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  • @hazelmiller9152
    @hazelmiller9152 3 года назад +69

    I left the narcissist and I told God if I have to leave everything I own to follow you I'll do it and I did.

  • @natashafreeman2220
    @natashafreeman2220 3 года назад +150

    I treated the narcissist good and in return they spoke to me like I was trash and did all kinds of horrible things to me in return. Never dealt with such a negative beast.

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 года назад +17

      No regret like you was trying treat them like human realized demons in operation why. Don't fret because trust believe Karma going bite back .

    • @natashafreeman2220
      @natashafreeman2220 3 года назад +2

      @@angeliquechronicles3579 thank you for the comment.

    • @angeliquechronicles3579
      @angeliquechronicles3579 3 года назад +4

      @@natashafreeman2220 did the same but refuse to change from being loving giving caring person. Don't you God will send right people in our lives just work on ourselves due time patience

    • @DaTaJaSi
      @DaTaJaSi 3 года назад

      Never

    • @emilielesauvage74
      @emilielesauvage74 3 года назад +2

      Same but we building castlrs now with those bricks they threw at us
      Xo

  • @Canaday291
    @Canaday291 3 года назад +76

    That back burner supply won’t be laughing for long as they’ll soon get the same narc abuse and discard treatment when they least expect it
    As the narc rotates through the supply like a revolving door

  • @streetglidesteve7315
    @streetglidesteve7315 3 года назад +61

    You have to use psychology on the narcissist. Don’t react, your silence and non presence speaks volumes. It comes down to when you finally realize that you’ve had enough of their abuse. These people are f’d up. They will never take time off to work on themselves. They quickly move on to their new supply. Ghost their ass. Move on and heal. Improve yourself and your situation. Your time and energy is priceless. Take your power and self respect back. God Bless

  • @M183L0v3DCaspie
    @M183L0v3DCaspie 3 года назад +60

    God gave me closure. I see clearly now what I couldn't see back then. Narc was not deserving of the love and respect he got from me. He deserves someone just like him, a liar, cheater and someone with multiple personalities like him. The chaos actually made me feel ill. I am at peace now knowing that God protected me from that evil family, for that I am forever grateful 🙏 🙌

    • @jennifersalinas716
      @jennifersalinas716 3 года назад +2

      Same here

    • @tawanachristian3396
      @tawanachristian3396 3 года назад

      I totally agree, God is amazing and ever present for His/Her children.

    • @ninath13
      @ninath13 Год назад +1

      You said it someone just like hime that's called karma

  • @powertothepeople7445
    @powertothepeople7445 3 года назад +45

    No medicine or therapy can ever replace the power of God the Creator.

  • @tongulajones9910
    @tongulajones9910 3 года назад +121

    It all ended up being a blessing to me!! I give God all the glory!! No weapon formed against me shall prosper.

  • @shematommey9102
    @shematommey9102 3 года назад +25

    Now understand why he blamed all his exes ! He was the poison !

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      Exactly Sis!✨💖

    • @peachesmonty1506
      @peachesmonty1506 3 года назад +3

      YUP! MY EX DID THE SAME THING, AND ONE DAY I JUST SAID SO, YOU TELLING ME YOU NEVER DID ANYTHING? NAW, I DON'T BELIEVE THAT SHIT FOR ONE SECOND & HE GOT ANGRY BUT, I DIDN'T CARE, THAT WAS MY ANSWER RIGHT THERE

    • @user-by4sd2jy2c
      @user-by4sd2jy2c 17 дней назад

      Yes, they have a victimhood mentality. We are so empathetic we felt sorry for them, now we know they were lying through their rotten teeth. I discarded and blocked that clown 🤡 a year ago and just ignored the hoover two weeks ago. 😂 He always claimed he had some friends that he still spoke to, but we never did anything like that. Just a loser. TGBTG the door is closed. ❤😂🎉😊

  • @kimberlyd.stewart4657
    @kimberlyd.stewart4657 3 года назад +51

    The family doesn't care, especially if they are being funded by the narcissist.

  • @stephaniepena5904
    @stephaniepena5904 3 года назад +28

    I went supernova on my narcissist, he discarded me.. Told me i scare him.. left me for the back burner forever supply and never came back, its a blessing.. Its funny how him and his forever were having a ball hurting me but he discarded her for someone else right after he used her to make me miserable and jealous, she made herself look so dumb.. karma really is a patient gangster😏 shes probably a narcissist too.. no more bird food here bird.. BYE !!!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +6

      Yesssss Sis!!! This part right here!✨💖

    • @stephaniepena5904
      @stephaniepena5904 3 года назад +8

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships That back burner baby mom fought tooth and nail for the narcissist so i let her have him.. now they can be miserable together forever, i feel sorry for her he always goes back shes the doormat

  • @kimberlyd.stewart4657
    @kimberlyd.stewart4657 3 года назад +41

    The discard was definitely a blessing! After I decided that enough was enough and straightened my crown, promotion came.

  • @ruthslaughter8746
    @ruthslaughter8746 3 года назад +43

    To sum it up, I had to lose him to find me, Thank God for the awakening and the lesson I learned, I am a Queen and will never settle for a page!!!

  • @addiemcconnell8883
    @addiemcconnell8883 3 года назад +36

    He said ; he didn't like How smart I was. I caught on eventually to his tricks and lies. Yes; I was blind sided.

    • @JasmineJeane
      @JasmineJeane 3 года назад +4

      I remember hearing that on a first date one time as with one hand he rubbed the back of my neck wit a little more force than necessary... first date. Wrapped that one up real quick.

    • @christinam81
      @christinam81 3 года назад +1

      My ex told me he was always the smart one in the relationship, that he wasn't used to dealing with someone like me. Yeah, he needed someone stupid. Wasn't gonna be me 😏🙌🏽

  • @theresadaughterofthemosthi4963
    @theresadaughterofthemosthi4963 3 года назад +27

    The coldest gem she dropped was the the good lord only allowed the narcissist to do what he allowed just to wake us up to be the beautiful black queen we was meant to be. Hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah. Now let the church say amen. 🌹🌸🌺🌹

  • @theresadaughterofthemosthi4963
    @theresadaughterofthemosthi4963 3 года назад +46

    Lord I love this woman. Especially when she on fire. She took us to church. I have to do a Holy Ghost dance when she turn up. This message was beautiful and so is she. Baby let me tell you. You better watch out when a beautiful black queen who is intelligent and sassy get mad. She is still graceful when she let you know what time it is.💋💄🫀🫀🔥🔥🔥

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +5

      Sis this part right here beautiful soul. Yesss!!im passionate about the healing of this Tribe. Sending the love right back to you my sister.✨💖💎💃🏽🌷💯🙌🏽

    • @marialewis7858
      @marialewis7858 3 года назад +3

      Yes indeed!!! She preached tonight!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏼❤

    • @theresadaughterofthemosthi4963
      @theresadaughterofthemosthi4963 3 года назад

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships thank you queen. Keep me in your prayers. Narcissist trauma runs deep. And demonic attacks are real. God bless you 🌸🌹🌹🌺🌺🌺

    • @niccivictorious5594
      @niccivictorious5594 3 года назад

      God is about to do a new thing for us all.

  • @empathicwarriorlissy3716
    @empathicwarriorlissy3716 3 года назад +29

    Hes been blocked not interested trying to future fake with me bye Bird

  • @salonphd6417
    @salonphd6417 3 года назад +15

    Once you notice things and bring it to their attention you have hit a button, it was someone from the pass. Once I mentioned it he had to get rid of me.

    • @jamilasavage7701
      @jamilasavage7701 3 года назад +3

      Same thing just happened to me. Once I kept calling him out on his lies.....he discarded me.

  • @farah4983
    @farah4983 2 года назад +4

    It's exactly what happened, I caught on and I questioned, que the mask coming completely off. Every day with no contact I'm stronger. It isn't an easy journey, but I promise if you lean on the word of God, you will level up and rise enlightened and more beautiful than ever!!

  • @jenniferwood5155
    @jenniferwood5155 3 года назад +6

    His new supply was someone he works with tell me she a friend GTFOH 🤣🤣 exactly how he discarded me. They deserve everything they get...

  • @proverbs31teacher7
    @proverbs31teacher7 3 года назад +15

    HE NEVER DESERVED MY HELLO!!! POWERFUL!!! I WON’T LOOK BACK!

  • @powertothepeople7445
    @powertothepeople7445 3 года назад +7

    I'm so proud of myself, I know the road won't be easy but I and I know YAHWEH GOD THEE CREATOR , JESUS HAD THE WHEEL THIS TIME

  • @constanceragsdale3305
    @constanceragsdale3305 3 года назад +15

    The new supply was involved with the ex our entire relationship ( 2 or more always), so I let them have him... when he discarded me... I accepted...yes it hurt...she/they won....he underestimated me...(Prayer works)....now he sending me a friend request, and using other ppl pages...he was mean to me for her/them...he would breakup n return....yes, she/they were already there....(what kinda woman does that?)...but um out...I wish her/them luck... they fail to realize, that you were as happy as he say he is... that he discarded me/choose her/them...

  • @thatgirl6472
    @thatgirl6472 3 года назад +30

    This month makes a whole year since I last spoke to that monster we have a 5 year old with special needs and a 3 year old....since he can't lay up and mooch off me he don't wanna be bothered with them....Ive met a man who is wayyy out of his league established, God fearing, hard worker, grounded, and accepts me and lovess my children🙏🙏🙏 Im forever grateful for that ending....for it was blocking all my Blessings.

    • @som1
      @som1 3 года назад +4

      This is very hopeful thanks for sharing. I am praying for a man with all these characteristics and none of the narcs.

    • @winblessed1357
      @winblessed1357 3 года назад +2

      Thank you for sharing your ending, God is faithful 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @thatgirl6472
      @thatgirl6472 3 года назад

      @@winblessed1357 yes he is Thank you🙏❤

    • @thatgirl6472
      @thatgirl6472 3 года назад +1

      @@som1 yw keep your faith High🙏❤❤❤

  • @salonphd6417
    @salonphd6417 3 года назад +5

    That narc discarded me like a bag of trash then told me , he did it cause because he didn’t want to hinder my growth boy bye 👋

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +2

      Wow that part but in a sense he was right. He was nothing that was going to help you to grow in a healthy way.✨💖

    • @salonphd6417
      @salonphd6417 3 года назад

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships Yessssss that bird is all over the place he was right cause he’s so stupid!!!!

    • @jamilasavage7701
      @jamilasavage7701 3 года назад +1

      Wow. My ex used the exact same words. 😩😩 told me he didn’t love me and just threw me away.

  • @melissaquestelles7380
    @melissaquestelles7380 3 года назад +17

    You were born for this thing! Please know that you are outstanding at what you do.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much Sis I’m so happy you enjoyed the video. I appreciate your love support and encouragement again thank you so much my sister.✨💖

    • @divaland7
      @divaland7 3 года назад +1

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships I second that☝️‼️You surely about the Father’s business. God bless you for all you do.

  • @christinajacobson82
    @christinajacobson82 3 года назад +12

    I discarded that bird. He tried to make me jealous but he failed because I’m no longer interested... Actions speak louder than words.. I’m also no longer reachable and he is 86 off my property... I’m almost 7 months no contact prior to that was 8 yrs he said I was on punishment so praying I never hear from it or it’s skunk family/friends again...

  • @salonphd6417
    @salonphd6417 3 года назад +14

    The discard showed me my power of strength!

  • @LauraJohnson47
    @LauraJohnson47 3 года назад +29

    Yes 🙌 Thank you 🙏 so many of us need to hear this, because it doesn’t matter how or why we’re not with the narcissist the bottom line is that it hurts, and to listen to you explain how they operate let’s us know we are better off. I’m so glad I went no contact. But you know I have a deep concern that he is going to find me and to be honest I pray that that won’t happen until I’m strong enough to handle standing my ground. I’m a Queen and he doesn’t deserve me he is the Devil.

  • @SteveAyanami
    @SteveAyanami 3 года назад +3

    Yep! The family is typically a nest of vipers trying to haze you in. Creepy and kooky, indeed! 😉

  • @tongulajones9910
    @tongulajones9910 3 года назад +15

    You are so right!! But I didn't react. I removed myself. And now he don't want her. I'm winning 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾. I challenged him!! Period!!

  • @georgerothenberger9236
    @georgerothenberger9236 3 года назад +12

    That demon never deserved me in the first place. Loved your energy tonight. Her back burner was her baby daddy who is married and cheated on her and once choked her out. Never helped her raised her daughter. What an addiction ship !!!! Smh. These two will never find happiness. Discarding her was rough... I really wanted to make things work.

    • @malicedewon1376
      @malicedewon1376 10 месяцев назад

      Sounds like the whore I wasted five yrs with

  • @powertothepeople7445
    @powertothepeople7445 3 года назад +9

    Yes I'm at peace that I didn't wait for closure I gave myself closure

  • @monicaross4013
    @monicaross4013 Год назад +3

    Wow, this is almost too real. We lived together, had a little family/friend circle. I was so confused, spoke to the flying monkeys. Called him out, didn't take that BS. This damn idiot had one of the backburner supplies MOVE IN!? -Oh yeah, he had 2... then kick ME out, (he owned the house, I paid my share -f*cking cockroach) when I was the only one who truly gave him love, kindness & validation. make it make sense.

  • @constanceragsdale3305
    @constanceragsdale3305 3 года назад +8

    I was primary for 3yrs....He discarded me for her/them... so why is he angry at me..... I did as he asked...disappeared....no contact, no matter what he say or does....Thank God for relationship n narcissistic coaches....(I became a detective...it was never just me/him)...

  • @SW00_
    @SW00_ 3 года назад +21

    The God in me told me to get up and get out of there!!!! Because they tried to play me including that bird family now I'm getting hoovers left and right SMH I'm just sitting here laughing like wow God is so good that's why I love this channel it has given me hope and knowledge thank my sister may God continue to bless you because you are a diamond 💎

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      Bless you my brother thank you so much!!

    • @tawanachristian3396
      @tawanachristian3396 3 года назад +1

      You’re a beautiful man and it was all a lesson to elevate you spiritually. Don’t stop being the God you are. Continue to love because now you can recognize a DEMON a mile away, you’ll make wiser selections now because you are AWAKENED.

  • @slimaz1
    @slimaz1 3 года назад +5

    Well said. Mine lied a lot and I catch on very quick. He hated that and discard me. It came out of now where. He told me he's afraid of what I might do because I showed up at his home unannounced. I started figuring him out in the first 2 weeks of dating last yr. After that, 3-4months after more I started seeing way more and I started talking about it, and Boom! There goes the discard.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      Welcome to the Tribe. Yes Sis this is how these birds operate. They are ridiculously abusive.✨💖

    • @cmwheat8031
      @cmwheat8031 2 года назад

      This EXACT thing happened to me, showed up with minimum advanced notice because he sent my calls to voicemail & he had been acting shady. He said he was scared of me now. Fr

  • @AngeLola1003
    @AngeLola1003 3 года назад +7

    3 days out... and this is all making sense. Friday night, I called while he was at work, to receive a text back, he couldn’t talk because his boss was there. I drove to his house, to find him there. To my surprise! It was a man sitting on his couch. He called the police on me, and said I wasn’t his lady. I didn’t one time embarrass myself.. this was all a surprise!!

  • @hrendon7689
    @hrendon7689 3 года назад +8

    Aloha from mexico!! I have a ton of gratitud to my good Lord , to have placed u in my path to recovery from a narc devil. She came close to put me in my grave but God came to the rescue. He opened my eyes to all the lies the cheatting and manipulación.13 years and two boys. I just had to leave. It was that or my life.

  • @deerivera4996
    @deerivera4996 3 года назад +5

    God I need the power and strength she is talking about! I’m so broken and can’t seem to remove myself out of this severe depression from the discard! I gave him all of me and he has moved on and acted as if I died and don’t exist anymore 😢😢😢

  • @jerrilynray1320
    @jerrilynray1320 2 года назад +4

    I beat that clown 🤡 at a game I didn’t even know I was playing QUEEN!

    • @vickylinder7899
      @vickylinder7899 2 года назад

      I wish I could trade places with you. But I am working on it

  • @viewerwatching5712
    @viewerwatching5712 9 месяцев назад +1

    The sad part is that my ex narcissist wife wasnt even a dime piece, hell she wasn't even a nickel. Yet I loved her unconditionally, raised her two children and endured all manner of foolishness from this nut! After 13 years of marriage and 20 years together im finally free. This is the first month of my freedom after she discarded me in a most wicked manner. It has been hard but i immediately went no contact and yet she has tried texting from strange numbers, calling me from strange numbers, leaving voicemails, emails, and flying monkeys. I havent responded to Nada and will not! Kick rocks devil, God got me!

  • @KanakaMusic
    @KanakaMusic 3 года назад +11

    Absolutely my sister! Greater is He that is in me, than he that is in the world.

  • @etheljohnson6622
    @etheljohnson6622 Год назад +4

    Ms Tea I love you. I'm 5 months out of my relationship with that Narc. We were together for 7 years and that man really had me convinced that next to God he was the best thing to happen to me. Throughout the relationship we had our share of problems with that Crazy back burner supply, lady friends and all but I didn't out my finger on it, but as a Child of God I had my suspicions. At the end he started changing on me. Accusing and lying. I try to talk to him he blow up. Finally at the end he confronted me about lies that back burner filled his head up with abd told me I had to move in with him or else. Basically accept that he's cheating. No way. But anyways your Videos have helped me through this process cause he discarded me out the blue and left me tore up. Loss weight, got sick cause I really thought this Bird loved me. But I'm new to your Channel and to You Tube and I would like to Subscribe to your Channel to support you like youve supported me and so many others during this difficult time. How do I Subscribe to your Channel Ms. Tea

    • @simoneclark1820
      @simoneclark1820 Год назад +1

      Let’s build a rapport and help each other through this !

  • @powertothepeople7445
    @powertothepeople7445 3 года назад +5

    The family showed ME I'M MORE POWERFUL WITH YAHWEH THIS TIME AROUND, I GO IN PEACE ✊🙏

  • @lisalisa3420
    @lisalisa3420 3 года назад +6

    A New Beginning starts with an ending! Yes Queen preach! Thank You Holy Ghost for the discard! Delusional thinking SKUNKS!

  • @ahgaddeshaynes846
    @ahgaddeshaynes846 3 года назад +1

    This was spot on they are sick and twisted individuals Narcissists are. He couldn't stand it when I called him out and questioned him daily on his bs that only further enraged him to do things I would have never imagined an individual would do to somebody. I won in the end my life is peaceful and healthy without that trash. 😌

  • @evamcinnis7992
    @evamcinnis7992 3 года назад +5

    No weapon formed against me shall prosper !! It wont work!!!! Spirit said that!!Oh! Im Blessed!! I feel so Blessed!!😘🤗🤗🙏🙏👣👣🎉🎉🇺🇸

    • @peachesmonty1506
      @peachesmonty1506 3 года назад

      YES MA'AM!!!!! IT WILL NEVER WORK! THANK YOU LORD

  • @paulgreene6899
    @paulgreene6899 3 года назад +15

    It's TEA TIME Y'all.

  • @lorraineamaker9416
    @lorraineamaker9416 2 года назад +1

    Goodmorning Telsha 6mths n.c... I just listened to this video for the umpteenth time and the Holy Spirit came over my whole soul. To GOD Be the Glory! I am woke! Hallelujah! I finally get it. Him and the family were never a match for me. In the midst of the discard I leveled up. Went from a 2 to a 4 bedroom 3bth Town house. Went bk to work, lost 57lbs, 3 daughters 1 in college 1 owns their own med business and 1 manager. GOD Bless you for all your inspiration and prayers. Thank you for the laughter in the midst of healing I can feel the Holy Spirit filling me up with wisdom and joy 😊 I am Humbly greatful

  • @spiritwarrior116
    @spiritwarrior116 Год назад +1

    He got discarded in the lovebomb by me. Burned that bridge. Broken socket lol brilliant

  • @empathicwarriorlissy3716
    @empathicwarriorlissy3716 3 года назад +28

    Waited for him to get drunk and used his finger to open up his phone. Found everything I needed to know

    • @Shell0060
      @Shell0060 3 года назад +5

      Yes I done the same thing an realized after taking pictures of so much of his double lives that he was a Real Demon. I have now Self Love for Me an God said to me He Will Provide 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @michellebarnum8465
      @michellebarnum8465 3 года назад +1

      I love it!

    • @empathicwarriorlissy3716
      @empathicwarriorlissy3716 3 года назад

      @@michellebarnum8465 LMFAO

    • @empathicwarriorlissy3716
      @empathicwarriorlissy3716 3 года назад +2

      @@Shell0060 Amen they can never love themselves they way we do that is their KARMA God Bless

    • @empathicwarriorlissy3716
      @empathicwarriorlissy3716 3 года назад

      @@Shell0060 We are great detectives though

  • @brotherhype-maninchristjes2766
    @brotherhype-maninchristjes2766 3 года назад +5

    +The Tea on NPD and Relationship Praise the LORD preach it, my beloved sister Telsha !!!!! preach it, my beloved sister Telsha. God bless. Agape love

  • @addiemcconnell8883
    @addiemcconnell8883 3 года назад +4

    Yes he new this woman from 30 years ago. Before his first wife.The family knew; they lied too.

  • @ordecaigodswarrior6390
    @ordecaigodswarrior6390 3 года назад +10

    Psalm 37

  • @jessicacayabyab4767
    @jessicacayabyab4767 3 года назад +2

    He told me I’m too smart. And ignorance is a bliss. Okkkkk! You don’t like a smart partner gotcha! LOL

  • @powertothepeople7445
    @powertothepeople7445 3 года назад +4

    This is the right time because YAHWEH is in control no matter what man or woman spirit of Satan do.

  • @etheljohnson6622
    @etheljohnson6622 Год назад +2

    Lord Ms. Tea you're a Gift from God. You are describing me. I had my suspicions and it finally came to a head. I wasn't gone just sit back and let you cheat on me and knowing it. He was so used to doing that with the Mrs. B's. Nawwl Mrs. A want having that, he discarded my ass like a hot potato but I'm glad he did Thank God. I ope he don't ever me but Lord if he does I'm gone break his soul cause I love me ( Ms Ethel Mae) too much too go through that bull💩

  • @powertothepeople7445
    @powertothepeople7445 3 года назад +4

    Yes the family hated me

  • @JMthdjhgbnjk
    @JMthdjhgbnjk 3 года назад +3

    And don't ask if they don't come crawling back how they are miserable with the back burner. Dwl

  • @ZFosterZ
    @ZFosterZ 3 года назад +5

    With woman I knew.
    Her backburner supply was her NLP lifecoach, whom she had an affair with.
    She told me was only a friend, he was her counsellor, he was like a priest to her....
    I saw through it right away, and I told her he (man in his 50s and her 30s) was grooming her... she denied it... but she knew.
    They had been having an emotional affair, which led into physical.
    But it could never go public.
    He wasn’t single.
    She knew this.
    And she feared what would happen if I found out.
    She did everything to crazy make, gaslight and lie to my face, while also smearing my name to her family and friends.
    Her NLP lifecoach, it suited him their secret arrangements. Meant he didn’t have to commit, and he was in power.
    Woman I knew had our kids.
    The affair had to end as I nearly caught them.
    Really it was on hiatus.
    They hooked up again later.
    I realised all this too late.
    She got me back, (I didn’t know affair had happened, I suspected and I went into denial to cope with it, short term solution).
    Meanwhile she was grooming new supply.
    She couldn’t get back with me long term.
    And nobody knew we were seeing each other again.
    She had smeared me too heavily.
    And she had been sleeping with another man.
    Also, I was too clued up, I was seeing holes in her lies and calling her out on too much, her mask didn’t work anymore.
    She monkey branched to another man.
    Her NLP lifecoach, of whom works as a delivery man for a takeaway service went back to his missus like nothing happened.
    It was there little secret.
    But I knew.
    I found things out when I caught her messaging her monkey branch new supply.
    Finally I had concrete evidence.
    She denied it, said I wasn’t well and I needed help, I was imagining things.
    Showed me her phone.
    She had deleted the chat.
    She looked smug with herself and said, “see, you’re not well,”
    Until I said his name.
    She put her head down in her chest, and simply said, “oh.”
    Then!
    She said he was just a friend, only been talking to him on Hogmanay.
    Lies.
    She met him the day before, and had been taking to him for over a month.
    It was over.
    Over 9 years, it was done.
    I then walked away for good.

  • @EButta71
    @EButta71 Год назад +2

    Thank you. You are so uplifting unlike many other coaches. Thank you for helping us remind us who we are and what we are capable of! 🙌🏾🙏🏾✨💖

  • @theresaoriordan5061
    @theresaoriordan5061 3 года назад +4

    "Looking like the safari & the farm at the same time." You got it spot on!!😆😆

  • @yvettecraig3296
    @yvettecraig3296 3 года назад +3

    Powerful message. Thank you. Im getting stronger everyday. I did the discard 4 days before Christmas... it just came out of my mouth. I didn't even think about the outcome. God was certainly in charge and I am so thankful for him guiding me and for leading me to these videos.

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      Amen. I’m happy you enjoyed the video my sister thank you for being here with us. Thank God for leading you here to us.✨💖

  • @hilose503barker6
    @hilose503barker6 3 года назад +5

    I said it and I mean it 😆

  • @shematommey9102
    @shematommey9102 3 года назад +3

    Yes 😂 he said that the new supply is his aunt lol boy bye! I don’t keep no contact

  • @blythevermilion
    @blythevermilion 3 года назад +1

    You said there was a moment when we literally shouted to good to help us get away !! I actually did this !!! 2 days before he punched me in the final rage episode I was in the shower at my house crying and praying for god to remove him from my life . Because I didn’t have it in my heart to walk away on my own ...... I said “god, only you know my boundary, only you know my breaking point . Please remove him . I don’t care what it takes .” And two days later he was punching me in my head while I was driving . That was it . I had him arrested and got a restraining order . It’s been a month narc free !

  • @sugabay
    @sugabay 3 года назад +3

    My replacement looks like she use to be a man 🙆🏽‍♀️ but I'm so thankful she took my place , because I got sick of being bothered.

  • @aliciasnow7866
    @aliciasnow7866 3 года назад +4

    The new supply isn't new, their just old trash the Narc never took out... Narcs have been around forever, people like myself didn't know what it was.... I got almost 13 yrs of experience.... I thank God for my enemies, which made me the woman I am today (Strong).... The narc can't love anyone, not even themselves... The hate they have for their children is horrible, this stuff is real y'all!!!!! Just know that the new supply is unstable, silly, uneducated, and living a lie!!!! The narc will never get over you, it's an obsession, the new supply is very aware!!!!! The new supply time is ticking, once the Narc realize the new supply ain't doing their job of destroying you, it's a wrap!!!!

  • @angeliquechronicles3579
    @angeliquechronicles3579 3 года назад +5

    I purposeful made sure my words questions would make narc get headache. Realized the narc really lie which was terrible they tell on themselves. He know wasn't match he covert sneaky coward like told him.

  • @TS-tk2wv
    @TS-tk2wv Год назад

    II set here and put it together and didn't ask anybody anything. I Observed Behavior and Convo. I Snatched the Whole Generator Out their Universe. I Got Closure when I kicked that Whole group into the place they belong. They can Now Reap everything they Sowed. I can care less about what's said. I did That. Thanks Sis. I'm Greater.

  • @ly_aa9100
    @ly_aa9100 3 года назад +1

    Halleluja. This is what happend to me, mine story. I jump off the bed en my spirit was very angry. And he knew it's game over that night. Thank you lord for moving this demon out off my life and house

  • @lashawndavis6107
    @lashawndavis6107 10 месяцев назад

    When I discarded the narc, that very day, my ascension activated, what was meant to destroy me, really delivered me. I never suffered, it was such a relief. God shielded me, I always knew he was cheating with his exwife and welcomed it, he was never on my level to begin with, I used as distraction from pain of multiple loved ones death, so I held myself accountable for my part. I wish them well. They both attempted to unalive me with poisoning, jokes on them. They wanted simple materials possession. They will soon start feeding on each other. I was the Gift. The GOAT.

  • @jerryturner2194
    @jerryturner2194 3 года назад +2

    Good Word for today!

  • @tanyabanks5385
    @tanyabanks5385 3 года назад +1

    ThIS one IS POWERFUL! PURE TRUTH. HELP ME HOLY GHOST! LORD HAVE MERCY!

  • @marialewis7858
    @marialewis7858 3 года назад +2

    You preached that thang!! Im shouting all over this place! Hallelujah!!! Praise God from whom ALL blessings flow, and that includes the wake up!!!!

  • @billie44
    @billie44 3 года назад +2

    Yep I ended it don’t ever call me again
    I didn’t mean it but
    I knew I had to say it
    When the Hoover came
    I sent a video
    When the narc disappeared
    Lol I know that killed it
    I lost wait could not
    Eat but I kept pushing

  • @cateyesreid8743
    @cateyesreid8743 3 года назад +4

    Awesome! Absolutely right!✊👏

  • @Seekntruth144
    @Seekntruth144 3 года назад +1

    Now that I look back it was multiple signs I just didn't recognize any of them! I beat myself up about it so much but I'm fully educated thanks to you & learned lessons❤

  • @cindygallant7411
    @cindygallant7411 3 года назад +1

    Tea..love u and this tribe. When I'm at work I think of your talks and I smile because it sure helps the hurt..and I stand like a queen thanks to you

  • @Sarah-sq4zz
    @Sarah-sq4zz 2 года назад +1

    I bowed out after I slapped him up a little bit my anger after everything he did and was doing to me just took over

  • @LuisaCollado-rp7wc
    @LuisaCollado-rp7wc 8 месяцев назад

    Just keep praying 🙏 for the Salvation,Deliverance,and Restoration. They are under the control of the devil.I rebuke the spirit of narcissistic people in Jesus Christ Mighty name 🙏 🙌! Ephesians 6:12

  • @cynthialandry7911
    @cynthialandry7911 8 месяцев назад

    I never went back to the family and asked them nothing about the narcissist. I never looked for a closure from the narcissist. I went on and discarded the narcissist. The narcissist went back to an old supply. He started hovering me back in 2 days. I was surprised. I could not believe it.

  • @uniqueangel7047
    @uniqueangel7047 3 года назад +1

    Thank u lord for my healing 💓 💖 🙏 💛

  • @kimberlyelainebruce3723
    @kimberlyelainebruce3723 3 года назад +1

    Wow it did come out of the blue , My intuition is very strong, his energy didn't feel right the last 4 times I spent time with him.. no closer,...so much hurt.

  • @nancylasavath5992
    @nancylasavath5992 3 года назад +1

    No more BIRD for me, He can go try to be happy with that back burner, thank you for this great video Queen 🙏

  • @KS-lu8nm
    @KS-lu8nm 3 года назад +2

    Confirmation for me! I was just thinking about this yesterday on how the narc devalued me out of blue. Wondering what did I do. I Thank God for strengthening me to cut ALL TIES! To God Be the Glory!!

  • @jazzsingh4589
    @jazzsingh4589 3 года назад +1

    You said just like it happened. Ty

  • @sarahwallacelife5194
    @sarahwallacelife5194 3 года назад +1

    You are absolutely AMAZING! Thank you so much!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      I’m happy you are enjoying the content Sis. Thank you for the encouragement. You’re so welcome.✨💖

  • @geetheeefit3407
    @geetheeefit3407 3 года назад +2

    I love her she’s so real. Low life’s seriously broken sockets I love it 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Busted dusty sockets.

  • @salonphd6417
    @salonphd6417 3 года назад +2

    Yessssss I told the narc God revealed to me he was a narcissist and six years later it still bothers him. Gaslight me every chance he gets l have to keep from laughing 😂

  • @pamelamarie6086
    @pamelamarie6086 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for preaching the truth girl!! You helped me put those pieces together and even now that I’ve moved on I love your videos because they keep up the maintenance that our hearts need to keep on healing. Respect!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      💖💖💖

    • @pamelamarie6086
      @pamelamarie6086 3 года назад

      Seriously. You rock. If we are ever in the same area we need to get together for a shot

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад +1

      @@pamelamarie6086 thank you Sis. I’m planning to make some venue shows after COVID. It would be awesome to meet you and as many as I can in this beautiful Tribe.✨💖

    • @pamelamarie6086
      @pamelamarie6086 3 года назад

      @@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships amen sister that is a beautiful idea!

  • @punkrockgirl5473
    @punkrockgirl5473 2 года назад

    It’s on like donkey Kong… LOL 😂 that’s great!

  • @heavenlyblessed6862
    @heavenlyblessed6862 3 года назад

    I know that's REAL! They not ready for me for REAL for REAL! The whole "farm and safari" at the same time😂😂😂😂😂

  • @cindygallant7411
    @cindygallant7411 3 года назад

    U are dead on..sums me up..he discarded me on valentines day..2 weeks later accusing me of walking away..no goin down with this girl

  • @scarlettoh3858
    @scarlettoh3858 3 года назад

    AMEN! Preach!! Thank you for all that you do.

  • @michaelnugent5564
    @michaelnugent5564 3 года назад +1

    You sure know what you talking about that's the last 18 years of my life explained thanks!

  • @heavenlyblessed6862
    @heavenlyblessed6862 3 года назад +1

    Girl STRAIGT FOOLS! This girl been trying to make me her puppet master for so long and I knew it. I wouldn't give in and she eventually LEFT. Yass the same reason why she so called loved me is very same reason why she hates me🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @renemattison6630
    @renemattison6630 3 года назад +1

    Ms. T, you have been called to ministry!

    • @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
      @TheTeaonNPDandRelationships  3 года назад

      Welcome to the Tribe. Amen Sis for many years now. I give God all the Glory! Bless you Sis.✨💖

  • @tongulajones9910
    @tongulajones9910 3 года назад +2

    Your calling is bigger than you can imagine. Be Blessed!! Preach sis!! I was too much!!

  • @billie44
    @billie44 3 года назад

    Yep just disappeared
    Didn’t answer the phone
    I was gutted but regrouped
    Fast. You never get completely
    Over it you just become smarter
    If you are lucky