I recommend you look up The Women Men Don't See. I think often men don't realize what's going on on the other side. Cuz like.. it's usually not because there's anything wrong with you. Good luck 👍
The nature of many dating apps is highly superficial, so the type of person who may be interested in what you have to offer may not even have a profile on a dating app. That being said, it’s also entirely possible that if nobody has matched with you then you might be severely lacking in one area that you haven’t adequately made up for in others.
Mike, I love how you pivoted to Misinformation instead. I can see what she meeeeeans about democracy,but it is a little vague, a little harder to rally evidence to support her claim. Opens it to a more specific discussion
She's not wrong though. The JAN 6 insurrection? Zuckerberg basically tried to claim innocence in fb's role in amplifying right wing voices that led to the near-coup. We've seen over and over again how much fb loves to amplify authoritarian regimes. Literally invited Modi to FB headquarters, then the Rohingya crisis. Them leaving terrorists and shooter's streams on for hours on end and then deliberately blocking fb in Australia for hours while their legislature was discussing a bill on how they were paying news organisations. It's pretty clear fb and now Twitter are huge fans of democracy haters since authoritarianism is profitable
The difference between dating apps and dating websites is staggering, imo. I remember in the heyday of OKC when it was all about being able to cut through the muck and filter by what values, habits, and affinities mattered to you in a partner. Last I saw it looked like a desktop version of an app, all swiping Y/N with locked features and designed around making quick decisions. I was told that filling out profiles isn't really even a thing anymore bc it's just been Tinder-fied with 3 sentences and some pics.
Absolutely, I noticed this as well. I recently got out of a ltr and went to dating apps. Last time I was single, dating apps WERE different. It was only a 4 year long relationship, I didn't think apps had changed that much
Treating dating like a customer/service relationship, where the customer is always right and you can always go somewhere else for service eliminates the self-evaluation and also the personal touch. You're one in a million and they're one in a million.
😂😂Just think Dr Mike on a dating app. The app will crash in seconds. 10.4mil followers try to Date him his s loving ❤with all. Love your pot cast and video
Going off a tangent but this is why it's so important for social media influencers to disclose all ads because their reach is ginormous. So many people comment, "What's the big deal? or, "Why are you so butthurt?" or "Stop being jealous." They have no idea how many decisions they make subconsciously due to advertising.
Yes! There will always be another person who could suit you better, but if they are not quite "the one" but, as Dan Savage says, round up from .78 to 1 then that can be good enough. Stop looking if you both can be in love and live well together.
I kind of disagree with this, it can feel like that but if you know what you’re looking for it’s good at finding compatible people. My girlfriend of almost 3 years and I met on Tinder and found it a much easier experience than other dating we tried to do and we would’ve never met had it not been for this app!
Oh definitely Tinder has a role to play in court ship now a days, however like most thing there are pros and cons to it existing. I don’t agree with her point with either as I don’t believe you can say that it is a complete negative. As there might be issues but there are upsides to it.
Mike, saya suka cara Anda beralih ke informasi yang salah. Saya bisa memahami pendapatnya tentang demokrasi, namun agak sulit mengumpulkan bukti untuk mendukung klaimnya. membukanya untuk diskusi yang lebih spesifik
Maybe don't do easy hookup apps but do actual full on relationship matching apps or do apps based on those..."romantic" relationships are overrated, if you ask people who use dating apps who just wanna hook-up. It's same as overly social media scrolling. It's not its own particular phenomenon. There is no fear of not finding a date. Why fear? Of not hooking up? Nobody's keeping your score except you. For serious relationships, just don't do dating apps. There's no one type of sexual connection. Yeah, Facebook is a better discussion. Its like trying to discuss the long term nutritional value of potato chips. It's just expectations. There is no one monolithic ideal relationship even.
I think that is a bit of a sweeping statement tbf. While I understand the point she's making, surely it's dependent on the users of the app and what they are looking for and then how well subsequent dates go? I met my now husband almost 7 years ago on a dating app, and we just really clicked/hit it off. He deleted the app after 3 dates, I deleted it after a couple more, neither were looking for anything else, we were just drawn to each other but we never would have found each other without the app as we were in no where near similar social circles
Wild…if you’re a smoker, I don’t wanna know you. Do any kind of illegal drugs, you’re trying to cover up pain/trauma and not truly healing. Skip me. You’re on a dating app? Your idea of human interaction is potentially warped, so you’re a chance I don’t wanna take. Picking’s slim out here
It also means that when you have an infinite number of options and nobody selects you, you feel more like a lonely piece of crap.
Yep
I recommend you look up The Women Men Don't See. I think often men don't realize what's going on on the other side. Cuz like.. it's usually not because there's anything wrong with you. Good luck 👍
The nature of many dating apps is highly superficial, so the type of person who may be interested in what you have to offer may not even have a profile on a dating app. That being said, it’s also entirely possible that if nobody has matched with you then you might be severely lacking in one area that you haven’t adequately made up for in others.
Aw man i didnt even think of this perspective 😔
Ahhh yes, the average male experience.... 😢
Mike, I love how you pivoted to Misinformation instead. I can see what she meeeeeans about democracy,but it is a little vague, a little harder to rally evidence to support her claim. Opens it to a more specific discussion
Aw I edited to fix his name and lost my heart 🥲
Misinformation like the Vax stops covid?
She's not wrong though. The JAN 6 insurrection? Zuckerberg basically tried to claim innocence in fb's role in amplifying right wing voices that led to the near-coup. We've seen over and over again how much fb loves to amplify authoritarian regimes. Literally invited Modi to FB headquarters, then the Rohingya crisis. Them leaving terrorists and shooter's streams on for hours on end and then deliberately blocking fb in Australia for hours while their legislature was discussing a bill on how they were paying news organisations. It's pretty clear fb and now Twitter are huge fans of democracy haters since authoritarianism is profitable
It's really not hard to prove. He just tries to remain "apolitical".
Oh definitely still have the fear of never finding a date. Any time I try a dating app I quickly remember why I ultimately just delete them.
People are ruining peoples dating relationships. Not computers.
Apps are designed and run by people bro
@@FrancessLevi I mean the people ON the apps not the ones designing them.
The difference between dating apps and dating websites is staggering, imo. I remember in the heyday of OKC when it was all about being able to cut through the muck and filter by what values, habits, and affinities mattered to you in a partner. Last I saw it looked like a desktop version of an app, all swiping Y/N with locked features and designed around making quick decisions. I was told that filling out profiles isn't really even a thing anymore bc it's just been Tinder-fied with 3 sentences and some pics.
Absolutely, I noticed this as well. I recently got out of a ltr and went to dating apps. Last time I was single, dating apps WERE different. It was only a 4 year long relationship, I didn't think apps had changed that much
Thats coz the main filter people will always have is looks. No matter how much info you give them, people will ALWAYS pick the hottest option.
Facts. Because of dating apps no one cares to put in effort anymore because it's so easy to swipe and move onto your next date
Yep. I don't think I will ever find anyone
Why would that be?
Treating dating like a customer/service relationship, where the customer is always right and you can always go somewhere else for service eliminates the self-evaluation and also the personal touch. You're one in a million and they're one in a million.
I literally just deleted all of my dating apps five minutes ago
😂😂Just think Dr Mike on a dating app. The app will crash in seconds. 10.4mil followers try to Date him his s loving ❤with all. Love your pot cast and video
Going off a tangent but this is why it's so important for social media influencers to disclose all ads because their reach is ginormous.
So many people comment, "What's the big deal? or, "Why are you so butthurt?" or "Stop being jealous." They have no idea how many decisions they make subconsciously due to advertising.
Her voice is heaven to my ears.
The book "The Dating App Confessions" by Tindell was an eye opener. Tread carefully on those apps.
Idk. I used apps in the pre-tinder days. I met a good number of genuine girls my age.
Dating apps. Social media. Same thing. Lol
Yes! There will always be another person who could suit you better, but if they are not quite "the one" but, as Dan Savage says, round up from .78 to 1 then that can be good enough. Stop looking if you both can be in love and live well together.
100% agree.
I kind of disagree with this, it can feel like that but if you know what you’re looking for it’s good at finding compatible people. My girlfriend of almost 3 years and I met on Tinder and found it a much easier experience than other dating we tried to do and we would’ve never met had it not been for this app!
Oh definitely Tinder has a role to play in court ship now a days, however like most thing there are pros and cons to it existing.
I don’t agree with her point with either as I don’t believe you can say that it is a complete negative. As there might be issues but there are upsides to it.
Also, dating apps are just a bunch of scammers.
Imagine the privilege of having infinite possibilities.
Never did the dating app world. I just married people.
Subtle eye roll, Dr. Mike. Very subtle. 😅
I hate it doc my instagram I deleted it because of someone that doc to much can you help me of that I need help
I could listen to her talk all day! Her voice is so soothing
True!
Ha! Still have the fear of never being in a relationship. Maybe I’m an outlier
It's gamifying, not codify
Amazing
Yeah, something, is, good,
Choice paralysis is a thing.
I agrees
Mike, saya suka cara Anda beralih ke informasi yang salah. Saya bisa memahami pendapatnya tentang demokrasi, namun agak sulit mengumpulkan bukti untuk mendukung klaimnya. membukanya untuk diskusi yang lebih spesifik
social media and hypergamy don't mix
Lol does she not use them ? Like even with all those options only a handful actually meet and even less meet up more than once
I'm getting Westworld vibes
Chicago med New York City and New Jersey Bear and Roxy
Maybe don't do easy hookup apps but do actual full on relationship matching apps or do apps based on those..."romantic" relationships are overrated, if you ask people who use dating apps who just wanna hook-up. It's same as overly social media scrolling. It's not its own particular phenomenon. There is no fear of not finding a date. Why fear? Of not hooking up? Nobody's keeping your score except you. For serious relationships, just don't do dating apps. There's no one type of sexual connection. Yeah, Facebook is a better discussion. Its like trying to discuss the long term nutritional value of potato chips. It's just expectations. There is no one monolithic ideal relationship even.
I think that is a bit of a sweeping statement tbf. While I understand the point she's making, surely it's dependent on the users of the app and what they are looking for and then how well subsequent dates go? I met my now husband almost 7 years ago on a dating app, and we just really clicked/hit it off. He deleted the app after 3 dates, I deleted it after a couple more, neither were looking for anything else, we were just drawn to each other but we never would have found each other without the app as we were in no where near similar social circles
Sure about that last part?
I mean i met my wife on bumble so I can’t really be a big hater
No bc I know the man I'm looking for is not on dating apps
commenting for the algorithm
"misinformation."
Wild…if you’re a smoker, I don’t wanna know you. Do any kind of illegal drugs, you’re trying to cover up pain/trauma and not truly healing. Skip me. You’re on a dating app? Your idea of human interaction is potentially warped, so you’re a chance I don’t wanna take. Picking’s slim out here
😊👍
Her broad point is spot on, but women have it different. Dating apps don't make guys feel like they have infinite choices
Look up the video The Women Men Don't See. It kinda talks about women's experience on dating apps, and how our experience affects our behavior 🤷♀️
Isn’t this woman a mathematician? This is like taking Neil Degrasse Tyson’s opinion on how to bake a croissant.
Speak for yourself. I've met the most amazing partner on a dating app. This never would have happened if i was limited to IRL relationships.
Isn't this the woman who said monogamy is about controlling women? Shouldn't that mean she is for dating apps?