processing sad peds cases (abuse, neglect, disease) | Rachel Southard
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Ahhh, this week was incredibly emotional. First time being exposed to really sad ped cases and telling you how I'm learning to process them.
Rachel, I was an abused child and the only place I ever felt safe was in a hospital. I had to go several times, eye operation, injuries from being left home alone. I still remember how kind the doctors were to me. I actually reached out to one a few years ago (the one that operated on my eyes) and he was so glad to hear from me. That feeling always stayed with me. The safe feeling. Even after I watched my mother die in intensive care. My point is, as sad as it is to see abused children, them seeing you is likely the highlight of their day, week, month, childhood. You have the ability to have a forever lasting positive impact on those children. Never forget that. P.s I did a degree in criminal justice but am now on the journey to study medicine. I've been accepted but am deferring a year to save money and do more basic science study because I got in through an alternative route and have a lot of catching up to do. Keep your head up ❤
"In any given moment we have two options: to step forward into growth or to step back into safety."
“Doctors can’t replace moms, moms are everything, they are the best!” Love you Rachel ♥️♥️
Every pediatrician that I’ve had the pleasure of working with and learning from (besides one) were complete angles! I think that’s what of the criteria when they interview for Peds residency
I’m not a med student, but I’m a psychotherapist who deals with the aftermath of abuse and neglect, and I totally get it. I have a huge heart, too. I’ve just learned to hold myself accountable to balance. Feel the feelings, then put them away into a container until I’m back at work to prevent burnout / compassion fatigue.
Do not feel like you need to explain your emotions. You did not overreact. You are human. We are not supposed to accept abuse, neglect, maltreatment, etc without being triggered. I’ve been a registered nurse for 13 years now and have spent time in the Burn ICU. I get furious every time I see abuse or neglect but it makes me love even harder. Also with more experience you will learn to compartmentalize so you can go on with your day without being wrecked. Keep your huge heart and never try to explain it away!! 🥰🥰
It is much better to acknowledge your emotions and deal with them than to suppress them. Most of us wish for a doctor that feels something and is not a robot. Hugs to you.
I was a paramedic for 6 years. I wish I could still do the job. I got PTSD after a dual pediatric death on the same call and I have never been the same. You are so strong to be able to help those in need ❤️
I just started a new job at a Pediatric Hospital as a PCT. I never heard or thought that kids could get neglected the way that you’ve said and that I’ve seen. It took me a few weeks to process it and I am still affected by it. I will always remember my first patient that was affected by neglect and it will always inspire me to continue my medical journey! And thank you for sharing your true emotions.
I think the fact that you have so much empathy for your patients just goes to show how amazing of a doctor you will be. You're really inspiring for that ❤️
It can be incredibly hard to see children who are sick, abused or neglected. You handled it very well though. You are an incredible human being and you motivate me to work harder and embrace my emotional side <3
I'm currently in medical school and really want to be a pediatrician. I used to think that peds was optimistic, but after learning about these sorts of cases, although they are sad and heartbreaking I feel like it draws me more to the field and I truly want to care for children and adolescents that are struggling and help them in every way possible.
See, these are the kinds of medical vlogs I love. Raw, emotional, and transparent. You, Rachel, are a true gem--you never hesitate to share the ups
From one empath to another, the gift of your big heart is a superpower not a flaw. Though I have not dealt with caring for children with physical abuse, I have helped raise my cousins who were emotionally and verbally abused. It was tough in the beginning to understand how parents see their children as a burden and not a gift. But, I used this frustration to be someone that made me cousins smile and feel cared for. There is a balance to empathy, and I know that as you continue to grow and challenge yourself you will find ways to continue to use your empathy as a mechanism for unconditional love for your patients. You're an awesome human and future physician Rachel!!!
Moms are truly the best. I'm pre-med and have been having a hard time eating enough good food because of issues with a communal kitchen and horrible meal hall food, and my mom just sent me this huuuuge insulated box of homemade meals over the bus so that I can heat them up and eat them:,) I love her so much❤
Rachel, omg I just watched you getting into med school and now you are already charting and seeing patients - look at you! I feel so proud of you as if I was your Mom haha:)
Sad times that you have to justify feeling things :/ but hope the nursey was joyful! Thanks again for the vlogs!
Loved the video! You should take vitamin D as well! As a fellow medical professional we spend almost our whole day inside, and as it’s wintertime we get less exposure to sunlight. It can help with energy!
I am in nursing school, and I feel you on this. I had OB this semester and it was sad to see the withdrawal babies in the NICU and the lack of visitors the babies had. I have peds next semester and I am wary of this :(