a close friend and confidante. Growing up was trial and error. Nothing was explained about childbirth, menopause etc. just snide comments. So I learned the hard way. Your children and grandchildren must cherish you. I have a great deal of respect and admiration for you. I hate grocery shopping too. Thank you Sandra, enjoyed the video, as always.
Thx to God i found u. Now i’ll get 60’s experence in my early 40’s
Dear Madam, I stumbled upon your channel and, after watching two of your videos, I really fell in love with the content, your advices, your lifestyle and everything. What a graceful and charming human being you are!!! I'm 35 years old, and up to my early 20s, I lived with my grandmothers (4 of them from both sides of my parents) who sadly passed away and those were the most beautiful and formative years of my life. I always feel so grateful for the blessings of having had my beloved grandmothers when I was a little kid and I truly truly miss them every day of my life. Hearing you and listening to you reminded me of them and I can't tell you how happy I am that I found your channel. I pray God that you continue living a long, healthy and blissful life for many many more years to come. And I for sure will keep listening to you. God bless you always, Madam (I almost called you Mom as that is how I used to call my beloved Mummies). Sending you all my affection and kind regards (from my sweet Djibouti).
Thanks so much and so happy to have you here.
I'm 36 and i enjoy listening to your wise words.
Thank you Sandra. I have been a caregiver for my mother who is now 91 for four years. I so appreciate these tips. I have recently hired a caregiver for three days a week. Like you I take care of everything too. The easier we can make it for ourselves the better.
Your mother is so blessed to have you care for her. There will be a time when I will probably need extra help.
Oh Sandra your life has changed when I lost my husband I had to learn to do all the financial things that he did,hate it Your daughter did a wonderful job with your hair cut. Glad to hear you take time for yourself that’s what I had to learn because at the end of the day I would fall on my face.So please do it ❤️
I am trying Concetta thank you
Sandra at 66 years old I am full time caregiver to my husband of 75 who has Parkinson's. I got some good ideas from this video...especially ordering my groceries online for delivery! I'm going to start doing that. I bet I'll save money. I know what you mean about making 'me time'...it's very easy to neglect that important time for ourselves but so important! Thanks for the reminders and tips! You really inspire me. BTW...Love the haircut!
Gail, anything we can do to simplify our lives is good. Best of luck. My brother has Parkinson’s and I know the responsibilities.
I'm still working full time (but started a new very serious job). But I do this job at night, so this, for me makes my life easier. I shop online too, it helps ne stay on budget.
Bless you, your talks help me do much. Thank you 😊
Lovely video! 😊
Overloading yourself can happened so easy then I’m inclined to start panicking. I’m very fond off giving myself a lecture, not that it always worked, but forsure calming me so that I can think better how and what I must do and how. Thankyou for your message it did me a lot off good. You must have a lovely evening.✨🌺✨🕊✨🌸✨
I have recently discovered the beauty of time blocks. I love it. It's so much less stressful, and I feel like I actually get more things accomplished.
I love the part about leaving the grandchildren's fingerprints on the mirrors a little bit longer. I think that's wonderful. I do that too! Thank you for this video. I truly enjoyed it.
Thank you so much Eva. I used to have everything in order until I realized there are more important things to living, including my grandchildren’s sweet handprints in my mirrors!
I finally understand why my Mom went from constantly cleaning the house to not being so nuts about it. One needs to enjoy life as much as they can cause it goes by way too fast. I have always been such a clean freak and spent more time cleaning then anything else. Changing that now.
I used to be exactly the way you feel you are now. I had to really rethink my priorities as life went on. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts
Good morning Sandra! First, your new shorter hair style looks amazing! It’s so uplifting! Brett did a great job! I, too, work on simplifying my life by decluttering, organizing and compartmentalizing things daily. Your videos are so inspiring to me on this journey we’re on! Thank you! Prayers for you, Arthur, Brett and world peace! Happy Easter! 🙏🏻✝💕
Thank you so much Kathy. I appreciate you being here and I do hope you have a wonderful Easter as well
I do my household chores the same way you do. It doesn't seem to be quite so overwhelming or as physically tiring. I enjoy your videos.
Spacing chores out really does help doesn’t it
What a graceful lady! May God bless you more and give you the strengths and wisdom to share with others!!!
You are amazing. I love your kindness and wisdom. I so respect how you have transitioned so gracefully into the caregiver role. I wish you strength, peace and much love as your journey forward with the wonderful Arthur. He struck gold when he married you. Hugs, judy
First of all, your doughter is very talented, beautiful hair cut.
Amazing that talking about the simple,and velued things in life,tuch every one,and are quite the same too,so many of us, from all ages listening to you every week,and get so much from you.
Thank you and take care.
Thanks so much Rama
God bless everyone❤❤❤👍
Wow girl I love your colors I’m so glad to see you’re out there all the beautiful colors of what you wear I do the same thing I love lots of color so beautiful I just learned appreciate the beauty of life colors life animals God’s creation the beauty of the colors is amazing
Even for younger women, your advices are helpful.
Merci pour vos importantes idées pour profiter de chaque heure de la journée. Merci pour votre leadership au niveau de simplifier nos journées. Prendre du temps pour soir est unique et si important. Merci Sandra!
Learning to say STOP is one of the most difficult for women.
Especially to ourselves.
My Mom was 93 when she passed while saying her nap time prayer. She was active - always. Had taken care of my Dad who suffered w alzheimer’s for 10 yrs.
so now i listen to your videos and it reminds me ❣️
You certainly have given your life and service to your parents. No regrets but I know it’s a lot of hard work. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this topic
Thanks Sandra. I'm going to try your clothing organization tips. With all you are doing each day maybe once every week or two let your daughter spend a day or few hours with Arthur, if possible so you can have some more free time to do whatever. Looking gorgeous and God Bless 🥰
Yes you need that "me" time when you are a care giver It is exhausting and you do have to be organized Its not easy and even then there will be days when you feel overwhelmed and so very tired Walking the dogs is a wonderful time for walking meditation and to breath even cleaning can be a wonderful time to meditate We need our down time (bubble bath)? or just to sit quietly and have a cup of tea I I took care of my husband for many years and I took care of everything (including my business ) and since he passed in October it has been another kind of life change Life is always changing Spend as much time a you can with you loved ones Time is the one thing we never have *we only think we do* Enjoy your videos as always
Thank you for all of your experiences and your thoughts today Lisa. I really appreciate them
I'm disabled, able to walk around the house & that's it. I really do appreciate all that my partner does for me, I know it's a nuisance now & then, I feel sad that unable to do much & I try my best to give him a good life so on a 'good day' we will go out for a drive in the countryside & take our 2 adorable toy poodles out to run around in the grass & my partner playing with them. Those days are so special to me, especially when my Mum joins us. She's been thru such a lot, she's getting frailer & needs more attention than ever before. I have dinner with her everyday now & I feel like I'm the mother now. It feels so strange. I Thank God that my partner helps me to be with her everyday. Care givers deserve a medal 🏅💞 for their hard work they do, being with their loved ones is all you need. Love is so precious, treat it with respect & you will receive more & more respect & love. 💗
Thank you so much for sharing all of your thoughts and what you do with your partner
I'm not a caregiver, per se, but right now, I feel like taking care of myself is a full-time job as I navigate new health issues. (Taking care of myself has always felt "illegal" so I also have to come to terms with that, not to mention that it's a big part of what got me into this condition.) The specific things you shared here were very helpful; the principles behind them, even more so. Thank you so much for your gentle transparency and your kind & encouraging way of sharing your wisdom with us. Love you, Sandra.
Sandra you are phenomenal 🏆 You’re doing it all for both of you. Wishing you and your family a wonderful Easter 😘
Happy Easter to you Naomi
What a beautiful lady! Less is more , loved this vid , we’re busy fools , I’m pacing myself, less doing & more being ❤Sandra your beautiful 🤩
God bless you yes I love my husband too you got appreciate your mate And of course we learn the values of how we are helping one another I’m always there for my mate my husband I want to be there for him and I want him to be there for me we do in our own way but God bless him and God bless us we all need his help
Very helpful ! Thank you I love your videos
Thank you Sandy
Hi Sandra, love the new hair cut and your videos. Retired for 6 months now and find cleaning the house throughout the week easier for me too. Started meal planning when my kids started sports in school as it was easier to manage things. So appreciate your sharing ideas that work for you. Praying for you, Arthur, your family, and world peace.
Thanks so much Luann. I appreciate your sharing your thoughts
So happy to have found you!💗
A breath of fresh air & the sweetest blessing….at any age! Thank you for sharing a positive outlook & valuable insight in such a special, heartfelt way!
You are a beautiful person…inside & out!
With gratitude!💐
Jackie😊
No words for your inspiration and your organised way of living. I turned 40 a month back and have been neglecting myself and my health since a few years. Like you’ve mentioned, I had reached a breaking point, and also thought it’s too late now to reset myself. However, your videos, which I am watching regularly now, are inspiring me, and I am slowly trying to motivate myself to positivity. ❤ thanks dear🙂
I am glad to see a wonderful angel .you are prescious mother I wish you long live
I could really relate to this week’s vlog. My husband will 90 this year and is in cognitive decline so paying the bills, taxes etc is now my responsibility too. I’ve simplified our monthly bills but haven’t gone to auto pay on all (yet) and I agree about receiving our credit card bill in the mail so I can scrutinize it myself each month ( I could do it online but choose not to). We’ve scaled way back on clutter and possessions in 2020. I like the house to be on the minimal side (easier to keep clean) and don’t feel overwhelmed- you and I think a lot alike and we are doing a good job taking care of our husband and ourselves ❣️
Rebecca, Thank you so much for sharing your situation with your husband. Our allies are probably pretty similar in the care department. I know that you understand what caregiving entails
Your hair is always beautiful! You are a true woman!!
Thank you Jill
Thanks for sharing
I’ll say it again- you are a wonderful human being 💕
Thanks so very much
Lovely hair! Im doing my own trim tomorrow
Good luck on your trim!
I love to listen to your VDO.You’re my inspiration.Thank you.I’ll always have a meditation like you. May Almighty God always protect you.
Hello Sandra😍! It's very important to simplify our lives. It makes us less anxious. The best thing is to be nice with yourself, I learned that at my 51😊Nice listening to you! Lots of love from Greece 🇬🇷💖
i'm so Impressed with your sense of organization. I know I have to organize my clothes. You really inspire me. I guess my weeks get muddled up with doctors appointments. I so admire you.
Thank you ever so much Sandy. Everyone else to do what is right for them.
I don’t know how you do it. Caring for your husband is a full time job. I know because I have caring for my parents since Dec.22, 2021. God your a saint.
Pam, best of luck to you, too!!
@@lifewithsandrahart Thank you for commenting back to me,it is appreciated. My sisters-in-law gave me a break today which was needed. I hope someone gives you a break, it makes a big difference in our mental well being. Takes Care